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- 0:58Speaker 3: Heather MacDonald.
- 1:00Speaker 4: Juicy Scoop.
- 1:01Speaker 3: Hello and welcome to Juicy Scoop. All right, you guys,
- 1:05Speaker 3: let's get into it. J-Lo on Friday announced that she
- 1:11Speaker 3: will no longer be doing her summer tour. Page six says,
- 1:14Speaker 3: heart sick Jennifer Lopez canceling tour to spend time with
- 1:18Speaker 3: kids amid Ben Affleck split and speculation. I saw this
- 1:23Speaker 3: and everything clicked for me. Now I'm I may feel differently.
- 1:28Speaker 3: I'm not always right about things, but I'm reporting it
- 1:31Speaker 3: as I see it. I have felt that the publicity
- 1:36Speaker 3: around their alleged issues has been very suspect to me
- 1:41Speaker 3: as someone who studies pop culture and how this works.
- 1:45Speaker 3: The fact that these stories were coming out, but they
- 1:49Speaker 3: were still being seen, being photographed, and they were like
- 1:53Speaker 3: all these little things being let out. They One was
- 1:56Speaker 3: that they didn't go to the graduation for Violet together.
- 1:59Speaker 3: And then the next thing, no, they actually did. They
- 2:02Speaker 3: were looking for separate homes. No, it was just investment properties.
- 2:07Speaker 3: We know that her whole thing with the This Is
- 2:10Speaker 3: Me has not been the success that she thought. And
- 2:13Speaker 3: she put her own money into it, $ 20 million, whatever,
- 2:16Speaker 3: to have this, the music video thing with all the
- 2:19Speaker 3: different vignettes and then the documentary thing. where then a
- 2:24Speaker 3: lot of people on TikTok and whatnot made fun of it. But,
- 2:28Speaker 3: you know, anyway. And then that the ticket sales were
- 2:31Speaker 3: very low for these big like arena tours that she
- 2:34Speaker 3: was doing, which then caused people to think that maybe
- 2:37Speaker 3: it's not a good idea for her to have this
- 2:39Speaker 3: Vegas residency where she'd make a million a night. So
- 2:44Speaker 3: first of all, I hope they stay married. I hope
- 2:46Speaker 3: that she does have a wonderful summer laying low and
- 2:49Speaker 3: hanging with her kids. The kids are young. And they
- 2:53Speaker 3: hang out as a family and fall back in love
- 2:55Speaker 3: because that's more important than tour or saving face. However,
- 3:02Speaker 3: the story of all of this and her tour dates
- 3:05Speaker 3: not doing that well has been evident for a while.
- 3:09Speaker 3: And we knew about it when we started to hear
- 3:12Speaker 3: the rumblings that they were struggling. And sources are saying
- 3:15Speaker 3: this and all of this. So I don't think they're
- 3:19Speaker 3: actually struggling. I think that they're fine. And I think
- 3:24Speaker 3: that they played this up knowing that then when she
- 3:27Speaker 3: if she kind of gave herself a deadline, like if
- 3:29Speaker 3: I don't sell this many tickets by this amount of time,
- 3:33Speaker 3: then we are going to cancel it and we're going
- 3:36Speaker 3: to cancel it. And people will immediately assume I'm working
- 3:39Speaker 3: on my marriage and I will gain respect for that.
- 3:42Speaker 3: And that'll be the end of it. Because, listen, people
- 3:45Speaker 3: cancel events, especially these big ones. Because they don't want
- 3:50Speaker 3: to come out and perform for a half full house
- 3:53Speaker 3: or less, especially in a big arena like that. Like
- 3:57Speaker 3: if you're doing a small club and it's 300 seats
- 4:00Speaker 3: and only 120 people come and they're right there like
- 4:03Speaker 3: a comedy club, it's fine. You still do it. You
- 4:06Speaker 3: still have fun. Or it's a small jazz club. That's fine.
- 4:09Speaker 3: But when it's like. a vacuous arena. It's an already
- 4:13Speaker 3: video came out of a recent show she had where
- 4:16Speaker 3: we saw how many empty seats. Now the crowd was
- 4:18Speaker 3: loving her and she was killing it, but this is
- 4:22Speaker 3: just probably not what she wants. And she's probably like,
- 4:24Speaker 3: why the fuck am I doing this? I don't need
- 4:26Speaker 3: the money. If it's not going to be a sellout thing,
- 4:28Speaker 3: I don't want to do it. I'd much rather stay
- 4:31Speaker 3: with my kids and Ben. And this is a gift
- 4:35Speaker 3: from God that it was a bust because now I
- 4:37Speaker 3: can work on my family. But That is what I think.
- 4:42Speaker 3: I really don't think that their marriage is in that
- 4:44Speaker 3: much trouble now. And I think this was a really
- 4:46Speaker 3: good publicity plan to get out of these dates and
- 4:50Speaker 3: save some face. But it's not that good of a
- 4:54Speaker 3: plan because I figured it out. Okay. I had such
- 4:57Speaker 3: a fun time. Thanks to a Juicy Scooper. I got
- 5:02Speaker 3: invited to a fabulous party on Thursday night. Netflix had
- 5:05Speaker 3: this like award show for the reality stars. And we
- 5:08Speaker 3: talk about it in today's interview with Alex Hall. And
- 5:12Speaker 3: we did it about a week ago. And I told her,
- 5:14Speaker 3: are you going to come? Unfortunately, she didn't come. But
- 5:16Speaker 3: I was excited to go to this because I like
- 5:18Speaker 3: to go to any party with past apps. I had
- 5:21Speaker 3: no idea it was going to be even something I
- 5:24Speaker 3: love more, which was we went to one of the
- 5:27Speaker 3: agency's $ 52 million listing that's featured in buying Beverly Hills.
- 5:33Speaker 3: That is where this party was held on a beautiful sunset,
- 5:39Speaker 3: 630 in the most expensive place. zip code of LA,
- 5:44Speaker 3: which is Bel Air. And so we start going to
- 5:46Speaker 3: this thing and I'm like, oh my God, Peter, we
- 5:49Speaker 3: keep going up and up and up. This is going
- 5:52Speaker 3: to be so good. And it was so fun. And
- 5:56Speaker 3: it was to celebrate all their reality shows. One I'm
- 6:00Speaker 3: bummed I didn't talk to Ryan from Million Dollar Listing
- 6:04Speaker 3: New York. He now has a whole nother show on
- 6:07Speaker 3: Netflix called selling Manhattan or buying Manhattan, something like that.
- 6:12Speaker 3: And I did not realize that he was launching a
- 6:15Speaker 3: new show that's coming out soon. But they had the
- 6:18Speaker 3: Love is Blind girls there who I met, and that
- 6:21Speaker 3: was really great. And then they're giving out awards. They
- 6:23Speaker 3: had all the Selling Sunset OC people. Jason Oppenheimer won
- 6:27Speaker 3: an award. And it was like fun and casual. It
- 6:30Speaker 3: was all outside and everyone looked gorgeous. And all the
- 6:33Speaker 3: realtors were dressed in completely inappropriate outfits, not good for showing,
- 6:39Speaker 3: but I loved seeing them. And it was really fun
- 6:43Speaker 3: to see so many people there that of the shows
- 6:46Speaker 3: that we love and they were all nice. And I
- 6:47Speaker 3: was kind of more like for some of them, I
- 6:50Speaker 3: was like, so what now? Like the Love is Blind people,
- 6:52Speaker 3: they all live in South Carolina, in Charlotte. And I'm like,
- 6:56Speaker 3: what are you doing now? And I guess there's another
- 6:58Speaker 3: show coming out where some of them were utilized, which
- 7:01Speaker 3: they should. They should utilize the star people. But I'm like,
- 7:05Speaker 3: this must be so great. Like, you know, a year
- 7:07Speaker 3: and a half ago, you weren't doing anything. And now
- 7:10Speaker 3: you're like literally in a $ 50 million house, all modern, chic,
- 7:14Speaker 3: the infinity pool. It was a good time. Then I
- 7:17Speaker 3: came home and watched the breakup of The Summer House.
- 7:22Speaker 3: with Carl and Lindsay. This relationship has been so incredibly
- 7:26Speaker 3: fascinating to watch. I know I've not talked that much
- 7:29Speaker 3: about Summer House, but watching this relationship. So this was
- 7:33Speaker 3: a couple that came on the show years ago as
- 7:36Speaker 3: platonic friends. Then they were best friends. Then they fell
- 7:39Speaker 3: in love. And then they got engaged. And honestly, I
- 7:43Speaker 3: didn't really believe that they were a real couple originally.
- 7:48Speaker 3: I thought something else was going on with him. And-
- 7:52Speaker 3: But then it kept going on and they filmed and
- 7:55Speaker 3: they were planning their wedding. And then this whole season
- 7:59Speaker 3: is leading up to their wedding and he basically cancels it,
- 8:04Speaker 3: I think just like two months before it's supposed to happen,
- 8:07Speaker 3: and breaks up with her. And they absolutely should be
- 8:09Speaker 3: broken up. I mean, if there was ever a couple
- 8:11Speaker 3: that should not be married, it's these two people. But
- 8:15Speaker 3: I guess in the past, and I haven't watched it religiously,
- 8:18Speaker 3: she comes off. sometimes could be kind of bitchy or unlikable.
- 8:22Speaker 3: But he, his whole thing is, I mean, these people
- 8:25Speaker 3: are pushing 40 and he's like, I got to figure
- 8:28Speaker 3: out what I want to do career-wise because doing Summer House,
- 8:31Speaker 3: I guess, you know, is not going to be a
- 8:33Speaker 3: lifelong career when you're getting married and having kids. And
- 8:35Speaker 3: he worked for the other guy, Luke, doing stuff for
- 8:39Speaker 3: his like alcoholic brand called Loverboy. But then that didn't
- 8:43Speaker 3: work out. So then he wasn't doing anything. And then
- 8:45Speaker 3: he was like, I have an idea to do a
- 8:47Speaker 3: sober sports bar. in New York. I don't think there's
- 8:51Speaker 3: a worse idea than opening up a bar that doesn't
- 8:54Speaker 3: serve any alcohol and is playing sports in New York
- 8:57Speaker 3: with the rent and how hard restaurants are. So Lindsay
- 9:01Speaker 3: was kind of like, I don't know if that's a
- 9:03Speaker 3: great idea. And he's like, God, I just need you
- 9:05Speaker 3: to be softer and be excited and be supportive. He's like, well,
- 9:09Speaker 3: now I'm going to work for Loverboy again, making sober drinks,
- 9:13Speaker 3: which I'm sorry. I just think a sober... sober drink. Like,
- 9:18Speaker 3: I mean, there is a non-alcoholic beer and wine and
- 9:20Speaker 3: I get it, but whatever. That's what he's going to do.
