Latest / Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast / 337: Human Design Gate Transits January 2025 w/Christina Luna
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- 0:01Welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, the show dedicated to
- 0:05helping entrepreneurs use human design to shift from hustle to
- 0:09flow without sacrificing results.
- 0:11Come here to become an unshakeable human and build an unshakeable business
- 0:15according to your human design.
- 0:17I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
- 0:22Hello and welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, everybody.
- 0:25I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
- 0:27Happy New Year.
- 0:29It is the first day of 2025.
- 0:32Well, not as we're recording this, of course, but you listening.
- 0:35It is a brand new year.
- 0:36It is 2025.
- 0:38I am here with my dear friend, Christina Luna.
- 0:41I am so grateful to have you here for our kickoff of 2025, our
- 0:45first transit episode of 2025.
- 0:48How are you doing, my friend?
- 0:50I am so grateful to be here.
- 0:53I am really, really excited about the year ahead.
- 0:56I've been anticipating some of the changes that will happen in 2025,
- 1:01and it feels really, really good to be so dialed in with you on this.
- 1:06And I feel very ready and eyes wide open and prepared to step into this new year,
- 1:12which I know that sounds like I'm calling the year out, but I believe the last few
- 1:17years have prepared all of us in a very specific way for some of the changes that
- 1:21are about to occur and I'm here for it.
- 1:24So are you, so you're looking at the whole year right now, you're
- 1:27kind of like getting, are you getting like a big picture view
- 1:32of 2025 as you're coming into it?
- 1:34As well as we're going to, you know, we're obviously going to talk about
- 1:36January, but are you looking at the year as a whole and what's coming?
- 1:40Hmm?
- 1:43actually kind of a trick question.
- 1:44I usually will do readings for an entire year.
- 1:48I record a lot of readings in the fall quarter and leading up to the first of
- 1:53the year, Because of the changes that are going to happen this year, I was
- 1:56specifically guided to only get into specifics for each quarter at a time.
- 2:03So I can tell you I have a lot of information about the first quarter,
- 2:07and we are going to be so fundamentally changed by the first quarter that
- 2:12it doesn't make sense for me to talk about the entire year at large.
- 2:16What I do know is there will be some giant background moving parts because
- 2:21the outer planets will be changing signs.
- 2:24We have a lot of big planets changing signs.
- 2:27And so part of the reason why we're taking this one chunk at a time,
- 2:31one quarter at a time, one month at a time, honestly the best Recipe
- 2:37is to take this one day at a time.
- 2:40Wow.
- 2:41So even recording a whole month in advance, it feels a little chunky,
- 2:45but I will say best way to get the most out of this year, especially with
- 2:50the large changes that are happening is to stay as present as possible.
- 2:55That being said, yeah.
- 2:59That's more important than ever because of the big changes that are
- 3:02going to be taking place this year.
- 3:04So when you're talking about the bigger, outer planets, that when
- 3:08they're changing signs, what we're really talking about there is we're
- 3:11talking more collective changes, right?
- 3:13That that's normally some more, not necessarily the individual, at
- 3:18least in human design, that's how we look at it, that that becomes less
- 3:21of an individual theme, although of course you're part of it.
- 3:24But.
- 3:25They're more of the things that are affecting all of us that are
- 3:28going to be more about the stuff that you're just seeing happen.
- 3:33These greater themes of change in that particular way.
- 3:37Is that how you look at it with those changes or you look at it differently?
- 3:40Yeah, for sure.
- 3:42I do, you can observe it in the collective, for sure.
- 3:46But I still feel every single person, the collective is a part of them.
- 3:50And so for instance, I can say that from 2012 to 2025, there has been something
- 3:59I've personally been working on.
- 4:01It's a long chapter of my life.
- 4:03I have been building my faith about something and trusting
- 4:08my faith in something.
- 4:10And it's very specific to me.
- 4:11I have the planet Neptune in my third house.
- 4:16And so, for the last number of years, since 2012, there's been something going
- 4:20on when it comes to my relationship with the way my mind works, and my
- 4:24intellect, and my intuition, and I've been developing my faith in the
- 4:28way my mind works ever since then.
- 4:31And so, there's something really personal that's been going on for me.
- 4:34While this outer planet Neptune has been transiting Pisces in my third house.
- 4:39Now, that's the third house is a personal house So, I mean you
- 4:42can get really Everyone has kind of their own recipe for this.
- 4:46Some people have really outer world charts and some people have really internal
- 4:51personal charts and So these chapters and these movements are gonna impact
- 4:57all of us in a very specific way So Some of us will just, we're primarily going
- 5:03to see it happen in the outside world and some it'll be on the inside world.
- 5:06So I don't think that there's like a blanket statement we can make about it.
- 5:10No, and thank you for that nuance, because that's always true.
- 5:13It's always, well, what's your chart, and how does it interact?
- 5:16And, and how do you interact with this thing that's changing?
- 5:19With this thing that we're all going to experience with this cosmic shift
- 5:23that we're going to be experiencing.
- 5:25Um, as you're looking at the first quarter, are there big bang things
- 5:30that you are, , what's the one thing that you're kind of, that Puttin
- 5:33your finger on where you're saying like, this is gonna be a big deal.
- 5:38right at the lunar new year, that's when we, the, we move kind
- 5:42of into the year of the snake.
- 5:44Mm hmm.
- 5:45Really, I would love to say that there's like one day you should circle.
- 5:50There are several days you should circle, but I think if I was going
- 5:53to say like, what's the big takeaway?
- 5:55No, that.
- 5:57What we're initiating in January, what we're tangibly intending
- 6:02to initiate in January, it's going to be tested in February.
- 6:07And the way we're going to feel the test is by our vibration or
- 6:11our frequency or the way we feel.
- 6:13So it'll be tested.
- 6:15Does this steel feel authentic to me?
- 6:18Does the way that this is manifesting feel like what I want to be
- 6:23experiencing for the next 20 years?
- 6:25There's something, okay.
- 6:26I, a long time ago, I went through something called the Dickens
- 6:29process in Tony Robbins world.
- 6:32I don't know if any, if, if any listeners have been in Tony Robbins world, he does
- 6:35something called the Dickens process.
