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- 0:00What is going on, beautiful people.
- 0:02Today we're talking about a narcissist favorite jobs, like
- 0:07the favorite jobs that a narcissist could pursue or the
- 0:10jobs that make a narcissist get to give them the most
- 0:13narcissistic supply. If you're new here, my name is
- 0:16Lee Hammock. I'm a diagnosed narcissist.
- 0:17And welcome to another episode of the Narcissist Code.
- 0:20Let's get it. So boom, welcome back, welcome
- 0:39back, welcome back folks. Yes y'all first of all Lee,
- 0:44narcissists don't like to have jobs.
- 0:46So that's BSI don't know why you even made this video.
- 0:48No, y'all narcissists do. A lot of narcissists do have
- 0:52jobs. A lot of narcissists do work.
- 0:53Now are there the bum ass narcissists out there?
- 0:56They don't like to work, they don't like to pursue anything.
- 0:59They just like to live off of you and take advantage of you.
- 1:02Absolutely yes. But for those narcissists out
- 1:05there, yeah, there are there are jobs out there that fit
- 1:08narcissists perfectly. And I was having it.
- 1:10Look, if y'all don't know, I knew my one on ones over zoom,
- 1:13right? And I was having a conversation
- 1:15with a lady the other day and she mentioned her the the job
- 1:19her narcissist, the ex had. And I was just like, wow, I
- 1:23could do a video on narcissist job.
- 1:25So I do take it like when I do my Zoom calls, my phone calls or
- 1:28whatever, I do take heed of what people say, what people do.
- 1:31But yeah, yeah, yes, narcissistic people can get
- 1:35narcissistic supply from their jobs, from their career choices
- 1:38and whatnot, right? So it will make sense that they
- 1:41choose certain jobs that they would fall into certain fields.
- 1:44And I feel like one of the one of the best jobs for a
- 1:49narcissist. Drum roll, please.
- 1:52What I'm going to say, what I'm going to say, drop the
- 1:54compensation lawyer, attorney. Oh, my goodness, y'all.
- 2:02And now this is not me trying to rag on any of these job fields.
- 2:04Y'all these jobs or, you know, they serve the public and
- 2:07whatnot. A lot of them serve the public
- 2:09and whatnot. But yeah, attorney, the attorney
- 2:13job is perfectly just, it's like a snug fit.
- 2:17It's like a Snuggie for a narcissist.
- 2:18It's like this. It's like this headband.
- 2:20You see how this headband has It just fits perfectly.
- 2:23It's like a sock. Yeah.
- 2:26Like a narcissistic sock. Yeah.
- 2:29Narcissist attorneys, the the attorney job since narcissist is
- 2:34so good. It's just one of those things
- 2:36that just, yeah, it really, really is.
- 2:38Because think about it. Imagine going up there defending
- 2:42somebody. They did something horrible just
- 2:46and you know, they did it. They've confessed to you.
- 2:49You can't tell the world that they did it or that might not be
- 2:52part of your defense, right? But you get into these spaces
- 2:55and whatnot and then you go to court and you try to get this
- 2:58person off and sometimes you do this person UN alive, 14 people,
- 3:02you found a glitch in the matrix to get them off and you get them
- 3:05off with a smile on your face. That's such a lack of empathy.
- 3:08The victims or the families of the victims in court or just
- 3:11looking at you like this, everybody's like, what the hell?
- 3:13How could you defend this person you like?
- 3:16I'm just good at what I do. I'm just good at what I do and I
- 3:21have a lack of empathy. I'm a narcissist, by the way, or
- 3:24a psychopath, right? Sociopath yeah, imagine
- 3:28representing the government when they're doing something horrible
- 3:31or trying to get away with something and they and like,
- 3:33because they, they damn, they requires a lack of empathy.
- 3:37Now, are there attorneys that are full of empathy and seek out
- 3:42set out to help help the world in a positive way?
- 3:45Yes. But as you can see on the other
- 3:48end of the spectrum, how a narcissist or types of person
- 3:51could just slide into that and just have a lack of empathy and
- 3:54do the exact opposite and try to destroy the damn world, you
- 3:57know, So you can see the opposite can be true as well in
- 4:00this situation, in this scenario.
