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- 0:00Hi everyone, welcome to a special edition of Mini Scroll
- 0:04where instead of bringing you guys the biggest stories on the
- 0:08Internet for today, I am bringing you an interview in
- 0:12real life that I did last week with Real Housewives of Salt
- 0:16Lake City stars Heather Gay and Whitney Rose.
- 0:19Heather and Whitney were here in Sydney during South by Southwest
- 0:22Sydney with Hey You to promote the new season.
- 0:25Thank you so much to Hey You for entrusting me with this
- 0:28interview. I had the best time and I hope
- 0:30you guys enjoy it. It's on the set, I feel like I
- 0:38popped put in my teeth but my Botox has kicked in and so I
- 0:41can't really lick my teeth. You how you're good.
- 0:45I am so excited to be sitting here today with two of my
- 0:49favorite Real Housewives from one of my favorite franchises,
- 0:52Heather Gay and Whitney Rose from The Real Housewives of Salt
- 0:55Lake City. Welcome.
- 0:57Thank. You for having us.
- 0:58Thank you guys so much for joining me.
- 1:00How are you enjoying Sydney? Obsessed literally want to move
- 1:03here. This is the coolest place I've.
- 1:05Ever like I. Did that, yeah.
- 1:08Yeah. Yeah, no, I'm I might send for
- 1:10the husband and children. I just Sydney is so amazing, so
- 1:15many like we've had the best time.
- 1:18I feel like a kinship with this country, like they see me, I see
- 1:21them. I like feel at home.
- 1:23I feel accepted. So nice.
- 1:24Yeah, everyone is so sweet. I moved from Canada 8 years ago
- 1:27and I obviously never left. So you get.
- 1:29I didn't. Even hear that you don't have an
- 1:31accent. Yeah.
- 1:32Solidarity. Exactly.
- 1:34As a viewer and a big fan of Housewives, I am curious to hear
- 1:38about your experience being on the show more generally, how it
- 1:42influences your real life. Relationships, I think the best
- 1:46way do you want to. Go first.
- 1:47I was going to say what it's done is make the only
- 1:50relationship that we have are the relationships on the show
- 1:53because no one else can tolerate us.
- 1:55So it is like made these relationships become like even
- 1:59more primal in our lives, you know?
- 2:00Yeah, I was going to say the circle of friends has definitely
- 2:04gotten smaller. And you truly learn who's in
- 2:08your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
- 2:12And it's hard that I think the more the show has gained
- 2:16popularity, you really have to trust or like learn people's
- 2:19intentions. But Tether's point, like we have
- 2:23like if I didn't have Heather through this experience, like I
- 2:26can't even explain our dynamic. It's just beautiful.
- 2:30So pretty much I got stuck with her but now we're best friends.
- 2:36Well, it's changed over the years, right?
- 2:38So yeah, I mean, it changes a lot, but like our external
- 2:41relationships, like going on the show and writing the book, I
- 2:43don't have a relationship with my family or my community.
- 2:46So like the greater community has become like people that
- 2:48watch the show and my friends that are on the show and like it
- 2:51doesn't, it feels like a complete change, you know, from
- 2:54who was like integral in my life before.
- 2:56Yeah, and speaking to the fandom and the wider Bravo community,
- 3:01I'm so interested to hear how having such like, a chronically
- 3:06online fandom impacts you guys, how you guys deal with that.
- 3:09I feel like Bravo is so unique in the sense that fan
- 3:13interaction and the culture of the fandom is so integral to its
- 3:17success. Like, watch what happens live,
- 3:19you know, people calling in reunions, people asking you guys
- 3:22questions, like fan interaction is so important to the network.
- 3:25How do you guys deal with that? I mean, it's like 90% like
- 3:28absolute support and joy and love and like that feeds your
- 3:32soul in a way that like is terrifying.
- 3:36But the negative, you know, you just have to be able to recuse
- 3:39yourself of it and just like put your phone down, not read it,
- 3:43not buy into it, and just like enjoy the fruits of the good and
- 3:47just ignore the bad. Yeah, we have a saying in my
- 3:50house with my kids. It's we don't have time to hear
- 3:53why the haters love us today. So.
- 3:55Oh, my gosh, that's great. Yeah, that's our slogan.
- 3:58And did you make that up? I did.
- 4:00And what the the biggest thing, like the craziest thing that I
- 4:05learned actually from a Bravo exec the other day was that 3%
- 4:10of our audience is on social media, people.
