Latest / Reformed Thinking / Crowns in the Shadow of the Cross: Ambition, Suffering, and Sovereignty (Matthew 20:20–23)
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- 0:00So imagine attending a really solemn funeral for a beloved
- 0:05friend. Oh wow, yeah, that is a heavy
- 0:08scenario to start with, right? It is a tear filled service,
- 0:11right? The casket is being lowered into
- 0:12the ground and the grieving widow is standing there weeping,
- 0:18just, you know, completely shattered by the loss.
- 0:20That is just heartbreaking to even picture.
- 0:22It is, but now imagine a Co worker of the deceased walking
- 0:26right up to that widow. OK.
- 0:29And he pulls her aside and he asks, hey, since he's gone, can
- 0:32I take over his corner office? Wow.
- 0:35I mean, that is just completely inappropriate.
- 0:37It really is. It sounds entirely unthinkable.
- 0:40Yeah, staggering display of carnal ambition right in the
- 0:43middle of a tragic. I precisely well, welcome to
- 0:45Reform Thinking. I am thrilled you are joining us
- 0:47today. We are very glad you were here
- 0:49with us. We were taking a theological and
- 0:51exegetical look at a moment in biblical history where human
- 0:55ambition was, well, that grotesque.
- 0:57We are looking at Matthew chapter 20, verses 20 through
- 1:0023. Yes, and to help us unpack this
- 1:02passage, we are drawing insights from 2 incredibly detailed
- 1:06theological commentaries. Right, the first one is called
- 1:09Crowns in the shadow of the cross.
- 1:11And the second one is the cup of wrath and the decree of glory.
- 1:15Both of these sources bring a lot of weight to our discussion
- 1:17today. They do, so our mission for this
- 1:19deep dive is highly specific. We are putting the fallen human
- 1:23heart right under the microscope.
- 1:25We are going to examine the innate sinful desire for self
- 1:29exultation that lives inside all of us.
- 1:32And we will contrast that fleshly ambition with the
- 1:35substitutionary suffering of Jesus Christ.
- 1:38But before we get into the historical background, I want to
- 1:41ask you, the listener, a direct question.
- 1:44A very convicting question, honestly.
- 1:46Yeah, have you ever caught yourself doing the right
- 1:48religious things, but with a secret desire to be noticed,
- 1:52praised or elevated above others?
- 1:54I think we all have to admit we struggle with that.
- 1:56Right. Maybe you volunteered for a
- 1:58highly visible role at your. Church or you offered a very
- 2:00polished prayer in a group setting.
- 2:02And while your mouth was speaking spiritual words, your
- 2:05mind was wondering who was admiring you.
- 2:07That is the specific condition we are analyzing today, this.
- 2:10Biblical text exposes the pride hiding right behind our most
- 2:14pious religious language. When you realize the sheer
- 2:17audacity of what the disciples demand right after Jesus
- 2:20predicts his own torture, it makes his response completely
- 2:25shocking. It really does.
- 2:26So to grasp the sheer weight of that shock, we have to
- 2:30meticulously set the historical stage.
- 2:33Right. Let us look at the year.
- 2:34It is approximately 8033. We are standing on the dusty
- 2:38ascending Rd. leading up to Jerusalem for the Passover
- 2:41feast. And the socio political climate
- 2:43at this time is suffocating. 1st century Judea is a nation
- 2:46completely crushed under the iron heel of Roman occupation
- 2:50and. When we talk about Roman
- 2:51occupation, we are not talking about a mild administrative
- 2:54oversight, no. Not at all.
- 2:55The Jewish people are subjected to crushing taxation that leaves
- 2:59families destitute. There is a brutal military
- 3:02presence on every corner. And they face the constant daily
- 3:05humiliation of being a conquered nation living in their own
- 3:09promised land. Because of this intense,
- 3:12grinding oppression, the religious and political
- 3:15atmosphere is absolutely electric with messianic fervor.
- 3:19Right. The disciples, along with the
- 3:21broader culture, are intensely expecting a militant Davidic
- 3:26king. They are looking for a political
- 3:28conqueror who will violently overthrow the Roman.
- 3:31Empire. Someone to cast out the
- 3:32occupying legions and establish A literal terrestrial Kingdom.
