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- 0:01Speaker 1: Being misunderstood is one of the hardest grievances we ever
- 0:06Speaker 1: have to bear.
- 0:07Speaker 2: You know, you absolutely did.
- 0:09Speaker 1: The right thing, and God knows you did the right thing,
- 0:13Speaker 1: but unfortunately no one has informed everybody else that you
- 0:17Speaker 1: did the right thing, and you're forced to endure the
- 0:20Speaker 1: sometimes harsh realities of being totally misunderstood, misjudged, falsely accused,
- 0:32Speaker 1: sometimes even ridiculed. There are fewer hurts deeper than the
- 0:37Speaker 1: hurt of being misunderstood.
- 0:41Speaker 2: Yet Jesus said.
- 0:42Speaker 1: That being harshly treated by the world is par for
- 0:46Speaker 1: the course. Well, that's sort of a swindall paraphrase. The
- 0:51Speaker 1: question is this, how should we Christians respond to such injustices.
- 1:00Speaker 1: Today in our series, I'm calling hands on Christianity, we
- 1:04Speaker 1: want to look at a passage of scripture that talks
- 1:07Speaker 1: about this very thing. Hopefully what we learn will empower
- 1:12Speaker 1: us to do the right thing when someone else has
- 1:16Speaker 1: wronged us. Turn with me, please to James five and
- 1:20Speaker 1: listen closely. I'll read the passage to you from the
- 1:24Speaker 1: New American Standard version of the Bible, starting at James five,
- 1:30Speaker 1: verse seven. Therefore, be patient, brethren, until the coming of
- 1:35Speaker 1: the Lord. The farmer waits for the precious produce of
- 1:40Speaker 1: the soil, being patient about it until it gets the
- 1:44Speaker 1: early and late reigns. You too, be patient, strengthen your hearts,
- 1:50Speaker 1: for the coming of the Lord is near. Do not complain,
- 1:54Speaker 1: brethren against one another, so that you yourselves may not
- 1:58Speaker 1: be judged. The judge is standing right at the door.
- 2:04Speaker 1: As an example, brethren of suffering and patience. Take the
- 2:08Speaker 1: prophets who spoke in the name of the Lord. We
- 2:12Speaker 1: count those blessed who endured. You have heard of the
- 2:15Speaker 1: endurance of job, and have seen the outcome of the
- 2:19Speaker 1: Lord's dealings. That the Lord is full of compassion and
- 2:24Speaker 1: is merciful. But above all, my brethren, do not swear
- 2:29Speaker 1: either by heaven or by earth, or with any other oath.
- 2:35Speaker 1: But your yes is to be yes, and you're no no,
- 2:40Speaker 1: so that you may not fall under judgment.
- 2:45Speaker 2: The most natural reaction in the world is to do
- 2:48Speaker 2: unto others as they have done unto us, preferably worse
- 2:53Speaker 2: than they have done unto us. There's a word for
- 2:57Speaker 2: that in our language. In fact, there are several. One
- 3:01Speaker 2: is revenge. Another one is retaliation, returning evil for evil,
- 3:11Speaker 2: getting back. Sometime it is in the passive form of
- 3:15Speaker 2: holding a grudge or feeling resentment toward another person. Men
- 3:23Speaker 2: of literature have not overlooked this natural tendency in man. Nietzschee,
- 3:27Speaker 2: the famous German philosopher, said that revenge is the greatest
- 3:35Speaker 2: instinct in the human race. Byron called revenge sweetness. Bacon said,
- 3:43Speaker 2: it is sort of a wild justice. So men and
- 3:49Speaker 2: women alike have accepted the fact that we naturally want
- 3:54Speaker 2: to get back. That is true. It takes place in
- 3:58Speaker 2: a home between a husband and wife, between parents and children,
- 4:02Speaker 2: and the other way around. It occurs on jobs where
- 4:06Speaker 2: the boss and the employee would be involved in such
- 4:10Speaker 2: a skirmish. It occurs in professions between the professional people.
- 4:15Speaker 2: It occurs in the ministry. It occurs in a church.
- 4:19Speaker 2: It can take place with people you've never met before.
- 4:22Speaker 2: That happened to me a number of months. In fact,
- 4:25Speaker 2: it's now been years ago. I was driving my car
- 4:29Speaker 2: into a large shopping center and there was a small
- 4:32Speaker 2: parking space which I felt was just about big enough
- 4:36Speaker 2: for the compact car that I was driving. I was
- 4:42Speaker 2: jockeying to find my place right in the middle, and
- 4:45Speaker 2: I knew when I came to a stop i'd be
- 4:48Speaker 2: faced with the dilemma of opening my door and bumping
- 4:54Speaker 2: his car, which is constantly a bother to most people
- 4:57Speaker 2: that want to keep their car looking half way decent,
- 5:01Speaker 2: and for me to get my frame out of my
- 5:03Speaker 2: little car without bumping his was a real job. My boy,
- 5:08Speaker 2: who was then small, was with me, and he slipped
- 5:11Speaker 2: out of his side with no problem. But I very
- 5:14Speaker 2: gingerly pulled myself out and in the process bumped his car.
- 5:18Speaker 2: A little bit bothered me, and I frowned and looked
- 5:21Speaker 2: down and wiped off the side of his car to
- 5:24Speaker 2: make sure that it was okay. There wasn't a mark
- 5:27Speaker 2: on it. And when I came up from that maneuver,
- 5:31Speaker 2: he was sitting inside his car and he wasn't smiling,
- 5:36Speaker 2: and I smiled and I said, I'm sorry, but there's
- 5:40Speaker 2: no damage. He still wasn't smiling. So I closed the
- 5:44Speaker 2: door and I walked over to go inside this store,
- 5:48Speaker 2: which happened to be a large grocery store with a
- 5:50Speaker 2: big plate glass front, and something told me to turn
- 5:53Speaker 2: around and look. Something was going to happen to my
- 5:57Speaker 2: cars the world. When I turned around, he was already
- 6:01Speaker 2: going around his car and he opened the back door
- 6:05Speaker 2: of his car and he went smash smash into my fender.
- 6:12Speaker 2: That's exactly the way I felt at that moment. My
- 6:15Speaker 2: first reaction was to separate his head from his body.
