Latest / Divas That Care Network / Business Strategist, Speaker, Elite Mentor
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- 0:00SPEAKER_00: Well,
- 0:03SPEAKER_01: hello everyone and welcome back to the Divas That Care.
- 0:06SPEAKER_01: My name is Candice Gish and I'm the host of this program.
- 0:09SPEAKER_01: Well, I'm so excited that you guys have all tuned in today.
- 0:11SPEAKER_01: We're going to have a great show for you.
- 0:13SPEAKER_01: If it's your first time to the Divas That Care network, you know our program has been running now for 10 years.
- 0:19SPEAKER_01: We have amazing hosts that are interviewing people from around the world.
- 0:23SPEAKER_01: We're listened to now in 30 countries and we're so excited about that.
- 0:26SPEAKER_01: So welcome to all of you.
- 0:28SPEAKER_01: And if you have a chance, check out our hashtag.
- 0:31SPEAKER_01: It's Divas That Care.
- 0:32SPEAKER_01: And what you'll find is some amazing people that are doing extraordinary things.
- 0:36SPEAKER_01: So we always want to Follow them and see what they're doing.
- 0:39SPEAKER_01: Today, I'm going to be welcoming back a good friend of mine.
- 0:44SPEAKER_01: She's been on our program before.
- 0:45SPEAKER_01: I had the opportunity to have her in one of our anthologies for the Divas That Care.
- 0:49SPEAKER_01: She's a beautiful woman.
- 0:50SPEAKER_01: She is absolutely extraordinary.
- 0:52SPEAKER_01: She's inspiring.
- 0:53SPEAKER_01: She's empowering.
- 0:55SPEAKER_01: She's doing so much in this world to make it a better place.
- 0:58SPEAKER_01: I'm just always so excited when I have the opportunity to chat with her.
- 1:02SPEAKER_01: Charity, welcome to the program.
- 1:04SPEAKER_01: I'm so excited to have you back.
- 1:06SPEAKER_01: Hi, Candice.
- 1:07SPEAKER_01: How are you?
- 1:08SPEAKER_01: Thanks so much for having me.
- 1:10SPEAKER_01: I am so excited to have you.
- 1:11SPEAKER_01: You know what?
- 1:12SPEAKER_01: It's always a great time when you and I get to chat.
- 1:14SPEAKER_01: We had an opportunity a couple of minutes before the show just to say, hey, how are you doing?
- 1:18SPEAKER_01: And just to see how you're doing with everything that's happening in the world.
- 1:21SPEAKER_01: And, you know, you are a perfect person to have on our program today.
- 1:24SPEAKER_01: As I said, you are so inspiring.
- 1:26SPEAKER_01: I love having you on all the time and just chatting with you.
- 1:29SPEAKER_01: Before we dive into everything that you're doing today, could you share a little bit about yourself, a little bit of your background for all of our new listeners today?
- 1:39SPEAKER_01: Sure, certainly I'd be happy to.
- 1:40SPEAKER_01: Just to kind of give you a brief little snapshot of who I am, I run, I'm the CEO of Grit to Glory.
- 1:47SPEAKER_01: That's an empowerment company where we teach women how to elevate their mindset, clarify their message, monetize their message.
- 1:54SPEAKER_01: But to try to tell you a little bit about my background, just in a little quick snapshot, Grit to Glory, you know, comes from a place of really– It's kind of built from who I am, right?
- 2:09SPEAKER_01: And the best breeding comes from that, right?
- 2:11SPEAKER_01: It's really built in areas kind of in a way, you know, Candace, and how things are going today, if it's okay.
- 2:19SPEAKER_01: I'm going to kind of weave my story into the way a lot of people might feel today in the times that we're facing right now, okay?
- 2:27SPEAKER_01: So if you'll just go with me for a second, you know, I don't know, 12 years ago, I found myself in a position where I was in my 20s.
- 2:34SPEAKER_01: I was a young mom.
- 2:36SPEAKER_01: I was an early Thank you so much.
- 2:45SPEAKER_01: I found myself 12 years ago in a situation where I would call it my rock bottom, right?
