Latest / Reformed Thinking / “But the LORD”: Fear, Failure, and Covenant Preservation (Genesis 12:10–20)
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- 0:00Welcome to Reformed Thinking. This is the show where we take a
- 0:02deep dive into the source material behind the big ideas.
- 0:06Our goal is to help you get informed thoroughly but also
- 0:10quickly. And today we're looking at a
- 0:12passage that's, well, it's a tough one for a lot of people.
- 0:15It is. We're in Genesis chapter 12,
- 0:17looking at verses 10 through 20. This is the story of Abram right
- 0:22after he gets this incredible covenant call from God.
- 0:25Right. And you'd expect, you know, the
- 0:26next chapter in his life to be this story of a hero of the
- 0:30faith. A perfect example.
- 0:32The paragon of faith? Yeah.
- 0:33Exactly. But the Scriptures just don't do
- 0:35that. They immediately shatter that
- 0:37kind of moralistic idea. The story isn't here to show us
- 0:41a biographical lapse. You know, a simple mistake.
- 0:43It's here to show that the covenant of grace depends
- 0:45completely on God's sovereignty, not on the obedience of the
- 0:49person who receives it. So we're looking at this first
- 0:51great crisis of faith for Abram and what his failure actually
- 0:55teaches you about how God holds on to his people.
- 0:57The way the story is structured here is really it's abrupt.
- 1:00The sources we're looking at call it the jarring
- 1:02juxtaposition because in the 1st 9 verses of Genesis 12, Abram is
- 1:07on a spiritual high. He leaves his home, he travels
- 1:10to the promised land, he builds an altar.
- 1:12He's doing everything right. He's a model of obedience.
- 1:15And then boom, verse 10 hits. It's like a slamming door now.
- 1:19There was a famine in the land. It really is.
- 1:21There's no transition. And that Hebrew word Rahab, it's
- 1:25not just, you know, a bad harvest.
- 1:27This is a full blown disaster, a life threatening test.
- 1:30And the fact that it happens right there in the land of
- 1:32promise, the place God just gave him, that has to be intentional.
- 1:36It's absolutely intentional. The land of blessing becomes the
- 1:38stage for this immense trial. It shows you that receiving
- 1:42God's promise doesn't mean you get a pass from the hardships of
- 1:44this fallen world. So this isn't just bad luck, the
- 1:47famine is. It's a tool.
- 1:50Our sources call it a sovereign instrument of divine Providence.
- 1:53It's a probe. It's designed to see how deep
- 1:56Abraham's trust in God really is.
- 1:58God just promised to make him a great nation and now he can't
- 2:01even feed his own household. Exactly.
- 2:03And that's the test, isn't it? When the things you can see, the
- 2:06food, the water, when that all disappears, can you still trust
- 2:11the God you can't see? He trusted God to leave his home
- 2:14city of her, but this is a different kind of test.
- 2:18It's a harder test. It's one thing to go somewhere
- 2:20new on a promise. It's another thing to stay in a
- 2:23place of suffering on that same promise.
- 2:25And his response is immediate. He went down to Egypt.
- 2:29Now, to us, that's not like a smart move.
- 2:31Go where? The food.
- 2:32Is it sounds practical and geographically it's correct.
- 2:35He's going from the Highlands down to the Nile Delta.
- 2:37But that phrase went down. The Bible uses it in a specific
- 2:42way, doesn't it? It does that Hebrew word yarod.
- 2:45It's often a spiritual signal. It means moving away from God's
- 2:48blessing, from his presence. You see it with Jonah, who goes
- 2:51down to chop it down into the ship trying to run from God.
- 2:54So Abram's physical journey is mirroring a spiritual.
- 2:57One, he's taking a step down away from faith.
- 2:59He's trading the theology of that altar he just built for the
- 3:02for the pragmatism of the world. And that gets at this core
- 3:05contrast, the sources highlight Canaan versus Egypt.
- 3:09This is so key to the whole story.
- 3:10Canaan, the Promised Land, is described in Deuteronomy as a
- 3:14land that depends on the reigns of heaven.
- 3:16So it's survival is totally in God's hands, right?
- 3:19It's a life of faith. Moment by moment.
- 3:21You have to trust God to send the rain.
- 3:24Egypt on the other. Hand Egypt has the Nile.
- 3:26It has the Nile. It's predictable, it's
- 3:28controllable. They had massive irrigation
- 3:31systems, human engineering, their whole society was built on
- 3:34a guaranteed abundance that they controlled.
