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- 0:00Good morning, we are starting serving Kutsari hey in the
- 0:05holocus of her cockles, Steve Alice kind of Adam the fresh
- 0:08mesh to be made to masa Asha tis pervertito personal husband is
- 0:14it's time to stay away from his wife.
- 0:17We'll see what the dinner are until she does design A game and
- 0:21Tvila the Filu shots is not arrow below toddler tell me he'd
- 0:25be the Dosa Ajititito and you know and Lemais.
- 0:30This is that she is Nash of Anita, even if she's not
- 0:33available for a very long time. You know it doesn't you know,
- 0:40even if she was even if she designed the keen until she does
- 0:42Tvila, it's hard to do her caucus.
- 0:46I think that's really the finish over here.
- 0:48Now there's a discussion in in the Gemara there, there was a
- 0:51there's a Gemara, the the Leon Navi, the Gemara in the Shabbos
- 0:55says that there was a superbir abandon who, who, who, who died
- 1:01And then his wife was crying to the all about the Madrid.
- 1:04Wow, he was such a touch of person.
- 1:06Happy to be that young. And you know, we, you know,
- 1:09nobody said so can't appear to her and said, well, was he Mark?
- 1:15Was he knowing? You know, was he knowing or how
- 1:18close is he knowing this? She said, well, during Zion
- 1:20Akim, he would lie down. He would lie down next to me in,
- 1:23in, in in bed. And you know, nobody said Ah
- 1:26Barsham, he he he deserved to die Sigmar, because the whole
- 1:33point is that that it should be that that that that should be I
- 1:38should take like the there shouldn't be a Kirva and her,
- 1:43you know, her focus are obviously quite important.
- 1:47And he thought that during Zion Keem all right, if she's not
- 1:52gay, it's OK. And the finish seems to be that
- 1:55until she actually doesn't even she finished Zionic.
- 1:57Even if she didn't do Tvila, then then she'll because then
- 2:01she's considered Adida and the five of our Papa, the low yeast
- 2:04like the low Yeko Rush IMA. And he should not laugh or call
- 2:10us Rush IMA. I feel a bit dry.
- 2:12Even it's dry now. It doesn't mean it should be
- 2:17it'll be it'll be Margie la Vera.
- 2:19Now the discussion what this means and you know, and whatever
- 2:24you know. Obviously it doesn't mean he
- 2:26had, you know, OK, the fear, you know, generally, you know, a
- 2:29person, you know, he doesn't mean he should walk around the,
- 2:32you know, 2, you know, two weeks whatever with a frown on his
- 2:35face and run through his wife. You know, he's allowed to, you
- 2:41know, jokes, but these are there's a certain jokes and
- 2:44things which are, which are Margilla Vera, like, I think
- 2:48husband like not the hell that there's a certain, there's
- 2:50certain, you know, lightness, which which is more Margill, you
- 2:53know, whatever, especially when the people have kids and stuff
- 2:56doesn't mean they can't play a family game, you know, or they
- 2:59want to play a game, you know, whatever.
- 3:00It doesn't mean that these are things.
- 3:02That doesn't mean they can't laugh at the way you know, it
- 3:05means, but it means that they, you know, you know, it means
- 3:09that they should, that there's a certain type of, of kalasurish,
- 3:12which brings to erva and the husband and wife, you know,
- 3:16figure these things out, you know, and it's because you know,
- 3:20it's because you know, again, once they, once they have kids
- 3:22and stuff and things are, you know, and they're playing with
- 3:25their kids is no problem. Discussion the police scheme of
- 3:29playing ping pong together of a motor loli Siakadima.
- 3:38But his motor is motor. He was, he was, he was, he
- 3:46bought out the, you know, so it's not talking future anymore.
- 3:51And therefore there's a header of Euclid, even though she's in
- 3:53there, but there's a header of Euclid also, they say because
- 3:57Pastor Salo, she will be moved through to him.
- 3:59You know, sometime at a certain point, whether let's say a
- 4:02woman, you know, you know, if if something goes on very long with
- 4:08some sometimes unfortunate, there are issues and stuff that
- 4:10goes on very long, whether the status changes.
- 4:12I think it touches upon a word in heaven and answer whether
- 4:16it's possible to that maybe a Shiloh of Euclid.
- 4:19If let's say we're not let's say she can't become to hire for you
- 4:23know for a year. I don't know whatever I'm saying
- 4:26that she had some some medical issue.
