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73: Million Dollar Baby · Wine & Audacity

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Mm hmmmm, Well anyway, I guess you might say anything. Welcome to
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this episode of Wine and Audacity the podcast. This just didn't what school boy
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qxx x J cord to step out of it before because he knew that he
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extiminated a couple of ship really got popping like this just didn't. Later on
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down the line, after she know how the ship popped off, school boy
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q x ex ex friend friend and collaborator to to Kenny Lamar x x J
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cold step out because he knew how bad and how nasty things we're gonna get.
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I mean, that's a friend. Yep, let my friend. You
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don't want to smoke. He about to about to read the nigga his right.
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It's like, hey, call listen, big homie, big about he
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about to scorch the earth black called for my half black. He bought the
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scorch to earth. Y'all might want we'll save you know, we'll save y'all
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battle and we'll say y'all battle for later. But like, listen, what
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y'all did. That was cool? That you know, that was that was
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fine? Like you know, he shot there, he shot him, He
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shot the fire. I mean he shot the shots first and then you know
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you came back with you came back with the seven minute drive. All right,
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beat all right, now go ahead and sit somewhere because well, because
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it's about to get nasty. A lot of these folks don't have no real
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friends, because if they did, they wouldn't be doing the ship they're doing.
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No diddy Wow. Okay, with that being said, welcome to the
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new episode of Wine and Our Dad Say the podcast. I'm your host Brains
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Carton by two of our three favorite people in the world. How are you
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feeling this week? I'm not getting that. I'm cool and I'm chilling them
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straight. We need to get the third person to come back to the table
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at some point this season. She's been booking busy. Yeah, we're gonna
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get out on here for the end of your in the year, hopefully before
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that. He tell tell her tell the way to bring the kid? What
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key the Lord? Not you about you? You're gonna use our god baby
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against us, nigg I'm not gonna get sh out of us now. Son,
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can't nobody tell him no? Say you know what not sho? I
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got a kid now, like he's like four or five months old this one
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now. But I'm just saying. It's like, oh, you're just gonna
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tell him no. Look at him, look at his space. Okay,
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not that not not not not that he looked like, not that not not.
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Don't Now when you look at him, don't look at him, like,
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don't don't see me see him. All we see is your ass,
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poor sis, Like, look at him. Did all that heart work putting
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you're gonna tell him no? Yes, pushed out that adult sized head and
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he looks just like poor sugar, mulgam poor sugar. Nah. I look
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at him. I looked at him. I was like, damn, bro,
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you got brown head like your mother. You got your mother nose and
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your everything else. Yeah, my chicken nugget and my baby. And the
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last time we recorded, he threw up on me. I appreciate that and
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farted on me and then took a poop and didn't looked at me and smiled
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because how dare you? So? I'm telling you, yo, like I'm
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telling you because my great grandma was like, what's wrong with him? He
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going to the bathroom? No, no, man, he's just like that's
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that's just what he does. Like he quarts. No, he was shipping
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when I was holding that's what he was doing. Oh no, no,
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no, you could tell nah no, that was a different ground. Open.
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See if I was looking at him, look at you learning what the
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different grunts mean. Not a nigga petty he petty is ship he petty almost
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four months old? Yo. Oh no, I forgot who his father was.
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And now he listen not riding up riding up here, No riding up
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here. I just reached in the back to try to give him, like,
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to try to give him as pass if I ain't sure he did this,
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like nigga, don't, nigga, don't hit me, hell, don't
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hit me in his personal space. I allowed with a J, you little
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basket, don't hit him. You're not a basket of stella to say you're
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not, but you, yo, don't hit me. I'll allow with a
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J. Hit him again, get his hittknock between the wall, and you
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know he's gonna call me and said, t T that nigga put his hands
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on me. I'm coming to the rescue. Boo boom, I am,
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I can't, I shan't, I won't. You will know I willn't.
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Oh. In a few days, a bitch would be in Jamaica and will
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leaving our black asses here. I'm sorry, y'all, I had I had
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to getting sucked by a big dick nigga named de Stuff. No, no,
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no, no, they won't try. McMillan bee bitch, Nope,
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you don't want to get your groove back. Nope that with the big ding
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Nope, big next. Don't let him for you. You won't use me
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for a green? Your body was lie to me. Not use me for
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a green and get your ass on Oprah with your lips shiny, mean talk
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about you didn't realize you like you got here? You're sure, bitch,
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mm hmm. Jonathan Naxie Priest was reaching his ass off on that song.
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Your body can't lie to me? Seven minutes? Not enjoy seven minutes?
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I happened? Was it good for you? Never played that motherfucking game?
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I didn't we black? Of course we didn't play that damn game. Of
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course, of course you didn't use it. Just a basement bro like that
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basement boy and ship. I ain't never been. Oh yes, I have
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been to a basement party. I take that back. Did y'all not have
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basement or go to basement parties? I went to I remember one as a
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teenager, I was green child's or what days in there freaking and stuff,
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and I was like, okay, that's going on down all this ship popping
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until that nigga came and scooped me up and was dads had me bouncing up
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and down at my mother boyfriend at the time. Uh, it was his
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family, it was his little cousin party. And he came. It was
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like putting her down now, and I had to play that ship off.
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I was like, thank you, because I've been telling him put me down
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for like an hour. The whole hour she came, though, mm hmm.
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I ain't never what is this robin like tho not but okay, child,
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I ain't get my first or gaze until I was grown. I don't
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know. Oh God, I mean I'm sorry, You're sorry, You're sorry,
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friend, Yeah, I'm sorry. I experienced that I was rubbing and
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tugging, and as a teenager I got blind years before that. Oh oh,
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ship, oh oh. I think it's easier for man, I'm gonna
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be perfectly honest, easier that you're sitting there. You're sitting there trying to
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like figure out, like figure out like what was that I felt the shame
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wasn't no shame. I wanted to do it, like, what was that?