- 3:37A Kingdom where Israel is restored to global dominance.
- 3:39They're dreaming of a military triumph, not a spiritual
- 3:43atonement for sin. Yeah, they possess a category
- 3:46for a conquering king who brings judgement to their enemies.
- 3:49But they have absolutely no category for a suffering king
- 3:52who brings salvation through his own death.
- 3:54They want the glory of the King. But they are entirely blind to
- 3:57the redemptive historical necessity of the Cross.
- 4:00That is the loaded, highly pressurized environment in which
- 4:03this infamous request is made. And that historical backdrop
- 4:06makes the literary juxtaposition of this story so jarring.
- 4:10It really does. When you look at the structure
- 4:12of Matthews Gospel, you quickly realize this event does not
- 4:16happen in a vacuum. Right.
- 4:18Just three verses prior in Matthew 20, verses 17 through
- 4:2219, Jesus pulls the 12 disciples aside.
- 4:25He isolates them from the crowds on the road to deliver his third
- 4:29and most graphic passion prediction.
- 4:31He tells them plainly that he is going to be betrayed to the
- 4:35chief priests and condemned to death.
- 4:37He says He will be handed over to the Gentiles, mocked,
- 4:41scourged and crucified. He lays out the gruesome, bloody
- 4:44reality of his impending substitutionary death.
- 4:48He does not use metaphors here, he uses the literal terminology
- 4:51of Roman execution. And then the very next paragraph
- 4:54introduces the mother of James and John asking for Thrones.
- 4:57It gives you theological whiplash, honestly.
- 5:00Jesus speaks of his crucifixion and they immediately try to
- 5:03secure their political appointments.
- 5:04Yeah, it goes right back to your funeral analogy.
- 5:06So when Salone, the mother of Zebedee's sons, approaches
- 5:10Jesus, she actually adopts a physical posture of reverence to
- 5:14make this demand. Yes, she does.
- 5:16I am looking at the notes from our sources and it seems like
- 5:19she is using the physical language of worship to make a
- 5:22highly manipulative political play.
- 5:24That is exactly what is happening.
- 5:25How does the Greek text describe her approach?
- 5:28Well, the Greek syntax reveals a terrifying hypocrisy in her
- 5:33actions, and it is something we need to look at closely.
- 5:36OK, let us break that down. Matthew uses 2 specific verbs to
- 5:39describe her approach. First she approaches which in
- 5:43Greek is Prosser choumai. Then she kneels, which is
- 5:47prossky news. And that second word is
- 5:49significant, right? Yes, this word proskaneesh is a
- 5:52recognized attitude of worship, deep reverence and total
- 5:56submission. So outwardly, she looks like a
- 5:58humble, devout follower bowing down before her Lord.
- 6:02But this outward posture of worship completely masks a
- 6:05highly calculated political petition.
- 6:07She's using the physical language of reverence to cloak a
- 6:10fleshly grab for authority. And the specific request she
- 6:13makes is loaded with massive significance.
- 6:16She asks that her two sons sit at his his right hand and his
- 6:19left hand in his Kingdom. We have to understand the Royal
- 6:22Court context of the ancient Near East to see what she is
- 6:25actually demanding here. Right.
- 6:27The right hand and the left hand were not simply comfortable
- 6:30chairs at a banquet table. Not at all.
- 6:32In an ancient Royal Court, these were the prime ministerial
- 6:35seats. They were the positions of
- 6:37supreme delegated authority. The person on the right hand was
- 6:40second in command and the person on the left was third in
- 6:43command. Out ranking everyone else in the
- 6:45entire empire. Think of Joseph in Egypt,
- 6:48restoring only to Pharaoh, but commanding everything else.
- 6:51She is asking for her sons to be the chief viziers of a restored
- 6:56nationalistic Israel. This is a naked demand for
- 6:59absolute supremacy over the other 10 disciples.
- 7:02The raw ambition is staggering, but Jesus looks at them and
- 7:06responds with a devastating statement.
- 7:09He says you know not what you ask.
- 7:12Now I have to push back a little here because this behavior
- 7:15absolutely baffles. Me.
- 7:16I think it baffles a lot of people when they read it.