- 2:50SPEAKER_01: And everybody else has a different type of rock bottom, right?
- 2:54SPEAKER_01: It looks different for different people.
- 2:56SPEAKER_01: But for me, mine looked like that I was homeless.
- 2:59SPEAKER_01: I was walking back and forth from my retail job, and I was really lost, okay?
- 3:04SPEAKER_01: And so, you know, kind of the things that I say, and I don't say this in a way– Because it's really, honestly, it's like, you know, I don't know if it's the best thing to kind of brag about.
- 3:13SPEAKER_01: But, you know, for those that are in a place where they feel like that they're rock bottom or they're scared or they're leaning more towards fear or they're finding themselves, you know, paralyzed in fear and it's keeping them from, you know, stretching into their gifts, I'll tell you that, you know, I feel as though I have a Ph.D.
- 3:28SPEAKER_01: in turn and setbacks and the comebacks, okay?
- 3:30SPEAKER_01: So as I was homeless, right, 12 years ago, I remember just trying to figure things out, trying to figure things out for my kids, trying to figure out what I was going to do with my life.
- 3:40SPEAKER_01: You know, I was young, 22, 23 years old.
- 3:43SPEAKER_01: And I remember one day I walked to the recruiter station's office that was there in the small town that I was in a homeless shelter in.
- 3:53SPEAKER_01: And I remember pacing outside the back of that door, like just pacing and pacing and pacing and thinking, you know, is this the next right step for me, right?
- 4:00SPEAKER_01: Because I was so determined, Candace, to not be a statistic.
- 4:05SPEAKER_01: I grew up in kind of a lower poverty type mindset, things like that.
- 4:10SPEAKER_01: And I remember as a little girl making a vow to myself that that wouldn't be the same kind of mindset that I would adopt and pass on to whoever, to my children even.
- 4:21SPEAKER_01: And in that particular situation, the answer for me was to go ahead and walk in and have a conversation with those guys.
- 4:29SPEAKER_01: And so that's what I did.
- 4:30SPEAKER_01: I joined the United States Army, and that ended up being one of the best decisions that I ever did make along that journey.
- 4:38SPEAKER_01: I did a tour in Afghanistan.
- 4:40SPEAKER_01: I learned a lot about myself, right?
- 4:42SPEAKER_01: It really helped develop me.
- 4:44SPEAKER_01: It helped develop me.
- 4:45SPEAKER_01: What already I felt like was a foundation of being an overcomer.
- 4:49SPEAKER_01: You know, I was kind of a gritty kind of girl.
- 4:51SPEAKER_01: You know what I'm saying?
- 4:54SPEAKER_01: Oh, yeah.
- 4:54SPEAKER_01: You know what I mean?
- 4:55SPEAKER_01: You know, like she'd be up and spit me out a couple times, but I was persevering, you know, all the time.
- 5:01SPEAKER_01: So I joined the military.
- 5:02SPEAKER_01: You know, there I did not necessarily find personal development, okay?
- 5:07SPEAKER_01: It was a couple years into my military term that I ran into what I believe is one of the best industries in the world It was my gateway to entrepreneurship, and that's network marketing.
- 5:20SPEAKER_01: In network marketing, I was able to truly transform, like, my mind.
- 5:25SPEAKER_01: I was able to learn better leadership skills.
- 5:26SPEAKER_01: I was able to work with people all over the world, you know, grew a very large organization around the world, scaled multiple millions in sales around the world, helped a lot of people make a lot of money and helped a lot of people achieve their dreams.
- 5:39SPEAKER_01: And, you know, did that for quite a while, nearly a decade, and then transitioned out and decided, you know what?
- 5:46SPEAKER_01: I'm going to keep doing what it is that I do have done in network marketing, but I'm going to do it in a way where that I'm still teaching people how to elevate their mindset, right?
- 5:57SPEAKER_01: I'm still teaching people how to go after what they desire in designing success and whatever that looks like for them, right?
- 6:06SPEAKER_01: So clarifying their message in regards to What, you know, where do you want at?
- 6:12SPEAKER_01: What can you teach?
