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From Money Monster to Money Honey, Morgana Rae · Skirts Up!

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What's
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up?
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Skirts
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up
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squad.
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Did
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you
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just
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take
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my
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wine?
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I
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did.
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It's
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Samantha
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and
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Melissa.
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I'm
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going
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to
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actually
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tell
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you
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guys.
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How
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it
0:12
is
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right
0:13
now.
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It
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was
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so
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fun.
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We
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couldn't
0:15
even
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make
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it
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up.
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I'm
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gonna
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do
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it.
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I'm
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gonna
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wear
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it
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in
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public.
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And
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then
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she
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looks
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at
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me
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and
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she
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goes,
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that's
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what
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Jesus
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is
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for.
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We
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are
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about
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normalizing
0:24
things
0:25
that
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are
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hard
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to
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talk
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about.
0:28
I
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was
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like
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deer
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in
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headlights.
0:29
Skirts
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out,
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but
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keep
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your
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pant.
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Hi,
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I'm
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Melissa.
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Hi,
0:38
it's
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nice
0:39
to
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meet
0:39
you.
0:40
You
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too.
0:41
So
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where
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are
0:43
you
0:43
based?
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Are
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you
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both
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based
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in
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the
0:45
same
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place?
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Pretty
0:46
much.
0:46
We're
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like
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45
0:48
minutes
0:49
city
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wise
0:49
apart.
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But
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we're
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both
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in
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Georgia.
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You
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are
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adorable.
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Oh,
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thank
0:53
you.
0:57
I
0:57
told
0:57
you
0:58
you
0:58
would
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love
0:58
her.
0:59
She
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self
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proclaimed
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herself
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as
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the
1:01
fairy
1:01
who
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likes
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to
1:02
say
1:02
Fuck.
1:02
I
1:03
know.
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Until
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actually
1:05
one
1:05
of
1:05
my
1:05
clients,
1:08
right.
1:08
Of
1:08
mine
1:08
in
1:08
Louisiana
1:09
called
1:10
me
1:10
a
1:10
fairy
1:10
who
1:10
likes
1:11
to
1:11
say.
1:11
And
1:12
I
1:12
thought
1:12
that's.
1:13
Yeah,
1:14
I
1:14
see
1:14
the
1:15
fairy
1:15
now.
1:15
Earlier
1:16
when
1:16
Sam
1:17
said
1:17
that
1:17
to
1:17
me,
1:17
I
1:18
was
1:18
like,
1:18
oh,
1:18
okay.
1:19
Is
1:19
she
1:19
like
1:19
a
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manic
1:20
pixie
1:20
dream
1:20
girl
1:20
or
1:21
what?
1:22
You
1:23
know
1:23
it's
1:23
funny,
1:24
right?
1:25
I
1:25
totally
1:25
see
1:26
the
1:26
theory
1:26
now,
1:26
Morgana,
1:27
Like,
1:27
I
1:28
feel
1:28
like
1:28
you
1:28
have
1:29
a
1:29
boho
1:30
style,
1:31
but
1:31
I
1:31
know
1:31
this
1:32
is
1:32
the
1:32
only
1:32
time
1:32
I've
1:32
ever
1:32
seen
1:33
you.
1:33
But
1:34
I
1:34
like
1:34
it
1:35
being
1:35
so
1:35
judgy.
1:36
It's
1:37
the
1:37
vibe
1:37
I'm
1:38
feeling.
1:38
I'm
1:38
just
1:38
trying
1:38
to
1:39
feel
1:39
her,
1:39
meet
1:40
her
1:40
where
1:40
she
1:40
is.
1:40
I'm
1:40
just
1:41
kidding.
1:42
Well,
1:42
and
1:43
part
1:43
of
1:43
it
1:43
probably
1:44
comes
1:44
from
1:44
the
1:44
art.
1:45
My
1:45
grandfather
1:46
painted
1:46
that.
1:46
Oh,
1:47
wow.
1:48
And
1:48
then
1:48
my
1:49
grandmother
1:49
did
1:49
the
1:49
little
1:50
oils
1:50
on
1:50
this
1:51
side.
1:51
Aw,
1:52
that
1:52
is
1:52
amazing.
1:53
Grandpa
1:54
was
1:54
actually
1:54
quite
1:55
famous.
1:56
Grandma
1:56
less
1:57
so
1:57
because
1:57
she
1:57
didn't
1:58
have
1:58
a
1:58
penis.
2:00
That
2:00
happens.
2:01
Hit
2:01
it.
2:01
Here
2:01
we
2:01
go.
2:02
Today
2:02
we're
2:03
really
2:03
excited
2:03
to
2:03
have
2:03
with
2:04
us
2:04
to
2:04
speak
2:04
with
2:05
our
2:05
squad.
2:06
Our
2:06
Skirts
2:06
up
2:06
squad
2:07
is
2:07
Morgana
2:08
Ray.
2:09
She
2:09
actually
2:09
is
2:10
a
2:10
number
2:10
one
2:10
international
2:11
bestseller
2:12
for
2:12
her
2:13
book,
2:13
Financial
2:13
Alchemy.
2:15
Twelve
2:15
months
2:15
of
2:15
Managing
2:16
Magic
2:16
and
2:16
manifestation.
2:18
Sam's
2:19
laughing
2:19
and
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I
2:20
don't
2:20
know
2:20
why
2:20
because
2:20
I'm
2:21
on
2:21
a
2:21
different
2:21
page
2:21
and
2:21
I
2:22
can't
2:22
see
2:22
her.
2:23
Oh,
2:23
she's
2:24
just
2:24
gleefully
2:24
showing
2:25
the
2:25
COVID
2:25
of
2:25
her
2:25
book.
2:26
I
2:26
love
2:26
it.
2:26
Oh,
2:27
I'm
2:27
gonna
2:28
just
2:28
throw
2:28
into
2:28
that
2:29
in
2:29
the
2:29
book.
2:30
She's
2:30
lying
2:31
down
2:31
in
2:31
a
2:31
skirt
2:32
and
2:32
her
2:32
legs
2:32
are
2:33
up
2:33
in
2:33
the
2:33
air.
2:33
And
2:33
it's
2:33
adorable
2:34
because
2:34
she
2:34
said,
2:34
look
2:35
it,
2:35
Skirts
2:35
up.
2:38
And
2:38
then
2:39
I
2:39
really
2:39
quick
2:40
just
2:40
want
2:40
to
2:40
add
2:40
that
2:41
she
2:41
has
2:41
been
2:41
featured.
2:42
On
2:42
a
2:42
lot
2:42
of
2:42
different.
2:43
I
2:43
don't
2:43
Know,
2:44
like,
2:44
I
2:45
would
2:45
probably
2:45
guess
2:45
international
2:46
again.
2:46
Even
2:47
so,
2:47
like,
2:47
she's
2:48
been
2:48
on
2:49
Talking
2:49
about
2:49
wealth
2:49
and
2:50
relationship
2:50
and
2:50
your.
2:51
I
2:51
think
2:51
your
2:51
relationship
2:52
with
2:52
wealth
2:54
on
2:54
Deepak
2:55
Chopra
2:56
with
2:56
Ariana
2:57
Huffington,
2:57
Bob
2:58
Proctor,
2:59
and
2:59
a
2:59
lot
2:59
of
2:59
people
2:59
call
3:00
you
3:00
the
3:00
money
3:00
goddess.
3:01
Yeah,
3:02
yeah.
3:02
I've
3:02
been
3:02
on
3:02
all
3:03
the
3:03
TV
3:04
networks
3:04
and
3:04
the
3:04
Wall
3:05
Street
3:05
Journal,
3:05
and
3:05
I
3:06
even
3:06
made
3:06
the
3:06
evening
3:07
news
3:07
in
3:07
Turkey.
3:08
So
3:10
people
3:10
have.
3:11
People
3:12
need
3:12
a
3:12
better
3:12
relationship
3:13
with
3:13
money.
3:14
That
3:14
is
3:14
so
3:14
true.
3:15
So
3:16
we
3:16
were
3:16
just
3:16
talking
3:17
about
3:17
your
3:17
family
3:17
being
3:18
pretty
3:18
eccentric.
3:19
I'm.
3:19
He's.
3:20
The
3:20
word.
3:20
Eccentric.
3:21
Maybe
3:21
that.
3:21
Tell
3:21
me
3:22
if
3:22
that's
3:22
off
3:22
base.
3:24
No,
3:24
I
3:24
like
3:24
the
3:25
word
3:25
et
3:25
cetera.
3:25
Yeah.
3:26
Okay.
3:26
I
3:26
like.
3:27
It
3:27
doesn't
3:27
have
3:27
any
3:27
negative
3:28
connotation.
3:29
I
3:29
don't
3:29
like
3:29
to
3:30
be
3:30
either.
3:30
You're
3:30
given
3:31
a
3:31
choice,
3:32
right?
3:33
Yeah,
3:33
much
3:33
rather.
3:34
So
3:34
you
3:34
come
3:35
from
3:35
a
3:35
family
3:35
of
3:35
artists.
3:36
Like
3:36
a
3:36
grandmother
3:37
who
3:37
is
3:37
a
3:37
ballet
3:38
dancer.
3:38
Oh.
3:39
And
3:39
yeah,
3:41
she
3:41
co
3:42
created
3:42
the
3:43
original,
3:44
very
3:44
first
3:45
ever
3:45
in
3:45
the
3:45
world
3:45
Renaissance
3:46
Plan
3:46
Pleasure
3:47
fair
3:47
in
3:48
the
3:48
1960s.
3:49
But
3:49
it's
3:50
a
3:50
pleasure
3:50
fair.
3:51
Yeah.
3:52
The
3:52
Renaissance
3:52
Pleasure
3:53
Fair.
3:53
What
3:54
is
3:54
that
3:54
amazing?
3:56
Like,
3:57
whereas
3:58
in
3:58
like
3:58
a
3:58
sex
3:58
thing.
3:59
No,
4:02
not.
4:02
Not.
4:03
Not
4:03
overtly
4:04
and
4:04
not
4:04
during
4:04
daylight
4:05
hours.
4:05
But
4:06
it
4:06
was
4:07
in
4:07
19.
4:07
Funny.
4:08
In
4:08
1963,
4:10
her
4:10
friend
4:10
Phyllis
4:11
Patterson
4:11
was
4:12
blacklisted
4:13
as
4:13
a
4:13
LA
4:14
Unified
4:14
School
4:15
District
4:15
English
4:16
teacher
4:16
because
4:16
she
4:16
didn't
4:16
sign
4:17
the
4:17
McCarthy.
4:18
Lo.
4:18
And
4:19
my
4:19
grandmother
4:19
was
4:19
a
4:20
ballet
4:20
teacher
4:20
because
4:21
of
4:21
her
4:21
dance
4:21
background.
4:22
And
4:22
they
4:22
decided
4:23
to
4:23
have
4:24
a
4:24
fundraiser
4:25
for
4:25
kpfk,
4:26
a
4:26
super
4:26
liberal
4:28
radio
4:28
station
4:29
out
4:29
here
4:29
in
4:30
Los
4:30
Angeles.
4:31
And
4:31
so
4:31
in
4:31
the
4:32
Hollywood
4:32
Hills,
4:32
they
4:32
had
4:33
the
4:33
first
4:33
Renaissance
4:33
Pleasure
4:34
Fair
4:34
where
4:35
people
4:35
dressed
4:35
up
4:36
as
4:36
they
4:36
imagined
4:37
people
4:37
did
4:38
in
4:38
the
4:38
Renaissance.
4:38
And
4:39
I
4:39
wasn't
4:41
for
4:41
the
4:41
first
4:41
one,
4:41
so
4:42
I
4:42
don't
4:42
know
4:42
if
4:42
it
4:42
was
4:43
what
4:44
I
4:44
grew
4:44
up
4:44
with,
4:44
with,
4:45
you
4:45
know,
4:46
Queen
4:46
Elizabeth
4:47
and
4:48
all
4:48
these
4:49
guilds,
4:49
but
4:49
it
4:49
became
4:50
this,
4:51
like,
4:51
huge
4:52
thing
4:52
in
4:52
the
4:52
60s,
4:53
probably.
4:54
It's
4:54
huge
4:54
now.
4:55
There's
4:55
like
4:55
a
4:56
huge.
4:57
Sam,
4:57
have
4:57
you
4:57
ever
4:57
been
4:57
to
4:58
a
4:58
Renaissance
4:58
Fair?
4:59
Yeah.
5:00
Okay.
5:00
Okay.
5:01
That's
5:02
the
5:02
first
5:02
one
5:02
started.
5:03
And
5:03
it
5:03
just.
5:04
That's
5:04
where
5:04
I
5:05
grew
5:05
up.
5:06
And
5:06
she
5:06
ran
5:06
with
5:07
the
5:07
word
5:07
pleasure.
5:08
Yeah,
5:08
sure
5:08
did.
5:10
Well,
5:10
it's
5:10
in
5:10
there
5:10
for
5:11
a
5:11
reason.
5:11
You
5:12
know,
5:12
it's
5:12
a
5:12
very.
5:14
There
5:14
were
5:14
a
5:14
lot
5:14
of
5:15
body
5:15
jokes,
5:16
even.
5:16
Hedonistic,
5:17
I
5:17
might
5:17
say.
5:18
Right.
5:18
Yes.
5:19
A
5:19
lot
5:19
of
5:20
eating,
5:20
a
5:20
lot
5:21
of
5:21
playing
5:21
and
5:22
partying.
5:22
Well,
5:22
at
5:22
least
5:23
for.
5:23
Not
5:23
the.
5:23
For
5:23
the
5:24
poppers,
5:24
I
5:24
suppose,
5:24
but.
5:25
Well,
5:26
everybody
5:27
is
5:27
sort
5:27
of,
5:27
you
5:28
know,
5:28
they're
5:28
all
5:28
actors,
5:29
so
5:29
it's
5:29
kind
5:30
of.
5:30
And
5:30
yeah,
5:31
with
5:31
the
5:31
turkey.
5:33
Seeing
5:34
the
5:34
pleasure.
5:35
Yes.
5:37
I
5:37
kind
5:38
of
5:38
missed
5:39
a
5:39
lot
5:39
of
5:40
that
5:40
because
5:40
I
5:40
was
5:41
a
5:41
little
5:42
kid
5:43
and
5:43
I
5:43
didn't
5:43
really
5:44
pick
5:44
up
5:44
on
5:45
the,
5:45
you
5:45
know,
5:46
what
5:46
was
5:47
going
5:47
on
5:48
in
5:48
town.
5:49
One
5:50
time
5:50
my.
5:50
When
5:51
I
5:51
went
5:51
dressed
5:51
up
5:51
like
5:52
a.
5:52
Gypsy
5:52
and
5:52
then
5:53
like
5:53
this
5:53
pirate
5:53
called
5:54
me
5:54
up
5:54
onto
5:54
a
5:54
ship
5:55
and
5:55
he
5:55
was
5:55
like,
5:55
oh,
5:56
I'm
5:56
going
5:56
to
5:56
sacrifice
5:57
you
5:57
all.
5:57
I
5:57
give
5:58
you
5:58
a
5:58
sword.
6:01
Yeah,
6:02
it
6:02
was.
6:04
This
6:04
is
6:04
perfect.
6:05
Because
6:05
what
6:05
I'm
6:05
wondering
6:06
is
6:06
like,
6:06
what
6:06
you
6:07
teach
6:07
about
6:07
money
6:08
and
6:08
stuff,
6:09
it
6:09
seems
6:09
so
6:10
concrete.
6:10
I'm.
6:11
This
6:12
is
6:12
me
6:12
without
6:13
knowing
6:13
a
6:13
lot
6:13
yet.
6:14
You're
6:14
about
6:14
to
6:14
teach
6:14
us
6:14
some
6:15
things.
6:15
But
6:16
it
6:16
seems
6:16
like
6:16
money,
6:17
it's
6:17
a
6:17
very
6:17
concrete
6:18
thing.
6:18
Like
6:19
you
6:19
can
6:19
add,
6:19
you
6:20
can
6:20
subtract,
6:20
you
6:20
can.
6:21
It
6:21
just
6:22
seems
6:24
like
6:24
something
6:24
tangible.
6:25
Right.
6:26
Whereas
6:27
the
6:28
things
6:28
that
6:28
a
6:28
lot
6:28
of
6:28
things
6:29
that
6:29
came.
6:29
You
6:29
came
6:30
from
6:30
with
6:30
your
6:30
family
6:31
were
6:31
kind
6:31
of
6:32
on
6:32
the
6:33
creative
6:33
side.
6:34
And
6:34
so
6:34
I'm
6:35
feeling
6:35
like.
6:35
And
6:35
when
6:36
looking
6:36
at
6:36
even
6:36
just
6:36
the
6:36
way
6:37
you
6:37
dress,
6:37
you've
6:37
got
6:37
beautiful
6:38
like,
6:38
like
6:39
dangly
6:39
earrings,
6:40
have
6:41
long
6:41
blonde
6:41
hair.
6:42
You're
6:42
just
6:42
like,
6:43
really?
6:43
And
6:43
I
6:43
said
6:44
it
6:44
earlier,
6:44
I
6:44
feel
6:45
like
6:45
a
6:45
boho
6:45
vibe
6:46
from
6:46
you.
6:46
So
6:47
I
6:47
want
6:47
to
6:47
know
6:47
how
6:48
you
6:48
mix
6:49
and.
6:49
Because
6:49
I'm
6:49
guessing
6:50
that
6:50
you
6:50
do
6:51
take
6:51
your
6:51
creative
6:52
and
6:52
your
6:53
fun
6:53
and
6:54
all
6:54
of
6:54
that
6:54
energy
6:55
and
6:55
put
6:55
it
6:56
into.
6:56
The
6:56
things
6:56
that
6:56
you
6:56
teach
6:57
and
6:58
make
6:58
it.
6:58
I'm
6:59
guessing
6:59
it
6:59
makes
6:59
it
6:59
more
7:00
accessible
7:00
to
7:00
the
7:00
common
7:01
person.
7:01
So
7:02
we
7:02
have
7:02
the
7:02
artists
7:03
in
7:03
the
7:03
family.
7:03
Yeah.
7:05
And
7:06
so
7:06
grandma's
7:06
first.
7:07
First
7:07
husband.
7:08
Artist,
7:08
painter.
7:10
Okay.
7:11
I
7:11
got
7:12
a
7:12
degree
7:12
in
7:13
religion
7:14
focusing
7:14
on
7:14
the
7:15
most
7:15
obscure
7:16
tantric,
7:16
esoteric
7:18
traditions
7:18
in
7:19
Hinduism
7:19
and
7:19
Buddhism
7:20
and
7:20
Judaism.
7:20
Did
7:20
you
7:20
ever
7:20
do
7:21
Mormonism?
7:22
No.
7:23
Bummer.
7:24
I
7:24
would
7:25
have
7:25
loved
7:25
to
7:25
talk
7:25
to
7:25
you
7:25
because
7:26
my
7:26
mother
7:27
was
7:27
born
7:27
in
7:27
Shanghai.
7:27
I
7:28
was
7:28
really
7:28
interested.
7:29
And
7:29
I
7:29
grew
7:29
up
7:30
with
7:30
this
7:30
big
7:30
cast
7:31
iron
7:32
Buddha
7:33
when
7:33
I
7:33
was
7:33
a
7:33
fat
7:34
kid
7:34
being
7:34
teased,
7:36
being
7:36
fat.
7:36
And
7:37
yet
7:37
there's
7:37
this
7:37
big
7:38
fat
7:38
guy
7:38
in
7:38
Asia
7:39
that
7:39
all
7:39
these
7:40
people
7:40
worship.
7:41
That
7:41
was
7:41
a
7:41
question
7:42
for
7:42
me
7:42
that
7:43
carried
7:43
on
7:44
until
7:44
I
7:44
got
7:44
to
7:45
college
7:45
and
7:45
wanted
7:46
to
7:46
find
7:46
out.
7:46
So
7:46
I
7:46
took
7:47
a
7:47
class
7:47
on
7:47
Eastern
7:48
religion
7:48
and
7:48
then
7:48
I
7:49
was
7:49
hooked.
7:49
So
7:50
I
7:51
was
7:51
a
7:51
religion
7:51
major,
7:52
but
7:52
I
7:52
was
7:52
also
7:52
a
7:52
nas,
7:53
a
7:53
national
7:54
math
7:54
and
7:55
science
7:56
scholar.
7:57
So
7:58
I
8:00
speak
8:00
both
8:01
languages.
8:01
I've
8:02
kind
8:02
of
8:02
got
8:02
a
8:02
foot
8:03
in
8:04
the
8:04
intuitive,
8:06
magical
8:06
world
8:07
and
8:07
the
8:08
just
8:08
very,
8:08
very
8:09
sensible,
8:10
concrete
8:11
world
8:11
too.
8:12
So
8:12
even
8:12
it's
8:13
funny
8:13
that
8:13
you
8:13
talk
8:14
about
8:14
money
8:14
being
8:14
concrete.
8:15
Cause
8:17
I
8:18
actually
8:18
look
8:18
at
8:19
money
8:20
as
8:21
an
8:22
abstract
8:22
concept.
8:23
Okay.
8:24
The
8:24
numbers.
8:25
I
8:25
love
8:25
this
8:26
story
8:26
too.
8:27
The
8:27
numbers
8:27
are
8:28
real.
