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406 Testimonio matrimonial de José Ordóñez y su esposa · Reflexiones cristianas con José Ordóñez

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Podcast number four hundred and six on today' s podcast. You will hate
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me because Jasmith will be sincere, according to all that I have done to
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him, when joyous fame appears in our life, When on a night of
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a Saturday twenty- ninth of December of the year one thousand nine hundred and
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ninety- four, I become famous break my third world record and my first
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ally. He was my first victim and I destroyed my wife' s heart.
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She' s gonna be a little raw telling what happened and how she
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felt. This is the next part of our testimony that we wanted to tell
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you so that, somehow, if you can learn about it marriage, you
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can put into practice that there is always an opportunity for forgiveness, for reconciliation.
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This story we' re telling happened 28 years ago. Enos here,
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thirty- five years of marriage and with all the healing of the heart,
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we tell our little testimony so that many marriages, many couples, will encourage
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themselves to continue fighting to rescue their married life. Welcome, but I'
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m gonna save all that space where Jasmith wouldn' t stop telling me you
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' re unique in the world and you' re gonna achieve your dreams.
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And one day, on December 28 of the year nineteen hundred and ninety-
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four, Colombia paralyzes an unknown young man in front of the microphones of active
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snail radio. Start telling jokes and it lasts thirty- six hours with so
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many jokes, which makes me catapulted to the top of Colombia' s stardom
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I was so happy that day I felt the happiest woman in this world.
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And then I turned around and told him my love we made it and I
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told him I didn' t make it and I destroyed his life and I
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was completely alone. I was left alone with my heart collapsed, with so
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many unanswered questions, with a deep sadness in my heart, because everything that
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I had dreamed of as a child, that beautiful prince who was going to
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lead me to live in that palace and that we were going to achieve together
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so many goals, so many dreams, when he received what he aspired and
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what he wanted, then his heart was damaged. The money, the fame,
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the things, the opportunities, the calls people, everything got contaminated by
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all this and finally decided to let me break my heart. Well, he
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didn' t abandon me as such, but he abandoned me the way he
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changed me. He traded me for one and the other and for the other
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and for another woman. I felt that the day we fulfilled our economic dreams,
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that day I was going to be the happiest woman. And that'
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s a mistake. Sometimes we believe that material things bring us complete happiness.
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Sometimes we think that the material is everything and we walk in bus bs remains
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of that, in search of the material things, in search of achieving the
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physical things, in search of having the house of dreams, of having the
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car longed, of having the cupboard full, of walking, of going out,
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of going to the restaurants, of eating the javiar, of trying,
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of traveling. And that was absolute happiness lies when I had all that.
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God allowed us to have all that at that time. But when I had
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all that, I was the saddest woman in this world. He hated money,
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he hated fame, he hated seeing it when he was interviewed, and
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he was breast- feeding because it made thousands laugh, but it made the
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four he had at home cry. And then it was a painful time for
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my life because I didn' t understand it, because how could he possibly
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do that to me, how could he hammer me so hard, how could
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he change home, marriage, dreams, his daughter and change all that simply
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for his adventures, for his desires, for his madness, for his passion,
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for the fulfillment of all those desires. And was she confused? Was
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she confused? And I didn' t understand, I didn' t know
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what to do. However, I had to stop on the road. I
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had to stop and start thinking a little bit more about myself that I wasn
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' t going to let this person take my life with itself. I wasn
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' t going to let him keep hurting me, keep hurting me, I
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wasn' t going to let them keep abusing me. I wasn' t
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gonna let him keep hurting me and my kids. I stopped on the road
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and had to make the decision to leave him, to leave him. I
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came for capra or manga face with expectations with dreams. I did not yet
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know of the Lord I was far from God, but I know and recognize
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today that God was working in my heart and was working in the heart of
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this man, because he had a purpose that was to be fulfilled and was
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doing something in my heart and in his heart. In tomorrow' s podcast,
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the four hundred and seven, Jasmith will tell you all the recommendations he
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received. When she decides to abandon me, restart her life, don'
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t be silly, come and with great certainty, my wife often says no
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decisions need to be made in times of pain. As tomorrow' s podcast
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comes, I invite you to go to José Ordonez Cristiano. Tom there you
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find all the information about what our fourth marriage workshop will be from 19 to
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23 August. Make the most of it because there' s a special price.
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Before August one we will include new themes so don' t miss our
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fourth virtual workshop for marriages through zoom from anywhere in the world where you are.
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There you will have the opportunity for fifteen hours to learn how to have
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a better marriage relationship. For now I want you to have a nice day
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that I hope you never have to go through a betrayal and that, if
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you have been a victim of it, you understand that Jesus restores any relationship
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that is broken that God blesses you.