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Never Been Kissed with Jade & Tanner · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: once a year we like to try an experiment at
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  Speaker 1: the Almost Famous Podcast. We like to sit me in
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  Speaker 1: as long as I possibly can. And today is that day.
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  Speaker 1: this episode up and down. But before we get to
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  Speaker 1: the episode today, and before we move on to anything else,
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  Speaker 1: I gotta say it, thank you to everybody out there listening.
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  Speaker 1: The Almost Famous podcast has had the biggest week we've
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  Speaker 1: this if you haven't listened to it yet, the response
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  Speaker 1: has been incredible. I think as a as a team
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  Speaker 1: for that we want to thank you. But we also
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  Speaker 1: want to thank the team who prepped hard to make
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  Speaker 1: sure that it was a respectable podcast because we care
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  Speaker 1: about Caitlin and Sean both and Sean wanted the place
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  Speaker 1: to just talk about what had happened because he'd seen
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  Speaker 1: just last week's breakdown of The Bachelor, which continues to
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  Speaker 1: and we gotta thank you for it. We also have
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  Speaker 1: I don't know who does UM except me. I stayed
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  Speaker 1: the most just pristine, magical places in the world. My
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  Speaker 1: buddies and I went, we filmed this show. We did
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  Speaker 1: all those things I just talked about in a lot more.
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  Speaker 1: It got weird at times, and so please go check
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  Speaker 1: it out. I don't do a lot of TV these days,
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  Speaker 1: but I really enjoy doing the show for First Look.
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  Speaker 1: And so if you're out there and you're listening to
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  Speaker 1: it on the mand uh look first look up, first
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  Speaker 1: look on in b see. Well, hey, Ashley, I can.
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  Speaker 1: Eddie is going to come on here in a little
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  Speaker 1: bit to take over the podcast from me. But until then,
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  Speaker 1: I've got a job to do and I'm pumped to
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  Speaker 1: do it. This year The Bachelor has been exciting to me,
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  Speaker 1: and this episode did not fall short. One of the
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  Speaker 1: reasons is because they're in Thailand. Anybody out there listening,
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  Speaker 1: I'm envious. I'm really really jealous. I thought my season
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  Speaker 1: The Bachelor was a lot of fun and great, and
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  Speaker 1: when you're in it, you don't really realize that you're
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  Speaker 1: not traveling very far. But for me, I traveled to
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  Speaker 1: we've talked about every year, but Mexico City, Jamaica, wor
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  Speaker 1: sa On, Diana best place in the Earth. Uh. We
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  Speaker 1: also went um to Las Vegas and l A and
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  Speaker 1: the Bahamas. But that's nothing compared to what Colton and
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  Speaker 1: his amazing group of women are getting ready to do.
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  Speaker 1: They've traveled all across Asia and Thailand is one of
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  Speaker 1: my dream locations. My two goals to get my scuba
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  Speaker 1: diving license, and Thailand is the first place I want
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  Speaker 1: to scuba dive. So as interesting as that is, I
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  Speaker 1: gotta talk about the episode. The very first day of
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  Speaker 1: this episode, what y'all think we knew it was going
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  Speaker 1: to be Heather at some point. I knew as soon
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  Speaker 1: as her name was said. This day was going to
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  Speaker 1: be really hard to watch. And that's how to explain it.
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  Speaker 1: It's really hard to watch. But we've talked about it
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  Speaker 1: many times. I have this thing where I cannot watch
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  Speaker 1: awkward moments. I put my hands in my face, I
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  Speaker 1: turned the other way, I start talking to myself. I
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  Speaker 1: started talking to myself, and I don't stop when awkward
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  Speaker 1: things are happening on the television. And I was literally
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  Speaker 1: talking to myself the whole entire date with Heather and Colton.
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  Speaker 1: For one reason and one reason alone, she's talking about
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  Speaker 1: how bad she wants to kiss somebody. I get it.
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  Speaker 1: I had my first kiss in the seventh grade. We
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  Speaker 1: talked about the podcast during a terrible movie one of
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  Speaker 1: you had your first kiss. If if you've had a
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  Speaker 1: first kiss and it's an interesting story, please write it
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  Speaker 1: at Ben and Ashley. iHeart media dot com. But anyways,
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  Speaker 1: so Heather is is going on this date with Colden.
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  Speaker 1: She's never been kissed. That's the description underneath her name.
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  Speaker 1: And so she goes on this day and the whole
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  Speaker 1: time you get this sense of they're gonna kiss, they're
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  Speaker 1: gonna kiss, they're gonna kiss, and they don't. And then
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  Speaker 1: they shared noodles together like Lady in the Tramp. They
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  Speaker 1: still don't kiss, and I almost feel and I wish
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  Speaker 1: we could ask him, but I almost feel like Colton
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  Speaker 1: was purposely keeping distance from Heather during this date, like
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  Speaker 1: he didn't even want to give her the hint that
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  Speaker 1: he was leaning in for a kiss. And I don't
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  Speaker 1: know why. It just made it so hard to watch
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  Speaker 1: as the viewer because in the background we have her
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  Speaker 1: voice over saying I want to kiss him so bad,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm looking into his eyes and this could be
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  Speaker 1: the moment I have my first kiss. And then we
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  Speaker 1: see Colton and he's staring up at the sky and
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  Speaker 1: he's staring off over her shoulder, and he's giving her
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  Speaker 1: zero zero kind of signs that he wants to kiss her.
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  Speaker 1: And I honestly, I have in my notes here, I
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  Speaker 1: don't even know what they talked about during the state.
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  Speaker 1: I think I talked to myself more than they talked
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  Speaker 1: on the date. The whole time they're sitting there, they're
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  Speaker 1: looking at each other, looking off from each other until
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  Speaker 1: the very last moment on the show. They're so good.
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  Speaker 1: That's what makes the Bats are so great is they
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  Speaker 1: have this beautiful dinner, this romantic dinner that Colton, you know,
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  Speaker 1: holds off and doesn't kiss her during Heather, I know
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  Speaker 1: in the back of her head as questioning, am I
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  Speaker 1: gonna go one more day without my first kiss? I mean,
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  Speaker 1: who doesn't want their first kiss? Underneath fireworks with a
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  Speaker 1: great looking person underneath the stars and recorded for all
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  Speaker 1: of the world to see. Well, the fireworks go off,
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  Speaker 1: we all start smiling, and the kiss gets made, and
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  Speaker 1: Heather's description underneath her name goes from never being kissed
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  Speaker 1: two She's been kissed. It was an amazing moment the
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  Speaker 1: Bachelor franchise. I thought it was a nice, actually really
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  Speaker 1: sweet moment. I thought it was super captivating. I want
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  Speaker 1: to hear your thoughts, though, you know, I'm sitting here
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  Speaker 1: talking to myself in a studio and I have no
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  Speaker 1: idea if it was actually that interesting of a moment
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  Speaker 1: for me. I thought it was incredibly interesting. Again, please
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  Speaker 1: write us, email us, tweet us, and I think of
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  Speaker 1: your hashtag out almost from this podcast, because we'll love
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  Speaker 1: to read it here on the podcast itself. So Heather
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  Speaker 1: and Colton kiss, and I think it's going well. She's
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  Speaker 1: now a front runner in my book. I'm serious. I
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  Speaker 1: I don't think Heather is going anywhere anytime soon. And
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if this is weird or not to
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  Speaker 1: say no. If it is, just please forgive me. I
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  Speaker 1: thought she did good. Like if I mean, if I'm
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  Speaker 1: having my first kiss on national TV with two people,
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  Speaker 1: or I don't know how many people are around watching
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  Speaker 1: this date on a beach underneath the fireworks of all
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  Speaker 1: this pressure, I would fail, miserable. I'd miss I had. Honestly,
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  Speaker 1: I just missed. I don't have this the swag or
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  Speaker 1: kind of the the poise to lean in and make
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  Speaker 1: contact on that kiss. And she did it. So Heather,
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  Speaker 1: good job for you, everybody, and so can we get
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  Speaker 1: around of applause? Heather? Congratulations? Yeah, really proud of Heather.
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  Speaker 1: Great work. Um, so Heathery're staying around for a while,
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  Speaker 1: which leads us then to the night section. We all
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  Speaker 1: knew it was coming, we had seen previous for this.
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  Speaker 1: One of our favorite people from this on this podcast
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  Speaker 1: and one of really America's favorite people, A Lease starts
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  Speaker 1: breaking down. It's a really interesting how this kind of happens,
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  Speaker 1: because I don't understand it. There was moments during Caitlin's
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  Speaker 1: season of The Bachelorette that I know guys were kind
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  Speaker 1: of wondering, you know, hey, should I be here? Should
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  Speaker 1: I go home? Why am I here? And there's all
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  Speaker 1: different kinds of reasons for it. J J. Lane had
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  Speaker 1: the questioning it because he had had a little daughter
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  Speaker 1: at home, and he's like, I don't need to be
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  Speaker 1: here if this isn't going anywhere. I have a daughter.
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  Speaker 1: I need to be a father too, And I get
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  Speaker 1: that right. Amanda Standing kind of had the same thing.
