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- 0:00Speaker 1: M hm. In all you're getting get wisdom. Wisdom is
- 0:08Speaker 1: the principal.
- 0:08Speaker 2: Thing through Wisdom is a house built.
- 0:11Speaker 3: And by understanding it is established.
- 0:14Speaker 1: Job justus of Eternity, networking international, as it takes you
- 0:20Speaker 1: want to turney into the wisdom of God's word. It's inflation, it's.
- 0:26Speaker 2: Partnership, it's frisship, this is priemonia.
- 0:46Speaker 4: Yes, Yes, your work, your end, yours everywhere process, auditorial.
- 0:56Speaker 3: Not online or as you watch.
- 1:01Speaker 1: Oh my love, Lord be blessed.
- 1:04Speaker 4: You just left your voice and tell him yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes,
- 1:14Speaker 4: no argument.
- 1:15Speaker 1: Yes, do it your way.
- 1:17Speaker 3: Your way is the best.
- 1:21Speaker 1: Do it your way, do it your way, do it
- 1:26Speaker 1: your way.
- 1:31Speaker 3: Yes to your.
- 1:35Speaker 1: Yes to your.
- 1:40Speaker 5: Oh, I will love, Yes, Yes to your will.
- 2:22Speaker 3: Father. We declare to night, as a ministry.
- 2:29Speaker 1: And as a family of me, that we not only
- 2:32Speaker 1: love you, we not only believe in you, we respect you.
- 2:39Speaker 3: We really do.
- 2:42Speaker 1: Lord, be aligned to your will. This is why we're
- 2:45Speaker 1: here every time. Your will will always breathail. Lord. We
- 2:53Speaker 1: declare that you will help us see the excellency of
- 2:56Speaker 1: an alliging destiny, that you will help us to understand
- 3:00Speaker 1: and how helpless we are in rebellion, that you will
- 3:04Speaker 1: help us to understand that. Only as we come into
- 3:07Speaker 1: alignment with your will would we ever Prevai. Tonight, we
- 3:13Speaker 1: have come of God, and we ask that you grant
- 3:15Speaker 1: us wisdom. We have come as a sign of humility,
- 3:21Speaker 1: admitting that there are things we do not know. We
- 3:25Speaker 1: have come as a sign of humility, expressing our desperation
- 3:28Speaker 1: for your wisdom. Lift your voice in one minute and
- 3:32Speaker 1: cry out for the wisdom of God.
- 3:34Speaker 3: Lord.
- 3:34Speaker 1: I know if your wisdom works in my life, I
- 3:36Speaker 1: will be better than this. I humble myself. I cry
- 3:42Speaker 1: for your wisdom, Cry for your wisdom. When your wisdom
- 3:49Speaker 1: comes upon my finances, it will be better than this.
- 3:54Speaker 6: When your wisdom copse upon my destiny.
- 4:08Speaker 1: When the spirit takes over your soul, when the spirits.
- 4:19Speaker 7: Takes over your name, you will be changed. His glory
- 4:30Speaker 7: will be reviewed when the speed takes.
- 4:39Speaker 1: Holy Spirit. Aura, Where come speed awa were comedy?
- 5:01Speaker 8: Find a way? No goa where come.
- 5:25Speaker 1: This place?
- 5:28Speaker 3: Only speak no where coming.
- 5:35Speaker 1: This way? Hot see no Jesus, you want the bread
- 5:59Speaker 1: of life, and we ask you tonight to feed our
- 6:05Speaker 1: hungry hearts. Feed us so and he was in mind.
- 6:10Speaker 1: He was trying to give us illumination. We believe in you.
- 6:17Speaker 3: We are believers in this place. You have gathered your
- 6:21Speaker 3: people tonight.
- 6:23Speaker 1: To bless them. The Lord. We declare that we will
- 6:27Speaker 1: truly be blessed in the name of Jesus the men
- 6:31Speaker 1: and Amen, God, bless you. Please to greet someone by
- 6:35Speaker 1: your left and right, and please you may be seated.
- 6:42Speaker 1: Especially welcome all those following us online. They are a
- 6:45Speaker 1: little over one hundred thousand people following us from around
- 6:48Speaker 1: the world. We bless you, We honor you. Thank you
- 6:51Speaker 1: for connecting with us in the name of Jesus Christ.
- 6:55Speaker 1: For those of us who are here inside and outside,
- 6:59Speaker 1: the Lord, bless you. The Lord, honor you. It's privilege
- 7:02Speaker 1: to be here again bringing God's word. Amen, tonight. My
- 7:11Speaker 1: heart is indicting a good matter. Bible stays Yeah, I
- 7:15Speaker 1: speak of excellent things. My tongue is the pen of
- 7:20Speaker 1: already right. And my heart has been borning to share
- 7:22Speaker 1: the things that I'm about to share, and the Lord
- 7:26Speaker 1: placed it so strong in my spirit. And I believe
- 7:31Speaker 1: that tonight's teaching will be the answer to someone's prayer.
- 7:37Speaker 1: You don't have to know what it is, believe me
- 7:39Speaker 1: say Amen. Hall A lawyer Praise the Lord. The Word
- 7:45Speaker 1: of God comes to change our lives. We have cultivated
- 7:49Speaker 1: a culture of receiving the world of God with gratitude
- 7:55Speaker 1: and allowing it allow we need to change us. Those
- 8:00Speaker 1: who argue with the Word of God are those who
- 8:04Speaker 1: fail in life. Prays the Word.
- 8:06Speaker 3: The Bible says forever, Oh Lord, that word is settled.
- 8:12Speaker 1: It never said in your life.
- 8:14Speaker 3: It is settled in heaven. That's why heaven is the
- 8:16Speaker 3: way it is. When you now allow His will to
- 8:20Speaker 3: be done in your life the same way it is.
- 8:22Speaker 1: In the heavens, then the world will be settled in
- 8:24Speaker 1: your life. When the Word of God is settled in
- 8:27Speaker 1: your life, your life will change. Like day and nights.
- 8:31Speaker 1: I keep telling us week after week that we're on
- 8:34Speaker 1: a project. God is taking us somewhere. Allelujah. Many years
- 8:40Speaker 1: from now it will turn back and you will thank you.
- 8:42Speaker 1: You will say thank you for having this. Those who
- 8:45Speaker 1: think we are wasting our time trusting God in for
- 8:48Speaker 1: a shock because the Bible says darkness shall come at us.
- 8:53Speaker 1: It's a prophecy. It's not a discussion, and cross darkness
- 8:58Speaker 1: the people, Allelujah, Praise the Lord.
- 9:05Speaker 3: Tonight's teaching is a response first and instruction from God,
- 9:10Speaker 3: but then a response.
- 9:12Speaker 1: To quite a number of things that or a number
- 9:20Speaker 1: of issues that I've seen with people, families, individuals. You know,
- 9:27Speaker 1: God has given me the privilege of talking and counselling people.
- 9:33Speaker 1: An average day is a very busy day for me
- 9:36Speaker 1: because you have different things to respond to, ranging from
- 9:42Speaker 1: financial issues, marital issues, destiny issues, career issues, help issues,
- 9:48Speaker 1: demonic oppression. And it gives me a privilege as I
- 9:53Speaker 1: talk to people every time because it's an opportunity to
- 9:56Speaker 1: learn and see first hand the practically of God's world.
- 10:01Speaker 1: I have families to comfort them over bereavement, and at
- 10:05Speaker 1: the same time, you are celebrating the birth of someone
- 10:07Speaker 1: new away together. Now you are watching how disobedience is
- 10:11Speaker 1: punishing another and you are celebrating the joy of obedience.
- 10:15Speaker 1: So you are in between experiencing the revelation and the
- 10:23Speaker 1: reality of the world of God and seeing the grave
- 10:25Speaker 1: consequences that comes when we define our own idea about life.
- 10:30Speaker 3: I choose to submit to the ways of God in
- 10:33Speaker 3: the name of Jesus Christ.
- 10:35Speaker 1: So I've had a lot of issues and the Lord
- 10:38Speaker 1: just gave me a release to really really discussing tonight. Please,
- 10:42Speaker 1: I want everybody open your eyes, your spirit. Everyone will
- 10:46Speaker 1: be blessed tonight in the name of Jesus Christ.
- 10:50Speaker 3: There are two issues I want to start with.
- 10:52Speaker 9: Really, I just felt like starting out, you can call
- 10:58Speaker 9: it the part eight on a little note, since.
- 11:04Speaker 1: Valentine's on Monday or Tuesday. Tuesday, I just thought to
- 11:16Speaker 1: start from that angle and then just to contribute something,
- 11:21Speaker 1: not necessarily out of pressure, but I think that it's useful.
- 11:25Speaker 1: I'm a visionary leader by the grace of God, and
- 11:27Speaker 1: it's important to respond to people according to seasons. He said,
- 11:32Speaker 1: I will give you past us after my own heart.
- 11:35Speaker 1: They shall feed you with wisdom and understanding. Allelujah.
- 11:41Speaker 3: There there is I have seen.
- 11:48Speaker 1: Two evils.
- 11:52Speaker 3: That I believe, if not corrected, will destroy a lot
- 11:57Speaker 3: of people.
- 11:58Speaker 1: Just as an introduction that's not necessarily where I'm dwelling,
- 12:02Speaker 1: but just to connect with it. There.
- 12:07Speaker 3: There is a growing here.
- 12:09Speaker 1: That I've seen, especially among ladies, not necessarily cononial ladies.
- 12:16Speaker 1: As I talk with ladies, as I talk with women,
- 12:19Speaker 1: I'm a.
- 12:21Speaker 3: Big concern at the growing fear.
- 12:26Speaker 1: As it regards family life, most especially the fear of disappointments,
- 12:35Speaker 1: the fear of.
- 12:37Speaker 3: Expectations not coming to pass.
- 12:40Speaker 1: Then on the other side of the pendulum, I have
- 12:42Speaker 1: seen a growing sense of prostration among men, especially young men.
- 12:49Speaker 3: Are we together now? So there is on one side
- 12:52Speaker 3: here the fear that many ladies may never enter into
- 12:58Speaker 3: their desired destinies. Fears ranging from.
- 13:03Speaker 1: The projections of late marriage, fear ranging from not finding
- 13:12Speaker 1: a man that represents God's ideal standard. So there's a
- 13:17Speaker 1: lot of fear. It's like the.
- 13:19Speaker 3: Average lady is afraid. Even those who are.
- 13:21Speaker 1: Married are afraid. So it's a very interesting situation.
- 13:25Speaker 3: Then on the other hand, you have men who are frustrated.
- 13:28Speaker 1: I have seen brothers, some in Coannonia and some around
- 13:32Speaker 1: that have been able to see. You know, there's something
- 13:35Speaker 1: frustrating when you've done your best and it still doesn't work.
- 13:38Speaker 1: You know that stings. There are people who are standing
- 13:40Speaker 1: and say, look, I don't know what the key is,
- 13:43Speaker 1: but I have to find this thing. It's not working.
- 13:46Speaker 3: So I see a lot of frustrated people.
- 13:49Speaker 1: People call me apostle.
- 13:51Speaker 3: Do you know my wife?
- 13:52Speaker 1: Just get it and let me confess. Things are bad. Bad.
- 13:56Speaker 1: Nigeria is bad, my life is bad, my boss is bad.
- 14:00Speaker 3: And I just cried before God.
- 14:02Speaker 1: And I thought that it was very important to respond
- 14:07Speaker 1: to this. There are so many people who are afraid
- 14:09Speaker 1: of getting into relationships, afraid of getting married so much,
- 14:16Speaker 1: and so God will help us.
- 14:17Speaker 3: In the name of Jesus, ladies, I want to talk
- 14:22Speaker 3: to you first.
- 14:24Speaker 1: Pay very close attention.
- 14:25Speaker 3: I really want to talk to you from the depth
- 14:28Speaker 3: of my heart.
- 14:30Speaker 1: If anyone is distracting you this night, just know that
- 14:34Speaker 1: that person is really an enemy of your destiny. There
- 14:39Speaker 1: is a reality we have to come to terms with.
- 14:41Speaker 1: Look at me, please, and I'm very serious. I know
- 14:44Speaker 1: there will be a lot of laughing, but just laugh
- 14:46Speaker 1: and let your spirit be here. Praise God. The twenty
- 14:50Speaker 1: first century living, Please pay attention. Living in the twenty
- 14:56Speaker 1: first century alone is a challenge all by itself. Are
- 15:02Speaker 1: you guess what I'm saying now?
- 15:04Speaker 3: Just being a life.
- 15:05Speaker 1: I know that we have thought and people have said
- 15:08Speaker 1: that we're the most fortunate generation.
- 15:10Speaker 3: I believe that. But at the same time, there has
- 15:14Speaker 3: been no time in human history.
- 15:16Speaker 1: I tell you were living has come with sycles of
- 15:21Speaker 1: challenges like our generation.
- 15:24Speaker 3: Just being a life alone is a challenge by default.
- 15:29Speaker 3: Are together now? This is very very important, and that
- 15:34Speaker 3: means there must be an opiated.
- 15:37Speaker 1: Redefinition of concepts listen to me, ideas, redefinition of paradigms
- 15:45Speaker 1: and strategies, as regards living, as regards family life, not
- 15:50Speaker 1: necessarily a fear enough of God's.
- 15:52Speaker 3: Standard, but a redefinition of our approach.
- 15:57Speaker 1: Are you getsing what I'm saying now? You call a
- 16:00Speaker 1: man in the twenty first century, it's very different from
- 16:04Speaker 1: what was understood by a man in nineteen sixties and seventies.
- 16:09Speaker 3: Is that correct?
- 16:10Speaker 1: Yeah? So if we do not adjust to these great
- 16:14Speaker 1: definitions of concepts and ideas to be able to stand
- 16:19Speaker 1: the times that are coming, there.
- 16:20Speaker 3: Will be big disasters in Christian homes. Although born again,
- 16:25Speaker 3: although talk talking and many lives, we are going to raise.
- 16:29Speaker 1: All kinds of children who will be hooligans and a
- 16:32Speaker 1: nuisance to society. I have observed personally now and if
- 16:37Speaker 1: there are, we have a number of children here, some
- 16:40Speaker 1: very small song maybe in their teenage, but I have
- 16:43Speaker 1: observed with shock most young people from within the ages
- 16:48Speaker 1: of letsday nineteen down to thirteen, that generation has been
- 16:54Speaker 1: violently captured by the devil.
- 16:57Speaker 3: That's nineteen to thirteen.
- 17:00Speaker 1: What happened to that generation of young people? But there
- 17:03Speaker 1: is a disaster. They're they're out spoken rebellion against the
- 17:08Speaker 1: things of God is beginning to reproduce the pattern of
- 17:12Speaker 1: the American Church.
- 17:14Speaker 3: Are We Together? Yeah?
- 17:16Speaker 1: You study children, most of them are just finishing from
- 17:20Speaker 1: secondary school and maybe universities and all of that. They're
- 17:24Speaker 1: out spoken rebellion against the life of God, the ways
- 17:29Speaker 1: of God. They are really the technological generation, that's that teenage.
- 17:36Speaker 1: And if there is no redefinition of concepts and ideas,
- 17:40Speaker 1: there will be a very serious challenge. The average present
- 17:43Speaker 1: parent does not even know how the concept of parenting
- 17:47Speaker 1: because it has changed. Back in the older days, the
- 17:52Speaker 1: parents were the principal instructors of a child. But right
- 17:56Speaker 1: now the average child has many teachers. Are the school
- 18:01Speaker 1: teachers are just one. The parents are even the least.
- 18:05Speaker 1: There are many other things. There's Facebook to teach, there's
- 18:09Speaker 1: YouTube to teach.
- 18:10Speaker 3: Are we Together? Gone? Are the days where you can
- 18:13Speaker 3: you can off a television and say sit down and
- 18:16Speaker 3: read your book. You off a.
- 18:17Speaker 1: Television, He switches it on on his device. Think about that.
- 18:25Speaker 1: The advancement in technology is a double edged sword. It's
- 18:29Speaker 1: made certain destinies and created potentials for the destruction of others,
- 18:33Speaker 1: so I really would want to talk to us.
- 18:37Speaker 3: Ladies. Let me start with you.
- 18:39Speaker 1: There are certain things, sisters.
- 18:42Speaker 3: I love you, and I'm speaking to you from the
- 18:44Speaker 3: depth of my heart.
- 18:45Speaker 1: If you listen to me, you will be safe. If
- 18:47Speaker 1: you are stubborn and you don't listen, I guarantee you
- 18:49Speaker 1: you would.
- 18:50Speaker 3: Have defined a part that will lead to tears. Are
- 18:52Speaker 3: we together now? Say amen? Sisters?
- 18:55Speaker 1: Yeh doesn't mean people who maybe ladies who are not
- 18:58Speaker 1: yet married us, anybody. Really, there are certain things a
- 19:05Speaker 1: lady must finding a man or the wise, don't marry him.
- 19:09Speaker 3: Write it down.
- 19:10Speaker 1: I've upgraded my curriculum on this. Will you will be
- 19:13Speaker 1: intrusted to hear the things I'm going to tell you? Now?
- 19:18Speaker 3: Thorough up great? Just four things.
- 19:20Speaker 1: I've summarized every cry of every sister to four things.
- 19:25Speaker 1: Whether you know it or not, just believe me. Any
- 19:32Speaker 1: brother that does not come along these lines is dangerous.
- 19:36Speaker 3: Sisters.
- 19:37Speaker 1: What did I say he is shouted? I didn't say
- 19:41Speaker 1: he's bad. I said he's dangerous. I don't care whether
- 19:45Speaker 1: the brother is Joshua Sellman. I don't care whether the
- 19:48Speaker 1: brother has a Bible on top of his head.
- 19:50Speaker 3: If these four.
- 19:51Speaker 1: Things are not in place. Your home will be a
- 19:54Speaker 1: disaster and your children.
- 19:56Speaker 3: Will be a disaster already.
- 19:58Speaker 1: Number one, you have no business talking about relationship and
- 20:03Speaker 1: marriage with any man who is not God hearing.
- 20:09Speaker 3: Don't be too fast. Allow me to properly define what
- 20:12Speaker 3: I mean by God sharing. Not this I did is
- 20:14Speaker 3: their bonne again.
- 20:17Speaker 1: Because that thing has been abused in the.
- 20:19Speaker 3: Twenty first century.
- 20:22Speaker 1: A bonne again brother is not one who came out
- 20:24Speaker 1: for all the God and you witnessed him raising his hand.
- 20:27Speaker 3: That's not gone again God sharing.
- 20:32Speaker 1: The primary reason why society is in diggadence, listen to me,
- 20:37Speaker 1: is because the men are not God hearing. The share
- 20:41Speaker 1: of the Lord is not believing in God. There are
- 20:43Speaker 1: two different things. Faith in God and the share of
- 20:47Speaker 1: God are two different things. I can't have faith in
- 20:51Speaker 1: God and not hear God.
- 20:55Speaker 3: Are we together now? Yeah?
- 20:58Speaker 1: There are many says. It stills Christians who are not
- 21:03Speaker 1: God hearing. And listen, look at this. I am a Christian,
- 21:10Speaker 1: I am a child of God. My life is governed
- 21:13Speaker 1: by a reference.
- 21:14Speaker 3: Listen. The Bible is my reference. Are we together now?
- 21:18Speaker 1: My decisions are made with respect to this reference. So
- 21:24Speaker 1: when you tell me you are a husband, what reference
- 21:27Speaker 1: are you leading your life and your family?
- 21:30Speaker 3: So many people come to church.
- 21:33Speaker 1: But there is no reference upon which their lives, their ideologists,
- 21:37Speaker 1: and their decisions come from. So they just hilariously come
- 21:43Speaker 1: up with concepts and ideas about parenting and they have
- 21:47Speaker 1: destroyed the lives of innocent women.
- 21:50Speaker 3: There are many women.
- 21:51Speaker 1: In the last two weeks the number of married women
- 21:54Speaker 1: have had to counsel.
- 21:56Speaker 3: And the pair that the average married women woman.
- 22:00Speaker 1: Goes through and their hot is unpeable. They laughing, they
- 22:04Speaker 1: open or they're tying in the secret. And the sad
- 22:07Speaker 1: thing is that most of the men are bunishing summer,
- 22:16Speaker 1: even bishops priests since Etiople dickens.
- 22:27Speaker 3: What does it mean to be God sharing? To be
- 22:30Speaker 3: God sharing number one.
- 22:31Speaker 1: Means to have reence respect for God, not just to
- 22:37Speaker 1: believe in God, but to have resends for God. Let's
- 22:41Speaker 1: sorry over number two. To be God sharing means to
- 22:47Speaker 1: submit to the ways of God. Submit to the world
- 22:51Speaker 1: of God as the final authority in all matters.