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And how can I get that feeling back? My kids been running through
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a whole lot of notion. I just that's all I'm saying. Don't tell
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me nothing and make sure he got towns and telling them what do his own
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tak no go put him in the Washington. You got damn self, mister
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s So I told her like I told her like I told her, I
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told like the moms and ship like you know with their kids. I was
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like, hey, listen, once he discovers it. Once stuff Nigga did
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not just buy you. He asked you for, he asked me. I
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said, and I'm looking at it. That's what you need to for because
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I'm asking mine. I said, well, are you're missing your knees because
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your knees a little ash like this? And he was like, why are
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you looking at me like that? Mom? I said, no freason,
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I don't know no reason. I just noticed I'm missing some towers and wah
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clothes out the bathroom. I don't know how to dance some lad I ain't
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questions. Oh that's a but I always listening. There are you really with
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some towns and wistles the bathroom flags crunchy is motherfuck. I'll be fucking fuddy.
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Rather it be in a town than in somebody's door. I absolutely do
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crazy. Just go ahead and do a load of laundry. I knock on
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the door now, I don't need just open the door. And the more
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I know I paid the mortgage. It's like, what you're doing. What
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you're doing? What's doing? What's doing? Stop playing and trying to claim
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a room. Mom. Okay, that's what we call. I ain't had
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a vacuum, and that motherfucker nothing. TV is all quiet in there because
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TV is on me. What's going on? You know you're watching Booty Talk
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sixty three. You always always conveniently got your headphones on at this point or
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at this point it's it's uh, it's nine hundred. Wow, it's fine.
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That's the safest sex you can have. Okay, have it. Sorry,
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you ain't got a lie to me? I think that's the song for
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the episode, don't you lie? We know what you do. Now?
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What are we doing this week? What are we talking about? Do we
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have a topic or we do not have a topic? Oh ship now circular
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No, I wasn't ready mmmmmmmmm, he tells you he takes a long ass
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shower. Surprisingly, no, he does not stay in there long enough like
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my my brother is always getting to him talking about you. Was in the
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shower for one song, getower's one because now he plays Ever since Brian moves
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in the brown you know, Brian plays music when he in the shower,
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so now Tredy do it too. It's a smart man, me and there
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with his little music pop and singing to the top of his lungs, and
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I'm like, what the fuck is he singing? I signed you from across
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the room. Hey, listen girl, my name is My name is the
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third mm hmm, but don't but you can call me Trade. He does
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not allow anybody to. Now you know what tickles the ship out of me
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about him, and that when he introduces hisself, he rarely introduces itself by
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his nickname Michael. He does not want people like I don't know you like
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that, bitch, that's a family name. I don't know you like that.
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So I can see that they were like, what's your name? He
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like Michael looking at them like, don't know me, but your mother just
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called you Trey. I say my name is Michael. My name is Michael.
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You will address me as such, bitch. That's what he said.
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So, hey, listen, his mama named the Michael. You can call
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him Michael, bitch. Okay, unless you tell Tree, I'm gonna call
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him Mamma. Ain't catch it. I'm gonna call him cashus. God damn
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it. Mama named Clay. I'm gonna call him Clay. That's what he
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said. Because you ain't got a lie to me. So what are we
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talking about this week? We really don't have a fucking topic. Uh spen
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some strange things going on these or whatever. I don't think we addressed this
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in the earlier months of June. This happened around May with the video of
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Sean Combs a K A puff Daddy, a K A popa Diddy pop a
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k a uh Diddy, a K A power bottom a K A love.
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It's out here beating women because he's bottom. Love's a power bottom power bottom
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love. Power. Bottoms need love too. He need to keep his hands
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to his fucking south because what he did to that woman, what he did
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to that woman. He's a pushy, he's a pussy. I said it.
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I was gonna call him a palsy because is powerful. They are good
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things, that's they. They stressed, they stretched, been out of shape.
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Then they come. Then they pop right back in. Oh god,
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woooo they pop right back in. Not pop right back here, they came
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right back in place. Hm all day. The woman could squeeze the whole
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baby, all that moucking. What you think you're gonna destroy you with your
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six inches? Go to hell? Sorry, by fun, Leave the short
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kings alone. I pushed out. Now the ship, she looking like,
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where's a lot? I did leave alone. That's why I told you I
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probably missed out on my my, my souldmate, because he probably standing behind
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somebody toll or you just ain't looked down right trying to look down. Oh
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there you go. Ain't you cute? How long you been? Like?
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How long you on top his head? Looking like you too? He hates
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struggle. Shut the fuck you know what, ma'am, And talk to him
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like I talked to the baby. Hey, shuggle, he showed two.
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You're saying somebody grandmother, he ain't got Ain't that nice? Ain't that nice?
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Ma'am? Shut the funk up? What relax? I am relaxed?
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Damn trying to fucking my mosters, you've been drinking. I pleaded the fifth
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dimension. You know what, this is awesome? You know what I'm saying.
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I mean just this in general, because you're just like, like,
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yo, she fucking funny. Both of your niggas is funny. You know
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you ain't got live. That's just stuck in my head now, guys,
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that's the hell. Y'all was singing, whoa, whoa, whoa whoa.
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I'm just ready to go on my trip, Chap, I'm ready to go
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on to be second way, shut up, drink some rum punch. I
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want to go wan. I'm due for a vacation one maybe I'll go back
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to New York at some point. I'm gonna go. I want to go
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to New York this summer. Let me go back seat the view again.
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We can I want a certain somebody in New Jersey. Antoine was supposed to
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look for tickets for June teenth, and when I asked him about it,
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he just sent me in the mode. I said, well, but you
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okay, that's nice, You're gonna look he wants. That's the only chance
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we really have to see it because we off I don't have to take you
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know days off because Junie teenth is the Rhteran day. It is h oh.
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We give us some feedback, y'all. If y'all want us to start
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recording live shows and recording the day before we have, we need to have
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the infrastructure in place to be and not because my man listen, I'm like
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subscribe and I canna put that on my mind because he got because he didn't
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want to do the he didn't want to do the editing. And then it's
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like we don't got enough, we don't got enough wine, nigga. There's
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three of us at the table. We can spread out some of this god
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damn work. What you're doing? You put them on your weight nick note,
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I'm in school. Time out. We all got full time jobs and
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lives and ship. Yes, that's you know, Yeah, you know I
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could. I mean I can probably do a little something. I'm working.
