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Family - Can’t Live With Em, Can’t Live Without Em + Halloween Story Time | For The Dads · Bussin' With The Boys

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  Speaker 1: PT six huge episode this week, but before we dive
• 0:04
  Speaker 1: into it, very briefly, want to mention that at the
• 0:08
  Speaker 1: end of this episode, we did a little story time
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  Speaker 1: something that you can play on Halloween night for the kids.
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  Speaker 1: It's safe for the kids. It's a fun little story time.
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  Speaker 1: We'll have some visuals on the screen that are falling spooky.
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  Speaker 1: You can leave it playing tonight. You don't have to
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  Speaker 1: read storytime for the dad's is going to read storytime
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  Speaker 1: for you. We hope you enjoy Also, do not forget
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  Speaker 1: homework assignment. What values do you want to pass along
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  Speaker 1: to your kids? Will's lesson of the week last week.
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  Speaker 1: We're giving y'all an extra week to say what that
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  Speaker 1: value is that you would want to pass along to
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  Speaker 1: your child. You can put that in the comments of YouTube.
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  Speaker 1: You can put in the comments of Twitter, Instagram, TikTok,
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  Speaker 1: whatever you'd like, and we'll find it. We'll talk about
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  Speaker 1: it next week's episode. We hope you enjoyed this week's episode.
• 1:04
  Speaker 1: See you Ptsikos here in a second.
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  Speaker 2: Pop A Team six. Welcome to another episode of For
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  Speaker 2: the Dads. This is episode twenty one. Right now we
• 1:13
  Speaker 2: are recording on Friday. This is before Tuesday. Boo at
• 1:19
  Speaker 2: the zoo. You're listening to this drop Clearly it's Wednesday morning.
• 1:23
  Speaker 2: You're just waking up. Maybe you're working out listening to us.
• 1:26
  Speaker 2: Maybe you're taking out the trash. Always got to make
• 1:29
  Speaker 2: sure the trash is out.
• 1:31
  Speaker 1: Just got done mounting your wife this cock done? Just
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  Speaker 1: got that. This a kid's show man.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry, sorry, you gotta assume their families are watching this
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  Speaker 2: is it?
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  Speaker 1: This is sitting around the TV.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe you're enjoying Yeah, maybe you're enjoying the even time
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  Speaker 2: with the cocktail. Matter of fact, I do have a
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  Speaker 2: question from a YouTuber Big Dinos Underscore Underscore on YouTube
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  Speaker 2: or maybe just big Dinos, Yeah, Big Dinos. Is it
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  Speaker 2: recommended to watch this show with a cocktail or a coffee?
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  Speaker 2: Asking for a friend? Ooh, there's not a right there's
• 1:59
  Speaker 2: not a right answer there. Maybe you're in the morning
• 2:01
  Speaker 2: heading to work and you're just you want some hot
• 2:03
  Speaker 2: black coffee you love listening to for the dads, or
• 2:06
  Speaker 2: maybe you wait till the evening time. I did see
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  Speaker 2: another commenter saying he listened to the audio he can't
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  Speaker 2: wait to watch it with his wife when he gets
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  Speaker 2: home in the evening time. Maybe with a cocktail. But
• 2:15
  Speaker 2: there's no wrong answer here. We are happy you're here. Uh,
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  Speaker 2: this is a show for the dads. Also, we know
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  Speaker 2: that there's some some milk teams that goes out there,
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  Speaker 2: some Milk Team sixers.
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  Speaker 1: That's the mamas.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe we got some moms out there watching with
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  Speaker 2: their with their husband.
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  Speaker 1: Uh.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe you're a Seeman Team sixer. That is that is
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  Speaker 2: the young man's game. You're you're you know, you're playing
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  Speaker 2: for the love of the sport. The leader, your leader
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  Speaker 2: for Seemen Team six is Chef Jack. He is a producer.
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  Speaker 1: In the back.
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  Speaker 2: We got the goom berets or you're just you know,
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  Speaker 2: they keep you on your toes. Yeah, that's the young
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  Speaker 2: generation right there. You don't know what they might tune
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  Speaker 2: in for the dads.
• 2:47
  Speaker 1: They might not. They're they're chasing, they're out, they're chasing.
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  Speaker 1: They might listen while they're playing Rocket League or call
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  Speaker 1: a dude.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, something like that, or trying to troll or
• 2:58
  Speaker 2: drop memes on the Internet or something swag or something yeah,
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  Speaker 2: something like that. And then you got the Papa Team sixers.
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  Speaker 2: That's the that's the dad military, that's the dad army.
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  Speaker 2: Matter of fact, there is a call to action right now.
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  Speaker 2: We are pressuring Ollipop to make a pop a drink
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  Speaker 2: six drink because they are a new sponsor of our
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  Speaker 2: show and we love Ollipop. If you listened to us
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  Speaker 2: last week, we went on like a five minute segment
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  Speaker 2: about Ollipop. My favorite is grape Shirm's ripping the vintage
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  Speaker 2: cold of there. I personally again, if you weren't listening
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  Speaker 2: last week, Ollipop grape is a top three drink in
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  Speaker 2: my life. Classic grape, classic grape, Ollipop, classic grape. When
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  Speaker 2: I got my little gas station runs in the evening
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  Speaker 2: times every now and then, it's an ali it's for
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  Speaker 2: an ollipop grape yep, and for a little bit in
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  Speaker 2: the old lip. Yeah, you know what I mean. Get
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  Speaker 2: ready to play some pubg with the boys.
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  Speaker 1: What do we got man? What's uh? What's new with you?
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  Speaker 1: We got a lot to cover on this ship. We
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  Speaker 1: we actually do have a ton to cover. I we
• 4:01
  Speaker 1: were talking before the show. I do have a public
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  Speaker 1: apology that I just got one to knock out. A
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  Speaker 1: public apology, public apology PSA. I just want to get
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  Speaker 1: it out of the way and then that way we
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  Speaker 1: can dive into comments and we can talk and catch
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  Speaker 1: up about everything, but.
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  Speaker 2: I public apology, public apologies truly Forrat Stafford, Fat Stafford,
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  Speaker 2: Willie one shelf over here. Yes, let new dads know
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  Speaker 2: before you hit the public apology, what dads can be expecting,
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  Speaker 2: or moms, or you just love listening to the boys,
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  Speaker 2: maybe you love some dad talk.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe you're not a father yet.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, tell them what they can expect to hear in
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  Speaker 2: our episodes before your public apology.
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  Speaker 1: Before the public apology. Here's a really good breakdown of
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  Speaker 1: the show. You're new, you just clicked on this things
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  Speaker 1: you could potentially see. You could potentially see Willy one
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  Speaker 1: shelf over here, Will Compton or Fat Stafford, Sherman Young
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  Speaker 1: over here, bawling our eyes out, talking about how much
• 4:55
  Speaker 1: we love our daughters, maybe reading a comment for one
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  Speaker 1: of our listeners about how much they love their kids.
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  Speaker 1: Vulnerable comments have been coming in, ye, vulnerable comments. But
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  Speaker 1: then let's then turn the knob and maybe two minutes
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  Speaker 1: later we're talking about mounting our wives. We're giggling, we're farting, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we're the highs and lows of fathers, the highs and
• 5:16
  Speaker 1: lows of fatherhood. Yeah. And then quickly followed by h
• 5:20
  Speaker 1: hey kids show, let's tone it down. What are we doing?
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  Speaker 1: But it's a great mix. I think I think people
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  Speaker 1: are having fun with it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, great mix of our experiences in fatherhood as a
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  Speaker 2: husband telling stories.
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  Speaker 1: That moment of when you spell a cuss word in
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  Speaker 1: front of your kid, or like spell a word that
• 5:39
  Speaker 1: you don't want them to know. Yeah, that's like this podcast.
• 5:44
  Speaker 1: Is that moment manifested? I like that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like when they get old enough to know
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  Speaker 2: like milk, and you're just telling your wife, Hey.
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  Speaker 1: The m I LK? Did you have it? Did we
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  Speaker 1: run out of it? Yeah? Did we run out of it?
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to say the word in front of
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  Speaker 2: it right now because it's gonna it's gonna perker up
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  Speaker 2: and then she's gonna.
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  Speaker 1: Start yelling at me for some milk. She just cleaned
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  Speaker 1: her plate, but I just checked. We're out of c
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  Speaker 1: O O K I E s. Yeah, w tf are
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  Speaker 1: we gonna do? Yeah? The cookies?
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  Speaker 2: That's a that is one that you have to spell out, like, Hey,
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  Speaker 2: you think she's gonna ask about the c O O
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  Speaker 2: K I S? Because we are out? We do need
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  Speaker 2: to pivot. Is it going to be the A P
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  Speaker 2: P l E s a ucee you pick up what
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  Speaker 2: I'm putting down.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and if they and you know they love that
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  Speaker 1: s a U se Yeah, and Dad's sitting there too
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  Speaker 1: with mom's spelling out. They're like, you know, trying to
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  Speaker 1: keep up. Hang on, let me let me draw this
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  Speaker 1: out of my head. What's that? Oh apple sauce?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, sweetheart, you don't have to spell the whole word, you.
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  Speaker 1: Just the MT sixers at home are like perfectly following along,
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  Speaker 1: and some of the dads watching there like yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: what what rewind that back? What do you just spell? Brandon?
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  Speaker 1: You know he's he's spelling yas spelling it, but yeah
• 7:05
  Speaker 1: and uh. As always we do have our six to
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  Speaker 1: oh one the dads call in the hot line, the
• 7:12
  Speaker 1: hotline that we go through. If you're an international listener,
• 7:17
  Speaker 1: or maybe you're just long winded you like writing, you
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  Speaker 1: can also email us at six oh onethedads at gmail
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  Speaker 1: dot com. That's six oh onethedads at gmail dot com,
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  Speaker 1: and we will read those emails on the show as well.
• 7:30
  Speaker 2: Yes, we play some voicemails, We read the emails, we
• 7:33
  Speaker 2: read some comments. Continue to engage with us at for
• 7:36
  Speaker 2: the Dad's Pod across all social media channels YouTube. They're
• 7:40
  Speaker 2: running it up every week. There's always great comments in
• 7:43
  Speaker 2: the YouTube channel. We try to read as many as
• 7:45
  Speaker 2: we can, can't get to all of them. We do
• 7:47
  Speaker 2: very much appreciate how much engagement, how much community this
• 7:50
  Speaker 2: for the Dad's Podcast has been building. But now that
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  Speaker 2: we have that out of the way, go ahead give
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  Speaker 2: your public apology.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't even know what you're apologizing for. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: We covered what some would say is touchy stuff yesterday
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  Speaker 1: with how we met our wives last week? Last week, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I say yesterday. Yeah, it's okay, though I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what day the week it is. We don't when you're
• 8:14
  Speaker 1: in the trenches, it's just a running clock. It is
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  Speaker 1: the fact that I'm here at work doing my job.
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  Speaker 1: It's a win. Yeah, that's a win. So last week
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  Speaker 1: Will talked about how he met his wife. I talked
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  Speaker 1: about how I met my wife, the moment that I
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  Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, this is going to be
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  Speaker 1: my wife. I'm in love with her. Will I pretty
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  Speaker 1: much got everything wrong during that segment. Did you really? Oh? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Coach Jill set me down and have me watching tape
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  Speaker 1: coach Saban. She was like, what the fuck are you
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  Speaker 1: talking about here? Heavy cream and a lollipop? Are you crazy?
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  Speaker 1: And if we want, we can pause, roll the tape,
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  Speaker 1: welcome back. So I said that her actual drink that
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  Speaker 1: she made not because she was trying to be held
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  Speaker 1: the will, because she was diagnosed with gestational diabetes during
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  Speaker 1: pregnancy is the reason she made this drink. She is
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  Speaker 1: not a psychopath. And I quote Chabanni sweet creamer with
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  Speaker 1: lollipop banana cream was her drink. So let me say
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  Speaker 1: that again, not heavy cream. We're talking Chabanni sweet creamer
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  Speaker 1: mixed with banana cream. Ollipop is a nice little sweet
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  Speaker 1: treat that you can drink when you're diabetic. End of quote.
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  Speaker 1: There sherman, are you done with your public apology? I'm
• 9:37
  Speaker 1: not done with my public apology.
• 9:39
  Speaker 2: I'm out to kind of get a kind of get
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  Speaker 2: a clease and just throwing a question when you're getting
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  Speaker 2: this coaching. Are you sitting there being like I was
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  Speaker 2: barely off with the heavy cream part and I still
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  Speaker 2: said ollipop, thank.
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  Speaker 1: You, thank you. I mean, if we're really gonna dissect it, honey,
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  Speaker 1: I'm hitting all the things I ran the route. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: I didn't turn to the outside. Maybe I didn't turn
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  Speaker 1: to the sideline. Maybe I turned inside, but the corner
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  Speaker 1: was gonna take away a one yard. I didn't get
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  Speaker 1: all the depth I needed. Yeah, twelve back to ten.
• 10:13
  Speaker 1: Maybe I went eleven back to nine. But you know
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  Speaker 1: I ran the damn route. Dude. We were we were
• 10:21
  Speaker 1: watching the episode, and I truly felt like I was
• 10:24
  Speaker 1: in a film room. We're just laying in bed at
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  Speaker 1: such a sweet moment. I'm like, oh, hey, wife, you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna love this. I was waxing poetic about her. I
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  Speaker 1: love her. She go all, honey, yeah, he told the story.
• 10:36
  Speaker 3: I didn't get two hot dogs.
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  Speaker 1: What are you talking about? Run that day? Welcome back.
• 10:45
  Speaker 1: My wife, Jill Young didn't order two hot dogs. She
• 10:49
  Speaker 1: ordered two beers in a hot dog. Will two beers
• 10:52
  Speaker 1: and a hot dog? Asked me, Is it okay if
• 10:54
  Speaker 1: I get two beers? I said, yeah, honey, that'd be great.
• 10:57
  Speaker 1: Oh I two beers and a hot dog. We got
• 10:59
  Speaker 1: that cleared up. Thank god. It wasn't too hot dogs.
• 11:02
  Speaker 1: It was two beers. It wasn't too hot dogs and
• 11:04
  Speaker 1: a beer. It was two beers and a hot dog. Okay,
• 11:07
  Speaker 1: what am I thinking? I don't know, bro, you got
• 11:10
  Speaker 1: to fucking dial it in. I'm a bad husband, I'm
• 11:13
  Speaker 1: a bad dad. The details are tough on this show man. Yeah,
• 11:18
  Speaker 1: tro hit me up, but it's I try and keep it,
• 11:21
  Speaker 1: you know, I'll try and love her from afar. When
• 11:23
  Speaker 1: she's talking to me about before the dad's details, she'll
• 11:25
  Speaker 1: tell me, honey, we don't have a nuna. You've said
• 11:31
  Speaker 1: it twice.
• 11:31
  Speaker 2: Now on the show. We don't have a nuna. I
• 11:34
  Speaker 2: can't even tell you the one that we got. But
• 11:36
  Speaker 2: I'm just like, it seems similar, Like nudas are nice.
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  Speaker 1: You've brought up to me. You've come up to you
• 11:41
  Speaker 1: and go, now, which one is the I know you
• 11:44
  Speaker 1: you have the nuna, but like there's the duna, right,
• 11:47
  Speaker 1: I don't have the duna though, right, you're asking me
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  Speaker 1: what I'm asking you. I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: She even hit me up and she's like, hey, I
• 11:57
  Speaker 2: was listening for the Dads last week. I see you
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  Speaker 2: shared my DM. I'm like, yeah, kind of giggling.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: We didn't have too much conversation half of it. I'm
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  Speaker 2: just like, that's what happened.
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  Speaker 1: Did he follow up? No? Where she was driving? She's in.
• 12:13
  Speaker 2: She's in London right now, right so they were going
• 12:16
  Speaker 2: to the airport. She was just kind of you know,
• 12:17
  Speaker 2: we're talking about the morning that they had. We'll get
• 12:19
  Speaker 2: in all. We'll get into that. We'll get into it.
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  Speaker 2: But I kind of kept her at a distance, like
• 12:23
  Speaker 2: you know, anytime she's like I was listening for the ads,
• 12:25
  Speaker 2: I'm thinking, here we.
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  Speaker 1: Go, what detail did I miss this time?
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  Speaker 2: But fortunately it was more of like, see you shared
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  Speaker 2: the the DM that I said. I'm like, that's our
• 12:33
  Speaker 2: love story, sweetheart.
• 12:34
  Speaker 1: That's our love Was she wearing a Pro Bowl hat?
• 12:37
  Speaker 1: Are we sure it was a Pro Bowl hat?
• 12:38
  Speaker 2: Positive? It was a probo positive? It was a Pro Bowl.
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: At least we're one, we're one for two.
• 12:44
  Speaker 2: The only situation I was in is we're cutting a
• 12:47
  Speaker 2: clip for our story, and poor chef he's got to
• 12:54
  Speaker 2: find the cheerleader photos to put in the clip of
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  Speaker 2: your wife, mother, mother of two, back in her you know,
• 13:03
  Speaker 2: back in her prime. She's, sweetheart, you are still very
• 13:08
  Speaker 2: much in your prime.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not saying that. I'm not saying none of that
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  Speaker 1: right now. I know, hey, yeah, I'm not saying any
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  Speaker 1: of that right now.
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  Speaker 2: You are an absolute smoke show, sweetheart, and she sure
• 13:20
  Speaker 2: she is.
• 13:21
  Speaker 1: Do you see how I waited for permission there?
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  Speaker 4: Right?
• 13:24
  Speaker 2: And imagine Chef trying to put the pieces clip together,
• 13:28
  Speaker 2: wanting to use cheerleading photos and they're all over Google
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  Speaker 2: and I when I saw the clip, I'm laughing to
• 13:32
  Speaker 2: myself because I'm like, Charles's gonna hate these photos, but
• 13:35
  Speaker 2: I can't. I feel bad for Chef because Chef's probably
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  Speaker 2: like scrolling, like he's like, do I use this one?
• 13:42
  Speaker 5: Where she like, Look, I looked for the most respectable
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  Speaker 5: photos I possibly could, which they are?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah? Which they all they are?
• 13:52
  Speaker 2: Chef's right, think like these ones look good, But I
• 13:55
  Speaker 2: don't like if I put that one in there?
• 13:57
  Speaker 1: What is that? What is that saying? What am I
• 13:58
  Speaker 1: communicating to my boss? Like? What am I communicating with
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  Speaker 1: this clip? Oh?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm laughing. I text the group chat, hey
• 14:05
  Speaker 2: who made this clip?
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  Speaker 1: Just like I did.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, Buddy, I'm sitting here in bed in my
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  Speaker 2: hotel room, laughing, just imagining the mental warfare he's in
• 14:15
  Speaker 2: trying to figure out what should I use here for
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  Speaker 2: these cheerleading photos when they're telling their story.
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  Speaker 1: He was such a gentleman about it. He pulled me
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: over to his computer very briefly, but essentially broke it,
• 14:27
  Speaker 1: broke it down perfectly of what you guessed, and just said, sure,
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: I'm you know, I'm trying to just find a good
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: picture of Charro and make sure like they'd be happy
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  Speaker 1: with it. What do you think of this one? I'm
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: looking at it. You know that looks that's very nice.
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: That's a nice photo. I think everyone would be happy
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  Speaker 1: with that.
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  Speaker 5: We sat there and after that conversation I might have
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  Speaker 5: asked Sirm three or four times, come check, hey, do
• 14:52
  Speaker 5: you like just come look at it?
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  Speaker 1: So they're right, everything good, and so we go. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it was great. I'm like, we like the clip.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I gave him a note that had nothing to do
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  Speaker 1: with the photos. Yeah, yeah, it looks good man. Maybe
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: bumped the audio a little bit, but other than that's great.
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: I think it's a good clip. Yeah. Back to apology mode.
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: Back to apology mode. Just to close it out. I
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: also I do want to apologize on behalf of Will
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  Speaker 1: and I giving wrong information on the uh yeah, on
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: the meetup, and thank you Chef for catching that, and
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: just kind of a little round of applause for Chef
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: for just giving us the proper info in there. I
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: sentially just gone the mic and lied all last week.
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: That's kind of the breakdown. You got dead. I got
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: that bra. That's all it is. That's all it is.
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: He was excited to talk about your wife. You missed
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: on a couple of details. Yeah, you didn't lie, you misremembered,
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: you didn't lie.
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: I think the big thing is, like, hey, the context
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: of the diabetes. Yeah, probably was you know in her head. Hey,
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: this is why it happens. And by the way, you
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: got my drink wrong.
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: It's banana cream ollipop, which is a great flavor, by
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: the way, great flavor. And what did I even say.
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: I don't even know what I said. We were talking.
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: There was like a dreamsickle type flavoring soda cream soda
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: with heavy whipping cream. Well, I thought about that after
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: you said it. Shirm too.
• 16:24
  Speaker 5: I was gonna add this the best part of the
• 16:26
  Speaker 5: whole segments, Like, I think that was an old Southern
• 16:28
  Speaker 5: trip cream in there.
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: Okay, great, yeah that is normal.
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: Oh no, you just picture, like you know, when your
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: mom would just be annoyed with your dad when he
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: gets some storytelling wrong and you see it happening in
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: real time.
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: Dust now, Jill fit. Jill facetimed me at the office
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: and have me put Derek on the phone so she
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: could apologize herself to Derek.
• 16:56
  Speaker 6: Well, she goes, Sherman, can he throw the phone around?
• 16:59
  Speaker 6: Is that Derek over? And I'm like, hey, Jill, and
• 17:01
  Speaker 6: she's like, I want you to know I'm not this
• 17:04
  Speaker 6: psychopath that puts heavy whipping cream.
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: And then he's looking like.
• 17:12
  Speaker 6: That with his face covered, and she goes and also,
• 17:14
  Speaker 6: it wasn't two hot dogs, it was two beers. And
• 17:16
  Speaker 6: I go, Sherman, hot dogs and beers are nothing alike.
• 17:19
  Speaker 6: How did you mess that up? Sorry, sir?
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: Is Derek Derek?
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: Can you turn the phone around and put him on
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: the phone? Derek, Hey, I'm not a psychopath. Okay, Hey,
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: Derek has more than two brain cells. Put him on
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: the floor. And I had just showed him a text
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: from my mom. Came out of surgery and heard my
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: dad had the day together, so they were watching the show.
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: My mom texts me, she goes, Will and SR talks
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: so highly of their women and are just so amazing.