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  Speaker 1: She asked me a few weeks in, Hey, if this
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  Speaker 1: isn't going where, it just pleasing me home. I have
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  Speaker 1: kids to care for. But I want to see if
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  Speaker 1: this works or not. I don't know really why Alice
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  Speaker 1: was so worried about going home. They actually haven't been
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  Speaker 1: there that long. There's a ton of time left. He
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  Speaker 1: obviously likes her. Her reasoning was that, you know, she
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  Speaker 1: doesn't know how she's going to progress in this relationship
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  Speaker 1: if they don't get time. But the truth is on
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  Speaker 1: this show, here's a wild fact. Okay, everybody else there
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  Speaker 1: as a fan of the show, listen up. Once hometown
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  Speaker 1: dates start, You're halfway through filming. Isn't that crazy? So
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  Speaker 1: this whole time leading up to hometowns, where there's only
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  Speaker 1: four people left, is only half of the time. And
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  Speaker 1: so as a result, the last four women or the
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  Speaker 1: last four men get a ton more time with the
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  Speaker 1: Bachelor Bachelor atte than the week's previous. And so if
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  Speaker 1: a Lase knows this, if she's sitting in this in
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  Speaker 1: her own head and she's nervous and she's freaking out,
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  Speaker 1: and she's going, I like this guy. I want to
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  Speaker 1: see if something can work with this guy. I just
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  Speaker 1: need more time with this guy. If if she just
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  Speaker 1: knew that, if she was around two more weeks, she's
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  Speaker 1: gonna get the time she needs, or at least get
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  Speaker 1: some of the times she needs. But yeah, she can't
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  Speaker 1: do it. She starts breaking down. She goes in, there's
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  Speaker 1: no return for at lease. If I had, if I
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  Speaker 1: had to assume something, I think she was doubting if
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  Speaker 1: if Colton was the guy or not deep down, And
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  Speaker 1: once that starts happening. You kind of start feeling like
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  Speaker 1: you're in a bubble right you're on the show, You're
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  Speaker 1: in a totally different country, you haven't talked to your friends,
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  Speaker 1: family in weeks. You start to panic out a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: I know I did, And so I wonder she was
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  Speaker 1: just going to get Colton's not the guy for me.
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  Speaker 1: No matter what this leads to, it's not going to
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  Speaker 1: be in my favorite It's not gonna be something that
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  Speaker 1: I need or want right now in life, and so
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  Speaker 1: I just need to go. And with that, I would say, Okay, good,
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  Speaker 1: you know, don't waste your time and don't waste Colton's time,
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  Speaker 1: But she framed it with the fact that she just
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  Speaker 1: wasn't getting enough time with Colton, and I just have
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  Speaker 1: a hard time really honestly buying that as being the
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  Speaker 1: only reason. But you know what, She's gone, and I'm
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  Speaker 1: sad for I really liked the lease for Colton. I
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  Speaker 1: thought she was good. I thought she brought the best
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  Speaker 1: in him. I thought it was one of her date
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  Speaker 1: with Colton was one of the most braw moments on
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  Speaker 1: this show so far this season. I guess my question then,
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  Speaker 1: to everybody out there listening, would be. Do you think
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  Speaker 1: there's anybody else on the show question that they should
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  Speaker 1: be going home? You know, we haven't seen it a lot,
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  Speaker 1: uh in previous seasons of The Bachelor. I had Lauren
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  Speaker 1: Bargo home early during my season because I just don't
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  Speaker 1: think she was into me. Um. But previous season the
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  Speaker 1: bacheld really don't have people leaving on their own halfway through.
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  Speaker 1: I gotta respect somebody that does, though, mostly because there's
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  Speaker 1: a lot of pressure on you to stay. But if
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  Speaker 1: somebody can look at The Bachelor about her and say
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  Speaker 1: this just isn't for me, I've got to respect them.
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  Speaker 1: So from here on out, Elise will no longer be
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  Speaker 1: on our screens. And we liked her, We liked her
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  Speaker 1: a lot. The question looming is does anybody else in
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  Speaker 1: this season of The Bachelor want to go home? So
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna bring uh one of the most recent Bachelor
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  Speaker 1: contestants onto this podcast to ask her. Uh. Courtney, who
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  Speaker 1: was released last week from the episode, is gonna come
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  Speaker 1: almost come on the Almost Famous podcast and talk to
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  Speaker 1: on one of the most captivating figures from this season
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: of The Bachelor. She recently has gone home. It was
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: not an easy ride for her, and I want to
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: hear what she thinks about at least going home early
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: as well. She might be the best expert at not
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: getting enough time with Colton. She spoke out against it
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: during her time on the show. Courtney, from this season
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: of The Bachelor, How you doing? Hello? Are you? I
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: am fantastic? Thanks for coming on with famous podcast. It's
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: just me today. Ashley is taking She went to the
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: super Bowl this weekend, so she's just tired. She's gonna
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: come in later. She had a good time with Jared.
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: She was here. I was like a few of the Superpertti. Yeah,
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: so they celebrated, well the pats one. But I am
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: here in studio to day talking to you about this
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: week's episode on The Bachelor. We just broke down the
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: first half half of the episode, leaving off when with
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: when Elise has gone home on her own accord. Uh,
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: She like Colton know that she wasn't getting enough time
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: with him. Courtney. For anybody out there listening who doesn't
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: maybe know who you are, can't associate in their heads
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: while they're driving who you may have been on the show.
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: Could you give a brief background of of your time
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: on this season of The Bachelor, what fans would best
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: know you about, And then I'll ask you a couple
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: of questions about where you think Elise's head is at. Yeah.
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: So I'm Courtney has on season twenty three in the
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: season of The Bachelor, and I really went home. I
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: have a pretty good experience them, but towards the end,
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: you know, just like a Lease that was experiencing not
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: getting enough time with Colton, and you know that really
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: just to you in your head, and so from there,
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: I'll be honest, I kind of had a spiral and
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: it ended in a little bit of dramas other girls,
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: and you know, ultimately and I went home. You know
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: what was it a week ago? Uh? We saw an
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: iconic scene where you're sitting on a couch and you're saying,
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: I need more time with cold. I need more time
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: with cold. But you're not getting up off the couch,
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: and I think fans in and people like, we're going
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: just get off the couch and go talk to him.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: Where was your heart at was it was hard to
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: get up to talk to him? Where you nervous, kind
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: of be honest, now it's all done. What was your
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: where is your head at? Yeah, so a lot of
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: people have made comments in the batta and that's the
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: most obvious answer. So if I want time to up
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: and talk to him, um, you know, obviously it's not.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: Everything that is filmed is shown, and there are many
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: times where I got up in attempt to speak to him.
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: But after a while of that, I kind of, I guess,
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: started to get in my own head and I don't
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: really deal with disappointment well, and so I through dealing
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: with it, I kind of just gave up. I can
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: honestly say that after a few attempts, I just gave up.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: And I should have kept going. I should have really
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: fought for it if I wanted it. I hate a
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: fight for it, so I didn't do that. According before
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: we get into talking about Elise, because obviously it's the
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: most recent thing that had happened, and we were just
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: talking about it before you came on, I do want
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: to dig a little deeper, if you don't mind into this,
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: because what our listeners love to listen to is kind
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: of the behind the scenes of everything, and and and
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: obviously you know there's a lot going on, there's a
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: lot of women competing for Colton's heart when you want
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: I guess at what stage and this whole experience did
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: you start to say, I'm just done, Like this isn't
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: for me, I'm not going to fight for this anymore
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: because I'm going to make an assumption and please tell
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: me if I'm wrong that when you went on The Bachelor,
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: when you showed up tonight one, you were totally committed
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: to trying to see if this thing could work for
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: as long as possible. I was there, you know, all love,
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: and I hadn't had the best day of gating experience
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: outside of that, so I was like, no, this is
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: kind of my last jot and I really want to
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: get this my all. And I felt like I really
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: really did, and then I just kind of got to
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: hired towards the end. It was really hard to keep
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: that momentum going when you're literally fighting with so many
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: other girls just to get a moment And it's just like,
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: you know, once you start developing a relationship, do you think, well,
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: you know we're connecting. If you like me to like,
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: you need to show me some attention. And I didn't
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: feel like I was getting out. It was just me
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: and I kind of got tired of it. Yeah, I
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: get that. I mean, you know, when I was on
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor at I felt that you start to feel weird.
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: You don't know when there's also this weird game where
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: you don't know when to interrupt and when not too
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: because you don't want to be the person that's annoying
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: and you don't want to take away from an experience
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: that maybe the bachelor bachelorette is is enjoying. But then
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: as a bachelor, I will say, and I put in
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: my notes last week, you almost are just trying to
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: survive for the first couple of weeks because there's so
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: much going on around you, and there's so many beautiful
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: people around you, and there's so many people wanting your attention,
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: and there's so many different conversations having that you're having
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: that Ben's going, okay, I need to step away. To
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: spend time with any person gets really difficult because you're
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: just trying to get through yourself. Yeah. Does that make sense?
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah it does. I mean I think it's a weird
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: balance for both parties. Like, for example, on my thought,
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: you know, I could have thought harder. But at the
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: same time, I'm living with all the other girls, and
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: you don't you really don't want to like rub anyone
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: the wrong lampissed everyone off because he's spent a ton
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: of time with them too. So it's like if you're
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: constantly fighting for his attention and like trying to be
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: number one and be at the front, Yeah, you might
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: be getting his eye, but when you know, as soon
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: as you go back to the mansion, there's a bunch
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: of girls that don't like you. So it's it's hard.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: It's hard to do, it really is. Yeah, but you know, Corney,
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: so you've left. Uh if you know, if it's the
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: best decision or not. You you were sent home. You
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: didn't got did not get to spend a lot of
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: time with Colton. Uh. And everybody out there is asking,
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: We're going a lot of emails about it. What is
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: the overall feeling of the women in the house about
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: Colton to this point, at the point that I think
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: everyone was at the point in the relationship where you know,
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: feelings were established, connections were established, and they were trying to,
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: you know, all just get to that next level. Regardless
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: of what point that they were at and so I
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: think sport to us when you don't know what the
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: next step is for your relationship. But what I mean
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: the women in the house are just totally smitten with them.
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: They're they're all in, yeah, everybody, everybody you know, he
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: knows that you like him by now, an idea that
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: you know Heath and he by now. But it's it's
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: where to go from that? So what is going on
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: with the least then? So let's bring it back to
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: what we're talking about before you came on and we
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: need your expertise. You're now like the host seat if
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: you can and sit down beside me, just like Ashley Wood,
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: why go home? If you're interested in Colton, you're trying
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: to progress your relationship, Ord, and you weren't sit home
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: by Colton. You're doing it on your own Accord. What
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: is she thinking? You just get in your head. There's
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: a factors going on in that moment, and it's like,
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: I really like this guy and I really think this
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: could work. But at the same time, I'm watching him
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: with I think they were at this point the goal,
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: So I'm watching him with twelve other goals experienced the
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: exact same thing. And it's like she had her one
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: on one earlier in the season and so she had
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: an amazing nothing time with him, and now you just
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: have to sit back and you're part of the group experience,
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: and you know, watch other people really gets developed. When
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: you get in your head and you're like, well, I
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: think he kind of likes her more. You know, maybe
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: he's been so this time for why am I even here?
