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Why Small Talk Is Quietly Killing Connection | Episode 146

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Small talk feels polite—but it quietly kills connection. In this episode, Ron Ward and Kristin Sokoloff break down the “robotic loop” of predictable conversation starters and explain why leaders who rely on surface-level questions struggle to build trust, influence, and real relationships. You’ll learn how curiosity-based questions unlock stories, engagement, and stronger leadership presence.

Key Topics Covered:

The “robotic loop” and why predictable questions shut down connection

Why small talk prioritizes safety over trust

How common questions like “What do you do?” reduce…

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