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- 0:00Speaker 1: I am all in again. Oh that's you. You'll more
- 0:18Speaker 1: Girls Gazette with Amy Sugarman and Danielle Romo, an iHeart
- 0:22Speaker 1: Radio podcast. We are back to recap. I thought you're
- 0:29Speaker 1: gonna take it. I thought you're just gonna go. Oh,
- 0:33Speaker 1: take a deep breath. You know I should, because I
- 0:36Speaker 1: got some choice to words to say to mister Adam Braverman.
- 0:38Speaker 2: Oh okay, chic, I have so much to say about
- 0:45Speaker 2: the storyline I hate and the storyline I love. But first,
- 0:49Speaker 2: what I was going to say is, if you're listening
- 0:51Speaker 2: and you feel like you're running around. You don't have
- 0:53Speaker 2: a spot of makeup on, you haven't eaten, you don't
- 0:56Speaker 2: have time to go to the bathroom.
- 0:58Speaker 1: You are the two of us. Yeah, okay, we get it.
- 1:02Speaker 2: You're shoving a piece of toast or a handful of
- 1:05Speaker 2: nuts in your mouth, you haven't brushed your hair.
- 1:07Speaker 1: That's us, We get us. Now, we're just like you
- 1:11Speaker 1: have one.
- 1:12Speaker 2: Shoulder, one shoulders attached to your ear, the other ones
- 1:15Speaker 2: like doesn't work. It's fine, we get it. Okay. There's
- 1:19Speaker 2: one storyline that I actually.
- 1:21Speaker 1: Let miss an off side hold on before we jump in.
- 1:23Speaker 2: And I interrupted you.
- 1:24Speaker 1: Whatever you were saying no, no, no, You're okay. Just
- 1:26Speaker 1: mister Adam Riverman. We got some we got some words.
- 1:29Speaker 1: Season three, Episode nine, Sore Loser air dat November fifteen,
- 1:32Speaker 1: twenty eleven. Julia and Joel learn a not so great
- 1:36Speaker 1: trait about their daughter Sidney. Great storyline, that's a storyline, right,
- 1:40Speaker 1: great one. When it comes to playing games, Adam gets
- 1:43Speaker 1: in awkward hot water with Rachel. Terrible, terrible, terrible storyline,
- 1:47Speaker 1: and it keeps him from Christina. Meanwhile, Christina goes into
- 1:50Speaker 1: full Mama bear mone when it comes to Max getting bullied,
- 1:53Speaker 1: and Sarah learns a lesson joy Mark when it comes
- 1:56Speaker 1: to disciplining teenagers.
- 1:58Speaker 2: Also enjoyable three one huge, massive loss.
- 2:02Speaker 1: Should we start with the worst first or the worst last?
- 2:06Speaker 1: I'm fired up about the word start the worst first
- 2:08Speaker 1: of all.
- 2:10Speaker 2: I know you blame Adam Braverman. I blame the writers.
- 2:13Speaker 2: It's very tropy for me, my favorite word trope.
- 2:17Speaker 1: It's so not Adam Braverman. Correct, and it's also not him.
- 2:21Speaker 1: Alexandra di Dario, that's my bigger beef. She's it's so tropy.
- 2:28Speaker 1: The pretty girl with the.
- 2:30Speaker 2: JOm falls in love with the marry boss and it's
- 2:34Speaker 2: just like, stop it. She's so smart. So, yes, she's pretty.
- 2:39Speaker 2: She is right, Crosby gets it. Crosby's like, we're not
- 2:42Speaker 2: gonna like not hire her because she's pretty. She readd
- 2:45Speaker 2: the whole billing system. Like she's smart, she's good at
- 2:48Speaker 2: the job.
- 2:48Speaker 1: Yeah. Yes, it's just so grossy gross for me.
- 2:52Speaker 2: The guy that comes in the like music guy and
- 2:55Speaker 2: he's like, oh, I might get thirsty again, and I'm
- 2:58Speaker 2: just like.
- 3:00Speaker 1: Round and like, I get it.
- 3:02Speaker 2: Maybe we're triggered because we've all had the crush on
- 3:05Speaker 2: the boss guy.
- 3:07Speaker 1: This is what I have.
- 3:09Speaker 3: I don't know.
- 3:09Speaker 2: I guess I have, but I'm not smart. Lucky you
- 3:13Speaker 2: learn from my mistakes, because here's what I also want
- 3:15Speaker 2: to tell everybody. Office goggles. So do you know what
- 3:20Speaker 2: beer goggles are? Back in the day, they used to be.
- 3:24Speaker 1: Like, oh, somebody think someone's cute. Okay, I happen to
- 3:27Speaker 1: marry a coworker, but you didn't have office goggles. No,
- 3:31Speaker 1: But I will say, at my old job, we had
- 3:33Speaker 1: this thing called what's his rating at work? And what's
- 3:37Speaker 1: his rating in the real kid? That's office goggles exactly,
- 3:41Speaker 1: so like you would rate them a ten out of
- 3:43Speaker 1: ten at work, but like in real life, there's six
- 3:45Speaker 1: out of ten.
