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3 Things Men Notice Before You Open Your Mouth · Mindful Success Path

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  Ladies, there are certain things that a masculine man can notice about a woman before she even opens her mouth.
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  And no, I'm not just talking about how pretty she is, because here's something I think a lot of women misunderstand about attraction.
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  We've been conditioned to believe that if we just look a certain way, wear the right clothes, speak a certain way, have the perfect body, then we'll naturally attract the kind of man that we want.
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  But have you ever noticed that some women seem to effortlessly attract masculine men without having to do any of those things?
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  They're not necessarily the youngest woman in the room, they're not necessarily the most conventionally attractive woman, and they're not walking around trying to get everybody's attention.
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  Yet the men notice them, and the men approach them, and the men want to take care of them, and they want to pursue them.
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  And there's something about these women that feels different.
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  Now, before anybody gets upset, I'm not saying that all masculine men are attracted to exactly the same thing.
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  Everybody's got different preferences and things like that.
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  What I am saying is that there's an energy that a woman can evoke that will attract healthy men to her, and there are certain things that he picks up on before she even opens her mouth, and today I'm gonna be telling you what those things are.
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  Hi, my name is Amanda.
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  It's based on my 15 years of experience coaching women in different areas of their lives, and also my own transformation where I went from being a hyper-independent, controlling, in full on survival mode, attracting passive men for over a decade, to manifesting my protector, provider husband in just four months when I started applying the things that I teach you on this YouTube channel.
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  And as always, if I have additional resources or events or things to invite you to that go deeper into the concepts that I'll be talking about in this video, then I will let you know as the video progresses.
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  So let's get into it So the first thing that men notice before you even open your mouth is your energy.
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  And when I say energy, I wanna be clear about what it is that I mean.
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  I'm talking about the way you carry yourself, your body language, your facial expressions, and your overall presence.
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  Because whether we realize it or not, we're constantly communicating things non-verbally.
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  And some of the most attractive qualities a woman can embody is just being comfortable in her own skin.
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  So let's talk about the difference between two women walking into a room.
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  One woman is constantly looking around to see who's watching her.
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  She's checking to see whether other people approve of her.
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  Sh- she's adjusting herself every few seconds.
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  She's comparing herself to the other women in the room.
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  She's wondering whether or not she's attractive, and she's got a whole thing going on here in her head.
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  Now, the other woman walks in, takes a look around, smiles, and simply enjoys being there.
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  She's not trying to get anybody to notice her.
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  She's just there to enjoy the moment, have a good time, and receive whatever that evening has to offer her She's also not obsessing about being the prettiest woman in the room.
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  She's just present.
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  She's comfortable.
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  She's enjoying herself.
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  Now, which one do you think is going to come across as more confident?
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  It's definitely not the woman who's constantly searching for external validation.
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  It's the woman who's just present and there to have a good time.
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  And here's why this matters.
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  When you're comfortable with yourself, you stop treating every social interaction like an audition.
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  So you stop trying to prove that you are desirable, or that people should choose you, or that people should give you attention or invest in yourself because you're not desperately scanning the room for male attention.
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  You're not measuring your worth by how many men approach you.
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  And ironically, that actually makes you more approachable and attractive because people can often sense when someone is genuinely enjoying themselves versus trying really hard to create an impression.
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  I'll use this YouTube channel as an example, right?
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  I started this YouTube channel for fun.
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  My husband is the provider.
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  I don't really have to worry, about my own survival or bills or any of that.
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  So I started this YouTube channel for fun, and it's one of the fastest-growing projects I have ever had, and it's become very profitable.
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  I think it's because people see that I'm having fun.
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  I think that's what it is because I've had other projects before.
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  I've had other businesses before where I was more in survival, where I was trying to prove myself more, where I was, um, trying to show that I have the ability to help people solve X, Y, and Z problem and why they should give me money.
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  And those didn't grow as fast, and those came with way more of a grind.
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  Whereas with this one, I'm just having a really good time And again, it's one of the fastest-growing projects I've ever had.
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  Love is really similar.
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  So here is the nervous system connection Because this is where feminine embodiment comes in.
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  A lot of women think that feminine energy means speaking softly, wearing dresses, or moving more slowly, and sure, do all of those things.
