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TMG: Jade Tunchy and the Third Child Theory · Outspoken the Podcast

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Speaker 1: Hello and welcome to the Mums Group you actually want
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Speaker 1: to be a part of. I'm Amy Torber and I'm
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Speaker 1: joined by my sisters and journalists, Kate and Sophie. Now, Sophie,
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Speaker 1: there was a lot of anticipation around Brandon's speech at
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Speaker 1: your son Luca's first birthday, which was over the weekend.
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Speaker 1: We've obviously listened to this podcast and also he's been
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Speaker 1: present at your son's birthdays and he knows that the
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Speaker 1: dad really has to step up and prove how appreciative
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Speaker 1: they are of their wife for basically giving up their
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Speaker 1: whole first year to their child. Yeah, I saw all
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Speaker 1: of the phones were poised. They were pointed in his direction.
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Speaker 1: I had my camera out and I was like, do
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Speaker 1: I take photos or do I film? Look, I actually
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Speaker 1: set my little camera up and I filmed the whole
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Speaker 1: thing because I thought it was like real old school
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Speaker 1: just to have, you know, a speech and the discussions
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Speaker 1: in the background. I'm excited you did because I didn't
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Speaker 1: hear the call up that everyone was doing speeches. So
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Speaker 1: I was outside talking to my best friend and my
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Speaker 1: brother-in-law rushes out and goes, you know, the speeches are happening.
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Speaker 1: I was like, no, because As you said, there's been
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Speaker 1: so much anticipation, like what's Brandon going to say? Now,
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Speaker 1: as a teaser to the Mums Group listeners, he actually cried. Yes,
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Speaker 1: but it's not what you think. So Brandon has been known,
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Speaker 1: and I'm sorry because I know Brandon is listening, but
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Speaker 1: you have been known to beautifully shed tears in other
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Speaker 1: big events. So obviously at your wedding. Brandon cried and
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Speaker 1: he also cried at his sister's 30th birthday giving a
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Speaker 1: speech too. Oh, that's really sweet. And I think he
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Speaker 1: cried at our engagement party. So he is one to
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Speaker 1: wear his heart on his sleeve. That is absolutely gorgeous.
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Speaker 1: But the issue is he didn't cry over you, which
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Speaker 1: is what some listeners might be thinking. He said he did.
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Speaker 1: He said he was just feeling quite emotional about everything
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Speaker 1: and the sacrifices that I've made. But also he was
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Speaker 1: a bit upset because, you know, listeners will know that
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Speaker 1: we actually cancelled We postponed Luca's birthday a couple of
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Speaker 1: weeks ago because Amy's son Harry was struck down with gastro.
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Speaker 1: We were worried we were going to get gastro. We
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Speaker 1: thought we'll pull the pin early so we don't waste
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Speaker 1: any money on the catering and the balloons, et cetera. Anyway,
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Speaker 1: morning of, you can't fucking write the script for this.
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Speaker 1: We get a phone call. 8am from Brandon's sister saying
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Speaker 1: that their son is sick. And you're just like, oh
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Speaker 1: my God, because then I felt guilty. I'm like, well,
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Speaker 1: we've cancelled the party over one cousin. Well, you can't
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Speaker 1: pull the pin the morning of. Like everything was set up,
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Speaker 1: all the food was ready to go. I know, but
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Speaker 1: it was just so disappointing because it would have been
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Speaker 1: so lovely for him to be there. So I completely
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Speaker 1: understand why Brandon would have been emotional not having a sister.
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Speaker 1: So he started tearing up when he was talking about
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Speaker 1: the connection that Luca has with his cousins. But it
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Speaker 1: was quite funny because He started to say, oh, we
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Speaker 1: just wish that Jim could be here. And then he
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Speaker 1: started to cry. But my relatives who have never met
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Speaker 1: my nephew, Jimmy, and only know him as James, were like,
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Speaker 1: they were like to each other, who's Jim? Is it
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Speaker 1: a grandparent that's passed away? Yeah, I could hear them
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Speaker 1: and I was trying to whisper, it's his nephew.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: So we sort of needed a bit of a disclaimer
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Speaker 1: there as to what went on. But I actually think
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Speaker 1: that he did a beautiful job of the speech. I
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Speaker 1: actually had to cut in because Brandon was that overwhelmed
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Speaker 1: and thank him. I thought I did a pretty nice
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Speaker 1: job too. The whole event was beautiful. I thanked you
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Speaker 1: guys as well.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you did.
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Speaker 1: I appreciated that. I was there at the back of
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Speaker 1: the crowd when I heard that one. I have to
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Speaker 1: talk about my cake because there's been a lot of
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Speaker 1: talk about the Woman's Weekly. I did opt for the
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Speaker 1: farm cake in that book. I didn't actually have a
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Speaker 1: piece of it. It was very simple. I made a
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Speaker 1: greens vanilla cake. Wait a sec. Greens? Why would you
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Speaker 1: go with the greens? They're the best ones. They're the
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Speaker 1: best ones. Anyway, I really like those ones. I find
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Speaker 1: they're particularly moist even though I detest that word. Anyway,
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Speaker 1: so I was– everything was– you know when everything's running
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Speaker 1: too smoothly? And I made the cake during Lucas' nap time. I–
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Speaker 1: Brandon then looked after him whilst I went and got
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Speaker 1: the food and the balloons, rushed around getting all this
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Speaker 1: last minute shit from the shops, got back home. It
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Speaker 1: was then Brandon's time to sort of sit and relax
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Speaker 1: for a bit. And I thought, oh, I'll keep an
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Speaker 1: eye on Luca whilst he's in the kitchen whilst also
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Speaker 1: doing the icing. Big fucking mistake. I haven't even told
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Speaker 1: you this, Kate. So I'm there with the hand beaters.
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Speaker 1: All of a sudden, Luca goes forward. Somehow the beaters
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Speaker 1: get knocked on the ground. Oh, my God. Where do
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Speaker 1: you think Luca goes forward? Where was he? I don't
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Speaker 1: even know. Were you holding him? No, I was sort
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Speaker 1: of just letting him teach her around in the kitchen,
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Speaker 1: which was a mistake. He likes to sort of practice
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Speaker 1: walking in there. Anyway. So he's on the ground. The
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Speaker 1: beaters have fallen to the ground. My God, they turned off.
