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Stretching into Alignment: The Messy Path to Expansion. · Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie

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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to Beyond Limits, the podcast designed to unlock your highest potential with powerful strategies, energetic frequencies, and mindset shifts to create a limitless life.
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  SPEAKER_00: Each episode dives deep into what it really takes to build a life and business beyond the ordinary standard.
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  SPEAKER_00: Expect unfiltered conversations, tangible takeaways, and mind-blowing insights to shift your reality.
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  SPEAKER_00: You'll hear from Trailblazers who have shattered feelings and know what it means to live beyond limits.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hello, wonderful humans of the Beyond Limits podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm excited to be back with you today.
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  SPEAKER_00: It has just been an incredible day after this.
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  SPEAKER_00: I have two, two incredible one-on-one clients.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right now, the snow is falling, everything is white.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I wanted to come on here and really talk about getting into alignment, an alignment over intuition.
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  SPEAKER_00: And there are so many misconceptions because a lot of the time people confuse alignment and intuition with ego, with so many other things.
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  SPEAKER_00: Alignment will expand you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And not in a way where you feel stretched thin, but where your energy becomes bigger.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the thing about alignment is that it might feel awkward at first, it might feel clunky, it might feel messy.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this is where people confuse the alignment, the intuition with ego.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because the expansion isn't always comfortable, but it's about allowing that expansion to feel easeful in your body by not resisting it.
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  SPEAKER_00: When you resist doing things that are actually for your highest becoming, that are actually going to expand you, you are going to feel heavy.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's going to feel dense.
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  SPEAKER_00: You might even feel like emotional.
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  SPEAKER_00: You might be crying, like frustrated, upset.
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  unknown: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because taking the actions that you know would expand you, doing the things, putting yourself in the room, launching the product, the offer, pivoting, making that piece of content, walking away from the things or the people that don't serve you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Alignment, intuition is that nudge, even though it's not messy and not perfect.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's the thing you know you should do even when you don't know what the result is on the other side.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: It's that thing you know you should do before the ego chimes in a second later and is like, but what if this?
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  SPEAKER_00: But what if that happens?
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  SPEAKER_00: And so where a lot of people mess up is following ego and calling it intuition because it's comfortable.
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  SPEAKER_00: Alignment most of the time is not comfortable, but you can learn for it to feel relaxed.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can learn for it to feel easeful, you can find the ease in getting outside your comfort zone.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I want you to really ask yourself, and this is something you're gonna use all the time: is this aligned or is this comfortable?
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  SPEAKER_00: Is it stretching me in a way that's expanding on the other side?
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  SPEAKER_00: Or is it keeping me where I am?
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  SPEAKER_00: Versus, you know, you also maybe did something for a hot second, but then it didn't quote unquote feel good because you haven't learned to have alignment feel good in a way where you're breaking to a new level.
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  SPEAKER_00: And you copped out and you said, Well, you know, it's not an alignment.
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  SPEAKER_00: No, it was just calling you forward to a different version of you, and you let fear win.
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  SPEAKER_00: You let that little ego win.
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  SPEAKER_00: Perhaps you also haven't expanded your nervous system, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Your capacity to be able to approach new edges with ease.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because those nudges are meant to support you in your growth and evolution, not keep you comfortable and not keep you small.
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  SPEAKER_00: The big reason I have the results that I do is because I'm willing to get uncomfortable all the time.
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  SPEAKER_00: In business and personally, like whether I'm at the gym.
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  SPEAKER_00: I remember when I first started training, and I was definitely a noob.
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  SPEAKER_00: I had never been to like that section where you're like loading plates onto machines.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like I never would have thought I'd be loading like barbells onto a machine, and like I would have thought like I look silly, I look dumb, I like this is new.
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  SPEAKER_00: I probably looked awkward at first, but it was fine.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I lean in when I think about skiing, I get uncomfortable.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know, the first no second year, time is weird.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, at least because it goes to different seasons.
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  SPEAKER_00: But we had picked up skiing in December, and by March, I pushed myself down a black diamond in the Dolmites in Italy.
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  SPEAKER_00: Was it perfect?
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  SPEAKER_00: No.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I went to that edge and I allowed myself to get uncomfortable.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I do this in business all the time, too.
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  SPEAKER_00: I allow myself to get uncomfortable saying the things that I'm willing to say because I do it from love and I do it with fierce love because sometimes it's not what you want to hear, but it's what you need to hear.
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  SPEAKER_00: Whether that's in content, whether that's in offers, whether in all the things, whether that's investing in other businesses, you know, growing different companies.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know, when I think about the massive pivot I did in my business, and I'm gonna actually think I'm gonna do a separate little podcast episode on that, but the pivot I did February 2nd, 2024, and I completely pivoted my business, that shit was uncomfortable.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I moved anyway.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because how you do one thing, it's how you do everything.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so many people self-sabotage when it comes to this, and they call what's comfortable or like what's aligned, but it's actually just what's keeping them comfortable, what's keeping them where they are, what's keeping them quote unquote safe.
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  unknown: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this is obviously why, like, I'm embodied in my work, I stand by like safety, money, and power are the three pillars of what I do for a reason because we do need safety in our system.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so I want you to think about where you said you would do the thing, or maybe you you kind of started doing the thing, but then you didn't get the external validation right away, and you dropped your power and you dropped your conviction, and you said, Oh no, that's not aligned.
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  SPEAKER_00: When really your nervous system was being taught conviction and personal power, not circumstantial conviction or circumstantial personal power.
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  SPEAKER_00: I cannot tell you how often I see this, pretty much daily, and I can spot it instantly.
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  SPEAKER_00: And once you clean this up, your results massively start to ripple because messy action, as long as it's aligned and it's not taken from trying to fix or from lack or from scarcity or from you know not having the result yet, you'd be shocked what will happen.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I've used this example before, but I want to bring it back again in this episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's like when you're learning to walk, it's new.
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  SPEAKER_00: Did you fall down the first time and say, oh no, you know, walking is just not in alignment for me?
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, no, no, no, it's like walking's not for me.
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  SPEAKER_00: No, you didn't do that.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I guarantee you're doing it in your business, and that's keeping you small, and it's not allowing you to live beyond limits.
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  SPEAKER_00: There we go.
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  SPEAKER_00: We worked in the title of the podcast and the episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: I want you to really save this episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: I want you to listen to it twice, and I want you to save it, and then I want you to actually go and implement it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I want you to come and tell me, send me a DM and be like, Liv.
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  SPEAKER_00: I realized where I was just not getting uncomfortable and I was kind of being complacent and staying in my comfort zone.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I did XYZ and I pushed out of my comfort zone.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I will like cheer you on, give you a gold star, and we can chat about it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because this is one of the most important things, one of the most important muscles you will learn to build.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this is one that will serve you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Whether you're at multi-six, seven, or going to eight figures, you're going to need to know how to do this and also how to be able to do it while holding safety in your nervous system, while holding your personal power as well.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, with that being said, if you've not joined the Limitless Membership, we are going to leave that along with my latest masterclass, Unstoppable, which is all about conviction.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's all about becoming the most convicted woman, showing up powerfully, stop second guessing, and watching your sales, your income expand with ease.
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  SPEAKER_00: And of course, the limitless membership has unstoppable included, along with a whole vault of masterclasses.
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  SPEAKER_00: You also get riffs like this, and we take things like a lot deeper.
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  SPEAKER_00: I have mini trainings all in Telegram, and it's such a juicy, such a juicy place that's going to support you in becoming limitless.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, with that being said, we'll leave both of those down below.
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  SPEAKER_00: I love you so much, and I will see you in the next episode.