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- 0:00Speaker 1: Let's get, let's get, let's get to it, time to
- 0:01Speaker 1: do it.
- 0:02Speaker 2: I'm the homegirl that knows a little bit about everything
- 0:04Speaker 2: and everybody.
- 0:05Speaker 1: You hear that exclusive? You know she don't lie about that, right?
- 0:07Speaker 1: Lauren came in hot.
- 0:10Speaker 2: Hey y'all, what's up?
- 0:10Speaker 3: It's Lauren LaRosa, and this is another episode of The
- 0:14Speaker 3: Latest with Lauren LaRosa. This is your daily dig on
- 0:16Speaker 3: all things pop culture, entertainment news, and all of the
- 0:20Speaker 3: conversations that shake the room, baby. Now y'all know we
- 0:23Speaker 3: always start the show checking off, or checking in, behind
- 0:27Speaker 3: the scenes of The Grind. which is where we just
- 0:29Speaker 3: take a minute to really check in on ourselves and,
- 0:31Speaker 3: you know, figure out where we are mentally, physically, like
- 0:33Speaker 3: what is going on behind all of the things.
- 0:37Speaker 4: Back on the grind.
- 0:39Speaker 3: So this week, I am really excited. I am literally
- 0:41Speaker 3: counting down to homecoming. I have four days until Delaware
- 0:45Speaker 3: State University's homecoming, my alma mater. And I don't know
- 0:49Speaker 3: if y'all have ever experienced it, but baby, ain't nothing
- 0:51Speaker 3: like an HBCU homecoming. I have been back every single
- 0:54Speaker 3: year since I graduated in 2014, except for maybe one year.
- 0:58Speaker 2: That is how dedicated and loyal I am, okay? So
- 1:02Speaker 2: I have a special guest here in the building.
- 1:05Speaker 3: We are in New York right now at the Breakfast
- 1:07Speaker 3: Club Studios. And Raymond Smiley, I'm going to introduce him myself.
- 1:12Speaker 3: So I went to Del State in 2010. And you
- 1:18Speaker 3: come on campus and you're trying to find your tribe
- 1:20Speaker 3: of people. And there was this one guy from Baltimore
- 1:24Speaker 3: that would walk around smiling all day.
- 1:26Speaker 2: We call him Smiley. Super swagged out.
- 1:28Speaker 3: But he always was on this mission to understand branding
- 1:31Speaker 3: and building brands and talent and artists and creatives. And
- 1:35Speaker 3: life has brought us back together at work. He is
- 1:38Speaker 3: here today. with an artist under Roc Nation, right?
- 1:41Speaker 5: Yes.
- 1:42Speaker 3: Under Roc Nation. So tell them, wow, you got like
- 1:45Speaker 3: a whole adult now, adult.
- 1:47Speaker 2: Job now, Smiley.
- 1:47Speaker 1: I do, I do. So director of marketing at Roc Nation.
- 1:51Speaker 2: I didn't know you was a director of marketing.
- 1:53Speaker 6: Did you know somebody Yo.
- 1:56Speaker 7: I'm dead.
- 1:57Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I've been there. This is like my fourth
- 1:59Speaker 1: year there.
- 2:00Speaker 2: Do you like it?
- 2:01Speaker 1: I do.
- 2:01Speaker 2: Because you always had your own.
- 2:02Speaker 3: You've had marketing companies, very successful ones of your own, though.
- 2:06Speaker 2: The digital footprint was yours.
- 2:07Speaker 1: Yep, still.
- 2:08Speaker 2: Okay, so you still do your things outside of it, too.
- 2:10Speaker 5: Yep, yep, yep.
- 2:11Speaker 1: So it's a happy marriage, and there's always some fun
- 2:14Speaker 1: things going on, and every day is different. So today
- 2:18Speaker 1: we got John.
- 2:19Speaker 2: John Legend, y'all.
- 2:20Speaker 3: I didn't even know if I could say the name
- 2:22Speaker 3: of the artist because I didn't know, like, you know,
- 2:24Speaker 3: how that works for y'all. I know Rock Nation, they
- 2:25Speaker 3: don't play about, you know. But he's talking about, we
- 2:28Speaker 3: got John, John Legend, y'all.
- 2:31Speaker 5: Yes, yes.
- 2:31Speaker 1: And his album comes out on 10-23, fully produced by Pharrell.
- 2:35Speaker 1: It's called Muse. Yes. So that's why we're here and,
- 2:38Speaker 1: you know, doing the campaign. Yeah, so.
- 2:42Speaker 2: That's so crazy.
- 2:43Speaker 3: It's like literally seeing your brother or your sister just
- 2:46Speaker 3: excel in life.
- 2:47Speaker 2: That's how it feels to be here.
- 2:48Speaker 1: And we both here.
- 2:49Speaker 2: I'm at Breakfast Club.
- 2:50Speaker 3: He's here at Breakfast Club with his artists through Roc
- 2:53Speaker 3: Nation and Digital Footprint. I mean, we've been doing these things.
- 2:57Speaker 3: I'm not surprised to see you doing what you're doing.
- 2:59Speaker 1: Man, I remember that. Was you a flight attendant at
- 3:02Speaker 1: one point? I was a flight attendant for Delta, yes. Man,
- 3:06Speaker 1: now you're doing your thing. It's like, yo, just seeing
- 3:09Speaker 1: you grow, like, every day, I'm just so proud. Like,
- 3:12Speaker 1: for real. Like, I tell you. But, like, just to see.
- 3:14Speaker 1: And you always had the energy. Since day one. Since
- 3:17Speaker 1: day one, Delaware, like, you always was on it.
- 3:20Speaker 2: Always been big Delaware.
- 3:21Speaker 1: Trying to do something, like.
- 3:22Speaker 3: People think that I just start repping Delaware and I
- 3:24Speaker 3: just start being like this because I got hair. I'm like, no,
- 3:26Speaker 3: I've always been like this. I just got a bigger
- 3:28Speaker 3: platform now.
- 3:29Speaker 1: Yo, always into something, trying to start something, leading something.
- 3:33Speaker 2: Launching businesses.
- 3:34Speaker 1: Launching businesses.
- 3:36Speaker 4: Oh, man.
- 3:36Speaker 1: Everything. Always in the mix. Always in the mix since
- 3:39Speaker 1: day one.
- 3:39Speaker 2: Always in the latest since day one. Oh, my God.
- 3:43Speaker 1: Literally, you should be Delaware's mayor.
- 3:46Speaker 2: Bro, I don't want to get into politics.
- 3:47Speaker 8: I'm good.
- 3:48Speaker 2: I'm good.
- 3:48Speaker 3: But I understand what you're saying, though. But, you know,
- 3:50Speaker 3: I'm just really proud of where I come from. There's
- 3:51Speaker 3: a lot of people that helped me up when I
- 3:53Speaker 3: couldn't hold myself up. So, you know, I always make
- 3:56Speaker 3: sure I'm returning the love and echoing it. And also, too,
- 3:59Speaker 3: I always felt like there wasn't enough at home.
- 4:02Speaker 2: I had to create it. So I like talking about
- 4:04Speaker 2: it because I want people to go to Delaware and.
- 4:07Speaker 1: Resources.
- 4:08Speaker 2: We need it. We need all of that.
- 4:09Speaker 3: Delaware State University needs the support and the love. That's
- 4:12Speaker 3: crazy because there's a photo of SZA in the studio
- 4:14Speaker 3: as well. And I actually ran into SZA at Jay-Z's
- 4:18Speaker 3: after party for.
- 4:19Speaker 2: The documentary premiere. And we were talking about the fact
- 4:21Speaker 2: that she went to Del State.
- 4:22Speaker 1: Yo, I always heard about that as a rumor.
- 4:24Speaker 2: It's a real thing.
- 4:25Speaker 1: It's a real thing.
- 4:26Speaker 9: Yeah.
- 4:27Speaker 2: I literally was like, I was talking to Charlamagne.
- 4:29Speaker 8: I'm like.
- 4:30Speaker 2: You know, SZA went to Del State. He's like, do
- 4:31Speaker 2: nobody go to Del State. She said, no, I went there. Yeah,
- 4:34Speaker 2: she did. And I asked her, I'm like, why you
- 4:35Speaker 2: don't come back for homecoming? She is like, uh-uh, girl.
- 4:38Speaker 2: But yeah, it's so crazy though.
- 4:40Speaker 3: Cause you know, this is our segment where we check
- 4:42Speaker 3: in behind the scenes of the grind before we get
- 4:43Speaker 3: into the latest. And my conversation that you guys will
- 4:46Speaker 3: hear today for all my low riders, Molly, it's nine
- 4:49Speaker 3: plus million people listening to you right now.
- 4:50Speaker 1: Wow.
- 4:51Speaker 8: Yeah.
- 4:51Speaker 3: We are one of the leading shows on Black Effect
- 4:53Speaker 3: Podcast Network. So one of the conversations or the conversation
- 4:56Speaker 3: we're going to get into today, I did an event
- 4:58Speaker 3: called ProCon Connect or ProConnect Live, ProCon. Shout out to
- 5:03Speaker 3: Keisha Brewer and, you know, her PR agency for bringing
- 5:06Speaker 3: me in as a host and a spokesperson. And we
- 5:09Speaker 3: did it at Edelman, one of the world's leading public
- 5:12Speaker 3: relations firms in America. all black people on this panel,
- 5:15Speaker 3: even the gentlemen that worked at Edelman and Crest's PR
- 5:17Speaker 3: and brand representation and reputation and management. And the conversation
- 5:21Speaker 3: was just about what we're talking about right now, building
- 5:23Speaker 3: brands and working things out.
- 5:25Speaker 2: So let's get into the conversation, y'all. I'm excited. Homecoming
- 5:28Speaker 2: is almost here. Y'all know I'm going to take y'all
- 5:29Speaker 2: with me. It's the latest. Let's go.
- 5:31Speaker 4: Welcome to ProCon, guys. Welcome to ProCon.
- 5:39Speaker 3: Alrighty, y'all ready to get into our panel for the evening? Okay,
- 5:44Speaker 3: so this panel is called Beyond the Influence.
- 5:47Speaker 4: It's the art of building community. So a brief description
- 5:50Speaker 4: about this panel.
- 5:50Speaker 3: It's a candid conversation on what it really takes to
- 5:53Speaker 3: use your platform for community.
- 5:54Speaker 5: Building and impact.
- 5:55Speaker 4: How many of y'all have platforms? Raise your hand if
- 5:57Speaker 4: you have a platform.
- 5:59Speaker 3: How many of you guys feel like your platform is moving,
- 6:02Speaker 3: it's doing things, but you are always thinking about your
- 6:05Speaker 3: why and how impactful it is? All right, so tonight
- 6:08Speaker 3: we're going to, by the time we leave here, I
- 6:10Speaker 3: think everybody who also raised their hand for a platform
- 6:12Speaker 3: will leave here feeling like you understand how to maneuver
- 6:16Speaker 3: and execute that.
- 6:17Speaker 4: So I'm going to call up our panelists.
- 6:20Speaker 3: So what I'll do is I'll say their name and
- 6:22Speaker 3: I'll read a brief description and they'll come up here.
- 6:24Speaker 4: So Jeanette Reyes.
- 6:27Speaker 3: Is an award-winning journalist and digital creator who has built
- 6:30Speaker 3: a highly engaged audience by combining trusted journalism with an
- 6:34Speaker 3: authentic and distinctive personal voice. Her ability to connect with
- 6:38Speaker 3: audiences across traditional and social media provides a unique perspective
- 6:42Speaker 3: on the difference between attracting followers and cultivating a community
- 6:46Speaker 3: that feels personally connected to the person behind the platform.
- 6:51Speaker 4: Let's welcome her on up here right now. Did I
- 6:59Speaker 4: say the last name correctly? What'd you say, Reyes? Wait,
- 7:02Speaker 4: what'd you say?
- 7:03Speaker 1: That's what I said.
- 7:03Speaker 4: Exactly what I said. That is exactly what I said. Hey, everybody.
- 7:08Speaker 4: All right, and then, well, once, I guess, once we
- 7:13Speaker 4: get into the panel, we can talk about, you know,
- 7:14Speaker 4: the name of your platform and the different things that
- 7:16Speaker 4: you have. Up next, I have Mr.
- 7:19Speaker 5: Jonathan Jordan.
- 7:20Speaker 4: So Jonathan, also known as JJ, he said I could
- 7:23Speaker 4: call him JJ, Jordan, is a communications and corporate.
- 7:26Speaker 3: Reputation leader at Edelman whose career has centered on helping organizations...
- 7:31Speaker 3: strengthen trust, culture, reputation, and connection with people they serve.
- 7:37Speaker 3: His experience spans corporate communications, employee engagement, business transformation, crisis communications,
- 7:44Speaker 3: and integrated marketing, giving him a unique perspective on how
- 7:48Speaker 3: organizations build communities both.
- 7:51Speaker 4: Internally and externally. Let's welcome JJ to the stage.
- 7:59Speaker 3: And lastly, but not least, I have my girl Renee
- 8:02Speaker 3: Bluitt joining me.
- 8:03Speaker 4: She is a producer, a brand strategist, a storyteller.
- 8:08Speaker 3: And longtime champion of black women entrepreneurs. Through her work
- 8:12Speaker 3: with Essence and platforms including She Did That, Renee has
- 8:16Speaker 3: helped amplify the stories of black women in business while
- 8:19Speaker 3: also creating spaces and experiences designed around connection, visibility, and
- 8:26Speaker 3: economic opportunity. Her work demonstrates how storytelling can move beyond
- 8:30Speaker 3: audience building to create.
- 8:32Speaker 4: Ecosystems of support and belonging.
- 8:34Speaker 5: Let's welcome Renee.
- 8:42Speaker 3: Okay, so before we get, Renee is still on her
- 8:45Speaker 3: way up here. You might have to put on a
- 8:46Speaker 3: whole hand, help mark my girl. We should have marked
- 8:48Speaker 3: you before.
- 8:49Speaker 5: You got here.
- 8:50Speaker 3: It's okay, I'll be quick. I'll help you if you
- 8:52Speaker 3: need me to. Okay, oh, my friend, he's like this one.
- 8:56Speaker 3: So while we're doing this, let's, you know, start from
- 9:00Speaker 3: the end of the panel. So Jeanette, let me know,
- 9:03Speaker 3: or let the audience know about your platforms, you know, where.
- 9:06Speaker 4: They can find you, kind of what your day-to-day looks like.
- 9:08Speaker 8: Sure.
- 9:09Speaker 4: So my name is Jeanette Reyes. I'm Miss Newslady on Instagram.
