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My Thoughts on the Sprinkle Sprinkle Advice · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  As a professional matchmaker who works with super, super, super
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  wealthy men, some of the richest and most well known men in the
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  world. Ladies today I'm going to tell
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  you what I think about sprinkle sprinkle.
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  Hang on, Listen, I think some of her things are fine and
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  borderline ridiculous. I think, though, the problem is
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  that you ladies think it's attainable and it's not
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  attainable. It's popular.
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  It's popular for her videos and one girl said, Gina, I shouldn't
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  tell you about sprinkle sprinkle, you know, 'cause it's
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  like, well, they don't want to let Gina know about this whole
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  subject matter of getting men's money and paying your bills and
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  all this stuff. And I actually had a girl who
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  booked a love consultation with me, which is a call that you can
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  book with me, and she seemed like a sweet girl.
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  She had no clue, though, she was going to nursing school and she
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  was also a dancer. Sweet girl, but boy had no clue.
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  She was raised on social media. She'd watched all the videos
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  about men should pay your bills. She ends up going out with this
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  guy. And on the first date she says,
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  well, I, you know, I'm going to need 7000 a month.
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  You understand that That makes you sound like a prostitute,
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  right? And then it turned out she
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  actually really, really liked this guy.
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  She was like, but how do I get him to really like me?
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  Gina, I'm like, you can't. Once you talk about money, once
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  you ask a man to pay your bills, it is no longer about romance,
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  my friend. Romance is off the table at that
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  point. All right, that guy, if he did
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  like you, if he was interested and maybe saw, oh, I'd love to
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  date this girl. She's going to nursing school.
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  She's getting her education. Of course, he probably didn't
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  know she was a dancer, but but the fact that she mentioned
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  about paying her bills now puts her in an entirely different
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  category. So you have to figure out what
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  you want. Are you trying to date these
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  affluent, successful men because you want to have children with
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  them? Have a future, Raise these great
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  kids who goes to who go to great schools and become these great
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  people and and be part of a power couple.
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  So if you want that, then you never want to ask a man in the
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  early stages of dating to pay your bills.
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  In fact, you should never ask him to pay your bills at all.
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  If you're dating a guy who's successful and he wants you to
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  travel with him and he doesn't want you to keep your
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  traditional job that you have, he will offer to take care of
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  you. That is something he will offer
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  down the road. So if he's offering it right
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  away, he ain't going to be his, you know, his life partner.
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  He just sees you for something. He wants to get you on the
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  payroll. Same thing as when you ask for
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  money out of the gate. OK.
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  So when it becomes transact transactional, whether he's
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  mentioned or you're mentioning it in the early stages of
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  dating, that is all that relationship is going to be
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  transactional. And if you're cool with that,
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  OK. But I think the majority of
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  women are, are, are delusional when it comes to that.
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  You think you can have that and be, you know, part of the power
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  couple, the the wife on his arm at the gala and the functions
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  and the woman, he's proud to have the mother of his children.
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  No, no, it doesn't work like that.
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  OK, OK. I hope it helps.