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Rabbi Moshe Haber Path of the Just-Pure Motives: A Path to Genuine Living 8.21.25 · Rabbi Moshe Haber - Daily Mussar/Weekly Perasha

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This idea of having a pure mind, like you mean doing things with
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the right motive. OK, we've been talking about it
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how like we say, if you do things with the right motive, it
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becomes much more genuine, much more long lasting, less fights,
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less challenges. Again, it's very challenge.
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It's very difficult to do so because ulterior motives usually
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can't in town mind everything that we do, there's an ulterior
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motive. In fact, I was looking at a
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different set and talks about the fact Hashem made it this
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way. Possibly people make money,
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support their family. A lot of times he talks about
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the Tera motors of kin. Ah jealous.
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It make like the other guy says. He says and Hashem has our
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truck. Hashem has exactly he says on
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his tracks. Every single thing that we have,
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every physical drive that we have can lead to a positive.
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Even if it's through those side motives.
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Jealousy can lead the person supporting his family.
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Actually Allah running after cavort can actually lead has led
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to much building of the of the world and the Jewish world.
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Sometimes running at the cavort has led to that and there's a
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positive as we're speaking out and there's also going to be a
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major negative. He talks about even Tava
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temptation has led to people, he says raising families, having
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families, all these different things lead to can lead to good.
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Now the problem is if those things are done with the wrong
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word of my mind doesn't carry the same weight and the same
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strength, the same built as if it was done with the right
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drive. A person does any of those
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things with the right thought. I'm supporting my family because
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I want to support my family, not for other reasons, not because I
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want to have as much as the next guy.
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It's more genuine, it's more real.
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Same is true with comes to if I'm building to a for the sake
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of building to a or if I'm connecting to a for that reason,
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not because of honor, not because of power.
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Those other things. It's far more genuine, far more
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real and definitely great lasting last idea.
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So these alternative motives do play a role in our life to be
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very real. To be honest, probably I mean
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90% of what people do has alterium motives involve people
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do many things and motives are for other reasons and it's not
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as powerful as it would be. And I was a clear thinking and
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he says and why don't people think included.
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It's not because we're bad people.
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Why is it that our alterium motives oftentimes our far
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greater drive than our pure motors?
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Like we said, it's not because you're a bad guy.
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So why is he's the enemy of the reason people don't do things
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for the right reasons? I'm born Hezron, he's born a
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Newt. And because they don't focus,
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they don't think, they don't realize and internalize how
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based how, how silly these temptations that we doubt on
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motives drive us for the Fatah Cavoid.
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How dumb Cavoid is, I can't tell you.
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I think about this all the time. There have been so many people
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who have put who have had lifetimes of cavoid 2030 years
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where they were the biggest name in town spoken about all the
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time. And then the dust settled.
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The 60 years old, 70 years old, and for whatever reason Ty
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turned they don't have that Cavoy anymore.
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Now what are those 30 years worth?
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All that time and all that cover.
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What's it worth? It's worth temporary feeling of
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you know, of gratification. Another temporary feeling.
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Not a temporary feeling that's worth nothing now chasing.
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Because they had money. Have owed money, covered power.
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Yeah, pretty much. Yeah, absolutely.
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And then they lost it. Are they?
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That's it. Worth nothing.
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Every time you think about a person, you think about if I
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would strip away a position, if I was strip away the extras,
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what would they be? And I think that's all the time,
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all in stones will be without some people, without their
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wealth. Or would they be?
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Or if there's still a nice guy and a still likable guy and they
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still have good thoughts and their good advice and raising a
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good family, they would still be.
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I understand it'd be different. They would still be the same
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kind of the same guy. But if they are obnoxious and
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nasty and, you know, not really building the best family and
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difficult with their wife and all these things, can you shave
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away their money and you shave away their existence?
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That's because they put too much time into the kavoda sour to
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your motives often times are very disastrous.