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Speaker 1: But there's fucking butter icing everywhere. My dog, who we
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Speaker 1: don't allow to have any food but his pancreatitis safe food,
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Speaker 1: immediately walks into the room. The icing, the butter icing
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Speaker 1: is splattered everywhere.
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Speaker 3: Buttercream, please.
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Speaker 1: Buttercream. He literally got it on his tail. There was
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Speaker 1: some on his paw and I started screaming because Brandon
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Speaker 1: wasn't sitting down. Sophie, this is not the disaster that
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Speaker 1: most people think it was. Can I just finish? Brandon
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Speaker 1: was in the other room vacuuming and I'm screaming at
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Speaker 1: the top of my lungs. Brandon! Now, if you were
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Speaker 1: listening to the mums group for the first time, Sophie
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Speaker 1: is the most overprotective dog mum. The only person that
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Speaker 1: rivals how overprotective Sophie is, is Brandon. Oh, it was
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Speaker 1: funny because everyone's like, where's Archie? And I'm like, he's
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Speaker 1: actually locked in a room. And they're like, why? He's
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Speaker 1: such a well-behaved dog. And I'm like, no, it's because
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Speaker 1: they're scared he's going to eat something from the ground.
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Speaker 1: Can I finish my story about the icing? Yeah. Just
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Speaker 1: very quickly. So Butter is literally the worst thing a
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Speaker 1: dog with a case of pancreatitis in the past can
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Speaker 1: have because it's pure fat. Like he can't have anything fat.
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Speaker 1: So I literally was so terrified. Like he went and
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Speaker 1: sniffed something. Then he started licking his paw. So I
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Speaker 1: was screaming for Brandon. By this stage, Luca is hysterically crying.
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Speaker 1: Almost it was like, who? Like I can't leave Arch.
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Speaker 1: I can't leave him. So I'm screaming at the top
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Speaker 1: of my... I didn't pick anyone. I didn't pick anyone.
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Speaker 1: I just... kind of tried to shoo Archie towards the
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Speaker 1: door anyway. And then Brian was like, what is going
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Speaker 1: on in here? So we had to give Archie this
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Speaker 1: full bath, get rid of all of the butter. Oh,
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Speaker 1: my God. Get the bath in? Well, he had it
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Speaker 1: all over his paws. What was he coating in the ice?
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Speaker 1: His paws were coated. That's what chat GPT said to do.
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Speaker 1: Do you know what was on it? Not a full bath.
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Speaker 1: What time of night was this? Oh, it was before
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Speaker 1: Luca's nap. So it was all panic. Well, not his nap,
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Speaker 1: his nighttime sleep. Did he have a bath with Luca?
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Speaker 1: no put both of them you know what was hilarious
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Speaker 1: i got a series of frantic text messages from sophie
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Speaker 1: explaining this incident that it took i didn't bother to
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Speaker 1: tell kate because i knew the sympathy levels would be
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Speaker 1: low and dale was like oh what's this and i
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Speaker 1: read out the text messages and his reaction was he
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Speaker 1: just laughed because obviously it seems like a non-event to
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Speaker 1: someone because a lot of people's dogs just eat their
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Speaker 1: scraps off their plate. You know what, it's just the
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Speaker 1: last thing. Or their furniture, like me. You should have
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Speaker 1: seen the clean-up process, though, that went on after the
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Speaker 1: birthday party had wrapped up because Harry and I stayed
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Speaker 1: because Harry had his nap at Soph's house. And your
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Speaker 1: husband is fantastic with a vacuum cleaner. That's why he's
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Speaker 1: so tired. It's all because of Archie.
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Speaker 2: Is that why?
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Speaker 1: Because I was like, oh, it's very proactive that the
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Speaker 1: guests are still here and he's vacuuming. I didn't know
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Speaker 1: if he just wanted to go into labor. Because we
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Speaker 1: needed to get Archie out because we'd actually set up
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Speaker 1: the baby monitor in our bedroom where Archie was positioned
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Speaker 1: to watch Archie to make sure. Because another trigger of
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Speaker 1: pancreatitis is actually stress. So we were worried he'd get
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Speaker 1: so stressed. He has separation anxiety. You can't see how
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Speaker 1: he would have got stressed at all. We need to
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Speaker 1: also mention our dad's shoes because it was a farm
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Speaker 1: themed birthday party and dad pulled out some old shoes
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Speaker 1: he had from the back of his wardrobe that he
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Speaker 1: said he used to wear. I think it was like,
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Speaker 1: they probably were like at least 20 years old. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: he said 20 years old. And he kept telling me
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Speaker 1: that bits of the shoe were falling apart and I
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Speaker 1: was kind of like, oh yeah. Anyway, by the end
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Speaker 1: of the event, He had left a trail of destruction.
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Speaker 1: Like I thought it was crushed up Oreo on the ground,
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Speaker 1: but it was literally bits of his shoe. Brandon and
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Speaker 1: I were freaking out because there were a few kids,
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Speaker 1: obviously a kid's birthday party. And like, we've got a
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Speaker 1: white couch and there was like crumbs everywhere. Like on
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Speaker 1: our white rug, like we've got this white knotted rug.
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Speaker 1: There was like It was like someone had literally got
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Speaker 1: cake and then got a hammer and like hammered it
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Speaker 1: into the rug. Did you have the same thought that
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Speaker 1: I did immediately after the birthday party that you were
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Speaker 1: not doing that next year and you were only inviting
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Speaker 1: a handful of people? Brandon said, we're never fucking doing
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Speaker 1: this again. He was like... all our nice things getting
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Speaker 1: destroyed by everyone at the party. It's this real anxiety
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Speaker 1: where I suppose your house is like your safe place.
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Speaker 1: And don't get me wrong, I had a lovely time,
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Speaker 1: but there really is a difference between having a party
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Speaker 1: when you're having to look after children the whole time.