8:28
But
8:29
one
8:30
of
8:30
the
8:30
reasons
8:30
I
8:31
had
8:31
to
8:32
develop
8:32
my
8:33
own
8:34
program
8:35
and
8:35
coaching
8:35
modality
8:36
is
8:37
because
8:37
of
8:38
my
8:38
really,
8:39
really
8:40
impressive
8:41
personal
8:42
financial
8:43
failure.
8:44
Okay,
8:44
so
8:45
yeah,
8:46
Went
8:46
into
8:46
Smith
8:47
College,
8:48
you
8:48
know,
8:48
Dean's
8:49
list,
8:49
all
8:49
that
8:49
kind
8:49
of
8:49
stuff.
8:50
Graduated,
8:53
coaching,
8:53
coaching
8:54
all
8:54
these
8:55
LA
8:55
celebrities
8:56
and
8:56
getting
8:57
this
8:57
reputation
8:58
for
8:58
having
8:58
this
8:58
magic
8:59
touch.
8:59
And
9:00
people
9:00
without
9:00
credits,
9:01
like
9:01
getting,
9:02
like.
9:02
From
9:03
my
9:03
first
9:03
month,
9:05
my
9:05
clients
9:06
were.
9:06
They
9:06
were
9:07
selling
9:07
films,
9:09
booking
9:10
primetime
9:11
TV
9:12
starring
9:12
roles
9:13
and,
9:13
and
9:14
getting
9:14
awards
9:15
and
9:15
stuff
9:15
like
9:15
that.
9:16
And
9:17
I
9:17
was
9:18
getting
9:19
all
9:19
these
9:19
certifications,
9:20
mountains
9:21
of
9:21
testimonials.
9:22
I
9:22
had
9:22
the
9:23
website,
9:23
the
9:23
brochure.
9:24
Way
9:24
back
9:25
in
9:25
the
9:25
olden
9:25
days,
9:25
we
9:26
had
9:26
these
9:26
paper
9:26
brochures,
9:27
crazy
9:28
shit.
9:28
And,
9:29
and,
9:30
you
9:30
know,
9:30
cards
9:31
and
9:31
taglines
9:31
and
9:32
all
9:32
the
9:32
things
9:33
that
9:33
you're
9:33
supposed
9:34
to
9:34
be
9:34
doing.
9:34
And
9:35
In
9:35
March
9:35
of
9:35
2003,
9:38
I
9:38
was
9:38
living
9:39
in
9:39
Los
9:39
Angeles
9:41
with
9:41
the
9:41
website
9:42
and
9:42
the
9:42
brochures
9:43
and
9:43
the
9:43
taglines
9:44
and
9:44
the
9:44
public
9:45
speaking
9:45
and
9:46
the
9:46
reputation
9:46
and
9:47
all
9:47
of
9:47
that.
9:48
And
9:48
I
9:48
was
9:48
struggling
9:49
to
9:50
make
9:51
$100
9:52
a
9:52
month
9:54
in
9:54
one
9:54
of
9:54
the
9:55
most
9:55
expensive
9:55
cities
9:56
in
9:56
the
9:56
world
9:56
that
9:56
doesn't
9:57
cover
9:57
anything.
9:58
Food,
9:58
insurance,
9:59
rent,
9:59
nothing.
10:00
So
10:00
I
10:00
was
10:01
just.
10:02
And
10:02
it
10:02
didn't
10:03
make
10:03
any
10:03
sense
10:03
at
10:04
all.
10:04
And
10:04
I
10:04
was
10:04
taking
10:05
all
10:05
the
10:05
classes.
10:06
In
10:06
fact,
10:06
not
10:06
only
10:07
was
10:07
I
10:07
not
10:07
making
10:07
money,
10:08
but
10:08
I
10:08
was
10:08
spending
10:08
money
10:09
on
10:09
classes
10:10
to
10:10
teach
10:10
me
10:10
what
10:10
I
10:10
was
10:11
already
10:11
doing.
10:12
Right.
10:12
The
10:12
old
10:13
you
10:13
hear
10:13
all
10:14
the
10:14
time
10:14
you
10:14
have
10:14
to
10:14
spend
10:15
money
10:15
to
10:15
make
10:15
money.
10:15
And
10:16
there's
10:17
a
10:17
truth
10:17
to
10:17
that,
10:17
I
10:18
do
10:18
think.
10:19
But
10:19
it
10:19
also
10:19
can
10:20
get
10:20
out
10:20
of
10:20
hand.
10:21
You
10:21
can
10:21
also.
10:22
You
10:22
can
10:22
also
10:23
spend
10:23
money
10:23
and
10:23
make
10:24
no
10:24
money.
10:24
That's
10:25
right.
10:25
And
10:27
because
10:28
what
10:28
it
10:28
came
10:28
down
10:28
to.
10:29
And
10:29
so
10:29
I
10:29
was
10:30
taking
10:30
the
10:31
marketing
10:31
classes,
10:31
the
10:31
sales
10:32
classes,
10:32
all
10:32
the
10:32
things
10:33
you're
10:33
supposed
10:33
to
10:33
be
10:33
doing,
10:34
and
10:34
doing
10:35
it
10:35
really
10:35
well
10:35
because
10:35
I'm
10:36
a
10:36
good
10:36
student
10:37
and
10:38
I
10:38
also
10:40
live
10:40
in
10:40
the
10:40
capital
10:41
of
10:41
Wu,
10:42
so
10:43
I
10:43
have
10:43
a
10:44
bunch
10:44
of
10:44
friends
10:45
who
10:45
would
10:45
speak
10:46
codes
10:46
and
10:46
wave
10:47
their
10:47
hands
10:47
and
10:48
blow
10:48
into
10:48
my
10:48
third
10:49
eye
10:49
and
10:50
make
10:51
me
10:51
hyperventilate
10:52
to
10:52
rebirth.
10:53
And
10:53
like
10:55
every
10:55
crazy
10:55
thing
10:56
you
10:56
can
10:56
think
10:56
of,
10:56
you
10:57
know,
10:57
hey,
10:57
I'll
10:57
give
10:58
it
10:58
a
10:58
try.
10:59
And
11:00
none
11:00
of
11:00
it
11:00
was
11:00
working.
11:01
And
11:01
I
11:01
had
11:01
the
11:01
vision
11:02
board
11:02
and
11:02
I
11:03
had
11:03
the
11:03
mantras
11:04
and
11:04
I
11:04
had
11:04
the
11:04
mindset,
11:05
and
11:07
I
11:07
was
11:07
struggling
11:07
to
11:08
make
11:08
a
11:08
hundred
11:08
dollars
11:08
a
11:09
month.
11:09
And
11:09
even
11:09
that
11:10
was
11:10
looking
11:10
sketchy.
11:12
And
11:12
so
11:13
that's
11:13
why
11:13
I
11:13
had
11:14
to
11:14
come
11:14
up
11:14
with.
11:16
And
11:16
it
11:16
wasn't.
11:17
It
11:17
was.
11:17
I
11:18
was
11:19
in
11:19
a
11:19
way
11:20
lucky
11:20
that
11:20
I
11:21
had
11:21
an
11:21
experience
11:21
that
11:22
happened
11:22
to
11:22
me
11:23
that
11:23
changed
11:23
things.
11:24
And
11:24
then
11:24
I
11:24
reverse
11:25
engineered
11:25
it
11:25
to
11:26
help
11:26
other
11:26
people.
11:27
The
11:27
reason
11:28
I
11:28
went
11:29
on
11:29
this
11:29
tangent,
11:30
when
11:30
I
11:30
started
11:30
talking
11:31
about
11:31
how
11:31
money
11:31
is
11:31
an
11:32
abstract
11:32
concept.
11:34
I
11:35
care
11:35
about
11:36
people.
11:37
That's
11:38
what
11:38
excites
11:39
me.
11:39
Helping
11:39
people,
11:40
that
11:40
is
11:40
real
11:41
to
11:41
me.
11:42
Those
11:42
are
11:43
My
11:43
values.
11:44
Money
11:44
is
11:45
this
11:45
sort
11:45
of
11:45
bloodless
11:46
idea.
11:48
It's
11:48
this
11:48
thing
11:49
I
11:49
need.
11:50
I
11:51
love
11:51
to
11:51
buy
11:52
things
11:52
like
11:53
anybody
11:53
else.
11:54
I
11:54
love
11:54
to
11:54
have
11:55
it.
11:55
But
11:55
if
11:56
I'm
11:56
faced
11:56
with
11:57
a
11:57
person
11:58
or
11:58
this
11:59
ethereal
12:00
idea,
12:01
money,
12:02
a
12:02
person
12:02
in
12:03
need
12:04
matters
12:04
more
12:05
to
12:05
me.
12:05
That's
12:05
where
12:05
my
12:06
heart
12:06
goes.
12:06
That's
12:06
what
12:07
I
12:07
care
12:07
about.
12:08
And
12:09
money
12:09
is
12:10
honestly
12:11
this
12:12
make
12:13
believe
12:13
thing
12:14
that
12:14
we
12:14
human
12:14
beings
12:15
created
12:16
for
12:16
very,
12:16
very
12:17
good
12:17
reason.
12:18
Because,
12:19
you
12:19
know,
12:19
trading
12:20
cows
12:20
is
12:20
cumbersome,
12:22
hard
12:22
to
12:22
fit
12:22
in
12:22
your
12:23
purse.
12:24
Having
12:25
a
12:25
credit
12:25
card
12:26
or
12:26
cash
12:26
is
12:26
just
12:27
a
12:27
lot
12:27
more
12:28
efficient
12:29
for
12:29
the
12:29
vast
12:30
distribution
12:31
of
12:32
goods
12:33
and
12:33
services
12:33
that
12:34
keep
12:34
humanity
12:34
alive.
12:35
So
12:35
I'm
12:36
not
12:36
against
12:36
that
12:36
at
12:36
all,
12:37
of
12:37
course,
12:38
but
12:38
it's
12:39
something
12:39
we
12:39
made
12:39
up.
12:40
Yeah.
12:41
So
12:41
it's
12:41
kind
12:42
of
12:42
a
12:42
collective
12:43
make
12:44
believe
12:44
that
12:45
one
12:45
purse
12:46
is
12:46
worth
12:46
$5
12:47
and
12:47
another
12:48
purse
12:48
is
12:48
worth
12:49
$5,000
12:50
because
12:50
they're
12:50
both
12:51
bags.
12:52
Money
12:52
represents,
12:54
I
12:54
think,
12:55
power,
12:56
your
12:56
risk
12:58
issues
12:58
of
12:59
our
12:59
human
12:59
experience,
13:00
which
13:00
is,
13:01
it
13:01
represents
13:02
love.
13:03
Am
13:03
I
13:03
gonna
13:04
say
13:04
love?
13:05
I
13:05
listened
13:06
to
13:06
a
13:06
podcast
13:06
quite
13:07
a.
13:07
Few
13:07
years
13:07
ago
13:07
and
13:07
if
13:07
I
13:08
can
13:08
find
13:08
it,
13:08
I'll
13:08
send
13:09
it
13:09
and
13:09
we
13:09
can
13:09
link
13:09
it.
13:09
Sam.
13:10
But
13:10
it
13:10
was
13:10
on
13:10
NPR
13:11
and
13:11
it
13:11
was
13:12
talking
13:12
about
13:12
currency
13:13
since
13:13
the
13:13
beginning
13:14
of
13:14
time.
13:14
And
13:14
that's
13:15
what
13:15
it
13:15
all
13:15
freaking
13:15
boiled
13:16
down
13:16
to,
13:16
is
13:16
like,
13:17
it
13:17
represents
13:18
love
13:18
as
13:18
in
13:19
like
13:19
value.
13:19
Like,
13:19
am
13:20
I
13:20
valued?
13:21
Ah,
13:22
it
13:22
was
13:22
really
13:22
interesting.
13:23
I
13:23
separate
13:24
the
13:24
two
13:24
a
13:25
little
13:25
bit,
13:25
but
13:25
they,
13:26
they
13:26
do
13:26
have
13:26
a
13:26
lot
13:27
of
13:27
overlap
13:27
because
13:28
there's
13:28
a
13:28
fundamental
13:29
question,
13:29
am
13:29
I
13:29
wanted?
13:30
Okay,
13:31
now,
13:32
so
13:32
I
13:32
would
13:33
say
13:33
love.
13:34
Am
13:34
I
13:34
loved?
13:34
Am
13:35
I
13:35
lovable?
13:37
The
13:37
second
13:37
one,
13:37
I
13:37
would
13:38
say
13:38
value,
13:39
but
13:39
it's
13:39
not
13:40
just
13:40
am
13:40
I
13:40
valued,
13:41
but
13:41
am
13:41
I
13:42
worthy?
13:42
Do
13:43
I
13:44
feel
13:44
good
13:45
enough
13:45
or
13:45
is
13:45
there
13:46
something
13:46
wrong
13:47
with
13:47
me?
13:48
So
13:48
that
13:48
that
13:49
value,
13:49
that
13:49
worth
13:50
is,
13:50
I
13:51
think
13:51
the
13:51
second
13:51
thing
13:52
that
13:52
it
13:52
represents,
13:53
the
13:54
third
13:54
one
13:54
is
13:55
safety.
13:57
This
13:57
is
13:57
a
13:57
big
13:57
one.
13:59
Is
14:00
the
14:00
world
14:00
a
14:00
safe
14:01
place?
14:02
And
14:03
it,
14:03
you
14:03
know,
14:04
it's
14:04
like,
14:05
does
14:05
the
14:05
universe
14:06
want
14:06
me
14:06
here?
14:07
Do
14:07
I
14:07
have
14:08
a
14:08
right
14:08
to
14:09
exist?
14:10
Huge,
14:11
huge
14:12
issues
14:12
of,
14:13
of
14:13
pain
14:14
and
14:14
of
14:14
course,
14:15
power.
14:16
Am
14:16
I
14:16
powerful
14:17
or
14:17
am
14:18
I
14:18
helpless?
14:18
And,
14:19
and,
14:20
and
14:20
abuses
14:21
of
14:21
power
14:22
are
14:22
so
14:23
associated
14:23
with
14:24
money.
14:24
So
14:24
there's
14:24
a
14:25
lot
14:25
of
14:25
pain
14:26
that
14:26
we
14:26
want
14:27
to
14:27
create
14:27
distance
14:28
from.
14:29
And
14:29
so
14:29
in
14:29
my
14:30
case,
14:31
way
14:32
back
14:32
in
14:32
2003,
14:33
I
14:34
had
14:34
just
14:34
finished
14:35
taking
14:35
this
14:35
class
14:36
on
14:36
overcoming
14:37
sales
14:37
objections.
14:38
Like,
14:39
I
14:39
was
14:39
already
14:40
doing
14:40
everything
14:40
right
14:41
and
14:41
we
14:42
couldn't
14:42
figure
14:42
out
14:42
why.
14:43
Did
14:44
you
14:44
say
14:44
sales
14:45
rejections
14:45
or
14:45
objections?
14:46
Objections,
14:47
Sales.
14:48
So
14:50
when
14:50
somebody
14:51
says,
14:51
and
14:51
thank
14:52
you
14:52
for
14:52
calling
14:52
me
14:52
on
14:52
that,
14:53
because
14:53
I'm
14:53
wondering.
14:54
Yeah,
14:54
no.
14:55
So
14:55
when
14:55
somebody
14:56
says,
14:56
oh
14:56
my
14:56
God,
14:57
I
14:57
Would
14:57
love
14:57
to
14:57
buy
14:57
your
14:58
thing,
14:58
but
14:58
I
14:58
can't
14:59
afford
14:59
it
14:59
or
14:59
I
14:59
don't
14:59
have
15:00
time
15:00
or
15:00
whatever.
15:01
Okay.
15:02
There
15:02
are
15:04
no
15:04
shortage
15:04
of
15:05
classes.
15:05
You
15:05
can
15:05
probably
15:06
even
15:06
get
15:06
it
15:06
for
15:07
free
15:07
online.
15:07
Of
15:08
what
15:08
to
15:08
say
15:09
when
15:09
somebody
15:09
says,
15:10
oh,
15:10
I'd
15:10
love
15:10
to,
15:11
but
15:11
I
15:11
can't
15:11
afford
15:11
it
15:11
or
15:12
I
15:12
don't
15:12
have
15:12
time
15:12
and
15:12
all
15:12
that
15:13
kind
15:13
of
15:13
stuff.
15:13
And
15:13
so
15:14
way
15:14
back
15:14
in
15:14
2003,
15:15
taken
15:16
all
15:16
the
15:16
other
15:16
classes,
15:17
and
15:17
somebody
15:18
is
15:18
promising
15:19
to
15:19
teach
15:19
me
15:19
the
15:20
magic
15:20
words
15:20
to
15:21
overcome
15:22
these
15:22
objections.
15:23
So,
15:23
okay,
15:23
you
15:24
know,
15:24
I
15:24
signed
15:24
up,
15:25
I
15:25
took
15:25
the
15:25
classes.
15:26
Great
15:27
student.
15:28
So
15:29
I
15:29
applied
15:29
these
15:30
words,
15:30
and
15:31
seven
15:32
people.
15:32
I
15:32
overcame
15:33
their
15:33
objections,
15:34
and
15:34
they
15:34
said
15:34
yes
15:35
to
15:35
me
15:35
being
15:35
their
15:35
coach,
15:36
by
15:36
the
15:36
way.
15:37
I
15:37
had,
15:37
like,
15:38
so
15:38
many
15:38
people
15:38
who
15:39
wanted
15:39
to
15:39
hire
15:39
me
15:39
at
15:40
that
15:40
time,
15:40
and
15:41
it
15:41
was
15:41
just
15:42
so
15:42
weird
15:43
that
15:43
something
15:44
wasn't
15:45
happening.
15:45
Right?
15:46
And
15:47
so
15:47
I
15:47
took
15:47
this
15:48
class
15:48
and
15:49
oh,
15:49
my
15:49
God,
15:49
Holy
15:50
grail.
15:50
It
15:50
solved
15:51
the
15:51
problem.
15:51
Seven
15:52
people
15:52
said
15:52
yes.
15:53
And
15:53
then
15:54
the
15:54
punchline
15:54
is
15:55
those
15:56
seven
15:56
people
15:56
didn't
15:57
show
15:57
up
15:57
for
15:57
our
15:57
first
15:57
coaching
15:58
call
15:58
and
15:58
never
15:58
paid
15:59
me.
15:59
Oh.
16:01
And
16:02
so
16:02
it
16:02
was
16:02
the
16:02
wrong
16:03
seven
16:03
people
16:03
that
16:04
said
16:04
yes.
16:05
It
16:05
didn't
16:06
matter.
16:07
It
16:07
didn't
16:07
matter
16:08
because
16:08
what
16:09
was
16:09
the
16:09
through
16:09
line?
16:10
Me.
16:12
And
16:14
I
16:14
had
16:15
been
16:15
doing
16:16
everything.
16:17
Everything
16:18
every
16:18
teacher
16:18
told
16:19
me
16:19
to
16:19
do,
16:19
every
16:19
book
16:20
told
16:20
me
16:20
to
16:20
do,
16:21
every
16:21
coach
16:22
told
16:22
me
16:22
to
16:22
do,
16:23
and
16:24
bupkis.
16:26
And
16:26
that
16:26
was
16:26
kind
16:26
of
16:27
when
16:28
I
16:28
just
16:31
lost
16:31
it.
16:32
And
16:33
I
16:33
remember
16:34
being
16:35
in
16:35
my
16:35
teeny
16:36
tiny
16:36
apartment
16:37
that
16:37
I
16:37
could
16:37
not
16:37
afford.
16:38
Yeah.
16:39
And
16:39
dragging
16:40
close
16:40
the
16:40
blackout
16:41
curtains
16:42
and
16:42
crypting
16:43
out
16:43
my
16:43
bedroom
16:44
and
16:44
getting
16:44
on
16:44
my
16:45
bed
16:45
and
16:45
just
16:46
wailing
16:47
and
16:48
crying
16:48
and
16:49
raging
16:50
because
16:51
I
16:51
felt
16:52
so
16:53
set
16:53
up.
16:53
Like
16:53
here.
16:54
I
16:54
finally
16:55
knew
16:55
what
16:55
I
16:55
was,
16:56
and
16:57
I
16:57
was
16:57
really
16:57
good
16:58
at
16:58
it.
16:59
And
16:59
it
16:59
didn't
16:59
matter
17:00
because
17:00
I
17:00
couldn't
17:00
make
17:01
a
17:01
living
17:01
at
17:01
it.
17:01
And
17:02
it
17:02
felt
17:02
like
17:02
this
17:04
sadistic
17:05
cosmic
17:05
joke
17:06
that
17:06
I
17:06
would
17:06
never
17:07
be
17:07
able
17:07
to
17:07
make
17:07
a
17:07
living.
17:08
Yeah.
17:08
You
17:08
use
17:09
the
17:09
word
17:09
punchline,
17:09
and
17:10
I
17:10
like,
17:10
you
17:10
feel
17:10
like
17:10
you're
17:11
the
17:11
butt
17:11
of
17:11
the
17:11
joke.
17:12
Totally.
17:13
Who's
17:13
playing
17:13
games
17:14
with
17:14
me?
17:15
The
17:15
universe,
17:16
God,
17:16
whatever
17:17
you.
