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- 0:00Speaker0: How can we have a distraction-free prayer life? Today's guest,
- 0:04Speaker0: Dr. C.J. Wan, suggests we ask.
- 0:07Speaker1: Is this a possible distraction that Satan is throwing at me so that I will be
- 0:11Speaker1: preoccupied or spent rather than being with the Lord?
- 0:29Speaker0: Leaders, and pastors find health, encouragement, practical advice,
- 0:34Speaker0: soul care, and resources that work together to build up your local fellowship
- 0:38Speaker0: and the broader kingdom of God.
- 0:39Speaker0: Join hosts, Pastor Chris Cole and Dr. Chase Thompson from the Great Commission
- 0:44Speaker0: Association, led by Dr. Mike Stewart, as they explore the frontiers of ministry
- 0:49Speaker0: and aim for the goal of making every church flourish.
- 0:51Speaker0: Hello, everybody, and welcome in to episode number 23 of the Every Church Flourishing podcast.
- 0:59Speaker0: We are sponsored by the Great Commission Association of Central California,
- 1:04Speaker0: and today we have a deep discussion with the GCA's own Dr. C.J.
- 1:09Speaker0: Juan on the topic of prayer. Dr. Juan goes beyond the normal prayer discussions
- 1:14Speaker0: and will lead us into a wonderful blend of spirituality
- 1:18Speaker0: and practicality as we discuss how to enrich your prayer life and why the tyranny
- 1:24Speaker0: of the urgent is less worth your time than abiding in Christ is. C.J.
- 1:30Speaker0: Shared one of my favorite quotes I've heard recently when he said that we often
- 1:34Speaker0: settle for what we can do, what we can muster up rather than what God can do.
- 1:39Speaker0: Sometimes we miss out on the fruitfulness of what God can do because we are doing it our way.
- 1:45Speaker0: Now, I can totally relate to that, and I bet you can too.
- 1:48Speaker0: And I think Dr. C.J. is going to help us today to prioritize prayer and abiding
- 1:53Speaker0: over, under, and in addition to all of the day-to-day tasks of ministry and life that all of us face.
- 2:01Speaker0: It's a powerful and practical episode, and Dr.
- 2:04Speaker0: C.J. will close out that interview with a great time of prayer,
- 2:07Speaker0: but don't leave yet because Pastor Christopher and I will almost ruin it with
- 2:11Speaker0: a review of Lester's Fixin's Bacon Soda.
- 2:16Speaker0: Not baking soda, that probably would have tasted better, but bacon soda.
- 2:22Speaker0: This is a soda that should have been prayed over far more before it was released.
- 2:27Speaker0: You will hear a former law enforcement officer testify under oath.
- 2:31Speaker0: This has some odor peculiarities that are similar to methamphetamines,
- 2:36Speaker0: and the world's foremost cereal expert will suggest that this soda smells like
- 2:40Speaker0: it'll take 10 years off of our life and I feel like I'm drinking a pig and it's weird.
- 2:45Speaker0: But before we have that rough experience, let's talk prayer and go deep.
- 2:51Speaker0: And we will welcome in Dr. C.J. Wan with the Great Commission Association.
- 2:56Speaker0: Dr. C.J., please introduce yourself. Tell us about yourself,
- 3:00Speaker0: your work and position with the GCA, and maybe a little bit of your history
- 3:04Speaker0: prior to joining the GCA.
- 3:06Speaker1: I'm glad to be here. I serve as the Associate Director of Mission and the Director
- 3:11Speaker1: of Operations, overseeing finances, compliance, and many other operations stuff.
- 3:16Speaker1: Prior to GCA, I was a church planter and worked also for an overseas mission
- 3:21Speaker1: organization. So I kind of been around the world doing different mission alliances,
- 3:26Speaker1: mission networks with mission agencies, and then things like that.
- 3:29Speaker0: Fantastic. Where all have you lived?
- 3:31Speaker1: I have lived in Korea before I got to US and then here in San Jose Bay Area
- 3:37Speaker1: basically is where we landed and Texas when I was in school.
- 3:40Speaker1: But California has been my home for 45 years. Okay. 46 years.
- 3:44Speaker0: So you were only in Korea for a few years. Yeah. Nice. All right.
- 3:48Speaker0: So how did you find yourself in ministry when you were growing up?
- 3:53Speaker0: Is that something you aspire to? Did you kind of accidentally back into it?
- 3:58Speaker0: Did you have a clear and obvious calling or was it sort of more subtle and gradual?
- 4:05Speaker1: I was born into and grew up in a Christian family. Mom prayed for a son for
- 4:10Speaker1: particular, like a Hannah prayer.
- 4:12Speaker1: I'll give you my son if you give me this son.
- 4:16Speaker1: I was a second boy to the family. And so that was what I heard.
- 4:20Speaker1: But soon after I immigrated to the U.S. when I was in 1980, I felt the calling of the Lord.
- 4:25Speaker1: Now, what that means to a nine-year-old means different.
- 4:29Speaker1: But I felt that serving Him was the thing that I would like to do with my life.
- 4:34Speaker1: So no other career or occupational choices seemed to measure up.
- 4:39Speaker1: I felt like serving God would be the greatest thing I can do.
- 4:42Speaker1: Ever since then, that's sort of been my goal, high school, college, seminary.
- 4:47Speaker1: And here I am after, I don't know how many years, since seminary in 1997,
- 4:52Speaker1: I continue to serve the Lord this way.
- 4:54Speaker0: So you were eight or nine when you kind of first began to discern the call to ministry.
- 5:00Speaker0: I know for me, growing up, there was only one period in my life where I kind of considered that.
- 5:06Speaker0: I was eight or nine myself. And a buddy of mine, when we went to a Presbyterian
- 5:11Speaker0: Christian school and we got it into our mind after a missionary came and visited
- 5:17Speaker0: our classes that we wanted to be missionaries.
- 5:20Speaker0: So we went around door to door telling people about hell and warning them about
- 5:25Speaker0: hell and telling them about Jesus. And kind of we were many missionaries there
- 5:29Speaker0: for a while. But for me, as I got into high school and
- 5:32Speaker0: even really college. I worked in a church as a youth minister.