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Speaker 1: The best bit was that one of you guys Snapchatted
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Speaker 1: me after and it was Brandon sitting in the playpen
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Speaker 1: with disinfectant wipes, wiping every single toy that any other
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Speaker 1: child had touched. Any guests that are listening that may
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Speaker 1: have been at the party, Sophie was very happy and
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Speaker 1: hospitable to have you there. It was really lovely. It
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Speaker 1: was more just like, because unfortunately the weather wasn't that great.
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Speaker 1: We were hoping that we could have people outside, but
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Speaker 1: there was literally like 35 people stuck inside. So that's
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Speaker 1: why I think that there was a lot more mess.
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Speaker 1: Like I actually had the best time. Like it was
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Speaker 1: really lovely, but it's anytime there's kids involved and I
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Speaker 1: actually felt that you don't have a good time. No, no, no,
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Speaker 1: that there's mess. And I actually felt very, very vindicated
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Speaker 1: that Archie wasn't out there. I put Luca on the ground.
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Speaker 1: He started trying to pick up chips that people had dropped.
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Speaker 1: There was chocolate cake. Like, just, it was nuts. Dad's
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Speaker 1: bits of old shoe. Shoe everywhere. Like, it's quite funny
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Speaker 1: because at our wedding, three people's shoes broke due to
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Speaker 1: the heat. I think I've mentioned this on the podcast.
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Speaker 1: Take a shot every time I mention how hot my
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Speaker 1: wedding was. And I was like, wow, this is quite
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Speaker 1: fitting that for another, you know, special moment, someone's shoe
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Speaker 1: has deteriorated. Late last week, Jade Tunci shocked her followers
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Speaker 1: by announcing she's pregnant with her third child. The OG
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Speaker 1: influencer is set to have three under three when she
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Speaker 1: gives birth in January or to be even more specific,
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Speaker 1: three under two and a half. So her oldest son
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Speaker 1: Fletcher just turned two in June while her second son
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Speaker 1: Harvey is seven months old. And just to make the
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Speaker 1: math even easier for you, Jade was eight months postpartum
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Speaker 1: with her first when she fell pregnant with her second
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Speaker 1: and And now only five months postpartum with the third.
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Speaker 1: I wonder if Indy Clinton has reached out for some
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Speaker 1: support because she was five months postpartum with her second
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Speaker 1: when she fell pregnant with her third as well. I
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Speaker 1: actually saw someone comment on Jade's post, the devil works hard,
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Speaker 1: but Lockie, her husband works even harder. Yeah. I saw
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Speaker 1: people being like, how have you even had the time
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Speaker 1: to be intimate with two under two? Which did make
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Speaker 1: me laugh. Have you seen Lockie? I mean, I mean,
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Speaker 1: it's we have seen him in his little jocks I
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Speaker 1: mean we spoke about his speedos recently didn't we look
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Speaker 1: but I just if this isn't a sign for my
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Speaker 1: husband to go and get a vasectomy oh like I
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Speaker 1: just think no offense because I know a lot of
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Speaker 1: people do want as many children as they can have
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Speaker 1: and I love my son more than anything in the
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Speaker 1: world but The thought of having three children under two
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Speaker 1: and a half makes me feel sick to my stomach. Like,
10:23
Speaker 1: could you imagine being pregnant five months postpartum? That's the
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Speaker 1: thing that bad nightmares are made of. See, I was
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Speaker 1: shocked when she announced her second pregnancy because I've mentioned
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Speaker 1: on the podcast before, I was pregnant at the same
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Speaker 1: time as Jade Tunchi when she had her first. They
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Speaker 1: were like my son, Jack, and her son, Fletcher were
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Speaker 1: born a couple of days apart. So I feel like
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Speaker 1: I've been on the ride with her. And the fact
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Speaker 1: she's now been pregnant two more times, I'm like, holy shit.
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Speaker 1: Like I still feel postpartum. I mean, it was, this
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Speaker 1: sounds like this was an accident. Like it doesn't sound
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Speaker 1: like it was planned. The way it was announced sort
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Speaker 1: of made you think that it wasn't planned, but very
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Speaker 1: much still wanted. So rather than filming her own reaction,
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Speaker 1: which she did the first time, and there was a
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Speaker 1: lot of chatter around how people thought she should have
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Speaker 1: won a Logie. Like people were saying, really, how genuine
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Speaker 1: was it? This time she shared the moment her husband, Lockie,
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Speaker 1: found out. That's a good move because, as you said,
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Speaker 1: people just pull to pieces any time an influencer sets
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Speaker 1: up a camera to do a pregnancy test because they're like, well,
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Speaker 1: obviously you knew the result because you set up the camera.
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Speaker 1: What I loved about this video was just how authentic
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Speaker 1: it was in terms of like her house was a
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Speaker 1: complete mess. Like it reminded me of my own. Like
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Speaker 1: they were just clothes thrown everywhere. I love seeing the shower,
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Speaker 1: just like the kids' stuff in the shower. Because they
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Speaker 1: live in Sydney and obviously– any sort of real estate
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Speaker 1: is expensive. Like this house is beautiful, but it's very
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Speaker 1: small for now going to be five people. Well, they're
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Speaker 1: actually moving. So it makes sense as to why they
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Speaker 1: bought a new house. But in the video, Jade passed
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Speaker 1: the positive pregnancy test to her toddler, her oldest son,
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Speaker 1: and she told him to go take it to his dad. Now,
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Speaker 1: Lockie says, what have you got for me there? And
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Speaker 1: then when he realised what it was, he said, can
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Speaker 1: you get me a different toy? Now, at the end
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Speaker 1: of the video, Jade and Lockie were hugging and Fletcher's like,
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Speaker 1: no cuddles with mummy. And Lockie replies, yes, cuddles with mummy.
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Speaker 1: And then whispers to Jade, what's happening? Now, the cuddles
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Speaker 1: with mummy is what caused this. No more. I think
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Speaker 1: Fletcher's right. No more cuddles. Now, Jade captioned the video,
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Speaker 1: after processing the initial shock, in brackets, after just experiencing
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Speaker 1: an already small 17-month age gap lull, A world of joy,
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Speaker 1: excitement and gratitude set in for our third little angel.