- 6:37And he pretty much has you do this process where you take
- 6:40some kind of limiting belief.
- 6:41And you ask yourself, how will this impact my life if I
- 6:44believe this for another year?
- 6:46How will it impact my life if I believe it for another five years?
- 6:49And how will it impact my life if I believe it another 20 years?
- 6:53So you're pretty much taking something and you're letting yourself do an
- 6:56emotional experience through the longevity of the manifestation of that belief.
- 7:03What will it, what kind of experiences will attract me?
- 7:05How will it affect my children?
- 7:07How will it affect my finances?
- 7:08And you're trying to get as.
- 7:10painful in your process as possible so you can get leverage on yourself to change it
- 7:16Mm hmm.
- 7:17because pain is leverage.
- 7:18So I really see this quarter feeling like a mini Dickens process or
- 7:26maybe not a mini Dickens process.
- 7:27It's a long elongated over the course of three months Dickens process where
- 7:33The first month of January is going to be, all right, let's try this on.
- 7:37Can I do this for a month?
- 7:39Mm hmm.
- 7:39And I, how does it feel?
- 7:41Can I, can I really put this persona, this frequency, these rituals,
- 7:45routines, this manifestation, this identity, can I put this on for a
- 7:48whole month and how does it feel?
- 7:51Then we're going to go into February and we're going to be like, all right,
- 7:54what if I put this on for, a whole year.
- 7:57Is this sustainable?
- 7:58Does this feel like the people I want to hang out with, the
- 8:01vibe I want, all the things.
- 8:02So always Aquarius time is a testing time because It's a fixed sign.
- 8:06So we have cardinal signs that initiate, we have fixed signs that
- 8:10test, and then we have mutable signs that give us the results or the
- 8:14outcome or the information, basically.
- 8:17So we have this moment in February where, and it's not an ordinary January
- 8:23and an ordinary February because of the outer planets changing signs, we're
- 8:27actually kind of in this moment where we're choosing what kind of bed we want
- 8:31to sleep in for the next long cycle.
- 8:34So, We've, we've been prepared.
- 8:37We've cleared out dependencies.
- 8:39We've cleaned out people pleasing tendencies.
- 8:42We've, we've like become more aware of who we are authentically.
- 8:47We've done all of this work.
- 8:48We've all been prepared properly, so we don't need to worry that
- 8:51we're not going to fail this test.
- 8:53All we got to do is show up, feel how it feels, make decisions in real time,
- 8:57and trust that those decisions will realign us, put us in the vibration
- 9:01we're choosing to have, and then continue the trajectory in that direction.
- 9:06With the ability to pivot at any moment if it doesn't feel right,
- 9:10a time for that assessment.
- 9:12It's a time for, February is going to be a time to really be looking at what
- 9:16you've created and not just accepting it
- 9:18and really asking yourself, is this what I want to commit to long term?
- 9:23That is correct because we've got some Saturn whenever a planet is crossing
- 9:30Pluto or Saturn there are these moments Pluto when a planet crosses Pluto That's
- 9:34when we officially cut something out.
- 9:37We officially end something we draw some kind of line.
- 9:39There's a power exchange that happens whenever planets cross Saturn, we make a
- 9:46commitment, and whenever planets cross the North Node, we align ourselves with the
- 9:52purpose, mission, legacy, which is kind of an insatiable desire, but it, it, it's
- 9:58like the carrot on the stick that we can never quite get, but it aligns us in a
- 10:01direction, and so we have a lot of energy in this first quarter that's aspecting it.
- 10:08Both the thing that cuts things off and draws lines, the thing that causes us to
- 10:12step up and commit, and the thing that aligns us to our mission and purpose.
- 10:17And the results that we get in Pisces season, which happen at the end of
- 10:22February and into March, those results are then going to be tied up in a bow, given
- 10:29to Neptune, and then Neptune is going to drop into Aries and birth things tangibly.
- 10:36actualize certain things in our life.
- 10:40And so this is, from my perspective, this is one of the most important
- 10:45times we've been living in because of how much power we have to set
- 10:49the template for our experience.
- 10:53Well, and that's kind of what the beginning of the year is about, too.
- 10:57It's sort of, it's setting that tone.
- 11:00But, but you're saying that this time, because of these aspects, we're going
- 11:05to be cutting something off, we're going to be making a new commitment, and we're
- 11:08going to be realigning that this is, The aspects are creating an even bigger impact
- 11:14there or potentially if we choose to really be aware and use this time wisely
- 11:20and with our eyes open and our hearts open to actually, because you do have
- 11:24to allow the thing to be cut out, right?
- 11:27You do have to allow yourself to commit.
- 11:30You do have to, you know, Take the ride of the energy and rather than fight it or dig
- 11:36your heels in and say, I'm not changing, which I think a lot of people can do.
- 11:41Yeah.
- 11:41And you know, there are some things that are really valuable that
- 11:44we will want to double down on.
- 11:46There are some things that will be tested and we'll say, no,
- 11:49this stands the test of change.
- 11:51All of these things in my life can change, but this thing I'm
- 11:54going to double down on it.
- 11:55I'm, I'm recommitting.
- 11:57Like this works for me, it's who I am, and I'm, I'm here for this.
- 12:01So there, it's not just that all these things need to be abandoned.
- 12:05This could be a time of really deeply strengthening our faith in
- 12:08our, ourselves, our character, our identity, things that we've earned.
- 12:14through very diligent, hard work ever since 2008 while Pluto
- 12:19was moving through Capricorn.
- 12:20You know, everyone wants to hate on Capricorn, but let me tell
- 12:23you, Capricorn creates masters.
- 12:26I'm learning a lot about Capricorn right now, actually,
- 12:28and we're in Capricorn season.
- 12:30Capricorn is a, an energy that allows us to see what it is we
- 12:38truly master in this life so that we can leave an impact and a legacy.
- 12:43How will the earth know that we were here is what Haberkorn answers.
- 12:50And from a human design, perspective, when it comes to Capricorn, Capricorn
- 12:55largely has almost all of it is spent in the root center and the root center.
- 13:01So January kicks off where, where like we go through all of the gates and the
- 13:04root center and the root center is a theme of fuel, pressure, and or stress.