- 9:23Speaker 3: And she was like, okay, but like then what? And
- 9:26Speaker 3: he's like, God, I mean, listen, you have been very
- 9:28Speaker 3: supportive about my career. And it's just, I said I
- 9:32Speaker 3: would have a career. Like I gave myself nine months
- 9:34Speaker 3: to figure out what my career is going to be
- 9:36Speaker 3: and you should be supportive of it. I just want
- 9:39Speaker 3: to say, thank God they broke up. But also their
- 9:42Speaker 3: communication was so interesting to watch. Like the way– they
- 9:48Speaker 3: were just so mismatched and their communication was so bad.
- 9:51Speaker 3: But it was really– like if someone was studying communication
- 9:54Speaker 3: of couples, they should watch them and realize what doesn't
- 9:58Speaker 3: work because you know, he would try to get her
- 10:02Speaker 3: to say something and then she would say it. It
- 10:04Speaker 3: was just constant. They'd be like, I don't want to fight.
- 10:06Speaker 3: I don't want to fight. They were just always fighting.
- 10:09Speaker 3: And thank God they didn't get married. And his own
- 10:11Speaker 3: stepdad who marries people as a pastor was like, I
- 10:14Speaker 3: would not marry you. And since then... He had these
- 10:18Speaker 3: really big white teeth. He's appeared to get bigger, wider ones.
- 10:22Speaker 3: Or maybe he's lost weight. I don't know. He always
- 10:25Speaker 3: fancied wearing very skin-tight white jeans. And now they match
- 10:30Speaker 3: his teeth. Just whatever. I just think it's a good
- 10:34Speaker 3: call that they're out. And then one thing that he
- 10:36Speaker 3: said was he did break up with her on camera. So,
- 10:40Speaker 3: you know, he was a very good employee of Bravo
- 10:42Speaker 3: to do that. And she was blindsided. And then he's like,
- 10:46Speaker 3: I just know I'm going to. I'm going to be canceled.
- 10:48Speaker 3: I know the world is going to rally around her
- 10:50Speaker 3: because I broke up with her. But he does not
- 10:53Speaker 3: have to worry. The world is so happy that she's
- 10:55Speaker 3: not marrying Carl. Everybody is like, thank God, girl, you
- 11:00Speaker 3: can do better. But I could see why a guy
- 11:02Speaker 3: would be nervous about that, breaking up with someone on
- 11:05Speaker 3: a reality show where, you know, 80% or 90% of
- 11:08Speaker 3: the fans are probably female women.
- 11:09Speaker 5: So.
- 11:14Speaker 3: It's very interesting if you haven't watched it. The rest
- 11:16Speaker 3: of the stuff is like kind of fun, but that's
- 11:18Speaker 3: really the only storyline I cared about. And it was fascinating.
- 11:23Speaker 3: He also, I don't know where he's going to go
- 11:26Speaker 3: from here. He's very open about his sexuality. He was
- 11:29Speaker 3: on Watch What Happens Live after show and talked about
- 11:32Speaker 3: how he had a threesome and engaged in a guy thing.
- 11:40Speaker 3: you know, giving him a BJ. And he said at
- 11:42Speaker 3: the time, he said it was the best BJ ever had.
- 11:44Speaker 3: Then he said, no, I've had better now that I'm
- 11:46Speaker 3: engaged to Lindsay. But then Lindsay said to on the
- 11:50Speaker 3: show that we barely were having sex or once every
- 11:52Speaker 3: few weeks, which probably means once every two months. So
- 11:56Speaker 3: who knows? All those things. It's good that they didn't
- 11:59Speaker 3: marry each other. Okay. I talked about Joe from Vanderpump
- 12:05Speaker 3: making up these strange lies. And that is why Schwartz
- 12:09Speaker 3: was like got the red flags and really moved apart.
- 12:12Speaker 3: I talked about it's sort of a trait of a
- 12:14Speaker 3: grifter to make up lies, innocuous lies that don't matter.
- 12:18Speaker 3: One of the other things I forgot to mention was
- 12:21Speaker 3: Kristen Doty, who originally brought her into the group. Her boyfriend, Luke, said,
- 12:25Speaker 3: I was surprised that when Andy asked her, are you single?
- 12:30Speaker 3: Who would you like to date or something? She's like,
- 12:32Speaker 3: do you know Aaron Rodgers? I'd like to date Aaron Rodgers.
- 12:35Speaker 3: Luke goes, I thought that was really weird because she
- 12:37Speaker 3: told me herself. completely unsolicited conversation. Oh, I do Aaron
- 12:43Speaker 3: Rodgers' hair. He flies me out to do his hair.
- 12:47Speaker 3: And then Kristen goes, that's so weird because my actual friend,
- 12:52Speaker 3: another real friend, I do know who does his hair.
- 12:55Speaker 3: And he flies she and her wife out, and this
- 12:58Speaker 3: is all on Kristen's podcast, to do So I'm like, oh,
- 13:01Speaker 3: this is such another grifter thing. She just took someone else's,
- 13:04Speaker 3: another hairdresser's life that's like one degree away from her
- 13:08Speaker 3: and just like took her story for her own and
- 13:10Speaker 3: said it. So strange. So I talked about it on
- 13:13Speaker 3: my Patreon and then someone said, you got to see
- 13:16Speaker 3: the girl that they're talking about's Instagram. It's like Joe
- 13:20Speaker 3: stole her identity. So I go to this girl's Instagram.
- 13:23Speaker 3: Her name is Rihanna, R-I-A-W-N-A Capri. She has 420,000 followers.
- 13:30Speaker 3: She does a lot of hair teaching. She does tutorials
- 13:34Speaker 3: and all this stuff. And she's young and married to
- 13:38Speaker 3: a woman, and they have lots of fun stuff. And
- 13:40Speaker 3: that is who actually Aaron Rodgers allegedly flies out to
- 13:43Speaker 3: do his hair. So I start watching her videos. Oh,
- 13:46Speaker 3: my God. Not only does Joe look like her, but
- 13:49Speaker 3: when this girl was explaining how to put in hair
- 13:52Speaker 3: extensions— It's the way Joe talks. Like, so I'm like,
- 13:56Speaker 3: who the fuck, who, what? And it's like, just a
- 14:00Speaker 3: little bit of that, not as much as Joe, but
- 14:01Speaker 3: it's so interesting. And I just had to point it out,
- 14:05Speaker 3: but she seems like a delight. And all of her
- 14:07Speaker 3: photos look like Joe, like smiling, like all of them
- 14:12Speaker 3: are like mid laugh, which is a lot of like, ah,
- 14:14Speaker 3: like a lot of what Joe does, right? okay, we
- 14:17Speaker 3: are not really going out now. Like all that kind of,
- 14:21Speaker 3: and so when she was doing the hair extension on
- 14:24Speaker 3: one of the videos, she was like, you guys, your
- 14:26Speaker 3: hair expands when there's water on it. That is what happens.
- 14:29Speaker 3: The particles expand. It's a crazy thing. And I had
- 14:34Speaker 3: to point it out. And thanks to the Juicy Skipper
- 14:36Speaker 3: that pointed out to me. One more thing on, and
- 14:38Speaker 3: just like that, Che Diaz's character, you know, is gone.
- 14:42Speaker 3: And Miranda, played by Cynthia Nixon, talked about it, and
- 14:46Speaker 3: she just said it had run its course. The character's
- 14:50Speaker 3: arc had run its course. There was no other place
- 14:53Speaker 3: for it to go. And that was the only reason.
- 14:56Speaker 3: I'm personally sad about it because it was a love-hate
- 15:00Speaker 3: with her character. And when we would watch it, we
- 15:03Speaker 3: were like, more interested in her career with a failed
- 15:07Speaker 3: pilot and the standup concerts, and then having to work
- 15:11Speaker 3: at a vet place as an assistant and live at
- 15:13Speaker 3: her and Buella's basement. To me, I wanted to see
- 15:17Speaker 3: more of that, but they did break up. And so
- 15:20Speaker 3: maybe my, our dream of she and Steve getting back
- 15:23Speaker 3: together will happen. Guys, remember to go to heathermcdonald.net only
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- 15:57Speaker 3: greets for all of those. All right, you guys. Now
- 15:59Speaker 3: you are going to get some real juice from behind
- 16:02Speaker 3: the scenes of a hot show on Netflix, Selling Sunset
- 16:06Speaker 3: OC with returning guest Alex Hall.
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- 16:29Speaker 7: I'm Darman, and this is What Happens Next. Each week
- 16:32Speaker 7: on the show, I sit down with extraordinary people who
- 16:35Speaker 7: have faced tremendous setbacks, and yet somehow have found a
- 16:40Speaker 7: way to turn them into their greatest strengths.
- 16:42Speaker 4: Life is one long lesson of chaos.
- 16:45Speaker 6: I'm heading to the Emmys, and I have police complaints
- 16:48Speaker 6: filed against me.
- 16:49Speaker 5: When your free will was about to be taken from you,
- 16:51Speaker 5: what would you do if it was given back?
- 16:53Speaker 7: Where did that need come from, where you thought that
- 16:56Speaker 7: you had to succeed in order to feel loved?
- 16:59Speaker 4: He said, I have a work dad. I need a
- 17:00Speaker 4: home dad.
- 17:01Speaker 7: What happens next?
- 17:02Speaker 4: When I came in, he started crying.
- 17:04Speaker 7: Everybody in life encounters hardships. What defines them is not
- 17:08Speaker 7: those hard moments that they go through. It's about what
- 17:11Speaker 7: happens next.
- 17:12Speaker 4: I decided to risk it all.
- 17:13Speaker 3: I realized how valuable every day was. You're worth the work.
- 17:16Speaker 4: Listen, Dara, I'm not going to pull punches. You can
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- 17:21Speaker 7: The stories are different, but the impact is the same.
- 17:24Speaker 7: Only one question matters. What happens next?
- 17:35Speaker 3: Hello and welcome to Juicy Scoop. I have returned guest,
- 17:38Speaker 3: star of Selling OC, the star of the show, Alex Hall.
- 17:44Speaker 3: Welcome back.
- 17:45Speaker 4: So fun to be back here.
- 17:47Speaker 3: So juicy. What season did I just watch? Three or four? Three.