- 3:47Speaker 2: And this is back in the day when you'd like
- 3:48Speaker 2: work in an office, right, I get it, Like I'm
- 3:50Speaker 2: in my garage. Like no one works in an office
- 3:52Speaker 2: as much anymore, but this was back in the day
- 3:54Speaker 2: when you're like nine to five, I'm out the office.
- 3:57Speaker 1: Whatever do you imagine like not getting a crush on
- 3:59Speaker 1: some via zoom Oh, like, oh no, there's my crush.
- 4:04Speaker 1: Oh I like it.
- 4:05Speaker 2: That's so weird. I've never thought of it.
- 4:12Speaker 1: You're all, I gotta get gussied up for the zoom. No.
- 4:17Speaker 2: So I can remember like being young, like eighteen, right,
- 4:21Speaker 2: starting a job because I or nineteen when I worked
- 4:24Speaker 2: in college at an office and.
- 4:26Speaker 1: Being like, oh, that guy's so cute right.
- 4:30Speaker 2: Out of the office.
- 4:31Speaker 1: You'd be embarrassed.
- 4:32Speaker 2: You'd be like, right, no, no, And also yes, I
- 4:36Speaker 2: get it, you're like, oh the boss, he's like the boss.
- 4:42Speaker 1: Ladies.
- 4:42Speaker 2: Ladies, if you're listening to us and you're younger than us.
- 4:46Speaker 1: Which is easy to be, don't do it. Don't do it.
- 4:57Speaker 2: Do yourself a favor and take a photo of the
- 5:00Speaker 2: person and take it home to your friends. Go, is
- 5:05Speaker 2: this guy cute and they're gonna go, oh my god,
- 5:10Speaker 2: that was good, and it's not cute.
- 5:12Speaker 1: I'm not being physical about it. I'm giving.
- 5:14Speaker 2: I'm saying cute about the whole thing. When you go
- 5:16Speaker 2: into the office, you're like, that guy's so cool. Then
- 5:20Speaker 2: think about taking him to.
- 5:22Speaker 1: Like your college football game, and you're like.
- 5:25Speaker 2: I would never right right right, no, just don't do it.
- 5:32Speaker 1: Don't do it, or do it because I did it?
- 5:34Speaker 2: An it worre Oh no, you married someone that was
- 5:38Speaker 2: like the same, You weren't like googlely eyed for the
- 5:42Speaker 2: boss guys, you.
- 5:45Speaker 1: Stop it?
- 5:46Speaker 2: Can I say it from experience, I'm not holier than
- 5:50Speaker 2: now being like, ladies, don't do it because I'm so perfect. No,
- 5:56Speaker 2: guess what I was Alexandra de Dario And now I
- 5:59Speaker 2: look back and I'm like, I taste barf.
- 6:01Speaker 1: In my mouth.
- 6:02Speaker 2: I'm all right, right do that And sometimes I can
- 6:05Speaker 2: block it, and sometimes it just comes back in and
- 6:08Speaker 2: you're like, oh god.
- 6:11Speaker 1: I will just say though, like this is so textbook right.
- 6:16Speaker 1: It's like the hot girl, the young girl showing off
- 6:19Speaker 1: her boobs, showing off for booty, like wearing scandalous clothes.
- 6:24Speaker 1: The two guys that she works with can't pay attention
- 6:27Speaker 1: to work because they're just so. That's what her ropy like.
- 6:31Speaker 2: I know, here's my thing. The writers of the show
- 6:34Speaker 2: are great, They're amazing this one.
- 6:36Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, and you know what I don't like,
- 6:39Speaker 1: Like I would have almost I don't like it anyway,
- 6:45Speaker 1: but I would have preferred Crosby. But if it had
- 6:54Speaker 1: to be Adam, like in a different I didn't like it,
- 6:57Speaker 1: and in any circumstance, but like the way that it
- 7:00Speaker 1: happened made me put more barf in my mouth, like,
- 7:02Speaker 1: but here's my rainy. Oh, let me put my jacket
- 7:07Speaker 1: over you. You can't walk to your apartment that you
- 7:09Speaker 1: walked through every single day, multiple times a day. Take
- 7:13Speaker 1: you up. This place is is such a bad area.
- 7:17Speaker 1: I gotta take you up.
- 7:19Speaker 2: That's so annoying. And look, he didn't do the wrong thing.
- 7:23Speaker 2: I'm not here to judge Adam Braverman because he didn't
- 7:25Speaker 2: kiss her.
- 7:25Speaker 1: He lingered way too long.
- 7:27Speaker 2: I didn't. I didn't find it a linger.
- 7:28Speaker 1: Oh oh oh oh, oh, okay. You'd be like, okay,
- 7:33Speaker 1: here's my jacket, give it back to me to borrow
- 7:36Speaker 1: lingering at the door.