- 13:11So anything could be pressure and stress, or it can be fuel.
- 13:16your choice, how you use that energy.
- 13:19And there's very much a lesson of everything with the root center.
- 13:24Like when I look, it's not every sign is like this.
- 13:26Some signs have more things in it, you know, where they're really,
- 13:30Taurus is very centered around the throat center activation and.
- 13:34You know, manifestation and putting things out in the world,
- 13:37really making them happen.
- 13:38Capricorn is very root energy, which is very much about like,
- 13:42it is the fuel to start things.
- 13:44It is the fuel to kick something off.
- 13:46It is the pressure that builds so that a creative evolution can happen.
- 13:53That without that pressure, without it feeling uncomfortable at
- 13:57times, but the key is to not push.
- 13:59The key is to.
- 14:01To relax into it as best , as you can, to trust, to learn that the fuel
- 14:05will be there if you learn to respect and surrender to divine timing and
- 14:12to allow it to be a creative fertile ground rather than something that where
- 14:18you're pushing into the shadows of it.
- 14:19So I sort of feel that way.
- 14:21I think people hate on Capricorn because maybe they feel more of that stress.
- 14:25They feel more of that pressure because it does want you to be better.
- 14:29It does want you to evolve.
- 14:30That's what the Root Center does.
- 14:32The Root Center is the center of evolution and change.
- 14:36And it says, we can't stay here for long.
- 14:38There's something better out there for us.
- 14:41So it dares to dream.
- 14:43It dares to kind of push you to something better.
- 14:46Like, I feel that.
- 14:47Like, I That's the energy that challenges me the most.
- 14:52That is the energy and for me having an open route just from that human
- 14:57design perspective, one of my greatest lessons has been to not give in to
- 15:01the pressure of the outside world.
- 15:04And can I sit in it and experience it and feel it and trust that
- 15:10I can, that something better is coming if I just Respect the timing.
- 15:16If I just, can I chill in the moment rather than push through that moment?
- 15:20And the more I do that, the more the moments come and the better they are.
- 15:26And the creative idea comes.
- 15:28And that's one of the greatest lessons for me because that's, that's my chart.
- 15:33That's one of my lessons to learn in this life is that I don't
- 15:36get moved by the outside world.
- 15:37It has to come from something different.
- 15:41But As we're talking about faith, as we're talking about trust, I just want to get
- 15:46a little update on your bliss experiment because I'm going to ask you about this
- 15:49every month because I'm fascinated by this whole process that you're under.
- 15:53Um, and if you guys haven't listened to the episode, it was our November
- 15:57episode, I believe, that you unveiled the bliss experiment and you talked
- 16:02to us and kind of gave us this, this little crash course in what you're
- 16:05doing, which is really figuring out.
- 16:08Or experiencing and experimenting with, you know, can we not get
- 16:13swept up in the waves of everything?
- 16:14Can we, do we have the ability to be above or below them if, if we choose?
- 16:21So how is it going?
- 16:22Are you in bliss?
- 16:25I am actually and I can say that you know, I I think I was feeling a little So, uh,
- 16:33I wasn't feeling, I was not feeling a little apprehensive about talking about
- 16:36it when we spoke in January, in November.
- 16:38Uh, I had just started this experience that was triggered by a new relationship.
- 16:44And so, new relationship, new experiences, you know, there was all this new energy,
- 16:49new hormones, all of this beautiful, so it's easy to talk about bliss when
- 16:54everything is beautiful and amazing.
- 16:56And the context was, When we're in a state where there's so much novelty
- 17:01and new and change and openness and things you're not expecting, you sort
- 17:06of can surf above the collective cycles.
- 17:10Like, it felt as though the collective cycles were not impacting me the same
- 17:15way because my energy was so high.
- 17:17And when you have high energy, it sort of takes you out of the cultural field.
- 17:22And we talked about how human design and astrology.
- 17:25really does give you a narrative for what the cultural field at a
- 17:30more, um, baseline neutral energy state, what they are experiencing.
- 17:36Because when you're at a baseline neutral energy state, you're going
- 17:39to be influenced by things that are Powerful, you're gonna be influenced
- 17:44by other people's intentions.
- 17:46You're gonna be influenced by the mood of a room, by the
- 17:49astrological weather patterns, etc.
- 17:52Gates of initiation, all these things, right?
- 17:54So, neutrality is kind of the base level state that most of us stay in.
- 18:00We, we try to stay in neutral so that we don't drop below neutral and get
- 18:03like Completely pummeled by pain.
- 18:06But I also talked about in that month that, that's another avenue that
- 18:10can take you out of the collective.
- 18:12That pain, really intense moments of trauma or pain, can
- 18:17drop you below the collective.
- 18:19And then the cycles of the collective Don't impact you either
- 18:22because your energy is so low.
- 18:24You don't even have enough energy to move with those cycles of the cultural field.
- 18:28So I was fortunate enough to be, you know, skating very high on all the
- 18:34novelty and newness of my relationship.
- 18:36And when we checked in for the December report, Uh, you, you asked
- 18:40me, is this still going strong?
- 18:41And I said, absolutely.
- 18:43Even though November was filled with challenges of intimacy and tests and
- 18:47fear, and a lot of people I spoke to were navigating, you know, bouts of insecurity.
- 18:53I mean, Scorpio season is a challenging season for insecurity.
- 18:57And especially if you're Intimate relationship, you're going to have
- 19:01all those intimacy triggers and attachment triggers, um, impacted.
- 19:06However, one of the recipes I've discovered through that month was,
- 19:10um, If I can remain securely seated within the present moment, if I can
- 19:18be secure with myself and continue to keep my heart open and allow the flow
- 19:23of authentic emotion to continuously be accessible to me without resistance.
- 19:29Again, I noticed I stayed in a high state of bliss and that did require
- 19:33some uncomfortable conversations that I was, you know, not really wanting
- 19:38to have a new relationship, but I did it anyway because committed to being
- 19:43authentic and bold in the moment, right?
- 19:45So, then we get into Sagittarius season and, Um, you know, now you're
- 19:50asking me, well, how is that bliss?
