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- 0:49Unknown: Welcome to the AgTribe's Report, a breakdown of the top stories affecting the culture of agriculture
- 0:55with your host, Vance Crow.
- 0:58The report begins in three,
- 1:00two,
- 1:01one. Let's begin.
- 1:04Unknown: Welcome to the Ag Tribes Report. I'm your host, Vance Crow. Each week, I bring on a new guest that
- 1:10represents one of the many tribes that make up US and Canadian agriculture.
- 1:14This week, I do not have a guest. I had a guest as of this morning when they dropped out. I made several reach outs to people, and all of them are like, I'm in the middle of harvest. I can't do this.
- 1:26So instead of having a guest on here, I'm going to just guest host it. We're gonna do the same format where we cover four news stories, then we're gonna talk about
- 1:35Bitcoin, and then we'll talk a little bit about my Peter Thiel paradox and we're the adversary, and we're gonna try and do this in just thirty minutes. On today's show, we are going to be covering,
- 1:46some interesting show things that have come up. I know everybody's talking about soybean prices in China and Argentina.
- 1:52That is the same as last week, but I wanted to cover some different stories. We're gonna cover one where there is a meat producers association
- 2:00defending
- 2:01prop 12 out of California. That's the one that says state laws,
- 2:06should override national laws in terms of animal welfare.
- 2:10We're also going to talk about the, the giant,
- 2:13Cambodian,
- 2:15pig butchering
- 2:16crypto scam that was broken wide open. And, I've got some interesting notes on that.
- 2:22Then we'll talk about Nestle slashing over 16,000
- 2:26jobs globally, and
- 2:28we'll talk about the, $4,000,000
- 2:30crop insurance,
- 2:31fraud
- 2:32case by, Steve McBee.
- 2:34And, we're gonna get to all of those stories and more. And, why don't we just jump right into it?
- 2:41So the first story, story number one, farmers and food companies form group to defend state animal welfare laws. A new coalition, the American Meat Producers Association,
- 2:52AMPA,
- 2:53launched to defend
- 2:54state animal welfare laws like California's Prop 12, which mandates crate free pork production.
- 3:00Backed by farmers like Joel Salatin and companies like ButcherBox,
- 3:04AMPA argues preempting these laws in the farm bill would hurt small farmers and consumer choice. About 27%
- 3:12of US pork producers are prop 12 compliant,
- 3:15but the National Pork Producers Council pushes for federal preemption,
- 3:19citing a costly patchwork of regulations.
- 3:22Ag Secretary Rollins estimates compliance costs between 3,500
- 3:26to $4,500
- 3:28per sow.
- 3:30So this is one of those stories that on first blush you're like, wait a second, what's going on here? Because normally
- 3:36when there is an Animal Producers Association,
- 3:39some kind of coalition,
- 3:41they are arguing against a patchwork of state laws. So if you're not familiar with this, what can happen
- 3:47is in The United States, if you have a state like California,
- 3:50which is either producing a lot of the agriculture or they are consuming a lot of the agriculture,
- 3:57they make a law that says, hey. You're not allowed to use farrowing crates on any of the pork that's sold in our state or you're not allowed to raise it in our state that way. Well, now California, since it is such a big market,
- 4:09because they are creating these state laws
- 4:12that are maybe more narrowly defined than some of the federal laws, what you end up having is people coming on and saying, like, wait. We don't want these laws. You, California, are not allowed to dictate to us, Nebraska,
- 4:24Iowa, Missouri,
- 4:25how we should be raising pigs. So what they do is they get together and they try and go to the national level and say, there shouldn't be any laws that make it more difficult for us to do interstate commerce.
- 4:38Now I can understand this. From From when I was working at Monsanto,
- 4:42what used to happen was,
- 4:44some of the activists that were trying to get, different,
- 4:48GMO regulations passed. For example, they wanted to have GMOs be labeled in a certain state.
- 4:55They knew that if they did it in that one state, California,
- 4:58not only is there so much pressure for other manufacturers to follow that because they wanna get into that market, they knew that that, this would eventually then kind of spread out into the rest of the country.