- 7:37Speaker 2: I didn't feel he lingered on the kiss. No, he
- 7:40Speaker 2: lingered at the door, but I'm mostly just mad at
- 7:42Speaker 2: the riders, Like, don't do my girl Alexander d Dario dirty?
- 7:46Speaker 1: Do her right?
- 7:47Speaker 2: Did you see her in in the One with the Rock?
- 7:50Speaker 1: She was saved the lives the One with the Rock.
- 7:53Speaker 1: San Andrea's fault. Yes, it's just he save the lives.
- 7:58Speaker 1: She was the baller.
- 7:59Speaker 2: And here's my thing.
- 8:00Speaker 1: I like the way they wrote that guy, not the rock.
- 8:03Speaker 2: Obviously, the Rock is amazing and he's saving people with
- 8:06Speaker 2: one arm in a helicopter, but he's like they're the
- 8:10Speaker 2: first of all.
- 8:11Speaker 1: San Andreas is like the best movie ever.
- 8:14Speaker 2: Good buildings are falling, like hundred story buildings are following,
- 8:18Speaker 2: and the rock literally saves the lady from Hulk.
- 8:23Speaker 1: He's just a real hulk, one arm, wall flying a helicopter.
- 8:26Speaker 1: Like he's just like I got you. We're so awesome.
- 8:30Speaker 2: But Alexandra Dadario is a badass in that movie the
- 8:33Speaker 2: and the cute guy that likes her is fully respects
- 8:38Speaker 2: that he she knows what to do and that she
- 8:41Speaker 2: is like saving their lives and they saved her lives.
- 8:45Speaker 1: This is written tropy for me. Yeah, they're all drunk,
- 8:49Speaker 1: get them moans, and.
- 8:52Speaker 2: Now she's gonna crushy on the married boss and guy
- 8:56Speaker 2: who's kind of a nerd.
- 8:57Speaker 1: Like no, I know and so like I hate also
- 9:02Speaker 1: that Christina is so just mom like she's got like
- 9:05Speaker 1: no other layer to her right now, nice call out.
- 9:08Speaker 1: It's just she's like only taking care of the kid
- 9:10Speaker 1: and bab like she's got she's got nothing. No, and
- 9:15Speaker 1: I get it.
- 9:16Speaker 2: We have respect for it because might take a minute
- 9:18Speaker 2: to bounce back, but be a baller and be like, no,
- 9:23Speaker 2: you're not going to the office right now, or you're
- 9:25Speaker 2: staying here, you know what, you're.
- 9:26Speaker 1: Trying to change the day.
- 9:29Speaker 2: I'll go with you, all.
- 9:31Speaker 1: Right, Bring the baby, bring baby.
- 9:33Speaker 2: Here's the baby. You take the baby to the office, like,
- 9:37Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 9:38Speaker 1: You're your own boss, you can take this baby's office.
- 9:41Speaker 1: Take it.
- 9:42Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 9:44Speaker 1: I'm just not. The whole thing was just red to me.
- 9:47Speaker 1: And then he doesn't tell her and lies to her.
- 9:50Speaker 1: We talked about this last time. Ignorance, this bless, I disagree,
- 9:52Speaker 1: correct whatever. We can debate that, right, but.
- 9:58Speaker 2: Now we're gonna have to get rid of alix Xandrew
- 10:00Speaker 2: de Dario. She's not gonna be out to work there anymore.
- 10:03Speaker 2: I don't know how many more episodes she has, but
- 10:05Speaker 2: it's gonna be like, oh, it's still onkward now because I.
- 10:07Speaker 1: Tried to kiss the ball. It's just the worst, I know.
- 10:12Speaker 1: I just wonder if Crosby finds out.
- 10:14Speaker 2: I'm sure they all find out. I don't remember I
- 10:17Speaker 2: remembered this because they also were teeing it up. She's
- 10:21Speaker 2: not gonna fall for Crosby. She's falling for Adam Braver.
- 10:24Speaker 1: I know. It just it reads like daddy issues.
- 10:27Speaker 2: The whole thing.
- 10:28Speaker 1: I'm just like, it is kind of interesting though, because
- 10:31Speaker 1: Crosby screwed up, you know, correct, he's done. He has
- 10:35Speaker 1: no place to judge, and then now you know Adam
- 10:38Speaker 1: is screwing up their place of work. Although I don't
- 10:40Speaker 1: think Adams screwed up. Okay, yes he did. It takes
- 10:44Speaker 1: two to Tanco and it takes to tango baby.
- 10:47Speaker 2: I feel like he was just being chivalrous taking her
- 10:50Speaker 2: home or whatever.
- 10:51Speaker 1: Huh. He had the hots for her, dude, dude, he
- 10:53Speaker 1: had the hots for her. Don't even give him any.
- 10:55Speaker 2: Why not do this? Let me call you a car,
- 10:58Speaker 2: let me call you a caw. You don't need to
- 11:02Speaker 2: drive her get a car.