- 7:18I mean, these men, James and John, are in the inner circle.
- 7:21They are. They have witnessed the dead
- 7:23rays. They heard the Sermon on the
- 7:25Mount with their own ears. And they have walked intimately
- 7:28with the Incarnate Son of God for three years.
- 7:31How can their theology, the Kingdom, be so completely
- 7:34backwards at this late hour? It is a great question.
- 7:37They are standing literally in the shadow of the cross and
- 7:40they're acting like ruthless political operatives.
- 7:42Trying to secure cabinet positions before the election is
- 7:45even over. How is this level of spiritual
- 7:47ignorance even possible for true born again believers?
- 7:52The answer to your question takes us straight to the
- 7:54Reformed doctrine of total depravity.
- 7:56OK, let's get into that. It highlights the reality of
- 7:59remaining corruption in the life of a justified believer.
- 8:02Right, because regeneration is a real and miraculous work of the
- 8:06Holy Spirit. It gives a person a new heart,
- 8:08but it begins a lifelong process of sanctification.
- 8:11It does not instantly eradicate the flesh.
- 8:13Exactly. The disciples are genuinely born
- 8:16again, but their flesh still defaults to earthly categories
- 8:20of status, dominance and self preservation.
- 8:23By nature, fallen humans want the crown before the cross.
- 8:28We want the glory of the resurrection without the
- 8:30Crucible of suffering. The disciples cannot grasp a
- 8:34theology of the cross because their remaining sin is actively
- 8:37resisting it. And this scene highlights the
- 8:39terrifying deceitfulness of sin. Notice that the disciples did
- 8:44not ask for gross outward sins. They did not ask for wealth or
- 8:48for the destruction of their enemies.
- 8:50They asked for proximity to Christ.
- 8:52They used holy spiritual vocabulary to conceal a worldly
- 8:55desire for superiority. This warns us that pride often
- 8:59wears a religious mask. It is entirely possible to use
- 9:02the things of God as a ladder for personal prominence, you
- 9:06know. You can crave a position in your
- 9:08local congregation, cloaking it in the language of ministry or
- 9:11calling. When the actual driving force is
- 9:13a desire to be exalted above your peers.
- 9:16That brings us to a massive Christological contrast in this
- 9:20passage. We see 2 completely different
- 9:22trajectories colliding on the road to Jerusalem.
- 9:24On one side you have the disciples who are aggressively
- 9:27maneuvering for an ascent to glory.
- 9:29They are trying to climb the ladder, secure the Thrones and
- 9:32elevate themselves above the rest of the group.
- 9:35And on the other side, you have the King of the Universe.
- 9:38Who is deliberately, consciously moving toward a descent into
- 9:43absolute humiliation and death? He is stepping down into the
- 9:47agony of the cross while they are trying to step up into the
- 9:50palace. Because the disciples are so
- 9:52ignorant of the true cost of the Kingdom, Jesus redirects their
- 9:56attention. He pulls their gaze away from
- 9:58future status and forces them to look at impending suffering.
- 10:02He asks them a question that changes the entire trajectory of
- 10:05the conversation. He asks, are you able to drink
- 10:09the cup that I am to drink? This imagery of the cup is
- 10:12fascinating. In our modern context, a cup
- 10:14just holds a beverage. But our sources point out that
- 10:17this is not a generic metaphor for having a hard time.
- 10:20What is the theological weight of this cup imagery in the Old
- 10:23Testament? This is a crucial exegetical
- 10:25point. In the original Greek text, the
- 10:27term is poterium. OK.
- 10:30To understand what Jesus means by this, we have to trace its
- 10:32theological roots back through the Old Testament prophets.
- 10:35Where the Hebrew equivalent is Cos.
- 10:38Right. When modern readers hear the
- 10:40word cup in this context, they often assume it is just a
- 10:43metaphor for physical pain. Or maybe martyrdom, or the
- 10:46struggle of a Revolutionary War against Rome.
- 10:49But in the prophetic literature, specifically in Isaiah,
- 10:52Jeremiah, and Ezekiel, the cup is a highly specific, terrifying
- 10:56image. It is the forming chalice of
- 10:58Yahweh's unmitigated holy indignation against human sin.