- 22:57Speaker 3: Write this one down to sub me to the world
- 23:00Speaker 3: of God at the.
- 23:02Speaker 1: Final authority in all matters, not some matters. So you
- 23:10Speaker 1: don't mix the world of God and culture. In our place,
- 23:15Speaker 1: this is how we do it. No, in our village,
- 23:20Speaker 1: this is how it is done. This diversity of concept
- 23:29Speaker 1: has largely destroyed many good men, turn them into beasts
- 23:34Speaker 1: and animals, because there is no central life, scripture based
- 23:38Speaker 1: reference upon which the activities are carried out. Listen, let
- 23:42Speaker 1: me tell you something. There is no man that is bad.
- 23:46Speaker 1: When they tell you a man is bad. When a
- 23:48Speaker 1: woman looks at a husband, when a young lady looks
- 23:51Speaker 1: at someone SHOs just in a relationship with and says
- 23:53Speaker 1: you are bad, the concept of bad does not exist.
- 23:56Speaker 1: There is no man who is bad. Every man is
- 24:00Speaker 1: like a video playing out his mindset. It is the thinking,
- 24:04Speaker 1: the ideology of a man that expresses him as bad.
- 24:08Speaker 1: That is why an ambrother can carry the same body,
- 24:11Speaker 1: and in two years the umbroba has become a pastor.
- 24:15Speaker 1: The body did not change. Something changed. The same hand
- 24:18Speaker 1: that once held a god and was brutal over people
- 24:22Speaker 1: now holds a Bible and his saving sinners.
- 24:24Speaker 3: There is nothing called a bad man.
- 24:28Speaker 1: I've interacted with some people who are supposedly bad, some
- 24:33Speaker 1: of them old enough to be my parents, and I've
- 24:35Speaker 1: discovered that intrinsically every man is good.
- 24:39Speaker 3: Their approach was wrong, and so their life became a script.
- 24:43Speaker 1: Play.
- 24:44Speaker 3: Now some of you are looking at me now broaders.
- 24:46Speaker 1: As sincere as you are, you are about to replay
- 24:49Speaker 1: the same script. If you don't change, you will be
- 24:52Speaker 1: shocked to see how you will find out that what
- 24:55Speaker 1: you desire.
- 24:56Speaker 3: Let me tell you there is no bad man who
- 24:59Speaker 3: married his wife destroy her. Are you hearing me? Not body,
- 25:03Speaker 3: I'm a man. I've been a man all my life.
- 25:04Speaker 3: I'm not just being man now, So you have to
- 25:06Speaker 3: listen to me.
- 25:07Speaker 1: I know exactly.
- 25:10Speaker 3: Men are not bad people, but there are concepts that
- 25:15Speaker 3: have turned men into peasts. Are we together God's hearing
- 25:23Speaker 3: person the word of God.
- 25:26Speaker 1: I always give this analogy when I'm counseling people. Listen,
- 25:29Speaker 1: if wife, if watch this, this is.
- 25:35Speaker 3: My wife, and I want the television to be here. Everybody,
- 25:40Speaker 3: look of this is television.
- 25:41Speaker 1: Now. I want the TV to be here, and my
- 25:44Speaker 1: wife says, my husband, this TV has to be here.
- 25:48Speaker 3: There is a conflict of ideas.
- 25:50Speaker 1: Now. To be God's hearing means both of us must
- 25:53Speaker 1: have the honest shamedness, or at.
- 25:55Speaker 3: Least I to say, what does the world of God
- 25:58Speaker 3: say about TV is the what of God says there
- 26:00Speaker 3: should be no TV? What happens to my will?
- 26:03Speaker 1: I sold my will to let the will of God prevail.
- 26:07Speaker 1: There is no family that will suffer when the man
- 26:10Speaker 1: can accept the will of God. The problem is usually
- 26:14Speaker 1: the will of the man. And I look at her
- 26:15Speaker 1: and said, what part of your dowdy didn't I pin?
- 26:17Speaker 1: You talk to me?
- 26:18Speaker 3: I will slap you. Forget that I'm a man of God.
- 26:21Speaker 3: I'm a man. Is just that time of God? You
- 26:23Speaker 3: talk to me, I will slap you. Are we together?
- 26:31Speaker 3: And you know men, we are very arrogant people.
- 26:34Speaker 1: We can be entry health fire and claim that it's
- 26:36Speaker 1: easy well, and black people in trouble until we do
- 26:40Speaker 1: didn't gear and then we say, well, I did not
- 26:43Speaker 1: exactly understand the configuration of a man is touch that
- 26:48Speaker 1: we have a lot to protect. That's why submedian to
- 26:53Speaker 1: the ways of God is very hard. That's why in
- 26:55Speaker 1: most true says, women are more the men don't come.
- 26:58Speaker 1: There would rather words from television, and neither one received
- 27:02Speaker 1: the same miracle.
- 27:03Speaker 3: But to come and be healed, they feel is an insult.
- 27:05Speaker 1: I'm a director of amps, but tonight I pray that
- 27:11Speaker 1: God will raise men who can submit and.
- 27:14Speaker 3: Not the song the worship team.
- 27:15Speaker 1: Son, Look, there is nothing as excellent as a man,
- 27:20Speaker 1: especially a young man, who has submitted to the will
- 27:25Speaker 1: of God in every matter. It doesn't matter how it
- 27:28Speaker 1: stings my ego. Once the word of God contradicts my concept,
- 27:33Speaker 1: I pen I don't look for an explanation, No, sir,
- 27:39Speaker 1: it is being God's hearing that will make you never
- 27:42Speaker 1: to carry your hand and beat your wife. You are angry,
- 27:45Speaker 1: But what did the Bible say about wives. It's a
- 27:48Speaker 1: threat them as onto weakerves. So when you slave your
- 27:52Speaker 1: wife and you are bullying, You're not just a stupid man.
- 27:54Speaker 3: You are not.
- 27:55Speaker 1: Submitting to the ways of God.
- 27:57Speaker 3: When you love your wife just because she made a
- 27:59Speaker 3: nice head.
- 28:00Speaker 1: He now you are talking.
- 28:02Speaker 3: You are Kanner number one.
- 28:04Speaker 1: That is not even true love, because the Bible says
- 28:07Speaker 1: husbands love their wife. Christ love the church. So the
- 28:12Speaker 1: thing is to study how Christ love the church. He said,
- 28:14Speaker 1: while we went yet seeing us undeserving, unqualified induces in
- 28:19Speaker 1: Christ love those. So when a man has to furnish
- 28:24Speaker 1: his wife to end his love by dressing, well, I'm
- 28:27Speaker 1: not against good dressing.
- 28:29Speaker 3: I'm not against looking. Well, I'm not against all of
- 28:31Speaker 3: these things.
- 28:33Speaker 1: But if you force your your wife to have to
- 28:36Speaker 1: succumb to those things, that day she sees another woman
- 28:40Speaker 1: who has those things much more than how, she becomes
- 28:42Speaker 1: insecure because she knows how unpredictable your love is. The
- 28:47Speaker 1: fear of the Lord, Thank you, Many men do not
- 28:51Speaker 1: fear God. Principles of parenting. Do you know that there
- 28:57Speaker 1: are families and there are cultious for in SS that
- 29:00Speaker 1: teach that a man can beat his wife at least
- 29:03Speaker 1: once or twice, so that when you bit her, she
- 29:07Speaker 1: would know that this is not a stupid It's not
- 29:09Speaker 1: as easy. I mean, it's a show of masculinity. I
- 29:13Speaker 1: senor you in age, in strength, in whatever it is
- 29:16Speaker 1: in salary, and you joke with me. I beat you once,
- 29:19Speaker 1: and I ask you for forgiveness. I'm forgiving you. You
- 29:21Speaker 1: are forgiving me.
- 29:22Speaker 3: But the memory of what happened will keep you in place.
- 29:26Speaker 1: That has worked for a lot of people.
- 29:28Speaker 3: But I hate it. I don't care whether it.
- 29:30Speaker 1: Works or not.
- 29:31Speaker 3: It's not consistent to the world of God. The word
- 29:33Speaker 3: of God is not about what works or not.
- 29:35Speaker 1: It's about what God says.
- 29:37Speaker 3: If I apply the word of God and it.
- 29:39Speaker 1: Does not work, I will still remain here, not because
- 29:41Speaker 1: of the result it produces, but because that's what came
- 29:44Speaker 1: out of the mouth of God. That's what it means
- 29:46Speaker 1: to me. And I don't follow out the world since
- 29:52Speaker 1: as are you listening? Unfortunately, now we live in a
- 29:58Speaker 1: generation where and please don't don't.
- 30:00Speaker 3: Find this insulting. Many of our sisters, some of you
- 30:03Speaker 3: are here looking at me. Now, you are so callipool.
- 30:07Speaker 1: Just anybody just comes wherever he has small money, small whatever.
- 30:12Speaker 1: You are praying tongues, Yet you are not allowing what
- 30:15Speaker 1: you are praying to inform the decisions. I am shocked
- 30:19Speaker 1: where some ladies bring some brothers.
- 30:21Speaker 3: To me and say I like him. I want to say,
- 30:23Speaker 3: where did you keep your brain? I taught you so
- 30:25Speaker 3: many things.
- 30:26Speaker 1: Look at the kind of person you are dragging, completely
- 30:34Speaker 1: Antichrist in his approach.
- 30:39Speaker 3: Why do you love him? He loves me, he said Christian,
- 30:43Speaker 3: he's saying nice.
- 30:44Speaker 1: He comes around. Listen, let me tell you something.
- 30:48Speaker 3: Another wife, Well, just for this example.
- 30:52Speaker 1: You're not badmitted to marry another wife.
- 30:54Speaker 3: Listen watch this everyone.
- 30:56Speaker 1: Do you know the only thing you cannot change in
- 30:59Speaker 1: your life is God and your wife and children.
- 31:03Speaker 3: You are supposed to.
- 31:04Speaker 1: Change your clothes after some time you are permitted as
- 31:08Speaker 1: lovely as this plot, and where it is after a
- 31:11Speaker 1: few months is to faith and I'll throw it where
- 31:13Speaker 1: and so another one. So it's amassing how you can
- 31:16Speaker 1: love something now and hate it. But the Bible says
- 31:19Speaker 1: you are staying with that woman because they're knowing you
- 31:22Speaker 1: can't change her like a cloth, meaning you must find
- 31:24Speaker 1: out from God what he must put in you are
- 31:27Speaker 1: her to make her remain fresh. If you change clothes,
- 31:30Speaker 1: change phone, change God. And yes, the Bible says you
- 31:34Speaker 1: cannot change your wife. You must find out Lord. And
- 31:37Speaker 1: the woman is growing old. So it means you must
- 31:40Speaker 1: do something to me that is beyond the physical to
- 31:43Speaker 1: keep me faithful. I told you tonight my heart is
- 31:48Speaker 1: it's dantingly. Were just warming the plane we most rich
- 31:52Speaker 1: that altitude this night. In the name of Jesus Christ,
- 31:58Speaker 1: God fearing, I want you to bond this revelation. The
- 32:03Speaker 1: first thing to look at in a man is not
- 32:05Speaker 1: the car he brought Hello, Say hi hello, because some
- 32:10Speaker 1: of you, if we don't press you like this. You
- 32:13Speaker 1: know I've discovered in church that many people don't listen
- 32:17Speaker 1: as we're talking like this, they're looking at you.
- 32:19Speaker 3: They're even writing, but your hands are already made up.
- 32:23Speaker 1: No, sir, I'm saving you trouble. You would thank me
- 32:29Speaker 1: for it, not everything that glitters his gold. And don't
- 32:35Speaker 1: let anyone pressure you, whether parents or friends, and say,
- 32:38Speaker 1: after all, what is there he can't take care of us?
- 32:41Speaker 1: What is your idea of care? By you things?
- 32:49Speaker 3: I went together a God sharing man, a man. He
- 32:53Speaker 3: doesn't have to be a pastor.
- 32:55Speaker 1: Ah. God sharing has nothing to do with a pastor.
- 32:58Speaker 1: God sharing has nothing to do we pray eight hours.
- 33:01Speaker 1: A man can pray eight hours and not be God hearing.
- 33:04Speaker 3: I told you there is a.
- 33:05Speaker 1: Difference between believing God and having a reverence for God.
- 33:11Speaker 1: I hear what I'm saying now, the fear of God
- 33:15Speaker 1: sub meeting to the authority of the world, sub meeting
- 33:19Speaker 1: to the authority of the world. So you may be Ego,
- 33:22Speaker 1: you may be Houser, you may be e robat, you
- 33:24Speaker 1: may be Carduna's stage whatever not.
- 33:27Speaker 3: Ann you may be from another nation of the world.
- 33:29Speaker 1: It does not matter. The issue of this is how
- 33:32Speaker 1: we do it in our place. This is how we
- 33:35Speaker 1: tea is in our place. Our fathers used to our
- 33:38Speaker 1: this used to have no no no people do those
- 33:40Speaker 1: kinds of nonsense things.
- 33:42Speaker 3: Do you know how this really shoes?
- 33:44Speaker 1: How to conform to the world of God has brought
- 33:46Speaker 1: trouble between people. The reason why many marriages are not
- 33:51Speaker 1: working parenting. So the man has his idea on how
- 33:56Speaker 1: to raise children. He got it from his friends, He
- 33:59Speaker 1: got it from from bad people. Are we together now?
- 34:03Speaker 3: Do you know? The average young child was not really
- 34:07Speaker 3: trained by his parents. He just lived with them.
- 34:09Speaker 1: It's one thing to live with me, but it's another
- 34:12Speaker 1: thing to be mentored and trained by me.
- 34:14Speaker 3: That you are going around in my house does not
- 34:16Speaker 3: mean I'm training you.
- 34:18Speaker 1: The Bible said train off a child. He did say
- 34:20Speaker 1: live with him. Many people are living with their children,
- 34:24Speaker 1: but they are not training their children. So their children
- 34:26Speaker 1: get the training from their friends, bad books, bad magazines,
- 34:32Speaker 1: robbish shams, nonsense photos and pictures, and by the time
- 34:37Speaker 1: that child is ten or eleven years, somebody else is
- 34:39Speaker 1: training him. How does the train move they're connected. The
- 34:46Speaker 1: train will not move against where the head of the
- 34:49Speaker 1: train is moving. So training child means set the pace.
- 34:53Speaker 1: Don't tell them to do it, leave them in doing it.
- 34:57Speaker 1: You don't ask a child to balue cigarettes and then
- 34:59Speaker 1: as it drops his safe by CATCHU with cigarettes. I
- 35:01Speaker 1: would chill you by myself. I've told you smoking is
- 35:05Speaker 1: very bad. Forget that I'm doing it. You are not
- 35:08Speaker 1: training the child is God's speaking to us. What I'm
- 35:14Speaker 1: saying is a very serious thing.
- 35:20Speaker 3: God hearing. Number two, ladies, The.
- 35:22Speaker 1: Second thing that you must in this order, in this order,
- 35:27Speaker 1: it has to be in disorder. The second thing is
- 35:31Speaker 1: that that man must submit to an earthly authority. I'm
- 35:36Speaker 1: giving you redefined twenty first century worlcompliant. He must be
- 35:43Speaker 1: able to submit to an earthly authority for mentorship, for building,
- 35:49Speaker 1: for correction. There are many families in trouble today because
- 35:53Speaker 1: there is no authoritative figure over the life of the horsband.
- 35:58Speaker 3: There's no man that can call him say no, no,
- 36:00Speaker 3: what you are doing is wrong.
- 36:01Speaker 1: He can beat the wife and almost kill her. He's
- 36:05Speaker 1: a god of himself. Never marry a man who does
- 36:08Speaker 1: not have a pastor, a mentor, a spiritual authority, an
- 36:12Speaker 1: elderly person. There must be a personality that he has
- 36:16Speaker 1: covenanted to listen to the person say amen, very powerful revelation,
- 36:23Speaker 1: I give you there are many ladies who say, ah,
- 36:27Speaker 1: you're in a relationship, say I think you should see
- 36:29Speaker 1: a postposo for what? What?
- 36:31Speaker 3: What should I see him for? That's how after he
- 36:33Speaker 3: slaps you and say let's go and see your post
- 36:35Speaker 3: we say for what. Listen. No matter how wrong a
- 36:40Speaker 3: man and a woman is, if there is someone for
- 36:43Speaker 3: them to listen, you are still safe. You are still safe.
- 36:50Speaker 1: I've had the privilege of talking with a lot of couples.
- 36:52Speaker 1: I remember one couple, the fourteen Carduna.
- 36:55Speaker 3: It was a brutal fight.
- 36:56Speaker 1: Police had to come police for husband and wife and
- 37:00Speaker 1: and their crestens.
- 37:01Speaker 3: The woman just took she could not take it that there.
- 37:04Speaker 1: She decided that, look, I would try my best, whatever
- 37:07Speaker 1: would I will have to attends this man today. True.
- 37:10Speaker 3: Sorry.
- 37:12Speaker 1: And two of them, after the doors settled the police,
- 37:15Speaker 1: who told them, look, you're married people, don't make it
- 37:17Speaker 1: full out of yourself. Go and you can you know
- 37:20Speaker 1: how to fix things up. Two of them agreed that
- 37:23Speaker 1: they were going to report themselves to me. So they
- 37:25Speaker 1: reported themselves and then they came for counseling. Do you
- 37:28Speaker 1: know at the end of that counseling, simply because they
- 37:33Speaker 1: were people who understood submission. At the end of it,
- 37:36Speaker 1: the man was ugging his wife and he he never
- 37:38Speaker 1: slept her.
- 37:39Speaker 3: Nice people, and as first I know, things are working.
- 37:42Speaker 3: It was a very minor issue.
- 37:43Speaker 1: And all of that, sisters, please hear in the name
- 37:49Speaker 1: of Jesus, the twenty first century has changed things. Some
- 37:55Speaker 1: of us.
- 37:55Speaker 3: This is the day Lemma that our fathers came in.
- 37:58Speaker 1: They had been beating her does for many years there
- 38:01Speaker 1: as some of us.
- 38:02Speaker 3: If there was an authority figure, the divorce would not
- 38:04Speaker 3: have happened.
- 38:05Speaker 1: There was no one.
- 38:06Speaker 3: The man decides he's the god of the family.
- 38:09Speaker 1: The day he decides to descend upon.
- 38:12Speaker 3: The family with raw, everybody is in trouble.
- 38:17Speaker 1: Sisters. The man must be able to show you clearly
- 38:21Speaker 1: what authority figure is in his life.
- 38:23Speaker 3: Do you know why?
- 38:24Speaker 1: Let me tell you this a mecca come sweet dot com,
- 38:28Speaker 1: assuming sand here, assuming this lady, a mecca comes to
- 38:33Speaker 1: ask this lady out and says he wants to marry her.
- 38:36Speaker 1: Do you know if she tells him and says, okay,
- 38:38Speaker 1: whatever it is, this is an authority.
- 38:41Speaker 3: If she go in my life and I would like
- 38:43Speaker 3: you to see him, do you know why the man
- 38:45Speaker 3: would run away?
- 38:46Speaker 1: Because He doesn't plan to be faithful, and he doesn't
- 38:48Speaker 1: want anything that would tie him too much. He wants
- 38:52Speaker 1: an opportunity to see the doing runs at the side, Hello,
- 38:56Speaker 1: I wait together.
- 38:57Speaker 3: So he's hoping that by and they're notating himself. There
- 39:02Speaker 3: are many brothers who claim to love you people.
- 39:04Speaker 1: They come and drop you for cononia and go away,
- 39:07Speaker 1: and after the grace they now come and pick you.
- 39:09Speaker 1: That's dangerous, Naomi told Ruth. He said, Ruth told Noaomi.
- 39:16Speaker 1: He says, my god will be your god, your people
- 39:19Speaker 1: will be My people.
- 39:22Speaker 3: Are well together.
- 39:23Speaker 1: Because if I know this guy with this lady tomorrow,
- 39:28Speaker 1: if I see us smiling at somebody, I have the
- 39:30Speaker 1: right to ask a question and say, I hope that
- 39:32Speaker 1: guy is your brother. That smile is too generous for Josh.
- 39:37Speaker 3: Are not narraly this thing?
- 39:38Speaker 1: So what is the issue? And if there is an issue,
- 39:41Speaker 1: I will at least try to find out It's all right.
- 39:44Speaker 1: I think the issues are irreconcilable, but at least that
- 39:47Speaker 1: there is some level there is this or dying the
- 39:49Speaker 1: body of Christ. Because every body is doing anything.
- 39:53Speaker 3: That's why you can.
- 39:54Speaker 1: Find one brother with twenty year friends scattered all around.
- 39:58Speaker 3: And they never know themselves.
