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Taqiyya & The Sins of a Liar · After Maghrib 🌙

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Salaam alaikum. Everyone struggles with two
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things in life, telling the truth and sticking by the truth
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day to day. We come across people who will
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tell us lies and we may not know it.
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Tell us the truth and we presume they're telling lies but
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particularly as she has not only is it important to tell the
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truth but also especially to live by the truth.
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Following Huck is something that we have to understand not just
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understand that Embrace and to implement into our own I've
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stood a broom sisters on the aftermarket podcast.
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We've got a lot to talk about some really interesting
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discussions, but before we go any further, I want you,
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secondly, don't turn off. I know this sounds a bit cliche,
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truth and honesty and yada yada. But this is a very important
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conversation, arguably one of the most important topics in the
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religion of Islam. But before we go any further
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time, of course, introduced My charismatic co-host, say that it
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all the way. Some, are you hiding why that's
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cheeky small because I remember the few podcasts backs earlier
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when we first started every intro had like a specific word
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that I was like, how do I counter this for you?
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It's good to be here. And how's your week been?
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It's been good. I'm the law.
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It's been good. I mean life, nowadays is it's
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just cracking on, I know. Of course, it's been a Week
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since are buying but I think still trying to keep that
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momentum up and stay stay on top of things.
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So I'm the lucky one by yourself.
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I've had an interesting week and so, so the sorts of revolves
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around the conversation we're having here today, but I'm going
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to keep our personal life out. Yeah, there's more importantly I
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met. Do you tell the truth?
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Do I tell the truth? I would hope.
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So, that's a hard question for on Simon says, you know, we like
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we talked about the concept of part-time Muslims and we always
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refer back to that, but everyone will try their best and of
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course, no, that's important to tell the truth but It's a the,
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the topic of Truth and truthfulness goes beyond just
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telling the truth which I know, of course we're going to get
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into today and maybe just speaking, the truth is one small
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element of it but it's part of a much wider discussion on the
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concept of Truth within Islam. Hmm.
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You know, I mean hmm. No, you're very write a comment
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and it's not just Aslam, and you mentioned us being shear and
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this being a, she our podcast, we have the best of examples,
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the Island Bait, and we see times Time for the entire lives.
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They stood only would hack and fought with button and we have
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so much examples and inshallah in this conversation.
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I'm going to learn a lot because we all struggle with the truth,
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to be honest, to be truthful. We all struggle the truth.
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One of one of our respected teachers and alarm our house.
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I was listening to like a session.
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He had online, he said that in his many years of study in Islam
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he said he feels one of. If not the most fundamental
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issues within the religion is the Concept of Truth.
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Now, it's not just like you said, not just within our
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religion, but in wider Society, of course, the social
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commentator, psychoanalysts ever a lot of people know the Jordan
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Peterson. Hmm.
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He said something very interesting.
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He said the most important virtue in life is truthfulness
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not for example, kindness for example, you know, like you
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might have a dictator or an oppressor who's kind but through
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manipulation their kind, you know, that just goes to show
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that you May not be truthful, despite being kind uses your own
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benefit. Yeah.
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Exactly. Exactly.
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The again, there's so many examples in history of people
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like that, but being truthful. Sometimes it's hard to swallow,
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sometimes it's hard to to put forward, but it's important.
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That is it is and being truthful is very important because I
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think it plays in every aspect of your life.
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Yeah, at work at home in your community, even with yourself I
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mean you have to be truthful to yourself because a lot of people
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they tell a lot of lies. Believe your own lie that I
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think you just get lost in your own bubble away, it becomes some
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sort of disease, so inshallah we will all try our best.
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Not just me not just you and Shalom, everyone listening to
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this podcast. We will always stand by the
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truth. The whole truth and nothing but
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the truth. And I know many people have had
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this in a lot of Dramas probably on US court sessions or
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something. That's something that I.
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When we said we want to talk about the truth.
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Today is the first thing that hit my mind, that even someone
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that I said, doesn't abide by God's law as country's law.
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Those who don't have God's abide by the truth, they do the value
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by speaking the truth. Yeah.
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Absolute truth is within our fifth like we innately as human
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beings. We strive for truth.
