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- 0:00Hey my friend, have you ever wondered where to get a free family guide to spiritual warfare?
- 0:06This is critical because if you're like me, you are trying your absolute best to build a peaceful, Christ centered home.
- 0:15But it feels like media stress and invisible friction are constantly breaching your front door.
- 0:24Yep, that spiritual warfare is real and you are in the right place.
- 0:28And by the end of today's episode, you'll know how to get our free guide with six steps to help you fortify your home and family.
- 0:37You'll also know how to run a home sanctuary audit and how to step into your power as a living catalyst.
- 0:47We will also show you how to stay fully yoked to God even and especially when chaos hits.
- 0:53Stay tuned.
- 0:55Ordinary women Extraordinary faith When God calls, we say yes.
- 1:04Hello my friend, and welcome back to the Arise Women of God podcast.
- 1:08I'm your host, Tamara K.
- 1:10Andersen, and joining me today is the wonderful Wendy Christensen.
- 1:15Wendy is an amazing Christian counselor and a licensed social worker with over 30 years of experience.
- 1:23And together we're going to unpack a few critical pieces of our free booklet for defending your household.
- 1:30Our A Mother's Spiritual Defense Guide.
- 1:33All right my friends, here is our battle map for today's episode.
- 1:36First, we're going to talk about the living catalyst principle, how a mother can shift the entire spiritual weather of her home.
- 1:45Second, the home sanctuary audit.
- 1:47We're going to expose how media, social media loops and physical objects can open spiritual portals or lower your household's frequency.
- 1:57Third, we're going to talk about guarding your little ones and being able to discern age appropriate content so that fear and trauma don't open unnecessary doors for the adversary.
- 2:09And Wendy's going to give us some good hacks on that.
- 2:12But first, let's begin with step number two from our guidebook, the Catalyst Process principle.
- 2:18As mothers, we often fall into the trap of trying to force or control our kids or our spouses so that they can change.
- 2:26But in the spiritual chemistry of our homes, we are the living catalyst.
- 2:32While a chemical catalyst triggers a reaction in others, a living catalyst begins by allowing God to transform her own heart first.
- 2:43I remember vividly talking to one of my sister warriors one day when I first became aware of this principle.
- 2:49She was struggling with a teenage daughter and prayed to know how to fix her.
- 2:55Sound familiar?
- 2:57I know how that feels.
- 2:58The whisper that came from heaven, though, surprised her.
- 3:02God simply said, start with yourself.
- 3:06What?
- 3:07Really?
- 3:09But oh my goodness, you guys.
- 3:10She listened and did start working on herself.
- 3:13And miraculously, her relationship with her teenager improved dramatically.
- 3:19I have also implemented this principle in my own home and have noticed the same success.
- 3:25You are the only person in your home over whom you have God given capacity to change.
- 3:32When you prioritize your own spiritual health and draw close to the skill Savior, you become a beacon of light.
- 3:40And you're able to more easily discern the subtle ways Satan attacks your family.
- 3:46And to do this, you must stay yoked to Jesus Christ.
- 3:50But prioritizing God doesn't mean having a perfect conflict free life.
- 3:54It means having a direct line to heaven when the storm hits.
- 3:59I remember so many times when my children were teenagers and major issues or sudden spiritual attacks would inevitably erupt while my husband was traveling.
- 4:10And so I had to lean entirely on God to help me stay calm in the middle of the crazy storm.
- 4:17But I learned that being yoked, Jesus gave me the exact words to say and taught me how to de escalate the tension.
- 4:26It also showed me how to call down to the powers of heaven and to bless my kids and bring his peace back into our home.
- 4:36When a mother changes her internal state, the spiritual weather of the entire home shifts.
- 4:43But to keep that line strong, we also have to guard what comes into our sanctuary.
- 4:50In our guidebook, we break down the home sanctuary audit and I invite you to listen to Wende as she now explains how media and social media and even physical items bring an energy or a portal into our homes.
- 5:05The thing that I wanted to say about things like movies, social media, TV can enter our home through those things.
- 5:14Absolutely, absolutely.
- 5:17I have seen it because everything has an energy to it.
- 5:22And when you bring something into your home that doesn't have a good energy to it, you're going to fill it in your home.
- 5:29And it can almost even be.
- 5:30I know this sounds a little woo woo crazy out there, but it's like a portal.
- 5:34It can even bring a portal into your home.
- 5:36If you're bringing in something that doesn't have a good spirit to it and it can affect and it can impact the people in your home.
- 5:42So when you're going to watch movies, I always go, okay, does this movie have a good feeling to it or does it have a negative feeling to it?
- 5:49If it has a negative feeling to it, then I throw it out.
- 5:52There are even Disney movies that I have thrown out because it does not have a good feeling to it.
- 5:56Or there are spots that I'll skip intentionally because it doesn't feel right to me and it doesn't feel good.
- 6:01So kind of weighing where that's at.
- 6:04Social media has so Many wonderful things that it can.
- 6:08And, and if you're following good people and good influencers, it can bring the spirit of Christ with you and to you.