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But listen, yeah, what you want to I want me to do?
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I'm talk hold on time about tut talking about time out, time out?
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Wait a minute. First of all, I'm thirty seven mother years old.
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But y'all not with y'all, not what y'all not gonna do, Nigga,
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I'm younger than you. You what mean know you forty? So what you
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make ship out of you? You disrespectful little fucker. I'm smack fire out
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your ass. Look at your bitch, said, look at your bitch.
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I don't know. I don't know. Million baby mother. That's the song
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of the song. By the way, what million dollar baby the movie?
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No, the song mayon all the biby movie. That ship was, That
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ship was sad yem m hmmm, they like you, bro Wait what does
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somebody put a meme of out for writing a letter to a dollar? But
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they updated it to twenty twenty four standard? Is it says dear dollar,
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you funky dog head ass bitch poor dog? Oh God, that took the
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ship out of me. Now I feel I need to go on and watch
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the Little Rascals. Wow that that that's that's the thing that makes you want
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to go watch That's good. That's the song for the episode. I hope
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you can find it. It's on it Does that? Do we have questions
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with that? Do we have any talk about You won't go track the questions
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because it's literally an episode saying I think it's an episode about nothing. I
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probably got a couple of little leftover questions and whatnot and ship ship like it.
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Yeah, I guess it's the song the title and song for the episode
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like it. M this is really an episode about nothing, but I probably
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got a couple of stories and ship I can add and here full little raz
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Okay, So before we get started, if you have any questions, comments,
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uh rants, topic ideas, comments, whatever, you can reach us
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be anonymous, if you want to use a suitor them, if you want
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to use first name lest initial, vice versa, because, in the words
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of Charie Whitfield, with her old face, who's gonna check you both?
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I'm gonna keep saying it because she got a new face. He was laughing.
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I was trying not to laugh at you. I was trying to get
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my little spiel out. I don't know why I started holding that like one
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of them what about to say, go ahead and say, I ain't said
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no your face, your face, what you about to say, smart ass?
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It was a flash fan. It was I ain't quit something like that
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in a while. What you're trying to say, fill it up? That's
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what he said, Ye fail up, yes, fill up. Yeah.
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You better be feeling nothing about this after, like after you did all that
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all that talut mm hmmm, I'm not. I don't nice cream feeling.
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I don't do the feeling you get feeling and anyway, that's what I'm saying.
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That means, So that made you out here with your shoes on tip
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Oh no that I ain't done that. In law. Before we get into
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that, I saw very very very very very very very very very very very
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very very very very very very very interesting tweet. That's before we get into
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that. You can read your blurb and everything blur. But I'm a detour
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us. That's okay. We do that all the time. I mean,
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that's what happens when the whole type of ADHD you know what it does.
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I mean ship we sat and talked about we sat and talked about underwear and
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then went the skin care. Oh that was week two. That was that
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was so somebody I follow on social media man thoughts about he was talking about
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like like sex, like, uh, hold on, let me find find
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the tweet, say something next, We're waiting for you to find the tweet.
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I know, listen, I know, hold on, m it's about
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to be some ship kind of sort of, but oh lord, it is
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a fire. So somebody, so somebody posted the tweet says, y'all really
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don't be using condoms question mark exclamation point, So you don't. He was
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serious, He asked him, like, I'll put it, don't using condoms?
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Bit? This was this was this was back in May. Okay,
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excuse me. And somebody I follow his name is Bobby Bobby Deal. He's
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an amazing R and B singer. Put his name on Twitter is Bobby King
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Deal. In his response, what to that was, I prefer condom with
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sex. But there's also a stigma with non condom usage that is rooted in
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no no sophobia. As a person who takes prep doxy and gets tested regularly,
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I think medical engineering has advanced enough to divorce ourselves from the idea that
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condoms are the end all be all. What again? So basically so basically
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I mean So basically what I'm taking from there is, you know that whole
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idea of know your status, and then it's like if you clean, I'm
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clean. Like if you clean, I'm clean. Then say, well,
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on a stud they had to use like on a study, had to use
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it, because that's just a it's just a for some people, what condoms
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are just a hindrance because you hear about more people, You hear more people
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saying they like you don't meet the meat versus anything. So no sophobia for
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those who don't know. Per the dictionary dot com, at is an irrational
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or disproportionate fear of disease and his tweet Bobby's tweets. Bobby's tweet reads,
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this is Mimosa's talking. You'll apologizing as I'm telling you, Bobby Wyler,
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I prefer condomless, but there's also a stigma with non condom usage that is
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routed in nosophobia. As a person who takes prep doxy and gets tested regularly,
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I think medical engineering has advanced enough to divorce ourselves from the idea that
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condoms are the end all be all. Reading in the second time, what
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do you what do you gotta take? All these drugs? What we need
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them for. If you if you're a person that prefers condomless sex, and
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there are there are means and methods aside from using condoms to prevent you know,
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contracted pretty not STIs, but it's routed the the definition of nosophobia,
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which I just read and I won't look at it, look at it against
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close the window. It's a rational fear of contracting this. Condoms don't have
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to be the end all be all for like protection in terms of sexual health.
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So what are your thoughts on that? I don't know how I feel
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about that? Okay, I don't know how I feel about that, because
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just because there is a treatment or a cure out there for something, it's
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preventative treatment, you take it before prep is before is there. I feel
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like they're trying to say that there's such thing as being too prepared, because
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I mean, so I'm so confused by what is Yes, Yeah, we've
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talked about it. Yes, because I initially thought it was only geared towards
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when it initially came out, it wasn't available for for women. They were
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making it seem like it wasn't available for women, it was only available for
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men. Okay, so do you know what doxy doxy pep is that when
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I've never heard of? No? No, so doctor. Post exposure prophil
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axis is a preventative treatment for bacterial sexually transmitted infections that involve taking the antibiotic
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doxy cycling after sex, similar to the Morning After pill, but for bacterial
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STIs instead of pregnancy. Doxy can significantly reduce acquisition of chlamydia, gneria,
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and syphilis. So would you have to take it in a certain timeline like
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you would do you with? Yeahyeh seventy two hours as well? Yeah,
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okay, So because you feel like you could take something, that's am I
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analyzing that right? Because they feel like they can take something either pre or
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post to prevent it. They feel like there's no point in either. There's
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no point because it's only four syphilis, geria, in chlamydia. Correct,
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that's three? What about the rest of them? What about trick? What
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about herpes? But you know what I'm saying, that's what about believe?