- 9:13Speaker 8: And I became a full-time content creator three years ago
- 9:16Speaker 8: after being a reporter and an anchor for about 12
- 9:19Speaker 8: years in Philadelphia and D.C., And it all started.
- 9:23Speaker 4: During the pandemic with the Anchor Voice, did a video.
- 9:26Speaker 5: Good evening, you're talking now. It's 5.52.
- 9:27Speaker 4: I'm Jen Reyes. What's going on? And it took off overnight.
- 9:32Speaker 8: And over the next few years, I kind of nurtured
- 9:34Speaker 8: that on the side while doing my job day to day.
- 9:37Speaker 4: And I loved it.
- 9:38Speaker 8: So now these days consist of, obviously, shooting a lot
- 9:42Speaker 8: of content. But I also have a podcast called Off
- 9:44Speaker 8: the Record with my best friend, Mona Kosarabdi.
- 9:47Speaker 5: She's a former.
- 9:47Speaker 4: ABC News correspondent.
- 9:49Speaker 8: And it's basically, we just hit 150,000 subscribers in two years.
- 9:52Speaker 3: She and Drew being so humble, y'all.
- 9:56Speaker 4: It's not just a podcast.
- 9:59Speaker 3: They are a whole source of media and conversation in
- 10:03Speaker 3: a major way with major guests.
- 10:04Speaker 5: I don't have a lot coming from you.
- 10:06Speaker 4: Thank you. We're trying to be better at celebrating. We
- 10:08Speaker 4: have yet to celebrate a milestone.
- 10:10Speaker 8: But I say that to say that it's been such
- 10:12Speaker 8: an incredible journey to still do the things I love,
- 10:14Speaker 8: which is storytelling and obviously connecting with my followers on
- 10:18Speaker 8: social while having a lot more freedom and flexibility. And
- 10:22Speaker 8: thank you so much for having me, especially Keisha.
- 10:24Speaker 5: It's an honor to be here.
- 10:25Speaker 4: Of course, of course.
- 10:26Speaker 3: Now, JJ, I did do a brief description of you,
- 10:29Speaker 3: but if you, I mean, I think my description may
- 10:31Speaker 3: not fully.
- 10:32Speaker 4: Encompass what your day-to-day, I saw Crisis PR, and I'm.
- 10:35Speaker 3: Like, I know this description you're telling me. Because Crisis
- 10:39Speaker 3: PR is a heck of a job, okay?
- 10:41Speaker 4: But talk a bit about, you know, being here.
- 10:43Speaker 3: At Edelman and curating these spaces in a major corporation.
- 10:46Speaker 4: You guys lead in the PR.
- 10:47Speaker 8: Space, so.
- 10:48Speaker 7: Is this on?
- 10:49Speaker 10: Can you hear me?
- 10:50Speaker 5: Okay, hey, what's up, y'all?
- 10:51Speaker 6: First of all, thank you for being here. We welcome you.
- 10:55Speaker 6: And by the way, like a lot of people are like,
- 10:57Speaker 6: this is where you work? This is your space? I'm like, yeah,
- 10:59Speaker 6: we get to enjoy this every day.
- 11:01Speaker 4: It's swaggy.
- 11:02Speaker 5: I appreciate it.
- 11:02Speaker 6: I'm sorry it's raining because the rooftop is lit, like
- 11:05Speaker 6: most days.
- 11:07Speaker 5: So first of all, thank you for being here.
- 11:09Speaker 6: On behalf of Edelman, we really appreciate you being here,
- 11:11Speaker 6: and this is your space tonight.
- 11:13Speaker 5: So if you want to pause me.
- 11:15Speaker 9: Okay.
- 11:19Speaker 5: Yes, crisis.
- 11:20Speaker 6: So what do I do? I've been at Edelman for
- 11:21Speaker 6: nine and a half years. I never thought I'd be
- 11:23Speaker 6: at one place this long. But the work and the
- 11:27Speaker 6: people are incredible, and I love what I do. Sometimes
- 11:30Speaker 6: I'm like, you know, y'all pay me to do this?
- 11:32Speaker 6: I would do this for free.
- 11:34Speaker 11: But I don't tell them that because I like money.
- 11:38Speaker 6: I think I've had 117 clients. Some of the big
- 11:43Speaker 6: things that you hear in the headlines, I get to
- 11:45Speaker 6: work on. Luckily, when I'm doing my job right, some
- 11:48Speaker 6: of the stuff that you don't see in the headlines
- 11:50Speaker 6: is happening. And I lead our U.S. corporate reputation practice.
- 11:54Speaker 6: Essentially that just means that's our corporate communications practice. So
- 11:57Speaker 6: basically we evolve, promote, and protect brands that you love,
- 12:02Speaker 6: Some of the braids I work on, Taco Bell, Papa John's.
- 12:05Speaker 6: Anybody like pizza here?
- 12:08Speaker 5: No, what?
- 12:09Speaker 6: Oh, I saw a head shaking, no. McKenzie, Gensler, the
- 12:15Speaker 6: list goes on. So, you know, I love.
- 12:17Speaker 5: What I do.
- 12:18Speaker 6: And if you are looking for a gig at Edelman,
- 12:20Speaker 6: like come see my girl, Nikai.
- 12:23Speaker 5: Like holler at her. She's in recruiting.
- 12:25Speaker 6: And we would love to bring more black and brown
- 12:27Speaker 6: folks into this company.
- 12:29Speaker 9: Oh, wow.
- 12:31Speaker 3: That's a refreshing thing to hear, a corporate that is
- 12:34Speaker 3: hiring black people while there's a lot of them that
- 12:36Speaker 3: are like, oh.
- 12:37Speaker 4: We don't, we good. DEI is over. I forgot, we
- 12:44Speaker 4: where you work. Now, Renee, tell me a bit about,
- 12:49Speaker 4: you know, what your experience is and what you do.
- 12:51Speaker 5: On a day to day.
- 12:52Speaker 4: So I do quite a few things.
- 12:54Speaker 12: I just want to say out loud that this is
- 12:57Speaker 12: a full-circle moment with me. I shared this with Keisha
- 12:59Speaker 12: and the team when they invited me.
- 13:00Speaker 4: I used to work at Edelman.
- 13:02Speaker 7: Yes.
- 13:03Speaker 3: We were down in Times Square, and it was awesome.
- 13:12Speaker 4: Some time ago.
- 13:19Speaker 12: I am a PR girlie, worked in agencies for many years.
- 13:22Speaker 12: Edelman was my last full-time job until I dove into entrepreneurship.
- 13:28Speaker 12: So I have a platform for black women entrepreneurs called
- 13:31Speaker 12: She Did That.
- 13:32Speaker 4: It started as a documentary on Netflix.
- 13:35Speaker 12: It's now on Apple TV and And more importantly, it's
- 13:38Speaker 12: an ecosystem.
- 13:40Speaker 4: We host events throughout the country.
- 13:42Speaker 12: We actually have an event coming up this Monday in Brooklyn.
- 13:46Speaker 12: It's our very first She Did That Founder Forum. We
- 13:49Speaker 12: have 14 guest speakers throughout the day. Happy to talk
- 13:52Speaker 12: about it after this. But my day-to-day is really about
- 13:57Speaker 12: amplifying and creating opportunities for black women entrepreneurs through storytelling,
- 14:02Speaker 12: through brand partnerships, through brand awareness, and I also do
- 14:07Speaker 12: PR consulting on the side.
- 14:09Speaker 3: So that is me in a nutshell. I'm looking forward
- 14:12Speaker 3: to this conversation. Wow, that's exciting. Don't we got a
- 14:16Speaker 3: great panel up here?
- 14:17Speaker 8: Yes.
- 14:18Speaker 4: Okay, so let's get into it.
- 14:21Speaker 3: So we titled this conversation Beyond Influence because influence and
- 14:25Speaker 3: community are very different things. necessarily not the same thing.
- 14:30Speaker 3: I would say very different things. You guys can let
- 14:32Speaker 3: me know how you feel about that statement. But in
- 14:34Speaker 3: your world, this is a question to all three of
- 14:37Speaker 3: you guys. In your world, what is the difference between
- 14:40Speaker 3: having an audience and actually having a community?
- 14:49Speaker 8: I love that question because I think you can have
- 14:51Speaker 8: hundreds of thousands, even millions of followers and not have
- 14:54Speaker 8: a community. I think people get caught up in the
- 14:56Speaker 8: vanity metrics and we see it when it comes to conversion,
- 14:58Speaker 8: for example, where a lot of brands are seeing that
- 15:01Speaker 8: a huge following doesn't necessarily mean that people are literally
- 15:04Speaker 8: buying into what you're selling. But to explain what to
- 15:08Speaker 8: me community is, is when people feel a connection to you,
- 15:10Speaker 8: when they feel like they can see themselves in you.
- 15:13Speaker 4: For me, you know, and it was tough for me
- 15:16Speaker 4: because I went from.
- 15:16Speaker 8: The messenger in news to the message and having to
- 15:20Speaker 8: talk a little bit about myself. But, you know, when
- 15:22Speaker 8: I shared my IVF journey, my PCOS journey, I talk
- 15:25Speaker 8: a lot about being a black woman and also being
- 15:28Speaker 8: Latina and how the two can coexist. And even making
- 15:33Speaker 8: the pivot.
- 15:34Speaker 4: From a job or a career that I really.
- 15:37Speaker 8: Loved to you can love something and decide I want
- 15:41Speaker 8: to move on.
- 15:41Speaker 4: To something else, and I love that just as much.
- 15:43Speaker 4: But I say that to.
- 15:44Speaker 8: Say when your followers feel like they're connected to you,
- 15:49Speaker 8: like you're invested, that tends to foster community, and I
- 15:54Speaker 8: would say the next level of that is when they're
- 15:57Speaker 8: sharing with each other, when that conversation is circular.
- 16:00Speaker 4: And that's a win, regardless of the number of.
- 16:03Speaker 5: Followers that you have.
- 16:03Speaker 6: I think for me, so an audience knows you, but
- 16:09Speaker 6: a community knows each other. Does the conversation continue after
- 16:16Speaker 6: you leave the room?
- 16:18Speaker 5: And so for me, we talk a.
- 16:20Speaker 6: Lot about, with our clients, this trend around parasocial relationships.
- 16:26Speaker 5: You guys probably know that.
- 16:27Speaker 6: So on social, I have a one-way relationship with someone,
- 16:31Speaker 6: and they have no idea who I am. I'm gonna
- 16:34Speaker 6: let y'all in. I'm a big Joe Budden fan, whether
- 16:36Speaker 6: you like him or not. But I feel like Joe Budden,
- 16:39Speaker 6: that's my homie.
- 16:40Speaker 5: I feel like I know him. I feel like we
- 16:42Speaker 5: know each other.
- 16:43Speaker 4: I think he will wear that jacket.
- 16:46Speaker 6: I appreciate that. But Brown does not know me at all.
- 16:52Speaker 6: He doesn't know me at all, but I feel like
- 16:53Speaker 6: I know him so well. And so the question is,
- 16:56Speaker 6: is that community still there when you leave the room?
- 16:59Speaker 6: Are they talking to each other? Does that ecosystem still continue? And,
- 17:04Speaker 6: of course, can you monetize that ecosystem, right? But, you know,
- 17:07Speaker 6: it's not this one way.
- 17:08Speaker 5: It's, like, to each other. Okay.
- 17:12Speaker 12: So for the work I do, I always like to
- 17:15Speaker 12: make the distinction of being in a community or being
- 17:19Speaker 12: of the community. And for the day-to-day connections that I'm
- 17:23Speaker 12: making with black women entrepreneurs, it's just really important that
- 17:26Speaker 12: we look at community as a verb. And it's not
- 17:30Speaker 12: just us taking, but also pouring back into said community.
- 17:35Speaker 8: So.
- 17:36Speaker 12: I feel like it's a lifestyle for me. Anyone who
- 17:39Speaker 12: knows me knows that in any conversation, when there is
- 17:42Speaker 12: an opportunity for me to raise my hand and mention
- 17:46Speaker 12: a black.
- 17:47Speaker 4: Woman founder, I'm going to do it.
- 17:49Speaker 12: If there's a moment where I'm going to be on stage,
- 17:52Speaker 12: or just from day to day, I'm wearing a black
- 17:55Speaker 12: woman on red. We're both wearing 12 PM slacks.
- 17:58Speaker 4: I am wearing a.
- 18:00Speaker 5: Hat by Born to Roam.
- 18:02Speaker 4: I don't just talk about it.
- 18:04Speaker 5: I'm doing it. That's right.
- 18:06Speaker 12: Part of my day today. And so that's the distinction
- 18:08Speaker 12: for me.
- 18:10Speaker 3: I know for me personally, the difference between having followers
- 18:14Speaker 3: and having community changed when I started talking about myself
- 18:18Speaker 3: more on a public platform, right? But talk about the,
- 18:22Speaker 3: there's like an anxiety and almost like a, there's a weird,
- 18:26Speaker 3: it's like a double-dutch pressure of like, do I do
- 18:28Speaker 3: it now?
- 18:28Speaker 4: Do I share this now? Like, for the creators in
- 18:31Speaker 4: the room who are, you know, they.
- 18:33Speaker 3: Might have a niche topic that people come to them
- 18:35Speaker 3: for How do they begin inserting themselves in our own
- 18:39Speaker 3: real stories and then to build that real community with
- 18:41Speaker 3: people that have never met them before in real life?
- 18:43Speaker 4: That's a great question.
- 18:44Speaker 8: I'll say I have one rule, and that is, for
- 18:47Speaker 8: me personally, and my point is you should establish what
- 18:50Speaker 8: the rules are with you as far as what you
- 18:51Speaker 8: can live with. So, for example, I rarely share or, well, one,
- 18:57Speaker 8: I never share what I don't want to invite comment on.
- 18:59Speaker 8: So I don't share a lot about my marriage, right?
- 19:02Speaker 8: Like there are very personal things to me that I
- 19:04Speaker 8: don't share because I'm not inviting commentary into it. The
- 19:08Speaker 8: second thing is I do, for the most part, what's
- 19:10Speaker 8: called retrospective vulnerability. I've kind of given it that name,
- 19:14Speaker 8: which means that I tend to share it once I've
- 19:17Speaker 8: gone through it because for me personally, it's really hard
- 19:19Speaker 8: when I'm in the thick of it to share something.
- 19:22Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 19:23Speaker 8: Other people are fine doing that. I'm not going to
- 19:24Speaker 8: pick up the phone while I'm sobbing after getting some
- 19:27Speaker 8: bad news.
- 19:27Speaker 4: There is no right or wrong answer.
- 19:29Speaker 8: It's what you feel comfortable with and what you can
- 19:32Speaker 8: continue doing consistently. So you have to define what that
- 19:36Speaker 8: means for you.