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  Those things can be amazing expressions of femininity if you genuinely enjoy them.
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  But to me, feminine energy actually goes a lot deeper, and I think this is what most creators miss.
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  It's about feeling safe enough within yourself to be present.
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  So if you have spent years in survival mode, this can actually be really challenging because you're constantly anticipating what other people need.
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  You're always scanning for rejection.
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  You're always thinking something's gonna go wrong, a shoe is going to drop, and you're always thinking three steps ahead of everybody else.
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  Maybe you're so accustomed to being in control that you don't know how to simply relax and enjoy an experience.
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  And when you're in that state, your body may reflect some of that tension outwardly, right?
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  So you might be holding your breath.
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  Your shoulders might be tight.
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  You might struggle to make eye contact because you're so caught up in your own thoughts that you can't even make eye contact with another person when you're speaking with them.
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  So one of the simplest things you can practice is becoming more aware of your body.
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  So before you walk into a social setting, notice how you're feeling Are you tense?
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  Are you rushing?
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  Are you mentally preparing yourself to impress people?
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  Take a moment to settle into your body.
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  Relax your shoulders.
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  Breathe naturally.
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  In fact, breathe deeply in through your nose and out through your mouth.
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  If you're really stressed out, then make the exhale longer.
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  Allow yourself to be present And remind yourself that you don't need to earn your place in that room.
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  You already belong there.
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  Now, does this guarantee that a masculine man is going to walk across the room and introduce himself to you?
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  Not necessarily But it can help you become more comfortable in expressing your natural confidence, and that is a very attractive energy So now let's talk about your feminine presentation and whether or not you even enjoy being a woman Because the second thing that masculine men notice is your feminine presentation, and yes, we're going to talk about appearance, okay?
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  Now, before anybody jumps down my throat, okay, this is probably not gonna go in the direction that you anticipated.
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  Because I think sometimes people get so uncomfortable talking about physical attraction, that they pretend that it doesn't matter.
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  But the truth is we're human, okay?
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  We're paying attention to how people look.
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  We're paying attention to how they dress.
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  We're paying attention to how they carry themselves.
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  It is what it is.
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  I know that if I show up on these videos with my hair done and makeup, that it's just going to perform better okay, overall, and that people are going to take me more seriously because that's just how humans operate.
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  It is what it is And many men who are attracted to feminine women appreciate visible expressions of femininity.
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  For example, my husband loves me in dresses.
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  I also genuinely feel more comfortable in dresses overall.
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  I just bought a pair of jeans for the first time.
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  I haven't worn jeans in, like, five years.
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  I just bought a pair of jeans because I needed something a little bit more functional, uh, for some of the events and projects and things that I go to for my husband's business where it requires jeans.
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  I can't be wearing dresses.
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  I can't be going to, like, construction sites in, in dresses.
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  It just doesn't really work, okay?
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  Or land that's being developed in dresses, so I bought jeans.
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  But overall, I prefer being in dresses, and my husband loves to see me in dresses.
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  So your feminine expression might include the way that you dress.
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  It might include the way that you style your hair your grooming, your posture, your movement.
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  But there is a distinction that I wanna make, right?
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  Feminine presentation is not about looking like somebody else's definition of the perfect woman.
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  It's about learning how to enjoy your own femininity, and a part of the feminine is actually adornment.
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  Now, these are two very different things, because I've seen women approach femininity like it's another performance that they have to put on.
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  I mean, I've met a whole lot of masculine women who are in dresses and heels and have a beat face, but the energy that they give off is very masculine.
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  So I'm not saying that you have to follow these very strict rules, like you have to wear this, you can't wear that, your hair needs to be a certain length, you need to wear heels, you can't wear too much makeup, you can't wear too little makeup, your nails can't be that long, your nails can't be that short Because what happens is that suddenly something that should be enjoyable for you as a woman, which is beauty and adornment, turns into another source of pressure And that's not what we're doing here at all.
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  The point isn't to create another list of things that you have to do in order to deserve male attention.
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  The point is to reconnect with parts of your femininity that genuinely bring you pleasure and adornment, and beauty tends to do that for most women.
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  Beauty is actually a form of self-connection, and this is where beauty rituals can become so powerful, and I've talked about this a lot recently So it's things like your skincare, things like doing your hair, putting on an outfit that makes you feel beautiful, wearing a perfume that you love, taking care of your body, working out, taking care of this temple that is your body.