- 3:36And their Pagan gods were tied to that abundance.
- 3:38Exactly. So Abram is making a choice.
- 3:40He's abandoning waiting on God for rain a life of faith to go
- 3:45get a guaranteed meal in a place that runs on human ingenuity.
- 3:48That's a trade. Faith for sight.
- 3:50One of the most striking things in the text is what's not there.
- 3:53The sources call it the silence of unbelief.
- 3:55That silence is deafening. The Hebrew grammar in verse 10
- 3:59uses this chain of verbs that just pushes the action forward.
- 4:03And there was a famine, and Abram went down.
- 4:05It's quick, decisive. He just acts.
- 4:07He just acts what's missing? He doesn't go to the altar.
- 4:10He doesn't ask God, should I go what you provide for me here?
- 4:14There's no prayer, no consultation, None.
- 4:17He's acting on pure survival instinct, driven by what he can
- 4:20see, the famine, rather than what he's been promised.
- 4:24The moment he decides God can't feed him in Canaan is the moment
- 4:27the next failure becomes almost inevitable.
- 4:29So that rapid fire language in the Hebrew, it's mirroring his
- 4:33panic. It's the language of panic.
- 4:35A man who is relying on sight doesn't stop to pray.
- 4:38He's alone with his fear. And fear, when it's cut off from
- 4:41God, is the worst possible guide.
- 4:44OK, so he gets to the border of Egypt and that silence we talked
- 4:47about is finally broken. But he's not talking to God.
- 4:50No, he's talking to his wife, Sarai, and what he says is, as
- 4:54one source puts it, a calculated conspiracy.
- 4:57The fear of the famine has now turned into the fear of man.
- 4:59It has, and Proverbs tells us the fear of man is a snare, a
- 5:03trap, and Abram walks right into it.
- 5:05His whole thinking process is laid bare.
- 5:07He sees Sarai as a liability, not his wife.
- 5:10He sees the Egyptians as a threat he can't overcome.
- 5:13And he sees himself as a victim who has to come up with a clever
- 5:16plan to survive. He's completely forgotten about
- 5:18God as his protector. This is what the source is
- 5:21called. Theological amnesia in action.
- 5:23It's such a powerful phrase. It is because he can see the
- 5:26physical facts perfectly. He knows Sarai is beautiful even
- 5:29at 65. He knows powerful men will want
- 5:33her. His worldly assessment is spot
- 5:35on. But he has completely forgotten
- 5:38the spiritual fact. He's forgotten the covenant God
- 5:40literally just promised him in verse 3.
- 5:42Him who dishonors you I will curse by thinking the Egyptians
- 5:46can just kill him and take his wife.
- 5:48He's basically saying their power is greater than God's
- 5:51promise. So he's acting like a like a
- 5:53functional atheist. That's the term.
- 5:56He's making his decisions based on survival probabilities, as if
- 5:59God is just absent, as if God's power stops at the border of
- 6:03Canaan. And this leaves him to the lie.
- 6:05Say you are my sister. The infamous lie.
- 6:08Now we find out later in Genesis 20 that she actually was his
- 6:11half sister. Some people use that to soften
- 6:14what he did here. Yeah, but we can't let that
- 6:16detail get him off the hook in this context.
- 6:18It's an absolute deception. The intent is what matters.
- 6:22He's trying to mislead them about her marital status, about
- 6:25her availability. Exactly.
- 6:27If she's just his sister, Pharaoh can take her and Abram
- 6:30gets brought into the royal family.
- 6:32He's protected, but she's his wife, the mother of the promised
- 6:35nation. The lie is designed to protect
- 6:38his own skin by putting her in jeopardy.
- 6:41It's a half truth that functions as a whole lie.
- 6:43It's weaponized, and it's the complete opposite of a life of
- 6:46faith which calls for truth even when it's dangerous.
- 6:50And his motive, I mean, he states.
- 6:52It's so clearly, it's chilling. It's.
- 6:54All about him, he says that it may go well with me because of
- 6:58you, and that my life may be spared for your sake, My
- 7:02well-being, my life. It's raw pragmatism, the end.
- 7:05My survival justifies any means, even endangering the covenant
- 7:09promise itself. And he uses his wife as a human
- 7:12shield. It's a complete reversal of the
- 7:14husband's role. He's supposed to be the
- 7:15protector. It's an inversion of the
- 7:17creation design. A total inversion and it shows
- 7:19you just how necessary the covenant of grace is because
- 7:22centuries later you get the true husband, Christ, who is
- 7:25Ephesians 5 says save himself up for his bride, the church.
