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395 Cómo solucionar los problemas económicos en el matrimonio parte 5 · Reflexiones cristianas con José Ordóñez

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  Podcast number three hundred ninety- five. We are talking about how to solve
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  economic problems in marriage and this is the fifth part where we will be talking
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  about the importance of unity, how in society marriages are divided into compromises and
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  also into authority, a matter that is totally contrary to the Bible, because
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  the Bible only puts one of the spouses to govern marriage, but who should
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  govern the economy. There' s a little discussion with Jasmith to make them
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  realize that we don' t always agree. We begin to talk about this
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  question that is often asked by men and women. Who is it that should
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  govern the economy? Well, settle down, take notes, and look at
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  the Bible’ s solutions to economic problems. Welcome, the idea is that
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  you have a healthy economy, because the healthy economy is the economy that God
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  blesses. You want God to bless you. If you want God to bless
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  your economy, have an economy the right way. God has not decided to
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  bless many marital economies, because when he tries to do so, he knows
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  that this is a conflict of egos and interests and a disorder, of a
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  barahunda that no one understands. So, so there' s no blessing there.
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  Then let' s get the house in order first. To put that
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  house in order, the good news is that no matter how old your marriage
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  is and how many economic marriage conflicts you have. Despite all these years,
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  it' s never too late to put him in order. Talks as they
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  are try to get people back a little bit in those bad ways and start
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  putting the house in order. Let us make that parallel between what is society,
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  the thought of society and the thought of which the word of God speaks.
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  The word of God marriage always treats it as a unit, like a
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  hundred percent. They' re going to realize in all the examples that we
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  ' re going to put that society plot to marriage divides it. Sometimes he
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  talks about fifty percent. Sometimes he talks about the interests of men and the
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  interests of women. Sometimes he talks about the spaces of women and the spaces
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  of men. You' ve heard things like respect my spaces. This is
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  my money I don' t mind your own business. You don' t
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  mess with me. And as I said on Sunday, marriage is a pact
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  where we are no longer two. If we are not one, that one
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  includes everything, absolutely everything. Society divides and plot. The Gospel builds and
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  makes unity. I read them in Marcos. Chapter number ten, verses six
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  to nine and on this basis let' s start working or what. But
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  at the beginning of the vain creation, male and female, God made them.
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  For this reason the man will leave his father and his mother and will
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  join the woman and pay attention to this and the two will be one flesh,
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  so they are no longer two, but one. Therefore, what God
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  gathered together that man should not separate him, or that he should not treat
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  your economy as a thing which is her silver, his silver, mine silver,
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  her silver, the silver that she obtains, the silver that I get.
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  The moment you keep plotting and dividing, your economy is not a source
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  of blessing, because God says that you and your spouse are one, but
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  you don' t. You don' t say it' s Mira anymore,
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  you own everything I have, except the wallet. No, no,
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  all economic decisions are made as one. My money is hers and hers is
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  mine. Your inheritances are mine. My inheritances are hers. Everything absolutely everything
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  in our life has a unity. God is willing to bless that unity.
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  In the meantime you achieve a unit one, a single account, a single
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  commitment in all economic matters. God will bless him. You mean something like
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  that with a love. Yes, the part of being able to let my
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  partner influence me, I influence because it is that when when they are so
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  rigid and everyone wants to do their own thing in their own way, sum
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  and life, I have complete decision on this matter. You over there,
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  me over here. This divides tremendously. But when we give the opportunity that
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  our partner, that we be able to influence by our partner, what I
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  mean that the couple has a voice and vote in the decisions in which the
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  couple can, can say, can and above all, yes, can be
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  decided. Yeah. That' s a point that I think is very healthy,
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  very healthy in the relationship when there' s an emotional connection and the
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  husband allows the wife to speak up about whatever financial situation they' re going
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  to take and guys. I don' t know the truth, but God
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  has endowed us with a tremendous blessing of being tremendously intuitive to business. I
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  mean, there' s an intuition, there' s like an aspect.
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  Where we have as a possibility to see a little beyond knowing whether the business
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  is really right or not. I thank God because my husband allows me,
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  allows me, allows me to have that little influence to be able to govern
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  him. He doesn' t love us to rule either. I don'
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  t love myself, but you share your power with everything. It' s
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  not that no, no, no, but you can share. Isn'
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  t that what you' re saying? No, no, no, no,
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  no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
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  no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
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  no, no, no, no, no, no, no. It
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  ' s about me being the one to rule and I' m the one
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  to decide and I' m the one to send. That' s not
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  what I' m talking about, but he does give me the opportunity to
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  give in a little bit, that power he has so that I can participate
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  and that we get each other to a field where we can agree to make
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  decisions together. I' m just gonna give a little bit of clarity to
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  what you' re saying. Okay, look. First let us answer the
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  question who governs the economy. I' m going to tell you who governs
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  the economy between men and women. The one who does best, the one
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  who does best, Oku, the one who best knows how to see and
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  now I' m going to talk to Lord' s heart, because when
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  you say it like that, it may suddenly sound like women are going to
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  say how so men release us a little bit of power. Or this you
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  ' re not right about what you' re saying. It just allows me
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  to put a focus, a little higher, in the sense of who governs
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  the economy of a house. God says that whoever rules a marriage, a
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  family is the man, right, but who should govern and administer the whole
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  economy who has the ability to do so. And let me speak a little
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  bit to the heart and mind of men, especially to the structure of men.
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  Gentleman, tell yourself. I' m a bad administrator, I make
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  mistakes, I spend money. You talk about my financial flaws. Okay,
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  there were things that jas me taught me. And there are other things,
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  there are other flaws that throughout my life I have maintained for those that from
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  time to time we have discussions with my wife. I' m a very
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  bad manager, because I never know how much I have in my pocket.
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  I don' t know how much I have in my wallet right now.
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  I don' t know And sometimes I have money from one and the other
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  and I turn it around and my life is among the jokes, the scripts,
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  the things, the recordings, that the mountain thing, that I open
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  the wallet I pay someone after I forget, that I paid him. I
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  don' t know how much I gave this step. I helped one person,
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  I bought this, I gave it to the other, and at the
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  end of the day, when he arrived, I don' t remember.
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  What I did with the money. I don' t remember and listen to
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  me. I live in another world, in a parallel world of creativity and
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  things and I administer very badly. If Jas Vi delivers all the silver,
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  all the silver, I' ll spend it. Okay now watch that I
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  spend it. But you' re asking me, and I never learned this.
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  I learned this in my financial failure. I' m never gonna tell
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  him a Jasmith lie, I' m never gonna hide him if I took
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  him and told him in Milan who I shouldn' t give them to or
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  that I never bought one day. In the midst of the most unclean crisis,
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  I learned one of the principles that blesses the economy the most. If
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  he was wrong. Say he was wrong now and not because when I lie
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  financially to my wife trying to cover up a mistake I made God, he
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  won' t bless me. Next time it' s podcast number three hundred
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  ninety- five. There are three hundred and ninety- four more, waiting
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  for you in Joseph Ordonez Christian com from three hundred and ninety- one onwards
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  you find how to solve economic problems in marriage with Joseph Ordonez and his wife
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  Jasmith. Well, she and I expect you to put in practice a lot
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  of rudiments that you' re learning in this little series that' s about
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  to end. For now. I wish you a beautiful day that God bless
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  you and give you a healthy economy