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But I believe, like I mean, pent all of that, it's gonna
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be get towards the three things. But they said, I mean, like
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I said, the way I say that is just like they they're trying to
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say that condoms like, you know, we can't sol you. But at
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this point we can't solly rely on condoms because your condoms will condoms break.
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Conds with faulty people don't know how to put them on. So and let's
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be one hundred percent real, keep it one hundred percent honest. We all
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like condu sex, true to whatever, especially when you're married, Yo,
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nigga shooting the club for twelve years now, unless you trying to prevent if
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you got to use condoms when you married some day to prevent, Yes,
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that's what you want the cycle with me? She I don't. I don't
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do that. What you don't have sex with you cycle? She's saying,
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you don't really like not a fan trying to practice magic. I'm not a
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saying please don't touch me. Yeah I'm not a fan. Yeah yeah,
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yeah yeah for all my wakens out there. And I never really worried about
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the whole ovolation thing when I was like in a relationship, in any long
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term relationship, because I was, I was, I'm been in birth control
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for ever, ever, ever, ever, so but I never was too
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concerned about that. No, but I think no, But but I do
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believe that, you know, they it's like, oh, contect everybody,
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everybody. Three months is not long enough to be having con sex with somebody.
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I'm sorry, excuse me, that's not that's trues. But if you
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protect yourself and you have to protect yourself that I'm not saying what side of
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the fence I'm on personal, but as a person who's been on PREP now
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for six years, six years, seven years, I take it every damn
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day. If there are medics sense available in the medical the technology or medicine
29:03
has advanced to where there is preventive measures, measures that that can be taken
29:08
prior to and after the fact. Is there still a sense of reticence for
29:15
engaging in condoms sex with maybe somebody you don't know, or maybe somebody that
29:18
you are, you know, engaging with maybe buddy, or even a relationship.
29:25
I still advocate advocate for serious relationship and y'all. And I still advocate
29:33
for getting tested every decision. You get tested, every every timing. I
29:37
know some people who are so so sexually active they get tested monthly. Damn
29:41
ship. They technically no technically like like the port Stars content creators. They
29:49
do it like they do it, they get they get tested for like the
29:52
STRs like once a week and then HIV HIV testings like once a month.
29:56
But and I think, I mean, I think the shipped honestly the safest
30:00
people, the safest people out there, who know all the the safe people
30:04
out there, all the all the people that working on breaking porn. Because
30:07
it's like, yo, you, it's such a small community. Y'all know
30:11
each other well. They paid some dick and pussy around. Like like remember
30:15
a few years ago when mister Marcus when he lied about yeah, he fel
30:19
he faked the toucho. He shut down Porn Valley for a minute. There
30:22
was a couple of months. Wasn't because and because he I mean, you
30:26
know, and when he talked about it, what he was saying was is
30:30
that you know he's still you know, he still he got he had bills,
30:32
he got kids like he had you know, nobody else because you got
30:37
bills and kids. But but you and also will put them and also will
30:41
put them at risus. That when when they fucking outside, dick or they
30:44
fucking outside bitches, and it's like yo, you you messing with people outside
30:48
our community, down outside of our community. That's not that's not necessarily safe.
30:52
Tho you endanger everybody else, niggas, Superhead put you at risk,
30:55
nigga, dishy, I'm saying only in all seriously, we know she had
31:00
sts no, not because before before them not, but for them to film
31:06
she had she had to go through the same test, the same stuff that
31:07
they the same treatment that they went through. But I'm just saying, like
31:11
I'm saying, in general, it's like, yeah, I can I can
31:14
see, Yo, I can see he did that, and it was like
31:17
he was probably was fucking somebody outside of your core community. So for these
31:22
niggas, it's like, hey, nigga, because a lot of a lot
31:25
of and actually because of that, you're a lot of poems stop stopped.
31:27
They stopped, and they just don't. They started doing their own ship because
31:32
she was because because that's scared, went across went around like you know,
31:37
like it was shut down, like we shut down, nobody got nobody got
31:38
no world new content. So a lot of them, a lot of them
31:41
retired because it's like, Yo, that shit was scary, that shit was
31:44
too scary for them. And then you know, of course, like years
31:48
later, you know, quarantine hit and a lot of them that was like
31:51
really really active, they're not as active anymore because they scared. They scared
31:55
they don't catch something. Mm hmmmmm. But somebody that you somebody that you've
32:00
been working with, you know, for you know, for however long,
32:04
and it's like, oh, y'all think y'all got y'all, think y'all cool.
32:06
You know, y'all think y'all cool, and then you do some ship
32:07
like that. Yeah, kind of kind of scared you a little bit,
32:09
Like he was my man Jo, Like really, nigga, really we shaying
32:17
the same bitch, bro Like really mm hmm. I mean there's inherent risk
32:22
in anything you do. So and again I'm not sharing my perspective on my
32:32
my because that I put that up because that made me question my own thought
32:36
process about condom use and everything recently. Like when I saw the tweet a
32:40
few weeks ago, and I was like, wow, okay, so is
32:44
my usage one of the desire to use condom? Like what is it based
32:47
in? You know, there's all the factors you don't notice. Motherfucker.
