Latest / Chef's PSA Podcast / What's your specialty Chef? Ep. 5
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- 0:00Hello chefs. You're listening to chefs, PSA
- 0:03podcast. I'm your host on during that
- 0:05era. Today we're going to get into
- 0:06everyone's favorite question. And that is as a chef what's
- 0:11your specialty? Now the thing about this podcast
- 0:22is if you're a chef you hate this question and you kind of
- 0:25know, you know, where this podcast is going.
- 0:27So this podcast is for you to Listen to, so you could share
- 0:31with someone else who's not a chef who probably needs this
- 0:36podcast, much more than you do. Because they're the ones, taking
- 0:40you to parties or the ones introducing you to people or
- 0:42maybe you're meeting them for the first time and you're having
- 0:44a hard time getting across to them.
- 0:46Like, hey, you shouldn't really ask that question.
- 0:48It's the worst question. Today, we're going to get into
- 0:50why it is the absolute stupidest question.
- 0:54A normal person could ask a chef So let's get into an imaginary
- 0:58scenario, you're a chef. You go to work all day, you cook
- 1:03for 10-15. Plus h, you have a menu that has
- 1:0720 different dishes on it and that menus been changed four
- 1:11times over the course of the year because it's changed over
- 1:13the season. So you've gone through, I don't
- 1:17know, let's say, 80 new dishes in a year.
- 1:20You've done specials nightly every dish, you're trying to
- 1:22express yourself in a new way and then you go to a party.
- 1:27And someone says oh I heard you're a chef.
- 1:29What's your specialty? That's it.
- 1:31That's a stupid question but there's really only one correct
- 1:34answer because they don't know better they don't know that
- 1:38you've created a t dishes over the last year, they don't know
- 1:41that you know how to do more than just one silly dish and
- 1:46their mind you know because most likely like they're looking for
- 1:49that one dish that you could explain to them, that's going to
- 1:52make them become a better cook. So, here's what you say.
- 1:56Attention because this is this needs to become the universal
- 2:00answer for this question, by all chefs.
- 2:04And that is when someone says, what is your specialty?
- 2:08You look them dead in the eye and you say chicken alfredo
- 2:12because normal people They fucking love chicken alfredo and
- 2:16they're gonna be like, oh my God you make chicken alfredo, I make
- 2:19chicken alfredo. How do you make it and then you
- 2:21can proceed to tell them exactly how you make it.
- 2:23Now it gets a little disappointing after this because
- 2:26you're going to tell them. Do you need pasta?
- 2:28You can have some heavy cream. You can have some Parmesan, some
- 2:30garlic and so on and so forth you can explain to them how to
- 2:33make it and they're going to look at you like you're like
- 2:35you're a complete fucking idiot because they're going to say to
- 2:38you. Well that's exactly how I make
- 2:40it. So how is that your specialty?
- 2:41I should be a chef like you I could make that you could make
- 2:43that. And of course They can make it
- 2:48of course, because it's an easy rest recipe.
- 2:52But when they make it, it's never going to taste as good as
- 2:54yours and why, because you're a chef, you know, how to maintain
- 2:57the temperature on the, on the stove, you know, how to cook the
- 3:00pasta, al dente, you know, how to make sure that the chickens
- 3:02not overcooked, you know, how to make sure that the thickness of
- 3:05the alfredo sauce is the correct thickness for the pasta.
- 3:08So there's a lot that they don't understand, they just think oh,
- 3:11it's just four or five ingredients.
- 3:12Great. So why is it so hard?
- 3:14Well, anyway. I think this should be the
- 3:16universal answer for chefs, it's a win-win normal.
- 3:19People love chicken alfredo it's a you know, it'll get them off
- 3:23your back. They'll go away.
- 3:24You don't have to explain to them how, you know, all these
- 3:26other things, other than just one specific specialty.
- 3:32But here's the thing, there's a lot of chefs out there that
- 3:34actually do have a specialty and I think that's where it's not a
- 3:37universal answer for everything. But when you're a chef and you
- 3:41do have a specialty, like, let's say, barbecue, you have a
- 3:44barbecue restaurant. And that's what you do day in
- 3:47and day out. I make barbecue, I smoked
- 3:48brisket. I make ribs cook some sausage.
