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INTERVIEW: Eva Marcille Talks New Film, Dating Life, Mental Health, Motherhood + More · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Wake that ass up in the morning, The Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 2: Morning, everybody in stevej Envy, Jess hilarious, Charlamagne to God.
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  Speaker 2: We are the Breakfast Club Law, the Rosa filing and
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  Speaker 2: for jests, who's on maternity leave? And we got a
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  Speaker 2: special guest in the building, Eva Moself Welcome back.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you gentlemen, and beautiful lady.
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  Speaker 4: Hello, how you feeling blessed? Highly favorite, There you go,
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  Speaker 4: bless black and highly favorite. Well, I'm always black.
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  Speaker 1: This new movie Buried, Alive and Survive.
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  Speaker 5: First of all, the title is wild and the thing
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  Speaker 5: I love about Lifetime is their titles be right on
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  Speaker 5: the money.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so this is based on a true story.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, this is part of the Lifetime Ripped from the
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  Speaker 4: Headlines series.
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  Speaker 3: So it's based on a true story. And it followed
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  Speaker 3: the series that they did about the Missing Black Girls,
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  Speaker 3: which I personally thought was really dope, shedding light on
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  Speaker 3: black stories that you don't hear.
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  Speaker 4: You hear your Lacy petersons, you hear.
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  Speaker 3: All these other stories all these years, but our stories,
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  Speaker 3: you don't hear us. And so Lifetime has taken the
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  Speaker 3: charge to really shine light on melanated stories. And so
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  Speaker 3: I play a character Alicia, who is very demure, very
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  Speaker 3: mind but no, she's a young lady who went through
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  Speaker 3: a tumultuous past with her ex, like crazy ex boyfriend,
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  Speaker 3: but she was in love with him, love of her
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  Speaker 3: life from high school. Played by Tyler Lepli, super charming.
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  Speaker 3: And then he goes to jail for fifteen years. He
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  Speaker 3: was domestically violent while we were together, and so he
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  Speaker 3: goes to jail. We have a son, and so all
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  Speaker 3: I'm trying to do is like keep my son safe.
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  Speaker 3: And then he gets out of jail early.
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  Speaker 1: I really.
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  Speaker 3: He did eight of fifteen Got You, but for prison overcrowding.
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  Speaker 3: I come home one day, he's sitting in my living
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  Speaker 3: room playing video games with my son, terrifying.
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  Speaker 1: Were you familiar with this story before you did the film.
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  Speaker 4: Is Grits Groceries. I feel like they offered me this
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  Speaker 4: role because they know that this was my life. When
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  Speaker 4: I read the description, the first thing I thought of
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  Speaker 4: was all the stuff that I know that you went
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  Speaker 4: been through with your daughter's dad. So what that or
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  Speaker 4: is that is Michael? You mean with the yes, the
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  Speaker 4: donor Sorry, I'm not familiar with Okay, it's okay, yeah, No,
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  Speaker 4: he I think he meant just like, are you familiar
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  Speaker 4: with the real life story?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah?
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  Speaker 5: That was.
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  Speaker 4: My Like when I read it, I'm like, man, like,
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  Speaker 4: was that it for you? Because you went through a
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  Speaker 4: lot publicly with your own situation of you know, protecting
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  Speaker 4: your kid and trying to get away and all that stuff.
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  Speaker 4: So how was that mentally for you? What that thing
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  Speaker 4: hit home?
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  Speaker 3: Like nobody's business and for me, I like going into
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  Speaker 3: characters like that. I don't know, like on my TV show,
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  Speaker 3: I play like this madam. It was like the head
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  Speaker 3: of a cartel and I'm pimping these guys. I don't
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  Speaker 3: do that in real life, but this I've done in
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  Speaker 3: real life, So this was very different. It was a
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  Speaker 3: cathartic moment for me. I think mental health is very important.
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  Speaker 3: And when I deal with my therapist for some reason,
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  Speaker 3: I'm dealing with my divorce.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not talking about this. This was ten years ago.
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  Speaker 4: So for the film, it let me tap into something
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  Speaker 4: that I realized that I hadn't all the way dealt with,
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  Speaker 4: but I survived.
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  Speaker 6: Did you think about not doing it?
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  Speaker 2: Like, did you think about like this might be too
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  Speaker 2: much or it's too close to home, Like maybe I
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  Speaker 2: shouldn't take this part.
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  Speaker 3: I accept what God allows. I am at a surrender
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  Speaker 3: point in my life. I don't think that anything happens
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  Speaker 3: on accident. I believe in timing. I believe that God
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  Speaker 3: knew that it was time for me to deal with it.
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  Speaker 6: How difficult was it to tape during this?
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  Speaker 3: Shout out to Tyler Lepley because he helped me. He
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  Speaker 3: was such a gentleman and so much fun. We made
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  Speaker 3: it light, but I can say it was a bit
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  Speaker 3: a bit difficult. There were those days where it was
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  Speaker 3: just heavy, heavy drama. But then we would go to
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  Speaker 3: lunch at like Chili's and we're shooting out in the
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  Speaker 3: boondocks and I have like Bruce just.
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  Speaker 4: All over my face.
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  Speaker 3: His clothes are all cut up and ripped, and we're
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  Speaker 3: walking in like it can Tina like, yeah, so can I.
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  Speaker 4: Get a cheeseburger and a margarita. People thought we were
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  Speaker 4: absolutely crazy, like absolutely crazy.
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  Speaker 1: So when you say you didn't deal with it, you
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  Speaker 1: just you just suppressed it.
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  Speaker 3: I got my daughter and I moved on in life.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't have I didn't think I had time to
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  Speaker 3: dwell in the hurt of things and the effect of things.
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  Speaker 3: I had to plant new seeds so that I can
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  Speaker 3: work on my new harvest by my daughter.