- 6:20Speaker 2: That was my first reaction. But I thought, man, what
- 6:26Speaker 2: a scandal this would create. Pastor kills man in parking lot.
- 6:34Speaker 2: And he was bigger than I was, and I thought,
- 6:36Speaker 2: how much worse man kills pastor in parking lot? So
- 6:42Speaker 2: I didn't do anything. My little boy had his hand
- 6:46Speaker 2: in mind, and I thought boy would just foul everything
- 6:50Speaker 2: up if he saw his daddy out there get smeared
- 6:52Speaker 2: all over the parking lot. So I didn't do anything.
- 6:56Speaker 2: As a matter of fact, I did do something, lied
- 7:00Speaker 2: the rare virtue in my life of patience and walked away.
- 7:08Speaker 2: But you know what, that is a pleasant memory and
- 7:12Speaker 2: a rare one in my mind right now as I
- 7:16Speaker 2: think back on that day that I walked away from
- 7:19Speaker 2: what could have been an ugly scene, I'm grateful that
- 7:22Speaker 2: I did. This can happen when you drive. You've seen
- 7:28Speaker 2: people pass other people and it aggravates that person that
- 7:31Speaker 2: was passed, and so he can't stand it if he
- 7:34Speaker 2: has to go eighty miles an hour he will pass
- 7:37Speaker 2: that other person and cut in front of him. I've
- 7:39Speaker 2: seen people get out of the car and fight right
- 7:41Speaker 2: on the street. I saw a fight on the side
- 7:44Speaker 2: of the sant Ana Freeway not long ago, going on
- 7:47Speaker 2: while people were driving by, and I thought, probably that's
- 7:51Speaker 2: how it started. We naturally fight back. But you know,
- 7:59Speaker 2: godd has a better idea. But it's not natural, it's supernatural.
- 8:08Speaker 2: Peter tells us what it is, and James tells us
- 8:11Speaker 2: how to do it. So let's look first at Peter.
- 8:14Speaker 2: Peter's counsel is found in the second chapter of his
- 8:17Speaker 2: first Letter, beginning in verse eighteen, as we deal with
- 8:23Speaker 2: how to do right when we've been done wrong. Believe
- 8:28Speaker 2: it or not, the Bible talks about that very perplexing
- 8:31Speaker 2: problem first. Peter to eighteen, Servants, be submissive to your
- 8:39Speaker 2: masters with all respect, not only to those who were
- 8:44Speaker 2: good and gentle. And I might add, anybody can be
- 8:48Speaker 2: submissive to a boss that's good and gentle. Any woman
- 8:53Speaker 2: can be submissive to a man who is gracious and
- 8:56Speaker 2: thoughtful and forgiving and easy to get along with great virtue.
- 9:01Speaker 2: That's natural. But Peter's not talking about doing what is natural.
- 9:07Speaker 2: He's talking about doing something that's supernatural. So he goes on,
- 9:13Speaker 2: not only do those that are good and gentle, but
- 9:17Speaker 2: also to those who are unreasonable. The amplified Bible goes further, overbearing, unjust, crooked.
- 9:29Speaker 2: Did you hear that overbearing, unjust and crooked, be submissive
- 9:43Speaker 2: verse nineteen. For this fine's favor if for the sake
- 9:48Speaker 2: of conscience toward God, there's the secret conscience toward God.
- 9:54Speaker 2: A man bears up under sorrows when suffering unjustly. What
- 10:00Speaker 2: credit is there if when you sin and are harshly
- 10:04Speaker 2: treated you endure it with patience. There's no big deal.
- 10:10Speaker 2: When you break the law and an officer stops you
- 10:13Speaker 2: and gives you a citation and you patiently endure it
- 10:16Speaker 2: and then pay it. You're not gonna make the headlines.
- 10:19Speaker 2: You deserve it. You should be punished, and you were
- 10:23Speaker 2: justly punished, and you endure it because you deserve it.
- 10:27Speaker 2: But where the rubber meets the road, Verse twenty goes on,
- 10:33Speaker 2: if when you do what is right and suffer for it, Ah,
- 10:38Speaker 2: Shakespeare would add, that's the rub Yeah, that's what's tough.
- 10:44Speaker 2: In fact, Peter says this finds favor with God when
- 10:50Speaker 2: you endure it patiently. I want you to look at
- 10:54Speaker 2: a phrase that is repeated, look carefully. Verse nineteen begins
- 10:58Speaker 2: with it, Verse twenty he ends with it. It's like
- 11:01Speaker 2: a parenthesis. Verse nineteen begins, This finds favor. Verse twenty
- 11:08Speaker 2: ends This finds favor with God. You know what the
- 11:13Speaker 2: word favor means. Literally, the word favor here is an
- 11:18Speaker 2: action that is beyond the ordinary human response and is
- 11:25Speaker 2: therefore commendable. That's what it means. Not when you do
- 11:30Speaker 2: what is ordinary, but when you do what is beyond
- 11:34Speaker 2: the ordinary. I would call that supernatural. That is what
- 11:39Speaker 2: causes God to say, Great, that finds favor in my heart.
- 11:48Speaker 2: I'm pleased with that. As a matter of fact, I'd
- 11:51Speaker 2: like to be bold enough to say, God responds, I
- 11:55Speaker 2: am impressed because he witnesses with his all seeing eye,
- 12:02Speaker 2: the controlling power of his Holy Spirit in the tools
- 12:07Speaker 2: of this life, when we are irritated, when we are irked,
- 12:11Speaker 2: when we are treated unjustly, and he sees his child
- 12:15Speaker 2: bloom like a rose. Oh, that finds favor. Now, before
- 12:23Speaker 2: we turn to James, I want to say one word.
- 12:25Speaker 2: Here are a few words in one sentence. I am
- 12:29Speaker 2: not talking to your wife, your husband, your boss, your employee,
- 12:38Speaker 2: your parent, your child, your neighbor. Are that person you
- 12:44Speaker 2: can't stand that's in church this morning talking to you.