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: And when I go to turn my phone Jill's FaceTime
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: and he's like, oh, hold on, one second, and then
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: Joe calls and he's like, you are an idiot.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: I don't do heavy whipping cream. You are wrong. It
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: was the best day. So then I had to apologize
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: to their experience on face time and tell them, hey,
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: my wife's a psychopath. Also woke up this morning helping
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: Burp Scarlett trying to be a sweet dad get to
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: the office. First thing I read from Jill, it's a
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: picture of Chibani sweet creamer and ollipop banana. Uh, banana cream,
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: banana cream. She said, redeem me heavy cream my ass.
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: So I get to go home to that later today.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: Very excited, very excited. Love my wife, Love my wife.
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: Do we do love Jill Man? Oh, she's the best bro.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: And now I can have fun. The weight's off my chest.
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: I can't I can't wait to break down more of
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: these conversations when we get to the the Boo at
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: the Zoo meet up.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: Brother. Also, we are dead meat if our wives ever
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: come on this podcast. Like that was a funny, cute
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: idea at first, but now I'm just like it would
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: just be a Will and Sherman roast session for like
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: two hours straight.
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: You got to figure out, like when they do come
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: on like have some question game. Oh god, where we
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: don't got.
• 19:05
  Speaker 5: A shot obviously, I think that I think what it
• 19:07
  Speaker 5: is is me and Derek need to come up with
• 19:09
  Speaker 5: all the questions.
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: You guys. Just we won't even give you mics. Just
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: give us one mic. Sherman and I have to sit
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: next to each other. It's just one mic. We're basically
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: at that point, we're just on trial. It's having a podcast.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: This is the trial of Will Compton and Sherman Young.
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, got to lead from the front, lead
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: from the front. This is what we do. Yes, yeah,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: I am really glad that.
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: I do have you in my corner always in forever, bro,
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: Thank you dude, you always in for You helped me
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: a lot.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: It fall fast when she was coming for my neck.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, and you just find your lanes to you know,
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: keep a round, get her in moments to rawl up
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: just to kind of smile.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, you know, he doesn't, you know, the old boy.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: He's trying his best. She was she was getting me
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: is something and Will just puts his arm around me
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: and walks off of me and go, hey man, it
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: ain't nothing, man, You know that man, he's all good man.
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: And I needed that. Yeah, yeah, I uh so, I
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: had a week.
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: I had these last five days Monday through Friday with
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: Scottie one on one. Charlie went to London with Rue
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: for some one on one mommy daughter time which they
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: had an absolute blast.
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: Miss him dearly they get them to night. Of course, you.
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: Know how you get left home alone? How have you been,
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: I've been all right, Yeah, puttering around the house. I
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: will say it is boring and quiet. But you gotta
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: love the boring and quiet sometimes, Yes, where you have
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: that peace and quiet like there's it's like the the
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: cons as you miss them. You see that Ruth's smiling
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: in every photo. They're truly having the greatest time. It
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: seems like they're having the greatest time ever, which I love.
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: But it also gives me fomo. Yeah, it makes me
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: miss Rue, makes me miss my wife, like I can't
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: wait to see her when they get home tonight. But
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: the pros of being alone is you have that peace
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: and kui, you have that serenity. You have that I
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: can do whatever I want when Scotty goes down and
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: Scotty's easy, bro Scotty, She's she.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: Is all time we play. I will say.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: Within the first four hours, she bumped her head twice.
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: One was a tough one, one left the lump right.
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: Oh no, right up above her eye. So that's that's
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: my dad. Is that the one that you sent me? No,
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: that's that one's separate up the t that's.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: Separate of the two. Oh wow.
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: So uh here here's a video of Scotty giving the
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: haters a reason to come after a walking Yeah. So
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: she fell there, hit her head, bumped her head, and
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: I'm sitting there record and I'm like, oh shit, you know,
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: I stopp and pause and I scrambled. I'm kind of
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: like chuckling to myself. I'm like this she has to learn.
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you love.
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: I'd love to be giving her some spotting hands and
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: everything else. I'm sitting there recorder because she had nothing
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: around her the first time she popped her head or
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: popped her face. And she's like walking, and it was
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: around the coffee table, like picture this. Yeah, like walking
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: around the coffee table and she leans forward and hits
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: her eye like the oh, the very like vulnerable spot
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: in her eyes, like the bone with the only skin.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: She smokes it on the corner bro and oh, I
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: felt so bad. I felt so bad.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: Did it raise or leave it? Mark? Yeah? Yeah, raise.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: She had a little swolling up top there. It was red.
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: But she's a beast, dude. You know Scott's Zilla, Scott's
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: Hill is tough. But more so, how how does that
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: information then get shared with Charo?
• 22:40
  Speaker 7: No?
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: I tell her the next day? Yeah, yeah, I tell
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: her next day.
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: She popped her head yesterday, she popped her eye yesterday,
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: and look out happy she is now.
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: Look at her. Where were you what were you doing?
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: I was on the couch. I tried to get into her.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: I said, oh, don't don't do that. Don't do that,
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: I warned her. I told her, sweet, be careful. But yeah,
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: she sma, she hits her face.
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: But it wasn't like we had one situation when we
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: were down doing a little vacation in Destin a couple
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: of years ago when Rue was a smaller shoes I
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: think one at.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: The time, and we had her.
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: We got done with the beach, we come back to
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: the spot and we're getting her milk ready to go,
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: and I have a blue booking blue book in front
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: of her.
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: She's reading the blue book. One of us I can't
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: remember who I'll just say it was me.
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, puts the bottle down on the table, But the
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: little coffee table is kind of like kind of just
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: enough away where Rue reaches for it from the couch
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: and tips forward and smokes her face on the coffee.
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: That I'm talking blood had a cut everything. I'm going
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: down to Walgreens up just by giving the biggest first
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: aid kit. Thinking back to the alice, Yeah, she was
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: cut up and she was bleeding and everything else. So
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: when I'm telling Charlie about Scottie hitting her out, like
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: it wasn't one of those situations like it was like
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: Rue back in DestinE, she was walking what you were
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: like the video that we posted of her having like
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: those first steps caught on video to where the Denver
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: Broncos were doing that comeback when and we were all
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: cheering and you hear Charles say, oh, watch out for
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: the table. I'm like, it was that situation. But she
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: hits the table, yeah, yeah, answered above her eyes. She's
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: you know, she's screaming, she's crying. But one thing I
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: love this is actually a simple little dad hack here
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: is when they're screaming and crying and when you felt like,
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: you know, I'm sitting there in loving on armholder.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: I'm like, Dad as.
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: Here, it's okay, you know, kind of you know, doing
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: all this small talk to her because she's like burier
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: face in my shoulder.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: Oh, and it's sad.
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: But then when you get to a level of enough
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: crying or maybe they shouldn't be they're crying right now,
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: but maybe they shouldn't be crying anymore type of situation
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: in your brain, what I do as a dad hack
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: is I immediately go to a photo on the wall.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: You know how we have that wall of photos where
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, when you walk in the door, it's
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: back to the right.
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's back to the right. It's got all those photos,
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: all those family photos. Yes, I'll just say where the
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: photos at? And Scottie immediately looks right at the wall
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: like I can just be around the area now, and
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: I just say, hey, where are the photos? And she
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: pops up with a little smile on her face and
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: she sticks her hand out in points.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: And we just kind of go down the photos. I'm like, oh,
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: there's mom and dad, Dad says getting married, there's your grandpa,
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: there's Lolanopa, And we're just going down photos and she's
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: totally fine after that.
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: Like when she fell on the video that we just showed,
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: when she bumped her in and she's crying. I picked
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: her up and it wasn't that bad of a bump.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: It wasn't that bad of a lump. She falls down
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: and makes a video hilarious because I'm like, oh shit.
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: She starts kind of squealing and crying. But I pick
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: her up and immediately start walking toward that photo wall,
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: and right when I get around the corner, I'm just like, hey,
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: we're the photos, and she was done crying. She's like
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: pointing out all the photos. So that's a simple little
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: dad a little dad hack right there. It's a great
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: dad hack that works.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: I've seen it in the wild Shout out Texas Roadhouse
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: where with Jill's cousin, and this was when their son
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: Easton was like one. He's in the high chair and
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: he totally has the strength to hold himself up, but
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: for some odd reason just completely goes down, bangs his
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: head loud like a yeah bro, and mom and dad
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: instantly go whoo it start going like that, and he
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: just like with tears his eyes. He's like I guess,
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: so I guess oh god, damn it, what can somebody
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: catch me? Yeah, you could. You can go that director
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: or the distraction. Either one of them's a distraction.
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but it works. It does work, And it's hard.
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: It's hard to catch yourself in the moment when you
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: hear a loud noise and not like react like I was, like,
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: oh shit, and go to her and she had already
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: started crying. But if you have the wherewithal to be,
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: like to celebrate and try and catch them in the
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: celebration mentality to where they're still kind of crying or
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: putting their hands together. But if not, a good go
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: too is just find a photo on the house, find find.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: Some close Oh check this out. This is crazy.
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: Look at this little cowboy right here, and they just
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: start pointing at it and smiling. You know, you wipe
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: their tears off. They might start whining a little bit more.
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: But that's a good little dad hack. But yeah, I've
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: been five days with Scottie. It's been a lot of fun.
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: We've had a lot of good times, good moments. I
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: go and get her in the morning, like going to
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: get your going to get your little one, like again.
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: Scotty is eleven, months old, going to pick her up
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: in the morning, like when she's waking up and in
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: her crib, and like walking in her room and just
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: seeing the smile on her face to where you're like
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: all excited baby talking to him, like tickling him and
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: everything else, and you just kind of pick them up,
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: go take him to the changing changing table. And what
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: I like to do is, since it was just me,
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: it's like I'll go, I'll change her and everything else,
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: and then I'll bring her back down to my bed
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: and we'll just sit there and snuggle all feet of
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: the bottle. Yeah, and then they just want to play bro.
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: But she's all about there's a survival kid out there.
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: It's the Little Tyke's red car with the yellow roof.
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: We've all had it growing up. Oh yeah, Like Ruth's
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: big first Christmas present when she was like one or
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: two was this red little Tyke's car. Scotty now loves it.
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: She loves getting into it. I kind of walk and
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: put around the house with it. But she loves that.
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: And we just you used to have like a good time.
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: You sit there, I crawl everywhere with her. She's really
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: walking right now, so she loves to practice and like
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: get up and walk and smile and be proud of herself.
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: She has like this little hand that she like. She
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: like kids like she's walking.
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: We went to the park, had a little did a
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: little walk around a few times, pushed her in the
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: swing and bedtimes just easy with her. Man read her
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: a Little Lama Lama reader, the Lama Lama book. Lamalama
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: goes to bed or something like that.
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: Lamalama Red Pajama, Oh, Lamaalama Red Pajama. Ludacris does a
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: remix to Lamalama Red Pajama. You'll have to look it up.
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: He's got a song for La Malama. But read her
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: a Little Lama Lama Red Pajama book. She's feeding on
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: the milk. You have the sell machine on. You cut
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: the lights and you just rock back and forth. She
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: falls asleep in your arm. You lay her down, and
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: then you got the rest of the night to yourself.
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: There is such a you and Jeremy were telling me
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: this earlier in the week. Like the older they get
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: the bedtimes. You know, once they're down, you have the
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: rest of the night to yourself.
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, especially in that phase where Scotty's at right now,
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: because you can get them kind of down within thirty
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: minutes and they know what time it is. We're rue
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: her being three, it takes a lot more negotiation. Yes,
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: it takes like a longer process. She can crush it
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: at times. Other times she kind of drags things out
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: and finds the angles to make it go longer. But
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: in this particular moment with Scotty, it is you're like,
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: in that easier face.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: If they're doing a.
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: Great job of sleeping through the night, which she does,
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: she knocks out twelve hours, but you get them down
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: from that seven to seven thirty range, and then you're
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: downstairs and you got like, what at least.
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: Two hours, two and a half hours to yourself at least.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: And for any new dad, I have to just pound
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: it into your brain of getting the I've lost the
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: words I was trying to start. It's you give your
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: the talk to the schedule. This what's it called having
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: a routine routine? There it is, Oh, okay, I want
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: to pound this into new dad's heads, having a routine
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: for your kid. Because you when we first got pregnant,
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: you kept on being to sherman Hey twelve hours by
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: twelve weeks and do this sleep system or whatever, and
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: we ended up going with a different sleep system, but
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: it has set us up for success to have those
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: moments of your baby is napping at certain times during
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: the day, so then when you're going into the night
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: time feed, they have their last bottle of the day.
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: I don't even after I burp Scarlet, I'm not even
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: having to sit there and sing her songs and souff,
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: She's like this on me after I burper. I mean,
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: she's like ready to go in the crib and they
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: know what time it is.
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: Because the environment too, it's like all these systems you
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: have around, Like the Twelve Hours and Twelve Weeks was
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: a book that char and I read that that's the
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: system that we use, but it's.
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: Yours is called what Mom's on call. Mom's on call.
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: Just find a system, and that does help set you
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: up for success because there's a lot of things in
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: these books too that you just learned about the whole
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: routine of everything and even just the environment of them
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: knowing when it's playtime, them knowing what it's now time,
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: them knowing when it's bedtime, everything in between.
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: And everything has a cause and effect with the little ones. Yeah,
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: like if if you do everything right during the day,
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: that means that bedtime is gonna go great, and then
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: that means that wake up time in the morning at
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: seven o'clock on the dots, seven to fifty on the dot.
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: They're giggly, they're happy, they're smiling, they're so excited to
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: see you. You put that first bottle in, They're like,
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: I rested all night, I slept all night, and I'm
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: just ready to play and cozy with dad, apps and
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: poop and ushit. God, but I just wanted to I
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: say that because those are my favorite moments in the morning.
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: Like when I was doing my notes for the show
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: before I got here, I was just laying in bed
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: doing it on my phone a little bit as we
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: had just burnt Scarlet. Jill has Scarlet down on the
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: pillow in our king sized bed and between me and her, Yeah,
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: Jill's just playing with her and I'm doing my notes
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: through the show, and I'm like, man, moments like these
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: like this is awesome. But you can't have those moments
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: if they didn't sleep well the night before. Can't have
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: those moments if they don't sleep well well, did you?
• 32:11
  Speaker 5: Uh?
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: We had it?
• 32:12
  Speaker 6: I think it was two episodes of last episode of
• 32:13
  Speaker 6: Guy I named Jack gave you the dad hack to
• 32:15
  Speaker 6: put things in their hands when they started walking.
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to try if you try it yet?
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so Scotty, she's she's actually stood up with like
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: a ball and stuff in her hand, and I gave
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: her another ball. I do feel like it is helpful,
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: Like she's she's stringing along more steps, So shout out
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: that dad hack that was given. Yeah, a couple episodes ago.
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: Maybe it was the last episode, but it is like
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: they just feel like they have some in their hand.
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: I kind of love when she has her right hand
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: open because she kind of hits one of these.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: It's like a cam Wardna.
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: Hits one of them. Yeah, she's like got it going.
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: Like she's walking and smiling and being.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: Like, Yo, check this out, dude. The video that you
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: sent me that I don't think you've posted yet.
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: I have not posted that one yet. Okay, by the
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: time this comes out, it will be out there.
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: Okay. Cool. She had a definite moment of oh, she
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: almost lost it and just regained her balance. I said
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: she got a daddy in her.
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: She got a daddy in and he and hermy dancer,
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: ballet dancer. That's right, she's got some athletic jeans. Can't
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: sleep on mama, now, you can't sleep on mama.
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: Can't Also we skipped, uh, we skipped some of our comments.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: We did we can Joe.
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, let's get into some comments we did last week
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: during the during the quote topic lesson. There's some homework
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: on what is a value hope your child carries with
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: them throughout their life. We do have a few of
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: those comments that we will we have them actually have
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: it labeled homework that will head toward the end of
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: the episode. We do have some fun comments up top
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: that we will recontinue to leave comments throughout the episode.
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: Please just a little dad small talk before we get going. Yeah,
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: just a little dad small talk. And if you missed it,
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: I hit the survival kit, which is things that you
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: need at the house, things that I say like, hey,
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: these are this is great to throw in the old backpack,
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: the old survival kit. The little tax red car went
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: through My dad lost with Scotti hitting her head twice
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: than the first four hours of me watching her. That
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: was especially after the second one. That was honestly, the
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: second one was the video. I'm like I gotta tighten
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: this up. I gotta tighten this up. Can't be letting
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: her just cry and hitting her face like in day
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: one of me watching Old Scotty Joe Lee.
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: And then we had the dad hack.
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: We had the dad hack of going if they're crying,
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: going to a photo around the house or going to
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: something to where you can get them up out of
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: their tears. Gotta distract them, gotta distract them, give them
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: them a little distraction.
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: But yes, you want to go ahead and hit the
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: first comment. Yes, This one comes from Eli Schroeder five
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: zero nine to six on YouTube. Eli says, love the
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: pod boys. I'm a relatively new father to my eight
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: month old daughter, eleanor wife and I are so excited
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: for Halloween. Similar to scherms cotton candy costume for Scarlett,
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: we're dressing up Ellie as a strawberry because she's a redhead.
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: And we're dressing up as as gardeners because we man wifey.
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: We grew shout out shot.
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: I love the shrubber. I love any kind of costume.
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: One a little one bro Oh he ain'ts so adorable?
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so fun. By the way, Happy Halloween. We
• 35:12
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• 35:22
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• 35:29
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• 35:30
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• 35:37
  Speaker 2: the PT six shirts. Oh yeah, that's how you that's
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: the real one right there. This is version two of
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: Papa Team six. You see him up there mowing the yard.
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: Got the soccer ball out there, the house in the
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: back during his sunset. Just a dad and his boy,
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: Just dad and his cub, some bonded time over mowing
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: the yard. You ready for this photo? I've seen this photo.
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: It is funny. This is from Ryan Zambric on Instagram. Now, boys,
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: dad's please tell me I'm not an asshole for telling
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: my daughter she can't take a picture she drew to
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: a friend at school. Personally, I did not want to
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: get a phone call about this lovely picture of sock
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: puppet dance party. I'm reading the comment and I'm like,
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: I mean, what like what how big?
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: Like? What could this be to where you say she
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: can't take a bit? What's the issue there? Then I
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: look at the photo. Oh oh wow, wow, that is.
• 36:41
  Speaker 5: It's a beat just dere and I said, I don't
• 36:44
  Speaker 5: have my contacts and I can't see.
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: But I love how he sends it in like the
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: photos obviously is drawn like that little sock puppet up
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: there sends it in sideway. Dads are out there laughing.
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: Dad's out there giggling. Right, it's a bet six fo
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: joke right here.
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: This guy because the detail on it, the detail on
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: this sock puppet.
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: Listen, if I'm in his situation, we're one hundred percent
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: taking the photo.
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, go take the photo, show everybody. Go show everybody
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: your art. Hey, go take you to that teacher that's
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: been giving us a tough time. I forgot the pack
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: of lunch. Teacher made a big speak about it. But
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: go show her sock puppet sock puppet dance party.
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: I'm personally taking a photo so I can show all
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: the boys. Look at my daughter. She's crushing it. A school.
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: Dude. Ryan thank you. That's a late It's so funny.
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: Uh so funny. I got another one from Alan Lane
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: nineteen ninety one. This one is also on YouTube. Boys
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: brand new member of PT six here. Welcome Alan, Welcome.
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: My wife Alyssa and I just welcomed our first baby boy, Hudson,
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: into the world and wanted to send a huge thank
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: you for the pod. I'm a dad hat. I have
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: a dad hack that could hopefully help another expecting father.
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: Alyssa was super anxious and self conscious about me looking
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: down south or as we say, what was on the
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: other side of the wall. Was how Joys described that, Oh,
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: you're a watcher on the wall.
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, during the wall, Yes, yeah, yeah, you're a watcher
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: on the wall. You start Night's Watch.
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're Knight's watching, or a watcher on the wall.
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: He's talking about looking down south during labor, and honestly,
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: I wasn't sure that I really wanted to look. However,
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: to prepare going through the trenches and that big moment,
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: I watched a high depth video online of a woman
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: giving burd weeks leading up to our due date, like
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: watching game tape before the big game, after the delivery,
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: hearing my wife casting me up to her friends and
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: family telling them how amazing I am during the process
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: was the best thing I could ever have heard. As
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: one shelf, Willie says, fail to prepare or prepare to fail.
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: Keep up the great work. One shelf in fat Staff
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: Chef and Derek sending love from your pals up North
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: Canadian Flag, Alan, Alyssa and Hudson. Oh that is all time,
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: all time. I always stay. I stayed north of the wall. Hey,
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: don't blame you. Jill when she was going through nursing
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: school showed me a simulation of childbirth that was like
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: four or five years ago. I still vividly remember that,
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: just simulation video. I can imagine them turning the child
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: sideways and and just the things that start out, you know,
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: the size of this, then turn out the size of that,
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: you know, and it's just it's a little jarring. It's
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: a little jar I can only imagine.
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: And it was something like char Obviously, she ended up
• 40:01
  Speaker 2: having a like when Rue was being born, we were
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: going were she wanted to be national first, we ended
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: up having to get in a sea section.
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: I always forget that.
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: That's but even going into the process, the game plan
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: was always I'm going to stay north of the wall.
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: She didn't mind that I stayed north of the wall either.
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, more power. Yeah. I just you know, I'm sitting
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: there and I have the midwife going, ay, dad, you'll
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: you'll want to see this, dad, And I'm sitting there like,
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: I did not talk about this with my wife. I
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: don't know if I do want to see it. She's
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: down there going, you know, pushing, So this is not
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: the time to ask for permission. Yeah. And then Jill
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: all of a sudden's like get down there. Yeah. I'm like, okay,
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: I'll look it was dude, damn, Yeah, it was a thing.
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: I shout out. Stan Janis but a buddy of mine, Logan.
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: I've spoken about Logan a lot on busting with the boys,
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: but his dad staying I remember.
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: When we were young. I was probably.
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: Eleven twelve years old, and he was talking about the
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: experience and talking about, you know, just the shit and
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: piss and blood and everything else and just being a.
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: Wee little lad. I'm like staring with that face.
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm just thinking to myself, I don't think
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: I could ever look at that yeah. And so I
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: just think from a young age it's just always been
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: in my head. Whatever the vision that I had back
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: when I was that age, coming into the questions of hey,
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: would you want it? I'm I think I'm just gonna
• 41:28
  Speaker 2: stay up here. Stand scared you straight? Stand scared me straight? Yeah,
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: he scared me straight.
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: I will say for any hunters out there, if you
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: are debating this topic of whether or not to go
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: south of the wall, like the smells that you encounter
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: hunting when you're field dressing an animal, expect those smells. Okay, yeah, yeah,
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: and I'll leave it at that. Yeah, that's all you
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: can do. And for people that don't, I think to myself,
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: that's gotta be jarring as well. That's got to be
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: pretty jarring. Yeah, the sights, the sounds, and the smells.
