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(#36) 5 HABITS MASTER MANIFESTORS DO DIFFERENTLY✨Don't miss this! (Part 2) · Alignment With Jenn

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  Hello and welcome to this episode of the Alignment with
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  Jen podcast. I am your host, Jen Ditzesi, and
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  today we're going to be diving into five more of the common
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  mistakes that I see people make on their manifestation journey.
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  And today we're really focusing on mistakes that slow down the
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  manifestation process. I get so many messages on
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  Instagram of people being like, I've been manifesting this for
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  two years or I've been trying this for, you know, a very long
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  time and they haven't seen any changes.
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  And there's reasons for that. You know, it's not just because
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  manifestation doesn't work. Manifestation is always working.
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  And so I'm really excited for you to get to hear five more of
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  these reasons. The last episode gave the first
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  five reasons and some context. So if you didn't listen to that,
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  I recommend listening to it after you listen to this one.
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  It's going to be super, super helpful for you to get more of
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  those. And as I mentioned on the last
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  episode, these two episodes I recommend listening to numerous
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  times because you are taking these Nuggets of what you've
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  learned and you are really sinking it deeper into your
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  subconscious mind. Repetition is the mother of
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  skill is what Jim Rohn always says.
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  And repetition, the reason it's the mother of skill is because
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  when you repeat something, your subconscious mind begins to
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  believe it and accept it as truth.
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  So the more that you hear these truths about the law of
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  attraction, about manifestation, about how the mind creates
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  reality, the more that your mind is going to believe it and the
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  more that your mind is going to operate from those principles
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  automatically. And that's what we, you want.
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  We want you to embody this information at such a deep level
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  that it influences your behavior immediately, OK?
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  That way you're making decisions, you're taking action
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  effortlessly from these universal truths that are
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  guiding your behavior, regardless of if you know them
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  or not. I'm going to kind of frame these
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  a little bit differently, just for some context.
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  Last time I reframed this as mistakes.
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  This time I want to frame them as things that successful people
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  do. OK, so something that successful
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  people will do, successful manifesters, people, successful
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  in their career, successful in wealth, whatever it might be.
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  They focus on their thoughts and vibration first before action.
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  They focus on getting their thinking and their attitude and
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  their vibration right. And then they take action.
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  Because what happens is most people will make a list of all
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  the things that they need to do and they'll be busy, busy, busy,
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  busy, busy all day, right? And they can be busy, busy, busy
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  all day for weeks and months and years and make no progress,
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  right? Give me a high 5 if you've ever
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  felt that way. I've definitely felt that way in
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  my life. And the reason for that is
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  because their thoughts and their vibration and their attitude and
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  their beliefs that are creating that action are not the correct
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  alignment for what they really want.
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  Most people take action out of fear and out of scarcity and the
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  fear of loss rather than the excitement of what they are
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  creating and the desire and the appreciation for this
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  experience, experience of life. What successful people know is
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  that 99% of your results are determined by your thoughts, by
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  your attitude, by your beliefs, and only 1% is the actions that
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  you are taking. This is why two people can take
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  the exact same actions and get completely different results.
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  This is why two people can have the same exact coaching program.
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  I've seen this in coaching programs I've been part of and
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  one will get exceptional results and the other will get no
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  results because the person brought to the is different.
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  Recognizing that your first order of business, and I really
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  need you to hear this is not what actions am I going to take.
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  It's what thoughts am I going to think, what's my vibration going
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  to be? Because if you are operating on
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  a frequency of lack trying to solve a problem, you don't even
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  have access to the solution. I have a client who is telling
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  me that she really wants to manifest paying off the debt
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  that she has accrued and she was stressing about it.
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  She was all nervous, she was all stressed about it.
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  And I told her I was like, you don't, you're not.
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  You don't need to take any actions from this place.
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  This is not the place to take actions from.
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  You need to shift your frequency.
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  You need to get into that clear headed space and then take
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  actions from that place. The solution is vibrating at a
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  frequency that you are not vibrating at.
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  So if you want to access that solution, you need to raise your
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  vibration to that level of that solution.
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  It's like what Einstein said, right?