17:17
Whatever
17:17
you
17:18
want
17:18
to
17:18
call
17:18
it.
17:18
I
17:19
just
17:19
felt
17:19
hated
17:20
by
17:21
life,
17:22
by
17:22
God,
17:22
by
17:23
the
17:23
universe.
17:24
And
17:24
he
17:25
didn't
17:26
want
17:26
to
17:26
play.
17:27
I.
17:27
I
17:27
just.
17:28
I
17:28
wanted
17:28
to
17:28
take
17:29
my
17:29
ball
17:29
and
17:29
leave
17:30
the
17:30
planet.
17:30
And
17:30
you
17:31
know
17:31
exactly
17:31
what
17:31
I
17:32
mean.
17:33
When
17:33
I
17:33
cried
17:34
myself
17:34
out
17:34
and
17:35
raged
17:35
myself
17:36
out,
17:37
I
17:38
had
17:38
a
17:38
couple
17:38
of
17:39
thoughts.
17:40
And
17:40
the
17:40
first
17:40
one
17:41
was
17:42
maybe
17:43
money
17:44
needed
17:44
to
17:44
be
17:45
my
17:45
next
17:45
area
17:46
of
17:46
spiritual
17:47
growth.
17:48
Okay.
17:49
Honestly,
17:50
that
17:50
was
17:50
a
17:50
cheat
17:50
because
17:51
I
17:51
thought
17:51
if
17:51
I
17:51
could
17:51
put
17:52
money
17:52
in
17:52
the
17:52
spirituality
17:53
box,
17:53
maybe
17:53
then
17:54
I
17:54
could
17:54
deal
17:54
with
17:54
it.
17:54
That's
17:55
so
17:55
Funny,
17:55
because
17:55
I
17:55
was
17:55
about
17:56
to
17:56
ask
17:56
you.
17:56
So
17:56
is
17:57
money
17:57
a
17:57
way
17:57
to
17:57
speak?
17:58
Can
17:58
you
17:58
be
17:58
spiritual,
17:59
too?
17:59
But
17:59
okay,
18:00
you're
18:00
saying,
18:00
oh,
18:01
oh,
18:02
but
18:02
it's
18:02
not
18:02
necessarily.
18:09
That
18:09
was
18:10
not
18:10
the
18:10
idea
18:11
that
18:11
changed
18:11
my
18:12
life.
18:12
Okay.
18:14
But
18:14
it
18:14
does
18:15
play
18:15
into
18:17
what
18:17
happened
18:18
after.
18:18
So
18:19
the
18:20
other
18:20
thought
18:20
that
18:20
I
18:21
had
18:21
was,
18:21
what
18:22
is
18:22
going
18:23
on
18:23
inside
18:23
of
18:24
me
18:24
that
18:24
I
18:24
don't
18:24
know
18:25
about
18:25
that
18:25
can't
18:26
be
18:26
with
18:26
money?
18:26
Because
18:27
this
18:27
doesn't
18:27
make
18:28
sense.
18:29
Good
18:29
grades,
18:31
doing
18:31
all
18:32
the
18:32
stuff.
18:35
Yeah,
18:35
yeah.
18:36
And
18:36
I
18:36
am
18:37
talking
18:38
to
18:39
all
18:39
of
18:39
you
18:39
good
18:40
student
18:40
overachievers
18:41
right
18:41
now
18:42
who
18:42
are
18:42
doing
18:43
all
18:43
the
18:43
things
18:43
and
18:44
you
18:44
aren't
18:44
getting
18:44
the
18:44
results.
18:45
And
18:45
it
18:45
doesn't.
18:45
Maybe
18:46
it's
18:46
money,
18:46
maybe
18:46
it's
18:47
love,
18:47
maybe
18:47
it's
18:47
weight
18:48
loss,
18:48
maybe
18:48
it's
18:48
health,
18:49
whatever
18:50
it
18:50
is.
18:50
Because
18:51
by
18:51
the
18:51
way,
18:51
I
18:52
did
18:52
the
18:52
same
18:52
process
18:53
that
18:53
I'm
18:53
going
18:53
to
18:53
tell
18:53
you
18:53
about
18:53
with
18:54
money.
18:54
I
18:54
did
18:54
the
18:54
same
18:55
process
18:57
not
18:58
nine
18:58
years
18:58
later
18:59
on
18:59
love
19:00
and
19:00
met
19:00
my
19:01
husband
19:01
two
19:01
months
19:01
later.
19:03
So.
19:06
You
19:06
have
19:06
my
19:06
ear.
19:07
Okay,
19:08
So
19:09
I
19:10
have
19:10
this
19:10
question.
19:11
What
19:11
is
19:11
going
19:11
on
19:11
inside
19:12
of
19:12
me
19:12
that
19:12
can't
19:12
be
19:12
with
19:13
money?
19:13
Like,
19:13
that's
19:14
weird.
19:14
Sudden
19:15
curiosity.
19:16
So
19:16
soon
19:16
after
19:16
that,
19:17
I
19:17
have
19:17
a
19:17
conversation
19:18
with
19:18
my
19:18
coach
19:19
and
19:19
I
19:20
want
19:20
to
19:20
pause
19:21
and
19:21
point
19:22
out
19:22
how
19:22
wildly
19:23
weird
19:24
it
19:24
is
19:25
to
19:25
say
19:25
that
19:25
I
19:25
had
19:25
a
19:26
coach
19:26
when
19:27
I
19:27
was
19:27
making
19:27
a
19:27
hundred
19:27
dollars
19:28
a
19:28
month,
19:28
could
19:29
not
19:29
afford
19:29
rent,
19:30
health
19:30
insurance,
19:31
food,
19:32
anything.
19:33
And
19:33
I
19:33
was,
19:34
you
19:34
know,
19:34
living
19:34
on
19:35
debt.
19:36
I
19:36
know
19:37
nobody
19:37
knows
19:38
what
19:38
that's
19:38
like,
19:39
but
19:39
I
19:40
had
19:40
a
19:40
coach,
19:40
thank
19:41
goodness,
19:41
because
19:41
it
19:41
really
19:42
saved
19:42
my
19:42
life.
19:43
And
19:43
this
19:44
coach
19:45
graduated
19:46
from
19:46
coaching
19:46
school
19:47
and
19:47
got
19:47
certified
19:47
the
19:48
same
19:48
day
19:48
I
19:48
did.
19:48
That's
19:49
how
19:49
I
19:49
knew
19:49
him.
19:50
Okay?
19:51
But
19:51
he
19:52
owned
19:52
a
19:52
house
19:52
and
19:53
I'm
19:53
struggling
19:54
to
19:54
make
19:54
$100
19:55
a
19:55
month
19:55
and
19:55
I
19:55
was
19:55
doing
19:56
everything
19:56
he
19:57
told
19:57
me
19:57
to
19:57
do.
19:59
And
19:59
because
19:59
I'm
20:00
a
20:00
dead
20:00
student
20:00
and
20:01
it
20:01
didn't
20:01
matter.
20:02
And
20:02
when
20:03
you're
20:03
doing
20:03
all
20:03
the
20:03
right
20:03
stuff
20:04
and
20:04
it
20:04
doesn't
20:04
matter,
20:04
that's
20:05
when
20:05
I
20:05
want
20:05
you
20:05
to
20:05
pay
20:05
attention.
20:06
Because
20:06
what
20:07
I
20:07
believe
20:08
now,
20:09
based
20:09
on
20:09
my
20:09
personal
20:10
experience
20:10
and
20:10
coaching
20:11
thousands
20:12
of
20:12
people
20:12
since
20:13
then,
20:14
and
20:15
a
20:15
lot
20:15
of
20:15
them
20:16
starting
20:16
at
20:16
zero
20:16
and
20:16
making
20:17
millions
20:17
of
20:17
dollars
20:18
quickly,
20:19
I
20:20
believe
20:20
that
20:20
when
20:21
you're
20:21
doing
20:21
all
20:22
the
20:22
things
20:22
you're
20:22
supposed
20:23
to
20:23
be
20:23
doing
20:24
and
20:24
putting
20:25
forth
20:25
the
20:25
effort
20:25
and
20:26
working,
20:26
working,
20:27
working
20:27
at
20:27
it,
20:27
and
20:28
you
20:28
are
20:29
adding
20:30
the
20:30
results
20:31
you
20:31
should
20:31
get
20:32
and
20:32
it
20:32
doesn't
20:32
make
20:32
sense,
20:33
it
20:33
is
20:34
my
20:34
experience
20:35
that
20:35
you
20:35
are
20:36
probably
20:37
protecting
20:37
yourself
20:38
from
20:38
what
20:38
you
20:39
want.
20:40
That's
20:40
me.
20:41
And
20:41
you
20:41
are
20:42
not
20:42
crazy
20:43
and
20:43
you
20:43
are
20:43
not
20:44
wrong
20:44
and
20:44
you
20:44
are
20:45
not
20:45
a
20:45
failure.
20:45
You
20:46
are
20:46
actually
20:46
very,
20:47
very
20:47
successful
20:47
at
20:48
Protecting
20:48
yourself
20:48
from
20:49
a
20:49
threat.
20:49
And
20:50
it's
20:50
a
20:50
real
20:50
threat.
20:51
It's
20:51
just
20:51
not
20:51
what
20:52
you
20:52
think
20:52
it
20:52
is.
20:53
Okay.
20:54
So
20:54
I
20:54
was,
20:54
in
20:55
fact,
20:55
protecting
20:56
myself
20:56
from
20:56
money.
20:56
And
20:56
now
20:57
I'm
20:57
telling
20:58
this
20:58
all
20:58
out
20:58
of
20:58
order,
20:58
but
20:59
I'll
20:59
let
20:59
you
20:59
know
21:00
how
21:00
I
21:00
found
21:00
out.
21:00
Sounds
21:01
in
21:01
order
21:01
to
21:01
me.
21:02
Okay,
21:02
So
21:03
I
21:04
have
21:04
this
21:04
call
21:04
with
21:05
my
21:05
coach,
21:05
and
21:06
instead
21:06
of
21:06
that
21:06
great
21:07
attitude,
21:07
okay,
21:08
coach,
21:09
I'm
21:09
just
21:10
vomiting
21:11
my
21:12
rage
21:13
and
21:13
resentment
21:14
and
21:14
despair
21:16
into
21:16
his
21:17
lap.
21:17
And
21:17
I
21:17
have
21:17
to
21:18
tell
21:18
you,
21:18
by
21:18
the
21:18
way,
21:19
if
21:20
you
21:20
don't
21:20
know
21:20
this,
21:21
coaches
21:22
love
21:22
this.
21:23
And
21:23
I'm
21:23
not
21:24
being
21:24
sarcastic.
21:25
It
21:25
gives
21:25
us
21:25
something
21:26
to
21:26
work
21:26
with.
21:27
And
21:29
I
21:29
don't
21:30
know
21:30
if
21:30
he
21:30
loved
21:30
it
21:30
or
21:30
not.
21:31
I'm
21:31
just
21:31
speaking
21:31
for
21:31
myself.
21:32
But
21:32
it
21:32
inspired
21:33
something
21:33
from
21:33
him
21:34
that
21:34
had
21:34
never
21:34
happened
21:35
before.
21:35
And
21:36
he
21:36
asked
21:36
me
21:37
this
21:37
weird
21:37
question
21:38
that
21:38
changed
21:38
my
21:38
life.
21:39
And
21:39
this
21:39
is
21:39
where
21:39
you
21:40
want
21:40
to
21:40
lean
21:40
in?
21:41
Okay.
21:42
He
21:43
asked
21:43
me,
21:44
if
21:44
your
21:45
relationship
21:45
with
21:46
money
21:46
was
21:46
a
21:47
person,
21:48
who
21:49
would
21:49
your
21:49
money
21:49
be?
21:51
And
21:51
because
21:51
in
21:52
that
21:52
moment,
21:52
I
21:52
was
21:52
in
21:53
so
21:53
much
21:54
pain
21:56
when
21:56
he
21:56
asked
21:56
me
21:56
that
21:57
question,
21:57
I
21:57
saw
21:58
in
21:58
my
21:58
mind's
21:59
eye
21:59
immediately
22:00
this
22:02
big,
22:02
scary,
22:04
violent
22:05
biker
22:06
dude.
22:06
You
22:07
know,
22:07
bald
22:07
at
22:08
this
22:08
sideburns,
22:09
and
22:09
the
22:10
tattoos
22:10
and
22:10
the
22:10
wife
22:10
beater
22:11
shirt
22:11
and,
22:11
like
22:11
a
22:11
big
22:12
buckle
22:12
and
22:13
jeans
22:13
and.
22:14
Nothing
22:14
wrong
22:14
with
22:15
guys
22:15
who
22:15
look
22:15
like
22:15
that.
22:16
But
22:16
this
22:16
one
22:16
with
22:17
this.
22:17
This
22:17
particular
22:18
guy
22:18
was
22:18
just,
22:19
like
22:19
oozing
22:20
malevolence,
22:21
danger.
22:23
And
22:24
I.
22:25
I
22:25
had
22:25
this
22:25
moment
22:26
of
22:26
imagining
22:27
myself
22:27
at
22:27
a
22:27
live
22:28
event
22:29
and
22:29
having
22:29
my
22:30
eye
22:30
on
22:30
him
22:30
all
22:31
the
22:31
time
22:31
to
22:31
create
22:32
maximum
22:32
distance
22:33
between
22:33
us.
22:35
And
22:35
that
22:35
was
22:35
my
22:35
big
22:36
aha
22:36
moment.
22:37
I
22:38
was
22:38
creating
22:39
distance
22:40
from
22:41
money,
22:42
and
22:42
I
22:43
never
22:43
knew
22:43
that
22:43
I
22:43
was
22:43
doing
22:44
it.
22:44
So
22:44
everything
22:44
I
22:45
was
22:45
doing
22:45
consciously
22:45
didn't
22:46
matter
22:46
because
22:46
unconsciously,
22:48
which
22:48
is,
22:49
you
22:49
know,
22:49
99%
22:50
of
22:50
us.
22:51
Yeah.
22:51
All
22:52
of
22:52
our
22:52
beliefs,
22:52
attitudes,
22:53
and
22:53
actions
22:53
spring
22:54
from
22:54
our
22:54
unconscious.
22:57
So
22:57
our
22:57
results
22:58
come
22:58
from.
22:59
There's
23:00
that
23:00
subconscious
23:00
again
23:01
popping
23:01
up.
23:02
Yeah.
23:02
By
23:03
the
23:03
way,
23:03
what
23:03
I'm
23:03
teaching
23:03
is
23:04
a
23:04
way
23:04
for
23:04
the
23:04
conscious
23:05
mind
23:05
to
23:05
communicate
23:06
with
23:06
the
23:06
unconscious
23:07
and
23:07
get
23:07
both
23:07
of
23:07
you
23:08
on
23:08
the
23:08
same
23:08
page.
23:09
Right.
23:09
So
23:09
that
23:10
when
23:10
you
23:10
go
23:11
here,
23:12
you
23:12
go
23:13
here.
23:13
So
23:14
I.
23:14
Because
23:16
seeing
23:16
money
23:16
as
23:16
a
23:17
person
23:17
is
23:17
the
23:18
language
23:18
of
23:18
the
23:19
unconscious.
23:19
It
23:19
makes
23:20
the
23:20
relationship
23:21
real,
23:21
tangible.
23:22
It's
23:22
like,
23:22
if
23:23
you
23:23
ask
23:23
me
23:23
what
23:23
he
23:23
smelled
23:24
like,
23:24
I
23:24
could
23:24
tell
23:25
you
23:25
and
23:25
all
23:25
that
23:25
kind
23:26
of
23:26
stuff.
23:26
He
23:26
smelled
23:26
like
23:27
sweat.
23:28
While
23:29
you
23:29
were
23:29
talking,
23:29
I
23:30
got
23:30
an
23:30
image
23:30
in
23:31
my
23:31
head
23:31
for
23:31
me.
23:32
Yeah.
23:32
Earlier,
23:33
Sam
23:33
had
23:33
mentioned
23:34
that
23:34
that's
23:34
something
23:34
that
23:34
you
23:35
tell
23:35
people
23:35
to
23:36
do.
23:36
And
23:36
I
23:36
thought,
23:36
well,
23:36
that's
23:36
interesting.
23:37
But
23:37
I
23:37
didn't
23:37
put
23:37
more
23:38
thought
23:38
into
23:38
it,
23:38
but
23:38
it
23:38
just
23:38
kind
23:38
of
23:39
like
23:39
Epiphany
23:40
style
23:40
came
23:40
to
23:41
me
23:41
while
23:41
you
23:41
were
23:42
talking,
23:42
and
23:43
I
23:44
thought
23:44
that.
23:44
Anyway,
23:44
we
23:44
can
23:45
talk
23:45
about
23:45
that
23:45
later,
23:45
but
23:46
I'll.
23:46
I'll
23:46
take
23:47
you
23:47
through
23:47
the
23:47
six
23:47
steps.
23:48
Right
23:48
now.
23:48
I'm
23:48
mashing
23:49
them
23:49
all
23:49
together
23:49
just
23:50
to
23:50
get
23:50
through.
23:51
I'm
23:51
giving
23:51
context,
23:52
so
23:52
when
23:52
I
23:53
teach
23:53
the
23:53
steps,
23:54
they'll
23:54
actually
23:54
mean
23:54
something.
23:55
Thank
23:55
you.
23:56
So
23:57
all
23:58
I
23:58
knew
23:58
was,
24:00
heck,
24:00
I
24:01
never
24:01
knew
24:01
that
24:01
I
24:02
felt
24:02
this
24:02
way
24:02
about
24:02
money.
24:04
Money
24:04
felt
24:05
really
24:06
dangerous.
24:08
And
24:08
I
24:08
had
24:08
this
24:09
moment
24:09
of,
24:09
oh,
24:09
well,
24:10
no
24:10
wonder
24:13
I
24:13
don't
24:13
have
24:14
money
24:14
in
24:14
my
24:14
life.
24:15
And
24:16
in
24:16
that
24:16
moment,
24:17
I
24:17
was
24:17
coming
24:18
from
24:18
a
24:18
place
24:18
of
24:19
not
24:19
being
24:20
able
24:20
to
24:20
make
24:20
money,
24:20
having
24:21
scarcity.
24:21
I've
24:22
also
24:22
coached
24:23
1
24:24
percenters
24:24
and
24:25
even
24:25
a
24:25
billionaire.
24:27
And
24:27
they
24:27
have
24:28
money
24:28
monsters
24:29
too.
24:29
It
24:30
just
24:30
shows
24:31
up
24:31
differently
24:32
for
24:32
them.
24:33
But
24:33
underneath
24:33
the
24:33
root
24:34
causes,
24:35
love,
24:36
worth,
24:36
safety,
24:37
power,
24:38
are
24:39
pretty
24:39
universal
24:40
to
24:40
human
24:40
beings.
24:41
We
24:41
are.
24:41
Our
24:42
circumstances
24:42
may
24:43
look
24:43
really,
24:43
really
24:44
different,
24:45
but
24:46
our
24:46
deepest
24:47
vulnerabilities,
24:48
not
24:48
so
24:49
much.
24:50
So
24:51
Biker
24:52
dude
24:52
dangerous.
24:54
I
24:54
could
24:54
feel
24:55
that
24:55
he
24:55
wanted
24:56
to
24:57
hurt
24:57
me,
24:58
destroy
24:58
me,
24:59
kill
24:59
me.
24:59
And
24:59
there
24:59
was
25:00
no
25:00
way
25:00
that
25:00
I
25:00
could
25:01
have
25:01
money
25:01
in
25:01
my
25:01
life
25:01
if
25:02
it
25:02
was
25:02
him.
25:02
It
25:02
was
25:03
not
25:03
an
25:03
accident
25:04
that
25:04
I
25:04
was
25:04
pushing
25:04
money
25:05
away.
25:06
Huge
25:06
aha
25:07
moment.
25:08
So
25:09
I
25:09
knew
25:09
there
25:09
was
25:09
no
25:09
way
25:10
I
25:10
could
25:10
have
25:10
money
25:10
if
25:10
it
25:10
was
25:11
that
25:11
guy.
25:11
And
25:11
I
25:11
had
25:12
to
25:12
get
25:12
rid
25:12
of
25:12
him.
25:13
This
25:13
relationship
25:14
was
25:14
not
25:14
working
25:16
at
25:16
that
25:16
time.
25:17
I
25:17
just
25:18
broke
25:18
up
25:18
with
25:18
him.
25:19
That's
25:19
not
25:19
what
25:19
I
25:19
teach
25:20
now.
25:20
I'm
25:20
a
25:20
lot
25:20
bloodier.
25:21
Just
25:22
tried
25:22
this
25:23
out
25:23
with
25:23
other
25:23
people
25:23
and
25:24
found
25:24
what
25:24
works
25:24
better.
25:25
But
25:25
at
25:26
that
25:26
moment,
25:26
it
25:26
was
25:26
good
25:27
enough.
25:29
Okay,
25:29
you
25:29
know,
25:30
split.
25:30
If
25:30
you've
25:31
ever.
25:31
If
25:31
you've
25:31
ever
25:31
broken
25:32
up,
25:32
you
25:32
know,
25:33
with
25:33
the
25:33
toxic
25:34
relationship.
25:35
Good
25:35
life
25:35
skill
25:35
here.