- 5:10As,
- 5:11as Monsanto, they're sitting there saying, we wanna just focus on the national level. We don't wanna have to go state by state by state and have to fight this. So they wanted to fight state regulation.
- 5:22This is what's going on with the pork. And I can tell you personally, me,
- 5:27I
- 5:28am a big time libertarian and if I'm not a libertarian I'm a federalist. And what I want is a state to be able to control
- 5:35how they manage their own
- 5:38laws, how they how they manage the way they raise animals, what they expect,
- 5:42in terms
- 5:43of food. I believe the states
- 5:46should be left to regulate themselves
- 5:48as much as possible. And I know this drives the large ag companies,
- 5:53crazy because of the amount that they're gonna have to spend on lobbying and what kind of advantage this gives, different states.
- 6:00But, I mean, what else are you gonna do? You're gonna make this all national level, federal level law? We don't want this. This is not better to make the federal government,
- 6:10better able to control what our decisions are and how we, raise our animals and
- 6:15crops. So while I am
- 6:17generally suspicious of people like Joel Salatin coming in and throwing his support behind something because usually it's a larger thing than the aw shucks kind of
- 6:27mentality that they put forward, I have to say,
- 6:31overall, if a state wants to create those laws,
- 6:34you gotta let them do it. And anything else is,
- 6:37a prohibition on our freedoms.
- 6:39So I hope that, they are successful and I'd like to hear more. If you have different opinions about this go ahead throw them into the comments. You can write them on x or wherever you're streaming this,
- 6:50because I know there are a lot of people that feel very differently
- 6:54and, they wanna get rid of the patchwork of laws and instead just have one standard to follow. If you're running a business, I can understand your perspective, but from the legal side, it's just not where I'm at. Alright.
- 7:05Story number two, this goes out to a man named Vance Kreger
- 7:09who pointed out that there was a pig butchering crypto scam, and he wanted to know all about it.
- 7:15So I went in looking for this, like,
- 7:18are they butchering pigs in Cambodia in some way that's going to impact us in The United States? Why in the world is Kash Patel,
- 7:26the head of the FBI, talking about there being, you know, a crypto seizure with this? So let me give you the lowdown on this story, and I'm going to, burst your bubble here a little early. It does not have anything to do with ag crops. But I did see this multiple times, and because I looked into it, I thought it'd be worth sharing with you.
- 7:45So DOJ indicts Cambodian tycoon in a massive pig butchering crypto
- 7:50scam seizing over over 15,000,000,000 in Bitcoin. In a major blow to global cybercrime, the US Department of Justice indicted Cambodian billionaire,
- 7:59Shen Chi, chairman of the Prince Holding Groups for running forced labor scam compounds
- 8:04that executed a, quote, pig butchering
- 8:07fraud, defrauding victims worldwide of billions.
- 8:11A pig butchering scam is a type of romance or investment fraud where scammers build trust with victims via a dating app or some kind of social media, and then they pose as attractive partners.
- 8:24They fatten the relationship like pigs for slaughter,
- 8:28by convincing victims to invest in a fake cryptocurrency
- 8:32scheme leading to financial ruin.
- 8:34This was named after Chinese slang for fattening pigs before butchering, which is a lot more prevalent in, Southeast Asia. These schemes involve trafficking workers into prison like facilities in Cambodia
- 8:47where they were coerced under threat of violence to groom victims via fake romance.
- 8:52Federal authorities seized a 127,271
- 8:56Bitcoin worth about $15,000,000,000,
- 8:59which is the largest,
- 9:01crypto forfeiture ever.
- 9:03And this was stashed in wallets controlled by Shen.
- 9:07This highlights,
- 9:08the, the risks of, participating
- 9:11in dating apps and social media.
- 9:14And, as people have been looking at this, like, what do you mean they seized those assets? I also looked into that and it turns out they were able to seize the hardware wallets
- 9:22that Chen had been using and then they will use those wallets,
- 9:26and say, hey as a part of a plea deal if you, wanna plead down you've gotta give us access to those.
- 9:32Now, I don't know very much about pig butchering scenarios
- 9:35but one thing I know is that the US government has said they were going to try and really increase the holdings
- 9:43of Bitcoin for the United States government. And Trump made a promise saying, I'm not going to spend a single tax dollar on it. Alright, great. You know, you wanna have a reserve and you somehow wanna get it without raising taxes.