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He says. The problem is the person ever
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thinks about how childish it is the Fatah kavoda's own mute
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Khanal Abouda and as well and don't give themselves enough
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time to prepare and to think in advance about what they're
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doing. So again, they don't recognize
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how silly the chase is. And then I realize, and I'll
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think in advance through separate concepts, think in
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advance how important it is to prepare these two.
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Mindset would basically include thinking.
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The border picture gives a person purity of mind, thinking
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in the moment, being basically very physical and very
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animalistic and very reactionary, and allowing myself
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to continue to think in this silly physical temptation way or
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not allow me ever to recognize my pure motives, to allow myself
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to follow my pure motives. Because I'm going with these two
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thoughts. I'm chasing cavort.
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Chasing cavort, or I'm doing things without preparation,
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which is equally a very disastrous thing.
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Because if you don't think I'll tell you do something when
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you're tired, even notice when you're tired, you're a different
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person. I'm a different person.
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I'm cranky. I'm cranky.
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My comments don't make sense. All these issues right now,
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that's called lack of preparation.
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That's called lack of advanced. Same guy, Ed, well rested Ed.
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He thought through a different guy.
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So he's telling him. Besides, he was telling you the
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fact that people could spend days, months, years with the
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wrong frame of mind thinking alternative with alternative
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motives be based on other drives.
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It's because they're they're shrinking on these two faults.
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One, they're not realizing how silly those motives are.
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Two, they're not allowing themselves to think purely to
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have pure motives because they keep doing things in a very
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reactionary way. This leaves a person locked in
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to continue a lifetime of doing things for the wrong reason.
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And it can be a lifetime if a person doesn't face it, it
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really can be a lifetime. That's a challenge.
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All right, have a great day, Keisha Schneim, that is Shanim.
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These two elements, Hemi fatim ET amashava is a lot of
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appeasement. Thou mine umam shihino TA a la
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paniot. What happens is let me see the
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words exactly. The seduction.
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That's the word that he used the seduction to our mind,
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temptation, not just of of of physical things, temptation of
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cowboy and of power. And these things basically pull
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us down and we don't wake up at the same thing as a child, a
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kid, a teenager, right? They're not thinking about the
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future. Why do they make mistakes?
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Because they have these two things.
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They have the strongest level of temptation those years, right?
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The 15 to 30 years are the strongest level of temptation.
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And those are the least ability to think about the future or
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history. Any of these things don't matter
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to them, right? I stop and I listen not to go
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involvement politics. I stop and listen to this guy
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talk this yo-yo, whatever. The guy running for the mayor.
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Yeah, I listen to talk and I'm listening, watching.
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I'm saying nobody's catching what this guy he's doing.
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No one's picking up on this guy. All he's doing is talking about
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ideas and saying affordability this time.
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The other thing, union workers, I'm going to get them back to
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their jobs. All these things.
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And he's just talking about the here and now.
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He's just taking people's fantasies.
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He's not saying a word about how it's doable, how it's possible,
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how he relates to it, anything, nothing.
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And these people who are that age, like I said, 18 to 30 with
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age, who are pretty much in this area when it comes to the future
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or history, are dumb as rocks and have no knowledge of how
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life works. 0 knowledge. And he's just tickling the
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fantasies and he's going to build on it and build on that
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and he probably won't be stopped unless someone catches on.
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This is how the world is looking.
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Why? Because he's playing into the
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temptations. Exactly.
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He's talking to the fantasy and he's not dealing with any
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reality. And they're not thinking and
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looking towards the future at all.
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Messiah Sham is telling you every person who would maybe not
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be as bad as that motive, but who does and lives life for the
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wrong reason is because they never had a chance to realize
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who is pulling them. What is pulling them in their
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own life. They might have taken jobs for
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the wrong reason. They might have said the wrong
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thing for the wrong reason. They might have, you know, got
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involved in different areas of life totally for the wrong
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reason. And it's a shame to realize how
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much of the world has been built on ulterior motives.
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It's it's it's where we're living.
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We have to make sure that we're not that way.
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Keisha. I'm in a effort.
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Literally he compares it to a woman.
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That's the word he uses an adulteress woman.