32:52
Honestly, Like we just met not too long ago, and we're being like,
32:58
we're being intimate and then it's like all right, so or like like
33:00
I don't really trust you like that, mm hmmmmmm. And even though like
33:05
although like she said or this person said that, there there are so many
33:09
things you can take that could prevent certain things, that could prevent certain things,
33:13
it's like, yo, I still don't trust you, like I still
33:15
don't know you like that, Like yeah, we we're gonna we're gonna rock
33:19
with Connors for a little bit and then, you know, until we both
33:22
feel comfortable with each other, like comfortable enough with each other to like drive,
33:24
like you know, let that be because as Keetera would say, you
33:32
you working. You know, every time you have sexual, you open up
33:36
your risk, to open up your you. You're taking the risks because you
33:38
know that you could have you could catch something, or you can get pregnant,
33:43
like you know, these are the hazards like these are these are the
33:45
occupational hazards of ever having sex. So it is what it is. You're
33:50
assuming the risks everything every time period. I mean even you know what I'm
33:54
saying, even if you know your status, like even though you're status Joe,
33:58
You're still assume the risks and don't put everybody y else life at risk
34:00
because you you know, I was reading a story about that recently. When
34:06
the man was hit the woman burnt him, so he went around burning other
34:10
people. But you also went to jail. You also read the You also
34:15
read the story of the girl of the girl taking advantage of the guy,
34:19
other girl taking advantage of the guy because or she wanted them. She wanted
34:22
to have sex with him and he didn't, and he didn't and he was
34:23
trying to take things slow and then she got that nigga drunk and then she
34:27
ended up with std Like I did read a story like that. Yes I
34:31
did, Yes, I did. He was like, bro, you was
34:34
right, Yeah, yeah, he didn't want to have sex with her,
34:37
and she got him drunk and she had text with him while he was drunk
34:42
and passed out, and then he that COUTI was was was on far in
34:46
a couple of days. You can't be mad in him because you had sex
34:51
with him when he was passed out drunk. He was passed out drunk,
34:53
he wasn't aware. So technically what she can file charges on you because that
35:00
is the word that rhymes were great. That's what it is. He was
35:06
passed out and unaware. Of what was going on, and you did what
35:09
you wanted to do. So now look at you and then put it on
35:15
without five balls? Now what bitch? Then you don't even know I mean,
35:17
he don't even know what you did. And that's the bad part.
35:23
What b That's what's going on. What felt like hall opinions was coming out
35:29
there, pusson the thing, that's what was going on. I think was
35:37
on that sounds like somebody was dropping lit matches out that mother. But guess
35:44
what you did it to yourself? H y'all got y'all got some issues out
35:51
here. Y'all gotta leave living. Hey, I'm a I did my spiel
35:55
already, so I'm gonna ahead and read these goddamn questions. Yeah, yeah,
36:00
go ahead and read your question. Okay, this one is more of
36:04
a what the was that? Sorry? Or I got theme music? Y'all?
36:12
All right? So this one comes from the parenting thread on toxic Reddit,
36:15
and the title is my son cut contact due to his stepfather. Don't
36:20
sound I've already on toxic Reddit. Toxic it's about so I already based my
36:32
I already have my opinion on this question because y'all know, I'll be kind
36:35
of reading this shit before I bring it to y'all all. That's see how
36:38
y'all feel about this, Okay. I divorced my ex husband when my son
36:44
was eleven years old. We had fifty to fifty custody. I remarried to
36:46
my current husband two years after that. My current husband and my son don't
36:51
get along, to say the least. Even when I was dating him,
36:57
they remained aloof with each other. My son was anxious and interacting, but
37:02
we was still was I'm sorry, the way this is written is fucking stupid.
37:07
My son was anxious and interacting, but was still respectful towards my husband.
37:12
My husband saw a dealer with my son. That's something he signed up
37:16
for if he was going to continue to be in a relationship with me.
37:22
My husband still kept his distance from my son. Things got worse after we
37:27
got married. My husband would avoid my son when he came to visit.
37:30
He soon started criticizing him and became harsh with him. It could be occasionally
37:37
getting a snack from the fridge without asking, or sometimes forgetting the lights on
37:42
in his runt. He said, I should cut down my visitations with my
37:45
son. M strike one bitch, No that's strike two because the first strike
37:50
was sleeting married. This is motherfucker. I asked him, why does he
37:52
hate him? He said he doesn't hate him, but dislikes him. He
37:57
hates the fact that he's introverted in o. My husband said, he is
38:01
already My husband said he it's already enough that he tolerates him. This is
38:08
written really stupid, y'all. Sorry. He kept antagonizing my son. He
38:14
would say things like he should get a job during high school because he is
38:17
going to be out of the house at twenty at best. I always stood
38:22
for my stood up for my son and admonished my husband in private and told
38:25
my son not to take it seriously in the heat of the moment. My
38:29
husband laid off my son when I got pregnant with our daughter five years ago.
38:35
By that time, my son felt alienated. I admitt I always prioritized
38:38
my relationship with my husband over my son. I made more effort in spending
38:43
time with my husband than my son, whether it be doing our daily Friday
38:46
date nights, going out as a couple every other weekend, etc. We
38:52
did more couples only vacations in a year than family vacations, not including the
38:57
occasional weekend getaway. I understand this made my son feel second place, But
39:01
my son didn't understand that eventually he'd eventually start a life of his own.
39:08
But my partner is still going to be with me. Yes, I could
39:12
have spent more time with him, but no parent is perfect and it's always
39:15
a struggle to keep a balance. My son became distant from me and focused
39:21
on his studies more. That paid off, at least, since he got
39:23
a huge scholarship for our flagship state university. He've allowed on student loans to
39:29
pay the rest of the tuition. He cut me off the day he was
39:31
supposed to come back from winter break. He cut me off by email.
39:37
He wrote this, Dear Mim, I don't want a relationship with you anymore.
39:42
Your love holds little to no value to me anymore. I don't resent
39:45
you for divorce and dead. I don't resent you for finding love again and
39:49
wanted to get remarried. However, these past years I learned an important lesson.
39:54
I've learned that the relationship one holds onto plays a role until the I
40:00
You can't say you love me more than anything in the world, yet love
40:02
a man who treats me like an unwanted burden. I resent you for making
40:07
him my stepfather. I resent you for making me treat someone who hates me
40:12
being around me like an authority, parental figure, even though he hasn't earned
40:16
it. I resent you for always choosing him over me. Don't call me
40:21
anymore, don't visit me. I have a great life in college with new
40:24
friends. I guess I'm not the weird of with no friends. That the
40:29
shit stained of a human being. Who you call your husband anymore? Who
40:35
you call your husband thinks I am anymore? And I still have dad who
40:38
loves me. Goodbye forever. That message still haunts me. I tried calling
40:44
and block my number. When I attempted to visit him, he wouldn't let
40:47
me in his dorm and finally threaten to get a restraining order. That's when
40:52
I backed off. My mother, his grandmother is the only connection I have
40:58
to him and my sister Facebook. My mother was the one who told me
41:05
he was a double He was double majoring and mechanical engineering in physics okay,
41:08
and he was currently doing a PhD in physics in an IVY league. My
41:14
sister allows me to log into her account to see pictures of his life.