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: You know, it just actually work and you just it's
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: a spiral down the rabbit hole. At that point you
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: maybe you just said it best. You get in your
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: own head and you start the question everything because Corney
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: listeners out there don't know, uh, is that this show?
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: I would explain it is this, and again, please disagree
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: with me. Actually always does and she's usually right. Um,
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: It's not what I would describe as fun to do.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: It's not like there's moments of fun. It's enjoyable at times,
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: there's cool memories and experiences made, but for for a
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: lot of the first couple of weeks, it's tiring. It's hard,
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: and you're trying to build this relationship and maybe a
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: future with somebody that you don't really know where they
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: stand with anybody else. Exactly. Yeah, it's emotionally taxing and
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: for me, basically tracking we had a lot of very
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: physical dates, so most of the time I was just tired.
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: It was extremely fun but also so exhausting, and so
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: it's like at that point you're working off of like
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: three brain cells and you're like, oh my goodness, what
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: am I doing? I like this guy, but a bunch
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: of other women like Cato when you just went on
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: the s one with her, and he's like her more
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: than it's Tracy. It his crazy Courtney. Uh, you said
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  Speaker 1: something best and and it's exhausting both physically, emotionally and mentally.
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  Speaker 1: That sounds amazing. What do you study? You hate traveling
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  Speaker 1: because you loved about at home like I loved. What
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: was the very first thing, Courtney, you did when you
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: got back home off the show? Oh? I slept for
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: like two weeks. It's it's it's really is crazy. Okay.
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: We've asked every person this who has been released from
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: Colton's season of the Bachelor and then came on the
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: almost famous podcast Are you interested at all in Bachelor
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: in Paradise? Okay? The crazy thing is before going on
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: the show, I've seen maybe twenty minutes total of you know,
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: The Bachelor, and i'd heard of Paradise, but I still
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: don't understand what it is the once. Yeah, I be
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: down so far. It sounds pretty cool, but you know,
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: I haven't seen it yet, so I don't know. I'm
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: telling you, Courtney, and from what I understand, if you
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: struggle with not enough time during the Bachelor Bachelorette pared
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: ice is the answer to it. Everybody's together all the
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: time on a beach, eating, drinking, hanging out, relaxing and
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: trying to build relationships. Corney, I think you'd be the
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: best person to do that, right Um, Cordney, I really
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: appreciate you coming on. I know it was short notice
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: and you dig gree Thanks for giving me some insight
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: into a lease and where the women are out on
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: the show. Honestly, we'll miss you during the season of
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor, but we appreciate you coming on almost for
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: this podcast, no problem. Thank you so much for having
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: me talk all right. The group data this week was
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: a date in the jungle, which I thought was incredible.
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: There's nothing I like more during this show is than
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: when people have to kind of get dirty or they
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: have to get out their comfort zones. They have to
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: sweat a bit. They can't just look beautiful all the time,
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: except all of them still did. I mean that Colton
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: is very lucky man, just a very lucky man. But
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: they're lucky people as well, because Colton looked good also,
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: and they go into the jungle to try to survive.
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: You see personalities come out. Hannah By shows up and
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: she eats a worm or whatever that was to impress Colton.
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: He throws it over his shoulder. I do have one
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: comment about all of this. I'm not throwed with cold
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: nighting in the worm. It adds the Bachelor. If you're
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: gonna ask a contestant to do something, you've got to
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: be willing and able and ready to do it yourself.
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: The best thing Coldon could have done there. Since she
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: ate it, we're to say, well, I have to eat
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: it too. Now, if you're gonna do that for me,
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna do that for you. I wonder if Colton
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: would have done that for some of the other girls. Maybe,
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: I don't know, just maybe a sign. I'm just saying,
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: maybe he's not as in the Hannah by, but I
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: doubt that is the case. It kind of got weird.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I didn't love that the girls left
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: the day and went to the hotel to get burgers
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: and and and fries and drinks. I just I don't know.
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: I thought it was like funny. It was a good joke,
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: but I think I would have been frustrated if I
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: was colding and he didn't show frustration. He's a lot
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: better guy than I am, but I would have been
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: frustrating because you ask these women to do a date,
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: you want to have a shared experience with them. You
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: don't want them to take the easy way out, because
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: this is kind of like a sign for life. That's
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: what I'm seeing. This is these group dates, you know,
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: are weird and there's a lot of people and it's
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: sometimes confusing, But these dates, you're always looking, as the
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: bachelor bachelotte for those little things that kind of will
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: point to you on how they'll deal with real life.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: And yes, you know it's funny. I'm taking a huge
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: stretch here. But for them to leave and just go
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: to the hotel and get burgers and fries, I thought
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: that was a cop out. I'll say I thought it
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: was a cop out. I did not think it was fair.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: It wasn't fair to the other women who who dug
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: deep and tried to make this date the best thing possible.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: I also will say this and tell me that I'm wrong.
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: I would love to not be wrong on this though.
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: When you dive deep into experiences, the memories are made
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: in those moments. When you walk away from those moments
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: to take the easy ways out, you'll never remember those time.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: Then you just get a good giggle and the laugh.
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: That's all. You're good at that. But the woman that stayed,
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: the woman that got their hands dirty, the woman that
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: held the snakes, and that that stuck their hands in holes,
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: and that tried to find food. They're gonna be talking
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: about that for years to come. You know, they're gonna
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: be doing the Remember when we were in the jungle
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: and I touched a snake. The girls that went back
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: to the hotel, they don't have those memories, they don't
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: have at all, And I think that's sad. We need
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: to dive deep a little bit, get of our comfort zones,
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: take some experiences and make memories out of them. So
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: I was I was not a fan. Was not a
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: fan of them doing the cop out. So that's my take.
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: Do you agree or disagree? Let me know. I would
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: love for you to argue with me on this, but
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: please tell me what you think. The night portion the
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: group dates always get interesting. There's emotion, uh, there's drama involved.
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: It's it's always crazy to me that all these women
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: can spend all day together and all these man can
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: spend all day together doing something wild and weird, and
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: then it gets the night portion, the cocktail portion, when
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: things are supposed to be relaxed and beautiful and fun,
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: and that's where the drama comes out. And it looks
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: like the drama did not go away. During this evening
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: of the group date, the girls are all about calling
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: out in Nicole. Is she there for the wrong reasons?
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: Did she really say what the girls said that she said?
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, it's always amazing to me that anybody
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: would ever lie on this show. Why would you ever lie?
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: There's cameras around all the time. At some point, either
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor Bachelor It's going to see it, or all
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: the viewers are going to see it. They're gonna see
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: right through the whole thing. It's wild to me that
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: you would even try to stretch a true So who
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: do we believe here? I mean, it just seems like
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: that game of telephone, right when when one girl tells somebody,
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: one guy sells somebody, and they tell the next, and
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: the next, and next, and then before it gets the
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: very end, the whole story has changed. Try it at
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: your next Bachelor viewing party. Try this. Get all twenty
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: in a room after a glass of wine. If you're
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: over one and then you tell one person a secret
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: or a story, and have them tell the next person,
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: and then have them tell the next person. Then when
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: it gets to the end, hear what the story was.
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: When it's told, it will be completely different. Names will change,
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: events will change. The whole story won't even you won't
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: even recognize it. And this is what's happening here, it feels.
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: And so here's a piece of advice, because I know
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: we have somebody out there listening to this podcast who
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: will go on this next season of The Bachelorette. I
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: just know it. Guys love this podcast, love it. They
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: lit'ten do it all the time. Gentlemen, don't lie. If
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: you're gonna do some weird and sketchy stuff, just say
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: you've done some weird and sketchy stuff. It comes off
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: a lot better and it makes it a lot easier
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: to watch. And I don't have to sit here and
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: be so confused at every cocktail party because this game
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: of telephone continues to be played. Uh, you know, other
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: than the coold situation that that evening portion didn't stand
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: out to me much. But Hannah b got the rose,
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: so you get for eating the worms. Just telling you
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: what you get for eating the worms and going deep
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: and making those memories. Somebody's gonna notice. Colton did, and
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: he gave Miss Alabama the she's around for another week,
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: and you know what, it's The Hannab storyline has been
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: kind of quiet since Kaylan and in the Hannab situation
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: has been resolved. I mean now it just feels like
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: she's trying to build a relationship with Colton, but it's not.
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: There isn't This undertone of of angst or jealousy will
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: be interesting to the playout because now it's getting very serious.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: The women are getting down to the final couple of
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: numbers and emotions are going to continue to build, relationship,
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: going to continue build. Feelings are Gonnatine build. I would
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: say this, I honestly had strong feelings for my last
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: six people. Yeah, I mean beck At Tilly was in
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: that group, Amanda Standing, Emily Ferguson, uh, Kayla, Lauren, and Jojo.
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: I mean those women mean a lot to me. Even
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: some women passed that, but those women are women. I
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: really thought I knew. So as we start really breaking
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: down to just the final few people here, just know
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: that the those relationships are very serious. Beck and I
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: to this day are still friends because of the show,
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: because of what we shared during this experience. Then, if
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: you haven't yet listened to Becca's podcast with Tanya scrubbing in,
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: it's really good. Award winning, they say, People's Choice award
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: this year, So make sure you listen to that. So
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: I heard radio podcast. Well, but anyways, moving on to
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: the final one on one date, the one we've all
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: been waiting for, the one we've all talked about, the
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: one on one date with Cassie. They went out on
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: a boat. He says the commonly used phrase on the show,
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: he wants to take their relationship to the next level.