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I said Taka T Shah Tikaka Zarim while she's still married, she
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goes to another man. That's with the mind.
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That's how the mind is get pulled in chronic Rue Marshall
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voter. It's not as new Talev.
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It's called seduction. Having these thoughts, being
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pulled in these directions, thinking about how I'm going to
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get more power or be well known or be famous or be more well
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liked. It's real seduction, mind.
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People are obsessed with this baby, 90%.
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I'm telling you, I think I'm being nice. 90% of what people
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do get, especially if you're in the public world, It's For these
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reasons, right? A politician in my mind is 0.
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He's a 0 entity. He's completely a person pulled
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into power. Listen him, you want to tell me
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they have they have good motives.
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Are you kidding? How many steps they have to
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fight through and tell me. And by the way, when someone is
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Uber Uber aggressive and extremely ambitious, you know
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when they say someone so seem too ambitious, too ambitious
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means he's very smart because he knows about how to get power.
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He's very clear. He knows how he's going to make
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his money to become a famous person.
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He's smart, so he's so ambitious.
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I'll tell you with the world today.
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And help people a lot. They think something and you
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really think it's so good for everybody.
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Of course I'm over ambitious. Sure, though you're not our
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team. Does this apply?
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What does? This apply to our people too.
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It's very prevalent in our people, extremely prevalent.
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I don't want to go how far, but extremely problem and by the
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way, this does not hold back level of religion.
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It's got nothing to do. These are one of these things
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that can cross every party line doesn't make a difference.
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You know, if you're probably a Democrat, doesn't make a
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difference. If you're let's call a white hat
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or Black Hat or whatever hat doesn't make a difference.
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This is something that can drive you and eventually what ends up
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happening is, like I said all the time, these people falter
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somewhere along the line. They falter because eventually
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either they don't get the power that they want or they become
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yesterday's news. Whatever is somewhere along the
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line, they falter because they didn't do it for the right
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reason, and that's what you see. Let's say just let's say a guy
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gets appointed, let's say president of an organization or
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something, right? And he really didn't want to add
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the farm. And then you see through time,
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he comes into his role and now let's say he becomes this guy
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like. That's perfect, and I deserve
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simply a guy. In the place where there's no
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leader, sometimes you have to be the.
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Leader No, but what happens is do with ABS news, the guy seems
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to change his current and he's used to be a guy now that can't
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let go and he used. To think I was seeing Spot.
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Now he makes decisions. Who?
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This is very supernatural. I will tell you personally,
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myself, I faced in a certain sense the same.
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The more I get further into this job, or more it's called
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control, whatever it is, the more I need to learn Mossad flat
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out. You could be rabbit, you could
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go to Zac and ferry wine and cut the wine now.
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He's a rabbi. Maybe not me.
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Yeah, I definitely I could, right?
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Does I get to my head I'm not it you?
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Know I'm only realizing now every rabbi, Rabbi, I have a
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class in 5 minutes. But yeah, it's like your base
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sitting in the it's like nobody sitting in the waiting room.
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There's old people, there's babies, there's damn is there's
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everything under the sun. Rabbi, sure, but he likes
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Khakhmim, so he does it. Yeah, he's somehow, but
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technically speaking, this thing can get to the person's head and
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they need much and more Mossad after their imposition of power.
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It's night and day, literally. It's completely different world,
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A world of a person without any role and a world of a person
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with a role is totally different.
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And they're much more susceptible to become the person
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that they hated and to become the person that they had no
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interest in becoming originally. It wasn't part of their plan at
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all. They have to be wary of that.
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Absolutely. And he calls it Zenuta lived.
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It's a strong term that means, you know, I of activity of the
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mind. The mind goes places that it
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shouldn't go. It builds a world that shouldn't
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build. It has fantasies as demyo, not
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as an imagination, and it builds him a world.
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And imagine I had that power. That's what I was thinking about
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the whole time. Imagine people knew my name.
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People spoke about me. Imagine everyone even raising
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the children. People were impressed by my
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children. All right.