- 6:13SPEAKER_01: What can you monetize?
- 6:14SPEAKER_01: What's passionate in your heart, right?
- 6:17SPEAKER_01: And helping them really get crystal clear on that, creating a brand, creating an online marketing strategy, and then monetizing their message.
- 6:23SPEAKER_01: And so that's a long walk around the block, but that's a little bit about me.
- 6:31SPEAKER_01: That's a little bit about what I'm up to these days, a little bit in a way that I'm, you know, showing up to serve the world to use my gifts, right?
- 6:38SPEAKER_01: Oh, I love it.
- 6:39SPEAKER_01: And that's what you are.
- 6:40SPEAKER_01: You definitely use your gifts.
- 6:42SPEAKER_01: You know, I had the opportunity to meet you years ago when you were a part of Network Marketing Company.
- 6:45SPEAKER_01: And you, I always thought, oh, she is just a ray of sunshine.
- 6:50SPEAKER_01: You know, you just had the biggest smile on your face.
- 6:52SPEAKER_01: I'm like, you're doing what you love.
- 6:54SPEAKER_01: And now you're teaching others to do the same thing.
- 6:56SPEAKER_01: And I just, I love it.
- 6:57SPEAKER_01: I love what you are doing.
- 6:58SPEAKER_01: I love the messages that you're offering.
- 7:00SPEAKER_01: I love that you're the founder of the Grit to Glory.
- 7:03SPEAKER_01: And it sounds like a thing that a lot of people will be able to use out there.
- 7:10SPEAKER_01: Oh, 100%, you know?
- 7:12SPEAKER_01: Really...
- 7:14SPEAKER_01: I would say that the three pillars that I focus on most, I don't have to say it over and over again, elevating mindset, clarifying message, monetizing message, but, you know, all I've really done is I've said, okay, you know, where have I thrived?
- 7:25SPEAKER_01: What is my competitive advantage?
- 7:27SPEAKER_01: Like, how can I help people win that I feel that is better than other people?
- 7:32SPEAKER_01: And that doesn't mean necessarily from an egotistical standpoint, right?
- 7:35SPEAKER_01: We all have a story, and that's what makes us unique, but I really feel like that that's inside of the, you know, mindset, sales, and leadership.
- 7:43SPEAKER_01: And so, you I'm showing up just to say like, hey, listen, it doesn't have to– maybe you got knocked down or whatever it is kind of thing.
- 7:55SPEAKER_01: I'm not necessarily– not always are the clients that I'm working with people that– Yeah.
- 8:04SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 8:30SPEAKER_01: I'm in right now and the moment that everyone's in at this moment in regards to how they're showing up and that the game that they're playing in and the next level, if they choose to go into that next level, they will be a different person.
- 8:42SPEAKER_01: They will have different confidence.
- 8:43SPEAKER_01: They will have different confidence.
- 8:44SPEAKER_01: They will have, it will be a transformation of mindset.
- 8:48SPEAKER_00: Oh
- 8:49SPEAKER_01: yeah.
- 8:49SPEAKER_01: Of everything.
- 8:50SPEAKER_01: And so I'm showing up, you know, leadership is a transfer of belief.
- 8:56SPEAKER_01: It's going first.
- 8:57SPEAKER_01: It's moving first.
- 8:58SPEAKER_01: It's being a person that says, you know what, you know, So often people, Candice, say, I want to be a leader.
- 9:03SPEAKER_01: And it's like, okay, great.
- 9:04SPEAKER_01: Well, what impact are you making in the world?
- 9:06SPEAKER_01: Because they're paralyzed to move.
- 9:07SPEAKER_01: What is leadership?
- 9:08SPEAKER_01: Leadership is movement.
- 9:10SPEAKER_01: And when you begin to move, people follow.
- 9:12SPEAKER_01: And so I'm standing here saying, you know what?
- 9:14SPEAKER_01: There's been times that have been uncertain.
- 9:15SPEAKER_01: In this day and age, right at this moment, this is the craziest thing ever.
- 9:19SPEAKER_01: Like, I've sat in my room and gone, what in the world is happening?
