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Most Asked Questions · Spunky Spirit with Cari Mugz

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Welcome to this Spunky Spirit podcast. I'm your host, psychic Medium, Carry
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Mugs. This is where we learn all things spirit, everything from spiritual gifts,
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awakenings, ghosts, aliens, and star seeds. Nothing is untouchable,
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but always fun and spunky. I am honored to be on this virtual journey
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with you, so make sure you get the subscribe button so you never miss
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an episode. Hello and welcome to this episode of Spunky Spirit. I am
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psychic Medium, Carry Mugs. And today we were supposed to have a guest
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a guest on so and they had to reschedule. So today we're going to
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kind of wing it. It might be kind of short, but I've decided
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I'm going to go through some of the questions, the most asked questions that
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I get asked from from my followers or from my clients. So that's what
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we'll be going through today and it'll be fun. We'll just kind of wing
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it. I need to start doing live shows where people can call in.
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I got to figure out how to do that because I think that would be
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fun and then they could ask questions and maybe we could even do some reading.
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So I got to figure out that, so I will that's gonna be
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one of my things. Okay, So the number one question I mostly get
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asked is how you knew or when did you start to know that you were
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different? And I don't really want to say different, because we all have
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this gift, right, It's just that mine. Mine just kind of showed
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up when I was five, and I thought everybody had it. I thought
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it was normal. I thought that everybody could see spirits or everybody could see
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to see sluther ones or scary things. I thought that everybody could see it,
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and when I kind of started realizing that they couldn't, that it was
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just me or not normal, because some of the people around me kind of
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thought it was like if I'd say things like I knew what commercial was on
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next and I knew what song was on next, and I would freak some
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of my family members out. So then I kind of toned it down a
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little bit. But I really feel like my father had the gift too,
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but he didn't know how to deal with it, so he kind of turned
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to alcohol because that kind of numbs it. So if I drink alcohol a
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lot, I can't do readings very well. And some mediums can very can
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do readings very well, if they're drinking, but I can't. I can't
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do it. I don't know why. I just I don't know if it's
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just in my head or if it's just that's just the way I made.
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But I could tell different things happening to me when I was little and not
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happening to my friends, or I would just know things sometimes, like when
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I would play with my friends, I would see certain things and they would
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think I was crazy if I told him what I saw, and I could
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tell sometimes that when I would say which commercial was next, my mom would
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be like, how did you do that? So? And then sometimes I
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would go and talk to my mom and say so and so came and came
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to me last night, and it would kind of be a freaky thing.
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So I kind of shed it down and didn't really talk about it throughout probably
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my high school years and college years. And I was drinking a lot then
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too, so maybe it kind of calmed down a little bit. But that's
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kind of when I noticed it, and I kind of realized I've always knew
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I wanted to do I wanted to help people in some way, but I
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kind of always thought it was going to be maybe be counseling or empowering women
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somehow, so I became I thought some of it was to become like a
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beach body coach, and I realized that was not it. The toxic positivity
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was too much for me. Not saying that it's I mean, if you're
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a beach body coach, please don't. It just wasn't. It wasn't my
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thing. And so then I just kind of went through a really bad divorce
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and my gift just started coming tenfold and it was kind of undeniable and I
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couldn't stop it anymore. I was getting migraines when I tried to stop it,
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and then I just started doing readings for people and it just kind of
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kind of like snowballed from there. And then it just started getting more and
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more and more, and I would do them mostly over the phone, but
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then I started doing them out of in person and that was actually kind of
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cool, and I started to really love it. And then it just kind
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of snowballed from there, and now I do readings professionally. I do this
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professionally, and I really really do love it. I really do. My
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favorite thing about it doing mediumship is that it helps people. It can help
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people close that it closes that gap between the other side and your past loved
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ones, and I feel like it can help heal. It doesn't heal completely,
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and it doesn't make it go away, but it can help with the
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healing process. And you can have that connection and know that they your loved
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ones, are eternal and that they still exist and they still are around you
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all the time. And so that's what I love about it. It's my
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favorite. Now, are there hard things that come with it? Yes,
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I've talked about this before too. It can be draining because we deal with
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death all the time, and it's it hurts my heart. It hurts my
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heart to see other people in pain, and so that's kind of hard sometimes.
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And you know, little things like when you're out in public and people
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are like, oh, your psychic medium, well read me. It doesn't
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work that way. That's not how That's not how it works. Yeah,
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because I can. When I was littler, I couldn't close it off or
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I couldn't shut it off. But now I can. I can make it
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so I only connect when I'm doing readings and so and me and spirit have
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kind of worked this thing that that's how it works. Now, so I
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have to have boundaries with not only my people, but with spirits, and
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luckily they follow these guides or they follow these these boundaries, and so that's
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been really, really helpful. So next question is tell us about your guides
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and how to meet them. So I never really realized what guides were now.
