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- 0:04Speaker 1: M hm.
- 0:09Speaker 2: Talk about train wrecks on the podcasts. I mean we do,
- 0:13Speaker 2: just not that particular one.
- 0:15Speaker 3: Yeah, Ni, we talked everybody train wrecks on this, especially
- 0:23Speaker 3: that lab one.
- 0:23Speaker 2: That lab one. That shit was funny. We're gonna have
- 0:27Speaker 2: the heat. The next we wouldn't let me get a
- 0:28Speaker 2: word in edgy.
- 0:29Speaker 4: And was trying to get the word used a black ass.
- 0:33Speaker 4: Clearly he said, not today.
- 0:39Speaker 3: Nah, I want to sleep. I don't want to sleep.
- 0:42Speaker 3: Yesterday I was, they wanted to sleep.
- 0:44Speaker 2: I was yesterday.
- 0:47Speaker 3: I wanted to sleep. Woke up and it was like damn,
- 0:51Speaker 3: only closed my eyes. It's like three o'clock in the morning.
- 0:53Speaker 2: God, damn already we're gonna send jazz to a weed
- 0:58Speaker 2: de docs these all week I don't know what. I
- 1:03Speaker 2: don't know if if it exists.
- 1:04Speaker 3: But this niggas wannell me telling not to don clinic go.
- 1:08Speaker 2: That's crazy. I mean it's crazy. Nigga an't say that.
- 1:15Speaker 2: I mean, you're not gonna bleame them with them slide.
- 1:19Speaker 3: They're gonna slide slide the address they want to tell me,
- 1:22Speaker 3: the one on your world and.
- 1:22Speaker 2: Ship, like, oh wow, the fact that you know where it.
- 1:24Speaker 3: Is, it's right up the streett McDonald's.
- 1:29Speaker 2: It's some nice headphones. I might be about thirty for
- 1:34Speaker 2: this nigga's headphones Mike microphone. Hey y'all, welcome to uh
- 1:48Speaker 2: wind and audacity than not, I mean podcast. I'm your host.
- 1:52Speaker 2: Brain is a card. I was just picturing the words
- 1:57Speaker 2: while you was talking nego these niggas. Hey, y'all shady,
- 2:06Speaker 2: how you're feeling this? Shady? Shady? I'm not shady at all.
- 2:14Speaker 3: I ain't talking about you talking about this bitch?
- 2:18Speaker 2: Sell you know what you did? Bitch?
- 2:21Speaker 4: Oh, I almost say something else. It wouldn't be the
- 2:25Speaker 4: first time No talked about his mom. I forgot who
- 2:28Speaker 4: his mama.
- 2:29Speaker 2: Would all Robin comes come screeching out their came. I
- 2:34Speaker 2: didn't do nothing. It wasn't me. How you're feeling this week?
- 2:38Speaker 3: Fuck around? Get a touch ba like, who's talking? Ship?
- 2:44Speaker 2: I started itching? That's what said Sid. The bitches to
- 2:50Speaker 2: talk about me, Well, I'm good. It's self defense. That's great,
- 2:59Speaker 2: But that's the show. See y'all next week. That's all
- 3:04Speaker 2: we got. That's all I got. Loves and all being Benidad,
- 3:12Speaker 2: being Benida. I know tis that's a time. Now, remember Bomb,
- 3:28Speaker 2: we did a whole segment early, But what's new this week?
- 3:32Speaker 2: It happened? So what's going on this week? How you're feeling?
- 3:37Speaker 2: What's new? It's thinking to be fourth of July. Mm hmm.
- 3:43Speaker 2: I have on vacation this week. I've been sleeping in
- 3:47Speaker 2: and actually going to the gym. I should have took
- 3:49Speaker 2: off this week too. I just went back Monday. But
- 3:51Speaker 2: you you know you was follicking out in Vegas fo
- 3:55Speaker 2: getting all tanned and ship. What else is going on?
- 3:59Speaker 4: What does she do the house crazy and sexy and
- 4:04Speaker 4: hold over almost thirty years?
- 4:06Speaker 3: She would never do anything like that.
- 4:09Speaker 2: Tellity went down, I donna look at God? Won't he
- 4:12Speaker 2: will man that new h back boy, I'll be in
- 4:16Speaker 2: the coldest bitch now. For those of y'all who know me,
- 4:22Speaker 2: you don't know if I run hot once it get
- 4:25Speaker 2: above about sixty five. Got the big house without it,
- 4:30Speaker 2: because baby, the way I be getting no damp around
- 4:33Speaker 2: the scout, it never fails. D mm hmmm. I don't
- 4:40Speaker 2: have swamp booty, but I'll be dancing. Just just not
- 4:46Speaker 2: a musty butt, you nigga. I'm a lot of things.
- 4:50Speaker 2: I'm a big ain't never been mercy, I ain't never
- 4:52Speaker 2: staying baby, I always smell good. I'm a lot of things. Baby,
- 4:59Speaker 2: I'm chunky, funky, but I ain't never been musty.
- 5:03Speaker 4: Speaking to chunky and funky. I would like to share
- 5:06Speaker 4: a story that I met the share last week.
- 5:09Speaker 2: I think I know where this is going. My God, today, go.
- 5:11Speaker 4: Ahead and Sean, we were out enjoying ourself with DZ Bride.
- 5:17Speaker 2: Oh god.
- 5:18Speaker 4: We had went to brunch, had some mimosas, and then
- 5:23Speaker 4: we went to a bar I had. Yeah, she came
- 5:28Speaker 4: out with the gaze met and it was funny as
- 5:32Speaker 4: per usual. You know, eat good, drink good a time. Right,
- 5:37Speaker 4: you got to go somewhere and give me a little
- 5:39Speaker 4: twice step in and after we left said, by way,
- 5:43Speaker 4: got nigga g s if you got the strap lader
- 5:51Speaker 4: that Nigga said before I get striped lad, Oh wow.
- 5:57Speaker 4: Things that did not happen anyway. Nobody tried to get
- 6:01Speaker 4: me this year.
- 6:02Speaker 2: We did. We wasn't that none of the staffic.
- 6:04Speaker 4: Events housing there making good, good girlfriends. Joe, you want
- 6:10Speaker 4: big body?
- 6:11Speaker 3: Ben said, you know that that's ship, that's ship that
- 6:13Speaker 3: you that ship that you on you you know, no
- 6:16Speaker 3: no payments for twelve months. Ship you want that ship?
- 6:19Speaker 2: What not?
- 6:20Speaker 4: The no credit by here a lot when you can't
- 6:24Speaker 4: you you want.
- 6:26Speaker 2: Thou month called with one hundred and two thousand dollars?
- 6:30Speaker 2: You want that Scott done in here now he went
- 6:33Speaker 2: to Eastern Motors where his job is his credit. Here
- 6:36Speaker 2: this Chevy dealer and many Evans over six cents of
- 6:41Speaker 2: Corge trucks as SUVs. Are you listening man at Eastream Motors?
- 6:47Speaker 2: Your jobs? You're credit at Eastream Motors your jobs? You're
- 6:53Speaker 2: credit for Chevy, Harders, Beamers and many Evans over six
- 7:00Speaker 2: the cause trucks as shoes? Are you listening man at
- 7:04Speaker 2: Eastern Motors? Your ja in the card day lady, Eastern
- 7:10Speaker 2: Motors financing all the way.
- 7:20Speaker 4: Somebody ray lords that have got their commercial right, ain't
- 7:22Speaker 4: buying a car from god damn Eastern Motor.
- 7:24Speaker 2: The funniest ship I saw recently was the so they're
- 7:28Speaker 2: planning on building a sphere like in Vegas down at
- 7:31Speaker 2: the National Mall or National Harbor. And they said, you
- 7:36Speaker 2: running the Eastern Motors.
- 7:37Speaker 5: AD run the Eastern Motors a man well ship through
- 7:46Speaker 5: the cats and showing one and then mine as well.
- 7:51Speaker 2: So yes, I say all that to say for those
- 7:55Speaker 2: that know me. If you don't know me, please don't
- 7:57Speaker 2: touch me. Don't gun hand. That's not a thing about
- 8:00Speaker 2: touching me. It's getting too familiar too fast, because I
- 8:02Speaker 2: don't know you, and I am quick to should he
- 8:07Speaker 2: quick to tell you, I don't know you, don't touch me.
- 8:10Speaker 2: Thinks he did a whole lot, a whole lot.
- 8:12Speaker 3: Of so so and what I'm saying it's funny. I'm
- 8:17Speaker 3: just saying it's funny because you said, Joe Roy Joyce
- 8:20Speaker 3: that nigga turned around real quick.
- 8:21Speaker 2: I turned around first because I was like, and I
- 8:23Speaker 2: turned around and don't touch me. I don't know you.
- 8:27Speaker 3: That nigga said a board mission like no, no, obviously
- 8:31Speaker 3: he no, buts he expensive.