- 9:24SPEAKER_01: Yeah, exactly.
- 9:25SPEAKER_01: And honestly...
- 9:27SPEAKER_01: We've had the, you know, I've had those moments that I'll be, you know, humbly say, like, you know, that I felt knocked off course just a little bit, you know, where it was like, what in the world?
- 9:35SPEAKER_01: What do we do?
- 9:36SPEAKER_01: You know, what, you know, do I keep speaking this message?
- 9:39SPEAKER_01: Like, there's all these questions, all these uncertainties, all these doubts, but it's learning to go, you know what, I'm shutting that down.
- 9:44SPEAKER_01: Because yes, this is a crisis.
- 9:46SPEAKER_01: Yes, this is what's happening in the world.
- 9:48SPEAKER_01: But that doesn't mean that we don't stand up as leaders and lead, right?
- 9:52SPEAKER_01: And so now even more so it's important for us to show up and lead and empower.
- 9:56SPEAKER_01: And I feel like my church is coming out a little bit.
- 10:00SPEAKER_01: I'm getting fired up.
- 10:04SPEAKER_01: I love it.
- 10:04SPEAKER_01: And that's what I was going to ask you.
- 10:06SPEAKER_01: This is probably the perfect time for people to get up and let's do this.
- 10:11SPEAKER_01: Because, you know, we're at home, we're doing things, and I think it's really important to keep moving and to be motivated and to do the things that we need to do in order to get past this and into the next stage.
- 10:22SPEAKER_01: I think that the leaders will come out of the woodworks because they're going to have that realization that, you know what, instead of just sitting back and waiting, we need to start moving now.
- 10:34SPEAKER_01: Absolutely.
- 10:35SPEAKER_01: That's the gameplay right now as to where we would rather, you know, our brain is designed to protect us, right?
- 10:41SPEAKER_01: And, you know, I don't have to go and talk about scientific things.
- 10:44SPEAKER_01: Like, that's not really like, you know, my MO kind of thing.
- 10:47SPEAKER_01: But it's scientifically proven that our brain is designed to protect us.
- 10:50SPEAKER_01: So in moments where, like, even I shared where I was like, oh, my gosh, you know, it was almost like it was one of those things where you almost want to go into hygiene.
- 10:57SPEAKER_01: You want to do something that feels safe, that feels within your comfort zone.
- 11:00SPEAKER_01: But absolutely, as we talked about, leadership is moving forward.
- 11:03SPEAKER_01: It's stepping out.
- 11:03SPEAKER_01: It's saying, you know, I'm going to do this.
- 11:04SPEAKER_01: You know what?
- 11:05SPEAKER_01: Follow me.
- 11:06SPEAKER_01: Because there's a lot of people out there, honestly, that they are scared.
- 11:08SPEAKER_01: And there's a lot of people with a lot of talent and a lot of gifts.
- 11:11SPEAKER_01: And, you know, before this even happened, that there was momentum in their businesses, whatever, you know, whatever one that was at or whatever placement, blah, blah, blah, wherever that might have been, their momentum changed.
- 11:25SPEAKER_01: Thank you so much.
- 11:52SPEAKER_01: I would encourage anybody to listen to this, but they would lean into the faith.
- 12:22SPEAKER_01: the confidence, that have all those things and to take action.
- 12:25SPEAKER_01: It's not the time to slow down.
- 12:26SPEAKER_01: It's the time to lean in because I will tell you this, there were moments where I didn't know what I was going to do.
- 12:31SPEAKER_01: You know, there were moments in my life where I lost everything.
- 12:34SPEAKER_01: I've done it more than once.
- 12:36SPEAKER_01: And I remember, you know, sitting in a living room with no furniture, like nothing in my house and not sure, like, you know, like there was so much uncertainty, Candice, like that it was like,
- 12:47SPEAKER_00: I
- 12:47SPEAKER_01: don't even know like what I'm doing.
- 12:49SPEAKER_01: And it's in those moments that if I did not have, if I had not have chosen faith over fear, fear would have paralyzed me.