- 19:37Speaker 3: From the way the women that you work with have
- 19:40Speaker 3: had to find that balance of personally, I got to.
- 19:44Speaker 4: Put my business out there so you can trust me.
- 19:45Speaker 4: But also professionally, I need to build.
- 19:47Speaker 3: A brand, and that middle point of not violating that
- 19:50Speaker 3: trust once they bring them in.
- 19:51Speaker 4: What can corporations learn from that?
- 19:52Speaker 12: That's a really, really good question. I want to stick
- 19:58Speaker 12: with it, but for the sake of the.
- 20:00Speaker 4: Conversation moving forward.
- 20:02Speaker 12: One thing that I think is really working for black
- 20:06Speaker 12: women entrepreneurs that could be applied to corporate in some
- 20:09Speaker 12: way is I'm loving the way that small businesses ran
- 20:15Speaker 12: by black women. They are showing you their process. They're
- 20:19Speaker 12: not just showing you the results. So I think corporations,
- 20:22Speaker 12: for example, if they have a brand launch, you'll really
- 20:26Speaker 12: just hear about it when the product is ready. Small
- 20:30Speaker 12: businesses are often showing.
- 20:32Speaker 4: You the process, and that builds a lot of trust.
- 20:35Speaker 12: It makes their audience want to root for that person,
- 20:40Speaker 12: because we get to see you kind of like getting
- 20:43Speaker 12: this out.
- 20:44Speaker 4: Of the dirt, as they would say.
- 20:45Speaker 12: We're seeing your very humble beginnings, And then they're proud
- 20:49Speaker 12: to say that I remember, for example, Melissa Butler of
- 20:53Speaker 12: the Lip Bar when she was making this lipstick.
- 20:55Speaker 5: In her kitchen.
- 20:55Speaker 4: That's my girl.
- 20:56Speaker 10: You know?
- 20:57Speaker 12: And so now we see where she is. She was
- 20:59Speaker 12: actually a subject in my documentary. She is in Target,
- 21:03Speaker 12: all over the country, Walmart, CBS.
- 21:05Speaker 4: Like, the people who can.
- 21:06Speaker 12: Say that they were supporting her brand in its humble beginnings, like,
- 21:11Speaker 12: they're still her customers. So I don't know how corporate
- 21:14Speaker 12: brands can kind of, like, get into that, but there
- 21:17Speaker 12: is something really special about bringing your audience and your
- 21:21Speaker 12: community into that process with you, into that journey, even
- 21:24Speaker 12: the ugly parts.
- 21:26Speaker 3: I will ask this question about, you know, piggybacking off
- 21:29Speaker 3: of that. You know, you mentioned some of the corporate
- 21:31Speaker 3: partners that even like a lip bar has, right?
- 21:34Speaker 4: And the things that corporates may not have done yet.
- 21:37Speaker 3: What are some things that we feel like brands or
- 21:40Speaker 3: organizations consistently get wrong when they say they want.
- 21:43Speaker 4: To build community?
- 21:44Speaker 3: And I think for you, Jeanette, you can talk from
- 21:46Speaker 3: a person that is being hired by these brands or
- 21:48Speaker 3: corporations to talk for them. And you guys can kind
- 21:51Speaker 3: of talk on the other end of it of like,
- 21:53Speaker 3: you're from the corporate space, but also you're kind of
- 21:55Speaker 3: being the connector in that.
- 21:57Speaker 4: What are some of the things that get wrong when
- 21:58Speaker 4: they say they want to build a community and you're like,
- 22:00Speaker 4: we're a community.
- 22:01Speaker 12: I'm going to jump in on that because it's a
- 22:04Speaker 12: personal pain point. So like I mentioned before, we produce
- 22:09Speaker 12: a lot of events for She Did That. Like I said,
- 22:12Speaker 12: we have the founder forum. We have a holiday bazaar.
- 22:14Speaker 12: There are so many opportunities for brands to come in
- 22:18Speaker 12: and just really be a part of this world, really
- 22:21Speaker 12: tap into all of these women. And we do get
- 22:25Speaker 12: brand partners, but I find that it's not like.
- 22:28Speaker 4: A consistent partnership.
- 22:29Speaker 12: And a lot of it is because of internal changes
- 22:32Speaker 12: on their team.
- 22:34Speaker 4: If a leader leaves, then their priorities change.
- 22:36Speaker 12: But I really do think if a brand wants to
- 22:39Speaker 12: be a real part of the community in a really
- 22:43Speaker 12: authentic and meaningful and impactful way, it has to be
- 22:46Speaker 12: more than a one-off. So I just think when they're
- 22:49Speaker 12: looking at brand partnerships, At a minimum, it needs to
- 22:52Speaker 12: be two or three years, just so that you can
- 22:54Speaker 12: really get immersed in that community, get familiar, and.
- 22:58Speaker 4: Gain their trust.
- 22:58Speaker 12: Otherwise, it does start to look like, okay, this was
- 23:02Speaker 12: just a check that was written. They were just checking
- 23:04Speaker 12: off a box. Do they really care about this community
- 23:08Speaker 12: in a real way?
- 23:09Speaker 3: And I will say to some of the creators in
- 23:10Speaker 3: the room, You know how you always feel like, I
- 23:13Speaker 3: don't know.
- 23:14Speaker 4: If I'm there yet where I can push the needle.
- 23:16Speaker 3: I'm excited to be working with these brands and I'm
- 23:19Speaker 3: getting paid by it. One of the things that I
- 23:21Speaker 3: started doing early was like, all right, so if this
- 23:25Speaker 3: works out, what are the opportunities for equity? What are
- 23:27Speaker 3: the opportunities for a year or two-year plan? And if
- 23:30Speaker 3: they couldn't answer that for me, I would literally be like,
- 23:32Speaker 3: you know what, this is an amazing opportunity, but I
- 23:34Speaker 3: don't want to be anywhere where my audience won't believe
- 23:36Speaker 3: me if I only do it one time.
- 23:37Speaker 1: Like, period.
- 23:38Speaker 3: Even if I use y'all, I would be talking about
- 23:40Speaker 3: y'all for free for the rest of that two years,
- 23:42Speaker 3: and I know that there is a budget for me,
- 23:44Speaker 3: but you just don't see the value. I'm good.
- 23:46Speaker 4: Say it.
- 23:47Speaker 3: Closed mouths don't get fed. And there's a way that
- 23:49Speaker 3: you can cater where it's, like, not, hey, what you
- 23:52Speaker 3: got for me?
- 23:52Speaker 4: Run them pockets.
- 23:53Speaker 5: Spin that.
- 23:54Speaker 3: But more so, like, you know, I want you to
- 23:57Speaker 3: know I see a future here, and let's start. Like,
- 24:00Speaker 3: let me just put that in the air so that
- 24:01Speaker 3: when you guys are thinking and talking about me, you
- 24:03Speaker 3: know that, like, oh, she's already brought up the fact that, like,
- 24:07Speaker 3: A year from now, she sees.
- 24:08Speaker 4: This for us.
- 24:09Speaker 3: So when I'm building out the content, I'm thinking like,
- 24:12Speaker 3: how can they see this? as not just a one-off,
- 24:14Speaker 3: and then just wait and see what they come to
- 24:16Speaker 3: the table with, because.
- 24:17Speaker 4: What you're saying is really important. People don't believe it
- 24:19Speaker 4: if you just post it one time. A couple of points.
- 24:23Speaker 8: This is a really great question, and I think it's
- 24:24Speaker 8: a two-part thing. I think there's a lot that creators
- 24:26Speaker 8: could do.
- 24:27Speaker 4: And that brands could do.
- 24:29Speaker 8: But my question to you all, how many times, especially
- 24:31Speaker 8: lately as we're getting kind of like influencer and ad fatigue,
- 24:34Speaker 8: how many times have you seen an influencer do a
- 24:36Speaker 8: brand deal, and you're like, girl, do you really use this?
- 24:38Speaker 4: Or did this cut you a good check?
- 24:40Speaker 9: Right?
- 24:40Speaker 4: Oh, somebody really felt that.
- 24:41Speaker 9: Amen.
- 24:42Speaker 11: She tired of seeing people fall.
- 24:45Speaker 4: Off the couch.
- 24:47Speaker 8: So my thing is, you've got to be intentional about
- 24:52Speaker 8: organically talking about the products that you genuinely like and
- 24:56Speaker 8: more than once for two reasons.
- 24:58Speaker 4: One, you're showing the brands. I'm using, I do use
- 25:01Speaker 4: your stuff.
- 25:02Speaker 8: And you're also showing your followers how this brand fits
- 25:05Speaker 8: into your life.
- 25:05Speaker 4: And you're doing it even.
- 25:07Speaker 8: When it's not transactional, when you're not getting paid for it.
- 25:09Speaker 8: So that when the ad then comes, I've had people say, girl, finally,
- 25:13Speaker 8: they cut you a check because you've been talking about
- 25:15Speaker 8: this thing forever.
- 25:16Speaker 4: Right? Right.
- 25:16Speaker 8: And it makes it easier when people feel like she's
- 25:20Speaker 8: actually telling me about this because she really wants me
- 25:22Speaker 8: to know about it.
- 25:23Speaker 4: I was talking about the lip bar when I was
- 25:25Speaker 4: a news anchor.
- 25:26Speaker 8: And I don't know if a lot of people know,
- 25:27Speaker 8: as a journalist, for reasons of conflict of interest, you
- 25:30Speaker 8: are not allowed to take anything more than $ 50, whether
- 25:32Speaker 8: it's a gift or a paycheck. Because let's say you,
- 25:35Speaker 8: I don't know, a brand cuts you a check and
- 25:37Speaker 8: then they have a.
- 25:38Speaker 3: Controversy and now I've got to report on the controversy.
- 25:40Speaker 4: Of the brand, but they just paid me whatever a.
- 25:42Speaker 5: Few months ago.
- 25:43Speaker 8: So for years, I would organically talk about all of
- 25:46Speaker 8: these brands and the lip bar was one of them.
- 25:48Speaker 8: And I mentioned how It was the first time I
- 25:50Speaker 8: felt comfortable as a black woman wearing a red lipstick.
- 25:54Speaker 4: And particularly as a morning anchor. I was the morning
- 25:56Speaker 4: anchor that would wake you up with a bright lip. Yes.
- 25:58Speaker 4: I know which one you found the worst. It was
- 26:01Speaker 4: Rich Ansi and Boss Lee. Rich Ansi and Boss Lee. Girl,
- 26:04Speaker 4: probably not.
- 26:05Speaker 9: Yes.
- 26:05Speaker 4: Yes. And you stayed all day long and you're taking
- 26:08Speaker 4: so much. Yes, I was on air for five hours
- 26:11Speaker 4: a day and I was like, y'all, this thing does
- 26:13Speaker 4: not budge.
- 26:14Speaker 8: And so when we finally did a partnership, people were like.
- 26:17Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, like this was like years in the making.
- 26:20Speaker 4: But I say that to you all, like you don't
- 26:22Speaker 4: have to be big. You don't have to have a
- 26:24Speaker 4: large following. You don't have to be.
- 26:25Speaker 8: Making the brand deals yet for you to start. It's
- 26:28Speaker 8: almost like breadcrumbings. so that when the deals come, it's
- 26:31Speaker 8: mutually beneficial for the brand and for you as well.
- 26:35Speaker 5: I'm going to speak on behalf of our clients, the brands.
- 26:38Speaker 10: So I'm going to let you all in.
- 26:39Speaker 5: Yesterday, we had TJX here.
- 26:42Speaker 6: They spent a lot of money on creators. The fastest
- 26:46Speaker 6: growing part of Element is our creative business.
- 26:49Speaker 5: Full stop.
- 26:51Speaker 6: Influencers, creators, and then media creators. Like on the corporate side,
- 26:54Speaker 6: I'm talking to media creators.
- 26:56Speaker 5: Every single day.
- 26:57Speaker 10: And we had TJX here for the last two.
- 26:59Speaker 4: Days, right?
- 27:00Speaker 6: We had creators on this stage yesterday and the day before.
- 27:03Speaker 6: And one of the things I'll tell you is the
- 27:05Speaker 6: brands are actually smart. The days of transactional relationships are gone.
- 27:11Speaker 5: There was a day where it's like, yeah, I need you.
- 27:13Speaker 10: To promote this one thing on this one campaign and
- 27:15Speaker 10: then bye.
- 27:16Speaker 5: They're trying to build relationships.
- 27:18Speaker 6: So on your side, I think, and the key is
- 27:21Speaker 6: they're watching. It's not just the big, massive creators. They're
- 27:24Speaker 6: looking at micro-creators. They're looking at people with 2,000 followers.
- 27:28Speaker 6: But if your followers are engaged, They are looking for you, right?
- 27:31Speaker 6: So do not give up hope. Like, I promise you
- 27:34Speaker 6: they're looking. Like, we've got a team that all they
- 27:36Speaker 6: do is literally look at creators that have small, big, medium, like, you.
- 27:40Speaker 5: Know, followers, but they're looking for that engagement.
- 27:42Speaker 10: They're looking for, are you tapped in?
- 27:45Speaker 11: Right?
- 27:45Speaker 5: Are you actually in it? Do you really love this brand,
- 27:47Speaker 5: or are you.
- 27:47Speaker 6: Just trying to, you know, transactionally, you know, post whatever?
- 27:51Speaker 6: I promise you, they're going to knock on your door
- 27:53Speaker 6: if they're not already.
- 27:55Speaker 3: One of the questions I will ask, we talk a
- 27:57Speaker 3: lot about, you know, impact and.
- 27:59Speaker 4: Community on social.
- 28:01Speaker 5: Whether I have 2,000 followers, 150, 20, how.
- 28:03Speaker 3: Do you know when you're making a real impact?
- 28:07Speaker 5: Like, what does that look like?
- 28:08Speaker 3: Am I measuring it by shares of my posts, comments
- 28:11Speaker 3: and engagement? Like, how do I know when a brand,
- 28:14Speaker 3: like when you talk about, you know, corporate brand is
- 28:18Speaker 3: really looking at me like, I don't care about the followers,
- 28:20Speaker 3: this person has it.
- 28:21Speaker 4: Like, what does that look like?
- 28:22Speaker 5: Is that metric important?
- 28:24Speaker 6: I mean, we look at all kinds of metrics. I
- 28:25Speaker 6: think engagement's number one. But honestly, like, our team, shout
- 28:29Speaker 6: out to our element team that are in the room.
- 28:33Speaker 11: Yeah, okay.
- 28:33Speaker 5: What's up?