- 5:37Speaker0: I worked as a camp counselor at a Christian camp, but a lifetime in ministry
- 5:44Speaker0: is a bit of a surprise for me.
- 5:47Speaker0: I did have a clear and obvious calling point when I had graduated from college,
- 5:52Speaker0: but it kind of came as something of a shock to me.
- 5:55Speaker0: So I understand that you recently were on a pastor's prayer retreat.
- 6:03Speaker0: Been on a couple of those myself, but they're all different.
- 6:05Speaker0: So kind of tell us the story of how you got to be on that retreat.
- 6:09Speaker0: Tell us a little bit about it. Give us some background.
- 6:12Speaker1: This February, Dr. Stuart Christopher Cole and I went to this pastor's retreat
- 6:16Speaker1: in Forney, Texas. Never been to Forney, Texas.
- 6:19Speaker1: But this retreat was a bit different because it was, maybe I was different.
- 6:23Speaker1: I took away different things.
- 6:26Speaker1: It wasn't just another conference or another seminar on what to do,
- 6:29Speaker1: but it gave me insight into how the prayer topic might have been misunderstood as an end in itself.
- 6:35Speaker1: And the prayer was one of a few ways for us to draw near to the presence of
- 6:40Speaker1: God. And often we left prayer to be prayer, things we do because we need God.
- 6:47Speaker1: But this allowed for us to think about what is the end goal of prayer? Why is it that we pray?
- 6:53Speaker1: It's not so much because I want to tell God everything I need,
- 6:56Speaker1: but really to commune with Him, to be with Him. And I think that was powerful.
- 7:01Speaker1: And for us to spend time with Him, if it did, just the amount of different things
- 7:05Speaker1: that could happen just by God being in our presence and change us inside out.
- 7:10Speaker1: And so those are the highlights.
- 7:12Speaker1: There's many things I'm sure I'll talk about in different questions,
- 7:14Speaker1: but that's, it was a great retreat.
- 7:17Speaker1: I think they used the word right. It was a retreat, not a conference.
- 7:20Speaker0: Who put on the conference? Who led it?
- 7:23Speaker1: Nathan Lino is the pastor of Forney, and him and one other pastor from the area
- 7:28Speaker1: actually puts this on twice a year.
- 7:30Speaker1: And this is one way for them to encourage, hey, we found something.
- 7:34Speaker1: It's not, you know, crazy, but it's actually helping us to stay in the presence
- 7:39Speaker1: of God. And so that's sort of what's inspired us, and we wanted to follow up.
- 7:45Speaker0: Yeah, that's great. So, like I said, I've been to several of these kind of prayer conferences before.
- 7:51Speaker0: I think every pastor, every mature, seasoned Christian leader knows that prayer is important.
- 8:00Speaker0: Just like pretty much every person in the West knows that good nutrition and exercise is important.
- 8:07Speaker0: But maybe most of us don't have a lifestyle of that.
- 8:11Speaker0: So how did the leaders of this conference, how did the conference,
- 8:15Speaker0: because I've heard feedback from some of the guys that went.
- 8:18Speaker0: I've heard that it was very special.
- 8:20Speaker0: How did they communicate the
- 8:24Speaker0: call to the importance of prayer in a way that was sticky, in a way that
- 8:29Speaker0: kind of went beyond just a few days of transformation into a longer tail than that, a longer impact?
- 8:35Speaker1: I think they've approached it really from at the end of what we want to get
- 8:40Speaker1: done through prayer. And prayer is one of many ways for us to approach the presence of God.
- 8:46Speaker1: And getting to the presence of God was their goal. And prayer happened to be
- 8:49Speaker1: one of those mechanisms rather than a prayer is a program or it's a template
- 8:55Speaker1: that we need to use. And so that was special.
- 8:58Speaker1: And they allowed us to experience that firsthand, not just through prayer.
- 9:03Speaker1: Seminars and topics and teaching on it. But we spent, I think,
- 9:06Speaker1: a good half a day just being alone with God and asking those questions and thinking
- 9:12Speaker1: through processes and what does it mean to consecrate ourselves?
- 9:15Speaker1: All of those were words we know of, but really something that we don't really practice.
- 9:20Speaker1: And that was special because we got to, I got to at least spend that afternoon
- 9:25Speaker1: just alone with God and what that meant and how that felt. And so you walked
- 9:29Speaker1: away, not just having prayed a lot of prayer, but you walked away having spent time with God.
- 9:34Speaker1: And so that was a difference maker, at least for this retreat.
- 9:37Speaker0: Yeah, you and I are both Baptists. And I think the Baptist way is generally
- 9:43Speaker0: to try to teach people into transformation.
- 9:47Speaker0: And I appreciate that. I mean, we've both been to seminary, worked in seminaries.
- 9:52Speaker0: I think teaching is really primary, but I like the fact that it sounds like
- 9:57Speaker0: this retreat was more about practicing the presence of God,
- 10:02Speaker0: to borrow Brother Lawrenceism rather than just kind of 90% teaching.
- 10:09Speaker0: We had a marriage retreat earlier this year with the Great Commission Association.
- 10:14Speaker0: And one of the things I really appreciated about that GCA marriage retreat is
- 10:18Speaker0: that there was intentional time built in to
- 10:23Speaker0: work on our marriage rather Rather than it being wall-to-wall teaching. Again, I'm a teacher.
- 10:31Speaker0: When you're a hammer, everything looks like a nail. When you're a teacher,
- 10:34Speaker0: everything looks like a lesson that needs to be taught.
- 10:37Speaker0: When you do that, you don't actually sometimes have the experiential reality
- 10:43Speaker0: of working on your marriage or, in your case, working on your prayer life and your ministry.
- 10:49Speaker0: I mean, your intimacy with God, and it sounds to me like it really harkens back to the old days,
- 10:56Speaker0: the Brother Lawrence, even before that, the Desert Fathers, the early church,
- 11:01Speaker0: who really did practice abiding, I think, at a much higher level than we do.
- 11:08Speaker0: So along those lines, what's, you know, the previous emphasis of the church
- 11:16Speaker0: on prayer versus the busyness of life today, what stops prayer from happening in the church?