- 12:56SPEAKER_01: Fear would have taken me out like straight up.
- 13:00SPEAKER_01: I know that's kind of a funny way to say that.
- 13:04SPEAKER_01: But it would have taken me out.
- 13:05SPEAKER_01: And instead, because I leaned into that faith.
- 13:08SPEAKER_01: And not just faith and saying, oh, I'm just faithful kind of thing.
- 13:11SPEAKER_01: But it was like, okay, what's the next right step?
- 13:13SPEAKER_01: And even if it was a small step.
- 13:15SPEAKER_01: You know, I remember, you know, being in a situation like that.
- 13:18SPEAKER_01: And I'm just being straight up about this.
- 13:21SPEAKER_01: Like, I remember being in a particular situation like that where, like, I didn't even know.
- 13:25SPEAKER_01: I remember, like, investing.
- 13:27SPEAKER_01: Like, personal development is a huge thing for me.
- 13:29SPEAKER_01: And I remember, like, taking$111 because I didn't even have$111.
- 13:33SPEAKER_01: I remember investing myself so that I could be in that energy of, of somebody that was leading and that had that courage and that was doing all this stuff.
- 13:43SPEAKER_01: And I remember plugging into that and like just assessing, okay, well, this is the next right step for me.
- 13:48SPEAKER_01: So I'm going to take this inspired action.
- 13:50SPEAKER_01: And I didn't understand.
- 13:52SPEAKER_01: Um, I had vision of where I wanted it to go.
- 13:55SPEAKER_01: Right.
- 13:56SPEAKER_01: But I didn't understand necessarily, um, It was like invisible air.
- 14:01SPEAKER_01: Do you know what I'm saying?
- 14:02SPEAKER_01: It's like you're stepping and you're like, I'm going to fall.
- 14:04SPEAKER_01: Oh, yeah.
- 14:07SPEAKER_01: It's hard for people.
- 14:08SPEAKER_01: Yep.
- 14:09SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 14:10SPEAKER_01: Every single time, I always leave it on solid ground, though, you know?
- 14:14SPEAKER_01: And so that's the thing is in this moment, it's like I know it's scary.
- 14:19SPEAKER_01: I know that there's uncertainty.
- 14:21SPEAKER_01: I can relate because I can remember, you know, 12 years ago.
- 14:24SPEAKER_01: I can remember a few years ago.
- 14:26SPEAKER_01: I can remember moments where it was like, man, like this is– I've got to dig deep.
- 14:32SPEAKER_01: I've got to get my grit, you know, get my grit factor on.
- 14:34SPEAKER_01: I do.
- 14:35SPEAKER_01: And, Charity, I want to ask you– Because a lot of people are thinking, oh, yeah, I get that.
- 14:41SPEAKER_01: She's doing that.
- 14:41SPEAKER_01: But I want to kind of dive into, a lot of people are very like, well, I can't do this.
- 14:45SPEAKER_01: My children are at home.
- 14:46SPEAKER_01: I've got, you know, I've got other responses.
- 14:49SPEAKER_01: I'm kind of housebound now.
- 14:51SPEAKER_01: Can you address that?
- 14:52SPEAKER_01: Because I know you've been a homeschool mom.
- 14:56SPEAKER_01: On top of that, you know, you've got, you know, yeah.
- 14:59SPEAKER_01: So I want to kind of dive into a little bit about that, how you were able to balance it all.
- 15:04SPEAKER_01: Absolutely.
- 15:05SPEAKER_01: Well, I think balance is a little bit of a myth, you know.
- 15:08SPEAKER_01: That is true.
- 15:11SPEAKER_01: You know, we strive for it, right?
- 15:13SPEAKER_01: But, you know, I really feel like in the moments where it's like, well, I mean, this can either be my tombstone or it can be my stepping stone, right?
- 15:19SPEAKER_01: And with my children at home, which they're older now, but, you know, in the decades that I built network marketing, they were home.
- 15:25SPEAKER_01: Like, that's what we strive for with full-time family and helping others have a full-time family.
- 15:29SPEAKER_01: And, you know, we just found ways that...