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  The consciousness that created the problem is not the
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  consciousness that is going to be able to solve the problem,
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  right? Not as exact words, but you know
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  what I mean. We need to shift our thought
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  processes first. And most people, I think, have
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  heard this before, but they don't do it.
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  They don't do it because they're afraid of not taking action.
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  They're afraid, well, if I don't get my whole To Do List done,
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  then I'm going to be further behind, then I'm going to feel
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  worse and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
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  What they don't realize is that if they got their attitudes and
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  their thoughts and their beliefs right first, then they would
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  have not had to do 50 to 80% of the actions anyway.
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  It will save you time doing things from the right vibration.
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  You will attract the clients that you want.
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  I decided earlier this year that I did not want to take as many
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  calls for people wanting to sign up with my program, but I wanted
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  every single call to be people who were already ready to sign
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  up for my program. We're super excited and that's
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  what's happened. And as a result, I am making
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  more money in my business, working less, right?
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  Because I decided what is the quality of people that I want to
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  attract? So you make those decisions
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  energetically before they will affect your physical reality.
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  And that's what the most successful people know.
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  And this is also, this goes back to the first episode, why it's
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  so important to develop those neural pathways of how
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  successful thinkers think. As you develop those pathways,
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  as you get this information very deep into your mind, then your
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  behaviors will automatically align with those of a successful
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  person. You will automatically be
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  creating the reality that you want because your subconscious
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  mind will be that of a successful wealthy person or a
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  person in a really deeply committed and loving
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  relationship. Because the truth is, if you
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  don't have what you want, you're not thinking like the person
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  yet. And how do we get to that point?
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  We start thinking and emotionally experiencing that
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  reality before it happens. The second thing to know is that
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  your brain, it is a transmitter. So your brain is constantly
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  sending out signals and is also receiving signals.
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  And those signals that your brain is sending out are going
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  into the quantum field. Some people call it the ether,
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  which is what we are all part of, and they are interacting
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  with matter. They are interacting with other
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  people. This is why you can think about
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  someone and then they'll text you because there's no
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  separation. It's all connected.
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  What happens is that when people struggle to manifest what they
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  want, they are often times sending out those signals.
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  Well, they're sending out the wrong signals.
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  They're sending out what they don't want and they're sending
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  them out on the wrong frequency. So our brain has the ability to
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  move between different wavelengths and frequency.
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  So we have the beta brain wave. Well above that is gamma.
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  I'm not going to talk about about gamma today, but we have
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  the beta frequency and that is when you're thinking, when
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  you're focused. But beta can get very high and
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  it can become anxious, it can become fearful.
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  It's a lot of the doing brain. It's the brain in the doing.
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  OK, Then we have Theta and alpha, and those are the ones
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  that we experience when we're waking up in the morning, when
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  we're falling asleep, when we're more relaxed, maybe in yoga,
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  maybe in meditation. Ideally we experience those more
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  often because those frequencies are the frequencies that attract
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  things to us. Beta is more urgency, it's more
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  scarcity. A lot of people that are like
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  always on the go, go, go, go. They're very in the beta.
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  Beta is not magnetic. Beta is not attracting things to
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  you. There's a time and a place for
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  beta when we're analyzing things, when maybe when we're
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  doing some work, those sorts of things.
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  But ideally we're more in the alpha and Theta, more alpha
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  during the day, likely because that is when we are sending out
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  a more coherent signal that the universe is hearing and more
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  able to hear. The beta signal has been called
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  like the slave wave or the poverty wave, and the alpha and
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  Theta have been called the wealth wave because those are
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  the signals that are much more magnetic within the universe.
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  And so if you're sending out the signal in the wrong frequency,
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  then it's going to be a lot more difficult for you.
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  If you're always in beta and you're thinking about, OK, I
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  want to attract XYZI, want to attract this, I want to attract
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  this, I want to attract this. But you're in that beta, you're
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  not nearly as magnetic if you were able to do it in those
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  other brain wave states. So that's another one of the
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  mistakes that people make and that really successful
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  manifesters just do it intuitively.
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  They do it automatically. Something that I do that works
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  super well for me is I wake up in the morning, I meditate.
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  I never miss my meditation. I always do my meditation.
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  Then I get ready, that sort of thing.