- 9:56But if what that means is the way that they are going to get it is by seizing people's,
- 10:02Bitcoin,
- 10:03this is not good. I do not want that. That is not the way we want to,
- 10:08induce or celebrate our government,
- 10:11for
- 10:13trying to do the right thing with their,
- 10:16with with,
- 10:18you know, stopping illegal activities. But then at the same time, I don't want them going around saying, ah, what a what a piggy bank that we could go after. If we ever find somebody with a large amount of Bitcoin, maybe we can charge them with something, grab their hardware wallets, and extort it out of them. So,
- 10:34Vance, I just wanted to throw it out there that I did look into this story. It, unfortunately,
- 10:38is not about agriculture,
- 10:40but, we should always be mindful that this may be the way that the US government is getting their hands on a lot more Bitcoin.
- 10:48Alright. Moving on to story number three, a little bit more closely related to agriculture.
- 10:53Nestle
- 10:54slashes 16,000
- 10:56jobs globally in a major restructuring push.
- 11:00Swiss food giant, Nestle, announced on October 16 that it's going to cut 16,000
- 11:04jobs which represents 6%
- 11:06of its 277,000
- 11:08employees over the next two years, marking one of the largest layoffs in the food sec sector in decades.
- 11:15New CEO, Philip Novritill,
- 11:17aims to save $3,400,000,000
- 11:20by 2017
- 11:22by, putting out targeted cuts including 12,000
- 11:25white collar workers and 4,000
- 11:27manufacturing jobs.
- 11:29Nestle came out and said this was driven largely by automation,
- 11:34AI, inflation and competition.
- 11:37And, this move could, disrupt Ag supply chains as Nestle is a major producer of processed goods. I went around looking for a little more information on this and many of you may remember that I had, Doctor Sylvain Charlebois,
- 11:52on. He is known as the food professor. Professor. He was talking all about this and he said Nestle cutting 16,000
- 12:00jobs is one of the largest layoffs that's ever been done. To put this in perspective,
- 12:04Hostess,
- 12:06laid off 18,500
- 12:08workers in its 2012
- 12:10liquidation.
- 12:11And so this is the only thing to come anywhere close to this, and that was major international news when that happened. It seems like to me that this has barely been talked about in the world. There's so much going on around tariffs,
- 12:24around Trump.
- 12:25In ag world, it's definitely about soybeans. In Argentina,
- 12:29nobody's talking about this, but 16,000 jobs in two years from an industry leader. This is absolutely going to impact agriculture
- 12:38because, hey,
- 12:39those goods are not going to be manufactured in the same way and I am sure sure they are hurting. I don't know about you but, the other day I was in the grocery store and I saw that a bag
- 12:50of peanut M and M's was $3.50.
- 12:53And, my daughter had asked me to buy her a a package of M and M's with money she had made from doing, some extra work for me. And I realized, like, oh my gosh. I need to change the rate that I'm paying her because I think I'd I'd like to give her about
- 13:08a candy bar per hour,
- 13:10and that's no longer the 50¢ that I was paying for a candy bar. I don't know what you paid for it back then, but,
- 13:17now it's moved from 50¢ to $3.50.
- 13:20This is clear that they are, shrinking the size of packaging, increasing the prices. They're trying to do anything they can
- 13:27to stay afloat in, this crazy chaotic
- 13:30time.
- 13:31So I would expect that we will see a lot more companies,
- 13:35coming out with,
- 13:37notes about laying off people and, oftentimes pointing towards,
- 13:41artificial intelligence and automation for that. But I have to say, it's likely mostly the printing of money. Alright. Moving on to story number four. Prosecutors push
- 13:52forty one month sentence for McBee dynasty star in his $4,000,000
- 13:56insurance fraud case. Federal prosecutors are now seeking forty one months for,
- 14:02in prison for fifty three year old Missouri farmer Steve McBee, star of the reality show, The McBee Dynasty, Real American Cowboys,
- 14:09plus 4,000,000
- 14:11in restitution to the USDA for crop insurance fraud spanning from 2018 to 2020.