- 12:52Speaker 2: God is addressing you and me in this passage, and
- 12:58Speaker 2: it has to do with doing right when we have
- 13:02Speaker 2: been done wrong. Peter tells us what is expected. James
- 13:06Speaker 2: tells us how to put it into operation. So let's
- 13:08Speaker 2: go back the book just before first Peter, if you're
- 13:12Speaker 2: not familiar with your Bible, is the book where we
- 13:15Speaker 2: are now chapter five. Working our way through this book,
- 13:20Speaker 2: we've come to verse seven, and we'll go down through
- 13:23Speaker 2: verse twelve this morning. Tonight we'll pick up at verse thirteen,
- 13:28Speaker 2: and we'll go through verse sixteen in the matter of
- 13:31Speaker 2: sickness and suffering and healing as it relates to God's
- 13:35Speaker 2: method of that. To begin with, let me point out,
- 13:38Speaker 2: for the sake of orientation, for general observations about the passage,
- 13:43Speaker 2: which I think are significant enough for us to hang
- 13:46Speaker 2: our hats on them. To start with, first, the passage
- 13:52Speaker 2: is addressed to the believer four times. You will find
- 13:57Speaker 2: the word brethren in these six verses verse seven, verse nine,
- 14:05Speaker 2: verse ten, verse twelve. I have them circled in my Bible.
- 14:10Speaker 2: It's almost as though James overworks the words, so you'll
- 14:13Speaker 2: know he's not talking to the unregenerate. The man without Christ,
- 14:17Speaker 2: therefore without the Holy Spirit, is living under frustration, trying
- 14:22Speaker 2: to control his fuse, and it's designed that way. The
- 14:29Speaker 2: misery of impatience and sin frequently draws a person like
- 14:34Speaker 2: a magnet to the claims of Jesus Christ. So it's
- 14:38Speaker 2: addressed to the believer, the one who can be filled
- 14:40Speaker 2: by the Holy Spirit and perform in this fashion. The
- 14:44Speaker 2: second observation is that these verses are directly related to
- 14:48Speaker 2: the previous six verses. The previous six verses have talked
- 14:53Speaker 2: to those that are plutocrats, the rich, who use their
- 14:58Speaker 2: means to twist the courts and to maneuver lawyers like pawns,
- 15:03Speaker 2: so that the just believer was given an unjust treatment.
- 15:09Speaker 2: In fact, verse six, he tells it like it is.
- 15:13Speaker 2: He speaks to the rich, and he says, you have condemned,
- 15:16Speaker 2: you have put to death the righteous one, and they
- 15:19Speaker 2: don't resist you. Now, he says in verse seven, Therefore,
- 15:23Speaker 2: having said what I've got to say to the rich,
- 15:26Speaker 2: I want to talk to those that have been condemned,
- 15:30Speaker 2: those that have been treated unjustly. So it's in a
- 15:33Speaker 2: context of contrast. Let me point out a third factor
- 15:38Speaker 2: that I think is really the structure of it, and
- 15:41Speaker 2: that is there are four commands in these six verses.
- 15:45Speaker 2: These four commands make up the advice that James is
- 15:49Speaker 2: laying on us. The first two are positive and the
- 15:53Speaker 2: last two are negative. The first two are given in attense,
- 15:57Speaker 2: that is right, now let it take. The last two,
- 16:01Speaker 2: being negative, are saying don't start that habit or stop
- 16:07Speaker 2: this that you have started doing habitually. And then there
- 16:12Speaker 2: is a fourth observation, and that is woven into these
- 16:16Speaker 2: verses and commands are four vivid illustrations. James is, perhaps
- 16:22Speaker 2: more than any other writer, the most vivid of illustrators.
- 16:25Speaker 2: He opens the shades and the windows of letting light
- 16:29Speaker 2: come in and invade our understanding. So we should have
- 16:32Speaker 2: no reason for missing James's message. Now, remember the question
- 16:37Speaker 2: to be answered is how should I react correctly when
- 16:43Speaker 2: I have been treated incorrectly? Okay? The advice James gives
- 16:51Speaker 2: comes in four packages. First, be patient verse seven, and
- 16:59Speaker 2: the first statement in verse eight. May I read these
- 17:02Speaker 2: verses for you be patient? Therefore, brethren, until the coming
- 17:07Speaker 2: of the Lord. Behold, the farmer waits for the precious
- 17:11Speaker 2: produce of the soil. That's the illustration. He's patient about
- 17:16Speaker 2: it until it gets the early and late rains. You too,
- 17:20Speaker 2: be patient, is like the farmer. All right, Let's look
- 17:26Speaker 2: first at the term that is translated patient, and then
- 17:29Speaker 2: let's look at the tents, because they relate. The term
- 17:33Speaker 2: comes from a combination of two New Testament Greek words.
- 17:37Speaker 2: The first one means far or distant, or long. The
- 17:43Speaker 2: other term is thumas we get our word thermometer from it.
- 17:46Speaker 2: It means passion or heat, or rage or anger. Long tempered.
- 17:55Speaker 2: That's the thought. The colloquial term of our day is
- 17:58Speaker 2: short tempered. James says, when something unjust takes place, have
- 18:07Speaker 2: a long fuse. Don't blow up like Mount Vassivius. Let
- 18:13Speaker 2: it lie, let it be be patient. I'm impressed with
- 18:21Speaker 2: this particular word because of two things. First, it is
- 18:26Speaker 2: the very first description of real love one Corinthians thirteen four.
- 18:31Speaker 2: Love what suffers long. Remember that love is patient. Love
- 18:38Speaker 2: has a long fuse. Isn't it remarkable how much more
- 18:42Speaker 2: patience you have with those that you love than those
- 18:45Speaker 2: that you don't It's amazing, isn't it. Parents mothers can
- 18:51Speaker 2: work with little children, and another mother watches and says,
- 18:54Speaker 2: how can she possibly deal so patiently with that creature?
- 19:00Speaker 2: And the young mother that has love for this creature
- 19:03Speaker 2: is just pouring over all kinds of attention because there's
- 19:06Speaker 2: love there. The next reason I'm impressed is because you
- 19:12Speaker 2: cannot learn without patience. There is no such thing as
- 19:17Speaker 2: an impatient learner. You're not a learner. You're grabbing facts
- 19:24Speaker 2: here and there. But those that are real students of
- 19:26Speaker 2: the word are patient over the word. Those that are
- 19:30Speaker 2: real students in the realm of their studies are patient
- 19:34Speaker 2: and poor time and effort to the point of sacrifice
- 19:38Speaker 2: just to glean those gems from that subject that area.