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: I think it's hilarious that he was watching High Depth
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: needed four K. Let me watch tape, because I want
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: to say, like people who are doing it, I'm speaking
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: for it, Like I didn't do this, So I'm speaking
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: for what I've heard through friends, through people that kind
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: of talk about the experience that they feel seeing their wife,
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: like seeing both of them they're accomplishing this thing together.
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: I feel like it's very much like a connective thing. Yeah,
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: with your wife that it's your wife, so you don't
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: feel like you don't feel some type of way to
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: I'm laughing about it, thinking he's just going in to
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: prepare for war. Yeah, like I'm gonna watch somebody else
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: go through this where I have zero attachment, just to
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: see what I'm getting myself into.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: I'm laughing imagining the woman that was filmed and some
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: doctor coming in and going, and Rebecca, before we start
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: the childbreadthing process, we do have some students here today
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: for research purposes. Would you be okay with us filming
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: this today? And how in the world did she say
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: yes to that? Yeah? And then you have Rando over
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: there with the camquarder just zoomed in. Hang on, let's
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: get to cover up on it. Oh, zoom in. Yeah,
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: Derek said, get the boom mic going if y'all can
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: see him. All right, let's get another one here for safety. Please. Hey,
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: that was perfect, Rebecca. We're just gonna do it one
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: more time.
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey, Doc, We're gonna needed to stop right here.
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: We got to reset a lens. We gotta get a
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: different lens. Rebecca, can you stop pushing for a second.
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: Talent is really loud by the way we're taking shots.
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: Are we okay with that? But yes? That was that
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: was mine? So here we go.
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: John Lewis sixty six seventy six on YouTube. Just found
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: out I'll be going to beat six on July seventh
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: next year. Boys shooting for that independence.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: Baby. Hey, that's a shout out, John Lewis.
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: I got another one here from Ty Chef Chefnisky Chefnisky. Yeah, Shafniskey, Oh,
• 44:01
  Speaker 2: Shafnisky shaf Niskey. Just finished listening today's pod Love the
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: callings made me think about how blessed I am to
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: have got my little girl's first word on camera. Hoping
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: baby Scarlet can give shirm a moment like I just ah,
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: we're hoping, Ty.
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: I'm jealous, dude, I'm jealous. This one comes from Carter Brgin,
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: He said, got promoted to Dad's status today. Carter, congratulations,
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: welcome to PT six. Hitting the trenches with an unbeatable attitude.
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: I want three I want three am blowouts. I want
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: to run out of diapers in the middle of the night.
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: I want my wife to find my secret zinstash. I
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: want all the smoke. I'm ready for it. All, this
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: guy's a sick sick. I hope she doesn't give it
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: up to me for another year. Oh my god, Carter,
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: unbelievable experience at the hostole. Nurses and doctors were amazing.
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: In the middle of giving Bert to our child with
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: the head about to crown, my wife looks at me
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: and says, this actually isn't that bad. That's a warrior.
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: That is a warrior. That's a warrior that I am
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: glad is on my team. Keep on keeping on fellas
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: PT six, motherfucker, that's what he said. Yeah, PT six, motherfucker.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: I had that comment before rouse birth. Remember when I
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: fucked that entire conversation up. When Charlee decided to get
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: to see section. I swear it, I kind of feels like
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: you're giving up a little bit.
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: If I had that comment the week before, I mean,
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: he got people out here saying it even that bad.
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: Also, Carter, like.
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: And I'm just handing her before the dad's going to
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: my read he said his wife looked at him at
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: his one and even that bad.
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: I got like eight more of these?
• 45:44
  Speaker 8: Is that?
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: What doesn't it? Carter on a family vacation, by the way,
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: like couple's vacation with all the kids. Yeah, you know,
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: he's the dad that if anything goes awry on the trip,
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: he's the one running to Walgreens getting the stuff, getting
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: this stuff.
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: God, what we got to pray for him that he
• 46:01
  Speaker 2: keeps that mood throughout the entire process. That's where it
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: gets challenging. That's why we embrace the good mentality here.
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: That's why if you're if you're feeling in the dark
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: and feeling low, you just pop on it for the
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: Dad's episode, just to hear us whether we're pretending to
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: embrace the moment or just reminding ourselves to embrace the moment.
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: You can also get the good the good hats. We
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: have hats.
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: Those are in our store bwtv dot com which says
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: good on there.
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: Just subtle reminders.
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: And tell your wife you listen to this pod and
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: how we embrace good because they will.
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: Throw it in your face. Yeah, and sometimes you need that,
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: you do. And tell her she plays her cards right,
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: y'all mount her.
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: I got one here from brock Brock Weinland T sixty
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: three sixty nine. Not even a dad but by far
• 46:47
  Speaker 2: my favorite, but by far my favorite podcasts that fires
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: me up an.
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: That's t sickol you know what he's he could be.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: I don't know how old he is. He could be.
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: Maybe he's not old enough to be a Semen Team
• 46:59
  Speaker 2: six or maybe he's just a goon beret.
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: Ooh, I mean you know they're still slinging lead.
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah, the maturity, the maturity might not but
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: maybe he is an ST sixer.
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: Maybe he is a Seaman Team sixer. Yeah, not even
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: a dad yet.
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: But but by far my favorite podcast, Oh Willie one
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: shelf talking about how he waited for Charlie to leave
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: her apartment before taking a dump. Maybe me spit my
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: water out this morning, had to mop good sucking mopping.
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: Good fiance. Okay, he is an sto, he's an ST sixer.
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: He's old enough. He's old enough.
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: Fiance going to get home and see fiance is gonna
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: get home and see the water streaks in the kitchen floor.
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: Good good mopping. By the way, I hope she questions
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: you too, bro, Yeah, I hope she does. And can
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: I give him a dad hack? Go get one of
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: those swiffer They have the new swiffer things where it spins,
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: not that the spin he's not Yes, dude, and not
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: that expensive, and you're never gonna have streaks, dude. And
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: when she's like, oh, you did a good job mop being,
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: be like, yeah, I did crush it because guess what, honey,
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: I bought this, we got this new thing.
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: It's super easy. You love it, or you just tell her.
• 48:06
  Speaker 2: I know, you ain't even got to tell me. Or
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: you can say, yeah, what.
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: Are these streaks?
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: Oh, I'm sorry, I don't think I heard think you
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: come out of your mouth from up on the floor.
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: That's crazy. Yeah, hey, it is good to see you though.
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: By the way, dinner's ready to Yeah crazy. I made
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: you a midday latte espresso machine. Bought that one too.
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: It makes sure you have the little one in your
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: arm too. And you're oh, by the way, i'm burping,
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: go check the claws, and I clean that too. I
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: can't wait to hear what your corrections are cleaning. Seen
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: a clean closet? Did you run anything on the front porch?
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: Maybe some cobwebs, Oh, because I put up Halloween decorations.
• 48:38
  Speaker 2: Oh well, you noticed the blankets folded on the couch
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: pulled tight.
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: No one who did that? There are streaks on the couch. Hey,
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: you know the pillow that I never chopped. Go check
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: that out.
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but anyways, love you sweety yeah new ship instead
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: of sheets on the bed. Yeah, I see the fact.
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: I see the face you're making now with the guilt
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: building up. Yeah, maybe you should think about that before
• 48:59
  Speaker 2: you tell me about these fucking streaks on the floor.
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: Hey, that little draward that's bleeped that out. There's a
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: kids show, bleak that out for kids show, kid show.
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: Hey you know that draward that's underneath my clothest hang
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: and sometimes you move my clothest are hanging. I hide
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: my laundry that I didn't hang right there, Go check
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: that shell.
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: I knew you was going to talk about the streaks
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: on the floor because I'm thinking to myself, then she's
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: gonna walk into the mudroom and talk about how my
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: shoes are all over the place. Once you go check
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: the mud room and see that my shoes are put
• 49:24
  Speaker 2: up nice and neat, you want.
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: To see anything else about the floor. Hey, how about
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: he go check out the toilet, see and see if
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: there's an pubes or yellow marks on it. Get back
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: to me, O, God, we love we do love our wives.
• 49:36
  Speaker 2: We love our wives, We love our fiances and our
• 49:39
  Speaker 2: fiances because my man here Brock, he's got a fiance.
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: We love her, we love lover. Speaking of we have
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: Gabriella Sastra two one three, She wrote in the reference
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  Speaker 1: to Ladybugs had me bawling. I lost my brother to
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: suicide in May of twenty twenty four. Since his passing,
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: Ladybugs have made their present and unique times where I
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: know it's my brother justin giving us a wink from heaven.
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: Love you guys and this podcast. I look forward to
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: listening every Wednesday. And I love what you're doing. Keep
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  Speaker 1: it up. Hashtag Milk Team six. Thank you, VERI what's
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: her name, Gabriella, Gabriella, thank you for thank you for
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: shooting in that comment. I know last week when I read,
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: I saw a couple of comments too. Fired up, not
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: like fired up, but like appreciating the logan email that
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: came from like the Reo connection and everything.
• 50:31
  Speaker 2: Else and or Nelly yes and that email. I took
• 50:36
  Speaker 2: the card. I took it with me home, and I
• 50:38
  Speaker 2: let my wife read it as well, because I felt
• 50:40
  Speaker 2: like it was that like impactful, like just reading that
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: and seeing that and just taking a step back and
• 50:45
  Speaker 2: thinking about the universe in general and how that was
• 50:48
  Speaker 2: giving closure.
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: To Logan and the family.
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: Yes on writing that in so Gabriella, thank you for
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: thank you for sharing your comment as well. Yes, I
• 50:56
  Speaker 2: wanted to give a shout out. Let me pull I
• 50:58
  Speaker 2: know I texted it to you.
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: You look for that.
• 51:00
  Speaker 6: We'll just confirm it is from Texas, and I believe
• 51:03
  Speaker 6: I could be wrong. I believe your friend d M
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  Speaker 6: the show too. Oh did he that's my boy Logan
• 51:08
  Speaker 6: or something? There was something like that that I'm digging
• 51:10
  Speaker 6: for now. That's another lore of like people recognizing other
• 51:13
  Speaker 6: people from Collins from right ends.
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, like that, that's really cool. But from Texas. Okay, cool?
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: Cool that then that makes all the sense of the world. Yeah,
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: j dude. JT's the man. By the way. While Will's
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: still looking for this, he does a bunch of like
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: music video shoots and stuff in Nashville. I've been trying
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: to find some kind of shoot where we need like
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: extra hands to get JT invot. He's he came up.
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: To me randomly. He's like, hey, I know Sherman. Really
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: well call him a bitch for me and tell what's up.
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: I just laughing. I was like four weeks into the
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: job and Will comes in. He goes, hey, sure's some
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: guy at Walgreen's called you a bit And I was like,
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: what the make sure to believe one or two of
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: those out shifts. Yeah, yeah, just the place. But what
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: Sherman was referring to.
• 51:58
  Speaker 2: Everybody knows how massive of the Nebraska guy that I am,
• 52:01
  Speaker 2: so a lot of my algorithm is around like Nebraska stuff.
• 52:04
  Speaker 2: But there was something that came across my timeline that
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: I just wanted to say that for the ads, the brand, sure, myself,
• 52:11
  Speaker 2: Chef Derek, like the community pop a team six that
• 52:15
  Speaker 2: we are rallied behind. This head coach from Elkhorn North,
• 52:20
  Speaker 2: he is eleven month old passed away, was going I
• 52:24
  Speaker 2: was battling through through some things throughout you know, I say,
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: like childhood, but throughout up to that eleven months he
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: was a twin. And this head coach, coach Sam Stanley,
• 52:38
  Speaker 2: he lost his son Grant just weeks before his first birthday,
• 52:42
  Speaker 2: which is you know, again fighting back teers, but can
• 52:45
  Speaker 2: not imagine going through something like that being a head
• 52:48
  Speaker 2: coach of a football team. Yeah, still doing your absolute
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: best to compartmentalize with a group of like young men,
• 52:55
  Speaker 2: high schoolers, just like I'm sure the high school football team,
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: like they're rallied around him, but you're mostly like coaching
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: and parents might understand what you're going through. I can
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: only imagine how difficult that was. They went out and
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: beat their rival for the I believe the first time
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: in program history. But they want it, And I'm reading
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: this article talking about highly emotional of a game. It
• 53:15
  Speaker 2: was seeing the team and coaching staff and everybody kind
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: of rally around him and his family. So just want
• 53:21
  Speaker 2: just want that that football team and coach Stanley to
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: know that for the dads, we're thinking about you, pop
• 53:26
  Speaker 2: a team six, we're thinking about you.
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: We're rallied around you as well.
• 53:30
  Speaker 2: Digital arm, digital bear, hug everything because man heart goes
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: out to you and mom and just that situation, because
• 53:38
  Speaker 2: that that is tough.
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: And to go out and coach a football game. I
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: was just about to say that's the most heroic part
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: of it is the great line from Remember the Titans.
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: Attitude reflects leadership. That's a huge part of leading a
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: team is the attitude that you bring in about high
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: school every single day into the locker room, right practice
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: and maintaining that kind of attitude and being able to
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: lead young men during loss like that. Dang yeah, yeah,
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: dang yeah, Hard goes out to him.
• 54:11
  Speaker 2: Man. I know, I know one day, like, uh, clearly
• 54:14
  Speaker 2: the ripple effect with the family and everything else that'll happen.
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: But the effect and impact he will have on that
• 54:21
  Speaker 2: team and those kids who grow up and go on
• 54:24
  Speaker 2: to chase careers, whatever they do, they'll always be able
• 54:27
  Speaker 2: to like look at this moment from their old head
• 54:29
  Speaker 2: ball coach in high school and remember a time of
• 54:33
  Speaker 2: you know, resiliency, whether or not you wanted to practice
• 54:36
  Speaker 2: that resiliency, resiliency, whether you even wanted to get out
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: of bed, because I'm sure at times you just you
• 54:41
  Speaker 2: don't want to do anything. Maybe football, you can assume
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: was the just the escaping factor of getting his head
• 54:46
  Speaker 2: out of, you know, the the grief that is that
• 54:50
  Speaker 2: was currently.
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: Going on with him.
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: That'll have an effect that will have an impact on
• 54:54
  Speaker 2: those on those young men, because I'm thinking, like they
• 54:57
  Speaker 2: don't even they don't even understand the weight of it
• 54:59
  Speaker 2: right now until they going to have kids one day
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: and think back on that moment and realize, like, damn,
• 55:05
  Speaker 2: coach was going through something that I couldn't even have
• 55:08
  Speaker 2: a perspective from.
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, but.
• 55:11
  Speaker 2: Heart goes out to that team, heart goes out to
• 55:13
  Speaker 2: that family, and uh, yeah, I just wanted to take
• 55:16
  Speaker 2: a moment because I saw that come across my timeline.
• 55:18
  Speaker 2: So a couple of people attacked me to too, just
• 55:20
  Speaker 2: because again it's around Nebraska, yea, and they know the
• 55:22
  Speaker 2: pod for the dads and so just wanted to share that.
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: No, I'm glad. I'm glad that you did. I'm glad
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: that you shared that. I am coming off of an
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: emotional high from last week of having my parents in town,
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  Speaker 5: Before we move into our other segments. I do, and
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 5: this one hurts me because he's a rival. Shout out,
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 5: Shane Beemer, shout out.
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: So for that.
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 2: Arrival, I'm trying to think when Tennessee played South Carolina,
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 2: but you're just your shouting out, coach Beemer.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, technology they were in the East, they were. We
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  Speaker 1: played him every year up until this year.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Cox's arrival of Tennessee because you guys were in
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 2: the same division.
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 5: But JP Hovey uh works here at Buston was is
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 5: in Columbia right now as we're filming this for South
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 5: Carolina Alabama, and he met up with Shane Beemer last night.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 5: They took a photo with the four of the dad's hat.
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 5: I'll put the photo up on Twitter. Hurt to say.
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 5: Shout out Shane Beemer.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: You can put which photo open the episode two.
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's what I'm saying. Put it here, So yeah,
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: shout out Coach Beamer. Dude, I love Coach Beamer. I
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 2: love love Coach Beamer. And hey, huge shout out to JP.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: Because I was walking out when he was getting in
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: the uber to go to the airport. Uber's pulling up.
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: He's like grabbing a bunch of stuff and it's like, sure,
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: do you have a for the dats how I really
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: want to give one to Coach Beemer Like that was
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: totally JP's idea. And you see Coach Beemer just tweeting too,
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: thinking JP, did you see that? Yeah, yeah, bro, Coach Biemer,
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: I love coach. They were texting, I believe, and don't
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you know how I am with the banana
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: cream the heavy cream. But I believe that JP and
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: Coach Biemer are on texting terms.
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 2: Yes they are, but don't go me may yeah, just
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 2: knowing they have a good relation.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: They have a good relationship. I believe that he was
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: saying he was texting coach.
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 6: Player texted j Kilgore or Harbor one of them in
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 6: texted saying he wanted to meet JP and that the
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 6: team was like together to get over there. And I
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 6: do believe he exchanged messages if it's d MS or texts. Yeah,
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 6: I can't verify he exchanged messages, so you are correct.
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 2: I know he exchanged like they follow each other, I
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 2: know they exchange on X.
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, we can do another public apology at the beginning.
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah episode.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 2: I got a text the other day too from Logan
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 2: at Showboat saying that, uh, Anthony Rizzo listens to the pod?
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, did y'all did y'all hear that I forgot the
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: Cubs twenty sixteen Cubs legend?
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 5: Anthony Rizzo, if you're listening to this, grew up a
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 5: Cubs fan my whole life.
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: Thank you. Yeah, I know, I'm not joking. I'm not joking.
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 2: Oh my God, tell him we gotta get them up
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 2: again one more time.
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 5: That is so fucking awesome. I grew up Cubs fan
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 5: my whole life. It's the only team outside of Tennessee
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 5: that I ever loved because my grandfather, a lot of
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 5: my family's from Illinois, grandfather was a Cubs fan.
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 2: So hey, that's that's honestly very cool to see that
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 2: reaction in real time. I don't because we got We're
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 2: so glad we got the.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 6: Sorry dropped it like a nugget of information.
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 5: What but anyone like for anyone who is grew up
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 5: Cubs fan, like Anthony Rizzo is like he's a hero
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 5: to like anyone who grew up because it was like
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 5: being a Cubs fan for a long time is a
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 5: very miserable experience.
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: That's more. That message is.
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 2: More for people who maybe aren't Cubs fans. This is
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 2: the weight of why I feel the way I yes,
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 2: because Cubs fans they know they feel that excitement.
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but we got the text.
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 2: World Series champion, gold Glove winner, silver Slugger Anthony Rizzo
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 2: says he loves for the dance and injuiced me up
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 2: because we go like we got busting, but we were
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 2: playing when Busting kicked off. So it's like there's a
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 2: there's a level of of status that you will have
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 2: when you're first getting exposed, like as far as NFL
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 2: guys and people in that world, but to know, like
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 2: me and you are doing for the dads.
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: And this is a very much.
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 2: A niche podcast, very niche, very niche, and it's like,
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 2: you know, Anthony Rizzo coming across for the dads and
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 2: just being like, I enjoy, like I love listening for
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 2: the dads. Whether or not he said that, I'm taking
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 2: it that he said I love for the dads. But
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 2: it fired me up.
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: It fired me up, and I just know that he's
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: listening to this right now. Going, guys, stop at how
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: Sherman's wife hates him. I like that talk about mounting
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: your wife. Subscribe, subscribe.
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 2: But you know, you know Rizzo, you know Rizzo is
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 2: before that, you know, in that pep probably thinking can
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 2: I get home and get on it?
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: When did I say I was warning? When if I
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: haven't said that? Man, But yes, thank you Anthony Rizzo. Yeah,
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: that is ber and Shane Beemer.
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we got a few. No, it's a beamer Rizzo.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 2: And then also coach drink Missoo head.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: Coach, Oh that is right. Yeah, yeah, game. Well we'll
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: know how it turned out next week they're playing.
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 2: They played this past weekend college game day Missoo Vanderbilt. Yeah,
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 2: but get into your highs of the weekend. Can't wait
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 2: to hear about your family did coming to town? You
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 2: had the whole family here when we were done with
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 2: the podcast last.
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: Week, I have the whole family.
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 2: How the weekend go, talk to us about your crack
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 2: of cold one highs. Wait, it went really well.
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: The whole family was in I do not get to
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: see my brother often. It's it's really kind of like
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: once a year, and so last week was awesome getting
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: to see my brother, but more importantly getting to see
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: my mom, my dad, and my brother all at the
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: same time. It's just funny when you get older, having
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: all the people in the same room together just seems
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: less and less and less, and so having them here
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: for the four days that they were here was incredible.
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: They're obsessed with y'all. They are obsessed with Derek and Chef.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: By the way, I want to give a huge shout
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: out to them for just whatever y'all were talking about
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: with my family, whatever was said. They adore them. I
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: mean they were My mom talked about you two for hours.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 5: Likewise, they're very kind. It was awesome to get to
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 5: get to talk to Sherman's family. Super sweet bunch, like
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 5: exactly what you'd hope for whenever you know you're meeting
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 5: someone that you work with or friend's family, it's always like, oh, well,
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 5: sue happens, and they were, you know, exceeded expectations.
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: I don't know, Derek. The only thing I'll say.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 6: The two stories that came up is your dad like
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 6: was coming up and I went for a mister young
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 6: and he goes Sherman and I was like, that's why
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 6: he's a junior, Like got it, like Sherman.
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: So instantly your.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 6: Dad like all, oh yes, all veil of being a
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 6: dad is gone, Like your dad's the coolest. And then
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 6: shout out your brother for wearing Nike Monarchs because I
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 6: felt it he did. They were the cleanest pair of
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 6: Nike Monarchs I ever did see. And I was like,
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 6: that's for the dads if I've ever seen it.
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: He did. He was rocking up brand new monarchs. I
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: did notice that we got.
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 2: To get us a pair like I have a dirty
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 2: stained pair, which I know plays. Yeah, but we gotta
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 2: get some fresh monarchs going on again.
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we gotta get that gun and the uh was
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: it the five to five sixes? The Newbies a new Balance? Yeah? Yeah?
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: Is it the the the like the original that we're
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: talking about? The dad?
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yes, we're talking like he's like, yeah, you're
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 2: probably talking five five I got five fifty, but this
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 2: ain't the dad.
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: That's not the dad collects. Yeah, then five five sixes
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: you mow the lawn and some five five seas you
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: mean bit? Yeah, but yes, my brother. Was that my
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: first or my brother's first time meeting you? I think so.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: I believe so.
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 2: I was kind of handling it like i'd seen him again. Yes,
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 2: but I think that was the first time meeting him. Yeah, yes,
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 2: I think so too.