- 4:13Yes, I'm actually surprised. So so when you actually just
- 4:18focus on the people who are viewing in from their homes and
- 4:21giving us massive love, like when we come here and like we're
- 4:24just doing our thing or Laverne and Shirley thing here and
- 4:27people recognize us, it's that's the love and the support that we
- 4:31live for. And yeah, Bravo Con's amazing.
- 4:33Watch what happens live is amazing.
- 4:35But truly, it's about the people who, because honestly, who do
- 4:39you know that watches a show and gets online and tweets about?
- 4:43It no, that is so true. Yes, that's so true.
- 4:45That's so true. So I think that learning that
- 4:48lesson, it took five years. Really, because you feel
- 4:50everything to heart and you want to be loved.
- 4:52You want everyone to enjoy the show.
- 4:54And so it can hurt, but like when you realize that I've never
- 4:57gone on a show's page and, like said something horrible to
- 5:01another person, and I watch every show on every network.
- 5:05So you just have to like take it with the greatest.
- 5:07Can you imagine if I got on your Instagram and like Heather,
- 5:10don't ever wear those pants again?
- 5:11Yeah, like stop losing weight. Specifically us.
- 5:14I think we love the fans. We wouldn't be here without
- 5:16them. Of course.
- 5:17OK. So I wanted to talk about the
- 5:19current season airing. How was shooting the season for
- 5:22you guys? Obviously I know you guys had a
- 5:24bit of like a bumpy Rd. the last couple of years in your
- 5:26friendship, how did you kind of reconcile and where are you?
- 5:30I mean, obviously you guys are good now, but how do we see that
- 5:33develop over the season? Well, like everything broke for
- 5:36us in San Diego in the lingerie you lost me fight.
- 5:39I've never fought with Whitney like this ever.
- 5:42We have had big disagreements, but she's never looked at me and
- 5:45called me a liar. You just lost me forever.
- 5:49You lost me forever, and that was the biggest mistake in your
- 5:53life. And so we've been like kind of
- 5:54trying to rebuild from there. And we've had like ups and
- 5:56downs. But truly the big pivot was in
- 5:59Bermuda on that beach. Monica is not who she says she
- 6:05is, OK? She's not our friend.
- 6:09She's someone that has schemed and worked to infiltrate our
- 6:14friend group and the name that you all know her as the woman
- 6:20who's birthday we celebrated, who we have been trying to
- 6:23champion and support and defend is Reality.
- 6:35Von Tees. Like we put our weapons down and
- 6:41like, I think recognized and remembered like why we were a
- 6:45safe space for each other and why we loved each other and why
- 6:47it was important that we like got back to bad weather.
- 6:50Yeah, and and what solidified it even more for me, I can't share
- 6:55yet, but just to tease, it was our finale of Season 5.
- 7:00Walking away from that dinner, the finale.
- 7:04That's when I knew Heather, like I will.
- 7:07I will do anything to save this relationship.
- 7:09What did I do at the finale? No, we you slept in my bed that
- 7:16night. Oh, oops, I teased that.
- 7:20Reveal. So can you tell me about the new
- 7:23Housewives? Obviously have joined you guys
- 7:25this season. How do you think they're fitting
- 7:27into the cast? More nuts for the trail mix.
- 7:30Brittany was my friend and I think she's like an incredible
- 7:33asset because she's just messed up and funny and like
- 7:38transparent and earnest and charming.
- 7:40And so it was really fun to film with her.
- 7:43Bronwyn was new and did some things that made me question her
- 7:47motives. And I'm very protective of my
- 7:49relationships with these women. So I was a little bit got off on
- 7:53the wrong foot. But stay tuned, you'll
- 7:54understand why. And I will be right.
- 7:56And then maybe not, but I think I will be right.
- 8:01I think that we both have a lot to learn still.
- 8:04Like we're learning. Yeah.
- 8:05It's we're still learning, yeah. It takes a long time to grow an
- 8:07old friend and we have layers like we've all been together for
- 8:10five years, but for years before that too.
- 8:13Let's just say Britt, I love Brittany because her energy's
- 8:16chaotic and it's amazing. And then Bronwyn, I think was a
- 8:19real test of our friendship and we passed the test like we no
- 8:26one's going to come between us. Good point.
- 8:28You are so hot, like you're going to be like a huge star.
- 8:30Like we should like get as much for this as we can.
- 8:33Yeah, have you considered joining the Sydney Housewives?
- 8:36I actually interviewed them on the red carpet and I interviewed
- 8:39Andy Cohen as well when he came to Sydney.