- 11:02Why a cup? In the ancient world, a cup was
- 11:04a meticulously measured portion dealt out by a host at a
- 11:08banquet. The prophets use this imagery to
- 11:10show that God's justice is not a chaotic, uncontrolled explosion
- 11:14of anger. It is meticulously measured,
- 11:16perfectly exacted portion of wrath or sin.
- 11:19And the guilty Sinner is forced to drink it down to the very
- 11:21dregs. In Isaiah 51 it is called the
- 11:24Cup of Staggering. So Jesus is not asking them if
- 11:28they can handle a difficult political campaign or survive a
- 11:31physical beating by Roman guards.
- 11:33No, he is pointing to the absolute fury of the Father's
- 11:36justice against the rebellion of humanity.
- 11:39This is a cup that he alone is stepping forward to consume in
- 11:42the place of his elect. And the response of the
- 11:45disciples is absolutely chilling in its arrogance.
- 11:49Without missing a beat, they look at the Incarnate Son of God
- 11:52and boastfully reply, We are able.
- 11:55Let us just stop and think about the magnitude of that statement.
- 11:59I want to offer an analogy to highlight the sheer absurdity of
- 12:02human inability in the face of God's holy standard.
- 12:05I would. Love to hear it.
- 12:06Comparing their answer to reality is like watching a
- 12:09toddler walk up to a massive 10,000 ton freight train.
- 12:13OK, and the toddler grabs the steel wheels with his tiny hands
- 12:17and confidently declares that he can deadlift the entire train
- 12:20over his head. That is a brilliant way to put
- 12:22it. It is not just wrong, it is
- 12:24utterly delusional. Their response exposes the
- 12:27universal human delusion of self righteousness.
- 12:30Every time we think we can earn our salvation or satisfy God's
- 12:33law by our own performance, we are standing next to James and
- 12:36John. Saying we are able.
- 12:38We have no idea the crushing weight of the divine justice we
- 12:42are claiming we can bear. That toddler analogy really
- 12:45drives the point home. Their boast reveals a total lack
- 12:48of understanding regarding their own spiritual bankruptcy.
- 12:52In addressing this delusion, we see Christ fulfilling his
- 12:55threefold office perfectly. To break that down simply,
- 12:59theologians often describe Christ's work in three roles.
- 13:02Prophet, Priest and Kim. As prophet, he corrects their
- 13:06carnal misunderstanding of the Kingdom, revealing the hard
- 13:09truth of the suffering that must occur.
- 13:11As priest, he is actively preparing to offer himself as
- 13:15the spotless sacrifice. Preparing to drink the very cup
- 13:18he is speaking about. And as King, he asserts his
- 13:21divine authority over the nature of his realm, dictating the
- 13:24terms of true discipleship. This exchange forces us to
- 13:28grapple with the doctrines of Christ's active and passive
- 13:31obedience. Let me explain how these
- 13:33mechanisms work. Please do.
- 13:35Active obedience means Jesus lived the perfect, sinless life
- 13:38that we completely failed to live.
- 13:40Fulfilling every positive demand of God's law.
- 13:43And passive obedience means he willingly suffered the penalty
- 13:46that we owed, absorbing the wrath of God on the cross.
- 13:49Christ alone, as the sinless God man, possesses the infinite
- 13:53capacity to drain the dregs of divine judgment.
- 13:56A mere human would be crushed for all eternity under a single
- 13:59drop of that cup. This reality exposes the fatal
- 14:03flaw of Arminianism and any system of works righteousness.
- 14:07No human being has the ability, the will, or the inherent
- 14:10righteousness to satisfy the Father's justice.
- 14:13Jesus is the exclusive cup drinker.
- 14:15Through his substitutionary atonement, he takes the cup of
- 14:19trembling out of our hands. And he drinks it dry so that we
- 14:23never have to taste the wrath of God.
- 14:24After Jesus acknowledges that, they will indeed experience a
- 14:27measure of suffering for his sake.
- 14:29Meaning they will face persecution and martyrdom as his
- 14:32followers. He firmly removes the
- 14:33distribution of Kingdom honors from the realm of human effort.
- 14:37He takes the pursuit of glory completely out of their hands
- 14:40and places it entirely in the hands of the Father.
