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The Twot Seat: ALEXIS BELLINO (RHOC) · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: To Teas in a pod with Teddy Mellencamp and Tamra Judge.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of the tat Seat
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  Speaker 2: with myself, Teddy Mellencamp.
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  Speaker 3: And Tambra Judge, and we have a very special guest.
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  Speaker 4: One of my dearest friends. Hi, that I never thought
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  Speaker 4: would happened.
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  Speaker 3: I still can't believe it when we say it, Tamra,
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  Speaker 3: I still am like, yeah, I kind of really do. Digger.
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  Speaker 2: So we've got Alexis Billino with us, which we noticed.
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  Speaker 5: You didn't change your name and your Instagram yet. What's
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  Speaker 5: going on.
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  Speaker 3: It's gonna be a minute. I am legally Alexis Janssen, okay,
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  Speaker 3: court document wise, however I.
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  Speaker 4: Talk of you have already changed your name legally.
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  Speaker 3: Well, now I don't know how it all works. We're
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  Speaker 3: still figuring all that out. I talk about you a
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  Speaker 3: lot when people ask me this question. I'm like, you know,
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  Speaker 3: when I met Tamra, she was Tama Barney and she
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  Speaker 3: didn't just instantly change the tree. You're done three.
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  Speaker 4: Legally, I didn't change it for three years because it's
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  Speaker 4: a pain in the ass.
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  Speaker 3: Well, what the kids is the other thing?
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  Speaker 4: There's no VIP line at DMV or so security office.
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  Speaker 4: There's none of that. So you it's just it's just
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  Speaker 4: time consuming and.
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  Speaker 3: People know me Alexis Blino. So for work, I feel like,
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  Speaker 3: do I keep it? Do I change it? You turned
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  Speaker 3: over and it was just fine and no piccups with that.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, right now we're just in. I did put
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  Speaker 3: it on my marriage license. I am going to be
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  Speaker 3: Alexis Jansen. So then it's just now it's just all
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  Speaker 3: the paperwork.
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  Speaker 4: Like you said, Well, then, plus, when you have kids,
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  Speaker 4: it's difficult when they're in.
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  Speaker 3: School or doctors or any Yeah, it's like and they're
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  Speaker 3: also like mom, but you're a blie or your kids,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm like yeah, but a lot of people get
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  Speaker 3: remarried and change their last time.
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  Speaker 4: I would love for you to change that. It's personal.
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  Speaker 5: Just throwing that business, it's personal.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, well moving on.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, well, let's just start off with the fact that
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  Speaker 4: you're married. You got married.
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  Speaker 3: I am. I got the extra band. See it's little
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  Speaker 3: because I actually never saw the extra band. Yeah, can
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  Speaker 3: you we put the extra band? We did just a
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  Speaker 3: little the same one. Custom it's turned around now, but yep,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm not going to solder them because I might
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  Speaker 3: want to just take the big rock off at some
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  Speaker 3: point and just wear the little skinny guy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I love how that looks when it's beautiful skinny guy.
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  Speaker 3: And that's I'm married, Tam.
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  Speaker 4: I know. Can you believe that? Can you believe it?
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  Speaker 5: Now?
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  Speaker 3: And when I first started dating him, I said, we
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  Speaker 3: can just stay engaged. We never need to get married again.
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  Speaker 3: We both have our kids, we both have everything, and
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  Speaker 3: then look what happens in two years.
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  Speaker 2: And what would you say is your biggest excitement from
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  Speaker 2: it all?
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  Speaker 5: Like what's what's your happy spot from?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, first of all, the day was more than
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  Speaker 3: I could have even like I went in knowing exactly
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  Speaker 3: what I wanted it to feel like, and it was
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  Speaker 3: ten times more than that. But I think there is
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  Speaker 3: a definite difference with marriage. And I don't know if
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  Speaker 3: you feel this or not because you've been remarried, you know,
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  Speaker 3: twice around it's or three times in my case, is
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  Speaker 3: it's I don't know. I didn't feel this my first
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  Speaker 3: time around. But the minute that we said I do,
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  Speaker 3: and the minute I mean, our sex was even better.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm like, how is that possible? Because we all
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  Speaker 3: know that that was always great with our life. And
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  Speaker 3: then I'm like, there's just this feeling. I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know what it is. I don't know if
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  Speaker 3: you felt that, Tamra when you had that with Eddie,
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  Speaker 3: but like, yeah, there's this. When we woke up the
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  Speaker 3: next morning, we were like, it does feel different. It's
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  Speaker 3: before God. It's like it does there is something about it.
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  Speaker 3: So thank God I turned my mind around instead of
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  Speaker 3: saying no, we can stay engaged forever and then doing
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  Speaker 3: I do before your family and friends and God, it
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  Speaker 3: was like.
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  Speaker 4: You had a very spiritual ceremony. Yes, Now the pastor
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  Speaker 4: that married you, is this a longtime friend? Is he
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  Speaker 4: the pastor at your church? Like, and by the way,
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  Speaker 4: it was hot.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sure his wife will agree with you.
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  Speaker 4: He was hot.
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  Speaker 3: He has he's literally forty, just turned forty. He has
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  Speaker 3: four children, two adopted and two biological. And so they
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  Speaker 3: have four children at forty years old, from five to
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  Speaker 3: like two. I mean, they're busy and they're in the
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  Speaker 3: thick of it. So the funny story about this church,
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  Speaker 3: you know, I'm pastor Jens and Franklin Free Chapel is
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  Speaker 3: where I actually come from. It's Donald Trump's private pastor now,
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  Speaker 3: but anyway, he's the pastor I was. Pastor Jensen Franklin
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  Speaker 3: is the pastor that I my family grew up with.
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  Speaker 3: I've have like I have the cell phones. We've gone
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  Speaker 3: to their family events, like we grew up in that church.
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  Speaker 3: But anyway, so this new pastor that we've only been
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  Speaker 3: at this church for about three or four years. James
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  Speaker 3: plays on the worship team. James actually found this church.
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  Speaker 3: It's a very youth driven church. It's a lot of
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  Speaker 3: like when John and I go, we're kind of the
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  Speaker 3: oldest people there, but there's like a lot of other
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  Speaker 3: parents and everybody comes. Now It's it's growing huge. They
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  Speaker 3: just bought their first building. James, when I was at
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  Speaker 3: rockbottom with my mom and I was you know, I
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  Speaker 3: told I shared this with you. I told God. I
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  Speaker 3: hated him for a few months because I was so
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  Speaker 3: I was so broken watching what my mom went through,
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  Speaker 3: thinking there's people out there that deserve that kind of
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  Speaker 3: a death. But my mom, who won't even kill a
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  Speaker 3: spider and praises God and loves the world and loves people,
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  Speaker 3: is going through this unbelievably horrible experience. So I did
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  Speaker 3: say hey, God, and so James found this church and literally, James,
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  Speaker 3: my son is one of the saving graces, and he
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  Speaker 3: just kept praying behind closed doors, like bring mom back
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  Speaker 3: to you Lord, and we I mean, it is our
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  Speaker 3: home church now and we've been these games for years.
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  Speaker 3: Very religious, I would say spiritual. He he does have
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  Speaker 3: a pastoral heart. I wouldn't want that for him because
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  Speaker 3: I know pastors have a very difficult life. But he
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  Speaker 3: will find his own path. But yes, he plays on
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  Speaker 3: the worship team. He goes, even Kenna, they go to
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  Speaker 3: instead of going to parties. There are a Tuesday night
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  Speaker 3: at church bringing all their friends and youth to Kenna
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  Speaker 3: just started a church group at her public school high school.
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  Speaker 3: Like they're they're very into.