- 11:03Speaker 1: So after being like, I thought he was going to
- 11:05Speaker 1: get a DUI. I thought that's where it was. I
- 11:07Speaker 1: thought the same. But he only said he had one
- 11:09Speaker 1: drink or something. Remember why But no, Remember he says
- 11:12Speaker 1: to them, he's just I know, But I think he
- 11:13Speaker 1: was just saying that to say that, like I think he.
- 11:15Speaker 2: Actually had Like he was true. I don't think he's
- 11:17Speaker 2: a drunk driver. But at the same time, it's just
- 11:20Speaker 2: the whole thing. I hated the whole thing. What did
- 11:23Speaker 2: you think when he told her you don't have to
- 11:25Speaker 2: dress like that and she's like, I like to I
- 11:28Speaker 2: was like, good for you, dress how you want, girl.
- 11:30Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, I good for her, good for her.
- 11:33Speaker 1: I thought it was very cringey. If you didn't establish
- 11:36Speaker 1: a dress code day one, you're called cringy. It was cringey.
- 11:41Speaker 1: It was really cringey. Just yeah, cringey. She was good.
- 11:45Speaker 1: He was cringey. Yeah. Was this the one where she
- 11:48Speaker 1: was hovering over the desk? No, that was the last
- 11:52Speaker 1: one last week.
- 11:53Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 11:54Speaker 1: Just tropey, trope, tropey, trope, do better?
- 11:57Speaker 2: This is could this could have been a real cool
- 11:59Speaker 2: something could have happened here, But instead like I would
- 12:03Speaker 2: have loved if he went for her, and she's like,
- 12:05Speaker 2: absolutely not.
- 12:07Speaker 1: You lose her, right right.
- 12:10Speaker 2: Don't give me the old oh the hot girl that
- 12:15Speaker 2: everyone just thinks it's pretty.
- 12:16Speaker 1: And then you're like, then she kisses the bought this.
- 12:20Speaker 1: I know, I agree, I agree. Let's move on because
- 12:23Speaker 1: that's storyline actually piss me off.
- 12:25Speaker 2: I just was like, cringe dot com.
- 12:27Speaker 1: This is, yeah, the storyline I love the most. Which
- 12:33Speaker 1: one do you think it is? He's so obvious because
- 12:37Speaker 1: I love them, Oh, Sydney, You're not losing Joel and Julia.
- 12:43Speaker 1: This is this is not trophy.
- 12:45Speaker 2: Do you know what I'm saying? This was like our
- 12:48Speaker 2: kids being a brat. Zeke calls it out. Instead of
- 12:51Speaker 2: ignoring Zeke, we're agreeing with Zeke and Joel's like mm okay.
- 12:57Speaker 2: And then the whole thing where they give her the
- 13:00Speaker 2: time out. She's losing her mind in her room and
- 13:02Speaker 2: they're just sitting out there. They don't cave. They are
- 13:06Speaker 2: the best on the whole show. They are the best parents.
- 13:09Speaker 2: They are everything good. You want to know something funny.
- 13:12Speaker 1: I watched this last weekend or last week and this
- 13:16Speaker 1: past weekend I was at a friend's house and my
- 13:19Speaker 1: friend has two has twins and they're about like seven okay,
- 13:24Speaker 1: And the boy twin comes up to me and it's like, Danielle,
- 13:28Speaker 1: can you come play Checkers with me? And I was like, sure,
- 13:32Speaker 1: let's go play Checkers, okay. Random. I swear this is
- 13:35Speaker 1: a true story. I believe you. I believe he's all
- 13:39Speaker 1: setting up Checkers because he's really excited because he just
- 13:41Speaker 1: learned how to play and wanted to play with. Somebody said,
- 13:43Speaker 1: I'm playing Checkers and I'm just like seeing the moves
- 13:46Speaker 1: he's making and they're just terrible, terrible, terrible, And like
- 13:50Speaker 1: normally Danielle would just like, oh you got me, Oh
- 13:54Speaker 1: I got you. I just creamed him. I creamed the
- 14:00Speaker 1: heck out of him.
- 14:01Speaker 2: How did he react to losing?
- 14:03Speaker 1: And he looked at me and he was like a
- 14:06Speaker 1: good game. And I was like a good game, dude.
- 14:10Speaker 2: I know my niece can. She can play for real too,
- 14:13Speaker 2: and she wins and loses and she takes it like
- 14:16Speaker 2: a chance.
- 14:16Speaker 1: I was thinking about this exact scene because I just
- 14:19Speaker 1: watched it. I was like, you know what, Danielle, don't
- 14:22Speaker 1: just let him win?
- 14:24Speaker 2: Correct right now? Sometimes like, look do I hurl the
- 14:28Speaker 2: ball at my littlest niece.
- 14:30Speaker 1: No, I softly toss it. Right, I'm not right right
- 14:34Speaker 1: a line.
- 14:35Speaker 2: I'm not in the let him win, I'm not in
- 14:37Speaker 2: the everybody gets.
- 14:38Speaker 1: A trophy generation right, right? Terrible, terrible. So I really
- 14:53Speaker 1: liked this and I liked first of all, they were.