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We have a hunger for Truth. For example, the concept of
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curiosity, if you think about what is curiosity, is when you
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have the yearning to learn the true answer or meaning of
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something like you have an innate striving towards the
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truth. And you know, for example, young
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children children sometimes I Rrr, what's the word I'm looking
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for? Are not discrete at all there.
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So the innocent and that innocent innocent and they're
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truthful. For example I had again in
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another session at the the speaker said, he said, for
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example, someone rings, the doorbell, this is your dad home
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and the kid says, yeah, he's home but he told me to tell you
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he's not here. You know?
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I mean, because kids are innocent and they This Is How
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They are. Yeah.
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Yeah, you know, I've heard something similar where I was in
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a lecture. Yeah.
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And the scholar Saying, you know, it was talking to the
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parents but, you know, it's mainly the eldest in down an
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Arabic lecture, shall we say? And he was like, you guys are
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always telling your kids Baba, speak the truth, don't lie to
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me. When he grew up knowing you have
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been teaching him. How to lie unknowingly the
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simple thing. As his friends, call him on the
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phone, he doesn't want to talk. He says, Barbara, tell him, I'm
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in the shower of all pertinent Baba, I'm asleep.
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He's automatically psychologically, being
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programmed to to make lying normal.
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So I think If you're true to yourself, you wouldn't affect
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society, sometimes, we don't even realize it like that.
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We think it's just a small thing.
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I'll call them back, we see like a white like a white line.
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Even at work, I was thinking about this.
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Today I called up a customer. This is like a true story.
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I called up a customer today. I was like, can I speak to xy's
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that person and I said yeah, just give me one second.
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Put me on hold and minute later came back said they're in a
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meeting. Can you call back later
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something? Like, is that true or not?
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Because sometimes it happens in my office, you some my
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colleagues will do that or whatever.
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And it makes you wonder he's okay it's not a big deal, like
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you're not hugely offended if you're on the receiving end of
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it but like you said, like small Pebbles of lying amounts to at
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the end of the day, you know, tons and tons worth of sin, they
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are very and, you know, we hit when we're young, we always hear
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that concept. That if you have a blank page
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and you put 1,000 black boss, mmm.
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You know, it's worse and harder to raise those black dots then
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one big large spot. For example, is it, is she
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Women. And that's parents.
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And I know you also new parent may Allah bless your son.
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It's important that we installed truth in them.
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Yeah. And and every sense.
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Yeah. Any we for example even the way
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we deal with our spouses, for example, when we take them out
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you know sometimes we want to take a holiday off far.
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Shore up. Yeah.
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Lots of parents. What they tell the school just
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so you felt sick. No just say the truth, you know
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it's an Islamic occasion and that we want to Mark out of
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respect for the grandson of rasul Allah, this automatically
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they can sneak in. Okay, this Is he speaking the
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truth? Because I remember back in the
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day when I was young, all the parents used to say our everyone
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is sick. So all that she has are missing
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from school, everyone. Eventually there's going to be
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time or for example, there's going to be music lessons.
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Yeah. Well there's going to be time
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with the certain lessons. We don't our kids.
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We shouldn't come up with excuses.
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We should say the truth. All kids know why they shouldn't
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be in such. Places environment, you can
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point Ms, very important, of course, that long term.
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They will shall understand and shondo Implement that in that
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will be ingrained in them. Say it's something I wanted to
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get into you mentioned earlier, something about about being
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careful, how you speak and it's important, for example, in the
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community, nowadays with things like gossip, okay?
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Because gossip is such a huge, huge disease where the community
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rumors, sometimes, we don't know where they start, sometimes we
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don't know when they're Going to end or where they're going to
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end. But gossip is something which
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off which is consumed us. And we may not even know it, we
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may be thinking, I'm speaking facts.
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I'm wanting my brother about someone else, for example, but
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we don't know if that's gossip or not.
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How do you think? For example, we should we should
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react if news about something or someone comes to us.
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Like, what do you tell the person who's told you a piece of
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gossip and then, how do you use that information?
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Yeah, I don't have much personal experience to share.