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  Speaker 1: So that's the worst kind of trauma, the trauma.
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  Speaker 5: That you know you have, but for whatever reason, you
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  Speaker 5: don't acknowledge it, so you think it's not there, and
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  Speaker 5: then you get something that triggers you and you're.
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  Speaker 6: Like, what was that?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, And it's not that I didn't acknowledge it, right,
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  Speaker 3: It's one of those things that when it happened, TMZ
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  Speaker 3: got it, it was all over the news. I'm one
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  Speaker 3: of those women where I have lived black men. I
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  Speaker 3: have three brothers, no sisters, an amazing black father, and
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  Speaker 3: a multitude of uncles. So what I don't want to
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  Speaker 3: do is make one situation every black man situation. So
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  Speaker 3: for me with my platform, I chose not to go
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  Speaker 3: on this big rampage about the situation, how it failed,
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  Speaker 3: what he did all that. That's just that's not my styles,
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  Speaker 3: not how I get down. You know, Benja does mind
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  Speaker 3: say at the lord. So I didn't say much about
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  Speaker 3: what happened outside of what court documents said. And for
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  Speaker 3: my daughter's sake, I don't want to live it every day.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 3: I married an amazing man who took care of her
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  Speaker 3: and had more kids with him, And so for me,
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  Speaker 3: it was.
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  Speaker 4: Like, you know, which is Michael who we saw you
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  Speaker 4: on the show with and all that stuff, and well too,
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  Speaker 4: do you like? Do you ever? Because I know in
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  Speaker 4: this movie your character has a kid in the middle
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  Speaker 4: of this and she has to have conversations. Did this
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  Speaker 4: make you think about having conversations with the Marley at all?
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  Speaker 4: Or absolutely?
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  Speaker 3: It reminds me of the conversations that you have to have.
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  Speaker 3: Like there's that time of innocence that gets taken away
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  Speaker 3: from a child, but as a parent, you don't want
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  Speaker 3: that to happen, Like you want to hold on to
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  Speaker 3: that innocence as long as you can. You don't want
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  Speaker 3: them to know black and white.
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  Speaker 4: You don't want them to understand like discrimination.
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  Speaker 3: So the last thing I wanted her to do was
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  Speaker 3: try to, as a ten year old girl, process these
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  Speaker 3: adult choices that I mean, to be quite frank, I
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  Speaker 3: don't even think he could process what he did, let
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  Speaker 3: alone her understand it.
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  Speaker 4: Right. So it's not a conversation you want to have,
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  Speaker 4: but it's a conversation you have to have. And I
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  Speaker 4: had the conversation with.
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  Speaker 3: My daughter, which was difficult, but shout out to Mike Sterling.
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  Speaker 4: He helped me. It was beautiful.
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  Speaker 3: And so when I in the film, when I had
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  Speaker 3: to have the conversation, it hit home yet again because
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  Speaker 3: I remember having.
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  Speaker 4: To explain, like, your dad is not what you think
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  Speaker 4: he is.
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  Speaker 1: You know, what was your mental and emotional health?
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  Speaker 5: Like after the film was done, I know those conversations
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  Speaker 5: with the therapists changed.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 3: It's so crazy because I had to apologize. I was
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  Speaker 3: just saying earlier, I have to apologize to a friend
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  Speaker 3: of mine. I feel like I was not myself for
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  Speaker 3: a smooth month or month and a half afterward, because
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  Speaker 3: I just kind of to know me.
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  Speaker 4: It's no, I'm bold, I'm proud.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not necessarily loud, but I live unapologetically. But I
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  Speaker 3: went back into like the meek, like tiptoe around, like
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  Speaker 3: I don't want to get it wrong.
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  Speaker 4: And my friend was like, yo, are you Is everything okay?
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  Speaker 4: And I realized, like, oh my gosh, I'm still Alicia.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not either right now.
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  Speaker 3: I am still that woman that is trying to make
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  Speaker 3: sure everything's good. All the doors are locked, my guns
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  Speaker 3: are you know loaded?
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  Speaker 4: Ready to go? Like sys you're good, go to church
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  Speaker 4: on Sunday.
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  Speaker 3: So yeah, it took me a minute to get out
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  Speaker 3: of it because it was real.
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  Speaker 1: I love a golf hearing, gun toting woman.
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  Speaker 4: Oh you got to give yourself some time, a brief
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  Speaker 4: because you went through so much and then this movie
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  Speaker 4: rehashes everything and you've got to publicly right, like your
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  Speaker 4: divorced situation was very public as well too. You guys
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  Speaker 4: were on the show like you've lived out loud literally
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  Speaker 4: for a long time, and then you get in this
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  Speaker 4: role of this character who people are like, wait did
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  Speaker 4: she write this? Because this was right so right on point.
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  Speaker 4: I know you mentioned Mike Serling, and I know that
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  Speaker 4: there have been conversations about the divorce and some of
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  Speaker 4: the things that you were going through, and you talked
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  Speaker 4: about the weight loss. Where are you guys at now,
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  Speaker 4: Like is that a good?
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  Speaker 1: Oh?
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  Speaker 4: So much better? You know, anybody that's been a part
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  Speaker 4: of the divorce club knows that it's a it's a process.
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  Speaker 4: My parents have been married for forty two years, his
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  Speaker 4: parents fifty two years.
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  Speaker 3: All my aunts and uncles married. I'm the only person
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  Speaker 3: my my brothers are married. I'm the only person in
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  Speaker 3: my family divorce. So this is like for my for
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  Speaker 3: my family, it's different.
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  Speaker 4: Wow.
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  Speaker 3: And so it was not like I had someone to
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  Speaker 3: go to like what is life like after divorce?
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  Speaker 2: Because you know a lot of times family only see
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  Speaker 2: it one way, like you stay together regardless.
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  Speaker 6: Were they supportive when you decided to get a divorce.