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  And you don't have to do any of these things to impress a man.
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  In fact, none of these things have to do with impressing a man.
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  They can simply be expressions about how much you enjoy being in your body and how much you enjoy sensuality and how much you enjoy beauty and adornment and how much pleasure it gives you.
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  There is something different about a woman who gets dressed because she's excited to feel her best versus a woman who gets dressed because she's terrified of not being attractive.
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  The two are not the same.
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  Although the result might look similar, the experience is totally different, and that matters because if you're constantly approaching beauty or the way that you dress or your hair or whatever from insecurity, like a lot of the women in this comment section have done, then there's always gonna be something else for you to fix, another wrinkle, another five pounds, another outfit, another beauty treatment.
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  It, it never ends, and that's not what I'm trying to create for you.
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  What I'm trying to create for you is something where you reconnect with your own beauty, you reconnect with your sensuality, you reconnect with adornment because those are all the realm of the feminine.
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  It's meant to give us pleasure, not turn into another pressure point or area to perform Now there is another layer to this, and the other layer is that feminine energy is not just an aesthetic because as I mentioned, you could put on the most beautiful dress in the world and still feel completely disconnected from your feminine energy.
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  You can have the perfect hair, the makeup, the dress, the heels, the manicure, but if you're constantly trying to control every interaction, you may not be experiencing the softness and the receptivity that you truly desire.
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  And I don't believe that femininity is something that you simply put on.
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  It's not a costume, in other words.
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  It's something that you cultivate from within, and your external presentation simply becomes an expression of that.
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  So you do not need to look like every other woman, like now everybody looks like a Kardashian, right?
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  You don't need to do that.
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  You don't need to copy somebody else's aesthetic, and you certainly don't need to erase your personality.
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  The most magnetic version of your femininity is the one that actually feels like you and feels good and gives you pleasure Now, the third thing is probably the most overlooked, and it's your receptivity.
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  In fact, if there's only one thing you get from this video today, let it be this.
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  Because you can be beautiful, you can be confident, you can be incredibly accomplished, but if your body language communicates that you absolutely do not want anyone approaching you, then men are going to take that at face value.
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  And this is particularly relevant for women who have become very independent or really hyper-independent is really what we're talking about here.
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  Because a lot of us have spent so much time learning how to handle everything ourselves that we don't always realize how guarded we've become, and that was my story I had a very successful business, but I was doing that business to protect myself from a scary world, and I was in survival mode, et cetera, et cetera.
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  And I did not realize that I had become so guarded.
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  I had to let all of that go in order to actually manifest my husband.
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  And sometimes what this looks like in women is moving way too quickly, not being focused on what we're doing, not being present.
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  We've already got-- doing one task, and we're worried about the next three tasks, constantly on our phones, not allowing ourselves to rest until the to-do list is done.
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  This is major.
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  This showed up in one of the livestreams recently as well, which again, if you want access to those livestreams and life coaching from me, make sure to join as a member so you get access to those, and I can answer a lot of your questions live.
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  But this came up, women thinking, like, they have to get through their entire to-do list and task list before they allow themselves some pleasure or to rest.
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  And again, girl, I get it.
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  It used to be me.
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  I get it.
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  I did the same thing.
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  Ironically, when I was living in this space where I could only allow myself pleasure or rest if I got through my to-do list, well, guess what happened?
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  My to-do list kept getting longer, so I never got the pleasure or the rest.
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  Because I did not treat pleasure or beauty or rest or receptivity as parts of my own feminine energy and essence that are just standard in my life.
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  I treated them as rewards that I had to earn, and we have to change that, okay?
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  We really have to change that because sometimes we forget how to actually make ourselves available for connection.
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  So let me give you an example.
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  Let me give you an example of how this could play out in just a real-life situation.
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  Imagine that you are at a coffee shop, and you're sitting there with your laptop open, you have your headphones on, and you're, like, hyper-focused on whatever it is that you're doing.
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  No one's gonna freaking approach you if you're in that space.
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  I wouldn't approach you because I wouldn't wanna disturb you if you're doing that.