- 19:43Speaker 2: Researchers are notoriously patient, careful people that pour over the
- 19:49Speaker 2: subject at hand. The Greeks had a motto, the first
- 19:55Speaker 2: necessity of learning is patience. You will never learned the
- 20:00Speaker 2: lessons God has for you in that unjust irritation. Without patience,
- 20:07Speaker 2: never will you can mark it down. Now the illustration behold,
- 20:15Speaker 2: the farmer waits for the precious produce of the soil,
- 20:21Speaker 2: being patient about it until he gets the early and
- 20:25Speaker 2: later or late rains. Now, we have never farmed in Israel.
- 20:31Speaker 2: Most of us have never farmed, so we can't even
- 20:34Speaker 2: imagine what it would be like to be a farmer
- 20:36Speaker 2: in that land of Palestine. Over there, the soil is
- 20:40Speaker 2: rocky and dry, crusty, and the farmer that plants plants
- 20:47Speaker 2: with that constant reminder, I've got to be patient. He
- 20:51Speaker 2: drops his seed in the soil, and then comes the
- 20:54Speaker 2: early rain about October November, and it softens the soil
- 20:58Speaker 2: and it causes that sea to die and then to
- 21:02Speaker 2: pop up with a new green shoot. He waits for that,
- 21:06Speaker 2: but oh, the weight really takes place right on through
- 21:10Speaker 2: the winter what we would call the winter months, until
- 21:12Speaker 2: April and May, when the late rain comes and that
- 21:15Speaker 2: shoot is already up and the grain swells and the
- 21:19Speaker 2: corn fills with taste and flavor. It just seems to
- 21:23Speaker 2: burst out of the stalk. The late rains provide that
- 21:29Speaker 2: finishing touch from God. No farmer races up and down
- 21:34Speaker 2: the furze that he's plowed and bites his nails, you know,
- 21:38Speaker 2: pleading where is the rain? He just patiently plants it
- 21:43Speaker 2: and leaves it. Heard the most interesting account not long
- 21:49Speaker 2: ago of a man who had his daughter with him
- 21:51Speaker 2: in the woods. They were walking together and they came
- 21:53Speaker 2: upon a cocoon. We don't see those much in our
- 21:58Speaker 2: sidewalk jungle, but they do exist. And he looked at
- 22:01Speaker 2: this little cocoon and it was a little creature inside
- 22:04Speaker 2: of it was working like crazy to get outside. And
- 22:07Speaker 2: you know, he had spent enough time in his little
- 22:10Speaker 2: sack to know that it was nature was saying, look,
- 22:14Speaker 2: take your flight. So he began to work his way
- 22:17Speaker 2: and he was struggling, and this fellow with his daughter
- 22:20Speaker 2: stared at it, and he said, tell you what, let's do.
- 22:25Speaker 2: Let's help him out. And so he reached up with
- 22:28Speaker 2: his big fingers and thumbs and he pulled that cocoon
- 22:32Speaker 2: apart and split it open, and that little creature died.
- 22:38Speaker 2: Because you can't hurry God's plan. That's why James says
- 22:44Speaker 2: the coming of the Lord. That's why he mentions in
- 22:49Speaker 2: verse seven, until he comes, It doesn't mean only the
- 22:52Speaker 2: second coming. It means that, but it means until he
- 22:55Speaker 2: makes his appearance on the scene. We want to hurt
- 23:00Speaker 2: God's appearance. In fact, we want to help him out.
- 23:03Speaker 2: So we split the cocoons and the result is a corpse,
- 23:09Speaker 2: are at best a crippled situation. You ever hurried into
- 23:12Speaker 2: a situation, Well, it's not an adult here this day
- 23:15Speaker 2: that hasn't hurried into the situation and done the wrong thing,
- 23:19Speaker 2: and you've lived to regret him. The very worst thing
- 23:23Speaker 2: I could have done, but that fellow in the parking
- 23:26Speaker 2: lot was to take him on. It's not God's plan.
- 23:32Speaker 2: God's marvelous arrangement leaves room for his appearance. You two
- 23:39Speaker 2: be patient. Verse eight begins, just like the farmer, Sometime
- 23:44Speaker 2: it is a long wait. I was at the Rose
- 23:50Speaker 2: Bowl game. What a mind boggler that game was. If
- 23:54Speaker 2: you're a sports fan that you don't need to be
- 23:56Speaker 2: told what it was all about. But it just so
- 23:58Speaker 2: happened that in one hundred and six plus thousand people,
- 24:01Speaker 2: God saw fit to put me sitting in front of
- 24:04Speaker 2: the woman with the loudest mouth in the world. She
- 24:09Speaker 2: yelled all the time, She yelled at the halftime, she
- 24:12Speaker 2: yelled at the timeouts. The worst of all, she was
- 24:15Speaker 2: from Ohio State, right back, whole row of the big
- 24:20Speaker 2: old jersey, yelling yell it all the way through. She
- 24:25Speaker 2: didn't know the first thing about football, it seemed she
- 24:29Speaker 2: had such things as guard your territory. She said it
- 24:33Speaker 2: a million times, guard your goal. And I thought, as
- 24:40Speaker 2: I was sitting there, we had a program, and I thought,
- 24:43Speaker 2: you know, if I were to roll up the program,
- 24:47Speaker 2: that's just about the right put it right in her mouth.
- 24:50Speaker 2: But sure, as a role that would have become a
- 24:52Speaker 2: megaphone right in her mouth. I couldn't do that. So
- 24:56Speaker 2: you know what, I'm honest with you. I said to myself,
- 24:59Speaker 2: we're gonna We're gonna wait this thing out. And boy,
- 25:03Speaker 2: it was a long wait all afternoon. I realized that
- 25:06Speaker 2: the very best way to silence her was to win
- 25:08Speaker 2: the game. But if you watched that thing, you man,
- 25:11Speaker 2: it was obvious that sc was gonna go down the
- 25:14Speaker 2: tube until the last seconds, right. Oh, Hayden dropped that
- 25:21Speaker 2: beautiful pass on McCain. He caught in the end zone.