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: But he was elated, and uh it got brought up
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: because we talked about in last week's episode the track
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: days and the shot put and uh, my, my brother
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: he fixates, he ruminates on things. Yeah, he brought up
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: four or five times, just going sure, I don't I
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: don't think Will knows how athletic you really were. I uh,
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: I just don't know if he'd know. And it's fine,
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: it's fine, but I just don't think he really understands
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: how fast you really were. I don't think. I don't
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: think I do. I don't think I get it. Hey,
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: I couldn't prove it to you. I'm not in the
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: I'm not in the state that I could prove it
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: to you. But I just thought that that was so
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: funny that my brother was like, I got to prove
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: to Will Compton.
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 2: That he's like, he's there tape my Yeah, there's probably
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 2: some tape out. We got to get some tape. We'll
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 2: get some tape. We'll get some tape.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: But that was his one g takeaway is that he
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: is sorry that he came to my defense so strongly
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: in that conversation. Oh yeah, I didn't think anything of it.
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: I loved it. And my mom sweeps in with the
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: ultimate segue and I love chef, but oh I feel
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: bad for his volunteers. Yeah, and it just shifted. I'm
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: hardy bring that. I did not mean that in about
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: your mom's funny sweetheart. Bro It hurt people, hurt people.
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: Your mom's such a sweetheart too.
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 2: She and I'm in a couple convos with her, and
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 2: I'm feeling like I'm feeling like she's wanted to talk,
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 2: like not talk ball with me, but kind of show
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 2: that she can talk some ball. And she's like talking
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 2: about Bam and everything else can kind of just she
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 2: can just kind of grinning and smiling about it, and
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 2: no one's like she wants to she wants to let
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 2: me know that she knows what's going on, that she knows.
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: Ball I will. This is the last thing I say
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: about because it was a funny moment. But we watched
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: the Alabama Tennessee game together and after the pick six
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: she was shouting. We had to tell her to be
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: quiet because Scarlett was sleeping because she was screaming at
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: the top of her lungs. And she goes, sorry, Chef,
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: exactly like that, So you have I'm just saying, you
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: have all the right in the world that if the
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: tides turned and y'all beat Bama, you can take a
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: shot at Miss Amy. I won't. That's what you get
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: to do when you win, just like last year.
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 5: That's on the field. I was like, that's you. That's
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 5: why you love the game. Yeah, it's because when you win,
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 5: you get to be on top of the world. When
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 5: you lose, everything doesn't matter, like life sucks well.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: And that's why I'm saying, when you do win, you
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: have a free pass. You can take a shot at
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: miss Miss Amy is too sweet. I can't number text Hey,
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: it's part of the game. Can't hear what you're saying now,
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: can I? Hey? Love working with your son, though I
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: have a good one. I have a good one. But yeah,
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: the week the weekend was great. It was just a reminder,
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: it is uh for any parents out there that you
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: are in a town starting a family that is far
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: separate away from like your core family or maybe your cousins,
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: your aunts, et cetera, make sure to prioritize that time
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 1: with your family, because God, lea needed that. Like I
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: wouldn't even call it a reset, but just like a
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: refreshing of just having family around and just like, oh,
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: there's something so great about it. Dude. Yeah, it was
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: really really good and just.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 2: A reminder too that those times are precious because you
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 2: just don't know how many you're gonna have.
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: Yes, dude, when y'all were talking about that was out
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: on the bus when you were talking about the mathematical
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: equation of how.
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, there's like a graph out there, I know, the
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 2: Five Types of Wealth by sa Heel Bloom. Yes, book,
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 2: he's got the graphs in there of how much you
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 2: see your kids, like you know, when they're born and
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 2: when they're in high school and how it starts to
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 2: take off in college and when they live on their
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 2: own and start a family.
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's just it's crazy to visually see it.
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 2: Yes, And so I love that you feel that way,
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 2: because I feel like those are the moments of perspective
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 2: where just you just enjoy it that much more because
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 2: you you just truly don't know.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: How many of those times you're going to have.
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, anything else from the weekend you want to hit on?
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: No, that was really it. The only other thing is
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: we had to sit at the dinner table and listen
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: to my mom pitched like forty different grandma names, and
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: uh we finally we landed on Sonny that's spelled with
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: an I E. Don't do it with the y. Okay,
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: Sonny with an I E? And so in an Ie,
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: No wills as you in an I E because if
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: you spell it wrong, she's not gonna be happy. Okay,
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: all right, sorry miss Yeah. Seriously it was a big
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: I mean we talked about it for like forty I
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: was like, all right with an I E. One of
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: the names didn't can we just do grandma? There was Queenie,
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: uh buck all things that have nothing to do with
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: my mother, like no nickname that has ever uh cozy
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: and I'm just sitting there, but Buck coz Queenie, and
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: I'm sitting there, I'm going, Mom, when have we ever
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: called you these things?
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 2: Like Mom, You're not even in the realm of grandmother name,
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 2: Like you're just trying to rename yourself.
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're naming a new dog at this point. What
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: And so I put that to the PT sixers out there.
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: How did y'all come up with your grandma names and
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: grandpa names? Because I don't even know if Sonny's gonna be.
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 2: Be it, but I mine, like mine, very old fashioned.
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 2: It was grandma and grandpa. And then on my mom's
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 2: side because my dad's side grandparents my grand or my
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 2: dad's side parents, they were grandma and Grandpa because they
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 2: lived in the proximity of Saint Francis County.
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, my mom's parents who lived h Colorado one point
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 2: in Kansas City, but they were in another state, they
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 2: were known as Grandma Jerry and Grandpa Charlie. Okay, So
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 2: it's just that's what I knew growing up. So when
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 2: Charle was coming at me with like, what are we
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 2: gonna name? What do you wanted to call your dad?
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 2: I'm just like grandpa And she's like, you don't want
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 2: like Paul Paul like, I've heard people do that, but
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 2: I'm just more like, I'm just like a grandma and
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 2: grandpa guy. She's like, well, they gotta have something different
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 2: from my parents, Like you just don't like Grandpa Grandpa,
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 2: Grandpa Alex and Grandma Luisa. But it's more of the
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 2: Filipino ties. It's the Filipino version of Grandma and Grandpa,
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 2: which is Lola and Nopah loves.
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I can get on board with that.
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: I love that, but I don't.
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 2: I don't have a dog in the fight when it
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 2: comes to helping your mom figure out a name, because
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 2: to me, it's it's like she's truly trying to rename herself.
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: Yes, and I just want she wants me to call
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: her Sonny, I'll call her son That's what I did.
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: I leaned into it the whole weekend. I said, Sonny,
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: here's scarlet, Scarlet, look at your Sonny. Yeah, it's your Sonny.
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: Say good morning. So yeah, if that's what she wants,
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: that's what she'll get.
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 2: Did you tell your mom like, hey, Mama, want you
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 2: to start calling me Thor? Like I'm changing my name
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 2: for you.
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: I'm Thor. Yeah, I'm thor to you now. If anything,
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: I should be Sonny because my nickname was Sunshine when
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: I was a little kid, So maybe I should be Sonny. Yeah,
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: kind of taking my name, but buck cozy, Mom, what
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: we doing, Queenie, Queenie, there's a whole list I need
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: to have her Well, that would be actually a really
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: funny graphic. She has a notes app list of all
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: of her grandma names since she wanted to go by Gotcha.
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: I'll get that. I would love to see it. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: I get that.
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 6: The name that my dad's mom selected was what my
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 6: brother called her, and so we had grandma and Grandpa
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 6: my dad on my mom's side. My dad's mom is
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 6: called Manga because that was just what my dumbass baby
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 6: brother uttered out of his mouth when he saw her.
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: So forever she is Manga, which is what I kind
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: of mess with that. She writes it with an L
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: at the end, like Mungo. I don't don't, it's Munga.
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: And I told miss Amy I love you. By the way, Mom,
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: I'm not mad with you. I'm doing this because it's funny.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: I told her. This is Sonny's a placeholder because whatever
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: Scarlet calls you, that's going to be your name. I
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: want to go to the manga route of she just
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: you know whatever she says, Seba yeah you, Diba no yeah,
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: Depa now diba no.
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 5: I'm thinking about it. How common is it that grandparents
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 5: take it different? Because I had one side of my
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 5: family was Grandma and Grandpa, and then the other was
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 5: Grandpy and Gigi.
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: Right, people have a lot of different mall Paul, Paul, Yeah.
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 5: Yeah, now I'm thinking about it. I wonder if it's like,
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 5: depending on where you live, everyone dropped drop what your
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 5: call your grandparents?
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 1: Yes, that's a great call.
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 2: Let's get a little there's gotta be a pt sixer
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 2: out there. That's like laughing and pointing at the screen
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 2: about how Grandma wanted to be called something out like
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 2: something like along those lines.
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, like my mom told me to call her.
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: I don't know, Oh dude. I had Julie my grandmother
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: Juju Charlie chat chaw. George was dad Osh because my
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: brother couldn't pronounce it, and Diane was Honey cookie because
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 1: everyone called her honey, but my brother would always get
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: a cookie at her house, and so he would always say, honey, cookie,
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: because he wanted a cookie and then it just turned
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: into honey cookie. That's awesome. There we go. That's all
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: I had to say about that. I'm ready to move
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: on my crack of cold one.
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 2: I so have a I have a solid cracker cole
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 2: one and thinking about it too, because I wasn't. I
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 2: didn't talk about it a whole lot last week. But
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 2: I had that lunch date with Rue when I came
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 2: home on Thursday. Oh yes, my craik, a cold one
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 2: is gonna be one on one time with your kids.
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 2: I had uh at a time where I came back
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 2: last Thursday, I had the afternoon, took Rude to lunch.
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 2: We went to Baar Bones Butcher here in Nashville. No
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 2: free shoutouts to Barbones Butcher. Loved that spot. It's a
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 2: great spot. And uh ice cream over at Jenny's. This
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 2: week of Charlo takes Rue to London and uh. I'll
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 2: get to the quote topic lesson the text that I
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 2: ended up sending my wife last night under you know,
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 2: I had some vitamins in my system.
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 1: It was just kind of in my fields. I forgot
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 1: about that, but I was I'm thinking of myself, like why.
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 2: I'm just thinking to myself, like why it's all so
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 2: important to have the uh one on one time with
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 2: your kids because again, life is just so busy you
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 2: end up losing sight of some of the some of
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 2: these things. Uh not like before it's too late, but
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 2: just a lot of times you just think back on
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 2: moments where you should have been a little bit more
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 2: intentional to have those moments.
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 1: Because I'm listening to a video of your show, I Man,
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 1: it just made me so sad with Rue and her.
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 2: Old voice talking about the trash can recycling and cardboard
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 2: and high five in her And so I'm thinking about
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 2: why all this one on one time is so important
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 2: because I was so fired up for Charlie and Rue
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 2: to go to London, to go international, see the world,
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 2: see some of these things involving like Peter Pan and
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 2: some of the hot spots in London, the landmarks, the parks,
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 2: the food, all of that stuff.
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And if.
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 2: Like thinking about why it's all important is when you're
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 2: having that one on one time with your kid because
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 2: a lot of times when you have that second one,
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 2: the first one will not feel abandoned or anything else,
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 2: but they just they go the anxiety of that attention
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 2: that they're probably going to lose for Mama and dadad,
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 2: which then makes them act.
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 1: Out and do all these other things.
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 2: And having that solo time to just have conversations with
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 2: your little one or just spend quality time without mom
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 2: or without the other parent or without your siblings, to
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 2: know that you are just focused on them. I'm looking
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 2: up things on why it's all important. It protects attachment
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 2: and their sense of security and feeling when they're feeling
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 2: displaced or they are losing that attention when the new
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 2: one comes along. It supports that emotional adjustment because again
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 2: a lot of moving parts are happening. When a second
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 2: kid comes involved, or a third kid, it just gets
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 2: that much that time gets that much smaller, and it
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 2: helps them with that emotional adjustment of you're having that
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 2: focus one on one time to where now when you
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 2: come home and you're around the other siblings, or they
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 2: spend a lot of good time with dad, to where
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 2: they almost feel part of whatever solution Dad might be
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 2: involved in whenever you get home, versus that jealousy or
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 2: acting out and you're kind of wondering why they're acting out,
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 2: And then also encourages that healthier siblings relationship. So Rue's
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 2: just been a very good big sister and I hope
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 2: it continues to go that way. And I think a
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 2: lot of it will have to do is charl and
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 2: I always have in these moments every so often where
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 2: we're having that one on one time with Rue, and
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 2: then when Scotty becomes a and if we have a
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 2: third one, or when Scotti gets an age to know,
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 2: big sister does have a lot of first we celebrate
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 2: a lot of those, and it seems a little different
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 2: for Scotty because she's a second one coming through the first,
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 2: so the enthusiasm, they might notice the loss of enthusiasm
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 2: or comparing it or judging it. So whenever you're having
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 2: these one on one times, it encourages that healthy relationship.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 2: Because they have Dad for a day, or they have
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 2: one of us for a week, Charlie traveling to London
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 2: with r they come back and they're so ready to
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 2: pour back into the home because they feel so refreshed
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 2: and reset that they spend time with us decreases those
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 2: moments of acting out in jealousy. Why it's also important
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 2: for marriages, the couple satisfaction. Charles and I did that
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 2: staycation a couple weeks ago, and just the way it's
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 2: it like lowers your stress and helps with the co
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 2: parenting because you feel like you had this isolated moment
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 2: together without kids, being young again, feel like you're dating
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 2: your wife versus your rooming with your wife. Then you
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 2: come home and you just feel rejuvenated to pour into
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 2: the home to where if mom or dad has to
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 2: go do a certain thing, you're more prone to say, hey,
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 2: I'll handle this because you've had you protect yourselves and
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 2: having those those one off moments where you're having date
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 2: night a couple times a mornth or once a week,
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 2: or a coffee once a week or a staycation, it
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 2: prooves scope parenting and builds your consistency and emotional availability
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 2: for the kids. Like you'll know as you get as
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 2: you as Scarlet gets older, and you probably have had
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 2: these moments already, But when you have a date night
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 2: or whatever set aside for you and in jail and
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 2: then you come home, you almost feel like you're that
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 2: much more consistent because you don't have this thing weighing
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 2: on your shoulder of knowing like, man, my wife and
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 2: I haven't been putting in time for each other, we're
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 2: kind of noticing it, we're kind of feeling it, whether
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 2: we're on our phone, whether we're watching a show and
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 2: just going to bed, to where you now feel that
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 2: consistency a little bit more and you now feel that
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 2: like emotional availability that you feel like you can give
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 2: more to the kids because you've had this, You've had
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 2: these moments with your wife.
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 1: So again, my.
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 2: Crack of coal one is just thinking on those one
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 2: on one time with your kids, also the one on
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 2: one time with your wife, and just how much we
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 2: need to be cherishing those and being intentional with those,
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 2: and how what kind of dividends it pays when you
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 2: come back to the house.
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 1: You could not be preaching more to the to the
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 1: choir on this. That's one of my favorite lessons kracklical
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: ones you've ever done, because that is what Jill and
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 1: I have been facing the most right now with Scarlett
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 1: and who are Jill and Sherman as parents now? But
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 1: also like we're married and we're friends and we want
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 1: to spend time with each other, and Sherman needs to
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 1: do a way better job of prioritizing time with Jill
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 1: as well of setting date nights and We've talked about this, dude.
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 1: This is something that I do such a poor job
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 1: of planning those evenings with Jill and something we want
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 1: to get into. We're looking for our first babysitter, and
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 1: our first date night is going to be, uh, we're
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: gonna go see a movie. We're gonna keep it quick,
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 1: just go see a movie, come right back home.
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 2: But even then it comes with its challenges when you
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 2: the first time you get a babysitter, it's like you're
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 2: both kind of on edge. Wife a little bit more,
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 2: but you're both on edge. You both kind of feel bad.
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 2: You're like, should we be doing this? And I, man,
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 2: I can't tell you how I feel, like how important
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 2: it's been for me and Charles, like when we do
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 2: certain things together and get our time together, like we
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 2: went to last Sunday, we did a date night to
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 2: where I took her to the Dermot Kennedy concert that
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 2: was here in Nashville.
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 1: That's a ryman and that was a great time.
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 2: And just like you feel, you just feel like you're
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 2: operating so much more so as a team than just
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 2: your managers at the house trying to coexist. Yeah, dude,
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 2: and make it all happen and feeling drained, and we
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 2: can all think about it.
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 1: It all comes out and.
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 2: Certain it rears its ugly head at certain times, and
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 2: when you actually sit and think about it, you know
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 2: it's just because we both haven't been pouring into us yes,
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 2: the way we need to, so that way we have
• 1:24:12
  Speaker 2: a full cup when.
• 1:24:12
  Speaker 1: We come home. This thought crossed my mind, of uh,
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 1: and that's why my family being in town was so
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 1: incredible too. Of like we went on a morning walk
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 1: or like a hike really, and my brother and my
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 1: mom pushing Scarlet and I'm sitting there holding Jill's hand
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 1: and we're not holding anything or pushing anything. And I
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 1: literally could not remember the last time I was walking
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 1: with Jill and just holding her hand and we didn't
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 1: have Scarlet in one of our tests somewhere yes, And
• 1:24:43
  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, what a great monte. And I
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 1: just brought her in and put her armor or put
• 1:24:48
  Speaker 1: my arm around her and was walking with her. And
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, we gotta do way more of this.
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 1: I know that's such a small moment, but that kind
• 1:24:56
  Speaker 1: of illustrates the idea of like we are it's so
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 1: desperate for it, Dude, I gotta do a better job
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 1: at planning that stuff. I have to.
• 1:25:05
  Speaker 2: It's tough for the boys man the planning stuff. It's again,
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 2: it's an uncomfortable to new world.
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 1: It's a new world, Derek. Not to take us off
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 1: the subject, but Derek had a great he illustrated it
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 1: so perfectly of what men were built for. Would you
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 1: mind running Pt? Six through that? I thought it was
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 1: very well said.
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 6: So this came off the heels of when Jill said,
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 6: can you turn the phone around? And she was getting after,
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 6: sure this is what you're talking about? Yes, yes, and
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 6: she was just saying, like, you know, these aren't These
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 6: aren't hard things to remember. It's two beers, not a
• 1:25:36
  Speaker 6: hot dog. And she was doing it in a very lovely,
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 6: caring fashion. And I said, I said, Jill, we as men,
• 1:25:43
  Speaker 6: our brains are built to protect the family from will
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 6: to Beast and Walrus's lions and tigers and bears and
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 6: criminals and bad things. And we, like the docile Golden Retriever,
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 6: have been dumbed down due to the world around us,
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 6: where we don't need to worry about wooly mammoths anymore.
• 1:26:02
  Speaker 6: And so I said, Joe, it's not that he's not
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 6: paying attention to you. His brain is firing to protect
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 6: you from the world. It's just that the world's a
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 6: little different these days. We're not caveman making flames.
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 1: Like.
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 6: He's not ignoring you, he's protecting you. So if he
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 6: misses the little details, Jill, what's what's the end of
• 1:26:19
  Speaker 6: the world? Because guess what, you didn't get stampeded by
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 6: a wooly mammoth today.
• 1:26:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he looks at me.
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 6: He looks me and goes, it's pretty fucking good, he said,
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 6: where's that man?
• 1:26:30
  Speaker 1: Like the retrievers that we are. It's that's really good.
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 1: That's but we're trying our best. We're just flicking shit.
• 1:26:36
  Speaker 1: We're figuring it out. And truly, I'm sitting here going, Okay,
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 1: electricity's paid, water's paid, trash went out, this was cleaned up,
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 1: this is the her car has gas in it, blah
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 1: blah blah, And yeah, I am like, Okay, I didn't
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 1: set a resie for a restaurant. I didn't da da da.
• 1:26:53
  Speaker 1: I need to get that into my rotation. It's not
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 1: in my rotation yet, I know. And it's hard, bro.
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 1: Thank you very well, said very well.
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 2: Said Derek, very well. Said, should we get to uh,
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 2: should we get to the hotline? I got to keep
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 2: it under an hour. Where are we at right now, Chef?
• 1:27:11
  Speaker 1: All right, that's a pretty good pace for hotline pace.
• 1:27:15
  Speaker 1: Pretty good pace right before we dive into hotline. Very
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 1: quick shout out to fan duel our quick. What are
• 1:27:23
  Speaker 1: the odds? Uh segment, what are the chances of your child,
• 1:27:29
  Speaker 1: upon birth going to Harvard or an Ivy League school?
• 1:27:33
  Speaker 1: Would you like to take a guess percentage wise of
• 1:27:38
  Speaker 1: the chance of one of your little girls going to
• 1:27:41
  Speaker 1: Harvard our Ivy League school. Let's go point zero zero
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 1: zero three two seven. Okay, some point zero zero? Wait
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 1: have what I said, wait to have some faith? Point
• 1:28:02
  Speaker 1: zero zero three. You have the real stat. I have
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 1: the real sat I'm gonna get y'all's guesses to But
• 1:28:08
  Speaker 1: it's point zero zero three two seven.
• 1:28:10
  Speaker 2: Zero zero zero three two seven, okay, three zero three
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 2: zeros three zero Chef zero, I ain't send my kid there, Okay.
• 1:28:21
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm totally.
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 5: I'm fucking with the I'm fucking with the question.
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry. That's that's on me. This is what guess
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 1: with the stat your kid Chef ain't ain't no yea,
• 1:28:40
  Speaker 1: you're gonna go to community college. It's like you're gonna
• 1:28:42
  Speaker 1: go Knoxville.
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 5: You wear the orange, You're going to Nayland Stadium every Saturday,
• 1:28:47
  Speaker 5: and half the time you're lofe yes like your dad did.
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 5: Don't do five years like your dad did either. I'll
• 1:28:51
  Speaker 5: go point zero zero zero one. I'll go four zeros,
• 1:28:56
  Speaker 5: oh zero zero zero zero one. I'm gonna put like
• 1:29:00
  Speaker 5: getting hit by lightning, it's.
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 2: Gotta be worse than your chance to get struck by
• 1:29:04
  Speaker 2: lighting gott to be higher than going to Harvard because
• 1:29:08
  Speaker 2: they always use that stat with like the NFL. You
• 1:29:10
  Speaker 2: have a better chance to get struck by lightning than
• 1:29:12
  Speaker 2: playing in the NFL. And I got to think it's
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 2: even harder. Maybe, Right, there's.
• 1:29:17
  Speaker 5: Four kids that go to like those schools each have
• 1:29:19
  Speaker 5: like what a body of like five thousand people.