- 40:01Speaker 1: Yeah, the broduct can be leading worship. Yeah, the broduct
- 40:05Speaker 1: can be a first one in charge of M, B
- 40:07Speaker 1: and C.
- 40:10Speaker 3: You will tell this one now might just be waiting.
- 40:12Speaker 3: You will. Let me just put things in place.
- 40:14Speaker 1: While you're doing that, it's already printing traditional wedding cab.
- 40:19Speaker 1: How many ladies have been heartbroken a brother that has
- 40:22Speaker 1: told them he has even met their parents while they
- 40:24Speaker 1: are happy, The next thing.
- 40:25Speaker 3: They just see a wedding card.
- 40:27Speaker 1: This is to notify you that the family of AMB
- 40:29Speaker 1: is marrying C and D in different places, very careless,
- 40:36Speaker 1: and we make the choice look stupid. Let me tell
- 40:38Speaker 1: you there's order in the body of Christ. Many people
- 40:40Speaker 1: who hear what I'm saying and think you know this orderliness.
- 40:43Speaker 3: Will always empower Satan.
- 40:48Speaker 1: This orderliness of any sort will always empower Satan. The
- 40:52Speaker 1: Bible says, let all things be done decently and in order.
- 40:56Speaker 1: Bless you, Bless you.
- 40:58Speaker 3: Number three very quickly? Are you getting blessed?
- 41:02Speaker 1: So, sister's the first thing you should look at in
- 41:04Speaker 1: a man.
- 41:05Speaker 3: And if you are married and your husband doesn't have this,
- 41:07Speaker 3: begin to.
- 41:08Speaker 1: Labor in the place of prayer. Labor generously in the
- 41:11Speaker 1: place of prayer. Lord, turn the heart of this man.
- 41:14Speaker 1: He must be God hearing. I'm married. The deed has
- 41:17Speaker 1: been done. But Lord, you can still steping. You are
- 41:20Speaker 1: the God of the second chance. Stephie, I will never
- 41:25Speaker 1: allow my daughter to marry anybody that is not God hearing.
- 41:30Speaker 1: Bring a hip, bring a plane, carry hamper for me.
- 41:34Speaker 1: All that one is your cup of tea.
- 41:36Speaker 3: If you are not God hearing, the first question I'll
- 41:39Speaker 3: ask is not what you studied.
- 41:40Speaker 1: Or where you have a job.
- 41:42Speaker 3: Are you right with God and you know that you're not?
- 41:44Speaker 3: Just tell me yes, I said, that's all right. Let's
- 41:45Speaker 3: go to the next persod.
- 41:46Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, We'll stay there and press it.
- 41:49Speaker 1: Right with God needs words. Yeah, you don't just say
- 41:56Speaker 1: I'm right with God. I remember what I remember living it. Okay,
- 41:59Speaker 1: that's all. No, No, I can in five minutes through
- 42:03Speaker 1: your words, I can know you are just a church goer.
- 42:05Speaker 1: You don't fear God. Let's restore the fear of God
- 42:14Speaker 1: so that our children will be raised. You send children
- 42:17Speaker 1: to school, you have finished training your children in the
- 42:20Speaker 1: fear of God. Then now one meets a very indisciplined
- 42:24Speaker 1: child who came from a family that does not fear God,
- 42:27Speaker 1: and start making your child who fears God feel like
- 42:30Speaker 1: and you fear your person is don't know what happens
- 42:32Speaker 1: to some of us growing you let good Christ their
- 42:34Speaker 1: families the dead. They were talking about pornographic movies. You've
- 42:37Speaker 1: never known anything like that. Inside, I don't know anything this, say,
- 42:40Speaker 1: are you joking? You are fourteen years you've never wasched this,
- 42:44Speaker 1: and they make you feel guilty for loving God. And
- 42:47Speaker 1: it's that jill that drives me say no, I have
- 42:49Speaker 1: to educate my mind. And look at what has happened
- 42:51Speaker 1: to your life. Now you are God alone from before
- 42:57Speaker 1: time bigger, you are on your row. You're right and
- 43:07Speaker 1: right there.
- 43:10Speaker 3: S you are an.
- 43:15Speaker 1: You been determined to correct the mistakes of your parents
- 43:21Speaker 1: with your life. You are being insulted your father, you
- 43:23Speaker 1: are being insulted your mother.
- 43:25Speaker 3: Is now your chance? Oh of course I want to
- 43:28Speaker 3: marry this year.
- 43:29Speaker 1: Congrat relations boy, you're listen carefully. Do you know some people,
- 43:32Speaker 1: if not for this teaching, you are about to make
- 43:34Speaker 1: a blonder is Valentine Because they've always come around this time,
- 43:38Speaker 1: wolves in ship's clothing, they stroll around, and they come
- 43:41Speaker 1: and look for good charge ladies well called George Christian
- 43:44Speaker 1: jails who they can play with your mind because of
- 43:47Speaker 1: the innos types of the world. There are many ladies.
- 43:51Speaker 1: If it's not a judge girl and eye as open.
- 43:53Speaker 1: When the guy does nonsense, you would judgeman say, well die,
- 43:56Speaker 1: they are not a stupid persis. I will show you
- 43:58Speaker 1: that I'll do. I mean, lady, but a nice world
- 44:01Speaker 1: for your church. Gail has been trained to respect men,
- 44:04Speaker 1: has been trained to behave well. Many bad boys like
- 44:08Speaker 1: church girls because they avoid trouble. The pastor has turned
- 44:12Speaker 1: the walk so I can easily mane. It pulates them
- 44:15Speaker 1: into nonsense. And the guy who use the scripture and say,
- 44:17Speaker 1: don't shout at me. Remember what Apostle said, he says
- 44:20Speaker 1: true a Poston said we should be nice. They always
- 44:26Speaker 1: look for these videos and come and destroy.
- 44:29Speaker 3: The life of ladies. It tells me when I see
- 44:32Speaker 3: very nice.
- 44:33Speaker 1: Ladies and their entire life has been clashed and crumbled
- 44:37Speaker 1: by very bad boys because their since here they're innocent.
- 44:41Speaker 1: And you know why we perstors don't teach it because
- 44:44Speaker 1: we think it's not necessary. So we allow people to
- 44:47Speaker 1: make all their mistakes and destroy their lives and destinies.
- 44:50Speaker 1: I get text messages literally every day, one trouble after
- 44:55Speaker 1: another in a family. Please, ladies, listen to me very carefully.
- 45:04Speaker 3: God's hearing submission to an ethnic authority.
- 45:09Speaker 1: I have seen how beautiful many homes have become, not
- 45:13Speaker 1: necessarily because the men are so godly, but the power
- 45:16Speaker 1: of submission. The Lord has revealed things to me about
- 45:19Speaker 1: certain families. And I've called the husbands to say, a husband,
- 45:22Speaker 1: who do you want to adjust AMD ANDC. I think
- 45:25Speaker 1: you are doing this to your wife. I think you
- 45:27Speaker 1: are doing this to your children. Oh, of course to
- 45:29Speaker 1: I didn't know it was this way, all right. Direction
- 45:33Speaker 1: Number three, sister, you are praying or considering a man
- 45:39Speaker 1: to marry, or you are married, that man must have
- 45:43Speaker 1: passion for you, not love.
- 45:46Speaker 3: Passion.
- 45:48Speaker 1: Passion is an adjective that qualifies the extent of love.
- 45:56Speaker 1: I love you. It's not a language that is useful
- 45:59Speaker 1: again in de geriation, because it has been abused. I
- 46:03Speaker 1: get what I'm saying. One child can be somewhere holding
- 46:06Speaker 1: his neighbor, And as your Baddy says, is that I
- 46:08Speaker 1: love you.
- 46:08Speaker 3: So people don't even know what I love you means
- 46:11Speaker 3: a game. I love you means something canal and fleshly.
- 46:18Speaker 1: Person.
- 46:19Speaker 3: Please look at me. Let me tell you any man
- 46:23Speaker 3: who does not have passion for you will be unfaithful.
- 46:27Speaker 1: Write it down.
- 46:28Speaker 3: Write it down and put my name under.
- 46:30Speaker 1: Don't post anything and put my neighbor. Write it down
- 46:33Speaker 1: for your consumption. Any man with no persion for his wife,
- 46:39Speaker 1: I give you an iron clap guarantee he will be
- 46:42Speaker 1: un faithful.
- 46:43Speaker 3: It's not if, it's when. Do you know. Let me
- 46:47Speaker 3: tell you a shocking truth.
- 46:49Speaker 1: Do you know that over seventy five to eighty percent
- 46:52Speaker 1: of men, even in Christian families, married men within the
- 46:57Speaker 1: first five years of their marriage have been on faithful
- 46:59Speaker 1: to their wife statistically confirmed.
- 47:04Speaker 3: I told you it's not because they're bad passion. It
- 47:09Speaker 3: is passion.
- 47:10Speaker 1: Persion is more than physical, stature and word and all
- 47:14Speaker 1: of these things. Are we together now? Yeah? So that's
- 47:19Speaker 1: why I hate arranging marriage. I'm saying it again. You
- 47:22Speaker 1: know it. I've told you a marriage that from nowhere
- 47:25Speaker 1: you are just standing and the comments say here's the lady.
- 47:28Speaker 1: It's okay.
- 47:28Speaker 3: You can suggest, you can recommend, and people can pray,
- 47:31Speaker 3: but where you just.
- 47:32Speaker 1: Agree and the day the person is appearing is the
- 47:35Speaker 1: day ring is entering your hand.
- 47:36Speaker 3: Hey, you're in big, big, big, big trouble.
- 47:39Speaker 1: Because the man is only marrying a wife, not a friend.
- 47:43Speaker 1: It is a friend that sticket closer than a brother.
- 47:50Speaker 1: Any marriage where there is no persion, their most be
- 47:53Speaker 1: of faithfulness it's not there will be their most be
- 47:57Speaker 1: of faithfulness. A man cannot struggle indefinitely contemplating his love
- 48:03Speaker 1: for his wife. He will find an alternative.
- 48:06Speaker 3: And what a generation with many alternatives. His secondary is there.
- 48:10Speaker 3: If she's not there, the other one is there.
- 48:12Speaker 1: If she's not allowed. Another devil is there somewhere in
- 48:15Speaker 1: the hotel. If she's not there, in receptionists of.
- 48:18Speaker 3: Another place in somewhere.
- 48:19Speaker 1: At every given point, there is somebody waiting to destroy
- 48:23Speaker 1: your husband. There are certain women, There are spirits that
- 48:26Speaker 1: walk in them only married men.
- 48:28Speaker 3: If they see a young man, no matter what you have,
- 48:30Speaker 3: is not there. But once they see you you are married.
- 48:32Speaker 1: What a joy? If you complain about your wife said, ah,
- 48:36Speaker 1: what can of a woman whill press such a nice
- 48:38Speaker 1: man as this? That's right, he's starting, he's starting. That's
- 48:42Speaker 1: exactly what the.
- 48:43Speaker 3: Man wants here.
- 48:44Speaker 1: I'm very serious with what I'm sharing tonight. Passion When
- 48:49Speaker 1: two people come, you know, to introduce themselves. They just coming,
- 48:53Speaker 1: says their own answers, as if he let everybody. You
- 48:56Speaker 1: a God, just calm down, because this most are not passion.
- 49:02Speaker 1: Person is not the physical.
- 49:04Speaker 3: Ex passion you are all around the lady.
- 49:06Speaker 1: That's not passion. Sometimes it's just jealousy and your personality.
- 49:10Speaker 1: It's not persion.
- 49:13Speaker 3: Person is the.
- 49:14Speaker 1: Depth of resolve, is a resolve within you that through that, lady,
- 49:19Speaker 1: you have gotten satisfaction and fulfillment, no need for another.
- 49:23Speaker 1: The Bible puts in excellently, many daughters have done well,
- 49:27Speaker 1: but now expercel lest them. A man who cannot say
- 49:31Speaker 1: that to his wife is already a dangerous man. It
- 49:34Speaker 1: is true.
- 49:35Speaker 3: I know that you may not be the most beautiful lady.
- 49:38Speaker 1: Let's tell the truth. I've seen this lady. I know
- 49:40Speaker 1: she's beautiful. For you are my wife.
- 49:42Speaker 3: You occupy a place that you alone can stay.
- 49:45Speaker 1: May God raise men who can speak like that, not
- 49:52Speaker 1: that a beautiful lady, pastie.
- 49:55Speaker 3: And even the wife is now afraid because she knows
- 49:57Speaker 3: who she married.
- 49:59Speaker 1: She just says, only most we stand and said let's
- 50:01Speaker 1: go inside. She said I didn't know. The month said no, no, no,
- 50:04Speaker 1: I have to take pressure. What is all this.
- 50:08Speaker 3: Found ability?
- 50:13Speaker 1: Say? Let me tell you something. Let me tell you
- 50:15Speaker 1: a big secret. There are four sets of people. If
- 50:17Speaker 1: you are marrying, you have to listen to this thing
- 50:19Speaker 1: two times one. If you are marrying a man of God.
- 50:22Speaker 1: We're exposed to people every day. People means options. Are
- 50:26Speaker 1: you hearing what I'm saying? Number two a high profile businessman?
- 50:31Speaker 1: Number three a politician? I do you hear what I'm
- 50:34Speaker 1: saying now? Number four a lecturer? Anybody in the academia.
- 50:38Speaker 1: If you are married to any of these four people
- 50:41Speaker 1: listening with both years and had your spirits in it
- 50:44Speaker 1: because he's exposed. As I'm standing here preaching, there all
- 50:49Speaker 1: kinds of pretty ladies. You are not seeing me, but
- 50:51Speaker 1: I'm seeing you. I went together.
- 51:01Speaker 3: M hm.
- 51:04Speaker 1: Say amen. So when you are not careful, you will
- 51:11Speaker 1: be surprised that your husband has four children. You never knew.
- 51:15Speaker 1: One day, somebody just knocks your alf as say, I
- 51:17Speaker 1: must look for my father. Say what is going on here,
- 51:19Speaker 1: spiritual father? And you say, cap on, copy of your child. Look, look, look,
- 51:24Speaker 1: don't think I'm just talking. There are many children's cutter around.
- 51:29Speaker 3: They belong to your families. Just that you don't know.
- 51:35Speaker 1: The day Jesus will come. Let's just leave him to
- 51:39Speaker 1: be the judge. Amen, Please let me have our attention.
- 51:46Speaker 1: Very serious issues. Have you not seen family? Some of
- 51:49Speaker 1: you come from those families after twenty years one day
- 51:51Speaker 1: the holding meeting and say, honestly, there are so many
- 51:56Speaker 1: their complications around. You don't know who is your real mother.
- 52:00Speaker 1: You don't know who is your real father. You really
- 52:01Speaker 1: don't know how many you are your family. If you
- 52:04Speaker 1: just know what they told you as you grow, you
- 52:06Speaker 1: keep let anymore you taught you as sell. Now you're discovered,
- 52:09Speaker 1: you are ten and eventually the children sayd they are
- 52:14Speaker 1: coming when the father now dies. That's why you know
- 52:17Speaker 1: there's trouble because the family with the legitimate wife are
- 52:21Speaker 1: all girls. And the ones they get back to somewhere
- 52:24Speaker 1: our boys. The moment the father dies, they now show
- 52:27Speaker 1: up and say, no way, our father is our father.
- 52:30Speaker 1: And in our culture women don't inherit anything. Therefore they displacement.
- 52:35Speaker 1: Have counsel cases like that. Are we together? Very important passion, Please,
- 52:46Speaker 1: my brother, if you find out it is okay, listen,
- 52:50Speaker 1: it is very okay to see a lady and just be.
- 52:53Speaker 3: Fond of her.
- 52:54Speaker 1: The mystery of attraction is when you find a lady
- 52:57Speaker 1: or a person or an object demonstrate the many things
- 53:00Speaker 1: you persive to represent value to you. So if beauty
- 53:05Speaker 1: represents value, it's impossible to say a pretty gal and
- 53:08Speaker 1: pretend it's not being spiritu.
- 53:09Speaker 3: A look, look very well, this assual.
- 53:12Speaker 1: Why say because I'm a Christian?
- 53:15Speaker 3: You are not lying?
- 53:16Speaker 1: So look, it's not all those fake things to pretend
- 53:19Speaker 1: you're pretty lately passive?
- 53:20Speaker 3: There I didn't say, and you know.
- 53:21Speaker 1: You saw you.
- 53:22Speaker 3: So it's just that you have self control. Are we together?
- 53:29Speaker 1: Passion? H you must have passion. Passion. Many people don't
- 53:43Speaker 1: have passion. The life span of their passion is a
- 53:46Speaker 1: few weeks after marriage. The life span of your passion
- 53:50Speaker 1: is when they say I do some. The life span
- 53:53Speaker 1: of your passion is when she gives them three children
- 53:55Speaker 1: and four children. That was his goal to have children.
- 53:59Speaker 1: They've been pressure. You promise you are getting old, no
- 54:02Speaker 1: marriage married. I need three children five that's the premise
- 54:07Speaker 1: of the marriage. So you marry an object that produces children.
- 54:10Speaker 1: The moment she producing the children, the goal has been achieved.
- 54:13Speaker 1: So there is nothing else. Do you know how many women,
- 54:18Speaker 1: brothers and sisters, some of you parents, some of you
- 54:20Speaker 1: sadly you are the ones.
- 54:22Speaker 3: Yourself in that kind of ship.
- 54:24Speaker 1: Do you know how many women move like strangers before
- 54:27Speaker 1: their husband, And sometimes they almost wonder and say, you
- 54:30Speaker 1: mean this man once ASTs me out, he wants food
- 54:32Speaker 1: in the cold, waiting for me to come. Look at
- 54:35Speaker 1: how some of our father's treat our mothers. He's a mess,
- 54:41Speaker 1: and they have men told us to do the same.
- 54:42Speaker 3: If God does not intercept, believe me, you will reproduce
- 54:45Speaker 3: the same results.
- 54:48Speaker 1: Many daughters have done well, But there is an apet
- 54:53Speaker 1: time for discontentment in the body of Christ. Brothers, let
- 54:57Speaker 1: me encourage you. Please be careful, and and sisters too.
- 55:01Speaker 1: I've not come to brothers yet. I'm talking about sisters.
- 55:03Speaker 1: What is a quality for brothers? Passion? Whenever you see
- 55:07Speaker 1: that you are attracted to a lady, it's not enough
- 55:09Speaker 1: reason to want to ask them out. That's lack of
- 55:12Speaker 1: self contrue. Are we together? It is okay that I
- 55:16Speaker 1: look at this lady and I'm attracted to it. It's okay.
- 55:19Speaker 3: What is self contrue?
- 55:21Speaker 1: That they say? In the multitude of many counsels, there
- 55:24Speaker 1: is saved some the moment you see Ladia and she's
- 55:28Speaker 1: fine there. And then even if it's during a prayer session,
- 55:32Speaker 1: in the set of prayer, please can you see me.
- 55:35Speaker 10: After after prayer? Sha disciplie.
- 55:52Speaker 1: Allelujah the next moment that's your first hand. You are
- 55:58Speaker 1: even new in the prayer. Them even confirm you. You
- 56:01Speaker 1: are not a member of the pride department. You are
- 56:04Speaker 1: just arriving that day.
- 56:05Speaker 3: You say, sister, honestly, where do your parents day?
- 56:09Speaker 1: Let me tell you what you have just repelled about yourself.
- 56:11Speaker 1: You are very indisciplined from them because you're coming to
- 56:14Speaker 1: a place with structure and authority, and you just coming
- 56:17Speaker 1: and do anything you want to do. And sometimes the.
- 56:20Speaker 3: Ladies are foolish enough to.
- 56:21Speaker 1: Play a long those evidence discipline. Let people come and
- 56:25Speaker 1: meet order in your life, then they're forced to respect
- 56:28Speaker 1: that order.
- 56:31Speaker 3: Are we together now?
- 56:33Speaker 1: Jesus is helpin us.
- 56:34Speaker 3: Somebody, somebody is really getting pleased from what I'm saying.
- 56:38Speaker 1: It's very important. Are we together now? Passion? If you
- 56:44Speaker 1: are married here, you must pray consistently, brothers, fathers, to
- 56:49Speaker 1: keep having passion for your wife, not just your children,
- 56:54Speaker 1: Because God are the days when ladies would respect a
- 56:57Speaker 1: man just when he's married and you can see I say,
- 56:59Speaker 1: as married, let's leaving. No, No, you can see somebody.
- 57:03Speaker 3: As old as my father and still come a meet
- 57:05Speaker 3: my dad. Yeah, how are you that?
- 57:07Speaker 1: Dad?
- 57:07Speaker 3: Is just means I'm available?
- 57:11Speaker 1: Gone are the days you can see a man at
- 57:14Speaker 1: my father's strong and ahah, my daughter? How are you?