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People act a certain way publicly with their wife that
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they wouldn't act privately. Why 'cause this is how people
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think. Just think if someone so
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considers me, he looks at me and says, oh, that guy's a good
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husband too, right? This is how it works.
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And people say that people try to Why people proclaim propel a
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perception of well that they don't have 'cause they're
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thinking of that guy who's going to see them and say so and so.
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And he's well off and he knows how to enjoy life and he has it
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going on. And by the way, he maybe he
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knows a little too, and he's got everything.
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And all these things build in our mind.
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We're thinking about what other people are thinking.
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The reality is, and this is the most important thing to think
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of, how irrelevant people are is by far the driving force of
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people's existence. Depression comes.
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You know, you have celebrities who they were, yes, they were
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big deal. And now they have wrinkles in
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their face and they can't function and literally suicidal.
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How this suicidal? You know, comedians whose jokes
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are not funny anymore. Same thing.
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You have politicians with yesterday's news.
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You have people in power we're not looked at anymore because
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we're not a big deal. Sure, in every sense of the
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word. And now in our community, thank
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God, we also have family. A lot of other things that
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become. Opposed to the cuts, Someone
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loses money with a rich person, you have to support them like
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that, Sure. Yeah.
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So it's very similar. To people exactly that's based
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in the same as. Idiots and really helps to pick
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that person. That's for religion.
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Doesn't get to that point. Good.
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Exactly, religion is actually an Ave. which a person can live by
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that isn't fully. I say fully isn't fully busy
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with this all the time. It has this all over the place,
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but not fully. There are many right?
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You have sure which. No way you see it.
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You see it in the holidays during Aeno.
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I believe there any guys just take the aenos because they feel
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like they can take it and they don't wait for the Rabbi or for
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the Hazan to appoint to them. This is a it's something that,
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by the way, we all need to be, we all need to be relevant.
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I, I would not be able to function if I was irrelevant in
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one way or another. I always had ways to consider
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myself relevant, even if it wasn't in the true world or
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community world. I said to myself in the cool,
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I'm relevant everyone. I always had an image of
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relevance. A person's got to believe this
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as a baby all the way till you know the fact that a 2 year old
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cries when her mother has a new baby and now she doesn't feel
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like she's she's an important one to all the way until an old
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grandfather when someone comes over to visit and he says thank
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you so much coming over or you see someone on the side and you
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go over to say hello and you say and you say that thank you so
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much for coming over and he's thinking stuff.
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What I do is I just said hello. They had a whole lifetime.
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No, your greeting of them actually makes them exist.
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We all need to exist. But what ends up happening if we
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feed this animal, it ends up becoming and we allow it to to
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be too much prevalent, become very much focused on this
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existence at all times. Relevance, name recognition,
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power, publicity, Coverwoods. How many people came over to me?
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How many people stand up for me? How many people know my name?
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How? What kind of wow did I get from
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the wedding? All these things become part of
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our existence and it drives a person's world.
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That's it. People get insulted, lack of
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existence. People feel great because the
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name was mentioned. That's it.
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Which means don't follow your heart and your eyes.
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It means the heart, with this drive in mind, pulls away from
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the proper focus, the focus that we should have been connected to
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instead. El hava alim wisdom you not
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cosim. To imagination and to nonsense.
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They're all fake. That's how all we told you.
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How you know a person's friends, how you know all these things.
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It's all based on reality, O mute hahana gorem de sava.
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Someone doesn't have proper preparation.
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And by the way, being raised properly is also proper
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preparation. But if someone is raised by his
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parents telling him, I know the community talks and I know
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wealth is a big deal. I know.
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And my father used to say all the time, he's talking all the
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time. He says, you know, for a guy to
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exist in this community, it's a shame.
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I don't know how he exists if he doesn't have either something
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special or he's well, by this time, the most time.
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I don't know how a person has a big deal.
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I used to, we used to have to like, you know, oh, so and so he
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said, oh, so and so. OK, he's very involved in the
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show. Good.
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That's what he gets it. So and so he has, I don't know,
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he has something going for him to find something.
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It's a wild thing to say, but it's a reality.