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: My question for you all what does that mean? What
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: is that Colton? What does that mean? What do you
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: want to take the next level? Do you want to
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: get to know her better? Uh? Do you want to
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: spend more time with her? Do you see this being
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: something that's uh, you know, gonna be a solid foundation
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: for the future. Do you see her potentially being your wife?
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: Which I think walking out of the state we all
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: felt like it could be. He did something pretty cool.
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: He took her to her own private island. It was
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: like a sampile in the middle of the o and
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: the boat left, and here's the truth. At that moment,
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: it made me really anxious. There's very few things in
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: life to get me more nervous than being in the
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: middle of the ocean with nobody else around. There's movies
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: made about that, right, the storms come in, the waves hit,
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: you get lost at sea. I mean this was obviously
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: a little more romatic. Um very well done, but it
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: made me very anxious. I would say, Okay, if there
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: was one common word I would use for this this episode,
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: it was anxiety. I had anxiety about a least leaving hiding,
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: anxiety over the telephone game on the group day. I
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: have anxiety over people stick in their hands and holes
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: in the middle of the jungle and pulling out twelve
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: foot snakes of that were slimy, it's weird. And then
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: I have anxiety about them getting stuck on an island together. However,
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: I think it's a little foreshadowing about what's to come.
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: Colt and Cassie are going to be on their own
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: little island together for a long time. Who knows, just
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: my guess, walth Wayne see talk about it next week.
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: With that, I gotta throw this over to Ashley I've
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: taken up way too much of her time. She's anxious
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: and ready to speak to you all. A well. Everything
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: good in Bachelor Nation. I love you, I care about y'all.
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: Keep listening, appreciate you for the best week so far
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: in the almost famous history. I'm out and I've been been. Okay, Hi, guys,
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: welcome to Ashley's half of the almost famous Week five
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: of Colton Season. I am here with my friends Jane Tanner,
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: who took the trip up from San Juan Capistrado, California,
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: the home of Janner Manner Part. How's the new house, guys,
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: I mean, I've been there. It's lovely beautiful. You've seen it. Yeah, No,
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: it's we're starting to get unpacked. We're mostly impact. It's
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: still boxed as we've lived there for like a month
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: and a half. You had the most amazing couch the
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: entire world. That was our splurge. Yeah. We spend most
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: of you know, once you have a kid, you spend
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: most of your time on a couch, just kind of
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: lounding ground. So we figured it was a sound investment.
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: We don't need fancy cars anymore, none of that couch. No,
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: although it's a white couch, and Tanner's very like freaked
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: out in particular about it. So if like Emmy eats
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: she has these little kid cheetos, if he eats, if
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: she eats one, he's like freaking out. He's like, oh
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: my god, the couch. I'm like, she's a child like
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: you know that, right? Yeah, And you're also not okay
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: with the dogs being on there and that can't stick
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: and you gotta let the puppy snuggle on the couch
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: a different couch. Well, you say that it has that
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: technology where it doesn't stain. Yeah, but I don't want
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: to test it little test it. It's okay, you have
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: to live on it. He's so o c d about it.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: It's driving me crazy. Is that What's like the thing
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: that you've bickered about the most since moving into this
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: new house? Yeah? I feel like moving is up time
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: where couples bigger. Yeah, just it's in real messiness. That's
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: what drives me the most crazy. But I've tried to
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: be more lenient, you know, given Jade's current state. Yeah,
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: so you're pregnant. You talked about it, like, where is
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: this len he's talking about? I can't yell mean when
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: you're pregnant. You have to be nice. Although I was
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: so sick like the last two months, and Tanner would
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: be like, I know you're sick, but what about me,
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: Like I'm dealing with us and I'm like, this isn't
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: how it works. It probably it was a bad time
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: for having to move in. It was also go through
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: the worst part of mornings. It was so hard. I
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: think that was what it was most frustrating for him
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: is because we haven't been settled quite into our house yet.
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: But I was like, I was like in zombie life,
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: you know, and I'm finally feeling better. So okay, well
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: that's really good. Yeah, so, uh, the elephant in the room.
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: There's no elephant in our room right now, but people
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: think that there might be because like the big I
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: had no idea that Bachelor Nation was going to pick
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: up on the fact that our wedding is in August
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: and that your guys, baby number two is do in August.
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: I thought nobody was going to put les together. It
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: was like immediately, I know, how do people know this
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: stuff that they keep notes? Like do they have chalkboards
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: in their house that keeps I don't know. But our
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: wedding isn't in California. So basically, Jade, you would need
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: to deliver early in order for you to you probably
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: can't go. That's really the bottom line. Jade has to
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: be so early, so early. We've talked about scenarios, so
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: I think I would be comfortable, Like if I gave birth,
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: say two weeks before your wedding, then I think I
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: would go. But anything after that, like if it was
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: like the week before, I'd let Tanner go. If it's
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: the week of yeah, I know, like sorry, I feel
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: so bad. We know. The minute we found out we
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: were pregnant, that was like one of the first things
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: that came out of my mouth was like, but Astley
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: and Jared's wedding, It's funny because I we've joked about
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: you guys trying not to conceive during a certain period
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: of time. It was all honestly jokes. Some people took
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: them a little bit too far. Of course, it was
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: like would we have preferred, Sure, we want you guys
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: at the wedding, But it's not as if we were like,
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: don't you dare do any funny business during those months.
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: You know, I wasn't like checking in on you on
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: the right. Hey, I've got to take it when I
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: can get it. So tell us about the moment when
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: you found out you were pregnant and when you started
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: to suspect that you were. Um. Well, I had an idea,
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: and it was actually when Tanner and I were moving
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: across country and we were on our road trip. It
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: was like a ten day road trip, and I had
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: these pregnancy tests, and he knew what I was supposed to, like,
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: maybe you know it would be at the time where
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: I would get a positive pregnancy test, and he kept
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: asking me and asking me and asking me. But this
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: time around, I wanted to do something really special and
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: surprise him. You'll get this actuley. So I wanted to
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: do like a reenactment of the Full House scene. We're
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: Becky has all the baby food on the little tiny
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: carrots and little tiny potatoes and was trying to tell
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: him at dinner that she's pregnant with a baby. Tanner
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: way over his head. He's like, I don't even understand
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: that reference. Would you have known, um, you didn't Watchfull
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: House that intently. So I wanted to do something cute
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: like that, but he was so impatient and he was
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: like on me and on me and on me. Well,
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: I knew she was late at the stage of the game,
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: did Yeah, after trying for ten months. I mean, you
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: know your wife's populations, utility schedule, you know, let's get
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: get reminders on your phone. You had all kinds of
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: stuff like that. So yeah, I knew we were like
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: you were like two days late. I just wanted to
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: know the test. Let's do the damn thing. Let's figure
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: it out, you know, said this box had three tests
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: in it. So one day we were I don't know,
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: we were an aspen at a hotel, and I woke
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: up in the morning early before he did, and I
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: snuck into his bathroom and I pet on the test
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: and it was positive. And I wanted to surprise him,
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: so I took an other test out and I ran
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: it under the sink, so it was negative. And then
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: I put the positive test back in the wrapper and
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: flips it upside down, so it only looked like I
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: had taken one test, because I knew he was going
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: to look, and sure enough he did, and because I
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: showed him the negative because like this bies me time,
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: I can plan a surprise. Yeah, but I thought she
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: was like lying. I just had a gut feeling, so
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: I went and checked the box, but there was like
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: the appropriate amount of rappers and test there. Maybe maybe
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: not moved on. So the next day he's asking me
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: again to take another test, and he's like stalking me,
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: like literally behind me, like asking me. And finally I
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: just got so mad because he's ruining my surprise, and
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: I take out the positive test and I like slap
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: it on his chest. I was like, fine, I'm pregnant
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: and started bawling and he starts laughing and just like
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: what said. I don't remember. I think you grabbed me
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: and I'm crying and you're laughing, and that's pretty much
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: what happened. That's so funny. That's classic Tanner's classic Jade
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: and Tanner just like you can't let her dude like patience. Yeah,
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: I wanted to do one of those cute little like
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: you to be pinterest e mom surprises. I ruined a
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: great content, cost us a lot of life, Jade. I
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: love the full house idea, Jared down the mic. How
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: do you want to find out when we're pregnant? Do
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: you want? That's a that's a loaded question just to
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: come into creative. Want to do it together. I want
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: to find out together our firstborn. Yeah, I definitely want
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: to find out together. Is that what you guys did together?
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: Right now, buddy, because that's why I'm here right now
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: talk about a rating, scrap breaking mirrors on the podcast,
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: we get pregnant before the wedding? Goodness, Ashley, it will be. Yeah.
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: Could you imagine being pregnant during the wedding? Were you? No,
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: Harley was? She was like three weeks pregnant. She didn't
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: even know. She took a pregnancy test in Mexico after
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: they got married. Yeah, I know, that's so crazy. They
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: found out basically on their honeymoon. Yeah. Aren't you guys
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: doing a YouTube channel two? Yeah, we just started now
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: that we have all this free time on our hands, Like,
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: put my job and I moved out here, so I'm
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: like an official Instagram husband. Now, welcome to the life.
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: But yeah, I have to tone in my camera skills,
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: YouTube editing skills, all that. So we're gonna start doing
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: weekly videos just random stuff. Yeah. I saw that. You
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: guys just posted one about was it about the story
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: how you tried to surprise him? Yeah, that's what I
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: saw that. Yeah, so we'll get the full disclosure on that.
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: We just got a tease today. Huh. People are gonna
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: want to know what Instagram husband means out there. They're
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: gonna they're gonna say a job. So explain what your
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: job is, Hanner. So in Kansas City, I was the
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: GM of a car dealership, but I just did to
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: move out here just to spend more time with my girls.
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: And my new job is an Instagram husband. And if
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: you guys, you guys are obviously all Bachelor fans out there,
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: you may have noticed. I know that we we do
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: a few ads here and there, and you know that
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: that pays the bills a little bit. Um. So thank
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: you all for clicking, liking, and swiping up um. And
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: with that comes the responsibility of taking all these other
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: photos of your wife basically in pretty outfits, and taking photos,
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: taking photos of your kids and just that kind of stuff.