- 57:18Speaker 3: You think it's fatherly my daughter.
- 57:21Speaker 1: But it's not fatherily my daughter at all. It's another
- 57:24Speaker 1: dimensional his own. So that you are married, you know,
- 57:29Speaker 1: sometimes many men deceive themselves. They just think the moment you.
- 57:34Speaker 3: Are married, it just means people will leave you alone
- 57:37Speaker 3: just because you are married.
- 57:39Speaker 1: No, our society it should be like that. But our
- 57:42Speaker 1: society has become so depraved that a ring is just
- 57:46Speaker 1: a jewelry. A ring is just a jewelry for entertainment.
- 57:51Speaker 1: What I'm saying now, it's something that simple likes the
- 57:54Speaker 1: covenant relationship.
- 57:55Speaker 3: It's entertainment.
- 57:56Speaker 1: So when you wear ring and say they see a
- 57:58Speaker 1: ring or mind themselves, they said too, it's a big joke.
- 58:01Speaker 1: Where to don't change love and passion, love and passion,
- 58:15Speaker 1: m and then the last key, ladies, I would dwell
- 58:19Speaker 1: a bit here today.
- 58:24Speaker 3: Never marry a man who is irresponsible.
- 58:26Speaker 1: That's the last point, there must be a demonstration of responsibility. Responsibility, responsibility.
- 58:37Speaker 1: Many brothers are irresponsible, Christian brothers inclusive, irresponsible talking Christian brothers.
- 58:48Speaker 1: What does it mean to be responsible? To be responsible
- 58:52Speaker 1: means it means to be aware of the dimension of life,
- 59:00Speaker 1: incognizance of the cost dimension of life.
- 59:04Speaker 3: I don't mean money. That anything to be done must
- 59:07Speaker 3: be done by someone.
- 59:09Speaker 1: The Bible says every house is killed by someone, but
- 59:12Speaker 1: God is the builder of all.
- 59:15Speaker 3: An irresponsible person said, aha, they.
- 59:17Speaker 1: Have not done it.
- 59:19Speaker 3: Irresponsible person says, can we do it? Are you seeing that?
- 59:23Speaker 1: Now?
- 59:26Speaker 3: Let me tell you something. Please look up.
- 59:29Speaker 1: There is a tragedy that has happened in Nigeria, especially
- 59:33Speaker 1: to Nigeria and young men.
- 59:34Speaker 3: Please listen.
- 59:35Speaker 1: If you can hear what I'm saying, it to save you.
- 59:38Speaker 1: Many gentlemen around the world have been victims of this
- 59:42Speaker 1: and some of them see that you're looking at me.
- 59:44Speaker 1: I want you to listen very carefully.
- 59:46Speaker 3: Do you know many young men have been over pampered.
- 59:50Speaker 1: And that's why they're irresponsible today. Over pamp print does
- 59:54Speaker 1: not mean they came from a rich family. If poor
- 59:56Speaker 1: family can still over pampire man, let me tell you
- 59:58Speaker 1: how they over pampered them. A young man is eighteen
- 1:00:02Speaker 1: years the moment she's washing his clothes, you say, ah,
- 1:00:05Speaker 1: is there not house help? What's for him?
- 1:00:08Speaker 3: Because we have washing machine.
- 1:00:09Speaker 1: In our house. A young man who is supposed to
- 1:00:13Speaker 1: start learning to be responsible?
- 1:00:14Speaker 3: Are we together now? He goes out and by four
- 1:00:17Speaker 3: o'clock you are ringing his phone. Return home, return home.
- 1:00:22Speaker 1: It looks like you are trying to be disciplinary. There
- 1:00:24Speaker 1: is an age range where he needs to be home,
- 1:00:27Speaker 1: But there is an age range where that guy is
- 1:00:29Speaker 1: so missing.
- 1:00:30Speaker 3: Maybe he's in church as.
- 1:00:32Speaker 1: A choir director, and you are now calling him my
- 1:00:35Speaker 1: short boy of nineteen years old. It's five o'clock, Where
- 1:00:38Speaker 1: are you come home? So the guy is now twenty
- 1:00:40Speaker 1: five and he stays home. He married with his wife
- 1:00:44Speaker 1: and stays home, just like mommy said, O, bigiant child.
- 1:00:47Speaker 1: Nobody goes out to get food again because he has
- 1:00:50Speaker 1: been trained come home. In America from twelve years twelve
- 1:00:56Speaker 1: years old. In America, you see children looking for something
- 1:00:59Speaker 1: to do post office. Ah, there's no share for us.
- 1:01:04Speaker 1: They always expect to be recipients.
- 1:01:07Speaker 3: Not contributors. It's not your fault.
- 1:01:10Speaker 1: That's why I'm helping you tonight. Many products are like that.
- 1:01:15Speaker 1: They're born again.
- 1:01:16Speaker 3: They love God.
- 1:01:17Speaker 1: But anything that these conforts that may lead to ah,
- 1:01:21Speaker 1: they don't want is it's irresponsibility that produce is laziness. Laziness,
- 1:01:28Speaker 1: Get up and do something. You have a meeting for
- 1:01:30Speaker 1: five o'clock. It is raining heavily. I said, I oh,
- 1:01:35Speaker 1: quarter to five please and Bengard, I can't make it
- 1:01:39Speaker 1: for the meeting. I'm tired. This rain, the cold is
- 1:01:41Speaker 1: too much. That's a lazy man who will not feed
- 1:01:44Speaker 1: his family. You see that you will not feed his
- 1:01:46Speaker 1: family because you say.
- 1:01:47Speaker 3: There's crisis in Nigeria. They can keep people with their
- 1:01:50Speaker 3: go outside.
- 1:01:50Speaker 1: And you will leave his family members with die. I
- 1:01:53Speaker 1: would say a lazy man would know so because of
- 1:01:55Speaker 1: the cold, and he will also not rip.
- 1:01:59Speaker 3: I am fana.
- 1:02:00Speaker 1: Take of responsibility. Responsibility.
- 1:02:04Speaker 3: You cannot be around me and not be a responsible person.
- 1:02:07Speaker 1: Waiting for things to be done for you know, sir,
- 1:02:10Speaker 1: you must learn to be an initiator, not just a recipient.
- 1:02:14Speaker 1: There are many men today the salary comes from their wives.
- 1:02:18Speaker 3: Correct.
- 1:02:18Speaker 1: It's okay if there is a situation that happened in
- 1:02:22Speaker 1: the course of the marriage and the woman has to
- 1:02:24Speaker 1: be supportive. You see somebody from nineteen ninety six, no job.
- 1:02:30Speaker 1: It's the wife that works, face the children's boofies. And
- 1:02:33Speaker 1: the man is a life, two hands, two legs. He
- 1:02:36Speaker 1: gets up in the morning, sits at the farrunaut of
- 1:02:38Speaker 1: the house. They're playing draft together with other colleagues. Irresponsible
- 1:02:42Speaker 1: men who come. They form a team and they just
- 1:02:45Speaker 1: play where's your wife? You know?
- 1:02:47Speaker 3: She said no, she works in the hospital.
- 1:02:48Speaker 1: Don't know.
- 1:02:48Speaker 3: Women will come in the evening. The woman will return.
- 1:02:51Speaker 1: There is no food, she'll come and be cooking and
- 1:02:53Speaker 1: the milky going.
- 1:02:55Speaker 3: That family is learning.
- 1:02:56Speaker 1: He doesn't like it, but.
- 1:02:58Speaker 3: His ideology is been shaped after that.
- 1:03:00Speaker 1: The example. He's seeing that too many irresponsible people. There
- 1:03:05Speaker 1: are irresponsible pastors who expect men that's to be the
- 1:03:08Speaker 1: one to raise money for church.
- 1:03:10Speaker 3: Have you seen people like that?
- 1:03:11Speaker 1: There are irresponsible pastors who expect men that's to be
- 1:03:14Speaker 1: the ones to give their money.
- 1:03:17Speaker 3: Am I not your pastor? Buy a car for me,
- 1:03:19Speaker 3: build a house.
- 1:03:20Speaker 1: For me, money for me? That's an irresponsible man of
- 1:03:23Speaker 1: God is a man of God, but an irresponsible one. Responsibility,
- 1:03:32Speaker 1: so you must look at it.
- 1:03:34Speaker 3: Responsibility is not having a car.
- 1:03:37Speaker 1: That's not responsibility.
- 1:03:38Speaker 3: Responsibility is not having a house. That's not responsibility.
- 1:03:42Speaker 1: That's the indies many ladies are using, and you are
- 1:03:45Speaker 1: already getting into a big mistake.
- 1:03:47Speaker 3: Responsibility is not having.
- 1:03:48Speaker 1: A car and a house.
- 1:03:49Speaker 3: Please listen, I can't have a car and a house by.
- 1:03:52Speaker 1: The privilege of access. It doesn't mean I'm responsible. So
- 1:03:56Speaker 1: stop using a car and a house to prove that
- 1:03:58Speaker 1: a man is responsible. If ventually it's an index that
- 1:04:01Speaker 1: will show responsibility. But responsibilities from the heart, the willingness
- 1:04:05Speaker 1: to grow, to press, the willingness to fulfill the constan
- 1:04:09Speaker 1: mension of life. Don't say there are two brothers. One
- 1:04:14Speaker 1: has a car, the other one is working on his foot.
- 1:04:16Speaker 3: And so let me just go with what I'm seeing now.
- 1:04:19Speaker 1: The moment the cast spoils, that's the last guy you
- 1:04:22Speaker 1: ever buy in his life, because he never bought the
- 1:04:23Speaker 1: first one in the first place. Many ladies don't know
- 1:04:30Speaker 1: how to trust God for good products. We praying tongs,
- 1:04:33Speaker 1: but we don't know what to expect. And so I'm
- 1:04:35Speaker 1: painting a picture for you right now. Somebody already after cononia,
- 1:04:40Speaker 1: you answer the guy you see, how God.
- 1:04:41Speaker 3: Has given you the answer? The ansid is no. The
- 1:04:44Speaker 3: ansi is no. Immediately after cononia, you sendimate text place, sorry,
- 1:04:49Speaker 3: I've delayed you. The ansi is no because you are.
- 1:04:52Speaker 1: Not God hearing. You don't submit to any authority and
- 1:04:57Speaker 1: you don't want to. He may not know what is
- 1:05:01Speaker 1: he willing to now that he knows? Are with you?
- 1:05:04Speaker 1: Gether now? Yeah? Number three?
- 1:05:06Speaker 3: Do you love me personately?
- 1:05:07Speaker 1: No? You past worded your phone, past worded your texts,
- 1:05:11Speaker 1: past worded your laptop. Perst what a call is coming?
- 1:05:13Speaker 1: You don't run outside? You saved the name of a lady, John.
- 1:05:17Speaker 1: You save the name of your other lady, Andrew because
- 1:05:20Speaker 1: you turn the head of people to be stupid. Andrew,
- 1:05:22Speaker 1: are you calling me? It's a coded language.
- 1:05:24Speaker 3: You're not serious? Allelujah. And finally, the man is not responsible.
- 1:05:33Speaker 1: The average African family has a family to take care of.
- 1:05:37Speaker 1: A nuclear family.
- 1:05:38Speaker 3: First, I hope you're aware, brothers. Are you aware? The
- 1:05:43Speaker 3: aware now that.
- 1:05:45Speaker 1: The average African family, there is every.
- 1:05:49Speaker 3: Likelihood your wife is not the last born. What does
- 1:05:52Speaker 3: that mean to you?
- 1:05:52Speaker 1: You are a direct contributor. You are going to contribute.
- 1:05:56Speaker 1: There are families that they gave that late praise God.
- 1:06:01Speaker 3: So one side is ready for marriage, the other one
- 1:06:04Speaker 3: is still in primary school.
- 1:06:05Speaker 1: You're going to take care of them.
- 1:06:07Speaker 3: It's not supposed to be so.
- 1:06:08Speaker 1: For the reality, you are pagain for that's what's saying.
- 1:06:11Speaker 1: I love you means that's what's saying, I want to
- 1:06:14Speaker 1: marry you. Miss she tells you I'm the first word
- 1:06:17Speaker 1: out of how many seven you said you still love her.
- 1:06:19Speaker 3: What you are trying to say is, look, it's.
- 1:06:20Speaker 1: All right, we can find a way around it. Brothers,
- 1:06:30Speaker 1: let me say your own quickly. Brothers, I can beg
- 1:06:40Speaker 1: you in the name of Jesus, the Son of the
- 1:06:42Speaker 1: Living God. It's better to have a broken relationship, honorable,
- 1:06:47Speaker 1: if I don't break relationships and them, it's better to
- 1:06:51Speaker 1: have an ended relationship than to have his catta and
- 1:06:55Speaker 1: please marriage.
- 1:07:00Speaker 3: One.
- 1:07:02Speaker 1: You can thank you. What do you look for an
- 1:07:05Speaker 1: a lady? God hearing too? You said that God hearing
- 1:07:08Speaker 1: is the same for both male and female. God hearing
- 1:07:11Speaker 1: exact samerisations as with the man, nothing changing, and that
- 1:07:15Speaker 1: he respecting the same God hearing, God hearing.
- 1:07:19Speaker 3: Meaning you respect God. Many ladies don't respect God. Many
- 1:07:23Speaker 3: ladies don't respect God.
- 1:07:26Speaker 1: They respect themselves, they respect society, they respect every other
- 1:07:31Speaker 1: thing about God. There are ladies who pride themselves in
- 1:07:37Speaker 1: being bad jails, even if they're in church. They're happy
- 1:07:42Speaker 1: when they look at say you're bad.
- 1:07:43Speaker 3: Yell, they smile that we go to if you're a
- 1:07:46Speaker 3: bad deal is a very bad It's not.
- 1:07:48Speaker 1: A good comment. You know, many ladies feel guilty. Listen,
- 1:07:53Speaker 1: I'm saying this from the depth of my heart. Many
- 1:07:55Speaker 1: sisters in no sense shurch sisters. They feel guilty. Listen.
- 1:08:00Speaker 1: They feel guilty for being innocent. You know, society makes
- 1:08:03Speaker 1: it looks like your eye is not open. You've not
- 1:08:06Speaker 1: been slipping around, You've never drunk in your life.
- 1:08:09Speaker 3: Ha ha, you don't have a boyfriend, you are twenty yes, ah,
- 1:08:13Speaker 3: you mean this is this, This is how your life is.
- 1:08:16Speaker 3: And they make let this feel guilty for being innocent.
- 1:08:21Speaker 3: They look. I said, she's a small girl. She's just
- 1:08:23Speaker 3: growing old. Cone towards we we have our legs. Act
- 1:08:27Speaker 3: say if you are happy for being bad.
- 1:08:29Speaker 1: He says different thing.
- 1:08:30Speaker 3: If it's your past, Jesus.
- 1:08:31Speaker 1: Has helped you now, or at least will help you
- 1:08:33Speaker 1: this night.
- 1:08:36Speaker 3: Are we together?
- 1:08:40Speaker 1: God hearing? A woman who is not God hearing, who
- 1:08:43Speaker 1: have a husband and a sponsor, that's how she will marry.
- 1:08:47Speaker 3: There is a husband and a sponsor. What is the
- 1:08:51Speaker 3: sponsor for?
- 1:08:52Speaker 1: Really? This?
- 1:08:53Speaker 3: What's the husband for? Every other thing? So once the
- 1:08:58Speaker 3: going gets tough, she called. Do you know how many women?
- 1:09:02Speaker 1: Married women still call those who were their ex husband
- 1:09:06Speaker 1: or ex boyfriend or ex sugars or x whatever it is,
- 1:09:11Speaker 1: and call the person after many years. A woman with
- 1:09:15Speaker 1: five children still calls one small boy somewhere? How are
- 1:09:19Speaker 1: you reporting her husband to the small boy and the
- 1:09:21Speaker 1: small boys? Are we do nasa? Can we meet?
- 1:09:23Speaker 3: It's so so club at the back of that tree?
- 1:09:26Speaker 1: Just are we used to meet before you are married?
- 1:09:31Speaker 1: The average lady still has affiliations with her past.
- 1:09:36Speaker 3: Relationships, even in her marriedal home.
- 1:09:39Speaker 1: I would say it though my name is Joah Selman,
- 1:09:41Speaker 1: the average lady still has affiliations. I tell you this.
- 1:09:46Speaker 3: You know I'm not lying. Some of you are looking
- 1:09:48Speaker 3: at me.
- 1:09:48Speaker 1: You know it's true. Although you may be married, but
- 1:09:52Speaker 1: you still call John. And it's not just broaderly. How
- 1:09:55Speaker 1: are you?
- 1:09:55Speaker 3: Is the family?
- 1:09:56Speaker 1: Okay? John? I need help? You have to help me.
- 1:10:00Speaker 1: It's my husband, NISI is to bid my journeys as
- 1:10:02Speaker 1: it is always you know we know ourselves. Is no
- 1:10:05Speaker 1: proprid John, can you do it? Transfer now? Praise God.
- 1:10:16Speaker 1: That's why they're not faithful. That's why they're not desperate
- 1:10:20Speaker 1: to change their husbands.
- 1:10:22Speaker 3: When they come for prayer meetings like this and they say,
- 1:10:24Speaker 3: if your husband is not.
- 1:10:25Speaker 1: Doing well, prayed, they're not praying. They're not the prayer
- 1:10:27Speaker 1: will be answered, and they're not interested. So they rather
- 1:10:30Speaker 1: just all the people pray. Are you see the woman
- 1:10:32Speaker 1: does pray. That's looking around because whatever happens there is well,
- 1:10:38Speaker 1: you don't say concubine for a man, do you somebody
- 1:10:43Speaker 1: somewhere and affiliate who they're waiting for?
- 1:10:51Speaker 3: Number two brothers, What should you look at in a woman?
- 1:10:55Speaker 1: A woman who is submissive to the man at all times,
- 1:11:00Speaker 1: submissive to the man on the line at all times.
- 1:11:03Speaker 1: I don't have a problem with submission, but when at
- 1:11:06Speaker 1: all times convenient or not, Submission has never been a choice.
- 1:11:14Speaker 3: Write it down.
- 1:11:15Speaker 1: That's your own part, oh apostle, You don't know how
- 1:11:19Speaker 1: foolish my husband is. Don't worry, I'm coming. I've not
- 1:11:21Speaker 1: finished for now. Just know your own role sub meet.
- 1:11:27Speaker 1: Submission is a difficult thing. Listen, let us look at me.
- 1:11:30Speaker 1: Let me tell you a big secret. Submission is a risk.
- 1:11:34Speaker 1: It's a risk.
- 1:11:36Speaker 3: You don't know the man too well. No matter how
- 1:11:38Speaker 3: long you've been going out. Submission is a risk.
- 1:11:41Speaker 1: When you marry, you will discover many other things you
- 1:11:44Speaker 1: never knew. Submission is by faith, and it's a risk.
- 1:11:49Speaker 1: It's a risk.
- 1:11:52Speaker 3: You've not seen what.
- 1:11:53Speaker 1: The man can do when he has money. You've not
- 1:11:56Speaker 1: seen what the man can do when he doesn't have money.
- 1:11:58Speaker 1: You've not seen what the man can do when his
- 1:12:00Speaker 1: job is under pressure. You've not seen what he's done
- 1:12:03Speaker 1: if he's promoted to becoming CEO.
- 1:12:06Speaker 3: Yet the Bible says submit. Submission is a risk.
- 1:12:09Speaker 1: You need the Holy Spirit to do it. That's why
- 1:12:13Speaker 1: you have your own part to make sure that the
- 1:12:16Speaker 1: authority you submit to has been vetted thoroughly by God.
- 1:12:24Speaker 3: Allelujah. You must submit to the man at all times.
- 1:12:30Speaker 1: When ladies refuse to submit to their husbands and they
- 1:12:33Speaker 1: say he's not money enough, that's not what.
- 1:12:35Speaker 3: The Bible teaches. The Bible did not say submit to
- 1:12:38Speaker 3: money enough men a personally.
- 1:12:41Speaker 1: He's not providing anything. I'm the one bringing the money.
- 1:12:44Speaker 1: I'm the one paining.
- 1:12:45Speaker 3: That's foofish. I'm not stupid, I know the world compliant.
- 1:12:50Speaker 1: You can only judge disobedience when your obedience is complete.
- 1:12:54Speaker 1: There are many ladies who want the men listen and
- 1:12:58Speaker 1: sisters please hear me. Most of was this mindset came
- 1:13:01Speaker 1: from our mother's and our parents. Generally, we most corrected
- 1:13:05Speaker 1: the idea that a man most proud he is happy,
- 1:13:09Speaker 1: then I will now serve me to him a hand.