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Speaker 1: We can't wait to meet you in January. January. Oh,
12:36
Speaker 1: my God. Oh, my God. So, again, Kate, I'm sort
12:38
Speaker 1: of having this parasocial relationship with Jade because her son
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Speaker 1: Harvey was born a couple of months after Luca and
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Speaker 1: I could not imagine– welcoming another child in January. Well,
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Speaker 1: I saw so many comments under Jade's announcement post and
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Speaker 1: they were like, I had to check that this was
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Speaker 1: a new video. I thought you had reshared your previous
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Speaker 1: pregnancy announcement. I was like, oh, is this a throwback
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Speaker 1: to this time last year when she found out about Harvey? Well,
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Speaker 1: this video went absolutely viral. Within 24 hours of sharing it,
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Speaker 1: it had over 1 million views. Of course, the Blue
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Speaker 1: Tick Brigade were out in full force. Steph Kless-Smith, Sofa Dofa, M. Davies,
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Speaker 1: Isabel Mathers, Ashy Bynes, Tammy Hembrough and Christy Swadling all
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Speaker 1: congratulated Jarday. I wonder if Steph Kless-Smith is like, now
13:22
Speaker 1: don't steal another one of my kids' names. I saw
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Speaker 1: this TikTok the other day from this US comedian and
13:27
Speaker 1: she was talking about how, oh, you know, when you've
13:30
Speaker 1: got one kid, you're just a lady with a kid.
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Speaker 1: But when you have two or three, you're a mom,
13:35
Speaker 1: like you're a real mom. And she said that women
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Speaker 1: with multiple children look like they're always fleeing a war-torn country.
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Speaker 1: They're picking things up off the ground and they're, get here!
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Speaker 1: I mean, I look at any mum as a superhero,
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Speaker 1: but extra when there's more than two. Now, Jade ended
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Speaker 1: up giving her 534,000 followers an insight into how she's
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Speaker 1: been feeling behind the scenes. Let's take a listen.
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Speaker 2: We've already got two under two, moving, renovating, and we thought,
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Speaker 2: let's just make things a bit more exciting, you know?
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Speaker 2: Because we've got all this under control.
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Speaker 1: This is under control.
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Speaker 2: And so we should... add another layer of complexity to
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Speaker 2: our lives. The good thing is we already bought a
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Speaker 2: seven-seater car.
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Speaker 1: So we're all good there.
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Speaker 2: Everyone keeps saying, no, you've got to get a bigger car.
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Speaker 4: No, we don't.
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Speaker 1: We already, we thought ahead.
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Speaker 2: Just in case, we thought, let's get the seven-seater, just
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Speaker 2: in case. And the in case did in fact case.
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Speaker 1: We have cased. So that's where we're at. That's why
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Speaker 1: I've been crying a lot. I love this about Jade,
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Speaker 1: like how real she's been in motherhood, the fact that
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Speaker 1: she's having a bit of a laugh about how chaotic
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Speaker 1: this situation is. And I mean, it's just a lot,
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Speaker 1: isn't it? Well, she said that now she's out of
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Speaker 1: the first trimester, she's feeling way better, but admitted that
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Speaker 1: the first few weeks really weren't very good. I love
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Speaker 1: she said, this is why I've been crying a lot.
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Speaker 1: She also said she was worried people were going to
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Speaker 1: pick up on the fact that she was pregnant because
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Speaker 1: Lockie kept making jokes about her having all these naps
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Speaker 1: on their podcast. And she's like, this is not a
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Speaker 1: normal thing. Like as a mother of two, I'm not
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Speaker 1: just having naps. Like I need them. I was really
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Speaker 1: happy for Jade because a day after announcing the pregnancy news,
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Speaker 1: she also dropped a gender reveal. And it turns out
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Speaker 1: they are having a baby girl. I love how there
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Speaker 1: was no bells and whistles either. Like this was really
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Speaker 1: a gender reveal for the third kid. And I felt
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Speaker 1: like there wasn't a heap of pressure on, you know,
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Speaker 1: having a girl or having a boy. Like, you know,
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Speaker 1: sometimes when you see It's an influencer posting like, mum
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Speaker 1: of two boys and waiting for my third gender reveal.
15:43
Speaker 1: And you know that they're gunning for a girl, but
15:45
Speaker 1: they seem genuinely happy. But I think if it had
15:47
Speaker 1: been a boy, it would have been a similar reaction anyway.
15:50
Speaker 1: She's been quite vocal on gender reveals. I remember her
15:52
Speaker 1: saying that she doesn't understand why people share them, particularly
15:55
Speaker 1: when they are so keen on one certain gender and
15:58
Speaker 1: they're disappointed. It seems like there's something in the water
16:00
Speaker 1: because Jade isn't the only influencer to announce they're pregnant
16:04
Speaker 1: with their third child. So DJ Tiger Lily also shared
16:08
Speaker 1: the news last week that she's having a third baby.
16:11
Speaker 1: So she posted a family photo and wrote, counting my
16:14
Speaker 1: lucky stars that our family is blessed to have another
16:16
Speaker 1: mini disco joining us. Now the age gap between her
16:19
Speaker 1: kids isn't quite as wild as Jade's. In saying that,
16:24
Speaker 1: she'll still have three under three and a half. She's
16:27
Speaker 1: got two boys, doesn't she? Yeah, she hasn't announced the gender.
16:30
Speaker 1: I don't think she will. I think she kept a
16:32
Speaker 1: secret the last couple of times. This seems to be
16:34
Speaker 1: a bit of a pattern though. If you end up
16:37
Speaker 1: having two kids and they're either two girls or two boys,
16:40
Speaker 1: people seem to go for the third, hoping for the
16:42
Speaker 1: different gender. Well, podcaster Laura Byrne, she gave birth to
16:45
Speaker 1: her daughter, I think it was nearly a year ago now.