- 8:33Speaker 2: Ain't even there. That's just too familiar, too fast. And
- 8:38Speaker 2: ten thousand mill because there was we were at number nine.
- 8:42Speaker 2: There was another guy who was who came up and
- 8:46Speaker 2: started making conversations and we were talking and stuff and
- 8:48Speaker 2: that was fine. And I saw him later on, you know,
- 8:51Speaker 2: did this as I was walking past and kept going,
- 8:53Speaker 2: don't we believe him? No. I went to the bathroom
- 8:56Speaker 2: and came back. He was back there talking and I
- 8:57Speaker 2: went and myham aroun him. When I walked past him.
- 9:00Speaker 2: But don't get too familiar too fast, because I don't
- 9:02Speaker 2: know you, right, That's how people get robbed. And then
- 9:05Speaker 2: after he walked away, I said, showing to check your
- 9:06Speaker 2: pockets because he might have been trying to get something
- 9:08Speaker 2: from me. And I was like, I'm good.
- 9:12Speaker 4: Luckily I had my I had my cross body on.
- 9:14Speaker 4: It was on the other side. It was zipped up though,
- 9:16Speaker 4: I said, but I should look. Let me make sure
- 9:18Speaker 4: I got both protests, brandy, I said, checked your pockets
- 9:21Speaker 4: because he was covering a little too close to my
- 9:23Speaker 4: comfort because he came out right.
- 9:25Speaker 2: That's how niggas get there, get your pocket nicked, right,
- 9:29Speaker 2: I said, you was up on me, sir, I don't
- 9:30Speaker 2: know you get off me. Make sure even it was
- 9:34Speaker 2: even if he was fine, I wouldn't. I might have
- 9:36Speaker 2: had a little more conversation if it Stode was attractive,
- 9:38Speaker 2: but he wasn't. He wasn't an unattractive guys, just again,
- 9:42Speaker 2: too familiar to fans.
- 9:43Speaker 4: This is joining a whole lot of whole lot of
- 9:44Speaker 4: I don't know you like that. It wasn't a lot
- 9:46Speaker 4: of space right.
- 9:47Speaker 2: There, and.
- 9:48Speaker 3: He was shying, he was trying to throw it up
- 9:50Speaker 3: on you okay, that's and I got this, Hey little mama,
- 9:54Speaker 3: won't you give me a sick?
- 9:56Speaker 2: I got a little nothing. It's just guy, damn. Maybe
- 10:02Speaker 2: that's what the other call was. They like like, they
- 10:06Speaker 2: like him, they like them be.
- 10:09Speaker 3: Sean love him a little.
- 10:11Speaker 2: The guy asked me about that, I go to any
- 10:13Speaker 2: of the Big Boy pridu Evins. I said no, but
- 10:15Speaker 2: next year I might because because old boy came up.
- 10:18Speaker 2: He was I was at the Big Boy Prince. He
- 10:21Speaker 2: would have liked you there. I said, oh, really, well,
- 10:24Speaker 2: maybe I'll go next year. Nikka yawning while he's talking.
- 10:28Speaker 2: Someone knew sitting in the morning neath a guy and
- 10:33Speaker 2: now go where you appreciate it. You know what, that
- 10:38Speaker 2: is a very very true statement. I was there was
- 10:43Speaker 2: some commentary. I saw a boy about this guy who
- 10:46Speaker 2: was on It was I saw him on TikTok. It
- 10:49Speaker 2: might have Instagram. He's a bigger guy. He came to
- 10:53Speaker 2: d C. I think he's a guy that's on BG.
- 10:56Speaker 2: I'm not on I'm not wanting to be go homos.
- 10:58Speaker 2: No judgment if you are, but I'm not on bigo.
- 11:01Speaker 2: But that's where people who come in and know him from.
- 11:04Speaker 2: And he was saying how him as a bigger guy,
- 11:06Speaker 2: he felt like he couldn't really find like his place
- 11:08Speaker 2: or he couldn't he didn't really fit in too much
- 11:10Speaker 2: at Pride, And he was questioning like, well, I'm not
- 11:13Speaker 2: sure if you know Pride is for me, or like
- 11:16Speaker 2: what what I'm doing wrong? Or you know, he felt
- 11:19Speaker 2: he said he fell out of place. And my comment
- 11:21Speaker 2: to him in response was, I said, well, the question
- 11:25Speaker 2: is if you felt like you didn't fit in with
- 11:27Speaker 2: with where you were going or the type of friends
- 11:29Speaker 2: that you came here with. Because he I think he's
- 11:31Speaker 2: from Atlanta, I was like, who were you trying to
- 11:33Speaker 2: fit in with? Big boy? Pride had a slate of
- 11:37Speaker 2: events the entire weekend from Thursday to Monday. They had events.
- 11:40Speaker 2: They had day parties every day. They had a couple
- 11:42Speaker 2: of like more like formal functions, and they had club
- 11:45Speaker 2: nights and stuff that happened all weekend. I said, if
- 11:48Speaker 2: you were trying to fit in with the body boys
- 11:50Speaker 2: and boys who just go to the gym and show.
- 11:51Speaker 2: Because we saw one boy driving the brunch that boy's back,
- 11:55Speaker 2: his ass was halfway up his back, that thing was
- 11:58Speaker 2: sitting I said, God damn, he had on this little
- 12:01Speaker 2: gym outfit, little span dex. That boy's ass was up.
- 12:04Speaker 3: His backs were talking when we talking another with us,
- 12:11Speaker 3: and buddy love just got just got skinny.
- 12:14Speaker 2: So it wasn't a single. It it was like mic or short,
- 12:17Speaker 2: something like a work like a Nike workout time he
- 12:21Speaker 2: had only he was real cute. But I said, and
- 12:23Speaker 2: I was telling like the guy was like in a comment.
- 12:26Speaker 2: He never responded to me. I was like, are you
- 12:28Speaker 2: who are you trying to fit in with that? You
- 12:29Speaker 2: feel like you didn't fit in because you have to
- 12:31Speaker 2: go where you're celebrated, because if you only ever go
- 12:33Speaker 2: to places where people who don't look like you, we noticed,
- 12:39Speaker 2: especially in terms of us, but in terms of to
- 12:41Speaker 2: make it about homos for a second, and I'm sure
- 12:43Speaker 2: it's a lot. It's like this a lot of and
- 12:45Speaker 2: a lot of just dating in general. There's a lot
- 12:47Speaker 2: of politics when it comes to dating and having friends,
- 12:50Speaker 2: where certain people who are more attractive get more played,
- 12:53Speaker 2: They may get more noticed. People have the right body,
- 12:55Speaker 2: who have the correct or may have who are present
- 12:58Speaker 2: to have the correct pedigree, or make present like they
- 13:00Speaker 2: have money. All these things play a factor into how
- 13:04Speaker 2: you are received and perceived and it's hyper is even
- 13:08Speaker 2: more so in gay spaces because it's all men. So
- 13:13Speaker 2: somebody like me who was a bigger guy, or somebody
- 13:15Speaker 2: like him who is a bigger guy who is really
- 13:17Speaker 2: a bigger guy and may not be as proportionate, may
- 13:21Speaker 2: not may get outright ignored in certain space, especially when
- 13:24Speaker 2: it comes like sex parties and other things, because people
- 13:27Speaker 2: still idealize the fit and muscular archetype. Yeah, exactly right.
- 13:33Speaker 2: I mean there were even stories about and I'm not
- 13:36Speaker 2: sure if I've sent you just shown it, but there
- 13:37Speaker 2: were stories about like people who are having parties which
- 13:40Speaker 2: of course later turned into a sex party where they
- 13:42Speaker 2: wanted you to send it selfie before they confront yours
- 13:45Speaker 2: about some shit like that. I mean, you have heart,
- 13:47Speaker 2: it's like that.
- 13:48Speaker 3: You gotta you gotta show your ship because if this
- 13:52Speaker 3: is what we're doing, you know, niggas gotta be sexually
- 13:54Speaker 3: attractive to.
- 13:55Speaker 2: Or if there was a story of a guy who
- 13:57Speaker 2: put his event out on posh and he required selfies
- 14:01Speaker 2: to come to his house part because he only wanted
- 14:03Speaker 2: to fit in like attractive guys in his house. And
- 14:07Speaker 2: of course, if you only frequently spaces or like I
- 14:09Speaker 2: said you only you travel with all your friends who
- 14:12Speaker 2: may be more in shape than you are, or who
- 14:14Speaker 2: are in the ideal excuse me, who meet the idea
- 14:18Speaker 2: in terms of body type. You're gonna feel like a
- 14:21Speaker 2: fish out of water because you are going to be
- 14:24Speaker 2: ignored for the more attractive or more popping games.
- 14:27Speaker 3: True shit.