- 1:13:10Speaker 1: You are a hypocrit. You are doing this exactly what
- 1:13:13Speaker 1: his secretary is doing in the office. Who will not
- 1:13:15Speaker 1: show me to a man who gives you food? If
- 1:13:19Speaker 1: I buy you a plate of food, won't you greet.
- 1:13:20Speaker 3: Me like this the next time? That's what you want
- 1:13:22Speaker 3: your husband to do.
- 1:13:23Speaker 1: There is a difference between your husband and other people.
- 1:13:25Speaker 1: I know you don't like what I'm saying, but is
- 1:13:27Speaker 1: the Bible. Remember we agreed that we're going to submit
- 1:13:31Speaker 1: to God in all things. That's the Bible. Submission is hard.
- 1:13:35Speaker 1: I never said it is easy. I never said it
- 1:13:38Speaker 1: is easy. You would be a true submitting It's sad,
- 1:13:41Speaker 1: but it's the truth.
- 1:13:43Speaker 3: Because there are times it will not make sense. Your
- 1:13:45Speaker 3: friends will look at you and say you are stupid.
- 1:13:47Speaker 1: Why are you doing this? Your husband does not deserve
- 1:13:50Speaker 1: you it's true what the Bible says. That's why for
- 1:13:55Speaker 1: those of you who are not married, and those of
- 1:13:56Speaker 1: you who are not in a relationship, you should thank
- 1:13:58Speaker 1: God all this row.
- 1:14:00Speaker 3: I want to enterre relationship. My blood is hot.
- 1:14:02Speaker 1: You will thank God now for this message, because the
- 1:14:04Speaker 1: relationship you would have entered would be the beginning of disaster.
- 1:14:08Speaker 3: No guidance. Submit to the man.
- 1:14:15Speaker 1: At all times, and it starts from the relationship.
- 1:14:18Speaker 3: It's not when you get married. No, it comes from
- 1:14:20Speaker 3: the relationship.
- 1:14:24Speaker 1: I know.
- 1:14:24Speaker 3: Submission is not foolishness, but the Bible instructs it.
- 1:14:28Speaker 1: You see why mentorship is good. You see why I
- 1:14:30Speaker 1: spoke about his spiritual authority. Because if you are playing
- 1:14:33Speaker 1: your role well and the man is not doing his thing,
- 1:14:36Speaker 1: you have it right that that party that has been
- 1:14:39Speaker 1: authorized can come in and say no, no, no, no, no,
- 1:14:43Speaker 1: why is doing her part well? And because the man
- 1:14:46Speaker 1: submits to authority, he will listen. If his deliverence, they
- 1:14:49Speaker 1: will cast the dream one out. If he's counseling, they
- 1:14:52Speaker 1: will manage his pressures at the moment. But where you
- 1:14:55Speaker 1: are submitting to a man who does not submit to God,
- 1:14:57Speaker 1: does not submit to authorities, you're in trouble, big trouble.
- 1:15:04Speaker 1: What is number three?
- 1:15:05Speaker 3: Let's sorry on what kind of woman should you marry? Brother,
- 1:15:11Speaker 3: a woman who is sacrificial and hospitable.
- 1:15:14Speaker 1: Third point, sacrificial and hospitable. In the twenty first century,
- 1:15:21Speaker 1: you marry a woman who cannot sacrifice, you have married disaster.
- 1:15:27Speaker 1: There are many ladies who like who cannot inconvenience themselves
- 1:15:31Speaker 1: for the growth of their homes.
- 1:15:32Speaker 3: No allelujah.
- 1:15:35Speaker 1: The moment the man loses his job, the wife changes,
- 1:15:39Speaker 1: she can't love him again. There are many people like counsel,
- 1:15:43Speaker 1: and it's sad the way their wives treat them when
- 1:15:45Speaker 1: things are not going well. Oh, he just bought a house.
- 1:15:50Speaker 1: He just got promotion of my husband. My husband, They
- 1:15:53Speaker 1: just blackmailed him more.
- 1:15:55Speaker 3: They said, ah, this and that happened, and they demoted him.
- 1:15:59Speaker 1: She really, but you see the body language only Why
- 1:16:03Speaker 1: now you know I don't like planting.
- 1:16:04Speaker 3: Please don't dissolve me in this house.
- 1:16:06Speaker 1: When you bring money with you will subliminal statements you
- 1:16:09Speaker 1: have started communicating.
- 1:16:11Speaker 3: It's a terrible thing. Please hear what I'm saying.
- 1:16:14Speaker 1: The Lord is speaking very seriously. Never submit to a
- 1:16:19Speaker 1: man because he has money or because he does not
- 1:16:24Speaker 1: have money.
- 1:16:24Speaker 3: The Bible never does that.
- 1:16:26Speaker 1: The Bible never instructs that.
- 1:16:28Speaker 3: So choose whether you want to marry or not. Thank God.
- 1:16:30Speaker 1: Marriage is not composing. But if you want to do
- 1:16:34Speaker 1: it got away, you must submit. There is no excuse
- 1:16:38Speaker 1: for rebellion. It's a terrible thing when women gather together
- 1:16:43Speaker 1: with their friends. Now I know, I know, Look, I
- 1:16:46Speaker 1: understand that there are times that women see that and
- 1:16:48Speaker 1: talk to consort themselves.
- 1:16:50Speaker 3: God. There are women who.
- 1:16:51Speaker 1: Have perpetually in the habits, in the habit of sitting
- 1:16:56Speaker 1: with groups. They travel to this date, there is a
- 1:16:58Speaker 1: group and they sit down and lambascar husbands. They talk
- 1:17:02Speaker 1: all kinds of nonsense, reveal family secrets, bedroom secrets.
- 1:17:07Speaker 3: Are that are not for the consumption of the public.
- 1:17:10Speaker 1: And when they finish, they come back and they expect
- 1:17:13Speaker 1: all those women everywhere to respect the men. They will not.
- 1:17:18Speaker 1: Your man, your man had a challenge, and maybe he
- 1:17:20Speaker 1: had an affair with the lady. He has apologized. A
- 1:17:23Speaker 1: man of God came and they manage the situation. It's
- 1:17:25Speaker 1: only you and the pastor who has managed the situation.
- 1:17:29Speaker 1: You now carried your mouth. You have run it from
- 1:17:31Speaker 1: east to west. From you care to London. Every gody
- 1:17:34Speaker 1: knows your husband once had a challenge, and one day
- 1:17:38Speaker 1: they look at him and the day he annoys. The
- 1:17:39Speaker 1: person who knows the signarete the person who won't publish something.
- 1:17:43Speaker 1: In nineteen seventy one, you see them do it in America.
- 1:17:46Speaker 1: When God is about to bless somebody, somebody will just
- 1:17:48Speaker 1: come crying on tilly and.
- 1:17:50Speaker 3: Say, look, I remember what you did to me. These
- 1:17:52Speaker 3: are that because we don't keep quiet. The Bible says, even.
- 1:17:57Speaker 1: If fool, when he is silent, it's regarded. The Bible
- 1:18:01Speaker 1: tells every woman to cover her head. There is a
- 1:18:04Speaker 1: dimension of physical covering, but there is a dimension of
- 1:18:07Speaker 1: spiritual covering.
- 1:18:08Speaker 3: Cover your head, the head over your life. Protect him, Protect.
- 1:18:13Speaker 1: Him he's vulnerable. Protect him.
- 1:18:22Speaker 3: Are you getting blessed?
- 1:18:24Speaker 1: Sacrificial? Listen, No matter how rich you are, no matter
- 1:18:29Speaker 1: how blessed you are, a time was coming your relationship
- 1:18:33Speaker 1: and your marriage when you will need sacrifice.
- 1:18:36Speaker 3: Is that true sacrifice.
- 1:18:38Speaker 1: There may be times when God can give an instruction.
- 1:18:43Speaker 1: Promise saw that prepared room flat.
- 1:18:46Speaker 3: That you are built, and go to a rental apartment.
- 1:18:49Speaker 3: I don't teach.
- 1:18:50Speaker 1: Irresponsibility, but there are times God will give that instruction
- 1:18:53Speaker 1: and for those times it to require sacrifice. There are
- 1:18:56Speaker 1: times because you want a good education of your child,
- 1:19:00Speaker 1: who constraint certainties. Please, we cannot go to London on vacation.
- 1:19:05Speaker 1: One day we will go, but for now we cannot go.
- 1:19:08Speaker 1: Let us use that money to train our children. But
- 1:19:11Speaker 1: there are many women that will hear or that women
- 1:19:13Speaker 1: are going, even those who are your genius in office.
- 1:19:16Speaker 3: But we we are here now on healthy comparison hospitality.
- 1:19:26Speaker 3: I don't want to talk about that. Sadly, there are
- 1:19:28Speaker 3: ladies who are.
- 1:19:29Speaker 1: Not hospitable at all. You will buy bones together with
- 1:19:32Speaker 1: a friend. You are just stay with a friend who
- 1:19:34Speaker 1: eat the bones. It's the second one if the third
- 1:19:37Speaker 1: one's free. The letter and trust. If this bond said
- 1:19:40Speaker 1: it's not very sweet, you will never give it, even
- 1:19:42Speaker 1: to say please take you give them once. If they
- 1:19:44Speaker 1: say no, you will refuse because you're never meant to
- 1:19:47Speaker 1: give it.
- 1:19:48Speaker 3: Change the attitudes and that kind of thing translating home.
- 1:19:52Speaker 1: Visitors will come to your house and sit down for hours.
- 1:19:55Speaker 1: They are discussing critical issues with your husband. There are
- 1:19:58Speaker 1: even women men of God who come to your house
- 1:20:01Speaker 1: and they won't do anything when the man is about
- 1:20:02Speaker 1: going ah when we are warming rice, please I stay
- 1:20:05Speaker 1: in your house for two hours warming with rice, even
- 1:20:09Speaker 1: if you need to be done by then. The list listen, listen, listen,
- 1:20:17Speaker 1: Please don't laugh.
- 1:20:18Speaker 3: It's a serious thing.
- 1:20:19Speaker 1: It starts from your attitude in the hostel. Your port
- 1:20:22Speaker 1: is your own, your connie your own. Your everything is
- 1:20:26Speaker 1: your own. Your shoe is your own, your water is
- 1:20:28Speaker 1: your own, Your bible is your own, your best sit
- 1:20:31Speaker 1: is your own. That's how everything will be your own.
- 1:20:34Speaker 1: Even when you get married, you would be markeages husband.
- 1:20:37Speaker 1: This selection of the house is for me, This one
- 1:20:39Speaker 1: is for you, This one is for the children. There
- 1:20:43Speaker 1: are many people who cannot do. They like taking, but
- 1:20:46Speaker 1: they cannot do me ever buy anything for a guy
- 1:20:52Speaker 1: over my dead body.
- 1:20:53Speaker 3: He will keep buying from you because to bite you.
- 1:20:56Speaker 1: One that narrative church can He said, what we're like,
- 1:20:58Speaker 1: He's already rich. He is the one that asks me,
- 1:21:01Speaker 1: and that he asking me all that those two big
- 1:21:03Speaker 1: Nigeria find type White saying that many people imbibe and
- 1:21:07Speaker 1: keep using to destroy your life.
- 1:21:09Speaker 3: No, sir, sacrifice, say sacrifice.
- 1:21:13Speaker 1: They must learn to sacrifice. Many ladies feel a shamed
- 1:21:18Speaker 1: being sacrificial. They feel cheap, being sacrificial. We are being
- 1:21:22Speaker 1: indoctrinated by a society that makes women feel cheap when
- 1:21:26Speaker 1: they have to sacrifice. So they come to a guy
- 1:21:29Speaker 1: and honestly speaking, all this guy has to say, small
- 1:21:33Speaker 1: room and all of this.
- 1:21:34Speaker 3: But God is healthy him and no, no, no, no no,
- 1:21:36Speaker 3: that attitude of sacrifice is not him. I want tomorrow now, now,
- 1:21:41Speaker 3: I want tomorrow now. They said we.
- 1:21:47Speaker 1: Should do this, this, and that I need ninety.
- 1:21:49Speaker 3: Thousands from you, and the broad says, look, honestly, I
- 1:21:52Speaker 3: don't have anything.
- 1:21:52Speaker 1: Now you know it. I mean take my ATM. You
- 1:21:56Speaker 1: won't let him for your body language. There are many
- 1:21:59Speaker 1: relationships counsel. The moment that that does not have money,
- 1:22:03Speaker 1: he's in trouble. You will see the language of the lady.
- 1:22:06Speaker 1: One month before he gave her ten thousand. I said,
- 1:22:09Speaker 1: it's your father. You call your physical father. He said,
- 1:22:11Speaker 1: you won't give you anything.
- 1:22:12Speaker 3: You now call somebody.
- 1:22:13Speaker 1: You are grain out with it and you want to
- 1:22:15Speaker 1: swallow him only two thousands.
- 1:22:17Speaker 3: Okay, I'm grateful.
- 1:22:18Speaker 1: You will saying you are grateful for your body language
- 1:22:20Speaker 1: for that remaining one month.
- 1:22:23Speaker 3: It's being shameless. It's not good training.
- 1:22:29Speaker 1: Adelia. You come into the life of a man. You
- 1:22:33Speaker 1: did not contribute anything. Yet, just because he loves me,
- 1:22:36Speaker 1: you want to see them at the throne of his
- 1:22:38Speaker 1: heart and control his atm and control his destiny.
- 1:22:42Speaker 3: The only person permitted to occupy.
- 1:22:43Speaker 1: That position is Jesus. Are we together?
- 1:22:50Speaker 3: There are many brothers suffering under the hands of.
- 1:22:54Speaker 1: Ladies and women and wives in many respects who cannot
- 1:22:58Speaker 1: be patient.
- 1:23:01Speaker 3: You don't need tomorrow today. Are you getting blessed? Brother's?
- 1:23:10Speaker 3: The last thing is now the physical facto? Are you
- 1:23:14Speaker 3: saying that is now?
- 1:23:15Speaker 1: I even brought the physical factor? It must be in
- 1:23:17Speaker 1: that order. That's why you can look at every other
- 1:23:21Speaker 1: thing you want to look at. She beautifully sh all
- 1:23:23Speaker 1: of these things. Listen, as I have known God more truly,
- 1:23:27Speaker 1: let me tell you this. As I have known God more,
- 1:23:30Speaker 1: and as I've received men tosses from men and women
- 1:23:34Speaker 1: and elderly people who have worked in this life, have
- 1:23:37Speaker 1: found out that all these physical things that are important
- 1:23:39Speaker 1: was since merely let me tell you the truth from
- 1:23:41Speaker 1: the depth of my heart. They will fade like a leaf.
- 1:23:44Speaker 1: They will fade and vanish like a leaf. I have
- 1:23:48Speaker 1: counseled very beautiful women whose husbands pounded their faces like
- 1:23:52Speaker 1: whatever and drove them out without praying about it.
- 1:23:57Speaker 3: If the entire reason while you are attracted to a
- 1:24:01Speaker 3: woman is physical controuble, you are in trouble.
- 1:24:06Speaker 1: I say. When I went to see my parents at
- 1:24:08Speaker 1: the beginning of this year, I happened to go and
- 1:24:11Speaker 1: visit one man.
- 1:24:12Speaker 3: You used to be my prinsper And that was the
- 1:24:15Speaker 3: advice he gave me before he nail down.
- 1:24:18Speaker 1: And I'll agree for you brothers and sisters. Let me
- 1:24:22Speaker 1: tell you one to be here.
- 1:24:24Speaker 3: I'm not saying physical things are not important.
- 1:24:26Speaker 1: But when your concentration of physical beauty or attraction or
- 1:24:31Speaker 1: looks or physical shape or whatever it is, supersseds the
- 1:24:35Speaker 1: fear of God. Are we together now, superssed? What's the
- 1:24:39Speaker 1: second one submission to the man? Supersis whatever You've heard
- 1:24:46Speaker 1: me say it again? You just become a meeting lady
- 1:24:49Speaker 1: tell us serious issues. Maybe in a family of ten
- 1:24:52Speaker 1: and all of them are non pristance, you know what
- 1:24:54Speaker 1: I mean.
- 1:24:55Speaker 3: And she's the only Christian.
- 1:24:56Speaker 1: She's saying, sorry, this is the family you're going to.
- 1:24:58Speaker 1: You did settle down to. He said, no problem, you
- 1:25:01Speaker 1: are too.
- 1:25:01Speaker 3: Fine for me to let you go.
- 1:25:02Speaker 1: You're in trouble.
- 1:25:03Speaker 3: My mother said, which is okay?
- 1:25:05Speaker 1: I love you like that. I'm telling you, she said traditional.
- 1:25:09Speaker 1: I know, Lord, no worry.
- 1:25:11Speaker 3: There's going on you and there's.
- 1:25:12Speaker 1: Made of good service and people get a lot of casualties. Sorry,
- 1:25:20Speaker 1: man of my brother, I need to tell you something.
- 1:25:23Speaker 1: I was born with some kind of deficiency. Honestly, I'm
- 1:25:26Speaker 1: physically not able to take in.
- 1:25:28Speaker 3: I can't have a child. That's literally what is children?
- 1:25:30Speaker 1: Who say? What? That is?
- 1:25:31Speaker 3: Love?
- 1:25:32Speaker 1: For you?
- 1:25:32Speaker 3: You will now drive yourself and get married after two years?
- 1:25:35Speaker 3: You want to kill her? I say, if she didn't
- 1:25:38Speaker 3: tell you, see please.
- 1:25:43Speaker 1: Spiritual life, spiritual lies your process of getting a white
- 1:25:48Speaker 1: don't be kinder.
- 1:25:49Speaker 3: Don't see it with brothers, I say, you looked at
- 1:25:52Speaker 3: this one? What do you what can you say?
- 1:25:54Speaker 1: It's the best on who you're talking to.
- 1:25:55Speaker 3: If you're talking, if you're talking to a product who
- 1:25:58Speaker 3: is not born again, you're in trouble. He wild give
- 1:26:00Speaker 3: you the counsel of a key to fail, and after
- 1:26:02Speaker 3: two years you would be surprised.
- 1:26:04Speaker 1: To see that beauty. Can fait say? Amen? God, fearing,
- 1:26:14Speaker 1: submissive at all times, sacrificial, hospitable. Let me talk about
- 1:26:20Speaker 1: responsibility for a while, and then maybe for a few minutes,
- 1:26:23Speaker 1: and then pray.
- 1:26:24Speaker 3: Write it down.
- 1:26:25Speaker 1: First Timotive, chapter five, verse eight. Please give us First
- 1:26:29Speaker 1: Timoti five verse eight, quickly, brothers. I want to talk
- 1:26:33Speaker 1: to you now. I want to talk to everybody, but
- 1:26:35Speaker 1: specifically to the men, irresponsible men in our society.
- 1:26:41Speaker 3: First Timote, chapter five, verse eight.
- 1:26:44Speaker 1: Is that possible. If that's not possible, I would look
- 1:26:47Speaker 1: for it. Go ahead and read it. It's projected inside
- 1:26:54Speaker 1: outside one to read. Uhah, Hold on, this is a
- 1:27:04Speaker 1: big revelation.
- 1:27:05Speaker 3: Stop here, the Bible says, provide for his own his.
- 1:27:08Speaker 1: Own, talks of relative and everybody connected that he says,
- 1:27:11Speaker 1: but as personally meaning stress and foremost, what's your first responsibility?
- 1:27:18Speaker 1: The Bible never said love your neighbor as yourself. There
- 1:27:20Speaker 1: are people who sit down and their wives are suffering,
- 1:27:24Speaker 1: and they're donating cass and bosses to churches, whereas they
- 1:27:28Speaker 1: cannot pay their respects. Some irresponsible life, the Bible says,
- 1:27:32Speaker 1: especially to those of his own house. He says, he
- 1:27:36Speaker 1: has denied what's the faith and is worse than an infidel.
- 1:27:45Speaker 1: Write this down.
- 1:27:48Speaker 3: What is responsibility?
- 1:27:50Speaker 1: Responsibility is a burden of obligation over someone or something.
- 1:27:56Speaker 1: Responsibility is a burden of obligation over someone or something.
- 1:28:05Speaker 1: Number two quickly, Responsibility is an awareness of consequences, an
- 1:28:12Speaker 1: awareness of consequences that if you do this, there is
- 1:28:16Speaker 1: a consequence.
- 1:28:17Speaker 3: If you do not do this, there is a consequence.
- 1:28:20Speaker 1: Responsibility is an awareness of consequence. I identify the few
- 1:28:30Speaker 1: reasons here where people are white people are generally not responsible.
- 1:28:34Speaker 1: Let me talk about them for a few minutes. Number one,
- 1:28:37Speaker 1: The reason why many people are not responsible and why
- 1:28:40Speaker 1: they may never succeed is they're indecision over their success
- 1:28:45Speaker 1: and establishment. The reason why many brothers, many sisters, but
- 1:28:51Speaker 1: broadus especially may never get established is indecision. There is
- 1:28:56Speaker 1: a difference between a wish and a decision. I want
- 1:29:00Speaker 1: to eat rice. That's a wish.