- 28:35Speaker 6: We are ferocious. We know people, and we know the comments. Like,
- 28:40Speaker 6: we are looking at everything. And we have tons of
- 28:43Speaker 6: tools that, you know, look at all the KPIs and, like,
- 28:46Speaker 6: but sometimes when we go to our client, most of
- 28:48Speaker 6: the time, sometimes they don't know who this person is.
- 28:51Speaker 6: So we're putting them on. And when we're putting them on,
- 28:54Speaker 6: we're telling them a story. And the story is not
- 28:55Speaker 6: just KPIs. It's like this person has this unique vision
- 28:59Speaker 6: or this unique style that we know is going to
- 29:02Speaker 6: work for this brand.
- 29:03Speaker 4: Right.
- 29:03Speaker 6: So sometimes it's the numbers, of course, like that matters.
- 29:07Speaker 6: But also it's what makes you you.
- 29:09Speaker 8: Right.
- 29:10Speaker 6: And so if you have a unique point of view
- 29:12Speaker 6: or style, like lean into that, man, because like when we're.
- 29:15Speaker 5: Pitching our clients.
- 29:16Speaker 6: You know, sometimes we'll have a pitch deck and we
- 29:17Speaker 6: have like five to ten creators on there. We're usually
- 29:20Speaker 6: telling a story about the person and less about their KPIs.
- 29:24Speaker 6: We're about to launch this Shameless Plug. Next month we're
- 29:27Speaker 6: going to launch this list of the top 100 media creators.
- 29:31Speaker 5: So people that do news.
- 29:33Speaker 4: Amen.
- 29:33Speaker 8: Sorry. I think you called for me.
- 29:40Speaker 4: Name is Kenny. He's a good dude.
- 29:42Speaker 5: I'm going to check in with Kenny.
- 29:47Speaker 4: We got nothing to do with that.
- 29:50Speaker 6: I talked to one of my clients at Zillow. I
- 29:52Speaker 6: just had a call with them a few hours ago
- 29:53Speaker 6: and I was like, yeah, we got.
- 29:54Speaker 5: This list of top 100 media creators. They're like, when
- 29:57Speaker 5: can I get that?
- 29:58Speaker 10: They are literally like, when can I see this?
- 30:02Speaker 3: Listen, everything that you are doing to build you up
- 30:03Speaker 3: to that point where it's just solely you matters.
- 30:06Speaker 4: It really, really does.
- 30:08Speaker 3: And that brings me to a question for you, JJ.
- 30:11Speaker 3: Talk about the importance of building from the inside out.
- 30:13Speaker 3: You said your team was here. And a lot of
- 30:15Speaker 3: times for a corporate, your first sense of community is
- 30:18Speaker 3: internally with your team. Why is that important? And what
- 30:22Speaker 3: can the creators here learn about building a team internally
- 30:25Speaker 3: that feels good from.
- 30:26Speaker 5: The inside out? How many creators we got in.
- 30:32Speaker 10: Here?
- 30:33Speaker 4: Okay.
- 30:34Speaker 5: Someone clapped over here.
- 30:35Speaker 4: How many creators have a team?
- 30:37Speaker 5: I'll wait a second.
- 30:43Speaker 3: How many creators will know they will build a team eventually?
- 30:47Speaker 4: Virtually or whatever, right? We won't get there.
- 30:50Speaker 6: I cannot stress the importance. You talked about inside out.
- 30:55Speaker 6: I can't stress to you how important it is to
- 30:57Speaker 6: have a team. You cannot do it all yourself. But
- 31:02Speaker 6: in the beginning, you got to do it all yourself.
- 31:04Speaker 4: Hold up.
- 31:05Speaker 5: All right?
- 31:06Speaker 6: And there's no shade. But if you can find someone
- 31:08Speaker 6: that believes in you... Start to delegate. I can't tell
- 31:12Speaker 6: you how important it is to have a posse that's
- 31:14Speaker 6: rolling with you. And then, you know, what are the
- 31:16Speaker 6: things that you're not great at? There's probably someone next
- 31:20Speaker 6: to you that's great at some of the things that
- 31:22Speaker 6: you're not great at. Like, find that team. It is so,
- 31:24Speaker 6: so important.
- 31:27Speaker 3: Now, Renee, I have a question for you based off
- 31:30Speaker 3: of that, right? When you were dealing with the businesses
- 31:33Speaker 3: and the women that you were championing, what is the
- 31:36Speaker 3: hardest part that you find with creators when it comes
- 31:39Speaker 3: to that time where Now it's time to build a team.
- 31:41Speaker 4: I've built the creative. I've built the numbers.
- 31:44Speaker 3: The income is there, but I need that one person
- 31:47Speaker 3: who's like my end-all, end-all, or maybe two to join
- 31:49Speaker 3: my team.
- 31:50Speaker 4: But I have to trust somebody to do that.
- 31:52Speaker 3: That is a hard transition, especially for a creator who's
- 31:55Speaker 3: been doing it all on their.
- 31:56Speaker 12: Own up until this point. I'm going to speak from
- 31:59Speaker 12: my personal experience. First of all, I'm a Virgo. So
- 32:03Speaker 12: if there are any Virgos in this room, we are...
- 32:07Speaker 12: We're special in so many ways.
- 32:09Speaker 4: We're special.
- 32:11Speaker 5: In a good way.
- 32:12Speaker 12: We like things to be done in a certain way.
- 32:16Speaker 12: a lot of times that results in us wanting to
- 32:18Speaker 12: have control.
- 32:19Speaker 4: Over how it's being done, how it's being executed.
- 32:22Speaker 12: And that's the way creators and founders are, right? Like,
- 32:25Speaker 12: whenever you're creating, whatever you have put out into the world,
- 32:28Speaker 12: it's like your baby. So in your mind, no one
- 32:31Speaker 12: can take care of it as.
- 32:32Speaker 5: Well as you can.
- 32:33Speaker 12: But we know, just like with motherhood, there's only so
- 32:36Speaker 12: much a mother can do, right? Like, she needs to
- 32:39Speaker 12: tap into her village, to really make sure that this
- 32:43Speaker 12: child is being taken care of and that she's taking
- 32:45Speaker 12: care of herself.
- 32:46Speaker 4: And so it took me.
- 32:48Speaker 12: A while, because a friend of mine actually just reminded
- 32:51Speaker 12: me of how far I've come with my events. I
- 32:53Speaker 12: think I was saying something about just not feeling like
- 32:59Speaker 12: the progress was being.
- 33:00Speaker 4: Made the way I thought it should.
- 33:02Speaker 12: And she was like, Renee, do you remember the first
- 33:04Speaker 12: time that I came to one of your events? you
- 33:07Speaker 12: were actually setting the tables up in the room. She
- 33:09Speaker 12: was like, that was not that long ago. And now
- 33:11Speaker 12: you have this whole team that is producing with you.
- 33:14Speaker 12: And so it takes a while to have that trust,
- 33:18Speaker 12: going back.
- 33:18Speaker 4: To what we spoke about earlier about trust.
- 33:22Speaker 12: When you do find those right people, know that it
- 33:25Speaker 12: will take so much weight off of your shoulder. I
- 33:28Speaker 12: have this big event on Monday that I mentioned. The
- 33:31Speaker 12: only reason why I'm able to sit here with you
- 33:33Speaker 12: right now is because I have a team.
- 33:35Speaker 4: That is moving things forward.
- 33:37Speaker 12: And so just having that freedom means a lot. As
- 33:41Speaker 12: you're building, you need to be out in the world
- 33:43Speaker 12: connecting with people. I think right now we're so focused
- 33:46Speaker 12: on digital connections and online connections, but being out in
- 33:52Speaker 12: the world like this makes a world of difference when
- 33:54Speaker 12: you're creating something, when you need to spread the word
- 33:58Speaker 12: about it, when you need to find people who can
- 34:01Speaker 12: really help you. That is going to happen more often
- 34:03Speaker 12: in person. the best opportunities do come when.
- 34:07Speaker 5: You're actually out in the world.
- 34:09Speaker 8: 100%.
- 34:09Speaker 3: Jennay, I don't know if you have anything to add
- 34:11Speaker 3: to that. I heard you earlier talking about you were
- 34:14Speaker 3: happy that you had a team member here today.
- 34:16Speaker 10: Oh my gosh.
- 34:17Speaker 4: And he actually had to volunteer. He's like, hey, I
- 34:18Speaker 4: can go with you.
- 34:19Speaker 5: And I'm like, I didn't even think about that.
- 34:21Speaker 4: I was planning on sitting here and sitting there and
- 34:22Speaker 4: getting video. You know, that's how it is.
- 34:25Speaker 8: It's your baby.
- 34:27Speaker 3: Exactly.
- 34:28Speaker 8: One of the things I've, one of the phrases I've
- 34:30Speaker 8: had to really hold on to is done is better
- 34:33Speaker 8: than perfect. And you'll, you have to understand what is...
- 34:37Speaker 8: Like Mona and I, my co-host for Off the Record,
- 34:41Speaker 8: like we will be.
- 34:42Speaker 4: In the weeds and still are. Like we do all
- 34:45Speaker 4: of our trailers.
- 34:45Speaker 8: We pick the visuals and the sound and we do
- 34:48Speaker 8: the tracks and the script.
- 34:50Speaker 4: And we've gotten to the point where it's like, okay, yeah.
- 34:53Speaker 8: We've done so much and we've achieved so much, but
- 34:56Speaker 8: at what cost? And you have to ask yourself, When
- 35:00Speaker 8: you're achieving something, because all we're looking at is the
- 35:04Speaker 8: milestones and the achievements, but.
- 35:06Speaker 4: What did you pay for it? Because you're paying for
- 35:08Speaker 4: it one way or the other.
- 35:10Speaker 8: And when you start to build out a team, you
- 35:12Speaker 8: start realizing, man, I can reap benefits that are healthier
- 35:18Speaker 8: for me, that are more fulfilling, that free me to
- 35:21Speaker 8: do other things that fill my cup, because you end
- 35:23Speaker 8: up resenting your work because you're doing it all. And
- 35:27Speaker 8: I think if you get to the point where you
- 35:29Speaker 8: accept man, you know what?
- 35:31Speaker 4: They do it differently, but it's pretty dang good.
- 35:33Speaker 8: Or they do it differently, and we hit the milestone
- 35:37Speaker 8: either way, and we can kind of tweak as we go.
- 35:40Speaker 4: And once you realize that, you'll wonder. It becomes addicting
- 35:44Speaker 4: once you're outsourcing and.
- 35:45Speaker 8: Doing all of that.
- 35:47Speaker 4: It's like you don't want to look back. You're just like,
- 35:49Speaker 4: those were the trenches.
- 35:50Speaker 5: Why do I.
- 35:50Speaker 4: Choose difficult just because?
- 35:53Speaker 8: So once you're able to afford that, because I know
- 35:55Speaker 8: it can be costly, once you're able to afford that,
- 35:58Speaker 8: I would do that as soon as possible.
- 35:59Speaker 3: But also, too, you have, if you look to your left,
- 36:02Speaker 3: to your right in here today, y'all can help each
- 36:04Speaker 3: other out.
- 36:05Speaker 4: Like, you know, before I could afford to pay.
- 36:07Speaker 3: A team, like, in all honesty, a lot of the
- 36:09Speaker 3: team that I'm paying, it ain't no big team, are
- 36:11Speaker 3: people that was with me when I couldn't afford to
- 36:13Speaker 3: do anything. They were just like, yo, we got you,
- 36:15Speaker 3: because that adds to what I'm trying to do at
- 36:17Speaker 3: the same time. So I'm helping you, you helping me. Like,
- 36:20Speaker 3: don't discount the fact that you're sitting next to future
- 36:22Speaker 3: icons and legends right now in this moment.
- 36:25Speaker 5: Utilize that.
- 36:26Speaker 3: Your friends are that as well, too. So utilize that.
- 36:28Speaker 3: I could ask questions all day long.
- 36:30Speaker 4: Y'all know me. But I want to open it up
- 36:33Speaker 4: to the audience. I want you guys to be able
- 36:35Speaker 4: to ask questions. I will grab a mic. Is there
- 36:38Speaker 4: an extra mic? I don't need one. Uh-uh, okay. Girl!
- 36:47Speaker 10: Girl!
- 36:47Speaker 1: Please, see!
- 36:48Speaker 4: Okay, you got to introduce yourself. Tell me your name,
- 36:51Speaker 4: where you're from, and then go on to your question.
- 36:53Speaker 4: Good evening, everybody. My name is Bonetta Schofield. I am
- 36:55Speaker 4: the founder of Funny Honeys.
- 36:57Speaker 8: It is a comedy brand that I started, and I
- 37:00Speaker 8: sit at an intersection of.
- 37:01Speaker 4: Arts and entrepreneurship.
- 37:03Speaker 8: And much like your experience, I had a business prior
- 37:06Speaker 8: to becoming an artist.
- 37:08Speaker 13: And my main issue and question for whoever wants to
- 37:11Speaker 13: answer is I have not only done the comedy, but
- 37:14Speaker 13: I've been a live music booker, I work with literary spaces,
- 37:17Speaker 13: and I see these spaces of artists, and nobody really
- 37:20Speaker 13: understands the you in industry and putting themselves and building
- 37:24Speaker 13: the brand. So if I were to take my creators
- 37:27Speaker 13: and everyone that I know in my community, should I
- 37:30Speaker 13: be positioning myself to brands and say, hey, look at
- 37:33Speaker 13: me and all I got, you know, and everybody comes
- 37:34Speaker 13: with me? Or should I be going to an agency
- 37:37Speaker 13: and saying, hey, I represent a community of all these people,
- 37:40Speaker 13: but I want to leverage where I am and the
- 37:42Speaker 13: community that.
- 37:43Speaker 8: I have to get further? If I was answering that
- 37:49Speaker 8: for you, I would say which one.
- 37:50Speaker 4: Is working for you best right now? Are you doing
- 37:53Speaker 4: either or?
- 37:53Speaker 3: Like, are you doing it where you're packaging basically yourself
- 37:56Speaker 3: as the agency and bringing the creators with you, or
- 37:58Speaker 3: are you pitching yourself to agencies?
- 38:00Speaker 8: I have leveraged and built community through events. So my
- 38:02Speaker 8: community happens there. They've been smaller events. And I really
- 38:06Speaker 8: would like to take my events to another level, which
- 38:08Speaker 8: is why I'm pitching brands now.
- 38:10Speaker 4: But ain't nobody really, you know. This is what I
- 38:12Speaker 4: will tell you.
- 38:13Speaker 3: Like, I would say that my opinion, and y'all can
- 38:18Speaker 3: share what y'all think. I would say at the space
- 38:20Speaker 3: that you were in, it's best for you right now
- 38:24Speaker 3: to be doing it directly.
- 38:26Speaker 4: If you have the contacts. Like, if you were able to.