- 7:29Christ steps in front of the danger.
- 7:31Abram pushes his wife into it. The contrast couldn't be more
- 7:34stark. Abram's failure here shows us
- 7:37why we needed a better representative, a perfect
- 7:40husband. It's just the blindness of fear
- 7:43is on full display. He's risking the entire future
- 7:46of redemption to avoid a potential temporary danger.
- 7:49That's what fear does. The immediate threat feels so
- 7:52much more real than the eternal promise.
- 7:55It shows you that faith isn't something you achieve once.
- 7:57It's a moment by moment reliance that Abram just completely
- 8:01abandoned. So here's a crazy part.
- 8:03The plan works. On a worldly level, it works
- 8:06perfectly. Just like he predicted.
- 8:08The Egyptians see Sarai as beautiful.
- 8:10The Princess tell Pharaoh about her.
- 8:12And verse 15 says the woman was taken into Pharaoh's house.
- 8:15That word Laca taken or acquired, It's a business
- 8:19transaction. This is the low point of the
- 8:21story. He has just handed over the
- 8:23mother of the promised seed. The whole plan of salvation is
- 8:26now, from a human standpoint, in the hands of a Pagan king.
- 8:29The text just lets that tension hang there.
- 8:31It's a terrifying moment, and it's a stark picture of
- 8:34depravity. Even the friend of God, the man
- 8:37who heard God's voice, is capable of this, capable of
- 8:40sacrificing the most sacred thing for his own safety.
- 8:42And to make it even worse, he gets rich from it.
- 8:45This is what our source is called.
- 8:46The irony of material reward. Verse 16 says for her sake.
- 8:50He dealt well with Abram. That phrase for her sake is just
- 8:53dripping with condemnation. He's getting paid for his wife's
- 8:56capture. It's essentially a bride price.
- 8:58He gets sheep, oxen, donkeys, servants, camels, a huge amount
- 9:02of wealth and the text shows him just accepting it.
- 9:05No protest, no confession. He's counting his sheep while
- 9:08Sarai is in the harem. And this is where a figure comes
- 9:11into the story who will cause so much future pain.
- 9:14Yes, the list of assets includes female servants.
- 9:18The scholarly consensus is very strong that this is where Hagar
- 9:21enters Abraham's household. Hagar, the mother of Ishmael.
- 9:24The very one. So the blessing, this wealth he
- 9:26got through his sin, it's a Trojan horse.
- 9:28It brings the source of future family conflict and redemptive
- 9:32historical conflict right into his tent.
- 9:34The consequences of sin aren't always immediate punishment.
- 9:37Sometimes they look like gifts. And those are often the most
- 9:40dangerous kind. The very thing he gained for his
- 9:43own security becomes the biggest threat to his family's peace
- 9:46down the line. This whole section is just a
- 9:48Wrecking Ball to any idea that material wealth automatically
- 9:52equals God's favor. It is.
- 9:54Abram is rich. He's safe from the famine.
- 9:57He looks successful, but he's morally bankrupt and completely
- 10:01out of God's will. He has the world's security, but
- 10:04he's risked the promise. And God, in his patience, lets
- 10:07the scheme play out. He lets the attention build to
- 10:11its absolute maximum before he steps in.
- 10:13It's a way of proving that our clever plans, even when they
- 10:16succeed, can never actually ruin God's ultimate plan.
- 10:20Only God can clean up this mess. And it's clear Abram can't fix
- 10:23this. He's passive.
- 10:24He's complicit. He's totally trapped by his own
- 10:26success. The rescue has to come from
- 10:28outside, and that's exactly what happens next.
- 10:31All right, so just when it looks completely hopeless, verse 17
- 10:34arrives and it's a sharp turn, but the Lord afflicted Pharaoh.
- 10:38The whole focus of the story shifts.
- 10:41It's the turning point, the hinge of the entire passage.
- 10:45And the Hebrew grammar here is so important.
- 10:47The subject, Yahweh the Lord, is put right at the front of the
- 10:50sentence. Emphasizing that he is the one
- 10:53acting now. He is the primary actor.
- 10:56God doesn't wait for Abram to repent or pray his way out of
- 10:59this. He acts on his own, and he does
- 11:01it purely because he is faithful to the covenant he made, not
- 11:05because Abram deserves it. This is pure, unconditional
- 11:08grace. It's the definition of sovereign
- 11:10grace. God intervenes because of who He
- 11:12is, not because of what Abram has done.