- 1:29:03Speaker 3: I want to eat rice, but I will get.
- 1:29:05Speaker 1: Up and go to the restaurant and buy it, or
- 1:29:08Speaker 1: I will go to the market to pook it. That's
- 1:29:10Speaker 1: a decision backed up by the willingness to pay the
- 1:29:14Speaker 1: price to actual lice it. There are many brothers wishing,
- 1:29:17Speaker 1: wishing to prayer, wishing through reading books, wishing through receiving prophecy,
- 1:29:23Speaker 1: wishing to dropping their prayer points in miracle service. No
- 1:29:26Speaker 1: wish does not provide an answer in decision over being successful.
- 1:29:35Speaker 1: Look at me, God is speaking to people here.
- 1:29:38Speaker 3: I preached. The first message I preached about.
- 1:29:41Speaker 1: Responsibility in ministry was a message called come out of
- 1:29:45Speaker 1: your Father's house. That message blessed people in no small way.
- 1:29:49Speaker 1: There are many of us who keep lying to ourselves
- 1:29:51Speaker 1: that we are young. I'm young. You know I am.
- 1:29:55Speaker 3: Twenty, i am thirty, even forty. You said that job
- 1:30:00Speaker 3: A went together. You must learn to take responsibility over
- 1:30:04Speaker 3: your your life.
- 1:30:06Speaker 1: If anything will be done, you will have to contribute
- 1:30:09Speaker 1: to making it happen. Indecision, you've never made a decision
- 1:30:16Speaker 1: to rise up and be serious. You've made a decision
- 1:30:19Speaker 1: to marry, you've made a decision to have children, you've
- 1:30:23Speaker 1: made a decision to fat the size, or you've not
- 1:30:25Speaker 1: made a decision to be delegent, deally gent and say no,
- 1:30:30Speaker 1: I'm tired of the way my life is not Jesus.
- 1:30:33Speaker 1: Things have to change. Look let me tell you something.
- 1:30:36Speaker 1: There are brought us listening to me right now and
- 1:30:38Speaker 1: some following online. This night should be your night or decision.
- 1:30:44Speaker 1: Many years ago, I made up my mind that I
- 1:30:48Speaker 1: was going to be a very responsible person. I was
- 1:30:52Speaker 1: a vow that I took with God. Are together exactly
- 1:30:56Speaker 1: fourteen years ago. In fact, fifteen years ago, exactly fifteen
- 1:31:00Speaker 1: years ago, I made that decision that I was ready
- 1:31:05Speaker 1: to be serious and be responsible. The first book I
- 1:31:09Speaker 1: bought was Discovering Your Purpose by Dr mc muddoc Dr
- 1:31:15Speaker 1: makes Munro, and I sat down. When I read that book,
- 1:31:19Speaker 1: I cried. I remember writing it.
- 1:31:21Speaker 3: I still have the book to today.
- 1:31:23Speaker 1: It was a foul that I wrote. I will be
- 1:31:26Speaker 1: a responsible man of God. I will be a responsible father,
- 1:31:30Speaker 1: I will be a responsible husband. I'll be a responsible leader. Decisions.
- 1:31:38Speaker 1: How do I know you have taken a decision to
- 1:31:42Speaker 1: be successful where you stop making excuses, excuses the language
- 1:31:48Speaker 1: of irresponsible men. I would have done it, but it's
- 1:31:51Speaker 1: not my faultun too, you understand stop making excuses.
- 1:31:57Speaker 3: Nigeria, I say a recession. That's why I know men
- 1:32:00Speaker 3: who make men who are fond.
- 1:32:02Speaker 1: Of making excuses and not responsible men. And that includes
- 1:32:06Speaker 1: women too. Of course. Number two, Admit your mistakes. That's
- 1:32:12Speaker 1: how I know you have decided to succeed. Admit your mistakes.
- 1:32:17Speaker 1: Admit it. Oh, I was cheerless in this area. I admit.
- 1:32:24Speaker 1: Number three. Stop blaming other people for your problems. Many
- 1:32:29Speaker 1: young men Julians like this. We blame government, we blame
- 1:32:34Speaker 1: all kinds of things, we blame demons, we blame our father.
- 1:32:37Speaker 1: My father didn't train me well at my age. Look
- 1:32:40Speaker 1: at it now, a men three hundred level is not
- 1:32:43Speaker 1: the best. But now that you have entered, take responsibility.
- 1:32:48Speaker 1: Take responsibility. There are too many people in anger blaming
- 1:32:53Speaker 1: people they didn't pay my SPOOFI is the reason why
- 1:32:58Speaker 1: I'm stripping around for schoofi is is because to have
- 1:33:00Speaker 1: this stupit further. Okay, I agree, I sympathize with you.
- 1:33:03Speaker 1: But now that you are in Christ, is God speaking
- 1:33:11Speaker 1: to us? The nineteen the James becomeing hot Coonia is quiet.
- 1:33:19Speaker 1: I pray that he's entering your spirit, because that's the goal.
- 1:33:23Speaker 1: Stop making excuses, brother, Stop making excuses. Stop making excuses.
- 1:33:28Speaker 1: You are making the same excuses. You are fifteen, You
- 1:33:31Speaker 1: are thirty one. Now, stop making excuses.
- 1:33:33Speaker 3: Your father drove your mother when you were nine years.
- 1:33:36Speaker 1: Now you are twenty. You are twenty eleven years ago.
- 1:33:40Speaker 1: Get over it and move forward. Oh apostle, I was
- 1:33:44Speaker 1: read when I was four years I'm sorry. I feel
- 1:33:47Speaker 1: very bad for you. But the God of Heaven has helped.
- 1:33:50Speaker 1: I'm not. I know it's very bad and it's disheartling,
- 1:33:53Speaker 1: but getle by it and move forward.
- 1:33:57Speaker 3: In fact, we don't even have too much of that
- 1:34:00Speaker 3: in Africa. It's down the weast you find the responsible people.
- 1:34:03Speaker 1: A seventy year old man who'll come out and said
- 1:34:05Speaker 1: the reason why he was he was poor was because
- 1:34:08Speaker 1: the father emotionally abused him and they was sending counselor
- 1:34:11Speaker 1: seventeen years he abused you.
- 1:34:14Speaker 3: Well, how old were you?
- 1:34:15Speaker 1: I was five.
- 1:34:16Speaker 3: For sixty five years you allowed your.
- 1:34:18Speaker 1: Life to move like a car without a driver, and
- 1:34:21Speaker 1: now you're blaming your father.
- 1:34:22Speaker 3: Going to stand in this gradeyard, Dad, I know you're dead,
- 1:34:26Speaker 3: but they had that and that trouble stories, all this
- 1:34:31Speaker 3: drama and gimmicks.
- 1:34:34Speaker 1: Oh no, take responsibility, stand and throw stones at a
- 1:34:39Speaker 1: gradeyard and go back seventy years as a wasted life.
- 1:34:52Speaker 3: In decision, Have you made a decision that you will succeed? Brothers?
- 1:34:57Speaker 1: Look at me? Have you made a decision that you're
- 1:35:00Speaker 1: children will not beg for school? Is under your authority?
- 1:35:03Speaker 3: Don't say amen? Have you made a decision? Have you
- 1:35:06Speaker 3: made a decision that your wife.
- 1:35:10Speaker 1: Will not be moving around and one enter, one boss,
- 1:35:13Speaker 1: and somebody will be pushing her pregnant night madam, she
- 1:35:16Speaker 1: one small boy, someone is pushing your wife. Have you
- 1:35:19Speaker 1: made a decision to be responsible?
- 1:35:20Speaker 3: Have you made a decision to train your children in
- 1:35:23Speaker 3: the field of the Lord?
- 1:35:25Speaker 1: Have you made a decision to bring the banner of
- 1:35:28Speaker 1: Jesus in your family? Have you made a decision that
- 1:35:31Speaker 1: you're not going to sit one day and explain and
- 1:35:34Speaker 1: tell your children stories and say that a man on.
- 1:35:36Speaker 3: TV we were classmates. Have you made a decision?
- 1:35:40Speaker 1: Many of us have not. We have been wishing, but
- 1:35:42Speaker 1: we have never made a decision. Tonight, make it in Corannonia.
- 1:35:46Speaker 1: Are we together make that decision? Make that decision. When
- 1:35:51Speaker 1: you make a decision to be successful, you will stop immediately.
- 1:35:56Speaker 3: You stop being a small child. The concept of small
- 1:35:58Speaker 3: child is not by age.
- 1:36:00Speaker 1: The moment, there is nothing that occupies your life to
- 1:36:03Speaker 1: keep you focused.
- 1:36:04Speaker 3: That's why people are free. Ten o'clock you see them moving.
- 1:36:07Speaker 1: Around, drinking you again, on the road, eating carrots on
- 1:36:10Speaker 1: the road, just moving around.
- 1:36:12Speaker 3: And this hour ros I don't know. I say you
- 1:36:13Speaker 3: are free?
- 1:36:14Speaker 1: Are you saying yes?
- 1:36:15Speaker 3: Where are you going?
- 1:36:16Speaker 1: And I got one movie. There's one new computer game.
- 1:36:19Speaker 1: That's a man who has not made a decision to
- 1:36:21Speaker 1: be successful. Because when you make that.
- 1:36:23Speaker 3: Decision, your purpose is supposed.
- 1:36:26Speaker 1: To occupy you for a lifetime. You would be too pity.
- 1:36:30Speaker 3: You have to be able to receive grades from God.
- 1:36:32Speaker 1: To think about marriage. Many people are not purposed. By
- 1:36:40Speaker 1: nine o'clock, you've slept. You wake up by.
- 1:36:42Speaker 3: Sixty because you are free, you still sleep back. Wake up.
- 1:36:46Speaker 3: By twelve, you wake up. You're step free, you still
- 1:36:48Speaker 3: sleep back.
- 1:36:49Speaker 1: You spread from four to five, making casts, the stopping
- 1:36:52Speaker 1: visionary people.
- 1:36:54Speaker 3: How are you is being a while?
- 1:36:55Speaker 1: Say sorry, I'm working? Why are you treating me like this?
- 1:36:58Speaker 1: Because I don't have money? Dogs ay?
- 1:37:01Speaker 3: And the person is saying, I'm busy, and you call
- 1:37:03Speaker 3: it pride. May you be too busy for your enemies
- 1:37:08Speaker 3: to dishat you.
- 1:37:09Speaker 1: May you be too busy for visionless people to come
- 1:37:13Speaker 1: into your life and come gossiping.
- 1:37:15Speaker 3: Talking nonsense. There are many of us.
- 1:37:17Speaker 1: Our idleness and our purposelessness has created the exact atmosphere
- 1:37:23Speaker 1: for gossip and everything. Because you are not working, you
- 1:37:26Speaker 1: don't do anything. People will leave their homesome come and
- 1:37:28Speaker 1: crowd in your house. Your house is the meeting place.
- 1:37:32Speaker 1: Everybody talking about their marriage, They talk about their children,
- 1:37:35Speaker 1: they talk about everything.
- 1:37:37Speaker 3: You are the recipient.
- 1:37:38Speaker 1: No, be too busy, be too busy. Are we together?
- 1:37:45Speaker 3: Somebody wants to come and gossip as is coming through
- 1:37:48Speaker 3: to your house.
- 1:37:48Speaker 1: He says that you are busy.
- 1:37:50Speaker 3: There are so many things happening. Many brothers are too idle.
- 1:37:54Speaker 3: They are too idle. Call them in the night there snory,
- 1:37:59Speaker 3: call them in the morning, just knowing you're not going
- 1:38:01Speaker 3: to make a great.
- 1:38:02Speaker 1: Life that way. Look, I will tell you the truth
- 1:38:04Speaker 1: because I love you. That's why many of our parents
- 1:38:08Speaker 1: could not pay us schoofies. Ah could not pay us schoofies.
- 1:38:15Speaker 3: There are fathers today, There are many people see that here.
- 1:38:19Speaker 1: It's not your parents that are paying your schoofies. And
- 1:38:21Speaker 1: they are alive and they're doing well. You come and
- 1:38:24Speaker 1: medium and said, dad, they're in this schoofie. They say,
- 1:38:26Speaker 1: I used to be What should I do? He said,
- 1:38:28Speaker 1: I don't know what is happening in Nigerla Automatically, what
- 1:38:30Speaker 1: they're telling you is, are you not a lady? Go
- 1:38:32Speaker 1: and do whatever you know to do to bring the trees.
- 1:38:35Speaker 1: Do you know how I know many parents are irresponsible.
- 1:38:37Speaker 1: Now let me say this, and I say it with
- 1:38:39Speaker 1: all or not to God for the privilege of being
- 1:38:41Speaker 1: able to help people. Out of all the people I
- 1:38:44Speaker 1: have paid your schoolfees and paid the school fees, less
- 1:38:47Speaker 1: than two percent, less than two percent of their parents
- 1:38:52Speaker 1: have cared to call to find out who is paying
- 1:38:55Speaker 1: your schoolfees. There are people that have been paying your
- 1:38:58Speaker 1: schoofies for more than four years. There are people that
- 1:39:01Speaker 1: paid their schools from secondary school till they graduated, and
- 1:39:04Speaker 1: not once did their parents call to say, COMEO, who
- 1:39:07Speaker 1: exactly is the man of God that is paying your
- 1:39:10Speaker 1: school It's let's at least come and see him and
- 1:39:12Speaker 1: say thank you. Are we together?
- 1:39:17Speaker 3: Yeah, so I know what I'm saying. Very irresponsible people.
- 1:39:27Speaker 1: There are people, some of you as you are here now,
- 1:39:30Speaker 1: although you are a student, you are still sending money home.
- 1:39:33Speaker 1: Your father is a life, your mother is a life.
- 1:39:35Speaker 1: It's not that they are old. They cannot work. They
- 1:39:37Speaker 1: will even call you, my daughter not here for us
- 1:39:41Speaker 1: this month, and they never ask you how the money
- 1:39:43Speaker 1: is coming.
- 1:39:44Speaker 3: So you don't even do you know? I made a statement,
- 1:39:47Speaker 3: and it is scaring me.
- 1:39:51Speaker 1: The things that women and even men do for money
- 1:39:57Speaker 1: is becoming scary.
- 1:39:59Speaker 3: As I counsel people, I'm being afraid. Honestly, I will
- 1:40:03Speaker 3: tell you this. There are many people I tell you
- 1:40:08Speaker 3: their parents.
- 1:40:09Speaker 1: Are not responsible for their lives. A daughter in a
- 1:40:14Speaker 1: family where they cannot even afford go to water comes
- 1:40:17Speaker 1: with a phone of one hundred and fifty thousand.
- 1:40:19Speaker 3: She's not ending, she's not working. You don't know who
- 1:40:21Speaker 3: is in a relationship with her.
- 1:40:23Speaker 1: No brother has come to show he's responsible, and the
- 1:40:26Speaker 1: father says, you.
- 1:40:27Speaker 3: Are enjoying them. Just live her own for rocks. You
- 1:40:32Speaker 3: see that kind of man.
- 1:40:34Speaker 1: Somebody comes to drop your daughter by eleven thirty in
- 1:40:37Speaker 1: the night, eleven thirty. You are the one as the
- 1:40:39Speaker 1: father opens.
- 1:40:40Speaker 3: The gate for him. Ah my god, look at this girl. Welcome.
- 1:40:45Speaker 3: She enters with a new dressing that already shows hell fire.
- 1:40:50Speaker 1: And yet you please see this thing I'm saying. I'm
- 1:40:54Speaker 1: not being had on people. I'm challenging something. If you
- 1:40:57Speaker 1: love Jesus Christ and you love your future, you will
- 1:41:00Speaker 1: love what I'm saying. You may not love me, but
- 1:41:02Speaker 1: love what I'm saying. That's too most carelessness, to the
- 1:41:08Speaker 1: extent that there are many parents who don't even know
- 1:41:11Speaker 1: whether their daughters in a in the home or not.
- 1:41:13Speaker 3: Three days they've not come home.
- 1:41:15Speaker 1: They don't know. If they see them, fine, If they
- 1:41:17Speaker 1: don't see them, fine, it's a different thing. If there adults,
- 1:41:20Speaker 1: they can live their lives. You can say this is
- 1:41:23Speaker 1: my daughter, but I did not teach her this. She's
- 1:41:25Speaker 1: taking her decision about life. But you see some of
- 1:41:27Speaker 1: these young ladies that move around, very small girls.
- 1:41:30Speaker 3: They look at you, even as a man of God.
- 1:41:32Speaker 1: They don't respect you. Because people older that you are
- 1:41:35Speaker 1: the ones dealing with them. You greet them, they want
- 1:41:40Speaker 1: to treat you like that man who was with them yesterday.
- 1:41:44Speaker 1: Stupid attitude. They see you, You will look at them
- 1:41:46Speaker 1: and you see them being some fannities. You are trying
- 1:41:48Speaker 1: to correct them and tell them something is wrong. Everybody
- 1:41:52Speaker 1: in their eyes is a boyfriend. They don't know the
- 1:41:55Speaker 1: difference between leaders. They're seeing their parents greating a man
- 1:41:58Speaker 1: of God and they and they're behaving all kinds of things.
- 1:42:01Speaker 3: They think, is I'm not that toaster, no respect, no dignity.
- 1:42:11Speaker 3: Are way together? Yeah, this is the carelessness that is
- 1:42:16Speaker 3: happening in society.
- 1:42:18Speaker 1: Do you know to the point that if you bless
- 1:42:20Speaker 1: a lady and give her five thousand. She'll keep looking
- 1:42:23Speaker 1: at you and smiling.
- 1:42:24Speaker 3: It's like she's waiting for the other side of the deal.
- 1:42:27Speaker 1: What other side? Are you hearing what I'm saying now?
- 1:42:34Speaker 1: Because nobody helps for noting. We're living in a society
- 1:42:37Speaker 1: where nobody helps for naught. If I give you ten thousand, err,
- 1:42:41Speaker 1: you know what to do tomorrow. Say listen, let me
- 1:42:50Speaker 1: encourage you. I don't condemn you. But if there is
- 1:42:54Speaker 1: any money in your life, please listen to me. Listen
- 1:42:56Speaker 1: to me.
- 1:42:57Speaker 3: Who you are exchanging money for going to meet that man?
- 1:43:02Speaker 3: Stop it this night, in the name of Jesus, say amen,
- 1:43:07Speaker 3: say it.
- 1:43:09Speaker 1: Send them text messages, whether it's a lecturer or a
- 1:43:12Speaker 1: military officie, judge, send him a text message after Caledonia
- 1:43:16Speaker 1: and say no, we can against her.
- 1:43:17Speaker 3: He say why?
- 1:43:18Speaker 1: Say a man of God I love so much has spoken.
- 1:43:23Speaker 3: Oh, I'll dog what I'm giving you.
- 1:43:24Speaker 1: That's not the issue. Are we together? It's very important.
- 1:43:33Speaker 1: It's very disheartening.
- 1:43:35Speaker 3: Please, if you're a parent here and you are listening
- 1:43:37Speaker 3: to me, I'm not saying you see.
- 1:43:39Speaker 1: That and prove your daughters.
- 1:43:40Speaker 3: Ladies, Please don't get it personal.
- 1:43:42Speaker 1: But someone has got to talk to them these two
- 1:43:46Speaker 1: is too much, it's too cheerless, it's too much. A
- 1:43:50Speaker 1: daughter comes with a phone that even her father cannot buy,
- 1:43:53Speaker 1: two hundred and fifty thousand phone, a laptop, whatever it is,
- 1:43:58Speaker 1: and nobody can ask a question. Nobody, of course, you
- 1:44:02Speaker 1: cannot ask because you were never part of her life.
- 1:44:04Speaker 1: You never contributed in making it happen. So is it today?
- 1:44:07Speaker 1: Now you ask her?
- 1:44:08Speaker 3: Where did the laptop comes from?
- 1:44:10Speaker 1: It's a terrible thing. See when you see me close
- 1:44:14Speaker 1: to my ladies in Cornonia here, it's for a reason.
- 1:44:18Speaker 1: Many of them literally did not have that father figure
- 1:44:22Speaker 1: in your life.
- 1:44:23Speaker 3: Li tally.
- 1:44:25Speaker 1: The moment you're hungry, they know they must sleep with somebody.
- 1:44:29Speaker 1: So for them, they're shocked having somebody that can bless
- 1:44:32Speaker 1: your life. Genuinely, my parents, we need we have worked,
- 1:44:39Speaker 1: you do. Many of our parents have really failed us.