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  Speaker 4: Me and Kenna are now friends on Instagram.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just o case.
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  Speaker 4: She didn't know that.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, well watch every posts. She's only seven, oh, turning eighteen.
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  Speaker 3: We don't even watch every single thing.
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  Speaker 1: Well.
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  Speaker 4: James led the prayer at your wedding and I saw,
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  Speaker 4: I mean I got teary eyed.
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  Speaker 3: It was beautiful and he wanted to We wanted to
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  Speaker 3: give each kid the where they wanted to be part
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  Speaker 3: of the wedding because we didn't have a wedding party.
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  Speaker 3: It was it was our children, and so the twins
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  Speaker 3: wanted the cake because that they wanted the cake and
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  Speaker 3: they wanted to do the cake cutting, but they also
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  Speaker 3: wanted to say a toast. But when when James we
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  Speaker 3: offered him you could either pray at the rehearsal dinner
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  Speaker 3: or at the wedding. But the wedding's gona have one
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  Speaker 3: hundred and fifty people. Are you going to feel comfortable
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  Speaker 3: with that? It's so I remember a week before the
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  Speaker 3: wedding and I go, Babe, I don't want to I
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  Speaker 3: don't want to be like the fly on the wall
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  Speaker 3: or like the nat the bothering you. But like, you
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  Speaker 3: can't just go out and wing it. You need to
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  Speaker 3: write something for this wedding. And he's like, mom, I
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  Speaker 3: got you. I'm like, are you sure? I'm like, and
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  Speaker 3: I sent him a couple of examples of other because
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  Speaker 3: he's not done a wedding before, and he's just like
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  Speaker 3: he kept like rolling it off. He's like, Mom, I
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  Speaker 3: got you. It's all it's fine, I got you. And
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  Speaker 3: then that prayer made everybody in the room cry. There
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  Speaker 3: was not a dry.
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  Speaker 4: There was a lot of toasts that happened after that,
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  Speaker 4: and I have to tell you, I don't know if
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  Speaker 4: it was the champagne, but I wanted so bad. I
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  Speaker 4: haven't even told you this. I so badly wanted. I
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  Speaker 4: don't want to cry, get up there and talk to
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  Speaker 4: you and toast to you and John, because you know
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  Speaker 4: what we went through terrible times, like you know, being
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  Speaker 4: on the show together was so difficult, but now our
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  Speaker 4: friendship and our bond is so solid and so strong,
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  Speaker 4: and I just wanted to get up there and cheers.
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  Speaker 4: Did Jesus jugs, That's what I wanted to do that
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  Speaker 4: I did, you know, when I'm in a lawsuit with
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  Speaker 4: your ex husband, not me, I'm not you that I'd
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  Speaker 4: standing up there with one of my good friends ex boyfriend.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, you.
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  Speaker 4: Can't even make this ship up. And I'm like, Tamra,
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  Speaker 4: this is not your time. You just sit down, you
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  Speaker 4: got I think I just would have said, like how
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  Speaker 4: proud I am and I could see so much love
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  Speaker 4: between the two of you guys, and how you know
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  Speaker 4: the evolution of our friendship and where we are now
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  Speaker 4: and how we are both different and in different spots
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  Speaker 4: and in different marriages now, and how much I just
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  Speaker 4: love you guys together.
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  Speaker 5: That's nice.
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  Speaker 3: My entire guestless probably would have loved you to do that.
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  Speaker 2: I have to ask a guest this question because now
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  Speaker 2: here we are.
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  Speaker 5: What happened with Heather Dubrow?
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  Speaker 3: Well, you guys are finding out at the same time
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  Speaker 3: as I am, because Watch What Happens Live? Is really
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  Speaker 3: what I mean? My text exchange with her doesn't show
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  Speaker 3: the answer that she gave on Watch What Happens Live.
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  Speaker 3: It's a different friendship that I feel like I thought
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  Speaker 3: I had with her.
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  Speaker 4: I'm what did she say on What Happens Live?
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  Speaker 3: She said, gosh, okay, well now you're really throwing me. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: so I haven't seen it in what two weeks ago now,
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  Speaker 3: but something to the effect of give me a second.
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  Speaker 3: It was something to the effect of, you know, well,
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  Speaker 3: that's a complicated question because you know, I'm friends with
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  Speaker 3: with with Shannon, and you know, Terry and I aren't
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  Speaker 3: really friends with Alexis and John as a couple. I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: what the F does that mean? And it's like, okay,
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  Speaker 3: you're not because my text exchange show different. We've gone
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  Speaker 3: to dinner several times together. I was I was literally
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  Speaker 3: my chin was on the floor. But at the same time,
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, Okay, she's gonna come up with something like
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  Speaker 3: there's gonna be something following up with this, And then
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  Speaker 3: it was just so it was so cold. I felt
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  Speaker 3: her disingenuine from her, from the energy I felt from
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  Speaker 3: her at that moment, I saw a shift in her
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  Speaker 3: and it was like I felt at that point, I go, Okay,
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  Speaker 3: I am just a TV friend of hers. I was
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  Speaker 3: only always collateral damage as a TV friend because you know,
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  Speaker 3: also keep in mind, Tamera, as you know, she shared
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  Speaker 3: information on the end of season eighteen and disclosed private
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  Speaker 3: information that was given to Heather by myself only for
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  Speaker 3: her ears, not for the entire world to hear. And
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  Speaker 3: you and I both know we share things with each
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  Speaker 3: other that is not meant for the rest of the world, right,
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  Speaker 3: you don't have.
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  Speaker 4: To share Not sure what information she shared.
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  Speaker 3: When you guys filmed the final scene on season eighteen
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  Speaker 3: behind my back, yes, and she said, he has footage
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  Speaker 3: of you hitting him. The fact that like the fact
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  Speaker 3: that like Heather shared that information about her hitting him
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  Speaker 3: with you all, and knowing that I had given her
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  Speaker 3: that as a private moment, it was I'm baffled. That's
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  Speaker 3: the first slap in my face. The second slap came
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  Speaker 3: at Watch What Happens Live? When I would think she
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  Speaker 3: would be like, yeah, I love it lo because if
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  Speaker 3: anyone would have asked me if I'd been in the
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  Speaker 3: hot seat with Andy, and he would have said, what
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  Speaker 3: do you feel about Heather? You know, why didn't she
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  Speaker 3: come to your wedding? She had a family event.
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  Speaker 4: At her She told that she had to go to
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  Speaker 4: her daughters.
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  Speaker 5: Why didn't she tell you she did.
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  Speaker 3: The same thing. That's what my exactly the same thing.
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  Speaker 3: It was just and so why couldn't it have ended
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  Speaker 3: at that? Why does she have to then say, well,
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  Speaker 3: I'm friends with by the way, at fifty years old,
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  Speaker 3: Why can't we all be friends together and not have
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  Speaker 3: to Well, I don't.
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  Speaker 4: Think anybody should dictate who they should be friends with.
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  Speaker 3: Well, by the way, if you're fifty or even thirty
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  Speaker 3: plus and you have to choose a lane, then you
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  Speaker 3: are you are feckless. That is the word I would
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  Speaker 3: like to use you lacking initiative. Feckless is the word
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  Speaker 3: for her.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I'm laughing. Initiative, lacking initiative and strength of character, that
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  Speaker 3: is what it means, so you.
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  Speaker 4: Can't use big words on this podcast with us because.
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  Speaker 5: She knew well enough to give us the definition.
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  Speaker 3: Do you guys know you know what last time I
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  Speaker 3: was on this Last time I was on this podcast
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  Speaker 3: with you guys not long ago, when we were going
• 11:51
  Speaker 3: to watch Janet Jackson, Do you remember I gave a
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  Speaker 3: word and your whole the whole team was like, that's
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  Speaker 3: not a word. I'm like, look it up. I grat
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  Speaker 3: I had any I was going to be an English major.
