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Quiz How Much Can You Trust Others · A Capture Deep Vibs A Positive Space For Inspiration And Embracing Of Heart

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  Speaker 1: Hey, Psych2Goers, and welcome back to another video. Before we start,
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  Speaker 1: you help us do that. Now, let's continue. Have you
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  Speaker 1: ever wondered, why do I always end up trusting the
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  Speaker 1: wrong people? You give them a chance, they lie. You
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  Speaker 1: open up, they vanish. Now you're stuck between two extremes,
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  Speaker 1: trusting too fast or not at all. It's exhausting. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: a friend used you, a partner manipulated you, or a
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  Speaker 1: job crushed your confidence. Each bond feels like a gamble,
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  Speaker 1: and the walls you've built, they're starting to feel permanent.
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  Speaker 1: You're not broken. You've just learned to be careful, to
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  Speaker 1: protect yourself. So here's the real question. What has all
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  Speaker 1: this actually taught you about trust? It's not just what
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  Speaker 1: you say you believe. It's how you really operate. When
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  Speaker 1: you trust, your brain lights up. Those reward and emotional
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  Speaker 1: safety zones kick in. But the moment you're betrayed, boom,
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  Speaker 1: they shut down. It's not just in your head, your
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  Speaker 1: heart shuts down too. So grab a pen. As we
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  Speaker 1: go through this quiz, keep track of your A's, B's, C's, D's,
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  Speaker 1: and E's. And when you're done, we'll break down exactly
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  Speaker 1: what your style is and what it's trying to protect.
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  Speaker 1: Let's begin. Question one. When you meet someone new, how
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  Speaker 1: do you feel? A. They're probably awesome. Yay, new friend! B.
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  Speaker 1: I'll give them a chance, but I'm watching closely. C.
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  Speaker 1: Cautious optimism. Trust is earned. D. Better safe than sorry.
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  Speaker 1: Guard up. E. Nope. Stranger danger. Question number two. How
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  Speaker 1: often do you share a personal secret? A. All the time.
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  Speaker 1: We're all human. B. With friends I know well. C. Rarely.
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  Speaker 1: Only my inner circle. D. Almost never. I'd rather write
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  Speaker 1: it down. E. Never. My secrets are going to the grave.
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  Speaker 1: Question number three. Your friend cancels plans last minute. You think? A. Aw,
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  Speaker 1: I hope they're okay. Let's reschedule. B. It's fine. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: next time. C. Hmm, is this a pattern? D. Are
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  Speaker 1: they lying? Who were they with? Or E. Knew it.
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  Speaker 1: I trust no one anyway. Question number four. Which saying
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  Speaker 1: feels closest to your truth? A. Everyone deserves a chance. B. Trust,
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  Speaker 1: but verify. C. Trust must be earned. D. Fool me once,
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  Speaker 1: shame on you. Fool me twice, won't happen. Or E,
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  Speaker 1: trust no one, not even your cat. Question number five,
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  Speaker 1: how do you feel about teamwork? A, love it, more brains,
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  Speaker 1: more fun. B, good, as long as people do their part. C, okay,
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  Speaker 1: but I double check everyone's work. D, I'd rather do
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  Speaker 1: it myself. Or E, teamwork is a myth, I am
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  Speaker 1: the team. Question number six, if someone betrays you, what's
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  Speaker 1: your response? A, forgive and forget. B, try to talk
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  Speaker 1: it out. C, distance myself, learn my lesson. D, block, delete,
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  Speaker 1: walls up. Or E, swear revenge in the mirror. Question
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  Speaker 1: number seven, how do you handle other people's secrets? A,
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  Speaker 1: keep them safe. I trust they'd do the same. B.
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  Speaker 1: Hold them unless it's dangerous. C. Keep it, but watch
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  Speaker 1: if I shouldn't have trusted them. D. Regret ever hearing it.
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  Speaker 1: Or E. I don't want to know. Keep it away
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  Speaker 1: from me. Question number eight. Your vibe in relationships. A.
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  Speaker 1: Open heart, open book. B. Open but cautious. C. Slow build,
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  Speaker 1: loyalty proves trust. D, walls up until broken down. Or E, relationships?
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  Speaker 1: Cute idea. Question number nine. When someone praises you, do
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  Speaker 1: you believe them? A, totally, I'm amazing. B, mostly, unless
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  Speaker 1: it feels fake. C, depends, actions speak louder. D, skeptical,
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  Speaker 1: compliments hide motives. Or E, Lies. All lies. And finally,
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  Speaker 1: question number 10. How does your culture affect your trust? A.
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  Speaker 1: I grew up where trust comes easy. B. Respect is earned.
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  Speaker 1: Trust comes later. C. Family first, outsiders later. D. My
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  Speaker 1: people trust sparingly. Survival. Or E. I trust my dog.