- 19:52And Sagittarius season is a moment where you get new epiphanies.
- 19:56You, you understand new truths or guiding principles.
- 19:59And, I will tell you, I actually experienced a very, family tragedy.
- 20:06, it was not expected.
- 20:07It came out of nowhere.
- 20:08It was the kind of thing that can shake you all the way.
- 20:11It did.
- 20:11It shook me to my knees.
- 20:13I was like, there was a moment where all the wind was taken out
- 20:16and I, who, I didn't even know what day of the week it was.
- 20:19Right.
- 20:20So.
- 20:21The sad thing is, sometimes we don't really know what our guiding principles
- 20:25are until they're truly tested.
- 20:28It's true that you can be all kumbaya and happy when you have a new relationship
- 20:33and everything is bliss, right?
- 20:35But what is the internal state of bliss?
- 20:38What's, Deeply true in our bones and in our soul state when
- 20:43something really shakes you That could drop you to the bottom
- 20:47Yeah.
- 20:48and I feel as tragic as it was I feel very fortunate that I had that
- 20:53experience because it gave me a level of confidence To know that bliss is real
- 21:00even in those times The bliss of the present moment, even in the pain, in
- 21:06witnessing pain and others, in people that you never want to see in pain.
- 21:11You, there's, there's a, I could start crying about it now.
- 21:15There's a beauty in remaining open and present to the novelty of even
- 21:21pain, of something completely against everything we've wanted or expected or
- 21:27hoped for, for ourselves and for others.
- 21:31The openness.
- 21:32To be with all of that feels like bliss too.
- 21:37And I'm very surprised by that.
- 21:39I think for a long time I used astrology to try to help me navigate so that these
- 21:45types of incidences wouldn't happen.
- 21:48Like some part of my ego actually thought that I could Surf well enough that the
- 21:55waves would never take me or my loved ones down And that is not the goal what
- 22:02I found the you know had access to the astrology before this event We were all
- 22:07looking at moment that this event could happen and I was seeing nothing but good
- 22:12things I was seeing nothing but evolution.
- 22:14I was seeing nothing but introduction to new experiences that I was
- 22:19reading as positive and beautiful.
- 22:21And so when this thing happened, and it was not what we all thought, and
- 22:26that's, have that with my clients a lot.
- 22:28I'll be reading for them, and I'll be telling them a story and a metaphor,
- 22:32and in their head, they're, listening to the words and the metaphors, and
- 22:36they're creating stories about what they think, That's going to be for them.
- 22:40And then it ends up not being exactly the circumstance they were expecting it to be.
- 22:45But when they listened to the reading again, the energy
- 22:49accurately was portrayed.
- 22:52And that was true for this incident too.
- 22:54The energy was accurately portrayed.
- 22:57It's just that the circumstance was unexpected.
- 23:00And bliss honestly is present whenever we accept what is,
- 23:06even if it's new or unexpected.
- 23:09Yeah, and these situations, I think , we can never predict our way out of the
- 23:15unpredictable, you know, no, no matter what you're doing, because like you said,
- 23:19it's up to interpretation, you know, oh, I'm receiving this in this way right now.
- 23:23And it's making me think this, and this is the meaning that I'm attaching to it.
- 23:26So I think it's going to mean this.
- 23:28The truth is, is that we don't know shit when it comes to that, because
- 23:31we have, we're, we're not God.
- 23:33But thank you for sharing that because I think that it can be, when we hear
- 23:37something like, you know, we call it, we've sort of dubbed it the bliss
- 23:39experiment, but , we call it the bliss experiment, you know, it can feel
- 23:43like, can I stay in bliss all the time?
- 23:47And it's very easy when you're, you know, high on the hog and things are going
- 23:51great and everything in life, you know, you're, you're in a new relationship where
- 23:54you're just riding the high of bliss.
- 23:58Love and being in love and you know, it's the highest vibration there is for
- 24:02a reason when you're in it Yeah, I can feel like I'm riding above the clouds.
- 24:07This is amazing but , thank you for sharing that here and your experience
- 24:12here because I think a lot of people feel well, I'm going through something
- 24:19so shitty right now You don't know shit about my stuff You don't know how bad
- 24:24it is and I can't be in bliss or I can't experience that because my circumstances
- 24:32are dictating I'm in a different place.
- 24:35And I think what you're saying is if you're open to the experience
- 24:39itself, bliss is always there.
- 24:42Yeah.
- 24:45uh, part of me pulling myself into doubt and fear, and I fortunately had a bank of
- 24:54intimacy built with my new relationship, and I was able to express all of my
- 24:59very authentic fears and doubts and worries and pain about the situation.
- 25:04And because I've been authentic with him this whole time, We get
- 25:09to this place where something truly terrible has happened.
- 25:12And he's able to reflect on it and say, you know, reflect back to me, you know,
- 25:19Christina, it seems like you're really good at being like a surf teacher, or
- 25:24you can read a surf report and in no way does that mean that you control
- 25:29the ocean and these waves, we choose the waves that we decide to take and
- 25:36they have inherent risk and reward.
- 25:39And it's, we can learn to surf waves, but always the risk and
- 25:43reward of being alive is there.
- 25:46And so it, the beautiful gift that's come from all this is, I feel more deeply
- 25:52connected to my family and the experience that , we're having with each other.
- 25:56I feel really more deeply connected to the intimacy of someone I can
- 26:02myself with, even in pain, which opens up to even more insight and beauty.
- 26:07And so the bliss continues when we really have no resistance to the truth
- 26:16of who we are and how we really feel.
- 26:18Intimacy, honestly, I think bliss and intimacy are linked.
- 26:23Well, when you, you know, you're talking about here and what I'm hearing through
- 26:28this is that, you know, you're actually aware and you are sitting and being
- 26:35present with what is right now and what was at that moment when the pain was at
- 26:41its worst, when it was the greatest shock.
- 26:44To actually be able to sit in it is the real key to all of this stuff.
- 26:49That's how we become.
- 26:51Better.
- 26:52That's how you can actually take this and your family can become closer and you can
- 26:57become a better astrologer and this is changing us and I think that that's kind
- 27:02of what we're doing with all of this.
- 27:03You just happen to have a huge event that was, you know,
- 27:09axis shifting for your family.