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When I was little, I knew that there was a specific kind of
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woman around me a lot, but I didn't really know who she was.
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I didn't know what guides where. I didn't really start knowing what guides were
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until I started to take read books about mediumship, and then I realized,
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oh, that's that's what that person is, or that's what that is,
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and so I kind of started to get to know them. Mine is a
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woman. My main guide is a woman. You can have five different you
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have more than different, more than five guides, but mine, there's five
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major ones that most people have, but you can really have as many as
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you want. Some people have travel guides, joy guides, all the different
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things. I have some main guides. I have a main guide who has
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been with me my whole life. Your main guide cannot be somebody who's lived
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on earth with you. So if you've had a grandma and grandpa that you
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spent time with on Earth. It can't be them. They can still guide
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and direct you, but that can't Your main guide is not that person.
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Your main guide is somebody that you probably know from a past life or am
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in the spirit realm, but they cannot have lived on Earth with you because
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they have to be with you twenty four seven. So they have to be
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with you since the time you're born to the time that you pass. So
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my my guide is named shar and she's beautiful. I think we were in
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a past life together. I think we were actually sisters or maybe had different
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different roles throughout each of those lives. I think I've actually helped her on
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a Earth when she was on Earth at one time. Because your main guides
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have to have lived on Earth at one time, so they kind of know
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what you're going through. So and I have another protector guide. He's very
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very tribal, he's very very strong. I call him I don't know,
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I can't pronounce his name, so I call him Chief just because because my
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favorite football team is Kansas City Chiefs. That's why my dad loved. They
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actually won the Super Bowl yesterday, so that's kind of cool. So I
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call him chief and because he's very loving, but he's very protective. But
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he wasn't always my protector. So if it's your not your main guide,
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your guy can change out throughout your lifetime except for your main guide. So
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when I was littler, I had a different protecting guide, and then when
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I started doing readings, I had a more a stronger protector. And it's
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kind of weird how I met him because I went to go get a foot
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zone and while I was in there, I told the girl, I said,
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I think you have a Native American or a chief or a tribal person
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that protects you and guides you because he's very strong, and she was like
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oh. And then when I left, he came with me. He followed
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me, so I know during that foot zone, during that energy work,
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he kind of changed or transferred to my protector. So I thought that was
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kind of cool. And then I do have a healer guide who I only
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see as purple, So I just see purple colors, purple missed, purple
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sparkles anytime that I feel like he's male, But anytime that that entity is
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around or that is around, I always see purple and then I have other
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guides that I you know I have. I always call on some mediums in
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the past, I call on Edgar Casey, I call on different mediums that
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can help me. I always call on my Archengel Asrael because they he is
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one of the medium ship like a trans what is it when you trans not
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transform, but when you go to the other side the transition transition that house
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with that. So those are my guides. Now do I use the guides
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every time I do reading? My protector is always around. Yes. But
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I don't talk to shar and ask shar I mean sometimes I do, but
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mostly I go directly to the spirit that's coming through. I talk to the
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spirits that's coming through. I don't really talk to shar unless I'm having a
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hard time interpreting what the spirit trying to say, or in trying to listen
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to the spirit, or if the spirit train at Tabithy, then I might
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ask. I might ask Sharh and she can help me. But mostly my
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guides, your guides are there to guide you through lives, your life's journey,
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the things that you're going through in your lifetime, the things that you're
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doing, big things that are going to happen. They guide you, they
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direct you in that way, So your guides are mostly to be there for
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your life's journey, not to Readings with ancestors are more like evidence, like
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this is what they know you do. They saw you, you got a
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haircut last night. They left you this, They did this. Lots of
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evidence comes through. They can leave very loving messages. Your ancestors can,
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but they cannot always. They can guide you, and they can direct you,
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and they can tell you kind of what's coming, but they can't make
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decisions for you. Your guides can't make decisions for you either. But your
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guides are more there to direct and guide you because they were there in the
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pre existence when you made your contract or your Earth contract or your star contract
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or your blueprint or whatever you want to call it. So if you don't
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know your guides, I do have a meditation that can help you with your
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guides. A lot of people are scared to meet their guides. Some mediums
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will will meet your tell you about your guides, and I definitely can sometimes,
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but I it's kind of a sacred. It's a sacred relationship with your
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guides, and so I like you to kind of take the journey to figure
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out who they are yourself, because it's always because any medium can be like,
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oh, your guide's name is Claire, and she does this and this
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and this, and she looks like this, and then you're gonna believe it.