- 14:28Speaker 2: But then other people in the comments was like, but
- 14:30Speaker 2: aren't you the same personal bigo who talks about people's
- 14:32Speaker 2: bodies and does this and does that and does other
- 14:34Speaker 2: negative stuff. And I was like, oh, well, in that
- 14:36Speaker 2: case is again I don't be on bigo. So I
- 14:38Speaker 2: don't know who the man was. But on that point
- 14:40Speaker 2: I was like, well if you if you're a mean girl,
- 14:42Speaker 2: then hey no.
- 14:45Speaker 3: But at the same time, I mean with what you said,
- 14:47Speaker 3: but what you said still still resonates, like.
- 14:49Speaker 2: Yo, go with you know, you gotta go where you go.
- 14:53Speaker 2: Let me go find find your tribe.
- 14:55Speaker 3: Yeah, go find Yeah, you gotta find people that are
- 14:57Speaker 3: just like you. I mean, like I've said, I've said
- 15:00Speaker 3: to a lot of people that be like you know,
- 15:03Speaker 3: they they got they got like social anxiety, they got
- 15:05Speaker 3: they got like anxiety about like being in like being
- 15:08Speaker 3: in like open places with a bunch of cheaper and
- 15:10Speaker 3: it's like, but so you just gotta find you gotta
- 15:13Speaker 3: find the community for you.
- 15:16Speaker 2: It's Facebook.
- 15:17Speaker 3: I was like, it's Facebook groups all over the media
- 15:20Speaker 3: is yeah, you can you can find I'm gonna say now,
- 15:30Speaker 3: I believe that it's no excuse to be lonely. What
- 15:34Speaker 3: I mean, Yeah, what I mean is we in the
- 15:38Speaker 3: like you're you're in a space, like we're in the
- 15:39Speaker 3: space and we're in an age where it's a group
- 15:41Speaker 3: for everybody. And like I mean, if you like, if
- 15:46Speaker 3: you still feel lonely, there might just be some mental
- 15:48Speaker 3: ship like men, yeah, that you got work through. But
- 15:52Speaker 3: as far as like outside of that, like for you
- 15:54Speaker 3: to just be like, yo, you're in the house and
- 15:56Speaker 3: you want to go out, but you don't have nobody
- 15:57Speaker 3: to go out with. Yo, you can pop up somewhere,
- 16:00Speaker 3: I mean, like pop online and then go find people
- 16:03Speaker 3: that like what you like.
- 16:04Speaker 2: And it's a bunch of it's a bunch of groups
- 16:06Speaker 2: out here. Join a book club, go to the gym
- 16:09Speaker 2: and try to put to the gym.
- 16:10Speaker 3: Like like, if you like you like Harry Potter, you
- 16:13Speaker 3: like Harry Potter, you can type in you know, you
- 16:15Speaker 3: can look up like Harry Potter, Trivia Nice or some
- 16:17Speaker 3: shit like that, and open yourself, you know, open yourself up,
- 16:20Speaker 3: you know, but you gotta open your honestly, you'll open
- 16:22Speaker 3: up yourself to take that, take that leap and go outside.
- 16:25Speaker 2: But funny that you mentioned it because somebody actually liked
- 16:28Speaker 2: my comment and I can actually read and see who
- 16:30Speaker 2: it was. So his name, So the post was from
- 16:33Speaker 2: an account called thirst Trap Boys Official. I don't know
- 16:36Speaker 2: who it is, but it says being going TikToker. Dre
- 16:39Speaker 2: Baby says his DC Pride experience was sad due to
- 16:42Speaker 2: insecurity surrounding the no fats, no fin stigma within the
- 16:44Speaker 2: queer community. My response that somebody literally just liked. Thank
- 16:49Speaker 2: you to whomever you were, it says, I think the
- 16:51Speaker 2: question is who exactly do you want to be accepted by?
- 16:55Speaker 2: Big boy Pride had a slate of events over the
- 16:57Speaker 2: entire weekend, and if that's not your scene, cool, A
- 17:00Speaker 2: good number of the events were inclusive of all shapes, colors,
- 17:03Speaker 2: and sizes.
- 17:05Speaker 4: A lot of times you probably don't want nobody that's
- 17:07Speaker 4: the same size as him, right, and.
- 17:13Speaker 2: You know, ship like that.
- 17:13Speaker 3: I don't understand that, Like I like that part I
- 17:17Speaker 3: don't understand. It's like, Yo, you are this way, but
- 17:20Speaker 3: then you don't want people that are like you don't
- 17:21Speaker 3: want somebody that's that's that's like, that's like you.
- 17:25Speaker 2: You don't you want the people that are opposite from you.
- 17:27Speaker 3: And while I understand sometimes opposite is a track, but
- 17:30Speaker 3: I look at it and that I look at it
- 17:32Speaker 3: in the aspect of it's like, Yo, you're you're going
- 17:34Speaker 3: in places that you know that you can't get into,
- 17:38Speaker 3: and you're you're you're trying to push you know, you're trying.
- 17:41Speaker 3: You're trying to push it like like I like these
- 17:44Speaker 3: other people that are like but but it's like, yo,
- 17:46Speaker 3: you like the people that don't like you, that don't
- 17:48Speaker 3: that's not gonna give you a chance to actually be
- 17:50Speaker 3: a part of said situation because they don't they're not
- 17:55Speaker 3: the type of people that they want to be associated with.
- 17:58Speaker 3: So it's like it's like you're trying to get best
- 18:01Speaker 3: to go. You're trying to get best to go, get in,
- 18:03Speaker 3: get in somewhere that don't that like, yeah, you're just
- 18:08Speaker 3: trying to get best to get into a place that
- 18:09Speaker 3: don't like that don't want you, that's not gonna respect
- 18:11Speaker 3: you anyway, and it's like, why do you want to
- 18:12Speaker 3: be there? Why would you want to be around people?
- 18:15Speaker 3: That's something that's you know, even if they do let
- 18:17Speaker 3: you in, you know, it's not they're not genuinely let
- 18:19Speaker 3: you win because they want to let you in. You know,
- 18:20Speaker 3: they they gonna pull they're gonna pull some YANKI shit,
- 18:24Speaker 3: they won't, you know what I mean.
- 18:25Speaker 2: And it's like, yeah, you don't want that.
- 18:27Speaker 3: So it's like but the bringing, you know, bringing full
- 18:30Speaker 3: circle is like I'm just saying, it's like, it's so
- 18:32Speaker 3: many ways to find people that are like you or
- 18:35Speaker 3: like like Shanna said, find the tribe.
- 18:37Speaker 2: It's so many ways.
- 18:38Speaker 3: It's so many ways to find it that show you
- 18:40Speaker 3: you don't have to be like, you don't have to
- 18:43Speaker 3: be lonely unless you purposely you know, you're purposely lonely.
- 18:46Speaker 3: And there's some ship that you gotta you know, you
- 18:48Speaker 3: gotta work out on your own because it's clubs everywhere,
- 18:53Speaker 3: there's space for everybody. Yeah, we I'll say that the
- 18:57Speaker 3: new the new you know, the new generation, are doing
- 19:00Speaker 3: a better job, are doing a better job of being
- 19:02Speaker 3: open about the spaces more inclusive for everybody versus you know,
- 19:06Speaker 3: you gotta you know, the only way that you won't
- 19:08Speaker 3: get into certain spaces if you know somebody, to know somebody,
- 19:11Speaker 3: to know somebody.
- 19:12Speaker 2: But also you also have to understand that there's a
- 19:15Speaker 2: game and unfortunately, if you don't meet the if it
- 19:19Speaker 2: bothers you that much. And I hate to kind of
- 19:21Speaker 2: just reduce everything. I just sit down to this point.
- 19:25Speaker 2: Get in where you fit in. Yeah, find your tribe,
- 19:27Speaker 2: or if you want to, if you want to be
- 19:29Speaker 2: accepted by this group of fit guys who you know
- 19:33Speaker 2: only hang around fit guys, go to the gym, do
- 19:36Speaker 2: your fifteen thousand steps today, go work out for six
- 19:38Speaker 2: to eight months, lose the weight, and then you'll be
- 19:40Speaker 2: in the crowd, in the in crowd.
- 19:42Speaker 3: Or you just just make take to make the effort
- 19:46Speaker 3: of just going to the gym, because a lot of
- 19:48Speaker 3: the times it's not it's not even about it's not
- 19:50Speaker 3: even about them, about how you look. It's the fact
- 19:52Speaker 3: that you got that same drive, that same drive as
- 19:55Speaker 3: they do.
- 19:56Speaker 2: You feel what I'm saying, So you use a fact
- 20:00Speaker 2: it boils down to being equally yoked.
- 20:03Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, because it's like you got that nigga, you know,
- 20:07Speaker 3: you could be a fat dude. You know, no respect
- 20:09Speaker 3: of the fat dudes, but you can be in that gym.