- 4:28I don't know whatever, I'm not sure OK, I'm leaving that up in
- 4:31the air Bae's lo yigoba, a few little bits.
- 4:35But Cortana, he should not touch her even with his Expo Cortana
- 4:39or any little part of him below Yoshi and there's a discussion.
- 4:44What about touching? What about clothing touching
- 4:46each other presently Khela Khela.
- 4:50It's it's it's it's the table of bracha.
- 4:53He should be mock mayor that their clothing shouldn't you
- 4:56know, he shouldn't obviously touch her clothing.
- 4:59But even their clothing touching together, there's there's
- 5:02there's definitely the macro table of bracha that they
- 5:07shouldn't, you know, the tequila have the clothing touching, you
- 5:11know, also the Yoshi NI Yoda, the Yoda Shum Davar.
- 5:16And he should not also discuss what about the what about what
- 5:25about blowing things off of her is that Nagia?
- 5:30So it depends, you know, it's sort of it's sort of it's sort
- 5:33of depends, you know, those are fascist.
- 5:39It's OK, but depends how close he has to get, you know, depends
- 5:43if she has a feather on her shoulder.
- 5:44It depends like if she has a a bug on her back.
- 5:47It depends what's you know what we're talking about over here.
- 5:50But the, the simple pshada will be OK Again, all these things
- 5:55you know, there are those are not Miriam, but whatever
- 5:58standing under like an umbrella together.
- 6:01There's a small umbrella. Again, all these things are
- 6:04Jacob and Evaro show if it if it's something which can come to
- 6:07Nagia, then it's an issue. What about the, you know,
- 6:16pictures by by by by by Acosta, right, the parent, let's say the
- 6:20let's say the parents are are you know, so OK, all families
- 6:26squish together. So what should you do?
- 6:28You know, it's it's not so passionate to be made go, you
- 6:33know, you do you. They do your best, you know, and
- 6:36they they do your best. And you know, but it is so.
- 6:40But Uncle Ponen, there's no, there's no again, there's no
- 6:43room to hockey like I mentioned, because, well, in the pictures,
- 6:45they're going to figure something.
- 6:46Yeah, I don't know. So you try your best, Uncle
- 6:51Ponen. Below Yoshi Miyodo, the the
- 6:55other, the other Shumdavar. And you shouldn't pass anything.
- 6:59Hand anything from one to the other.
- 7:01Below you, Kablena, Lando, Miyodo, Shema Yuga Basara.
- 7:05And you should not take anything from her maybe because maybe
- 7:09they'll end up touching. It's exactly that.
- 7:11Maybe the touching is Rica the other the other or the hapach
- 7:16also you're also throwing is also also you might come to
- 7:21might come to touch discussion about what about the question
- 7:26and the price can just be true or what about the attachments is
- 7:30matter a baby, there's a high noise.
- 7:34It's asthma. And Charles, what does it mean?
- 7:36Is in in Shabbos, I notice the Assad's money means that a
- 7:40person carries himself, right. So he's not really, you know, I
- 7:45mean, the sort of lumbers, he's not really, not really carrying
- 7:48him, you know, carrying, carrying the kid.
- 7:51He's carrying himself. We'll get to that.
- 7:59Yeah. OK.
- 8:01So, so The thing is, is that I say so attachment says some say,
- 8:06understand attachments to me. And I know see, it's asthma is
- 8:09that that Mister Trooper brings us that the kids are old enough
- 8:12to to sort of lean over from one, from one parent to the
- 8:16other that he, he, he himself is sort of leaping out of whatnot.
- 8:21Mom's jumping. But like he's sort of like,
- 8:23like, you know, tilting his way towards the other parent.
- 8:27The other parent can take him there because he's he's moving,
- 8:31not not handing. You know, Shyla is so but
- 8:36younger than that. That's as much as they make the
- 8:38younger than that with a, you know, a new warm baby, which is
- 8:43often, you know, the Shyla often more common there.
- 8:47There's a there's an issue there may go to put they they can put
- 8:50the baby on on on her bed, you know, next to her.
- 8:55Still can't handle. Obviously they'll talk about
- 8:57Sakana. I don't know whatever, but but
- 9:00you know, you shouldn't, you shouldn't be handing the baby
- 9:05back and forth, put the baby down next to her.