- 17:53Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 17:53Speaker 2: Three.
- 17:54Speaker 3: And this is with the Oppenheimer Tiny Twins. That's what
- 17:58Speaker 3: I call them. I don't care. I love all the
- 18:01Speaker 3: Selling Sunset shows. Actually, I guess there's like a Selling
- 18:04Speaker 3: Sunset in like Tampa or something. I don't watch that one.
- 18:06Speaker 4: That's not us, though. That's not the Selling– like our franchise.
- 18:11Speaker 4: There's a Selling franchise, but our producers are only doing
- 18:16Speaker 4: Sunset in Orange County.
- 18:18Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 18:19Speaker 6: Oh, okay.
- 18:19Speaker 4: So they didn't do– wait. Yeah, I don't think– Or
- 18:24Speaker 4: maybe they did shit. Actually, I scratched that. That could
- 18:27Speaker 4: be totally wrong.
- 18:27Speaker 3: But it's not Oppenheimer.
- 18:30Speaker 4: That's what it is. It is our production company.
- 18:31Speaker 3: That's not Oppenheimer Real Estate Offices.
- 18:33Speaker 4: Yes, that's where I got confused. It is our production company,
- 18:35Speaker 4: but it's not Oppenheimer Group.
- 18:36Speaker 3: Yes. And you came on Juicy Scoop maybe like a
- 18:39Speaker 3: year ago.
- 18:39Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 18:41Speaker 3: And there was a lot of controversy. There wasn't any
- 18:43Speaker 3: controversy then. I said, I predict that Tyler, who is
- 18:48Speaker 3: the very cute guy who was married to Brittany Snow,
- 18:51Speaker 3: the actress, I said to you, I predict this marriage
- 18:56Speaker 3: is not going to last. And you're like, why do
- 18:59Speaker 3: you think that? And I said, because I think Brittany Snow,
- 19:04Speaker 3: you know, married a guy that she thought she was
- 19:06Speaker 3: marrying a normie and she was going to be the star.
- 19:08Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 19:09Speaker 3: And He, because he's, you know, good looking, gets on
- 19:11Speaker 3: the show that's a hit. And then he becomes a
- 19:15Speaker 3: personality and a star. And I'm not criticizing her. I'm
- 19:19Speaker 3: just saying sometimes when you start a marriage and you
- 19:21Speaker 3: think you know the roles and the roles switch for
- 19:24Speaker 3: whatever reason, it can be with non-fame related, you know, businesses.
- 19:29Speaker 3: It can be all of a sudden your wife starts
- 19:31Speaker 3: working out of the home and the husband and the
- 19:32Speaker 3: wife vice versa. It's just the dynamic changes constantly. And
- 19:35Speaker 3: if the foundation is not super strong, then it can't survive.
- 19:39Speaker 4: Totally.
- 19:40Speaker 3: But some people thought you had to do with that breakup.
- 19:43Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 19:44Speaker 3: No.
- 19:44Speaker 4: I mean, the story– so I think– so I was
- 19:47Speaker 4: here season one then because I do remember you saying that.
- 19:50Speaker 4: So we've had two seasons since the last time I
- 19:53Speaker 4: was here. And I remember that exact moment when you
- 19:57Speaker 4: said that because what I had already known was that
- 20:01Speaker 4: they were getting divorced.
- 20:02Speaker 3: Oh, okay.
- 20:03Speaker 4: Tyler had told us very early on filming season one
- 20:07Speaker 4: that– him and his wife were not going to, it
- 20:11Speaker 4: wasn't going to work out. He had said, I think
- 20:13Speaker 4: they tried to make it work. And I don't, I
- 20:16Speaker 4: don't want to give too much. I don't know the
- 20:17Speaker 4: exact details of it. I only know what Tyler shared.
- 20:20Speaker 4: And at this point, I don't trust him as far
- 20:25Speaker 4: as I can throw him. So I don't know if
- 20:26Speaker 4: any of it was true.
- 20:27Speaker 3: Let's hear about that later on. We could finish this part.
- 20:30Speaker 4: So he had said that she told him, if you
- 20:34Speaker 4: do the show, we're going to get a divorce. And
- 20:39Speaker 4: he chose the show.
- 20:40Speaker 3: So. Well, I mean, listen, I just did an interview
- 20:46Speaker 3: with Dr. Drew, you know, he's a doctor of therapy
- 20:49Speaker 3: and everything else. And I said, why do you think
- 20:52Speaker 3: that marriages don't work on reality shows? And he brought
- 20:56Speaker 3: up a really good point. When it comes to like
- 20:58Speaker 3: Housewives or the Valley of the Vanderpump, where then you
- 21:00Speaker 3: relive the fight with your spouse, you know, seven months later,
- 21:03Speaker 3: that could be a lot. But in this case, It
- 21:07Speaker 3: is kind of true what I said is like she
- 21:10Speaker 3: that's not what she gambled for. She thought she was
- 21:12Speaker 3: marrying a cute surfer that could bring in some good
- 21:15Speaker 3: real estate money. And I also think no offense to her,
- 21:19Speaker 3: but I don't think her career is on a high.
- 21:22Speaker 3: Not saying it won't totally come back, but that's the
- 21:24Speaker 3: way entertainment is. Right. So when that can happen, you have.
- 21:29Speaker 3: some insecurities or some, you know, it's tough when your
- 21:32Speaker 3: business is not going the way it has in the past.
- 21:35Speaker 3: And again, the relationships would be so strong for that. So.
- 21:38Speaker 4: I mean, there, I don't think there can only be very,
- 21:42Speaker 4: very few relationships that survive reality television. Um, I think
- 21:47Speaker 4: it's not just the reliving the fight. I think it's also,
- 21:50Speaker 4: you're a different, your life changes so drastically when you're
- 21:55Speaker 4: in the media. Yeah. for anybody. So if it's one
- 21:57Speaker 4: of the spouses or one of the significant others that's
- 22:01Speaker 4: in the media and the other isn't, that's a whole
- 22:03Speaker 4: culture shock. And you're dealing with watching this person who
- 22:05Speaker 4: you fell in love with and you had these humble
- 22:07Speaker 4: beginnings and it's either the fame gets to them or
- 22:10Speaker 4: the lights. And people like privacy. There is no more
- 22:15Speaker 4: sacred relationship than your family, right? Your spouse or your children.
- 22:19Speaker 4: And when you put media in that and you get,
- 22:22Speaker 4: especially reality television, they're going to dig and dig and
- 22:25Speaker 4: dig and dig until they want the drama. They want
- 22:29Speaker 4: the theatrics. And I don't, it's, I mean, it's never
- 22:34Speaker 4: in a million years would I have thought that being
- 22:35Speaker 4: on a reality show would have made my dating life harder.
- 22:38Speaker 4: And so many people that I come, come across and meet,
- 22:42Speaker 4: they hate that I'm on reality television. They're like, what
- 22:47Speaker 4: are you willing to quit the show? If we, I'm like, what? Wow.
- 22:51Speaker 3: Because that's, Well, I'm absolutely not surprised. I think it's
- 22:56Speaker 3: completely opposite with women. I think women are more attracted-
- 23:01Speaker 3: To a man that's on reality TV, because it's just
- 23:04Speaker 3: more natural that girls, there's more women, there's more daughters
- 23:08Speaker 3: of reality stars that love it, want to be models.
- 23:10Speaker 3: And then the boys are like, oh, mom, get the
- 23:13Speaker 3: camera guys out of the kitchen. It's just for men
- 23:16Speaker 3: and women, it just kind of works that way. But
- 23:18Speaker 3: I mean, I think, yeah, I mean, like look at
- 23:22Speaker 3: Vanderpump Rules. Tom Sandoval has a new girlfriend. And she
- 23:25Speaker 3: was dating Leonardo DiCaprio. And she now is dating him
- 23:29Speaker 3: and making out with him and they're saying, I love you.
- 23:33Speaker 3: And it's like, not that he shouldn't have another chance
- 23:36Speaker 3: at love and not that it could work, but obviously...
- 23:39Speaker 3: The odds are stacked. But is she someone that not
- 23:42Speaker 3: only– yeah, he's probably sweet to her and he's probably
- 23:46Speaker 3: great in the sack and she gets to go see
- 23:48Speaker 3: him sing his songs. You think he's great in the sack?
- 23:50Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm being nice. As if. I don't know.
- 23:54Speaker 3: Who knows? But I'm saying is there a little bit
- 23:58Speaker 3: in her– in the back of her head, whether she
- 24:00Speaker 3: shares it with anyone or not that like, Hey, I'm
- 24:02Speaker 3: aspiring actress model. The only way on Vanderpump is through, uh,
- 24:07Speaker 3: you know, sex.
- 24:08Speaker 4: I would respect her more if that was her ulterior
- 24:11Speaker 4: motive or subconscious thought process rather than just going out.
- 24:14Speaker 4: And I, I'm not here to judge anybody. I've never
- 24:16Speaker 4: met that man. I don't, I think I, the last
- 24:19Speaker 4: time I saw an episode of Vanderpump rules was in
- 24:21Speaker 4: like 2011 or something when it first came out. I
- 24:24Speaker 4: just know I've seen clips cause it's all over social
- 24:26Speaker 4: media and, I mean, that guy, I mean, he makes
- 24:30Speaker 4: me want to crawl out of my skin. So I,
- 24:33Speaker 4: it's hard for me to imagine some girl, but it is, it's,
- 24:36Speaker 4: I think girls are more attracted to the light. We're
- 24:38Speaker 4: like flies.
- 24:38Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
- 24:39Speaker 4: We want to go towards the light and, and men
- 24:41Speaker 4: are like.
- 24:42Speaker 3: And especially men of a certain caliber of like, I mean,
- 24:45Speaker 3: the housewives, Ramona Singer from Real Housewives of New York.
- 24:48Speaker 3: I had a three hour lunch with her when I
- 24:50Speaker 3: was doing shows in Palm Beach. And it's kind of
- 24:53Speaker 3: what I had already heard, but she let me know
- 24:55Speaker 3: that like, Once she got divorced, she very much wants
- 24:58Speaker 3: to have a serious relationship and get married again. And
- 25:01Speaker 3: it really took them not asking her back and none
- 25:05Speaker 3: of the women back for her then to find the
- 25:09Speaker 3: right guy and for that relationship, in her opinion and mine,
- 25:12Speaker 3: to really last. Because he's like a high caliber guy.
- 25:15Speaker 3: He's wealthy and successful and very nice. Everyone likes him.