- 6:14It can also bring the adversary to you.
- 6:17It can bring feelings of doubt and comparison, especially with social media.
- 6:23Whenever I'm looking at something that's not like maybe a friend, but a common, like Facebook group, for example, and I'll read comments and they go really negative really quickly, I find that the best thing for me to do
- 6:35is just to close it out and shut out of it and get out of it as quickly as possible.
- 6:39Because when you start getting sucked into that negative space, it will spiral you downward quickly and fast and you're going to want to jump into the argument.
- 6:49And it does have an impact on you and it can have a huge.
- 6:52Impact on your home.
- 6:53So be very aware of the adversary and how he works on those types of things like your movies and your social media and those media influences.
- 7:03Even the songs and the music that you listen to can have a huge impact on your own energy and where you're vibrating.
- 7:11Because we all vibrate at a certain level.
- 7:13And when you're bringing in negative things, it actually makes you vibrate on a lower level.
- 7:18The more positive and good influences that you bring into your home, the more you can help you vibrate on a higher level, but also your home to vibrate on a higher level.
- 7:28In fact, when I buy, I've bought pieces of furniture off of, you know, like Facebook Marketplace or Craigslist or whatever.
- 7:37When I bring those into my home, I almost mentally do like a, like a clearing of any negative energy from that piece of furniture that I'm bringing in and inviting it to bring in good light and good energy.
- 7:49Sounds really weird, but the things you bring into your home have a huge influence on the people around you.
- 7:55So be cautious about that and be aware of that so that that can provide a better defense for you and bringing in good things that your family is viewing and experiencing.
- 8:05That home sanctuary audit is such a vital tool.
- 8:09Just as you wouldn't leave your front door wide open at night, you cannot leave the spiritual doors of your home unlocked, allowing toxic media or negative social media to come in and, and have your family spiral.
- 8:25As parents, we need to be vigilant about what we allow our young children especially to absorb.
- 8:32Let's listen as Wendy shares a powerful story about protecting our children.
- 8:37If Hollywood puts PG13 rating on a movie, and that's Hollywood, then how much more do I shut down who've been exposed to PG13 movies that are younger.
- 8:47Like for example, I saw this kid, I went to the movie theater with my husband, who's a big Marvel fan, and it was when the new Avengers, Infinity wars were coming out.
- 8:57Right.
- 8:58That movie has a lot of warring in it, has a lot of monsters and creatures and lots of scary things for a little kid.
- 9:05I remember after the movie, because it was like a three hour movie and I went to the bathroom, my husband, I had to run to the bathroom and I actually somehow beat my husband out of the bathroom, which
- 9:15is a rarity.
- 9:16So I beat him.
- 9:16And I was standing outside and I was standing next to this father and he had this young boy that was probably two or three years old that was standing next to him and he had taken him to the
- 9:27movie and this little boy was just standing there and he was like, well, what about those monsters, daddy, that attacked that building and what, what happened to them and what.
- 9:38Like he was so traumatized by this movie and I could see he was in trauma and the, and the father was just standing there like, oh yeah, they're fine.
- 9:47Oh yeah, it was okay.
- 9:48Like everything's fine.
- 9:49You're good.
- 9:50Yep, it's.
- 9:50He was totally dismissing these concerns and these worries of this little boy who could not comprehend what he had just seen.
- 9:57He was so scared and so like traumatized by this movie that then will open him up to more trauma because it didn't get resolved for him.
- 10:07So that's why it's extra.
- 10:09You need to be extra careful about what is it that I'm exposing like young kids to.
- 10:15What are they being exposed to?
- 10:16Because as adults we're used to it, but young kids aren't.
- 10:19That's why there are ratings on movies because it does affect and impact them.
- 10:24So that's why I'm saying if it's Hollywood that makes that, then I really need to as a mom try to be in tune with what are my standards and what are the standards for my family that's going to
- 10:33keep us vibrating and at a good level and not traumatize my kids?
- 10:38So.
- 10:39Oh, my sister, my friend, you are the spiritual guardian of your household and you do not have to defend your family alone.
- 10:47Wende and I want to put our complete step by step playbook directly into your hands down in the show notes below.
- 10:55Click on a link to get our free digital guidebook, Our Mother's spiritual Defense Guide.
- 11:00Six empowering steps to fortify home and family.
- 11:04This guide walks you through step one, partnering with God and understanding agency.
- 11:11Step two, becoming a living catalyst.
- 11:15Like we talked about today.
- 11:16Step three is mastering discernment.
- 11:18Step four is the word for word, Cast out the adversary prayer.
- 11:24Step five and six is wielding God's word and logging your miracle moments.
- 11:30Plus, you'll get the exact home sanctuary audit checklist Wendy talked about to help you audit your media.
- 11:38Go ahead, download your free copy today and step boldly into your calling as a mother Warrior of light.
- 11:44And until next time, my friend, may you arise, yoke yourself to Jesus Christ and do it God's way.
- 11:52God Strong.
- 11:53If today's episode helped you feel a little closer to God, please like and subscribe.