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  Now, if someone is just there, and she's just sitting there, and she's enjoying her coffee as she's looking around, and she's just, you know, experiencing leisure and pleasure, then someone is more likely to approach her because they don't feel like they're interrupting anything.
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  That's a really basic example of how these things can show up and pan out in our lives.
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  I remember coaching a woman a few years ago.
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  She was actually my old, um, hairstylist, and her daughter was my manicurist when I lived in Guadalajara, Mexico.
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  And, um, she's like,"I, I-" She wanted a foreign man, okay?
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  She wanted one of the Americans or Canadians or whatever that come to spend some time in Mexico,'cause her girlfriends were, you know, starting to get married to foreigners, and she's like,"I want a foreigner." I'm like,"Okay, so here's what you gotta do.
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  You just have to stop working so damn much,"'cause she worked a lot,"and then you go to Colonia Americana," which was, like, this trendy neighborhood in Guadalajara.
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  It got voted, like, the, the coolest neighborhood in the world a few years ago.
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  I think that's a stretch, but it is a pretty cool neighborhood.
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  And I'm like,"And you go to one of those fancy coffee shops and you drink a coffee and you just sit there.
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  That's it.
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  That's what you do." She goes,"What do you mean?
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  I can't go with, like, my gay best friend?" And I'm like,"Please don't go with your gay best friend.
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  Please don't do that.
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  Just go there by yourself and enjoy a coffee and let these men approach you.
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  That's it.
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  That's all you have to do." Women think that they have to do so much to get a man's attention, when in reality we have to do less in order to get a man's attention, and I've done other videos on that, so make sure to subscribe or join as a member in order to get more trainings and deeper dives on how that works.
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  Now, receptivity is not passivity.
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  So I know that some women are gonna hear this, and they're gonna think I'm saying that you should just sit there and wait for a man to approach you, and in a lot of cases, look, that does work.
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  In a lot of cases.
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  That's not necessarily what I'm saying.
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  You can absolutely initiate a conversation if you want to.
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  You can express interest.
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  You can be friendly.
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  There's nothing inherently unfeminine about speaking first.
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  But if the relationship dynamic that you desire involves a man taking initiative, you can express openness without feeling responsible for moving everything forward.
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  The mistake that women make is that they feel responsible for moving everything forward, and then they over-function, and they overdo it.
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  And one of the easiest ways to do that is through simple, natural body language.
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  So you can make eye contact.
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  You can smile when it feels genuine.
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  You can allow yourself to enjoy your surroundings.
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  Be willing to engage in conversation.
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  Slow down the way that you walk.
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  Slow down the way that you move.
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  And then just pay attention to what happens next.
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  Does he approach?
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  Does he make an effort to continue the conversation?
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  Does he demonstrate interest in getting to know you?
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  Does he ask for your number?
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  Does he suggest seeing you again?
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  When I did this, when I was doing my divine masculine energy experiment before I met my husband, I would take myself out to coffee shops all the time, and I would just like, men would talk to me.
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  They'd wanna solve my problems.
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  They'd wanna buy me stuff.
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  Like, and I wasn't, like, doing anything.
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  I was just enjoying myself and enjoying being there.
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  And I need you to remember that the purpose of this isn't to make every man pursue you.
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  The purpose is to become more comfortable receiving genuine interest while still being discerning about who gets access to you.
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  None of those men became my husband, okay?
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  But I was enjoying myself in the moment And being receptive doesn't mean being available to everybody.
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  You can be warm and have boundaries.
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  You can be approachable and selective.
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  You can be open to connection without feeling obligated to entertain every man who approaches you, and I think that this is something women really need to understand.
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  Softness does not require you to abandon your standards.
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  Receptivity does not require you to ignore red flags.
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  In, in fact, please don't ignore red flags.
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  And true femininity does not require you to be agreeable with everyone.
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  You are allowed to say no, you are allowed to end a conversation, and you're allowed to decide if somebody simply just isn't for you.
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  That actually doesn't make you less feminine.
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  It makes you discerning.
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  And what does the feminine do?
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  She leans back, she observes, and she discerns Now I wanna bring all of these three things together because there's a huge mistake that I see women make constantly.
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  I see it in my emails, my DMs, my YouTube comments.
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  They hear conversations like this, and instead of using the information to reconnect with themselves, which is essentially what I'm trying to get you to do here, they turn it into another performance.