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: You're constantly creative, though, like you're always coming up with
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: something funny and out of the box to put emmy
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: into a funny situation. How how do you make the
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: wheels turn so much? The job? You gotta get those likes, baby.
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: He takes it very seriously, like he so we made
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: this YouTube video and he like sent me little notes
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: of like what he wanted me to cover. He's like,
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: make sure you take some of this and take film
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: some of that, and like he's already like a director
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: in his head. That's awesome. Tanner is the Steven Spielberg
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: of the Bachelor Family. So is that the only thing
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: you guys doing on YouTube? Well, I mean you you
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: may have seen us recently do some other things. Okay, Well,
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: there may or may not be a uh something dropping
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: pretty soon that includes all four of us that may
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: or may not be on YouTube, that may or may
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: not be uh some production behind it, something to do
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: with our lives usably a little show about our lives,
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: keeping up with the Janner and Ashley, keeping up with
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: the Janner and Joshually, I don't think it's called that.
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: We don't know what it's called yet. Well, we don't
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: know what it is yet, but just a little tease,
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: let's pay attention. It's a lot of fun. Yeah, it
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: has been a lot of fun. So we're excited. We've
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: put Jared in a lot of uncomfortable situations. I'm pretty
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: much the guinea pig of the entire thing. Thus far,
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: It's like, Hey, who would be dumb enough to want
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: to do this? Jared? Hey, Jared, what are you doing tomorrow? Yeah? Sure,
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: why not, let's do it. I know a lot of
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: you guys probably you probably never thought twice about it,
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: But you probably also didn't see enough footage from Jared
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: performing in Chippendales. And there's a reason for that, because
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: you're going to see a lot more. Oh that's exactly
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: what the people want to see me with my shirt off.
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: I'm sure they'd love every second of that. And all
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: the prepping Jared did. I know then? Pretty much. My
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: prep was not eating for about two weeks and working out.
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: It was it was stupid because well one day he
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: got really lightheaded. Well what happened was I procrastinated. I
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: told myself I was gonna work out, you know, I
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: was gonna eat healthy and work out consistently for about
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: two months leading up to the show. So I felt
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: confident enough to be up there with the rest of
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: the Chippendales. Right, they have the what is that the
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: wax board abs all that good stuff. They're they're very
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: much in shape, and I didn't want to stand out,
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: So you stood out buddy. What happened was the show
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: was in early December. Of course November comes around, It's
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: my birthday, I mean, cake, I'm having a good time,
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: Thanksgiving roles around. All of a sudden, I noticed that
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: it's the end of November and my show is in
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: two weeks, and I've gained five pounds at this point
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: instead of losing any weight. So what I did was,
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: you know what you're supposed to do, which is not
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: eat for about two weeks, work out every day. I
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: remember the day of the show, I was in the
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: green room and there was weights and I hadn't eaten
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: all day and I'm just you know, curling or doing
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: push ups, trying to get that last pump in there.
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: And I stood up and I the room started circling
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: a little bit, and I thought to myself, I'm gonna
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: pass out five minutes before the show because I was
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: an idiot and procrastinated and didn't work out for this
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: stupid thing. It wasn't stupid, it was fantastic, actually, but
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: it well worked out. I went on the show, the
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: adrenaline kicked in and I ate shake shack afterwards. So
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: everything we had no idea. I'm not gonna tell you
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: that I know, but it was talking because you killed
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: it up there. Anyway, We've gotten so off topic, so
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: we have to get back on topic and talk about
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: this week's episode of The Bachelor. UM lots to say.
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: It was a great episode. It was my favorite so far.
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: My standout moment was how weird at Lease was it was?
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: It was weird. I didn't even understand. It was just
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: out of left field. All of a sudden. She was like,
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: I can't date you when you're dating other women. And
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: it's just like that moment where you're like, show are
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: you on? Have you never watched before? The entire ten
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: minutes of that that part was like this woman obviously
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: has never watched the show before. Because she was expecting
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: to get a one on one day two weeks after
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: she got her other one on one. I was like,
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: at least there are ten other girls in the house.
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: I haven't had a know you got two at this
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: at this point, to be insane, that was shocked. I
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: thought at least was in the top six. Me too,
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: I thought she could be Bachelor at material, especially since
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: she was one of the front runners who was also older.
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: She was so cool on that day where they had
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: to talk about their first like, she was just so
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: confident and she killed it on her one on one
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, I like she was
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: going to lose it. Give us some I'm losing it.
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: I feel I feel personal personally hurt from what at
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: least did by leaving the show, because I wanted her
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: to become bachelorette if she didn't, if Colton didn't pick her,
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: obviously because she was, She's elegant, she's beautiful, she would
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: have made a great lead. Also, she would have been
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: would she have been the first redhead? Not to like
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: bring that up, but just random tead. But the whole
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: thing is that she lost all that eloquence in this scene.
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: She just looks seemed frazzled, and she like she was
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: actually about to have a mental like she was going
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: to have a pain. Well, the reason I feel personally
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: hurt is because I know that she couldn't handle the show.
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: She couldn't handle the situation she was being thrown into.
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: But the problem becomes, she knew exactly situation she was
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: getting herself into. Now here's the she had never seen
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: the show before, which is fine and I'm but This
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: is why I feel personally hurt about it, because I
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: liked her so much that I wanted her to be
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: the next lead. Now she's not gonna be the next lead,
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: and she's definitely not gonna be on Paradise. I mean,
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: could you imagine going back if she couldn't handle the
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: Bachelor of the way it was, could you imagine her
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: be on Paradise. She's gonna be like with Paradise doesn't come,
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: you know, the the force to get engaged at the
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: end of it. You don't need to feel like you
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: have to get engaged and just date around, date one
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: person the whole time. Theoretically then too, yeah, and spend
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: seven with that person that's going to be rarely ever
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: works out that way. I mean, you guys know Paradise,
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: it's it's you guys got lucky. But it's ever changing
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: and there's always something to Oh. I talk about it
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: all the time. Like the show has changed so much
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: since our season compared to how the show is now,
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: Like it's way more about dating and like shifting who
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: you're dating, And it wasn't like that on our season.
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: It was very much like you look down on people
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: if they were like Oh, I'm going to go on
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: a date with this person and this person. Remember Joe
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: got roasted. Yeah, Joe did is nothing today that's encouraged. Yes,
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: everybody talks before the show now, and this poor guy
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: was just poor Joe Bailey because it was the first
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: time anybody did it. You know, he's a trendsetter. You know,
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: we have a segment here called who the heck are You?
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: And we've never had Joe Bailey on the podcast, and
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: I think we need to bring him back. Give me
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: that Rose hey Rose before bros. You know what I mean? Uh, Well,
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: I think you guys should definitely have Joe Bailey to
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: do this entire podcast because he's a fascinating man, to
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: the point where I want to see him on this
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: season of Paradise. I want a redemption story for Joe Bailey.
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: I want him and Cupcake to make reappearances. It's so
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: weird they haven't had both of them back. Well, Cupcake
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: may or may not be taken right now now, but
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: if he's not this summer. Agreed, But I think there's
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: so many quote unquote random contestants come on Paradise. Bring
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: back Joe Bailey. Let's get let's get this Kentucky boy
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: back in here. You know, the original Bachelor in Paradise villain. Yeah,
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: he was the phrase. Like Stanner said, he he set
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: that trend. He talked to the girl before Paradise. He
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: went on there, he lied about talking to her, and
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: then he tried to fool everybody got villainized, and it
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: really was the first of his kind. And now it's
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: like it's like a guy getting thrown in jail in
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: Colorado for smoking pot and then still sitting there today
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: as everyone does it legally. Yeah, that is the best
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: analogy I've ever heard. Okay, let's get back to a
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: lease now for a second. What I was so confused
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: is that the initial point of her conversation was I can't.
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: I'm feeling like I need more time with you. I
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: am so falling for you, and I'm like freaking out
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: that I have to share you. That was the initial conversation, right,
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: and then it's somehow evolved into I must leave, Like
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: do you think she was looking for us answer from Colton?
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: And then when she didn't get it, she's like, I'm
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: out Or it was her intention going into this to
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: bounce like a Caitlin Shawn Booth thing where it's like,
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: either tell me you're the one and if I'm not
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: the one, that I'm going to go home if you
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: don't say that out loud. Possibly, do you guys think
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: it was a little premature to ask Colton to do that.
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: There's still a lot of tell her that she's the one. Yeah,
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: there's still lots of people left there. I mean, let's
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: slow your role, wait till at least it's like seven
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: or eight before we start getting like ultimatum, Like yeah, yeah,
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: why didn't she wait until like six? I can see
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: her being like, I can't take you home to my
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: family until I like and unless I really know that
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: there's a possibility here. But it was just like a
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: very weird um. It went from one topic I thought
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: to another zero real quickly. Yeah. I just think there
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: was something way deeper that we didn't get to see
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: that was happening within her because it made it made
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: zero sense. No, yeah, unless we there was something cut
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: out significantly, there could have something cut out. But I
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: also feel like perhaps Alicea is just that kind of
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: girl who flees when she's feeling good about a guy.
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: What do you mean by that? I feel like maybe
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: she self sabotages. Self sabotage is a good relationship. Here's
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: the thing. Her whole thing was that she is Did
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: she say she was in love with him? Okay, but
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: she liked him to the point couldn't find a flaw
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: in their relationship. She wished that there was a flaw,
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: that she could blame the flaw for her leaving, so
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: it was so good she had to leave. Yes, exactly.
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: Girls needs to tell me that all the time. Interesting? Wait,
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: did they really, Tanner? There's nothing wrong with you? Jade
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: can attest to that, right, Jane, He's perfect. Can we
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: take a minute and talk about my favorite topic of
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: the episode? Pa and her band aid on her chin?