- 11:14And the way God intervenes it points to something much bigger
- 11:19later on. It really does, the text says.
- 11:21God sent great plagues. Nagain Ghetalim, that word for
- 11:25plague, not a, is the same root word used for the plagues of the
- 11:28Exodus. When God struck Egypt to free
- 11:30Israel. Exactly.
- 11:31So what we're seeing here is a proto Exodus, a small scale
- 11:34version of the main event. God strikes this Pharaoh to
- 11:37release Sarai, who is the mother of Israel.
- 11:39So it's showing that God's power isn't just limited to Canaan,
- 11:42He's Lord everywhere. His jurisdiction runs all the
- 11:45way to Pharaoh's throne room, and it also shows us something
- 11:48about the plagues themselves. We don't know what they were,
- 11:51but they were severe enough to stop Pharaoh from consummating
- 11:54the marriage. God supernaturally protected the
- 11:58purity of the Messianic line. So God is protecting the promise
- 12:02from the failure of the promise keeper.
- 12:04That's it exactly. It's a miniature echo of the
- 12:06Exodus. Just as God will strike a later
- 12:09pharaoh to release the nation, he strikes this first pharaoh to
- 12:13release the woman who carries the seed of the nation.
- 12:16Without this act, the whole story ends right here.
- 12:20For those of us who hold to reform theology, this is a
- 12:22powerful example of what the Westminster Confession says
- 12:25about Providence. It's a textbook case.
- 12:28The confession says that God's Providence even extends to the
- 12:31sins of humanity, which he limits and directs for his own
- 12:34holy purposes. So God didn't make Abram lie.
- 12:37Absolutely not. The text condemns the lie, but
- 12:39God sovereignly controlled the consequences of the lie.
- 12:42He allowed Abrams fear to create this crisis, but he put a
- 12:46boundary on it. He didn't let it destroy the
- 12:48promise. He's the master of the chess
- 12:50board, as one source put it. He is.
- 12:52He sees Abram make a disastrous move, but instead of flipping
- 12:56the board over, he uses Pharaoh's own actions to
- 13:00checkmate the situation and protect the queen Sarai, which
- 13:03guarantees the future of the king.
- 13:04It just demolishes any idea that God is just reacting to our
- 13:08choices. He's sovereign even over our
- 13:10failures. And that's why the covenant is
- 13:12secure. If it depended on Abraham's
- 13:14performance, it would be over. But because it's a covenant of
- 13:17grace, God provides the solution.
- 13:20When man creates the problem, our security isn't in our weak
- 13:24grip on God, it's in his unbreakable grip on us.
- 13:27The crisis gets resolved, but not in the way you'd expect.
- 13:30It's not God speaking to Abraham.
- 13:31It's the It's Pharaoh. This is one of the most humbling
- 13:34moments in the whole book of Genesis.
- 13:36The Pagan king calls in the prophet of God and gives him a
- 13:39sermon. And it's a sermon full of moral
- 13:41clarity. What is this you have done to
- 13:42me? Why did you not tell me she was
- 13:44your wife? The irony is just staggering.
- 13:47Abram was called to be a blessing to the nation's instead
- 13:50he brought a curse, a plague on Egypt and the unbelieving world
- 13:54in the person to Pharaoh is holding up a higher ethical
- 13:57standard than the believer. And Abram just stands there.
- 14:00He says nothing. His silence is his confession.
- 14:03What can he say? His clever plan has been exposed
- 14:06for what it was, a selfish, wicked lie.
- 14:10Pharaoh's questions What? Why?
- 14:12Why? It's like a cross examination.
- 14:14It functions like the law, it just exposes the sin and shuts
- 14:18the mouth of the Sinner. Abram thought he had a good
- 14:20strategy, but Pharaoh shows him it was just a violation of basic
- 14:24truth. The man Abram was afraid would
- 14:25kill him is the one demanding righteousness from him.
- 14:28And that strips Abram of any claim to moral superiority.
- 14:31It's a public shaming. He can never say he was chosen
- 14:34because he was better than the nations around him.
- 14:36So what's the consequence? Not execute, which he probably
- 14:39deserved. In the ancient eries this was a
- 14:41capital offense. You don't lie to a king like
- 14:43that. But instead, Pharaoh says, here
- 14:45is your wife, take her and go. It's an expulsion, A
- 14:48deportation, but it's also an act of mercy, severe mercy.
- 14:52A very severe mercy. And verse 20 adds that Pharaoh
- 14:55gave him an armed escort to see him safely out of the country.