- 38:28Speaker 3: Make contacts and you don't have to have a middle
- 38:30Speaker 3: person that's also going to take a percentage of what
- 38:32Speaker 3: you will get when those brands decide to give you
- 38:34Speaker 3: some dollars, I would do that because it's possible. Like,
- 38:37Speaker 3: a lot of things that I do on social media
- 38:38Speaker 3: right now, I.
- 38:39Speaker 4: Don't have no agent. It's literally me online talking about.
- 38:42Speaker 3: The stuff I want to do, and then people are like, oh,
- 38:44Speaker 3: you want to do that?
- 38:44Speaker 4: Hey, here's an email. Or I'm Like, I be outside.
- 38:48Speaker 4: I'm talking to everybody. No, I do. And, like, they
- 38:51Speaker 4: make it a joke. At, like, Breakfast Club, they always
- 38:53Speaker 4: joke that I'm everywhere. I'm the girl outside.
- 38:55Speaker 3: But it's because when I'm somewhere and I'm meeting people,
- 38:58Speaker 3: it turns into me being able to, you know, leverage
- 39:02Speaker 3: that relationship for the things that I'm trying to do
- 39:04Speaker 3: because they also have something they want to do as well, too.
- 39:07Speaker 4: What I will say is, though, preparation is important.
- 39:10Speaker 3: So you can be outside and be meeting all these
- 39:11Speaker 3: people and have all these ideas of these events, But
- 39:14Speaker 3: you got to know your number.
- 39:15Speaker 4: Your decks need to be right.
- 39:16Speaker 3: Like, you can meet JJ right now and meet him
- 39:20Speaker 3: 20 times later.
- 39:20Speaker 4: If you are not prepared with what he needs to
- 39:22Speaker 4: take to his team, he can't help you.
- 39:24Speaker 3: So I think right now you should focus on who
- 39:27Speaker 3: am I meeting and what is my ask and when
- 39:31Speaker 3: you walk in that room understand what your ask is
- 39:33Speaker 3: because preparation and walking into a room ready can get
- 39:36Speaker 3: you further than any agent that can do that for
- 39:39Speaker 3: you as well and you can keep your.
- 39:40Speaker 4: Little 20% too I think that's what you should be
- 39:43Speaker 4: focused on if I were you.
- 39:44Speaker 12: That's where I'd be focused anyway right now thank you
- 39:46Speaker 12: And I want to actually build on that. If you
- 39:49Speaker 12: have an event concept that you want to bring to life,
- 39:52Speaker 12: please do not wait for a brand to.
- 39:55Speaker 4: Make it happen.
- 39:56Speaker 12: I started the Holiday Bazaar without brand partnerships. I literally
- 40:01Speaker 12: tapped into the community around me and found ways to
- 40:05Speaker 12: monetize the event so that I could pay for all
- 40:08Speaker 12: of the expenses, whether it was the venue or, you know,
- 40:12Speaker 12: the DJ, the catering. Find a way to do it
- 40:14Speaker 12: yourself so that you can have a case study to
- 40:17Speaker 12: share with brands when you're looking for brand partnerships. Because
- 40:20Speaker 12: I don't If they feel like the only way that
- 40:23Speaker 12: this event will happen is if they invest dollars in it,
- 40:27Speaker 12: to me, you're coming into it kind of giving up
- 40:29Speaker 12: some of your power.
- 40:30Speaker 6: I've never seen the movie Field of Dreams, but I
- 40:36Speaker 6: know the quote says, if you build it, they will come.
- 40:38Speaker 4: 100%.
- 40:41Speaker 6: So brands, they're not gonna come if you're not doing it.
- 40:46Speaker 5: You gotta just do it.
- 40:48Speaker 6: Jimmy Iovine, I think that's how you say his name,
- 40:51Speaker 6: he was like, I like to stand next to cool.
- 40:53Speaker 5: That's his strategy. That is the same for a lot
- 40:55Speaker 5: of brands.
- 40:56Speaker 6: They don't know what cool is, they're not cool, but
- 40:58Speaker 6: they wanna stand next to cool. So if you could
- 41:02Speaker 6: just build that community that we talked about, that is
- 41:05Speaker 6: there when you leave that community still talking to each other,
- 41:09Speaker 6: brands are going to be like, how do I tap
- 41:10Speaker 6: into that?
- 41:11Speaker 10: What do I got to pay to be a part
- 41:13Speaker 10: of that? So if you build it, they'll come.
- 41:15Speaker 4: In one word, FOMO. FOMO always works.
- 41:18Speaker 8: You're either going to hop in or not because it's
- 41:21Speaker 8: moving with or without you.
- 41:23Speaker 4: Thank you so much.
- 41:24Speaker 3: I do have proof of concepts of everything I've done.
- 41:28Speaker 4: That's right.
- 41:29Speaker 5: I'm going to go over here.
- 41:31Speaker 4: And then I'll come back to you. Right here with me.
- 41:34Speaker 4: That's right. Let me give you this. She did a
- 41:41Speaker 4: really good job of projecting.
- 41:43Speaker 10: And I can't.
- 41:43Speaker 4: Hi, I'm Leslie.
- 41:45Speaker 12: I have a brand called Wellness on the Fly. We
- 41:48Speaker 12: plan this event called No Agenda. If you're in D.C.,
- 41:51Speaker 12: we miss you, girl. If you're in D.C., it's.
- 41:54Speaker 3: A plan during the week, so you do absolutely nothing,
- 41:56Speaker 3: because we don't be taking our PTO.
- 41:58Speaker 12: So my question to you all is this. Building community
- 42:03Speaker 12: is very tiring.
- 42:04Speaker 3: PR, I am also a PR girlie, is very, or man,
- 42:09Speaker 3: we're inclusive.
- 42:10Speaker 4: Is very tiring.
- 42:11Speaker 5: What do you do to.
- 42:14Speaker 4: Pretty much cultivate mindfulness in your life?
- 42:16Speaker 3: How do you, I see the faces already, how do
- 42:19Speaker 3: you just turn things off.
- 42:21Speaker 12: Unplug, so that we also know that balance?
- 42:24Speaker 4: Or is it not a balance right now? Why y'all
- 42:27Speaker 4: forget me?
- 42:28Speaker 10: I'm not near balance.
- 42:32Speaker 3: I don't think balance is a real thing. And if
- 42:36Speaker 3: it is, I haven't experienced that. And I ask a
- 42:40Speaker 3: lot of questions to a lot of people, and they
- 42:42Speaker 3: haven't either. I feel like you don't have to synchronize
- 42:44Speaker 3: and swim.
- 42:46Speaker 4: I would say life is a series. There we go.
- 42:50Speaker 4: It's seasons, and it's trade-offs.
- 42:54Speaker 8: I also, for me, if it's not on the calendar,
- 42:56Speaker 8: so I've gotten to the point, because I'll go stretches,
- 42:59Speaker 8: where I'm kind of an extremist. So I'm going to
- 43:01Speaker 8: be working for stretches, and I won't realize, oh my gosh,
- 43:03Speaker 8: I haven't hooked up with a girlfriend in months. So
- 43:07Speaker 8: you've got to put it on the calendar and treat
- 43:09Speaker 8: it with the same importance and visibility and intention that
- 43:12Speaker 8: you do your work.
- 43:13Speaker 4: And don't treat it as a soft hold. You know
- 43:15Speaker 4: what I mean?
- 43:16Speaker 8: Meaning like, that was a hang up, but I can
- 43:18Speaker 8: just work this thing instead. You've got to treat it
- 43:21Speaker 8: that seriously and also let other people know, hey, this
- 43:25Speaker 8: is my whatever day.
- 43:26Speaker 4: I also book my things in advance.
- 43:28Speaker 8: So I have my, and this is a relatively recent
- 43:31Speaker 8: thing in terms of the last few months, I booked
- 43:34Speaker 8: my spa days or my self-care days weeks in advance.
- 43:39Speaker 8: So this thing has been living on my calendar for weeks.
- 43:43Speaker 8: If you do that and before, right when you walk
- 43:45Speaker 8: out of that appointment, you're booking the next one. That
- 43:48Speaker 8: way you hold yourself accountable and it's visible on your
- 43:51Speaker 8: calendar because you know how it is.
- 43:53Speaker 4: I'll get to it. I'll get to it.
- 43:54Speaker 8: Ends up being I never get to it. And now
- 43:57Speaker 8: you're burnt out and you're not doing anybody good and
- 44:00Speaker 8: you're not doing yourself any good. So I would I
- 44:02Speaker 8: would do that. Treat it with the same and realize
- 44:04Speaker 8: life is about seasons. Some seasons you're going to be
- 44:07Speaker 8: working a lot. Other seasons you you can rest a
- 44:11Speaker 8: little more.
- 44:15Speaker 3: We're going to go back here with the blue and
- 44:17Speaker 3: red hat, and then I'll come back to you.
- 44:21Speaker 4: With the crowns. It's not a road. Well, there was
- 44:25Speaker 4: a road. If you want to come.
- 44:29Speaker 5: Up here and get the.
- 44:30Speaker 4: If not, you can come up here.
- 44:33Speaker 6: He's ready to.
- 44:33Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 44:34Speaker 8: So, I am from Britain, Virginia, and funny enough, my
- 44:41Speaker 8: high school is actually called Richmond Community.
- 44:44Speaker 5: And the funny thing is, they.
- 44:46Speaker 4: Aren't community, right?
- 44:48Speaker 3: And what I've seen is a lot of smart black
- 44:51Speaker 3: people are working themselves into oblivion, working so.
- 44:54Speaker 4: Hard that they're not taking the time to break.
- 44:57Speaker 3: So I want to ask the greatest question, are we
- 44:59Speaker 3: really community, right?
- 45:01Speaker 4: And what does community look like.
- 45:03Speaker 5: In the future?
- 45:04Speaker 4: Are we doing community right, is your question? Yeah. I
- 45:07Speaker 4: went to Hampton at North Carolina A &.
- 45:09Speaker 5: T, got people from the NBA.
- 45:10Speaker 8: Thanks, man.
- 45:11Speaker 4: Alex? Mm-hmm.
- 45:12Speaker 5: Hold up, we got Howard. Oh, it's an artist. It's
- 45:16Speaker 5: my classmate, Harpiss Hall.
- 45:19Speaker 4: All right. The H-U people love doing that.
- 45:21Speaker 3: You know, it's H-U, Howard Hamden.
- 45:24Speaker 4: Exactly. Del State.
- 45:25Speaker 12: I'm all, oh, I got a horn in the building?
- 45:32Speaker 5: Wow.
- 45:32Speaker 4: It's like always talk about you. I wanted to add,
- 45:36Speaker 4: I don't know if I'm, hopefully I'm understanding your question correctly.
- 45:39Speaker 2: I don't think we are.
- 45:41Speaker 8: And I think it's because we don't understand that The
- 45:44Speaker 8: price of community is inconvenience, and you've got to give
- 45:47Speaker 8: something of yourself to cultivate community.
- 45:49Speaker 4: The flip side of it, too, is that you've got
- 45:52Speaker 4: to kind of.
- 45:54Speaker 5: It requires a little bit of vulnerability. You know what
- 45:56Speaker 5: I mean?
- 45:56Speaker 4: Like, put yourself in a position where you're asking someone, hey,
- 45:58Speaker 4: can you help me out with this?
- 46:00Speaker 8: A friend of mine, I was going, I was flying
- 46:02Speaker 8: out of Newark Airport, and I was going, I think
- 46:05Speaker 8: I was going to Lisbon or something, and I was
- 46:06Speaker 8: going to pay for parking for two weeks, and it's
- 46:09Speaker 8: very expensive.
- 46:11Speaker 4: And my friend who lives right nearby, she's like, why
- 46:15Speaker 4: don't you park your car in my garage?
- 46:16Speaker 8: And I was like, I don't want to inconvenience you
- 46:19Speaker 8: because it's going to.
- 46:20Speaker 4: Be sitting there. And she was like, girl, what are
- 46:22Speaker 4: we if you can't, you know what I mean? And
- 46:25Speaker 4: so it's allowing your.
- 46:27Speaker 8: What I like to say is giving people, allowing them
- 46:30Speaker 8: to have the joy of being of use to you
- 46:32Speaker 8: and of service to you. So I think once we
- 46:35Speaker 8: understand that concept, and not to sound extremist, but I
- 46:38Speaker 8: think capitalism sometimes gets in the way of community. And
- 46:42Speaker 8: instead of always outsourcing things, allow your friends to have
- 46:48Speaker 8: the joy of being of use to you.
- 46:50Speaker 6: Do we have time for a response? So, community. How
- 46:55Speaker 6: many New Yorkers we got in here?
- 46:56Speaker 4: I'm home.
- 46:57Speaker 5: Central Park. Did y'all know?
- 46:59Speaker 10: Y'all heard of Seneca Village before?
- 47:03Speaker 5: Yes.
- 47:08Speaker 6: So it's 1820s to the 1850s. Primarily was African Americans
- 47:16Speaker 6: in Central Park.
- 47:17Speaker 4: What? Yes.
- 47:19Speaker 5: We have a whole community of people.
- 47:22Speaker 10: For 30, 40 years, we were thriving.
- 47:24Speaker 5: Wow. And then the city, of course, said they wanted
- 47:27Speaker 5: Central Park, and so they.
- 47:29Speaker 4: You mean living in Central Park as well, too? Like
- 47:31Speaker 4: all those bomb-ass buildings? Yes, Central Park.
- 47:35Speaker 6: For 40 years, we were thriving. There was community there.
- 47:37Speaker 6: I'd say that's the same for brands. Brands will kick
- 47:40Speaker 6: us out, and then we.
- 47:41Speaker 10: Use this how we want.
- 47:44Speaker 5: And so I think my point is, I think we
- 47:46Speaker 5: got to stick.
- 47:46Speaker 6: Together, right?
- 47:47Speaker 5: Like, there's a lot of crabs in the barrel mentality.
- 47:50Speaker 6: You know, only one, you know, so zero-sum game sort
- 47:54Speaker 6: of mentality.
- 47:54Speaker 10: Like, all boats rise when we work together.
- 47:58Speaker 9: Yeah.
- 47:58Speaker 5: So I think we've got to figure out how do
- 48:00Speaker 5: we work together.
- 48:00Speaker 6: Like in this room, there are brand new brands that
- 48:03Speaker 6: could be launched tonight.
- 48:05Speaker 10: How do we rise together?
- 48:06Speaker 4: And it's not a pie.
- 48:07Speaker 8: It's not like if I get this, you miss out
- 48:09Speaker 8: on that.
- 48:10Speaker 4: You know what I mean? I love that.
- 48:12Speaker 3: Well, shout out to Hampton for, you know, that whole
- 48:15Speaker 3: little moment.