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  Speaker 4: They were supportive. My brothers were like, what's up?
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  Speaker 1: What's fop?
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  Speaker 4: And you know, I'm like, that's everybody.
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  Speaker 3: I am middle, middle because I have a little brother
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  Speaker 3: and two older two older brothers. My baby brother is
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  Speaker 3: like six seven though, so that's my little brother.
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  Speaker 4: So they're like, what's going on.
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  Speaker 3: You didn't say anything about the last situation. We're not
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  Speaker 3: doing that mute stuff again. I'm like, everything's good, it's good.
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  Speaker 3: We're just gonna figure this out.
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  Speaker 4: Now.
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  Speaker 3: It's been a year. Communication is great. Took him out
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  Speaker 3: on Father's Day able to see like, you know, he's
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  Speaker 3: a lawyer, so one's.
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  Speaker 4: Cases he has.
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  Speaker 3: It's a big case in Atlanta that it looks like
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  Speaker 3: it's going really really well. I'm always going to support him, mom.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, he's the father of my children and it's
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  Speaker 3: the man that I love. Like it's just it that
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  Speaker 3: will never change. And anyone that says otherwise like I
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  Speaker 3: was married, but I hate him.
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  Speaker 4: Now you're lying to yourself. Sis, you are lying to yourself.
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  Speaker 2: Because the door ever open to Maybe I was asking.
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  Speaker 4: Watch Buried Alive. It comes out on September on Lifetime.
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  Speaker 5: Why would your son in the movie Malcolm just randomly
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  Speaker 5: let some man and he.
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  Speaker 4: Never met though, because it's his daddy.
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  Speaker 1: That's all it takes. That's the password.
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  Speaker 3: So I imagine longing your whole life to know your father.
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  Speaker 3: And I never told him that his father was a
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  Speaker 3: bad guy. I just said that his dad went away.
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  Speaker 3: He had to go away, he chose to leave. And
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  Speaker 3: so now he's like fourteen years old, and I'm oh,
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  Speaker 3: I'm an overprotective helicopter mom, like answer.
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  Speaker 4: Your phone, where are you at? Let me know?
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  Speaker 3: Turn your because location through because of what I've went through.
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  Speaker 3: And he doesn't understand it. So he just like, mom, chill,
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  Speaker 3: like I promised if my dad was here.
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  Speaker 4: He wouldn't be doing all this.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, little, do you know if your dad was here,
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  Speaker 3: life would be very different? But but yeah, he just
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  Speaker 3: he it's a kid who wants to know his dad.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, any imagine going up without a mom and
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  Speaker 3: then finding out that's your mom, Like, you just want
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  Speaker 3: to know her.
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  Speaker 4: All the other stuff we'll figure out later.
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  Speaker 3: So it was just the innocence of a boy wanting
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  Speaker 3: to know the man that he would become.
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  Speaker 1: You know, Are you that overprotective in real life?
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  Speaker 5: You even try to put a tracker on your son's
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  Speaker 5: sneakers in the movie.
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  Speaker 1: Are you that overprotective?
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  Speaker 3: I am protective in real life, but I'm blessed to
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  Speaker 3: have an amazing father figure for my kids. So when
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  Speaker 3: it comes to the co parenting part, and then Mike
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  Speaker 3: is ilegal too, so I'm like, hooflying in town? Do
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  Speaker 3: we need to call the mayor with the governor?
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  Speaker 1: You know?
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  Speaker 4: So we have a few connections, but we are Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I'm very protective.
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  Speaker 5: I asked everybody this question that's parents. Are you raising
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  Speaker 5: your child out of fear our love? Because in the
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  Speaker 5: movie definitely raising them out of fear?
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  Speaker 3: Oh, in the movie straight out of fear. I raised
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  Speaker 3: my kids out of love. I raised my kids. I
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  Speaker 3: appreciate what my parents went through in life and what
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  Speaker 3: they gave me and my brothers, but I also acknowledge
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  Speaker 3: what I could do better when it comes to being
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  Speaker 3: a parent. In twenty twenty four. My parents had me
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  Speaker 3: in nineteen eighty four, forty years ago, so life was different,
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  Speaker 3: you know what I mean this being the reality. I
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  Speaker 3: want my kids to know that they can do whatever
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  Speaker 3: they want to. My youngest loves Frozen and little Boy,
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  Speaker 3: he loves Frozen, and I will buy him a frozen
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  Speaker 3: little house. I'm not putting those stereotypes on him. I
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  Speaker 3: don't put my kids in a box. My daughter, she
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  Speaker 3: likes boxing. She also likes cheerleading, you know, like, do
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  Speaker 3: whatever you want to do, just be good, be a
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  Speaker 3: good person. My model is, do you just make sure
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  Speaker 3: it doesn't hurt anybody else, do whatever you want to do,
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  Speaker 3: just be kind.
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  Speaker 1: I think that's great, that's one hundred percent great.
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  Speaker 4: I was it working with Tyler because I know, you know,
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  Speaker 4: he's a dad. Now. Yeah, in place, it's like horrible father,
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  Speaker 4: you know, but like that's not what he gives in
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  Speaker 4: real life. So will you guys conversations around him channeling
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  Speaker 4: like horrible abusive dad.
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  Speaker 3: Tyler was shout out to Tyler, He's so dope, He's
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  Speaker 3: so dope. I'd worked with him behind the scenes. I'm
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  Speaker 3: starting to direct, so I worked at him on another project.
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  Speaker 3: So I was a little familiar with him, which was
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  Speaker 3: nice because you know, the man about to choke you
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  Speaker 3: out in the movie the next ten minutes, you might
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  Speaker 3: want to know him just a little bit, right, So
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  Speaker 3: I had the privilege of knowing him just a little bit.
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  Speaker 3: But he was so charming, so charismatic, and very respectful.