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  So they start monitoring every little thing that they do.
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  Am I walking feminine enough?
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  Am I smiling enough?
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  Um, am I giving off the right energy?
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  Am I being too masculine?
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  If I say this, is that masculine?
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  If I do that, is that masculine?
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  Do I need to be making more eye contact?
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  And then eventually what happens is they actually become way more anxious than they were before, and that is not, that is not what we're trying to do here, okay?
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  What I want you to do is learn to become genuinely magnetic You actually cannot become genuinely magnetic by obsessing over whether you're magnetic enough, okay?
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  Because what are you doing when you're constantly monitoring yourself?
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  You are trying to control how other people perceive you.
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  You're actually being quite manipulative, and what we're trying to achieve is the exact opposite, right?
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  So when you're trying to control everyone around you, you're not relaxed, you're not feminine, you're not magnetic.
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  You're having the exact opposite result most of the time And this is why I always bring feminine energy back to the relationship with yourself, right?
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  Do you genuinely enjoy your own company?
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  I did when I was taking myself out to those coffee shops all the time.
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  Do you feel comfortable being seen?
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  Do you take pleasure in taking care of yourself?
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  I do.
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  I meditate and work out every morning.
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  I do my skincare religiously.
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  I eat really well because I take pleasure in taking care of myself.
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  Uh, can you receive a compliment without dismissing it?
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  Can you allow someone to show interest without immediately trying to control the outcome?
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  Can you be present in an interaction without mentally planning the entire relationship?
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  Those are the things that I want you to focus on because femininity is not another job, it's not a performance, and it's not a costume.
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  It's not another checklist, and it's certainly not another reason to criticize yourself.
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  Many of you do that enough.
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  It's an invitation to become more connected to yourself.
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  And when you are connected to yourself, you become very grounded in feminine energy, and a lot of these external expressions start to feel a lot more natural Now, before we wrap up, I want to address something very important.
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  Okay?
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  This is probably one of the most important things I'm going to address in this entire video, because attracting masculine attention and attracting masculine commitment are not necessarily the same thing, and I see women putting way too much weight on attention and not enough weight on commitment and investment.
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  And I think this is where women get really confused actually.
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  So you can be beautiful, you can have incredible feminine energy, you can be warm, receptive, and magnetic.
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  And you can attract men who are emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or simply not interested in being in a relationship.
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  They're gonna find you hot too.
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  Okay?
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  Now why is that?
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  Because attraction is only the beginning of something.
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  A man's attraction or giving you attention doesn't automatically tell you anything about this man's character, and that's why discernment matters so much It's not enough that a man approach you.
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  It's not enough for him to compliment you.
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  It's not enough for him to tell you how beautiful or feminine you are.
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  You need to observe his behavior over time.
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  Does he follow through?
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  Is he consistent?
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  Does he respect your boundaries?
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  Does he take responsibility for his life?
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  Does he invest in you?
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  Yes, financially, and also by solving problems, by taking leadership.
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  Does he demonstrate the kind of leadership, provision, and consideration that you actually desire?
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  Because those things are what's gonna tell you whether or not a man is capable of building a healthy relationship and also whether or not he's actually into you.
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  Because men can give attention to anything, but they don't invest in anything And it's important to understand that there's a huge difference between leadership and control.
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  There's a difference between protection and possessiveness.
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  There's a difference between a man taking initiative and a man trying to make all of your decisions for you.
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  A healthy masculine partner should make you feel respected, considered, and supported, not intimidated or controlled.
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  Okay?
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  You should be allowed to express yourself, and it should actually open up your options in life, not minimize them.
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  And this is why the deeper you go into feminine embodiment, the more important it, it becomes to be really grounded in your discernment alongside your receptivity.
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  Because the intention here isn't only to attract more men.
• 26:15
  The intention here is to magnetize the men who are genuinely aligned with the relationship that you actually want.
• 26:21
  Anybody can get a man, but not anybody can get a good man, and that is what we're going for here.
• 26:27
  And not anybody can get the man that's right for you because, well, he's for you, girl.
• 26:31
  Okay?
• 26:31
  But we gotta make you more magnetic so that he comes to you.
• 26:36
  So let's bring this all together.