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So I like you to go on a kind of a journey or a
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quest on your own to meet your guides. So I would just start talking
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to them, because they're there all the time. Just start talking to them,
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ask them their names, and think it might pop into your head and
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it might be like you see the name jor or three times throughout that day.
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So just kind of start to open up that conversation with them and start
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to like realize that they're around you and build that relationship with them. Okay,
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the next one is what would you say to people who are scared to
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connect or do mediumship. It's a normal, It's so normal. And I
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know lots of mediums who still most mediums are have anxiety. And I know
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that I had anxiety for a long time with my readings. I'm just probably
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barely starting to get to the point where I don't have anxiety be before readings
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just because I was trying to make them good. I mean, I wanted
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the readings so badly to be perfect for the client and so like kind of
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a people pleasing kind of thing. And now I'm to the point where I
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get what I get, and if I don't get, then I can only
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do the best I can, right like I can only get, I can
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only be a medium, and I can only give the information that's given to
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me. And so I'm not going to try and make it perfect. I'm
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not going to try and make it the best. I am going to try
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and make the best, like the best experience. But I'm also not just
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there for the client. I'm not I'm there for the spirits that come through
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too, and it's just as important to them that I get that I interpret
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correctly. So sometimes and sometimes what they say isn't always what the sitter wants
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to hear. Most of the time it is. Most of the time it's
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very very healing. Ninety five percent of the time it's very very healing.
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But sometimes there's you know, spirits that come through and say I wanted you
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to have this, or I wanted you to have this. They're not mad,
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and they're not like frustrated. They just sometimes they come through and they're
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going to have the same personality that they did on the other side. So
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if they weren't very communicative on Earth, they're not going to be very communicated
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from the other side. They're still going to come through, they're still going
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to tell me that they're there. They're still going to give me evidence,
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but they're not going to have big, long conversations about how much you know.
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It's just it's kind of hard, and so I don't and I don't
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want that to like deter anybody from getting you reading, because they come through
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and they see their life review and they do how their hearts softened because they
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do see what the things that they did in their lifetime affected other people,
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and so they do have reminisce. They do like treminists about their memories,
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and they do like to give me evidence about how I know it's them and
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how I can prove that it's them. But sometimes if you go to a
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reading and you're like, Okay, I want them to tell me this,
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that's not always going to happen. It's not and I wish it would,
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but it's sometimes it does, but sometimes it doesn't. So if you have
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when you go to reading, keep an open mind, and just remember that
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mediums can't control the information that they get. They just get it. They
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can't control. It's like trying to trying to control someone you know talking to
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you. You can't control what they're going to say to you, right,
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so I can't control what they're going to come through with. So just remember
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that. So anytime you do have a reading, just go with an open
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mind and know that anything can come through. And a lot of people get
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scared that that one of their past loved ones won't come through, and sometimes
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that does happen with different mediums, but you can always always say their name
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at the end of the reading, or tell the medium that this is who
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you want to connect to at the end if they haven't come through, and
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see if the medium can connect, because sometimes we get so focused on who's
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already come through that they do try and bring somebody else through, but the
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medium gets focused on the spirit that's right there already. So I it's a
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long process to try and work on that. And I've done enough readings that
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I can that it's it's never really happened. I think it's only happened one
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time to me. But sometimes they don't. Sometimes they don't show up,
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and it's not by anything that you've done or because they don't love you.
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It's because of something the medium's not connecting very well, or they can't connect
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to the medium very well, or they are it's not or there's other spirits
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that have a bigger message. Because mediumship readings always tell you what you need,
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not always what you want. So just remember to go with an open,
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open heart or an open mind. Okay, and the next question,
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hold on, I gotta get this so I can see it. Have you
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ever considered working in forensic mediumship? I have, I have not. I
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don't want to. I don't like forensics because there's so much that could be
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misinterpreted, and I never want to lead somebody down the wrong direction. I
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never There's just already so much pressure to get it right. Maybe if I
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took a class. I've been asked to do a couple of forensics, but
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honestly, when I sit to do the reading, I get so nervous that
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it just doesn't I just haven't been I haven't loved it. It's not my
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favorite thing to do. So I opt to kind of stay out of forensics
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because it's just I just you can There's so much you can misinterpret a lot
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of things. So I always always tell this story about you just don't always
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know what you're seeing. So you could see a bobcat. Like let's say
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you're doing a missing persons and you could see, oh I did a Yeah,
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I did a missing person's one time. And all the information that I
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got was accurate. I got that I got when they were gonna see that
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person again. I got where that person was, what state that person was
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in. I got that they were by a river. They were by a
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river, oh, a river near forest, a forest near a river.