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  Speaker 4: You've got it. What you have to understand that me
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  Speaker 4: and Teddy barely made it through high school, like we
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  Speaker 4: barely did?
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  Speaker 5: You barely make it through this part?
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  Speaker 4: We play Devil's Advocate. She's on Live TV. She's asked
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  Speaker 4: she's castmates with Shannon. Do you think she said it
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  Speaker 4: because she didn't want to upset Shannon?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, And that's why she's feckless, because honestly, you can
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  Speaker 3: still be a friend of someone and still be a
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  Speaker 3: friend of the other person. You don't have to. I
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  Speaker 3: don't know what power this woman has over everybody else,
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  Speaker 3: but but for anyone to dictate who I'm going to
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  Speaker 3: be friends with, you would be gone. Have you gonna
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  Speaker 3: talk to her about it. Heather, Yeah, I have sent
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  Speaker 3: probably five you know, you know when you you you
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  Speaker 3: press the text and you're about to sit send and
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  Speaker 3: you're like, okay, a raise. No, not gonna say okay send,
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  Speaker 3: No'm not gonna send it. I've done it probably five
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  Speaker 3: times that I was going to send her a text,
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  Speaker 3: and I still I did text her right after mm hmm.
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  Speaker 3: Let me just give you guys the info.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, let's just pull up exactly what you said, because
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  Speaker 2: I don't want we don't want to mince words.
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  Speaker 3: No, I don't want to. I wanted to be here,
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  Speaker 3: I said, Heather. I saw watch What Happens Live and confused?
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  Speaker 3: Are your answer? You sounded cold and distant, like we
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  Speaker 3: were never friends, and as if we had not all
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  Speaker 3: four of us gone to dinner several times, et cetera.
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  Speaker 3: I thought we were friends. I guess I valued our
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  Speaker 3: friendship more than you did. Did the show get in
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  Speaker 3: the way of our friendship? Question? Mark? Valid? Right?
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  Speaker 5: Did you right back?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah? Right away?
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  Speaker 5: What'd she say?
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  Speaker 3: That is not what I meant at all. I'm sorry
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  Speaker 3: it came off that way. Reunion was yesterday and I'm exhausted.
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  Speaker 3: Let's please talk soon and discuss heart But in my mind,
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, first of all, that was I get that
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  Speaker 3: you're exhausted, Tam. We know we've done enough reunions. It's
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  Speaker 3: you are You are drained and we don't want but
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  Speaker 3: you're drained. So I get that. But at the same time,
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  Speaker 3: I'm just like, it didn't matter. The answer was just
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  Speaker 3: I mean, what did you guys think hearing that answer,
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  Speaker 3: knowing you know that her and I are friends and
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  Speaker 3: have in the comment.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, did I think the answer is great?
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  Speaker 1: No?
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  Speaker 4: I think the answer was Shannon's a castmate and I
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  Speaker 4: don't want to piss her off. That's how I'm taking it.
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  Speaker 3: Feckless.
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  Speaker 2: I think if there's already somewhere feckless, you figure out
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  Speaker 2: a way to be there.
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  Speaker 4: Everybody's feckless.
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  Speaker 5: But that's kind of.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, like you and you and fuck you.
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  Speaker 2: You want to yeah, yeah, you want to be somewhere.
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  Speaker 2: In my opinion, if I want to be somewhere, I
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  Speaker 2: figure out a way to be there. And uh, the
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  Speaker 2: fact that she didn't go and then what's just you
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  Speaker 2: know you it could have been another reason. But then
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  Speaker 2: on top of it to double down and say what
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  Speaker 2: she said and watch what happens live. I think that's
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  Speaker 2: what really hurt you.
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  Speaker 3: I'm very hurt.
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  Speaker 5: I think I think the double whammy is the problem.
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  Speaker 3: Everyone knows my children come first. Everyone knows it would
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  Speaker 3: not matter like I get that she and she did
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  Speaker 3: have this event. She told Tamor that which date.
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  Speaker 4: It was her daughter's family it.
• 15:10
  Speaker 3: Was parent night, parents week. It was not complicated. I
• 15:13
  Speaker 3: was friends with Jen and still am and I'm friends
• 15:15
  Speaker 3: with you. It's not complicated. It's it's you can be
• 15:19
  Speaker 3: friends as a grown ass, mature woman with two different people.
• 15:23
  Speaker 3: Because all of Newport is divorced and seventy five percent
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: divorce rate, it's like you're gonna have to not choose lanes.
• 15:28
  Speaker 3: You've got to be able to keep the peace with
• 15:31
  Speaker 3: both and love both for where they're at. I don't
• 15:33
  Speaker 3: understand where you know.
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: Why she just wouldn't say I had my daughter's event
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: and loved her.
• 15:42
  Speaker 3: And the other answer she gave was there was another thing.
• 15:45
  Speaker 3: Andy asked her. It's almost like she is trying to
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: ice me out or just like, I don't know, I've
• 15:47
  Speaker 3: got to get to the bottom of this. But anyways,
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: she said to Andy, she goes she's a sweet girl.
• 15:52
  Speaker 3: She's lovely. It's like, sweet girl, lovely dude. How many
• 15:57
  Speaker 3: deep conversations have we had about life that we're going
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: through together? Like, I'm just I.
• 16:04
  Speaker 5: It sounds to me like your friendship isn't a priority.
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: To her, but it was to me. So that's where
• 16:13
  Speaker 3: That's where there's got to be another conversation.
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: Do you think that she truly had a core, deep
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: relationship with you or you think it was a TV
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: friendship because that came up again this season.
• 16:36
  Speaker 5: With somebody else.
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: If you would have asked me that two weeks ago,
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: a month ago, I would have said, I have a
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: true friendship with Heather, and I would I would have
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: been I'm loyal to I'm loyal to my friends. Now
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: I'm questioning it because of that answer, and because of
• 16:54
  Speaker 3: what happened, you know, like what happened last year at
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: season eighteen, because when she gave the information and she
• 17:00
  Speaker 3: wasn't to share. I forgave her for that, because I
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: do feel like that, especially in this industry that we're in,
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: reality TV is not easy. We all know this, We've
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: all been there. You're friendships yes, within a cast, yes,
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: but there's also it's possible, Tamra, if you have a
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: good heart and you stand to your truth and you
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: have strength in your character.
• 17:21
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: However, now I am definitely I'm I'm gobsbacked to be honest,
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: I'm like, WHOA like I? Because you know I was
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: hurt by you because you were in that scene. But
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: how did we work through it, Tamra, because you know what?
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: We were honest and you said, lex, I am filming
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: a reality show. This is what you know? It is
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: it is. I got it. I get it. And here's
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: the dell. I have a very big capacity for understanding
• 17:50
  Speaker 3: the realm of what work we do. I get that
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: there is TV moments, and that's what I always called
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: it when everyone asks how can you be such good
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: friends with her? She has she crept on you, she
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: did this. I go, no, that was a TV moment.
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: It's fine. We moved past it. We talked it through,
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: we cried, we yelled, we did this, we did that.
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: Here we are. The friendship has enough of a core
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: strength in it itself that it doesn't the other stuff
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: is kind of manouche. However, I feel that now I've
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: had two knockdowns with Heather, and I just feel and
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: I want to move past this. I don't really want
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: to take all this. It doesn't as much time, but
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: I just I'm really hurt. And I also don't think
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: she realizes the weight of her words on that episode
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: and also the weight of her words on the watch
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: What Happens Live. I also don't think she considered or
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: even put herself in my shoes about disclosing private information
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: that was not hers to share with America. Was not
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: I told you, I told her. Guess whose mouth it
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: didn't come out of? You didn't tell I did not
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: them to do that scene did not at all.