- 14:55Speaker 2: So funny because he's like, I can't do it anymore,
- 14:57Speaker 2: like he couldn't take it out there. And then when
- 14:59Speaker 2: they go in and she's face down and he's like,
- 15:01Speaker 2: we killed her, killed her, so good, we get another one.
- 15:08Speaker 1: It's so good because there's been also times like that
- 15:10Speaker 1: where you know, our son will have like a meltdown
- 15:13Speaker 1: and my husband and I look at each other, were like,
- 15:15Speaker 1: you made him, not me totally.
- 15:19Speaker 2: Like I don't know who this kid is. And this
- 15:21Speaker 2: is my thing is the writers, the same writers wrote
- 15:24Speaker 2: this brilliant storyline that is so perfectly done from top
- 15:29Speaker 2: to bottom, all the way through the chess game, even
- 15:33Speaker 2: with Jabbar sitting there looking at perfectly written. And then
- 15:36Speaker 2: we have this other storyline that I'm like, absolute fail, right,
- 15:41Speaker 2: I know, I agree good on Jason Ridder calling out
- 15:45Speaker 2: Lauren Graham liked it.
- 15:47Speaker 1: Oh yeah, what did you think about Drew getting a D.
- 15:50Speaker 2: First of all, Drew didn't get a D. That's my
- 15:52Speaker 2: Flagrew's not getting d's. He did, I understand, but they
- 15:56Speaker 2: wrote that wrong. He's not getting a D. They should
- 15:58Speaker 2: have written it as a c plug us at the worst.
- 16:01Speaker 2: Do you know what I'm saying, Drew's not getting a day.
- 16:03Speaker 2: It was just too dumb. Look, I think that Lauren
- 16:07Speaker 2: Graham probably was wrong, like she should have been like, hey,
- 16:11Speaker 2: what's going on. How can I help? Let's figure this out.
- 16:14Speaker 2: Look toughness on the kid. That's perfect, Come on, and
- 16:18Speaker 2: I'm just team Jason Ritter on that.
- 16:21Speaker 1: Rightly, right. I liked how she came around with the
- 16:23Speaker 1: ice cream though, Right, have you ever snuck out to
- 16:27Speaker 1: meet a boy?
- 16:29Speaker 2: I here's the thing, Here's why I didn't need to
- 16:31Speaker 2: because I just tell my parents, like I'm going out,
- 16:33Speaker 2: like even if it was late, like they just didn't.
- 16:36Speaker 2: They they were like, we need to know where you
- 16:38Speaker 2: are at all times. They weren't. They didn't like they
- 16:41Speaker 2: weren't strict because they had like rules, so they're like,
- 16:44Speaker 2: you can do what you want. I mean, first of all,
- 16:45Speaker 2: I'm not sneaking out at one am. But this was
- 16:48Speaker 2: like what ten pm. I would just be like, I'm
- 16:50Speaker 2: doing this so you know exactly where I am. I'll
- 16:52Speaker 2: be back in one hour and they'd be like really,
- 16:55Speaker 2: and if you're going to be one minute late, you
- 16:57Speaker 2: have to call, Like that was our rule, right, so
- 16:59Speaker 2: I was I didn't have to do. Look, I'm not
- 17:02Speaker 2: I don't believe in strict because I think it doesn't work.
- 17:05Speaker 1: Okay, well, what are you strict? Did you? I didn't
- 17:08Speaker 1: even try because your dad was so stru Yeah, I
- 17:12Speaker 1: did not even It was not even a thought that
- 17:15Speaker 1: entered my.
- 17:16Speaker 2: Brains, like fully alarmed, if you snuck out, the alarm
- 17:21Speaker 2: would go off.
- 17:22Speaker 1: I didn't have an alarm on my house growing up,
- 17:24Speaker 1: but my dad was an alarm. That's all I need.
- 17:26Speaker 2: So right, I mean, okay, fine, so maybe super strict
- 17:29Speaker 2: works and maybe not strict works.
- 17:31Speaker 1: It all works, It just it all depends us on
- 17:33Speaker 1: the GID too, right, totally. Yeah.
- 17:36Speaker 2: And also, you have to parent each kid differently. You
- 17:39Speaker 2: can't parent each kid the same, They're not the same.
- 17:42Speaker 1: Totally totally. I completely agree with that.
- 17:45Speaker 2: Right, she doesn't need to parent Drew how she parents Amber.
- 17:48Speaker 2: I know they're two different way people.
- 17:50Speaker 1: I love her for saying, just sneak out.
- 17:54Speaker 2: She was being a.
- 17:57Speaker 1: Nobody.
- 17:58Speaker 2: She looks good with the hair, with the show hair,
- 18:01Speaker 2: but she'd get a haircut every other day. I know
- 18:03Speaker 2: her hair is always different. They need to address that,
- 18:06Speaker 2: like at least have her in the hair salon one day.