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If I'm honest, I have been in Gatherings where people have
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Unfortunately, spoken about others, but we haven't been
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there to gossip. There's one thing I think I have
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learned from the conversations I've been in and from, you know,
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the brothers, I've surrounded myself with is that they always
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remind us? Are you sure you saw this?
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Yeah. Are you sure you heard this?
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I think was Imam Ali. A Moment In when he said the
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truth is the distance of your four fingers between your eyes
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and your ears. Was he - I'm not sure but one of
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the one of the Holy imams and that always has stuck with me.
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Yeah, honest to God. And because as As I said, early
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in the podcast was like in a similar situation environment
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and the last few days and that was the first thing that I told
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that person. If it's not if it's not true you
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don't know if it's not true. Yeah.
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You don't know if it's true. You don't know if they're lying,
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you don't know you're like maybe you're lying to yourself.
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Maybe you think it's true? Maybe didn't see an end.
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It wasn't sure at all. Yeah, because they haven't seen
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or heard it with their own eyes. Someone told them and it's like
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Chinese Whispers, You Know Reba sessions.
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The Chinese Whispers, it happens too often and of course, it's so
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important for us to understand that being truthful, Islam is
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something which is ordered by a Spawn dollar and subtle Toba.
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I believe it was a last one. Tyler says it's called law.
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Akuna Minal saw the thing be Pious and be amongst the sad
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thing. You know, the sort of thing we
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talked about silk which is the concept of truth, right?
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And so did or said, dick is the one who is truthful?
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Truthful, last week we talked about the holy prophet, Muhammad
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saw Allah. We saw them as being a sudden
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and being truthful in the way he approached people.
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And we know, of course, not be Isa, alaihi Salam, not be Musa.
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So between Molly and Melissa. I'm so fucked up to Jerusalem,
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la la, all known as I said, dick or siddiqa as a family and of
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course, and these characters were truthful and not just
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truthful. How they spoke, they thought the
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truth, they breathe the truth. They embrace the truth.
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They consume everything about them.
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You know, exuberant dated the truth.
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Do you see what I mean? Yeah.
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And that Islam telling the truth, like we said, is just a
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small part of it, you know, but being one who follows I lack is
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Something, which is so important for us that it should become our
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ultimate goal. Every single morning, we should
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wake up redefine our goals for the day.
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I understand that, how am I going to do?
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How am I going to go about my day to find the ultimate truth?
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Because at the end of the day, we know last month, has given us
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a short amount of time on this on this, on this Earth and this
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is the defining moment for our camera.
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So we have to find the truth in our life and in order to do
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that, we have to we have to use rational or irrational, tell us
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that data. Today when we wake up, we go
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about our day. Is this action?
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I'm about to dive into? Will this?
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Bring me closer to Allah? Will this allow me to become
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more at one with Huck and truth? I think that's what I should be
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like a compass. Not to be able to, you know, I
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mean, no, you're very right and there's very beautiful, you
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mentioned? Very early Iran.
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You mentioned that just the other day.
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We spoke about outside that. I mean, rasulullah sallallahu
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alehiwassallaam. And as Muslims, yeah, we should
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take him as an example of the deaf and become like a Offside
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economy. And now, a day to day lives, we
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can go to work. Yeah.
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And we can be lying cheating, you know, for example, a farmer
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merchan, all my cellar, I don't know.
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Anyone's listening has worked in sales but I think 99 percent of
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the time someone who calls me it's just talking nonsense.
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Yeah, there's no such thing as and that's all I.
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So you have to imagine that if you're going to make a sale from
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that, for example, at work you've made that sale based on
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lie in the commission, you're Takin home, it's not halal.
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It's not Halal. Let's be honest, it's made out
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of false information. Another thing is that I think is
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very important is hope the wife ain't listening, but for
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example, but for example, you have to be very truthful with
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your spouse at home. That's another example.
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Now, for example, a lot of the mrs.
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You know, where are you? I'm five minutes.
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Find you've been, it's been 25 minutes.
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You're in the car, he called again, I'm walking.