• 18:54
  Speaker 4: Let's move on to happier news. Maybe Teddy not ready
• 19:00
  Speaker 4: to move from okay?
• 19:02
  Speaker 5: Is there anybody that anybody want to drink?
• 19:05
  Speaker 4: It could be a while.
• 19:06
  Speaker 5: Is there anybody that you disinvited to the wedding?
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: Yes, but obviously you saw that Teddy.
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: I don't know which you don't even have to say
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: the name. But there is somebody. And that's not a rumor.
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: It's not a rumor. No I did. But but we've
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: we have patched things up, and she did wish me well.
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: It's Jen Perdronte. Obviously it's all over the tabloids. We know,
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: but yeah, because here's the problem. My wedding list started
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: at eighty. I wanted to keep it very small. It's
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: a very intimate venue that we had it at, as
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: Tamber will tell you the room. I wanted more freedom
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: and more bigger space for all the tables. I didn't
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: want it to be, you know, crammed and they're like
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: sardines and all this. So my vision was one way. Well,
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: the list soon got up to one sixty, and the
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: capacity of the room is one fifty, so I might
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: mean people to catch the flu and like COVID and
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: things like fast. I'm like, I'm like, people need to
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: like drop off this list, like I don't know what
• 19:59
  Speaker 3: it is. Ok fine, your kids okay, fine, Okay, your
• 20:01
  Speaker 3: kid's got the boogers, Okay.
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you're kind of ugly.
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: You need to be there. So I need people to cancel.
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: So if you're not on a zepic, fine.
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: So I send out my save the dates and and
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: then you know, a month goes by and Jen and
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: I are talking before this, we're talking almost every day.
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: She's known my wedding dress scandals and all the things
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: that are happening with everything, And because it takes a lot.
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: It takes an army to make a wedding happen. And
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: so anyways, all of a sudden, I'm going in for
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: this last minute boot like not really emergency, but kind
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: of emergency boob job. Didn't want to have them done again.
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: But by the way they look smaller girls, huh.
• 20:38
  Speaker 5: They look very cute, Thank you very frank.
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: I had a reconstructive job boob job done because here's why.
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: My left side had encapsulated, so it was like getting
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: hard and growing up here.
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: And then she had a boob under her chin. Okay,
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: I did.
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: I was starting to grow in or my chin. Yea,
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: it was going to be really bad. And the wedding dress.
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: So then but then also guess what happened my implant,
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: So I had two things on this side. So I
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: it was kind of emergency, but not really like I
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: wasn't going to die, but you know it was. It
• 21:06
  Speaker 3: was a big deal. Anyways, so I text her. She
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: doesn't text back, even after knowing that does not say
• 21:12
  Speaker 3: how to go you okay, And I'm like, this is
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: weird and it's been a month, so I disinvite her
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: because I'm like, I'm five months out from my wedding.
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: I'm not inviting someone to my very you know, I
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: need people to drop off. I'm like, I'm not inviting
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: her to my wedding when when like it's like she's
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: not even checking in after knowing that I just had
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: this happen. We have patched it up. By the way, Jen,
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry that this is all coming out now, but yeah,
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: we're invite somebody. I just text her and said, I'm
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: so sorry. But but she never really got the invitation.
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: She got the saved, she got to save the date.
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: But I just said, and you never were at right now, Jen,
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: we haven't spoken in a month. My wedding is five
• 21:49
  Speaker 3: months out. I really I don't have the space at
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: the moment to I mean my space in my heart,
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: not the space in the venue. But like I feel
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: like we have distanced, there's some distance growing between us.
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: So at this point, I think it's just it's just
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: a better if if you know, we've so it was more.
• 22:05
  Speaker 4: About you guys, weren't talking like you used to. You
• 22:08
  Speaker 4: felt like she was pulling away.
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: Over in one month's time, camera and like people.
• 22:12
  Speaker 4: Lived like walking distance from time.
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: I know, and we we talked almost every like she'd
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: be in carpool. I'd be like, She'd like call you
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: right back, okay. And then it was like we were
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: talking like one or two times a day, one a day,
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: once every three days. I don't know, but there was
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: a weird you know, you know, when you know you
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: could feel.
• 22:27
  Speaker 5: A badness stop filming.
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: No, no, no. We were friends the whole time she's
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: been filming this whole season except for that. When that
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: one it's a month, it started to dwindle. And then
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, this is a weird. It just feels weird.
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: I don't want to invite someone in my wedding who
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: I haven't spoken to and over a month, because every
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: single person on that wedding list I've known for over
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: two and a half for years. She was one of
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: the newer friends that I had known. So I'm like,
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: you know, there are people that I still want to
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: have come and and you know, so it was just
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: it was.
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: Guys are in better terms now?
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: We are right now?
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's good.
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: We have We have texted back and forth since then.
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: She text me on my wedding day and just said,
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: I know you're going to beautiful. I said, you know what.
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: I know, it's last minute. It feels like you should
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: be here if you can. Ryan want to slap on
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: a wedding you know, a wedding outfit and get here.
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: I'll make sure there's space for you. So I reinvited
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: her kind of and you know, yeah, I just we're
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: in a good spot. She's like, I'm in San Diego
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: because my son's you know, getting his mareen some kind
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: of ceremony. So yeah, but we're in a decent space now.
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: All right, Well that's good and that's what met life's about,
• 23:29
  Speaker 4: right yeah.
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah, see, that's how you can forward.
• 23:32
  Speaker 5: Tell you moving forward.
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: Did you hear from anybody that you were surprised to
• 23:36
  Speaker 4: hear from the day of your wedding?
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: Well, like, I mean, Heather text me the day before
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: and the day after I think, and then Andy co
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: went text me the day after when the People article
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: came out and was like, I don't remember now, so
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: I'm like, you look beautiful. I'm so happy you fell
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: in love or whatever to move back and forth. I know.
• 23:55
  Speaker 3: So that was kind of out of left field. But
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: obviously we have a very good rule relationship because I
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: was the twelfth housewife. I know, you were number four, yes,
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: four of all, so think about how many hundreds of
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: housewives there are.
• 24:07
  Speaker 4: Now you were four and I was twelve. He's always
• 24:09
  Speaker 4: good about stuff like that.
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: Or eleven, I'm eleven. I'm sorry, I was eleven even.
• 24:13
  Speaker 4: I don't know what number I am, but I mean,
• 24:15
  Speaker 4: I feel like he is very protective of all his
• 24:18
  Speaker 4: housewives past and present. I agree, always stands up for them.
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: That was very sweet. I don't know how he does that,
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: but anyways, Yeah, so there were there were you know,
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: I mean, jim my ex text me. Yeah, yeah, he
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: texted me what wait for? What is your.
• 24:34
  Speaker 4: Ex husband text you the day of your wedding the
• 24:38
  Speaker 4: day before? He just day before, I hope you choke
• 24:41
  Speaker 4: on your chicken?
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: What?
• 24:42
  Speaker 4: What did he say? No?
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: It was actually very sweet. He goes, I'm wishing you
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: a blessed day or a happy day, or I hope
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: you have a great day something like that. Hope, but
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: was great day tomorrow something like that. So I think
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: that was it was very nice, very nice.
• 24:56
  Speaker 4: I didn't get that text from Simon.
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: With those texts that, I was like, Okay, oh my gosh,
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: you're close with Joe.
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: So Joe was there right, yes, yes, have you spoken
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: to her about Slade trying to act like a housewife
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: this season?
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: You know, she doesn't really talk about him a whole lot.