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 1: How many people are in the NFL. It's like two
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 1: two thousand something. That's got to be it's got to
• 1:29:26
  Speaker 1: it's gotta be more. I'm thinking less. Yeah, forty seven hundred,
• 1:29:31
  Speaker 1: I believe is a student body body of undergrad forty seven,
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 1: A new flock of forty seven under the coming every year. Yes,
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 1: like a class size. Yeah, that that's what we'll see.
• 1:29:43
  Speaker 1: I see what the anel is, fifty to fifty. They
• 1:29:46
  Speaker 1: either do it they don't. Fifty Is that your actual?
• 1:29:49
  Speaker 6: Like my actual guesses they either go to Harvard or
• 1:29:51
  Speaker 6: they don't.
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 1: Okay, so you're going for fifty you either where you don't.
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 1: He may have won, Derek, he may have won. And
• 1:30:01
  Speaker 1: I'll need I'll need a pt Siko to like do
• 1:30:03
  Speaker 1: the math because y'all went too far on the decimals.
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 1: It's point zero four to three percent, so I think
• 1:30:12
  Speaker 1: fifty percent may Actually that's only no.
• 1:30:15
  Speaker 2: Is that you you're saying that's percentage point zero four
• 1:30:17
  Speaker 2: to three percent? What are the odds point zero four
• 1:30:21
  Speaker 2: to three Yeah, but we will Yeah, you have hundreds level.
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 2: But you're trying to you're trying to move it twice
• 1:30:27
  Speaker 2: right now to say, no, I'm moving his fifty percent.
• 1:30:30
  Speaker 2: I'm moving the decimal on his fifty percent. Trying to
• 1:30:33
  Speaker 2: guess because you how many zeros? No, Bro, he's at
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 2: fifty percent. We're we're at zero. We have a little
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 2: bit of a heartbeat at zero, and there's is still a.
• 1:30:41
  Speaker 1: Little bit of hard going down.
• 1:30:42
  Speaker 5: Throw them one hundred to one thousandth which is to
• 1:30:45
  Speaker 5: an allianth, which is doesn't seem like a lot, but
• 1:30:48
  Speaker 5: that it's like, that's a lot of hundred.
• 1:30:49
  Speaker 1: But we're in the we're in the we're in the
• 1:30:51
  Speaker 1: world between zero and zero and one percent. He's at fifty.
• 1:30:56
  Speaker 5: But if you think about it, if you go from
• 1:30:58
  Speaker 5: point zero one to point zero zero one, you're going
• 1:31:00
  Speaker 5: one hundred percent lower.
• 1:31:02
  Speaker 1: Today, Man, I'm saying, we're in the world. We're in
• 1:31:06
  Speaker 1: the world of zero to minus one percent, right thirdle
• 1:31:11
  Speaker 1: one at least something like zero, That's what I'm saying.
• 1:31:15
  Speaker 1: We're at least something is something. The answer he just
• 1:31:17
  Speaker 1: said is not even like it doesn't even get to
• 1:31:20
  Speaker 1: one percent. He's give me the give me the two numbers.
• 1:31:24
  Speaker 1: I'm doing it right now. I'm like, what is closer
• 1:31:27
  Speaker 1: to point zero four to three? Is it fifty or
• 1:31:32
  Speaker 1: is it point zero zero zero three seven to two?
• 1:31:39
  Speaker 1: Calculating it's not point fifty fifty Okay, uh, it would be.
• 1:31:48
  Speaker 1: The answer is point zero zero zero three seven two
• 1:31:52
  Speaker 1: is closer to point zero four to three.
• 1:31:54
  Speaker 6: So will wins, Yeah, margin I almost had you.
• 1:31:59
  Speaker 1: No, it is. It is quite close. It is quite close.
• 1:32:05
  Speaker 1: So what are the actual odds point zero four Yeah,
• 1:32:07
  Speaker 1: point zero four to three is your odds at birth
• 1:32:11
  Speaker 1: of attending an IVY league, which is kind of crazy,
• 1:32:15
  Speaker 1: but that was fun. I thought I would mix it
• 1:32:17
  Speaker 1: up with what are the odds? I get everyone involved? Yeah? Yeah,
• 1:32:20
  Speaker 1: that to me.
• 1:32:21
  Speaker 2: You know, you almost had me like really questioning myself.
• 1:32:24
  Speaker 2: I'm like, no, there's three on one right here.
• 1:32:26
  Speaker 5: You're doing the math a collective look across all of us.
• 1:32:30
  Speaker 1: The argument was there, and I was tripping myself up
• 1:32:34
  Speaker 1: because I was thinking, did you have four zeros? I
• 1:32:37
  Speaker 1: was thinking that chef chef still chef? A second? There
• 1:32:40
  Speaker 1: is he second?
• 1:32:42
  Speaker 2: Yes, Bro, we don't gotta check that me and chef
• 1:32:46
  Speaker 2: are between zero and one percent.
• 1:32:49
  Speaker 1: He's at fifty percent. This isn't even close. Point zero
• 1:32:55
  Speaker 1: zero zero zero one is closer to point zero four two.
• 1:33:01
  Speaker 1: I think we can all collectively say that our chances
• 1:33:04
  Speaker 1: of going to Harvard is ours are long gone. Ours
• 1:33:08
  Speaker 1: is long gone. It's god. Do we want to get
• 1:33:11
  Speaker 1: into Collins? Yeah, let's get to the hot line six
• 1:33:15
  Speaker 1: on one. The dads.
• 1:33:16
  Speaker 2: You want to be featured on the show, call six
• 1:33:18
  Speaker 2: on one the dad's leave a voicemail if you're international
• 1:33:20
  Speaker 2: six O one the dad's at gmail dot com. But yeah,
• 1:33:25
  Speaker 2: let's get to the hot line. Let's get to a
• 1:33:26
  Speaker 2: couple of emails. And did you see the thing on like, hey,
• 1:33:30
  Speaker 2: hold the speaker closer to the mic. There's a comment
• 1:33:32
  Speaker 2: one that.
• 1:33:34
  Speaker 1: We can do that in post. Okay, well, well yeah,
• 1:33:37
  Speaker 1: we'll start turning it up a bit.
• 1:33:38
  Speaker 5: So.
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  Speaker 9: Name a daughter he Willie Oneself and Fat Stafford. This
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  Speaker 9: is Seamus Colin from Chandler, Arizona looking for advice on names.
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  Speaker 9: dad to another. You guys have some fantastic names, Scarlet, Rue, Scottie.
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  Speaker 9: some favorites and they're not mine, but we've got to
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  Speaker 9: a top three and I want to give her ultimate control.
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  Speaker 9: But I'm interested to see what you guys did with
• 1:38:01
  Speaker 9: name in your three daughters. Also your opinion on our
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  Speaker 9: top three. Yes, we have Sarah, Fina, Violet, Ocean. Give
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  Speaker 9: me your opinion, appreciate it.
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  Speaker 1: I mean Violet through and through. I kind of mess
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  Speaker 1: with ocean. You mess with Ocean.
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  Speaker 2: I mess with Ocean because Ru's name is Cerulian Cerulian Water. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: Ocean here.
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  Speaker 1: This is my only thing that I'm going to throw
• 1:38:31
  Speaker 1: out there. I like, if this is my buddy running
• 1:38:34
  Speaker 1: through these names with me, and he's like, Sherman, what's
• 1:38:36
  Speaker 1: your opinion. Ocean's gonna get you. No pun intended in
• 1:38:39
  Speaker 1: some deep water deep in middle school. Yeah, she will
• 1:38:44
  Speaker 1: get picked off. That's kind of why I like it.
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  Speaker 2: Resilient. Resilience, by the way, is my number one.
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  Speaker 1: Value when we when we talk about the value, we're resilience. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: it's number one. That makes all the sense in the world.
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  Speaker 1: But I do like Violet. What was the other one?
• 1:39:02
  Speaker 1: Sarah Fina Sarafina. I like Violet. I like colors. I
• 1:39:06
  Speaker 1: like Sarah Fena for the like. You have a ton
• 1:39:09
  Speaker 1: of options there, Sarah Fiefee. We would throw or I
• 1:39:15
  Speaker 1: had a what you're doing right now? Go ahead.
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  Speaker 2: You're just making this that much harder for them because
• 1:39:20
  Speaker 2: they've had these conversations with each other.
• 1:39:22
  Speaker 1: We're talking about.
• 1:39:23
  Speaker 2: Pros and cons for all three names, and my man's
• 1:39:27
  Speaker 2: looking for is there one that you guys win at
• 1:39:31
  Speaker 2: from those three?
• 1:39:33
  Speaker 1: Violet? Okay, I think we're we can. We can get
• 1:39:36
  Speaker 1: on board with Violet. Violet's a beautiful name. It's not
• 1:39:40
  Speaker 1: fee though, it's do you see what you're doing? I
• 1:39:43
  Speaker 1: don't want to do it. Do you see what you're doing?
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  Speaker 1: A Violet is a beautiful name. It's old school. Excuse me,
• 1:39:51
  Speaker 1: it's a color which is really fun. We've already done
• 1:39:54
  Speaker 1: with scarlet, like when she's wearing some scarlet stuff, like, yeah,
• 1:39:58
  Speaker 1: it's kind of cute. I like Violet. It sounds like
• 1:40:02
  Speaker 1: Chef likes Violet, Derek Violet.
• 1:40:06
  Speaker 2: I like Violet. I'm down to go with Violet. Okay,
• 1:40:08
  Speaker 2: I just want to give him a name. I want
• 1:40:09
  Speaker 2: to give him one name.
• 1:40:10
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean. Yeah, And if you're showing
• 1:40:13
  Speaker 1: mom this for the first time, uh, hello, welcome. We
• 1:40:17
  Speaker 1: think all the options are great, but we selected Violet.
• 1:40:20
  Speaker 1: But we think all the options they're all good. Mom.
• 1:40:23
  Speaker 1: If you want to go a different direction, I support you,
• 1:40:26
  Speaker 1: totally totally support you. But yeah, name or Violet.
• 1:40:31
  Speaker 2: But if dad, hey dad, If a mom wants Violet
• 1:40:35
  Speaker 2: the most but you don't really care for Violet, just
• 1:40:38
  Speaker 2: think like, hey, sweetheart, what if somebody calls.
• 1:40:40
  Speaker 1: Her big v take Violet off the list.
• 1:40:46
  Speaker 2: But that's just for the survival kid. That's just for
• 1:40:48
  Speaker 2: the tool bag if you need it. But if you
• 1:40:50
  Speaker 2: love Violet, is.
• 1:40:51
  Speaker 1: That I forget? I said that?
• 1:40:52
  Speaker 5: Is that like a kind of a nasty dad hack
• 1:40:55
  Speaker 5: that if there's a name that you really don't want
• 1:40:57
  Speaker 5: you just come up with the nastiest thing.
• 1:41:00
  Speaker 1: We kind of an instantly.
• 1:41:03
  Speaker 5: If you get a good enough one, she'd be like,
• 1:41:06
  Speaker 5: oh fuck, like we can't do that.
• 1:41:08
  Speaker 1: Well. I was fortunate is Charle came up with Cerulean. Yeah.
• 1:41:11
  Speaker 2: I liked it off the I liked it. I liked
• 1:41:13
  Speaker 2: it out of the jump. And then the second time
• 1:41:16
  Speaker 2: with Scotti, Charle wanted boy names. So there are a
• 1:41:19
  Speaker 2: lot of cool boy names that I think, go, you know,
• 1:41:22
  Speaker 2: flip both ways that I just I liked a lot
• 1:41:24
  Speaker 2: of the boy names four girls.
• 1:41:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah. One that I'm on right now is Ricky from
• 1:41:28
  Speaker 1: Chad Powers.
• 1:41:28
  Speaker 2: Oh that's a great name, Ricky from Chad Have you
• 1:41:31
  Speaker 2: watched Chad Powers.
• 1:41:33
  Speaker 1: I haven't started it yet.
• 1:41:35
  Speaker 5: It's a good show. Is sick so much good about it.
• 1:41:38
  Speaker 5: I'm on The Diplomat right now on Netflix.
• 1:41:40
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you were that. That scene came out season three.
• 1:41:43
  Speaker 5: I started from season one. I'm on season three now
• 1:41:46
  Speaker 5: after three days. It's incredible.
• 1:41:48
  Speaker 1: Okay, Jille and I gotta start that tonight because he
• 1:41:52
  Speaker 1: pitched me on the show. I need I need to
• 1:41:54
  Speaker 1: do we need a good show. Yeah.
• 1:41:58
  Speaker 2: But so I feel like just to finish that up,
• 1:42:01
  Speaker 2: I feel like I kind of got lucky, and so
• 1:42:02
  Speaker 2: then I just got to kind of lean what the
• 1:42:04
  Speaker 2: life wanted to do when when we settled on Scottie
• 1:42:06
  Speaker 2: because we got Scotty from the the Suits. Yeah, the
• 1:42:10
  Speaker 2: female character in that in that show where she was
• 1:42:13
  Speaker 2: named Scotty so and and hey, I wanted Billy, but
• 1:42:16
  Speaker 2: you know the friend of the friend they named their
• 1:42:19
  Speaker 2: kid Billy.
• 1:42:20
  Speaker 1: Billy mays here and now she gets to hear that
• 1:42:22
  Speaker 1: for the rest of her life. Yeah. Who won? Yeah,
• 1:42:25
  Speaker 1: the Comptons. Yeah, and it sounds like you already won.
• 1:42:29
  Speaker 1: You got a top three. You won, dude. She's in
• 1:42:32
  Speaker 1: the driver's seat. She gave you a top three and said,
• 1:42:34
  Speaker 1: what's your opinion, Give her your opinion, let her make
• 1:42:37
  Speaker 1: the decision. We're all winning, all winning.
• 1:42:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we're all We're all gonna win from this. Yes,
• 1:42:41
  Speaker 2: I hope that helped. I hope that helped put us
• 1:42:43
  Speaker 2: in a tough spot. Tough spot. Fe fee big v ocean, Yeah, ocean. Yeah,
• 1:42:50
  Speaker 2: you're gonna get some deep water.
• 1:42:52
  Speaker 8: One shelf and old Fat Stafford is chriss down here.
• 1:42:55
  Speaker 1: In South Georgia.
• 1:42:57
  Speaker 8: So wanted to come on here and say.
• 1:42:59
  Speaker 1: That new father. I can't believe that.
• 1:43:03
  Speaker 8: My little girls about to be two weeks old on Sunday.
• 1:43:07
  Speaker 8: If it wasn't for y'all, would know anything but what
• 1:43:09
  Speaker 8: I'm doing. Uh, it's been the best, it's been the worst.
• 1:43:14
  Speaker 8: And I can't be more happy.
• 1:43:17
  Speaker 1: I mean, I can't like if.
• 1:43:19
  Speaker 8: I if I'm happier, I might freaking explode because it's
• 1:43:23
  Speaker 8: so fucking happy.
• 1:43:24
  Speaker 1: I I just want.
• 1:43:26
  Speaker 8: To let y'all know that everything y'all do, I appreciate it.
• 1:43:30
  Speaker 8: And every single day I look forward to hearing something
• 1:43:34
  Speaker 8: from y'all. And it doesn't matter. I know you don't
• 1:43:36
  Speaker 8: think that you're you know, you're an experts by any means,
• 1:43:41
  Speaker 8: but you're the example, and you set in the tone,
• 1:43:43
  Speaker 8: and I'm very appreciative that you set in the tone.
• 1:43:46
  Speaker 5: I love you, guys. I can't wait to hear more.
• 1:43:49
  Speaker 8: And uh, go dogs, that's all I gotta say. Love
• 1:43:52
  Speaker 8: you boys, to kiss his big hugs.
• 1:43:56
  Speaker 1: Let's go. What was his name?
• 1:43:59
  Speaker 8: Was it?
• 1:43:59
  Speaker 1: Chris? Chris Chris from Georgia. Yeah, Chris Chris down in George.
• 1:44:07
  Speaker 1: Shout out Chris, Shout out Chris. I'm so happy for Chris.
• 1:44:10
  Speaker 1: I could spontaneously combust. Yeah truly, Yeah.
• 1:44:13
  Speaker 2: And you felt you felt his happiness too, Like it's
• 1:44:18
  Speaker 2: such a true, genuine feeling, but also feels like a
• 1:44:22
  Speaker 2: force feeling because you're so happy, because there's also so
• 1:44:25
  Speaker 2: much suck that comes with.
• 1:44:27
  Speaker 1: Parenthood those first two weeks, especially getting on the sticks
• 1:44:31
  Speaker 1: with you guys, like pubg late at night and I
• 1:44:36
  Speaker 1: I'm like, how am I awake right now? Yeah? How
• 1:44:39
  Speaker 1: am I functioning right now? How am I carrying a conversation?
• 1:44:42
  Speaker 1: But also you can hear it in your voice, like
• 1:44:44
  Speaker 1: how much fun you're having, but how you're also like
• 1:44:47
  Speaker 1: in the pits of hell at the same moment.
• 1:44:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because when they're young like that too, it's they're
• 1:44:52
  Speaker 2: more like the moments are more so few and far
• 1:44:56
  Speaker 2: in between because you're in such a grind.
• 1:44:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like I could off myself. Yeah, there's a great
• 1:45:04
  Speaker 1: video that y'all were referring to. The dad keeps on
• 1:45:07
  Speaker 1: crossing the camera at each time he's like time in
• 1:45:10
  Speaker 1: my life, Like the things in the background are just
• 1:45:14
  Speaker 1: getting worse and worse and worse, and he's getting happier.
• 1:45:19
  Speaker 2: And yeah, it does feel like that, dude. It's just
• 1:45:21
  Speaker 2: the full embracing of the suck. Yes, it's all it is. Yeah,
• 1:45:26
  Speaker 2: Chris is embodying embody.
• 1:45:29
  Speaker 1: I could not feel happier or I would explode. Would
• 1:45:32
  Speaker 1: I would die if I got happier. Next, next call,
• 1:45:39
  Speaker 1: last call. Hey.
• 1:45:40
  Speaker 2: By the way, Georgia Bulldog fans too. Like I was
• 1:45:42
  Speaker 2: hearing a story the other week. I was at this
• 1:45:47
  Speaker 2: I was at this party and a gentleman came up
• 1:45:49
  Speaker 2: to me and we were kind of just talking shop,
• 1:45:50
  Speaker 2: and he was just talking about how much he hated
• 1:45:52
  Speaker 2: Georgia Bulldog fans. He's like, you go into their stadium
• 1:45:55
  Speaker 2: and they beat you, and you're you're, you're you're outside
• 1:45:59
  Speaker 2: the stadium after people are just barking in your face.
• 1:46:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they fucking suck. No, there's nothing better than walking
• 1:46:10
  Speaker 1: in I went to the TCUSU game with my brother
• 1:46:13
  Speaker 1: at Cowboys Stadium and just having literally thousands of people
• 1:46:19
  Speaker 1: lined up as TCU fans are walking into the stadium
• 1:46:21
  Speaker 1: just going talker bite, tnner bite, talker bite. I loved it.
• 1:46:27
  Speaker 1: I was like, God, SEC fans are different. So magic
• 1:46:31
  Speaker 1: Et barked at that same yeah, same thing where you're
• 1:46:35
  Speaker 1: walking into the stadium with little Scottie and little Roue.
• 1:46:43
  Speaker 5: Hey, hey, and look, I'll be dead serious here. They
• 1:46:46
  Speaker 5: will bark at your five year old kid that's walking there.
• 1:46:48
  Speaker 5: Grown men, forty year old men will sit down there
• 1:46:51
  Speaker 5: and say the nastiest shit. They pose as nice people,
• 1:46:54
  Speaker 5: they're not. They're not good people at all. I'm sure
• 1:46:58
  Speaker 5: we love you, Chris, Chris, I'm of course all the
• 1:47:02
  Speaker 5: best wishes to you.
• 1:47:03
  Speaker 1: Awesome dude.
• 1:47:04
  Speaker 5: But when it comes to being a fan, no, they're
• 1:47:05
  Speaker 5: They're genuinely awful. They don't get talked enough about how
• 1:47:09
  Speaker 5: much they fucking sucked either, because I think that you know,
• 1:47:13
  Speaker 5: they they had a rick and stuff, but for a
• 1:47:15
  Speaker 5: long time they weren't that good. But they are like
• 1:47:17
  Speaker 5: up there with like Bama Florida. Those are the teams
• 1:47:20
  Speaker 5: that I have issues with.
• 1:47:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, barad, And just keep that in mind
• 1:47:26
  Speaker 1: when you're calling in, guys, if you're gonna be saying
• 1:47:28
  Speaker 1: those teams, at least give Chef a shout out. At
• 1:47:32
  Speaker 1: least you say something nice. Yeah, turn the tide on
• 1:47:35
  Speaker 1: it the way he thinks about your team. Yeah yeah, yeah.
• 1:47:39
  Speaker 2: I would have loved to have heard Chris just start
• 1:47:40
  Speaker 2: barking at the end of that voicemail.
• 1:47:42
  Speaker 1: Chrits better calling next week and go I have a
• 1:47:45
  Speaker 1: dad question this one's actually for him. Do not call
• 1:47:50
  Speaker 1: the phone in bark.
• 1:47:53
  Speaker 6: I'm begging you, do not call the phone and say, hey,
• 1:47:55
  Speaker 6: this is for chef and bark.
• 1:47:56
  Speaker 1: Please. And so we were coming home from the date.
• 1:48:00
  Speaker 1: Everything's going fine. We walk in and all.
• 1:48:05
  Speaker 2: Go dog go dog, Oh my god, Please don't do that.
• 1:48:14
  Speaker 2: Don't do don't do that. Don't waste Chef's time on
• 1:48:17
  Speaker 2: going through voicemails. And he just has to hear bark
• 1:48:19
  Speaker 2: after bark. Hey, he's a chef.
• 1:48:22
  Speaker 1: I'm assuming as chef we have we've had a really
• 1:48:30
  Speaker 1: tough time lately. We're going through a whole lot. I'll
• 1:48:33
  Speaker 1: break it down for you guys, just like ten minutes.
• 1:48:35
  Speaker 1: Sob story, voicemailing at the end, none of that's true.
• 1:48:39
  Speaker 1: Fuck you, blah blah blah. That just makes me laugh
• 1:48:43
  Speaker 1: super hard. So sorry, Chef, it's okay.
• 1:48:46
  Speaker 2: Like I said, part of the games, I'm just hearing
• 1:48:50
  Speaker 2: bark after bark.
• 1:48:51
  Speaker 5: I do want to clarify half very quick. I'm sure
• 1:48:55
  Speaker 5: there's some fans of Kneeling from the hills that are
• 1:48:58
  Speaker 5: not also very nice. Yeah, I can act like we're saints.