- 25:25Speaker 2: He was silent behind us, all the stands were going well,
- 25:29Speaker 2: and then when he put that two pointer on him,
- 25:32Speaker 2: Oh wow. You know, I wanted to turn around. Oh
- 25:41Speaker 2: that's my chance, and I thought, this is it, But
- 25:43Speaker 2: I didn't. Oh why didn't I? Because the lesson was learned.
- 25:51Speaker 2: You see, that's God's plan. We want to ram the
- 25:56Speaker 2: program down their mouth. We want to take them by
- 25:58Speaker 2: the throat. We want to work out all kinds of
- 26:01Speaker 2: deals to make it hard on them. We want to
- 26:04Speaker 2: rub their nose in it. When it's all over, God says, look, man,
- 26:09Speaker 2: let me handle that. There's one thing God specializes in
- 26:14Speaker 2: that I cannot handle it all. You know what it is,
- 26:17Speaker 2: impossible situations. And he surrounds us with him and then
- 26:23Speaker 2: he says, sit down and wait. So like the farmer,
- 26:32Speaker 2: be patient. There's another one. And I think it's so
- 26:37Speaker 2: neat how James ties it together. When you are patient
- 26:42Speaker 2: and when you don't react, you know what, the next
- 26:45Speaker 2: tendency in the flesh is to be discouraged. If you're
- 26:50Speaker 2: not a fighter, then you often have feelings of self pity.
- 26:54Speaker 2: You ever have those feelings? Well, no, what's got it
- 26:58Speaker 2: as bed as I've got it? You know that kind
- 27:01Speaker 2: of a feeling. You enter the new year with that.
- 27:04Speaker 2: Oh man, it's gonna be treacherous, But I'm waiting on God.
- 27:10Speaker 2: You know how you'll make it sound right around the
- 27:12Speaker 2: Christian friends, you know, James says, verse A, strengthen your hearts.
- 27:22Speaker 2: Here's where he opens all the stops. He plays at
- 27:25Speaker 2: full volume, because he hits us right where we are weak.
- 27:29Speaker 2: The word strengthen is a Greek word that means to
- 27:31Speaker 2: prop up something or to support something that's heavy. Your
- 27:36Speaker 2: heart is heavy. Oh, there's no reason to feel down cast.
- 27:42Speaker 2: Let the Lord support you in this situation. You give
- 27:46Speaker 2: yourself totally to God. Let him have that situation. Oh
- 27:51Speaker 2: can he handle it? Psalm fifty five twenty two. Cast
- 27:54Speaker 2: thy burden upon the Lord. He will sustain you. He
- 27:58Speaker 2: will never suffer the righteous to be moved. First Peter
- 28:03Speaker 2: five says, casting all your care on him. That's supporting yourself. Support, strengthen,
- 28:12Speaker 2: prop up your hearts for the coming of the Lord
- 28:15Speaker 2: is at hand. And once again I suggest a practical
- 28:18Speaker 2: idea of that, not waiting until the rapture, but waiting
- 28:22Speaker 2: is practically speaking, until he comes on the scene. Don't
- 28:27Speaker 2: rush in. Let him come on the scene, let him
- 28:31Speaker 2: take it, Let him come to your rescue and your defense. Now,
- 28:36Speaker 2: I'm going to give you a simple idea that I employ,
- 28:39Speaker 2: and it is not natural with me. Frankly, I did
- 28:42Speaker 2: discover it, but it is not of my own making
- 28:45Speaker 2: and my own flesh. I call it the fifty twenty principle.
- 28:50Speaker 2: I'm honest, it comes to my mind when a situation
- 28:53Speaker 2: comes that I cannot handle and it is completely unjust.
- 28:57Speaker 2: Lorn Sanny of the Navigators has said, the greatest birth
- 29:00Speaker 2: the Christian must bear is the burden of being misunderstood.
- 29:05Speaker 2: If you've lived with it, you know that's true. It'll
- 29:07Speaker 2: make you groan an ache like nothing else. Okay. The
- 29:11Speaker 2: fifty twenty principle is based on Genesis fifty twenty before
- 29:15Speaker 2: you turn, or if you just want to mark it
- 29:17Speaker 2: down and look at it later. It's based on the
- 29:19Speaker 2: life of Joseph, where his brothers had sold him down
- 29:23Speaker 2: the river, forgotten him, lied to his dead and said,
- 29:26Speaker 2: Joseph's dead. Here's the garment. Look at the blood, and
- 29:30Speaker 2: Jacob as it were. It buried the boy in his mind.
- 29:32Speaker 2: And Joseph went on, as you know the great story.
- 29:35Speaker 2: God gave him, through the experience in the prison, a
- 29:38Speaker 2: heart for him, and then promoted him to the prime
- 29:40Speaker 2: ministership of all of Egypt. And then his brothers came
- 29:44Speaker 2: back begging for food. Oh what a chance to get back.
- 29:48Speaker 2: But did he do it? No, it says he wept
- 29:51Speaker 2: in their presence, and when they really got it all out,
- 29:54Speaker 2: on the table. He said, you know, Fellas, you meant
- 29:56Speaker 2: it unto me for evil, but God meant it unto
- 30:00Speaker 2: me for good. That's fifty twenty of genesis. Someone may
- 30:05Speaker 2: mean it unto you for evil, but let me say,
- 30:09Speaker 2: unless you can see beyond that someone you're gonna retaliate,
- 30:15Speaker 2: God means it unto you for good. God is using
- 30:20Speaker 2: that person as a tool on your frame to shape
- 30:24Speaker 2: you and to form you, and to make you, and
- 30:26Speaker 2: to build you into a person you would never otherwise become.
- 30:32Speaker 2: You know, there are artists on this earth that have
- 30:35Speaker 2: tangible evidences of the work of their hands, canvas, watercolor,
- 30:40Speaker 2: pieces of stone that are beautifully carved clay work. You
- 30:45Speaker 2: know God's handiwork. You You are the handiwork of God.
