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- 0:00Speaker 1: We're getting ready for second ad update. We got Bryce
- 0:01Speaker 1: on the line. Bryce, Good morning, what's your story?
- 0:05Speaker 2: Morning? Hey, So I went on this date with this
- 0:08Speaker 2: It's really cool girl. We had a fantastic time, but uh,
- 0:12Speaker 2: I can't get old of her.
- 0:13Speaker 3: Now.
- 0:15Speaker 4: We want to hear the story and then we'll get
- 0:16Speaker 4: her on the phone. I find know why she's ghosting here.
- 0:18Speaker 4: Second eight update starts next with John Jay Rich.
- 0:25Speaker 2: The next segment we're going to.
- 0:26Speaker 4: Do is called second Date Update.
- 0:28Speaker 5: Because that's what we're going to try and get and
- 0:30Speaker 5: that's what the bit is called.
- 0:32Speaker 4: Second Date Update starts right now on John Jay and
- 0:35Speaker 4: Ridge one.
- 0:36Speaker 5: O four to seven Kiss FM. John Jay and Rich.
- 0:38Speaker 5: Time for Second Date Update. You meet somebody got on
- 0:40Speaker 5: a date you expected to be a second date. It
- 0:42Speaker 5: doesn't happen. You don't know why you come to us? Bryce,
- 0:45Speaker 5: Good morning morning? What's your story? Bryce?
- 0:50Speaker 2: Honestly, and I'm sure you all hear this a lot,
- 0:52Speaker 2: but I'm just really confused. I went out with this chick,
- 0:55Speaker 2: her name is Sammy, and I swear everything win great,
- 1:00Speaker 2: like amazing. I couldn't have had a better time. We
- 1:04Speaker 2: matched on hinge and so I decided to ask her
- 1:07Speaker 2: out for dinner. We went to Postinos, and like, from
- 1:12Speaker 2: the second we sat down, the chemistry was just there.
- 1:15Speaker 2: We were laughing, we were talking about music, travel, and
- 1:20Speaker 2: then after dinner we swalked around downtown for a bit
- 1:24Speaker 2: and ended up getting ice cream, and it was awesome,
- 1:27Speaker 2: Like she was leaning into me, she was flirting, she
- 1:29Speaker 2: was touching my arm. Definitely, it was just very natural, natural, flirtatious.
- 1:37Speaker 2: And when I dropped her off, like, we kissed good night,
- 1:40Speaker 2: and I left thinking, Wow, this could actually be something great.
- 1:43Speaker 2: But I never I never heard from after that night,
- 1:45Speaker 2: and she's completely disappeared. No text, no calls, nothing. I've
- 1:48Speaker 2: been like replaying the date over and over in my
- 1:51Speaker 2: head trying to figure out what I did wrong. And honestly,
- 1:54Speaker 2: I have no idea. I really liked her and I
- 1:57Speaker 2: was hoping to see her again. So I just figured
- 1:58Speaker 2: maybe you guys could help reaching out to her and
- 2:01Speaker 2: see what's going on.
- 2:02Speaker 4: Well, which one of you two had hemorrhoids? Neither said
- 2:06Speaker 4: you got ice cream?
- 2:09Speaker 6: Ice cream?
- 2:11Speaker 7: Icey?
- 2:12Speaker 4: He said, we woul got is cream. She's like, gross,
- 2:17Speaker 4: she's got a hemorrhise. I'm out here. I can't believe
- 2:18Speaker 4: it took me to buy a preparation age. I mean
- 2:20Speaker 4: that would do it.
- 2:21Speaker 7: The case.
- 2:23Speaker 4: You say ice cream again, I was wondering where you
- 2:25Speaker 4: were going with that. Say it again, say ice cream
- 2:28Speaker 4: ice cream?
- 2:29Speaker 1: Okay, now you're a nunciating ice cream We would downtown
- 2:33Speaker 1: got some.
- 2:33Speaker 4: Mass cream.
- 2:35Speaker 2: Ice cream.
- 2:36Speaker 3: That's a far different ask on a first date. You
- 2:38Speaker 3: want to go get some ice cream?
- 2:39Speaker 6: You're going to get sorry for that sidetracked?
- 2:48Speaker 3: Was how long? Was How long was the kiss? Was
- 2:51Speaker 3: it a peck or was it a like we're doing
- 2:53Speaker 3: this again kiss from her?