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  Speaker 3: Because the subject matter was so heavy, He's like, is
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  Speaker 3: this too hard? I'm like, no, go there, because if
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  Speaker 3: you don't yank me, I'm gonna yank you like I'm
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  Speaker 3: strong and if I'm trying to get out, I'm getting away.
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  Speaker 4: So we yanked me. Let's do this. So noo, he
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  Speaker 4: is not too much. And then when I told him, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I was that, okay, bring that down fifty percent. But yeah, Tyler,
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  Speaker 4: he he.
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  Speaker 3: Was amazing and being a father, the way in which
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  Speaker 3: he dealt with our son and the film I thought
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  Speaker 3: was beautiful.
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  Speaker 4: You can tell that he's a dad. There is a
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  Speaker 4: softness to him. But then there was that I just
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  Speaker 4: got out of jail and I'm gonna get mine and
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  Speaker 4: his ability to kind of flip back and forth was
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  Speaker 4: was really dope.
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  Speaker 5: Did you talk to the the in the movie, her
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  Speaker 5: name is Alisa. I don't know if that's her name
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  Speaker 5: in real life, did you speak to her at all?
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  Speaker 3: No, I didn't speak to the person that has happened
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  Speaker 3: to But this story is not as actually a story
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  Speaker 3: of something that's happened in Seattle, one has happened in China,
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  Speaker 3: like this is worked from the headlines of a real
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  Speaker 3: life story. So they were like in real life buried
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  Speaker 3: and in real life climbed ourselves. And that's why I
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  Speaker 3: love Lifetime for doing this, because it lets you know
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  Speaker 3: that things can go beyond your wildest dreams and your
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  Speaker 3: wildest imagination. And to be a mom, to be a sister,
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  Speaker 3: just like when it comes to safety and who you're with,
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  Speaker 3: and just everybody doesn't have it all there right, so
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  Speaker 3: make sure you're safe, make sure you know what's going
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  Speaker 3: on and if you even have an inkling those red flags,
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  Speaker 3: which is Alicia's downfall, which to me are a lot
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  Speaker 3: of women and men's downfall. When it comes to dating,
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  Speaker 3: you fall in love before you really get to know
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  Speaker 3: the person you fall and like, and then you fall
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  Speaker 3: in love and infatuation and then the real person presents themselves.
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  Speaker 1: What is it? The idea of having a man is
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  Speaker 1: dick like, what is it that makes.
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  Speaker 4: Be a mixture. I was going to say it's a concophony.
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  Speaker 4: It's all of those things. I think it's timing.
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  Speaker 3: If you think about it's eight billion plus people in
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  Speaker 3: this world. The fact that you and I were able
• 15:27
  Speaker 3: to meet at this time for whatever reason. For me,
• 15:30
  Speaker 3: the romantic in me, I feel like it's cosmic. I
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: feel like there's a reason that we've met, for some reason,
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: whatever it is. And so if there's a physical attraction,
• 15:41
  Speaker 3: people can lie.
• 15:42
  Speaker 4: But as a woman, you know, in the first thirty
• 15:44
  Speaker 4: to sixty seconds, if you know, if you would, I
• 15:49
  Speaker 4: ask that that was very girl math. We felt what
• 15:57
  Speaker 4: they were because he'd be given Charlene sometimes, so he'd
• 16:00
  Speaker 4: be knowing.
• 16:05
  Speaker 6: You do that about the dick?
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: You did?
• 16:07
  Speaker 6: So what okay, first.
• 16:09
  Speaker 5: Of all, say that was some context, the context that
• 16:12
  Speaker 5: will look crazy online.
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: You did. That's about the dicks?
• 16:17
  Speaker 4: Got you to assume that every woman is having sex
• 16:21
  Speaker 4: with the people that they're dating.
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: Like That's one thing that I've learned now being divorced
• 16:27
  Speaker 3: is that I guess, like we date, we go and
• 16:30
  Speaker 3: have food, so like h three days and sex time
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: Like who said that?
• 16:36
  Speaker 5: That's why it sucks for women in the spotlight, like
• 16:38
  Speaker 5: like regardless of you could be seen with Tyler and
• 16:41
  Speaker 5: whoeverl whoever else they're dating all of them.
• 16:43
  Speaker 4: Yeah, my best friend, that's why he doesn't want to
• 16:46
  Speaker 4: be on camera. And it's two left shoes and okay,
• 16:59
  Speaker 4: straight up bars, my brother can't.
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: That's not you saying.
• 17:02
  Speaker 4: It ain't nothing right, spaghetti Jesus, there we go. But
• 17:09
  Speaker 4: where are you get what I'm just saying?
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: Country, And I heard none of the spaghetti.
• 17:16
  Speaker 4: Spaghetti is not straight.
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: No more wiggle.
• 17:21
  Speaker 4: Yes you know what I'm saying. Yes, I got you.
• 17:23
  Speaker 4: I heard you.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: You will hear me say that one. I'm telling you
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: that right? So how is your shut up no existing?
• 17:34
  Speaker 6: My Lord Mercy.
• 17:37
  Speaker 4: You would think it would be easy. The d ms.
• 17:40
  Speaker 4: My friend Lareel taught me how to look in the
• 17:42
  Speaker 4: d ms.
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: Those are terrifying because it's like somebody's husband and their
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: son are both in the d MS, and then their
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: pastor Jesus, and then they are women and then there
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: it's like everybody just calm down.
• 17:58
  Speaker 6: So how how can somebody meet you like that's my
• 18:00
  Speaker 6: I don't even know you go out?
• 18:02
  Speaker 4: Why?
• 18:02
  Speaker 6: No, it has to be if you don't go out.