- 11:23Speaker1: From the retreat and different meditations and things that happen afterwards,
- 11:28Speaker1: we come to, at least I come to realize that there's many things that's preventing
- 11:32Speaker1: us from being with the Lord, not just in prayer, but just being with the Lord.
- 11:37Speaker1: And the word they used was distractions.
- 11:39Speaker1: And I think that spells it right because, you know, it could be anywhere from
- 11:44Speaker1: fear of unknown, that's a distraction or ignorance. I just don't know what is going to happen.
- 11:50Speaker1: And sometimes we don't believe the words we actually study.
- 11:55Speaker1: And so we don't really think that, hey, I'm going to call on God and I'm going
- 11:59Speaker1: to expect God to do different things because I'm with him.
- 12:03Speaker1: And often we choose not to pray or to enter the presence of God because we're
- 12:09Speaker1: just, it's just inconvenient for me right now. I have too much going on.
- 12:14Speaker1: And you could use the word busyness of life.
- 12:16Speaker1: And many do that. And also there's a problem, I think, called religious insistence.
- 12:22Speaker1: We try to be a good follower. And we do a lot of things that we believe will be helpful.
- 12:29Speaker1: And so those are many things that I think hinders us. But under that word distraction,
- 12:34Speaker1: these are my thoughts, not theirs.
- 12:36Speaker1: And so I don't want to misquote anybody that has taught and let that retreat.
- 12:40Speaker1: But the word busyness and distraction, I think we could include things like this.
- 12:45Speaker1: Strategies, plans, preparations, convictions, passion, you know,
- 12:50Speaker1: and we do audits and accountability and we do numbers and we do events, budget.
- 12:54Speaker1: I mean, you think about so many ways we do church or ministry life,
- 13:00Speaker1: and a lot of it is really us trying to make this work. I'm not saying it's bad.
- 13:06Speaker1: None of these are bad, but I think we have bought into the idea that we do the
- 13:11Speaker1: 99% preparation, and ask God to bless a spiritual blessing over our plan rather
- 13:16Speaker1: than spending a lot of time with the Lord who has greater plan than us.
- 13:20Speaker1: And so for me, that was the wake-up call.
- 13:23Speaker1: I am a processor, so I like solving problems, but maybe that's the problem.
- 13:28Speaker1: And that I am trying to solve the problem when God is saying,
- 13:32Speaker1: no, I want you to be with me.
- 13:34Speaker1: So that's a distraction. Many things that I just listed are many,
- 13:38Speaker1: many distractions that are pulling people away from being with the Father.
- 13:43Speaker0: Well, I want to get into some of those distractions and some...
- 13:47Speaker0: Ways we can overcome them. But I think you put your finger there on the thing
- 13:51Speaker0: that might be the primary issue. And, you know, it's the old adage,
- 13:56Speaker0: if it's to be, it's up to me.
- 13:59Speaker0: I think church leaders in particular, pastors, their experience gets them to
- 14:04Speaker0: the place where they wouldn't vocalize that, but they'll say that.
- 14:08Speaker0: And so therefore, the church with the leader thinking that, thinking that human
- 14:13Speaker0: effort is the fuel that will get us to fruitfulness and success,
- 14:17Speaker0: they fall into that trap.
- 14:19Speaker0: I think that's one of the biggest, maybe the primary obstacle is self-dependence.
- 14:26Speaker0: So a pastor is listening to this and he kind of feels that burden of,
- 14:31Speaker0: I got to make things happen, man.
- 14:33Speaker0: I'm too busy to pray and I know I should pray, but if I just sit around and
- 14:38Speaker0: pray, none of this stuff is going to happen. So Dr. CJ, what do you say to them?
- 14:42Speaker0: How do you get them to overcome that first and foremost obstacle?
- 14:46Speaker1: I think it's got to be where we just surrender.
- 14:50Speaker1: And that is a word I've been chewing on, doing teachings on and books I read
- 14:55Speaker1: and other things. But for us to really surrender and say, God, this is your ministry.
- 15:00Speaker1: I'm called to do your work and I need to be with you so that I could understand
- 15:04Speaker1: and hear the voice and messages that you want me to have. Now,
- 15:07Speaker1: that doesn't have to be, you know, 60 hours a week, but it has to be a priority.
- 15:12Speaker1: It has to be something that we do and set aside intentionally.
- 15:16Speaker1: Otherwise, schedules, calendars will get filled up and other things will crowd
- 15:21Speaker1: our time and we will get distracted.
- 15:23Speaker1: And I didn't mention this, but, you know, problems and troubles are distractions.
- 15:28Speaker1: Tragedies are distractions.
- 15:30Speaker1: They're bad in itself. But when, you know, the urgent matters happen and success
- 15:35Speaker1: and failures and all of these things that comes with our ministry
- 15:39Speaker1: tends to pull us away from the presence of God rather than draw us closer to
- 15:44Speaker1: the presence of God. And I think
- 15:46Speaker1: For us, first is admit, Lord, I need you. I can't do this without you.
- 15:51Speaker1: Rather than saying, Lord, let me try 10 more times on my own.
- 15:56Speaker1: And then if all of that fails, which will fail, then I'll come back to you.
- 16:00Speaker1: And so I think it starts there for us to say, Lord, this is yours. I'm yours.
- 16:05Speaker1: And I can't do anything better than to spend time with you and make that a priority.
- 16:10Speaker1: And if we are with the Lord, hearing his message, being filled by him and cooperating
- 16:14Speaker1: with the Holy Spirit that's in us, then you know what? He could do everything better than us.
- 16:20Speaker1: And 10 times, 100 times more, if we are actually an effective tool in his hand. Yeah.
- 16:25Speaker0: Amen. So I was raised by a dad who was a great dad, but that taught me to value
- 16:33Speaker0: effort, try hard as the key to success.
- 16:37Speaker0: And he's a very successful man. And that has spilled over into my ministry.
- 16:44Speaker0: That's my wiring. And for me, it helps to, not that that's wrong.
- 16:48Speaker0: I mean, I think effort is still incredibly important.