- 4:02That's all I'm saying. That's all I'm saying.
- 4:04Because like you go, if you dig into, if you dig into the
- 4:06mentality of abuse of manipulative people, they get
- 4:10these type of jobs and you get money from it.
- 4:11You get esteem from it. Like you can become a famous
- 4:14attorney. Like sometimes you get the
- 4:17attorneys that are representing celebrity clients and the and
- 4:20the attorney is more famous than the the client.
- 4:24Like, yeah, but a lot of people know Kim Kardashian in them
- 4:26because their dad helped represent OJ Simpson, Robert
- 4:29Kardashian. You see what I'm saying?
- 4:31And they didn't look, this is look, they might have known that
- 4:34OJ did it and they just managed to get him off the gloves Don't
- 4:37fit. You must have quit.
- 4:39You see what I'm saying? Johnny Cochran and all these
- 4:42people like the people who've represented OJ or for for it
- 4:46against OJI don't even mention OJ dinner.
- 4:49See, they do so many OJ documentaries that I have
- 4:52different versions of OJ Simpson in my damn head.
- 4:54So I'm thinking it's different people, different cases.
- 4:56I think Cuba Gooding Junior is OJ Simpson.
- 4:58I'm not black, I'm OJ. You see what I'm saying?
- 5:00So attorneys definitely fit that fit the fit the mold.
- 5:03Another job, y'all, law enforcement.
- 5:07Oh my God, boy boy police officers again, not all of them
- 5:17are the same, but some of those, some of the the one the out
- 5:20abuse of power. You can bully people, lack of
- 5:23empathy, control money for some for a lot of them for some of
- 5:28them, right. I don't know how much cops get
- 5:29paid, but you get this, you get a you get a weapon.
- 5:33It would get a badge. You get you get power and you
- 5:35feel like you get power and dominion over people.
- 5:37That's why you have all these goddamn bad apple cops out here.
- 5:40They be doing all this bullshit and just trying to get away with
- 5:42it because they feel like they're empowered to do it.
- 5:44They entitled to do it. It fits right into the
- 5:46entitlement mold of a narcissist right?
- 5:50Because like I feel like I'm entitled to be able to do
- 5:52whatever I want to whenever I want to.
- 5:54I get to hey, you, you have to listen to me, right?
- 5:57So you get into this space right here.
- 5:58Well, cop, yo cops, boy, y'all should hear some of the stories
- 6:03that I hear about cops. And this is male or female cops
- 6:07right? But male to female alternatives.
- 6:10It's not just going to be a male centric thing.
- 6:12I know people going like this is just about the fellas, ain't it
- 6:14Lee? And we knew you were pandering.
- 6:15No, no, because I've heard these female cops are here lying,
- 6:20cheating, abusing power, hiding evidence, whatever as well too.
- 6:23Yeah, it's just, it's just a power trip.
- 6:27It really, really is. It really, really is.
- 6:30So you go into this space right here and you see cops.
- 6:32Can you can get me a cop, be a police officer, ride around in
- 6:34that car, ride around you getting it.
- 6:37And like it's just full of narcissistic supply.
- 6:40I can see myself being a cop and just being just full of supply,
- 6:44right. Just running around, just
- 6:45supplied up supplies. I got a supply drop like Call of
- 6:48Duty, right? The next field y'all doctors,
- 6:54nurses and all the most of these jobs right here are going to fit
- 6:58under the under the umbrella of communal narcissism, right?
- 7:02It's the jobs that make them look good as well, right?
- 7:05It's the jobs that you can get narcissistic supply because
- 7:08people hold a lot of these jobs in high esteem.
- 7:11Maybe that the attorney, right? People hate attorneys, but
- 7:15doctors, nurses, people, people hold doctors and nurses to a
- 7:20high to a high esteem, right? So you can get a lot of
- 7:23narcissistic supply from being a doctor, from being a nurse and
- 7:28whatnot, right? Nurse practitioner, you know
- 7:30what I mean? LPNCP and all that other good
- 7:33stuff. You can get a lot of
- 7:35narcissistic supply from being in one of these fields.