- 27:12, I think the goal for all of us is to be so present in those moments to just allow
- 27:17what is to be there and to feel it and then to allow whatever it is that you
- 27:23feel to shift you and change you the way that it's meant to in a constructive way.
- 27:30So thank you for sharing that with us.
- 27:34. I mean, obviously, More will evolve.
- 27:38I think especially this quarter is helping us to really focus on
- 27:44the network and the connections.
- 27:47I think that the hardiness that I'm experiencing right now is
- 27:50due to the fact that I've got really deep, strong connections.
- 27:53And the entire, , Aquarian age, if you want to call it that, the age
- 27:59that we're entering into is all about the people we're connected
- 28:02to, the fabric of our relationships.
- 28:05And so, If I could, you know, if I could impart any piece from all this, it would
- 28:11say that strength of the fabric of my connections to the people that I love is
- 28:16what creates the buoyancy of the bliss.
- 28:23And if we could all focus more on whatever needs to happen, whatever authentic
- 28:27communication, whatever boldness, whatever novelty needs to happen to strengthen that
- 28:32fabric in our lives, that's really what the next three months is asking us to do.
- 28:38And now if we're looking at January, one of the things that's jumping out
- 28:42at me, and this is both a astrological and a human design thing, because
- 28:47they are largely the same thing.
- 28:48We just speak about them differently.
- 28:50But to me, I'm looking at the nodal shift.
- 28:53And that happens on the 11th, right?
- 28:56I think is the date that we actually have that crossover.
- 28:59The funny thing about human design is we are actually still in the same gate, but
- 29:03we're in different lines of that gate.
- 29:05So it's really funny.
- 29:06It's this gate 25, um, So we don't actually shift the gate until
- 29:11later in the month, but that gate straddles, the astrological signs.
- 29:18So it shifts over into Pisces.
- 29:19So what we're having is, on the 11th of January, we shift into the
- 29:24north node, shift to the south.
- 29:25So, um, the North Node shifts into Pisces, and the South Node is, goes into Virgo.
- 29:29Now, can we talk a little bit about that shift, because that's a big bang thing
- 29:34for me, because I don't, we don't change again until mid July of next year, I
- 29:39think?
- 29:39It's like an, like an 18 month sort of, sort of span.
- 29:43So this is big, and this is collective, this is something that we all feel.
- 29:47Um, how are you looking at the shift to Pisces in the North Node, and then
- 29:53that shift in the South Node to Virgo?
- 29:55Ha
- 29:57you know, I think that there are no two signs that are more
- 30:01different than Aries and Pisces.
- 30:03I think Aries and Pisces are so, so, so very different.
- 30:07And so the fact that we've completed an entire cycle of the North Node moving,
- 30:13because it moves backwards, an entire cycle that began with it moving through
- 30:17Pisces all the way through the Zodiac, all the way, evolving us all the way.
- 30:23To the singular point of incarnation, which is zero degrees Pisces.
- 30:31It's the moment you could, in astrology, that's similar to the moment that
- 30:36a baby's body leaves the mother's body and becomes a separate body.
- 30:42That is that line.
- 30:43And so, we're basically, we've worked for all of these years to understand
- 30:49what it means to be an individual.
- 30:51So, When it was, when the North Node was moving through Taurus, we
- 30:53became more secure with ourselves.
- 30:56When it moved through Aries, we became more authentic with ourselves.
- 31:01And now with it moving into Pisces, It's like, Good, now you know who
- 31:08you are and how you're separate from everything, but I want you to see that
- 31:11you are actually a very important piece of this fabric of the community and you
- 31:16need, you're going to have experiences that you won't be able to ignore,
- 31:20where you don't get to be an island.
- 31:22You are a very significant point within the entire fabric of this community, the
- 31:28entire fabric of the human consciousness.
- 31:30Like Pisces is not even just small community, it's Everything, all that is.
- 31:35And so I think when this shifts, there's going to be this little moment where we're
- 31:39going to be like, did I make that happen?
- 31:43There's gonna be this question, like, wait a minute.
- 31:46How is it possible that I'm sitting here in my own little world, in my own
- 31:50little island, which is very Virgo.
- 31:52Virgo likes to have their own little space with all their perfect
- 31:55little picture frames, and all the, everything's ordered exactly the way
- 31:59the Virgo likes the way it to be, right?
- 32:01I'm an island.
- 32:02I can talk a lot about this.
- 32:03I'm separate, I'm an island, and you're not in my world.
- 32:07I'm a separate little world, right?
- 32:09That's where the South Node is going to be.
- 32:11So any place in your world where you think you're a separate little world,
- 32:16That's going to have an opening, and you're going to start to see
- 32:20that other people's dreams, other people's fears, desires, wishes, they
- 32:25impact you, and yours impact them.
- 32:29There's going to be an energetic understanding, hopefully, that we
- 32:33get over the next 18 months that will give us a greater level of
- 32:38responsibility and consciousness.
- 32:40So, there's, Virgo wants you to be responsible and have
- 32:46your kit in order, right?
- 32:48But we have our kit in order.
- 32:50Why?
- 32:51So that we can positively, positively impact and understand
- 32:56what's mine and yours and understand that that's impacting,
- 33:00that we're impacting each other.
- 33:02what we're looking at with the Pisces and Virgo, we're
- 33:04looking at polarities, you know,
- 33:05they're, they're the opposites of each other.
- 33:08So we get Pisces, which is, you know, spiritual and open and connected.
- 33:15And Virgo, you know, you, you brought up like, I'm an island.
- 33:18I'm a Virgo North Node.
- 33:20So, yeah, so, so this will be, I think, will be rather interesting for us, the
- 33:26fact that we are literally, the universe is pushing us to stretch ourselves,
- 33:32really release some of those boundaries.
- 33:35Yeah.
- 33:36toxic, unhelpful Virgo traits for us,
- 33:40uh, perfectionism and control and
- 33:43isolation, separateness.
- 33:46and for me, like I'm game, you know, , I'm game.
- 33:49Let's see what, what we got.
- 33:51I'm going to have eyes wide open for this, but I think it's very interesting
- 33:55cause this is like, this will be an 18 month training ground for us.