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  Speaker 1: That's it. All right, time for results. Congratulations, you have
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  Speaker 1: just completed the quiz. Now let's tally your results. Count
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  Speaker 1: how many As, Bs, Cs, Ds, and Es you got.
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  Speaker 1: If you got mostly As, you're the open-hearted optimist. You
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  Speaker 1: like to see the good in people. You're open, trusting,
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  Speaker 1: and quick to believe in others. When someone hurts you,
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  Speaker 1: it stings, but you still try to give people the
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  Speaker 1: benefit of the doubt. That kindness is part of what
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  Speaker 1: makes you special. but sometimes it leads you into situations
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  Speaker 1: where you give too much too soon. It's okay to
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  Speaker 1: protect your heart a little more. Trust doesn't have to
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  Speaker 1: mean saying yes to everyone, just saying yes to the
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  Speaker 1: right ones. If you got mostly Bs, you're the healthy skeptic.
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  Speaker 1: You know how to stay balanced when it comes to trust.
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  Speaker 1: You're open but careful, friendly but observant. You give people
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  Speaker 1: a chance and pay attention to how they act. This
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  Speaker 1: shows strong emotional awareness You might feel cautious sometimes, but
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  Speaker 1: that's not a bad thing. Just remember, it's okay to
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  Speaker 1: relax a little when someone has shown they're consistent and kind.
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  Speaker 1: Not everyone has to prove themselves forever. If you got
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  Speaker 1: mostly Cs, you're the guarded realist. You've learned to be
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  Speaker 1: careful with your trust and that's understandable. You've seen that
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  Speaker 1: not everyone is honest and you don't open up easily.
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  Speaker 1: You take your time, watch people's actions and only let
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  Speaker 1: a few in. That kind of caution can protect you
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  Speaker 1: from a lot of hurt, but sometimes it can also
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  Speaker 1: keep the right people out. You don't have to change overnight.
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  Speaker 1: Just ask yourself, is your guard helping you connect or
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  Speaker 1: keeping you stuck? Small steps matter. Even a little trust
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  Speaker 1: given to the right person can go a long way.
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  Speaker 1: If you got mostly Ds, you're the walled fortress. You've
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  Speaker 1: been hurt before, maybe more than once. So now you
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  Speaker 1: keep people at a distance It's not that you don't care.
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  Speaker 1: You just don't want to go through that pain again.
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  Speaker 1: You've learned to rely on yourself and that's helped you
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  Speaker 1: stay safe. But staying safe can sometimes mean staying lonely.
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  Speaker 1: You don't need to let everyone in, but maybe, just maybe,
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  Speaker 1: it's time to notice who's shown up and who might
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  Speaker 1: deserve a little more trust. And if you got mostly ease,
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  Speaker 1: you're the lone wolf. Trust isn't something you give easily
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  Speaker 1: or at all. You depend on yourself, keep your circle
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  Speaker 1: small or non-existent, and question people's motives. That's not random.
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  Speaker 1: That is from experience. This kind of self-protection can help
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  Speaker 1: you feel in control, but it can also make life
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  Speaker 1: feel heavy and isolated. You don't need to trust everyone.
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  Speaker 1: Just one person who feels safe. That could be the
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  Speaker 1: beginning of something more. If and when you're ready. And
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  Speaker 1: if you got tied results, you're the flexible truster. Your
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  Speaker 1: trust style changes depending on where you are and who
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  Speaker 1: you're with. At work, you might be open. In relationships,
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  Speaker 1: more closed off. You could trust your best friend completely,
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  Speaker 1: but second guess your partner's kindness. That doesn't mean something's
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  Speaker 1: wrong with you. It means your trust is shaped by
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  Speaker 1: many experiences. But if it ever feels confusing or inconsistent,
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  Speaker 1: it might help to pause and ask, what's really making
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  Speaker 1: me hold back? This moment or my past? You don't
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  Speaker 1: need to have just one way of trusting. You just
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  Speaker 1: need to make sure it's your choice, not your fear.
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  Speaker 1: Whatever your result, just know this. There's no perfect way
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  Speaker 1: to trust. Some people open up too fast. Others hold
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  Speaker 1: back too long. But almost everyone is just trying to
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  Speaker 1: feel safe. Your trust style has reasons behind it, built
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  Speaker 1: from your experiences, your choices, and what you've learned. If
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  Speaker 1: it feels messy or confusing, that's normal. Now that you've
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  Speaker 1: seen your patterns, you can decide how to move forward.
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  Speaker 1: You don't have to change everything all at once. Even
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  Speaker 1: one small step, one honest moment, one safe connection can
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  Speaker 1: make a difference. Keep what protects you, let go of
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  Speaker 1: what holds you back, and when you're ready, let trust
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  Speaker 1: grow in its own time. Support us by subscribing, commenting,
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  Speaker 1: out our previous video on why you have trust issues.
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