- 18:08Speaker 1: They're just going, Okay, we're just gonna let her do it. Yeah, yeah,
- 18:12Speaker 1: what else do we need to talk about? Skipped something
- 18:15Speaker 1: Max Max getting bullied? That was written, Well, I don't
- 18:21Speaker 1: think I'm ever going to be prepared for that. That
- 18:24Speaker 1: Like if a kid bullies my kid or reverse.
- 18:28Speaker 2: I have a story that will make you just go
- 18:30Speaker 2: I can't okay, I won't name which of my nieces.
- 18:33Speaker 2: But there was like a book fair and she got
- 18:36Speaker 2: a bunch of books at the book fair or whatever,
- 18:38Speaker 2: and a kid took one of her books, like a
- 18:42Speaker 2: friend another kid, and the teacher saw it and it
- 18:46Speaker 2: was this whole thing and the kid had to write
- 18:48Speaker 2: a sorry note and the whole thing. And my niece
- 18:51Speaker 2: says to me, I guess she just really wanted that book.
- 18:54Speaker 2: She just really wanted that book.
- 18:56Speaker 1: That's so nice. That's so grown up of her. But
- 18:58Speaker 1: she didn't get bullied.
- 18:59Speaker 2: No, nobody got bullied. I'm just saying, like the fact
- 19:01Speaker 2: that my niece understood.
- 19:02Speaker 1: She just really I'm like, it's all fine, right, So,
- 19:06Speaker 1: and then there are bullies. No one of my nieces
- 19:08Speaker 1: gets bullied.
- 19:08Speaker 2: I don't know the first of all, the boys can
- 19:10Speaker 2: be lunatics, like they do everything like the talent show
- 19:13Speaker 2: my niece goes. I hope the boys don't make fun
- 19:16Speaker 2: of me, and I'm like, they're not going to, like
- 19:20Speaker 2: they worry about getting bullied or getting made fun of,
- 19:22Speaker 2: but at the same time, they still like, I don't know,
- 19:24Speaker 2: you navigate through it. I think it's much harder in
- 19:26Speaker 2: Max's case when he's unaware.
- 19:29Speaker 1: Right, He's unaware, and he also like can't really help it.
- 19:32Speaker 2: I actually think these days, I'm gonna vouch for kids
- 19:36Speaker 2: and that I think kids are extra understanding and kind
- 19:42Speaker 2: to a neurodivergent kid. I actually have more faith in
- 19:46Speaker 2: kids than those kids. I don't think the kids depicted there.
- 19:50Speaker 2: I don't think kids. I like to think they don't
- 19:52Speaker 2: do that. I think they'd be stoked that he's so
- 19:55Speaker 2: good at math.
- 19:56Speaker 1: I'm sure there are people listening right now and they're
- 19:58Speaker 1: screaming at their their phones or whatever. It still exists,
- 20:03Speaker 1: you know, like these there are still mean.
- 20:05Speaker 2: But I actually think the bullying happens to the kid
- 20:09Speaker 2: the more, the smarter kid or the popular kid or
- 20:13Speaker 2: the cute kid. I think bullying exists, but I if
- 20:16Speaker 2: they're bullying that the kid with special.
- 20:19Speaker 1: Needs, that's just the grossest gross. You know, that's so gross.
- 20:24Speaker 1: Any form of bullying is sucks. But I you know,
- 20:28Speaker 1: you know what I have to say, that does not
- 20:30Speaker 1: go away. Even as adults, we get bullied.
- 20:32Speaker 2: We were talking about this on another show, so I'm
- 20:34Speaker 2: gonna just like say it. I actually think one of
- 20:37Speaker 2: my biggest fears is being called a bully. I don't
- 20:41Speaker 2: want to be the bully, right, And we were talking
- 20:45Speaker 2: about this because it's like when you have to make
- 20:48Speaker 2: tough decisions or say no or be the boss, how
- 20:52Speaker 2: do you not be the bully but still say no? Anyway,
- 20:55Speaker 2: different topic, listen if you want to. But that's why
- 21:00Speaker 2: those boys were so gross, right, Like you're making fun
- 21:04Speaker 2: of a kid that can't help it, which I think
- 21:09Speaker 2: you said.
- 21:09Speaker 1: I think I'm just repeating your words, right, And you
- 21:12Speaker 1: know I did, like Christina like she recognized it, and
- 21:15Speaker 1: she was like Max, Okay, time to go home. Max.
- 21:18Speaker 1: I know, like she she saw it removed him.
- 21:21Speaker 2: And it's like he knows a little bit because when
- 21:23Speaker 2: he was eating that doughnut, he looks sad.
- 21:26Speaker 1: Right, And honestly, I think my if my kids one
- 21:32Speaker 1: day ever get bullied, Like, what I'm going to tell
- 21:35Speaker 1: them is the people that are bullying you have something
- 21:38Speaker 1: deeper going inside of them, Like there's and you know,
- 21:42Speaker 1: like have empathy for that. Like there's this kid, you know,
- 21:45Speaker 1: the guy that was bullying him. He was just pissed
- 21:48Speaker 1: he couldn't get the math question first. You know, he
- 21:50Speaker 1: was like totally totally, but how did he get it already?