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: I think it's more of me wanting to talk about it.
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: She's like so over that doesn't even she's kind.
• 25:26
  Speaker 4: Of like married and she has moved on and it's
• 25:29
  Speaker 4: been like two decades decade or two yeah.
• 25:32
  Speaker 5: Two decads. But I can't help myself.
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: She's just kind of like, why did I ever date him? Alexis,
• 25:37
  Speaker 3: can you please remind me? And I'm like, I don't know.
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: We can say that to each other.
• 25:43
  Speaker 4: Let's talk about our relationship with as couples like me
• 25:48
  Speaker 4: and Eddie, you and John. So you know Eddie really
• 25:53
  Speaker 4: likes John and things did oh yeah, and he really
• 25:57
  Speaker 4: thinks you're just like the sweetest, kindest, never has a
• 26:00
  Speaker 4: bad thing to say about anyone. I mean even this
• 26:03
  Speaker 4: season us talking and you would say to me, no
• 26:07
  Speaker 4: matter whatever I was saying to you, like she was
• 26:10
  Speaker 4: so mean to me now, Tamra, Okay, let's think about
• 26:12
  Speaker 4: this even if it was Shannon, Let's think about this like, like,
• 26:16
  Speaker 4: let's talk this through. Maybe you don't need to be
• 26:19
  Speaker 4: mad at her, like you are a type of person
• 26:22
  Speaker 4: that can see both sides for sure. And Eddie has
• 26:26
  Speaker 4: acknowledged that and acknowledged just like the friendship, because trust me,
• 26:31
  Speaker 4: when I told him I was friends with you, he goes, not.
• 26:33
  Speaker 5: Jesus Jugs.
• 26:35
  Speaker 4: I know you told me yeah, And I'm like, yeah,
• 26:38
  Speaker 4: Jesus Jugs. And then after he's like, you know what,
• 26:41
  Speaker 4: she's a really good person. She's a really good person.
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: But you know what's funny, Tamara, I can never fault
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: you or Heather that season or Vicky Vicky kind of
• 26:49
  Speaker 3: Vicky not. You know, I'm talking about back when we
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: were filming like season eight. Let's say when you and
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: Heather were reading and I think you were you guys
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: were sniffing the you know, something wasn't right. I was.
• 27:00
  Speaker 4: I thought you meant. I thought you meant the booger
• 27:03
  Speaker 4: sugar or whatever.
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: You are sniffing out that. I think you and Heather
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: could sniff that my marriage wasn't perfect. Well, I think
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: that you don't see the love that you saw with
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: John and I maybe wonder could have seen that. Oh
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: good god. Well, but I mean when John and I
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: walk in a room, people are like, wow, you guys
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: like they feel the energy of the love that we
• 27:24
  Speaker 3: have for each other. Right, and I think that you
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: can feel that out of couples that really you guys
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: idly look related. Sorry, but I said.
• 27:30
  Speaker 5: It, we do. You go a little bit a little bit.
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we look related. That's not good because that's incest. Well,
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: you're not gonna have any kids.
• 27:37
  Speaker 4: So it's okay.
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: If I go down my chart and I find out
• 27:44
  Speaker 3: that he's a relative of mine, he's from Netherlands, I'm
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: from I'm from.
• 27:47
  Speaker 4: God, you're not having kids.
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: We're not You're not related. I'm not even let my
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: mind go you are horrible. I'm not letting my mind
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: go there.
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, he's your brother.
• 27:58
  Speaker 5: That's okay.
• 28:00
  Speaker 4: Yeah, no, kids, it's good.
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: You go look good. Who says it's fine is that
• 28:06
  Speaker 3: the Bible is her?
• 28:08
  Speaker 4: She gets done the Bible.
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: I'm just joking anyway.
• 28:12
  Speaker 4: But you guys, what I'm saying is, you guys make
• 28:13
  Speaker 4: a very good couple. I mean, he's handsome, you like.
• 28:17
  Speaker 4: You guys look like the top of a wedding cake.
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: Okay, well I could start that career.
• 28:22
  Speaker 4: That that's me giving you a compliment in some fucking
• 28:24
  Speaker 4: weird way. Okay, if your brother's brother and sister and your.
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: Fucking camra giving you a compliment by also alienating half
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: of our viewership.
• 28:32
  Speaker 4: Yes, I'm just saying.
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: I'm learning Tambera's compliments. They come very far in fee
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: between you. But when they do, you're just the top
• 28:38
  Speaker 3: of a wedding cake. That's her. Hey, it's it's the truth.
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: And and you know John feels the same about Eddie
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: and you. I feel the same about you, and it
• 28:51
  Speaker 3: is weird. I just think it's very inspirational. First of all,
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: I told everyone watch our love story of Blossom, like
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: just watch, just if everybody just sits back last year
• 28:59
  Speaker 3: when I was crying, crying every single day in filming,
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: well when it started air, it wasn't crying filming. I
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: was crying when it aired. How it wasn't really the
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: true story being shown. You and me both system Okay,
• 29:10
  Speaker 3: so we got that together. But anyways, we trauma bonded,
• 29:12
  Speaker 3: as we've been Yes, we trauma bonded. Awesomely known fact
• 29:18
  Speaker 3: that we trauma bonded. But anyway, I just said, Johnny,
• 29:22
  Speaker 3: on nights we'd cry together or even with you. I've
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: said this to you. It's like when when America really
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: sees like, they give us a couple of years, let
• 29:30
  Speaker 3: it unfold. Let everybody get past the fact that, you know,
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: the hotter, younger castmate took the boyfriend that broke up
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: with the other girl. So if that's really that's what
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: America thought, that's what the that's what it looked like,
• 29:41
  Speaker 3: and that's what it came across as. And so I thought,
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: once everybody really sees how genuine it is and what happened,
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: you can't break that love story. It's just it's a
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: beautiful love story. And it's the same with our friendship
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: camera because arch enemies become besties. How does that happen?
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: It's just one of those arcs and in the story
• 29:59
  Speaker 3: that every producer wants. But it's true.
• 30:01
  Speaker 4: Well, I think people grow and people change, and that's
• 30:05
  Speaker 4: been you know, our situation. For sure. You're out of
• 30:09
  Speaker 4: a marriage that didn't suit you and I'm out of
• 30:12
  Speaker 4: a marriage that was not great for me, and we're
• 30:15
  Speaker 4: different places in our life.
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: And we both have good hearts. And that's what even
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: though reality different, but I know, well that's what I'm
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: going to say. Even though Reality TV doesn't always like
• 30:26
  Speaker 3: to show that.
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: No.
• 30:28
  Speaker 4: So you know, with reality TV, they're going to show
• 30:30
  Speaker 4: your strongest, you know, personality, and mine just happens to
• 30:35
  Speaker 4: be fuck you, fuck you, fuck your fuck you my opinion,
• 30:39
  Speaker 4: that's my strong that's that's me. And and I mean
• 30:42
  Speaker 4: it's worked long as running housewife. Not proud of it
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: about the.
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: Not proud of.
• 30:49
  Speaker 4: It, but you know, it's that's what they show. Do
• 30:55
  Speaker 4: they show other sides of me?
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: No?
• 30:57
  Speaker 4: Do they show me checking in on my friends and all,
• 31:00
  Speaker 4: you know, and being a good mom and no, But
• 31:04
  Speaker 4: you know, I I've accepted it. I took that villain
• 31:07
  Speaker 4: role seventeen years ago.
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Man, they just planted that hat on you. And
• 31:12
  Speaker 3: guess what role I took the dits even though I'm
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: coming in with words, y'all don't know, I'm I'm a
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: good one no longer.
