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134 | You're Not Allowed to Be Happy Yet: The Lie That's Quietly Stealing Your Healing
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"Am I allowed to be happy when my husband is still hurting because of me?" That's the question a client asked me, and I've heard versions of it more times than I can count. Today I'm answering it directly, with theology, with neuroscience, and with my own story of accidentally putting joy on hold for far longer than I needed to.
We explore:
The hidden belief underneath every "I don't deserve joy" thought (and why it’s a lie)
Psalm 16:11 and what it actually means that…
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