- 21:53Speaker 1: You know, I heard you're.
- 21:54Speaker 2: Not supposed to say like that means they like you. You know,
- 21:57Speaker 2: when a boy boy is a girl, that's bad parenting.
- 22:01Speaker 2: Now you're not supposed to say that because you're teaching
- 22:03Speaker 2: being mean is like a sign of affection. Yeah, you
- 22:06Speaker 2: know about gentle parenting. I have heard all about it,
- 22:11Speaker 2: But are you a gentle parent?
- 22:13Speaker 1: You know, my husband and I have like kind of
- 22:16Speaker 1: we have similar parentings that as also different, Like I
- 22:20Speaker 1: am very much like all right, talk to me, dude,
- 22:23Speaker 1: what's going on? Talk to me? You know, like, why
- 22:25Speaker 1: did you do that? What you did was wrong, but
- 22:27Speaker 1: tell me why you did it. Let's talk about it.
- 22:30Speaker 1: My husband was like, you do not do that. Don't
- 22:32Speaker 1: do it again. Like so we're very different.
- 22:34Speaker 2: Which is so weird knowing your husband. He does not
- 22:37Speaker 2: see the type. Oh he's a strict one. I don't
- 22:40Speaker 2: raise my voice. I like really try to pride myself.
- 22:43Speaker 2: I mean, once in a little moon, I obviously lose
- 22:45Speaker 2: my shit. But sorry to say shit, but I said
- 22:47Speaker 2: it again. Shit, I don't. I really don't like raising
- 22:52Speaker 2: my voice. I don't do it with kids whatsoever.
- 22:56Speaker 1: Once in a while.
- 22:58Speaker 2: Someone, but I don't like that.
- 23:03Speaker 1: And I don't like people that yell right right. My
- 23:06Speaker 1: husband told me I'm the gentle parent of the two,
- 23:09Speaker 1: but like, I don't like. I look at what gentle
- 23:11Speaker 1: parenting is and it's like, oh, you're sad. Let's talk
- 23:16Speaker 1: about why you're sad. Like I don't do that. Like
- 23:18Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, dude, you're sad. Let's move on. Let's
- 23:21Speaker 1: keep going, you know. Like you know, I'm kind of
- 23:23Speaker 1: in like the middle of the two versus like, hey,
- 23:26Speaker 1: I understand that you don't want a popschool right now,
- 23:30Speaker 1: but we can't have a pop school after dinner. Like
- 23:33Speaker 1: I just like, hey, dude, you're not eating popsicle right now,
- 23:36Speaker 1: You're gonna have one after.
- 23:37Speaker 2: Dinner, you know, Like you're a bit more straightforward about it, right,
- 23:41Speaker 2: not babing.
- 23:43Speaker 1: I'm going to give you a thumbs up on that.
- 23:44Speaker 1: Thank you. I appreciate it.
- 23:45Speaker 2: I also think that kids need to be able to
- 23:47Speaker 2: be kids, like I know like that. My mom is
- 23:51Speaker 2: always like, you guys are making me crazy when they're like,
- 23:55Speaker 2: you know, just like doing kids stuff, and I always
- 23:58Speaker 2: look at our eyes.
- 23:59Speaker 1: Go just let them be kids.
- 24:01Speaker 2: Like kids make.
- 24:02Speaker 1: Messages, right right.
- 24:03Speaker 2: That's how I am too, Like eat lucky charms while
- 24:06Speaker 2: they watch TV.
- 24:07Speaker 1: Right, fine with it. There's nothing that stresses me out
- 24:09Speaker 1: about food being all over the dinner. Me too, I'm like,
- 24:13Speaker 1: you try to eat it, oh men.
- 24:15Speaker 2: And I can. Sometimes my niece spills and she's like,
- 24:17Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I'm sorry, and I'm like.
- 24:19Speaker 1: You don't need to be sorry, you just clean it up.
- 24:21Speaker 2: I go, we spilled, that's fine where And you can
- 24:23Speaker 2: tell that somebody scared her one time and she spilled.
- 24:26Speaker 1: So I'm just like, spills are I'm good with spills?
- 24:29Speaker 2: Oh my God, this the tick doc. The kid is
- 24:35Speaker 2: carrying the cups so full and a little spills out
- 24:39Speaker 2: and the mom's like, don't look down, don't look at it.
- 24:42Speaker 2: And then they get so scared by the spill that
- 24:44Speaker 2: they just dump the whole thing. And the mom is
- 24:47Speaker 2: so perfect, She's like, did it scare you?
- 24:50Speaker 1: Like, yeah, it is fine.
- 24:52Speaker 2: Kids.
- 24:53Speaker 1: Spilling is like hilarious. How do I rate this because
- 25:06Speaker 1: this is going to be the least of all mine.
- 25:08Speaker 2: Well, I could give like a ten to the Sydney
- 25:11Speaker 2: storyline and like a five to the.