- 25:19Speaker 3: But no, she goes, every good guy I met... She's like,
- 25:24Speaker 3: she would go on dates and be like, God, praying
- 25:27Speaker 3: that they don't Google her. Because a lot of them
- 25:29Speaker 3: didn't know who she was. She was just a blonde,
- 25:33Speaker 3: outgoing New York successful woman that looked younger than she
- 25:36Speaker 3: is and acts younger and everything. So most guys aren't like,
- 25:39Speaker 3: I wonder if she's on The Real Housewives of New York. No,
- 25:42Speaker 3: but when they found out, they would be turned on.
- 25:43Speaker 4: You go out to one dinner though. I mean, I
- 25:46Speaker 4: haven't been on the big screen for nearly as long
- 25:49Speaker 4: as these women. And I can't even go out. I'm
- 25:52Speaker 4: just a little nobody and I can't go to a
- 25:54Speaker 4: coffee shop or to Especially in Orange County, obviously, because that's,
- 25:58Speaker 4: you know, where most people are watching the show because
- 26:01Speaker 4: it's in Orange County. But when I go out on
- 26:05Speaker 4: a first date, I'm like, oh, my God, please, like, please, please, please, please, please.
- 26:07Speaker 4: No one say anything.
- 26:08Speaker 3: Well, I'll tell you what Ramona told me. And here's
- 26:11Speaker 3: a tip for you. You know, when I met this guy,
- 26:14Speaker 3: when I met my guy. You know, we had such
- 26:16Speaker 3: a great conversation on the phone. And, you know, he
- 26:18Speaker 3: picked a really beautiful restaurant. And, you know, sometimes when
- 26:22Speaker 3: I want to change something, I want to, like, give
- 26:23Speaker 3: a compliment first. And then so I said, you know,
- 26:26Speaker 3: I really love that restaurant. It's really gorgeous. And I
- 26:28Speaker 3: really appreciate you thinking about how wonderful the food is.
- 26:31Speaker 4: You do her so well.
- 26:33Speaker 3: Our conversation, it's kind of loud there. It's kind of loud.
- 26:36Speaker 3: And I enjoyed our conversation so much. And when we
- 26:38Speaker 3: meet in person, I'd rather have a little quiet setting.
- 26:41Speaker 3: What about this place? And I chose a place that,
- 26:44Speaker 3: you know, is not touristy. And I didn't think people
- 26:47Speaker 3: would be approaching me because, you know, when people approach
- 26:49Speaker 3: me and these girls come up and they're like, oh, Ramona.
- 26:51Speaker 4: I want a photo.
- 26:52Speaker 3: And I'm like, you know what? I'm having dinner. And
- 26:54Speaker 3: then they do a mean thing and said I was
- 26:56Speaker 3: rude to them.
- 26:57Speaker 4: And I'm like, you know what?
- 26:58Speaker 3: I deserve to have dinner.
- 26:59Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 27:03Speaker 3: So you have to pick.
- 27:04Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 27:05Speaker 3: If you don't think the guy knows your scoop yet,
- 27:08Speaker 3: maybe they all do, but if they don't, I would
- 27:10Speaker 3: just choose like a more chill place. Like I wouldn't
- 27:14Speaker 3: go to the Quiet Woman. I wouldn't go like, you know,
- 27:17Speaker 3: I wouldn't go to Javier's. I wouldn't go to like
- 27:19Speaker 3: places in OC that are known. Because now when fans
- 27:22Speaker 3: of reality TV come to OC, a lot of Juicy
- 27:25Speaker 3: Scoopers- they don't have to do, their kids are older,
- 27:28Speaker 3: they're not going to Disneyland. And they're like, I'm coming
- 27:30Speaker 3: to LA. I want to go to the place that
- 27:32Speaker 3: the Kardashians get the salad. I'm going to go through,
- 27:34Speaker 3: they're just.
- 27:35Speaker 4: I want an Air One smoothie, okay? Yeah, instead of.
- 27:37Speaker 3: Going like on the coast, they just go through the
- 27:39Speaker 3: 101 to the 405. And then we're going to have
- 27:41Speaker 3: lunch at all the Vanderpump places in West Hollywood. And
- 27:44Speaker 3: then we're going to go to the OC. And we're
- 27:46Speaker 3: going to go to Javier's for lunch and Quiet Woman
- 27:48Speaker 3: for dinner. And they just want to see it because
- 27:51Speaker 3: they've watched all these shows. It's like when you go
- 27:52Speaker 3: to New York and they're like, there's literally sex in
- 27:54Speaker 3: the city tour buses. It's like it's going to.
- 27:57Speaker 4: We don't have that, though. And we don't have– it's
- 28:00Speaker 4: not tourists.
- 28:01Speaker 3: Right.
- 28:01Speaker 4: It's locals. Right. And, like, it's the waitress and the
- 28:04Speaker 4: waiters and the people. And I'm very friendly. I always
- 28:08Speaker 4: will take a photo. And so it might even just
- 28:10Speaker 4: be my energy because a lot of times people, I'll
- 28:12Speaker 4: see them out of the corner of my eye and
- 28:13Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, okay, they probably– have seen the show or,
- 28:16Speaker 4: and it's just that my, I can feel my intuition
- 28:19Speaker 4: and they'll walk by and we'll make eye contact. And
- 28:21Speaker 4: then we don't want to bother you, but we love
- 28:24Speaker 4: your show. And then they're starting to walk away.
- 28:25Speaker 5: Would you mind?
- 28:26Speaker 4: And it's always the husband or the boyfriend. She makes
- 28:28Speaker 4: me watch your show. She just has it. She really
- 28:30Speaker 4: wants a photo with you. Would you mind taking a photo?
- 28:32Speaker 4: Which I think is really sweet for a first date.
- 28:33Speaker 4: Maybe not great, but it is what it is. And
- 28:36Speaker 4: you know, the fans are so sweet and so nice
- 28:39Speaker 4: and I can't, I mean, obviously without them, the shows
- 28:41Speaker 4: don't exist.
- 28:42Speaker 3: Right, yes.
- 28:42Speaker 4: But it's just that back to.
- 28:45Speaker 3: Going on a date.
- 28:46Speaker 4: Going on a date, not wanting... I'm like, please don't...
- 28:48Speaker 4: Even worse, don't watch the show. They're like, oh, I'm
- 28:51Speaker 4: going to watch... And the amount of photos I get
- 28:54Speaker 4: sent to me watching your show, I'm like, don't. Please
- 28:56Speaker 4: just get to know me first.
- 28:58Speaker 3: From the guy, yeah.
- 28:59Speaker 4: And so I even had a guy that I dated. Actually,
- 29:03Speaker 4: the guy that I was dating at the end of
- 29:05Speaker 4: season three, he ended up moving.
- 29:08Speaker 2: And.
- 29:09Speaker 4: We dated and we really hit it off and he
- 29:12Speaker 4: was moving and he always knew that he was moving
- 29:13Speaker 4: to London. And I said, well, then why the hell
- 29:15Speaker 4: did you ask me out? Like that was stupid. And
- 29:17Speaker 4: he said– and he had seen the show. He had
- 29:20Speaker 4: already seen the show. He was blowing me up in
- 29:22Speaker 4: my DMs on Hinge, on every– I'm like, leave me alone.
- 29:25Speaker 4: And I finally gave this guy a chance and we
- 29:27Speaker 4: ended up hitting it off. But I said, if you
- 29:28Speaker 4: always knew why you were leaving, why the hell did
- 29:30Speaker 4: you ask me out? You know, I'm looking for something serious.
- 29:32Speaker 4: And he said, well, I didn't think I was going
- 29:35Speaker 4: to like fall in love with you. I just thought
- 29:37Speaker 4: maybe I would get lucky.
- 29:39Speaker 2: And I'm like.
- 29:40Speaker 4: that is so fucking rude. So these guys are taking
- 29:43Speaker 4: people out, taking women out with horrible intentions. And I
- 29:47Speaker 4: should have known it's my fault.
- 29:49Speaker 3: But also like, Guys do like to brag if they're
- 29:53Speaker 3: 16 or 46 where they're like, look at who I banged.
- 29:56Speaker 7: So true.
- 29:57Speaker 3: Look who I'm taking on. Look who's going to Cabo
- 30:00Speaker 3: with me.
- 30:01Speaker 4: Which is not the guy that you want to end
- 30:03Speaker 4: up with.
- 30:03Speaker 3: Right.
- 30:03Speaker 4: So I've got my sensors are a little bit more
- 30:06Speaker 4: sensitive now, if you will, since going in the public eye.
- 30:10Speaker 4: But it's just, I mean, it's been three seasons now
- 30:12Speaker 4: and I still haven't fully wrapped my head around it.
- 30:14Speaker 3: Well, let's talk a little bit about, this is like
- 30:18Speaker 3: a more casual photo of you guys. I think it's
- 30:20Speaker 3: so cute. But we have some of the players here.
- 30:23Speaker 3: So we have Tyler in the brown shirt. So we
- 30:26Speaker 3: see in season two that you guys are flirting. You
- 30:30Speaker 3: seem to be, you know, having a major connection. And
- 30:33Speaker 3: it ends with you kissing in the jacuzzi at a
- 30:37Speaker 3: hot tub at a party. And that's kind of how
- 30:42Speaker 3: it ends. Yeah. So then we see season three, which
- 30:45Speaker 3: is available now. We come back.
- 30:48Speaker 6: And.
- 30:50Speaker 3: it's kind of like, well, did you guys date after that?
- 30:53Speaker 3: What happened?
- 30:55Speaker 4: So it's always been a back and forth with Tyler.
- 30:59Speaker 3: And Tyler, just to remind people if you're not watching,
- 31:00Speaker 3: Tyler's the one who's now divorced or getting divorced from
- 31:03Speaker 3: Brittany Snow.
- 31:04Speaker 1: Yes.
- 31:05Speaker 4: And it's always been, it's, I wish I had another,
- 31:09Speaker 4: like a better story because even watching season three back,
- 31:14Speaker 4: it's like triggering, you know, I don't know if that's
- 31:16Speaker 4: the right word to use, but it brings back that
- 31:18Speaker 4: feeling because I'm like being bounced around. And that's what
- 31:21Speaker 4: it was in real life for me. And I remember
- 31:23Speaker 4: so many conversations that I had with him where I
- 31:27Speaker 4: just wanted clarity. I just wanted to know what was
- 31:29Speaker 4: going on. I've never in my life.
- 31:31Speaker 3: Like what was his intention or are we going to
- 31:34Speaker 3: really try to be boyfriend and girlfriend or what?