- 16:51Speaker0: It's just not our fuel source.
- 16:54Speaker0: And to me, it helps to meditate on verses like Jeremiah 17, 5,
- 16:59Speaker0: where it says, cursed is the man who trusts in man and makes flesh his strength,
- 17:05Speaker0: whose heart turns away from the Lord.
- 17:07Speaker0: I mean, my natural tendency is to do that. And I have, I've preached about this
- 17:12Speaker0: verse so many times you'd think I would have mastered it and lived it and walked in it.
- 17:18Speaker0: But one of the reasons why I preach about second Corinthians 12 is it's just
- 17:23Speaker0: so contrary to my nature where Paul talks about how God's power is made perfect in weakness.
- 17:32Speaker0: And when I am weak, then I am strong. And I think that's, that's a huge key
- 17:37Speaker0: to abiding. It's lowering your trust in yourself and
- 17:43Speaker0: raising your fundamental trust in God and what he can do.
- 17:48Speaker0: One of the first podcasts we had with you, I think it was episode six,
- 17:51Speaker0: you said something that has really stuck with me in your role as the director
- 17:55Speaker0: of operations for the GCA.
- 17:58Speaker0: You were talking about how you had all this administrative scheduling,
- 18:02Speaker0: complicated things to do, and you tried to approach it from a point of prayer.
- 18:07Speaker0: And, you know, most beaver processor type personalities would say,
- 18:13Speaker0: well, how do you even do that?
- 18:15Speaker0: So I'll kind of throw that question on you.
- 18:18Speaker0: How do you process, how do you approach mundane things of ministry prayerfully?
- 18:25Speaker1: The way I do it is probably not the best way to do it, or this is just one way.
- 18:30Speaker1: But I obviously start the day, hopefully with a clean slate,
- 18:33Speaker1: having settled any accounts with God before I go to sleep.
- 18:37Speaker1: But start the day listening to the scripture, come into the office and pray
- 18:40Speaker1: and have that devotional time when I'm just listening to God and asking him,
- 18:45Speaker1: Lord, I got a bunch of stuff that's got to get done today. Help me through this.
- 18:49Speaker1: Give me wisdom and discernment. And I can't do this.
- 18:52Speaker1: I want it to be done that honors you. And so that's really how I start the day.
- 18:57Speaker1: And then throughout the day, it's just processing, asking, thinking and talking to other people.
- 19:02Speaker1: And so it's not so much of how do I stop for everything.
- 19:05Speaker1: It's just I start the day and I end the day and I want to be in the Lord.
- 19:09Speaker1: And so that's kind of a regular day to day. But on a week to week,
- 19:13Speaker1: I also have a different, I guess, a cycle where I try to carve out at least
- 19:18Speaker1: two days a week when I'm just skipping a couple of meals and just saying,
- 19:21Speaker1: Lord, I don't have everything done here.
- 19:23Speaker1: I don't have clarity. However, I want to give you space and time for you to say what you want to say.
- 19:28Speaker1: And I want to be sensitive. And that word is still new to me because I,
- 19:32Speaker1: again, as being Baptist and being trained in theological training,
- 19:35Speaker1: sometimes we get weary about spiritual sensitivity and, you know, things like that.
- 19:40Speaker1: But I want to be able to hear the nudging of the Holy Spirit.
- 19:43Speaker1: I want to be able to respond according to what He's asking me to do.
- 19:47Speaker1: But I can only do that if I'm actually giving in time and space where I'm not
- 19:52Speaker1: babbling, where I'm not, you know, doing all the talking.
- 19:57Speaker1: At least a couple of days a week, I'm skipping lunch or whatever else and just saying, Lord, I'm here.
- 20:02Speaker1: You have reins. If you want to say anything to me, talk to me,
- 20:05Speaker1: remind me of a book or a Bible verse or whatever it is, I'm here.
- 20:10Speaker1: So I'm scratching the surface, I think, as I do that.
- 20:13Speaker1: But I could tell you this, that for all the years that I have served in full
- 20:17Speaker1: time, I feel like I'm at a different place now where I feel like I'm more attuned
- 20:22Speaker1: to and willing to listen to the Holy Spirit.
- 20:26Speaker1: And so it's scary for me, but that's sort of how I go about it. Okay.
- 20:30Speaker0: Praise God for that. So back into distractions, doubt, fear,
- 20:36Speaker0: yourself, and just practical distractions like your phone or the tyranny of the urgent.
- 20:43Speaker0: What would you say are two or three of the worst of those distractions?
- 20:48Speaker0: And can you give us some practical advice for church leaders and pastors to,
- 20:54Speaker0: ignore, overcome, step aside from the distractions to prioritize prayer?
- 21:00Speaker1: Yeah, I think obviously it's who controls your calendar is one,
- 21:04Speaker1: how much you put in there.
- 21:06Speaker1: You have to be willing to carve out time and that you do have control over.
- 21:10Speaker1: And, you know, sometimes, you know, for anybody listening out there,
- 21:14Speaker1: you know, for you to spend X number of hours preparing and studying is one thing.
- 21:19Speaker1: Do you have separate time that's carved out in your calendar to say,
- 21:22Speaker1: I'm just going to listen and be with the Lord?
- 21:24Speaker1: So I think that's got to be something that we intentionally have to practice.
- 21:28Speaker1: And that is to carve out time in our calendar, put it as a block time that we're
- 21:31Speaker1: just going to spend with the Lord. Not sermon perping, not doing my devotional,
- 21:36Speaker1: but just being with the Lord.
- 21:38Speaker1: I think that's one. The other is, you know, trying to solve problems on our
- 21:42Speaker1: own, which as we talked about, we are gifted, I think, in that area.
- 21:46Speaker1: Yeah, we like solving problems and we want to go head first and try to resolve
- 21:51Speaker1: issues. But every time that comes up, perhaps we should think about it as,
- 21:54Speaker1: is this a possible distraction?
- 21:57Speaker1: Is this a possible distraction that Satan is throwing at me so that I will be
- 22:00Speaker1: preoccupied or spent rather than being with the Lord?