16:47
Speaker 1: I think she's approaching one. And she had two girls
16:51
Speaker 1: and ended up having a third girl. And she spoke
16:53
Speaker 1: about how there was a real difference in reactions when
16:57
Speaker 1: she announced that she was having her third. So she
16:59
Speaker 1: said when she had her first, there was like so
17:01
Speaker 1: much excitement. Then when she had her second, everyone's like, oh, excellent,
17:04
Speaker 1: a friend for your other baby. And she said when
17:07
Speaker 1: she announced her third pregnancy to people, they looked at
17:10
Speaker 1: her as like, is everything okay? Like, what? Why would
17:13
Speaker 1: you do that? She said there was a lot of
17:14
Speaker 1: judgment around it. I definitely think you've got to be
17:17
Speaker 1: in a different tax bracket to some of us to
17:20
Speaker 1: have three kids though in this current climate. Like, I
17:22
Speaker 1: just can't believe how ridiculously expensive it would be and
17:25
Speaker 1: the time you have to take away from work and
17:28
Speaker 1: potentially on really bad maternity leave. But it's not just
17:32
Speaker 1: rich people that have three kids. There's a lot of
17:34
Speaker 1: working class families that manage to have three children. But
17:38
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that I think moving forward, because the
17:40
Speaker 1: cost of living is so absurdly high, we are going
17:44
Speaker 1: to see smaller families. We're already seeing that. Oh, definitely.
17:47
Speaker 1: Now we need to talk about the third child theory
17:49
Speaker 1: that's floating around on TikTok. So essentially it is that
17:54
Speaker 1: the third child is really easy. Let's take a listen.
17:59
Speaker 4: You have your first baby. Everyone congratulates you, says how
18:01
Speaker 4: sweet they are. And then about a year into the baby,
18:05
Speaker 4: everybody starts saying, when are you going to have another one?
18:08
Speaker 4: When are you going to give so-and-so a sibling? No
18:10
Speaker 4: one warns you that that sibling is going to absolutely
18:13
Speaker 4: rock your world. And the second child rocks your world.
18:15
Speaker 4: So you have the second baby and it rocks your world.
18:18
Speaker 4: And then everyone starts saying, yeah, the second one, that's hard.
18:21
Speaker 4: It's so hard juggling two, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
18:24
Speaker 4: So you hear a lot about the second one. Then
18:25
Speaker 4: people start asking you, when are you going to have
18:27
Speaker 4: a third? Or the people that already have a third
18:30
Speaker 4: are like, oh, the third's so easy. Just have the third.
18:32
Speaker 4: It's like the third child theory. Like everyone says the
18:35
Speaker 4: second one's so hard, but the third one just falls
18:37
Speaker 4: right in line. And people that have three children are
18:39
Speaker 4: very adamant that everyone should have three children.
18:42
Speaker 1: Now, that theory has been backed up by Australian influencer
18:45
Speaker 1: Alyssa Jane, who recently welcomed her third child. Let's take
18:48
Speaker 1: a listen to what she said.
18:50
Speaker 3: If you've been thinking of having a third, I'm here
18:52
Speaker 3: to tell you, do it. Have the third baby.
18:55
Speaker 1: You will not regret it.
18:56
Speaker 3: Zero to one, yeah, kind of hard. You don't know
18:58
Speaker 3: what you're doing. There's no manual. One to two, for me,
19:02
Speaker 3: very hard. PPA, PPD, 15-month age gap. Don't recommend, not
19:07
Speaker 3: for the weak. But that third baby, that third baby
19:10
Speaker 3: comes and it knows it's the third baby. It just
19:13
Speaker 3: fits right in. You have three, you could have five.
19:17
Speaker 3: And I stand by that.
19:19
Speaker 1: I don't know if I believe that. These people, they're
19:22
Speaker 1: being paid by the government to spruik the birth rates
19:25
Speaker 1: because I don't see how having three children is easier
19:29
Speaker 1: than having one or two. I think it's just the
19:31
Speaker 1: way you would probably adapt as a mother. You've been
19:33
Speaker 1: through it so many times that you're not sweating on
19:35
Speaker 1: the small stuff that you would have when you had
19:37
Speaker 1: your first child. Yeah, I feel like the nap routine
19:39
Speaker 1: goes out the window, like the child just comes along
19:42
Speaker 1: with you. You just introduce screen time straight away. All
19:47
Speaker 1: those rules that you probably held with the first child
19:50
Speaker 1: child you're not doing that anymore well a lot of
19:52
Speaker 1: people said that the third child is more chilled out
19:55
Speaker 1: as well I mean I'd would be interested putting it
19:58
Speaker 1: out to the mum's group with people who have three
20:00
Speaker 1: kids if that's actually true. Unfortunately, I don't think that
20:02
Speaker 1: that is the case for everyone. I mean, look at
20:03
Speaker 1: Sarah's day. I mean, her third child, Harlow, who had
20:06
Speaker 1: colic almost broke her and she said it was the
20:08
Speaker 1: most difficult time in their life. It seems like there's
20:10
Speaker 1: always one child that breaks you and a lot of
20:13
Speaker 1: people seem to think it's the second child. I mean,
20:17
Speaker 1: is that because maybe if you have a really good
20:20
Speaker 1: first child, you're willing to go for a second. Like
20:22
Speaker 1: maybe the people that had really hard first children don't
20:26
Speaker 1: go for a second. They're one and done. I saw
20:27
Speaker 1: his TikTok saying that there's nothing he loves more than
20:30
Speaker 1: parents who have one child who was quite easy. They're
20:33
Speaker 1: super smug about it. Like, yeah, sleeps really well, no troubles.
20:37
Speaker 1: And then they have a second child and the second
20:38
Speaker 1: child completely humbles them. Yeah, I've seen that. And that
20:41
Speaker 1: makes me so worried to have a second child because
20:44
Speaker 1: I have a really good sleeper. Do you know what?
