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Emeka Ike is a Sociopath & a Drug Addict - Suzanne Emma, Emeka's Ex-Wife Speaks · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to another episode of Banter
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  Laurencia. How are you all doing?
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  I hope you're doing great. Now for today's episode I want
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  to talk about the latest update on Mecca's marital issues.
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  Now we all have been saying that we want the ex-wife to talk and
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  boy, she has spoken up. She granted an interview with
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  today, you know, and it has been explosive.
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  Just few hours ago the interview was released and I think I I
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  don't even know how to feel and the first thing I came to my
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  mind was those who live in Glass House should not throw stones
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  and make it OK. This is just you're just trying
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  to rise up from the ashes and you used your ex-wife.
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  This has come back to bite you and I just, I don't even know
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  how to react to this because this one made so many
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  allegations that I there's no way you would want to doubt what
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  she's saying. This is her experience.
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  This is her lived experience. Whether she's exaggerating the
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  way America is exaggerating, we don't know.
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  But these two people are coming out to tell their own version of
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  the story and I feel I've been traumatised like listening to
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  what she has to say is so shocking and I think relatable
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  because in as much as we want to say oh you know this is
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  something that couldn't happen or Oh my
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  We all know that woman that has been an abusive relationship or
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  abusive marriage and she, she, some of them couldn't get out of
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  it. The fact that Susan was able to
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  get out of that marriage and still maintain her silence, I
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  mean, this woman has been silent for over 10 years now.
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  I think I'm just rambling up. Let me just give you a
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  background for those of you who are watching me for the first
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  time or for those of you who are just coming across this story
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  for the first time. We're talking about Nollywood
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  actor Emeka Ike. MK went out of circulation for
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  over 10 years, over 13 years basically.
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  And he recently came back into the screen via toy Aimakhu or
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  Toya Abraham And then he went for media rounds and people
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  started asking him because for over 13 years he had issues with
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  his wife. They were divorced.
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  There was a messy divorce, kids were involved.
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  He had thought they had four kids and and making key
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  relocated to Germany where he remarried, had two other
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  children with this woman. But his ex-wife and children
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  were are in Nigeria. Mikey basically shuttles between
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  Germany and Nigeria. Now MK started talking about the
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  issues regard. I mean, to give him credit, they
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  actually asked him what happened and he literally talked about
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  that. He said the ex-wife took
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  everything he had, the ex-wife did this, the ex-wife did that.
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  So people were thinking, how powerful could this woman be?
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  Like if your ex-wife took every document you had, took every
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  month, rendered you penniless, Like what?
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  What was that? Like How is she connected to the
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  governor? Is she connected to this like
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  people who are now thinking she must be powerful or she must
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  come from a powerful home? Now everybody was not thinking,
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  OK we need this woman to talk. We we need to hear from her.
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  A friend of hers actually released a voice note which she
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  sent to just lover, basically. And I talked about that in my
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  former video link. The I'll leave the link in the
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  description box so that you can catch up on that.
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  But a Mexican during his media rounds again went to TVC and
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  said, you know, still talked about the same issue, talked
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  about how women are believed in terms of the mixing violence
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  because according to the wife he physically assaulted her.
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  So people were thinking OK, he denied everything said that she
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  she was she was lying basically. So the women said what's they're
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  going to invite her to come to the show and tell her side of
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  the story And he was like, oh she was she's never going to
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  come to your show because if she comes and talks anything he is
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  going to release everything. He's going to talk like he was.
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  He he could see, yeah, like a demon possessing him.
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  And he was spitting all those things out.
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  People were thinking, thinking, why are you still granting
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  interviews? You've been divorced for how
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  many years? You've been separated for over
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  10 years. Divorced for, I think, I, I
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  don't know how long you've been divorced.
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  What is the issue? You are back in the media.
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  Why don't you just leave that issue and say, well, that's my
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  past, I'm moving on. I'm moving out.
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  Like, just leave it alone. When this whole thing was going
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  on, the ex-wife, Susan reached out to Trudy, who is a
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  podcaster, YouTuber. Trudi today is very successful
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  in, you know, interviewing people.
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  So she reached out to him and said she wanted to tell her own
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  side of the story. And boy, I don't even know how
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  to feel. I don't even you know how you
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  listen to somebody and it's familiar, like you know that
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  person, you've heard that person.
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  You know somebody, a family friend or you know, somebody who
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  have been in that situation. Listen, it was so familiar.
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  Like I was like, wow, there's no way this woman will sit down
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  here and cook up all these stories.
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  She said all these things and make his case, saying his life,
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  the reasons why they couldn't do, even with the school, they
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  couldn't complete the school, they couldn't do what they were
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  supposed to do, was because America is on drugs.
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  He think he takes meth, she said she she didn't know about the
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  meth addiction. It was the children that
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  actually told her that they found his paraphernalia gas and
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  that was when she realised that ohh, that is where all the money
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  was going. That is where all like the
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  school part of it she Amika is claiming 400 and something
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  million. She said that was not the figure
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  he claimed maybe 10 years ago. He claimed about 100 and
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  something million ten years ago. She said that money they spent
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  for the school because they rented like a long term lease to
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  an uncompleted building which they were supposed to complete
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  and then move into the place they they didn't spend up to.
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  She said maximum 20 to 30 million was all was spent on
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  that and they were still owing money because yeah, so she said
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  monies as well and he made her not to work.