• 1:49:01
  Speaker 5: In fact, I know we're not saints. I laughed in
• 1:49:03
  Speaker 5: a kid's face after we beat him when we beat
• 1:49:05
  Speaker 5: Florida two years ago.
• 1:49:06
  Speaker 1: So I mean, all been there, all been there, and
• 1:49:12
  Speaker 1: it wasn't real one time. You know, I've done it.
• 1:49:17
  Speaker 1: Last one.
• 1:49:18
  Speaker 4: Here we go, Frilla, what's going on? This is John
• 1:49:23
  Speaker 4: from Chicago and I got the.
• 1:49:26
  Speaker 1: Weirdest dad hack for you guys.
• 1:49:28
  Speaker 4: So, my wife and I we have a ten month
• 1:49:30
  Speaker 4: old boy. He does not know how to sleep through
• 1:49:34
  Speaker 4: the night. So we're going through the trenches every night
• 1:49:37
  Speaker 4: about two or three hours. It's up, gotta get him
• 1:49:39
  Speaker 4: back down. It's been a struggle. My wife though, she
• 1:49:44
  Speaker 4: talk to one of her friends.
• 1:49:45
  Speaker 1: At work who said we should try.
• 1:49:48
  Speaker 4: This method when he gets his bath every night, and
• 1:49:52
  Speaker 4: it's I'm calling it cabbage soup. Sounds weird, and it
• 1:49:57
  Speaker 4: is kind of weird. What we've been doing is we've
• 1:49:59
  Speaker 4: been popping up cabbage, boiling it, and then using that
• 1:50:04
  Speaker 4: boiled cabbage soup water.
• 1:50:07
  Speaker 1: And putting it in his bath.
• 1:50:09
  Speaker 4: And now ever since we started it, this week, boys
• 1:50:14
  Speaker 4: sleeping through the night and we are starting to feel
• 1:50:17
  Speaker 4: like ourselves again.
• 1:50:19
  Speaker 1: Don't know why it works, but it's working. So if
• 1:50:23
  Speaker 1: there's any other dads.
• 1:50:24
  Speaker 4: Out there and your kids are struggling to sleep and
• 1:50:26
  Speaker 4: you're in they're in that you know, Todther phase, infant face.
• 1:50:29
  Speaker 4: Still go with the cabbage soup man, Chop up some cabbage,
• 1:50:34
  Speaker 4: boil it down, toss it in that tub, and hopefully
• 1:50:39
  Speaker 4: you get you a kid that's sleeping through the night.
• 1:50:41
  Speaker 4: It's been great anyways, Love the podcast, Take Care of Boys.
• 1:50:45
  Speaker 1: What the fuck did I just listen? I'll tell you
• 1:50:49
  Speaker 1: what you just listened to. I'll pay I'll illustrate a picture.
• 1:50:52
  Speaker 1: We're looking at a Djenga tower right now, that's on
• 1:50:55
  Speaker 1: one block at the bottom, and that being fucking doing
• 1:50:58
  Speaker 1: this don't well done? Well done. That's all I'm gonna say. Well,
• 1:51:04
  Speaker 1: that's all you got, That's all I got.
• 1:51:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm the picture I'm thinking of my head is
• 1:51:10
  Speaker 2: you're in hell. Yeah, you start going crazy inside and
• 1:51:17
  Speaker 2: there ain't nothing off limits that we're gonna do and
• 1:51:19
  Speaker 2: try to get this boy down.
• 1:51:20
  Speaker 1: Will in those first four weeks with Scarlett, where it
• 1:51:25
  Speaker 1: was every two hours, if you had called me and
• 1:51:28
  Speaker 1: told me, like Triman, if you stand naked out in
• 1:51:32
  Speaker 1: your front yard for everyone to see, and you sing
• 1:51:34
  Speaker 1: this song verbatim, Scarlet's gonna go through the night, I
• 1:51:40
  Speaker 1: promise you I would have done it. Yeah. I would
• 1:51:44
  Speaker 1: have been desperate enough to do it.
• 1:51:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, who would have thought cabbage soup?
• 1:51:49
  Speaker 1: I hear boiled cabbage, boiled cabbage, I hear socks. I
• 1:51:54
  Speaker 1: gotta look that up. Maybe it's a thing. Have you
• 1:51:56
  Speaker 1: ever googled onion socks.
• 1:51:58
  Speaker 2: I've heard of onion socks onions and it works, and
• 1:52:03
  Speaker 2: there's like actual bit off.
• 1:52:05
  Speaker 1: I went into a deep tunnel on onion socks.
• 1:52:09
  Speaker 7: Uh.
• 1:52:09
  Speaker 1: You cut up onions, yellow onions, You put them in
• 1:52:13
  Speaker 1: the bottom of your kids socks. You put them on
• 1:52:15
  Speaker 1: at night when they're running a fever, and there's like
• 1:52:19
  Speaker 1: one other thing that it can help treat, and the
• 1:52:22
  Speaker 1: antioxidants and the whatever helps sweat out the fever. It's
• 1:52:27
  Speaker 1: so weird, dude. It's like a legitimate thing that I
• 1:52:30
  Speaker 1: don't think doctors are sitting there saying, hey, you put
• 1:52:33
  Speaker 1: onions in the socks, but there are like health benefits
• 1:52:36
  Speaker 1: to it. It's weird, so boiling cabbage to get your
• 1:52:41
  Speaker 1: kid to go to bed. Like I said, the Jenga
• 1:52:44
  Speaker 1: tower is almost about the fall and just don't don't
• 1:52:47
  Speaker 1: touch it. That sounds great, I'm seeing it.
• 1:52:49
  Speaker 2: They must have been in deep on Reddit because there's
• 1:52:52
  Speaker 2: no scientific evidence that supports it.
• 1:52:54
  Speaker 1: But this is just a floating.
• 1:52:56
  Speaker 2: Dad hack that I'm glad you shared, but I'm reading
• 1:52:58
  Speaker 2: on Reddit we gave baby boy a lettuce bath last night,
• 1:53:03
  Speaker 2: and they're like, uh sheese. Basically, our baby's always been
• 1:53:08
  Speaker 2: an amazing sleeper, and suddenly a few weeks ago this
• 1:53:10
  Speaker 2: game to an abrupt end. He fights every single nap
• 1:53:12
  Speaker 2: people when his eyes are completely glossed over and his
• 1:53:13
  Speaker 2: eyelids are heavy. He went from waking up once overnight
• 1:53:16
  Speaker 2: to now every two to three hours. He went from
• 1:53:19
  Speaker 2: sleeping in his crib beside our bed perfectly fine to
• 1:53:21
  Speaker 2: whaling the moment we put him in, no cuddles, no sleeping.
• 1:53:26
  Speaker 2: He also decided he hates his binking. Now not to
• 1:53:29
  Speaker 2: mention every single time he wakes up it's in a rage.
• 1:53:33
  Speaker 2: He'll be five months soon, so we figured four months
• 1:53:35
  Speaker 2: sleep aggression. Who knows if it's real or not, but
• 1:53:37
  Speaker 2: clearly something changed for him que the lettuce bath. I
• 1:53:41
  Speaker 2: read that giving a baby a remain lettuce bath could
• 1:53:43
  Speaker 2: help with sleep. I know it's a bit of a
• 1:53:46
  Speaker 2: folksy home remedy, but after two weeks of struggling. I figured,
• 1:53:50
  Speaker 2: why not give it a try. This is where this
• 1:53:52
  Speaker 2: family's at, this is ten months.
• 1:53:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:53:56
  Speaker 2: As I laid him against my shoulder to burp. Oh wait,
• 1:53:58
  Speaker 2: about thirty minutes after the we gave him his last
• 1:54:01
  Speaker 2: night feed. As I laid him against my shoulder to
• 1:54:04
  Speaker 2: burp him, he immediately closed his eyes and went to sleep.
• 1:54:07
  Speaker 5: What.
• 1:54:08
  Speaker 2: A few minutes later, I put him in his crib,
• 1:54:10
  Speaker 2: fingers crossed. I washed him, fuss a little bit, but
• 1:54:12
  Speaker 2: gently rocked him back and forth twice, back out Instantly.
• 1:54:16
  Speaker 2: He slept in his crib like a chant for five hours.
• 1:54:18
  Speaker 2: I'm in disbelief. He still woke up for a night feed,
• 1:54:20
  Speaker 2: but immediately went back to sleep. He finally woke up
• 1:54:22
  Speaker 2: for the day. He woke up stretching and laughing. I
• 1:54:25
  Speaker 2: was in shock. Anyways, not sure if the random lettuce
• 1:54:28
  Speaker 2: bath or it was just random better night. But I'm
• 1:54:31
  Speaker 2: doing it again.
• 1:54:33
  Speaker 1: So again. Chop ahead of lettuce, chop ahead of cabbage,
• 1:54:36
  Speaker 1: chop ahead of cap, boiling some water and put in
• 1:54:39
  Speaker 1: that put in that bath, dude, I'm telling you do it.
• 1:54:43
  Speaker 1: Whatever works, why not? Why not? I do have a
• 1:54:47
  Speaker 1: quick bathtime story. By the way, I would love to
• 1:54:50
  Speaker 1: hear it. We just had the cutest moment with Scarlet.
• 1:54:54
  Speaker 1: We take her di'pe be off. She's sitting there and
• 1:54:59
  Speaker 1: mom's arms. She's about to go into bathtime. She loves
• 1:55:02
  Speaker 1: battime and she just gets this cute smile going and
• 1:55:05
  Speaker 1: I'm just I want a squeeze her. I want a
• 1:55:08
  Speaker 1: squeeze her. And then I see and hey, this might
• 1:55:11
  Speaker 1: be what you.
• 1:55:11
  Speaker 2: Want to love on her so hard it's like to
• 1:55:13
  Speaker 2: the point of suffocation, but you just yeah, I love
• 1:55:16
  Speaker 2: him so much.
• 1:55:17
  Speaker 1: That is the perfect description of it. And for the
• 1:55:20
  Speaker 1: non dad listeners out there, or the non parent listeners,
• 1:55:23
  Speaker 1: you might not understand this next part. I might get
• 1:55:26
  Speaker 1: I might get some flack for this. Sorry to me.
• 1:55:30
  Speaker 1: I see, I see her a little butt, and I'm
• 1:55:33
  Speaker 1: just like, this little little booty, What is going on?
• 1:55:38
  Speaker 1: She's just this little thing. And I go in and
• 1:55:40
  Speaker 1: I go, oh, I could almost pinch that butt to
• 1:55:42
  Speaker 1: make Jill laugh. And when I go in, like it
• 1:55:46
  Speaker 1: was on cue dude, shotgun of poop, shotgun of poop
• 1:55:53
  Speaker 1: on you on my hand all over like Jill's arm.
• 1:55:58
  Speaker 1: But will I'm talking Mike bait like shotgun blasts you
• 1:56:03
  Speaker 1: pass my face we were centimeters away from like, I
• 1:56:10
  Speaker 1: never want to touch Scarlett again. Don't even look at me.
• 1:56:15
  Speaker 2: That's when that pisces you off and you want them
• 1:56:17
  Speaker 2: to know some way, somehow that hey, I'm mad at you.
• 1:56:20
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah. And five seconds later, of course we like
• 1:56:24
  Speaker 1: have her in the bath and she's like, ah, cause
• 1:56:27
  Speaker 1: she's laughing. Now it's all funny games. Now he's shitting
• 1:56:31
  Speaker 1: on Natty. He shitting on Mama. That funny.
• 1:56:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you want to see what's funny. You get the
• 1:56:39
  Speaker 2: cup of water and you just dump it.
• 1:56:40
  Speaker 1: On their head. Oh can you breathe again? Wait, where's
• 1:56:48
  Speaker 1: the laugh going? Where's the small You're not laughing anymore?
• 1:56:51
  Speaker 1: Easier that go? Oh no, but dude, we're talking. Just
• 1:56:55
  Speaker 1: start waterboarding. It is funny and bad time. They all
• 1:56:59
  Speaker 1: accident if you'all never participated in a bad time, the
• 1:57:04
  Speaker 1: smallest little drop of water could accidentally brush over their
• 1:57:08
  Speaker 1: eyelash and it's like somebody punched them in the like, And.
• 1:57:12
  Speaker 2: You're trying to get it down to a science on
• 1:57:14
  Speaker 2: just the line of how far can I get a
• 1:57:16
  Speaker 2: little enough to where he like gets off their heads?
• 1:57:18
  Speaker 1: Yes, Oh, it's so true. It is. There's like on
• 1:57:23
  Speaker 1: the crown of her head. I know exactly where the
• 1:57:26
  Speaker 1: water needs to hit, where it will go to, where
• 1:57:28
  Speaker 1: it'll be right here, But it gets the exact spot
• 1:57:30
  Speaker 1: that you need. Uh huh. Yeah, yeah, you've always learned
• 1:57:34
  Speaker 1: about that. You do, wait mane being a dad, so
• 1:57:38
  Speaker 1: cool man. You'll enjoy your video games and eating pizza
• 1:57:43
  Speaker 1: and watching football. Yeah comments or emails emails. Yeah, an
• 1:57:50
  Speaker 1: you rip one? Yeah mm hmmm hmmm.
• 1:57:56
  Speaker 2: Let me see here, I got Nick guy E, Tyler
• 1:58:00
  Speaker 2: Knox in Jose Lera. Let's go, I will do I'll
• 1:58:06
  Speaker 2: do Nick Giles first. All right, here we go. This
• 1:58:09
  Speaker 2: one's on Instagram. This week, I found myself very fortunate
• 1:58:12
  Speaker 2: and blessed.
• 1:58:12
  Speaker 1: I had to work.
• 1:58:13
  Speaker 2: I had a work accident and drove my work truck
• 1:58:16
  Speaker 2: off a mountainside about thirty feet down. Jesus flipped one time,
• 1:58:21
  Speaker 2: for sure, but I was able to walk out on
• 1:58:23
  Speaker 2: my own accord. All I could think about was my
• 1:58:25
  Speaker 2: wife and my sons. Someone was looking out for you.
• 1:58:27
  Speaker 2: Boy above. Listening to the Boys forty eight hours after
• 1:58:31
  Speaker 2: a near death experience brings things into perspective. Focus on
• 1:58:35
  Speaker 2: your little circle, be present, and remember us dads can
• 1:58:37
  Speaker 2: get through anything.
• 1:58:38
  Speaker 1: Pet Siko out. Bro. By the way, he tagged me
• 1:58:43
  Speaker 1: in a picture of the crash, and I replied back
• 1:58:48
  Speaker 1: and was like, oh my god, dude, I'm like the
• 1:58:51
  Speaker 1: fact that someone walked away from this is crazy. I'll
• 1:58:55
  Speaker 1: send that to y'all. It was, I mean, showed on
• 1:58:59
  Speaker 1: the episode you after the episode, dude, the fact he's
• 1:59:03
  Speaker 1: a lot there's a tree branch quite literally like almost
• 1:59:06
  Speaker 1: going through the windshield. Not a tree branch, a tree trunk.
• 1:59:10
  Speaker 1: And you can see the cliff face like in the back.
• 1:59:13
  Speaker 1: It's like.
• 1:59:15
  Speaker 2: They glad you're here with us, buddy, Yeah, glad that
• 1:59:19
  Speaker 2: that'll get you into perspective. Yeah, because I know, like like,
• 1:59:22
  Speaker 2: do you think about it as a day, like, man,
• 1:59:24
  Speaker 2: what if something happened to me? Or what if something
• 1:59:26
  Speaker 2: happened to mom and you're without you know, you're without
• 1:59:29
  Speaker 2: the other parent. My family's growing up without.
• 1:59:32
  Speaker 1: Dude. I think about that type of stuff all the time.
• 1:59:35
  Speaker 1: What was it called when you performed the act of
• 1:59:38
  Speaker 1: riding shockwave?
• 1:59:40
  Speaker 7: Uh?
• 1:59:40
  Speaker 1: What is that? Like? You not conceive? Is it conceived?
• 1:59:44
  Speaker 1: Do what though? Like when you have sex like coitus?
• 1:59:48
  Speaker 1: But was that called like I was conceived? Instee conceived?
• 1:59:53
  Speaker 1: A week after a maybe a couple of days after
• 1:59:57
  Speaker 1: a drunk driving accident that my was in. He was
• 2:00:00
  Speaker 1: hit head on by a drunk driver and the EMTs
• 2:00:03
  Speaker 1: were like, where's the driver of this vehicle? And my
• 2:00:07
  Speaker 1: dad's sitting there. All he had was like maybe a
• 2:00:09
  Speaker 1: broken nose or something. He's like me. They're like, no, buddy,
• 2:00:12
  Speaker 1: you're concussed that nobody survived from this. He's like, no,
• 2:00:16
  Speaker 1: I was the driver in that vehicle. It's crazy.
• 2:00:18
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't be here. Yeah, man, all battle staff, Nick
• 2:00:23
  Speaker 2: Glad you're all right, bro.
• 2:00:26
  Speaker 1: Joe Saba sends us an email. Joe says, what's up, boys,
• 2:00:29
  Speaker 1: Joe here from Chicago. Longtime bust and listener found out
• 2:00:33
  Speaker 1: I was going to be a dad a little before
• 2:00:34
  Speaker 1: this pod started and been taped, and since episode one,
• 2:00:39
  Speaker 1: baby Boy is due in February. I got the original
• 2:00:42
  Speaker 1: PT six shirt hanging in my closet ready for the
• 2:00:45
  Speaker 1: d date, like I'm getting ready for an All Star game.
• 2:00:49
  Speaker 1: I can't wait until this little dude is here. I
• 2:00:51
  Speaker 1: finally got the wife to start tuning in. It instantly
• 2:00:54
  Speaker 1: became a weekly sit down to watch you guys on YouTube.
• 2:00:59
  Speaker 1: I knew we finally when she hit me with a
• 2:01:01
  Speaker 1: good one evening. We truly feel you guys have given
• 2:01:05
  Speaker 1: tips lessons that we will one hundred percent remember and
• 2:01:08
  Speaker 1: every parent can learn from. We can't wait to keep
• 2:01:11
  Speaker 1: up with you boys in your guys' journeys. What you
• 2:01:16
  Speaker 1: guys are doing is absolutely amazing. Thank you for opening
• 2:01:19
  Speaker 1: up about your parenthood. You guys got us laughing and
• 2:01:22
  Speaker 1: also crying weekly. Been wanting to write you guys forever.
• 2:01:26
  Speaker 1: Appreciate you guys for everything. A bunch of fucking legends.
• 2:01:30
  Speaker 1: Smoke coming out of the nose emoji dude, thank you
• 2:01:34
  Speaker 1: for the email. Bro, Thank you. Joe, Yeah, thank you Joe.
• 2:01:37
  Speaker 2: I love that he's wrapping up PT six shirt again
• 2:01:39
  Speaker 2: BWTB dot com for your Papa Team six gear.
• 2:01:41
  Speaker 1: There's now three iterations of it and to go off
• 2:01:44
  Speaker 1: and to go off that one.
• 2:01:45
  Speaker 2: I have two here that are expecting fathers probably share
• 2:01:49
  Speaker 2: a lot of the same, you know, scares that are
• 2:01:52
  Speaker 2: coming up. This one's talks on Instagram. I'm not a
• 2:01:54
  Speaker 2: part of Papa Team six yet, but I listen every weekend.
• 2:01:57
  Speaker 2: I'm putting it, all of it in my memory bank.
• 2:01:59
  Speaker 2: I'm about thirty days out from getting engaged, and it's
• 2:02:01
  Speaker 2: striking me that fatherhood is closer than ever for me.
• 2:02:04
  Speaker 2: I wanted to thank you, by the way, congratulations congrats
• 2:02:07
  Speaker 2: on getting on thirty days out from getting engaged.
• 2:02:10
  Speaker 1: So he's not engaged yet.
• 2:02:12
  Speaker 6: Looking back on it, what we might want to do
• 2:02:14
  Speaker 6: is restart and run that as an anonymous because it
• 2:02:16
  Speaker 6: didn't hit me. I read it and it didn't hit
• 2:02:17
  Speaker 6: me to right now that like if we may have
• 2:02:21
  Speaker 6: fucked up, so yeah, I might. I should have wrote
• 2:02:24
  Speaker 6: a big old anonymous on that, son. I don't know
• 2:02:25
  Speaker 6: why I hold the micause we're cutting this ship. Should
• 2:02:27
  Speaker 6: hold a big old anonymous on it, all right. I
• 2:02:29
  Speaker 6: didn't even he didn't even stay, don't mention?
• 2:02:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm sitting putting again on thirty days
• 2:02:34
  Speaker 2: out from getting engaged. Yeah, I'm thinking, buddy, well we're
• 2:02:39
  Speaker 2: we this is now. If you're his girl, maybe she's
• 2:02:43
  Speaker 2: maybe she tunes in the for the dads.
• 2:02:45
  Speaker 1: Who knows? Is he wanting us to do something?
• 2:02:47
  Speaker 2: No, I'm just I'm just saying, like he's saying, he's
• 2:02:50
  Speaker 2: not engaged yet, he hasn't proposed wife, he doesn't know
• 2:02:52
  Speaker 2: this is coming. Yeah, and he's letting us know he's
• 2:02:55
  Speaker 2: thirty days out. I'm just saying, would have said what if?
• 2:02:57
  Speaker 1: The what if?
• 2:02:58
  Speaker 2: Anybody who's connected? I was going to keep saying this
• 2:03:01
  Speaker 2: first and last name. Listen to this as I Hey,
• 2:03:04
  Speaker 2: you got an engagement coming your way here in about
• 2:03:06
  Speaker 2: twenty five days.
• 2:03:09
  Speaker 1: Does he have like a message for us? Probably it's
• 2:03:12
  Speaker 1: a whole it's a whole thing.
• 2:03:13
  Speaker 2: But I'm just I was catching myself as I'm reading it, like,
• 2:03:15
  Speaker 2: hang on a second.
• 2:03:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And again that's why I'm like, if we're part
• 2:03:18
  Speaker 1: of the secret, what do we do? We could also
• 2:03:20
  Speaker 1: just hold that one off.
• 2:03:21
  Speaker 6: I'll bring it back like the episode before what thirty
• 2:03:24
  Speaker 6: days from comment?
• 2:03:25
  Speaker 2: Just silence when I'm saying his name. Just silence when
• 2:03:29
  Speaker 2: I'm saying his name, So we get you know, yeah, yeah,
• 2:03:31
  Speaker 2: my boys? Should you know you can't.
• 2:03:32
  Speaker 1: Put your name. You gotta let us know.
• 2:03:34
  Speaker 2: Hey, you got to say anonymous to start this, start
• 2:03:36
  Speaker 2: this email, or start this comment.