- 48:18Speaker 4: That thing. They did a thing. So we have time
- 48:21Speaker 4: for one more?
- 48:23Speaker 11: Hi, this is my first time at a ProCon Connect event,
- 48:27Speaker 11: so it feels pretty good.
- 48:28Speaker 4: I live in Harlem. And what brought me here is Jeanette.
- 48:33Speaker 4: We have a similar background.
- 48:34Speaker 11: I moved here, I don't know, let's see, 31 years
- 48:36Speaker 11: ago to work for CNN Business News, managing with Lou Dobbs.
- 48:43Speaker 11: And I realized I hated the news, especially when you
- 48:45Speaker 11: start at the network level. But for the past, I
- 48:49Speaker 11: would say, 21 years, I've had my own business. I'm
- 48:52Speaker 11: a professional speaker, so I speak all over the world
- 48:54Speaker 11: on technology.
- 48:57Speaker 5: And I'm known.
- 48:58Speaker 11: Now, I don't know what the word is for it,
- 49:00Speaker 11: but there are brand ambassadors that are popular within a
- 49:03Speaker 11: company or within a group.
- 49:05Speaker 4: So they're paid to sort of, mine was Zoom.
- 49:09Speaker 11: A lot of people use Zoom, but there's a whole
- 49:11Speaker 11: nother way of using Zoom as an entrepreneur.
- 49:14Speaker 4: So different organizations or groups will.
- 49:16Speaker 11: Bring me in to sort of push that, and then
- 49:19Speaker 11: I get licensed credit and.
- 49:20Speaker 4: All sorts of things. My question is I'm a little fashionista.
- 49:28Speaker 4: I just love it.
- 49:29Speaker 9: And Jeanette and everyone else who wants to answer this question,
- 49:35Speaker 9: I'm sure a lot of folks in here probably are
- 49:38Speaker 9: have Amazon Ambassador.
- 49:40Speaker 4: Type of accounts, right? But then I always say I'm
- 49:43Speaker 4: going to use it and I never do.
- 49:44Speaker 5: I never post.
- 49:46Speaker 4: I have all these things I want to do.
- 49:47Speaker 11: So I'm wondering What can you do to kind of
- 49:51Speaker 11: get yourself to start to post all these awesome things
- 49:55Speaker 11: so that you can build a new.
- 49:57Speaker 4: Audience, a new community, is I think my question.
- 50:00Speaker 11: Because right now I'm sort of stuck in the behind
- 50:04Speaker 11: the curtain community.
- 50:05Speaker 4: But I want to be more out front. So what
- 50:09Speaker 4: are your suggestions? That's a great question. And thanks for
- 50:13Speaker 4: the love, by the way. So I would say you've
- 50:18Speaker 4: got to remove the friction. And what I mean by
- 50:20Speaker 4: that is there's this great story.
- 50:22Speaker 8: I think the author of Atomic Habits, I want to
- 50:25Speaker 8: say it's James Clear, shared this story about a man
- 50:27Speaker 8: who's trying to go to the gym more often. And
- 50:30Speaker 8: so what he would do is he would just get
- 50:33Speaker 8: to the point where he was just outside of the gym.
- 50:35Speaker 4: I believe that's how it was. But he wouldn't actually
- 50:37Speaker 4: go in and work out. And for days he did that.
- 50:40Speaker 4: And it sounds a little silly.
- 50:42Speaker 8: But it's because to make that decision to finally lift.
- 50:45Speaker 4: The weight, like they say, the heaviest weight is the door,
- 50:47Speaker 4: you know?
- 50:48Speaker 8: To make that decision, there's so many other, or to
- 50:51Speaker 8: make that change to work out, there's so many decisions
- 50:53Speaker 8: you have to make beforehand. There's laying out your clothes
- 50:55Speaker 8: maybe the night before. There's waking up when the alarm
- 50:58Speaker 8: sounds off. There's putting the clothes on, getting in the car.
- 51:01Speaker 8: And so just getting.
- 51:02Speaker 4: To the door is an accomplishment.
- 51:06Speaker 8: So what I would do for you is, Dress all
- 51:10Speaker 8: of the little steps that it takes beforehand to get there.
- 51:13Speaker 4: Maybe have your ring light charged. Heck, buy a ring light.
- 51:16Speaker 8: Your phone, like, ready and charged and able to record you.
- 51:20Speaker 4: Have your, like, all of.
- 51:21Speaker 8: Those things that make it so that all it is
- 51:23Speaker 8: is pressing record when the moment comes. Because it sounds
- 51:26Speaker 8: simple in theory, but there are barriers in the way
- 51:29Speaker 8: that make it easier for you to say, I'll just
- 51:30Speaker 8: do it tomorrow.
- 51:31Speaker 5: You know what I mean?
- 51:32Speaker 4: And that will make it and just set the bar higher.
- 51:36Speaker 8: Really low it sounds for over ambitious people it's like
- 51:38Speaker 8: it's not sexy enough i want to shoot an outfit
- 51:42Speaker 8: every day monday through friday and then once you miss
- 51:45Speaker 8: you feel bad and then you tell yourself one thing
- 51:47Speaker 8: i'd love to live by is never miss twice right
- 51:49Speaker 8: like one miss is okay just don't miss twice and
- 51:51Speaker 8: and you know try to recover the next day when
- 51:54Speaker 8: you set it up in small steps like that i would.
- 51:56Speaker 4: Have everything set up ready to record.
- 51:58Speaker 8: And don't even record Just make those steps frictionless.
- 52:03Speaker 11: And just for clarity, doing the stuff is not the
- 52:07Speaker 11: harder part.
- 52:08Speaker 4: It's more, for example, there's a.
- 52:09Speaker 11: Lot of folks that have sort of become celebrities overnight.
- 52:14Speaker 4: But one thing that I love that you did is
- 52:16Speaker 4: you took.
- 52:16Speaker 11: That, because people just love when you say it's 9.55, blah, blah, blah.
- 52:21Speaker 11: And people kept watching you because you could have just
- 52:24Speaker 11: been a quick in and out. And I love how
- 52:26Speaker 11: you took that and you leveraged it And then you
- 52:29Speaker 11: continue to say, you know what? Let me show people
- 52:32Speaker 11: what mascara I love or what foundation I love or,
- 52:35Speaker 11: you know, and I love how your husband comes in
- 52:37Speaker 11: and your daughter and your mother and all those pieces.
- 52:40Speaker 11: So I think my bigger.
- 52:41Speaker 14: Question is, how are you going from, okay, I'm not
- 52:48Speaker 14: asking how do you get viral. I think that's a
- 52:50Speaker 14: crazy question, but more so stepping into it.
- 52:53Speaker 11: What did you do? What did you do that kind
- 52:55Speaker 11: of made people hang on?
- 52:57Speaker 4: Like once she had the moment.
- 52:58Speaker 3: There you go. So once she had the moment. So
- 53:01Speaker 3: you went viral. You went viral or you saw that
- 53:03Speaker 3: people liked something.
- 53:05Speaker 4: And then you were like, oh, you know what? And
- 53:07Speaker 4: maybe it wasn't even on purpose.
- 53:08Speaker 3: But then you started showing your family a bit and
- 53:11Speaker 3: all that.
- 53:11Speaker 4: You know what?
- 53:12Speaker 5: That's a good question.
- 53:14Speaker 4: Your comments will tell you what people want from you.
- 53:17Speaker 8: I think sometimes we put our blinders on and you're like, well,
- 53:20Speaker 8: I want to talk about blah.
- 53:21Speaker 4: Blah, blah.
- 53:22Speaker 8: And I think you've got to really pay attention to
- 53:25Speaker 8: the feedback and people will tell you what they want
- 53:28Speaker 8: from you. So they would make comments about, you know,
- 53:30Speaker 8: my husband being funny.
- 53:32Speaker 4: Or, you know, I posted a video of my mom
- 53:34Speaker 4: telling me off and they were like, oh my gosh,
- 53:36Speaker 4: she's such a Latina mom. And so I started posting her.
- 53:38Speaker 8: So like, you will literally find.
- 53:41Speaker 4: Your next act, your next opportunity, the things that you
- 53:43Speaker 4: can leverage and In your comments.
- 53:46Speaker 8: I actually even say the comments because sometimes you can forget.
- 53:49Speaker 8: And feedback is so, so, so critical. You will lead
- 53:55Speaker 8: yourself down a different road thinking, you know what I mean?
- 53:58Speaker 4: Thinking, no, this is the thing when it's in plain
- 54:01Speaker 4: sight right there. I love that. Well, y'all, we got
- 54:04Speaker 4: to wrap. Dang.
- 54:06Speaker 5: I know.
- 54:07Speaker 4: How many of y'all had a good time, though, enjoyed
- 54:09Speaker 4: the conversation? If you guys want to do this again,
- 54:13Speaker 4: make sure you.
- 54:14Speaker 3: Guys are following ProCon and everything that they are doing
- 54:17Speaker 3: so that you can know where they're going to be next.
- 54:19Speaker 4: She said D.C.
- 54:20Speaker 3: That is not a far drop or a train ride,
- 54:22Speaker 3: so you can keep up with the brand.
- 54:24Speaker 4: I've enjoyed the conversation. Thank you guys for joining me
- 54:26Speaker 4: here on the panel.
- 54:27Speaker 3: I'm Lauren LaRosa. Again, you can find me everywhere on social.
- 54:30Speaker 3: The latest with Lauren LaRosa and Love Lately with Lauren LaRosa,
- 54:33Speaker 3: the podcast. Everywhere you listen to podcasts. Y'all love the panel.
- 54:38Speaker 3: You guys will love this because I know y'all all
- 54:40Speaker 3: be on threads mad. Maybe not mad, but we all
- 54:43Speaker 3: be on threads and sharing our experiences and our conversations.
- 54:46Speaker 4: So I think that this is dope. So I want
- 54:48Speaker 4: to make sure she gets everything she needs out of this.
- 54:49Speaker 5: Go ahead, Keisha.
- 54:50Speaker 4: Thank you.
- 54:51Speaker 3: So I'm a big fan of Threads. I have so
- 54:54Speaker 3: many conversations on Threads. I think some of you guys
- 54:56Speaker 3: found out about us because of Threads.
- 54:58Speaker 5: You did?
- 54:59Speaker 6: OK.
- 54:59Speaker 4: You did too. So I'm a big fan of Threads.
- 55:02Speaker 3: So I pulled some trending conversations from Threads about PR, marketing, media,
- 55:06Speaker 3: social media.
- 55:07Speaker 4: And because we are here, I thought it would.
- 55:09Speaker 3: Be a great opportunity to have organic conversations around some
- 55:12Speaker 3: of the trending topics. I didn't show the likes or
- 55:15Speaker 3: the reposts or the people's names at all. But these
- 55:17Speaker 3: are trending conversations, OK? And it's going to be organic.
- 55:20Speaker 3: We'll pass you the mic if you have an opinion,
- 55:22Speaker 3: all right? So this person said that this social media
- 55:26Speaker 3: career is a humbling one, not going to lie. Any
- 55:29Speaker 3: tips to holding on strong? Is anyone in social media
- 55:32Speaker 3: who has tips on how you can really just grow
- 55:36Speaker 3: within social media, not get burnt out by social media?
- 55:39Speaker 4: Anyone have any thoughts on that? Okay, we're getting the right.
- 55:47Speaker 5: Hi, I'm Ranjana.
- 55:48Speaker 4: I work at VaynerMedia as an associate creative director.
- 55:51Speaker 15: It is a social advertising agency.
- 55:54Speaker 4: And my one tip.
- 55:55Speaker 15: For this is to think of a series, a repeatable series,
- 55:59Speaker 15: day one of doing this, day two of doing this.
- 56:02Speaker 15: I think the more you double down on a series,
- 56:04Speaker 15: the more people can come to your content and see
- 56:06Speaker 15: something that they're expecting to see. And if you have
- 56:10Speaker 15: a repeatable format, It makes your life so much easier
- 56:13Speaker 15: versus thinking of new content every single day.
- 56:15Speaker 4: So definitely try out a series that.
- 56:17Speaker 5: You feel comfortable making.
- 56:19Speaker 4: Keep posting. Anybody else? I would love for Dwight to
- 56:28Speaker 4: answer this. Okay, come on, Dwight. And then Danny, too.
- 56:32Speaker 3: The question is, do you have any tips on holding
- 56:36Speaker 3: strong in social media?
- 56:38Speaker 4: Because this person said his social media career is a
- 56:40Speaker 4: humbling one. So she's going to go, then I'll throw
- 56:43Speaker 4: the camera at you.
- 56:44Speaker 5: Hi, my name is Danielle.
- 56:45Speaker 4: A tip that I like to give some of my
- 56:47Speaker 4: subscribers when.
- 56:48Speaker 8: It comes to social media is always remember that when
- 56:51Speaker 8: you scroll across someone else's reel, you don't know when
- 56:53Speaker 8: it's posted.
- 56:54Speaker 4: So there's no starting point. There's no ending point. It
- 56:57Speaker 4: doesn't have to be perfect. You don't have to do
- 56:58Speaker 4: an introduction. You just have to post it.
- 57:01Speaker 8: And the people that you see that have the biggest platforms,
- 57:03Speaker 8: if you ask them, when.
- 57:05Speaker 4: Did you get started?
- 57:05Speaker 8: What did you do?
- 57:06Speaker 4: They'll tell you.
- 57:07Speaker 8: Everyone has the same method and everyone will give you
- 57:09Speaker 8: the same example.
- 57:11Speaker 4: Just post the content. So don't overthink it and there
- 57:14Speaker 4: is no starting point.
- 57:15Speaker 8: It doesn't have to be like, I need to do
- 57:17Speaker 8: it on a Monday of this week. It's literally just
- 57:19Speaker 8: post it when your engagement is the highest.
- 57:25Speaker 3: And Danny has a large problem.
- 57:32Speaker 5: Holding on strong.
- 57:33Speaker 7: One is that you should probably prepare to be canceled
- 57:36Speaker 7: at some point.
- 57:36Speaker 5: They're going to cancel you. You just have to accept that.
- 57:40Speaker 5: And therapy. Me and my therapist, we were a lot thin.
- 57:43Speaker 5: Thank God.
- 57:44Speaker 7: But it is an emotional rollercoaster. You get a lot
- 57:47Speaker 7: of feedback because people are watching all the time. And
- 57:49Speaker 7: sometimes you want to quit because they're a bit aggressive
- 57:52Speaker 7: and have a lot of parasocial relationships. But I think
- 57:55Speaker 7: the best way to hold on is to not give
- 57:57Speaker 7: in to that. And also, you don't got to read
- 57:58Speaker 7: every comment. You ain't got to read every DMs. You
- 58:02Speaker 7: ain't got to look at every stitch about you, because
- 58:04Speaker 7: some of them are going to be nasty. And I
- 58:06Speaker 7: learned that the hard way, but once I kind of
- 58:09Speaker 7: got used to it, people.