• 31:27
  Speaker 4: I think they made a huge mistake not bringing you back.
• 31:33
  Speaker 4: Huge mistake. I think that it was the Shannon of
• 31:38
  Speaker 4: it all. If you came back in different circumstances, you
• 31:44
  Speaker 4: would steal be on the show.
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: If I would have came back where we were originally
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: talking and John Jansen was not in my vocabulary, I
• 31:51
  Speaker 3: didn't even know. I mean, he kind of knew who
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: I was, but I literally did not even know. I
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: had to go do a lot of research after that
• 31:59
  Speaker 3: night of Quite Woman because I was feeling the butterflies
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: and the weird things and I'm like, oh, guys, just no,
• 32:03
  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna no no. But anyway, so then I
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: learned a lot and I maybe had seen one episode
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: because I wasn't even watching back then. At that point,
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: my mom was dying, so the only thing I was
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: doing with flying to call her out or to keep
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: my mom off her deathbed. But so it's just it's
• 32:20
  Speaker 3: so bizarre. But if I would have come back like that,
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: you know, the newly single Alexis, or even if I
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: would have just gotten a little bit better of not
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: such a skewed storyline, I think America could have liked
• 32:33
  Speaker 3: me and would have liked me. But it all works
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: out for a reason, and I feel that now I'm
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: exactly where I'm supposed to be, and it was all
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: exactly where it was supposed to happen. Like what happened
• 32:44
  Speaker 3: is God's timing, even though it doesn't make sense at
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: the moment, that was God's timing.
• 32:50
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, what I would say is, what would you
• 32:53
  Speaker 4: say to the people out there that doubt your relationship John,
• 33:00
  Speaker 4: even though you guys are now married, Like I posted pictures,
• 33:03
  Speaker 4: I got some hateful dms and I don't I mean,
• 33:07
  Speaker 4: I actually spend the time and said, you don't know
• 33:09
  Speaker 4: who she is?
• 33:11
  Speaker 3: Oh that's you.
• 33:12
  Speaker 4: Know, And normally that thing I would just be black bitch,
• 33:15
  Speaker 4: But no, I like took the time like and people
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: would say back to me, you know what, You're right,
• 33:21
  Speaker 4: You're absolutely right. So, like, does that stuff affect you anymore?
• 33:27
  Speaker 4: The people that are coming at you saying negative things
• 33:30
  Speaker 4: about your relationship with John.
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: You know.
• 33:33
  Speaker 3: I mean, I would be lying if I said no,
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: it never affects me. But what I will say is
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: that I think going through watching rewatching Season eighteen unfold
• 33:45
  Speaker 3: the way it did from reality TV perspective and not
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: the reality of what the story really was. I think
• 33:52
  Speaker 3: that I was knocked down so low and I was
• 33:54
  Speaker 3: already solow you knew this and me coming back It took.
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: It took how many phone calls, exhausting phone calls on
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: me and you and hell saying nope, I'm not going
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: and you're like you guys were like begging me and
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: like all the exhausting phone calls.
• 34:06
  Speaker 4: Well, Heather rallied for you to come back to the show.
• 34:08
  Speaker 3: Oh, she was my number one reason why its me
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: on we spent.
• 34:12
  Speaker 4: Let me just tell you why this bitch got fired.
• 34:15
  Speaker 4: And instead of rallying for this bitch come back, she
• 34:18
  Speaker 4: was saying, I want Alexis back, I want a Lexus back,
• 34:20
  Speaker 4: I want I'm.
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: Hey, what about me?
• 34:24
  Speaker 4: Hello? You can have two friends, yeah, alexis a better friend.
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah. But so anyways, being knocked down so hard on
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: season eighteen, and I didn't I kept asking God why
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: And I was still kind of saying, God, I hate you, God,
• 34:37
  Speaker 3: what are you doing this to be for? Why are
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: you breaking me even further down? And here's the truth.
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: And here's why God is so amazing is the entire
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: time I'd be on my knees doing that and I'd say,
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: I hate you. I hate you God. There's a word
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: for it begins with an L. And I'm now I'm
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: losing my dictionary brain. But there's a word that smart
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: in the not so smart. After all, in the biblical world,
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: there is this L word and it is about how
• 35:01
  Speaker 3: God gives you the ability, like he allows the space
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: for you to have this hate for him at the
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: moment because you don't understand the entire story and so
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: and then all the while I'm on my knees just
• 35:13
  Speaker 3: like God, why, why me? Why? And he was always there.
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: I heard his voice as clear as day, and he'd say, Lexi,
• 35:22
  Speaker 3: I got you, Lexi. I'm here, Lexi. You're gonna get
• 35:25
  Speaker 3: you one something better for you. He's like, and so
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: here we are. I think at the end of the day,
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: breaking me down that Lobe being the most hated person
• 35:32
  Speaker 3: in America for Bravo World and a lot of America
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: for you know, six months of my life to where
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: I have to like basically hibernate and get in death
• 35:40
  Speaker 3: threats and you know all the things my kids had
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: to go through and.
• 35:43
  Speaker 4: Seeing your comments on insight shut off.
• 35:46
  Speaker 3: For six months, I mean it was it was really
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: not something I should have ever had to experience. But anyways,
• 35:50
  Speaker 3: coming full circle with that whole story, I feel like
• 35:54
  Speaker 3: God did it because he was like, I'm building you
• 35:56
  Speaker 3: up to be stronger and to show people that you
• 36:00
  Speaker 3: can make it through and whether that's storm and also
• 36:03
  Speaker 3: that maybe everything you see isn't what you think it is,
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: you know, because now look at how.
• 36:09
  Speaker 4: And I'm getting you off this fucking show.
• 36:12
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and now you're happy.
• 36:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah. And I mean if that's what I love is
• 36:16
  Speaker 3: when people see john and I out at a restaurant
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: or just anything, they come up they're just like, wow,
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: we see it, we get it, and that's.
• 36:24
  Speaker 4: All that's all that you have, like a.
• 36:28
  Speaker 3: And it's not it's not fake. And we didn't do
• 36:29
  Speaker 3: it for TV. We didn't do it for what everybody
• 36:31
  Speaker 3: thought we did because guess you, I mean all of
• 36:34
  Speaker 3: you can imagine we would have. I would have I
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: would have wanted to end it this, I.
• 36:39
  Speaker 4: Could all this, Hey could have destroyed your relationship with him, Yes,
• 36:42
  Speaker 4: very easily. Let's talk about what the wedding.
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: Like.
• 36:58
  Speaker 4: Let the listeners hear about like getting near the.
• 37:02
  Speaker 5: Hats, the hats what like?
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: Was that?
• 37:04
  Speaker 5: Kimo Sabi? I was like, what the heck is going
• 37:07
  Speaker 5: on here?
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: So when I was planning this wedding with Johnny, I said, Babe,
• 37:10
  Speaker 3: I go, you might not like my ideas we you know,
• 37:13
  Speaker 3: and he had. His idea was the circle of love,
• 37:15
  Speaker 3: the round, you know. Because we were talking, I said,
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: what about a U shape? I don't want to do
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: just just people in rows? During the ceremony, during the
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: ceremony part of it, and he goes, well, what about
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: a circle of love? And I said, I don't even
• 37:26
  Speaker 3: know if that's possible. So I call my wedding planner.
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: I'm like, is that do you think? What would this
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: look like? How could we do it? So we started
• 37:31
  Speaker 3: doing all these mock ups and these ideas and I'm
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: just like, we're going with it or do it. She's like,
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: I've never heard of it, never done it. Let's go
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: with it. So we did it because we thought we're
• 37:39
  Speaker 3: not having a wedding party. We don't want I didn't
• 37:41
  Speaker 3: want to walk down the aisle. The only reason I
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: walked down the aisle was because my children and John's
• 37:45
  Speaker 3: children were like, no, you have to walk to my dad.