- 31:36Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 31:36Speaker 4: And part of me up until very recently really thought
- 31:41Speaker 4: that he was kind of innocent in it all and
- 31:43Speaker 4: maybe just had a horrible communicating or a lack of
- 31:46Speaker 4: boundaries or- you know, no backbone or whatever it was.
- 31:51Speaker 4: And I do think now that it wasn't any of
- 31:54Speaker 4: those things. I think that he just didn't want to
- 32:01Speaker 4: commit to me, which I didn't even, like, I didn't
- 32:04Speaker 4: even start this whole thing. He was the one who
- 32:06Speaker 4: pursued me. And I had no, for season one, you know,
- 32:11Speaker 4: however they played it, I had literally zero interest in Tyler.
- 32:14Speaker 4: His energy is so far off. opposite of what I'm
- 32:17Speaker 4: normally attracted to. And he was not- Why, why?
- 32:19Speaker 3: What's the difference?
- 32:20Speaker 4: Because he's just like meek. He's kind of, which that
- 32:24Speaker 4: can be fine. I don't need somebody who's, you know,
- 32:26Speaker 4: needs to be the center of attention all the time.
- 32:29Speaker 4: But I wanted somebody with like a high level of confidence,
- 32:31Speaker 4: somebody that's going to grab the bull by the horn,
- 32:33Speaker 4: somebody who's going to like provide, protect. Tyler didn't have,
- 32:36Speaker 4: he's a cancer. He doesn't have any of those qualities.
- 32:38Speaker 4: And production heavily pushed the narrative that you see, which
- 32:43Speaker 4: obviously- When you're filming with somebody or you're working in
- 32:46Speaker 4: an office with somebody, in a situation where I normally
- 32:49Speaker 4: in real life would say, okay, this just probably isn't
- 32:51Speaker 4: going to work. Let's not see each other again. We're
- 32:54Speaker 4: constantly having to see each other and be filming and
- 32:57Speaker 4: go on the boat and go in the parties and
- 33:00Speaker 4: do the open houses. So what it was like for
- 33:05Speaker 4: me is we would film and it would be one
- 33:07Speaker 4: side of Tyler. And then the second the camera stopped,
- 33:12Speaker 4: I got a completely different side of Tyler.
- 33:13Speaker 3: What would you get? Nothing.
- 33:16Speaker 4: And it's so.
- 33:16Speaker 3: Like what he didn't seem interested without the cameras.
- 33:18Speaker 4: Nothing. It would be, hey, like we made plans. Are
- 33:20Speaker 4: we still going to do that? And it would always...
- 33:22Speaker 4: He would always bail or he would always.
- 33:24Speaker 3: Unless the cameras were going to meet you?
- 33:26Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 33:26Speaker 4: Unless the cameras were around.
- 33:29Speaker 7: Yes.
- 33:30Speaker 4: And so... But he always found like the perfect excuse.
- 33:32Speaker 4: And then every time I would say, okay, I'm... This
- 33:36Speaker 4: isn't going to work. We'd have another scene filming together.
- 33:39Speaker 4: And he would reel me back in. And I was so...
- 33:43Speaker 4: I mean, I'm a 34-year-old woman. I've not ever experienced
- 33:46Speaker 4: this in my adulthood ever, nor is it something that
- 33:49Speaker 4: I typically would engage in. And he always just had
- 33:54Speaker 4: the right excuse or, oh, he would say it was me,
- 33:59Speaker 4: like a push and pull, and I would back off too.
- 34:01Speaker 4: But my truth is that I would only back off
- 34:03Speaker 4: when the actions weren't aligning with the words, you know?
- 34:06Speaker 4: And so what's really crazy is we all see things
- 34:09Speaker 4: from our own lenses, right? So my experience, my perspective
- 34:13Speaker 4: was one way And I didn't realize how everybody else
- 34:15Speaker 4: was perceiving our experience.
- 34:18Speaker 3: You mean the other cast members, other realtors?
- 34:19Speaker 2: Yes.
- 34:20Speaker 4: They only saw what they saw when we were filming.
- 34:22Speaker 3: Which seemed you guys were really into each other. Yes.
- 34:24Speaker 4: Or when we would all go out together. And when
- 34:28Speaker 4: we were in a group, Tyler was more like chill
- 34:33Speaker 4: and relaxed. And then whenever, like it was, he didn't
- 34:36Speaker 4: want to be seen with me one-on-one out in public.
- 34:39Speaker 4: Even when we went to Dubai, separately. I had a date.
- 34:43Speaker 4: He had a date. We literally got invited completely separately.
- 34:45Speaker 3: What were you going to Dubai for?
- 34:46Speaker 4: The grand opening of the Royal Atlantis. Atlantis the Royal.
- 34:51Speaker 3: Oh, so that was that big influencer reality show. I
- 34:54Speaker 3: don't know why I was not invited. I don't know
- 34:56Speaker 3: why the fuck I was invited. Well, can you throw
- 34:58Speaker 3: my name in the hat? I'd like to go back.
- 35:00Speaker 3: I'm so jealous. Was that the greatest trip ever? Of
- 35:03Speaker 3: a lifetime. It looked like amazing.
- 35:05Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 35:05Speaker 4: You can't even put it into words. Pictures don't do
- 35:07Speaker 4: it justice.
- 35:07Speaker 3: Who all got invited from Selling Sunset?
- 35:09Speaker 4: Just me and Tyler. And we didn't realize that we
- 35:12Speaker 4: both got invited until two weeks before we left.
- 35:15Speaker 3: Were you on the same flight or no?
- 35:16Speaker 4: Yes, we were on the same flight. He took his brother.
- 35:19Speaker 4: I took a date. Did you take the London guy?
- 35:22Speaker 3: No.
- 35:22Speaker 4: It was before I met the London guy.
- 35:23Speaker 3: Okay, all right.
- 35:25Speaker 4: And it was an experience of a lifetime. There was
- 35:26Speaker 4: a lot of shit that happened, but it won't get
- 35:28Speaker 4: into that.
- 35:29Speaker 3: Why not?
- 35:30Speaker 4: I mean, that was just a shit show. Well, because... ironically,
- 35:36Speaker 4: Tyler announced his divorce the day we were leaving for Dubai. Ironically,
- 35:41Speaker 4: he ended up getting stopped by press outside of the
- 35:44Speaker 4: airport entrance, which was the same entrance I went into
- 35:47Speaker 4: and I didn't get stopped by any press. And then
- 35:50Speaker 4: the whole time we were in Dubai, he was like,
- 35:52Speaker 4: it was like COVID all over. He's like, stay six
- 35:54Speaker 4: feet away from me. I can't be seen with you.
- 35:56Speaker 4: And I said, I'm your, like, that's actually very hurtful. Like,
- 35:58Speaker 4: we're in this, in Dubai, a million miles away from home.
- 36:03Speaker 4: And You're like my friend.
- 36:05Speaker 3: So he was afraid that if photographers saw you guys together,
- 36:09Speaker 3: that then that would give the narrative that you guys
- 36:12Speaker 3: were dating when he was still married and that would
- 36:14Speaker 3: make him look bad.
- 36:15Speaker 4: Well, there was already– the day we got there, there
- 36:18Speaker 4: was already a tabloid that said Alex Hall and Tyler
- 36:21Speaker 4: Sandlin whisk off to Dubai day of announcing his divorce
- 36:25Speaker 4: or something like that.
- 36:26Speaker 3: Right. And I'm like– and me– Like a rendezvous between
- 36:30Speaker 3: the two of you, not this paid influencer thing.
- 36:33Speaker 4: Which is so stupid. Yeah, we're going to Dubai. Like,
- 36:35Speaker 4: come on, give me a break. And at that point,
- 36:37Speaker 4: I'm still thinking to myself, who gives a fuck? Like,
- 36:40Speaker 4: we know, I know my truth. You know your truth.
- 36:42Speaker 4: We're not dating. We had separate rooms. Like, nothing of
- 36:45Speaker 4: the sort. And- We always used to joke like.
- 36:48Speaker 3: But at one time you did.
- 36:49Speaker 4: Yes, but we always used to joke that we're guilty
- 36:51Speaker 4: of the crime.
- 36:52Speaker 3: But at one time you guys were dating and intimate, correct?
- 36:55Speaker 4: Yes.
- 36:56Speaker 3: Okay.
- 36:57Speaker 4: But it was still.
- 36:58Speaker 3: Never committed.
- 36:59Speaker 4: I wouldn't even call it intimate because it was so
- 37:01Speaker 4: fucking like ping pong.
- 37:02Speaker 3: Back and forth. Yeah, but you boned. But no. You
- 37:04Speaker 3: never had sex? No.
- 37:07Speaker 4: And yeah.
- 37:08Speaker 3: Really?
- 37:09Speaker 4: No, we never had sex.
- 37:10Speaker 3: Oh, I'm shocked.
- 37:11Speaker 4: And.
- 37:11Speaker 3: So you just make outs and stuff.
- 37:13Speaker 4: I mean, and in his defense, he's a I mean,
- 37:17Speaker 4: I did not think he was going to be a
- 37:18Speaker 4: great kisser, but he's a great kisser.
- 37:19Speaker 3: He's gorgeous.
- 37:20Speaker 4: He is a great kisser.
- 37:21Speaker 3: So it was just dry humping.
- 37:22Speaker 4: And some humping, yeah.
- 37:23Speaker 3: Yeah, dry humping. That's my favorite.
- 37:25Speaker 4: I mean, we dry humped all the way home from
- 37:27Speaker 4: San Diego one night in the Sprinter van. It was great.
- 37:29Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 37:30Speaker 4: But it was nothing more than that because it got
- 37:32Speaker 4: to a point where we were, right when we finished
- 37:36Speaker 4: filming season three, his energy started to finally become normal again.
- 37:45Speaker 4: And we all took a trip to Palm Springs. And
- 37:47Speaker 4: I was like, okay, wow, maybe this is something. You're different.
- 37:51Speaker 4: Your energy is different. And we did like a live
- 37:53Speaker 4: video and he wasn't worried about being in it. And
- 37:56Speaker 4: he was more carefree, not so obsessed with what the
- 38:00Speaker 4: image is or anything like that. And which didn't ever
- 38:03Speaker 4: make sense why he cared what the audience would think
- 38:05Speaker 4: when we're filming a show and we're like cameras are
- 38:07Speaker 4: in our faces and we're filming. Why do you care
- 38:09Speaker 4: what the tabloids then say? It was so weird. And.