- 58:10Speaker 5: Would be making videos telling me they can't stand me
- 58:13Speaker 5: every day. I don't see it, so it don't exist.
- 58:15Speaker 7: So I would just tell people not to get into
- 58:18Speaker 7: feeling like you have to respond, and also therapy for everything.
- 58:23Speaker 5: I'm also a licensed mental health professional.
- 58:25Speaker 8: Yay!
- 58:29Speaker 7: And just making sure that you're prepared to be canceled
- 58:31Speaker 7: at any point because also being canceled is not a
- 58:34Speaker 7: real thing. It is not a real thing. They will
- 58:37Speaker 7: not cancel you. People will be upset tomorrow and then
- 58:39Speaker 7: a week when you come back later it'll be fine.
- 58:45Speaker 5: Thank you.
- 58:46Speaker 4: Okay, so I'm going to go to my next one.
- 58:47Speaker 4: We're going to breeze through these quickly because I gave
- 58:49Speaker 4: a little more time.
- 58:50Speaker 3: For network, and I know y'all wanted that.
- 58:55Speaker 4: Okay. My question to you all, because I have a
- 58:59Speaker 4: public relations agency.
- 59:00Speaker 3: For those who don't know, yes, I founded Procon, but
- 59:02Speaker 3: I have a public relations agency called the PR Alliance.
- 59:04Speaker 4: We've been around for 10 years, and we have some
- 59:07Speaker 4: really good clients. Thank you. And I still feel... like
- 59:10Speaker 4: even the people that hire us don't know what we
- 59:12Speaker 4: here do. Does anyone work in PR?
- 59:15Speaker 3: Have y'all... figured out how to explain what we do,
- 59:19Speaker 3: number one, and help people understand how we're different from
- 59:22Speaker 3: marketing or honestly an assistant and all kinds of things.
- 59:26Speaker 3: Does anyone have a comment on that? Okay, I'm standing
- 59:28Speaker 3: in front of my thing.
- 59:30Speaker 7: You want a mic or you?
- 59:32Speaker 4: I can project. I can project. Put your mic. All right,
- 59:35Speaker 4: we can get us the mic. Hi, I'm actually on
- 59:38Speaker 4: the other side of what she said.
- 59:39Speaker 3: So I have a creative marketing agency. So a lot
- 59:42Speaker 3: of times people say, well, are you a publicist?
- 59:44Speaker 10: And I'm like, no.
- 59:46Speaker 3: But what I think people should do is really take
- 59:48Speaker 3: the time to understand the craft. So Google is your
- 59:51Speaker 3: best friend when it comes to understanding.
- 59:53Speaker 4: What are the role requirements.
- 59:55Speaker 3: And then understanding how to leverage a PR agency, because
- 59:59Speaker 3: a PR agency is gonna get you those placements, it's
- 1:00:01Speaker 3: gonna get you to understand how to talk in front
- 1:00:04Speaker 3: of a crowd, what do you talk, you know, your positioning.
- 1:00:06Speaker 4: And all that kind of stuff.
- 1:00:07Speaker 3: And then on the other side of marketing, once you've
- 1:00:09Speaker 3: got that, you're done in a row with PR.
- 1:00:12Speaker 4: Then you come over here and I have something to market.
- 1:00:14Speaker 4: I can't market you if you don't have the proper training.
- 1:00:17Speaker 3: And if you don't have the proper relationship to get
- 1:00:18Speaker 3: you in the place, you'll get in the place and
- 1:00:21Speaker 3: you're not ready. So really invest in PR. It's so
- 1:00:24Speaker 3: important that.
- 1:00:24Speaker 5: You have the right.
- 1:00:26Speaker 4: agency partner, and I think you.
- 1:00:28Speaker 3: Should tap in with her for PR, you should tap
- 1:00:29Speaker 3: in with Ducari Creative for marketing.
- 1:00:32Speaker 4: I'll be at CultureCon tomorrow. I love it. I'll be
- 1:00:35Speaker 4: at CultureCon tomorrow.
- 1:00:38Speaker 10: Oh, it is.
- 1:00:39Speaker 4: I'll be at CultureCon tomorrow, too, so y'all go to CultureCon.
- 1:00:41Speaker 4: CultureCon promoted us on their app, so I'm really... Okay,
- 1:00:44Speaker 4: anyone else want to comment on this one?
- 1:00:46Speaker 15: Okay.
- 1:00:47Speaker 4: My girl.
- 1:00:48Speaker 5: Okay.
- 1:00:48Speaker 4: And then we go on. Okay. We're going to do
- 1:00:49Speaker 4: you first. And then my girl, we're going to come
- 1:00:52Speaker 4: right here.
- 1:00:52Speaker 8: Okay.
- 1:00:52Speaker 4: Do you want a mic or are you comfortable?
- 1:00:54Speaker 5: I can say it this time.
- 1:00:55Speaker 4: Okay.
- 1:00:55Speaker 16: I'm not in PR, but I work with a lot
- 1:00:58Speaker 16: of artists, like comedians, DJs. And I think a lot
- 1:01:01Speaker 16: of people would be surprised that they might not know.
- 1:01:03Speaker 5: How to actually communicate that well. They have a good product.
- 1:01:06Speaker 16: And so ever since COVID happened, now the need for
- 1:01:09Speaker 16: PR is coming to fruition because a lot of people
- 1:01:12Speaker 16: were doing, the machine was working behind them so much,
- 1:01:15Speaker 16: they didn't appreciate who was beside them.
- 1:01:17Speaker 5: And I'm a finance major. So it's crazy.
- 1:01:19Speaker 16: When I talk about finances, I have the degree and
- 1:01:22Speaker 16: yet everybody.
- 1:01:22Speaker 5: Knows everything outside of me. But most of America is broken.
- 1:01:25Speaker 5: But go ahead.
- 1:01:26Speaker 4: I love that. Erica. So Erica's also a previous Pro
- 1:01:31Speaker 4: Call speaker. Our first Pro Call five years ago, my
- 1:01:34Speaker 4: girl said yes to us. She does social impact and
- 1:01:37Speaker 4: communications for BET. So thank you so much.
- 1:01:40Speaker 7: For being here.
- 1:01:40Speaker 4: I love my girl. OK, go ahead, girl. You want
- 1:01:43Speaker 4: to go? OK, should I project?
- 1:01:45Speaker 13: I mean, I am a speaker, so I will project.
- 1:01:47Speaker 4: Hi, everyone.
- 1:01:48Speaker 13: I'm Erica, and I am a publicist. I am also
- 1:01:51Speaker 13: a certified life coach, transformational speaker, I mean, you never
- 1:01:55Speaker 13: know when you'll see me. And then, I want to
- 1:01:57Speaker 13: say that, similar to what you said about marketing, as
- 1:02:00Speaker 13: a publicist, I think about myself as someone in the
- 1:02:02Speaker 13: kitchen partnered with a journalist. Like, someone like, Lauren, Someone
- 1:02:06Speaker 13: who has an appetite to tell a great story, who
- 1:02:09Speaker 13: has a community, who's hungry to hear. But as a publicist,
- 1:02:12Speaker 13: we help someone develop that story while building relationships with.
- 1:02:15Speaker 4: People like her to get the story out.
- 1:02:18Speaker 13: And so I'm over here with my client and I
- 1:02:19Speaker 13: know exactly the ins and outs of when they started
- 1:02:22Speaker 13: the company and how the company has impacted how many lives.
- 1:02:25Speaker 4: Part of PR is part fact and part story. So
- 1:02:28Speaker 4: you lead with the fact. What have they done? What
- 1:02:30Speaker 4: is the X, Y, Z of the numeric number that
- 1:02:33Speaker 4: they've impacted? And then you get into the story.
- 1:02:35Speaker 13: Like, what's the heart behind, let's say, an agency that
- 1:02:38Speaker 13: has been.
- 1:02:38Speaker 4: You know, around for 10 years?
- 1:02:40Speaker 13: What's the story behind, like, Keisha one day deciding that
- 1:02:43Speaker 13: I'm going to bet on myself and create a space
- 1:02:46Speaker 13: to do publicity? While also, what are the facts? How
- 1:02:48Speaker 13: many impressions have you delivered? How many hits have you delivered?
- 1:02:52Speaker 13: How many people have now heard about your client and
- 1:02:54Speaker 13: are now buying.
- 1:02:56Speaker 4: As a result because of your publicity efforts? And so
- 1:02:59Speaker 4: that's what I think about it as.
- 1:03:00Speaker 13: Us being in the kitchen together, I'm cooking up the
- 1:03:03Speaker 13: meal with the client to make sure they know how to.
- 1:03:04Speaker 4: Tell the story, the fact and the story.
- 1:03:07Speaker 13: And then I'm working with someone like a journalist to
- 1:03:09Speaker 13: actually get it out to the masses in their own way.
- 1:03:12Speaker 4: She can decide to only focus on story.
- 1:03:14Speaker 13: Or only backed or both, but either way my client
- 1:03:17Speaker 13: wins because now the world knows all about them.
- 1:03:19Speaker 4: Their inception, their story, and then of course the facts,
- 1:03:23Speaker 4: because we need the numbers. We need the numbers.
- 1:03:25Speaker 13: So that's my take. So if you do need a publicist,
- 1:03:28Speaker 13: you should have something ready to be publicized. I think
- 1:03:31Speaker 13: a lot of us need marketing, because you need to
- 1:03:33Speaker 13: get people to back your event or back your product.
- 1:03:37Speaker 13: But when you get to publicity, you have your story,
- 1:03:39Speaker 13: you've been building, and that's why it's important to not
- 1:03:42Speaker 13: focus on the publicity before you build.
- 1:03:45Speaker 4: Build and then publicize.
- 1:03:46Speaker 13: You want to have more built than you have spoken about,
- 1:03:49Speaker 13: you know, by the time you get to a publicist.
- 1:03:50Speaker 4: So that's my take. Thank you.
- 1:03:57Speaker 3: I will also say, because she made me think about it, like...
- 1:04:01Speaker 3: So before I got to the Breakfast Club, I was
- 1:04:03Speaker 3: working at TMZ, right? And you probably didn't know my name.
- 1:04:08Speaker 3: If you even watch TMZ, like all the people our
- 1:04:11Speaker 3: age didn't just sit and watch it. You might have caught.
- 1:04:13Speaker 5: Some clips online.
- 1:04:15Speaker 3: But the best thing I ever did was, as a human,
- 1:04:19Speaker 3: when publicists would hit me up and they would be pitching, pitching, pitching,
- 1:04:22Speaker 3: I would be like, you're not even pitching right. for
- 1:04:25Speaker 3: what the newsroom I work in requires, it will never land.
- 1:04:29Speaker 4: Let's get on the phone and let me talk you
- 1:04:31Speaker 4: through it. So if you're telling me your client has a.
- 1:04:33Speaker 3: Movie coming out and you want us to just talk
- 1:04:35Speaker 3: about the movie and post a trailer, I'm like, TMZ
- 1:04:37Speaker 3: doesn't do that.
- 1:04:38Speaker 4: At the time, TMZ doesn't do that.
- 1:04:40Speaker 3: How about send me the raw footage of everything you're
- 1:04:43Speaker 3: able to pitch out. Let me go through and pick
- 1:04:45Speaker 3: the time codes and then I'll explain to you what
- 1:04:47Speaker 3: the story is that.
- 1:04:48Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell and how it fits his brand.
- 1:04:49Speaker 5: And I think a lot of.
- 1:04:50Speaker 3: Publicists today Answer the phone when I call them, even
- 1:04:53Speaker 3: if I'm calling them at 5.30 in the morning for
- 1:04:56Speaker 3: the breakfast club or during a time when they really
- 1:05:00Speaker 3: don't want to answer the phone because... I took the
- 1:05:03Speaker 3: time and a lot of publicists, you guys can learn
- 1:05:05Speaker 3: a lot from asking questions before you start pitching.
- 1:05:08Speaker 4: That was the biggest thing.
- 1:05:10Speaker 3: And I felt like it happened a lot with the
- 1:05:11Speaker 3: publicists that like were like my homies.
- 1:05:14Speaker 4: So a lot of them look like me and they
- 1:05:15Speaker 4: were young and trying to figure it out.
- 1:05:17Speaker 3: Ask questions because a lot of times y'all have this
- 1:05:19Speaker 3: like standard pitch of like, here's how we're sitting now.
- 1:05:22Speaker 3: And I'm like, you know, that will miss people whose platforms.
- 1:05:25Speaker 4: Have a certain voice.
- 1:05:27Speaker 3: And you gotta really cater to the voice of who
- 1:05:30Speaker 3: you're pitching to as a publicist. That matters a lot,
- 1:05:34Speaker 3: a whole lot. So if you're PR in the room
- 1:05:36Speaker 3: and you got a journalist on me, Sit down and
- 1:05:38Speaker 3: be like, yo, I'm thinking about pitching to TMZ or
- 1:05:40Speaker 3: People or Us or Page Six or Dwight or whoever.
- 1:05:44Speaker 3: What do you think about this pitching? Let them be
- 1:05:45Speaker 3: honest about, hey, I don't care about that. He don't
- 1:05:47Speaker 3: even talk about that type of stuff. Here's what he
- 1:05:49Speaker 3: will care about within all of this nugget. Please do
- 1:05:52Speaker 3: that because if you can't place a client, you ain't
- 1:05:55Speaker 3: got the client. And a lot of it is not
- 1:05:57Speaker 3: that you're not doing the work. It's like you're not, you.
- 1:05:59Speaker 4: In the wrong kitchen. You're in the wrong one.
- 1:06:03Speaker 5: I love that.
- 1:06:04Speaker 4: Okay, we're going to move on because we only have
- 1:06:05Speaker 4: a couple of minutes.
- 1:06:06Speaker 3: But someone said black women in journalism, when does it
- 1:06:10Speaker 3: get easier? The pay, the hours, the treatment? Because I'm
- 1:06:14Speaker 3: ready to get a comms job. I'm going to pass
- 1:06:16Speaker 3: this to you, though.
- 1:06:17Speaker 4: Listen.
- 1:06:21Speaker 3: This is the first time ever in my life where
- 1:06:23Speaker 3: I feel like the work that I'm putting in, I'm
- 1:06:24Speaker 3: seeing it pay off. And I can see it.
- 1:06:27Speaker 4: Ever.