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: What happened? Ever? Addressed it? I need to know more.
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: Did did she get into a fight with someone in
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: the house? Did she develop a random rash? What happened?
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: He's been fick faded on this, By the way, It's
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: weird of them not to bring up in just a
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: joking sense, to be like, can you believe this happened
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: in our last group day? Or can you believe I
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: made such a stupid decision in Singapore and jumped off
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: that deck? Yeah? Not even a mention. Week four, no
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: band aid? Week five, band aids all over the place.
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: I'm starting to wonder if I'm seeing things. Did she
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: shove the cocktail party with a band? That's weird? It
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: must have been bad gash okay, um, let's move on
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: to Heather because Heather was my other favorite part of
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: the episode. Girl Never Been Kissed totally rocked her first kiss.
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: That was the greatest first kiss of all time. I
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: felt butterflies and fireworks for her. She's been practicing on
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: her arm or something. Did you guys practice on your
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: arm the mirror? Never my arm? I used to do
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: my arm all the time, my arm in my hand.
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: No Tanner was like nope. I started so young I
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: couldn't even get time to practice on my arm. I
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: don't think I practiced either. Straight to the game. When
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: was your first kiss? I don't know, Like, are we
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: talking like a like a no kiss, A real kiss,
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: not like like not a peck? Um? Sixth grade? Really
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: like where you locked lips? We've talked about this on
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: this podcast so many times first kisses, but I don't care.
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: I love these stories. They're so great. So sixth grade
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: anything monumental nothing. No, do you remember her name? Mary?
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: How innocent? Did? I was a sophomore in high school?
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: Remember that we were late? And yeah, I was. I
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: was sixteen and I was so determined not to be
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: sixteen and never been kissed. But it happened. But I
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: still I still remember the feeling of how it felt
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: the very first time someone else's lips touched my lips.
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: I don't know, it was very special for me. Colton
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: did a really good job leading her. First, did the
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: hand the hands to the face thing, which he doesn't
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: do a ton, but it really worked here because it
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: kind of led and guided her. And plus if it
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: looked bad, then it was kind of a coverage. But
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: it didn't look bad, not like ari Ari at his hands,
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: like all everyone's faces. Um. I felt like the intensity
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: and the nervousness, like that heart pounding feeling you get
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: when you know it's about to happen, that you're going
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: to kiss somebody for the first time, but you don't
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: know exactly like when to do it. I felt that
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: between them too. I was like, my heart is pounding too.
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: It was so it was so exciting for me to watch.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: Could you imagine how can you react on the plane.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: I was so excited, you were beyond excited. I thought
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: they brought food back on the plane. Um, could you
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: imagine having your first kiss on national television. It's the greatest.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: It is the greatest thing because you can never be like, man,
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: I really regret that first kisse. It was with the Bachelor. Okay,
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: let me ask you something. What if they made that
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: what if they made that kiss look awful? They would
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: do that to me and I they did or that
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: was my own bad. Well I'm saying is could you
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: imagine this, this moment that it's been like kind of
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: not haunting you, but it's been a cloud over your
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: head your entire life. You've never kissed anybody? How old
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: does she twenty three? Twenty three years of life never kissing?
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: Anivity all eats this moment, I'm kissing the Bachelor on TV?
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: And could you imagine if it came out awful, you'd
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: regret it? Then? Well, Evan and Carly's first kiss it
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: wasn't hurt their very first kiss. I don't mean first
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: kiss as a couple. I mean that in your life
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: stream I remember that. Imagine if that was her first kiss,
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: is something like that That's that's what would make me
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: nervous about doing it, because it's just you never know.
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: Can I just say that my first kiss was at
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: nineteen His name was Johnny. I met him an hour
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: and a half before it, and I was I was
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: illegally at nineteen years old in a burlesque club in
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: New York City. And then he shoved his lips didn't
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: touch mine, He just shoved his tongue right in my mouth.
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: So you know how I gotta go kick Johnny's ass.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: That was I would much rather look bad with the
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: Bachelor and have quite a story to tell then be
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: like a guy named Johnny in a burlesque club underage.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: So you waited nineteen years, It couldn't last another hour
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: and a half. I didn't. It wasn't not my plan,
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: not my plan. The man just grabbed my face and
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: did it, and then I cried afterwards and legitimately like
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: hugged my zac Efron link Larkin doll afterwards, Like that's
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: how young that was? You had a zac Efron link? Yeah? Yeah,
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: do you still have this doll? It's probably in that
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: I at home every time we go back to her
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: house in Virginia, her bed still has seventeen stuffed animals
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: on there because I am also O c D and like,
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: if I don't sleep with them there, I will die
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: or you will die. That's horrible thought. Let's move on. Okay, Well, Jared,
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: you can tell your first kids story is actually pretty cute. No,
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: it's the same thing as Jade. I was sophomore in
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: high school. Uh, the girl had to make the move.
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: Oh shocking. Anyway, it was uh not prom but what
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: are you? What are the dances you go to homecoming?
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: It was homecoming at a different school. So I met
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: her through my cousin. We hung out during the summer.
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: She invited me to go to her home homecoming dance
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: that fall, and we were dancing and it was slow dancing,
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: but it wasn't face to face. Her back was to me,
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: and my hands were around her, you knowding was slow dancing,
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: So it was you've never done that, Tanner. We had
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: different high school experiences. Didn't wait, um, so my my
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: hands were around her. And then it was towards the
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: end of the night and I still had not made
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: a move to this point because I was terrified, and
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: she just turned around and looked at me and there
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: was a moment there and I didn't take advantage of
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: it because I was a baby about it and afraid
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: to make a move. So she leaned in and kissed me,
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: and it was my first kissed ever. And I remember
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: she turned around and I started giggling to myself because
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: it was my first kiss, and it was it's a
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: monumental and it really is. It's like, man, this is
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: my first kiss. Her name is Lauren. I won't say
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: her last name for privacy sake, but it was it
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: was Lauren. You guys are a bunch of late bloomers.
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: Here would you expect for me and Jared Heather's kiss,
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: You know, it was warm and fuzzy, But we talked
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: about the real hero in the story that we haven't
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: talked about. Heather. No, Heather's boyfriend that she dated for
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: eight months without kissing. That's what I wanted to talk about.
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: This is a I don't want to say it's a
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: fake relationship, but that was like the boyfriends that I
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: would have, they weren't boyfriends. There were guys that I
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: would see and talk to you on occasion, like they
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: check in every month or so, and then you'd like
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: see them once and then you'd have a great date,
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: but then you wouldn't hear from them for another month.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: Or I'd be in college and I go on a
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: date whenever I was home for a break, and then
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: he'd go away and we wouldn't talk. But the next
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: time he would go on a break, we go. You know,
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: we would have. She said she wasn't into him. It
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: was all her friends who wanted her to date him,
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: and she was like, yeah, he was perfect on paper,
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: but I just didn't feel it. So she was, I think,
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: like going on dates but didn't. Really they're not at
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: a certain point if you're not you know what I mean.
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: They're like, you're just going out with a guy friend
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: and that's it, saying my friend. Or was he going
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: on dates with her and hanging out with other girls
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: at the same time? They were not exclusive. Now I'm
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: not doing anything wrong, but I doubt he was a
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: committed boyfriend. They were in a boyfriend, They were a
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: boyfriend girlfriend. This is a classic like producers saying you
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: have to have some sort of experience, right, so why
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: don't you tell him about that experience that it seems
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: like there was somebody in your life, you know, well, buddy,
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: if you're out there listening, please slide in my D
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: my D M S. I would love to hear your
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: side of the story. Were you dating Heather? Were you not?
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: Did you try to kiss or did you not? We
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: need more this guy. You're really invested. I keep pleased,
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: though it is crazy to think that nobody has kissed her.
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: That's what crazy that. That's what keeps going on in
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: my mind is that in high school for college, literally
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: no guy just went up to you. I mean, I'm
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: not saying it's right, no guys should do that, but
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: guys are idiots. I you know, all my friends are idiots.
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: All of their friends are idiots, and guys just do
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: that when they're drunk or at parties, like le let's
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: go to a girl and kiss them, because they think
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: there's a moment exactly right. They think that the moments
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: there and the girl has no idea what's about to happen.
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: I'm surprised that hasn't happened, because she's a good looking girl,
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: very beautiful. I don't know, guys, I'd liked it. Your right, Tanner,
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: we should get that guy on the phone, because I
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: really want to know the depth of this eight month friendship.
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: That guy I had my first kiss with, though I
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: think he probably waited four or five months of hanging
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: out with me before he did it. Yeah, because I
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: was terrified that I was not given any signals. There
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: was one guy that didn't kiss me for a couple
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: of dates. I think it was like four five dates,
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: and it had been it was just like this. It
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: was my high school crush. But I didn't go on
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: dates with him until college, and then I go on
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: a date with him every couple of months, and he
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: never made a move. He never kissed me until one time.
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: At a point, it gets awkward when the kissing goes
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: the non kissing goes on for too long. Like you said,
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: you're on the third or fourth day and you haven't
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: kissed yet. Then it just becomes the elephant in the room.
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: That sucks. That's the worst feeling I've been there got
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: high school. Jared never made a move. I would go
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: on dates with girls like three or four times, and
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: it's sweating like she usly sweating, soaked, like my back soaked,
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: and I gotta hug this girl because I'm not gonna
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: give her a kiss. Oh my god, this is classic Jared,
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: have a good night with these dates, the taking shopping
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: and stuff. No, no, no, no, we'd hang out, cod
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: get food, drive around my car because that's what you
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: do in high school because you can't get a bar anywhere. Sorry,
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: he's driving me crazy. You need to stop. Yeah, he's
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: swiveling in his chair and its sque keen over here
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: because he he can never sit still. The wife is
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: nagging me again. It was the lack of use of
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: directionals on the way here, and now it's the script. Sorry,
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: but I tried to tell him privately over here, but
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: he keeps doing it. So do you get mad when
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: she criticizes you? Not really. I kind of find it funny.