- 14:43He states that the seats at his right and left will be given to
- 14:46those for whom it has been prepared by my father.
- 14:48Now I want to ask for some theological clarification here
- 14:51because this text can be confusing for a lot of readers.
- 14:53It definitely can be. If Jesus says that granting
- 14:57these seats is not mine to give, does this imply that the Son
- 15:00lacks divine authority? That is a common objection.
- 15:03Is Jesus subordinate in his divine essence to the Father?
- 15:07How does Reformed theology synthesize this statement
- 15:10without compromising the Trinity?
- 15:12That is a highly critical question.
- 15:15This text is frequently twisted by those who deny the deity of
- 15:19Christ. Claiming it proves he is less
- 15:21than God. To answer it properly, we have
- 15:23to look closely at the Greek grammar and then at our
- 15:26systematic theology. OK, let us start with the
- 15:28grammar. Jesus uses a specific Greek verb
- 15:31here, hodomi masti, which is a perfect passive indicative.
- 15:36Theologians call this the divine passive.
- 15:38This grammatical structure indicates an action that was
- 15:41completely finished by God in eternity past.
- 15:44With the results of that action continuing firmly and
- 15:46unchangeably into the present. Jesus is pointing directly to
- 15:50the Reformed doctrine of God's eternal decree.
- 15:52Right. If we consult chapter 3 of the
- 15:54Westminster Confession of Faith, we find the biblical teaching of
- 15:57unconditional election. The architecture of the coming
- 16:00Kingdom. The rewards The specific
- 16:03placement of every single St. These are fixed realities.
- 16:07They were established in the immutable counsel of the Triune
- 16:10God before the foundation of the world.
- 16:12Before Genesis 1 even occurred. Therefore, when Jesus says it is
- 16:17not mine to give, he is not denying his ontological equality
- 16:20with the Father. We look to the Westminster
- 16:22Confession, Chapter 5 concerning Providence to understand the
- 16:26economy of salvation. Christ's statement reflects his
- 16:29perfect willing submission within his mediatorial mission.
- 16:33As the Incarnate Son, the Mediator of the Covenant of
- 16:36grace, he delights in carrying out the Father's exact decree.
- 16:40He does not act independently of the Father's eternal plan.
- 16:43His words display the breathtaking beauty of his
- 16:46obedience as the God man, not a lack of innate divinity.
- 16:49The specific point about the sovereign decree completely
- 16:52shatters modern pragmatism. And the prosperity gospel that
- 16:55is so rampant today? Think about the messaging you
- 16:58hear constantly in modern religious culture.
- 17:00You are told you can manifest your destiny.
- 17:02You are told you can volunteer your way into spiritual
- 17:05authority. Or give enough money to
- 17:07manipulate God into granting you prestige in a larger platform.
- 17:12But this verse crushes that lie into dust.
- 17:15Human ambition cannot alter the sovereign decree.
- 17:17You cannot hustle your way to the right hand of the King.
- 17:20The seats have already been prepared in eternity past.
- 17:23This text destroys the idea that the church is a corporate ladder
- 17:27for ambitious people to climb. It forces us to view our place
- 17:31in the body of Christ through the lens of God's unchangeable
- 17:34will. Rather than our own aggressive
- 17:36networking. Having established these high
- 17:38doctrines of substitutionary atonement in the eternal decree,
- 17:42we must apply the law and the Gospel directly to the modern
- 17:45Christian life. In reformed theology, we
- 17:47frequently utilize the three uses of the law to properly
- 17:51handle a text like this. Think of it this way, the first
- 17:54use of the law acts as a mirror. When you read this passage, it
- 17:57should reflect your own wretched reflection back to you.
- 18:00It exposes our own zebedee like craving for platforms.
- 18:03Our desire to be acknowledged and our complete inability to
- 18:07drink the cup of God's standard. It shatters our pride.
- 18:10Then the gospel announces the good news.
- 18:13Christ drank the cup of wrath for us.
- 18:15He fulfilled the law's demands in our place.
- 18:18Once we rest in that gospel truth, we move to the third use
- 18:21of the law, which acts as a guide for the believer.
- 18:24Because our salvation and our ultimate standing are secured by
- 18:27Christ and decreed by the Father.