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  I go and I go on a walk and I live really close to the ocean.
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  I live in this really beautiful neighborhood with trees and it's
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  very naturey and I love it. I'll go on that walk and I'll
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  start that walk off just being an appreciation.
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  I'll just list all the things I'm appreciative for.
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  Sometimes the entire walk will be 45 minutes to an hour and
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  that's all I'm doing. But it's putting me in this
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  mental space of I'm definitely in some very relaxed mental
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  space. I'm probably an alpha or very
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  low beta and I'm very receptive. I'm feeling super, super, super
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  good. And then I'll bring up the
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  things that I'm manifesting and it has speed up my manifestation
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  process so quickly. Just that simple, simple
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  practice. So something to try on.
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  I think The Walking is a big part of it.
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  What you manifest and using the law of attraction depends on
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  your thoughts, your emotions and the intensity and the duration
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  of those thoughts and the emotions.
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  So if the intensity of your thoughts is weak, like, oh, I
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  hope that I get this. That would be super nice.
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  That's not influencing anyone. That's not influencing the
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  universe. That's just doing nothing for
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  you. The intensity matters as well,
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  and the intensity and the power of what you're manifesting is
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  based off the emotions that you're experiencing with it.
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  So if you're saying what you want and there's no emotion,
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  that's pretty neutral. It's not going to affect
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  anything. But if you're saying it with a
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  very elevated, coherent, powerful emotion like gratitude,
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  like during my walks, then you are much more powerfully
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  attracting to you what you want with the law of attraction.
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  Another part of that intensity equation is also your ability to
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  focus right. If you struggle to focus, like
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  I've been diagnosed before with ADHD, I personally don't put any
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  weight on it or any water to it because I don't want to worry
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  about it. I just have practiced so much
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  focusing. Yes, I still am not an amazing
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  focuser, but the more that you can allow yourself to focus on
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  what you want in those moments, the more that it will become
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  attractive. And the duration, if you're
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  thinking about what you want once a week, that's very
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  different than every day or multiple times a day, right?
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  Do you see how you can kind of change your practices somewhat?
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  The next one is not having a burning desire.
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  So in the book Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill says having
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  a burning desire for what it is that you want.
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  Not exactly those words, right? But he references a burning
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  desire over and over and over again.
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  And the thing about a burning desire is it's something you
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  really, really, really want. And having a burning desire
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  gives you that intensity. It gives you that duration.
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  It makes it so you're thinking about it all of the time, right?
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  You're thinking about it often, and when you're thinking about
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  it often, you're putting so much energy toward it.
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  It's going to start becoming a much more powerful magnet,
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  right? If you're always thinking about
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  this negative cloud of what you don't want, that's pretty much
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  what you're putting your burning desire on.
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  So you need to put your burning desire and that deep, deep, deep
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  desire and that focus on what it is that you want.
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  Because if you have a weak desire, it's not attractive.
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  It's not magnetic. For based on the law of
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  attraction, one thing that will weaken your desire for something
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  is believing that you can't have it.
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  And this is something that I see over and over and over again.
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  And there's different ways you can build belief.
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  It's kind of a longer conversation that I don't think
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  I'll get into here, but building belief is really, really, really
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  important. And I actually have put together
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  a free workshop. So I'll link it down below in
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  the show notes on Spotify and I'll link it on my YouTube as
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  well. And it's a free workshop that is
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  called The Art of Getting What You Want.
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  And in this free workshop, I talk about the different ways to
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  build belief. It's a bit of a longer
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  conversation. Maybe we'll do a podcast episode
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  on it. But if you don't believe that
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  you could have what you want, it's going to cause you to doubt
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  it, and it's also going to reduce your desire.
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  You're not really going to work toward it, right?
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  If you knew for a fact that you could have what you wanted
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  tomorrow, you'd really work hard for it, right?
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  You'd be so excited, you'd be moved to work toward it.
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  So we need to build that burning desire.
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  And part of that is clearing out those limiting beliefs, which is
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  also what we do in the infinite experience.