25:37
And
25:37
as
25:37
soon
25:38
as
25:38
he
25:38
was
25:38
gone,
25:40
I
25:40
felt
25:41
this
25:41
weird
25:42
emptiness
25:43
all
25:43
around
25:43
me
25:44
like
25:44
a
25:44
fish
25:44
out
25:45
of
25:45
water,
25:45
like
25:46
this.
25:48
This
25:48
relationship
25:49
with
25:49
money
25:49
was
25:49
so
25:50
much
25:50
a
25:50
part
25:50
of
25:50
my.
25:51
This
25:51
negative,
25:52
toxic
25:53
soul
25:53
crushing,
25:54
you're
25:54
not
25:54
good
25:55
enough,
25:55
you're
25:55
not
25:55
wanted.
25:56
Relationship
25:56
with
25:57
money
25:57
was
25:58
so
25:58
pervasive,
25:59
pervasive
26:00
in
26:00
my
26:00
life.
26:01
I
26:01
never
26:01
even
26:01
knew
26:01
it
26:01
was
26:02
there
26:02
until
26:02
it
26:02
was
26:02
gone.
26:03
And
26:03
then
26:03
I
26:03
felt
26:03
like
26:03
this
26:04
really
26:04
weird
26:05
emptiness,
26:06
this
26:06
vacuum.
26:07
And
26:07
I
26:07
thought,
26:08
crap,
26:08
I
26:08
need
26:09
to
26:09
fill
26:09
this
26:10
before
26:10
he
26:10
comes
26:11
back.
26:11
And
26:12
that's
26:12
the
26:12
problem
26:12
with
26:12
breaking
26:13
up
26:13
with
26:13
him.
26:13
Why?
26:13
Why?
26:14
It's
26:14
a
26:14
lot
26:14
more
26:15
permanent
26:15
solution
26:16
now.
26:18
So
26:19
I
26:19
thought
26:19
to
26:19
myself,
26:20
it's
26:20
one
26:20
of
26:21
those
26:21
things
26:21
where
26:21
you
26:21
solve
26:22
one
26:22
problem
26:22
leads
26:23
to
26:23
the
26:23
new
26:23
one.
26:23
So,
26:24
yeah,
26:24
I
26:24
got
26:24
rid
26:24
of
26:24
the
26:24
monster.
26:25
Oh,
26:25
heck,
26:26
I
26:26
live
26:26
in
26:26
LA
26:26
and
26:27
I
26:27
have
26:27
no
26:27
relationship
26:28
with
26:28
money.
26:28
Gotta
26:29
fix
26:29
that
26:29
quick.
26:30
Because
26:30
I
26:30
knew
26:31
that
26:31
if
26:31
I
26:32
left
26:32
the
26:32
space
26:32
open,
26:33
he
26:33
would
26:33
come
26:33
back,
26:34
okay?
26:35
Was
26:35
I
26:35
thought
26:35
to
26:36
myself,
26:36
who
26:36
could
26:37
I
26:37
want
26:37
in
26:38
my
26:38
life
26:39
so
26:39
much
26:40
that
26:40
I
26:41
would
26:41
want
26:41
this
26:41
person,
26:42
even
26:42
if
26:42
it's
26:43
money?
26:44
Because
26:45
the
26:45
only
26:45
relationship
26:46
with
26:46
money
26:46
that
26:47
I
26:47
really
26:47
had,
26:48
and
26:48
this
26:48
goes
26:48
back
26:49
to
26:49
childhood
26:50
and
26:50
family
26:50
fights
26:51
and
26:51
stolen
26:52
inheritances.
26:53
I
26:53
made
26:54
a
26:54
decision
26:54
when
26:54
I
26:54
was
26:55
about
26:55
12
26:55
that
26:56
I
26:56
was
26:56
going
26:56
to
26:56
ignore
26:57
all
26:57
the
26:57
money
26:57
that
26:57
was
26:58
stolen
26:58
from
26:58
me
26:59
because
27:00
this
27:00
was
27:01
adult
27:02
stuff
27:02
and
27:02
I
27:02
would
27:03
just
27:03
choose
27:03
to
27:03
love
27:03
everybody.
27:04
But
27:04
I
27:05
didn't
27:05
know
27:06
until
27:06
decades
27:06
later
27:07
that
27:07
I
27:07
had
27:07
made
27:07
a
27:07
decision
27:08
that
27:08
love,
27:09
that
27:09
money
27:09
got
27:09
in
27:09
the
27:10
way
27:10
of
27:10
love.
27:10
And
27:10
I
27:11
choose
27:11
love.
27:11
So
27:12
goodbye,
27:12
money,
27:13
okay?
27:13
And
27:14
that's
27:15
part
27:15
of
27:15
why
27:15
he
27:15
was
27:16
so
27:18
dangerous
27:19
to
27:20
me.
27:20
So
27:20
he's
27:21
gone
27:21
and
27:21
I'm
27:21
thinking,
27:22
who
27:22
could
27:22
I
27:22
want
27:23
so
27:23
much
27:23
that
27:23
I
27:23
want
27:24
this
27:24
person,
27:24
even
27:25
though
27:25
it's
27:25
money?
27:26
So
27:26
it
27:26
would
27:26
need
27:27
to
27:27
be
27:27
somebody
27:27
so
27:28
safe
27:28
and
27:28
slow,
27:28
so
27:29
wonderful
27:30
that
27:30
it
27:31
would
27:31
be
27:31
so
27:32
different?
27:32
Because
27:33
if
27:33
you've
27:34
been
27:34
in
27:34
a
27:34
domestic
27:35
violence
27:36
relationship,
27:36
you
27:37
don't
27:37
want
27:37
to
27:37
get
27:37
into
27:37
that
27:38
ever,
27:38
ever,
27:38
ever
27:39
again.
27:40
This
27:40
is,
27:40
this
27:40
is
27:41
the
27:41
moment
27:41
in
27:41
the
27:41
movie
27:42
where
27:42
you
27:42
chop,
27:42
you
27:43
get
27:43
a
27:43
really
27:43
bad
27:43
haircut
27:44
and
27:45
a
27:45
really
27:45
bad
27:45
makeover
27:47
and.
27:48
And
27:49
that's
27:49
where
27:49
I
27:49
was
27:51
minus
27:52
the
27:52
haircut
27:52
this
27:52
time.
27:53
You're
27:53
like,
27:54
I'm
27:54
pretty
27:54
beautiful
27:55
that
27:55
way.
27:58
And
27:58
so
27:59
when
27:59
I
28:00
asked
28:00
myself
28:00
that
28:00
question,
28:01
who
28:01
could
28:01
I
28:01
want
28:01
so
28:02
much
28:02
because.
28:03
And
28:04
this
28:04
will
28:04
make
28:04
sense
28:04
when
28:04
I
28:05
go
28:05
through
28:05
the
28:05
steps,
28:05
because
28:06
I
28:06
started
28:06
out
28:06
in
28:07
like
28:07
such
28:07
real
28:08
visceral
28:09
agony
28:10
and
28:10
then
28:10
the
28:10
monster
28:11
was
28:11
so
28:12
real
28:12
and
28:13
ready
28:13
made
28:14
kind
28:14
of
28:15
there,
28:16
and
28:16
then
28:16
he
28:17
was
28:17
so
28:17
gone.
28:17
When
28:18
I
28:18
asked
28:18
myself
28:18
the
28:18
next
28:19
question,
28:22
a
28:22
new
28:22
person
28:23
showed
28:23
up
28:23
in
28:23
my
28:23
mind's
28:24
eye.
28:24
In
28:25
my
28:25
case,
28:26
it
28:26
was
28:26
a
28:26
guy.
28:27
Because
28:28
I'm.
28:28
I'm
28:28
cis
28:29
hetero.
28:29
And
28:29
that's
28:29
kind
28:30
of
28:30
where
28:30
I
28:30
go.
28:31
That's,
28:31
you
28:31
know,
28:32
but
28:33
it
28:33
doesn't,
28:33
you
28:34
know,
28:34
I've
28:34
had
28:34
clients,
28:34
it
28:35
doesn't
28:35
matter.
28:35
What
28:36
I
28:36
do
28:36
say,
28:36
that
28:36
is
28:37
you
28:37
want
28:37
your
28:38
new
28:38
relationship
28:38
with
28:39
money
28:39
to
28:39
be
28:39
human.
28:40
And
28:41
I
28:41
learned
28:41
that
28:41
through
28:42
trial
28:42
and
28:42
error
28:43
with
28:43
my
28:43
own
28:43
clients.
28:46
So
28:46
when
28:47
I
28:47
asked
28:47
that
28:47
question,
28:48
who
28:48
could
28:48
I
28:48
want
28:48
my
28:49
money
28:49
to
28:49
be?
28:49
Suddenly
28:50
this
28:51
todark,
28:52
handsome,
28:52
romantic,
28:55
super
28:55
sweet,
28:57
super
28:57
safe
28:59
guy
29:00
in
29:00
a
29:00
tuxedo,
29:02
slick
29:03
back
29:03
hair,
29:03
holding
29:04
a
29:04
bouquet
29:04
of
29:04
red
29:05
flowers
29:05
just
29:05
appeared
29:06
in
29:06
my
29:06
mind's
29:06
eye.
29:07
And
29:07
the
29:08
biggest
29:08
quality
29:09
was
29:09
he
29:09
was
29:09
just.
29:10
He
29:10
felt
29:10
like
29:10
love
29:12
and
29:12
he
29:12
loved
29:13
me.
29:14
And
29:14
I
29:15
had
29:15
been
29:16
breaking
29:17
his
29:17
heart
29:18
for
29:18
years
29:19
by
29:19
pushing
29:19
him
29:20
away
29:21
and
29:22
he
29:22
wanted
29:23
to
29:23
woo
29:23
me.
29:25
And
29:25
my
29:25
reaction
29:26
to
29:26
that
29:26
at
29:26
the
29:26
time
29:26
was,
29:27
whoa,
29:27
that
29:27
is
29:28
weird.
29:29
Because
29:31
I
29:32
had
29:32
never
29:32
thought
29:33
of
29:33
money
29:33
wanting
29:34
to
29:34
woo
29:34
me.
29:35
But
29:35
it
29:35
felt
29:36
really
29:36
good.
29:37
And
29:38
I
29:38
also
29:38
got
29:38
a
29:38
sense
29:39
that
29:39
he
29:39
wanted
29:40
to
29:40
be
29:40
with
29:41
me
29:41
in
29:41
a
29:41
way
29:41
that,
29:42
like,
29:43
in,
29:43
you
29:44
know,
29:45
big
29:45
volume,
29:46
just
29:46
really
29:47
wanted
29:47
to
29:47
be
29:48
with
29:48
me.
29:48
And
29:48
I
29:48
was
29:48
like,
29:48
whoa,
29:49
I
29:49
have
29:50
no
29:50
idea
29:51
how
29:52
to
29:52
allow
29:52
big
29:53
money
29:53
into
29:53
my
29:53
life.
29:56
So
29:56
I
29:56
asked
29:57
him.
29:58
And
29:58
I
29:59
also,
29:59
because
30:00
he
30:00
felt
30:00
so
30:00
real,
30:01
all
30:01
these
30:01
thoughts
30:01
just
30:02
sort
30:02
of
30:02
like
30:02
dominoes
30:03
just
30:03
kind
30:04
of
30:04
fell
30:04
into
30:05
my
30:05
mind
30:05
was
30:06
that
30:06
I
30:07
got
30:07
this
30:07
awareness
30:08
that
30:08
I
30:09
had
30:09
the
30:09
power
30:09
in
30:09
the
30:10
relationship
30:10
that
30:10
he
30:11
wanted
30:11
to
30:11
be
30:11
with
30:11
me,
30:12
but
30:12
I
30:12
could
30:12
keep
30:12
him
30:13
out.
30:13
And
30:13
I
30:14
had
30:14
been
30:14
keeping
30:14
this
30:15
sweet
30:16
guy
30:16
out
30:17
all
30:18
this
30:18
time,
30:19
and
30:19
it
30:19
broke
30:19
his
30:20
heart.
30:20
I
30:21
had
30:21
the
30:21
body.
30:21
I'm
30:22
the
30:22
gatekeeper.
30:23
All
30:24
this
30:24
time,
30:24
I
30:24
thought
30:25
money
30:25
was
30:25
the
30:25
gatekeeper.
30:26
I
30:26
was
30:26
the
30:26
gate
30:27
gatekeeper
30:28
that
30:28
would
30:28
let
30:28
him
30:28
in
30:28
or
30:29
out.
30:29
So
30:29
I
30:29
asked
30:29
him,
30:30
what
30:30
do
30:30
you
30:30
need
30:30
from
30:30
me
30:30
to
30:31
allow
30:31
you
30:31
to
30:31
be
30:31
with
30:32
me?
30:32
Which
30:32
is
30:32
a
30:33
very
30:33
different
30:33
question
30:33
than
30:34
what
30:34
do
30:34
you
30:34
need
30:34
for
30:34
me
30:34
to
30:34
love
30:35
me?
30:35
Because
30:36
he
30:36
love
30:37
is
30:37
unconditional.
30:38
He
30:38
loved
30:38
me,
30:40
but
30:40
presence
30:40
is
30:41
conditional.
30:41
I
30:41
could
30:41
push
30:42
him
30:42
away.
30:42
So
30:43
I
30:43
didn't
30:43
know
30:43
how
30:43
to
30:43
let
30:43
him
30:44
in.
30:44
I
30:45
had
30:45
like
30:45
Olympic
30:46
muscles
30:46
of
30:47
money
30:47
repulsion.
30:48
I
30:48
I
30:48
I
30:49
often
30:49
think
30:49
I
30:49
should
30:50
have
30:50
had
30:50
a
30:50
suit
30:50
with
30:50
a
30:51
big
30:51
R
30:51
on
30:52
my
30:52
chest
30:52
as
30:52
a
30:53
because
30:53
that
30:53
was
30:54
my
30:54
superpower.
30:54
Money
30:55
repulsion,
30:55
big
30:56
R.
30:57
I
30:57
got
30:57
you.
30:58
So,
30:59
so
30:59
in
30:59
the
30:59
story,
31:00
I
31:00
didn't
31:00
laugh,
31:00
but
31:00
it
31:01
is
31:01
all
31:01
right.
31:02
So,
31:03
so
31:03
I
31:03
asked
31:03
him,
31:03
what
31:03
do
31:03
you
31:04
need
31:04
from
31:04
me
31:04
to
31:04
allow
31:05
you
31:05
to
31:05
be
31:05
with
31:06
me
31:06
the
31:06
way
31:06
you
31:06
want
31:07
to
31:07
be
31:07
with
31:07
me?
31:08
And
31:08
because
31:09
he
31:09
was
31:10
so
31:10
real
31:10
and
31:11
so
31:11
human
31:11
in
31:11
my
31:12
imagination.
31:13
And
31:13
imagination
31:14
is
31:14
the
31:15
language
31:15
of
31:15
the
31:15
subconscious
31:17
speaking
31:17
to
31:17
the
31:17
conscious.
31:18
He
31:18
said,
31:19
I
31:19
need
31:19
you
31:19
to
31:20
love
31:20
me
31:20
and
31:20
I
31:21
need
31:21
you
31:21
to
31:21
stop
31:22
treating
31:22
me
31:22
like
31:22
a
31:23
monster.
31:24
And
31:25
so
31:25
I
31:26
have
31:26
to
31:26
pause
31:27
here
31:27
and
31:28
tackle
31:28
that
31:29
whole.
31:29
The
31:29
love
31:29
of
31:30
money
31:30
is
31:30
the
31:30
root
31:30
of
31:31
all
31:31
evil.
31:32
Oh
31:33
I
31:33
it
31:33
just
31:34
there's
31:34
no
31:34
way
31:34
to
31:35
not
31:36
address
31:36
that
31:37
if
31:37
you're
31:37
me.
31:39
So
31:40
love,
31:42
love
31:43
is
31:43
never
31:43
evil.
31:45
Love
31:46
does
31:46
not
31:46
exploit.
31:48
Love
31:49
does
31:49
not
31:49
cause
31:50
harm.
31:51
Love
31:51
is
31:51
not
31:52
avarice.
31:53
Love
31:53
is
31:53
not
31:53
scarcity.
31:56
Love
31:57
does
31:57
not
31:57
punish.
31:58
Love
31:58
is
31:59
kind
32:00
and
32:01
generous
32:03
and
32:03
noble
32:04
and
32:04
our
32:04
best
32:04
selves.
32:05
And
32:05
that's
32:05
all
32:06
love
32:06
is.
32:07
Yeah,
32:08
all
32:08
love
32:09
is.
32:10
So
32:11
I
32:11
also
32:11
have
32:12
a
32:12
friend
32:12
in
32:12
England
32:12
who
32:13
took
32:13
a
32:13
class
32:13
in
32:13
ancient
32:14
Aramaic,
32:14
which
32:14
is
32:15
the
32:15
original
32:15
language
32:17
of
32:17
the
32:17
Old
32:17
Testament.
32:18
And
32:19
what
32:19
it
32:19
said
32:20
in
32:20
the
32:20
original
32:20
language
32:21
before,
32:22
you
32:23
know,
32:23
many,
32:23
many,
32:23
many
32:24
translations
32:25
in
32:25
Aramaic,
32:26
it
32:26
said,
32:26
the
32:27
worship
32:27
of
32:27
money
32:28
will
32:28
cause
32:28
you
32:28
problems.
32:30
And
32:30
I
32:30
would
32:30
say,
32:31
yeah,
32:32
100I
32:33
statement
32:34
that's
32:34
different.
32:35
That's
32:35
not
32:35
what
32:35
we're
32:36
doing
32:36
here.
32:36
Yeah.
32:37
So
32:37
money
32:38
is
32:38
not
32:38
God.
32:39
It's
32:40
not
32:40
Oprah.
32:40
It's
32:41
not
32:41
Gandhi.
32:41
It
32:42
is
32:42
your
32:42
partner.
32:44
And
32:44
you
32:44
have
32:44
the
32:44
body,
32:45
so
32:45
you
32:45
have
32:45
more
32:46
power.
32:47
But
32:48
when
32:48
you're
32:48
able
32:49
to
32:49
see
32:49
yourselves
32:49
through
32:49
the
32:50
eyes
32:51
of
32:52
this
32:52
entity
32:53
that
32:53
loves
32:53
you
32:54
and
32:54
doesn't
32:54
have
32:54
your
32:55
neuroses
32:55
and
32:56
hangups,
32:57
you
32:57
can
32:57
see
32:57
things
32:58
a
32:58
lot
32:58
better.
32:58
I
32:59
call
32:59
this
32:59
entity
33:00
Money,
33:01
but
33:01
it's
33:02
really
33:02
relationship
33:03
with
33:03
life.
33:04
Okay.
33:04
And
33:05
it
33:05
feels
33:05
like
33:06
love,
33:06
but
33:07
it's
33:07
relationship
33:07
with
33:08
life.
33:08
I
33:08
call
33:08
it
33:08
money
33:09
because
33:09
money
33:09
is
33:10
the
33:10
area
33:11
of
33:11
life
33:11
that
33:11
needs
33:12
my
33:12
love
33:12
and
33:13
healing.
33:13
And
33:14
I
33:14
also
33:14
believe
33:15
it
33:15
is
33:15
the
33:15
area
33:15
of
33:15
life
33:16
that
33:16
needs
33:17
humanity's
33:18
love
33:18
and
33:19
healing.
33:20
Right.
33:20
For
33:21
us
33:21
to
33:21
fulfill
33:21
our
33:22
potential
33:22
and
33:22
even
33:23
survive.
33:24
But
33:24
that's
33:25
moving
33:26
on.
33:27
So
33:27
Money
33:28
told
33:28
me
33:28
what
33:28
he
33:29
needed.
33:29
And
33:30
I
33:30
thought
33:31
of
33:31
all
33:32
the
33:32
times
33:32
people
33:32
asked
33:33
me
33:33
what
33:33
I
33:33
charged
33:34
and
33:34
how
33:34
I
33:34
would
33:34
get
33:35
all
33:35
freaked
33:35
out
33:36
as
33:36
if
33:36
the
33:37
money
33:37
was
33:37
this,
33:37
you
33:38
know,
33:38
big,
33:38
ugly,
33:39
stinky
33:40
monster
33:40
that
33:41
I
33:41
didn't
33:41
want
33:41
anyone
33:42
to
33:42
know
33:42
about,
33:42
but
33:42
everybody
33:43
could
33:43
feel
33:43
it.
33:44
And
33:44
that's
33:44
why
33:46
I
33:46
was.
33:47
They
33:47
weren't
33:47
showing
33:47
up.
33:49
So
33:50
I
33:50
made
33:50
a
33:50
commitment
33:51
that
33:52
next
33:52
time
33:53
this
33:53
cute
33:53
guy,
33:54
Money
33:54
honey,
33:55
would,
33:55
because
33:56
it
33:56
runs,
33:57
brought
33:57
me
33:58
a
33:58
gift,
33:58
which,
33:58
at
33:59
that
33:59
time
33:59
would
33:59
look
33:59
like
33:59
a
34:00
client.
34:00
I
34:00
would
34:00
say
34:01
thank
34:01
you.
34:02
I
34:02
wouldn't
34:02
be
34:02
like,
34:02
oh,
34:03
wrong
34:03
color
34:04
chartreuse.