- 38:15Speaker 4: And then it, yeah, it didn't, it ended there.
- 38:18Speaker 3: And so then in the show, you kind of show
- 38:20Speaker 3: your frustration in season three that you're like, I don't
- 38:23Speaker 3: get what's going on. Like, won't write me back. And
- 38:26Speaker 3: then you meet this guy, the London guy that we
- 38:28Speaker 3: briefly talked about. And you say in it, like, to him,
- 38:32Speaker 3: I don't have that chemistry with London guy. And that's
- 38:37Speaker 3: when I was like, well, honestly, she doesn't care about
- 38:38Speaker 3: London guy because she cared about London guy. She knows
- 38:40Speaker 3: that this scene is going to be shown again. A
- 38:43Speaker 3: few months in advance, or you forget about the cameras.
- 38:45Speaker 4: I'm just very open. My London guy knew about Tyler.
- 38:49Speaker 3: I know, but if you really liked London guy, and
- 38:53Speaker 3: then he's sitting watching the show, and you say six
- 38:56Speaker 3: months later, I don't have the chemistry with London guy
- 38:59Speaker 3: like I do with you, Tyler. If I was London guy,
- 39:01Speaker 3: I'd be like, well, this is embarrassing.
- 39:04Speaker 4: It's the truth.
- 39:05Speaker 3: So that's the truth, but you're not with London guy
- 39:07Speaker 3: once it aired, so it was okay.
- 39:09Speaker 4: Well, no, we, we, no, we weren't together, but we
- 39:12Speaker 4: were together. I wasn't worried about that. I was, I'm very,
- 39:16Speaker 4: nothing that I'd ever said on the show about him
- 39:19Speaker 4: was ever a lie or like sometimes the truth hurts
- 39:21Speaker 4: and the truth was, but here is also, it was
- 39:24Speaker 4: my truth then, but I think dissecting it and, you know,
- 39:27Speaker 4: having been therapized for the last eight, nine years of
- 39:30Speaker 4: my life I think it wasn't chemistry between Tyler and
- 39:34Speaker 4: I I think it was that that when you're confused
- 39:38Speaker 4: and you just want answers and you it was the
- 39:41Speaker 4: chase and the pull and the push and the you
- 39:44Speaker 4: know it was it was a psychological game right It
- 39:49Speaker 4: wasn't chemistry. I didn't feel safe with Tyler ever. I
- 39:52Speaker 4: never felt like secure. I never felt intimate. And that's
- 39:59Speaker 4: what chemistry is, you know, chemistry. And you can think
- 40:01Speaker 4: someone's hot and want to make out with them. But
- 40:03Speaker 4: when I was saying the chemistry, looking back, it really
- 40:06Speaker 4: was just that like teenage girl in me wanting to
- 40:09Speaker 4: be liked or wanting to be, you know, wanting to
- 40:12Speaker 4: know what the fuck was going on. I was like
- 40:14Speaker 4: wanting to get to the end of whatever this chapter was.
- 40:17Speaker 4: And I could never get answers from Tyler. And I
- 40:19Speaker 4: finally got my answers, but not from Tyler. But I
- 40:21Speaker 4: figured out a lot after we stopped filming.
- 40:25Speaker 3: When did you finish filming?
- 40:27Speaker 4: We finished filming season three a year ago.
- 40:32Speaker 3: A whole year ago. And you have not seen him since?
- 40:36Speaker 3: Because he left the Oppenheim group, right? He did. Did
- 40:38Speaker 3: he go back to his dad's office?
- 40:40Speaker 7: Yes.
- 40:41Speaker 3: And why did he start at the Oppenheim group? To
- 40:45Speaker 3: get on the show?
- 40:46Speaker 7: Yes.
- 40:47Speaker 3: Okay.
- 40:47Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 40:48Speaker 3: So he went back to the dad. Yeah.
- 40:50Speaker 4: He wanted to, like, have his, you know, me time. And,
- 40:54Speaker 4: you know, he's married to somebody who's got a whole platform.
- 40:56Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, it makes sense.
- 40:57Speaker 4: He's living in everyone's shadow. And honestly.
- 41:00Speaker 3: And it's not like your dad's not going to take
- 41:01Speaker 3: you back.
- 41:02Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 41:03Speaker 4: He's got a safety net.
- 41:04Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 41:04Speaker 4: That's who Tyler is.
- 41:05Speaker 1: Right.
- 41:06Speaker 4: He has a luxury of having a safety net. I've
- 41:08Speaker 4: never had that.
- 41:08Speaker 3: Well, to remind people, you are a single mom. You
- 41:12Speaker 3: told your very inspiring story. And by the way, Mary's
- 41:15Speaker 3: book is coming out.
- 41:16Speaker 4: It is out.
- 41:17Speaker 3: Oh, good.
- 41:18Speaker 4: Well, I have it. Okay, maybe it's not out.
- 41:20Speaker 3: No, I think it's not available until September.
- 41:22Speaker 1: Oh, okay.
- 41:22Speaker 3: But Mary from Selling Sunset Beverly Hills, she came on
- 41:25Speaker 3: my show and she was a teenage mom.
- 41:27Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 41:27Speaker 3: And you were two.
- 41:29Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 41:30Speaker 3: And got married and had two kids.
- 41:32Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 41:32Speaker 3: Hence why you have young teenagers. Yeah. And you're only 34.
- 41:36Speaker 3: So yeah, you didn't have the safety, like that whole,
- 41:40Speaker 3: you know, the privilege of having.
- 41:41Speaker 4: Not even my parents. Like my parents were blue collar
- 41:44Speaker 4: workers who, you know, loved me to pieces. But I've
- 41:48Speaker 4: never had financial, I've never had what a lot of
- 41:51Speaker 4: people have. And there's no problem. That's fucking great. But
- 41:57Speaker 4: it shapes you and it molds you into who you are.
- 41:59Speaker 4: I have a very strong backbone.
- 42:00Speaker 3: Your choices are- you know, made with that in mind,
- 42:05Speaker 3: whatever that might be. You know, you can, sometimes you
- 42:07Speaker 3: can take bigger risks. Sometimes you have to take bigger
- 42:10Speaker 3: risks because of what, because you don't have anything else. So, um, okay.
- 42:16Speaker 3: So you've not run into him or anything.
- 42:18Speaker 4: I have literally not seen or spoken to that man in, we, we,
- 42:24Speaker 4: we obviously, we spoke after the show and then after
- 42:27Speaker 4: Palm Springs and then You know, some stuff happened and
- 42:31Speaker 4: then all of a sudden, out of the blue, I
- 42:35Speaker 4: was blocked. He was announcing his departure from the Oppenheim group.
- 42:39Speaker 3: And from the show.
- 42:40Speaker 4: And from the show. Didn't tell me anything. Polly actually
- 42:45Speaker 4: called me and said, do you know that.
- 42:47Speaker 3: You– Who's Polly? Oh, Polly.
- 42:47Speaker 4: Polly from the show.
- 42:48Speaker 3: This pretty English girl, yeah.
- 42:50Speaker 4: She said, do you know that you're blocked and like
- 42:52Speaker 4: four other people are blocked?
- 42:53Speaker 3: From Instagram and stuff? Yeah.
- 42:54Speaker 4: I said, what? I said, how do you even know?
- 42:56Speaker 4: How can you even see who's blocked to you? And
- 42:58Speaker 4: she goes, oh, yeah, you're blocked. So-and-so's blocked. I said,
- 43:00Speaker 4: where did this come from? And I called him and
- 43:01Speaker 4: I had a conversation with him. And I was just like,
- 43:03Speaker 4: what the fuck is wrong with you?
- 43:04Speaker 3: And what did he say to it?
- 43:06Speaker 4: He's just– he never really has answers. He's just a–
- 43:10Speaker 4: I told him. I said, you have very coward-like tendencies.
- 43:12Speaker 4: And he goes, yeah, you're right.
- 43:12Speaker 7: I do.
- 43:13Speaker 4: I'm working on it.
- 43:15Speaker 3: Interesting. So now when I– so you have a fun Instagram.
- 43:19Speaker 3: And I'm going to go back to this photo. But
- 43:20Speaker 3: there was something– where was it? Maybe I didn't take
- 43:23Speaker 3: the photo of it. But it was the, you know,
- 43:27Speaker 3: you were in Lake Cuomo. Oh, yes. And you, and
- 43:30Speaker 3: I felt like it was when you were getting shit
- 43:32Speaker 3: because I guess maybe Brittany still had done an interview
- 43:35Speaker 3: and I think maybe fans or something were coming after you,
- 43:39Speaker 3: making it sound like you might have been the impotence
- 43:41Speaker 3: for their relationship ending.
- 43:43Speaker 7: Okay.
- 43:43Speaker 3: And you were like, I'm in like Cuomo having the
- 43:46Speaker 3: time of my life while you're talking about me. Was
- 43:48Speaker 3: that in reference to what was going on in social media?
- 43:52Speaker 4: The irony is that that post was actually geared towards
- 43:54Speaker 4: the trolls. Right.
- 43:56Speaker 3: The trolls. Yeah.
- 43:57Speaker 4: It wasn't geared towards Brittany Snow.
- 43:58Speaker 3: Okay.
- 43:59Speaker 4: And that post I think came out on the same
- 44:01Speaker 4: day that her pot or the day after, or I
- 44:03Speaker 4: don't know.
- 44:03Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 44:04Speaker 4: And everyone thought I was talking about her and I wasn't.
- 44:07Speaker 4: And it's just– the irony is that then my– all
- 44:12Speaker 4: of the trolls went to that post and were commenting
- 44:15Speaker 4: about the podcast that Brittany Snow had just done. Like,
- 44:18Speaker 4: you guys are missing the fucking point here. Like, this
- 44:20Speaker 4: has nothing to do with Brittany Snow. I'm literally just
- 44:22Speaker 4: talking about you guys. But did– I haven't listened– I
- 44:27Speaker 4: never listened to the whole podcast, but obviously I listened
- 44:28Speaker 4: to what she had said, you know, and geared towards me,
- 44:31Speaker 4: assuming it's geared towards me. And even if it wasn't
- 44:33Speaker 4: geared towards me, the audience– assumes it's geared towards me and.
- 44:39Speaker 3: And you took offense to it of course because you
- 44:41Speaker 3: said I have been a victim yeah of cheating and
- 44:44Speaker 3: I would never do that with a marriage if someone
- 44:47Speaker 3: was married.
- 44:48Speaker 4: Ever I mean I honestly I've been cheated on so
- 44:50Speaker 4: many fucking I thought it was a rite of passage
- 44:52Speaker 4: of being a woman like I just thought that every
- 44:53Speaker 4: woman has been cheated.