- 25:15Speaker 1: I think the problem is is that that Adam Braverman
- 25:17Speaker 1: thing took up a lot of space. It just oh,
- 25:20Speaker 1: you're right in the room. Really did the drunky brain
- 25:23Speaker 1: kiss little? Do better by my girl?
- 25:28Speaker 2: And Alexandra di Dario, That's what I say. I like
- 25:32Speaker 2: her and she would not No, I've been seen with
- 25:37Speaker 2: Adam Braverman. He would not do that to Christina and
- 25:39Speaker 2: he is doing it. He would have called the cab,
- 25:43Speaker 2: write these people right, do you know what I'm saying?
- 25:46Speaker 2: Or he would have been like called Crosby. Obviously should
- 25:48Speaker 2: have taken her home, but he can't because he was drunk,
- 25:51Speaker 2: saying that's so weird that he stayed dancing. I'm like,
- 25:56Speaker 2: but anyway, call I get that there was an uber, then.
- 26:00Speaker 1: I guess there was definitely cabs, yellow cab. Call her
- 26:04Speaker 1: a cab? Your a cab? Do you know that joke? No,
- 26:09Speaker 1: I don't call her a cab. You're a cab.
- 26:14Speaker 2: Do you get it? I don't, but your call call
- 26:18Speaker 2: me a cab, you're a cab.
- 26:23Speaker 1: So dumb.
- 26:27Speaker 2: Man needs to be taken to the hospital. What's that?
- 26:30Speaker 1: It's a big, tall building with patients.
- 26:31Speaker 2: But that's not important right now.
- 26:33Speaker 1: Do you know what that movie?
- 26:34Speaker 2: Oh? No, it's so sad for people that don't that
- 26:37Speaker 2: are young.
- 26:38Speaker 1: What is it? Airplane? You've never seen airplane? I'm she
- 26:43Speaker 1: never even heard of it.
- 26:44Speaker 2: I'm getting him a little off, but it's like, what
- 26:46Speaker 2: you've never heard of airplane?
- 26:48Speaker 1: No? What I mean?
- 26:51Speaker 2: Surely you can't be serious. I'm quite serious, and quit
- 26:54Speaker 2: calling me Shirley.
- 26:58Speaker 1: Never. It came out twenty years before I was born,
- 27:03Speaker 1: ten years dude, Let me do math, dude. Yeah.
- 27:07Speaker 2: No, I don't know what to say to all of
- 27:10Speaker 2: y'all because I am in a zoom with Jackie, Danielle
- 27:15Speaker 2: and Shelby and I'm certain Shelby hasn't seen it because
- 27:18Speaker 2: she's like, you know, five.
- 27:20Speaker 1: Years old, totally love of Shelby, but you are five.
- 27:23Speaker 2: I need you all to say to your parents, have
- 27:26Speaker 2: you seen an airplane? Of course we have, We've seen
- 27:29Speaker 2: it a thousand times.
- 27:31Speaker 4: Right, that's rough for me, that is rough. So none
- 27:36Speaker 4: of those jokes even make sense to you. No, I
- 27:41Speaker 4: guess I give it a seven.
- 27:43Speaker 1: I know I'm going in the eighth for the first
- 27:45Speaker 1: time ever. Eight eight seven trophy. I don't like tropes
- 27:49Speaker 1: one point three taking off, purely because of Adam Braverman.
- 27:53Speaker 2: When I write my show, I'm not gonna make it tropy.
- 27:57Speaker 1: You should you really should know.
- 28:00Speaker 2: That I have the best idea for a Jonas Brothers movie,
- 28:03Speaker 2: like literally do it best idea, and I'm torn if
- 28:08Speaker 2: it should end the way we expect it to end,
- 28:11Speaker 2: or if we should throw a curveball and it completely
- 28:14Speaker 2: ends differently curveball.
- 28:16Speaker 1: Curve balls are always good. Curveball's probably pretty good.
- 28:19Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a really good idea that I'll tell you later.
- 28:22Speaker 2: I haven't told Kevin, Joe and Nick yet, but I
- 28:25Speaker 2: hope they love it.
- 28:27Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear it. I'm actually excited for that.
- 28:29Speaker 1: And if I'm just like it, I need two minutes
- 28:34Speaker 1: of your time. I tell you why I got this idea.
- 28:39Speaker 1: Jonas Brothers, I love them.
- 28:42Speaker 2: Okay, they might make they might like it. By the way,
- 28:45Speaker 2: if anyone's gonna like my movie idea that I wrote
- 28:48Speaker 2: specifically for the Jonas Brothers that I haven't written one
- 28:51Speaker 2: word of, it's just in my head.
- 28:52Speaker 1: They might.
- 28:53Speaker 2: I actually think I want to hear it.
- 28:55Speaker 1: I want to hear it. Good movie.
- 28:56Speaker 2: I'll tell it to you off the air, and.
- 28:58Speaker 1: Then you can say if you like it.
- 29:00Speaker 3: Okay, alrighty guys, Well, Braveryman's outta
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