34:04
No,
34:05
send
34:05
it
34:05
back.
34:06
I
34:07
would.
34:08
I
34:09
would
34:09
just
34:09
say
34:09
thank
34:10
you.
34:11
You
34:11
know,
34:11
by
34:12
the
34:12
way,
34:12
when
34:12
I'm
34:12
saying,
34:13
you
34:13
know,
34:13
rejecting
34:14
it,
34:14
that's
34:14
like,
34:14
you
34:15
know,
34:16
my
34:16
neuroses
34:17
of.
34:19
It's
34:19
just
34:19
rejecting.
34:20
Rejecting
34:21
money.
34:21
So
34:21
I
34:21
would
34:22
just
34:22
say
34:22
thank
34:22
you.
34:22
And
34:23
so
34:23
the
34:23
punchline
34:24
is
34:24
again,
34:25
another
34:25
punchline,
34:26
a
34:26
nicer
34:26
one
34:26
this
34:27
time,
34:28
is
34:29
that
34:30
over
34:30
the
34:30
next
34:30
few
34:30
days,
34:31
four
34:31
people
34:31
showed
34:32
up
34:32
and
34:32
hired
34:32
me
34:32
at
34:33
double
34:33
what
34:33
I'd
34:33
ever
34:33
charged
34:34
before.
34:35
Wow.
34:36
And.
34:36
And
34:37
it
34:37
was
34:37
uncomfortable
34:38
the
34:38
first
34:38
time
34:38
because
34:39
I
34:39
had
34:39
the
34:39
sense
34:40
memory
34:40
of
34:40
talking
34:40
people
34:41
out
34:41
of
34:41
the
34:41
sale
34:41
that
34:42
I
34:42
was
34:42
never
34:42
aware
34:43
that
34:43
I
34:43
was
34:43
doing
34:44
until
34:44
I'm,
34:44
like,
34:45
noticing
34:46
my
34:47
tongue
34:47
wanting
34:48
to
34:49
create
34:49
obstacles.
34:50
Don't
34:50
you
34:50
want
34:50
a
34:51
sample
34:51
session?
34:51
No.
34:52
I've
34:52
given
34:52
that
34:52
person
34:52
a
34:53
sample
34:53
session,
34:53
like,
34:53
six
34:54
months
34:54
before.
34:55
Do
34:56
you
34:56
say
34:56
the
34:56
price
34:56
and
34:57
shut
34:57
up?
34:58
Very,
34:59
very
34:59
good
34:59
skill
35:00
that
35:00
you
35:00
can
35:00
tell
35:00
I'm
35:01
not
35:01
great
35:01
at.
35:01
I
35:02
had
35:02
to
35:02
just
35:02
shut
35:03
up.
35:03
And.
35:04
Because
35:04
when
35:04
they
35:05
get
35:05
quiet
35:05
on
35:05
the
35:05
other
35:05
end,
35:06
they're
35:06
just
35:06
figuring
35:06
out
35:06
how
35:07
to
35:07
make
35:07
it
35:07
happen.
35:08
And
35:08
then
35:08
I
35:09
have
35:09
to
35:09
let
35:09
them
35:09
pay
35:10
me.
35:10
And,
35:10
you
35:10
know,
35:11
over
35:11
time,
35:11
I
35:12
got
35:12
better
35:12
at
35:12
that,
35:13
and
35:13
I
35:13
just
35:13
got
35:14
more
35:14
and
35:14
more
35:14
clients,
35:15
and
35:15
my
35:15
rates
35:15
just,
35:15
you
35:16
know,
35:16
kept
35:16
going
35:16
up.
35:16
And
35:17
I've
35:17
made
35:17
millions
35:17
of
35:17
dollars
35:18
since
35:18
then,
35:19
but
35:19
I'm
35:20
the
35:20
person
35:20
who
35:20
was
35:20
struggling
35:21
to
35:21
make
35:21
$100.
35:23
I
35:23
don't
35:24
know
35:24
how
35:24
much
35:24
time
35:24
we
35:25
have
35:25
left,
35:25
but
35:25
I
35:25
do
35:25
want
35:26
to,
35:26
like,
35:27
lay
35:27
out
35:27
the
35:27
six
35:28
steps.
35:29
Now
35:29
that
35:29
I've
35:29
told
35:30
you
35:30
the
35:30
story,
35:31
I
35:31
think
35:31
the
35:31
steps
35:32
behind
35:32
what
35:33
happened
35:33
will
35:33
make
35:34
more
35:34
sense,
35:34
because
35:34
then
35:35
I
35:35
needed
35:35
to,
35:35
since
35:36
I'm
35:36
getting
35:36
all
35:36
these
35:37
clients,
35:38
and
35:38
the
35:38
clients
35:38
are
35:39
human
35:39
beings,
35:39
which
35:40
means
35:40
that
35:41
they
35:42
had
35:42
money
35:42
issues.
35:44
Because
35:44
money
35:44
tends
35:45
to
35:45
be
35:45
the
35:46
number
35:46
one
35:46
excuse
35:47
that
35:47
we
35:47
human
35:47
beings
35:47
give
35:48
for
35:48
what
35:48
we
35:48
can't
35:48
have,
35:49
do,
35:49
or
35:49
be.
35:50
And
35:50
having,
35:51
doing
35:51
and
35:51
being
35:52
is
35:52
the
35:52
business
35:52
of
35:53
life
35:53
coaching.
35:55
People
35:55
want
35:55
to
35:55
have
35:55
doing,
35:56
be
35:56
things,
35:57
be
35:57
themselves,
35:58
fulfill
35:58
their
35:59
potential.
35:59
So
36:00
the
36:00
money
36:00
thing
36:00
would
36:01
come
36:01
up,
36:01
and
36:01
I
36:01
go,
36:01
hey,
36:02
I've
36:02
got
36:02
an
36:02
idea.
36:04
And
36:04
I
36:05
would
36:05
try
36:05
to
36:06
turn
36:06
their
36:06
money
36:06
into
36:06
a
36:07
cute
36:07
person.
36:07
And
36:10
these
36:10
are,
36:11
you
36:11
know,
36:11
the
36:11
early
36:12
months
36:12
of
36:13
2003.
36:14
And
36:14
it
36:15
would
36:15
just,
36:15
like,
36:15
splat.
36:16
And
36:16
I'd
36:17
be
36:17
like,
36:17
why
36:17
isn't
36:18
that
36:18
working
36:18
for
36:18
you?
36:18
What
36:19
are
36:19
you
36:19
doing
36:19
wrong?
36:19
And,
36:20
of
36:20
course,
36:20
I
36:20
had
36:21
to
36:21
look
36:21
at
36:21
what
36:22
am
36:22
I?
36:22
What
36:22
am.
36:23
What
36:23
is
36:23
missing
36:24
here?
36:24
Okay?
36:25
And
36:26
that's
36:27
figuring
36:28
out
36:28
by
36:28
the
36:28
way,
36:29
you
36:29
know,
36:29
solved
36:29
it.
36:30
I
36:30
learned
36:30
how
36:31
to
36:31
make
36:31
it
36:31
work
36:31
on
36:31
other
36:32
people,
36:32
with
36:32
other
36:32
people.
36:33
And.
36:33
And
36:33
I
36:34
still
36:34
do,
36:34
because
36:35
this
36:35
day,
36:36
I
36:37
just
36:37
had
36:37
my
36:37
money
36:38
goddess
36:38
retreat
36:38
in
36:39
Bali
36:39
this
36:39
year,
36:39
and
36:39
I
36:40
had
36:40
my
36:40
first
36:40
client
36:41
ever
36:41
who
36:41
has
36:41
no
36:42
visual
36:42
inner
36:43
representation
36:43
at
36:44
all.
36:46
So
36:47
to
36:48
ask
36:49
her
36:49
to,
36:50
you
36:50
know,
36:50
see
36:51
a
36:51
monster,
36:51
see
36:52
a
36:52
money
36:52
honey
36:54
that
36:54
doesn't
36:54
work.
36:55
She's.
36:55
I
36:55
just.
36:56
And
36:57
so,
36:57
like,
36:58
every
36:58
client
36:59
brings
36:59
a
37:00
new
37:00
twist
37:01
and
37:01
a
37:01
new
37:01
challenge,
37:02
which
37:02
is
37:03
what
37:03
makes
37:04
this
37:04
endlessly
37:04
interesting
37:05
for
37:05
me.
37:05
And
37:06
just,
37:06
you
37:06
know,
37:07
grows,
37:07
evolves,
37:07
deepens
37:08
the
37:08
work.
37:08
But
37:09
so
37:09
heading
37:09
back
37:10
to
37:11
where
37:12
we
37:12
are
37:12
now,
37:12
I'm
37:12
just
37:13
going
37:13
to
37:13
try
37:13
and
37:13
give
37:14
you
37:14
the
37:14
Cliffs
37:15
Notes
37:15
of
37:15
the
37:15
Cliffs
37:16
Notes
37:16
of
37:16
the
37:16
Cliff
37:16
Notes.
37:17
So
37:17
step
37:18
number
37:18
one,
37:19
there
37:19
are
37:19
six
37:19
steps
37:20
to
37:20
get
37:20
from
37:21
money
37:22
monster
37:23
to
37:23
money
37:24
honey.
37:25
Money
37:25
is
37:26
this,
37:27
you
37:27
know,
37:27
monster
37:28
of
37:28
scarcity
37:30
that
37:32
keeps
37:32
you
37:33
from
37:36
the
37:36
wealth
37:38
that
37:38
we
37:38
want
37:39
to
37:39
free
37:39
you
37:40
up,
37:40
to
37:40
focus
37:41
your
37:41
life
37:41
on
37:41
love
37:42
and
37:42
lifestyle
37:42
and
37:43
legacy.
37:43
Because
37:44
I
37:44
believe
37:44
that's
37:44
really.
37:45
That
37:45
is
37:45
the
37:45
purpose
37:46
of
37:46
money
37:47
is
37:48
to
37:48
free
37:48
you
37:49
up,
37:50
to
37:50
focus
37:51
all
37:51
of
37:51
your
37:52
life's
37:52
attention
37:52
on
37:53
quality
37:53
love,
37:54
quality
37:54
lifestyle,
37:55
quality
37:55
legacy.
37:56
Even
37:56
if
37:56
you're
37:57
making
37:58
a
37:58
billion
37:59
dollars
38:00
from
38:00
doing.
38:00
I
38:00
feel
38:01
the
38:01
same.
38:01
I
38:01
always
38:02
think
38:02
to
38:02
myself,
38:03
or
38:03
I've
38:03
said
38:04
it
38:04
to
38:04
friends,
38:04
like,
38:05
what
38:05
the
38:05
heck?
38:06
Why
38:06
can't
38:06
I
38:06
have
38:06
money?
38:07
Like,
38:07
I
38:07
love
38:08
giving
38:08
and
38:09
sharing
38:09
and
38:09
doing
38:10
good
38:10
things.
38:10
Like,
38:11
I
38:11
would
38:11
be
38:11
such
38:12
a
38:12
good
38:13
a
38:13
Good
38:14
person
38:14
to
38:15
have
38:15
money
38:15
because
38:15
I
38:15
would
38:16
share
38:16
it.
38:16
And
38:17
so
38:17
I
38:17
always
38:17
think,
38:18
like,
38:19
no,
38:19
yeah,
38:19
money
38:19
is
38:20
the
38:20
way,
38:20
like,
38:20
you
38:20
need
38:21
it
38:21
to
38:21
be
38:21
able
38:21
to
38:22
help
38:22
people
38:22
sometimes.
38:23
It
38:23
certainly
38:24
helped
38:25
not
38:25
having.
38:26
It
38:26
is
38:28
a
38:28
life
38:28
and
38:28
death
38:29
crisis
38:31
that
38:31
it.
38:32
It's
38:32
very
38:33
expensive
38:33
to
38:34
be
38:34
poor.
38:35
Yeah,
38:36
let's
38:36
just
38:36
even.
38:37
We'll
38:37
talk
38:37
about
38:37
the
38:37
poor
38:38
tax
38:38
maybe.
38:38
But
38:39
yeah,
38:40
no,
38:41
believe
38:41
me,
38:42
it's
38:42
like
38:42
I
38:43
encounter
38:43
this
38:43
all
38:44
the
38:44
time
38:44
and
38:44
it's
38:45
heartbreaking
38:46
and
38:47
horrifying
38:47
and
38:48
that
38:48
goes
38:48
into
38:49
my
38:49
monster.
38:50
So.
38:50
Okay,
38:50
we're
38:51
going
38:51
to
38:51
start
38:51
with
38:52
step
38:52
one
38:52
is
38:52
uncovering
38:53
the
38:53
root
38:54
cause
38:55
of
38:55
your
38:56
money
38:56
monster.
38:57
And
38:58
while
38:58
a
38:59
lot
38:59
of
39:00
my
39:00
friends
39:00
in
39:00
the
39:00
coaching
39:01
world
39:01
love
39:02
to
39:02
say,
39:02
change
39:02
your
39:03
money
39:03
story,
39:03
change
39:04
your
39:04
life,
39:07
that
39:07
has
39:07
never
39:08
been
39:08
true
39:08
in
39:08
my
39:08
experience.
39:10
The
39:10
money
39:10
story,
39:11
staying
39:12
with,
39:12
you
39:13
know
39:13
all
39:13
about
39:13
money,
39:14
that
39:14
is
39:14
the
39:14
symptom,
39:16
not
39:16
the
39:16
root
39:16
cause.
39:17
It
39:17
just
39:17
doesn't
39:17
go
39:18
deep
39:18
enough.
39:19
And
39:19
while
39:20
some
39:20
people
39:20
talk,
39:21
lots
39:21
of
39:21
people
39:22
talk
39:22
about
39:22
a
39:22
millionaire
39:23
mindset,
39:23
I
39:23
also
39:23
don't
39:24
believe
39:24
in
39:24
mindset
39:25
because
39:25
we're
39:25
talking
39:26
about,
39:26
remember,
39:26
the
39:26
conscious
39:27
mind
39:27
and
39:27
the
39:27
subconscious.
39:28
And
39:29
this
39:29
is
39:29
only
39:29
maybe
39:30
1
39:30
or
39:30
2%
39:31
fair.
39:32
So
39:34
mindset,
39:35
you
39:36
know,
39:36
we
39:36
all
39:36
set
39:36
our
39:37
intentions
39:38
on
39:39
New
39:39
Year's
39:39
Day
39:39
and
39:40
then
39:40
we
39:40
see
39:40
the
39:40
chocolate
39:41
cake
39:41
and
39:41
what
39:41
happens.
39:43
I
39:44
actually
39:44
don't
39:44
do
39:44
New
39:44
Year's
39:45
resolutions
39:45
because
39:45
of
39:46
that.
39:46
Exactly.
39:47
Because
39:48
what
39:48
is
39:48
deeper
39:49
is
39:50
our
39:50
appetite
39:51
and
39:51
our
39:51
desire.
39:52
So
39:52
I
39:53
really
39:53
like,
39:53
I
39:53
would
39:53
prefer
39:54
to
39:54
talk
39:54
about
39:54
a
39:54
millionaire
39:55
heart
39:55
set,
39:56
because
39:56
the
39:56
mind
39:57
always
39:58
follow
39:58
the
39:58
heart.
39:59
So
39:59
we're
39:59
going
40:00
to
40:00
dig
40:00
up
40:00
emotions
40:02
and
40:02
this,
40:02
this
40:02
process.
40:03
I
40:03
call
40:03
it
40:03
Financial
40:04
Alchemy
40:05
registered
40:05
trademark.
40:08
Because
40:08
alchemy
40:09
is
40:09
the
40:09
transmutation
40:10
of
40:10
lead,
40:11
as
40:11
in
40:11
lead
40:11
and
40:12
human
40:12
experience,
40:12
into
40:13
gold,
40:13
as
40:13
in
40:14
spiritual
40:14
and
40:15
material
40:15
gold.
40:16
So
40:16
we're
40:17
digging
40:17
up
40:17
the
40:18
lead
40:19
in
40:19
step
40:19
number
40:19
one,
40:20
uncovering
40:20
the
40:21
root
40:21
cause,
40:22
which
40:22
is
40:23
anything
40:23
that
40:23
has
40:24
ever
40:24
made
40:24
you
40:24
feel
40:24
unloved
40:25
or
40:25
unlovable,
40:27
anything
40:27
that
40:28
has
40:28
ever
40:28
made
40:28
you
40:29
feel
40:29
unworthy
40:31
or
40:31
not
40:32
valued,
40:33
anything
40:34
that
40:34
has
40:34
ever
40:34
made
40:34
you
40:35
feel
40:35
unsafe,
40:36
especially
40:37
if
40:37
it
40:37
doesn't
40:38
look
40:38
like
40:38
it
40:38
has
40:38
to
40:38
do
40:39
with
40:39
money.
40:40
Anything
40:41
really.
40:41
If
40:41
you
40:42
had
40:42
an
40:42
illness,
40:43
if
40:43
you
40:44
had
40:44
an
40:44
accident,
40:45
if
40:45
you
40:45
experienced
40:46
violence,
40:49
homelessness,
40:50
that
40:51
is,
40:51
quote,
40:51
more
40:52
related
40:52
to
40:53
money.
40:53
But
40:54
all
40:54
these,
40:54
anything
40:55
that
40:55
wars,
40:57
pollution,
40:58
anything
40:58
that
40:58
makes
40:59
the
40:59
world
40:59
an
40:59
unsafe
41:00
place
41:01
will
41:01
show
41:01
up
41:01
negatively
41:02
in
41:02
your
41:02
relationship
41:03
with
41:03
money.
41:04
Because
41:04
money
41:05
represents
41:05
safety
41:07
or
41:07
the
41:07
absence
41:07
of
41:08
it.
41:08
And
41:08
power.
41:09
Any
41:09
abuse
41:09
of
41:09
power,
41:10
anytime
41:10
you
41:10
felt
41:11
helpless,
41:11
which
41:12
I
41:12
think
41:12
is
41:12
the
41:12
worst
41:13
feeling
41:13
in
41:13
the
41:13
world,
41:14
well,
41:15
they're
41:15
all,
41:15
they're
41:16
all
41:16
related,
41:17
just
41:17
bad
41:18
feelings.
41:18
So
41:18
what
41:19
we
41:19
want
41:19
to
41:19
do
41:19
is
41:19
we
41:19
want
41:20
to
41:20
just
41:20
dig
41:21
up
41:21
and
41:21
you
41:22
don't
41:22
have
41:22
to
41:22
get
41:22
all
41:22
of
41:23
it.
41:23
Not
41:23
necessary.
41:24
And
41:25
you
41:25
also
41:25
do
41:25
not
41:26
need
41:26
to
41:26
re.
41:26
Traumatize
41:27
yourself
41:28
and
41:28
you
41:29
don't
41:29
want
41:29
to
41:29
go
41:29
so
41:30
far
41:30
that
41:30
you
41:30
dissociate.
41:32
So
41:32
we
41:32
just
41:32
want
41:33
to
41:33
get
41:33
what
41:33
I
41:34
call
41:35
in
41:35
scientific
41:36
terms
41:36
a
41:37
critical
41:37
massive
41:38
ick
41:39
where
41:39
like,
41:40
and,
41:40
and
41:41
if
41:41
you're
41:41
crying,
41:41
extra
41:42
credit.
41:42
But
41:42
not
41:42
necessary.
41:43
But
41:44
just.
41:44
It's
41:44
sort
41:45
of
41:45
like
41:45
you're
41:45
a
41:45
lawyer
41:46
and
41:46
you're
41:46
building
41:47
a
41:48
case
41:48
against
41:48
God
41:49
and
41:49
everything
41:50
that.
41:51
And,
41:51
and,
41:51
and
41:52
I'm
41:52
tr.
41:53
I
41:53
don't
41:53
want
41:53
to
41:53
freak
41:54
out
41:55
anybody
41:55
with
41:55
my
41:56
blasphemy.
41:56
So
41:56
you're
41:57
building
41:57
a
41:57
case
41:57
against
41:58
the
41:58
universe.
41:59
There
41:59
you
41:59
go
41:59
with
42:00
like,
42:00
this
42:00
happened
42:01
and
42:01
this
42:01
happened
42:02
and
42:02
this
42:02
happened
42:02
and
42:02
this
42:03
happened
42:03
and
42:03
this
42:03
is
42:03
happening
42:04
and
42:04
this
42:04
is
42:04
happening.
42:05
And
42:05
all
42:05
the
42:05
things
42:06
that
42:06
you
42:07
let
42:07
all
42:07
this
42:07
happen.
42:08
Yeah.
42:09
All
42:09
the
42:09
things
42:09
that
42:09
make
42:10
life
42:10
feel
42:11
like
42:11
it's
42:11
not
42:11
worth
42:11
living.
42:12
Like
42:12
you
42:12
don't
42:12
want
42:12
to
42:13
be
42:13
here
42:13
again.
42:14
You
42:14
don't
42:14
have
42:14
to
42:15
get
42:15
all
42:15
of
42:15
it.
42:15
Not
42:16
necessarily.
42:16
I'm
42:17
glad
42:17
you
42:17
said
42:17
that
42:17
because
42:17
my
42:18
first
42:18
thought
42:18
was,
42:18
man,
42:19
it
42:19
takes
42:19
years
42:20
of
42:20
therapy
42:20
for
42:20
some
42:20
people
42:21
to
42:21
even
42:21
find
42:21
out
42:22
what's
42:22
holding
42:22
them
42:23
back
42:23
and
42:23
then
42:23
work
42:24
on
42:24
it.