41:16
When I saw his graduation pictures with only his dad invited, or pictures of
41:21
his friends, I just burst into tears. Can I still get him back?
41:28
It sounds to me unless I'm understanding this wrong. The son didn't say
41:31
what his issue was with his stepfather father. He never approached his mother and
41:36
said, hey, I have this issue or I feel this type of way.
41:39
Did he well, she said it. The clear issue is the stepfather
41:44
treats him like shit. The mother even said it that the stepfather told him
41:47
to his told her to her faith that her husband, I don't like him
41:51
because he's introverted and he's weird. That that's an issue. So clearly the
41:55
boy felt the energy. The man clearly has been treating horrible since he been
42:00
with his mother, and the mother has allowed it. She says, she
42:02
checks the husband in private, so you don't check him in front of your
42:05
son. You don't tell him no, don't treat my son like this.
42:07
You don't defend your son in front of him. So I'm gonna say,
42:10
and then you started pushing your son away when you had a child with your
42:14
new husband. You don't invite him on family vacation, You're you're you're going
42:17
on you're doing all these private church your husband, and you're defending your husband
42:22
and you're still married to somebody who treated your child like shit. I don't
42:25
blame him for cutting you off. You deserve the girl. Fuck you so
42:32
you can get your son back, But you're not gonna like, You're not
42:36
gonna like how The only way you're gonna get your son back is if you
42:38
admit if you're a mean fault to the situation, and you get rid of
42:40
him, because you're gonna have to. You're gonna have to get rid of
42:44
you, or you're gonna have to give rid of your give her to your
42:45
husband. Your husband is a problem, and I like, I've doubt.
42:50
I mean, well, I haven't dealt with it, but I know,
42:53
you know, somebody in my close circle, they had an issue that they
42:57
had they had an issue with their mom. The mother like that sister one
43:02
of the one of their mother to get get back with her father. But
43:07
her mother was like, I'm not gonna make myself unhappy to make you happy.
43:14
I understand that. I don't think he wants He said that, I
43:16
don't resent you, but divorce and day. That's not where I issue.
43:19
No, no, no, no, no, I don't you know.
43:21
You got to get rid of it. Like I said, you got to
43:22
give you gotta get rid of your husband because your husband is AND's gonna say,
43:27
well, I got a daughter with him now too, So how is
43:29
that fair if I get rid of him? What about the kid we have
43:32
together? You understand what I'm saying. She's going to use the new child
43:36
as a reasoning, like, oh, that's not fair to your sister and
43:38
as the parent. If you, if you knew there was an issue and
43:42
you never approached still dealt with it, that's on you, because now years
43:45
later it's something like, well, now, because you're not you allowed this
43:47
man to treat me any kind of way. You checked him in probably,
43:51
but you never came to me and said, are you okay? Can we
43:53
fix this? Oh no, don't worry. All you said was, oh,
43:58
don't read into it, Oh don't read too much, and do it
44:00
right. What the fuck is that right? Basically to him, because he
44:04
didn't see you checking your husband in private. He just saw the trauma of
44:07
this man treating him a certain type of way. So because of this,
44:13
years later, he's choosing a circle back and say no, I don't want
44:15
to have a relationship with you because of the way you allow this man to
44:17
treat me, and you didn't do anything as my parent to step in and
44:22
stop it. He's well within his right to do so. Girl, fuck
44:24
you. Yeah, you gotta take that l. Hopefully, maybe in a
44:29
few years, once he maybe in the maybe hopefully in a few years he'll
44:35
circle back, maybe to just give you a chance to explain things to him
44:39
or explain your viewpoint. But if he doesn't, you have to take that
44:44
L and just say, look, you you fucked up. You didn't attempt
44:47
to remedy this situation and he didn't want to be around you because of the
44:51
person you married and appropriated with, and you have to accept that because again,
44:54
adults can make their own decisions and if they choose to have a relationship
44:58
with you because of the relationships you keep, you made your you made your
45:01
bitch, you gotta lie in. And now parents can be suck it.
45:07
Parents can be very toxic. They can't and it's not it's not fair to
45:13
these kids. It's not fair. You're giving you the children, your ask
45:15
the kids. It's not fair. They didn't k to be here, They
45:19
didn't to be here, and you got a good kid like this boy is
45:22
clearly book smart, he was respectful like but he also feel I mean,
45:25
but he also feels some kind of way because the person that you bring it
45:29
to, you bring it to the house is like violating, like that nigga
45:31
like that that nigga violate them and it's all you allowed and it's all be
45:36
like less people. It's the fact that you you can't, you don't.
45:43
You don't feel comfortable. I'll say that you don't feel comfortable, like you
45:45
don't feel comfortable with him because of who he is and him him just being
45:51
him. So it's like, I don't, I don't like that ship you're
45:54
weirdo. Child is now about to be a fucking probably be a millionaire.
45:59
And guess what, Bob, you won't get to take place I take to
46:02
take part in and what he's about to do. And his father well,
46:07
because his father clearly has been the one that has been there for him.
46:09
So guess what. You stay over there with your toxic as husband and suck
46:15
it up, bitch. Maybe your new daughter of be somebody special and you
46:22
can you can thrive in all of that. So because bitch, you should
46:28
have left him when he told you maybe you should cut back your visitation with
46:31
your child. You should have left then, bitch, But you made a
46:36
choice. You made a decision. Fuck you girl, fucking fuck you and
46:42
a horse you rode in on. Fuck your big beck ass his husband.