- 22:04Speaker1: And so that's secondary. I think we have to consider everything that we're doing
- 22:09Speaker1: and facing and kind of measure it. Is this a distraction or is this something
- 22:14Speaker1: that's going to be advancing the kingdom of God?
- 22:16Speaker1: That's, I think, very important. And I would say, lastly, we're talking about
- 22:20Speaker1: the busyness of life. Things are going to happen, but you know what?
- 22:23Speaker1: We don't have control over those things anyway. And for us to come to a place
- 22:27Speaker1: where we just surrender and say,
- 22:29Speaker1: God, I can't control, I have no control over what this is going to be.
- 22:32Speaker1: And just literally surrendering that part to Him. Those are,
- 22:36Speaker1: it may be practical, it may not be practical for some, but calendar you could
- 22:39Speaker1: control and put a marker in your mind to say, hey, is this a distraction for me?
- 22:46Speaker1: To be with the Lord. Those we could easily do. And we should really,
- 22:50Speaker1: really look at the things that are distracting us. It could be phones.
- 22:53Speaker1: It could be movies. It could be good things, even exercise.
- 22:57Speaker1: Are they distracting me from being with the Lord?
- 22:59Speaker0: Yeah. Well, you mentioned one of those that I think is one of the biggest distractions
- 23:03Speaker0: we have now. We went through the COVID pandemic.
- 23:07Speaker0: I think there's probably a greater pandemic in our lifetime that is technological in nature.
- 23:17Speaker0: I think if we went back 30 years and said, hey, one day there's going to be
- 23:22Speaker0: something we carry around in our pocket that we look at six hours a day.
- 23:28Speaker0: Pretty much everybody looks at six hours a day. That's in addition to TV and
- 23:32Speaker0: whatever else hobbies we have.
- 23:34Speaker0: I think most of us would be shocked and we would have a hard time imagining, well, what possibly...
- 23:40Speaker0: Would capture people's attention for almost a third of the hours that they're awake.
- 23:46Speaker0: And I remember 12, 13 years ago, I went with two other pastors,
- 23:51Speaker0: church leaders, on a trip to a camp with our daughters. And we all were struggling
- 23:58Speaker0: with phone addiction at that time.
- 24:00Speaker0: And I was obnoxious about it. And I took a bunch of pictures of them on their
- 24:04Speaker0: phone and put together a collage. Not that I was any better.
- 24:09Speaker0: I might have been the worst of all of us, but that was close to 15 years ago.
- 24:15Speaker0: It was a long time ago. And I think bone addiction among everybody has just gotten worse and worse.
- 24:23Speaker0: I still remember in 2004, I went to Kenya on a mission trip and went to the
- 24:30Speaker0: Maasai Mara, which is next to the Tanzanian Serengeti, and saw all of these Maasai Mara,
- 24:38Speaker0: herdsmen in their traditional outfits on their phones.
- 24:42Speaker0: And that was like 20 something years ago in Africa, in one of the greatest wildlife
- 24:47Speaker0: reservations in the world.
- 24:48Speaker0: And man, it owns us. So again,
- 24:52Speaker0: we're speaking to pastors and church leaders who are struggling with phone addiction,
- 24:57Speaker0: maybe if they don't even call it that, but how can they practically and spiritually,
- 25:03Speaker0: discipline themselves to maybe set aside their phone and focus on abiding more?
- 25:09Speaker1: Yeah. Again, you got to carve out time and that's something you can control,
- 25:13Speaker1: but you have to be trusting that God will be in control over all the fear of
- 25:19Speaker1: unknown, you know, fear of missing out issue.
- 25:21Speaker1: God is in control of it. And, you know, people that are worried about what if
- 25:25Speaker1: an urgent call, you know, something happens and somebody needs to get in touch with me.
- 25:30Speaker1: Well, you know, even if you got that phone call, you couldn't do much unless God is in charge of it.
- 25:36Speaker1: And anyway, so we have to be willing to say, this is something I'm going to let go for a few hours.
- 25:41Speaker1: Again, can we do that for three days? Probably not, unless you're committed.
- 25:45Speaker1: But on a weekly basis, you can carve out one evening to say,
- 25:49Speaker1: I'm just going to, this is a time with the Lord. And start there.
- 25:52Speaker1: And I think God can do great things when we draw near to Him.
- 25:57Speaker1: When we say, Lord, I want to spend this time just with you.
- 25:59Speaker0: Yeah. I think far too many of us trade away the fruitfulness that comes from
- 26:06Speaker0: abiding for the technological advantages we get from all of these things that
- 26:11Speaker0: are part of our lives now.
- 26:13Speaker0: So along those lines, let's kind of slide into talking about humble,
- 26:17Speaker0: desperate dependence on God versus what we usually settle for,
- 26:22Speaker0: which is much less than I think what he offers.
- 26:25Speaker0: How do we settle for less than God's fruitful best when we live lives that just
- 26:33Speaker0: basically pray over a meal, pray at the beginning of a church service,
- 26:37Speaker0: but other than that, we're just living our lives?
- 26:40Speaker1: Yeah. Again, some lessons learned from the prayer retreat is I think we often
- 26:45Speaker1: settle for what we can do, things that we can muster up, things that we could
- 26:49Speaker1: try and make happen rather than what God can do.
- 26:53Speaker1: And I think that's a biggest separator that we have to be worried about as pastors and leaders.
- 26:58Speaker1: And we're pretty good. We could do a lot of things. We could create a lot of things.
- 27:02Speaker1: But sometimes we miss out on the fruitfulness of what God can do because we
- 27:07Speaker1: are trying to do it our way or we're trying to make it happen.
- 27:11Speaker1: Rather than letting God do what he wants to do. And I think it goes back to
- 27:15Speaker1: the similar theme again, but if we are able, just imagine, if we're able to
- 27:19Speaker1: spend our time with the creator, think about those words.
- 27:23Speaker1: If we are just spending our time before the creator, omnipotent God who knows
- 27:28Speaker1: all things, who can do all things, nothing is impossible for him.
- 27:31Speaker1: He's the author of life, author of salvation.
- 27:33Speaker1: He's in control, he's sovereign. These are words that I'm not throwing that
- 27:37Speaker1: you go, what, CJ, you know a lot of words. No, these are words that we all understand well.