- 1:44:44Speaker 1: It's very important, but then we most take responsibility. Please, sisters,
- 1:44:49Speaker 1: you are going to vow in the name of the
- 1:44:52Speaker 1: Lord today. It's better for them to drive you away
- 1:44:55Speaker 1: from school than you should. Do you know how many
- 1:44:58Speaker 1: people you catch it?
- 1:45:00Speaker 3: I did today.
- 1:45:02Speaker 1: Do you think the man who gave me the ager
- 1:45:03Speaker 1: there are learning people who move around you are seeing
- 1:45:06Speaker 1: it looks like they're healthy.
- 1:45:08Speaker 3: The aside from the spirits in them.
- 1:45:12Speaker 1: Spirit tally speaking causes yokes, spells on their head.
- 1:45:16Speaker 3: The land, everything on your destiny. They're too small for
- 1:45:20Speaker 3: that kind of that kind of thing.
- 1:45:24Speaker 1: There are people who you see them be young and
- 1:45:26Speaker 1: small for the things they have gone to. They can't
- 1:45:30Speaker 1: sell you and bring the change. They look after us.
- 1:45:34Speaker 1: If they don't know anything.
- 1:45:39Speaker 3: The Lord will help us. The Lord will seriously help us.
- 1:45:43Speaker 1: Valentine is coming again, an opportunity for destroyers to image
- 1:45:50Speaker 1: from tomorrow. They're selling kids now, selling balloon, selling letters,
- 1:45:55Speaker 1: selling all kinds of things. They will come roaming around
- 1:45:58Speaker 1: like who about to each the destinies of people. They live,
- 1:46:01Speaker 1: their wives and their children, some of them their parents,
- 1:46:05Speaker 1: some of the people that some of these men are
- 1:46:07Speaker 1: looking for. The lady they are looking for is even
- 1:46:10Speaker 1: the daughter of the man's friend. Is that true? Yeah?
- 1:46:17Speaker 1: There our ladies that pride themselves in dealing with certain
- 1:46:20Speaker 1: classes of men. We don't do.
- 1:46:21Speaker 3: All these small small boys know what's our home. We
- 1:46:24Speaker 3: deal with our teacher time ninety nine days. For the thief,
- 1:46:30Speaker 3: the owner is not yours, but the owner is Jesus the.
- 1:46:34Speaker 1: Daily owner of comman say look, I'm far up with
- 1:46:37Speaker 1: your life.
- 1:46:38Speaker 3: You're being troue.
- 1:46:42Speaker 1: Men who won't catch hid and women give their wives.
- 1:46:45Speaker 1: Women who catch hid and give your husbands and kill themselves.
- 1:46:50Speaker 3: A very lady school is today by the grace of
- 1:46:52Speaker 3: God and to the glory of God.
- 1:46:53Speaker 1: And it was a disheartening situation. Her registration was closer
- 1:46:57Speaker 1: to the Ian. I don't even know the person in
- 1:46:59Speaker 1: the university. Her father and her mother both died of
- 1:47:03Speaker 1: HIV and left two of them taking care of themselves.
- 1:47:07Speaker 3: I asked the lady, how have you been paying your
- 1:47:09Speaker 3: schoofi is?
- 1:47:10Speaker 1: She said, I do?
- 1:47:11Speaker 3: Tell her in her lam.
- 1:47:11Speaker 1: I said, I'm not a small child. How have you
- 1:47:13Speaker 1: been paying your schoolie? Answer me? What is you do? Telluri?
- 1:47:16Speaker 3: I'm wanting your schoolfie and how much do you so clue?
- 1:47:19Speaker 1: And that's when she shocked me and said she has
- 1:47:22Speaker 1: been paying it by doing whatever she does with her person.
- 1:47:28Speaker 1: Nothing goes for naughting. This is Nigeria. You can't you
- 1:47:32Speaker 1: can't eat, okay? Can add it? I leave to praise jowning.
- 1:47:46Speaker 3: I have no fay. I'm one way to pray from
- 1:47:58Speaker 3: a sway to one, verse twenty. I want to cast
- 1:48:01Speaker 3: the spirit among men tonight.
- 1:48:02Speaker 1: It's called the spirit of a waste. Write it down,
- 1:48:06Speaker 1: the spirit of a waste. We most cast that spirit
- 1:48:11Speaker 1: out of our brothers, the spirit of waste Probabs twenty one,
- 1:48:16Speaker 1: Verse twenty waste level opportunities, wasteed relationships.
- 1:48:23Speaker 3: Allowed us to religious projected one to read and oil
- 1:48:30Speaker 3: in the dwelling of the wife. Aha, what a full list, man.
- 1:48:35Speaker 3: Spend it up. Look at me.
- 1:48:37Speaker 1: You know, when I talk to many brothers, the first
- 1:48:40Speaker 1: thing they tell me is a cost of times that
- 1:48:42Speaker 1: I have.
- 1:48:42Speaker 3: There's no money. I want to do business, there is
- 1:48:45Speaker 3: no money.
- 1:48:45Speaker 1: It's a life.
- 1:48:46Speaker 3: Look at me.
- 1:48:47Speaker 1: God has been faithful to many brothers. If you are
- 1:48:51Speaker 1: a tighter at one point or the other in your life,
- 1:48:55Speaker 1: God has been faithful.
- 1:48:56Speaker 3: But many people in the Body of.
- 1:48:58Speaker 1: Christ are waste. Waste terms of resources, waste, toms of opportunities,
- 1:49:06Speaker 1: living a life, living a false life.
- 1:49:10Speaker 3: Your salary is fifty thousand, but you are staying in
- 1:49:13Speaker 3: the house of five hundred thousand.
- 1:49:14Speaker 1: You're a waste.
- 1:49:17Speaker 3: Are we together?
- 1:49:18Speaker 1: Your salaries one hundred thousand? You are driving a car
- 1:49:21Speaker 1: of five point five. You are a waste.
- 1:49:28Speaker 3: I told people, don't buy a car until you have
- 1:49:32Speaker 3: money up to ten percent of the value of that
- 1:49:35Speaker 3: car consistently for maintenance.
- 1:49:39Speaker 1: Your maintenance cost is approximately ten to twenty percent of
- 1:49:43Speaker 1: the overall value of the car you buy on.
- 1:49:46Speaker 3: A consistent basis.
- 1:49:50Speaker 1: Many people want collect loan from the bank instead of
- 1:49:53Speaker 1: them to buy a simple car. They buy different kinds
- 1:49:56Speaker 1: of cars. Move around to prove a point. You are
- 1:50:01Speaker 1: earning twenty thousand, you are buying material of fifty thousand,
- 1:50:05Speaker 1: and you wear it and everybody around you does not know.
- 1:50:07Speaker 1: Let me show you how state and cheap Africans there
- 1:50:10Speaker 1: are many of those k If you did not have.
- 1:50:12Speaker 3: The spirit of a wister. God has been faithful in
- 1:50:14Speaker 3: your life, you would have raised.
- 1:50:15Speaker 1: Up to a million niner right now to do responsible things.
- 1:50:20Speaker 3: How about marriage? How we waste money in Africa?
- 1:50:26Speaker 1: You get the best venue, hire the best people.
- 1:50:30Speaker 3: You wan't get a small boy.
- 1:50:32Speaker 1: And pay for that boy thirty thousand miller to hold
- 1:50:35Speaker 1: it rid?
- 1:50:36Speaker 3: Can't you put it in your pocket?
- 1:50:39Speaker 1: Of course?
- 1:50:40Speaker 3: Why are you laughing? We least somepe from mentaling a hand.
- 1:50:46Speaker 1: The spirit of your waste is destroying Nigerians. You are
- 1:50:50Speaker 1: as students, you are wearing suits of fifty thousand, and
- 1:50:53Speaker 1: you will pride yourself all around.
- 1:50:55Speaker 3: I have this, No, sir, it's a wister and we
- 1:50:59Speaker 3: passed on have been.
- 1:51:00Speaker 1: Victims of this because in an attempt to help people become.
- 1:51:04Speaker 3: Successful, we put pressure on them to prove that the
- 1:51:07Speaker 3: world is working.
- 1:51:08Speaker 1: And in an attempt to show that the world is working,
- 1:51:11Speaker 1: the money that God tells the guide to help him,
- 1:51:13Speaker 1: he now uses it to.
- 1:51:14Speaker 3: Buy a car as a one hundred.
- 1:51:16Speaker 1: Level student to show that he has fait fret is
- 1:51:18Speaker 1: not foolishes. You're in two hundred level. You're wearing a
- 1:51:23Speaker 1: wave of twenty thousand. No, there are many students who
- 1:51:29Speaker 1: are eating wear certain lecture as I eat it were
- 1:51:33Speaker 1: a piece of meat, A big piece of meat is
- 1:51:36Speaker 1: right on the narran see that are you eat three
- 1:51:43Speaker 1: square meals a day? They give you ten thousand rain and.
- 1:51:46Speaker 3: A week is fend. Some of us have this period
- 1:51:49Speaker 3: of spending. You can't restive finishes. It's a spirit.
- 1:51:55Speaker 1: Wast Are we together? You're wearing a shoe of this amount? Please,
- 1:51:59Speaker 1: I'm you're talking to you. You have to square of
- 1:52:02Speaker 1: there are things in your life you can't gonna sell
- 1:52:04Speaker 1: that's your capital.
- 1:52:05Speaker 3: Sell all those nonsense.
- 1:52:07Speaker 1: You have three phones. Who are you calling? You are
- 1:52:09Speaker 1: loading your phone with ten thousand anerra in a month.
- 1:52:12Speaker 1: That's somebody's salary. And all you are doing is gse
- 1:52:20Speaker 1: rooms that we give the devil to destroy our lives.
- 1:52:25Speaker 3: Praise the Lord. You are not doing anything.
- 1:52:28Speaker 1: Your barber comes to meet you one thousand raper, Babby,
- 1:52:31Speaker 1: can't you want?
- 1:52:32Speaker 3: What are you rushing for? I can't know what I'm saying. Now.
- 1:52:36Speaker 1: There are people who don't have any money. You are
- 1:52:39Speaker 1: not ending anything. You chatter a car to wherever you
- 1:52:42Speaker 1: want to go to. Let me show you how we
- 1:52:44Speaker 1: waste money. Twenty five thousand an hour on a three Oh,
- 1:52:48Speaker 1: I can't enter night boys, we have to fly thirty
- 1:52:50Speaker 1: thousand er.
- 1:52:51Speaker 3: Economy is finished.
- 1:52:52Speaker 1: Book business class forty five thousand hour you're paying.
- 1:52:55Speaker 3: You are flying away.
- 1:52:56Speaker 1: Your destiny with five thousand er. You can with honor.
- 1:53:03Speaker 1: I'm not saying the days will not come for those things,
- 1:53:06Speaker 1: but not now.
- 1:53:07Speaker 3: Shrike life.
- 1:53:08Speaker 1: You see people living, especially women of God. Strike life
- 1:53:13Speaker 1: so that I will show that I'm anointed. You go
- 1:53:16Speaker 1: buy a water one hundred thousand. You are wearing it. No,
- 1:53:19Speaker 1: let me tell you. Where you rise, everything around you rise,
- 1:53:23Speaker 1: so when you take it, nothing around you can resonate
- 1:53:26Speaker 1: with the level you claim to have been.
- 1:53:28Speaker 3: You don't know anybody that runs that level of influence.
- 1:53:34Speaker 1: When Coinonia started here with crowds of people packed to outside,
- 1:53:39Speaker 1: I will come on a bike, a bike, mill and
- 1:53:43Speaker 1: two service people are waiting. The next thing you hear
- 1:53:45Speaker 1: sound of a bike, I would drop from it honorably
- 1:53:48Speaker 1: with my Bible, And at that time I was already blessed.
- 1:53:57Speaker 1: Please stop any sake life. We know you are responsible,
- 1:54:02Speaker 1: and we know God will help you. Brothers, am I
- 1:54:04Speaker 1: speaking to you. This pressure of trying to look like
- 1:54:07Speaker 1: Joshua Selman you will die of You don't know the fire.
- 1:54:10Speaker 3: Passed through to come where I am.
- 1:54:12Speaker 1: No, no, sir, this pressure of trying to do this.
- 1:54:15Speaker 3: Visit us. If I am coming to your house. If
- 1:54:18Speaker 3: all you have is water, keep it there.
- 1:54:20Speaker 1: Don't go and borrow money to cook talky.
- 1:54:24Speaker 3: I didn't ask you. God is straightful. I'm not coming
- 1:54:28Speaker 3: for food.
- 1:54:33Speaker 1: There are families and women of God.
- 1:54:34Speaker 3: May God for give us.
- 1:54:35Speaker 1: Honestly, because where anytime they visit any family, they must
- 1:54:39Speaker 1: prepare on no radio, Thank God. No leader is doing
- 1:54:42Speaker 1: that year. The day I hear that any leader in
- 1:54:45Speaker 1: this place is going to anybody's house and send there
- 1:54:47Speaker 1: to package on no radio.
- 1:54:49Speaker 3: Oh no, no, no no. The God that sent me
- 1:54:51Speaker 3: will judge that leader.
- 1:54:52Speaker 1: Judge that leader that you go to anybody's house under
- 1:54:56Speaker 1: the canopy of cononia.
- 1:54:58Speaker 3: I'm go and say they should give you. No.
- 1:55:00Speaker 1: Not every self is collectable.
- 1:55:04Speaker 3: Some things say, are your beth right? You are collecting
- 1:55:06Speaker 3: your online, your dignity?
- 1:55:11Speaker 1: Allelujah, Praise the Lord. It's God helping us tonight. The
- 1:55:18Speaker 1: spirit of waste. You start saying you get fifty thousand
- 1:55:23Speaker 1: ner every day from your parents, that's the workers salary.
- 1:55:27Speaker 1: Yet before half of the month you are begging people
- 1:55:29Speaker 1: who are on their room.
- 1:55:33Speaker 3: Your makeup kat is twenty thousand?
- 1:55:35Speaker 1: Who kids? If you have the money, that's all right,
- 1:55:38Speaker 1: there are some of us. Now you are planning marriage,
- 1:55:41Speaker 1: You've not gone anywhere. You've spent two point five When
- 1:55:43Speaker 1: are you doing it? Wedding down? Five hundred thousand to
- 1:55:47Speaker 1: wear once? Are you a eat every day? Two hundred thousand?
- 1:55:53Speaker 1: There is a particular ankle that this group. Where is
- 1:55:56Speaker 1: it in the Bible? If you don't have money, everybody
- 1:55:59Speaker 1: should less well, just honor them. Will then denied that
- 1:56:03Speaker 1: they're your parents most dead dressing and coo. Please hear
- 1:56:07Speaker 1: what I'm saying or it eat your nice and grow gradually. God,
- 1:56:12Speaker 1: you honor you.
- 1:56:13Speaker 3: Moneymoon you want to travel out too?
- 1:56:15Speaker 1: Well, if you don't have the money, explained to your wife,
- 1:56:19Speaker 1: honeymoon is a mentality, if not an act.
- 1:56:26Speaker 3: Africans waste money. I was sharing with some people today.
- 1:56:29Speaker 1: Twelve year celebration of getting born again, thirteen years of
- 1:56:33Speaker 1: getting you to.
- 1:56:33Speaker 3: The Holy Spirit, two years of being delivered from smoking.
- 1:56:38Speaker 1: And we organize the big ceremony with fly people from everywhere. December,
- 1:56:44Speaker 1: the entire settings of Nigerian so January to November finishes
- 1:56:48Speaker 1: in three days, three days of hilarious living.
- 1:56:52Speaker 3: You'll buy hamper fourteen.
- 1:56:53Speaker 1: Thousand per one. You'll buy almost twenty to share because
- 1:56:57Speaker 1: you are looking for a good name in church.
- 1:56:59Speaker 3: No, sir, that a brother saying you have no business
- 1:57:06Speaker 3: buying a laptop.
- 1:57:06Speaker 1: You don't have the money. There are sisters. You have
- 1:57:09Speaker 1: no business buying certain materials. It's all you have is
- 1:57:12Speaker 1: one trouser, My brother, Iron need with dignity, that God
- 1:57:15Speaker 1: of Heaven who sees you will honor you. You are
- 1:57:17Speaker 1: not irresponsible. If you meet the stance, she doesn't like
- 1:57:21Speaker 1: you because of the trouser. God just saved you from
- 1:57:23Speaker 1: a bad wife. Boy away and trust God for a
- 1:57:25Speaker 1: lady who knows how to see the spirit.
- 1:57:35Speaker 3: Allelujah. Don't put pressure on yourself.
- 1:57:42Speaker 1: The entirely relationship that is a high maintenance relationship chilling you.
- 1:57:47Speaker 3: Book for counseling.
- 1:57:49Speaker 1: Book for counseling, fast and say a personal I need help.
- 1:57:53Speaker 1: I entirely.
- 1:57:54Speaker 3: I'm not saying you are bad people. That's what counseling
- 1:57:56Speaker 3: is for, to be.
- 1:57:57Speaker 1: Able to talk to you and say no, no, no,
- 1:57:58Speaker 1: I think you're spending to People get married and they
- 1:58:02Speaker 1: don't have the house. They get married, they spend two
- 1:58:05Speaker 1: point five million and they cannot afford one hundred and
- 1:58:08Speaker 1: fifty thousand and four an ounce because of the life
- 1:58:10Speaker 1: of a wiste.
- 1:58:14Speaker 3: May the lot deliver us from the spirit of waste?
- 1:58:18Speaker 3: What are ministries that waste?
- 1:58:20Speaker 1: Uncommanded projects, projects that are not commanded by God?
- 1:58:24Speaker 3: Oh, this other man of God is doing it. Let's
- 1:58:26Speaker 3: we too. A church comes and they don't have money.
- 1:58:29Speaker 1: Simply because there are same people play spoofies. They announce
- 1:58:32Speaker 1: that may people's spookies and the entire reserve of the
- 1:58:35Speaker 1: ministry disappears. Oh they are binding poopies. Oh their binded.
- 1:58:39Speaker 1: This is five million. We must also buy uncommanded projects
- 1:58:43Speaker 1: and they were. God, that's not taken weeks. I'm not
- 1:58:45Speaker 1: under pressure. I will get there for show, whether you
- 1:58:48Speaker 1: believe it or not, I will get there. There are
- 1:58:50Speaker 1: levels coin on your has reached now by the grace
- 1:58:53Speaker 1: of God, and there are levels we have not reached.
- 1:58:55Speaker 1: I will never put myself on that pressure to get
- 1:58:58Speaker 1: into those levels.
- 1:58:59Speaker 3: Brother, your hand does not rich to buy a happitation.
- 1:59:03Speaker 1: Just take it easy.
- 1:59:04Speaker 3: The God of Heaven will give you.
- 1:59:06Speaker 1: When favor comes upon your life, it will be like
- 1:59:08Speaker 1: rain in twenty four hours. God will change your life.
- 1:59:12Speaker 1: But by the time you force the door into open,
- 1:59:14Speaker 1: what is to chill you were going to pray? Has
- 1:59:19Speaker 1: anyone learned something tonight? God wants us to rise to
- 1:59:26Speaker 1: be great men and women. Trust in our family life,
- 1:59:30Speaker 1: but also in every other thing. Every lady here trusting
- 1:59:35Speaker 1: God for a good man. With the God that I serve,
- 1:59:38Speaker 1: bring a good man to your life. And then your brother,
- 1:59:41Speaker 1: trusting God for a good woman. God, bring a good
- 1:59:45Speaker 1: person while you cannot reap a seed you are not sowing.
- 1:59:48Speaker 1: You cannot sow the seed of a stupid man and
- 1:59:51Speaker 1: rip a virtuous woman.
- 1:59:53Speaker 3: You cannot read sow.
- 1:59:54Speaker 1: A seed of a wicked woman and read an award
- 1:59:57Speaker 1: winning man.
- 1:59:57Speaker 3: God is not that unchoust.
- 2:00:00Speaker 1: God cannot believe it whatever a man, So that you shall. So, ladies,
- 2:00:08Speaker 1: please listen to me as I round them in the
- 2:00:11Speaker 1: name of the launchesus Christs. Be careful with some of
- 2:00:16Speaker 1: this canality and materialism. Be careful. Have challenged the brothers
- 2:00:21Speaker 1: to be serious, but you most be careful. There is
- 2:00:24Speaker 1: no body, no tree. No matter how well you water
- 2:00:28Speaker 1: and fertilize it, it will not become a giant oak
- 2:00:31Speaker 1: tree in one day, but there's potentials for it.
- 2:00:36Speaker 3: Are you together now?
- 2:00:37Speaker 1: Yeah? There are people some of you admire. If you
- 2:00:40Speaker 1: saw them ten twenty years ago.
- 2:00:41Speaker 3: You wouldn't like them.