- 2:55Speaker 2: It was a nice like yeah, I like you like
- 2:58Speaker 2: this is It wasn't a thing a little bit longer
- 3:01Speaker 2: than that.
- 3:01Speaker 7: Hm.
- 3:02Speaker 2: I don't know. I feel like it happened so quick,
- 3:04Speaker 2: but at the same time it lasted a little while,
- 3:06Speaker 2: you know.
- 3:06Speaker 4: Yeah, like time stopped.
- 3:09Speaker 2: Yeah, like it wasn't. It wasn't full on like French kissing.
- 3:12Speaker 2: It was no tongue, but it was. It was good.
- 3:15Speaker 6: I can't see like of anything we've heard, why right
- 3:18Speaker 6: she would go you know what I mean, unless maybe
- 3:20Speaker 6: someone else said she was kind of seeing something after
- 3:23Speaker 6: maybe they won, maybe they went on a.
- 3:25Speaker 4: Better deapens Sometimes you know how to take that to
- 3:28Speaker 4: the chin, right, So how are we on? Like, what
- 3:30Speaker 4: is she doing?
- 3:31Speaker 1: You're texting her, calling her and she's not responding or
- 3:34Speaker 1: is just going to voicemail texting her?
- 3:36Speaker 8: What?
- 3:37Speaker 2: Well, I I've texted her a few times and like
- 3:39Speaker 2: let her know how much fun I had and I
- 3:42Speaker 2: thought we had great chemistry and uh, you know, letting
- 3:45Speaker 2: her know I really wanted to see her again. And
- 3:47Speaker 2: then I called a couple of times. I left a
- 3:49Speaker 2: couple of voicemails, you know, each.
- 3:51Speaker 6: Time maybe it's too much.
- 3:55Speaker 2: Well, it's the thing, like I didn't want to be
- 3:56Speaker 2: too pushy, so I just you gave it a couple
- 3:59Speaker 2: People are busy, they got their lives. I don't know,
- 4:01Speaker 2: So I just had a cut like initial text and
- 4:04Speaker 2: call and then then a secondary follow up text and call.
- 4:08Speaker 2: Like it hasn't been crazy.
- 4:09Speaker 1: Okay, Well give us a few we're gonna get her
- 4:10Speaker 1: on the phone. Okay, we're gonna find out why she's
- 4:12Speaker 1: bowing you off. So hang tight, we'll get Sammy on
- 4:14Speaker 1: the phone. Second Date Update continues next with John Dane Rich.
- 4:25Speaker 1: It's John, Jay and Rich. We are in the middle
- 4:28Speaker 1: of Second Date Update.
- 4:29Speaker 4: Bryce. We're out with Sammy.
- 4:31Speaker 3: You know, fall brings new love, new romance, the change
- 4:35Speaker 3: of season, and the promise of a kiss good night.
- 4:41Speaker 3: But in Sammy's case, they ended up at Postino. The
- 4:45Speaker 3: only thing whiny is Bryce not getting his second date.
- 4:49Speaker 3: Where let's find out why Sammy blew me him off.
- 4:52Speaker 1: That's a pretty good recap, right Bryce, Yeah, this is
- 4:55Speaker 1: about right. Okay, hold on, We're gonna get her on
- 4:59Speaker 1: the phone and find out why.
- 5:01Speaker 4: She'd pill in your off.
- 5:02Speaker 7: So hold on, Hello, Hi is Sammy there, let's see Hi.
- 5:15Speaker 7: My name is Peyton.
- 5:16Speaker 8: I'm with John, Jay and Rich.
- 5:17Speaker 7: We just wanted to talk to really quickly on the
- 5:19Speaker 7: radio if you're down.
- 5:20Speaker 8: Oh okay, hi Sammy.
- 5:25Speaker 1: So yeah, we do this thing where we asked people
- 5:29Speaker 1: to tell us about a date they went on that
- 5:31Speaker 1: they thought they had great chemistry, but there isn't a
- 5:33Speaker 1: second date. They want to know why there is a
- 5:35Speaker 1: second date, so they tell us they're all about their
- 5:37Speaker 1: first date, which is what happened with a guy named Bryce.
- 5:39Speaker 1: And Bryce told us about this great date he went
- 5:41Speaker 1: on with you, and then he says he's been reaching
- 5:44Speaker 1: out to you and you're blowing them off. So what
- 5:46Speaker 1: we do is called you to find out why you're
- 5:48Speaker 1: blowing them off, then what we'll do is let him
- 5:51Speaker 1: know and let him down gently, unless, of course it's miscommunication.