- 27:42Speaker1: The problem is, if that is true, and if I could spend my time with the Lord,
- 27:48Speaker1: who is all that, and reaffirm that He is in perfect control, for me, I could
- 27:53Speaker1: live in peace knowing that, yes, there are things that I can't solve,
- 27:57Speaker1: but I trust in God because...
- 27:59Speaker1: As I spend my time with the Lord, he gives me a sense of peace.
- 28:02Speaker1: And again, an experiential thing, he gives me a sense of peace that I can't explain away.
- 28:07Speaker1: But that's, I think, the power of fruitfulness that we miss out.
- 28:10Speaker1: If we don't prioritize, I guess prayer is one, but spending time with the Lord,
- 28:15Speaker1: I think what we end up doing is we crowd ourselves with our attempts,
- 28:19Speaker1: what I think I can do, what I wish I can do.
- 28:22Speaker1: And then all the other things that come with it, all the worries and anxieties
- 28:26Speaker1: and discouragements and shame and guilt, you name it.
- 28:30Speaker1: I think our, you know, Satan himself and our adversary, they know how to press
- 28:34Speaker1: the buttons that'll frustrate us.
- 28:36Speaker1: And we do not get to a place where we're just really being in the presence of
- 28:41Speaker1: God, just adoring our Savior and sometimes just listening to the Holy Spirit.
- 28:46Speaker1: And so, yes, personally, I think we miss out because we don't have that experiential
- 28:51Speaker1: feeling from God and being with Him.
- 28:54Speaker1: The other is, we reap the other side, which is, well, you did what you did on
- 28:59Speaker1: your own. And so how's that going for you?
- 29:03Speaker1: And so that's the other thing. So he can do so much. He is able,
- 29:07Speaker1: more than able, to do everything on his own. And he could do so much better
- 29:10Speaker1: when we become a choice instrument in his hands.
- 29:14Speaker1: And that's, I think, where we would really experience different things.
- 29:17Speaker1: If we become the instrument of God because we are spending our time with him,
- 29:21Speaker1: listening to Him, abiding in Him, then I think God can do far beyond what we
- 29:26Speaker1: can imagine. And He promises that.
- 29:29Speaker1: I think that's what we're missing sometimes because we're busy trying, we're busy doing.
- 29:34Speaker0: Yeah. Trying and doing is often the opposite of abiding and waiting.
- 29:40Speaker0: And we're supposed to wait on the Lord far more, I think, than more.
- 29:43Speaker1: Far more. Yep. Yep. Yep.
- 29:44Speaker0: Let's talk about biblical pictures of prayer in the Bible.
- 29:50Speaker0: What is your one or two favorite prayer stories in the word?
- 29:55Speaker0: And how do those episodes inspire you?
- 29:58Speaker1: I could only tell you what's favorite in recent time because there's been many,
- 30:02Speaker1: but there's a couple that comes to mind.
- 30:04Speaker1: One of my recent favorite is from Mark chapter nine and where a father brings
- 30:11Speaker1: his son who's possessed by evil spirit.
- 30:13Speaker1: And he comes to Jesus saying, if you can do anything, take pity on us and help us.
- 30:18Speaker1: And you know the answer, Jesus said, if you can, You know, everything is possible
- 30:22Speaker1: for him who believes. Amen.
- 30:24Speaker1: But I love verse 24 where the father actually says, I do believe,
- 30:28Speaker1: help me overcome my unbelief. Yeah.
- 30:31Speaker1: And I think that part, the last part of his confession, his prayer and how he's
- 30:36Speaker1: pleading with the Savior that's about to heal his son.
- 30:40Speaker1: I think that's for me a touch point where, yes, Lord, I do believe. It's honest prayer.
- 30:45Speaker1: It's such a raw prayer. Lord, I do believe in you. But I do have a part where I have unbelief issues.
- 30:52Speaker1: Help me overcome my unbelief. And so I think that's a confession from my end,
- 30:57Speaker1: but I think that's something that
- 30:59Speaker1: Many of us may have to revisit in an honest way with God. God,
- 31:04Speaker1: I do believe in you, but I know that there are areas in my life I don't believe in you.
- 31:08Speaker1: So help me overcome my unbelief.
- 31:10Speaker1: So that's, for me, that's been echoing in my head. And I've been saying that
- 31:14Speaker1: prayer, help me overcome, Lord. Second is from, you know, 2 Kings chapter 6,
- 31:18Speaker1: you know, Elijah praying for his servant.
- 31:21Speaker1: They're surrounded by the king of Aram. And obviously the servant can't see.
- 31:26Speaker1: He sees the physical army.
- 31:29Speaker1: And so Elijah prays this prayer. And this is a theme here. Oh,
- 31:33Speaker1: Lord, open his eyes so he may see.
- 31:35Speaker1: Open his eyes so he may see. Then the Lord opened the servant's eyes and he
- 31:39Speaker1: looked and saw the hills full of what?
- 31:41Speaker1: Horses and chariots of fire all around him. I think that for me is a vivid picture
- 31:47Speaker1: of how often I am living my life. I only see what's the physical,
- 31:52Speaker1: what is here right now, what I could touch.
- 31:54Speaker1: But sometimes I just need a prayer like this. Lord, open his eyes,
- 31:58Speaker1: open my eyes so that I can see what you're doing.
- 32:02Speaker1: The chariots of fire, all the things that you're already working on.
- 32:05Speaker1: He's not stopped. He has not stopped working. The Holy Spirit is always at work.
- 32:09Speaker1: Then what's the issue? I might be blind or I might be unable right now to see
- 32:15Speaker1: what the Lord is doing. So yeah, asking to overcome unbelief.
- 32:18Speaker1: And then really this secondary prayer, which is Lord, help me see. help me see
- 32:24Speaker1: Those are a couple of things.
- 32:25Speaker0: I got a couple as well. And then I'll do something unusual that's not even in our script.
- 32:30Speaker0: I'm going to ask you to close us in prayer and pray for the leaders and pastors
- 32:35Speaker0: who are listening to this episode that the eyes of their heart will be opened to.