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  She said she met him. Like, I'm just jumping this
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  whole story because it's it, it it it's like it got to me, he
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  got me, you know, She said the missing when she was 18 years
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  old, she just finished secondary school.
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  She was modelling and she met this guy because she wanted to
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  get into the movie industry and making Kidman was already being
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  in the industry, so she wanted to get into the industry through
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  him. At some point they started
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  dating and he told her not to work, not to.
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  Like why would she get into the industry that will be writing
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  about him, They will be writing about her that the relationship
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  will not work. And he told her that he wanted
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  to marry her. So they should just focus on
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  their relationship and forget about her acting.
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  And at that point she actually wanted to.
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  Somebody in an agency approached her, cause was into modelling,
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  an agency approached her and told her they wanted to sponsor
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  her for Miss Nigeria. That was 1999 and making kicked
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  against it, he said. No, that's what if she doesn't
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  win. This guy literally groomed this
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  woman from 18 years, she said when they got married, was when
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  she was about 24 and pregnant with their second child.
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  You know how you just come out of secondary school?
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  You're not even racing jam, you're just modelling, maybe
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  waiting for the next jam cycle. And then you meet this
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  successful actor and you're thinking, OK, I want to get into
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  the movie industry. This person can help me only for
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  that person to get you pregnant. They're pregnant, keep you at
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  home, she said. Even the marriage that it was
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  even the sisters, his sister's husband that stood in for him
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  because he was on location acting movies, they did not even
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  bring anything for bride price. She said the family literally
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  catered for everything. The back prize was not paid, but
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  they did the traditional stuff. He was not even the one, like
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  she's not been married to this guy because the dream was
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  actually given to his sister's husband.
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  The way people take spiritual things for Ajoka, I don't.
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  I don't understand. I don't understand.
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  But that that was the situation Now I make.
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  She said he was very abusive. He I you need to just sit down
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  and watch the interview with today check it out on YouTube.
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  You will be shocked. I am.
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  I am shocked. Like I cannot believe that yes,
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  we know that people go through these things.
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  We've seen people go through these things.
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  We know people who have gone through these things.
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  But the fact that America is coming out, calling out his
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  wife, bashing her with his foot chest, after everything he has
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  done to this lady, it's unbelievable, it's shocking.
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  And the families, from what she said, the families were
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  supporting him. They stood by him.
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  Even the mother was fighting her own mother.
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  You will see that this whole thing is just dysfunctional.
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  Why? She was 18 years old.
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  She he was her first boyfriend. He was her first everything.
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  She Ohh and making key do you need song that kept ringing in
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  my head is those who live in Glass House don't trust stones,
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  but if they do they create a storm they can control.
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  So what nest after the storm We don't know what's going to
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  happen because and Makiki has threatened that he is going to
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  come back and provide evidence if the wife ever grants an
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  interview. Hmm.
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  Grab your popcorn guys. Because they're making is crazy
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  and for the fact that, listen, you know, I keep my first video
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  was saying that and my video was fighting everybody.
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  There was a problem that we did not know about.
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  He was fighting AG. He was fighting like he was high
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  on something. Everything here was high on meth
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  U according to the wife. This is this is sad.
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  I I pity her like that is our experience.
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  Like we cannot take away from people experiences.
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  Even if I'm making here comes out now and says his own thing.
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  I just think these two people were not meant for each other.
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  They were not because OK could have gone through his own
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  challenges because according to her she called him.
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  There was a word, you know this kind of people that would tell
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  you something and you would just go crazy.
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  I'm not saying that was what happened in that situation
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  because there is no reason for you to put your hands on
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  anybody. But according to her he says
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  things to her that she will almost she she wanted to commit
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  suicide. She like she attempted suicide 3
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  * 3 times and then make you get who said he attempted suicide.
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  So you could see that this just two people were never meant to
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  get married. But because Mikey was young, he
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  saw this half cast beautiful model.
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  He wanted to have her to himself, which he did.
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  But was he ready for marriage? Was he prepared for the
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  responsibility? Was he matured enough to to
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  understand what being a husband is?
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  I don't think even she herself, she she was 18 years old.
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  I don't think she was prepared to be a wife.
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  I think she, according to her, the family were accusing her
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  that ohh, you saw a celebrity, you wanted to be with a
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  celebrity. I think she.
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  I don't even know what to think because when I was 19 years old
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  when I was 18 years old, I know marriage was never part of I I
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  can't just imagine marrying my first boyfriend like this
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  Disaster would have really joke. What is your story would have
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  been a joke because I don't think people marrying their
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  first boyfriends. I don't think it turns out nice
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  because regardless of how long they've been, we are talking
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  about May the chair and we know how that turned out to be.
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  So it's not about, it's about understanding yourself, knowing
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  yourself. He, I don't know.
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  I think this whole thing is still unfolding.
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  I will keep bringing you updates because I'm very emotionally,
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  physically invested in this, in this story, and I will keep
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  bringing you updates as the whole thing unfolds.
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  We are waiting for making care right now to come out and tell
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  his own side of the story. He's he has threatened to bring
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  out evidence if the wife ever says anything.
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  Please go watch that interview with today and just think.
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  Have an open mind, have an open mind.
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  I think I'm emotionally biassed in this situation because I
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  could see people I know in her For Have an open mind and make
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  your own judgement for yourself. Thank you very much for watching
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  today's episode. Please like, like, like and
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  share. Thank you very much.
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  Bye, bye.