42:25
Just.
42:25
And
42:26
even
42:26
if
42:26
it's
42:26
stuff
42:27
that
42:27
you've
42:27
healed,
42:27
so
42:28
kind
42:28
of
42:28
a
42:28
basic
42:28
pops
42:29
up
42:29
again
42:29
and
42:29
you
42:30
can
42:30
use
42:30
it,
42:30
reuse
42:31
it.
42:31
Anything
42:31
that
42:32
has
42:32
energy.
42:32
We're
42:33
just
42:33
looking
42:33
for
42:33
what
42:33
has
42:34
energy,
42:34
what
42:34
pops
42:35
into
42:35
your
42:35
consciousness.
42:36
Okay.
42:38
And
42:38
that's
42:39
what
42:39
we
42:39
will
42:39
use.
42:40
And
42:40
when
42:41
you
42:41
get
42:41
enough,
42:41
it's
42:42
like,
42:42
whoa,
42:42
this
42:43
is
42:43
horrible.
42:46
Then
42:48
we
42:48
imagine
42:52
that
42:52
Sept.
42:53
Number
42:53
two
42:53
is
42:53
personify
42:54
the
42:54
root
42:54
cause.
42:55
Then
42:55
we
42:55
imagine
42:56
that
42:56
there
42:56
is
42:57
an
42:57
entity,
42:59
a
42:59
person
42:59
with
43:00
thoughts
43:01
and
43:02
intentions
43:02
that
43:03
is
43:03
all
43:03
malicious,
43:04
all
43:04
bad,
43:06
that
43:06
is
43:06
behind
43:07
everything.
43:08
And
43:08
by
43:08
the
43:08
way,
43:08
in
43:09
step
43:09
one,
43:09
we
43:09
want
43:10
to
43:10
make
43:10
it
43:10
really
43:10
personal
43:11
to
43:11
you.
43:12
Like,
43:12
I
43:12
had
43:12
a
43:12
client
43:13
where
43:13
her
43:13
root
43:14
cause
43:14
was.
43:14
She
43:14
realized
43:15
she'd
43:15
always
43:15
been
43:16
coming
43:16
second
43:17
best,
43:17
like
43:17
the
43:18
second
43:18
favorite
43:20
child
43:20
and
43:20
the
43:21
second
43:21
favorite
43:23
student
43:23
and
43:23
just
43:24
everything.
43:24
That
43:24
was
43:25
her
43:25
thing.
43:26
It's
43:27
always
43:27
going
43:28
to
43:28
be
43:28
related
43:29
to
43:29
something
43:30
about
43:30
not
43:30
good
43:31
enough.
43:32
Not
43:32
some
43:33
deep
43:33
shame
43:34
or.
43:34
Or
43:35
the
43:35
world
43:35
not
43:35
being
43:35
safe
43:35
and
43:36
not
43:36
wanted.
43:36
But
43:36
you
43:37
know,
43:37
it's
43:37
going
43:37
to
43:37
be
43:37
a
43:38
different.
43:38
And
43:38
it'll
43:39
be
43:40
whatever
43:41
lights
43:41
up
43:42
the
43:42
energy
43:42
for
43:42
that
43:43
is
43:43
when
43:43
I'm
43:43
coaching
43:44
what
43:44
I'm
43:44
listening
43:44
for.
43:45
Okay.
43:46
And
43:46
it's
43:46
because
43:46
it's.
43:47
If
43:47
it.
43:47
If
43:47
you
43:48
knew
43:48
what
43:48
it
43:48
was
43:48
going
43:49
in,
43:49
you
43:49
would
43:49
have
43:50
fixed
43:50
it
43:50
a
43:50
long
43:50
time
43:50
ago.
43:51
But
43:51
we're
43:51
just.
43:51
I
43:52
just
43:52
want
43:52
you
43:52
to
43:52
just
43:53
follow
43:53
the
43:53
energy
43:53
and
43:54
find
43:54
what
43:54
gets
43:55
the
43:55
Most
43:55
emotion.
43:56
And
43:56
then
43:56
imag.
43:57
That
43:57
there
43:57
is
43:57
a
43:58
third
43:58
party,
44:00
not
44:00
you
44:01
and
44:01
not
44:01
your
44:02
parents,
44:03
that
44:04
is
44:04
like
44:04
the
44:05
puppeteer
44:06
behind
44:06
all
44:06
of
44:07
it.
44:07
Some
44:08
really
44:08
malicious
44:09
monster.
44:10
The
44:10
more
44:10
human,
44:11
the
44:11
better.
44:13
A
44:13
dark
44:14
cloud
44:14
is
44:15
kind
44:15
of
44:15
amorphous
44:16
and
44:16
harder
44:16
to
44:16
get
44:17
rid
44:17
of.
44:17
I
44:17
really
44:17
want
44:18
to
44:18
make
44:18
it
44:18
real,
44:18
and
44:19
I
44:19
want
44:19
it
44:19
to
44:19
have
44:19
thoughts
44:21
what
44:21
it
44:21
thinks
44:21
about
44:22
you,
44:22
what
44:22
it
44:22
is
44:23
says
44:23
to
44:23
itself
44:24
about
44:24
you,
44:24
what
44:25
it
44:25
whispers
44:25
in
44:26
your
44:26
ear
44:26
that
44:26
you
44:27
might
44:27
mistake
44:28
for
44:28
your
44:28
own
44:29
negative
44:30
thoughts.
44:30
Interesting.
44:31
And
44:32
what
44:32
does
44:32
it
44:32
smell
44:33
like?
44:33
And
44:33
how
44:33
big
44:33
is
44:34
it?
44:34
And
44:34
what
44:34
does
44:34
its
44:35
fingernails
44:35
and
44:35
teeth
44:36
and
44:36
eyeballs
44:36
look
44:36
like?
44:37
You
44:37
know,
44:37
just
44:37
kind
44:37
of
44:37
flesh
44:38
it
44:38
out
44:38
like
44:38
that.
44:39
And
44:39
when
44:40
it's
44:42
big
44:42
and
44:43
bad
44:43
and
44:43
real
44:43
enough,
44:45
I
44:45
want
44:46
you
44:46
to
44:46
put
44:46
everything
44:47
that
44:48
does
44:48
not
44:48
have
44:49
permission
44:49
in
44:49
your
44:49
life
44:50
experience.
44:50
Experience
44:51
everything
44:51
you
44:51
just.
44:52
This
44:52
does
44:53
not
44:53
have
44:53
permission
44:53
to
44:54
be
44:54
in
44:54
my
44:54
life
44:54
experience.
44:55
I
44:55
want
44:55
you
44:55
to
44:55
put
44:55
it
44:55
into
44:56
that
44:56
monster.
44:56
And
44:57
then
44:57
step
44:57
number
44:57
three,
44:58
I
44:58
want
44:58
you
44:58
to
44:58
annihilate
44:59
by.
45:00
Not
45:00
annihilate
45:01
it
45:01
by
45:02
any
45:02
means
45:02
possible
45:03
or
45:04
necessary.
45:06
Everything
45:06
is
45:06
possible
45:07
because
45:07
it's
45:07
your
45:07
imagination.
45:08
So
45:08
you
45:09
annihilate
45:09
it
45:09
by
45:10
any
45:10
means
45:10
necessary.
45:11
Whether
45:11
it's
45:11
an
45:12
imaginary
45:12
nuclear
45:13
bomb
45:13
or
45:14
a
45:14
lightsaber
45:14
or
45:15
machete
45:16
or
45:16
a
45:16
fiery
45:17
pit
45:18
or
45:18
a
45:18
volcano
45:19
or
45:19
piranhas
45:20
or
45:20
one
45:20
of
45:20
my
45:20
clients
45:20
ran
45:21
over
45:21
her
45:21
monster
45:22
with
45:22
a
45:22
monster
45:22
truck.
45:23
You
45:24
just.
45:24
Whatever
45:25
it
45:25
takes
45:25
because
45:26
you
45:26
are
45:26
rejecting
45:27
it.
45:27
And
45:28
the
45:29
reason
45:29
I.
45:31
I
45:31
had
45:31
a
45:32
client
45:32
in
45:32
Europe
45:32
who
45:33
was
45:33
very
45:33
upset
45:34
by
45:34
this
45:34
step
45:35
because
45:35
she
45:36
said,
45:36
but
45:36
I'm
45:36
a
45:36
vegan.
45:39
This
45:39
is
45:40
a
45:40
mat.
45:40
I
45:40
understand.
45:41
Like,
45:42
I
45:42
don't
45:42
watch
45:43
violent
45:43
movies.
45:43
I
45:44
cover
45:44
my
45:44
eyes.
45:45
I
45:45
cover
45:45
my.
45:46
You
45:46
know,
45:46
I
45:46
just.
45:47
Very
45:48
sensitive.
45:48
Violating
45:49
evil
45:49
is.
45:49
Okay,
45:51
well,
45:51
it's.
45:52
There's
45:52
a.
45:52
There's
45:53
a
45:54
The
45:54
victim
45:55
experience
45:55
which
45:55
starts
45:56
the
45:56
process,
45:56
which
45:57
is
45:57
very
45:57
important.
45:58
I.
45:58
I
45:58
see
45:58
it
45:59
as,
45:59
like,
45:59
it
45:59
has
45:59
this
45:59
kind
46:00
of
46:00
sinking
46:00
feeling
46:01
to
46:01
it.
46:02
Okay.
46:02
But
46:03
going
46:03
no,
46:04
you
46:05
know,
46:05
channeling
46:06
Monty
46:07
Python
46:07
and
46:07
saying
46:08
thou
46:08
shalt
46:09
not
46:09
cast
46:11
has
46:11
a
46:11
real
46:11
uplifting
46:13
energy
46:13
where
46:13
you
46:14
take
46:14
your
46:14
power
46:14
back.
46:15
And
46:15
we
46:15
have
46:16
all
46:16
these.
46:17
We
46:17
have
46:18
St.
46:19
Michael
46:19
slaying
46:19
the
46:19
dragon.
46:20
We've
46:20
got
46:20
the
46:20
Goddess
46:21
Durga
46:22
in
46:22
India
46:22
and
46:23
Queen
46:23
Buddhika
46:24
in
46:24
England.
46:24
And
46:24
we
46:24
have
46:25
all
46:25
sorts
46:25
of
46:25
wonderful
46:26
archetypes
46:27
of.
46:29
Especially
46:30
with
46:30
women,
46:31
we
46:31
don't
46:31
really
46:31
learn
46:31
about
46:32
them
46:32
that
46:32
much.
46:32
But,
46:33
you
46:33
know,
46:33
Kali
46:33
and
46:34
Durga
46:34
just
46:34
slaying
46:35
ignorance
46:36
and
46:36
demonic
46:37
forces
46:37
so
46:38
that
46:38
we
46:38
get
46:39
to
46:39
rise
46:39
in
46:39
our
46:40
power.
46:41
I'm
46:41
still
46:41
laughing
46:42
just
46:42
because
46:42
I
46:43
have
46:43
this
46:43
vision
46:43
of
46:43
kicking
46:44
down
46:44
a
46:44
door.
46:44
And
46:44
being
46:45
like,
46:45
I
46:45
am
46:45
still
46:45
spotron.
46:48
I'm
46:49
sorry
46:49
I
46:49
had
46:49
to
46:49
say
46:50
it,
46:50
okay?
46:50
Ever
46:51
like
46:51
helps
46:51
you.
46:51
I
46:52
would,
46:52
yes.
46:52
I
46:53
had
46:53
a
46:54
situation
46:54
with
46:54
a
46:54
therapist
46:55
where
46:56
I
46:56
was
46:56
working
46:57
with
46:57
through
46:58
em
46:58
Dr.
46:59
Though,
46:59
to
47:00
get
47:00
rid
47:00
of
47:01
some
47:02
from
47:03
sexual
47:03
abuse
47:04
trauma.
47:04
And
47:05
I
47:06
literally
47:06
had
47:06
an
47:07
image
47:07
of
47:07
my
47:07
mind
47:07
of
47:08
the.
47:08
Of
47:08
being
47:08
that
47:09
child
47:09
in
47:09
that
47:10
home
47:10
in
47:10
that
47:10
moment,
47:11
and
47:12
the
47:12
earth
47:12
opening
47:13
up
47:13
and
47:13
his
47:14
house
47:14
and
47:14
he
47:15
both
47:15
falling
47:16
into
47:16
a
47:16
hole
47:16
into
47:17
the
47:17
ground.
47:17
And
47:18
that
47:18
was
47:18
the
47:18
way.
47:19
That
47:19
was
47:19
the
47:20
final
47:20
moment
47:20
I
47:20
was
47:21
able
47:21
to
47:21
kind
47:21
of
47:21
move
47:21
past.
47:21
Not
47:22
even
47:22
bloody,
47:22
like
47:23
just
47:23
disappears.
47:24
Right.
47:25
And
47:26
went
47:26
like.
47:26
And
47:27
differently.
47:28
Yeah.
47:28
I've
47:28
also.
47:29
I've
47:29
also
47:29
had,
47:30
you
47:30
know,
47:30
if.
47:30
If
47:31
you
47:31
need
47:31
to
47:31
blast
47:31
it
47:32
with
47:32
love
47:32
and
47:32
that
47:33
destroys
47:33
it,
47:35
fine.
47:36
But
47:36
I
47:36
just.
47:36
I
47:37
want.
47:37
I
47:37
want
47:37
it
47:37
to
47:38
be
47:38
final.
47:38
I
47:39
want
47:39
no
47:39
bloody
47:39
bits,
47:40
no
47:40
ashes
47:41
that
47:41
can
47:41
later
47:41
reconstitute
47:42
into
47:43
sort
47:43
of
47:43
monster
47:44
zombie.
47:44
I
47:45
want
47:45
it
47:45
gone.
47:46
You
47:46
know,
47:46
very
47:47
binary
47:48
ones
47:48
and
47:48
zeros.
47:49
It
47:49
is
47:49
or
47:49
it
47:49
isn't.
47:50
And
47:51
when
47:51
it
47:51
isn't
47:52
and
47:52
it's
47:52
completely
47:53
gone,
47:53
that's
47:54
step
47:54
number
47:54
three.
47:56
It
47:56
will
47:56
feel
47:57
different
47:57
than
47:57
anything
47:58
you've
47:58
experienced
47:59
in
47:59
your
47:59
life
47:59
because
47:59
you've
48:00
had
48:00
this
48:00
relationship
48:01
since
48:01
birth
48:02
and
48:02
maybe
48:02
even
48:02
before,
48:03
and
48:03
now
48:03
it's
48:04
gone
48:04
and
48:04
it's
48:05
going
48:05
to
48:05
feel
48:05
different.
48:05
And
48:06
it
48:06
may
48:06
feel
48:07
light,
48:07
it
48:08
may
48:08
feel
48:08
exciting,
48:08
expensive.
48:10
I've
48:10
had
48:10
a
48:11
client
48:11
from
48:11
the
48:11
other
48:11
side
48:11
of
48:12
the
48:12
world
48:12
tell
48:12
me
48:12
that
48:13
the
48:13
sky,
48:14
the
48:14
sun
48:14
came
48:15
out
48:15
as
48:15
soon
48:15
as
48:15
she
48:16
killed
48:16
her
48:16
monster.
48:18
And
48:18
it
48:18
also,
48:19
it
48:19
may
48:19
even
48:19
feel
48:20
scary
48:20
because
48:20
it's
48:21
unfamiliar.
48:22
All
48:23
of
48:23
those
48:23
results
48:24
are
48:24
good.
48:25
Those
48:25
are
48:25
like
48:25
green
48:25
lights
48:26
telling
48:26
me
48:26
that
48:27
we
48:27
can
48:27
proceed
48:27
to
48:27
step
48:28
four,
48:29
which
48:29
is
48:29
now
48:29
you
48:29
get
48:30
to
48:30
meet
48:31
your
48:31
money
48:31
honey.
48:32
And
48:33
when
48:33
you
48:33
have
48:33
destroyed
48:34
the
48:34
monster
48:35
and
48:35
everything,
48:35
the
48:35
monster
48:36
is
48:36
all
48:37
that
48:37
remains
48:37
is
48:37
love.
48:39
That's
48:40
all
48:40
that
48:40
remains.
48:42
So
48:42
this
48:42
new
48:43
person
48:43
will
48:44
be
48:45
love.
48:48
But
48:48
if
48:48
we
48:49
slayed
48:49
your
48:49
money
48:50
monster,
48:50
we
48:50
are
48:51
going
48:51
to
48:52
call
48:52
this
48:52
new
48:53
person
48:53
your
48:53
new
48:54
relationship
48:54
with
48:55
money
48:57
and
48:57
even
48:58
your
48:58
money
48:58
honey,
48:59
if
48:59
you
48:59
will.
49:01
And
49:02
the
49:02
rule,
49:02
the
49:03
rules
49:03
of
49:03
money
49:03
honey
49:04
are
49:04
that
49:05
your
49:05
money
49:05
honey
49:06
loves
49:06
you
49:07
more
49:08
than
49:08
anybody
49:09
else
49:09
in
49:09
the
49:09
world,
49:10
chooses
49:10
you.
49:11
This
49:11
is
49:11
your
49:11
relationship
49:14
and
49:14
your
49:14
money
49:15
honey
49:15
loves
49:15
you
49:16
unconditionally.
49:17
And
49:18
the
49:18
third
49:18
rule
49:18
is,
49:18
and
49:19
you
49:20
want
49:20
a
49:21
relationship
49:22
with
49:22
this
49:23
money
49:23
honey,
49:26
you
49:26
have
49:26
to
49:26
feel
49:27
good.
49:27
You
49:27
have
49:27
to
49:28
like
49:28
it
49:28
too.
49:29
Him,
49:29
her.
49:30
They
49:32
quick
49:32
thing.
49:33
I
49:33
prefer
49:34
human.
49:36
Back
49:36
in
49:36
the
49:36
olden
49:36
days
49:37
when
49:37
I
49:37
was
49:37
really
49:37
new
49:38
at
49:38
this,
49:38
clients
49:39
were
49:39
like
49:39
having
49:39
dogs
49:40
and
49:40
cats
49:40
and
49:41
one
49:41
even
49:41
had
49:41
a
49:42
gong
49:43
and
49:43
like,
49:44
really
49:44
wild
49:44
shit.
49:44
It's
49:45
like,
49:45
okay,
49:45
let's
49:45
give
49:45
it
49:46
a
49:46
try.
49:46
Because
49:46
that's
49:46
what
49:46
coaches
49:47
do,
49:47
you
49:47
know,
49:47
we
49:48
try
49:48
it
49:48
out
49:48
and
49:48
see
49:48
if
49:48
it
49:49
works.
49:49
It
49:49
didn't
49:51
one
49:51
was
49:52
like,
49:52
my
49:52
money.
49:52
And
49:53
she
49:53
was
49:53
another
49:53
coach
49:53
who
49:54
I
49:54
was
49:54
coaching
49:54
my.
49:54
And
49:55
this
49:55
is
49:55
such
49:55
a
49:55
coachy
49:56
thing
49:56
to
49:56
say.
49:56
My
49:57
new
49:57
money
49:57
is
49:57
a
49:57
playmate
49:58
and
49:58
we're
49:58
playing
49:58
in
49:58
the
49:59
sand.
50:00
Nothing
50:00
happened
50:00
until
50:01
she
50:01
came
50:01
back
50:01
and
50:02
changed
50:02
her
50:02
money
50:03
to
50:03
Viggo
50:03
Mortensen
50:04
and
50:04
then
50:04
made
50:04
$10,000
50:05
in
50:05
24.
50:07
Right?
50:08
Right.
50:09
Melissa,
50:09
is
50:09
that
50:09
sweat
50:10
dripping
50:10
down
50:10
here?
50:11
Now?
50:13
She's
50:13
like,
50:15
yeah,
50:15
you
50:15
want
50:16
it?
50:16
You
50:16
want
50:16
it
50:16
to
50:17
light
50:17
you
50:17
up.
50:18
And
50:18
speaking
50:19
to
50:20
people
50:20
who've
50:20
had
50:20
sexual
50:21
violence
50:21
in
50:22
their
50:22
backgrounds
50:22
or
50:22
maybe
50:23
never
50:23
had
50:23
a
50:24
safe
50:24
relationship.
50:24
And
50:25
I've
50:25
coached
50:25
many,
50:26
many,
50:26
many
50:26
of
50:26
you.
50:28
This
50:28
money
50:29
honey
50:29
is
50:29
safe.
50:31
If
50:32
it's
50:32
not
50:33
doesn't
50:34
feel
50:34
good
50:34
to
50:35
have
50:35
a
50:35
sexy
50:35
money
50:36
honey,
50:36
then
50:36
don't.
50:37
I
50:37
was
50:38
gonna
50:38
ask
50:38
earlier
50:39
if
50:39
it
50:39
could
50:39
be
50:40
like
50:40
a.
50:41
Like
50:41
a
50:42
old
50:42
crone
50:43
or
50:43
someone
50:43
who
50:43
just
50:44
owns
50:45
and.