- 20:11Speaker 3: But you could be in that gym and fit them
- 20:14Speaker 3: fit muscle and muscle. Niggas looking at you be like,
- 20:16Speaker 3: oh yeah, y'all see y'all sing y'all saying you come on.
- 20:18Speaker 2: Over on me a week.
- 20:19Speaker 4: It can be big.
- 20:20Speaker 2: You can be a big and it's still lift more weight,
- 20:23Speaker 2: push more weight, move more run more than anybody. That's
- 20:26Speaker 2: that ship.
- 20:27Speaker 3: At that point, you're yeah, you finding get tried, like
- 20:29Speaker 3: you finding get tried, but you also respect for said
- 20:32Speaker 3: and said tribe.
- 20:33Speaker 2: And I'm gonna also say this as a big baby.
- 20:36Speaker 2: I've been big my whole fucking life. I ain't never
- 20:40Speaker 2: a problem getting nigger keep him one, ain't never hm
- 20:46Speaker 2: hm hmm. What made you paint say that?
- 20:51Speaker 4: Be?
- 20:51Speaker 2: You don't mean like white on rice on a paper
- 20:53Speaker 2: plate in the snowstone. It's confidence you will be. You
- 20:57Speaker 2: will unfortunately be lockout of rooms and space. This is
- 21:00Speaker 2: because you don't meet the ideal, and it's all superficial,
- 21:03Speaker 2: of course, it is what it is. That's life, that society,
- 21:05Speaker 2: that's people. But again there's a space for everybody. Find
- 21:10Speaker 2: your tribe or do the work to meet the superficial
- 21:12Speaker 2: ideal to fit into those spaces. And I'm like, yeah,
- 21:16Speaker 2: everything for everybody, and you won't be accepted about everybody.
- 21:18Speaker 2: Everybody ain't gonna like you. Do what you can do,
- 21:21Speaker 2: you know what. I'm so glad that we learned that.
- 21:23Speaker 3: We learned that as kids, and I feel like then
- 21:26Speaker 3: the next generation that they're gonna learn that ship.
- 21:29Speaker 2: I don't think that's necessarily a kid things specific to millennials.
- 21:32Speaker 2: You learn it as you get older. You can't please everybody, right,
- 21:37Speaker 2: Everybody ain't gonna be for you. Everybody ain't gonna like you,
- 21:40Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.
- 21:41Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, but what I'm saying it was like
- 21:42Speaker 3: we get told that. We got told that when we
- 21:44Speaker 3: were little, especially when we came you know, you come
- 21:46Speaker 3: home crying about your friend and we like like yo,
- 21:49Speaker 3: then we're like, yo, he wasn't your friend in the
- 21:51Speaker 3: They wasn't your friend in the first place. And it's
- 21:53Speaker 3: like it's always gonna see though, oh yeah, absolutely absolutely,
- 21:58Speaker 3: Mama always knows.
- 22:00Speaker 4: Did she see anybody, My mama told me what my
- 22:02Speaker 4: damn friend? They wasn't my damn friend.
- 22:04Speaker 2: Even even recently, Yeah, Yep, I'm gonna see it before
- 22:10Speaker 2: you do.
- 22:10Speaker 4: To this damn day, she ain't been wrong yet to
- 22:13Speaker 4: this day.
- 22:16Speaker 3: Yeah, when I was talking about these niggas, like are
- 22:18Speaker 3: they gonna do the same thing for you?
- 22:21Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, do you have experiences in
- 22:23Speaker 2: this showing like in the space in spaces of navigating
- 22:26Speaker 2: like as a woman, especially like a straight woman navigating dating,
- 22:32Speaker 2: navigating being in like these social spaces where ideals are
- 22:36Speaker 2: maybe this, and trying to like maybe meet an aesthetic
- 22:40Speaker 2: or meet an ideal. How like, how did you navigate
- 22:43Speaker 2: these spaces or did you even bother to try to
- 22:46Speaker 2: navigate these spaces? No? So I had my my my.
- 22:56Speaker 4: Time where I tried to fit in, and as I
- 23:01Speaker 4: got older, I just stopped giving the fuck.
- 23:03Speaker 2: I don't need to fit in. I don't need to
- 23:05Speaker 2: I don't. I remember one.
- 23:07Speaker 4: Particular situation that stop giving, baby, when that last fuck
- 23:14Speaker 4: to give, and it's like, oh, it's like taking a
- 23:18Speaker 4: hot shower after you and came in the house that
- 23:20Speaker 4: you've been out all goddamn day and tied.
- 23:22Speaker 2: You come and take that first shot, sit down and
- 23:28Speaker 2: you got your food, got your and be like.
- 23:32Speaker 4: Knowing you've been waiting to get to the bed all
- 23:33Speaker 4: god damn lay down in the baby. That's how, that's how,
- 23:38Speaker 4: that's how it feels to not give a fuck, because
- 23:41Speaker 4: I've realized in one particular friendship. I remember, I didn't
- 23:49Speaker 4: catch it at first that I was changing myself to
- 23:51Speaker 4: fit in with with with her friend group. And I
- 23:54Speaker 4: didn't realize that first until somebody said to me, if
- 23:57Speaker 4: if if you hadn't told me, I would have owned
- 24:00Speaker 4: that y'all was friends prior to this this being in
- 24:03Speaker 4: this this this space together, I wouldn't have known that
- 24:06Speaker 4: y'all was already friends, that y'all didn't meet, you know,
- 24:10Speaker 4: in this particular That's what I'm looking for in this
- 24:15Speaker 4: particular setting, that y'all was friends prior to this long
- 24:19Speaker 4: term friend nonetheless.
- 24:20Speaker 2: And I was like, what you mean by that? And
- 24:21Speaker 2: he was like, this is the way that she talked
- 24:23Speaker 2: to you.
- 24:23Speaker 4: It seemed like depending on who around, and I wasn't
- 24:26Speaker 4: catching it at first. I just laughed everything off, but
- 24:28Speaker 4: then I started paying closer attention.
- 24:29Speaker 2: I was like, damn right, yeah, I'm like, yeah, she
- 24:33Speaker 2: really did.
- 24:34Speaker 4: And I actually had to pull her up on it
- 24:35Speaker 4: one day because she she did some real real foul ship.
- 24:39Speaker 2: When we was at an event and I had to
- 24:42Speaker 2: sleep on it. It was bothering me, and it was
- 24:45Speaker 2: still bothering me the next day.
- 24:46Speaker 4: I knew I was going to see the next day,
- 24:47Speaker 4: and I pulled away from everybody else.
- 24:49Speaker 2: I didn't even do her like she did me. I
- 24:51Speaker 2: pulled away from let me talk to you. Yes, we've
- 24:53Speaker 2: been friends a long time, and I feel like something right. Yeah,
- 24:58Speaker 2: you know what was a response to that? She she looking
- 25:03Speaker 2: at it. Now. The apology wasn't genuine. She was like,
- 25:07Speaker 2: it was it was.
- 25:07Speaker 4: It was, oh, I'm sorry you felt that way, But
- 25:11Speaker 4: it wasn't like, oh, I apologize, that was my intention.
- 25:15Speaker 4: I'm like, they know it was I'm sorry you felt
- 25:16Speaker 4: that way, But I felt like you was doing X
- 25:18Speaker 4: y Z.
- 25:19Speaker 2: No.
- 25:19Speaker 4: You wanted to try to show off for these bitches
- 25:21Speaker 4: who you were trying to be like. That's what it was.
- 25:23Speaker 4: But you know, highsight of twenty twenty, it is what
- 25:26Speaker 4: it is. You know, still got love for I just
- 25:29Speaker 4: we just don't fuck with each other no more. And
- 25:31Speaker 4: I'm okay with that. I wish nothing but the best
- 25:33Speaker 4: in life. I'm good. I'm good on it. But now
- 25:37Speaker 4: I've realized I don't hit to fit in no more.
- 25:39Speaker 4: I'm I'm loud before you have an issue with people saying,
- 25:42Speaker 4: oh you loud, or you do too much, or you
- 25:43Speaker 4: this Okay, I came up to the womb too much.
- 25:46Speaker 2: What the fuck do you want me to do about it?
- 25:47Speaker 2: Check it up with me. That's a whole damn life.
- 25:49Speaker 2: Take it up with Jesus. I don't hear she's calm
- 25:51Speaker 2: down now, her at forty before her at twelve. Listen,
- 25:56Speaker 2: God damn.
- 25:57Speaker 4: I don't give it dad. I'm still gonna laugh loud
- 25:59Speaker 4: as a motherfucker. You to like my I don't give
- 26:00Speaker 4: a damn. I don't give a ship. I'm still gonna
- 26:04Speaker 4: laugh out as motherfucker. I'm still gonna cust like a sale.
- 26:07Speaker 4: I'm still gonna see what the fuck I want to say.