• 37:47
  Speaker 3: You have to walk to John, like you have to
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: you have to walk to to see golf cart.
• 37:52
  Speaker 4: It half the way that Druss was out, I was
• 37:55
  Speaker 4: in the grass, so that the setting was we're in
• 37:58
  Speaker 4: like the woods, but you're it's yeah, and it's all
• 38:02
  Speaker 4: with huge like I want to say, oak trees and
• 38:05
  Speaker 4: then there's circle around you guys, right, and they get
• 38:09
  Speaker 4: to oak tree.
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: Can you guys can see it on my Instagram you
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: can see the I mean, I'm and I'm telling you
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: it was. It was breathtaking. And the reason we married
• 38:16
  Speaker 3: there because we were looking at destination weddings. We were
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: looking at a ton of venues. I walked in there.
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: My mom is from Colorado, so she's a mountain girl.
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: She's always loved the mountains. I'm a water girl. I
• 38:26
  Speaker 3: want to live on the ocean. We walked into that
• 38:28
  Speaker 3: venue and I'm literally it's probably the fifth place John
• 38:31
  Speaker 3: and I had looked at. And I walked in and
• 38:33
  Speaker 3: I was holding his hand and I stopped and I
• 38:36
  Speaker 3: like dropped his hand and He's like, what babe, And
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: I go, I feel my mom here, my mom. This
• 38:40
  Speaker 3: is where I feel my mom. This is where we're
• 38:42
  Speaker 3: getting married. He goes, done, where what they do you have?
• 38:45
  Speaker 3: They had no Saturdays for two and a half years.
• 38:47
  Speaker 3: There's not one Saturday you could get married on. And
• 38:49
  Speaker 3: in the months that we wanted to think you could
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: pick some of the off months. But so I'm like,
• 38:53
  Speaker 3: well that we have to get married on a Friday
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: or Sunday. And John's like, get married on a Friday whatever,
• 38:57
  Speaker 3: And so she, you know, we that day we didn't
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: even have I didn't have a wedding planner in mind.
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: I didn't have any other thing. I just said, my
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: mom is here, John, we are doing it here, and
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: he's like a million percent.
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: This is it.
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: And so then yeah, then you have to have golf
• 39:11
  Speaker 3: cards because it is a golf course, and you do
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: have to they close down the golf court. I mean
• 39:15
  Speaker 3: it's a wedding estate also. But yeah, it's unbelievably magical,
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: Like the whole thing was magical.
• 39:21
  Speaker 4: Your dress absolutely beautiful.
• 39:23
  Speaker 3: Wighs more than me, It weighed more than me.
• 39:26
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it was all crystal and it was like a
• 39:30
  Speaker 4: champagne color.
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: Would you call it. It's champagne and then champagne and
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: tope and then all they're just all the jewels. And
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: so that was another thing.
• 39:38
  Speaker 4: I just was a long ceremony, it was, and it
• 39:40
  Speaker 4: was a very long like normally you go and do
• 39:42
  Speaker 4: the ceremony and twenty thirty it was.
• 39:47
  Speaker 3: It was thirty to forty.
• 39:48
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it was probably forty minutes. But it was beautiful,
• 39:50
  Speaker 4: it was fun, it was entertaining.
• 39:52
  Speaker 3: We didn't really want it to be that long, by
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: the way.
• 39:54
  Speaker 4: No, I thought, I don't thought I don't know that.
• 39:57
  Speaker 3: I don't know that people.
• 39:58
  Speaker 5: Loved when you say each other ceremony.
• 40:01
  Speaker 3: We're like, Okay, this is getting a little annoying because I.
• 40:02
  Speaker 4: Were the alling asleep or anything. I'm saying like it
• 40:06
  Speaker 4: was like fun, like your kids were involved and you
• 40:09
  Speaker 4: had different like it was like a it was like
• 40:11
  Speaker 4: a Broadway play.
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it was kind of like we well, we definitely
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: wanted to both say vows to our children, like I
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: wanted to say it to his kids. He wanted to
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: say it to my kids, because we're not just marrying
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: each other, we're marrying each other's children. All six we're
• 40:23
  Speaker 3: all six glue now, and so that was part of it.
• 40:27
  Speaker 3: Not took what three minutes each speech and then or
• 40:29
  Speaker 3: or whatever vows to each other. And then John and
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: I's vows were three and a half. We were we
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: were like, did you practice your vowels? And like, yeah,
• 40:36
  Speaker 3: I cried every time. He's like, I've done it five,
• 40:37
  Speaker 3: I've cried every time. I'm like I've cried every time.
• 40:39
  Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm gonna have to say hemorrhoid every time.
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: I'm hemorrhoid, hemorrhoid eyd because it's like.
• 40:44
  Speaker 4: Dick and balls, dick and balls, dick and balls. Anytime
• 40:46
  Speaker 4: I changed in mind, anytime.
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: He started to get tear out'd be like okay. And
• 40:49
  Speaker 3: then because I just didn't want to ruin my two
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: hours of makeup. But so anyways, so that took time.
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: And then our pastor is not long. Is long winded
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: because he knows us and loves us and obviously knows
• 41:02
  Speaker 3: a lot of the story behind it. So he end
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: up being a very long ceremony. Nobody knows this, Okay,
• 41:09
  Speaker 3: you don't even yes, you know, no, you don't, okay.
• 41:12
  Speaker 3: A week a week before my ceremony, the singer I
• 41:16
  Speaker 3: had one song I was gonna walk down to Alex
• 41:18
  Speaker 3: Warren's Ordinary Okay, it's so ordinary because it's now on
• 41:21
  Speaker 3: every top pop station anyway. So I'm like, okay, no,
• 41:23
  Speaker 3: I'm not doing that anymore because I don't want it
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: to be ordinary. So I was I was like, I
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: need God to be walking me down the aisle. So
• 41:30
  Speaker 3: I was like going through all the songs my mom loved,
• 41:32
  Speaker 3: was going through all the all these things, and then
• 41:34
  Speaker 3: all of a sudden, Oceans popped up one day when
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: I was driving and it's on my list, my playlist
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: and I'm like, that's what I want. So I send
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: it to my MC guy and the guy that's running
• 41:44
  Speaker 3: the production of the whole show, of the whole wedding.
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: I send it to my wedding planner. I send it
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: to Johnny and Johnny goes because it's the string cord
• 41:50
  Speaker 3: tet version right, And Johnny goes, too boring, can't do that.
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: It's got to have the words. He goes, the string
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: cord tet version of the song is not it's not
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: powerful enough, and I go, Okay. Then I'm getting a
• 42:00
  Speaker 3: singer called my pastor and text my pastor both pastors,
• 42:06
  Speaker 3: and I said, who can sing this from the church?
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: Who can sing this and nail it? And I go
• 42:10
  Speaker 3: it needs to be impacted, it needs to be nailed,
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: And they're like, Joey can do it. I'm like perfect.
• 42:16
  Speaker 3: So in a week's time, he practiced with the string quartet,
• 42:18
  Speaker 3: nailed it, nailed it, and I was fighting back tears,
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: but I felt the Holy Spirit come in during that song.
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: Was exactly what we wanted. And then I said, I
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: took it even a step further and I said, when
• 42:28
  Speaker 3: I get to John, I don't want to just go
• 42:30
  Speaker 3: right into the ceremony. I want to sit there and
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: really just talk to the Lord and just you know,
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: bring his presence full lee into the circle. And so
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: that's what we did, and it was beautiful. We had
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: chills and tears and all the good feels.