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He's just be a regular guy. He's a regular guy.
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If he listen, I'm fine. We'll find regular people,
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regular people actually the best right in a certain sense, but
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for themselves to be a a guy, reality is, if you think through
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the community or through even in schools or different places,
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organizations find the guys, how many of them exist that are not
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either very involved or well off right or religious, You know,
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rabbis. That's that's a great time.
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What does that tell you? That tells you that and and our
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people who think like this, people who live this way,
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thinking this way, it's terrible mindset to have.
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Imagine I'm thinking this way. So I have basically one choice,
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become a rabbi, become wealthy or run a show.
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I got no other choice. That's wild.
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So being raised properly, this is key.
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Being raised properly tells you, you know, that's true in the
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outside. But how about the kind of family
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that you have? Well, how about appreciate the
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fact that you have a good marriage or the fact that you
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have health and that you have your friends.
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And who cares really about how many people say your name.
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It's not going to mean anything for you and it's going to play a
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zero role in your happiness. Not an iota of your happiness is
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going to come from how many people say your name.
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All right, That's called proper advance thinking.
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Being raised properly builds that image.
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So that's what he's telling you. The detractors from having Taura
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of Macheva, the detractors from being a genuine person and
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living a genuine life is are these poles and these
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temptations. And again, we think temptation,
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the word tava usually make immorality.
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The reality is. The far greater to Ava for a
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person to be well known to be it have cavort and there is for
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immorality. That's just the way it is now.
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Don't have to stop that. You need to have two things.
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One, look and see how hollow cavort really is.
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I give you my my, my build always is my celebrity status.
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I look at celebrities. I look at the singers from the
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90s. I see where the holding today
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washed up like no one's business.
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A lot of them as you, the pop singers, you look at a lot of
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politicians in the old days and look at how their life ended,
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either, you know, in jail or borderline in jail and
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everything they built basically zero.
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You look at so many people whose lives didn't work out the way
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they were building their entire and now one SEC, they spent
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their whole life building this image.
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Ettinio and I, they took off. They, they, they didn't go on
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vacation, they didn't do things. Everything was about the image
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and now it's worthless. So where, where are we now?
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Waste of time. All right, you build that
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picture, Timo, telling yourself that Kavod plays zero role and
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won't even lead to any happiness or any results.
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I think sometimes when you're influencing others, you need
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that kavod. And sometimes you are the right
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person, you know, let's see, letting other people do things
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that you know are wrong, like sometimes you have to be.
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You want to know if there's a place we cover in this world
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absolute place we cover in this world and even cover the wealthy
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by the way they came out talks about it to cover the wealthy
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absolutely and you know what I'll say this part about wealthy
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also the guy who's wealthy and and cheap doesn't that generous.
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I don't see anything for Kabut. OK, I shall bless him light
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Kabut guy's wealthy and generous and he's giving and he's
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supporting his the backbone of organizations.
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There's no question our school in Brooklyn, we have pillars,
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literally people who held it up. Every organization is schools
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with clothes. Look what's happening right now.
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Schools are closing without money.
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It's. Opening.
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All right. So it's true, huh?
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It's a reality as reality gets, and the world is far good off
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because people are super generous.
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But it should. I don't think it should be
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praised the way it. It I think I said they
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generally, yeah. ODA little bit because we think
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it's what's going to get us more.
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We don't realize that that all from.
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Shamim my favorite thing there like.
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Right, Shul like a bit that this, let's say, if you want to
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look at this as a business, right, just from the financial
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part, right, every Roshanna, this business has a number that
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Hashem is going to drop to us. So that that's without, what's
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the word for when when you kiss up?
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Yeah, right. So, so there's no need for that.
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I'm not saying you have to be like, and, you know, like, and I
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tell it when you're rigid, when, you know, you're lucky that the
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rabbit takes your money, but you know, that there has to be a
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fine line. You know, like, are we really
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going to call these people out loud, Sadikim?
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And you know. Probably part of.
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It part of it and this was really rabbi, this is what I
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like about some Israeli rabbis. He told them Zelo big deal.