- 32:41Speaker0: Hear the call to prayer, not just in a temporary inspiration kind of way,
- 32:45Speaker0: but in a long run kind of way.
- 32:47Speaker0: So two stories for me, and I'm the same as you. These are sort of recent inspirations.
- 32:52Speaker0: In 1 Daniel chapter 2 in the Old Testament, King Nebuchadnezzar has had his
- 32:57Speaker0: dream and he wants it interpreted, but he also wants the interpreters to tell him the dream.
- 33:04Speaker0: And they're like, nobody can do that. And he's like, okay, I'm going to kill
- 33:08Speaker0: every one of you by ripping you limb from limb and I'm going to turn your houses into a garbage dump.
- 33:15Speaker0: So the Bible says, Daniel, having found out about this and knowing he was under
- 33:19Speaker0: a death sentence, went to his house,
- 33:21Speaker0: told his friends Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah about the matter,
- 33:25Speaker0: urging them to ask the God of the heavens for mercy concerning this mystery.
- 33:30Speaker0: So Daniel and his friends would not be destroyed with the rest of Babylon's wise men.
- 33:36Speaker0: Facing certain death, they get together and pray and ask for mercy.
- 33:41Speaker0: And that's huge. And the other one would be Acts chapter 10,
- 33:45Speaker0: which is kind of a twofold prayer deal.
- 33:48Speaker0: First of all, you have Cornelius, who is praying and seeking the Lord,
- 33:54Speaker0: doesn't even know Jesus, but his prayers to God come to the attention of God.
- 33:59Speaker0: And then you have Peter praying and resting on top of his house.
- 34:05Speaker0: Then God takes those incidences and basically launches the movement that reaches
- 34:13Speaker0: the known world. You know, this is...
- 34:15Speaker0: This is how kind of the gospel began to go to the Gentiles, to you and me.
- 34:20Speaker0: So I love those prayer stories there.
- 34:24Speaker1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. God worked in both of those situations where maybe the guys
- 34:28Speaker1: that were praying didn't even anticipate it. God has his ways.
- 34:32Speaker0: Well, hey, why don't you pray for us, Dr. CJ? All right.
- 34:35Speaker1: Father, we do pause, first of all, to acknowledge that you are God,
- 34:39Speaker1: creator, maker of heaven and earth. You are sovereign.
- 34:43Speaker1: You know all things. You are all powerful. Forgive us because at times we have
- 34:48Speaker1: not treated you that way.
- 34:49Speaker1: And we did that indirectly by trying to take things from you and trying to do it our way.
- 34:55Speaker1: Lord, through this podcast and as we think about what it means to surrender to you, what it means to
- 35:01Speaker1: acknowledge you in our life, Father, I pray that you would remove a lot of these
- 35:05Speaker1: distractions and help our pastors and listeners to know that distractions are
- 35:11Speaker1: what's causing us to step away from your presence.
- 35:14Speaker1: And so, Lord, would you give them this wisdom, just a tidbit,
- 35:19Speaker1: Father, for them to know that my spending time with you is far more productive
- 35:23Speaker1: than me trying to solve problems.
- 35:25Speaker1: And I do also pray, Lord, that for many who may not see, who are just blinded
- 35:29Speaker1: by physical realities and the tangible problems, Lord, that you would open their eyes,
- 35:36Speaker1: see who you are, see you at work, see all that you have already done,
- 35:41Speaker1: and to lean into you rather than to try to solve.
- 35:44Speaker1: On our own, or even just trying harder. I think that's the adage that we have.
- 35:49Speaker1: Try harder next time. Try better next time. And Lord, I just ask that you would
- 35:53Speaker1: give our pastors, our leaders, our listeners wisdom to just surrender,
- 35:57Speaker1: to say, Lord, I want what you want.
- 36:00Speaker1: I want to see you at work, and I want to be able to see you at work.
- 36:05Speaker1: So Father, we pray these prayers, and many who might be struggling with unbelief,
- 36:09Speaker1: and none of us would say that out loud, but Father,
- 36:12Speaker1: Help us overcome our unbelief or lack of belief. We pray this in Jesus' name.
- 36:17Speaker0: Amen. Well, thank you, Dr. CJ. For all of our listeners, next week we have more on this topic.
- 36:24Speaker0: For Dr. CJ and I, it will be about two minutes from now, but we're going to
- 36:28Speaker0: be talking about, we each have a similar hero of the faith in prayer,
- 36:32Speaker0: Andrew Murray, the South African pastor.
- 36:35Speaker0: We'll talk about some of the prayer stories in his life.
- 36:38Speaker0: We're going to talk about how to seek a God-presence-centered life.
- 36:42Speaker0: And we're really going to focus in on how pastors and church leaders can help
- 36:46Speaker0: their churches develop a culture of prayer. And we will close out by recommending
- 36:53Speaker0: some great resources in the prayer realm. So stay tuned for that.
- 36:57Speaker0: Dr. CJ, thank you for your time.
- 36:59Speaker1: Thank you for having me.
- 37:00Speaker0: Great wisdom there from Dr. CJ. I'm so appreciative of him as a guy and for his time on the podcast.
- 37:08Speaker0: And now I'm going to bring in my guest host, Pastor Christopher Cole.
- 37:12Speaker0: And we are going to buckle in because it's time to do something hard and painful.
- 37:19Speaker1: All right. Are we ready, Pastor Chase, to dive into this? I'm going to open your bacon soda for you.
- 37:26Speaker0: Thank you.
- 37:26Speaker1: And we want to hear the sound of the...
- 37:30Speaker0: All right. It's not very fizzy.
- 37:32Speaker1: It had a little pop there.
- 37:34Speaker0: Oh, gosh.
- 37:37Speaker0: This smells like it's going to take about 10 years off of my life. You smell that?
- 37:45Speaker1: That is not good, brother.
- 37:46Speaker0: I hate to say this in front of a former man in blue, a former law enforcement
- 37:51Speaker0: officer, but it smells like bacon.
- 37:54Speaker1: This does not smell like bacon.
- 37:56Speaker0: It smells like bad burnt bacon. How about that?