- 15:33SPEAKER_01: I mean, there was just structure, if that makes sense.
- 15:35SPEAKER_01: Now, what we've got kind of going on right now today, it's not necessarily homeschool because, like, it's still, like, confined inside of a home.
- 15:41SPEAKER_01: Yeah, we used to do stuff.
- 15:45SPEAKER_01: But...
- 15:45SPEAKER_01: just finding creative ways to do that, you know, to, to, you know, set boundaries and like just structure as much structure for me.
- 15:52SPEAKER_01: This is what works for me inside of these kinds of things.
- 15:55SPEAKER_01: I thrive in situations like this because it's like, okay, this is the structure.
- 15:58SPEAKER_01: This is the time.
- 15:59SPEAKER_01: And you know, you're going to be working on this and we're going to be working on this.
- 16:01SPEAKER_01: And it was weaving things into the pocket of my life.
- 16:03SPEAKER_01: So maybe early in the morning, I'm working on things now, maybe it's later at night that I'm working on things or, you know, whenever the kids are doing something else, I'm working on something, you know, if that makes sense.
- 16:12SPEAKER_01: So it's like, it's still just being creative with how we can structure.
- 16:15SPEAKER_01: Exactly.
- 16:17SPEAKER_01: With this shift, right?
- 16:19SPEAKER_01: I have another system that I teach in regards to like, you know, different color post-its and color blocking your time and things like that under these different circumstances, which you could still kind of probably implement that, right?
- 16:33SPEAKER_01: You can.
- 16:33SPEAKER_01: But, you know, I think it's just being intentional.
- 16:36SPEAKER_01: You know, you have to be intentional and take– Get in the driver's seat of your life or at least be the co-pilot, you know, and, you know, let the divine, right, because we're all connected to a divine, I believe that, whatever it is that you believe in your faith, but something bigger, a bigger power than ourselves.
- 16:53SPEAKER_01: Let them be the driver, right, so surrender and trust, lean into that faith, sit in the co-pilot and do your job.
- 16:59SPEAKER_01: You know what I'm saying?
- 17:01SPEAKER_01: Exactly.
- 17:02SPEAKER_01: And, you know, I find this exciting.
- 17:04SPEAKER_01: You know what?
- 17:05SPEAKER_01: As much as it's a scary time right now and people are confused and stuff, I find it exciting and I always think of the possibilities.
- 17:11SPEAKER_01: So I try to turn things around and say, okay, now what can we do?
- 17:15SPEAKER_01: What can we do to make things better?
- 17:17SPEAKER_01: How can we just grow and change and evolve?
- 17:23SPEAKER_01: Oh, 100%.
- 17:25SPEAKER_01: You know, I believe that's– I'm in alignment with you on that.
- 17:28SPEAKER_01: How do you say that?
- 17:29SPEAKER_01: Apostlaterian?
- 17:32SPEAKER_01: You know, right?
- 17:33SPEAKER_01: Like, what's possible?
- 17:35SPEAKER_01: You know, what can we learn from this?
- 17:36SPEAKER_01: What is this teaching us?
- 17:38SPEAKER_01: You know, I've noticed myself with something that– It's really some of the simple simplicities.
- 17:45SPEAKER_01: Now, we've only been really kind of home, you know, confined to our home now, I guess, over a week or so.
- 17:51SPEAKER_01: I feel like that that's about how long it's been.
- 17:53SPEAKER_01: I don't know exactly because the days are blurring together.
- 17:56SPEAKER_01: But in that initial, that initial like transition of everybody, you know, kind of being at home and the kids being home and all the things.
- 18:02SPEAKER_01: Um, there was a lot of, it was actually kind of nice to kind of slow down and, you know, to see the kids be like, you know, I have teenagers now.
- 18:10SPEAKER_01: And so, like, I even kind of saw them do like, you know, how would you say it?
- 18:16SPEAKER_01: Like my 12-year-old, who will be 13 next month, you know, she's kind of slowing down a little bit.
- 18:21SPEAKER_01: I've seen her, like, be little again.
- 18:23SPEAKER_01: Does that make sense?