50:45
Or
50:46
maybe
50:46
like
50:46
a
50:46
benefactor
50:47
from
50:48
the
50:48
earth
50:48
or
50:48
something,
50:49
if
50:49
that
50:49
makes
50:49
sense.
50:50
So
50:51
maybe
50:52
maybe
50:52
not.
50:52
And
50:53
here's
50:53
why
50:55
it's
50:55
very.
50:56
One
50:56
of
50:56
the
50:56
reasons
50:56
I
50:57
like
50:57
the
50:57
lover
50:58
archetype
50:59
is
50:59
because
50:59
lovers
50:59
are
51:00
equal
51:00
and
51:00
you
51:01
can
51:01
break
51:01
your
51:01
money
51:01
honey's
51:02
heart.
51:03
What
51:03
I
51:03
don't
51:03
want
51:04
is
51:04
money
51:05
being,
51:07
you
51:08
know,
51:08
the
51:08
benefactor,
51:08
the
51:09
Santa
51:09
Claus.
51:10
Because
51:10
what
51:11
that
51:11
does
51:11
is
51:11
it
51:11
takes
51:12
your
51:12
power
51:12
away
51:12
and
51:12
infantilizes
51:13
you.
51:14
Okay?
51:15
So
51:15
I
51:15
want
51:16
it.
51:16
I
51:16
want
51:16
it
51:16
to
51:17
be
51:17
somebody,
51:17
you,
51:19
worthy
51:20
of
51:20
your
51:20
deepest
51:21
trust
51:21
and
51:21
admiration,
51:22
who
51:22
feels
51:23
really,
51:23
really
51:24
good
51:24
and
51:25
sees
51:25
how
51:26
brilliant
51:27
you
51:27
are
51:28
and
51:28
did
51:29
say
51:29
earlier,
51:30
when
51:30
you
51:30
don't
51:31
see
51:31
it,
51:32
that.
51:32
You'Re
51:32
the
51:32
one
51:32
with
51:33
the
51:33
body
51:33
in
51:33
the
51:33
partnership,
51:34
so
51:34
you
51:34
have
51:34
more
51:35
power.
51:35
So
51:35
I
51:35
see.
51:35
Right,
51:36
how
51:36
a
51:36
benefactor,
51:37
that
51:37
is
51:37
not.
51:38
The
51:39
relationship
51:40
you're
51:40
looking
51:40
for.
51:40
Okay.
51:41
It's.
51:41
It's
51:41
not
51:41
serving
51:42
the
51:42
evolution
51:42
that
51:42
we
51:43
power
51:43
like,
51:44
you
51:44
know,
51:44
the
51:44
secret,
51:45
the
51:45
movie,
51:46
the
51:46
book
51:46
the
51:46
Secret.
51:47
And
51:48
I'm
51:48
friends
51:48
with
51:48
a
51:49
lot
51:49
of
51:49
the
51:49
people
51:49
are
51:50
in
51:50
that
51:50
movie.
51:50
And
51:50
I,
51:51
you
51:51
know,
51:51
I
51:52
know
51:52
what
51:52
the
51:52
real
51:52
lives
51:52
are
51:53
like.
51:55
It
51:56
gives
51:56
the
51:56
impression
51:57
that
51:57
you
51:57
can
51:57
just
51:57
sit
51:57
on
51:58
a
51:58
couch
51:58
and
51:58
think
52:00
of
52:00
gold
52:00
and
52:01
it
52:01
will,
52:01
you
52:02
know,
52:02
fall
52:02
from
52:02
the
52:02
sky
52:03
and
52:03
that
52:04
you
52:04
sitting
52:04
on
52:04
the
52:04
couch
52:05
is
52:05
not
52:05
what
52:06
you're
52:06
here
52:07
to
52:07
do
52:08
while
52:08
you're
52:08
in
52:08
this
52:09
life.
52:09
Unless.
52:09
Unless
52:10
that's
52:10
physically
52:11
your
52:11
capacity.
52:11
And
52:12
then
52:12
that
52:12
it,
52:13
you
52:13
know,
52:13
then
52:13
that's
52:14
the
52:14
circumstance
52:15
that
52:15
we're
52:15
dealing
52:15
with.
52:16
But
52:16
the
52:17
point
52:17
I'm
52:17
trying
52:17
to
52:17
make
52:18
is
52:20
I
52:20
want
52:20
this
52:20
relationship
52:21
to
52:21
empower
52:22
you,
52:22
but
52:23
it
52:23
gives
52:23
you
52:23
this
52:24
opportunity
52:25
to
52:27
be
52:28
loved,
52:29
feel
52:29
safe,
52:30
and
52:30
see
52:30
reality
52:35
undistorted.
52:39
Okay.
52:40
By
52:42
the
52:42
wounds
52:43
and
52:43
trauma,
52:44
okay.
52:45
That
52:47
distort
52:49
the.
52:49
Your
52:50
value
52:51
and
52:51
the
52:51
opportunities
52:52
that
52:53
are
52:53
right
52:53
There
52:54
that
52:55
you.
52:55
That
52:55
we
52:56
can't
52:56
see
52:57
when
52:57
we're,
52:58
when,
52:59
when
52:59
we're
52:59
in
53:00
fear.
53:01
And
53:02
the
53:02
higher
53:03
any
53:03
emotion
53:04
goes
53:04
up,
53:04
the
53:04
lower
53:05
our
53:05
intelligence.
53:06
When
53:06
we
53:06
are
53:07
in
53:07
the
53:07
arms
53:08
of
53:08
our
53:08
loving,
53:08
loving,
53:09
loving
53:09
money
53:09
honey,
53:10
we
53:10
relax,
53:11
we
53:11
feel
53:12
safe.
53:12
And
53:13
what
53:13
wakes
53:14
up
53:14
the
53:14
frontal
53:14
lobe,
53:15
our
53:15
genius
53:16
zone.
53:16
So
53:16
when
53:17
we're
53:17
seeing
53:17
the
53:17
world
53:18
through
53:18
the
53:18
eyes
53:18
of
53:18
our
53:19
money
53:19
honey,
53:19
we're
53:19
seeing
53:21
through
53:22
our
53:22
genius
53:22
zone
53:23
and
53:23
even
53:23
our
53:24
intuition.
53:24
And
53:25
we're
53:25
seeing
53:26
everything
53:26
differently
53:27
than
53:27
we
53:27
have
53:28
seen
53:28
it
53:28
before.
53:29
And
53:30
so
53:30
we
53:30
want
53:30
this
53:31
loving
53:31
relationship
53:32
that
53:32
we
53:33
want
53:33
who
53:33
loves
53:34
us.
53:34
And
53:34
that's
53:34
step
53:34
number
53:35
four.
53:36
And
53:36
now
53:37
to
53:37
put
53:37
it
53:37
into
53:38
action,
53:38
step
53:39
number
53:39
five
53:39
is
53:39
have
53:40
a
53:40
conversation.
53:41
Have
53:41
you
53:41
have
53:42
a
53:42
conversation
53:42
with
53:43
your
53:43
money
53:43
honey.
53:43
And
53:43
the
53:44
great
53:44
thing
53:45
is
53:46
the
53:46
way
53:47
our
53:47
brains
53:47
are
53:47
set
53:47
up
53:48
is
53:48
if
53:48
you
53:48
ask
53:48
a
53:48
question,
53:49
you
53:49
get
53:49
an
53:49
answer.
53:51
And
53:51
if
53:51
the
53:52
answer
53:52
comes
53:52
from
53:53
your
53:53
money
53:53
honey,
53:55
where
53:56
you're
53:56
imagining
53:57
that
53:57
you're
53:57
hearing
53:57
it
53:57
from
53:58
this
53:58
third
53:59
party.
54:01
It
54:01
is
54:01
a
54:01
great
54:03
way
54:03
to
54:03
hack
54:04
into
54:04
your
54:04
intuition,
54:06
okay.
54:08
While
54:08
also
54:10
anchoring
54:11
your
54:12
value,
54:12
your
54:13
worth,
54:13
your
54:14
lovability,
54:16
your
54:16
resourcefulness,
54:18
your
54:18
power.
54:19
I'm
54:19
hearing
54:20
that
54:20
we
54:20
already
54:20
know
54:21
what
54:21
we
54:21
need
54:21
on
54:22
a
54:22
subconscious
54:22
level.
54:23
We
54:23
just
54:23
have
54:24
to
54:24
be
54:24
able
54:24
to
54:25
get
54:25
to
54:25
it.
54:25
Yeah,
54:26
we
54:26
just
54:26
have
54:26
to
54:27
be
54:27
able
54:27
to
54:27
get
54:27
to
54:28
it.
54:28
And
54:28
this
54:28
is.
54:29
These
54:29
six
54:30
steps
54:30
are.
54:32
And
54:32
that's
54:32
good.
54:33
Hack
54:33
slash
54:34
tool.
54:35
And
54:35
I've
54:36
been,
54:36
I've
54:36
been
54:37
really
54:38
interested,
54:38
you
54:38
know,
54:39
math,
54:39
science
54:39
major
54:39
with
54:40
this
54:40
kind
54:40
of
54:40
woo
54:40
side.
54:41
So
54:41
of
54:41
course
54:41
I'm
54:41
super
54:42
interested
54:43
in
54:43
quantum
54:44
physics
54:45
and
54:45
this
54:46
notion
54:46
of
54:46
this
54:46
zero
54:47
point
54:47
field
54:48
throughout
54:49
existence
54:50
that
54:50
keeps
54:51
a
54:51
record
54:51
of
54:51
everything
54:52
that
54:52
has
54:52
happened
54:53
and
54:53
even
54:53
has
54:53
happened.
54:54
Because
54:54
I've
54:55
had
54:55
the
54:55
power
54:55
of
54:55
premonition
54:56
since
54:57
my
54:57
car
54:57
accident
54:58
when
54:58
I
54:58
was
54:58
16
54:59
and
55:00
I
55:00
told
55:00
you
55:00
about.
55:02
And
55:02
I
55:02
have
55:03
this
55:03
experience
55:03
of.
55:04
It
55:04
feels
55:04
like
55:04
remembering
55:05
things
55:05
that
55:05
haven't
55:06
happened
55:06
yet.
55:07
And
55:07
then
55:07
I
55:07
have
55:07
to
55:08
wait
55:08
for
55:08
reality
55:09
to
55:09
catch
55:09
up.
55:10
So
55:10
I
55:10
describe
55:11
it
55:11
as
55:11
my
55:11
clock
55:12
runs
55:12
a
55:12
little
55:12
fast.
55:13
And
55:13
I
55:14
frequently
55:14
hear
55:14
things
55:15
or
55:15
know
55:15
things,
55:16
moments,
55:17
minutes
55:18
or
55:18
longer
55:19
before
55:19
my
55:19
client
55:20
says
55:20
it.
55:20
But
55:20
at
55:20
least,
55:21
especially
55:21
in
55:21
coaching,
55:22
if
55:22
I
55:22
say,
55:22
well,
55:22
when
55:23
will
55:23
this
55:23
happen?
55:23
And
55:23
they'll
55:24
say
55:24
six
55:25
months.
55:25
And
55:25
it's
55:25
like,
55:25
that's
55:26
weird.
55:26
I
55:26
heard
55:27
two
55:27
weeks.
55:27
Really?
55:28
And
55:29
they'll,
55:29
they'll
55:30
usually
55:30
tell
55:30
me
55:31
what
55:31
I
55:31
heard
55:32
or
55:32
I
55:33
was
55:33
just
55:33
having
55:34
a
55:34
brunch
55:35
with
55:35
a
55:35
favorite
55:36
client
55:36
from
55:36
Italy
55:36
who
55:37
was
55:37
in
55:37
town.
55:38
And
55:38
I
55:38
was
55:38
asking
55:39
her
55:39
what
55:39
she
55:40
was
55:40
going
55:40
to
55:40
manifest
55:41
this
55:41
year.
55:41
And
55:41
I
55:42
heard
55:42
clear
55:42
as
55:43
day,
55:43
1
55:43
million.
55:46
And
55:46
she's
55:46
talking,
55:47
talking,
55:47
talking
55:47
about
55:48
all
55:48
these
55:48
things.
55:48
I
55:48
said,
55:48
yeah,
55:49
but
55:49
what's
55:49
the
55:49
Number
55:49
what's
55:49
the
55:49
amount?
55:50
She
55:50
says,
55:50
one
55:50
million.
55:54
Because
55:54
a
55:54
couple
55:54
months
55:55
earlier
55:55
I
55:55
was
55:55
having
55:56
a
55:56
conversation
55:56
with
55:56
her
55:57
and
55:57
I,
55:57
and
55:57
I
55:57
asked
55:57
her,
55:59
are
55:59
you
55:59
planning
56:00
to
56:00
become
56:00
a
56:00
billionaire?
56:01
And
56:01
she
56:01
said,
56:01
yes.
56:01
And
56:02
I
56:02
said,
56:02
good,
56:03
because
56:03
that's
56:03
what
56:03
I
56:04
see
56:04
for
56:04
you.
56:04
And
56:04
that's
56:05
the
56:05
first
56:05
time
56:05
I've
56:05
seen
56:05
that.
56:06
Wow.
56:07
Yeah,
56:08
I
56:09
totally,
56:09
I
56:10
see
56:10
that
56:10
happening.
56:11
But
56:11
anyway,
56:12
so
56:12
I
56:12
digress.
56:13
I'm
56:13
a
56:13
digressor.
56:14
Sorry.
56:14
So
56:15
step
56:15
five
56:15
is
56:16
you
56:16
have
56:16
a
56:16
conversation
56:16
with
56:17
your
56:17
money
56:17
honey.
56:18
You
56:18
are
56:18
totally
56:18
free
56:19
to
56:19
steal
56:19
my
56:19
first
56:20
one,
56:20
which
56:20
is,
56:20
hey,
56:20
what
56:21
do
56:21
you
56:21
need
56:21
from
56:21
me
56:22
to
56:22
allow
56:23
you
56:23
to
56:23
be
56:24
with
56:24
me
56:24
the
56:24
way
56:24
you
56:25
already
56:25
want
56:26
to
56:26
be
56:26
with
56:26
me?
56:27
Here,
56:27
all
56:28
the
56:28
presuppositions.
56:29
Your
56:29
money
56:29
wants
56:30
to
56:30
be
56:30
with
56:30
you
56:31
and
56:31
it's
56:31
up
56:32
to
56:32
you
56:33
and
56:33
your
56:33
money
56:34
will
56:34
tell
56:34
you.
56:35
So
56:35
that's
56:35
step
56:35
five.
56:36
Step
56:36
number
56:36
six
56:37
is
56:38
take
56:38
concrete,
56:39
measurable
56:39
action.
56:41
My
56:41
action
56:42
was
56:44
all,
56:44
you
56:45
know,
56:45
all
56:45
those
56:45
years
56:46
ago,
56:46
back
56:46
in
56:46
March
56:47
2003,
56:49
I
56:49
said,
56:49
I
56:49
told
56:49
my
56:50
money
56:50
honey,
56:50
I
56:50
would
56:50
say
56:50
thank
56:51
you.
56:51
What
56:51
that
56:51
looked
56:51
like
56:51
in
56:52
practical
56:52
terms
56:52
was
56:53
I
56:53
would
56:53
state
56:53
my
56:54
fee
56:54
with
56:54
the
56:54
energy
56:55
of
56:55
isn't
56:56
he
56:56
beautiful?
56:57
And
56:57
then
56:58
I
56:58
shut
56:58
up
56:58
and
56:58
let
56:59
people
57:00
hire
57:00
me.
57:01
Yeah,
57:03
crazy.
57:04
What
57:04
a
57:04
concept,
57:05
right?
57:05
But
57:06
with
57:07
clients,
57:07
what
57:07
I
57:07
love
57:08
about
57:08
this
57:08
conversation
57:09
is
57:11
what
57:11
that
57:11
action
57:11
may
57:12
be
57:12
isn't
57:12
necessarily
57:13
so
57:13
on
57:13
the
57:14
nose.
57:15
Once
57:15
in
57:16
a
57:16
while
57:16
I'll
57:16
have
57:16
a
57:16
client
57:17
who'll
57:17
say,
57:17
okay,
57:17
I'm
57:18
going
57:18
to
57:18
make
57:18
30
57:18
cold
57:19
calls
57:19
a
57:19
day.
57:19
And
57:20
my
57:20
immediate
57:21
gut
57:22
reaction
57:22
is,
57:22
oh,
57:24
that
57:24
sounds
57:24
so
57:25
heavy.
57:25
And
57:26
I
57:26
say,
57:26
check
57:26
in
57:26
with
57:27
your
57:27
money
57:27
honey.
57:29
Is
57:29
that
57:30
what
57:30
you're,
57:30
you
57:30
know,
57:30
does
57:31
that
57:31
make
57:31
your
57:31
money
57:31
honey
57:32
happy?
57:32
And
57:32
she
57:32
goes,
57:33
no.
57:34
Okay,
57:35
so
57:36
what,
57:37
you
57:37
know,
57:38
what
57:38
would
57:38
make
57:39
your
57:39
money
57:39
honey
57:39
happy?
57:40
And
57:40
it
57:40
ended
57:40
up
57:40
being
57:41
something
57:41
like
57:42
going
57:42
dancing.
57:44
I've
57:44
got
57:44
a
57:44
whole
57:44
website,
57:45
morganaray.com
57:47
yes,
57:47
thank
57:47
you.
57:48
With
57:48
a
57:48
blog
57:49
that,
57:50
you
57:50
know,
57:50
answers,
57:51
you
57:51
know,
57:52
years
57:52
and
57:52
years
57:52
and
57:52
years
57:52
of
57:53
answering
57:53
client
57:53
questions.
57:54
I
57:54
have
57:54
a
57:55
book
57:56
that
57:56
walks
57:56
you
57:57
through
57:57
the
57:58
process
57:58
and
57:58
what
57:59
happens
57:59
after
57:59
to
58:00
stay
58:00
in
58:00
relationship
58:01
with
58:01
your
58:01
money
58:01
honey.
58:01
And
58:02
a
58:03
manifestation
58:03
system.
58:04
The
58:04
whole
58:04
second
58:04
half
58:05
is
58:05
just
58:05
a
58:05
manifestation
58:06
system.
58:07
Have
58:07
people
58:07
used
58:08
your
58:08
book
58:08
and
58:09
your
58:09
book
58:09
only
58:10
to
58:10
have
58:10
success?
58:11
Or
58:12
does
58:12
that
58:12
typically
58:13
only
58:13
come
58:13
through
58:14
the
58:14
one
58:14
one
58:15
on
58:15
one
58:15
sessions?
58:16
Thank
58:17
you
58:17
for
58:17
asking
58:18
it.
58:18
The
58:19
reason
58:19
I
58:19
have
58:19
the
58:20
book,
58:20
honestly,
58:21
I
58:21
want
58:22
people
58:22
to
58:23
have
58:23
success
58:24
without
58:24
coaching
58:25
with
58:25
me,
58:25
which
58:25
is
58:25
a
58:26
weird
58:26
thing
58:26
to
58:26
say.
58:27
Coaching
58:28
is,
58:28
you
58:28
know,
58:29
my
58:29
main
58:30
livelihood
58:30
and
58:31
safety.
58:32
But
58:32
my
58:33
client,
58:33
Pam,
58:34
with
58:34
the,
58:35
with
58:35
the
58:35
old
58:35
version
58:36
from
58:37
2013,
58:38
the,
58:38
you
58:39
know,
58:39
the
58:39
skirts
58:39
up
58:40
version,
58:40
financial
58:41
alchemy,
58:43
magic
58:43
and
58:43
manifestation.
58:44
This
58:44
one
58:44
is
58:44
better
58:45
because
58:45
the
58:45
other
58:45
one
58:46
is
58:46
dated
58:46
and
58:46
says
58:47
things
58:47
I
58:47
don't
58:47
say
58:47
anymore.
58:48
And
58:48
this
58:48
has
58:48
more
58:48
updated
58:49
content.
58:49
Okay.
58:50
Where
58:50
I'm
58:51
fat
58:51
or
58:51
blonde
58:52
or
58:52
older.
58:53
They're
58:53
so
58:53
cute.
58:54
You're
58:54
so.
58:54
And.
58:56
But
58:56
my
58:57
client,
58:57
Pam,
58:58
had
58:58
her
58:58
first
58:58
quarter
58:59
of
58:59
a
59:00
million
59:00
dollar
59:01
sales
59:01
month
59:02
just
59:03
using
59:04
my
59:04
workbook
59:04
before
59:05
we
59:05
had
59:06
ever
59:06
spoken
59:06
before.
59:06
She
59:07
hired
59:07
me.
59:07
She
59:08
hired
59:08
me,
59:08
and
59:08
then
59:08
she
59:09
bought
59:09
the
59:09
company
59:09
that
59:10
she
59:10
was
59:10
making
59:10
those
59:10
sales
59:11
for.
59:12
Wow.
59:13
I.
59:14
I
59:14
get.
59:16
I
59:16
get
59:16
success
59:17
stories
59:17
from
59:17
people
59:18
who
59:18
just
59:18
hear
59:18
me
59:19
doing
59:19
what
59:19
I'm
59:20
doing
59:20
here.
59:21
Yeah.
59:21
And
59:22
for
59:22
me,
59:22
personally,
59:23
I.