- 34:00And I think what this is doing.
- 34:02To me, when I looked at the nodal shift and I saw that this
- 34:06was coming, I was like, okay, so this is the theme for this year.
- 34:10This is going to be something that is realigning us, like you said earlier when
- 34:16we were talking about the north node, and this is going to shift our direction of
- 34:24How we're viewing the world, how we view our place in it, and overall, because
- 34:29that's, in human design we look at nodes, , and it is about our environment, it is
- 34:33about the, the people around us, it is about our place in the world, and then
- 34:38our point of view of the world, and how we see it, and what we allow ourselves
- 34:43to see, and does that perspective get shaped in a way that is true to us?
- 34:49Are we seeing the way we're meant to see, or are we conditioned
- 34:54and trying to see things the way that is more convenient for us?
- 34:58Or a way that's more in alignment with the conditioning that we grew up with?
- 35:02So I think that that's going to be a very significant thing, just shifting
- 35:06us at the very start of the year.
- 35:08and what you might just feel is that pull to different things.
- 35:11I do think that there's going to be, It's much more spiritual.
- 35:14Virgo is very tactile and earthy and just grounded in that sense.
- 35:20And I think that to me, when I saw that it was, that this was shift was happening,
- 35:26we are going to be kind of called to something beyond what we can see.
- 35:31Maybe, maybe beyond what we can touch and feel and, or maybe what, We can't touch
- 35:38and feel suddenly starts to become what we touch and feel, what is tangible to us.
- 35:43And that might just be fun, particularly for people like
- 35:47us who are pulled pretty hard.
- 35:49We're, we're Virgos with Virgo North moons, North nodes.
- 35:53I'm definitely feeling like this will be, it's going to be an interesting year.
- 35:58I totally agree.
- 36:00Uh, there's a lot more.
- 36:02I want to talk more about like the victim, martyr, perpetrator triangle
- 36:07when we do our next recording.
- 36:09And I think we'll be, we'll be in it.
- 36:11Well, the North Node will be in Pisces the next time we record.
- 36:14So, but keep an eye out this month just as like a preview.
- 36:19If you notice anything in your life where you think that there's
- 36:23a victim, you think that there's a perpetrator, Or there's a martyr or a
- 36:28desire inside of you to be a martyr.
- 36:31If there's any part of that triangle presenting in your circumstances, that's
- 36:36going to be a North Node in Pisces lesson for you to become more observatory of.
- 36:44And the lesson by the end of these 18 months will, it'll allow us to
- 36:49extract ourself from that triangle altogether, because we'll be able to
- 36:53see that we, when we decide to buy into that triangle, we become all three
- 36:57parts of the triangle automatically.
- 37:00And so that is going to be a really interesting thing for us to work
- 37:03with in the next 18 months too.
- 37:07I wrote it down.
- 37:08We're going to talk about it for the February.
- 37:10We'll put a pin in it and we're going to continue that conversation in
- 37:14February when we're all in that energy.
- 37:17But what else are you seeing for the month?
- 37:19So like, I kind of mentioned that this month, From a human design perspective,
- 37:23it's very much all about the root center.
- 37:24It is about that pressure.
- 37:26It is very much like that new year energy of like, boom, what are we gonna do?
- 37:32are we gonna start?
- 37:33What are we going to kick off?
- 37:35And then can we ride that wave where we're spending more time in fuel than in stress?
- 37:42You know, are we giving in to pressure, or are we allowing pressure to build
- 37:46to the point where it moves us in a direction that feels like we chose it?
- 37:53And what do we want to fight for?
- 37:55Is that first, that first week, Is the gate of the fighter, you know,
- 37:59the first through the fifth, we are in the gate of the fighter, gate 38.
- 38:03And to me, the fighter is all about fighting for purpose.
- 38:06And it is about fighting for your individual purpose.
- 38:09It's not the purpose to the rest of the world.
- 38:11It's your individual, authentic purpose in this life.
- 38:15What are you willing to fight for is sort of that question that is
- 38:19being asked of us at first week.
- 38:22What are you, what are you really fighting for?
- 38:24What are you really here for?
- 38:26And that's a question I'll be asking myself, I mean we do that at the
- 38:29start of the year anyway, but really to deepen it like where it goes
- 38:32beyond just what do I want to do?
- 38:35What are my goals?
- 38:36No, what am I going to fight for this year without killing myself?
- 38:42But what am I going to commit to hard and say I'm just committed to
- 38:48helping this be birthed and become whatever it's meant to become?
- 38:52And then we move into gate 54, which is the gate of ambition, another root center
- 38:57gate, but it takes us, it's tribal.
- 38:59It says, okay, now who do I need to help me get there?
- 39:02Who is important to this mission that I'm on and can ambition be
- 39:08bigger than just my own thing?
- 39:10Does it go beyond me and become something bigger?
- 39:13So that's kind of like that first half of the month and that takes us through
- 39:16to that nodal shift where it does become more about everybody else, where it does
- 39:20become more about our place in the whole.
- 39:22So those were kind of the themes that were standing out to me
- 39:25at the beginning of the month.
- 39:27How about for you?
- 39:29Completely.
- 39:30Yeah.
- 39:30The first week where you're talking about the fighter, I see that as
- 39:33the divine dance and you're, you're basically having a shadow dance.
- 39:37Mm hmm.
- 39:37you've got the old goals and aspirations and you're dancing with these new ones.
- 39:42And it's a, it's a break dancing fight.
- 39:45Like you've got, you've got to figure out which of these, um, Versions
- 39:50of you are gonna win in the dance.
- 39:52And so there's a lot of It's very very attuned to what you just said and then
- 39:57that second week when you're talking about The people that are on your team,
- 40:01that's the time of the divine plan.
- 40:04And, you know, you can kind of think that this is a moment when you're looking
- 40:07at the mountain, and you're trying to decide which route you're gonna take
- 40:11with who you're gonna take it with.
- 40:14And so there's this divine plan that we install in the second week.
- 40:18And there's obviously, you know, a lot of astrology going on during this time,
- 40:22but I love these kind of broader strokes because they're more of a, um, you think
- 40:28of all the things that happen when you're trying to create a plan with other people.