- 18:23SPEAKER_01: Like it's such a fast pace.
- 18:25SPEAKER_01: I have seen that.
- 18:26SPEAKER_01: Exactly.
- 18:27SPEAKER_01: Have you?
- 18:27SPEAKER_01: Well, when you're so used to going 24-7 and you're, you know, with myself, you know, driving to the city five days a week, you know, doing sports, doing this and that, and, you know, eating on the run, and you're always going.
- 18:39SPEAKER_01: And then to be able to embrace the moments.
- 18:43SPEAKER_01: Live in that moment of time and you're just enjoying it.
- 18:46SPEAKER_01: Whatever it is that you're doing, you're together.
- 18:48SPEAKER_01: And it's almost relaxing, I guess you could say.
- 18:53SPEAKER_01: I feel more relaxed in my life.
- 18:55SPEAKER_01: And I know that with everything going on, it is a very stressful time.
- 18:58SPEAKER_01: But I feel at the same time, though I am stressed with wondering what's going to happen, I'm very relaxed and in the moment of what is happening around me.
- 19:07SPEAKER_01: A hundred percent.
- 19:07SPEAKER_01: And just knowing that at this moment, all we really have We don't really have the past and we don't really have the future, but we have the present.
- 19:13SPEAKER_01: And so just really, truly using that as like the gift that it is.
- 19:16SPEAKER_01: And, you know, that in itself and taking those things and being intentional with that when we get on the other side of this, because we will certainly be on the other side of this.
- 19:30SPEAKER_01: Oh, that is so true.
- 19:31SPEAKER_01: I love it.
- 19:32SPEAKER_01: You know, and I love all the stuff that we're chatting about today because I think it's something people are talking about, things that everybody's kind of thinking about.
- 19:38SPEAKER_01: You know, they are living in the moment, but they're thinking about the future and everything is, you know, uncertain.
- 19:43SPEAKER_01: And you've got this opportunity to work with a lot of these people out there.
- 19:48SPEAKER_01: Charity, how can they get a hold of you in order to, you know, perhaps have that conversation with you?
- 19:54UNKNOWN: Sure.
- 19:55SPEAKER_01: I would love for them to connect with me.
- 19:56SPEAKER_01: I love making new friends.
- 20:10SPEAKER_01: My personal page, they can connect with me there.
- 20:13SPEAKER_01: I do a weekly series every single week on Sundays where I'm giving free value, free training, free inspiration.
- 20:20SPEAKER_01: I have a Facebook group, hashtag Grit to Glory Gladiators.
- 20:26SPEAKER_01: I do some free inspiration and challenges and things in there, build some community there.
- 20:31SPEAKER_01: And then, of course, they can also connect with me on Instagram.
- 20:35SPEAKER_01: That's also my name, at MissMRS.com.
- 20:39SPEAKER_01: Charity Schaefer.
- 20:40SPEAKER_01: So I'd love that.
- 20:41SPEAKER_01: Just reach out, say hi, you know, peek around, sneak around, whatever you want to call it.
- 20:46SPEAKER_01: And, you know, hopefully somewhere you'll find some value, right, that'll help serve you in your life in this moment.
- 20:55SPEAKER_01: Oh, I love that.
- 20:56SPEAKER_01: And everybody that has the Instagram, you really have to check out her page.
- 21:00SPEAKER_01: It is absolutely beautiful.
- 21:01SPEAKER_01: The pictures that she posts are just amazing of her and what she's doing.
- 21:05SPEAKER_01: And those in itself are– you know, for in regards to selfies and all that.
- 21:09SPEAKER_01: I just think they're beautiful and they do inspire people.
- 21:13SPEAKER_01: But I'm going to be posting all of Charity's social media links on our Facebook so that all of you guys can check that out too.
- 21:20SPEAKER_01: Well, Charity, I have one last thing for you today.
- 21:22SPEAKER_01: Would you mind sharing any tips or tools for our amazing listeners?
- 21:28SPEAKER_01: Gosh, I mean, aside from what I've already said, it's really just in this moment in time, you know, even if you're feeling scared in this moment or uncertain, that as I said, this too shall pass.