- 26:09Speaker 4: As long as I'm not hurting you, I'm not bothering you.
- 26:12Speaker 4: How does how I am affect you? It don't if
- 26:15Speaker 4: you don't like to stay away from me, and I'm
- 26:16Speaker 4: perfectly found there. I no longer care about people's opinions.
- 26:20Speaker 4: I no longer care about how such and such feel
- 26:22Speaker 4: about me. I don't give a fuck because last time
- 26:24Speaker 4: I checked. My name is the only one on the
- 26:25Speaker 4: need to this goddamn house. You ain't paying none of
- 26:27Speaker 4: these bills, and you ain't offer no money towards my
- 26:29Speaker 4: son going to college. I get.
- 26:31Speaker 2: I don't give fuck. I don't care. I am who
- 26:34Speaker 2: I am.
- 26:35Speaker 4: I'm not with people will consider classic beauty. No, I
- 26:39Speaker 4: don't have a flat stomach. Baby, I got rolls, rolls
- 26:43Speaker 4: Hawaiians it, dude, I got stretched monks, I got a belly,
- 26:51Speaker 4: I got back rolls. But when I take this bra off,
- 26:54Speaker 4: my titty' is gonna drop like an album on the
- 26:56Speaker 4: first of the month.
- 26:59Speaker 3: Okay, both guess what.
- 27:02Speaker 2: Somebody gonna like it? Mm hmm. But I don't care
- 27:09Speaker 2: about that. So now I went through that.
- 27:11Speaker 4: Yeah, I know what that feels like, trying to navigate,
- 27:13Speaker 4: trying to figure out what you fit in and all
- 27:14Speaker 4: of the other stuff.
- 27:15Speaker 2: That's what you don't fit in. That's why you couldn't
- 27:17Speaker 2: find a way to fit in. You don't. You're not
- 27:18Speaker 2: supposed to you don't. You're not supposed to fit I
- 27:20Speaker 2: ain't no puzzle, pachitch what you said?
- 27:22Speaker 3: I mean, how you sent us a text message yesterday
- 27:26Speaker 3: about oh yeah, like the question I.
- 27:30Speaker 2: Saw the prot randomly on like Instagram when I was
- 27:33Speaker 2: scrolling scroll to fucking much and the person said, I
- 27:36Speaker 2: sent it to answer one too, And the question was
- 27:39Speaker 2: what was the question? What was your like? What was
- 27:42Speaker 2: you telling? What were you warn people about about me? Yeah?
- 27:45Speaker 2: What would you if you had to warn somebody about
- 27:47Speaker 2: me before they met me? What would you say? Yes?
- 27:50Speaker 3: It was and yeah, I felt like answers is pretty
- 27:54Speaker 3: That's why.
- 27:54Speaker 2: I didn't answer.
- 27:55Speaker 4: I just agree because I was like, damn, that's what
- 27:57Speaker 4: I was going to say. It's not much the warm
- 28:00Speaker 4: people about just don't play in his face and don't
- 28:02Speaker 4: take his kindness for weakness and don't touch your mon vote.
- 28:07Speaker 2: Yeah that that last one. He don't like that.
- 28:10Speaker 3: Yeah, but it made it made me think no, but
- 28:13Speaker 3: it stead of made me think about like yo, people
- 28:15Speaker 3: like when people say, like will people say about me
- 28:18Speaker 3: like moving in and stuff like that, like you know
- 28:20Speaker 3: about like before you meet me, he's an asshole? And
- 28:23Speaker 3: I said, and judgmental virgo, But I thought about like
- 28:29Speaker 3: Shauna was saying it, did I like, okay, making sure
- 28:33Speaker 3: that man.
- 28:36Speaker 2: Admit that I can be judgmental?
- 28:38Speaker 3: Usually am no, No, I usually try to meet people
- 28:42Speaker 3: where they usually try to meet people where they at
- 28:43Speaker 3: before I play judgment.
- 28:45Speaker 2: Okay, fair enough with new people, but around us, Oh no,
- 28:48Speaker 2: I'm gonna judge all day. Like nah, But you ain't
- 28:52Speaker 2: think that went through, did you? Okay?
- 28:54Speaker 3: No, no, what I'm saying?
- 28:55Speaker 2: And what did you learn? What you learn?
- 28:58Speaker 3: Yeah that's.
- 29:03Speaker 1: All right?
- 29:06Speaker 2: Oh damn right, depending what it is? That was just stupid.
- 29:10Speaker 3: Hold up now if you get that, all right, all right,
- 29:14Speaker 3: that's that. That's already I already knew that. I already
- 29:17Speaker 3: knew what the fun the outcome was going to be there,
- 29:19Speaker 3: I let you do it anyway.
- 29:20Speaker 2: That's the episode timing all right, a r D. That
- 29:24Speaker 2: was a good conversation, you know because you definitely passed
- 29:27Speaker 2: the time. Of course, you know the week, that's right,
- 29:30Speaker 2: But it's good, like again, yeah, that's fine to try
- 29:37Speaker 2: that thing.
- 29:38Speaker 3: Yeah, that was that was That was a good that's
- 29:40Speaker 3: a good that's a good topic. And I don't think
- 29:43Speaker 3: that a lot of people actually, like you know, a
- 29:45Speaker 3: lot of people actually sit and think about that.
- 29:47Speaker 2: Ship of course you got to and it's you're.
- 29:49Speaker 3: Trying to be with everybody. But you know, the one
- 29:52Speaker 3: lesson that we learned the kids is that you can't
- 29:54Speaker 3: please everybody.
- 29:55Speaker 2: You're not going to somebody's always have something to say
- 29:57Speaker 2: to you or about you. That's why I don't give
- 29:59Speaker 2: a f Fuck them and the birds of my mother,
- 30:01Speaker 2: God rest her soul. Hey ma, fuck.
- 30:04Speaker 3: Them ship, that's Marion Manshall for years like yo, ship,
- 30:09Speaker 3: Even when you want to read these asked questions.
- 30:14Speaker 2: Man, fuck them because that is a questions because you
- 30:17Speaker 2: know why.
- 30:18Speaker 4: That's what I've been calling ask questions because you know why.
- 30:21Speaker 4: Because them because.
- 30:24Speaker 3: Ship, honestly, wonder word of advice that's gonna get your
- 30:29Speaker 3: That's gonna that might get you through a lot of ship.
- 30:32Speaker 3: Like I'm not that that right there, You quote me
- 30:34Speaker 3: on that that that fuck them will get you through
- 30:37Speaker 3: a lot of like get you through a lot.
- 30:38Speaker 2: Of life starts happening and will happen for you when
- 30:40Speaker 2: you stop pretending to just be your fucking self and.
- 30:43Speaker 4: Part if somebody wants you to change to you all
- 30:46Speaker 4: to fucking fit in with them, that's.
- 30:49Speaker 2: Not going to hop over hurdles and do all this
- 30:50Speaker 2: stuff to please anybody out the outside of yourself. My
- 30:55Speaker 2: thought process is and this is what I carry. This
- 30:58Speaker 2: is how I made peace with my I am the
- 31:01Speaker 2: only person that fuck get that. I am the only
- 31:07Speaker 2: person I will be with until I take my last
- 31:09Speaker 2: breath on this earth. I am the only person even
- 31:11Speaker 2: if I get married and have kids, I am the
- 31:14Speaker 2: only person I will be with every day until I
- 31:17Speaker 2: take my last breath on this earth, to this world alone.
- 31:20Speaker 2: I'm a dialog. I'm gonna get dead on moan, and
- 31:23Speaker 2: I refuse to be uncomfortable because I'm trying to please
- 31:28Speaker 2: you and take you into consideration over my mother fucking self.
- 31:35Speaker 2: I just know, hit this pink shirt. One that's nice, that's.
- 31:42Speaker 3: Not, and I'll be high, and I'll be the one
- 31:44Speaker 3: that's high.
- 31:47Speaker 2: You get that from the swap meet? What that says, Sarachi? Well,
- 31:57Speaker 2: what's parties? The mattresses say, goosey yok you know that's
- 32:14Speaker 2: a catch, little wife boy, the wife boy. Nobody got
- 32:18Speaker 2: this from me.
- 32:19Speaker 3: Okay, got a j imagine and imagine John too, so.
- 32:28Speaker 2: You got imagine same th Goosey set niggas Lady Delicious,
- 32:34Speaker 2: Hey nigga, tell me boy, look at hey, Bubbleicious. That
- 32:38Speaker 2: was something you did to me. I don't remember. I
- 32:41Speaker 2: don't remember what it was, but she did stopping to
- 32:44Speaker 2: hitch you are ready for Question of the Week. Oh
- 32:50Speaker 2: and I'm sorry, brother, cut you off. Where you done? Okay,
- 32:57Speaker 2: whatever you say? So the mattresses, he counted.