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I'm wearing my shoes. She's still pulling the job on
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the I this all things I think and sha Allah does Become
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normal, just be truthful. You don't drive a helicopter or
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plane? Yeah, yeah I'll be there in half
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an hour for example, even odds, between friends, I could say I'm
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on my way here to the podcast and I normally don't say, I've
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left a lot. Actually go in the compost alley
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for those who don't know, he was perfect example.
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He said I'm gonna be late. I'm running late, I'm going to
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be there at 8:15, hmm. I'm a Charlotte 815.
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You turned up something. I expected that and I understand
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that's what we need to do. And another thing that's
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important non-muslims are watching us.
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Yeah, they don't know who to trust.
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Annalise, they probably haven't read the noble Quran, so they
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seeing me you and those watching, listening, you are the
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Muslims. You are representing al-sadiq a
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lemon. So we have to try live.
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Like, we're personifications of our religion of Representatives,
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whether we like it or not, you mentioned had our money, which I
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found quite interesting. It's very easy for us to fall
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into that says very easy for us to to earn Haram living without
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realizing it. Now, if someone for example is
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lying in order to Make a sale. Maybe that tells us that that
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person fears the reaction or the impression someone else will
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have of them as opposed to the the reaction or impression.
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Our last one to Allah will have on us.
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So for example, if I am lying to make a sale or I'm lying to not
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have give off a bad reputation or something it means I fear
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what that person will think of me more than what law thinks of
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me. Do you see what I mean?
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You're worried about the consequences in this world,
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which of course we should be. Concerned about the consequences
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of this world but we're thinking about that above what I lost my
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Tyler may think of us and it's important for us to understand
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this because if we are lying, if we think what what is the reason
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for someone to lie, okay? Or not, even just lying but also
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lying to themselves. Not following cup, not following
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truth. Heard why do people do that?
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Is because they are either more concerned about the worldly
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Affairs. When people think how much money
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did, yes, people say yes or they have agreed.
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They wanted to To have a Greed for power.
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You know. I think I can change.
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Someone's opinion, I'd have to tell you the truth, I can tell
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you what I want, they're going to believe what I say.
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It's there's an element of fake impression of power that you get
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from lying and you know, for example, why lie detectors are
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so successful is because innately as human beings were
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not built all wired to lie. So your natural your the pulses
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and and all these the electrics inside your brain.
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In your all of that stuff. I'm not really scientific but
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That will give off a signal that you're lying, because it's not
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innate, but the more someone lies, the more custom they are
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to lying and that the less reaction I have inside.
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Do you see what I mean? Interesting, interesting, this
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of Mustang approves anything because I'm saying why proof
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that there are satanic Whispers have one appropriate to Lucky.
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Yeah, absolutely absolutely. But why is it said that you
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think people have a tendency to to lie?
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But you know say it's a lot of people are asking us, especially
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nowadays on social media and everything.
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Stuck here. You see are always doing today.
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Oh, yeah. Can you explain that?
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Well, wishes on always doing tabria.
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We are always speaking the truth and we are saying hot buttock
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area is not me or some random shapes color coming out saying
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you can come online, not the Quran is saying that you can
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come and conceal the truth. And a particular situation, like
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I'm going to quote the I'm gonna call the verse for you, okay,
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okay. Smile ar-rahman, ar-rahim going
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to translate to hear 16:1 06. He who disbelieves in Allah,
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after his belief in him, is the liar.
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Except he, who is compelled while his heart remains
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steadfast with the faith. A lot.
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That is a lie. He said, those who believe in
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Allah at the end, this believe they're the Liars but those who
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conceal when they are compelled, Allah knows wasn't their heart.
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So this is concealing something but you know, a lot of people
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say, we used to create 24/7. You she, as I Dang it left right
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and center but we only use it in specific circumstances, I'm it.
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So let me ask you legitimate question.
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This man, have you ever been in a position in your life where
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you had to do something? No.
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Okay, and I haven't either and the only instance I think either
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with us with either of us would be in that situation is if a gun
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was to our head or to the head of a loved one or something
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stuff. A lot of you are too worldly.
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And we are asked a question about our so our beliefs or
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something. And in order to keep Keep the
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protection of our family or our selves.
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Our remaining, we have to do to clear.