- 30:55Speaker 2: As you walk around this earth and live and have
- 30:58Speaker 2: your being, and raise your children, or live a life
- 31:02Speaker 2: of a single adult, whatever may be your calling your career,
- 31:05Speaker 2: you are constantly the trophy of God's handiwork. Put fifty
- 31:14Speaker 2: twenty into operation. We don't need twenty twenty vision. We
- 31:19Speaker 2: need fifty twenty. Where we turn and say Lord, I'm
- 31:24Speaker 2: going to be supported in you. I won't take the
- 31:27Speaker 2: time to turn. But if you want to market down
- 31:30Speaker 2: and read it later, do so. Tewod Samuel, sixteen five
- 31:34Speaker 2: through fourteen. One of my favorite stories in all the
- 31:37Speaker 2: Old Testaments. Tewod Samuel, sixteen five through fourteen. It's the
- 31:41Speaker 2: story of SHEMII. Shemi I was a dingling. He stayed
- 31:46Speaker 2: on the hill outside the temple, outside the court of David,
- 31:51Speaker 2: and David walked out a beaten man. His boy had rebelled,
- 31:54Speaker 2: had overthrown him, and David, in all the misery and
- 31:57Speaker 2: pain of that experience, was walking down the path, and
- 32:00Speaker 2: that shimmy eye up on the hill was throwing stones
- 32:03Speaker 2: at him. He was cursing him. Man. Oh. David was
- 32:07Speaker 2: surrounded by all of his buddies, and his buddy said,
- 32:10Speaker 2: you want us to finish off Shemmy I. Let's take
- 32:13Speaker 2: him on. David said, no, God knows what he's doing.
- 32:20Speaker 2: Let him shout, let him go on. God is at work. Oh.
- 32:31Speaker 2: You'd ask any individual today in the flesh what they
- 32:34Speaker 2: would do. You'd be up that hill in ten seconds.
- 32:38Speaker 2: Cut his throat so fast he wouldn't know it till
- 32:40Speaker 2: he sneezed. Finish him off. But that's the natural reaction,
- 32:46Speaker 2: David says, oh man, don't look up there, look up there.
- 32:50Speaker 2: Fifty twenty. I'm going to support my heart in God,
- 32:55Speaker 2: and I'm going to say, Lord, it isn't fair. But
- 32:57Speaker 2: I am not going to build a deep seated resentment.
- 33:02Speaker 2: That's verse nine. Look at it. Verse nine. Do not complain, boy,
- 33:07Speaker 2: James is so practical. When you don't fight, you're patient,
- 33:12Speaker 2: when you don't feel discouraged and submerge in self pity.
- 33:16Speaker 2: Then the next tendency is to hold a grudge. You know,
- 33:20Speaker 2: you haven't fought, you've been patient, you've you've supported yourself
- 33:25Speaker 2: in the Lord. But in your weak moments you begin
- 33:28Speaker 2: to entertain feelings of how can I get back, or
- 33:34Speaker 2: those feelings when something bad happens to the object of
- 33:37Speaker 2: your concern. There's sort of a I'm so happy that happened.
- 33:42Speaker 2: Maybe he'll learn. But James says in verse nine, don't complain.
- 33:47Speaker 2: The word means to sigh or to groan, and the
- 33:52Speaker 2: focus of verse nine has to do with groaning or
- 33:56Speaker 2: complaining against someone else. Idea of bearing a grudge. Why
- 34:03Speaker 2: you do that, you will become the object of judgment,
- 34:06Speaker 2: and your judge lives at the door. The illustration on
- 34:11Speaker 2: the other hand is Verse ten, the prophets who stood fast.
- 34:16Speaker 2: You know what a trick of the flesh. The most
- 34:19Speaker 2: creative thing in our body is the flesh. It never
- 34:23Speaker 2: runs out of ideas on how to get back. Most
- 34:26Speaker 2: creative force in the world. It happens whenever you are wronged. Wow,
- 34:31Speaker 2: you can think of a dozen options in a moment
- 34:33Speaker 2: of time radio station. As a newsman, I read about
- 34:38Speaker 2: who released an actual story of a man who was
- 34:41Speaker 2: divorced by his wife, and he resented her so much
- 34:48Speaker 2: that when he paid alimony for the children for her,
- 34:52Speaker 2: he sent it in Nichols. Every time the alimony payment
- 34:58Speaker 2: was made, one hundred and six steve pounds of Nichols
- 35:04Speaker 2: landed at her door. Go ahead and laugh. That's all right,
- 35:10Speaker 2: you can laugh about that. You know why, because down
- 35:14Speaker 2: deep inside he was frustrated. He had a grudge, so
- 35:20Speaker 2: he mailed or he sent the package Nichols regularly, Yes,
- 35:26Speaker 2: driving it down her throat. Our Christians can do that
- 35:30Speaker 2: in the most subtle ways. Time won't allow me to
- 35:34Speaker 2: develop it. But if you've been the front of it,
- 35:36Speaker 2: you know what I mean. It can come in the
- 35:40Speaker 2: form of a prayer chain. It can come in the
- 35:43Speaker 2: form of prayer meetings. It can come in letters, in
- 35:48Speaker 2: the windows, sermons books. Oh James says, consider the Prophets.
- 35:58Speaker 2: Look at verse ten as an example of suffering and patience.
- 36:03Speaker 2: Make a study of the Prophets. Don't blame your troubles
- 36:08Speaker 2: on someone else. Take a look at the prophets. Pick
- 36:12Speaker 2: anyone you like, and you read their autobiography. They will
- 36:16Speaker 2: tell you that they were spokesmen for God, and they
- 36:19Speaker 2: did not fail to speak for God, even if it
- 36:22Speaker 2: meant death, and in some cases it did. The writer
- 36:25Speaker 2: to the Hebrews says, what shall I say more? The
- 36:29Speaker 2: time would fail me to tell of Gideon, and of Barak,
- 36:31Speaker 2: and of Samson, and of Jephthah, and David and Samuel,
- 36:35Speaker 2: and the prophets, who through faith subdued kingdoms and wrought righteousness,
- 36:39Speaker 2: and worked promises, and stopped the mouths of lions. They
- 36:43Speaker 2: waxed valiant in fight and turned to flight. The armies
- 36:46Speaker 2: of the Aliens. Women received their dead race to life again.