- 33:07Speaker 1: That's that's the song that episode.
- 33:15Speaker 2: That now, now that's funny. That was good.
- 33:35Speaker 3: That was good.
- 33:37Speaker 2: I mean, nigga, you looking like pepto bismo over there.
- 33:40Speaker 2: You knew the drugs us catch on at some point,
- 33:45Speaker 2: I'm just saying birthday, birthday. Okay. That was fun tough
- 33:54Speaker 2: question of the week. And on the Question of the
- 33:56Speaker 2: Week segment of the show, I scoured into webs read
- 33:59Speaker 2: my tic talk f y p page. I scoured him
- 34:02Speaker 2: into webs buy shirts of sin, and the said in
- 34:06Speaker 2: a group chat for us doing sh brady to hear
- 34:12Speaker 2: the question pepto bismo Boom boom pink.
- 34:35Speaker 3: Twenty two.
- 34:40Speaker 2: My lord today. Oh that was funny. You know, he's
- 34:44Speaker 2: he's saving up his energy. He's responded, but he's like,
- 34:46Speaker 2: I'm gonna get both these niggas when the time is right.
- 34:49Speaker 2: He okay, chilling, but that it's gonna come fly it
- 34:55Speaker 2: at some point. I need to on next week since
- 34:59Speaker 2: we don't go. It's damn cool. Oh god, that was
- 35:02Speaker 2: funny though. You by the way, a bulletproof. Okay, we
- 35:14Speaker 2: got ten minutes. I got ten minutes. Sure that's enough
- 35:19Speaker 2: time to the sweat. Bitch, you get three positions out
- 35:27Speaker 2: of ten minutes. As long as I hear maca chee sounds,
- 35:30Speaker 2: I'm good. You hear me trying to bitch up like grit.
- 35:40Speaker 2: It ain't about the destination.
- 35:41Speaker 4: Nigga's fine about the look, it's the journey.
- 35:48Speaker 2: I'm still here, all right. I want to know the
- 35:53Speaker 2: most insane thing. You're exited. I don't want he cheated
- 35:56Speaker 2: on me. I want the things only a psychopath would do.
- 36:00Speaker 2: Jemi Christmas beat me. And then when I told his mom,
- 36:05Speaker 2: she told me that doesn't sound like my son. When
- 36:08Speaker 2: we split, he knocked the sonic rings out of her
- 36:10Speaker 2: and stole her car and purse. It made the news,
- 36:12Speaker 2: and I called her and told her it doesn't sound
- 36:14Speaker 2: like her son, but she should give it time and
- 36:16Speaker 2: let him calm down to see where things go. I
- 36:20Speaker 2: kind of carrying on. I allowed it. That's it. That
- 36:24Speaker 2: ain't that ain't no, that ain't know?
- 36:25Speaker 3: Like what what?
- 36:27Speaker 2: What the aks did? How many? The craziest thing?
- 36:29Speaker 1: You know?
- 36:30Speaker 3: Because you called the bag and gave her the thing,
- 36:31Speaker 3: You're not the ax baby crazy thing was he beat
- 36:33Speaker 3: your ass and give me His mother be like.
- 36:37Speaker 2: Mm hmm something what you did? Like what you just
- 36:39Speaker 2: not my son?
- 36:40Speaker 3: But what you did?
- 36:41Speaker 2: Then he knocked your head? Remembering enough with Jennifer Lopez.
- 36:45Speaker 2: But she went to his mother and she said he
- 36:47Speaker 2: beat me. She was like, okay, mom, sorry, what did
- 36:49Speaker 2: you do? M what did you do? Good movie? Nick?
- 36:57Speaker 3: She got some you know, she ain't got you good
- 36:59Speaker 3: movies end?
- 37:02Speaker 2: Oh made the man had one bab she Monster in
- 37:04Speaker 2: law was good too. Oh ship, I forgot about monsterl
- 37:07Speaker 2: Okay for that's all I got for you. Y'are gonna
- 37:11Speaker 2: put some respect on Jennifer linn Lopez's name. The devil.
- 37:17Speaker 3: They go to gage end right there when you when
- 37:19Speaker 3: you identify that persons in the right, like when you
- 37:24Speaker 3: identify the person her first, middle.
- 37:27Speaker 2: And last name. Bro, we can't we ain't gonna get
- 37:41Speaker 2: look like that is that you knew she was a
- 37:49Speaker 2: pro because help you with your little test.
- 37:52Speaker 3: Your little test, Hey on, man, when you do the
- 38:00Speaker 3: stereotypical list, weel it's just funny.
- 38:04Speaker 2: I'm glad you take joy from because nigga, it hurt
- 38:06Speaker 2: to talk like that. I'm Damn, my god, I used
- 38:10Speaker 2: to talking with Oh god, I can't say that. I'm
- 38:20Speaker 2: He just said, did you know something I used to
- 38:24Speaker 2: talking when that shipped my mother? I want to know
- 38:26Speaker 2: the most of the same thing. I don't want, he slashed,
- 38:29Speaker 2: she cheated on me. I want things only a psychopath
- 38:31Speaker 2: with them. When I was him and gymmer pregnant with
- 38:34Speaker 2: our daughter, he waited for the bluetooth to connect in
- 38:37Speaker 2: the car before driving me to the hospital, his eggs
- 38:46Speaker 2: downing music. I would have his throat reading.
- 38:55Speaker 3: Oh man, that's fucking funny.
- 38:58Speaker 2: Next one, I want to know the most insane thing
- 39:01Speaker 2: you're ex did. I don't want they cheated on me.
- 39:03Speaker 2: I wanted things only a psychopath would do. My ex
- 39:06Speaker 2: boyfriend had a dog named Sidney, dated a girl named
- 39:09Speaker 2: Sidney before me dated me. My name is Sidney, and
- 39:12Speaker 2: then he cheated on me with a different girl named Sidney.
- 39:16Speaker 2: That niggas just moved to Australia just because it's Sydney,
- 39:24Speaker 2: and their creator was like, oh so he is a
- 39:26Speaker 2: Sydney fetish.
- 39:28Speaker 3: Mm mmmmm. Next one, come out, I don't match because
- 39:33Speaker 3: your name and fucking Sydney, but you won't change.
- 39:35Speaker 2: I need you to change your name to Sydney questions
- 39:38Speaker 2: that mm hmmm, mm hmm. My question is going, okay,
- 39:52Speaker 2: I want to know, you know, the most insane thing
- 39:54Speaker 2: nex did. I don't want. They cheated on me. I
- 39:57Speaker 2: wanted things only a psychopath would do. He ned on
- 40:00Speaker 2: me and ended up having a kid and named the
- 40:01Speaker 2: kid after me.
- 40:03Speaker 4: That's weird, bro, that's weird as fuck.
- 40:10Speaker 3: Hey, hey, Brian, he was cheating on what he was
- 40:12Speaker 3: thinking about her.
- 40:14Speaker 2: I was thinking about beautiful mud. You ain't been thinking
- 40:18Speaker 2: of me. I got a beautiful name four little girl baby.
- 40:23Speaker 4: And it's the baby mother I would find if I
- 40:25Speaker 4: find that ship out. I'm punching somebody.
- 40:28Speaker 2: Friend, this is my girlfriend, Tiffany. No, my baby is
- 40:33Speaker 2: so different. It's and I eat not with a wide
- 40:37Speaker 2: mm hmm. That's creepy.
- 40:41Speaker 3: I mean yeah, I mean it's not not necessarily creepy
- 40:45Speaker 3: over here.
- 40:46Speaker 2: That is.
- 40:46Speaker 3: So that's some ship, like I said, just like, I mean, yeah,
- 40:50Speaker 3: cheating on you, but I was thinking about you the
- 40:52Speaker 3: whole time.
- 40:52Speaker 2: Girl. Next one, I want to know the most insane
- 40:56Speaker 2: thing your ex did. I don't want here. She cheated
- 40:58Speaker 2: on me. I want things only a psychopath. That's what
- 41:00Speaker 2: do found out? I had an insurance policy of around
- 41:03Speaker 2: a million dollars after incredible amount of mishaps on my health.
- 41:06Speaker 2: As soon as things ended, I mysteriously got better. M
- 41:10Speaker 2: And I'm just trying to take you out for the money. Right.
- 41:15Speaker 2: She's still poisoning Bill. She's been poisoning him for a
- 41:17Speaker 2: but this whole season.
- 41:18Speaker 4: And I need somebody to see her doing it. She
- 41:21Speaker 4: didn't have done it out in the public. She did
- 41:23Speaker 4: it at the bar and nobody seen her. And I
- 41:28Speaker 4: don't want it to be Tomorrow's because he's not gonna
- 41:29Speaker 4: believe Tomorrow's right anyway.
- 41:32Speaker 2: I do know now he he probably moving towards that.