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: I mean you might do casual like drinks and stuff
• 18:07
  Speaker 4: like that, like yes, well did you really get to
• 18:10
  Speaker 4: meet somebody like and then where else because you don't
• 18:13
  Speaker 4: want to meet them in the club. Well I don't
• 18:15
  Speaker 4: do those yeah, Like but I mean like I've been
• 18:17
  Speaker 4: I've been like out food, drinks or whatever, and like
• 18:19
  Speaker 4: I've seen you there and those are nice places where
• 18:21
  Speaker 4: like if someone's there, they send you, but.
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: Not in America, like if we're like in Italy or something,
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: because they don't know who you are.
• 18:28
  Speaker 4: There's no pretend.
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: It's just like the like the pretty girl over there
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: with the pink shirt on, you know what I mean,
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: versus like all that's either I've had someone say like, yo,
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna date you because I'm a date up.
• 18:38
  Speaker 6: I'm like, whoa, that didn't work at all.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: I guess that's a compliment though.
• 18:44
  Speaker 4: I mean it's a compliment, but it also was like
• 18:47
  Speaker 4: I'm dating down.
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: Sorry, makes me feel like what you know what I mean,
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: nothing's genuine and so it's difficult. That's why when you
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: ask you do you leave the door open? It's it's
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: like who who At my age turn forty in October,
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: it's really going to get to know the real me
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: having been in TV and film for twenty year.
• 19:06
  Speaker 6: Would you date in the industry?
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: You can only date in the industry.
• 19:09
  Speaker 4: That is terrifying. I do not want to date in
• 19:11
  Speaker 4: this unless she said, like she goes out of the
• 19:12
  Speaker 4: country right now, Yes, because they're going to end up
• 19:14
  Speaker 4: being interviewed by Charlemagne and be like, so, what's popping
• 19:17
  Speaker 4: with you?
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: Exactly?
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: Nah?
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: So listen, would you date the bus driver?
• 19:22
  Speaker 4: I would if you own a bus company.
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: What if he's a good man? Oh, yes for me,
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: good man for me. I am not about the money.
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: I'm not about the coin. What I'm about is you
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: seeing me. I don't feel like I have been seen
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: in a long time.
• 19:39
  Speaker 6: What do you mean being seen? Like married for a while.
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: Yes, but see the person, not the clothes or the
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: job or the title. I had someone the other day
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: tell me, you know, my job is who I am?
• 19:52
  Speaker 4: I'm like, whoa bro? That's sad.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: That's sad.
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: That's because your job can change any day, and then
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: then who are you?
• 19:58
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying?
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: Feel like I have so many titles and multi hyphenant.
• 20:02
  Speaker 3: Thank God, so blessed, so much gratitude but with that,
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: it's still a little girl inside of here from south
• 20:09
  Speaker 3: central Los Angeles that want to grip walk to They
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: not like us, you know what I'm saying, Like they're
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: still that girl and who wants to tap into like
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: the person inside of me, not the facade.
• 20:20
  Speaker 4: Around me, you know what I mean. The smoking mirrors
• 20:23
  Speaker 4: the titles.
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: As with doctor Wayne W.
• 20:25
  Speaker 5: Dye used to say, used to say, the stuff you
• 20:28
  Speaker 5: own is not you know what you do, your job,
• 20:31
  Speaker 5: you know your activate, that's not who you not.
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: But in today's society, especially with these young men and
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: women doing so well professionally, it becomes them, you know
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: what I mean, twenty eight to thirty five year old
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: black men, black women out here, we're millionaires. We're figuring
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: out how to get to the bag. Own our own companies,
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: you know, leverage business deals with other companies, not like
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: it used to be. And so with that I think
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: comes a lot of ego.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: I think the sad thing is I think if somebody
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: is trying to date you, I think they probably will
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: first show up with.
• 21:04
  Speaker 6: Their check right.
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: They want to show that they can afford you, which
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: is hold them the opposite of what.
• 21:08
  Speaker 4: You what I want.
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: So they show me the money, so then you don't
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: want that. So then it's like the male ego ends
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: up getting frustrated because it's like, what can.
• 21:17
  Speaker 4: I do for you? And you got kids, you.
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: Don't you don't need a husband, and you don't need
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: to pay me to pay your mortgage.
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: You have multiple cars, you go, you have a job. Okay.
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: From there, you're trying to figure out like that causes
• 21:29
  Speaker 4: conversation a lot of my I have a lot of
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: girlfriends who are at that point, they're like, what am
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: I doing wrong? When it's like you're not doing anything
• 21:35
  Speaker 4: but being here my therapist. But see, but I help
• 21:38
  Speaker 4: my question. A lot of us get there because at
• 21:40
  Speaker 4: that point, you do feel like me and I'm gonna
• 21:41
  Speaker 4: never find somebody what am I doing wrong? And I
• 21:43
  Speaker 4: don't think that people should. I don't feel like that.
• 21:45
  Speaker 4: I don't think that people should feel that way. I
• 21:46
  Speaker 4: think you need to track what you want. Somebody that's
• 21:49
  Speaker 4: strong enough to handle all that will come and we'll
• 21:50
  Speaker 4: figure it out.
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: Well, baby, God better get to get to build them,
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: because I've found some very strong ones. But it I
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: still intimidate them.
• 21:58
  Speaker 4: It happens them.
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: What's what's wrong if you find some strong men that
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: seems like they're powerful, they have the intellect.
• 22:04
  Speaker 6: What's the problem.
• 22:05
  Speaker 4: Well, for what, I'm not finding anything. I will be found.
• 22:08
  Speaker 4: I am not.
• 22:08
  Speaker 6: You just said you found them.
• 22:10
  Speaker 4: I saw that's come across. But there's there's still still
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: insecurities there. There's still that, you know, when I'm not there,
• 22:20
  Speaker 4: what's going on?
• 22:21
  Speaker 6: I don't know.
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: Maybe you did your eye twink like that for that person.