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And that is not only accepted by the Shia Scholars.
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That's because obviously a lot of people won't agree with that
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or accept. No, that's wrong.
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As for all good on is for all bomber, it's not just a good
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honest, a debate today, a Muslim, the holy prophet
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Muhammad, his daughter Fatima, Zahra his his brother in every
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sense of the word. I mean on Walkman in.
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So these are the walking talking examples of the Holy Quran.
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Mmm, you know, and they themselves Have endorsed, and
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they've said that in circumstances situations.
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You must do this? Yes.
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All right. And you know, I actually
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pictured myself and what's not? Because you asked, have you ever
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been and handle? I haven't.
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Yeah. There's I pictured myself if
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that was ever to happen or probably be somewhere in mosul
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with Isis, having a obvious or to my neck massage.
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And to be fair, mmm, even in that situation.
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You don't want to do you shouldn't you shouldn't?
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She don't want to do it because you, you are proud of what this
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is, what our laws allowing you to conceal?
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Not lie. Let's clear it.
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Let's clarify not lie to conceal.
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Your faith, he knows. What's in your heart but was
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going to preserve your life and stop severe harm or was it
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doesn't. There's no wrong in doing.
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So absolutely. And I just want to make this
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absolutely clear. I'm not a scholar by the way,
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neither serve others but not just that on the level on the
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sisters do not accuse people of of cover on that.
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They are all things like that. If you don't know, seriously,
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please look up, you have access, you have no, excuse nowadays.
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We live in the 21st century, our last panel.
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What Allah has given you two eyes for a reason and one mouth.
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And the reason is that, you can look up and you can research and
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you can learn and you can listen with your two ears.
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You have one mouth to make accusations with.
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And there's a reason for that run sisters.
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Like, say to you mentioned earlier about the four fingers
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Hadith. Yeah, it's evident there for us.
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And I Hadi that you know, you cannot make accusations towards
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anyone for anything unless it's validated and you know, there's
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a rationale behind it but not just stuck.
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Esade also White Lies, Of course, that's like a big thing
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here. So you know, White Lies.
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If I If I can just clarify, a white lie, is a lie, this is a
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white lie. So who defines the colors
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between black and white? I'm so baffled.
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That's how that's how difficult it is to to make it, to make
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someone understand. So the best way the scholars
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have made us understand where you are sort of allowed to not
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say the whole truth. For example, I'm going to give
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another marriage example here. And it's for example, your wife
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has cooked some food, okay? Okay.
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You don't like it. Why she asked you.
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How is how's my cooking? You know, say you know what?
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It's amazing. It's great.
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She's going to be happy, you're happy.
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You have an upset on that's like weather.
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The line is yes to keep things in harmony.
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Hmm. And in the same example, of
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course, we know this Lomb. Hmm.
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In circumstances where you have 100% conviction at Hokum of
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Allah. Subhanahu wa'ta'ala would prefer
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you to say something to keep things intact.
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As opposed to seeing the truth as you may call it, which causes
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friction. Like, that's why I said not the
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whole truth, you guys still terrific.
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Like for example, I had an example from a teacher.
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He said in the case of divorce, you may have, for example, a
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husband and wife do to get divorced.
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And you are the middleman. For example, is, you can say to
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the husband, your wife loves you very much and to reconcile, you
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to reconcile them, of course. And that's an important element
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for us to understand that you. And we have to make this clear
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does not mean you can justify any sin in the world and say,
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yeah, it's alright. I can lie about it because it's
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better than the alternative know, there's no reasoning for
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that. My son doesn't.
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There's also an incident in the life of a minimum.
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In listen to this, listen to, this is really nice story.
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My ears open a man comes to the mosque and he Sees Imam, Ali
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sitting and he says, yeah Mom. I'm being chased.
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People are trying to kill me. This is a Madman from the
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community of Menominee, so the Imam said, don't worry.
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I've got your back. I'm paraphrasing man says, okay,
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he goes and hides. The people come in and the Imam
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stands up and he says somewhere else.
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Okay. Okay.
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The people come to them and minimum.
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And he says, have you seen this guy?