- 36:50Speaker 2: Some of them were tormented and tortured, not accepting deliverance
- 36:56Speaker 2: of whom the world was not worthy. This old, sin cursed, unregenerate,
- 37:05Speaker 2: godless planet is not worthy of a few rare souls
- 37:11Speaker 2: that say I'm not going to fight back, and therefore
- 37:16Speaker 2: the world drops its mouth and stares in disbelief. I
- 37:21Speaker 2: cannot believe it. You want to have an opportunity to
- 37:27Speaker 2: witness you carve it out every time you respond graciously
- 37:32Speaker 2: to an ungracious act. It's the old story of the
- 37:35Speaker 2: fellow in the barracks. He was praying one night and
- 37:40Speaker 2: his drunken friend came in, and he slung his boots
- 37:42Speaker 2: across the barracks and hit his fellow right in the back.
- 37:46Speaker 2: The next morning, the boots were at this other man's bunk,
- 37:49Speaker 2: completely shined. James says, don't be angry, patient, don't be discouraged,
- 38:03Speaker 2: support yourself in the Lord. Don't look for someone to blame. Instead,
- 38:10Speaker 2: look up and Fourth, he says, in verse twelve, don't
- 38:15Speaker 2: swear Verse twelve. Above all, my brethren, do not swear.
- 38:23Speaker 2: And you would expect me to say that means profanity
- 38:27Speaker 2: in a broad sense, it would. The Greek word means
- 38:31Speaker 2: to grasp something firmly, and more often in the New
- 38:36Speaker 2: Testament it means to grasp something sacred firmly for the
- 38:41Speaker 2: purpose of supporting what you're saying or what you're doing.
- 38:46Speaker 2: Get the idea. It's the idea of calling God into
- 38:50Speaker 2: the scene and presenting him to give validity to what
- 38:53Speaker 2: you're doing. That's the thought. It's as if a person
- 38:58Speaker 2: were to say, I swear by God what I'm saying
- 39:00Speaker 2: is right, or before God, that's the truth. That's what happens.
- 39:06Speaker 2: It's what a person is supposed to do. Who lifts
- 39:08Speaker 2: his hand in the court and says I swear to
- 39:10Speaker 2: tell the truth, he is invoking a sacred presence upon
- 39:16Speaker 2: his statement. Now James goes on to say, either by
- 39:21Speaker 2: Heaven or by Earth, or with any other oath, no,
- 39:24Speaker 2: let your yes be yes, let your no be null,
- 39:30Speaker 2: and then he closes, so that you may not fall
- 39:34Speaker 2: under judgment. Now I've wrestled with this. That's been the
- 39:38Speaker 2: most difficult of the four to understand what it is saying.
- 39:42Speaker 2: I come to the realization, at least for my own satisfaction,
- 39:45Speaker 2: that while it may include profanity, and that while it
- 39:48Speaker 2: may mean not to say, not to grasp onto God
- 39:53Speaker 2: and use him in vain, in some way I think
- 39:56Speaker 2: it's saying, don't appear super spiritual, don't turn the scene
- 40:02Speaker 2: into a bragomony, don't try to fill the present moment
- 40:08Speaker 2: of suffering with all of the super spiritual explanations. Just
- 40:13Speaker 2: let your yes be yes, your no be no, and
- 40:15Speaker 2: be very simple. Why do I say that because of
- 40:20Speaker 2: verse eleven, which I think tie together eleven and twelve.
- 40:23Speaker 2: Look at the middle of the verse. You have heard
- 40:25Speaker 2: of the endurance of job. You have seen the outcome
- 40:29Speaker 2: of the Lord's dealings. There's the secret that the Lord
- 40:33Speaker 2: is full of compassion and is merciful. Insight comes at
- 40:40Speaker 2: the outcome. Put that down. Insight does not come now,
- 40:46Speaker 2: it comes later. Seldom will a person have insight into
- 40:50Speaker 2: his present. It is often at the end of the experience.
- 40:55Speaker 2: He looks back, she looks back, and you say, this
- 41:00Speaker 2: is why that happened. So in the midst of the suffering,
- 41:06Speaker 2: don't brag about it. Don't talk about how God is
- 41:11Speaker 2: this and God is that, and how you're learning this
- 41:13Speaker 2: and learning that. Be very quiet in the suffering. Let
- 41:20Speaker 2: your yes be yes, let your no be no. And
- 41:23Speaker 2: then at the outcome, when God gives you insight in
- 41:27Speaker 2: the future, there's the time to share it. Don't talk
- 41:31Speaker 2: all the time. Now, let me wrap it up in
- 41:35Speaker 2: a simple package for application. And I want to share
- 41:38Speaker 2: four very quickly. First, all of these. When unjust situations
- 41:43Speaker 2: come upon you, you're the target. First of all, don't
- 41:47Speaker 2: focus on the situation or you'll be angry. Be patient,
- 41:57Speaker 2: admit that it is a wrong. Don't fight. That's first. Second,
- 42:07Speaker 2: don't focus on yourself or you'll be filled with self pity.
- 42:13Speaker 2: James says, stay objective, support your heart, prop it up
- 42:20Speaker 2: like David with Schimi. I remember fifty twenty. There's your principle. Lord,
- 42:24Speaker 2: I see this person not as an enemy, but as
- 42:26Speaker 2: a tool. I see the situation as the machinery you're
- 42:29Speaker 2: using in my life. Thank you for making me the
- 42:32Speaker 2: object of your handiwork and make it quick, Lord, get
- 42:36Speaker 2: it over quick. Third, don't focus on someone to blame
- 42:41Speaker 2: or you'll complain. Four, don't focus on the present. Look
- 42:48Speaker 2: to the future for the insight. Now, I have no great,
- 42:52Speaker 2: massive conclusion that will tie a beautiful ribbon around this message.