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: Like it's just it's always it's a thing, so it's
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: non existent.
• 22:29
  Speaker 4: I go to church on Sundays and I'm in town.
• 22:31
  Speaker 4: Besides that, I'm out of.
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: The country or traveling, or with my kids when I
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: have them, or working.
• 22:37
  Speaker 4: That's my life.
• 22:38
  Speaker 5: I wonder if Instagram makes men more more show off
• 22:42
  Speaker 5: than anything. But you know, when you grow up broke,
• 22:45
  Speaker 5: all you got is yourself, right, so you gotta be smart,
• 22:47
  Speaker 5: you gotta be funny, you got to present all of
• 22:49
  Speaker 5: these other things.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: I wonder if character.
• 22:52
  Speaker 5: I wonder if now because the Instagram people feel like
• 22:54
  Speaker 5: all I gotta do is just show, show, show, show show,
• 22:57
  Speaker 5: and that's how I get. But then that's why y'all
• 22:59
  Speaker 5: are well, not Lauren, but's why you're in a position.
• 23:00
  Speaker 6: You're in Damn you know what I mean? I did
• 23:02
  Speaker 6: that to Lauren like that.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: Well, Lauren's single for a whole host of other reasons,
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: even that.
• 23:07
  Speaker 4: You don't know my life.
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: First lobby, I'm sure you're single by choice, thank you.
• 23:12
  Speaker 4: That's the first.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: That's not what her mama say. Damn, mama said something else.
• 23:16
  Speaker 4: My mom did say nothing about that. Your mama son,
• 23:18
  Speaker 4: my mom, and my mom wants me to be happy
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: wherever I'm going to be happy. And she understands that
• 23:23
  Speaker 4: I give it up. She knows she hasn't. She understands
• 23:25
  Speaker 4: that I am at a point where I need what
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: we talked about, like, I need somebody that can really
• 23:29
  Speaker 4: like handle things and carry me the way that I
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: need to do.
• 23:31
  Speaker 6: I think she's ready to settle down.
• 23:32
  Speaker 4: Oh do you mind me asking thirty two? I'll girl,
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: you better play.
• 23:36
  Speaker 6: That's what she's doing.
• 23:37
  Speaker 4: You bet these thirties, I have my first kid around
• 23:42
  Speaker 4: that time, I have three. Now I'll turn forty this year.
• 23:44
  Speaker 4: Enjoy these thirties.
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: Twenties, you were just figuring out your feminine hygiene properly, thirties.
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: That is true. It's very true.
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: You're getting your pH B once together, you figuring it
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: out like what worked for me.
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: Learn how to shave?
• 23:59
  Speaker 4: Yeah, do all a wax l a, whoa wow. He
• 24:02
  Speaker 4: also be telling people I don't shave my underarms. He
• 24:08
  Speaker 4: doesn't shave her under I shave my under You don't
• 24:12
  Speaker 4: have to. You don't have to shave any parts of
• 24:16
  Speaker 4: your body if you want to. Some people men like
• 24:18
  Speaker 4: wanm bat.
• 24:25
  Speaker 6: Little white balls on here.
• 24:26
  Speaker 4: Sometimes I hate when the men have that style I
• 24:29
  Speaker 4: did not have that They're lying. They're like, they're literally
• 24:31
  Speaker 4: sitting here and lying to you. Huh see, don't know
• 24:37
  Speaker 4: saving I'll be waxing. I'm grown as hell. He's just
• 24:40
  Speaker 4: like a troll. Look, this is what we call a hater.
• 24:43
  Speaker 4: This is what he enjoys.
• 24:45
  Speaker 5: Oh, but I do want guys to learn how to,
• 24:47
  Speaker 5: like you said, present with characters.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: Yes, I really do.
• 24:49
  Speaker 4: I do too. I do too, but you know they're
• 24:53
  Speaker 4: not there yet. It's come up season.
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: So I'm gonna give my brothers their flowers because I
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: see so many black men in different position making better decisions,
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: running their businesses and doing their things. And so if
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: that means I'm gonna have I tell one of my friends,
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: go out your Marcus Grand moment like go live in
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: the city and soho and get your little house at
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: like live your life. I want my boys to do that.
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: I want my boys to live. I don't want them
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: to settle down until they are ready and they found
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: the one. Because divorce is hard, heartbreak is real, and
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: when you've ever truly loved someone, you will never stop.
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: Seems like insecurities is the biggest thing, right because you
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: are a star. So when whoever your dat and sees
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: you with other people, it feels like they would have
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: to feel a way, right, So it was the thing
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: and it's.
• 25:38
  Speaker 4: Not a thing. But they are grown. But it's just
• 25:40
  Speaker 4: like if.
• 25:41
  Speaker 6: They have those type of insecurities or they don't trust them.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: How they haven't done the work.
• 25:44
  Speaker 5: That's why I know so many women who not date
• 25:47
  Speaker 5: a guy who is not going to therapy. Even when
• 25:49
  Speaker 5: you look at this movie, this dude clearly had some
• 25:51
  Speaker 5: unhealed trauma that he didn't deal with before you went in,
• 25:54
  Speaker 5: and he damn sure didn't deal with it while he
• 25:55
  Speaker 5: was in.
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: No, he just came home projecting on everybody.
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: But no, he actually, when you watch the movie Be
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: Buried Alive and Survived, he actually did do some therapy
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: and you'll see that it's about application. To me, life
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: is about three things. It's about living, it's about learning,
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: and it's about applying. So you live, you learn from
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: whatever it is you did bad, and then you apply
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: whatever that lesson is.
• 26:21
  Speaker 4: And so you could know what to do. You just
• 26:24
  Speaker 4: gotta do what you're supposed to do. You know, you're
• 26:26
  Speaker 4: supposed to flash your teeth twice a day, three times
• 26:28
  Speaker 4: a day. But do you that's the question, you know
• 26:31
  Speaker 4: what I mean?