- 9:07They put the baby down for a second in the stroller and then
- 9:10whatever. That's what you know, that's
- 9:13what that that that that's what that that's what has to be done
- 9:20also. And what about carrying, you
- 9:24know, carrying stuff together? So there are those who are
- 9:27mouthed here by, you know, something heavy by, you know,
- 9:32by, if it's a heavy stroller or something out there, those who
- 9:34are not here to help his wife carry the, you know, carry the
- 9:37stroller downstairs. You know, the, the, you know,
- 9:40there are those who are not, it depends how heavy, depends what
- 9:43we're talking about, you know, because it's not, that's not
- 9:47handing something to a keeper or anything like that.
- 9:51So, so that's the problem. No, that's just, no, that's
- 9:56something just heavy and she can't do it, you know, whatever,
- 9:59especially if she's after birth, you know, it's also she'll get
- 10:02into Hila and things or whatever.
- 10:04There's also probably a tail in that case.
- 10:07It depends on the the big carriage.
- 10:13You know, it could be, it could be if it's, if it's if it's
- 10:21awkward, then she she could follow that.
- 10:23Right, Right. Yeah, Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 10:25I was saying especially, especially if she's after birth,
- 10:27the rabbit tailor that she'd be. Yeah, right.
- 10:31But if she's if she's having a hard time, right, if she's
- 10:33having a hard time, then that's what to what is what to talk
- 10:36about? Bit better if he just goes up
- 10:38and takes a gun himself, you know, that's that.
- 10:44Now, how about a scroll? A carriage.
- 10:46A carriage? Yeah, a carriage.
- 10:47Yeah, something else. I mean, you're right.
- 10:49I don't know, but I'm on the carriage, right.
- 10:51Like that's the most common China also Rico throwing stuff.
- 10:57You know, there's a discussion discussion in the police game.
- 10:59But what about the Miki Asif talks about what about throwing
- 11:02it up in the air, her catching it, you know, throw it up and
- 11:05then she comes and catches it. So he's not there.
- 11:08There are obviously in any case, in any situation here, those who
- 11:13are those who are Makil the the sorry, the Miki Asif is Makil.
- 11:16Actually, he's he's Makil because he says that's not
- 11:19Zukozel, is there? He he says no, it's not here.
- 11:33No, that's throw up. No, but to throw up in the air
- 11:36you mean or Yeah, So he says it's a kavana.
- 11:38Is this is that some place because it's a kavana.
- 11:41Is the throat there? OK, It's a rethroat there, you
- 11:44know, but he hasn't said that's not throwing to her, that's
- 11:47throwing it up in the air is what?
- 11:49Then again, the field tackles ought to be made goal.
- 11:51It could be like, you know, obviously with the car keys, you
- 11:53know, whatever I'll be throwing it up in the air and she towards
- 11:56her. But let's say if you throw just
- 11:59throw it up randomly and she has to come running to catch it, it
- 12:01could be that would be you know, that could be you know, and if
- 12:04it falls on the ground that could be would be OK, I don't
- 12:06know, you know whatever. But if it's just like you throw
- 12:09it up and you know Arsenal, you throw it really hot.
- 12:11Yeah, I don't know, but right, right, OK.
- 12:18It means that they have to, you know, each other car keys or
- 12:22something like that, you know, but you know, like I said,
- 12:26there's there's actually the hawk is, you know, there are
- 12:28those who are in may kill. But again, you know, it's better
- 12:31to better to try to try to train yourself to just put the keys
- 12:34down, let her pick it up, you know, whatever you know, that's
- 12:38that's, that's just the that's just the, you know, sometimes
- 12:42you can't, right, OK, you can't. So then right then you can be
- 12:45lying, relying on the school or you throw it up in the air and
- 12:48she'll try to catch it. She can catch it.
- 12:50That's what she is. And I don't know whatever, you
- 12:53know. So, But yeah, as I say, there's
- 12:57there is a cool could be relied on and they came in.
- 12:59But look, Akila shouldn't be that's not to not to rely on it.
- 13:09They should not eat together on one table.
- 13:12Small table. Start with that Elaine Kanye Shu
- 13:15shinui shahe shum Dover massac main Kara shila Kara shila.
- 13:19Unless it's some shinui, it's something in between blocking
- 13:24lechem or kantan or shere hoko EE.