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  The next one that I want to share with you is the chief
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  desire or the chief aim, as Napoleon Hill would say, is
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  feeling good. Now, So every single thing that
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  you want to manifest is because you want to feel good in some
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  way, right? Maybe it's, you want to feel
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  appreciated, loved, but it's all about feeling good.
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  So if you are not sure what you want to manifest or you just
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  want to kind of make this really, really simple.
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  If the only thing you do is focus on feeling good, you are
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  going to attract incredible, magnificent things into your
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  life because feeling good is only going to attract things in
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  your life that allow you to feel good.
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  It's when we dip that we start to attract the things that we
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  don't want. So the more that you can build
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  up your ability to feel good, and I'm not saying ignore and
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  suppress your emotions. I'm saying get tools, get
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  resources, learn how to be an emotionally regulated person,
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  how to process your emotions, how to move through your
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  emotions. And the more that you can feel
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  good, the more you're going to attract things to feel good
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  about. It's like the the little quick
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  backdoor into the law of attraction.
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  If all you want to do is just focus on feeling good, you're
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  going to attract magnificent things to you.
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  The next one is what is called the certainty principle.
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  So this is something that I learned through the a lot of the
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  Kabbalah classes that I've taken.
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  The certainty principle is that, and this is something talked
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  about all over the place as well, and all spiritual
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  teachings, is that everything is good and everything is from the
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  creator God or the universe. And so everything is either
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  getting you what you want or teaching you a lesson that you
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  need to have in order to get what you want in order to
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  elevate your soul. And when you can begin to see
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  your life in that way, you are going to be infinitely more
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  powerful. And I do it in really small ways
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  and in really big ways. So a really small way would be
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  you go to the grocery store and it's packed.
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  I just went to the Encinitas farmers market and it was
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  packed. And I had to park like blocks
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  and blocks away. And I could have been like pissy
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  and mad, but that's not really my vibe, right?
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  I'm not interested in that. So I just was like, cool, Now I
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  get to get more steps in. I get to enjoy the walk.
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  And I ended up finding this really cool park.
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  I get ended up petting a cute dog.
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  You make everything as if it's working out for you as it's been
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  designed for you, because everything is you.
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  Either gaining what you want or learning a valuable lesson you
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  need in order to get it. That's it.
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  That's all we're doing here. Everything is good.
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  The universe does not do things to you, it does things for you.
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  And the more you can remember that, the more powerful you're
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  going to be. Another example of this is I was
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  at a dinner the other night and it was a great dinner.
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  And every single person at this dinner was incredibly
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  successful, incredibly amazing. There are a lot of my friends
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  from the Tony Robbins community that I'm part of.
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  One of them was saying how last August he got really, really,
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  really sick. He went in for some kind of
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  surgery and they ended up puncturing his pancreas on
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  accident and they didn't know it.
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  And so he got so sick. He said bye to all of his family
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  members. He was like sheet white.
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  He thought he was going to die and he ends up just
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  miraculously, they do a scan and they find out that they
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  punctured his pancreas. So they were able to resolve it
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  and he is now healthy. He's doing great.
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  That was So what was that? I don't know, 6:00-ish months
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  ago, the thing that he said was that that was the best thing
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  that has ever happened to him. He's like, it changed my
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  perspective. It gave me an entirely new lease
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  on life. He joined the Tony Robbins
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  community that I'm part of. That's How I Met him.
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  All of these amazing things came out of that experience.
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  Other people could have let that experience destroy them.
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  You choose what experiences mean to you.
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  So that is a certainty principle at work.
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  Everything is good. Everything is from the Creator
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  and everything is helping me get to where I want to be.
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  That's the last piece I want to leave you with in this episode.
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  I'd love, love, love for you to join the free workshop, The Art
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  of Getting Everything You Want. I go much deeper into these
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  principles. It's really, really fun.
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  It's basically me taking over a decade.
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  I've realized it's been over 15 years, actually love me studying
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  all this information and I try to convince it down to 90
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  minutes. So it's packed.
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  Enjoy it, listen to it multiple times.
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  Listen to this episode multiple times.
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  Leave me comments. I'd love, love, love to hear
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  from you. And if you want to join any of
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  my programs, you can send me a message that just says podcast
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  on Instagram at alignment with Jen and I'll help you find the
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  right program for you. OK, bye.