• 42:43
  Speaker 4: Alexis, what about you did a rose ceremony for your parents?
• 42:47
  Speaker 4: Can you tell us a little.
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: Bit about that? So yeah, that was another touch, which
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: is why the ceremony went forty minutes. But we wanted
• 42:53
  Speaker 3: to I've I'm an orphan. I've lost both parents and
• 42:56
  Speaker 3: I lost my stepdad. So I've lost my dad and
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: she thousand and eight, my stepdad in twenty twelve, and
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: my mom in twenty twenty four, so or twenty twenty three.
• 43:05
  Speaker 3: So it's like, I you know, a lot of loss.
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: And then John lost his father figure whose name was Bill.
• 43:12
  Speaker 3: He lost him when he was twelve. That's who basically
• 43:14
  Speaker 3: John felt like raised him. So we decided to put
• 43:16
  Speaker 3: candles that were you can't have burning candles, so we
• 43:19
  Speaker 3: had the light up candles there and then they were
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: in that beautiful little caraft kind of thing, and so
• 43:23
  Speaker 3: we decided to stick roses in there just to honor them.
• 43:27
  Speaker 3: To another worship song just to bring ud. So yeah,
• 43:29
  Speaker 3: that was our way. Do you know what it took
• 43:31
  Speaker 3: for how many times I had to say hemorrhoid for that?
• 43:34
  Speaker 4: How many times? And by the way, do you have hemorrhoids?
• 43:38
  Speaker 3: Is that why I have a hemorrhid? But it just
• 43:39
  Speaker 3: it's funny to like talk about it.
• 43:40
  Speaker 5: I love that.
• 43:41
  Speaker 3: It's funny because it's like, who that's the ugliest word
• 43:43
  Speaker 3: ever you've ever heard? And it's like makes you laugh,
• 43:46
  Speaker 3: right see look at your face. Yeah, it makes you laugh.
• 43:48
  Speaker 4: So it's like it makes you laugh or it makes
• 43:50
  Speaker 4: you itch.
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: What's gonna make me not have a tear? And that
• 43:54
  Speaker 3: was the word that just comes to mind.
• 43:57
  Speaker 5: Oh, we love it.
• 43:58
  Speaker 3: And then we went up to the reces option. Yeah,
• 44:00
  Speaker 3: and then let's talk about the hat. Okay, so this
• 44:03
  Speaker 3: is the other thing that I wanted. I told you, well,
• 44:06
  Speaker 3: on top of all the entertainment that you were there
• 44:07
  Speaker 3: for the violinists.
• 44:08
  Speaker 4: Violinists, you had a rap song we did.
• 44:11
  Speaker 3: That was a surprise. That was that was that was
• 44:13
  Speaker 3: He's He's just incredible. But then the hats were something
• 44:18
  Speaker 3: where we were like we want them to really take
• 44:21
  Speaker 3: like a true like something home so the Rancher Hat Bar,
• 44:25
  Speaker 3: they do customize hats, which is funny because you guys
• 44:28
  Speaker 3: just filmed us on this episode. Emily was is.
• 44:31
  Speaker 5: That the same place?
• 44:32
  Speaker 3: No, But it was honest.
• 44:34
  Speaker 4: It was honestly like, I'm like, by the way, I
• 44:36
  Speaker 4: gave the name of that and I was supposed to
• 44:37
  Speaker 4: film there.
• 44:38
  Speaker 3: Oh well that's honey, Yeah, just throwing that out there.
• 44:42
  Speaker 3: Do you know how many times that happens with the crew.
• 44:45
  Speaker 3: But anyway, we we The Rancher Hat Bar customized my
• 44:49
  Speaker 3: bachelorette hat too, and so when we were there, I
• 44:51
  Speaker 3: was just like, Johnny, this is what I mean. Each
• 44:54
  Speaker 3: hat's like one hundred and eighty bucks and you get
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: to put whatever jewels. Line never stopped because we had
• 44:59
  Speaker 3: a d People try to get a custom hat and.
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  Speaker 4: It takes time. You know, you got to do the band.
• 45:03
  Speaker 3: You gotta do the brand to kick out whatever you
• 45:05
  Speaker 3: then you didn't have to do the branding. But we
• 45:07
  Speaker 3: thought it was called to have the aj A because
• 45:08
  Speaker 3: then it's like it's from our wedding. It's just a moment.
• 45:12
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I had brandan on the back of my mom
• 45:14
  Speaker 4: I thought everybody would do the inside. I did the
• 45:17
  Speaker 4: back it's a t heart e on the back.
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  Speaker 3: I love that, love that.
• 45:22
  Speaker 4: But it was absolutely studying and beautiful. Are you guys
• 45:24
  Speaker 4: going on a honeymoon.
• 45:25
  Speaker 3: No, we did a pre honeymoon. We will do a honeymoon,
• 45:28
  Speaker 3: probably early summer because now we have tons of family
• 45:32
  Speaker 3: birth like seven family birthdays, Thanksgiving and Christmas all in
• 45:35
  Speaker 3: the next two month.
• 45:36
  Speaker 4: What about houses?
• 45:38
  Speaker 3: We both have your own houses, we do, and you
• 45:40
  Speaker 3: know what we're gonna do. We're going to keep them all.
• 45:42
  Speaker 3: I had mine on the market, might put it back
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: on I don't know after the holiday. I don't know.
• 45:46
  Speaker 3: We're just we're going to keep both. And instead of
• 45:48
  Speaker 3: going you know, we could have a house in Palm
• 45:50
  Speaker 3: Desert and here. Instead we just happened to have houses
• 45:53
  Speaker 3: in two towns only twenty minutes away from me.
• 45:55
  Speaker 4: So you guys spend the majority of your time at
• 45:58
  Speaker 4: your house because and then he's got one on the water. Yes, yeah, yeah,
• 46:03
  Speaker 4: his is the vacation home.
• 46:04
  Speaker 3: It's going to keep boat is We're going to keep both.
• 46:06
  Speaker 3: Yeah for now. We don't know what the future looks like,
• 46:09
  Speaker 3: but we've we've loved it the last two years, so
• 46:11
  Speaker 3: we're not really in a hurry. To change anything in
• 46:13
  Speaker 3: My twins are still in high school. So we're at
• 46:16
  Speaker 3: my house down south.
• 46:17
  Speaker 4: To day where you're at right now, and tell the
• 46:19
  Speaker 4: kids are out of the school, out of school.
• 46:21
  Speaker 3: And then they're all going to be flitting off to college.
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: And but now Miles is like, Mom, I'm staying with
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: you for four more years. I'm like, okay, Well.
• 46:26
  Speaker 4: That's my Sophia, that is my Sofia.
• 46:31
  Speaker 5: Well, we really appreciate you coming on.
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: We love hearing your love story and also all the
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: funny tidbits herit.
• 46:40
  Speaker 4: But I'm going to use that now.
• 46:41
  Speaker 3: It's so great.
• 46:42
  Speaker 5: Where do people find you if they want to chat
• 46:45
  Speaker 5: with you? Get more information?
• 46:48
  Speaker 3: I mean basically just Alexis Billino, which I don't know,
• 46:52
  Speaker 3: stay tuned. I don't know what my Instagram is going
• 46:53
  Speaker 3: to look like. Basically, you want to find me, you'll
• 46:56
  Speaker 3: find me.
• 46:58
  Speaker 4: Just become like Madonna.
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: Says, there's a lot of Alexises out there, though that
• 47:03
  Speaker 3: might be taken.
• 47:04
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Alexis.
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Well, thanks guys for Alexis Alexis.
• 47:11
  Speaker 4: Well, thank you so much.
• 47:12
  Speaker 3: Alexis. I love you so much, love you