- 40:31Everyone's got their own strategies.
- 40:33Everyone thinks that the, their way up the mountain is going to be the best way.
- 40:36The best way is going to be a way that honors every single person's gifts.
- 40:41And that's how we're going to climb that mountain.
- 40:44And then that fourth week, um, it's like the four of pentacles.
- 40:47It's, it's this moment where we, we can sort of grow attached.
- 40:52To things being a certain way but the lesson is in having faith in the release
- 40:58Like releasing it up to our life releasing releasing our good plans to the universe
- 41:06So that we can Allow the change to happen and that's when that nodal shift
- 41:11occurs It will require some faith for us to release and trust that there's
- 41:17a divine team here If we are entering into a space of teams and faith and the
- 41:22fabric, there is a divine team literally in bodies and some in not bodies.
- 41:29And there's more to this fabric of, getting things created in the
- 41:33world than just our own hands.
- 41:37Yeah, and when we shift over, so on the 11th, we shift in human design
- 41:41into Gate 61 and Gate 61 is, go from the root to the head, different
- 41:47pressure, pressure, mental pressure now.
- 41:51But this gate is so fascinating to me because it's the gate of inner truth.
- 41:57And it is about the mysteries of life.
- 42:00It is about thinking about the unknowable things in this world.
- 42:06So we shift from this, like, I've got to do, I've got to, but, but I've
- 42:09got to trust that timing is right and that the evolution will unveil
- 42:13itself if I'm open to the process.
- 42:16And then we're going to shift into Pisces in the north node.
- 42:20And then we have this, at that same time, we have this, what can be very beautiful,
- 42:24but also can be a bit of madness as well, depending on what side of the
- 42:29pressure you fall on, but that pondering of what is out there, what is next?
- 42:36Can I expand my way of thinking?
- 42:39right now to go beyond what I see, what I can touch, what feels true.
- 42:45Can I expand what that truth really means?
- 42:49And that again, it can be incredibly creative and inspiring and beautiful,
- 42:54or it can be complete madness and it really depends on what side you fall on.
- 43:00So can you, can you have a gentle touch with the way that you're thinking
- 43:04about things that third week where you're really just sort of, um, Getting
- 43:09curious without necessarily needing to find an answer because that's
- 43:13the magic of all head center energy.
- 43:17Anything that comes in 63, 61, or 64, those three gates, if you try to find an
- 43:23answer, you will not find it typically.
- 43:26it's it's from, you know, look mom, no hands.
- 43:31It's the, when you let go of the reins and allow yourself to just.
- 43:35Realize that the horse will keep running if you just keep your balance.
- 43:40Um, and that's where the joy is.
- 43:42So it is about allowing that to come through.
- 43:45Those are , some big things for me.
- 43:47We also have on the 22nd, we come to what is considered the human design new year.
- 43:53And so gate 41, which is the start of everything.
- 43:58And this runs from the 22nd to the 27th.
- 44:01That 41st gate is the gate of, it's called the gate of contraction, but
- 44:05really what it is, it's about big dreams.
- 44:08It is , in DNA, they say it's the start codon.
- 44:10It's the thing that says, okay, now we go.
- 44:14That it's again in the root center.
- 44:16So it is that pressure.
- 44:17It is that fuel, but it's the fuel for your dreams.
- 44:21It is the fuel to say, I'm going to dare to dream of something, to see
- 44:26something bigger than I think is possible.
- 44:30And I'm not going to get lost in the fantasy of it and never bring it into
- 44:34tangible reality, but I'm also not going to feel like it needs to be so
- 44:41perfectly possible that I'm I lose the fact that I, I can be a great
- 44:47creator, that I have power beyond what seems just logically possible.
- 44:52It's not logical.
- 44:53It is an emotional experience, this whole thing.
- 44:57So that to me is the thing that I'm like, I always love when that gate comes around.
- 45:03It's always a mystery to me how it will feel because you never know
- 45:06if you're going to fall into the pressure or into the kind of doomsday
- 45:10feelings that can come with pressure.
- 45:13I don't know what to do with it.
- 45:14I need it to move.
- 45:15I need it to change.
- 45:16really uncomfortable.
- 45:18But can you just have a lot of fun swimming in, can you dream a big dream?
- 45:25And can you say, not how will it happen, but can you play with how
- 45:31could it happen at that point?
- 45:34All the different ways that something crazy, wonderful,
- 45:41That's a really fun exercise to do at that point.
- 45:45I love that exercise, especially for that week.
- 45:48That week, I call it the week of sharp discernment.
- 45:51It's like the five of swords and The five of swords, this is the
- 45:57thing about thoughts and ideas.
- 45:59Like you're talking about how can we allow our mind to expand behind,
- 46:03beyond the rational, to think thoughts and believe things that are beyond
- 46:07what we have experienced in the past or what's rationally possible.
- 46:11And the five of swords can bring these swords in and chop
- 46:15down those beliefs so quickly.
- 46:19And this is when we enter into that testing phase where we've planted all
- 46:23this incentive intention and seeds for this new reality and this new vibe, but
- 46:28there can be these little insidious old belief swords that can come in and try
- 46:34to keep your vibration at a lower level.
- 46:37frequency.
- 46:38It could try to keep you at your thermostat setting that
- 46:40you were used to in past cycles.
- 46:43And this is an opportunity, like what you were saying, this is an opportunity
- 46:47to let those new novel ideas and beliefs slip past your regulation center.
- 46:55And think the bigger dreams, turn the temperature up higher than your
- 46:59thermostat usually allows, see if you can get yourself beyond neutral
- 47:03into this new terrain, and have sharp discernment when those old ideas and
- 47:09regulating thoughts try to come in.
- 47:12to tell you that it's not safe, it's not going to work, you're
- 47:15not good enough, blah, blah, blah.
- 47:16Like, it's definitely a week where those tests are present.
- 47:20And the entire season, starting on the 19th and into, you know, February, is a
- 47:27test of our frequency, is a test of our ability to turn the temperature up, or
- 47:33turn the vibration up on our frequency.
- 47:35And so, of course, we're going to challenge with the things
- 47:39that kept it low from the past.