- 2:00:43Speaker 1: But faith, I saw one man of God. When I
- 2:00:46Speaker 1: saw his picture, it was as if he was with rope.
- 2:00:48Speaker 1: He used to tie his waist.
- 2:00:50Speaker 3: You can use measuring tape and tie the waste.
- 2:00:54Speaker 1: He's wedding with his wife, she just too, as if
- 2:00:56Speaker 1: they carry that cap, as if they carried calps somewhere,
- 2:00:58Speaker 1: and just put on her head.
- 2:01:02Speaker 3: And the guy. The guy should be a Montaniloneia.
- 2:01:04Speaker 1: It's not a billoonnere.
- 2:01:05Speaker 3: Today he lavishious upon his wife like this. No tomorrow.
- 2:01:10Speaker 3: That's the price of taking the risk with the man.
- 2:01:12Speaker 1: If you are risk covers, you see down there, it's
- 2:01:16Speaker 1: God helping us and brothers, be responsible. Don't take for
- 2:01:20Speaker 1: granted that I've told ladies to be responsed. You'll be responsible.
- 2:01:23Speaker 1: You see that you are stinging, you are greedy. You
- 2:01:25Speaker 1: are a relationship. Valentine is coming. You are pretending like
- 2:01:28Speaker 1: you don't know plan. You must do something on Tuesday.
- 2:01:31Speaker 1: Plan plan you have today, start today, Sunday, Monday, Tuesday morning. Plan.
- 2:01:41Speaker 1: So that you don't take for granted, I say, because
- 2:01:43Speaker 1: some of those things are laziness. Please we must balance it. Brothers,
- 2:01:49Speaker 1: you must be serious. Sisters, you must be serious. Make
- 2:01:54Speaker 1: up your mind that you're going to make a good decision.
- 2:01:57Speaker 1: Dissociate from any dangerous and poison that's a relationship. Broad
- 2:02:01Speaker 1: that you are a relationship that is killing you, is
- 2:02:04Speaker 1: kicking you off speeditually and financially.
- 2:02:07Speaker 3: I mean want advite you to break what.
- 2:02:08Speaker 1: I advise you to cry for help, Cry for help,
- 2:02:11Speaker 1: don't die in silence, since side your a relationship with
- 2:02:14Speaker 1: the product who is oppressing you. I'm making nonsense out
- 2:02:17Speaker 1: of your life because I said.
- 2:02:18Speaker 3: You should be virus, cry for help, and.
- 2:02:21Speaker 1: If it's not changing living living, it is scriptural to
- 2:02:26Speaker 1: leave a relationship that does not represent where you are going.
- 2:02:32Speaker 3: A way together. We're going to pray.
- 2:02:36Speaker 1: Continue tomorrow during the work as retreats rise up for
- 2:02:39Speaker 1: your faith. We're going to pray.
- 2:02:49Speaker 3: But I want place, no moving around, no moving around.
- 2:02:52Speaker 11: I want everyone to stand just just stand still for
- 2:02:55Speaker 11: a moment, and I want you to think about your
- 2:02:57Speaker 11: life in one minute, especially for the brothers, I want
- 2:03:03Speaker 11: you to meditate upon your life in one minute.
- 2:03:06Speaker 1: What will your ten years be from now? What will
- 2:03:10Speaker 1: your twenty years be? At the rate you are going
- 2:03:13Speaker 1: with your life, at the rate of your mindset, at
- 2:03:16Speaker 1: the rate at which your understanding is? What kind of
- 2:03:20Speaker 1: results are you producing? Sister, look at your life now
- 2:03:24Speaker 1: and be since here between you and the God of Heaven,
- 2:03:27Speaker 1: the seeds you are sole in. Now, what kind of
- 2:03:29Speaker 1: heavens do you see in front of you now? I
- 2:03:31Speaker 1: want you to lift your voice before the God of Heaven.
- 2:03:34Speaker 1: In the next two or three minutes, cry Be says,
- 2:03:38Speaker 1: my health comes from the Lord. Cry, Cry, cry, cry please.
- 2:03:47Speaker 1: I want you to cry your God.
- 2:03:50Speaker 3: I've said larly things tonight and you know where it
- 2:03:52Speaker 3: affects you.
- 2:03:53Speaker 1: I want you to cry before God in one minute. Lord,
- 2:03:56Speaker 1: I have seen a mindset. I have seen a mindset
- 2:04:00Speaker 1: that it's distructed. I need you to help me. I'm
- 2:04:04Speaker 1: a godly brother, but I've seen that I've been irresponsible.
- 2:04:08Speaker 1: I've been lazy, lazy about my relationship, lazier about my life.
- 2:04:12Speaker 1: I've been giving cleansy excuses. I take responsibility to write.
- 2:04:17Speaker 3: Are you praying?
- 2:04:22Speaker 1: I am a lady and I'm a LORDI wrong mindset
- 2:04:25Speaker 1: in material listening, mind sext in.
- 2:04:28Speaker 3: Mindset that is canna to consume me.
- 2:04:31Speaker 1: I asked you for help.
- 2:04:33Speaker 3: Least your voice as pray.
- 2:04:37Speaker 1: If every other thing I said tonight past you anywhere, lift.
- 2:04:41Speaker 3: Your voice and right for the.
- 2:04:43Speaker 1: God of Lord. I'm not be irresponssible as a father.
- 2:04:56Speaker 1: Pray you're connecting with us my life. Pray I've not
- 2:04:59Speaker 1: been resurpons to and the hospar to my wife from
- 2:05:03Speaker 1: my children, my mangness possibilities Right Alan Loujah.
- 2:05:28Speaker 3: Prayer point number two, Father, take.
- 2:05:32Speaker 1: Away every period of indiscipline, laziness and wasteage and irresponsibility.
- 2:05:40Speaker 3: Let me live my life forever. Leave your voice and prayer.
- 2:05:44Speaker 1: Laziness, mental laziness, entitle men, mentality, wasting for father to
- 2:05:51Speaker 1: put this for me, wasting for mother to do this
- 2:05:54Speaker 1: from me. Slim says Jose, I look very.
- 2:06:00Speaker 3: Come a right foco suppersident.
- 2:06:18Speaker 1: Please prayer, this is your destiny, This is your destiny.
- 2:06:23Speaker 1: Pray this is your destiny.
- 2:06:36Speaker 3: Alleluia, allelivia. Lay break any relationship in my life.
- 2:06:43Speaker 1: Love relationship, wrong associations that are contributing to my downfall
- 2:06:49Speaker 1: in life.
- 2:06:49Speaker 3: Let them miscaptain now. I don't care how long any.
- 2:06:54Speaker 1: Wrong friend, wrong as cos it wrong whatever it is.
- 2:07:00Speaker 3: Way, I'm wreaking now.
- 2:07:06Speaker 1: I'm waking now the many, Yes, I'm king now, try
- 2:07:13Speaker 1: starleive me wrong ourselves, I think right now, shack shackamaship.
- 2:07:26Speaker 1: I was at a thing until I try start, and
- 2:07:31Speaker 1: I thank you to be a stream now and not
- 2:07:35Speaker 1: help until I try start the come out the right
- 2:07:39Speaker 1: treat from that relationship.
- 2:07:49Speaker 3: Allan jujah. Two more prayer points. Prayer point number three.
- 2:07:55Speaker 1: Father, give me direction stress over marriage and over every
- 2:08:00Speaker 1: area of my life. I confess that I'm confused. Give
- 2:08:04Speaker 1: me direction, lift your voice and pray, lift your voice
- 2:08:09Speaker 1: and cry out, Lord, I need direction, conctanding the issue
- 2:08:17Speaker 1: of marriage, I need direction, give your marriage prayer, Lord,
- 2:08:22Speaker 1: Conctand in my family right now, I don't even know
- 2:08:25Speaker 1: what to do things.
- 2:08:27Speaker 3: I'm not working in my family.
- 2:08:29Speaker 1: You've got to help me, Uncle, Direction and what to
- 2:08:35Speaker 1: do as a father, my national direction on what stream
- 2:08:41Speaker 1: of income to put your hands on, don't just do
- 2:08:45Speaker 1: anything because everybody is doing anything. Direction on how to
- 2:08:50Speaker 1: voice past off the lift shock, or my marriage direction
- 2:08:57Speaker 1: or a life partner direction. And then let me add
- 2:09:12Speaker 1: one more prayer for before the last one. You're going
- 2:09:14Speaker 1: to say, Lord, walk with me and work on me.
- 2:09:18Speaker 3: And even think that makes me.
- 2:09:20Speaker 1: Not to be the ideal wife, and you think, don't
- 2:09:24Speaker 1: pray for husband? Yes, Lord, Whatever makes me a bad wife,
- 2:09:30Speaker 1: whatever makes me a bad husband, whatever makes lest is
- 2:09:34Speaker 1: running away from me, whatever makes men run away from me?
- 2:09:38Speaker 1: I humble myself to night, and I.
- 2:09:41Speaker 3: Answer, you're taking from me, walk on me, walk on me.
- 2:09:44Speaker 3: Next your voice, I'm pretty.
- 2:09:47Speaker 1: What is riding my husb run away from him? What
- 2:09:51Speaker 1: is riding my wife away from him? Is less. Something
- 2:09:54Speaker 1: I'm away wrong? What is riding my destiny? Help aware
- 2:09:59Speaker 1: from mean? What is driving the annoysing away from me?
- 2:10:04Speaker 1: What is driving Stayford away from me? What is driving breakthrough?
- 2:10:13Speaker 1: Pray from your heart? There must be something I'm doing wrong?
- 2:10:19Speaker 1: What I thought my husband not love me? I may
- 2:10:22Speaker 1: have been getting it round somewhere. Why does my wife
- 2:10:25Speaker 1: not love me?
- 2:10:27Speaker 3: I must be getting it round somewhere?
- 2:10:31Speaker 1: Why is our relationship up to their down tomorrow? Something
- 2:10:37Speaker 1: must be wrong? I take responsibility. No passive flames. Allelujah,
- 2:10:51Speaker 1: last brad point and we're done for this night. Listen carefully,
- 2:10:57Speaker 1: Well we're gonna bring this Brad points why I maybe
- 2:11:00Speaker 1: the other crown? There is a dimension I need have
- 2:11:05Speaker 1: time to talk about. Maybe tomorrow, God randso's time during
- 2:11:09Speaker 1: the workers to treat I will explain. It's called the
- 2:11:12Speaker 1: self free help of God. Listen, listen, Ah.
- 2:11:16Speaker 3: Yeah, brothers and sisters, God can help a man. I
- 2:11:20Speaker 3: am a testimony of a man that God has helped.
- 2:11:23Speaker 1: The Bible says, and I was marvelously helped of the Lord.
- 2:11:27Speaker 1: The young man too. For a young man to be
- 2:11:30Speaker 1: established in Nigeria is hat I am nitted? Is hard?
- 2:11:36Speaker 3: There are no jobs. Every society there's.
- 2:11:42Speaker 1: His employments from the private sector. And if the private
- 2:11:46Speaker 1: sector is.
- 2:11:46Speaker 3: Not robust in any economy, there is no job.
- 2:11:49Speaker 1: I know the probability of an average young man to
- 2:11:55Speaker 1: be established before thirteen Nigeria. Now, I tell you the
- 2:11:58Speaker 1: life is very sleep if it's to follow everything.
- 2:12:01Speaker 3: Justly by God, when will you write them and finish?
- 2:12:05Speaker 1: Strikes in school before you finish, and all the trouble
- 2:12:10Speaker 1: that comes.
- 2:12:11Speaker 3: With sentiments and tradition. You need help, brothers. It's neither
- 2:12:17Speaker 3: by strength nor by power.
- 2:12:20Speaker 1: When I found out that my strength was too small
- 2:12:23Speaker 1: to give me the result, I played my role and
- 2:12:25Speaker 1: ran to God. I want to give you the next
- 2:12:28Speaker 1: two minutes. I don't know how you will play this prayer,
- 2:12:30Speaker 1: but you're going to say. Lord, if you don't help me,
- 2:12:33Speaker 1: I won't move forward to I am tired.
- 2:12:36Speaker 3: Please cry, cry, cry cry.
- 2:12:39Speaker 1: God can help men. Well, He has been our Heavanizza
- 2:12:46Speaker 1: after a million print. We are antimony of man that
- 2:12:51Speaker 1: God has health in my life. Today is a healthimonyou
- 2:12:57Speaker 1: hour of our God can help me. Man, Cry for
- 2:13:02Speaker 1: his health, Cry for his health. Don't pretend you don't
- 2:13:07Speaker 1: need it. Don't prevent you don't need this. It is health.
- 2:13:12Speaker 1: There is parefre it is health. There is protect in
- 2:13:17Speaker 1: his health. There is honor, it is health.
- 2:13:20Speaker 3: There is restoration.
- 2:13:22Speaker 1: It is health. There is space. There is that person.
- 2:13:28Speaker 3: Help me your God?
- 2:13:30Speaker 1: Help me O? What is your marriage? Help me O?
- 2:13:33Speaker 8: What is your business?
- 2:13:35Speaker 1: Help me over is show my children? Help me over?
- 2:13:38Speaker 3: Is show my family?
- 2:13:40Speaker 1: Help me abod is show my colactime.
- 2:13:43Speaker 8: Help me over is.
- 2:13:44Speaker 3: Show everything my career.
- 2:13:47Speaker 1: I admit that I need your help for you. I
- 2:13:52Speaker 1: want help, our present help and my present health and
- 2:13:57Speaker 1: my present health. Allelujah, hallelujah.
- 2:14:10Speaker 3: Listen.
- 2:14:12Speaker 1: If you forget anything I've shared tonight, don't forget that
- 2:14:16Speaker 1: God can help him. You will be foolish.
- 2:14:18Speaker 3: Imagine you cannot help my God, the God I s have.
- 2:14:23Speaker 1: Look at my life. That God cannot help the ministry.
- 2:14:28Speaker 1: Look around and bring one coin on your poster that
- 2:14:31Speaker 1: you've seen on the road that God cannot help the people.
- 2:14:35Speaker 1: Look at the financial records of the millions of Narra
- 2:14:38Speaker 1: s friend by this ministry. That's street completely not going
- 2:14:43Speaker 1: any man as a ministry dead or our life.
- 2:14:45Speaker 3: Listen, brothers and sisters, God can help him.
- 2:14:48Speaker 1: Man, I tell you he can't delivery you he can't pull.
- 2:14:54Speaker 1: Thank you. Some of us have been trying on our strength.
- 2:14:57Speaker 3: We're going to bring the player one more time.
- 2:15:00Speaker 1: I give all my strength. I laid down my pride.
- 2:15:03Speaker 1: Please help me, help me to be established. I'm getting
- 2:15:10Speaker 1: bolder and older, and at the rate of the way
- 2:15:13Speaker 1: things are.
- 2:15:14Speaker 3: Going, my job cannot establish me.
- 2:15:17Speaker 1: My father lay cannot established me. My pleasiness cannot establish me.
- 2:15:24Speaker 1: I need help from heaven. Donnie Lujah.
- 2:15:40Speaker 3: Keep standing, everyone inside outside.
- 2:15:43Speaker 1: And all the people following us online.
- 2:15:45Speaker 3: Whatever nature you are in, it doesn't matter that distance
- 2:15:49Speaker 3: is no barrier.
- 2:15:49Speaker 1: Please listen. I want to make a very serious auto
- 2:15:52Speaker 1: call now, two in one. First and foremost those who
- 2:15:56Speaker 1: are a man of God have been waiting for this
- 2:15:58Speaker 1: call because I'm about to run Jesus right now. I
- 2:16:01Speaker 1: don't like the way my life is going. I need Jesus.
- 2:16:05Speaker 3: You don't need counseling.
- 2:16:06Speaker 1: For some people, you need Jesus.
- 2:16:08Speaker 3: There's no level of counseling that will replace lack of
- 2:16:12Speaker 3: the life of God. Don't sit down. This is not
- 2:16:14Speaker 3: an initiation to.
- 2:16:15Speaker 1: Be a Christian. This is a serious a friend with
- 2:16:18Speaker 1: your destiny. I want you together now. The second group
- 2:16:22Speaker 1: of people are those that are saying, Lord, I'm coming
- 2:16:25Speaker 1: before you to truly repent. I'm masking you to help me.
- 2:16:31Speaker 1: I'm masking you to help me with all my God.
- 2:16:34Speaker 3: You may not be sleeping around, you may.
- 2:16:36Speaker 1: Not be drinking, you may not be smoking, but you
- 2:16:39Speaker 1: know your life is as as whatever, and you know
- 2:16:43Speaker 1: that you have not been working in the ways of God.
- 2:16:45Speaker 1: You're saying, Lord, my pride is what has brought me
- 2:16:48Speaker 1: to this truth. I need your health first. These two
- 2:16:51Speaker 1: categories of people. Please, if you are outside, start running
- 2:16:54Speaker 1: just before we come. I'm going to count one to fry.
- 2:16:57Speaker 1: It's not by force. There is nothing tonight that is
- 2:17:00Speaker 1: by first of what I tell you. You need Jesus.
- 2:17:03Speaker 1: You need Jesus.
- 2:17:04Speaker 3: Jesus is the answer. It's not coming all the world today.
- 2:17:11Speaker 1: Run like this, play on the mountain.
- 2:17:13Speaker 3: This Jesus is.
- 2:17:20Speaker 1: Saying, jees are you coming or you're thinking about it?
- 2:17:38Speaker 1: With the word tonight is.
- 2:17:50Speaker 3: Jesus, Allelujah.
- 2:18:11Speaker 1: If you're still coming, I want you to run from
- 2:18:13Speaker 1: any of the overflows. Join them.
- 2:18:15Speaker 3: Those following us online. There is still hope for you.
- 2:18:17Speaker 1: Listen, limitary truth.
- 2:18:19Speaker 3: I don't care what has happened in your life.
- 2:18:21Speaker 1: The Lord Jesus will give you at beginning.
- 2:18:23Speaker 3: It doesn't matter, but you will only give those who.
- 2:18:26Speaker 1: Can receive you. Say as many as RESTIVEDI you can
- 2:18:30Speaker 1: reject him. Allelujah. Those of you front leads to your
- 2:18:36Speaker 1: right hand to hel You are not reciting a poem.
- 2:18:39Speaker 1: This is not a memory verse. This is not a recitation.
- 2:18:42Speaker 1: This is imful guide to help you make a powerful decision.
- 2:18:47Speaker 3: Say after me from the depth of your heart.
- 2:18:49Speaker 1: And if you didn't come out here and you are
- 2:18:51Speaker 1: part of them those online saying where you are, Say,
- 2:18:54Speaker 1: Lord Jesus, I need you to help me tonight. I
- 2:18:59Speaker 1: have come before you.
- 2:19:02Speaker 3: Sincerely as seen you to intervene in my life.
- 2:19:10Speaker 1: I receive your life into my spirit, and I declare
- 2:19:17Speaker 1: that from today my sins are forgiving. I have the
- 2:19:21Speaker 1: life of God.
- 2:19:23Speaker 3: I move forwardever I'm backward never.
- 2:19:27Speaker 1: The power of Satan, the power of sin and the
- 2:19:32Speaker 1: flesh is broken over my life. In the name of Jesus.
- 2:19:37Speaker 1: Keep your hands lifted, Lord Jesus.
- 2:19:40Speaker 3: There is no man who can be perfect by himself
- 2:19:43Speaker 3: outside of you.
- 2:19:44Speaker 1: You are our righteousness, our holiness, and are perfection. I
- 2:19:48Speaker 1: pray for this one's who have come in the name
- 2:19:50Speaker 1: of Jesus. I declare your sins forgiven by the blood
- 2:19:53Speaker 1: of Jesus, and I declare by the power of the
- 2:19:55Speaker 1: Holy Spirit, that their new life starts. What you do.
- 2:19:58Speaker 3: The grace to be responsible lan to rise like an.
- 2:20:01Speaker 1: Edifis is released upon you. In the name of Jesus.
- 2:20:05Speaker 3: May your path be like a shining light that shines
- 2:20:08Speaker 3: brighter and brighter.
- 2:20:10Speaker 1: Onto the perfect day. In the name of Jesus Christ,
- 2:20:13Speaker 1: every guilt, every condemnation over your life, I declare that
- 2:20:16Speaker 1: it lives your life now and forever, in the Mighty
- 2:20:19Speaker 1: name of Jesus.
- 2:20:21Speaker 3: A man and Amen, God bless you for this great decision.
- 2:20:23Speaker 3: Please follow who's there? Follow someone waving his or her hands. Okay, okay, lady,
- 2:20:29Speaker 3: she's waving her hands.
- 2:20:31Speaker 1: All of you this way, just follow them.
- 2:20:33Speaker 3: Please provide your details as required.
- 2:20:38Speaker 1: And the Lord will help you. The name of Jesus.
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