- 14:17McBee who pleaded guilty last year to underreporting yields equivalent to 830
- 14:24semi truck trailers of grain to inflate indemnity payments.
- 14:28He faces sentencing today in Missouri in federal court, and he could get up to thirty years max. His rapid farm expansion to 40,000
- 14:37acres across three states left records unreliable amid the 2018
- 14:41drought
- 14:42per defense memos blaming overgrowth and inexperience as a first gen farmers.
- 14:47Prosecutors call,
- 14:49McBee a greedy betrayal of honest growers
- 14:52urging no leniency despite his clean record, save a minor DUI, and community support letters praising his generosity. There were many letters in there and it did feel
- 15:03pretty weird to hear people,
- 15:05talking about his generosity when it seems as though some of that generosity
- 15:09was through, ill gotten gains.
- 15:11So, McBee's team seeks to, just get supervised release.
- 15:17You know, I would have probably just overlooked this story, but I did see several people coming out on x
- 15:24really supporting to throw the book at him.
- 15:27To say like, hey, this guy clearly was cheating the system. He was that's straight up theft. It's fraud. It's hurting the entire system.
- 15:35Throw the book at him. And
- 15:38I I can understand that, right? If we look at the fact that 13.5%
- 15:43of the bottom line of most, farmers
- 15:46is some kind of transfer payment. It is a bailout, it is,
- 15:50insurance, it is some of the money that the government is giving farmers to make sure they can stay afloat
- 15:56and the public sees that there's some guy out there that's,
- 16:00pretending to have sent eight thirty semi truck trailers full of grain,
- 16:05but he didn't. Well, they're gonna look around at that and say, why are we giving money to these fraudsters, to these people that are stealing? I don't think we should do that. And so if you are in this space and you're,
- 16:17in need of transfer payments,
- 16:19this represents a pretty big threat
- 16:22to your overall ability to stay solvent.
- 16:25And,
- 16:26you know, the size and scope as I looked into this,
- 16:31fraud was so absurd. It was so large
- 16:35that
- 16:36it just felt like plotting. Right? It didn't feel like somebody that accidentally got themselves in a situation and now they're trying to bail themselves out. You know? I don't really know his core story.
- 16:46This the size of it was just so large
- 16:49that, it seems like it was somebody sitting down being like, you know what you could get away with? You could get away with doing some of this stuff. And, so I'm I'm kinda with you on that through through the book at the guy that, is trying to,
- 17:03hijack the system that, taxpayers support because they're trying to support farmers.
- 17:09Alright. That is going to do it for the four stories this week. I know there is a lot going on. I didn't wanna do anymore about Argentina and the crush facilities. There's all this stuff coming out about secretary Rollins saying, hey, Argentina has some capacity for us to send our soybeans down there to do crush. This had everybody up in arms, but this is stuff that I'm sure you have more access to information,
- 17:31than even I do on it. So
- 17:33if you have stories that you think I should cover on the Ag Tribes report, you can always send
- 17:38them to me at vance crow on x, or you can send them to vance@legacyinterviews.com.
- 17:45Alright.
- 17:46Moving on. Now we're going to move to the Bitcoin land price report.
- 17:50And instead of me comparing Bitcoin to land prices around here, which I've done in the past when I've done some solo episodes,
- 17:57I decided I would talk about a little bit of what's been going on in the Bitcoin world. If you're watching at all, you saw that just, was it, week and a half ago, we we were a thousand dollars away
- 18:08from the all time high. And now we wake up today, and it was at 01:12 and then went all the way down to 01:08.
- 18:15So this is a major crash down. More than, you know, 10,000, 12,000,
- 18:20$15,000,
- 18:22is down with Bitcoin.
- 18:23What's going on here? I had some people like Keith Dorman,
- 18:27you know, pointing at me saying, hey. Look at the people that made money on shorting this. Seems like it could be a scam.