- 47:41If you see it as that, just challenges, you can use your sharp discernment
- 47:45to allow the expansion to happen.
- 47:48beautiful and To me, that's what the start of the year is about, right?
- 47:52We're going to dream big.
- 47:54We're going to set the tone for the rest of the year.
- 47:57You know, testing what happens in February.
- 47:59We're testing for, I mean, you're talking about a really long term test.
- 48:04We're testing like, is this what I want for the next 20 years?
- 48:08But to me, I'm.
- 48:09I'm always thinking about that of, like, I feel like that's what this energy
- 48:14is always sort of begging us to do or urging and connecting us to is this
- 48:19feeling of, well, what do you really want?
- 48:24What do you really want?
- 48:25And then as I'm saying that in February, does the rubber hit the road?
- 48:30Because sometimes we, we've all made a plan or, you know, set some goals
- 48:37and put some things on a vision board that really weren't ours.
- 48:41That really weren't the things that we were that connected to.
- 48:45The world made us think we should want it.
- 48:46You know, it's aligned with something else.
- 48:49It's aligned with some old version of ourselves.
- 48:52And to me, that's sort of what's coming through as I'm processing
- 48:56this talking to you is that February is when it'll be tested.
- 49:00Is this really mine?
- 49:02Is this really what I want to commit my energy to?
- 49:06And then when we do.
- 49:10What's possible when I really commit to it, when I really say yes, and say,
- 49:17I'm going for this, or I'm allowing this and, and connecting my energy to
- 49:23this, I'm, you know, when they talk about, you know, can you connect to
- 49:28the energy of the thing that you want?
- 49:30Maybe that's what February is doing for us.
- 49:33Are we really connected energetically to that thing that we say that
- 49:36we want to, those dreams that we dared to put out there.
- 49:40Yeah, and you know, you look at the last week of February, or January, you've got
- 49:45the Six of Swords, and this is, picture of this is a mother and child in a
- 49:51ship, and then there's this person, you know, this male figure kind of at the
- 49:56head of the ship, steering that ship out of choppy waters into clear waters.
- 50:01And so, this is the, internal mind, We're going to be leading ourself,
- 50:06navigating through these swords, so that we have the discernment to get out of
- 50:11the emotional choppy waters that the old belief system would create for ourselves.
- 50:15And we have the, we're nurturing our inner children through this passage.
- 50:20So it's, it's really, the last week is really a time of letting our new
- 50:24beliefs Our new guiding principles help us to foster this healing and this
- 50:30nurturance of parts of us that were stuck.
- 50:34They were stuck in the past.
- 50:35They were stuck in old patterns.
- 50:37We're getting them through and navigating through into these new earth, this
- 50:41new reality, it's crossing over a body of water into a new place.
- 50:48And so, yep, I do feel we're being set up so perfectly.
- 50:55I do, I do feel that, um, the week that we need to really keep our discernment
- 51:01sharp is from the 19th to the 25th.
- 51:04I feel that that's going to be the week that we were just going to just keep
- 51:09your feet on the ground, keep your heart open, let yourself experience whatever
- 51:15comes to you and allow yourself to see the bigger picture and continue choosing what
- 51:21frequency or what sensation in your body you prefer to experience in that moment.
- 51:29I love that.
- 51:30I think that that's a great place to leave that, to let people know this is what.
- 51:35you know, that week of discernment can look like and how you can use
- 51:38that and because am I hearing you correctly, like that that might be a
- 51:44difficult or challenging time that week.
- 51:48It could be if there's a lot of unconscious material.
- 51:54That is ready to be processed.
- 51:57Yeah.
- 51:59distinction to make, because it's like, there's no bad, good or bad,
- 52:02it's just how does it affect you?
- 52:04And if you're open to the experience, similar to what we were talking about
- 52:08with the bliss experiment, if you're open to the experience, if you're open
- 52:12to what is happening, you stay present with it, then the lessons emerge.
- 52:17The work that you have to do becomes more important.
- 52:21It's kind of apparent, or you work through it the way that you can, and
- 52:25then you emerge on the other side different, whatever different looks like.
- 52:30So I think that that's kind of always the way that we want you
- 52:33to be working with this stuff, is that there is no good or bad.
- 52:36It is just about, you know, are you paying attention in a relaxed enough
- 52:42way that you can be in it without trying to control the whole thing.
- 52:47I
- 52:50So anything that you want to leave everybody with before
- 52:53we sign off for this month?
- 52:55gonna say growth through omission, but I don't know if that's the
- 52:57right word I'm looking for.
- 52:59Growth through release is real growth.
- 53:02Growth through letting things go is real growth.
- 53:05We don't always have to add things in order to feel like we're growing.
- 53:09That we could definitely drop things and that could be growth.
- 53:14And especially on the 21st, I feel that there's going to be something we can drop
- 53:19like a hot potato and we'll just let it go and that that's going to be growth.
- 53:24It could be as easy as like, I'm just not going to pick that up.
- 53:27Yeah, most of the growth in my life has come from letting go, not adding.
- 53:32It has been from subtraction.
- 53:33It has been from, from letting something . that no longer serves me to really have
- 53:40the courage to look at things and say, you know, is this no longer serving me?
- 53:44Is there something that I need to do in order to allow myself to let go of this?
- 53:49Baggage is heavy.
- 53:50And sometimes baggage looks like the next great idea that you could start.
- 53:57And sometimes it's just, it's just more.
- 53:59So I love that you shared that because subtraction to me has always
- 54:04been my greatest path to growth.
- 54:07For sure.
- 54:09Yeah.
- 54:10So, Thank you all for being here.
- 54:12Thank you for making it all the way to the end of this episode with us.
- 54:15Kicking off your year with Christina and myself, we are honored.
- 54:19We are very, very proud to be here with you.
- 54:23We can't wait for the rest of the year to be delivering these transit
- 54:25episodes and all the other episodes that we're going to do here on the show.
- 54:28Thank you for being here with us.
- 54:30Happy New Year to you.
- 54:31And remember, in order to have an unshakable business, you must
- 54:34first become an unshakable human.
- 54:36So thanks for letting us help you become unshakable with human design, everyone.
- 54:39We will see you next time.
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