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: So I think a lot of times we just you know,
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: we take the easy way out, and because we're grown,
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: we use the fact that, like I'm growing, I gonna
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: do whatever I want to do, versus being disciplined and
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: doing what you're supposed to do and need to do.
• 26:42
  Speaker 4: So, what do you want people to take from this movie? Like, oh,
• 26:45
  Speaker 4: go cha?
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: I want people to take from this movie men and
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: women that are going through any sense of struggle, that
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: feel like they are at the bottom of the mountain
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: or trapped in their box of whatever it is in
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: their career and their relationships, specifically domestic violence. But whatever
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: it is you think that you can't get out of,
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: that is a lie from the pit of hell. Fear
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: is real, but it is nothing but a thought. It
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: is in your mind. It is not a It is
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: not a real thing. So if you can fight through
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: your fear, I will tell you to climb out of
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: your box.
• 27:22
  Speaker 4: Do what you have to.
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: If you have no fingernails after you scrape through it,
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: it doesn't matter. Climb up, keep clawing. You have to
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: close your eyes because that dirt is getting in there.
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: It doesn't matter. You have to cry your way up,
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: climb out of your box. By the time you look up,
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: you will be at the top of your mountain. That
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: is what I want you to know.
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: Were you in a box for real?
• 27:40
  Speaker 4: Dead ass?
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: They put you in an actual coffee I was.
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: An actual shipping crate, nailed shut, oh god.
• 27:49
  Speaker 4: But because he was.
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: Burying me a lot, killing me and they couldn't have magnets. No,
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: it was real like that. And I know an actor,
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: and I know it's not real. But there's something of
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: out that moment, being in there and imagining.
• 28:02
  Speaker 4: Because it is writ from the headline. So it's imagining
• 28:05
  Speaker 4: this real woman being put in a box by a
• 28:08
  Speaker 4: man that she has loved for all these years. And
• 28:12
  Speaker 4: not only that, but I have a fourteen year old
• 28:14
  Speaker 4: son out here to take care of that. As a
• 28:17
  Speaker 4: young king in this world that has nobody but me,
• 28:20
  Speaker 4: I can't stay in this box. But yes, I was
• 28:23
  Speaker 4: completely nailed into a box and terrified.
• 28:26
  Speaker 3: My boy Rob had to say, all right, cut cut, cut,
• 28:28
  Speaker 3: let her out, let her out.
• 28:29
  Speaker 4: Let her breathe. He was scared for me.
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: Wow, are you prohobic anyway? Now?
• 28:34
  Speaker 4: I am. I don't want to be in a box,
• 28:37
  Speaker 4: you know, yeah, don't want it get trapped.
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: Wow. Did anybody apologize to you?
• 28:42
  Speaker 5: Because I remember when the pictures came out and you know,
• 28:45
  Speaker 5: you had looked like you lost a lot of weight,
• 28:47
  Speaker 5: and then you told everybody it was a lot of
• 28:49
  Speaker 5: well I know, but you told everybody was because of
• 28:51
  Speaker 5: your impression of your dook. Did anybody apologize to you
• 28:53
  Speaker 5: because of that? You know, people jumped conclusions when they
• 28:55
  Speaker 5: see the pictures.
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: No, everybody just said I had all kinds of diseases
• 28:59
  Speaker 3: and stuff, line and talk dirty. I was afraid to
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: come in here today because I was wondering, like, I'm
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: just me.
• 29:06
  Speaker 4: You have good days and people have bad days. But
• 29:09
  Speaker 4: I've met you first time fifteen years.
• 29:12
  Speaker 3: Ago, and I was this size, so I know that
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: I did house, I was pregnant.
• 29:16
  Speaker 6: Pink tea cup. All of us were there.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: I remember remember because you said something nice to me,
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: and I'm not used to compliments.
• 29:25
  Speaker 6: Charadn't know what to say, started studying yours.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: I wasn't nobody.
• 29:29
  Speaker 4: Yeah, You've always been somebody, even if you knew it
• 29:31
  Speaker 4: or not.
• 29:32
  Speaker 6: You were like a person than you did on camera.
• 29:35
  Speaker 6: And he started stuttering. He started.
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: Because okay, because at that time, you were on radio
• 29:41
  Speaker 3: most of the time, and I think Brothers Club had.
• 29:43
  Speaker 4: Like just startays, so we were just able to.
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: Like get a face to the voice, and a lot
• 29:50
  Speaker 3: of time old school radio, you remember, like Brandy, nobody
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: knew that THEO was Asian, Like when.
• 29:59
  Speaker 4: He came out, we were all so surprised that. Yeah,
• 30:04
  Speaker 4: so a lot of times you have no idea.
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  Speaker 6: And I was like, okay, Charlae, man, he was stuttering.
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: We hadn't eve done the Broke slovel year done six months.
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  Speaker 4: I just met.
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  Speaker 3: I just saw the voice to the face and I
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: was like, okay.
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  Speaker 6: You at that point I thought you were blond. I
• 30:19
  Speaker 6: thought you were blind at that point, what a man, what.
• 30:23
  Speaker 4: Are you trying to say that Charla Mane is not attractive.
• 30:25
  Speaker 6: Envy you do Charlemagne think he looks like Mars.
• 30:27
  Speaker 5: No, Mark Justna thinks Charlamage, you know he does. Mar
• 30:30
  Speaker 5: just was on Jennif hutch And show when he says
• 30:32
  Speaker 5: he gets mistaken from me. He said, goddamn, I'm just
• 30:35
  Speaker 5: telling you what he said.
• 30:36
  Speaker 4: Because Stevie Wonder was the one.
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: I don't know he said that. I don't know, I
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: don't know.