- 18:34And, other people, you know, being like, hey. Does this look like as good of a trade? To me, it looks like an awesome trade. To me, '1 2008 looks like the best buying day you could have. Right? We may not get these prices again. But it's important to think about
- 18:48why is it that when we have a, a big jump to the market, why is it that Bitcoin sells off so fast? Well, if we go and we look at the timeline,
- 18:57we see that Trump,
- 18:59waited until after markets were closed
- 19:01to announce that the the,
- 19:05interaction, the trade negotiations with China had gone south. So he goes out and makes this announcement.
- 19:11The markets, I think they were just about to close. They reacted right then. And then on Sunday night, he goes out and says, things are getting better. And then Alakazam,
- 19:21the markets are back up.
- 19:23In between those two points,
- 19:25the only liquid market that's open
- 19:28is Bitcoin.
- 19:30Right? So if you are trying to cover short positions, you are trying to get money out of the market, you can't just go to your stock market and you you know, your stock portfolio and make those trades because they aren't gonna go through. The markets are closed. Well, there is no market close for Bitcoin.
- 19:45And the
- 19:46upside to that is you have always access to your capital. Right? The government just came out a couple of weeks ago and said, hey. By 2028,
- 19:56we're gonna make it so,
- 19:57you can still do wire transfers
- 20:00on the weekends
- 20:01and, on the holidays and maybe at night. Right? They're saying eventually we'll get to the point where you'll be able to move your money from one place to another,
- 20:08when you want to. But Bitcoin's like that already.
- 20:12And so while you have access to Bitcoin anytime that you want, this means that when something comes up, that liquid asset is going to be used. And I think that, that's gonna create some volatility.
- 20:24But on the other hand, it also opens up a ton of, potential. And it means that the markets are not being controlled by a group of people that decide when are you allowed to make trades and when aren't you. So I think you can always expect that if the market is gonna have some gyrations, Bitcoin's gonna be the first one to drop, drop, but it's also gonna be one of the ones that jumps back up. I am watching gold prices surge and, I did a very interesting interview with, economist,
- 20:52Luke Groman. I should release that maybe next week.
- 20:56But I'm happy to see gold going up. I think this is a lot to do with the way that China is now setting up their currency. I believe they are doing a lot of trading for goods, even things like oil in the Chinese yuan. And the way that they are getting these other countries to do this is they're saying, hey. If you buy this in Chinese yuan, we will also make a market for you to trade yuan in for gold, and we will also store that gold for you.
- 21:22So there is a big push for, I think, countries that want to do, deals with China
- 21:27to, you know, get gold. And I also think that right now, retail is always the last to know. So retail
- 21:35spenders, consumers,
- 21:37have, seen the price of gold going up. There starts to be some lines at the, gold bullion shop, and there's solid research that shows if somebody sees a line, they're more likely to get in that line as paradoxical as that seems. And so I think there are a lot lot of people that are saying other people are buying gold. Maybe I should buy gold too. I'm happy to see it. It's, an almost finite asset. I think it's, got a lot of good properties. But if you're one of those people,
- 22:03I recommend just going ahead and buying Bitcoin. It's got all the attributes of gold
- 22:08and then many more. It's allowed to be traded. You know, even these gold markets, the ETFs,
- 22:14all of those, you can only get access when the markets are open.
- 22:17So, anyway, I think that,
- 22:20I'm happy that gold is going up, but I would always still say buy Bitcoin.
- 22:24If you're interested in,
- 22:27finding out more about Bitcoin, you've been like, alright. I've heard enough. I've kinda figured out what's going on here.
- 22:33The best podcast
- 22:35in the English speaking world, as far as I can find, and I have listened to dozens, if not hundreds of them, on Bitcoin is a podcast called This Week in Bitcoin.
- 22:44It is a fantastic rundown.
- 22:46The guy that does it is an expert podcaster. He does a great job of explaining things technically so the detailed people that know what's going on are like, hey. This guy gets it. But then also, he explains it in a macro way, in a in a high enough view that anybody could watch it. So I highly recommend the podcast This Week in Bitcoin.
- 23:05If you are looking to purchase Bitcoin and you'd like to support the show, I would encourage you to use the link in the show notes, and I'll post it on x for,
- 23:15purchasing on River. River is where I purchased my Bitcoin,
- 23:19and, it's been a great, support of the podcast. If you buy it using that link,
- 23:25you'll be supporting the podcast. And we've had
- 23:27some big buys this week. I can tell,
- 23:30a lot of people out there are taking the opportunity of this dip to buy more.