- 41:38Speaker 2: Next one, I want to know the most insane thing
- 41:40Speaker 2: you ex did. I don't want they cheated on me.
- 41:42Speaker 2: I want things only a psychopath would do. He tried
- 41:45Speaker 2: to prove my eyes open to get into my phone,
- 41:47Speaker 2: like the scene from bird Box. That's why I good
- 41:55Speaker 2: fund of YO.
- 41:57Speaker 3: I send the girl cat your husband after Heath and
- 42:00Speaker 3: his praying, and he put his head open, his eyes
- 42:02Speaker 3: and she got a lot of.
- 42:06Speaker 2: Thanks. He took off running. I might need definiated. Next one,
- 42:12Speaker 2: I want to know the most insane thing you're asked it.
- 42:14Speaker 2: I don't want they cheated on me. I wanted things
- 42:16Speaker 2: only a psychopath would do. He invited me to his
- 42:19Speaker 2: daughter's first birthday party. We had been together for five
- 42:22Speaker 2: years and it wasn't mine. Mm hmmm, mm hmmm. That's
- 42:27Speaker 2: how I found ou about my little sister.
- 42:32Speaker 3: That's how I found Oh no, that's how I fund
- 42:34Speaker 3: about my mom, about my little step brother. At that time,
- 42:37Speaker 3: like a little baby pop up, I see pictures on.
- 42:39Speaker 2: Who the fuck is that? I was like, that's your
- 42:42Speaker 2: little brother. Mm hm, I'm sorry, but who the fuck
- 42:45Speaker 2: is that?
- 42:46Speaker 3: Then I say no, looked at him.
- 42:47Speaker 2: It was like he know he ain't us, he want us,
- 42:51Speaker 2: but we want to talk about how my stepmother knew
- 42:54Speaker 2: that my cousin existed. But she was like, well, you
- 42:56Speaker 2: might be your your brother or it might be your cousin.
- 43:00Speaker 2: By following up because with my boys back in the
- 43:02Speaker 2: seventies and eighties, they was laying in low and spreading
- 43:05Speaker 2: it wide. I want to know the most of the
- 43:07Speaker 2: same thing your ex did. I don't want they cheated
- 43:09Speaker 2: on me. I want things only a psychopath would do.
- 43:13Speaker 2: He still wanted to go to the water park after
- 43:15Speaker 2: committing vehicular manslaughter.
- 43:17Speaker 6: Excuse me, we don't kings in over there gots when
- 43:26Speaker 6: we leave. Hey, yo, got a little stained.
- 43:28Speaker 2: On, y know, nigga, that's that.
- 43:30Speaker 3: Listen. I've been working. I've been working seven days a
- 43:34Speaker 3: week for eight months. Were going to this motherfucker?
- 43:37Speaker 2: Oh can did I just raise somebody over in this
- 43:39Speaker 2: motherfucker coffage? We going to s fucking King's Dominion? You
- 43:44Speaker 2: took out a whole school bus full of kids? Then
- 43:47Speaker 2: all right? I called the police, Just call the police,
- 43:49Speaker 2: send them there. Ship we going to. I'm getting on
- 43:51Speaker 2: the raging rapids next one. Yeah, fuck that ship. I
- 43:59Speaker 2: want to know most of the same thing you ex did.
- 44:01Speaker 2: I don't want he or she cheated on me. I
- 44:02Speaker 2: want thing it's only a psychopath would do. He didn't
- 44:05Speaker 2: tell his family be broke up for six months. I
- 44:08Speaker 2: ran to his dad at the store and he asked
- 44:09Speaker 2: why I hadn't been at any holiday parties? M No,
- 44:16Speaker 2: what did you mean we broke up eight months ago?
- 44:19Speaker 2: Mister John, he didn't tell you. Let me tell you
- 44:26Speaker 2: something normal. That's no. No, that's what a lot of niggas.
- 44:29Speaker 3: That's what a lot of niggas do when they break
- 44:30Speaker 3: up with when they break up with the girl and
- 44:32Speaker 3: they don't talk, they don't tell the parents, They don't
- 44:34Speaker 3: tell the parents what actually happened. So then when the
- 44:37Speaker 3: parents see you, when the parents see the see your
- 44:39Speaker 3: ex and passing, and then they find out some ship. Yeah, yeah,
- 44:43Speaker 3: you such a yo. Yeah, don't such a sofa for
- 44:45Speaker 3: that ship. Just just tell the truth for the first time,
- 44:49Speaker 3: just being like, oh, we're not together for this reason.
- 44:51Speaker 3: But although I can equally understand that you don't want
- 44:55Speaker 3: to be like, yo, you don't want to tell nobody
- 44:56Speaker 3: it was your fault, but yeah, your tone. Nigga told
- 45:00Speaker 3: them that y'all at least get my heads up that
- 45:02Speaker 3: y'all broke up or something, because.
- 45:04Speaker 2: For real, we got three more. Then we can go
- 45:06Speaker 2: into the Q and A segment. I want to know
- 45:09Speaker 2: the most the same thing you're exited. I don't want
- 45:11Speaker 2: they cheated on me. I want things only psychopaths would do.
- 45:15Speaker 2: He faked his death to avoid showing him for his
- 45:17Speaker 2: son's preschool graduation that I didn't even invite him to.
- 45:25Speaker 3: I'm sorry this nigga pulled an Alexander Hamilton.
- 45:30Speaker 2: That's strange. That's that's strange.
- 45:32Speaker 3: You put your ship out there. You put your ship
- 45:34Speaker 3: out there. They didn't even need to go out.
- 45:36Speaker 2: That didn't even go out, and nobody fucking knew. He
- 45:40Speaker 2: wasn't even invited. That's what I'm saying. Sorry, I can't
- 45:42Speaker 2: make it. I'm in the hospital, almost died, na make it.
- 45:46Speaker 3: Whip No, no, never mind, Okay, all right, all right,
- 45:52Speaker 3: it wasn't It wasn't like that. No, that nigga was
- 45:54Speaker 3: looking for attention because you didn't invite him to that ship,
- 45:58Speaker 3: to that ship show.
- 45:59Speaker 2: He had to make the cold invite. But you know,
- 46:01Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna die that day. She didn't know,
- 46:06Speaker 2: she didn't invite him, she ain't invited them.
- 46:08Speaker 3: Was like I might call off, Yo, you aren't invited,
- 46:13Speaker 3: and you don't think that's strange that you didn't invite me.
- 46:15Speaker 2: I mean, I know I died, No, but I mean
- 46:16Speaker 2: they bought me back and I'm here now, got three
- 46:21Speaker 2: years ago. I'm saying. I mean, I'm here that.
- 46:25Speaker 3: If you would have invited me to the until the graduation,
- 46:28Speaker 3: and I wouldn't have been I wouldn't have been in
- 46:29Speaker 3: that position in the first I wouldn't have been in
- 46:34Speaker 3: that car accident because wouldn't I wouldn't have been going
- 46:36Speaker 3: down Monument when I could have did, when I could
- 46:37Speaker 3: have took when I could have took me Overn Parkway.
- 46:40Speaker 2: I wouldn'tide of town. This is all your I wanted
- 46:47Speaker 2: the most insane thing you're ex died. I don't want
- 46:49Speaker 2: they cheated on me. I want things only a psychopath
- 46:51Speaker 2: would do. I've been in the hospital for four days
- 46:54Speaker 2: on a liquid diet. I was so hungry, and he
- 46:56Speaker 2: knew this. He bought a fast food and ate it
- 46:58Speaker 2: in front of me. My asked him to eat it
- 47:01Speaker 2: in his car. He is down my ex.
- 47:04Speaker 4: As he should be, because my mama did that me
- 47:07Speaker 4: one time, and I was about to have surgery and
- 47:09Speaker 4: she the team in my damn room with a breakfast
- 47:12Speaker 4: platter and my fucking feelings.
- 47:13Speaker 2: So her man, I ain't been able to eat since yesterday.
- 47:16Speaker 2: Why don't you call me? He come in here with
- 47:17Speaker 2: a fucking bacon and how to get out? She said,
- 47:23Speaker 2: you put me out gas, take your ass and the
- 47:25Speaker 2: lobby till you finished eating.
- 47:26Speaker 4: I'm here smelling all that bacon and eggs and cheese goodness,
- 47:29Speaker 4: and I can't eat nothing.
- 47:30Speaker 6: That sounds like.
- 47:37Speaker 3: They can starve it and ship, and you come ahead
- 47:39Speaker 3: with a goddamn breakfast platter you last one.
- 47:44Speaker 2: I want to know the boat's the same thing your
- 47:45Speaker 2: ex did. I don't want here. She cheated on me.
- 47:48Speaker 2: I want things only a psychopath would do. He loosened
- 47:51Speaker 2: the lug nuts on my car and my tired fell off.
- 47:54Speaker 2: I was going seventy five miles an hour down the highway.