20:46
Speaker 1: It's so funny because I feel like once you have
20:49
Speaker 1: a child, The anxiety over an unplanned pregnancy is even
20:53
Speaker 1: higher because you know what it means. Yeah. You know
20:56
Speaker 1: what I mean? You know what you're in for. UK
20:58
Speaker 1: lifestyle influencer Saf Michaela, she actually had a really interesting
21:02
Speaker 1: take on the whole three children. So we've actually previously
21:06
Speaker 1: spoken about her on the podcast. So she created this
21:10
Speaker 1: viral video where she was prepping for her daughter's first
21:13
Speaker 1: birthday party and it was so beautiful. Like it was
21:16
Speaker 1: this nostalgic moment. yet effortless, stylish birthday party that a
21:20
Speaker 1: lot of people clearly wanted to emulate because it notched
21:22
Speaker 1: up around 1.8 million views. That's the style I was
21:26
Speaker 1: going for over the weekend with Lucas Farm. I think
21:29
Speaker 1: you nailed it. I was actually very impressed. See, I'm
21:31
Speaker 1: just suddenly trying to get a compliment here. I'm fishing
21:33
Speaker 1: around because Amy was like, oh, Kate said this about
21:36
Speaker 1: your party. And I was like, what did she say?
21:38
Speaker 1: I messaged you saying that you put mine to shame.
21:39
Speaker 1: I didn't see that message. I messaged you saying like,
21:42
Speaker 1: I really liked your theme. I felt like it ran
21:44
Speaker 1: really smoothly. Mine was sort of that garish Lightning McQueen theme. Yeah,
21:47
Speaker 1: but that's once your child's over one and they actually
21:50
Speaker 1: have their own interests and likes, isn't it? You can't
21:52
Speaker 1: just push whatever you want on it. Yeah. Anyway, back
21:54
Speaker 1: to Saf. So she's one of those people that has
21:57
Speaker 1: that really enviable style. Her house looks beautiful. She's got
22:01
Speaker 1: over 170,000 followers on TikTok because of her style. So
22:05
Speaker 1: she's a real trendsetter. So it shocked me. when she
22:08
Speaker 1: said this.
22:10
Speaker 3: I am 26 and I have one girl. And later
22:13
Speaker 3: this year, we want to have more babies, potentially. But
22:16
Speaker 3: I'm in a bit of a pickle because I feel
22:18
Speaker 3: like living in the city as a 26-year-old with one
22:22
Speaker 3: daughter is incredibly chic. I feel like three children is
22:25
Speaker 3: incredibly chic. I'm terrified of two children. Two children at
22:29
Speaker 3: 27 is just normal. Like I, as someone who's chronically
22:33
Speaker 3: terrified of that, that's going to be our next step.
22:37
Speaker 1: Now, she went on to say that she's obviously just
22:39
Speaker 1: joking and she probably will have two children, but it's
22:42
Speaker 1: categorically less chic. Fun fact, that video was filmed a
22:46
Speaker 1: couple of months ago and she actually recently announced that
22:48
Speaker 1: she's pregnant with her second child. I'm guessing that means
22:51
Speaker 1: she's going to go for three because she wants to
22:53
Speaker 1: be chic. Her parents are really chic. That's what I
22:56
Speaker 1: want to know. Like, is it chic to have one child? Look,
23:00
Speaker 1: I think contextually it's considered chic in the parenting world.
23:04
Speaker 1: I don't think it's too outside, like 20-year-olds. No. Yeah. Well,
23:07
Speaker 1: that being said, see, my biggest fear is obviously everyone
23:10
Speaker 1: can hear I'm quite apprehensive to have a second child
23:12
Speaker 1: because I just can't imagine how that would go. But
23:15
Speaker 1: my thing is sometimes when I'm out on a walk
23:17
Speaker 1: and I see like a mum and dad and a
23:20
Speaker 1: child who's around 10, To me, that looks really heartbreaking
23:23
Speaker 1: when they have no siblings. Yes, I get that. Like
23:25
Speaker 1: that's when I'm like, oh. Yeah. Like I don't want
23:28
Speaker 1: to put my son through that, but then I can't
23:29
Speaker 1: also imagine having another one. It's very conflicting. If they
23:32
Speaker 1: were with their sibling, they'd probably be fighting. Yeah, true.
23:35
Speaker 1: Someone in the comment section under Saf's video I think
23:38
Speaker 1: really nailed it. So they wrote, my theory here is
23:42
Speaker 1: one in three seem more chic because chicness is about
23:45
Speaker 1: assuredness and a strong point of view. One or three
23:47
Speaker 1: children like good personal style. are the more daring and
23:50
Speaker 1: individual choices. One and done, still a mildly controversial choice
23:55
Speaker 1: and one that requires giving into pressure. Three kids, that's
23:58
Speaker 1: a choice. You're a kid person. You're superhuman. You're made
24:02
Speaker 1: to mother. Two, that's the obligatory amount of children. People
24:06
Speaker 1: sleepwalk to two. Obviously, it's an active choice for many,
24:09
Speaker 1: but it's also expected and many do it because they
24:12
Speaker 1: think they should and not because they love it. That's
24:14
Speaker 1: why people with two see more stress than those with
24:17
Speaker 1: one or more than three. And it's hard to be
24:19
Speaker 1: chic when you're stressed. That is so true because I
24:22
Speaker 1: feel like if you're having three kids, you've almost got
24:24
Speaker 1: to have a level of mild delusion that everything's fine.
24:29
Speaker 1: I'm a sort of glass half empty type of person.
24:32
Speaker 1: So I'm not the go with the flow parent who
24:34
Speaker 1: could get around having three children and feeling really certain
24:38
Speaker 1: in that decision. Like I have decision fatigue. That doesn't
24:42
Speaker 1: sound very chic though. And you've got one. So I mean,
24:45
Speaker 1: I totally agree with the fact that it's all about
24:47
Speaker 1: being assured and wanting that as a personal decision, because
24:52
Speaker 1: I can see the chicness involved with one and done
24:54
Speaker 1: because people say, you know, one child is an accessory
24:58
Speaker 1: rather than a lifestyle. But in saying that, when you
25:01
Speaker 1: pick three, you're picking the lifestyle and that's what you
25:04
Speaker 1: really like. Like you want three kids to be your lifestyle.