- 18:30We are freed from the exhausting rat race of self promotion.
- 18:34We are now guided into a life of grateful, humble obedience.
- 18:38Ministering to others not to gain rank, but out of immense
- 18:41gratitude for the grace we have received.
- 18:44I want to push this application right into the heart of modern
- 18:47evangelicalism. Please do, it is very needed.
- 18:50Look at our church culture today.
- 18:51We are obsessed with celebrity pastors.
- 18:53We are obsessed with personal branding marketability.
- 18:56And scaling ministries to reach the maximum number of consumers.
- 19:00We treat the bride of Christ like a Fortune 500 company.
- 19:03We measure greatness by social media reach, book sales, and the
- 19:06size of the crowd. But Jesus contrasts this entire
- 19:10system with his own Kingdom. He points to the Gentile rulers
- 19:14who lorded over their subject. Who use their authority to
- 19:18dominate and extract value from people.
- 19:20He says that shall not be so among you.
- 19:22He calls his followers to slave like submission.
- 19:26The path to greatness in the Kingdom of Christ is the path of
- 19:30washing feet. It is the path of obscurity and
- 19:33sacrifice. If you are pursuing ministry to
- 19:35be seen, you are operating under the Gentile mindset, not the
- 19:39mind of Christ. That is a necessary and sharp
- 19:42warning. You really.
- 19:43But we must also see how this passage provides massive
- 19:46stabilizing comfort for the afflicted believer.
- 19:49That is a beautiful point. Let us talk about that comfort
- 19:51if. You are a Christian experiencing
- 19:53obscurity if you are enduring loss or facing persecution in
- 19:57your workplace or your family because of your faith.
- 20:00You need to hear this the. Cup of discipleship you are
- 20:03drinking is not an accident. Your suffering is not a sign
- 20:06that God has lost control or that you have failed to manifest
- 20:09enough blessing. If God has sovereignly decreed
- 20:12your specific place in his Kingdom.
- 20:14Whether that involves a public, visible role or a hidden, quiet
- 20:18life of faithful endurance. You can rest with total
- 20:21contentment in his immutable purpose.
- 20:23You do not need to fight for relevance.
- 20:25The Father has prepared your place.
- 20:27The Son has secured your soul by drinking the cup of Wrath.
- 20:30And the Spirit will sustain you in whatever trials He ordains
- 20:34for your sanctification. You can let go of the anxiety of
- 20:37status and simply rest in the sovereign goodness of God.
- 20:41As we summarize this deep dive into Matthew 20, we see the core
- 20:45clash revealed in the sources. On one side, we witness the
- 20:49relentless, exhausting human vanity that constantly seeks a
- 20:53crown without a cross. We see our own desperate
- 20:55attempts to exalt ourselves above our brothers and sisters.
- 20:58On the other side, we see the breathtaking majesty of the
- 21:01Savior. Who deliberately stepped down
- 21:03into humiliation? Who willingly drank the foaming
- 21:06cup of divine wrath to its very dregs?
- 21:09All to secure our redemption. Therefore, we offer a final
- 21:12pastoral call to you, the listener.
- 21:14Flee from the wretched idol of your own merit.
- 21:17Stop. Saying I am able and confess
- 21:19that you are entirely unable. Reject the exhausting cultural
- 21:22pressure to seize a platform and build your own Kingdom.
- 21:26Take refuge entirely in the imputed righteousness of Jesus
- 21:29Christ. Recognize that because Christ
- 21:31drained the cup of divine judgement on the cross.
- 21:34The cup that is now extended to you as a believer.
- 21:37The cup you partake of at the communion table.
- 21:39Is a cup of sheer mercy and New Covenant life.
- 21:42He drank the wrath so you could drink the grace.
- 21:45That is the beautiful truth of the gospel.
- 21:47I want to leave you with a final lingering question to ponder on
- 21:51your own as you go about your day.
- 21:53It is a question that really changes how you view your entire
- 21:57life. If the highest honors and the
- 21:59exact deed details of your place in the coming Kingdom have
- 22:03already been prepared by the Father since before the world
- 22:05began. How does that reality completely
- 22:08free you from the exhausting burden of trying to prove your
- 22:11worth to anyone today?