- 47:59Speaker 2: My call today tomorrow, the day after they look at
- 48:04Speaker 2: the bumper. The wife to the offriend.
- 48:16Speaker 3: Were about to die today.
- 48:19Speaker 2: Okay, Chase.
- 48:22Speaker 4: Before we get started, if you have any questions, comments,
- 48:29Speaker 4: topic ideas, vince rants or anything o the like that
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- 48:37Speaker 2: Y'all know what the find.
- 48:41Speaker 1: Just just.
- 48:44Speaker 2: Just be an email.
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- 50:11Speaker 2: Bull yep? At least she by she out the head
- 50:15Speaker 2: because you keep saying Jo. You go your way to
- 50:19Speaker 2: mention them JO, y'all asked them down here, statue. That's fine.
- 50:24Speaker 3: Okay, we're going Danny. We're going Danny, Danny, Danny dupriest
- 50:28Speaker 3: I asked.
- 50:28Speaker 2: You, I'm trying to call them movie man. I love
- 50:41Speaker 2: me some Danny.
- 50:43Speaker 4: I'm going back to a thread that I think I
- 50:46Speaker 4: introduced a few weeks ago because it was another part
- 50:48Speaker 4: added to it, and it was the It's similar to,
- 50:52Speaker 4: of course, our question of the Week that Brandon does.
- 50:56Speaker 4: It's called forget cheating. People discuss the most insane things
- 50:59Speaker 4: that did to them. I'm gonna read a few more
- 51:03Speaker 4: thies because these motherfuckers are crazy.
- 51:05Speaker 3: Now.
- 51:06Speaker 2: If I rewad one, so what because I forgot where
- 51:08Speaker 2: I stopped at? What my behind for?
- 51:11Speaker 4: Collecting to the floor crying after signing my son's dn R.
- 51:16Speaker 4: He said, I was embarrassing him. You should have signed
- 51:19Speaker 4: his DNR next.
- 51:22Speaker 2: Why would you not be emotional? That? Okay, but I'll
- 51:26Speaker 2: give it there And she rolled around on the floor
- 51:28Speaker 2: like seafis and recipe. I don't care.
- 51:31Speaker 4: He was sleeping with my best friend at the time,
- 51:34Speaker 4: who was a man. His car got repossessed and he
- 51:37Speaker 4: told his family and friends that I took his car
- 51:39Speaker 4: and made them believe that I controlled everything he did.
- 51:42Speaker 4: He was also cheating on me with multiple women and
- 51:45Speaker 4: telling them that I was just a friend. He was
- 51:46Speaker 4: taking care of because I was schizophrenic and he had
- 51:48Speaker 4: nowhere else to go.
- 51:50Speaker 2: He had a baby on me.
- 51:52Speaker 4: I found out because the girl contacted me, trying to
- 51:54Speaker 4: fight me because I wouldn't allow him to see his baby.
- 51:58Speaker 2: Ma'am, you stayed at you you find out all of this.
- 52:02Speaker 4: At the same time. What happened first? What was the
- 52:06Speaker 4: chain of events? Because each of these individually should have
- 52:08Speaker 4: made you leave him to fuck alone. That way, the
- 52:10Speaker 4: other two wouldn't have happened. So like, did you find
- 52:13Speaker 4: this all out at the same time? That's my only question.
- 52:16Speaker 2: Last one, it sounds like it's been it's been overtime.
- 52:20Speaker 2: Last one slept with my mom. She knew he was
- 52:25Speaker 2: abusing me too. So, Sugar, I'm gonna send you a
- 52:31Speaker 2: virtual hug because your man know your your mom ain't
- 52:34Speaker 2: worth for her. Damn, oh, damn, you find your man
- 52:38Speaker 2: like Turner ain't worth a date. Let me find out.
- 52:43Speaker 4: She answered phone and said, Helloike, I'm active in my
- 52:48Speaker 4: son's life, and I told him to find a woman
- 52:50Speaker 4: that appreciates him, get a soft, educated woman that knows
- 52:54Speaker 4: how to treat a black man. I taught him to
- 52:56Speaker 4: find a woman opposite of his mother.
- 52:58Speaker 2: And that's what I'm doing.
- 53:00Speaker 4: Things were going well and my personal relationship until I
- 53:04Speaker 4: got into an altercation with my new wife and she
- 53:07Speaker 4: accidentally shot me. I recover, We've reunited, except now I
- 53:14Speaker 4: have to wear a leg bag for your due to
- 53:16Speaker 4: the incident. My baby mama has been telling off a son.
- 53:20Speaker 4: See what this and black women get you. Look at
- 53:23Speaker 4: your dad pissing in the bag. He can't even go
- 53:27Speaker 4: to the bathroom like a man. I think that's disrespectful.
- 53:31Speaker 4: One thing has nothing to do with the other. And
- 53:33Speaker 4: I'm looking for a way to properly correct my son,
- 53:36Speaker 4: but it's hard to do that when I'm injured.
- 53:39Speaker 2: What to do? Empty your bag? You can do with that,
- 53:46Speaker 2: bruh today, expeditiously.
- 53:49Speaker 4: Right now, because every time we have I couldn't be
- 53:53Speaker 4: your wife. I want to took you back because every
- 53:55Speaker 4: time you say something I like, I'm gonna call you
- 53:57Speaker 4: a pissy bitch, and then.
- 54:03Speaker 2: I'm gonna hid your replacement bags. You're not from the
- 54:07Speaker 2: medical supply company. You better use a store bag, bitch.
- 54:16Speaker 2: You better take that mom. You better unhook that bitch
- 54:18Speaker 2: and empty. You better recycle. We recycle in this house.
- 54:23Speaker 2: Take one of these zip you better hook that bitch
- 54:26Speaker 2: and pissing the toilet. Hold. If you have any questions
- 54:31Speaker 2: for us, feel free to send them my way and
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- 54:57Speaker 2: Amber saying any words before we go. Hold on, I
- 55:02Speaker 2: ain't like that. We came to bring the pain accord
- 55:06Speaker 2: to the brain to caw. What's my shoveling name, Despert
- 55:14Speaker 2: Brimstone Disciple, Oh yeah, oh yeah, Celesti, Celestial night Blade,
- 55:19Speaker 2: Ancient radiant Assassin. I'm gonna stick with the shilin name.
- 55:23Speaker 2: I'm the Brimstone Disciple forcing the furnace god to buy
- 55:26Speaker 2: a shouting light.
- 55:28Speaker 4: Wells your lone name the same thing, Celestial?
- 55:32Speaker 2: Did you hear it again? I'll be a poor star name.
- 55:44Speaker 2: I'm the Blade Mistress. You want to watch it disappear?
- 55:53Speaker 3: This one hit but Celestial Raise of prophet Shark troops
- 55:57Speaker 3: called from the stars above.
- 55:59Speaker 2: Okay, I like that. From the streets of Shaolin a
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- 56:07Speaker 2: We came to bring the pain to you something else.
- 56:11Speaker 2: We love y'all for watching. Happy July, Happy fourth of July.
- 56:15Speaker 2: Be safe, have fun, do your big one, enjoy the fireworks.
- 56:20Speaker 2: Don't blow yourself don't blow yourself up. Please let that
- 56:23Speaker 2: man who happy national reason to have a cookout. They
- 56:27Speaker 2: to all our.
- 56:27Speaker 3: Brothers and sister My bad. It's Maryland, so y'all can't
- 56:30Speaker 3: blow yourselves up.
- 56:32Speaker 2: They still do that. No letting the fireworks around my
- 56:37Speaker 2: house all the time. Yeah, I'm surprised.
- 56:40Speaker 4: So you know what, I don't want to talk to
- 56:46Speaker 4: an existence because I haven't heard any lately.
- 56:48Speaker 3: Because out there way here well with Brandon that you
- 56:50Speaker 3: feel me? They ain't The police ain't gonna pull up.
- 56:52Speaker 3: Just be like they're gonna pull up and.
- 56:54Speaker 2: Like, make sure you clean your mess up? What is
- 56:58Speaker 2: that we live? Man? They do that ship down here,
- 57:02Speaker 2: then they come fast. Right. You want to jail nigga
- 57:05Speaker 2: so you can hang up the phone. Yes, I need
- 57:08Speaker 2: the comps. I live in a very dynastic, diverse neighbor
- 57:15Speaker 2: But anyway, we love y'all. Happ before, enjoy your time off,
- 57:18Speaker 2: get some rest, get you up, get you a burke
- 57:20Speaker 2: hot dog. That's what I'm looking forward to every year,
- 57:22Speaker 2: and the cheeseburger. And we'll see y'all next week. Until then,
- 57:27Speaker 2: be easy to be safe. I'm getting ready. I want
- 57:30Speaker 2: some ribs. Ribs, be good. I had some memorial down
- 57:32Speaker 2: once more, me too, to go place for babies