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We're looking from a minimum. We need says whilst I've been
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sitting here. I haven't seen him.
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Hmm. What I mean about meninas doing
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is told here, which of course we know is not lying.
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But, giving an alternative truth, which one may use in a
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circumstance tickets to to protect or for example, to avoid
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risk of harm. For example, this again is very,
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very discouraged unless it's a certain circumstance and if only
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a minimum we need did it. And we know like these are rare
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occasions, the life of the owner where they did.
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It rare occasions. And that's a time where there's
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volatility and aggression and War and all sorts, even then
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they rarely did it. And this was to preserve life
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was put to present that life as Yeah.
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And you know, because, you know, like we have, another Ferrari
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has narrated also, Lolly why you sent him?
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He has said, speak the truth. Even if it's bitter.
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Yeah, yeah, I need to an extent that we have to lie to make
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something sound so sweet. But here the the biggest proof
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of Allah on Earth is asking you to speak the truth even though
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it's bitter. But circumstances like this to
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protect life is where we learn from the island base and it's I
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think also falls under the category of tough area.
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Yeah yeah. It's interesting.
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Also, nowadays to get someone to believe you.
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You have to say what? Allah Allah he or however you
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say orcas are possible. Father honestly, Abbas Abbas,
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it's up to you. Yeah.
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It's a lot of bus. I mean, this is so common
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nowadays, even myself and I'm sure many of the listeners is
23:03
affected by this is. And I think I was speaking to a
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bit earlier. It was like, you know, sometimes
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we can hear someone, he mentions the word god 50.
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Times in a sentence and the sentence has five words.
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While I want their one lie saw this and one like I can't
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believe what happened, you want the amount of times while I was
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being spoken, you know it's absolutely yeah it is no doubts
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about what lalala lalala lalalala you go on and on and on
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it's not good but just we all remember like that without
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laughing about this but lying pain, the pain, the name of
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Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala and you're like I think is like, we
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know the Holy Quran. Says last month I says do not
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take the name of your lord in vain.
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Mmm. Anyone like you can't just use
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the name of Allah subhanaw taala.
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So like me, just let me use the name of God in play or in sport.
23:52
Like you know, you can't use it for your own entertainment, but
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I think there's a cultural thing, isn't it?
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Like we've grown up in some communities, do a lot.
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They do, they do and I think it mostly happens in Gossip
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circles. Yeah.
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And if you're not near the gossip, you're not going to hear
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lies best. If you're always lying yourself,
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you're going to be attracted to this gossip Circle.
24:12
We'll do it when they're in arguments to try and back
24:15
themselves. Yes, they doing just to preserve
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their own reputation. If it's got to the point they
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don't mind destroying. Someone else's reputation to
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save this. Yeah and if it's got to the
24:26
point said, when if you have to say well love for someone else
24:31
to believe you and the chances are that you know yourself that
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you're not a believable person, just want to me.
24:38
But if you have to prove that you're telling the truth by
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using the word of Allah, the name of Allah.
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Last part of what, Allah, there's a chance that you are
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not believable person that, you know, people won't believe you.
24:48
And why is that do you give off qualities?
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What is it about you? That's not believable.
24:53
Why did you have to use the name of God in vain to make someone
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else believe? And I think a lot of people,
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forget, lying is a sin. It's Haram the Annie.
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There's no black and white to it.
25:02
It's Haram, you know, Taqueria is concealing is not lying,
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okay? But lying in any case is Haram
25:09
and it's actually included in the major sins.
25:12
And I've even read it. And it said for example at the
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time of someone as they are lying, they have left Islam.
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The man they've stepped their stop lying.
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They come back as Muslims. That's how much they have told
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us. They're headed back to stay away
25:26
from lying. So yeah.
25:28
I need for someone that for example, keep saying 11 and
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every sentence or for someone that would rather lie to destroy
25:37
someone's reputation to make sure they look like Angels.
25:39
Yeah, it's a disease. Yeah, I said disease.
25:42
And it's not something that someone comes up with every day,
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I don't know, intention is saying, I'm going to lie now
25:47
becomes automatic. That means it's because they've
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been lying their entire life. That is not easy for someone to
25:52
come out and say I saw X do this.