• 2:03:38
  Speaker 1: We're going to keep this person anonymous. They didn't ask
• 2:03:41
  Speaker 1: us to keep them anonymous.
• 2:03:42
  Speaker 2: We're helping him out. We're helping him out. Okay, here
• 2:03:45
  Speaker 2: we go. I wanted to thank you all for making
• 2:03:47
  Speaker 2: this podcast. I've been a busting fancis damn near the beginning.
• 2:03:49
  Speaker 2: I grew up with an abusive and then absent father
• 2:03:52
  Speaker 2: and left me with really no idea how my father
• 2:03:54
  Speaker 2: should act. And obviously you pick up knowledge from others
• 2:03:57
  Speaker 2: as you move through life. However, this show is open
• 2:03:59
  Speaker 2: up my eyes the intricacies of fatherhood and kind of
• 2:04:02
  Speaker 2: what it looks like as someone who didn't have a
• 2:04:04
  Speaker 2: father in the home.
• 2:04:04
  Speaker 1: That is huge for me.
• 2:04:06
  Speaker 2: Thank y'all again for making these every week. I just
• 2:04:09
  Speaker 2: wanted to share from the perspective of someone younger. I
• 2:04:11
  Speaker 2: am twenty two trying to wrap my head around what
• 2:04:14
  Speaker 2: it even matters to be a father. Y'all are awesome,
• 2:04:17
  Speaker 2: keep up through great work and.
• 2:04:18
  Speaker 1: What y'all do. Thank you, bro. It fires me up
• 2:04:20
  Speaker 1: there you're twenty ticket bleep that out, Hey buddy, Hey buddy,
• 2:04:24
  Speaker 1: Thank you, bay.
• 2:04:25
  Speaker 2: Buddy, and just a twenty year and two year old
• 2:04:27
  Speaker 2: turned it into a four. The Dad's Podcast. That's it's cool.
• 2:04:30
  Speaker 2: That's cool, man, that's cool, It's cool. This one's also
• 2:04:33
  Speaker 2: from this one. Not also this one is from jose
• 2:04:36
  Speaker 2: Leira on Instagram. Thank y'all for acknowledging my reposts. I'm
• 2:04:39
  Speaker 2: about to be a new to the dad community. Come February,
• 2:04:42
  Speaker 2: shout out, Jose. Every time I have a concern, I
• 2:04:45
  Speaker 2: come to yall's page and reassure myself that I'm more
• 2:04:47
  Speaker 2: than capable of being an amazing dad. Please keep doing
• 2:04:50
  Speaker 2: what y'all are doing because you have little guys like
• 2:04:52
  Speaker 2: us looking up to y'all.
• 2:04:53
  Speaker 1: Boys. Much love from Dallas, Texas. Hey, big D, Big D,
• 2:05:00
  Speaker 1: come on. And that was Jose.
• 2:05:01
  Speaker 2: That was Jose. Common theme there, common theme all day.
• 2:05:05
  Speaker 2: Everybody's scared when they go into fatherhood. Yeah, dude, everyone's
• 2:05:09
  Speaker 2: scared for the next the opportunity that comes and the
• 2:05:12
  Speaker 2: responsibility that comes with fatherhood, just like anybody taking on
• 2:05:14
  Speaker 2: a massive new position, a new you know, a new
• 2:05:18
  Speaker 2: step in their career, a new step in life. Fatherhood
• 2:05:21
  Speaker 2: being one a new title, new big responsibilities. As you're
• 2:05:25
  Speaker 2: sure you're not ready for that, you're scared about. No
• 2:05:28
  Speaker 2: one's prepared, no one's ready.
• 2:05:30
  Speaker 1: Can you run me through really quick, just what I
• 2:05:33
  Speaker 1: was like when I brought that up to you at
• 2:05:35
  Speaker 1: that coffee when you asked me about are me and
• 2:05:38
  Speaker 1: Jill ready to have kids? How did I answer that question?
• 2:05:40
  Speaker 1: You were terrified?
• 2:05:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you were like, I don't think like I'll be
• 2:05:44
  Speaker 2: good enough, like I don't think I'm ready to be
• 2:05:46
  Speaker 2: a dad, and it scares you.
• 2:05:49
  Speaker 1: The thought of having kid scares you.
• 2:05:50
  Speaker 2: And because sum was also telling me you gotta stop
• 2:05:54
  Speaker 2: posting rue because it's given Jill massive baby fever. You
• 2:06:00
  Speaker 2: were doing means zero zero favors, and I could tell
• 2:06:04
  Speaker 2: how nervous you were. But now you know, it's like, dude,
• 2:06:07
  Speaker 2: I was like the same way. Now you know, looking
• 2:06:10
  Speaker 2: back on it's like, dude, you're just you're not prepared.
• 2:06:11
  Speaker 2: You just got to dive in and embrace everything that
• 2:06:13
  Speaker 2: comes with it and do your best to like whatever
• 2:06:16
  Speaker 2: it is, read, listen to stuff, study, whether it's our
• 2:06:18
  Speaker 2: show clips, whatever it is, Like you just put that
• 2:06:22
  Speaker 2: much work in the fatherhood that you've done with the
• 2:06:24
  Speaker 2: most important thing in your life, and it'll kind of
• 2:06:27
  Speaker 2: that'll kind of guide you.
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  Speaker 1: It is the ultimate challenge that will continuously be the
• 2:06:32
  Speaker 1: ultimate gift. Yeah, always because it sucks, but it is
• 2:06:36
  Speaker 1: it does.
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  Speaker 2: That is why you feel so highly about it, and
• 2:06:40
  Speaker 2: it makes you so happy in some of these moments
• 2:06:42
  Speaker 2: and parts of like those scenes or moments of perspective,
• 2:06:47
  Speaker 2: like they're so high because you experience such suck. Yeah,
• 2:06:53
  Speaker 2: like anything great, anything anything that is great in your
• 2:06:56
  Speaker 2: life or feels great now, it's nine percent of the
• 2:07:00
  Speaker 2: time because you're looking back on all the trial and
• 2:07:02
  Speaker 2: tribulations you had of getting to that moment and now
• 2:07:05
  Speaker 2: you feel so high and so free on it. Yeah,
• 2:07:07
  Speaker 2: you know there's work that you've got to continue to do,
• 2:07:09
  Speaker 2: but it's no different than fatherhood other than you experience
• 2:07:12
  Speaker 2: them that much farther. That range get that gets that
• 2:07:15
  Speaker 2: much wider because it's such a high and a love
• 2:07:17
  Speaker 2: that you've never experienced in your life. But with that
• 2:07:21
  Speaker 2: feeling comes like ultimate like new lows and challenging thoughts
• 2:07:25
  Speaker 2: and failures and things that you that suck about it, and.
• 2:07:28
  Speaker 1: Those might happen in a five minute span from each other.
• 2:07:32
  Speaker 1: Of me coming home exhausted from work. I want to
• 2:07:36
  Speaker 1: have the worst attitude when I walk in the door.
• 2:07:39
  Speaker 1: What do I find?
• 2:07:39
  Speaker 3: Dude?
• 2:07:40
  Speaker 1: I hope you mentioned the streaks on the floor right now?
• 2:07:42
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and what do I find? Scarlett is screaming
• 2:07:46
  Speaker 1: her head off because it's the witching hour and I'm
• 2:07:48
  Speaker 1: sitting there and I'm got the worst attitude in the entire.
• 2:07:50
  Speaker 2: Mom's been texting you on the way home. Hey, when
• 2:07:52
  Speaker 2: you getting back? When you getting back.
• 2:07:54
  Speaker 1: When you get back, forgot to pick up down? Yeah,
• 2:07:56
  Speaker 1: walk in the house, screaming's going on happening, yes, And
• 2:07:59
  Speaker 1: then and then you finally get the you finally get
• 2:08:02
  Speaker 1: Scarlet down. You're in bed, and what's the what's the
• 2:08:05
  Speaker 1: next thing I want to do? I want to get
• 2:08:07
  Speaker 1: on the Nana app, watch my kids sleep and tell
• 2:08:10
  Speaker 1: my wife I just want to squeeze her. I love
• 2:08:12
  Speaker 1: her so much? What what? How did that happen? In
• 2:08:15
  Speaker 1: ten minutes, we'll sit there and it's like you'll see him,
• 2:08:18
  Speaker 1: You'll see him on the monitor. It's like, man, aren't
• 2:08:20
  Speaker 1: they the best?
• 2:08:24
  Speaker 2: You're like they are, and then you kind of pause
• 2:08:25
  Speaker 2: for a moment and you're like, you know, unless they're
• 2:08:27
  Speaker 2: doing X, Y and Z, you like, think of a
• 2:08:28
  Speaker 2: few moments that they've had recently that she.
• 2:08:30
  Speaker 1: Just chapped your ass.
• 2:08:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, But when they're asleep and they just look, Scarlet
• 2:08:35
  Speaker 2: look amazing, quite.
• 2:08:36
  Speaker 1: Literally shit all over us. And five minutes later we're
• 2:08:40
  Speaker 1: in bed looking on our little Nana cam, going, She's
• 2:08:43
  Speaker 1: the cutest thing in the world, isn't she? Well, when
• 2:08:47
  Speaker 1: she doesn't on my hand, yeah, when she ain't doing that,
• 2:08:50
  Speaker 1: she got her Daddy's gut so she'd be shitting This
• 2:08:54
  Speaker 1: one comes from B Haynes fifty three What Up fellas
• 2:08:57
  Speaker 1: huge fan of the show. I've been watching this pod
• 2:09:00
  Speaker 1: all summer long in preparation for our baby girl coming
• 2:09:04
  Speaker 1: this October. Hello B Haynes. Last Thursday night we welcomed
• 2:09:09
  Speaker 1: our firstborn daughter, Lily, to the world. I'm so beyond
• 2:09:13
  Speaker 1: fired up to get to work being the best at
• 2:09:17
  Speaker 1: I possibly can. It's now six days with the little one,
• 2:09:20
  Speaker 1: and so far I've changed about one hundred diapers, scrubbed
• 2:09:23
  Speaker 1: every bottle in bump part countless simes, and lost many
• 2:09:26
  Speaker 1: hours of sleep taking care of my girls. Good good,
• 2:09:29
  Speaker 1: good job. Dad. You're crushing, but every damn second is
• 2:09:33
  Speaker 1: worth it because I get to be a dad today.
• 2:09:35
  Speaker 1: The wife. You broke down in tears selling me how
• 2:09:37
  Speaker 1: amazing and supportive I've been, not just through the first week,
• 2:09:42
  Speaker 1: but the entire pregnancy. Let's fucking go. Let's fucking go.
• 2:09:46
  Speaker 1: So I just wanted to give a huge thank you
• 2:09:48
  Speaker 1: to Sherman Will and the rest of the PT six
• 2:09:51
  Speaker 1: community for all the tips, tears and dad hacks that
• 2:09:54
  Speaker 1: got me this huge w We're just getting started. Love
• 2:09:57
  Speaker 1: you guys. Flex emoji take out the trap. Dude. Hey,
• 2:10:01
  Speaker 1: that's so sick. Dude, that's yeah, yeah, Yeah, that's a
• 2:10:05
  Speaker 1: really big win for b Hayes. Dude. You know how
• 2:10:09
  Speaker 1: many dads are getting that message. I mean that's.
• 2:10:12
  Speaker 2: Dads that are in the BT six community. Yeah, I
• 2:10:14
  Speaker 2: mean you know what I mean. Yes, it's like seeing
• 2:10:16
  Speaker 2: It's like seeing a teammate just flourish. Yeah, because the
• 2:10:21
  Speaker 2: process has helped him out. Hey, coach just pulled me
• 2:10:23
  Speaker 2: into the office. I'm starting next week. Yeah, let's fucking
• 2:10:27
  Speaker 2: yeah you are. That gets me fired up.
• 2:10:30
  Speaker 1: Matt Savio from Instagram fellas Matt Savio here out of
• 2:10:34
  Speaker 1: Saint Louis, Missouri, shot at the Big Mo yep. A
• 2:10:38
  Speaker 1: huge fan of the pod. Although I am not a
• 2:10:40
  Speaker 1: dad yet, I am a proud uncle too. Sophia, Sianna, Laney, Camille,
• 2:10:45
  Speaker 1: and George also got another nephew coming in March of
• 2:10:48
  Speaker 1: twenty six. Anyway, got a potential idea for a segment
• 2:10:51
  Speaker 1: on the pod if y'all like it, Here's what I'm thinking.
• 2:10:55
  Speaker 1: Each month, a dad or mom sends in a video
• 2:10:57
  Speaker 1: as their application for Dad or Mom of the Month.
• 2:11:01
  Speaker 1: They basically give a valedictorian type speech or reason why
• 2:11:06
  Speaker 1: they deserve the honor of the graduating class of that month.
• 2:11:09
  Speaker 1: Kind of thinking it would be for first time parents,
• 2:11:12
  Speaker 1: while let y'all decide the details. Obviously, there are a
• 2:11:15
  Speaker 1: lot of ways you could go with it. Maybe each
• 2:11:18
  Speaker 1: valedictorian receives a patcher or some special merch maybe hosts
• 2:11:21
  Speaker 1: a Zoom happy hour or something cool for the twelve
• 2:11:23
  Speaker 1: honorees in a year, or something similar to will I
• 2:11:27
  Speaker 1: am an idea? Guy? You guys still in the blanks,
• 2:11:30
  Speaker 1: thank you for the entertainment. GBR, GBR GBR. I love
• 2:11:34
  Speaker 1: the idea. I like the idea.
• 2:11:36
  Speaker 2: It's almost like a framework from that too, is the
• 2:11:40
  Speaker 2: application has to come from the spouse.
• 2:11:43
  Speaker 1: Ooh, that's mandatory. Yeah, that's mandatory, I think, yeah.
• 2:11:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you mess with that one. That should be
• 2:11:51
  Speaker 2: absolutely man like. You shouldn't be writing about yourself.
• 2:11:55
  Speaker 1: You would be disqualified if you wrote in about yours
• 2:11:59
  Speaker 1: and not to say b Haynes saying like hey, my
• 2:12:01
  Speaker 1: wife said, you know he's not trying to win anything.
• 2:12:06
  Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no, no, yeah you can't. You can't be.
• 2:12:10
  Speaker 1: It's got to be a video. They got to submit
• 2:12:13
  Speaker 1: a video.
• 2:12:14
  Speaker 6: We please get it through the email too, because I
• 2:12:16
  Speaker 6: don't want like a million of videos.
• 2:12:18
  Speaker 1: We won't do it yet. We got to take the
• 2:12:21
  Speaker 1: idea into the thing thing I was. Yeah, yeah, that
• 2:12:25
  Speaker 1: was an idea. Okay, that was an idea.
• 2:12:27
  Speaker 2: We're in a brainstorm yet, sweetheart.
• 2:12:35
  Speaker 1: That is this thing. They do it for the dads.
• 2:12:36
  Speaker 1: It's called Dad of the Month. I love the winning.
• 2:12:38
  Speaker 2: I know you said some things last week. Would you
• 2:12:41
  Speaker 2: might make it a video? And for the love, I
• 2:12:45
  Speaker 2: think the written one you'll get more. Written one you'll
• 2:12:48
  Speaker 2: get more. But who's to say you don't got a
• 2:12:50
  Speaker 2: what wife? You gotta get your past with your email
• 2:12:52
  Speaker 2: really quick. I'm the best walks of her exist.
• 2:12:56
  Speaker 1: Not to say spouse, not to say PT sixers would
• 2:13:01
  Speaker 1: do it, but it would also be kind of fun
• 2:13:03
  Speaker 1: to see video submissions.
• 2:13:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll think on it. We thank you for that idea. Yeah,
• 2:13:12
  Speaker 2: because you can do something fun there, kyriad, this is
• 2:13:15
  Speaker 2: my last one.
• 2:13:16
  Speaker 1: Okay, like a long one. Go ahead, keep it under
• 2:13:19
  Speaker 1: an hour? How long we been going, chef, fuck go ahead?
• 2:13:26
  Speaker 1: Erica Giles Instagram writes in hello gentlemen, Milk Team six here,
• 2:13:31
  Speaker 1: I just wanted to share a quick story about my husband,
• 2:13:33
  Speaker 1: Nick Giles He's a huge fan of your podcast. He's
• 2:13:36
  Speaker 1: been a part of Papa Team six from the start.
• 2:13:38
  Speaker 1: He listens every week and he has gotten me hooked too.
• 2:13:42
  Speaker 1: He's purchased tons of your merch and even bought a
• 2:13:44
  Speaker 1: shirt he planned to wear after I gave birth to
• 2:13:46
  Speaker 1: our second son, though he accidentally ordered the wrong size,
• 2:13:50
  Speaker 1: so now I've claimed it. He's such a hard worker,
• 2:13:53
  Speaker 1: long hours every day and make sure our boys and
• 2:13:55
  Speaker 1: I never go without, and your podcast is one of
• 2:13:57
  Speaker 1: the things he looks forward to the most each week.
• 2:14:00
  Speaker 1: This week was actually, uh, this week he was actually
• 2:14:04
  Speaker 1: in an accident, and even while sitting in a hospital
• 2:14:07
  Speaker 1: bed in the er, he was making sure to keep
• 2:14:09
  Speaker 1: you all updated. Oh, this is the truck guy. That's crazy.
• 2:14:15
  Speaker 1: Oh this is Nick. Yeah, this is Nick. That's crazy. Sorry,
• 2:14:19
  Speaker 1: sitting at a hospital in the er, he was making
• 2:14:21
  Speaker 1: sure to keep you all updated. The very next day,
• 2:14:24
  Speaker 1: he was already trying to get back to work while
• 2:14:26
  Speaker 1: proudly wrapping his new Halloween shirt from you guys. He's
• 2:14:30
  Speaker 1: the biggest fan and even better dad, and after the
• 2:14:33
  Speaker 1: this week's, after the this week he's had, I think
• 2:14:37
  Speaker 1: he deserves a little shout out from his proud wife.
• 2:14:41
  Speaker 1: I've I've interacted with Nick several times. He is not
• 2:14:45
  Speaker 1: only a PT Sickoh, he is a Tier one Nick.
• 2:14:49
  Speaker 1: Nick is a good dude. We gotta shoot him something, Yeah,
• 2:14:53
  Speaker 1: we need We'll shoot him something.
• 2:14:54
  Speaker 2: I'm glad he's okay to like even hearing his wife
• 2:14:57
  Speaker 2: right about him and everything else.
• 2:14:58
  Speaker 1: He's even a better dad.
• 2:14:59
  Speaker 2: Like you can only imagine how scared they both were together.
• 2:15:03
  Speaker 1: Dude, I don't want to go to that place. But
• 2:15:08
  Speaker 1: we were talking about that earlier today of like, if
• 2:15:10
  Speaker 1: anything happened to Jill, I'm just like, I don't know
• 2:15:15
  Speaker 1: what I would do. I don't know what I would do. Yeah,
• 2:15:20
  Speaker 1: I'm just glad he's he's safe. Yeah, I'm glad. Glad.
• 2:15:24
  Speaker 1: You have very funny tweets. By the way, he's a
• 2:15:26
  Speaker 1: good follow for anybody that's in the Tier one PT
• 2:15:29
  Speaker 1: six community. He's active on there. You'll have to remind
• 2:15:32
  Speaker 1: me which profile he is. Yeah, I'll tag you. He's
• 2:15:36
  Speaker 1: in our replies a lot. He has funny replies. Yeah,
• 2:15:38
  Speaker 1: he's a sick. Oh would you like to take his home? Brother?
• 2:15:43
  Speaker 1: Do you have a quote topic lesson? I do?
• 2:15:46
  Speaker 2: It was your homework assignment? Okay, yeah, the values, Yes, yes,
• 2:15:50
  Speaker 2: the values? What is a value? And again I know
• 2:15:53
  Speaker 2: we're what are we we doubling up?
• 2:15:54
  Speaker 1: Here?
• 2:15:54
  Speaker 2: Are we over to to eighteen? We did as what's
• 2:16:02
  Speaker 2: a value that you would love? We'll hit it on
• 2:16:04
  Speaker 2: next week. Let's do next week? Do values next week, We'll.
• 2:16:08
  Speaker 1: Do We'll go over values next week because again it's
• 2:16:10
  Speaker 1: a week over two hours right now and we could
• 2:16:12
  Speaker 1: get more submissions.
• 2:16:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so we have the homework here from last week
• 2:16:16
  Speaker 2: was what is a value you hope to instill in
• 2:16:18
  Speaker 2: your child for the rest of time as they grow up?
• 2:16:21
  Speaker 2: What is what is like the most important value? And
• 2:16:24
  Speaker 2: I know that's hard because there's many values where you
• 2:16:26
  Speaker 2: want to instill instill in them. But I have a
• 2:16:28
  Speaker 2: few here that we were going to run and I
• 2:16:30
  Speaker 2: would like it to kind of have its own, its
• 2:16:33
  Speaker 2: own moment, because we're gonna have you know, we're at
• 2:16:35
  Speaker 2: two eighteen.
• 2:16:35
  Speaker 1: We're at two eighteen? Can I can I very quickly
• 2:16:38
  Speaker 1: just throw it out to the community. We were not
• 2:16:40
  Speaker 1: upset with the amount of submissions at all, just a
• 2:16:45
  Speaker 1: further challenge of submit those values that you would want
• 2:16:48
  Speaker 1: to pass along to your child in the comments in
• 2:16:52
  Speaker 1: our DMS because we would love to go over those
• 2:16:54
  Speaker 1: submissions when we go over this next week. Yeah, yeah,
• 2:16:57
  Speaker 1: we appreciate y'all's input and we would love more.
• 2:17:01
  Speaker 2: Yes, yes, all, I pretty much have. Dude, it's not
• 2:17:05
  Speaker 2: even like a quote topic or lesson surm. The other day,
• 2:17:10
  Speaker 2: showed me a video that he made because I failed
• 2:17:13
  Speaker 2: to take out the trash like the last why I
• 2:17:15
  Speaker 2: said last week, I failed to take out the trash
• 2:17:17
  Speaker 2: the last couple of times, and he made this funny video.
• 2:17:20
  Speaker 2: It's you guys will already see. It'll be out on
• 2:17:22
  Speaker 2: socials by now, but he made a funny video where
• 2:17:26
  Speaker 2: in part of that video, I'm sitting there with Rue
• 2:17:28
  Speaker 2: and Ru's going through like the trash can recycling and cardboard,
• 2:17:31
  Speaker 2: and it kind of just made me super sad, just
• 2:17:34
  Speaker 2: hearing her little voice because I tell sher, I'm like, dude,
• 2:17:36
  Speaker 2: she's so young there, and I'm like, oh, I mean
• 2:17:38
  Speaker 2: she's only three years old, but she's just so little
• 2:17:40
  Speaker 2: and hearing her voice, yeah, like telling me high five
• 2:17:43
  Speaker 2: and high five, And.