- 5:55Speaker 4: You want to see Bryce.
- 5:57Speaker 8: Oh wow, Yeah, I definitely remember Bryce. Honestly, I feel
- 6:06Speaker 8: really bad about this. The truth is, uh, my fiance
- 6:10Speaker 8: and I got into a really big fight, like we
- 6:13Speaker 8: called off an engagement. That's how bad it was. And
- 6:18Speaker 8: oh gosh, I feel so bad because I I just
- 6:22Speaker 8: downloaded hinge so that I could distract myself, you know, maybe.
- 6:26Speaker 2: Meet someone new.
- 6:28Speaker 8: And that's where I met Bryce. And he was super sweet.
- 6:32Speaker 8: We went on one date, we had dinner and and
- 6:36Speaker 8: and it did work. I mean, you know, being with Bryce,
- 6:38Speaker 8: so I really did made me feel really positive. He
- 6:43Speaker 8: was really easy to talk to, he was funny. We
- 6:45Speaker 8: really did have really great chemistry. But the fact of
- 6:48Speaker 8: the matter is the next day my my fiance and
- 6:51Speaker 8: I ended up talking it out, and you know, we
- 6:54Speaker 8: just i mean got back on track to you know,
- 6:58Speaker 8: getting married. So we didn't realize that we love each
- 7:01Speaker 8: other and we want to fix things. So just basically,
- 7:05Speaker 8: right when we kind of came to that conclusion is
- 7:07Speaker 8: when Bryce really started calling and texting and trying to
- 7:11Speaker 8: follow up and I really didn't want my fancy to
- 7:13Speaker 8: find out that I had been on a date, you know,
- 7:16Speaker 8: when broken up.
- 7:17Speaker 3: Fiance didn't even know you just got by. He didn't
- 7:19Speaker 3: he didn't feel you go on another day and go
- 7:22Speaker 3: wait a minute, and I'm stepping in here. He doesn't
- 7:24Speaker 3: even know you went on another date.
- 7:26Speaker 8: No, he did, he does not, He did not. I mean,
- 7:29Speaker 8: you know, I just I feel really bad about hurting Bryce.
- 7:35Speaker 8: I mean I I did just block him entirely because
- 7:38Speaker 8: I just you know, didn't want to have that, you know,
- 7:42Speaker 8: blowing up my phone and I was just passing things
- 7:44Speaker 8: up with my fiance and it was just really really
- 7:47Speaker 8: bad timing. But I really thought he was such a
- 7:50Speaker 8: great guy. And I don't even I just panicked, you know,
- 7:54Speaker 8: it was just.
- 7:55Speaker 4: Is your fiance there? Can we talk to him really quick?
- 7:58Speaker 8: No, he is not here, and you know, actually he
- 8:02Speaker 8: does not know. But yeah, I I will. I will
- 8:06Speaker 8: tell him because I don't think we should go forward
- 8:09Speaker 8: in this either. But I don't think that he would.
- 8:12Speaker 8: You know, it's not like anything major happened or anything.
- 8:15Speaker 8: And we were I mean, we went from being all
- 8:18Speaker 8: the way on.
- 8:19Speaker 3: I don't we all did it.
- 8:22Speaker 6: Yeah, it's a good reason to not get back to Bryce.
- 8:25Speaker 4: Bryce Is on the phone.
- 8:27Speaker 8: Really didn't mean to I didn't mean to drag someone
- 8:29Speaker 8: else into this.
- 8:30Speaker 4: Bryce is on the phone right now listening. Bryce.
- 8:34Speaker 8: Hey, I'm sorry, br Bryce is on the phone.
- 8:37Speaker 2: Wait, okay, so you had a fiance this whole time?
- 8:45Speaker 8: Yeah, I'm yes. Well not when we actually matched on
- 8:49Speaker 8: hinge and went on a date. No, I didn't at
- 8:53Speaker 8: that particular moment now, but before and after all.
- 8:58Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, uh yeah, like i've been Wow, Okay,
- 9:02Speaker 2: that's what I mean. I get that a relationship to
- 9:06Speaker 2: me messy, but I just really thought we had something there.
