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- Jo Watson: Welcome back to Unfiltered Faith. I'm Joe Watson, and it's time to breathe. Time to slow down. Time to let your shoulders drop and time to step into the sanctuary. Not the sanctuary we're all so familiar with, but the one that God is building inside you. Today's conversation is tender, emotional, and painfully relevant. Many people are discovering that. The political climate didn't just divide the nation. It divided our living rooms, it divided our dinner tables, and it divided our family gatherings. And it is one thing to see racial bias in the world, but it's another thing to discover it in your own family. That's the kind of discovery that can shape you. It can grieve you, and it can make you question. How to love people whose words wound your spirit. But let me say this, God is not intimidated by family tension, and He has wisdom for the places where love and conviction collide. A listener wrote in with a letter that speaks to the heartbreak of watching family members reveal beliefs that you never knew they had. Let's listen with compassion. Dear unfiltered faith, the political climate has put a tremendous strain on our family relationships. I am shocked by some of the racial biases I never knew existed in our family. I love my family and I want to spend time with them, but we can hardly be in the same room for more than a few minutes together and Before discussions turn into heated arguments, I'm ashamed that they don't see all people as created in the image of God, but I am also torn because I don't approve of their behavior and the things they say, even if according to them they say it in the privacy of their own home. Please help me with how I can deal with this signed. Heartbroken and don't know what to do. Well dear heartbroken, first, thank you for your honesty. Your letter carries the weight of someone who loves deeply and is hurting deeply. Let me say this clearly. Your grief is not weakness. Your discomfort is not overreaction. Your heartbreak is not. Is evidence of your spiritual maturity. You are seeing something your family cannot see, and that is painful. Scripture says in Genesis 1, verse 27, God created mankind in his own image, which means every person, every race, every background carries the imprint of God. So when your family speaks in ways that deny that truth, your spirit reacts, not because you're judgmental, but because you're aligned with God's heart. You ask, how do you deal with this? Here are three truths to anchor you. Number one, you can love people without agreeing with them. Love does not require silence. Love does not require Require approval, and your love does not require abandoning your convictions. Romans twelve nine says love must be sincere, hate what is evil, cling to what is good. You can cling to what is good even when your family does not. Number two, you can set boundaries without breaking relationships. Setting boundaries with family around politics and racist remarks begins with clarity, compassion, and courage. You don't have to absorb harmful conversations just because you share DNA. Love does not require you to tolerate what violates your spirit. Start by naming your limits gently but firmly. You can say I'm not discussing politics today, or I won't stay in conversations that demean people. You're not trying to change their worldview. You're protecting your peace. Then, if the conversation shifts into racism or hostility, excuse yourself without drama. Your exit is a boundary. You can also set expectations before gatherings. You can say I I'm here for family time or not political debates or let's keep our conversation respectful. Boundaries don't break relationship, they preserve it by preventing emotional injury. And remember, Scripture supports this kind of wisdom. Romans twelve chapter eighteen says if it is possible, as far as it depends on you to Live at peace with everyone. Peace sometimes means stepping back, changing the subject, shortening the visit, or refusing to participate in harmful dialogue. Boundaries are not rejection, they are stewardship of your heart. And number three, you are not responsible for changing your family, only. For honoring God. You cannot fix your family's worldview. You cannot force revelation on them. And you cannot make them see what they refuse to see. But what you can do is remain faithful to what God has shown you. Micah chapter 6, verse 8, calls us to do justice, love, mercy, and walk humbly. With God. Justice is your conviction. Mercy is your posture. Humility is your tone. And the heart of your letter sounds like you are doing better than you think. I want to stop right here and pray for this listener and for their family. And for any of you. Who are experiencing navigating this political climate with your family. Father, today, we lift up every listener who is navigating family tension, political division, and racial pain. You see the heartbreak, you see the confusion, you see the desire to love well while standing for truth. Give them wisdom that is gentle. Give them courage that is compassionate. Give them strength that is steady. Give them peace that guards their heart, and heal the wounds caused by words. Soften hearts that have grown hard, and let your love be the loudest voice in every family gathering. In Jesus' name, amen. Let me say to the listeners here today, you will not lose yourself trying to keep the peace. You will not silence your convictions to maintain comfort. You will not carry shame for what others refuse to see. You will not be shaken by their blindness. You will be anchored by God's truth. God is giving you wisdom from every conversation, grace for every gathering. And courage for every moment. You will love well. You will stand firm. You will walk in truth. And you will remain whole. Family, thank you for joining me today. And remember, you can love your family without agreeing with them. You can honor God without abandoning them. And you can protect your peace without breaking relationship. God will guide you. God will steady you, and God will strengthen you. And if you are carrying a weight that feels too heavy to hold, please remember that this podcast is not a substitution for professional therapy or pastoral care. Reach out. Get the support you need. You deserve that kind of care. And if you would like to send in a question or share a story with Unfiltered Faith, you can reach us at Joe. At unfilteredfaithpod dot com. We would love to hear from you. Your testimonies and your experiences, they matter, they help others grow, they encourage weary hearts, and they draw people closer to Jesus. Until next time, Family Unfiltered Faith, God is moving, so stay ready. And to God thee the glory.