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AAC - Work - Workplace Identity & Belonging - Respectful Language & Inclusive Communication - Q3 (Alessandra) · Wellbeing Solutions - Ask A Counsellor

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  SPEAKER_00: Wanting to ask a colleague about their preferred language is a thoughtful thing to want to get right.
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  SPEAKER_00: As many people feel unsure how to bring it up, worry they might say the wrong thing or draw attention to someone's background, and that uncertainty is completely understandable.
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  SPEAKER_00: As language is personal, it connects to identity, culture, and where someone comes from.
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  SPEAKER_00: So when people feel they can communicate in a way that reflects who they are, it helps to build trust and a stronger sense of belonging for everyone.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now a useful shift is moving away from the idea that asking is risky and more towards seeing it as something respectful, as asking how someone prefers communicate sends the message that you see them as an individual.
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  SPEAKER_00: And keeping it simple and genuine tends to work best.
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  SPEAKER_00: Something like I want to make sure I'm communicating in a way that feels comfortable for you, would it be okay to ask how you prefer to be addressed, or if there are particular terms you like me to use?
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  SPEAKER_00: As these kind of questions are open, puts choice into the person's hands, and removes the pressure of them having to correct you later.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now a one-to-one setting tends to feel safer than raising it in a group.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if you are in a position to influence your wider team, building preferences into introductions naturally, things like names, pronouns, or communication styles can help it become part of how the team operates as a whole.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is also worth knowing that in the UK, language connects to race and national origin under the Equality Act of 2010.
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  SPEAKER_00: So creating an environment where colleagues feel they cannot express their identity, including through language, can contribute to a hostile working environment, whether it's intended or not.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, if conversations around preferred language have led to conflict or complaints, speak to your HR team or live manager.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you are experiencing something that feels discriminatory, ACAS offer free and confidential guidance or workplace rights.
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  SPEAKER_00: And for further support, the app's resources can cover workplace identity, belonging, and inclusive communication for when you're ready to explore.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you are thinking about harming yourself or you're feeling safe, then please seek urgent help by contacting your local emergency service or a crisis helpline.