- 42:57Speaker 2: As a matter of fact, I just want to share
- 42:59Speaker 2: something in all honesty. As I close the message, I
- 43:04Speaker 2: have never seen it fail that when a passage as
- 43:08Speaker 2: practical as this is presented into our ears the very
- 43:12Speaker 2: next week or the very next several days, God brings
- 43:17Speaker 2: you to a place where you can use it. I
- 43:21Speaker 2: can't explain why. I can't even explain how God does it,
- 43:27Speaker 2: but it is almost to the point of my saying, invariably,
- 43:32Speaker 2: when situations come on a Sunday and a passage as
- 43:37Speaker 2: practical as this, for us to give attention to it,
- 43:40Speaker 2: he has a built in plan for us to use it.
- 43:45Speaker 2: God may have arranged a particular package that is about
- 43:49Speaker 2: to be opened. It may be a summons to a court,
- 43:54Speaker 2: and you don't deserve it. It may be a word
- 43:58Speaker 2: of rebuke from an employer who lowers you with this
- 44:01Speaker 2: information and you don't deserve it. It may be a
- 44:06Speaker 2: neighbor who has lived with it long enough and under
- 44:09Speaker 2: a series of misunderstandings, he takes you up on it
- 44:13Speaker 2: and he calls your hand as it were, and you
- 44:15Speaker 2: don't deserve it. It may be a mate who, at
- 44:20Speaker 2: this particular time finally says look and she or he
- 44:24Speaker 2: has her eyes or his eyes only on himself, and
- 44:30Speaker 2: lowers you with a real slam to the mat. I
- 44:35Speaker 2: don't know what God may have, but you've heard the information,
- 44:40Speaker 2: and may God really help you remember it. Be patient,
- 44:48Speaker 2: prop up your heart, your spirit, don't hold a grudge.
- 44:52Speaker 2: Don't plan and scheme a subtle way to get back.
- 44:56Speaker 2: Don't prance around with your thumbs under your suspenders telling
- 44:59Speaker 2: how great you're doing in it. Be very quiet, trust God,
- 45:05Speaker 2: ask him for the insight to go through it. You know,
- 45:11Speaker 2: if you've never met the Lord Jesus Christ, I have
- 45:13Speaker 2: some practical information for you. Christ didn't only die to
- 45:18Speaker 2: take care of eternity. He died so that he could
- 45:22Speaker 2: change your life in time as well as give you
- 45:27Speaker 2: heaven as a reward. His death was a sufficient payment
- 45:34Speaker 2: for sin, so that now having him in your life,
- 45:39Speaker 2: you can handle the sin factor for the first time
- 45:43Speaker 2: in your life. You can know a control you've never known.
- 45:49Speaker 2: You can know a dimension and a definition in life
- 45:52Speaker 2: you've never entered into. And he stands and he waits
- 46:00Speaker 2: for you to say to him, Lord Jesus, I want
- 46:05Speaker 2: you now in my life. Please come in. I am
- 46:10Speaker 2: a sinner, I am lost. You're holy and powerful. I
- 46:16Speaker 2: need your security and I have nothing to offer except
- 46:19Speaker 2: my faith. Let's bow our heads together at this moment,
- 46:32Speaker 2: just a quiet moment. Now, there's hardly a Sunday or
- 46:36Speaker 2: a week that passes but that I do not hear.
- 46:38Speaker 2: Someone tell me personally, or write me a note, or
- 46:41Speaker 2: send me a letter, and say, last Sunday, sitting in
- 46:46Speaker 2: the pew, I gave my heart to Jesus Christ. So
- 46:54Speaker 2: this morning it might be your turn. Perhaps you're the
- 46:58Speaker 2: one that ought to be saying, ah, I put this
- 47:02Speaker 2: off long enough. God has graciously seen you through another
- 47:07Speaker 2: series of twelve months, and looking back on your life,
- 47:11Speaker 2: you know that it was by his grace. I wonder
- 47:14Speaker 2: if this morning you wouldn't acknowledge His right to rule
- 47:18Speaker 2: in your life totally, not by force, but by a
- 47:22Speaker 2: willing submission of your heart. Asking Him to come into
- 47:28Speaker 2: your life is just as simple as acknowledging that you
- 47:30Speaker 2: are lost, accepting his gift of eternal life, which begins
- 47:36Speaker 2: right now. Believing that He died and rose again from
- 47:41Speaker 2: the dead for you, you receive Christ into your life.
- 47:47Speaker 1: Our father, We acknowledge today that you know our hearts.
- 47:51Speaker 1: The Psalmist even opened himself before you by saying, search me, O, God,
- 47:57Speaker 1: and know my heart, Try me and know my ways,
- 48:01Speaker 1: and see if there be any wrong within me, and
- 48:05Speaker 1: lead me in the way everlasting. And so today we
- 48:10Speaker 1: pray the same prayer to you. We so desire that
- 48:14Speaker 1: you would search deeply, down deep into our hearts to
- 48:20Speaker 1: find any anxious ways, attitudes, and affections that dishonor you
- 48:27Speaker 1: or block the free flow of your spirit. Open the
- 48:31Speaker 1: hearts of those who've never known you as Savior and Lord.
- 48:35Speaker 1: I pray that as you reveal that great need to
- 48:38Speaker 1: those who are without Christ today, that their response will
- 48:42Speaker 1: be to bow their hearts before you and to come
- 48:46Speaker 1: into your family by your grace through faith in your
- 48:50Speaker 1: son Jesus. For those of us who know the Lord Jesus,
- 48:55Speaker 1: I pray as well that you will bring us to
- 48:58Speaker 1: a place of patience and long suffering, a willingness to
- 49:03Speaker 1: trust you, even when being misunderstood and maligned and mistreated
- 49:09Speaker 1: in a world that has lost its way, How could
- 49:13Speaker 1: we expect anything other than that. As you use our
- 49:18Speaker 1: testimonies and present our lives as models to those who've
- 49:22Speaker 1: never met your son, encourage us, strengthen us to remain
- 49:28Speaker 1: steadfast in our faith, blameless in.
- 49:31Speaker 2: Our walk with you.
- 49:34Speaker 1: Continue, Father, to lay your favor upon us, by your
- 49:38Speaker 1: great grace and for your greater glory. I pray these
- 49:42Speaker 1: things in the name of Jesus Christ, our Savior, and
- 49:46Speaker 1: our gracious friend.
- 49:48Speaker 2: Amen.
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