- 14:58The word first sent him away. Shalak, is the same word used
- 15:02for Israel's release in the Exodus.
- 15:04So even the release is a picture of grace.
- 15:07It is God's grace working through a Pagan king to preserve
- 15:11his servant, not with the reward he deserved, which was death,
- 15:15but with the rescue the covenant required.
- 15:17And then finally the restoration.
- 15:18He has to go back. That's the bookend of the whole
- 15:21story. Genesis 13 says Abram went up
- 15:23from Egypt. The Hebrew is a law.
- 15:26It's the direct opposite of when he went down Yared.
- 15:29His geography is once again tracking his spiritual state.
- 15:32And he doesn't just wonder, he goes back to the place, the
- 15:35altar, the exact spot where he first worshipped.
- 15:38This return is the physical sign of his repentance.
- 15:41He's going back to the place of dependence on God.
- 15:44So the restoration isn't him earning his way back into God's
- 15:47good graces. Not at all.
- 15:49God already rescued him. The discipline, the shame he
- 15:51experienced from Pharaoh is what drove him back to the altar.
- 15:55It's a picture of preservation. God keeps his people even when
- 15:59he has to use painful means to bring them back to a place of
- 16:01worship. So we've walked through the
- 16:03story of failure and rescue. The big question at the end is,
- 16:06what does the story of the Father of the Faithful failing
- 16:08so badly? What does that mean for you, the
- 16:11listener? It means we have to stop looking
- 16:13for our Savior among flawed human beings.
- 16:16The Bible is honest about the failures of its greatest Saints
- 16:20for a reason to make us look beyond them.
- 16:23The promise moves forward, but it's not because Abram is a
- 16:26steady, courageous hero. It forces us to look for someone
- 16:29better. It forces us to look for the
- 16:30true seed for Jesus. And the contrast between Abram
- 16:34and Christ here is just it's everything.
- 16:36Especially in that role of the husband.
- 16:38Yes, Abram's motive was that it may go well with me.
- 16:41He put his wife in danger to save himself.
- 16:44Christ, the true husband, does the complete opposite.
- 16:47He loved the church and gave himself up for her.
- 16:49He steps in front of the wrath of God so that his bride can
- 16:52live. The gospel is the total reversal
- 16:54of Abram's scheme. The husband takes the blow, so
- 16:57the bride is spared. And even that pattern of descent
- 16:59and ascent we saw, Christ fulfills that too.
- 17:02He does, but perfectly. Abram went down to Egypt in fear
- 17:06and sin. The nation of Israel went down
- 17:08and became slaves, but Jesus as a child is taken down to Egypt.
- 17:13Out of Egypt, I called my son. Right.
- 17:15He is the true Israel who goes down into bondage but remains
- 17:18perfectly sinless. And when he ascends, it's not
- 17:21with wealth gotten through a lie.
- 17:23Like Abram, he ascends from the grave, leading captivity
- 17:26captive, winning righteous gifts for his people through a true
- 17:29victory. So this whole narrative then
- 17:31becomes this powerful argument for justification by faith alone
- 17:35for a solified. It has to be, because if God's
- 17:38covenant depended on Abraham's moral performance on his truth
- 17:41telling, it would have ended in that harem.
- 17:43The story is screaming sovereign grace.
- 17:46God saved the messianic line in spite of Abram's failure.
- 17:49Which means our standing with God rests on something much more
- 17:51solid than our own obedience. It rests on God's faithfulness
- 17:55and his oath, which find their ultimate expression in the
- 17:57finished work of Jesus Christ. He's the one who never failed,
- 18:01who never had to lie to protect himself.
- 18:03So the final take away from the story isn't try to be a better
- 18:06Abram, it's trust in the God of Abram because he is faithful
- 18:11even when we are not #tag outro. And that wraps up our deep dive
- 18:15into Genesis 12.10, Darrow 20. We've seen that the covenant
- 18:20security doesn't rest on the shaky performance of a man like
- 18:22Abram, who failed his first big test, but on the absolute
- 18:25fidelity of the Lord, who stepped in to rescue his own
- 18:29promise. So as you think about this, we
- 18:30have to reject that Egyptian path, the path of fear
- 18:33manipulation that Abram chose. Think about your own life.
- 18:36How often does that instinct for self preservation make you
- 18:39compromise or tell 1/2 truth, or just act out of fear instead of
- 18:42faith? The great comfort here is that
- 18:44you are secure not because you have a perfect grip on God, but
- 18:47because He has a perfect grip on you, and by His grace, that grip
- 18:50will never let go.