46:45
Fu all, y'all, fuck that whole household you, the cat, the
46:49
dog, Hey bye, fu all, y'all. All y'all toxic, and
46:52
good luck to your toxic and good luck to your son. I hope he
47:00
fucking discovers the next greatest invention in the fucking world. Okay, m I
47:08
hope he does. And you can sit there and watch him when he gets
47:13
his Nobel Peace Prize. Okay, ma'am. Kay. It always seem Nico
47:17
that you don't know what you got to this gone, Johnny Minchell, never
47:21
lie. I mean, like I said, it's a I mean, like
47:25
I said, it's still it's still a little fucked up because you Yeah,
47:30
okay, honestly, pull on tank, but you're the one missing out.
47:32
Oh well, all right, so this one is one of toxic credit threat
47:37
too. As an am I the ass whole question? Am I to asshole?
47:43
For making my niece go on a date with a really nice kid after
47:46
she was very mean to him. I do some ship like that. I
47:50
ain't gonna any front that's still meaning as kids. I have a very complicated
47:57
situation going on right now, and honestly, I'm the last person who should
48:00
be in charge of teenagers, but so this is my life. At least
48:04
I've done better than dad. I'm trying to think of a way to write
48:07
this in a way that makes sense. My oldest sister's husband is in the
48:10
military and deployed overseas. His dad recently had a small stroke in needs help.
48:16
My sister asked my younger sister to watch her two kids, Kensley fifteen
48:22
and Adam, thirteen. But my younger sister is in the Air National Guard
48:28
and had to have missions to something, so she asked me. She admitted
48:32
to me that I'm a last resort and she's having a hard time trusting me,
48:37
but I said I could handle it. I arrived on Tuesday night and
48:40
Kensley asked me if she can have a study partner over. I said that
48:47
was fine, and I loved this kid. He knew more about nerd culture
48:53
in West Coast gangster rep than I did, and I loved talking to him.
48:59
They start for a while and I could just tell that this kid was
49:01
deep into his emotions for my niece. I just so happened to be talking
49:06
trash, taking trash out. I'm sorry, taking trash out when I heard
49:09
him ex tell her that he really liked her and would like to hang out
49:15
as more than friends, and she said that she wasn't sure. Well,
49:19
on Wednesday night, I heard Kensley talking to one of her friends that and
49:22
telling her her friend that her study partner was a nice guy, but she
49:25
just wasn't into him like that, and she felt bad that she even sort
49:30
of led him on. I decided that I would give her a day to
49:32
come to her senses and to go out with him. So I asked on
49:36
Thursday, and she said that no, she didn't see him in that way.
49:39
I told her that if I was going to be in charge, she
49:43
was going to go on a date with him, and I would not allow
49:45
cruelty to nice people. She screamed that she wasn't being cruel and I was
49:50
like, that's it. You're going out with him first of all, bitch,
49:53
with the what the fuck? What the fuck. She faked. She
50:00
baked. Sorry y'all, she faked sick on Friday, but I made her
50:06
go to school and she begged me not to make her go out with the
50:08
guy, and I said that no, she had to learn that she couldn't
50:12
be cool to people and lead them on. He was such a gentleman when
50:15
he picked her up on Friday, and he had her home right on time
50:19
and even walked her to the door and thanked me for allowing him to date
50:22
my niece. When Kenseley came inside, she said, I fucking hate you
50:25
Aunt Jessica with this. This is her aunt. This is her aunt that's
50:31
making her. How can he aunt make her do? I would be because
50:35
she's I guess she's in charge. She's watching the kids right now because the
50:38
something happened with the father and something's going on with the mother or some shit
50:43
they said. She said, I fucking hate you. Aunt. Jessica would
50:47
never have humiliated me like that and went and slammed her door. And I
50:52
haven't seen her since. My sister called this morning and bring me out,
50:57
saying that she wants her daughter to be nice as well. But I looked
51:00
away. I took away any sense of agency she had with this guy,
51:05
and that I am not her parent. I'm theying to call now one one
51:08
if something goes wrong, not to emotionally scar her children because they make different
51:14
choices. She also accused me of favoring this kid over my own knees.
51:17
I don't get it. My sister was severely bullied as a kid until she
51:21
literally turns into the swan in college, and I thought I was doing what
51:25
she would do and not allow Kinsley to be a bully herself. Am I
51:30
the asshole? Yes? You're the asshole. So he didn't want to date
51:34
this guy if she didn't see him like that, You forcing her to go
51:37
out with him to make him feel like that he really has a chance with
51:42
her, and that could end up with his feelings getting more hurt. If
51:45
she would have initially said to him, I don't want him to think that
51:50
I feel that way about him. If you would have made her have a
51:52
conversation with him and tell him I like you as a friend, but I
51:54
don't feel that way about you. Fine, that's one thing, But to
51:58
force her to go on a date with this boy, which he's a teenage
52:01
boy dead brains, ain't fully fucking developed, and his mind like, oh,
52:06
she really do like she went on a date with me, and you
52:08
shouldn't did that. But it's not so much as that, it's like,
52:10
why why is that the punishment? You shouldn't did that? That wasn't right
52:14
because and you're hurting this boy more than the niece would have hurt him if
52:17
she would have just told him I really like you as a friend, but
52:20
I'm not interested in you in a romantic way. That's what should have been
52:23
a solution. You made mad as words. You make mad as words,
52:28
and you would have to drag me out my room to make me go bitch,
52:30
because I ain't gonna know, mother fucking way, I'm not going.
52:31
If I said I ain't going, bitch, I ain't going. What you're
52:34
gonna do beat me bitch? We're gonna be some fighting bitches in here,
52:36
Auntie, Yeah I don't. That wasn't cool, Like you said, if
52:39
you can't you forcing somebody to go on a date with somebody is it's too
52:45
far because it's wrong for the for the aunt to force her niece to go
52:51
on a date. But as a certain point, as the aunt, like
52:54
bitch, am I going? Would you you to beat my ass? What
52:59
are you gonna do me? Trap me to you with handcuffs and going go
53:02
on this date with me? If I don't want to go on a date
53:05
with somebody, I don't want to go, and you're not gonna force me
53:07
to go on this date. Now, people have different relationships with that with
53:10
their elders, and certain certain people say feel like they can't say no to
53:15
an adult. And I understand all that me personally. Bitch, I'm not
53:19
going what you said as aunt, but you're want to force me to go
53:22
on this day. I'm gonna call your mother and let her have a conversation
53:29
about this, because, like you said, what if this boy, if
53:32
he's stupid or something's wrong or whatever else. He sees this girl being on
53:37
his date as not an active coercion, but as this girl being genuinely interested
53:43
in him, that that could give him the signal to do a full court
53:46
press that get this girl like me, you on a date and then what
53:52
and then not be able to take no full answer? You ain't calling to
53:59
him fun, I shouldn't cool all mm hmm, yeah? Did you?