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: So Jared doesn't find it funny at all. I don't.
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: It's not like I don't not find it funny. I like, well,
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: give him feedback, you know, feedback like it's best when
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: you do it like this. I do all the things
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: that Cosmo says. You know. But Jared, if you give
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: any little criticism, it's my own personality flaw because I
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: don't criticize you as much. So when things bother me, yes,
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: So when things bother me, I just kind of let
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: them go, but you know I handle it so well
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: you do. But it's that's why I said it's my
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: personal flaw, because when you do something that bothers me,
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: I don't really speak up on it. I'm just I
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: just kind of let it go. But then I know,
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: but then when you criticize me, all of those things
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: that I don't criticize you for, come to the head,
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: come to the don't you don't really say it. No,
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: I don't say it, but I become defensive because in
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: my mind, I'm like, I let so many things go,
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: and you're going to criticize me about my chapstick being
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: on the dresser. I know, but the only thing you
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: ever name is the chapstick. I'll be like, I bother
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: you about so many others. You're just a giant paint
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: in the ask, but you're I'm a painting. I might
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: be a bigger paint in the ask, but you just
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: need to tell me when something does bother you, because
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: you know, I'm like, oh my gosh, really, I'm so sorry.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: I'll change that, Like, I never get annoyed at you
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: for it. Yeah, she handles it far better than I do. Tanner,
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: And I always say banter is our love language because
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: it's kind of what we do. We're pretty playful most
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: of the time until it's not. But this has been healthy. Guys,
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: Ashley and I have yet to have any type of
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: blow up fight. I'm I'm assuming they will. What if
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: you guys have blow up fights over don't give real specifics. No,
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: it's like the littlest, dumbest things that turn into big
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: fights and then it's like, what the heck was that about?
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: It's probably I mean just messes or like, honestly, when
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: we like taking content France social media, and that's that's
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: when we get on our biggest tips and I mean
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: just like frustrations what he'll like sign and like but
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: do it and I'll be like, what do you want
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: for me? We gotta do it. You told me to
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: do it now? And then I wonder why that is.
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: I think it might be the pressure of everything, because
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: I'm not tooting our own our horns by saying this,
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: but we do obviously have a pretty decent following and
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: whatever we post for posting to hundreds of thousands of people,
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: if not millions for Jade and Ashley, and so I
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: think more so it's like I'm I constantly second guess myself.
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: I'm like, this sucks. That's terrible. They're going to hate this. Um,
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: everybody's gonna follow me because it's the worst picture of
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: all time. Things like that, And so that's when I
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: get mad about defensive ours. Is Tanner is really bossy,
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: then sequence is job because he was the boss. Now
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: he thinks he's my boss, and so he needs somebody.
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 1: He needs somebody the boss around. And Tanner and I
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: are both the oldest children and are like sibling order,
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: and so we both are very stubborn and both think
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: we're the boss. And that's probably where we butt heads,
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: especially with social media. So that's interesting that you bring
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: up the sibling things like the birth orders. I think
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: it works with Jared and I had the birth order.
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: We do. Yeah, the bossy commanding one and he's the
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: go with the flow. That's when they say they say
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: oldest children should marry the youngest children and like your
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: family birth orders. Oh I've never heard that, but it
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: makes complete sense because in our relationship, I have an
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: older sister, uh, and you have a younger sister, So
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: you're always the boss in your sibling relationship. And I
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: was always the one going with the flow, and that's
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: exactly what our relationship is. And your sister is actually
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: so much more like me than you're like me. But yeah,
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: not like, not necessarily interest wise, but like the personality trade. Yeah,
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: it kind of tells me what to do sometimes, like, hey, Jared,
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 1: do this. She's firmer, more decisive. Totally. I only do
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: things when you and Shannon tell me to do things.
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: Hey Jared, do that. Okay, I guess I'll do that.
• 1:12:12
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  Speaker 1: reader emails here, even though our conversation is so much
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: fun like this. Okay, um, this is a question from Amy.
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: She says, how do you guys deal with not wearing sunglasses?
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 1: Sunny beaches, deserts linger by the pool, even just a
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 1: day day outside? I find it torturous to have to
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: go without eye protection. How do you guys handle it?
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: A day without diff eyewear? God? No, take my eyes.
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  Speaker 1: Did you guys feel bothered by it? No? I mean
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  Speaker 1: it's annoying because if you're on the beach, you're sweating,
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: your makeup is falling off, you know, so you know
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: you're getting a ton of makeup underneath your eyes and
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: you can't cover that up on camera. Maybe that's the
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: most annoying part, but for me it was makeup reason. Yeah,
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: But otherwise I think you just you get used to it.
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: It's just another I actually had sunglasses on camera one time.
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: They showed me wearing sunglasses. Yeah, it was very weird.
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: I remember the day we were sitting by the pool.
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: I just I kept wearing sunglasses. It was one of
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: those times where I walked into filming and just sat down.
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 1: So I think production just it was probably a good
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 1: conversation and I let it go. But they aired that
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: of me wearing sunglasses. Very interesting conversation. And the only
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: time that it ever bothered me was when I was
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 1: watching our show back and I never noticed that I
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 1: do this like this scrunch face that is horrendous to
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: look at. Well, it's just because the sun is blaring
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 1: into my eyes and we don't have any sunglasses, and
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: so my eyes are just squinty, and my my like
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: everything is just scrunched up, and I just looked. I
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: remember looking at myself saying, wow, that I look different,
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  Speaker 1: and then I thought to myself, oh, I'm I'm I'm
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  Speaker 1: blinded right now, and that's why I look so different.
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: It was actually a conversation that we were having. It
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  Speaker 1: was the first time I noticed that it was you
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: and I were talking about Joe Bailey and everything that
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: was going on. It was a great, great conversation, great scene.
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 1: The next email comes from Chelsea. She goes, I'm a
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 1: speech pathologist and so is Cassie. So I was reaching
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 1: researching her and there was an article saying that she's
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 1: actually a speech assistant, someone who assists speech pathologists with
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: their daily scheduling. So the producers changed the professions of
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 1: the contestants often. Actually Cassie clarified this on her own
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: Instagram earlier in the season because I don't think she
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: wanted to take credit for being a full speech pathologist yet. Um.
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: But lying about careers and producer manipulation with the title
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 1: what do you guys have to say about that? They
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: were spot on with mine. So I don't have any
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: personal experience about them posting and or changing words or
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: something like that. I mean, they definitely change what was
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: your careers. Mine was cosmetics developer because right at the
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: time I was UM. But I think they definitely do
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 1: when they know what kind of edit that you're getting
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: or what they want people to like about you. Because
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: there's girls that are like, like, I don't know, what
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 1: is the one that the girl that had like the dog,
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: you know, she was like a dog owner or whatever.
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: It was. This something weird. You know. That's because they
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: know that they're not going to get an edit that's memorable,
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: and so they just make them something weird. Cassie, I
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 1: mean Cassie with a just but what's her name? Heather
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: had never been kissed and now it says has been kissing. Yeah,
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 1: speaking of Cassie, though, have you guys heard the gossip? No,
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 1: you know me, I'm very up on my Bachelor. Breaking news,
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: no spoilers, just breaking news. It's out there. It's public knowledge.
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 1: Cassie apparently owned a show with her and her on
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 1: again off boyfriend that rapped two weeks before Bachelor started.
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 1: I watched the trailer. Yea watched. She seems into said
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 1: X I think his name was like Kaylin or I
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 1: don't know, something something like that. A TV show. Yeah,
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 1: it feels it feels very like Laguna Beach. It's highly produced.
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: It feels like the new Laguna Beach on what. I
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 1: don't know. I saw a reality Steve tweeted it and
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 1: I I just went down the rabbit hole. But she
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 1: is one of the main characters in it, and it's
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 1: it's it's a reality show. But it's about her and
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 1: this guy that they're they're broken up, but there's definitely
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 1: you can tell there's history in the relationship. There's history
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 1: within their relationship. And this was apparently filmed two weeks
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 1: before she left for Bachelor, and this has not aired yet.
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 1: It's out now you can watch episode one. Oh, it's out. Now.
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 1: Do we know how many episodes there are this season?
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 1: Because I'm very curious hypothetically, well, I mean, say, like,
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 1: either Colin picks her she's the next Batchelorette, will this
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 1: show be airing when that whole thing goes down? That's
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 1: juicy Tanner. Thanks for adding that to the pod. That's crazy.
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 1: I don't know if you want to add that, but
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 1: I found it interesting. I'm going to come back to
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 1: these questions because we have two more I want to
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 1: talk about. But first we have Catherine on the line. Catherine, Hi,
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  Speaker 1: how are you good? How are you? You are best
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 1: known as the interrupter on Night one? And you brought
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  Speaker 1: your dog Lucy. I had a dog named Lucy. Lucy
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 1: is the best name you could ever name a Dog's high?
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  Speaker 1: How's she doing? She's amazing, She's amazing. Where did she act? Lucy.
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  Speaker 1: Where did she actually stay when you were still in
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 1: the season? You know, um, I know Chris Harrison had
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 1: her and took her for lovely walks and Colton spent
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 1: a lot of time with her as well. Um. She
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 1: given that it was a working set, they she wasn't
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 1: allowed to stay at the house with us. So, um,
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 1: they had many people taken care of her. She was
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 1: in good hands. That is good to hear. Um. She
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: didn't get to sleep with you though, and like you're bunk,
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 1: she didn't. Unfortunately she didn't, So we didn't get to
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: spend as much time together as I would have hoped.
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  Speaker 1: Originally that was a plan, was for her to be
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 1: at the house with us, but um, it didn't it
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 1: just because of the regulations and the rules. They was
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 1: just too uh not possible for her to be with us.
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: You know why I think that is she beat too
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 1: much of a therapy dog. She she'd honestly provide too
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 1: much emotional support. You don't want people, you know, want
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 1: people being too too normal right No? No, not too
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 1: comfortable in the house, not with the one that they love.