- 13:28This is also based on the more comparison to the case of Echo
- 13:32Zovi Mazova. That's the bakar comparison to
- 13:34the case. Also the Buster Bahalla where
- 13:36someone's eating Buster Mahala, they might come to eat from each
- 13:39other's food. So to the youthful Zobi Mazova,
- 13:42meaning there's there's there's, there's Hakaka, that's laughter,
- 13:48whatever. Not to the not to eat from each
- 13:51other's food because it's more it comes a day Kiba.
- 13:54So in order not in order to do that, they hung said, if eating
- 13:57a small table together, then they have to put something in
- 14:00between something that they're not going to be eating from left
- 14:03hand doesn't mean that they're eating both from the left hand
- 14:06or like a bowl of potato chips. It will be a problem.
- 14:09It means something which doesn't is not usually there now.
- 14:16Well, OK, so let me finish the toss.
- 14:17So the toss the toss is down. But I mentioned the toss.
- 14:20The Taz is Mahmir that that you should least have something
- 14:24which is Mama shot the pizza like a tefas something which is
- 14:27mammoth blocking and this isn't teaching the past.
- 14:30But I said we're not we're not we're not We know it We know the
- 14:34minute the minute, the minute is just to be back without a
- 14:36hacker. Maybe he says it here.
- 14:40Maybe he says it. He says it yeah, he also yeah, I
- 14:49know, but they bring the the comparison both I don't
- 14:53remember. I have a watch in there, but the
- 14:56what I remember the tiles comparison, but the households,
- 14:58the hecker has to be something which is a theft for that as
- 15:03long as there's something on the table which is which is a
- 15:06hecker, it shouldn't be there. You know, often the wife will
- 15:10take her rings off and the place can generally make up for that.
- 15:14You know, long as it's, you know, if it's, you know that
- 15:17that would be if they're only by themselves.
- 15:19So then fine. Yeah, put something there.
- 15:20You know, the issue with other people are there, you're in a
- 15:23restaurant and or you put another map, put a napkin under
- 15:26the under the under the plate. You know, if you use your if you
- 15:30use your, your, your kids toys and know that the problem won't
- 15:34stay there that long. Oh, why is that there?
- 15:36Hey, I'm looking for that. You know, it's happening.
- 15:38You know, you have a little Lego man.
- 15:40Whatever. Wait, what is that?
- 15:42So, you know, you have to, you know, sometimes, you know,
- 15:45sometimes what? Taking a tablecloth off.
- 15:53No, Right. I mean, in dark.
- 16:00You're so sure, Hun. Yeah, it's not that.
- 16:05Yeah. Well, let's see.
- 16:14Well, let's see, let's see, let's see the remote or
- 16:17something like that. Well, let's see the remote and
- 16:19then we'll go on there how Globby is showing how that's
- 16:21weekend has like been Cara Sholo Oakland she heat Tahira.
- 16:31That's only where they don't eat from one plate when she's Tahira
- 16:37Sagi again, this is the McCord hacker.
- 16:42I know there's some clear hacker that that they're they remember
- 16:46she's in need of then that that's that's you know that's
- 16:49going to be OK. So, yeah, I know Tresor
- 16:53Schlumman said. Afufisha Shayson in your day
- 16:57out. All right, it could be whatever.
- 16:59Again, there's cool, there's cool performers all around.
- 17:01You know, people have to, you know, these these things, you
- 17:04know, there's what you know, depends with them by themselves
- 17:07or not. The bath is master for other
- 17:08people at the table, you know? Yeah, yeah.
- 17:12Other people at the tables is again, if they're sitting right
- 17:16next to each other, husband and I are sitting right next to each
- 17:18other. It's like he literally like, you
- 17:20know, it depends what there's two different some understand
- 17:24that it has to be the people who are in between, you know, but
- 17:28but other other people at the table at the hacker.
- 17:31But I'm saying if your mom is sitting heel, it'll be out, you
- 17:34know, and they give the rest of the table that maybe it'll be a
- 17:37that might that might that might be not be so whatever.
- 17:39But but what is put there when there are other people present
- 17:42that they can eat from the same car?
- 17:45No, no, no. What is it?
- 17:46What is motor is that you don't need a hacker.
- 17:49You know, that's enough of a hacker.
- 17:50You don't need a hacker. You don't need a hacker.
- 17:52Yeah, there's no people. There's not going to be people.
- 17:54You say yeah, yeah, but right. Some say it's only if only if
- 17:58there's people and be like a kid in between.