- 3:51I make barbecue. Then they're not going to ask
- 3:54you because it's clearly obvious what your specialty is.
- 3:56My specialty is barbecue. They don't go and ask the person
- 4:00who is behind the counter in a pizzeria and say, what's your
- 4:04specialty? It's obvious.
- 4:06That it's pizza. And if it's Nadia obvious and
- 4:09they still ask that question, then you don't have a
- 4:12conversation with these people you're wasting your time.
- 4:14You're going to feel stupid or when the conversation is
- 4:17finished. But like I said, for some
- 4:21people, they really do have Specialties, this is what I do.
- 4:24I make tacos or ibank this or I make that I really don't think
- 4:29that people understand how to ask this question correctly.
- 4:31I think what they're trying to get to is what type of Chef are
- 4:35you now? That's probably a more specific
- 4:39question but we could even get more specific than that.
- 4:42What kind of Chef are you? What's the name of your
- 4:44restaurant? What kind of food do you cook in
- 4:45that restaurant or even a better question?
- 4:47What does a chef do? What kind of food do you prepare
- 4:52that you enjoy making at home? Like those are better questions
- 4:55but to sit there and say, what's your specialty?
- 4:57It's a dumb question. We need to educate people to
- 5:00stop with that question. And like I said, when they do
- 5:03ask that question, the answer needs to be chicken.
- 5:06Alfredo eventually it'll get around and you know it'll become
- 5:08the joke. What's your specialty?
- 5:10Chicken? Alfredo and the conversation?
- 5:12Let's move on. Now I guarantee you most chefs
- 5:15have been asked this question. What's your specialty?
- 5:17They hate it. They hate it.
- 5:18It's joke. Right?
- 5:19It's, it's become a meme like chefs.
- 5:21What's your specialty? Because the chef knows how to do
- 5:24so much and I'd like to get into what is a chef's specialty and a
- 5:28chef's specialty. Really is I know how to use a
- 5:31knife. I know how to cook, I know how
- 5:34to manage people. I know how to do a lot of
- 5:36things. I'm a chef and I have a
- 5:40versatile set of skills that make me a chef.
- 5:43That is my specialty. My specialty is being a chef.
- 5:48A lot of people wouldn't End up. I'd like to give the example,
- 5:52like, someone asked the question to a dentist.
- 5:55Like, you wouldn't go up to her and say, what's your favorite
- 5:57tooth to work on it? That's a stupid question.
- 5:59You would ask that. You'd be made feel like an
- 6:03idiot. And so, why would people ask
- 6:05what's your favorite dish? Well, because the chef doesn't
- 6:09really have a favorite dish, like things evolve.
- 6:12You might like making something for a moment but throughout the
- 6:15course of time your palate changes, your experiences change
- 6:19your surroundings. Change.
- 6:21You might not like making that dish anymore.
- 6:24So, to ask that question, just seems like it's it's a, it's a
- 6:29low IQ question, it's a low IQ question for people that don't
- 6:32get it because you have to, you have to flip it.
- 6:35And like if you're in a different industry, what is that
- 6:38version of that question in your industry and ask yourself that?
- 6:41Like what's your favorite tooth to work on?
- 6:43What's your favorite Tire to change?
- 6:44Like it's a dumb question. So if you're not a chef and
- 6:49you're listening to this, I hope that your learning like don't
- 6:52ask that question because Again, I'm beating a dead horse here,
- 6:56it's a stupid question. Now, if there is a tie for the
- 7:01number two, stupid question that you get asked as a chef, it's
- 7:03like, oh, I bet you eat really good at home or what do you like
- 7:08to make at home? Or I bet your family eats really
- 7:10well. They love having you around.
- 7:13Also a dumb question because the reality is like again, I want to
- 7:17paint a picture for you. Let's just say you're a
- 7:18carpenter and you go to work and you build furniture all day, and
- 7:24And maybe that's 10 12 hours a day in a chef's case.
- 7:27Sometimes that is, it's, you know, 10 plus hours a day,
- 7:29you're you're being a chef, you're managing people, you're
- 7:31cooking this that and the other and then you get home and it's
- 7:34like, oh guess what? I feel like doing, I feel like
- 7:36preparing a five-course meal for my family.