- 23:34I'm going to do the,
- 23:36Peter Thiel paradox. Right? So this is normally where I ask, who is one person that you respect
- 23:42that you strongly disagree with?
- 23:44And, I've done this several times
- 23:47and, I had some ideas on, like, I could kinda poke at this person and I could kinda talk about this person that I respect but I disagree with,
- 23:55but I actually had a thought that I wanted to share with you.
- 23:59This last Tuesday,
- 24:00I ran a really unorthodox
- 24:02podcast.
- 24:03It was with a man from Vietnam that was driving my Uber.
- 24:07His name was Thomas Wynn, and, by the time we got out of my neighborhood, I was like, this man is amazing. The way he's talking about communism and Catholicism and Buddhism, I'm just gonna record this. So I pull out my phone and set it on the console. He can see it. I hit record, and we have a great conversation.
- 24:25He has a really thick accent, so it's it's kind of hard to understand him. There's a little bit of car noise. I tried to clean that up. But in that interview,
- 24:33he says,
- 24:34he starts talking about Buddhism,
- 24:37and he talks about how when he realized the metaphor of a drop of water
- 24:42falling into a stream or a pond
- 24:45and the waves ripple out from that. He said, normally, in our reactions with other people, people, when they give us energy, they are a ripple out. They give us negative energy. Maybe they're upset. Maybe they're feeling down.
- 24:57They give you that energy and if you're anything like me, when somebody gives me negative energy, they start to get a little hot with me. They start to be grouchy or whatever.
- 25:06My natural reaction,
- 25:08despite the fact that I have had years of studying negotiations and I know how to behave in a professional circumstance, but I'm in my personal life, maybe I'm talking with my daughter. She's getting upset.
- 25:19I come back at her and give her back the exact same energy she's giving me. Maybe I even make it stronger.
- 25:25So in this analogy, as the ripple is going out, then I'm shoving ripples back towards the center and we have more chaos. Good things don't come from that. Well, what Thomas said was if you let those ripples just calm down
- 25:39and then what you return to the conversation with is the energy that you want to see brought to this conversation,
- 25:46well then, you're you are the one that's in control of the energy between the two of you. You can choose to decline the negative energy that other people give you and you can give people positive energy and they can choose whether to accept that or not.
- 26:00When I heard this, I realized that that's not actually how I interact with my children.
- 26:05A lot of times I react because I'm thinking, hey, I'm the one in charge here. If you're gonna get mad, I'm gonna get more mad. I don't think it's logical. I just think that's what happens.
- 26:15Well, ever since having heard this from Thomas, I have started instituting it in my own home, and I can tell you that this whole week went so much better, was so much more profound
- 26:25because I was the one in control of what energy I was bringing to the conversation, what I was bringing to the situation.
- 26:32And it was profound and powerful, and I'm glad that I sat and listened to a guy. If you'd like an interesting podcast,
- 26:39go back and check that one out. Try and make it past all of the,
- 26:43the the difficulty to understand it and really hear a person that may change the way that you view and interact with other people.
- 26:52Alright.
- 26:53Now we're gonna move on to the worthy adversary. This is where I ask, who is one person that you disagree you respect but you strongly disagree with? I maybe said that before. The Peter Thiel paradox that I was talking about, that's normally when I talk about,
- 27:06what is one thing people believe that,
- 27:09that or what is one thing you believe that nobody agrees with you on? The worthy adversary
- 27:13is about respecting somebody. Right? Who is it that you respect but disagree with?
- 27:19Respect is one of those things that I think is worth thinking about because
- 27:23we kind of intuitively
- 27:25know who we respect,
- 27:26but you never really thought about why.
- 27:29And I, not that long ago, heard somebody describe respect as an involuntary
- 27:34action.
- 27:35You don't actually choose who you respect. You maybe choose how you react to people. Do you treat them with respect? Are you a respectful person?
- 27:43But who do we respect?
- 27:45Those are people that can do something
- 27:47that we can't do.