25:07
Speaker 1: You love children. So I think that makes a lot
25:09
Speaker 1: of sense. It was funny because there was a general
25:11
Speaker 1: consensus in the comments that two daughters, very chic, two boys,
25:16
Speaker 1: not chic. That is bang on, bang on because two boys,
25:22
Speaker 1: they're wrestling, they're fighting, they're squabbling. Two girls will sit
25:26
Speaker 1: and color in They'll be quiet. I feel like a
25:29
Speaker 1: girl and a boy is quite chic though because you've
25:31
Speaker 1: got that perfect pair. See, I think that's more chic. Yeah,
25:34
Speaker 1: I think that that is the chicest of chic. I
25:36
Speaker 1: saw some people going, one boy, not chic. And I
25:38
Speaker 1: was like, fuck off. Like have you seen what you
25:42
Speaker 1: can dress a boy up in? Have you seen how
25:45
Speaker 1: much a boy loves their mother, loves cuddling? I tend
25:49
Speaker 1: to see where they're coming from. I was saying before
25:51
Speaker 1: about when you're out on a walk and you see
25:53
Speaker 1: like a 10-year-old boy just with their parents and you
25:55
Speaker 1: kind of, their heart bleeds for them. They look really lonely. See,
25:58
Speaker 1: I think if I had one girl, I would have thought, no,
26:01
Speaker 1: I have to have a sister for them. Growing up
26:02
Speaker 1: with sisters, I think girls are more likely also to
26:06
Speaker 1: be angry at you later in life for not providing
26:08
Speaker 1: them with a sibling where it's always like, oh, whatever.
26:11
Speaker 1: I totally know what you're talking about, Amy. And this
26:12
Speaker 1: was really cemented to me one night when we were
26:14
Speaker 1: chatting to some of Dale's friends at your house. And
26:17
Speaker 1: I think there was a question that a couple had
26:19
Speaker 1: broken up and we said, oh, did you ask him
26:22
Speaker 1: about what happened or how he feels? And Dale's friend said, No,
26:26
Speaker 1: because he'll open up to me if he wants to
26:28
Speaker 1: talk about it. And just how black and white it was, like, again,
26:31
Speaker 1: obviously not all men are the same. I don't think
26:33
Speaker 1: that's necessarily a good thing, though. But I think that
26:35
Speaker 1: men are more black and white. They're like, oh, I'm
26:36
Speaker 1: sure there was a reason my parents didn't want to
26:38
Speaker 1: have more. Whereas a girl would be in therapy over
26:40
Speaker 1: and being like, my mother hates me. She's a bitch. Like,
26:43
Speaker 1: why didn't she have a sibling for me? See, I think.
26:46
Speaker 1: that simplifies men and women a little bit too much.
26:48
Speaker 1: I think that they have been forced to be black
26:51
Speaker 1: and white about it. I think that like when Harry
26:55
Speaker 1: grows up, if he doesn't have a sibling, he'll be
26:56
Speaker 1: cool about it. He'll be like, I've got Luca and Jack.
26:59
Speaker 1: Let's get into our recommendations. And I have one for
27:01
Speaker 1: the toddler moms. So It is Anko Silky Crayons. And
27:06
Speaker 1: I've become very particular about crayons because my son loves
27:09
Speaker 1: to color in. And these crayons are so good because
27:11
Speaker 1: you don't actually have to push down hard on them.
27:13
Speaker 1: They actually get very pigmented with just when you're toddling,
27:16
Speaker 1: because people will know. We went and got another packet
27:18
Speaker 1: of Crayola ones and I love Crayola stuff. Very disappointing
27:22
Speaker 1: on the crayon front. You have to push very hard.
27:24
Speaker 1: Kids don't like them. I'm really looking forward to Harry
27:27
Speaker 1: getting into coloring because I feel like then I will
27:29
Speaker 1: get to like, I feel like the other day when
27:31
Speaker 1: we were opening Luca's presents for his birthday, I said
27:34
Speaker 1: to Sophie, are you kind of excited because now you
27:35
Speaker 1: feel like you've got new toys to play with? I
27:37
Speaker 1: love it when I've got a new book to read. Yeah,
27:39
Speaker 1: like I've got puzzles the other day from Audi, some
27:42
Speaker 1: bluey ones. I made them all this morning in record time.
27:45
Speaker 1: Sometimes you like time yourself. You're like, can I get
27:47
Speaker 1: this done.
27:47
Speaker 3: In a minute?
27:48
Speaker 1: I was like, shut up, Harry. I'm trying to– No,
27:50
Speaker 1: you can't have a goat. Well, that's the thing with
27:52
Speaker 1: the colouring books. I was excited. But what happens is
27:54
Speaker 1: you start colouring and then they turn the page or
27:57
Speaker 1: they ruin your colouring. So I almost feel like I
27:59
Speaker 1: need to get my own and he has his own. Kate,
28:01
Speaker 1: you had an Anko recommendation. I also have one. It's
28:04
Speaker 1: for the faux fur flip out. chocolate and go toddler
28:07
Speaker 1: so you sent me a snapchat of harry in the
28:10
Speaker 1: chair and i was like oh my god you got
28:11
Speaker 1: the viral chair and you're like is it viral it
28:13
Speaker 1: seems like everything in the kmart homeware section is viral
28:16
Speaker 1: well i could kind of tell that this had gone
28:19
Speaker 1: viral because there was only one of the chocolate chairs
28:21
Speaker 1: left and i was like fuck i'm grabbing that well
28:24
Speaker 1: no one's buying their toddler a white chair are they
28:26
Speaker 1: i was actually i would yeah that's me that's what
28:28
Speaker 1: i thought i was gonna ring sophie but i had
28:30
Speaker 1: too much stuff in my hands to carry two of
28:31
Speaker 1: them i was gonna say hey babe Do you want
28:33
Speaker 1: the cream one? Because as we've joked, everything is either
28:35
Speaker 1: cream or beige in Sophie's house to the detriment of
28:39
Speaker 1: kids crushing things into it. There was a moment at
28:42
Speaker 1: the party where I was like, oh, God, Sophie's stuff's
28:43
Speaker 1: being ruined. And then I was like, it might teach
28:45
Speaker 1: her that white wasn't the best color. Oh, that is
28:48
Speaker 1: actually so nasty. I was just going to say quickly.