- 7:39It's like, come on, no, no, you don't know, I will say there is
- 7:42there is exceptions to the rule. I have a friend.
- 7:45He's the only person I know that goes home and Cooks just as much
- 7:48as he does. When he's at home in my friend.
- 7:51That's listening. You know who you know is
- 7:54Probably the most intense Chef. I know because he's always
- 7:57thinking about food. He's I mean he's the man he
- 7:59there's a reason why he's successful he's always switched
- 8:03on. But the fact of the matter is
- 8:06most people don't you know, what is a cheffy when they go home?
- 8:09I mean I could tell you what I eat, I go home.
- 8:11It's like okay I'm in your peanut butter and jelly
- 8:13sandwich, I'm a bowl of cereal. I'm going to eat whatever cold
- 8:16leftovers are in the fridge. And a lot of times, you know, a
- 8:19lot of chefs will say this in a restaurant.
- 8:21When you're eating, you're normally busy.
- 8:24C. So a lot of restaurants have
- 8:25what's called staff meal and people will sit down and they'll
- 8:27eat together and they'll take their break and boom back to
- 8:30work. But a lot of restaurants don't
- 8:32do that. A lot of times like you don't
- 8:34get time for a break in your hungry and it's standing up over
- 8:38a garbage. Can eating out of a deli
- 8:40container really quick because you have like five minutes
- 8:43before you need to get back on the line.
- 8:45So You learn to eat really fast when I was coming up in the
- 8:48kitchen. The interesting thing about
- 8:50eating really fast was this is we weren't allowed to eat in the
- 8:54kitchen. One of the kitchens that I
- 8:55worked in staff meal was not provided.
- 8:57So, we were not allowed to eat in the kitchen, we have to bring
- 8:59our own food but everyone needs like, if you work in a kitchen,
- 9:03you eat the differences. Are you allowed to eat or not?
- 9:05So, you're breaking the rules and you eat or you follow the
- 9:08rules and you eat. But either way, everyone eats,
- 9:09so you learned how to eat extremely quick because you
- 9:13didn't want to get caught by the chef eating.
- 9:14So you learn how to To eat really fast and you learn how to
- 9:18eat leftovers and they might be cold and you might be standing
- 9:20over a garbage bin really quick and you learn how to eat that
- 9:23way. So when you get home it's like
- 9:26you've trained yourself you know for the past few years eating
- 9:29that way you get home, it's like oh there's leftovers.
- 9:31But they're cold. Do you want me to heat them up
- 9:32for your like nah? That's all right.
- 9:33I'll I'll just eat them really quick, cold or whatever,
- 9:37whatever the case may be. Because a lot of chefs, there's
- 9:41a difference between eating and dining, and a lot of times it's
- 9:45like, we just want to eat. We're tired, we're hungry, we
- 9:47need energy. We're just going to eat
- 9:49something to get going. And then there's dining.
- 9:52And that is I'm going to go to a restaurant.
- 9:54I'm an experienced, the cuisine. I'm going to sit down, and I'm
- 9:57going to eat with my friends and family.
- 9:59I'm an experienced, the service huge difference.
- 10:02So a lot of people need to understand the distinction,
- 10:05between eating and dining and I'm going to dispel the myth a
- 10:09lot. Chef's.
- 10:10Do not cook when they go home and sometimes it's the last
- 10:12thing they feel like doing and that's why they eat, such simple
- 10:15meals, it might be, you know, Ramen or whatever the case may
- 10:17be, everyone's different. But like I said, there are
- 10:21exceptions to the rule but for the most part, most of the
- 10:24chef's that I know, and I know a lot of chefs of all the chef's
- 10:27that I know, I think, I only know, like two or three, that
- 10:29actually cook at home and all the rest don't.
- 10:32So, it's like there's three outliers and by the way, those
- 10:34three outliers are actually very tremendous chefs.
- 10:38Now, I'll share a story with you years back.
- 10:41I had the opportunity to cook with fernan Mets who's a
- 10:45certified Master Chef. And, you know, I'll save the
- 10:47whole story for a podcast for a different day.