- 38:00Speaker1: As a former law enforcement officer, this does have some odor peculiarities
- 38:04Speaker1: that are similar to methamphetamine, which is not a good thing, by the way.
- 38:10Speaker0: Folks, this smells awful.
- 38:13Speaker1: It is not good. It is not good.
- 38:15Speaker0: And it has sugar in it, and that's frightening.
- 38:18Speaker1: But we are going to be bold and press on. Okay. Salute.
- 38:23Speaker0: Cheers. Here we go. To our health.
- 38:26Speaker1: Wow.
- 38:27Speaker0: Whoa.
- 38:31Speaker1: Are you getting the smoky
- 38:32Speaker0: Flavor i just feel like i'm drinking a pig and it's weird.
- 38:41Speaker1: I don't know that I would say it's like drinking a pig.
- 38:48Speaker1: Do you know that the cooking stuff, you drip in liquid smoke?
- 38:54Speaker1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's a little bit like drinking liquid smoke to me with a sweetness to it.
- 39:02Speaker0: Okay, so I'll say this for it. You were right. It's not worse than Lester's Fixin's Ranch.
- 39:09Speaker0: The front end is not very pleasant to me.
- 39:13Speaker1: It is not.
- 39:14Speaker0: The aftertaste is...
- 39:16Speaker1: It's kind of cream soda-y.
- 39:18Speaker0: Not bad. It's not terrible. It doesn't leave a terrible taste in your mouth.
- 39:23Speaker0: And you know what? After the ranch soda and some of the other things we've tried,
- 39:27Speaker0: I kind of appreciate that.
- 39:29Speaker1: But it does leave an aftertaste in your mouth. Sort of like that greasy aftertaste
- 39:34Speaker1: you get in your mouth when you've had some bad bacon. It's sort of like that.
- 39:40Speaker1: It just sort of like covers your mouth with a film here.
- 39:44Speaker0: It does a little bit. All right, I'm going to take one more taste,
- 39:46Speaker0: and that's probably all I can endure.
- 39:52Speaker0: It just hits hard going down. It's strong.
- 39:57Speaker1: Well, Pastor Chase, what is your recommendation?
- 40:01Speaker1: How many Spurgeons would you give the Lester's Fixin' Bacon Soda?
- 40:07Speaker1: There's a look on your face for those who can't see this. We're not sure if
- 40:11Speaker1: this is going to be live on video or just you're getting the audio.
- 40:14Speaker1: There is a look on Pastor Chase's face that looks like someone stuck a dirty sock in his mouth.
- 40:20Speaker0: Yeah, yeah, that's about how I feel. I would recommend Charles Spurgeon avoid this soda.
- 40:26Speaker0: He's already got enough health problems as it is with his cigar smoking and
- 40:30Speaker0: gout and all that kind of stuff. But I'm going to give this zero Spurgeon's out of five. Zero.
- 40:38Speaker1: Zero. As I recall, we gave the Lester's Fixin's Ranch Soda like negative Spurgeon's.
- 40:45Speaker0: Negative five Osteen's.
- 40:47Speaker1: Yeah, we gave it Osteen's, right. That's what we did.
- 40:50Speaker0: It's not as bad as that. I'm not going to have nightmares about this,
- 40:52Speaker0: but I'm also not going to—I can't think of a use scenario. Right.
- 40:57Speaker1: You would not want to bring this back.
- 40:59Speaker0: No. No. I'm going to pour this out in the sink.
- 41:02Speaker1: You would not bring this to a friend's party.
- 41:04Speaker0: Depends on the friend. I might. You know, it depends. I wouldn't bring it to
- 41:10Speaker0: Pastor Jason's house, who recommended
- 41:12Speaker0: this beverage for us, because he's a good guy and a good neighbor.
- 41:16Speaker1: And he is over there, dare I say, almost giggling with glee at us having to
- 41:22Speaker1: drink this foul beverage.
- 41:25Speaker0: Lord, do not hold this sin against him.
- 41:27Speaker1: Well, we would want to forgive our neighbors as we have been forgiven. Amen.
- 41:33Speaker1: And this is not a recommendation. I also will concur. This is definitely a zero Spurgeons.
- 41:41Speaker1: I don't think it strays into Osteen category, but it is not something I would
- 41:47Speaker1: ever want to consume again. Yeah.
- 41:49Speaker1: It could be very happy never doing so ever again.
- 41:52Speaker0: It smells a little like bad bacon. It doesn't taste like bacon.
- 41:56Speaker0: No. It tastes like something cooked, but not.
- 41:59Speaker1: And it's got that smoky, and it also does leave kind of a film in your mouth. That's not pleasant.
- 42:05Speaker0: Okay, Lester, do better. Do better.
- 42:07Speaker1: Do better.
- 42:08Speaker0: We will close out today with a call to prayer for the yellow card initiative
- 42:13Speaker0: that you have been hearing about.
- 42:15Speaker0: Several of our Great Commission Association Hispanic churches and our guy Enrique Ramos have been
- 42:23Speaker0: passing out the yellow cards all around Levi's Stadium and other places around
- 42:27Speaker0: Central California, sharing the gospel with people attending World Cup soccer
- 42:33Speaker0: games and regular soccer games.
- 42:35Speaker0: So that effort is going to be continuing with GCA member churches and Anthony
- 42:41Speaker0: Ferguson and the Yellow Card Initiative team.
- 42:44Speaker0: So pray for great fruitfulness for that. You can check out updates on our Facebook
- 42:50Speaker0: page, which is facebook.com GCASBC.
- 42:54Speaker0: Or you can go to our website GCASBC.org.
- 42:59Speaker0: And if you want to find show notes for the podcast or subscribe,
- 43:04Speaker0: all you got to do is go to Apple Podcasts or any other place and just search
- 43:08Speaker0: for Every Church Flourishing.
- 43:11Speaker0: And the show notes are at our website, everychurchflourishing.com.
- 43:16Speaker0: More of Dr. CJ next week. Thank you so much for listening. Thank you for telling
- 43:21Speaker0: your friends and sharing the news.
- 43:23Speaker0: Good day to you and Godspeed.