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This Is The Most Important Video About Narcissists You Will See · The Mental Healness Podcast

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  What is going on? Beautiful folks, today we're
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  going to be talking about the most important thing about
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  narcissist that you should know. This is going to be the most
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  important. Video about narcissist that you.
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  Might be ever watch if you're new.
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  Here, my name is Lee Hammock, I'm a diagnosed narcissist, and
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  welcome to another episode of The Narcissist Code.
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  Boom. Welcome back, folks.
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  Welcome back. Welcome back.
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  Yes. Importance, the most important.
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  Video about narcissist. All the things that.
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  You should know. And probably.
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  Might hear about narcissistic people in the future y'all.
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  If you don't. Know already?
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  Make sure to check out my website Mental Illness.
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  Dot net. For everything mental illness,
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  mental health related and whatnot, y'all.
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  Everything. Literally every.
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  Single thing. Coaching courses, support group,
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  everything is a mental. Illness.net.
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  But yeah, the thing the most important.
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  Thing that you need to know about narcissist One of the most
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  important things. Is that narcissistic people are?
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  Evolving. Yeah, yeah.
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  Like, like. Narcissistic people.
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  Are evolving. And getting more.
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  Knowledge and whatnot as well, yeah.
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  You know, it just it just they. Just are.
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  We just. Are you have to think?
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  That because all the a lot of. People tell me like Lee, I wish
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  this. Information that you.
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  Sure was out here years ago. Or any information about
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  narcissist? Was available 10. 1520, thirty
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  years ago, it would have saved me a lot of time, would have
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  saved my mom, would have saved my dad, would have saved
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  somebody, right? Think about that from the other
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  perspective. The same information.
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  That you have at the palm of your hands right now.
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  It's also available to narcissist, right?
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  The same information that you. Have right now.
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  That you. Like this video is also
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  available to narcissistic toxic people.
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  That are not. Coming from a place of good
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  intent, right? They're just not we all.
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  Know that there are so many narcissists out there, right?
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  They love to play the victim. They absolutely love.
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  Being steeped in victimhood, Just just absolute victims,
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  perpetual victims, no matter what.
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  You catch them cheating, they're the victim.
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  Because they went through your phone, they went.
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  Through your e-mail, they tracked your location and found
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  you. Somewhere that you.
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  Were not supposed to be at. With someone.
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  That you're not. Supposed to be with, but somehow
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  they're the. Victim in that circumstance
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  because you don't trust them, because you track them.
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  How dare you. You're crazy.
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  You're controlling. What?
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  How does it make sense? It makes sense.
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  To a lot. Of people but this is what you
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  have to get into right here there it makes sense to
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  narcissistic people well I am the victim because you don't
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  want to be happy you don't trust me if you trusted me we.
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  Wouldn't be here right now. If you were not doing what you
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  were doing, we wouldn't be here. What kind of sense does that
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  make? So understand that the same
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  information that you have at the palm of your hands in the palm
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  of your hands is is really realistically available to
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  abusers. As well, right?
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  Realistically. That's what.
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  That's what. That's what.
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  Happened go right there in these spaces.
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  Just think about right there. Narcissistic people like are
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  taking information and learning and evolving and knowing how to
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  manipulate. Better knowing how to manipulate
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  more knowing how to get you some of them.
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  Are respecting boundaries at first right?
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  Some of them are taking the word, hearing the word no and
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  transitioning. Some of them are holding the
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  mask on longer because they have more information.
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  They are becoming better manipulators.
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  Y'all see these red pill weirdo, crazy sunk crazy toxic ass
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  pathetic ass people out here teaching people how to be more
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  manipulative. Teaching people how to lie and
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  get what they want from people. Y'all see that type of stuff,
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  the people ingest that type of stuff.
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  That's why such a It used to be such a popular topic, such a
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  popular. Format such a popular.
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  Demographic. Right there, Red pill.
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  Weirdo shit, you see what I'm saying?
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  They take those tactics and use them on people to manipulate.
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  They become better manipulators, become better at being horrible
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  to people. So understand that your.
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  Targets are. Changing the people who are the.
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  Predators. Are becoming better.
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  Predators, right? Like you, I hear.
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  It I'm not going to say to you, I'm not going to call you prey
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  because you're not prey, right? They look at you as prey, but
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  you're not prey, right? You are a.
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  Cynthian human being. You can.
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  You can set boundaries. You can do all of that stuff.
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  You're not prey. But there's so.
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  Many narcissistic people out there who are predators.
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  They look at. They look at you as prey and
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  treat you as such and try to get you as such.
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  They change their. Tactics to find what works for
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  them. They don't manipulate.
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  Two people. The same type of way they watch
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  one of my videos. And they might learn some other
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  stuff. Believe they may usually stop
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  making. Videos.
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  No, because they they'll do it anyway.
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  They'll find somebody else. They'll watch Doctor Romedy and
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  think because you get a lot of narcissists that are.
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  So damn delusional. That they think they get into
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  their minds that they might actually be the.