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 1: So what did you feel about Colton? Did you did
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 1: you feel like you had some thing with him and
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: you left you early or did you really feel like
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 1: it was your time to go? You know? I really
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 1: I think he is. I think he's a genuinely just
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: a good person and a kind soul and all around
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 1: an amazing person. I don't think he was my person though, Um.
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: I think that if he was, I would have fought
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 1: for it and I would have felt, um the spark
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 1: for the connection that you would hope to feel with
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 1: your significant other, and I didn't really feel that. I
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 1: think that he's just more above like a good friend
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 1: or like a buddy. Like I think I'm a little
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 1: bit too much for him to handle. Who was your
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 1: closest girlfriend in the house. My closest girls would probably
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 1: be Demi and Nicole Um. They're just amazing and unique
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 1: in their own way, and both speak their minds and
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: make me laugh, and they're just such cool girls. Honestly,
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 1: so is Demi the villain that they try to make
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 1: her out to be, Um, I mean, she's my girl,
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  Speaker 1: so of course I don't think she's a villain by
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 1: any means that she just speaks freely and speaks her
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 1: mind and is undeniably herself and is unapologetic and she
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 1: doesn't have any problem saying how she feels. And you know,
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 1: I can mention for that as you just speak freely
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 1: about how you go. And then you said Nicole was
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 1: your other close friend. So what do you think about
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 1: the drama between her and on Yaka? Um? You know,
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 1: Onyak and I had our fair Sara drama night one. UM,
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 1: so I can understand. I can understand that Anika is
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 1: a very strong personality and so is Nicole. Um. So,
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 1: I mean I can I can totally see that happening
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 1: and them kind of um budding has a little bit,
• 1:24:58
  Speaker 1: but at the end of the day when it comes down,
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 1: so it I mean, at least the time that I
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 1: was there, everyone was cool and like okay with each other.
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 1: Nicole comes across a little uncomfortable on camera for me,
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 1: but I do feel like she's really genuine. I hear
• 1:25:13
  Speaker 1: that she cried a lot in the house and you
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 1: haven't really seen much of it. Yes, she did. Um
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 1: she is. She definitely wears her emotion honorous sleeve. I
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 1: think that's why I love her so much, is she's
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 1: just um, very open minded, open open heart. She came
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 1: in the situation of like vulnerable and open. I think
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 1: no one could ask for anything more. And she was
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 1: emotional and to be that way and vulnerable, especially on
• 1:25:43
  Speaker 1: camera and around all these other women and in this
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 1: unique situation, I think is something very admirable. Hey, Catherine,
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 1: it's jaredy here. I wasn't supposed to be on here,
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 1: but now I'm crashing because I actually have a question
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 1: for you. Katherine. You're not toorilously known this season for
• 1:26:02
  Speaker 1: stealing Colton about eight times on the night one. I'm exaggerating,
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 1: wasn't eight times four? Who's unting that's true? Who is counting?
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 1: My question to you is, have did you ever watch
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 1: the show before you went on? I I didn't. I have.
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 1: I've never seen The Bachelor. Um My my highest twin sister,
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 1: and she is a fan of the show, and she's
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 1: the one that nominated me put the show. And I
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 1: think that maybe if I had seen the show prior,
• 1:26:32
  Speaker 1: I kind of would understand the unique dynamic in the situation.
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 1: But at the same time, like I was there to
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 1: know to get to know Colton, and I wanted to
• 1:26:41
  Speaker 1: know that, you know, me giving up my life back
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 1: home in my career and putting my life on holes
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 1: it was worthwhile. So I had to have those that
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 1: the conversations with him that needed to that needed to happen,
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 1: and I kept getting interrupted, So the only thing that
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 1: I could do was, you know, asked for more times
• 1:26:57
  Speaker 1: to finish my conversation. Well, that's why I was asking it,
• 1:26:59
  Speaker 1: because the girl who notoriously steals the guy away on
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 1: Fortnight one always makes a mistake because as an audience,
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 1: we're watching it, like, why do you keep stealing this guy?
• 1:27:08
  Speaker 1: He's obviously not like seeing how you never knew that
• 1:27:11
  Speaker 1: was how the show worked. It makes sense now why
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 1: you would steal him away so many times. Was it
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 1: just to try to make a better impression. Was the
• 1:27:17
  Speaker 1: conversation not going well and that's why you're like, Okay,
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 1: I need to either talk to him more or make
• 1:27:21
  Speaker 1: a better impression. No, I have, uh not out of
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 1: my mind that I didn't make a solid first impression
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 1: for the first thirty seconds of our conversation. Um, it
• 1:27:31
  Speaker 1: wasn't that. I think it was more to solidify the
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 1: fact that you know, I am, that I wanted to
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 1: be here to get to know him, and we couldn't
• 1:27:41
  Speaker 1: even finish our sentences and we were getting interrupted and Um,
• 1:27:46
  Speaker 1: at the end of this day, I mean he commended
• 1:27:48
  Speaker 1: me and admire the fact that I was very assertive
• 1:27:50
  Speaker 1: and not a phrase to come and say, hey, listen,
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 1: like I think we need to finish our conversation. I
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 1: mean I had end, he agreed, we got interrupted, and
• 1:27:59
  Speaker 1: he's time we began to start talking or trying to
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 1: finish our sentences. So I don't think that, um, it
• 1:28:08
  Speaker 1: was that looked down upon by him by any interesting. Well,
• 1:28:12
  Speaker 1: you gave a lot of clarity today. Thank you for
• 1:28:14
  Speaker 1: coming on our podcast, Katherine, and we hope to see
• 1:28:17
  Speaker 1: you in Paradise. Thanks, guys, have a good night. Thank
• 1:28:21
  Speaker 1: you there, Thank you bye. Al Right, guys, Two quick
• 1:28:27
  Speaker 1: emails because they're very interesting. UM. One term, Angie, can
• 1:28:31
  Speaker 1: you be sent home if there's a live performance on
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 1: a date? What happens if the bachelor's on a one
• 1:28:36
  Speaker 1: one and it is not feeling the date and wants
• 1:28:38
  Speaker 1: to send the person home, but there's a live performer planned.
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 1: Does the bachelor I have to give the date the
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 1: rose just so they make it to the performance. Never
• 1:28:45
  Speaker 1: thought this before. I've always wondered that actually, really yeah,
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 1: I wonder if they just give those dates to like
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 1: because I think if there's a date plan like that,
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 1: you're getting the rows. You're not going home when you
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 1: know some seiling. That's interesting though, because we never show
• 1:29:10
  Speaker 1: I never felt like a shoe in on Caitlyn season
• 1:29:12
  Speaker 1: and they had the helicopter date. But there was also
• 1:29:14
  Speaker 1: the day I done like cranberries were there? Weren't it
• 1:29:19
  Speaker 1: was the helicopter was my first one on one was
• 1:29:20
  Speaker 1: when Nick showed up, because that was kind of little.
• 1:29:22
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't be surprised if if Nick came and she
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 1: wasn't feeling with me, she would have sent me home
• 1:29:26
  Speaker 1: and the helicopter ride would have been nothing. The helicopter
• 1:29:29
  Speaker 1: ride they could have canceled. That wouldn't have been a
• 1:29:30
  Speaker 1: big deal. That's what they're not canceled them because they
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 1: have a whole audience waiting and then in performance and
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 1: all right, folks didn't get the rose. How great TV
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 1: would that be though? If they did? And then he
• 1:29:44
  Speaker 1: just walked in by himself to the concert and thinking
• 1:29:47
  Speaker 1: this is where I was supposed to be with this
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 1: girl and now I'm alone. I hope this happened someday.
• 1:29:51
  Speaker 1: That's great TV. I mean, it's it's horrible. I'm gonna
• 1:29:54
  Speaker 1: want that, but thanks for the email and it was
• 1:29:56
  Speaker 1: a good question. Next is from Julia and Allison Faull.
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 1: I love this. This is for you, Jared and Tanner.
• 1:30:03
  Speaker 1: Ready ready. Following Colton's hot makeout sash on tonight's episode
• 1:30:07
  Speaker 1: with Hannah j I have a pressing question. How in
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 1: the world does the male lead hide there? I mean,
• 1:30:14
  Speaker 1: come on, it said Ben? Can you help us with this? Well,
• 1:30:18
  Speaker 1: we all know Ben couldn't hide his one with Joe Joe.
• 1:30:21
  Speaker 1: If you guys google it, you'll find it. It's funny.
• 1:30:24
  Speaker 1: Love you bad, Ja, Ja, Jade? How did you hide her?
• 1:30:29
  Speaker 1: Tell us Danner? Jared Um, you know, Jared, you better
• 1:30:34
  Speaker 1: not have gone. Yeah, Jared had a raging I see
• 1:30:41
  Speaker 1: it on his face. He's not making out contact. You
• 1:30:43
  Speaker 1: gotta tuck it under the belt, you know, tuck the
• 1:30:48
  Speaker 1: old So is there like a discrete adjustment? Yeah, you
• 1:30:53
  Speaker 1: just kind of it's standing up. Yeah, were you worried
• 1:30:56
  Speaker 1: about that? If you're wearing a belle, it's not to
• 1:30:58
  Speaker 1: screet because then you get if it's like a baste
• 1:31:01
  Speaker 1: band like sweatpants or something. The bathing suits where Ben
• 1:31:03
  Speaker 1: got in trouble. Oh, bathing suits are the worst for guys. Well,
• 1:31:07
  Speaker 1: you can't hide it because the shirt go over if
• 1:31:09
  Speaker 1: you have to put it under the waistbands. Just a
• 1:31:12
  Speaker 1: little bit too too much for this podcast. I know
• 1:31:14
  Speaker 1: we are pretty PG well, Julian Alison, I'm going to
• 1:31:17
  Speaker 1: go ahead and say I think the producers are. I
• 1:31:20
  Speaker 1: think it's usually cut out because it is a clean,
• 1:31:23
  Speaker 1: family oriented show and nobody wants to see that anyone.
• 1:31:30
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