• 26:37
  Let, let's wrap this up in a nice little bow, shall we?
• 26:40
  The three things that masculine men notice before you even speak are your presence, your presentation, and your receptivity.
• 26:48
  But here's what I really want you to remember.
• 26:50
  None of these things require you to become somebody else.
• 26:53
  You don't need to transform your entire personality.
• 26:56
  You might need to change your identity a little bit, but that's not transforming your personality.
• 27:01
  You don't need to spend thousands of dollars changing your appearance, and you don't need to memorize a bunch of dating rules.
• 27:08
  What you need to do is start becoming more comfortable in your own body, in the way that you express your femininity And allowing yourself to be open to connection without feeling responsible for controlling the outcome.
• 27:20
  Because when you feel secure in who you are, you don't have to work so hard to prove that you're desirable.
• 27:26
  I get asked this question all the time.
• 27:28
  I remember when my husband and I had met, um, and we had started seeing each other, There was someone in my life at the time, and she asked me, like,"Oh, well, who's pursuing who?
• 27:37
  Who's chasing who?" And we're like,"Well, he's pursuing me," but, like, nobody's playing games.
• 27:40
  Like, this is easy.
• 27:42
  Like, this is a no-brainer.
• 27:43
  This is easy.
• 27:45
  And later, he was like, it's'cause y- the reason he was attracted to me was because I was really secure in who I was, and I valued myself, and I had boundaries, which was in stark contrast to all the women that he had dated before.
• 27:58
  So you can simply show up as yourself, and the people who are genuinely attracted to that version of you will have the opportunity to recognize it, and you need to allow them to have the opportunity to recognize it So I wanna ask you something, and I wanna know in the comments, so let me know.
• 28:14
  Which of these three areas do you feel most connected to right now, and which ones are you still learning to embody?
• 28:20
  Is it confidence and presence?
• 28:22
  Is it feminine presentation, or is it receptivity?
• 28:25
  Let me know in the comments.
• 28:26
  I would love to hear your experience.
• 28:29
  And if you're ready to go deeper into feminine energy, becoming more comfortable receiving, understanding the dynamics of masculine and feminine polarity, then I've got two resources for you.
• 28:40
  So the first is my Feminine Magnetism Mastery program.
• 28:43
  This is my dating and relationship 101 program that breaks down polarity in relationships, what that looks like, why it matters, masculine and feminine energy, the psychology 101 of a man, including the psychology of what makes a man attracted to a woman, and all the innocent mistakes that women make in dating and relationships that actually kill attraction.
• 29:04
  So that's the first place to get started.
• 29:06
  It's my introductory course.
• 29:07
  It's only 27 bucks, and it's had rave reviews.
• 29:10
  The second resource is I would love to invite you to my 2027 Magnetic Manifestation Portal event.
• 29:16
  It's happening the weekend of December 5th and 6th, live on Zoom, where we will get together to release 2026, work through a lot of these patterns that keep us stuck in relationships, and then also work on becoming the woman who can actually receive her desires, like love.
• 29:35
  And when you join today, it's currently at early bird pricing until, I believe, the first week of November.
• 29:41
  And in addition to that, you will receive my Magnetic Woman Transformation training as a free bonus.
• 29:46
  That's a$497 value right there, and you get it immediately for free when you sign up for the Magnetic Manifestation Portal.
• 29:55
  Some of you have already signed up.
• 29:57
  A lot of women found out about this'cause they were in our, um, membership site, the Temple, as I call it, and they saw it go live, and they already started buying stuff up.
• 30:05
  So thank you for those of you who did that.
• 30:08
  Um, but a lot of you have been asking about, like, the best training to recover from burnout.
• 30:13
  How do I deal with this anxiety?
• 30:14
  How do I change my patterns?
• 30:16
  We're gonna work on that December 5th and 6th.
• 30:18
  And also, the Magnetic Woman Transformation training is the best training I've ever done on nervous system regulation and re-patterning yourself, and you get that as a free bonus immediately.
• 30:28
  You don't have to wait until December to access that.
• 30:30
  You get it now.
• 30:31
  So I will leave the information for that below in the description and also in the first comment.
• 30:38
  I look forward to seeing you there.
• 30:40
  Now thank you so much for giving me your time today, and I will catch you on the next one.