28:50
Speaker 1: You literally let your son walk on my couch in
28:53
Speaker 1: his Crocs. Just before another fight breaks out because my
28:55
Speaker 1: son is actually asleep next door and I'm concerned he's
28:57
Speaker 1: going to wake up. But I just want to get
28:59
Speaker 1: back to these chairs because Sometimes when you buy something
29:02
Speaker 1: that is trending on TikTok, you get it home and
29:05
Speaker 1: your child is not interested in it whatsoever. This was
29:07
Speaker 1: the complete opposite. I put it out. Harry raced over.
29:10
Speaker 1: He's been sitting down. He's been having his snacks in
29:12
Speaker 1: the chair. He likes to sit down and have a
29:14
Speaker 1: cuddle in the chair, reads a book. Also, my cat
29:18
Speaker 1: Gigi loves it when Harry's in bed. She is in
29:21
Speaker 1: that chair immediately. I have a similar chair. It's not
29:25
Speaker 1: as aesthetically pleasing. It's a bluey one. Well, no, Paw Patrol. See,
29:28
Speaker 1: that was my fear that someone was going to buy
29:30
Speaker 1: one of those for Harry. I was like, I just
29:33
Speaker 1: hate with that like Spider-Man bluey. It was a gift,
29:36
Speaker 1: but I mean, I like it because we used to
29:38
Speaker 1: have it in the playpen. and it was where I
29:40
Speaker 1: would sit and it was so comfy. Like I need
29:43
Speaker 1: to invest in one. I'll get the, I mean, there's
29:45
Speaker 1: probably heaps of the white ones left that I can
29:47
Speaker 1: pick up then if they're not as popular. It's a
29:49
Speaker 1: scary moment when your child actually has a say and
29:51
Speaker 1: they don't want the aesthetic things anymore. That's going to
29:53
Speaker 1: be a scary day. Now I'm doing a D recommendation
29:57
Speaker 1: if I'm allowed. Yeah. So, I mean, it sounds like
29:59
Speaker 1: we're sponsored by ANCO at this point. Well, if you're not,
30:02
Speaker 1: if you're de-influencing about it. I don't actually think it's Anko,
30:05
Speaker 1: but it's just a shit brand. So we bought some
30:07
Speaker 1: child locks from Bunnings, the ones that are the magnetic ones,
30:11
Speaker 1: because we didn't want, no offence to you, Amy, I
30:12
Speaker 1: know you've got those plastic ones, but we wanted them
30:14
Speaker 1: not to be visible because we did up our kitchen
30:16
Speaker 1: last year. And so no offence to you, Amy, we
30:17
Speaker 1: saw how ugly the child locks were on your cupboard,
30:21
Speaker 1: so we decided we were getting something completely different. So
30:23
Speaker 1: we've got the magnet ones and I really like them.
30:25
Speaker 1: Is it a different brand? I don't know what brand
30:28
Speaker 1: it is, but it was actually really my fault. So
30:29
Speaker 1: it's probably not actually the brand's fault, but basically I
30:32
Speaker 1: was panicking because The other night because. After dropping icing
30:35
Speaker 1: on the ground? No, this was another incident. So unbeknownst
30:38
Speaker 1: to me, I accidentally put the magnet which unlocks all
30:43
Speaker 1: of the drawers, accidentally locked it into one of the drawers.
30:46
Speaker 1: This seems user error rather than the company's fault. But
30:48
Speaker 1: isn't this just something you would do though? So I
30:51
Speaker 1: was on the phone to you, Amy, and I said,
30:53
Speaker 1: oh my God, I can't find this fucking thing. I
30:55
Speaker 1: know it's somewhere stupid. I'm not getting into this. You
30:58
Speaker 1: were so fixated on it. I was like. It would
31:00
Speaker 1: turn up like– I'm sorry, there's something I can do
31:01
Speaker 1: via the phone. I've got to text about it as well.
31:03
Speaker 1: We had a rule, have a rule that Brandon initiated,
31:06
Speaker 1: this rule that any time you've finished using the magnet,
31:09
Speaker 1: which is blue, you need to put it up on
31:11
Speaker 1: the windowsill. Oh, see, ours actually came with a little
31:14
Speaker 1: magnetic thing that you put on the wall. Okay, so
31:17
Speaker 1: it is– So we put ours there and then we
31:18
Speaker 1: put the second one because we got like a few
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Speaker 1: different unlockers on the fridge. They only give you one.
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Speaker 1: They give you one. They're setting you up for it.
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Speaker 1: I'll have to tell you the brand that we got
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Speaker 1: because I lost one once and it was actually stuck
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Speaker 1: to a pan. Yeah, that's the thing. They stick to
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Speaker 1: fucking everything. So Brandon rang up his dad because his
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Speaker 1: sister lives down the road and he's like, Dad, could
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Speaker 1: you drop– they were at their house for dinner. He's like,
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Speaker 1: could you drop one of her magnets down to unlock it?
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Speaker 1: This magnet didn't even unlock it. It's some powerful shit.
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Speaker 1: You need some sort of powerful magnet that unleashes it.
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Speaker 1: I can't think it was– Unlocks it. Unlocks it. I
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Speaker 1: can't remember what it's called. Anyway. Well, I've got heaps
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Speaker 1: of them at my house. Yeah. But anyway, so what
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Speaker 1: we ended up doing was we ended up having to
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Speaker 1: rip the drawers open. And now half of them are locked,
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Speaker 1: half of them are unlocked. You should have asked mum
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Speaker 1: because when we first fitted ours in, when she would
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Speaker 1: babysit Jack, we'd come home and most of them had
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Speaker 1: broken because she didn't know that they were on and
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Speaker 1: she's like forced it open. There's nothing more frustrating though
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Speaker 1: when you're just trying to get a spoon out and
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Speaker 1: you're like, this fucking locks. I feel like you would
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Speaker 1: have been really cool, calm and collected about it. Oh,
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Speaker 1: I was. Well, on that note. That is where we're
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Speaker 1: going to leave things today. But if you do enjoy
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Speaker 1: traditional land of the Kaurna people of the Adelaide Plains.
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