- 10:49But he used to run the, the CIA in Hyde Park.
- 10:52New York for a number of years. He was the certified master Of
- 10:57in the United States. And you know I want to say if at
- 11:00any point you want to become a certified Master Chef.
- 11:03You better have his signature on it.
- 11:05He was a tremendous Chef legendary, Right?
- 11:07He was, you know, the icon of an era when it came to Chef's if
- 11:13you were reading CIA textbooks back in the day, most likely it
- 11:17had Ferdinand Mets name on it. Well, anyway, long story short,
- 11:20I had the opportunity to cook after hours with them and I
- 11:23remember talking to him and he said something interesting.
- 11:25He said, you know, he had been retired four years at this point
- 11:28and he said, I cook every day. I still cook every day which I
- 11:30found fascinating. So when I talk about these
- 11:33outliers that do cook every day, I mean those exceptions to the
- 11:37rule that cook every day, I mean, every single person that I
- 11:41know that does cook everyday outside of a professional
- 11:43kitchen, normally our exceptional Chef.
- 11:46So I will say that, but I would say you know, an exception
- 11:49doesn't disprove, the rule the majority of chefs don't cook at
- 11:53home. Outside of maybe cooking for a
- 11:55holiday or birthday, or special occasion.
- 11:57I very rarely cooked at home. I would say, you know, I could
- 12:00go throughout the year and make a proper meal and what I mean by
- 12:05that, I'm not talking scrambled eggs or, you know, boiling pasta
- 12:08or something. Simple like that.
- 12:09I mean like cooking. The way I would in a restaurant
- 12:12I would probably do that. Probably counted on a hand, five
- 12:15times a year. If that So it's like I said it's
- 12:19just not very common and the last stupid thing and this isn't
- 12:24really a question that normal people will ask you when you
- 12:26meet them for the first time and they find out you're a chef.
- 12:28It's not a question. It's more of a statement that
- 12:30they asked but it's it's a pretty ridiculous statement.
- 12:34And they say something stupid like oh my husband Cooks a lot
- 12:38at home. He's actually a chef at home too
- 12:41and it's like no, you cook at home as a hobby, you're not a
- 12:45chef and it's insulting to tell someone, oh, so-and-so Cooks at
- 12:50home, there are Chef also, my son is a chef.
- 12:53He cooks all the he cook spaghetti on the weekends.
- 12:55It's like the most insulting thing to someone who is a chef
- 12:59like when you've dedicated years to something it's like going up
- 13:02to a doctor and be like Like, oh, you're a doctor.
- 13:04I put a bandaid on my elbow. I'm a doctor too, I'm a home
- 13:08doctor. Like come on.
- 13:10Don't be so dense and unaware of the people that you're having a
- 13:15conversation with that, they've dedicated their entire lives to
- 13:18something and that you're just going to hop in and say, oh I do
- 13:21this at home, I'm a chef to it's like no you're not.
- 13:24You're not a chef you cook at home.
- 13:28I think I'm recording this on a Sunday and tomorrow's Monday
- 13:33when I Release. This this podcast the PSA that I
- 13:36put up today was everyone thinks just because they cook their a
- 13:41chef just like everyone thinks that just because they have sex
- 13:44that they're a porn star. And that's one of those things
- 13:46like everyone's a chef Joe, you know, I chopped onion.
- 13:49I'm a chef is like, no, you're not a chef, a chef normally runs
- 13:52the hierarchy and a kitchen. They've earned their place
- 13:55everyone Cooks, but not everyone's a chef, it's the
- 13:57exception to the rule. It's a, it's a long path to
- 14:01become the chef to be be. Stowed that position as the
- 14:05chef. So just because you cook at
- 14:08home, doesn't mean you're a chef just because you've had sex,
- 14:12does it mean you're a porn star? So let's just make sure that.
- 14:16Sorry, I think it's kind of funny that we're talking about
- 14:18this, but anyway. Oh, I put a bandaid on my elbow.
- 14:20I'm a doctor. Like, come on, get the fuck out
- 14:22of here. You're not a doctor so that's
- 14:25the rant for this week. Thank you so much for listening
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