- 8:41Love you. It was a red carpet interview,
- 8:43so it was like really quick. But if Heather and I can get
- 8:45there, you can get there. Trust me, you're way ahead of
- 8:48us. I'll be.
- 8:50Dream big, baby, dream big. Heather can get there.
- 8:55I said Heather and I get. There.
- 8:57I sit with. Heather and I, I know.
- 8:59When you met me, I had like a a Pixie cut and a.
- 9:03Shaved head and she didn't want to be pretty.
- 9:06Go figure. That is shocking to me.
- 9:08You're such a glam girl now. I've always been a glam girl,
- 9:11but I did ditch it for a year to prove a point.
- 9:13The most sexy I've ever felt in my entire life, and yet.
- 9:16You have hair now, so you. Want to get the Clippers?
- 9:20I'm going to shave Whitney's head.
- 9:22Oh my God, if we get invited back.
- 9:24Fingers crossed, bravo. OK, what is your favorite thing
- 9:28about filming Housewives? It's a full adrenaline rush.
- 9:31Like, there is no universe that anyone could create where a
- 9:34woman my age with, like, my history could go on TV with
- 9:37like, crazy women, be, you know, fly around the world, be able to
- 9:43just give all of my rage, all of my ambition, all of my humor
- 9:47too. And they can just take it.
- 9:48I mean, it's an incredible experience.
- 9:50Something that Heather and I say all the time, like we pinch each
- 9:53other. Like we literally just get to
- 9:56dress up and go to dinners and just say whatever we want.
- 10:00It's. Amazing and like give.
- 10:02Yourself. Permission to say whatever you.
- 10:04Think. Yeah.
- 10:04But the truth, these moments is what makes it worth it to me.
- 10:10Like we're sitting in Sydney, Australia, looking at the most
- 10:13amazing view, meeting all the beautiful people that we've met
- 10:17and I'm with my bestie and it's like.
- 10:20That's so cool. Yeah, Yeah, it's.
- 10:22Amazing pinch. Yeah, and she pinches really
- 10:24hard and she occasionally bites me.
- 10:27I have a bite mark from the first from.
- 10:29When? It's a love by Just like the
- 10:31Penguins at the Penguin encounter, we encourage everyone
- 10:33to. Think that's what we were
- 10:34interpret I think we were doing a reenactment yes we've.
- 10:37Really embraced everything Sydney has to offer, including
- 10:40Penguin behavior. OK, what is the hardest thing
- 10:42about filming Housewives? The way it affects our kids
- 10:46because, well, I don't think it's true for all housewives,
- 10:49but in our community, it's just not.
- 10:52It has no value and no one acknowledges it and everyone
- 10:56just like talks around it so I think the kids feel it more than
- 10:59anything. Yeah, Well, especially in
- 11:01Heather and I's case where we've left the predominant culture of
- 11:04the Mormon church. So our kids have taken the
- 11:07direct hit of that. That's the hardest part and.
- 11:11The best part's the money and fame.
- 11:14Classic, yeah. It is hard to like sit there and
- 11:21so the rounds, I know Heather keeps saying like the fighting
- 11:23is fun, but sometimes it's really hard like it.
- 11:27Hard like running the marathon is hard or hard like lifting?
- 11:30I don't know. I've never run a marathon and I
- 11:32don't lift weights. But I imagine it's hard but has
- 11:34its own benefits. Yeah, Yeah.
- 11:36Do I lift weights? Yeah, yeah, I have a gym in the
- 11:40house. I wondered, OK, I'm not just.
- 11:42I gave you I've I've literally gifted.
- 11:45You gifted me a ball and like the hand weights but I was
- 11:48thinking do you like do like big like power weights?
- 11:50Yeah, come to my house. Let's do it.
- 11:52Welcome to Fitness with Whitney Rose.
- 11:54I will do anything to move to Australia and be on TV here.
- 11:58Who's you're going to be your Heather counterpart?
- 11:59Instead, there is no one that replaces Heather Stay.
- 12:02In Salt Lake City. It's Whitney and Heather down
- 12:05under. Duh, duh.
- 12:07Thank you guys so much this has been insane.
- 12:11Cut direct act scene. All right, you guys, I hope you
- 12:14enjoyed that interview. Thank you again to Heather and
- 12:17Whitney for being so candid with me, having the best time with me
- 12:21during that interview. Thank you again to Hey you and
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- 12:27City only on Hey you the same day as the USA.
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