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And but I didn't pick up that they had passed. And so when they
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did find this person, they found they found him when I said they were
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going to find him. He was on a street, not a river or
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forest. He was on a street called river forest, and he they did
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find him the date and where I in the state, But he was passed.
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He wasn't alive. And that really shook me because I was I felt
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like, why didn't I pick him up? Why didn't I pick his spirit
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up? And now that I look back, I think that I probably did,
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but I mistook it as a brother or because there was also a brother
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and spirit that came through and so and some people tell me it was because
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there was mental illness involved and it can be clear, but don't I don't
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know. I just haven't felt like I can be accurate enough in forensics to
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do it. Now. You know, maybe if I took a bunch of
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glasses and was trained on that, maybe I could do that. But right
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now I kind of feel like I'm where I want to be. And the
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next question is is what's coming up for paranormal. And I kind of did
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get a little bit into paranormal last year and I kind of think that that
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is kind of in a way I need to go. But I don't want
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the darkness of it or the I want to go into help the spirits.
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I don't want to. And I kind of had an experience where when I
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was doing some of the paranormal stuff that I just don't want my I've got
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to get some questions answered before I go full force, because there's different I
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don't want to go in scared And I've talked to different paranormal people that if
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you do paranormal, you have to have you have to have your your shiz
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taken care of. Your shadow stuff, because that will come back and haunt
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you when you're doing paranormal and so I'm going through that right now, and
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also too, I just don't want there to be any chance at all that
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my family will be in danger if I do paranormal stuff. And there's been
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different side on each of those, and you can't carry any fear on paranormal,
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and I just like to I like the happy, I like the cheery,
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I like the healing, I like the stuff, and I know you
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have to get through the dark to do that. So I know paranormal does
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have something to do with what I'm supposed to do in the beginning, I
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mean forward in the future, but I don't know what it is, and
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I don't think it's investigating haunted houses. I think it's more to help spirits
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transition somehow. So I don't know yet. I know that there's something because
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spirit keeps leading me in that direction, but I don't know what exactly it
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is yet, So keep tuned into that, and I don't ever want to
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put any of the people that I'm around in any type of danger. And
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until I know that that's completely off the table, then I'm going to be
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really slow about doing this because I do have some children who are gifted well
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yeah, and so I just don't want it to mess with any of that
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and grandkids. So there you go. So that's what's coming in the future.
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Now, Yes, future also holds lots of Here's the thing I know.
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I keep saying I do group readings, but here's why I haven't,
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Because one, I have to figure it out because if I do group readings,
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I got to cut back personal reading somewhere because I've already like a maxed
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out to where I can be. So I've got to cut back on some
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other reading somewhere or cut back somewhere so i can add group reading. So
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I'm trying to figure that out because I'm kind of booked out far. So
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I got to figure out how to make that work. And and so I
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do know in March I do have some cutbacks, so I do know that
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I will be doing them then. Also too, I do know that I'm
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going to be having more events and more classes and more courses, and I'm
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going to try and start doing these things live, which means I'll be doing
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card readings or readings live, which will be cool. So there are lots
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of things coming. I just have to figure it out. I wanted it
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to do it all last year, but I got that tumor and I got
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sick. But now Spirit's like, let's go. So I'm like, got
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a new space. We're going We're going forward. So just give me some
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time. I promised this year. Yes there's going to be a retreat.
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Yes there's going to be all this fun stuff. I just we're only in
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February and I'm one person and I gotta figure it all out, So just
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bear with me, Okay. So I hope that was a lot of the
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questions. And I know you guys, I know you're like, how do
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I connect? Questions about you? How do you connect? That's where the
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events are going to come in. I'm going to be doing spirit circles.
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I'm going to be doing classes. I know there's lots of very talented mediums
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already in Idaho Falls, and I've run through a number of them, and
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I really think that it would be great for them to start practicing. It's
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just that fear, that fear, because I got to get past the fear.
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So yes, I'm going to be helping these mediums get to be where
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they want to be, so I love you guys so much, and I'm
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so grateful for you, and I'm sorry that are that my interview person didn't.
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It was had to be rescheduled, but hopefully there's going to be more
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people coming up, more interviews and more guests on this podcast too. So
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I love you guys so much, and I will see you next week