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He tells me he goes zehova zekatu batoa matao.
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Say all you do the following instructions.
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So you have to figure out because people, sometimes some
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of the generous people might be simple minded and they might
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think to themselves, if he doesn't trigger promptly, I'm
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out. You know the old, you know what
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I'm talking about. So we don't, we don't have it in
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actual, thank God. But yeah, sometimes you go.
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Sometimes I have to go to Sabbath to another shul
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something and I'm like I can't do this right.
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OK, like well last night I was at a wedding by a roof as when
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the speech went right as the second one of a sudden because.
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By that little speech thing? Come on, A.
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Kid that lives by me is the the grandson.
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And so he says Isaac people usually, you know, it goes in in
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legit. They made the guy sound like a
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Moshe La Veno. Yeah.
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Yeah, yeah. Was he well off?
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Yeah. Is that works.
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So again, how do you define line again?
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Now, what happens with the organization?
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Lays the machine. The machine, the organization
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become cheapened because there's.
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So yeah, it becomes Torah Cebu. It's just Audi, but we created
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that because when you see how people not working and relying
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on Twitter, I'm relying on these people standard the rabbi,
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someone of the guys was singing the rabbi cast in days.
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They never made speeches. My wedding so that.
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They did. It was like 2 minutes.
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Like 2 minutes. My heck, he was the best
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speaker, Yeah. No, you see this video but.
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Most I didn't. See it I was trying.
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He's the best. Speaker Have you ever heard my
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hook? Rabbi.
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Rabbi hacked. Yeah, well, here the whole thing
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was gematria, the shin from your name and the.
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The old he's the first English speaking speaker right?
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So OK so wedding speech is his thing in itself is wild but I
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don't know why did they do 2. I don't get it.
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Fine I'm fine. I understand the girls side, the
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boys side, and I got it OK. Watch what?
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Now they're going to ask me for two.
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That's not next that am I control.
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All right, you could speak. And the father speaks.
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And the girl. Knows I've been to those two.
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I wrote something, but I'm just going to give it to them.
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I don't have to bore the whole world with it, all right?
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But then that's one thing number come to OOD on giving the
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supercar vote correct. The organization has to be one
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that has a lot of and we're not Hashem because they, these
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people seem to be your source in these people's minds and they
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get a little bit crazy in the heads.
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And if I don't go to this, I don't go to that.
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I don't talk to so and so dude. But just like a business owner
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needs to have really Racham I'm sure does the head of the
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well-being that you work for Hashem.
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The technically doesn't give you an out for trying.
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Or or a position has to be on the up and up every year at the
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honest as it gets. They have to be 1000 percent,
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100% has to be the most of enough.
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But people oftentimes they come, they see my business.
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No one's giving you money. So charity.
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So because of that, you only make money if you produce a
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product. That's it here.
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It's based on fundraising and therefore the structure might be
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did I say it the right way? Did I call at the right time?
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Did I do this? Did I do that?
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And then you start to become over overly busy with my own
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hands. And in fact, business has in a
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certain sense more Emmuna and Caucus MID than than than
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fundraising has because fundraising people believe, and
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I know this to be the Case, No fundraisers.
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Yeah, I don't need any politics in the shore.
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You told me. I say I don't want any politics
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in the shore. And you're smart.
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Right. But fundraising, right tip.
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Fundraising does seem to be the I'll tell you what it is.
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There are guys that are great fundraisers.
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They do a great job. So you say one second so and so
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is a clearer speaker than I am and he's getting more money
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because of his clear speech or he has a much more of a bravado
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or much more of an image of community wide.
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He's getting money that way. So one second, where is a
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Sherman that I must be if the guy's handiwork.
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And if that's the case, if that's the case, then it must be
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that I do more of that. And that leads to swordish smile
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and that leads to giving people cover all, at least all those
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things. What a person has to say, even
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though that's true, you have to say that doesn't lead to the
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result. That's a key thing.
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Result is building the proper organization and stuff like
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that. OK, we'll stop with this.
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But this I work so short.