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  Victim. That they might actually be the
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  impasse. That they might.
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  Actually be. The Survivor or the Thriver and
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  they'll start watching my videos or Doctor Romedy.
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  Or Ben Taylor. Or Leon Walker.
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  They'll start. Watching type of stuff right
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  there. Lisa Sunday, Doctor Carrie
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  McAvoy. They'll start watching.
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  It how to love about a woman they'll start watching those.
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  They'll start watching those. Type of videos, right?
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  And thinking that they are the victim.
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  So they come from a victim mindset.
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  They think that they are the survivor they're learning how to
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  deal with. Narcissist, right?
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  Because they think that you might be the narcissist, but
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  you're not. They get so steeped in their own
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  victimhood, their victim mindset, that they actually
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  start to believe that they are the victim in these
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  circumstances. And I know it sounds ridiculous.
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  I know it sounds dumb as. Hell, but that's.
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  The mind of a narcissist. So that's what you need to know,
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  narcissist. Another thing you need to know
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  is that narcissism is absolutely real.
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  I don't give a damn. What anybody says?
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  Y'all for the rat coming on? I don't give a damn.
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  What nobody says. What anyone says, right?
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  It's real. You know what you've been
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  through. I don't care.
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  Well, what did you do? If you ever tell somebody that
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  you've been abused, that you got you.
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  Got a black eye? You're hurting.
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  Or you've been emotionally, mentally abused or whatever and
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  they just and they say the first thing.
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  Out. Of their mouth.
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  Is what did you do? Fuck them.
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  I don't care. Who it is?
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  Your Mama, your daddy, your brother, your sister, your best
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  friend, your your your coworker. Whoever it is.
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  They can go to hell, you know what I'm saying?
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  They might not understand it, but.
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  If they're trying to blame you for your abuse, hell no.
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  We. Don't deal.
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  With them. Narcissism isn't real.
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  Narcissism is on. You know, you understand is is
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  highly unlike y'all. How how?
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  How stupid. It sounds when.
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  Somebody tells you it's highly unlikely that you've.
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  Met a narcissist before because narcissism the diagnosed ones.
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  Are only 1% of the population y'all?
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  Why the hell y'all think 1%? Because you say when you when
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  people hear 1% they automatically think it's a small
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  number. 1% of 1. Is a small number.
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  Yeah, it is, isn't it? 1% of 1 is a small number.
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  What is it, .01? Yeah, that's small, right?
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  Right. But when you get down to the
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  nitty gritty, you sort of understand the 1% of 1,000,000.
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  If I give you 1% of $1,000,000, you would absolutely take that,
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  wouldn't you? You would take that 10. 1000
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  wouldn't you? So add the numbers up 1% of
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  10,000,001% of 100,000,001% of 1 billion, one percent of if I
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  say, hey, I'll give you 1%. Of 8 billion.
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  Would you take it? Yeah, Lee that's a lot.
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  Yes, it's a lot. There's the millions of people.
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  The chances are loaded you made in there is the diagnosis are 1%
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  in the population, 1% even in the United States 1% is still
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  3.3 million people. So you go you, you, you, you do
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  the math billions. So 3 billion, you look at that 3
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  billion, that's 33 million, 8 million, it's 8 million, it's 80
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  million y'all. It's crazy the number of
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  narcissistic people. Stop letting people try to
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  invalidate you and your experiences because they don't
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  understand it, because they don't want to believe in it.
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  It's pop. It's pop science.
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  You know, you're not dealing with a narcissist.
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  You're dealing with just an egotistical asshole that lacks
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  empathy, that's emotionally verbally abusive, sometimes
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  physically abusive. They have the loses a grandeur.
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  They have the inflated sense of self that has a fragile ego.
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  They they literally will read off.
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  The non dollar diagnosable criteria for narcissistic
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  personality disorder but tell you that you're not dealing with
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  a narcissist. Because they're so.
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  Steeped in the word. You see what I'm saying?
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  Don't let. People gas like you or try to
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  trick you. Into thinking that narcissism.
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  Isn't real. It absolutely is real.
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  You know, what you experienced, what you went through is
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  absolutely real. What you, what you're healing
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  from is absolutely real. Don't let people tell you.
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  Otherwise. Because they're trying to tell
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  you it's not real, or they're trying to become a flying
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  monkey. Of your abuser.
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  Yeah, that's. What they do?
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  Y'all and. Another thing y'all about
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  narcissism, narcissistic abuse, toxic toxic.
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  Abuse whatever name you want to get to it Emotional.
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  Abuse is absolutely real y'all. Don't let people just when
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  people say, well, at least I didn't hit you.
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  What? You didn't need everything else.
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  You didn't need everything. Else.
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  Because I didn't hit you like it.
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  You remember your your your best friend she used to get.
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  Her ass. Whooped.
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  I never put my hands on you. Yeah, but you yell at me
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  everyday. You invalidate me.
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  You don't listen to me. I walk on egg shells.
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  You scream at me. You throw stuff at me.
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  Yeah. I can't get a word in.