- 7:38You can go to work, save a life, have take care of your patients
- 7:42and then go home and abuse your abuse, your partner or your
- 7:45children. You see, it's the look, it's the
- 7:48feel, it's the reputation. Oh, I'm a doctor.
- 7:50You know, you get the doctor in front of your name or the PhD
- 7:52behind it, OMD behind it. I'm a doctor.
- 7:54Sorry, but you see that mentality right there.
- 8:01So yes, doctors are absolutely doctors.
- 8:05Nurses are absolutely on the list of jobs that narcissists
- 8:07would love. A favorite job of a narcissist.
- 8:11The next one, y'all, it might rub some of y'all the wrong way.
- 8:14So let me go ahead and prep you for it.
- 8:16You got what I'm going to say thank you, my son Pastor any
- 8:23higher up in the church Boy boy, that this might be the one right
- 8:28here. This might be the one you get
- 8:31you get commuted, you get supply from the public and stuff like
- 8:35that. Especially if you have a pastor
- 8:36of a mega church on TV. It is this is type of stuff to
- 8:39be happening. Y'all like this happens to.
- 8:43So like, yeah, the pastors. Pastors can be just
- 8:46narcissistic, horrible, evil ass people.
- 8:49They really, really can and just go to church and pray their sins
- 8:53away, do horrible ass stuff, be lying, cheating, stealing money
- 8:57from the church, abusing the funds of the church.
- 8:59You see what I'm saying? And then I don't want to be in a
- 9:02tube with demons. What's that?
- 9:04What's that old? The one that looked like a damn
- 9:06demon? I don't want to be in a tube
- 9:08with the demons or whatever they say.
- 9:09We got the private jet. That's crazy.
- 9:12But you see they can be evil as hell and still get narcissistic
- 9:16supply from it. You can look evil as hell and
- 9:19still get narcissistic supply from it.
- 9:21So being in the church, higher up in the church doesn't have to
- 9:24be the pastor. Not everybody can be pastor, the
- 9:26Deacon or the I'm ignorant of church road.
- 9:28I'm ignorant of church roads, y'all.
- 9:31But you see how being a pastor can absolutely fit into the mold
- 9:35of commuter narcissism or being the pastor's wife.
- 9:38You see what I'm saying, y'all? Yeah.
- 9:41As you grow up, when you grow up, you remember back in there,
- 9:43you start thinking about stuff that used to happen back in the
- 9:45day to you. And you remember, like, the
- 9:48pastor's wife be a very big Snooty his head sometimes like
- 9:51that. You kind of.
- 9:53You made it just looking back like damn, you were really a
- 9:55horrible person. So these, these positions, they
- 9:59come with high esteem and whatnot.
- 10:01Y'all it it, they really, really do.
- 10:04So you get into this space, another one, y'all boom, teacher
- 10:10again. Y'all babe, lately I'm a
- 10:12teacher. I'm not a narcissist.
- 10:14Did I say that every teacher was a narcissist?
- 10:17No, I say these are jobs that narcissists love.
- 10:20They can give them narcissistic supply teacher of the year.
- 10:23Get your little apple, then go home and abuse your wife.
- 10:27They go home and cheat on your husband.
- 10:28You do all this type of stuff right here.
- 10:30So this is what I'm saying. It's just like you don't have to
- 10:33be, you know, it's not always going to be about like the money
- 10:38or whatever. Because I know teachers deserve,
- 10:40definitely deserve to be paid more.
- 10:42But you know, we got to give our politicians raises every year or
- 10:46every few years, right? Teachers, politicians, you can
- 10:51get a raise, you can add to your stock portfolio with the insider
- 10:54trade, and it'd be OK. This boy, teachers are one of
- 11:02them. And yeah, teachers are
- 11:04absolutely one of them. Y'all and y'all hear me
- 11:06mentioning that? Y'all hear me mention the other
- 11:08one just right then and there. Politicians, this might.
- 11:10Y'all, along with attorneys, politicians might be some of the
- 11:15most evil bastards on this whole fucking planet.