59:24
I
59:24
love
59:25
that
59:25
because
59:25
it
59:25
makes
59:27
the
59:27
world
59:27
a
59:28
better
59:28
place
59:28
for
59:28
me.
59:29
We
59:29
all
59:29
want
59:30
to
59:30
create
59:30
the
59:30
world
59:30
we
59:30
want
59:31
to
59:31
live
59:31
in,
59:31
and
59:31
I
59:32
want
59:32
to
59:32
help
59:32
people,
59:32
and
59:33
I
59:33
want
59:33
people
59:33
to
59:33
have
59:33
breakthroughs
59:34
and
59:34
happiness.
59:34
And
59:35
also,
59:35
by
59:35
the
59:35
way,
59:36
when
59:36
people
59:37
do
59:37
it
59:37
on
59:37
their
59:37
own
59:37
and
59:38
they
59:38
have
59:38
great
59:38
results,
59:40
that
59:40
makes
59:40
them
59:40
even
59:41
better
59:41
clients.
59:42
Yeah.
59:43
Wherever
59:43
you
59:43
take
59:44
yourself,
59:44
I
59:45
can
59:45
always
59:45
take
59:46
you
59:46
farther.
59:47
And
59:47
so
59:48
when
59:48
Carol
59:49
and
59:49
Khanna
59:50
made
59:51
$86,000
59:52
within
59:53
24
59:53
hours
59:54
after
59:54
hearing
59:55
me
59:55
talk
59:55
and
59:55
then
59:56
buying,
59:57
you
59:57
know,
59:57
like,
59:57
a
59:57
$99
59:58
package,
59:59
then
59:59
she
1:00:00
hired
1:00:00
me
1:00:00
to
1:00:00
coach
1:00:00
her
1:00:01
for
1:00:01
a
1:00:01
year,
1:00:01
and
1:00:02
I
1:00:02
was
1:00:02
like,
1:00:02
oh,
1:00:02
my.
1:00:03
When
1:00:03
I
1:00:03
looked
1:00:03
at
1:00:03
her
1:00:03
application,
1:00:04
I
1:00:04
was
1:00:04
like,
1:00:04
oh,
1:00:04
my
1:00:04
God,
1:00:05
we
1:00:05
already
1:00:05
know
1:00:05
my
1:00:05
shit
1:00:06
works
1:00:06
on
1:00:06
her.
1:00:06
Yay.
1:00:07
You
1:00:07
know,
1:00:08
so,
1:00:09
again,
1:00:09
I
1:00:10
can't
1:00:10
coach
1:00:10
8
1:00:10
billion
1:00:11
people,
1:00:11
but
1:00:11
I
1:00:11
want
1:00:12
everybody
1:00:12
on
1:00:12
earth
1:00:14
to
1:00:14
know
1:00:14
that
1:00:15
they
1:00:15
are
1:00:15
loved
1:00:15
and
1:00:16
worthy
1:00:16
and
1:00:16
safe
1:00:17
and
1:00:17
powerful
1:00:18
and
1:00:18
to
1:00:18
live
1:00:19
that
1:00:19
way
1:00:19
and
1:00:19
to
1:00:20
have
1:00:20
quality
1:00:20
love
1:00:21
and
1:00:21
lifestyle
1:00:21
and
1:00:21
legacy.
1:00:22
So
1:00:23
that's
1:00:23
why
1:00:23
I
1:00:24
try
1:00:24
to
1:00:24
give
1:00:24
everything
1:00:25
I
1:00:25
can
1:00:25
in
1:00:26
the
1:00:26
time
1:00:26
that
1:00:26
we
1:00:26
have
1:00:27
and
1:00:27
then
1:00:27
say,
1:00:28
and
1:00:30
if
1:00:31
and
1:00:31
when
1:00:31
you
1:00:32
need
1:00:32
more
1:00:32
support,
1:00:33
I
1:00:33
have
1:00:33
a
1:00:33
website.
1:00:34
I
1:00:34
have
1:00:34
a
1:00:34
book,
1:00:35
a
1:00:35
blog
1:00:35
post.
1:00:37
I
1:00:37
have
1:00:37
coaching.
1:00:38
I
1:00:39
have
1:00:39
retreats
1:00:39
in
1:00:39
Bali.
1:00:40
I
1:00:40
think
1:00:40
I'm
1:00:41
gonna
1:00:41
sign
1:00:41
up.
1:00:42
Sam's
1:00:42
laughing
1:00:43
probably
1:00:43
already,
1:00:44
because
1:00:44
she's
1:00:44
like,
1:00:45
you're
1:00:45
gonna
1:00:45
go
1:00:45
broke
1:00:46
working
1:00:46
with
1:00:46
the
1:00:47
people
1:00:47
that
1:00:47
we
1:00:47
have
1:00:47
on
1:00:48
every
1:00:48
time.
1:00:48
But
1:00:48
the
1:00:49
truth
1:00:49
is,
1:00:49
I
1:00:49
don't
1:00:49
work
1:00:50
with
1:00:50
everyone,
1:00:51
Sam.
1:00:53
Yes.
1:00:53
But
1:00:54
I
1:00:55
think
1:00:55
I'm
1:00:55
gonna
1:00:55
sign
1:00:55
up
1:00:56
because
1:00:56
I
1:00:56
think
1:00:56
you
1:00:57
could
1:00:57
help
1:00:57
me
1:00:57
take
1:00:57
my
1:00:57
business.
1:00:58
My
1:00:58
business
1:00:58
is
1:00:58
a
1:00:58
stagnant
1:00:59
space.
1:01:00
Like,
1:01:01
I
1:01:02
super
1:01:03
need
1:01:03
help,
1:01:04
and
1:01:05
I.
1:01:05
Think
1:01:05
I'm
1:01:06
gonna
1:01:06
work
1:01:06
with
1:01:06
you.
1:01:06
I
1:01:07
think
1:01:07
definitely
1:01:07
what
1:01:07
I
1:01:08
heard
1:01:08
and
1:01:08
took
1:01:08
from
1:01:08
you,
1:01:08
though,
1:01:09
is
1:01:09
that
1:01:09
you
1:01:10
created
1:01:11
everything
1:01:11
that
1:01:11
you
1:01:11
do.
1:01:12
And,
1:01:12
like,
1:01:12
this
1:01:13
is
1:01:13
obviously
1:01:13
how
1:01:14
you
1:01:14
make
1:01:14
your
1:01:15
living.
1:01:15
You're
1:01:16
helping
1:01:16
people
1:01:16
help
1:01:16
themselves.
1:01:17
And
1:01:17
then
1:01:18
what
1:01:18
you're
1:01:18
saying
1:01:18
is,
1:01:19
I
1:01:19
can
1:01:19
always
1:01:19
take
1:01:19
you
1:01:19
further.
1:01:20
So
1:01:20
once
1:01:20
you
1:01:21
are
1:01:21
able
1:01:21
to
1:01:21
help
1:01:21
yourself
1:01:22
enough
1:01:22
to
1:01:23
be
1:01:23
stable
1:01:23
and,
1:01:24
you
1:01:24
know,
1:01:24
be
1:01:25
above
1:01:25
where
1:01:26
you
1:01:26
need
1:01:26
to
1:01:26
be.
1:01:27
Come
1:01:27
back
1:01:27
to
1:01:27
me
1:01:27
and
1:01:28
I
1:01:28
can
1:01:28
give
1:01:28
you
1:01:29
more.
1:01:30
So
1:01:30
it's
1:01:30
like
1:01:31
a
1:01:31
never
1:01:31
ending
1:01:32
giving
1:01:33
it.
1:01:35
My
1:01:36
value
1:01:36
system
1:01:37
is
1:01:38
I
1:01:38
believe
1:01:39
transformation
1:01:40
should
1:01:41
be
1:01:41
available
1:01:44
whatever
1:01:44
your
1:01:44
economic
1:01:45
circumstances
1:01:46
are.
1:01:47
So
1:01:47
I
1:01:47
give
1:01:48
away
1:01:48
everything
1:01:49
I
1:01:49
can
1:01:49
for
1:01:50
free.
1:01:51
And
1:01:51
then
1:01:52
for
1:01:52
a
1:01:52
more
1:01:52
curated
1:01:53
experience,
1:01:54
I
1:01:54
have
1:01:55
programs
1:01:56
like
1:01:56
my
1:01:57
book
1:01:57
or
1:01:58
I
1:01:58
have
1:01:58
a
1:01:58
couple
1:01:59
of.
1:01:59
Yeah,
1:01:59
I
1:01:59
have
1:02:00
some
1:02:00
online
1:02:00
stuff
1:02:01
too.
1:02:02
And
1:02:02
then
1:02:03
for
1:02:03
really,
1:02:04
really
1:02:04
deep
1:02:07
dive
1:02:07
experiences
1:02:08
that
1:02:08
I
1:02:08
can
1:02:08
actually
1:02:09
guarantee
1:02:10
that's
1:02:11
where
1:02:11
coaching
1:02:12
comes
1:02:12
in.
1:02:13
Because
1:02:15
transformation
1:02:16
should
1:02:16
be
1:02:16
available
1:02:16
for
1:02:17
everybody,
1:02:17
but
1:02:18
my
1:02:18
time
1:02:18
and
1:02:18
attention
1:02:19
can't
1:02:19
be.
1:02:23
And
1:02:24
Melissa,
1:02:24
you
1:02:24
and
1:02:25
I
1:02:25
will
1:02:25
have
1:02:25
a
1:02:25
conversation
1:02:27
and
1:02:27
I
1:02:27
will
1:02:28
hear
1:02:28
the
1:02:28
specifics
1:02:29
and
1:02:29
I
1:02:29
will
1:02:30
make
1:02:31
a
1:02:31
few.
1:02:32
I'll
1:02:32
give
1:02:32
you
1:02:32
a
1:02:32
few
1:02:33
options
1:02:33
to
1:02:33
choose
1:02:34
from.
1:02:34
Okay.
1:02:35
See,
1:02:36
you
1:02:36
know,
1:02:37
what
1:02:38
feels
1:02:38
best,
1:02:39
what
1:02:39
makes
1:02:39
the
1:02:39
most
1:02:39
sense,
1:02:40
what's
1:02:40
the
1:02:40
most
1:02:40
doable
1:02:41
for
1:02:41
you.
1:02:41
Okay.
1:02:42
But
1:02:43
yeah,
1:02:43
I
1:02:43
would
1:02:43
love
1:02:43
to
1:02:44
have
1:02:44
and
1:02:44
anybody
1:02:45
watching,
1:02:45
you
1:02:45
know,
1:02:45
just
1:02:46
fill
1:02:46
out
1:02:46
an
1:02:46
application.
1:02:47
And
1:02:48
I
1:02:49
don't
1:02:49
choose
1:02:49
clients
1:02:50
based
1:02:50
on
1:02:50
present
1:02:50
circumstances.
1:02:51
I
1:02:51
honestly,
1:02:52
I
1:02:52
get
1:02:52
an
1:02:52
energy
1:02:53
from
1:02:53
the
1:02:53
application.
1:02:54
So
1:02:54
I've.
1:02:55
I've
1:02:55
had
1:02:56
clients
1:02:56
who,
1:02:56
on
1:02:56
paper,
1:02:57
there's
1:02:57
no
1:02:58
way.
1:02:59
There's
1:03:00
no
1:03:00
way
1:03:00
that
1:03:00
I
1:03:00
could
1:03:00
see
1:03:01
them
1:03:01
hiring
1:03:01
me.
1:03:02
And
1:03:02
I'd
1:03:02
be
1:03:02
screaming
1:03:03
in
1:03:03
the
1:03:03
back
1:03:03
of
1:03:03
my
1:03:03
head.
1:03:04
There
1:03:04
was
1:03:04
one
1:03:04
of
1:03:04
my
1:03:05
favorites,
1:03:06
a
1:03:06
spiritual
1:03:07
singer
1:03:07
named
1:03:07
Asina,
1:03:09
who
1:03:09
at
1:03:09
the
1:03:09
time
1:03:10
was
1:03:10
kind
1:03:10
of
1:03:10
a
1:03:11
psychic
1:03:12
by
1:03:12
the
1:03:12
hour
1:03:13
with
1:03:13
mountains
1:03:14
of
1:03:14
debt.
1:03:14
Single
1:03:15
mom,
1:03:15
you
1:03:15
know,
1:03:16
struggling.
1:03:17
And
1:03:18
I'm
1:03:19
feel
1:03:19
I'm
1:03:20
hearing
1:03:21
her
1:03:21
story.
1:03:22
And
1:03:22
by
1:03:22
the
1:03:22
way,
1:03:22
she'd
1:03:22
already
1:03:23
slayed
1:03:23
a
1:03:23
monster
1:03:24
and
1:03:24
had
1:03:24
a
1:03:24
money
1:03:24
honey
1:03:24
of
1:03:25
her
1:03:25
own
1:03:25
who
1:03:25
told
1:03:25
her
1:03:25
to
1:03:25
hire
1:03:26
me.
1:03:26
Okay.
1:03:27
But
1:03:27
I'm
1:03:28
hearing
1:03:28
her
1:03:28
circumstances.
1:03:29
I'm
1:03:29
going,
1:03:29
oh,
1:03:29
my
1:03:29
God,
1:03:30
I
1:03:30
can't
1:03:30
take
1:03:31
her
1:03:31
money.
1:03:31
You
1:03:32
know,
1:03:32
she's
1:03:32
on
1:03:32
the
1:03:32
abyss.
1:03:33
And
1:03:33
then
1:03:33
I
1:03:33
heard,
1:03:33
and
1:03:33
then
1:03:34
I
1:03:34
had
1:03:34
this
1:03:34
other
1:03:34
voice,
1:03:35
my
1:03:35
money
1:03:35
honey,
1:03:36
saying,
1:03:36
shut
1:03:37
the
1:03:37
fuck
1:03:38
up.
1:03:38
She's
1:03:39
an
1:03:39
adult
1:03:39
and
1:03:39
let
1:03:40
her
1:03:41
make
1:03:41
her
1:03:41
decisions.
1:03:42
Right.
1:03:43
So
1:03:43
I
1:03:44
let
1:03:44
her
1:03:44
hire
1:03:45
me.
1:03:45
As
1:03:46
crazy
1:03:46
as
1:03:46
that,
1:03:46
I.
1:03:47
That's
1:03:47
what
1:03:48
it
1:03:48
felt
1:03:48
like.
1:03:49
Yeah.
1:03:50
Within
1:03:50
a
1:03:50
few
1:03:50
months,
1:03:50
she
1:03:51
was
1:03:51
making
1:03:51
tens
1:03:52
of
1:03:52
thousands
1:03:52
of
1:03:52
dollars.
1:03:53
And
1:03:53
she
1:03:54
was.
1:03:54
Instead
1:03:55
of
1:03:55
selling
1:03:55
by
1:03:55
the
1:03:55
hour,
1:03:56
selling
1:03:56
packages,
1:03:56
and
1:03:57
she
1:03:57
was
1:03:57
going
1:03:57
on
1:03:57
money
1:03:58
moons.
1:03:58
She
1:03:59
made
1:03:59
that
1:03:59
up.
1:03:59
These
1:03:59
spiritual
1:04:00
honeymoons
1:04:01
with
1:04:01
her
1:04:01
money
1:04:01
down
1:04:01
to
1:04:02
Miami.
1:04:03
All
1:04:03
right,
1:04:03
Sam,
1:04:03
we're
1:04:04
wanting
1:04:04
a
1:04:04
money
1:04:04
moon.
1:04:05
At
1:04:06
a
1:04:06
certain
1:04:06
point,
1:04:06
her.
1:04:07
Her
1:04:07
money
1:04:07
honey
1:04:07
said,
1:04:08
you're
1:04:08
not
1:04:08
allowed
1:04:08
to
1:04:09
coach
1:04:09
anymore.
1:04:10
You're.
1:04:10
You're.
1:04:11
I
1:04:11
just
1:04:11
want
1:04:11
you
1:04:12
to
1:04:12
just.
1:04:12
Just
1:04:12
make
1:04:13
music.
1:04:14
And
1:04:14
so
1:04:14
that's
1:04:14
the
1:04:15
path
1:04:15
that
1:04:15
she's
1:04:15
on.
1:04:17
That's
1:04:17
amazing.
1:04:18
And
1:04:18
I
1:04:18
also
1:04:19
like
1:04:19
that
1:04:19
you
1:04:19
have
1:04:20
so
1:04:20
many
1:04:20
different
1:04:20
ways,
1:04:21
because,
1:04:21
yeah.
1:04:24
People.
1:04:24
Learn
1:04:25
in
1:04:25
different
1:04:26
ways.
1:04:26
And
1:04:26
sometimes
1:04:26
people
1:04:26
need
1:04:27
a
1:04:27
handheld.
1:04:28
And
1:04:28
so,
1:04:28
yeah,
1:04:29
the
1:04:29
right
1:04:29
thing
1:04:29
for
1:04:30
them
1:04:30
would
1:04:30
be
1:04:30
to
1:04:30
go
1:04:30
towards
1:04:31
coaching.
1:04:32
Some
1:04:32
people
1:04:32
want
1:04:33
to,
1:04:33
like,
1:04:33
just
1:04:33
delve
1:04:34
in
1:04:34
and
1:04:34
they
1:04:34
can
1:04:34
do
1:04:34
it
1:04:35
through
1:04:35
the
1:04:35
book.
1:04:35
Yeah,
1:04:36
this
1:04:36
is
1:04:37
great.
1:04:38
There
1:04:38
is
1:04:38
one
1:04:39
last
1:04:39
thing.
1:04:40
Yeah.
1:04:41
If
1:04:41
you
1:04:41
feel
1:04:41
like
1:04:41
you
1:04:41
have
1:04:42
to.
1:04:42
Say
1:04:42
it,
1:04:42
it's
1:04:42
because
1:04:42
someone
1:04:42
needs
1:04:43
to
1:04:43
hear
1:04:43
it.
1:04:43
Okay.
1:04:47
I.
1:04:48
My
1:04:48
mantra
1:04:49
these
1:04:49
days
1:04:49
is
1:04:50
that
1:04:50
change
1:04:50
happens
1:04:51
at
1:04:51
the
1:04:51
speed
1:04:51
of
1:04:52
safety.
1:04:53
So
1:04:53
if
1:04:54
change
1:04:54
isn't
1:04:54
happening,
1:04:55
something
1:04:56
isn't
1:04:56
safe.
1:04:57
And
1:04:57
you
1:04:58
deserve
1:04:58
to
1:04:58
be
1:04:59
safe.
1:05:00
So
1:05:01
what
1:05:01
we
1:05:01
need
1:05:01
to
1:05:01
do
1:05:02
is
1:05:02
uncover
1:05:02
what
1:05:03
is
1:05:03
unsafe
1:05:03
and
1:05:04
make
1:05:04
what
1:05:04
you
1:05:04
want
1:05:05
safe.
1:05:06
Because
1:05:06
I've
1:05:07
seen
1:05:07
a
1:05:07
very,
1:05:07
very
1:05:08
strong
1:05:08
tendency
1:05:10
when
1:05:10
we
1:05:10
make
1:05:11
that
1:05:11
thing
1:05:11
safe.
1:05:12
Whether
1:05:12
it's
1:05:12
money,
1:05:12
whether
1:05:13
it's
1:05:13
love,
1:05:13
whether
1:05:14
it's
1:05:14
health,
1:05:14
whether
1:05:14
it's
1:05:15
selling
1:05:15
your
1:05:15
house,
1:05:16
whatever
1:05:16
it
1:05:16
is
1:05:17
that's
1:05:18
been
1:05:18
stuck,
1:05:18
stuck,
1:05:18
stuck.
1:05:19
When
1:05:19
we
1:05:20
make
1:05:20
it
1:05:20
safe,
1:05:20
there
1:05:21
is
1:05:21
a
1:05:21
very.
1:05:22
Beyond
1:05:22
what
1:05:23
I
1:05:23
can
1:05:23
logically
1:05:24
account
1:05:24
for.
1:05:25
There's
1:05:25
a
1:05:25
very
1:05:25
strong
1:05:25
tendency
1:05:26
of
1:05:26
change.
1:05:27
To
1:05:27
happen
1:05:28
really
1:05:28
quickly,
1:05:29
have
1:05:29
things
1:05:29
waiting
1:05:30
for
1:05:30
us.
1:05:30
We
1:05:30
just
1:05:30
need
1:05:31
to
1:05:31
figure
1:05:31
out
1:05:31
how
1:05:31
to
1:05:31
let
1:05:31
it
1:05:32
in.
1:05:32
Make
1:05:32
that
1:05:32
his
1:05:33
face.
1:05:34
Well,
1:05:34
for
1:05:34
a
1:05:34
fairy
1:05:35
who
1:05:35
likes
1:05:35
to
1:05:35
say
1:05:35
a
1:05:36
lot,
1:05:36
I
1:05:36
only
1:05:36
heard
1:05:36
it
1:05:37
once.
1:05:37
Did
1:05:37
you
1:05:37
like
1:05:38
the
1:05:38
episode
1:05:38
that
1:05:38
you
1:05:39
heard
1:05:39
today?
1:05:40
Great.
1:05:40
Share
1:05:41
it
1:05:41
with
1:05:41
a
1:05:41
friend.
1:05:41
And
1:05:42
don't
1:05:42
forget
1:05:42
to
1:05:43
rate
1:05:43
and
1:05:44
review.