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  You don't. There's no emotional connection
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  in the house. There's nothing going on here.
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  You cheat on me. Yeah.
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  You financially abused me. You're doing everything else
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  except hitting me. And you're proud of yourself.
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  Get the fuck. Out of here.
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  You doing everything but hitting me make you feel like a good
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  person? Get the fuck out of here, let's
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  go. I'm just telling you, this is
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  the mentality of manipulators, of abusive people, of abuse
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  sympathizers, emotional abuse. Is real Narcissistic abuse is
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  real. Narcissistic abuse is not real.
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  Is just abuse. No, it's not just abuse.
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  It's more insidious. It's more psychological.
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  It's psychological, psychological abuse.
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  It's absolutely real. We didn't get that.
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  You knew what you went through. Yeah, I'm telling you, surround
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  yourself with people that understand what you're going
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  through. I created my support group just
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  for that instance right here. Just for that, Just just for
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  that, right? There for that purpose right
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  there so you can be around people.
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  Or or you know, be in contact with.
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  People to understand what you went.
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  Through So if people are not invalidating you and just
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  telling you. This kind of craziness to make
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  it seem like narcissists are just stupid.
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  You're just. Stupid.
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  Irritating just stupid ass people.
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  They're not dumb. You might have a dumb
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  narcissist, but there are a lot. Of narcissists that are highly
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  educated smart manipulators. You know what?
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  Not every single every narcissist is going to be
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  different. I know people will just say
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  every narcissist is the same. That's not Yeah, if that's true
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  to a. Certain extent that's true at
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  the. Core but the build out the
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  internal in the insides might be the same, but the external is
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  going to be different and a lot of times how those traits are
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  produced or how those traits are portrayed is going to be
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  different. No2 narcissistic people are are
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  the same. Don't let somebody ask you what
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  did you do when you are a victim of abuse, regardless of what
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  type of abuse it is. Don't let people just try to
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  invalidate you, invalidate you and ask you what did you do,
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  what role you played in your abuse, what role you had to play
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  in getting abused and beat up and treated horribly.
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  Hell no. We're not doing that this year.
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  Hell no. People go to hell.
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  You can tell. You can tell people straight up
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  they can go to hell. You know, you can send them
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  straight to hell. We're not playing.
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  You can't play those games with people this year, y'all.
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  You can't. This is 20, this is 2025.
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  You can't play those games. You can't let allow people and
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  what the hell that they're doing to get inside of your head and
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  just continue to mess with you because they absolutely will.
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  Let's keep it real, keep it hot and ready like a Little Caesars
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  pizza. Like I say, hot and ready like a
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  Little Caesars pizza. Your name.
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  And then like I said, another thing you need to know, I don't
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  make this video alone. I just want to make this the
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  most important video you watch. Is that it does get.
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  Better if you allow it to if you work on it.
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  Will get better, but let's. You with my abuser?
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  Hell no. I'm not saying.
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  The Dick will get better, I'm just saying if you escape, if
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  you get out of there, when you get out of there as long.
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  As you keep. Putting the work in as long as
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  you keep pressing through the pain, as long as you keep trying
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  to break the. Trauma bond and go in no contact
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  or low. Contact whatever is possible, it
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  will get better for you. And I can say that what I can
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  say that with truthful because over the last few years I've
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  told when I've done my I've talked to thousands of people
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  over the last few years. There's so many, there's so many
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  stories, man. There's so many stories that I
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  love. I just absolutely love seeing
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  people win, man. So many stories.
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  I see people getting married, having families after abuse,
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  escaping with their lives intact, just being just just
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  loving, caring people. And I love you.
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  I love to see y'all win. I really do love to see y'all
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  win. Well, this makes me smile.
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  I hope it makes you smile because I absolutely love it.
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  I get it, you know, I get my I get high out for y'all winning,
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  which seems to upset some people like you need.
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  Nurses, you need your supply from being.
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  Negative. I get it.
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  I get it. Trust me.
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  But at the end of the day, that's not how.
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  That's how narcissistic people's minds work.
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  They. Want to win at all costs, You
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  know what I mean? And I'm saying that they never
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  loved you, that they never cared about you.
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  But I would say that they care about themselves more and they
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  value themselves more than they value you.
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  And I'm not saying it to try to hurt your feelings.
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  I know people are just like they hurt my feelings, Lee.
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  I'm not. That's not the intent here,
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  right? The intent is to just help you
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  grow and have you thrive and have you move forward.
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  That's what the intent is, you know, as long as you keep moving
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  forward, as long as you keep thriving, as long as you keep
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  surviving. You will be fine.
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  As my little girl say, she's saying that song right there.
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  Anyway, y'all. Thank you for tuning to another
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  episode. I really, I really appreciate
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  y'all. I'm super thankful for you and
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  as always, y'all, as always, until this peace.
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  What's going on? Beautiful folks.
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  Thank you. So.
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  Much for making it to the end of my video.
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  I truly appreciate it. You have no.
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  watch another video or two. I appreciate it.
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  I'm up.