- 18:01Some say it's something they can leave and, you know, even if
- 18:03there's no one in between. I was just pointing out that if
- 18:06that if they're even if they're on one table but their own
- 18:09little corner. I don't know if that helps.
- 18:11It has to be everyone's just sitting around regularly, you
- 18:13know, at the table. So there's not supposed to go to
- 18:18a Mako. Some say there has to be, has to
- 18:20be, you know, has to be people in between.
- 18:22Is this oh and if someone else does that probably definitely is
- 18:30much more into the Hawker don't have to put something down,
- 18:34although shows all the sense you put she puts the rings down like
- 18:38over here. You know Kobe it's good night
- 18:40and from sort of small hacker still, but you know you know is
- 18:46what to be They can't want to be make along.
- 18:47I don't know if little kids, you know if they if they make even
- 18:51kids kids work also, but little like toddlers or something.
- 18:54You don't want to stay at the table.
- 18:55I don't know if that helps necessarily or not Sure.
- 18:58Yeah, sure. Here.
- 18:58She also left on the shoe a mic. I'll she'll also for him to eat
- 19:02from the her leftovers 'cause she also leashed it with shoe a
- 19:05Coachella. She's bar We'll see later on at
- 19:07the next sift that she he can't drink from her the rest of her
- 19:11cups also. We can't eat from her.
- 19:13Her food does. She can from his.
- 19:18Yeah. Yeah.
- 19:20Well, we'll see in a second if she is allowed to eat from his,
- 19:23not in front of him, but he's not allowed to eat from her
- 19:25stuff even when she's gone unless he unless it's something
- 19:28like horrible it it was like her bright Marks and liquor.
- 19:32So it's a problem. But if she like ate from soup or
- 19:34something and you pour into a different bowl, we'll see.
- 19:36It's like drink or chalk, something like that.
- 19:38And it shouldn't be a problem. It's only like eating like she
- 19:41has eating a piece of Schnitzel or a piece of sandwich or
- 19:43something and you eat and then you that's also fine.
- 19:47Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's also fine.
- 19:49Someone else took took from in between Dalid Lo, Yish de
- 19:55Mishuri. You should not drink from the
- 19:58leftovers in her cup that she drink from.
- 20:01I'm going in ocean massacre. At least I know someone else's
- 20:04massacre in between or Shihuah. Mikhail Koizer, Akhair Afila
- 20:09Huzo. Costa Rico.
- 20:11Right. That, you know, even if they
- 20:12went to the Costa Rico, they poured it back and forth.
- 20:15Then that's that's OK, because it's not it's not your oh, I'm
- 20:18eating her. You know it's the changes the
- 20:21aim shots of who any odea she drank and she doesn't know, but
- 20:25it's a leash dice because Sheila and he wants to drink from her
- 20:31cup and it's because the hockey though Sheila, you should she
- 20:34doesn't tell her why I drink from it.
- 20:35But the point is it's cure for staff.
- 20:37If he doesn't know, he doesn't know.
- 20:39You know he doesn't know can't hurt him.
- 20:41I mean her over here. That's what applies the matera's
- 20:44leash does because she's just a who she's allowed to drink and
- 20:48finish his cup. The Mashasa Mikois, the hahaha
- 20:52that she drank and left she oh, she left us when she went to the
- 21:00kitchen. It means she she went, she left,
- 21:03she went out, she went out of the house, whatever it was, went
- 21:05to go to sleep, whatever it was. And some say that that would be
- 21:09that, that that's permitted. And, and again, let me think for
- 21:21a second that right, that the point, right.
- 21:24The point is my uncle also try to live about the, you know, you
- 21:27know, eating, let's say eating from, you know, taking from the
- 21:32same bag of chips would be a problem.
- 21:33But you know, the slicing food off, slicing colour, things like
- 21:38that, that's going to be OK. That's not the that's not called
- 21:43anything. And and yeah, I don't know the
- 21:51question about could she can can she ask him to check is it
- 21:54taste? Does it taste good or not or I
- 21:56don't know whatever something Ross could be that would be it's
- 21:59not their heba could be that would be OK.
- 22:02You know that that could be is OK and and they're using like
- 22:09the same toothpaste. I heard the shadow once.
- 22:11I don't know, the same toothbrush, things like that.
- 22:15The car is OK and it's not my fault, unless for some reason
- 22:18the person himself knows. It might be the air girl in a
- 22:22brochure, but that would be that would be OK.