54:09
The honor is the asshole for this? That sounds like asshole coercion or like
54:15
abuse of a minor or something like that, depending on where you the state
54:19
you live in and local laws. You can't force somebody on a date with
54:22
somebody. Nope, that's like you to put the guardian at the moment or
54:28
whatever. Now that ship won't cool at all. That was dirty ship.
54:32
So you're the asshole. Making somebody clean their roomors one thing, but making
54:37
somebody go on a date with somebody, And it was right for you being
54:39
the last ditch effort to watch some damn kids for her machine you was was
54:44
a motherfucker whole motherfucker mm hmm. That's all I got. That's it,
54:54
That's all I got. No, I mean, I'm just saying in general,
55:01
like I'm saying in general because it's like yo, you It's just it's
55:07
it's just like yoh, Like even even then, it's like yo, what,
55:10
let'son know you're trying to teach us, like what, let's know you're
55:13
trying to teach her that you can course people do the shit you want them
55:15
to do. No, I even hate I even hated it. In like
55:19
TV shows where the popular girl air quotes then you know the mother was like
55:24
you know, go out with that boy. He's a nice boy. And
55:27
it's like, but man, that's not but mine, that's not my type.
55:29
You're gonna go up with You're gonna go out with him, You're gonna
55:30
have a good time. It's like, no, fu, I will.
55:34
But it's like you can't, Like I can't because mentally I'm already like I'm
55:37
I already just like if you weren't my type before, Like you wasn't my
55:44
type before, you damn showing you my type. Now I don't, like,
55:45
I don't fucking like you, and I and I and I despise you
55:49
now because my mother made you, like made me go on to state with
55:52
you. So now I despise both of y'all. And I'm gonna sayhit,
55:54
I'm gonna sit here and look and be totally disinterested and not engage with anything.
55:59
And for me, it's like, bro, I like, you know,
56:01
how do you like? How do you? I don't know, like,
56:05
like how do you like? How are you able to like even interact
56:10
or actually like be on a date? Son? If you already feeling some
56:15
kind of way, you know what I'm saying? Like it it just it's
56:21
it's the privilege for me, Like, you know, this is what you're
56:23
doing, like this, this is what we're gonna do. I didn't ask
56:27
you what you wanted to do, but this is what you're gonna do.
56:29
And it's like that's even fucked up. Nah, I'm getting ant, bitch
56:35
ass nigga, I'm done. That's all I got. I got, That's
56:40
all I got because she didn't pissed me off to the highest level of pissedivity.
56:45
Girl. Fucking what yep? Because you get you hear my man,
56:49
he pissed right, he pissed you. He heard it? Fuck that bitch.
56:52
I couldn't imagine somebody finding out I'm on a date with somebody who was
56:55
forced to go on a date with me. That would be a turn off
57:00
for me personally. I mean for some yeah, I mean for some of
57:04
them to sucking date me or else. Nah, But it's the I mean,
57:07
what what does the uncle do put her out? What does the uncle
57:12
do put her out? That ain't even have mother fucking house? You the
57:15
baby sit the bitch, it's my mama. I'm trying to think of,
57:20
clear, this is my mama house. I'm trying to think of, like
57:23
what consequence could she could she in part on the knees, That's what I
57:27
say. I wouldn't have went. I called my mama, Oh, my
57:30
grandmother said, would you talk to your daughter about forced me on a date
57:32
with somebody? They come, get this, bitch, Did you drop on
57:39
high here and she would you? Would you drink a slit small liquor and
57:45
smoking cool when you was working with this bitch with the fucking wrong with her,
57:47
funking wrong with him? Nothing, it's just, I mean nothing,
57:52
it's nothing wrong with her. It's just that she's she's expecting like they're they're
57:55
expecting the I mean they're they're just expecting her to be the person that she
58:00
isn't and you you want her, you don't want your child to be that
58:05
person. But unfortunately she's that person. She's not that person at all.
58:10
She's not She's actually not. She just wasn't interested in this boy. She's
58:14
not bullying him. She just wasn't interested in the boy. That's not being
58:17
a fucking bully. So I don't know what your train of thought is,
58:21
bitch, but your daughter is not a bully for not wanting to date.
58:23
To mind that she's not attracted to your sister is not. I mean,
58:28
your niece is not a fucking bully because of what your sister went through.
58:30
She's not. That wasn't even your story to deal with kids my whole as
58:37
bitch you need I'm not Auntie fu. You girl needs to be on your
58:40
side and says fun out Hopefully, hopefully this is the face your mama.
58:45
Don't let her ever watch y'all ever again she's sounding She already said at the
58:49
beginning of the damn thing that she wasn't the person who should be in charge
58:51
of teenagers. Bitch, you clearly proved that was stupid ass, because I
58:53
know me and my mouth and how I think I would have sat forced me
58:58
on a day because I'm not leaving this house, make me go be out
59:00
of my own house that you you won't even live here, like you said,
59:04
make me go, make me go in the state. What you're gonna
59:07
do, Jennifer, she sounds like a Jennifer. I'm sorry, since she
59:12
said the other aunt name is Jessica, she sounds like a Jennifer. You,
59:15
Jennifer, why are you bushing? New? I had my new two
59:25
girls like Jessica and Jennifer, sisters that lived on that lived across the like
59:30
lived across the fence from me. Okay, well yeah, okay, well
59:37
now but ye no but I know but seriously though, like, yeah,
59:42
that's that is toxic. That is toxic parent, toxic parents, and and
59:45
you're not even a parent, so it's like my momma, don't even my
59:49
mother, don't even make me do nothing like this or why you're like why
59:51
should you? So yeah, call it Jennifer, Yeah, fuck you?
59:58
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