- 21:40SPEAKER_01: And you'll either look back, and this isn't a scare tactic, this isn't cliche, this isn't anything like that, but you'll look back.
- 21:48SPEAKER_01: You know, say we're on the other side of this in 90 days.
- 21:51SPEAKER_01: And you'll look back in 90 days and you'll go, gosh, I sure am glad that, you know, I didn't dabble, right, because the stars don't align for those that dabbled.
- 21:58SPEAKER_01: But I used this time where things slowed down to position my family and myself and my future and my business to be ahead.
- 22:05SPEAKER_01: And so you'll either look back and you'll say, gosh, I'm glad I did or, gosh, I wish I had of.
- 22:09SPEAKER_01: And I'm just going to encourage you to lean into that faith and to take that inspired action.
- 22:15SPEAKER_01: go after ascending to the person that you truly are born to be.
- 22:19SPEAKER_01: And I know that that's broad and that's big vision, but I believe every person on this planet was born to ascend from the time that we were born.
- 22:28SPEAKER_01: That's what we do, right?
- 22:30SPEAKER_01: We were born.
- 22:30SPEAKER_01: We didn't learn to crawl.
- 22:32SPEAKER_01: We didn't learn to walk.
- 22:34SPEAKER_01: We didn't learn to run.
- 22:35SPEAKER_01: We are born to ascend.
- 22:37SPEAKER_01: And so I would just encourage you to lean into that, to dig in, you know, with some grit and some capacity and some perseverance and And, you know, just really get after what you were created for and whatever that gift is that's been put on your heart.
- 22:54SPEAKER_01: And it may not all come at once, and that's okay, you know, but just to lean in.
- 23:01SPEAKER_01: Oh, I love it.
- 23:02SPEAKER_01: That is so beautiful.
- 23:03SPEAKER_01: You know, I really enjoyed having our conversation today.
- 23:06SPEAKER_01: You are amazing, girl.
- 23:07SPEAKER_01: I just love having you on all the time and just chatting with you.
- 23:10SPEAKER_01: Make sure to all of our listeners to go check out Grit to Glory.
- 23:13SPEAKER_01: You're going to love it.
- 23:14SPEAKER_01: She is, you know, it is amazing.
- 23:17SPEAKER_01: I love what you're doing, Charity.
- 23:18SPEAKER_01: You are, as I said, you are an inspiration and you're doing so many great things out there.
- 23:22SPEAKER_01: So thank you so much for being my guest.
- 23:25SPEAKER_01: Well, likewise to you, Candice.
- 23:27SPEAKER_01: I mean, you're leading the charge in so many ways, and you're such an incredible connector and building a community of women, of just people that are making a difference.
- 23:35SPEAKER_01: And so thank you so much.
- 23:36SPEAKER_01: My hat's off to you.
- 23:37SPEAKER_01: I'm honored to call you a friend.
- 23:39SPEAKER_01: And this is a big deal.
- 23:40SPEAKER_01: I appreciate you having me on the show today.
- 23:41SPEAKER_01: I really do.
- 23:42SPEAKER_01: I love having you too.
- 23:44SPEAKER_01: Oh, and thank you to all of our amazing listeners.
- 23:47SPEAKER_01: You know, it's because of you, we've continued to do this for 10 years.
- 23:50SPEAKER_01: You can listen to all of our shows on Spotify, iTunes, really anywhere that you can pick up on iTunes, or I mean, pick up any of the podcasts.
- 23:58SPEAKER_01: You can also check us out at divasatcare.com.
- 24:02SPEAKER_01: Yeah, so we have all these amazing women that have been on our program, so make sure you check out all of those podcasts.
- 24:07SPEAKER_01: Check out all of our hosts that are on our program.
- 24:09SPEAKER_01: And you know what?
- 24:11SPEAKER_01: I hope that each and every one of you has an amazing day and that you do something kind for somebody out there.
- 24:16SPEAKER_01: So take care, and we will talk to you guys all soon.
- 24:19SPEAKER_01: Bye-bye for now.