• 30:42
  Speaker 4: He said that you guys are both handsome, beautiful black
• 30:45
  Speaker 4: man like you, but you do have you have this
• 30:50
  Speaker 4: in the mouth. I can see a little bit. Thank
• 30:52
  Speaker 4: a little bit you squint.
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: A little bit, I said, Squint, I.
• 31:00
  Speaker 4: Think have more stuff for you. I have one more
• 31:08
  Speaker 4: question because I'm a fan of you on Housewives, and
• 31:10
  Speaker 4: no you're not on the show. Would you ever so
• 31:12
  Speaker 4: never again, never ever again? All the Queen's men, baby,
• 31:14
  Speaker 4: all the queens. Okay, gotcha? The season four is gonna
• 31:16
  Speaker 4: drop after Buried Alive, Okay, yeah, it's no Housewives question.
• 31:21
  Speaker 4: You can have Housewise questions. I'm I just wanted to
• 31:23
  Speaker 4: know your thoughts on the Kenya suspension and all that.
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: That's my girl, that is my girl. I have a baby,
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: grand in my son room because of her. Her daughter
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: is my niece, Brookie.
• 31:33
  Speaker 4: I love her.
• 31:35
  Speaker 3: I don't know honestly enough about the situation to speak
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: on it.
• 31:40
  Speaker 4: What I do know is that the show is no
• 31:43
  Speaker 4: holds bars, and I don't know when bars started getting held.
• 31:47
  Speaker 4: That's why I wanted to ask you, because I feel
• 31:48
  Speaker 4: like during your season it was like you were part
• 31:51
  Speaker 4: of the last good seasons before they got rid of
• 31:53
  Speaker 4: some people. And then I thought that this was going
• 31:55
  Speaker 4: to bring all of that back. And now they're like, oh, no,
• 31:58
  Speaker 4: you can't be on the show anymore because you're doing
• 31:59
  Speaker 4: what we know the show to be. So I don't know.
• 32:02
  Speaker 4: I don't even know what really happened. I don't has
• 32:06
  Speaker 4: it air yet. No, it has did that. I don't
• 32:09
  Speaker 4: even know it. Didn't know it has. It just became chattering.
• 32:12
  Speaker 4: It's so big. It felt like this show should happen
• 32:14
  Speaker 4: right after that. It's so does.
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: Kenny Moore has a new hair salon in Atlanta. She's
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: out there helping trusses and helping people grow their hair.
• 32:22
  Speaker 4: Her hair Caroline is doing amazing.
• 32:24
  Speaker 6: Spoke about it.
• 32:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's my girl. So I don't really know what
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: happened with the situation. I think Housewives lost a real
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: one without.
• 32:33
  Speaker 4: Kenya, because Kenya is one to definitely speak her mind.
• 32:38
  Speaker 4: She is very pro black.
• 32:40
  Speaker 3: She's an amazing, amazing mom. I feel like that's one
• 32:43
  Speaker 3: thing that they do not shed enough light on. She
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: is a crazy dope mom. Like I tell her to
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: bring her daughter to my house and then she comes
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: and she stays, I'm like no.
• 32:51
  Speaker 4: You go like she's like one of those moms like
• 32:53
  Speaker 4: we here together, No right, And she's like no, I'm
• 32:55
  Speaker 4: just gonna chill.
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: Like she's like she's she's such a beautiful woman, you know,
• 32:59
  Speaker 3: but as a black woman, and you know, strength is
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: a requirement, especially a black women in America. So she
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: wears her armor all day every day and she does
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: what the show called for. And so I don't know
• 33:10
  Speaker 3: what happened, but I know that she will always land.
• 33:12
  Speaker 4: On her feet.
• 33:13
  Speaker 3: I know that she God has her and has a
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: story written for her. So I wish her the best.
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: And if I didn't have blocks, and I would go
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: get my hair done by her.
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: Well, what do you think Housewives need to do the rebrand?
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: Because you know Candy left, Kenny's not there anymore. What
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: do you think the Housewives.
• 33:27
  Speaker 4: And Kenny's not there is she?
• 33:28
  Speaker 6: What do you think they need to do to rebrand?
• 33:30
  Speaker 4: Bring candy, Candy, burst, Tucker.
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: That's the whole new cast. So you think just bring
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: the original crew back?
• 33:38
  Speaker 4: You know what, it doesn't matter. Black influences everything. So
• 33:41
  Speaker 4: as long as you bring black.
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: Entrepreneurs and inspiring creatives on the show, I think you'll
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: see some magic.
• 33:53
  Speaker 4: I saw Niini just made her like first return back
• 33:55
  Speaker 4: to just the network in general. I love that for her.
• 33:58
  Speaker 4: Do you so being in that Willlhouse of NBC and
• 34:01
  Speaker 4: all that stuff? Uni? Yeah, Like do you think that
• 34:04
  Speaker 4: does that mean that there's a chance for her to
• 34:06
  Speaker 4: get back closer get on Housewives? Or do you think
• 34:08
  Speaker 4: that that's like completely done as well?
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: Too late?
• 34:09
  Speaker 4: Because we were so excited when we saw it.
• 34:11
  Speaker 6: I don't even know.
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: I mean, I have no clues even if she even
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: wants to do it, gotcha, But I'm excited about her
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: new shell. I did see a club on Instagram she
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: had yeah on hair, my homegroun pair beat her face.
• 34:21
  Speaker 4: She look pretty. I love it.
• 34:23
  Speaker 6: Thank you even Marshall, We appreciate you for joining us
• 34:26
  Speaker 6: this morning.
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: And check out Buried Alive and survive Premier's Saturday at
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: eight seventh Central, all lifetime, and thank.
• 34:32
  Speaker 4: You so much for having me.
• 34:33
  Speaker 6: It's even Marsell. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: You wake that ass up in the morning.
• 34:38
  Speaker 6: The Breakfast Club