- 9:11Speaker 8: I know, And I'm so sorry. I really, I really
- 9:14Speaker 8: did not mean to drag you into this. I just
- 9:18Speaker 8: I wasn't thinking straight when I met you. And yeah,
- 9:22Speaker 8: I mean I was heartbroken. I was trying to escape
- 9:24Speaker 8: how I felt, and I you didn't deserve getting.
- 9:27Speaker 4: Pulled into that, Sammy. Maybe your fiance isn't the right
- 9:30Speaker 4: guy for you.
- 9:31Speaker 6: What if it's Bryce You don't want to break up
- 9:33Speaker 6: a relationship.
- 9:35Speaker 4: What if what if think about it? What if?
- 9:38Speaker 7: I mean there's always what ifs.
- 9:40Speaker 1: Is it possible? I mean, why did you your fiance
- 9:42Speaker 1: break up? What happened? What was it about?
- 9:45Speaker 8: I think it was just you know, mounting tension of
- 9:48Speaker 8: things that we you know, were putting off discussing and
- 9:52Speaker 8: with the wedding planning and stuff like that. I think
- 9:56Speaker 8: that a lot of crosswords were said and very not
- 10:03Speaker 8: productive ways.
- 10:05Speaker 4: Okay, so.
- 10:07Speaker 8: But better to get Yeah, we worked it out, and
- 10:10Speaker 8: I think it was better to have that, you know,
- 10:12Speaker 8: kind of like crisis crescendo happened before a wedding than not.
- 10:16Speaker 8: But yeah, I don't think it was fair for me
- 10:20Speaker 8: to maybe go on a date with someone and not
- 10:22Speaker 8: tell them the reasons why I was out and about,
- 10:25Speaker 8: as opposed to just trying to distract myself from her.
- 10:29Speaker 2: I was sailing all right.
- 10:31Speaker 1: Well, Bryce, I think a lot of women are calling
- 10:32Speaker 1: up to find out about you, so we'll try to
- 10:34Speaker 1: connect them.
- 10:34Speaker 4: What's your hinge profile name? Is that how hinge works?
- 10:37Speaker 4: I don't think Bryce, Bryce asked cream at hinge dot.
- 10:41Speaker 5: Connect them, Sammy, thanks for being honestly going on there
- 10:49Speaker 5: with us.
- 10:49Speaker 4: Yeah, Bryce, go ahead.
- 10:50Speaker 8: What I'm sorry, I like the worst person ever.
- 10:54Speaker 4: Understandable.
- 10:55Speaker 2: Look, Look, look, I I just I appreciate you being
- 10:59Speaker 2: honest now, Like I was just I was driving my
- 11:02Speaker 2: head crazy, just trying to figure out what's going on.
- 11:04Speaker 2: And it's okay, Like seriously, it's uh.
- 11:08Speaker 4: I get it.
- 11:09Speaker 8: I'm really sorry. It's really not okay because you really
- 11:12Speaker 8: didn't do anything wrong, and honestly, I know how bad
- 11:15Speaker 8: it feels to feel plenty go STANDI by somebody, and
- 11:18Speaker 8: that like.
- 11:18Speaker 2: Uncertainty so destructive. So I'm really sorry.
- 11:22Speaker 8: It was a really nice date. It was just you know,
- 11:25Speaker 8: really great guy, right guy, you know, right, right person,
- 11:29Speaker 8: wrong time.
- 11:31Speaker 2: I don't really like you. Don't don't cry, don't cry,
- 11:34Speaker 2: don't cry on behalf of me. I appreciate it should
- 11:40Speaker 2: go out something. I did.
- 11:44Speaker 8: Everything right, and you did everything right, honestly, everything right,
- 11:49Speaker 8: Like you are like a needle in a hay stack.
- 11:51Speaker 2: Especially you know.
- 11:53Speaker 8: I'm honestly I had a really good time and I'm
- 11:56Speaker 8: really sorry.
- 11:57Speaker 4: Do you want to propose to her right now?
- 12:02Speaker 3: No?
- 12:03Speaker 2: Look I had a great time too. I'm glad it's
- 12:06Speaker 2: you know, everything's figured out, and I really hope you
- 12:09Speaker 2: guys can work things out.
- 12:10Speaker 1: What a nice guy, all right, Bryce and Sammy, thank
- 12:14Speaker 1: you both for going on the air with us. Thank
- 12:16Speaker 1: you so much, thank you, what a wonderful couple that
- 12:19Speaker 1: are never going to be together. That second ate update
- 12:23Speaker 1: for John Jay and Rich