- 11:20Not all of them, of course. There might be some good eggs,
- 11:22right? But the ones like you get like
- 11:25you know how a narcissistic supply you get from being a
- 11:27politician and not having to govern like a lot of these sorry
- 11:32fucking politicians out here y'all?
- 11:33They're more worried about social media clickbait or it
- 11:37just is rage baiting or just being evil fucking people as
- 11:42opposed to governing and trying to actually help the United
- 11:45States or help the help wherever you are that some of these
- 11:48bastards are evil. They worry about they worry more
- 11:50about being a celebrity and getting supply and getting money
- 11:54than they are about actually doing the work of the people.
- 11:57That's why I hate hate hate when y'all be electing these sorry
- 12:01mother, these sorry bastards that have no intent on
- 12:05governing. They just make up shit to be mad
- 12:07at. They just always angry.
- 12:09They're always just angry at something every single fucking
- 12:11day. It is not helping anybody out,
- 12:14but so you can see, I'm even mad right now and you see the
- 12:20politicians are probably some of the words.
- 12:21I I just I feel like when you become a politician and you
- 12:25become you more worried about becoming a celebrity, you
- 12:27automatically go to hell, right? I just feel like that's the the
- 12:30the politician the hell pipeline.
- 12:32This should be a real thing. But you also get into the space
- 12:36show when you see that like politicians always a lot of
- 12:41times when they get in trouble, they always bring up a religion.
- 12:44They always do this. They always do that.
- 12:45They be corrupt as hell and then they get caught.
- 12:47And then you be like, I cannot believe this right here.
- 12:50I can't believe this right here. Like the dude that got caught
- 12:52with the gold bars or it's always it's gold bars corruption
- 12:56looking this click bait. Just evil.
- 12:58Just worried about stuff that don't bother everybody.
- 13:01Yeah, I'm just telling you politicians are some of the
- 13:03worst, most evil bastard on this the whole God damn rock where we
- 13:06on this whole blue rock, blue orb.
- 13:08They win that we we are here with.
- 13:11But that's the type of stuff I have to say right there, y'all.
- 13:13I'll also say this because it's important.
- 13:16Narcissistic people, toxic ass people love these jobs so they
- 13:21can they can get supply from it. They can just because they can
- 13:23look like better human beings. You know, they can look like
- 13:27better people. I was this this the last job
- 13:30right here, y'all? Yeah, look, y'all be like Lee.
- 13:33We're waiting on you to say this.
- 13:36A lot of the job a lot of narcissists love or social media
- 13:40content creators have a good day now seriously narcissistic a lot
- 13:47of narcissists can get a lot of narcissistic supply pretend to
- 13:51be good people, pretend to be on your side and then behind the
- 13:55scenes be horribly evil people. I I posted this on threads the
- 13:59other day the the good guy or good girl social media content
- 14:03creator to behind the scenes asshole pipeline is real is
- 14:08real. Yes, I'm a self award
- 14:10narcissist. Y'all know what I'm doing.
- 14:11I'm telling you what I'm exactly what I'm doing.
- 14:13I'm telling you who I am. I'm not this is not me hiding
- 14:16who I am right and my wife does her live videos.
- 14:19She might do another one this week.
- 14:20No, I can't do this one this week.
- 14:21She might do another one here pretty soon.
- 14:23We got we got to go out for Sunday and whatnot.
- 14:25Y'all and my wife today she is one year sober.
- 14:28So shout out to my wife. Y'all leave some comments in the
- 14:30comments section. If y'all made it this far
- 14:31thanking her, you know congratulating her on being one
- 14:34year sober for alcohol. She's doing an amazing job.
- 14:36I'm proud of her, I love her so much.
- 14:38In which y'all content creators can be.
- 14:40You can't get a lot of narcissistic supply for being a
- 14:43content creator. In which y'all hit that
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- 14:46I appreciate everything one of y'all and it's always yours.
- 14:48Always. But then it's that peace.
- 14:51Thank you so much for making it to the end of my video.
- 14:53I am extremely grateful for you. Have no idea.
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- 15:07you've been through. Thank you so much again.
- 15:09I will see you in the next video.
- 15:10Peace.