- 44:55Speaker 3: On that is not true so I have not been cheated.
- 44:57Speaker 4: On I I'm like okay I have but I get
- 45:00Speaker 4: that I just I have been cheated on so many
- 45:02Speaker 4: times that But I mean, but young, like I got
- 45:06Speaker 4: married at 19 and there was infidelity there too. So
- 45:14Speaker 4: I was, and it's interesting because it never really jaded me.
- 45:18Speaker 4: I always thought it was way more about him than
- 45:20Speaker 4: it was about me. I was very confident in, like,
- 45:22Speaker 4: I loved being a mom. I was a fantastic wife
- 45:25Speaker 4: and I did everything I could. It was a him issue.
- 45:27Speaker 4: And every time that a man had cheated on me,
- 45:30Speaker 4: it was a him issue. And I just obviously pick
- 45:33Speaker 4: My picker was off.
- 45:34Speaker 3: Well, it is a him issue. That is true. It
- 45:36Speaker 3: is something insecure in yourself that you need to get
- 45:39Speaker 3: that validation from another person. It's like an ego boost.
- 45:42Speaker 2: 100%.
- 45:42Speaker 4: And if you're unhappy, somebody who cheats is a coward
- 45:47Speaker 4: and can't actually have a conversation with their significant other
- 45:49Speaker 4: and say, hey, I'm lacking or I'm unhappy or how
- 45:52Speaker 4: do we fix it? Or I don't want to fix
- 45:54Speaker 4: it and let's move on.
- 45:55Speaker 3: Or it's so sticky. So it's so uncomfortable. So it's
- 45:58Speaker 3: a little bit of having your cake and eating it too.
- 45:59Speaker 3: I don't want to get divorced, but I love the
- 46:01Speaker 3: way this outside person makes me feel. And that's where
- 46:05Speaker 3: the good sex is. And that's where the freshness is.
- 46:08Speaker 3: But I don't want to leave my wife, kids and house.
- 46:10Speaker 3: Totally have your.
- 46:11Speaker 4: Cake and eat it too. Or I want to keep my,
- 46:14Speaker 4: I love my family, but I also want to, you know.
- 46:16Speaker 3: Have this excitement.
- 46:17Speaker 4: Yeah. And so there's no, I mean, whether it's an
- 46:21Speaker 4: emotional affair or a physical affair, I just think it's
- 46:25Speaker 4: such bullshit because I'm so direct and, And everything happens
- 46:29Speaker 4: for a reason. I've learned so much from every relationship
- 46:31Speaker 4: that I've been in. But I am not the kind
- 46:34Speaker 4: of person that would ever engage in infidelity. And I
- 46:37Speaker 4: would never not be direct. If I was unhappy in
- 46:42Speaker 4: a relationship, I would express that and I would move forward.
- 46:45Speaker 4: And I just– were there things that maybe season one–
- 46:52Speaker 4: could have been done differently and maybe we're hurtful. Yeah, maybe.
- 46:55Speaker 4: And I take full accountability for that, but infidelity and well,
- 46:58Speaker 4: like in this, absolutely not in this.
- 47:00Speaker 3: Photo, we'll get into who is in it. I don't
- 47:02Speaker 3: have a photo of Kayla. And so what happened with Kayla?
- 47:08Speaker 3: She also is a single mom in season three. I've
- 47:11Speaker 3: met her. She was very pleasant to me at a party. And, um,
- 47:16Speaker 3: And she's a new realtor and a single mom. And
- 47:18Speaker 3: she gets on the show. And in season three, she
- 47:21Speaker 3: gets this enormous listing, which is a big storyline.
- 47:24Speaker 2: Right.
- 47:24Speaker 3: But they talk about how you went on a podcast
- 47:28Speaker 3: and you said something like.
- 47:30Speaker 4: She's batshit crazy.
- 47:31Speaker 3: Offer rocker.
- 47:32Speaker 4: Needs to be medicated.
- 47:32Speaker 3: Was that my podcast? No. Okay, good. Because people were like,
- 47:38Speaker 3: was that what– I'm like, I don't remember her talking
- 47:40Speaker 3: about any of the cast, you know, like that.
- 47:43Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't do many– I think I've done like
- 47:45Speaker 4: five podcasts.
- 47:46Speaker 3: And why– and so they found out about while you
- 47:49Speaker 3: were filming. Yes. And, you know, you felt badly and
- 47:53Speaker 3: you did go to her. Yeah. But why did you
- 47:56Speaker 3: say that about her?
- 47:57Speaker 4: Because I think that she's batshit crazy off her rocker
- 48:00Speaker 4: and needs to be medicated.
- 48:02Speaker 3: What did she do that made you think that? Wasn't
- 48:04Speaker 3: she going after Tyler at one moment?
- 48:06Speaker 2: Yes.
- 48:06Speaker 7: Yes.
- 48:07Speaker 3: So she made out with him one late night?
- 48:09Speaker 4: No, I don't think they ever made out. No, no,
- 48:10Speaker 4: they never made out. Who was the person that he
- 48:11Speaker 4: made out with? Paulie made out with him.
- 48:12Speaker 3: Oh, okay.
- 48:12Speaker 4: After him and Brittany separated, Paulie and him got drunk
- 48:15Speaker 4: one night, made out in the office.
- 48:16Speaker 3: Went back on those metal chairs and made out?
- 48:18Speaker 4: No, there's a big couch.
- 48:19Speaker 2: Oh, okay.
- 48:19Speaker 4: There's two really big couches.
- 48:21Speaker 3: Okay.
- 48:22Speaker 4: And horrible. place to do it. I'm like, seriously, like
- 48:25Speaker 4: go to your house and do it. Like, why are you,
- 48:27Speaker 4: our office is a fishbowl.
- 48:28Speaker 3: It's all glass. Yes, yes, yes. I'm like, are you insane? Okay.
- 48:32Speaker 4: So I'm like, you got yourself into that pickle.
- 48:34Speaker 3: Like, I'm sorry. That was with Polly. Yes. So what
- 48:37Speaker 3: was the story with Kayla?
- 48:38Speaker 4: Season one, before he was getting divorced and before anybody
- 48:41Speaker 4: knew any of that, she had approached him multiple times, intoxicated,
- 48:47Speaker 4: wanting to seduce him and say, you know, no one,
- 48:50Speaker 4: and he was like, Kayla, I'm married. Obviously, also, he's like,
- 48:53Speaker 4: you're not my type, you know? And she goes, no
- 48:56Speaker 4: one has to know. And I think, and I've given
- 49:00Speaker 4: Kayla so many chances and I have a very soft
- 49:03Speaker 4: spot in my heart for her because we can relate
- 49:05Speaker 4: on so many things because we have had similar struggles
- 49:08Speaker 4: as being single moms. And I see this, I do
- 49:13Speaker 4: see this like genuine side to her, but the problem
- 49:16Speaker 4: is that she has multiple sides. With me, what you
- 49:19Speaker 4: see is what you get. I don't have another side
- 49:21Speaker 4: behind closed doors or to the public or to my
- 49:24Speaker 4: friends or to clients. I am who I am. And
- 49:27Speaker 4: with her, it scares me because I don't know if
- 49:32Speaker 4: she's if she actually believes the things that she says
- 49:36Speaker 4: or doesn't– actually doesn't remember or there's something happening because
- 49:44Speaker 4: her memory lacks a lot. I don't– and maybe it's
- 49:46Speaker 4: like drinking and then forgetting or– I don't want to
- 49:50Speaker 4: make any accusations, but her excuse is always I didn't
- 49:54Speaker 4: say that or I don't remember that or that didn't
- 49:57Speaker 4: happen when like we have the receipts of things that
- 50:00Speaker 4: did happen and we have the– people were there we've
- 50:03Speaker 4: we've witnessed things we've experienced things and for example the
- 50:07Speaker 4: end of season three i go and apologize to her
- 50:12Speaker 4: because we find out that it is about her and
- 50:14Speaker 4: to be honest that came out i i filmed that
- 50:16Speaker 4: podcast like six months before and to be honest with
- 50:18Speaker 4: you i thought it was about brandy i didn't even
- 50:20Speaker 4: think it was about kayla and we had called justin
- 50:23Speaker 4: who i did the podcast with who's an oppenheim agent
- 50:25Speaker 4: who has a podcast very dear friend of mine and
- 50:28Speaker 4: um we called him that day at the beach when
- 50:31Speaker 4: the girls were like, is it about me or what?
- 50:33Speaker 4: And I'm like, oh my God. I'm like, I didn't
- 50:35Speaker 4: write it in my fucking diary. I went on a podcast. Like,
- 50:37Speaker 4: just go listen to it. I'm sure you can find
- 50:39Speaker 4: out who it was about, right?
- 50:40Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 50:41Speaker 4: So we called Justin, who we all know. And I said,
- 50:44Speaker 4: is this about Kayla? Because I don't fucking remember. And
- 50:46Speaker 4: he goes, no, it's not. And I said, okay, it's
- 50:49Speaker 4: not about Kayla. And they're like, well, why didn't you
- 50:51Speaker 4: put out the name? Because he put out a teaser.
- 50:53Speaker 4: It said, and out of respect for Kayla, this is
- 50:55Speaker 4: what he said, I bleeped out her name because I
- 50:58Speaker 4: didn't want that you know going out there and i
- 51:01Speaker 4: said okay that makes sense after the fact because then
- 51:04Speaker 4: they found the whole podcast on some platform.
- 51:08Speaker 3: Well i mean you can find it anywhere and so
- 51:10Speaker 3: then i look like the asshole and you look like.
- 51:12Speaker 4: A liar i look a total fucking liar i look
- 51:13Speaker 4: like a bag of dicks i'm like that fucking sucks
- 51:15Speaker 4: but then once we find out that they've got it
- 51:18Speaker 4: is about me i say okay listen it was about
- 51:20Speaker 4: you sorry that i sorry that i hurt your feelings
- 51:23Speaker 4: you know And I apologized and I tried to start
- 51:27Speaker 4: over with Kayla because there was so much water under
- 51:29Speaker 4: the bridge at this fucking point. And maybe two weeks
- 51:34Speaker 4: after we're done filming and we hug and we've been
- 51:37Speaker 4: to company lunches together. We've sat next to each other.