- 27:49And I I can see that, like, when my wife had our children, it brought me to a whole different level of understanding
- 27:57of the respect they should have for women. They literally can do something I can't do. And I don't just mean the biological aspect of it. I just mean the walking over of hot coals that my wife did to bring these children into the world.
- 28:10You have to respect that.
- 28:12But there are a lot of other people that we interact with and we engage with that we respect
- 28:18and we're not always cognizant of it. In fact, I found myself this morning
- 28:22on my drive into work. I was going to be meeting with a guy named Heath
- 28:26and,
- 28:27I had told two of the people that I spoke with in the morning,
- 28:31man, I, I'm I've I lost a little bit of sleep last night. I'm a little nervous to meet with Heath. He is the most well put together person. He's disciplined. He has a wonderful family. He's on top of things. Like,
- 28:43I gotta be ready for this.
- 28:45And, as I sat down with Heath, he was well put together, sharp early to the meeting, you know, everything that I was saying.
- 28:53The advice of my mentor, Pete,
- 28:56came to my ears and the advice that Pete talks about was
- 29:00if you observe something about another person
- 29:03that they would want to know
- 29:06and
- 29:06you are the right person to deliver that feedback,
- 29:10you should tell them.
- 29:11So if you see something that somebody else would say, yeah, I wanna know that, good or bad, and am I the right person to deliver that news? Sometimes there's something you observe, you're not the right person.
- 29:22But in this case, with Heath, I'm feeling this anxiety. I'm sitting with him. I'm kinda nervous. I'm thinking about all the things I wanna talk with him about and I decided to tell him, you know, Heath,
- 29:31you're an incredibly well put together person. I really admire how, you know, prepared you are for things. I love interacting with you and I found myself last night being a little nervous about this meeting so I sat up and prepped and I had some notes and some things I wanted to go through with this, but I wanted you to know that that's how you present yourself. You present yourself as somebody
- 29:53that really is well put together and it's kind of intimidating to me.
- 29:57Now, picture yourself doing this with another person. The person that you are a little intimidated by. The person that, you know, makes you go like, I don't know. Am I good enough? I don't know.
- 30:08And when you can actually articulate these things, you can have the experience that I had
- 30:13where Heath, you know, kinda lets out a sigh and says, oh, man. I'm glad to hear you say that. I was nervous about this meeting too. I too made notes and he pulls up a sheet and he shows me and he's like, I really like the way we talked and the way we think about things and I really enjoyed that. This is what I've done with those conversations and these are the types of relationships I I have now and how this one is different. And it began this beautiful and rich and interesting conversation.
- 30:37And I share this with you because you can do this too.
- 30:40And certainly, you have people in your life that you respect
- 30:45but it is hard to not be intimidated or a little self conscious of. And so I'd ask you to really think about if you respect somebody
- 30:54and you think that they should know it, you should go ahead and tell them and watch how that changes the interaction that you have,
- 31:01together.
- 31:02So I know that's a little bit different than the worthy adversary that we normally do because normally we jump right into it, but I thought it was worth exploring a little bit more
- 31:11about what this is all about because,
- 31:13I am going to in the next few weeks. I have a few people lined up that,
- 31:18are pretty strong worthy adversaries. They're people that, you don't necessarily get along with, but you gotta respect the way they think about problems and issues. So I'm looking forward to that.
- 31:28Alright. That is going to do it for this week's show.
- 31:31If you're interested in having me sit down with your loved ones to record their life stories
- 31:37so that your kids or your grandkids can know the story about where they come from, then go to legacyinterviews.com.
- 31:45When you get there, you can see some videos about how the process works and other people that have done the interviews,
- 31:50and there's a contact page where you can,
- 31:53sign up to have a meeting with me and we will talk about who it is that you're hoping to capture, what it is that you wanna get out of it, and what we can do to make the experience truly profound. So if you're interested in doing that, go to legacyinterviews.com.
- 32:08As always,
- 32:09we will put the,
- 32:11link to River in the show notes. It is a wonderful buying opportunity at a hundred and eight, and, I am really glad to be here. So thank you so much for joining me, and as always,
- 32:22feel free to disagree.