• 2:17:46
  Speaker 1: It just had me thinking and kind of sulk, and
• 2:17:48
  Speaker 1: I listened to the Fray all the way home.
• 2:17:49
  Speaker 2: I got home, I took some vitamins and then at
• 2:17:53
  Speaker 2: that point, I'm just in my own head thinking about
• 2:17:55
  Speaker 2: life and everything else. And I shot Charo a message
• 2:18:00
  Speaker 2: my good night text because she was in London, and
• 2:18:06
  Speaker 2: I basically center a text because I was just I
• 2:18:08
  Speaker 2: was just your boy was in his fields, and I
• 2:18:11
  Speaker 2: was just like, get in bed, love, Hope you feel
• 2:18:13
  Speaker 2: better when you wake up in the morning. She said
• 2:18:14
  Speaker 2: she wasn't feeling very well before she went to bed,
• 2:18:16
  Speaker 2: but I said, I also hope you're enjoying every moment
• 2:18:18
  Speaker 2: with Rue, because it's really badass what you're doing, and
• 2:18:21
  Speaker 2: right now in her life, there's nothing else she'd rather
• 2:18:24
  Speaker 2: be doing than spending time with us, So enjoy every second.
• 2:18:28
  Speaker 2: And I feel like I got to that point because
• 2:18:32
  Speaker 2: Ruth's all about us right now, and our kids they're
• 2:18:34
  Speaker 2: gonna be about you when they're young. But even seeing
• 2:18:38
  Speaker 2: that clip of the video to where she's fired up
• 2:18:41
  Speaker 2: to us, she's telling me about recycling and carbo, this
• 2:18:43
  Speaker 2: is the cardboard trash can, this is the recycling one,
• 2:18:47
  Speaker 2: and high five and then what did she say, Now
• 2:18:49
  Speaker 2: you go dad ass.
• 2:18:50
  Speaker 1: Or you turned out? Say it? Yeah, dad, dad say it?
• 2:18:53
  Speaker 2: And it's like that's a moment that now those excitement
• 2:18:57
  Speaker 2: feelings are different, like she's fired up to show me
• 2:18:59
  Speaker 2: stuff she draws school or coloring, or it's not like
• 2:19:03
  Speaker 2: how simple, Hey dad, that's a trash can. How fired
• 2:19:05
  Speaker 2: up are you? It's like she wants to show you
• 2:19:07
  Speaker 2: more impressive stuff. You have to impress her with different
• 2:19:10
  Speaker 2: things and other like hey, you know what a trash
• 2:19:11
  Speaker 2: can is? In high five? Like I have to hold
• 2:19:14
  Speaker 2: out my hand to get some high fives at times
• 2:19:16
  Speaker 2: because they're just growing up and think about us as adults,
• 2:19:20
  Speaker 2: like I think now, like I was so down the
• 2:19:22
  Speaker 2: rabbit hole of my feels with the vitamins in my system.
• 2:19:26
  Speaker 2: Then I'm even thinking about my dad and my parents
• 2:19:29
  Speaker 2: because the age that we're at now, like what are
• 2:19:32
  Speaker 2: the interesting things that our parents try and want to
• 2:19:35
  Speaker 2: connect with us on. It's so hard for them because
• 2:19:37
  Speaker 2: we are now grown ass adults.
• 2:19:40
  Speaker 1: And when you're in high school at.
• 2:19:41
  Speaker 2: The time where every day it's like whenever they turn thirteen, Bro,
• 2:19:44
  Speaker 2: I'm telling you, when they turn thirteen, it's just a
• 2:19:46
  Speaker 2: different they're different animals, the hormones and everything else. But
• 2:19:49
  Speaker 2: the moments to connect with your kids and be having
• 2:19:52
  Speaker 2: interest or like challenging yourself to be interested in what
• 2:19:54
  Speaker 2: they're interested in, especially when they're older, it's so fucking hard.
• 2:19:59
  Speaker 2: I am imagine it's so damn hard because I'm thinking
• 2:20:02
  Speaker 2: back to what I was when I was growing up,
• 2:20:04
  Speaker 2: and then even like even as a young man, the
• 2:20:07
  Speaker 2: interest for my old man would just be like sports.
• 2:20:10
  Speaker 2: Right if I was going to impress my dad, I
• 2:20:11
  Speaker 2: was going to be like sports, or if I felt
• 2:20:13
  Speaker 2: like he was taking interest to me, it'd be more
• 2:20:15
  Speaker 2: so with sports than anything else. Mom would love school
• 2:20:17
  Speaker 2: and all that, but you knew dad like it wasn't
• 2:20:19
  Speaker 2: It felt like the connectivity was through sports. But when
• 2:20:22
  Speaker 2: they are this young, they are obsessed with everything and
• 2:20:26
  Speaker 2: all they want is your time.
• 2:20:28
  Speaker 1: All they want is your time.
• 2:20:30
  Speaker 2: Like Rue, I know is having the greatest time in
• 2:20:32
  Speaker 2: the world because she's in London. She feels like a
• 2:20:34
  Speaker 2: big girl because she's traveling with Mama. She's sleeping in
• 2:20:37
  Speaker 2: bed with mom. They're getting room service, they're going to
• 2:20:39
  Speaker 2: the park, They're doing all these things that just fires
• 2:20:42
  Speaker 2: ru up. And she's probably so happy spending that time
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  Speaker 2: with her mom. She was probably so pumped to be
• 2:20:46
  Speaker 2: getting ice cream and lunch with their dad.
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  Speaker 1: When we had our little daddy daughter and everything else
• 2:20:52
  Speaker 1: because they have your attention, and.
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  Speaker 2: All that fires all that fires them up right now
• 2:20:56
  Speaker 2: is your attention, and so it's just like all I
• 2:20:59
  Speaker 2: say is just cherish every damn moment because some of
• 2:21:04
  Speaker 2: those interests and that some of the way that they
• 2:21:06
  Speaker 2: develop is it's not always going to be mom and
• 2:21:08
  Speaker 2: Dad are the coolest people in the world and like
• 2:21:10
  Speaker 2: wanting to help take care of Scotti. They're gonna get
• 2:21:13
  Speaker 2: to an age at some point where you're studying and
• 2:21:15
  Speaker 2: battling trying to figure out how to connect with them
• 2:21:17
  Speaker 2: through their interests because it's not as simple as you're
• 2:21:21
  Speaker 2: showing me what a trash can of recycling bin and
• 2:21:23
  Speaker 2: a cardboard bin looks like it more, and you're so
• 2:21:26
  Speaker 2: fired up that it's like I sit there and look back.
• 2:21:29
  Speaker 2: I was like, I'm so I'm happy that I'm giving
• 2:21:31
  Speaker 2: her a high five, but I wish I'd go back
• 2:21:32
  Speaker 2: to that moment to be even more excited for because
• 2:21:35
  Speaker 2: I'm never getting that moment back again.
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  Speaker 1: So you can imagine when I'm sending that textause I'm.
• 2:21:40
  Speaker 2: Like sending her this long text for good night, and
• 2:21:43
  Speaker 2: I'm just like, dude, it's so badass what you're doing.
• 2:21:45
  Speaker 2: I hope you're enjoying it because Rue is having the
• 2:21:48
  Speaker 2: greatest time of her life right now. So anybody with
• 2:21:51
  Speaker 2: young kids, or you're gonna have young kids, just you
• 2:21:53
  Speaker 2: are their world right now, and just embrace it so
• 2:21:56
  Speaker 2: much and cherish it because it's not gonna be forever her.
• 2:22:01
  Speaker 1: That's the whatever, that's the that's the end. That's the ending.
• 2:22:05
  Speaker 1: Very well, very well said, and all the all the
• 2:22:09
  Speaker 1: photos coming from London, dude, I've just been smiling with
• 2:22:12
  Speaker 1: all of it. She is giving big girl energy. She
• 2:22:15
  Speaker 1: is looking like just a little girl with like her outfits.
• 2:22:19
  Speaker 1: And when you brought up like the video and I'm
• 2:22:23
  Speaker 1: watching the video. I'm not even Ruth's parent, and I'm like, oh, Bruce,
• 2:22:27
  Speaker 1: tiny in this, Oh my gosh. And the only example
• 2:22:31
  Speaker 1: of that that I have is the nanet that we use.
• 2:22:34
  Speaker 1: Our little nannycam has kind of like a yearbook kind
• 2:22:40
  Speaker 1: of memories. Yeah, yeah, play for you. And oh, dude,
• 2:22:44
  Speaker 1: I've watched this little video of me waking up Scarlet
• 2:22:48
  Speaker 1: and she's still in her tiny sleepsack and her head
• 2:22:51
  Speaker 1: it's smaller than my hand, and I'm just like, my god.
• 2:22:54
  Speaker 2: You were so little, you were so little. It broke
• 2:22:58
  Speaker 2: my heart have me tearing up to Yeah. So this
• 2:23:02
  Speaker 2: is the greatest job in the world.
• 2:23:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a good one.
• 2:23:06
  Speaker 2: Our story now is being a father. Yeah, and it's amazing.
• 2:23:10
  Speaker 2: And I just hope nobody takes it for granted. Yeah.
• 2:23:15
  Speaker 2: If you feel like you do, man, there's change the mentality.
• 2:23:18
  Speaker 2: You get to do it literally right now. Yeah, I'm
• 2:23:21
  Speaker 2: just thinking about Scottie smiling right now. I just want
• 2:23:23
  Speaker 2: to get home to her and kiss her so much
• 2:23:25
  Speaker 2: and smother with love. Let Daddy give his paws on
• 2:23:31
  Speaker 2: you away.
• 2:23:36
  Speaker 1: That's it. That's it for me.
• 2:23:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, perfect, take out the trash. This was
• 2:23:41
  Speaker 2: for the dad's pet Sikos. We love you, We appreciate you.
• 2:23:46
  Speaker 2: Go be great, man, Hey, go be great.
• 2:23:48
  Speaker 1: Shout out Dustin McLoughlin, one of my really close friends
• 2:23:50
  Speaker 1: just found out they're having a kid shout out. Shout out,
• 2:23:53
  Speaker 1: shout out, Shout out Papa Team six.
• 2:24:02
  Speaker 2: This is welcome to our first Halloween children's story that
• 2:24:07
  Speaker 2: I think you will all enjoy, maybe the adults more
• 2:24:10
  Speaker 2: than the kids. We kept it clean. This is a
• 2:24:14
  Speaker 2: story about Hector the Bat urgently trying to find a
• 2:24:19
  Speaker 2: Halloween costume for the Halloween parade. With his friends, parents involved,
• 2:24:23
  Speaker 2: We change our voices, we have we We have a
• 2:24:28
  Speaker 2: lot of fun with this story. I hope you enjoy it.
• 2:24:30
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• 2:24:33
  Speaker 2: our for the Dad's Channel. Happy Spooktober, Happy Halloween, and
• 2:24:37
  Speaker 2: enjoy this Halloween bedtime story.
• 2:24:43
  Speaker 1: Twas the night before Halloween, the forest creature's favorite holiday.
• 2:24:49
  Speaker 1: The moon glowed bright, and the whole forest was elated
• 2:24:54
  Speaker 1: with anticipation, except Hector the bat. Hector hung upside down
• 2:25:01
  Speaker 1: on his branch, clearly upset.
• 2:25:05
  Speaker 3: Oh no, I've done it again.
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  Speaker 7: I've waited for the last second to find a perfect
• 2:25:10
  Speaker 7: Halloween costume.
• 2:25:12
  Speaker 3: Why do I do this every year?
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  Speaker 1: Milo the Mouse scampered up cheerfully with a pumpkin bucket,
• 2:25:20
  Speaker 1: dressed up as his Halloween costume, a cupcake. Hector?
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  Speaker 3: Hector? Is that you?
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  Speaker 1: Hey? Milo? Hector replied Hector, what's wrong, buddy?
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  Speaker 7: Oh? Nothing, I just made the most huge mistake in
• 2:25:37
  Speaker 7: my entire bat life and forgot to pick out a
• 2:25:40
  Speaker 7: Halloween costume for the forest Halloween Brain tomorrow.
• 2:25:45
  Speaker 6: Oh Hector, don't you worry. We'll figure it out together.
• 2:25:50
  Speaker 1: We can go on a quest to find your costume.
• 2:25:53
  Speaker 6: And you know what they say, adventure makes the best ideas.
• 2:25:59
  Speaker 1: Sammy the world leapt from a branch, his tail flicking dramatically.
• 2:26:05
  Speaker 1: Sammy also had his costume on and was dressed up
• 2:26:08
  Speaker 1: as Superman, his favorite superhero. Hello Franks, I couldn't help
• 2:26:15
  Speaker 1: it over here that you're going on an adventure? Have
• 2:26:19
  Speaker 1: you heard of the secret costume shop in the misty Meadow?
• 2:26:23
  Speaker 1: Both Hector and Milo looked blankly back at Sammy, shaking
• 2:26:28
  Speaker 1: their heads.
• 2:26:29
  Speaker 3: No, don't worry, I know a shortcut to get us there.
• 2:26:35
  Speaker 1: As if on cue inbounded Benny the Puppy, stumbling over
• 2:26:40
  Speaker 1: his own paws with his tail wagging. Benny also had
• 2:26:45
  Speaker 1: already gotten his costume and was dressed up as John McClain,
• 2:26:51
  Speaker 1: specifically from Diehard Too.
• 2:26:54
  Speaker 2: Don't forget about little old Benny the Puppy. I love
• 2:26:57
  Speaker 2: to help, and we can't find one. We'll make you
• 2:27:00
  Speaker 2: a costume, Go big Red.
• 2:27:03
  Speaker 1: The friends laughed together, and Hector felt a little better
• 2:27:08
  Speaker 1: as they started following Sammy towards the shop. Sammy first
• 2:27:14
  Speaker 1: led the group towards the pumpkin patch, filled with beautiful
• 2:27:19
  Speaker 1: orange pumpkins and glowing with rows of orange lanterns.
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  Speaker 6: Look at all these pumpkins, Hector, you could always go
• 2:27:28
  Speaker 6: as a pumpkin bat.
• 2:27:30
  Speaker 3: A pumpkin bat. That sounds silly.
• 2:27:34
  Speaker 6: Well, it's okay if your Halloween costume is silly, Hector.
• 2:27:39
  Speaker 1: Benny wagged his tail in agreement.
• 2:27:42
  Speaker 2: That's right, Sammy. They can be silly, or spooky or
• 2:27:46
  Speaker 2: even awesome. For example, if I had all the money
• 2:27:49
  Speaker 2: in the world, I would be wearing a movie gray
• 2:27:51
  Speaker 2: replica of William Dafoe's green goblin suit from the two
• 2:27:55
  Speaker 2: thousand and two Colt classic The Spider Man Movie.
• 2:28:00
  Speaker 1: Everyone turned slowly to Benny the Puppy and stared confused.
• 2:28:07
  Speaker 1: Bart Oh, okay, well, I just don't feel like a
• 2:28:12
  Speaker 1: pumpkin is the costume I want.
• 2:28:14
  Speaker 3: The secret costume store will have what I'm looking for, right, Sammy.
• 2:28:19
  Speaker 1: Of course, all we have to do is cross the
• 2:28:23
  Speaker 1: rickety bridge and then head through the misty meadow, and
• 2:28:26
  Speaker 1: we're there. Milo pulled out his binoculars and looked in
• 2:28:31
  Speaker 1: the distance.
• 2:28:33
  Speaker 6: Hey, guys, I see a bridge up ahead that looks
• 2:28:37
  Speaker 6: extra spooky.
• 2:28:38
  Speaker 1: We're on the right path. I don't know.
• 2:28:41
  Speaker 2: That bridge looks like it smells like goodwitted, fam.
• 2:28:46
  Speaker 1: What's good with it. Fam Benny snickered, Oh, Benny, what,
• 2:28:53
  Speaker 1: I didn't even say nothing. The gang kept moving, heading
• 2:28:58
  Speaker 1: towards the rickety bridge. And as the group made its
• 2:29:03
  Speaker 1: way towards the rickety bridge, Milo thought about who would
• 2:29:08
  Speaker 1: have made the bridge, and he got an idea.
• 2:29:11
  Speaker 6: Hector, why don't you go as a lumberjack bat That
• 2:29:15
  Speaker 6: would be festive?
• 2:29:17
  Speaker 3: No, thanks, my loan, I don't really think a lumberjack
• 2:29:20
  Speaker 3: baptist for me.
• 2:29:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, my low, what are you thinking?
• 2:29:24
  Speaker 2: Approximately fifteen billion trees are cutting down each year by lumberjacks,
• 2:29:29
  Speaker 2: effectively removing forty one million acres of trees annually climate
• 2:29:33
  Speaker 2: change deforestation. Not to mention the fact that Hector looks
• 2:29:37
  Speaker 2: terrible in a flannel. It makes his bath hims look
• 2:29:40
  Speaker 2: whiter than they already are. Matter of fact, he looked
• 2:29:43
  Speaker 2: great as a corn husker.
• 2:29:46
  Speaker 1: Everyone turned slowly to Benny the Puppy and stared confused. Wolf,
• 2:29:55
  Speaker 1: don't worry, guys, the store has everything we could want.
• 2:29:59
  Speaker 1: I know, we'll find a costume there for everyone. The
• 2:30:03
  Speaker 1: friends headed deep down into a meadow, where they discovered
• 2:30:07
  Speaker 1: a large oak tree with long winding limbs. Sammy the
• 2:30:13
  Speaker 1: squirrel pointed towards the tree, his eyes wide.
• 2:30:19
  Speaker 3: That's it. That's the engines to the store, right there.
• 2:30:23
  Speaker 1: All the friends looked up at the spooky tree together hopeful.
• 2:30:29
  Speaker 3: There's a sign at the door. What does it say?
• 2:30:33
  Speaker 1: Milo climbed on top of Hector's head to get a
• 2:30:37
  Speaker 1: better look at the tree.
• 2:30:39
  Speaker 6: Oh no, Hector, the store is closed. The sign reads
• 2:30:46
  Speaker 6: wife in Labor store closed to further notice.
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  Speaker 1: Let's go Pt.
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  Speaker 7: Six.
• 2:30:54
  Speaker 1: The group all stared at the sign. Defeated Hector.
• 2:31:00
  Speaker 3: I'm so sorry.
• 2:31:03
  Speaker 1: In all my years of coming here, I've never seen
• 2:31:07
  Speaker 1: it closed.
• 2:31:08
  Speaker 3: It's not your fault, Sammy. It just thinks that now
• 2:31:12
  Speaker 3: I don't have a costume for the parade.
• 2:31:14
  Speaker 2: Honestly, guys, we could probably file a complaint for misinformation
• 2:31:19
  Speaker 2: with the Better Business Bureau. Although there's no legal penalty
• 2:31:23
  Speaker 2: for closing without proper notice, we could most likely sue
• 2:31:26
  Speaker 2: due to breach of contract or fraud in deception.
• 2:31:30
  Speaker 1: Neither we'll hold up in court.
• 2:31:32
  Speaker 2: Neither will hold up, but the likelihood of the store
• 2:31:34
  Speaker 2: owner doing everything he can to avoid this going to
• 2:31:37
  Speaker 2: trial may just be enough for us to win and
• 2:31:40
  Speaker 2: petty claims court.
• 2:31:43
  Speaker 1: Everyone turned slowly to Benny the puppy and stared confused
• 2:31:50
  Speaker 1: Bart the game turned around, defeated and sad that Hector
• 2:31:57
  Speaker 1: wouldn't have a costume for the parade. The next day,
• 2:32:02
  Speaker 1: as Hector woke up, he realized that all of his
• 2:32:05
  Speaker 1: friends would be having fun at the parade today without him.
• 2:32:10
  Speaker 3: I knew I should have just been a pumpkin bat.
• 2:32:14
  Speaker 1: The door to Hector's bedroom creaked open, and his mother
• 2:32:19
  Speaker 1: walked in and sat next to him on the bed. Hector,
• 2:32:22
  Speaker 1: what are you doing? I thought you would be out
• 2:32:25
  Speaker 1: of bed already for the parade. You love Halloween.
• 2:32:29
  Speaker 3: No, Mom, not this here. I didn't find a costume
• 2:32:32
  Speaker 3: in time for the parade, so.
• 2:32:34
  Speaker 1: I'm not going Mama bat let out a little bat,
• 2:32:39
  Speaker 1: laugh you silly little kiro Tara.
• 2:32:43
  Speaker 6: I bought you a Halloween costume from the Misty Meadow
• 2:32:45
  Speaker 6: store weeks ago.
• 2:32:47
  Speaker 1: Did your father and I not tell you about it?
• 2:32:49
  Speaker 1: It's in your closet. Hector shot out of bed and
• 2:32:54
  Speaker 1: flew to the closet with excitement. As he opened the closet,
• 2:32:59
  Speaker 1: there hung a movie grade replica of William Dafoe's green
• 2:33:04
  Speaker 1: Goblin suit from the two thousand and two cult classic
• 2:33:08
  Speaker 1: Spider Man movie.
• 2:33:10
  Speaker 3: I have the best parents ever. Thank you, Mama, bet
• 2:33:14
  Speaker 3: you saved Halloween.
• 2:33:17
  Speaker 1: Hector threw on his costume and flew out the window,
• 2:33:22
  Speaker 1: hoping to make it down to the parade before it started.
• 2:33:26
  Speaker 1: As Hector got to the Forest town Square, he saw
• 2:33:30
  Speaker 1: his friends down below, all standing on the side just
• 2:33:34
  Speaker 1: in time.
• 2:33:35
  Speaker 3: I wish Hector was here. He loves the parade.
• 2:33:39
  Speaker 1: I know, Sammy.
• 2:33:40
  Speaker 3: I can't believe the.
• 2:33:41
  Speaker 7: Store was closed.
• 2:33:43
  Speaker 3: What bad luck.
• 2:33:45
  Speaker 2: He could have been a pumpkin bat or a lumberjack
• 2:33:47
  Speaker 2: bat and still come. But I totally understand those honors
• 2:33:50
  Speaker 2: car chasing vibes.
• 2:33:53
  Speaker 1: As Benny was finishing his sentence, Hector landed next to
• 2:33:58
  Speaker 1: his friends and his new green Goblin costume.
• 2:34:02
  Speaker 3: Hey guys, Hector, you made it. Yay and just in
• 2:34:06
  Speaker 3: time for the parade.
• 2:34:08
  Speaker 1: Hey what? The guys had the best Halloween ever in
• 2:34:13
  Speaker 1: their costumes, watching the parade as friends should.