25:56
They did that. There's no easy.
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Mmm. When I leave it there, there's
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so many just to just to kind of maybe close and is so many
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examples in their life of the the life of their own mother
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Salam. Where Huck is the number one
26:14
priority. It's know when we talk about
26:17
about the letter saying so they sadhana we usually use some
26:21
cliche terms social justice Warrior stood for justice
26:25
against oppression, yada yada. To be really honest.
26:28
That's like a secondary quality, that should make everyone
26:31
understand. Yeah, it's a very Global istic,
26:34
amongst understanding the Imam. The reality is Imam.
26:37
Hussein alehissalaam, stood for Hulk, still gets bothered, and
26:41
that, is he, that's fundamentally?
26:42
What he did, he stood for the religion of Islam, the religion
26:45
was grandfather to preserve the religion that was initially
26:47
brought by his grandfather and that is the ultimate goal goal.
26:51
That is, that is, you know, he's working towards absolute truth
26:54
and that absolute truth. There's a lot of talent either
26:56
so I'm shocked. We can try and, you know, not
26:59
only Implement that, but in terms of how we speak, but also
27:02
in the way we approach Our Lives, you know, and I'm going
27:05
to share something with the listeners of the podcast.
27:07
You know, I was speaking to a comment earlier on and we were
27:10
speaking about this subject as well about telling the truth and
27:13
everything. And I met told me something.
27:16
Let me talk to them directly. And I told me something that for
27:19
you to always say the truth, you have to always put hack first.
27:23
You did, you did, am I giving you any memories here?
27:27
God. I was hoping you can.
27:28
You can tell the tale delicious. Always say the truth.
27:31
You have to say that you need. You need to believe a hack.
27:33
Yeah. After the Hawkeyes, number one
27:35
for you to be truthful. Yeah.
27:36
Of course of course how can we Embrace truth in our core?
27:41
How can we live our lives on the path of Seurat?
27:44
Almost a team. If we haven't understood hug and
27:46
if you love striving for Huck, but I'm lying to myself.
27:49
Yeah, I can go out and portray an image.
27:52
I'm a religious guy, I pray, I recited the mosque.
27:54
We have many of you gonna podcast.
27:56
For example, Myself included ourselves and home.
27:59
For example, we're not doing a Just Adjust this to ourselves to
28:03
our families. You know, we are lying to
28:05
ourselves if we're not truthful to ourselves, we won't get
28:09
anywhere. We're living in a facade.
28:11
The last thing I'll say is Bartley.
28:13
Whatever is considered Barthel is an illusion Aslam Akins
28:17
Barton to like bubbles on water that it's an illusion.
28:22
I lost one. Tyler says in the Holy Quran he
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Compares himself with the idols. He says, how am I Different to
28:27
the idols. Allah says that I am the Huck,
28:30
the absolute Huck and the other Idols are Barton their void,
28:34
their unapparent, they will disappear there and illusion,
28:38
everything which is falsehood in.
28:39
Islam is an illusion and we have to remember that because if
28:42
we're listening to music, we're looking at girls or the opposite
28:45
gender, or whatever it is or where lying to our co-workers or
28:47
would like to our wife or husband, or our parents or
28:50
whatever it is. We're not going to get away with
28:53
it, lying on our job application.
28:54
I'm gonna chop up the even the sweet things we Easy for us was
28:58
a lie. Yeah, things we considered to be
29:00
small or lies so we're not going to get anywhere in life.
29:02
Allah is not, you know, stuff a lot, he's not unaware of what we
29:06
do. He knows everything.
29:07
He is listening and watching to everything we do and that's why
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I think it becomes easy to lie. We saw forget, Allah is there.
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Yeah, if we put them everywhere, we go, that's where he is.
29:15
Let's be honest. He's everywhere further.
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If we can always remember Allah is always watching over us.
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I don't think it becomes easy to lie.
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Absolutely. So, you know where you'll be
29:23
held accountable? Yeah.
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Yeah, I love comments. Said any last comments I would
29:29
say to everyone listening stick with the truth and not false.
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Hold I'll um I'll hack on hack home are highly unusual, the
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