- 1:06:27Speaker 3: And even now, there are some, no, it's not even
- 1:06:30Speaker 3: vulgar because there are some days now where I'm like, ooh, Lord,
- 1:06:32Speaker 3: I am tired of being a distraught soldier. Like, I
- 1:06:35Speaker 3: would love to just, like, get cute and show up and, like, whoo,
- 1:06:39Speaker 3: glam is here. It's not that at all. I don't
- 1:06:44Speaker 3: know if it ever gets easier or if you learn
- 1:06:48Speaker 3: how to make it fit with your idea of easy.
- 1:06:53Speaker 4: Or comfortable feels like.
- 1:06:56Speaker 3: Like waking up at three o'clock in the morning four
- 1:06:58Speaker 3: o'clock in the morning after you've been to bed by
- 1:07:00Speaker 3: like 12 because you are your team and.
- 1:07:03Speaker 4: I have two people that three people.
- 1:07:05Speaker 3: That help me on my team now but in the
- 1:07:06Speaker 3: beginning it was rough for me because i wasn't delegating
- 1:07:09Speaker 3: i was trying to do everything myself i was literally
- 1:07:12Speaker 3: like barely sleeping i was and then this is at
- 1:07:14Speaker 3: the height of breakfast club like you know y'all are
- 1:07:17Speaker 3: like yes girl go girl and i'm like Lord, I
- 1:07:20Speaker 3: don't know how much longer I can hold on. I'm
- 1:07:22Speaker 3: barely sleeping. I literally can't even think past my next thought.
- 1:07:25Speaker 3: I'm stumbling through my words because I can't even read because.
- 1:07:28Speaker 4: I'm so freaking tired. The Diddy trial, like.
- 1:07:31Speaker 3: I'm there and I'm, and I wanted to be a
- 1:07:33Speaker 3: lawyer and I'm sitting in the courtroom and I'm like,
- 1:07:35Speaker 3: how the heck are the attorneys holding on for nine
- 1:07:38Speaker 3: hours a day and then back here the next morning?
- 1:07:40Speaker 4: And on top of being back there the next.
- 1:07:41Speaker 3: Morning and locked in and giving y'all the update, I'm
- 1:07:43Speaker 3: also up at 4 a.m. because I'm going to the
- 1:07:45Speaker 3: breakfast club before I'm going to the Disney trial.
- 1:07:47Speaker 4: None of that was easy. It's not easy as a thing.
- 1:07:51Speaker 3: But what I did was I figured out what my
- 1:07:53Speaker 3: pockets were of like, I need this little bit of
- 1:07:55Speaker 3: peace and joy and comfort. And I steal those for
- 1:07:58Speaker 3: myself very often. And I've gotten better at doing that.
- 1:08:01Speaker 3: So it becomes like I kind of create my own
- 1:08:04Speaker 3: world of comfort. But I don't think nothing worth having
- 1:08:07Speaker 3: is easy. I do, though, strongly believe after working other
- 1:08:12Speaker 3: places and working in the space that I am now
- 1:08:14Speaker 3: that you do have to be able to say what
- 1:08:18Speaker 3: you are okay with and what you're not. And you
- 1:08:20Speaker 3: can't be afraid of that changing what the room is
- 1:08:23Speaker 3: going to feel like or look like for you. And
- 1:08:26Speaker 3: I had to learn that a lot in this space
- 1:08:27Speaker 3: because now I'm not only a producer or a journalist,
- 1:08:30Speaker 3: but I'm also talented. So there are certain times where
- 1:08:33Speaker 3: I'm like, well, as a producer... That's cool, but as talent, no,
- 1:08:37Speaker 3: that's not all right for me.
- 1:08:38Speaker 4: Like, I need more.
- 1:08:39Speaker 3: In order for me to show up the way I
- 1:08:40Speaker 3: need to show up, so you kind of put this, like,
- 1:08:44Speaker 3: you put your big girl, big guy pants on and
- 1:08:46Speaker 3: really just, like, ask for what you need or get
- 1:08:49Speaker 3: somebody who.
- 1:08:49Speaker 5: Can do that for you.
- 1:08:51Speaker 3: And then you start figuring out the better pay. You
- 1:08:54Speaker 3: start figuring out, you know, you get in a space
- 1:08:57Speaker 3: where if you're doing the work and people see.
- 1:08:59Speaker 4: The asset, they need you as much as you need them.
- 1:09:02Speaker 3: You can leverage certain things. Like, I mean, for me,
- 1:09:05Speaker 3: it's different. My hours are set.
- 1:09:06Speaker 5: I'm on a platform.
- 1:09:07Speaker 3: I've agreed to show up at these hours. But with
- 1:09:10Speaker 3: my podcast, I'm an entrepreneur. Like, I've been low. If
- 1:09:14Speaker 3: I don't I have a daily show that is very
- 1:09:17Speaker 3: tough as a podcast.
- 1:09:18Speaker 5: It ain't no joke.
- 1:09:19Speaker 3: If I choose not to film my podcast, you guys
- 1:09:23Speaker 3: don't hear it. Right now, you guys may not even
- 1:09:26Speaker 3: have seen a lot of my video because I haven't
- 1:09:28Speaker 3: chosen to sit down and dedicate myself to video. And
- 1:09:30Speaker 3: that is something that I have been very hard on
- 1:09:32Speaker 3: myself about, Lauren, you need to do that.
- 1:09:34Speaker 4: What happens when I decide to do it is you
- 1:09:36Speaker 4: guys will see it.
- 1:09:37Speaker 3: You get to the point where you can leverage your
- 1:09:39Speaker 3: space of I can make my decisions to do this
- 1:09:42Speaker 3: now and here's what it looks like. But you have
- 1:09:44Speaker 3: to show up at the table prepared in order to
- 1:09:48Speaker 3: leverage these things for yourself.
- 1:09:50Speaker 4: And you've got to do the work. Doing the work
- 1:09:51Speaker 4: will always put you in a position.
- 1:09:53Speaker 3: Where you can figure out and protect and set your
- 1:09:56Speaker 3: boundaries for your place of comfort.
- 1:09:57Speaker 4: Because people then realize if you're doing.
- 1:10:00Speaker 3: The work and it's benefiting this person, they want you
- 1:10:02Speaker 3: to show up at your best. What, you don't like
- 1:10:04Speaker 3: the color purple? Hold up, everything purple in here has
- 1:10:06Speaker 3: to go because we need her so bad that if
- 1:10:08Speaker 3: purple distracts her, that cannot work.
- 1:10:11Speaker 4: And that's like something just.
- 1:10:12Speaker 3: As an example.
- 1:10:13Speaker 4: I don't have an issue with purple.
- 1:10:14Speaker 3: But my point is that a lot of it is
- 1:10:16Speaker 3: like doing the work and putting that time in. If
- 1:10:18Speaker 3: you're doing that and then you still feel like that
- 1:10:20Speaker 3: is not happening for you, you might gotta go somewhere else.
- 1:10:24Speaker 4: I had to leave. I had to tell myself, Lauren,
- 1:10:27Speaker 4: you're gonna be.
- 1:10:27Speaker 3: Okay once you leave TMZ. Your world is not gonna end.
- 1:10:31Speaker 3: I didn't know that for sure, but... I felt like
- 1:10:34Speaker 3: I was doing everything I was supposed to be doing,
- 1:10:36Speaker 3: and the things that I knew I wanted weren't happening
- 1:10:38Speaker 3: in that space, and they had the resources to do it.
- 1:10:40Speaker 4: They just didn't want to. I had to be okay
- 1:10:43Speaker 4: with that and be like.
- 1:10:43Speaker 8: You know what?
- 1:10:44Speaker 4: Thank you so much.
- 1:10:45Speaker 10: I got to go.
- 1:10:46Speaker 3: And when I did that, it wasn't easy, but I
- 1:10:49Speaker 3: ended up somewhere that, like, you know, once they realized
- 1:10:51Speaker 3: me as an asset, they were like, wait, so what
- 1:10:54Speaker 3: do you want to do? How can we help you
- 1:10:56Speaker 3: do that? It gets greater later, but it is not
- 1:11:00Speaker 3: ever easy.
- 1:11:01Speaker 4: Yes. Period.
- 1:11:03Speaker 3: That's the part that as you were talking, I was
- 1:11:05Speaker 3: thinking about because as Lauren said, I've known her since college,
- 1:11:09Speaker 3: so I've seen the grind to get here.
- 1:11:11Speaker 4: And the question when it says, when does it get easier?
- 1:11:15Speaker 4: I feel like you're the.
- 1:11:15Speaker 3: Poster child for like the work really works. like you
- 1:11:18Speaker 3: have to put in the work and not think about
- 1:11:21Speaker 3: when it gets easier because like you said before you
- 1:11:23Speaker 3: were hustling and now you're talent.
- 1:11:25Speaker 4: And you're still hustling just in a different.
- 1:11:27Speaker 3: Way so it's not about when it gets easier it's
- 1:11:29Speaker 3: just about the transition to get to the goals that
- 1:11:32Speaker 3: you're trying to achieve 100 and just knowing how to set.
- 1:11:37Speaker 4: Like i'm learning how to take care.
- 1:11:39Speaker 3: Of myself in real time Like everything I'm experiencing is
- 1:11:43Speaker 3: happening in front of you guys. Like not even on purpose.
- 1:11:46Speaker 3: It's just like, this is just, God was like, boom,
- 1:11:49Speaker 3: poster child, here you go.
- 1:11:50Speaker 4: And I'm like, okay, guess I'm, you know, strongest soldier
- 1:11:53Speaker 4: 2026 again.
- 1:11:55Speaker 3: But I've learned how to take care of myself. Like
- 1:11:57Speaker 3: when I leave here, I'm going home to be with family.
- 1:11:59Speaker 4: And I could choose to.
- 1:12:01Speaker 3: Like, I said, know the things after this because I'm like,
- 1:12:04Speaker 3: I know I want to go.
- 1:12:04Speaker 4: Home and be with my family.
- 1:12:05Speaker 3: And I can do that because I know tomorrow I'll
- 1:12:08Speaker 3: be at something else.
- 1:12:09Speaker 4: Next weekend I'll be at something else.
- 1:12:11Speaker 3: You get to the point where you can begin to
- 1:12:13Speaker 3: kind of leverage those pockets and make it make sense
- 1:12:15Speaker 3: for you.
- 1:12:16Speaker 4: But you've got to, you've got to show up and
- 1:12:17Speaker 4: go to work.
- 1:12:18Speaker 5: You do.
- 1:12:19Speaker 4: And if you're, again, I say this and I'm going
- 1:12:21Speaker 4: to end with this because I can.
- 1:12:22Speaker 10: Talk a lot.
- 1:12:23Speaker 3: If you are showing up and you are doing the
- 1:12:25Speaker 3: work and you are like nailing the Like, you're doing
- 1:12:29Speaker 3: everything you're supposed to be doing, and it's just not
- 1:12:31Speaker 3: moving the way you need it to, have a conversation.
- 1:12:35Speaker 3: If that conversation doesn't get that wheel turning the way
- 1:12:38Speaker 3: it needs to so that you can feel what you
- 1:12:40Speaker 3: need to feel, you might have outgrown that space, or
- 1:12:43Speaker 3: they might not.
- 1:12:43Speaker 5: Even be growing with you.
- 1:12:45Speaker 3: Period. And it is okay to recognize that. And when
- 1:12:48Speaker 3: you recognize that, make a plan and get out, or
- 1:12:50Speaker 3: you will waste your life, your gift, and your talent.
- 1:12:53Speaker 5: I love that.
- 1:12:54Speaker 4: And on that note, we're going to end it.
- 1:12:56Speaker 3: I had a couple of other questions in here, but
- 1:12:58Speaker 3: we got 30 minutes, so we're going to have to leave.
- 1:13:01Speaker 5: I can talk for about 30.
- 1:13:02Speaker 3: No, I love that, because while we have you here,
- 1:13:04Speaker 3: while the people have you here, I love that you're
- 1:13:06Speaker 3: able to express kind of your journey, because I know
- 1:13:08Speaker 3: your journey, but a lot of people just.
- 1:13:10Speaker 4: Kind of see you pop up.
- 1:13:11Speaker 5: They think I fell off the sky.
- 1:13:13Speaker 3: And I'm okay with that, too, because I feel like
- 1:13:15Speaker 3: it's been beautiful having people rediscover me and me having
- 1:13:18Speaker 3: to figure out how to reintroduce myself to people Um,
- 1:13:22Speaker 3: but yeah, we've.
- 1:13:23Speaker 5: Been figuring this out for a long time.
- 1:13:24Speaker 4: Like the annoying.
- 1:13:26Speaker 3: Question asking, I got a, I got a knack for this.
- 1:13:29Speaker 3: I think we should be doing this girl that I am.
- 1:13:31Speaker 4: I've been this way.
- 1:13:32Speaker 3: Keisha and all of the PR that strategize us, figure
- 1:13:35Speaker 3: this out, girl, that she is woman that she is
- 1:13:38Speaker 3: right now.
- 1:13:39Speaker 4: She has always been that way. And it's just so
- 1:13:41Speaker 4: beautiful to be here with you and see what's, You birthed. Girl,
- 1:13:45Speaker 4: it's beautiful to be here with you. You a celebrity now. Okay, period.
- 1:13:50Speaker 3: We only have two minutes, so we're going to land
- 1:13:52Speaker 3: this plane. I just want to thank y'all for being here,
- 1:13:55Speaker 3: for being involved in the conversation, for saying yes to
- 1:13:58Speaker 3: showing up on a busy weekend. I know a lot
- 1:14:00Speaker 3: of us are going to CultureCon tomorrow. I know a
- 1:14:02Speaker 3: lot of us outside of that have other events to
- 1:14:03Speaker 3: even go to this evening. So I just want y'all
- 1:14:06Speaker 3: to give a round of applause for yourself for showing up.
- 1:14:08Speaker 7: Thank you.
- 1:14:11Speaker 4: I hope that y'all met someone that you.
- 1:14:14Speaker 3: Can then build a relationship with outside of this room.
- 1:14:17Speaker 3: Our biggest thing is continuing the conversation. So upstairs, there
- 1:14:21Speaker 3: were some QR codes. I hope that y'all scanned those
- 1:14:24Speaker 3: because there's a digital community that we have. If you
- 1:14:26Speaker 3: did not, just follow us on Experience Procon and we'll
- 1:14:29Speaker 3: be talking about more of how we can.
- 1:14:31Speaker 4: Build this community, okay? I think that's all I have. Love,
- 1:14:34Speaker 4: we got anything else to share? Oh, no, I'm good.
- 1:14:36Speaker 5: Won't you do it?
- 1:14:37Speaker 3: Amen.
- 1:14:37Speaker 8: Okay.
- 1:14:37Speaker 7: Well, you're so pretty.
- 1:14:38Speaker 4: That's all.