- 51:39Speaker 4: We're sending each other self-help books and we're talking about
- 51:41Speaker 4: the kids. And she says, I'm so glad that we
- 51:46Speaker 4: are back to this level of us. And I said,
- 51:48Speaker 4: I agree. We work so much better when we're not
- 51:51Speaker 4: pushing against each other. Three weeks later, I get sent
- 51:54Speaker 4: a video from TMZ and Kayla at Balboa Bay Club,
- 51:59Speaker 4: and she's calling me racist. Racist? Where did that come from?
- 52:05Speaker 4: And I'm just like, what in the world? And I
- 52:09Speaker 4: am like fuming.
- 52:11Speaker 3: That's where she came up with that? But what evidence
- 52:13Speaker 3: was there?
- 52:14Speaker 4: I literally have no idea. She goes, you know, the microaggression,
- 52:18Speaker 4: and she treats us a certain, and it's only geared
- 52:21Speaker 4: towards us. I'm like, I mean, I'm not even hearing anything.
- 52:24Speaker 4: I'm just like, this is complete bullshit because we had
- 52:29Speaker 4: made amends.
- 52:30Speaker 3: Right.
- 52:31Speaker 4: And so then she sends me and Jason actually like
- 52:35Speaker 4: our Netflix PR was all over because you can't, those
- 52:39Speaker 4: allegations are insane. You can't be in the public eye
- 52:41Speaker 4: or on a show and say shit like that, especially
- 52:44Speaker 4: unwarranted out of nowhere. And Jason called me and my
- 52:49Speaker 4: production company called me and Netflix PR called me and
- 52:53Speaker 4: they were just like, this is so unacceptable. Jason told me,
- 52:55Speaker 4: he said, I called her. I talked to her. She,
- 52:58Speaker 4: it's not getting through to her. Like she's not understanding
- 53:01Speaker 4: how fuck, like how you can't do that. And Jason
- 53:04Speaker 4: is very like, I'm scared of Jason. You don't want
- 53:07Speaker 4: to be on his bad side. And he will just
- 53:08Speaker 4: tell you, shut the fuck up. You can't do that.
- 53:11Speaker 4: Like get it through your fucking head. And she was
- 53:13Speaker 4: apparently saying, well, she said all these things about me.
- 53:15Speaker 4: So it's not the same. The gossipy, bullshitty drama stuff
- 53:18Speaker 4: is not an accusation and allegation like somebody's racist.
- 53:20Speaker 3: That's a character assassination.
- 53:22Speaker 4: A hundred percent. And it's horrible for everybody involved.
- 53:25Speaker 3: Right. You know?
- 53:26Speaker 4: And so she's defending herself. She sends me a text message,
- 53:30Speaker 4: you know, within the same 24-hour period, whatever. And she goes, hey,
- 53:33Speaker 4: just want you to know TMZ did come up to
- 53:35Speaker 4: me and I did say some things. You know, I
- 53:38Speaker 4: did speak my truth. Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And–
- 53:42Speaker 4: but if you want to talk about it, like– I'm
- 53:44Speaker 4: happy to talk about it. And I'm also not sure
- 53:46Speaker 4: if I can move forward with this friendship. I'm like, oh,
- 53:49Speaker 4: now you can't move forward. So I, that was it.
- 53:52Speaker 4: And I blocked her. I blocked her on socials. And
- 53:56Speaker 4: now during interviews, because season three has finally come out
- 53:59Speaker 4: a year later, she's going in the press saying, I
- 54:02Speaker 4: don't know what the hell's wrong with her. Like she
- 54:04Speaker 4: blocked me and she blocked my family members. Like this
- 54:07Speaker 4: is why I don't trust her. And I don't ever
- 54:09Speaker 4: think her apology was genuine. Like, are you not remembering?
- 54:13Speaker 4: That you went into a news article and made horrible
- 54:18Speaker 4: accusations about me and my character that were completely unwarranted
- 54:21Speaker 4: and false after we had made amends. And now you're
- 54:23Speaker 4: going in– this was like three weeks ago. We had
- 54:25Speaker 4: a press day and she's telling them that my apology
- 54:28Speaker 4: was never genuine because I blocked her. I'm like, you're
- 54:33Speaker 4: missing a big chunk of the fucking story here. But
- 54:36Speaker 4: I'm like, do you not realize that or are you–
- 54:39Speaker 4: is there a problem up here? Does that make sense? Like,
- 54:41Speaker 4: I don't actually, I feel like I'm dealing with crazy.
- 54:43Speaker 3: I mean, I've had stuff like that happen and it's just,
- 54:46Speaker 3: it's awful because when someone hears it, even if, you know,
- 54:50Speaker 3: now someone's going to hear this and be like, God,
- 54:51Speaker 3: I did hear that. I'm so glad I heard that
- 54:53Speaker 3: interview on Juicy Scoop because now I see Alex's point.
- 54:56Speaker 3: But three years from now, someone's going to put a
- 55:00Speaker 3: comment and they're going to say you're racist because they
- 55:04Speaker 3: remembered seeing her story first and they never heard the
- 55:06Speaker 3: follow-up to it. So once you throw out or hurl
- 55:09Speaker 3: an accusation, for years, I mean, I have one thing
- 55:13Speaker 3: that'll come back that happened 10 years ago in the press,
- 55:15Speaker 3: and people will still... Yeah. Say this is true. And
- 55:18Speaker 3: I'm like, it's not. It's been proven over and over
- 55:20Speaker 3: that it's not true. But it is what it is.
- 55:23Speaker 3: And it's just even though it didn't ruin my life,
- 55:25Speaker 3: it ruined it for a little bit. But it's upsetting
- 55:27Speaker 3: when you read a lie. Whether it's a comment or something,
- 55:30Speaker 3: it's really upsetting. And it like throws off your day.
- 55:33Speaker 3: And that's why you don't throw out those things.
- 55:35Speaker 4: But you're– these people, this is what's– you know, worrisome
- 55:40Speaker 4: is that they're like loose cannons. Like you don't even
- 55:42Speaker 4: realize like the etiquette that you have to, there's a
- 55:45Speaker 4: little bit of a boundary that we as being on
- 55:47Speaker 4: reality television have to stay between the lines a little bit.
- 55:50Speaker 4: And the problem when somebody throws out a, you know,
- 55:52Speaker 4: a race card or whatever it might be, I can't
- 55:58Speaker 4: even touch that with a 10 foot pole. They're like,
- 56:02Speaker 4: you don't say anything. You don't, don't respond. Don't, don't, comment.
- 56:07Speaker 3: And you're like, but I want to defend myself.
- 56:09Speaker 4: What do you say to that though?
- 56:10Speaker 3: It's better that you don't defend it. It's better that
- 56:13Speaker 3: you keep it quiet so it doesn't have legs. But
- 56:16Speaker 3: at the same time, like I said, someone who heard
- 56:19Speaker 3: that is going to think about that for the rest
- 56:21Speaker 3: of your life. But you're like, But if I don't
- 56:24Speaker 3: give it any life, it'll die quicker. But at the
- 56:26Speaker 3: same time, there's going to be a small percentage of
- 56:28Speaker 3: people that heard it, that thought it.
- 56:30Speaker 4: It's what I mean in such a cancel culture society.
- 56:33Speaker 4: Here's the truth. And I'm not even sounding I'm not
- 56:35Speaker 4: trying to be conceited or cocky or arrogant. But let's
- 56:38Speaker 4: just say that grew legs. And something, I mean, I
- 56:41Speaker 4: don't know really how cancel culture works if it actually
- 56:43Speaker 4: is based on proof or facts and evidence. But let's
- 56:46Speaker 4: say something happened and I got, then they're like, oh,
- 56:48Speaker 4: you're not on the show.
- 56:49Speaker 3: I call it Hollywood stink. You get some stink on you. Yeah.
- 56:52Speaker 3: And it doesn't mean that you won't ever have a career,
- 56:55Speaker 3: but you got stink on you. Right. And you got
- 56:56Speaker 3: to live through it.
- 56:58Speaker 1: Right.
- 56:58Speaker 4: And let's say, and I'm a professional. We're not on
- 57:00Speaker 4: a reality show. I'm not a waitress. Like I'm a
- 57:02Speaker 4: fucking professional woman. Right. Providing for my kids just like you, Kayla.
- 57:06Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 57:07Speaker 4: And I said, and let's say I got canceled.
- 57:10Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 57:10Speaker 4: I said, the reality of it is, Kayla, is that
- 57:13Speaker 4: what's the show?
- 57:14Speaker 3: What's the show?
- 57:15Speaker 4: Everyone wants to, not everybody, but Kayla sure wants to
- 57:18Speaker 4: attach herself to a Tyler or to a me to
- 57:21Speaker 4: make drama to be relevant. So you want me to get,
- 57:24Speaker 4: now I'm off the show. Tyler's off the show. Jarvis
- 57:26Speaker 4: is off the show. You guys don't even have a
- 57:28Speaker 4: fucking show anymore. Like, be smarter with your comments. Like,
- 57:32Speaker 4: what are you, this isn't a joke. Yes. You know
- 57:35Speaker 4: what I mean?
- 57:35Speaker 3: It's just. Good point.
- 57:36Speaker 4: What are you doing? It's just whatever.
- 57:39Speaker 3: No, it's true. I mean, essentially, I think that the
- 57:44Speaker 3: racist allegations towards Ramona is what ended it for the OGs.
- 57:50Speaker 3: That is my personal opinion. That's a.
- 57:55Speaker 4: Card you don't want to... You can't play that card.
- 57:58Speaker 4: You don't ever want to touch that And you can't
- 58:02Speaker 4: dig your way out of it. That's the problem. You
- 58:04Speaker 4: know what I mean? Because once that is out there,
- 58:07Speaker 4: that accusation, you can't defend yourself.
- 58:12Speaker 3: Right. You can't.
- 58:13Speaker 4: Because you're damned if you do.
- 58:14Speaker 2: Wait.
- 58:14Speaker 3: I want to ask about these two guys. Which one?
- 58:17Speaker 3: On the end, Austin. Yeah. And what's this guy's name
- 58:20Speaker 3: in the yellow?
- 58:20Speaker 4: Talk about a good-looking group of people.
- 58:22Speaker 3: I mean, you guys are gorge.
- 58:23Speaker 4: What a great photo.
- 58:24Speaker 3: So wait. What is that cat's name?
- 58:25Speaker 4: Which one? Austin and Sean.
- 58:27Speaker 3: Sean. So Sean... Is on the show. And he's in marketing.
- 58:33Speaker 3: And from the earlier season, he says, I'm bisexual.
- 58:36Speaker 7: Right.
- 58:37Speaker 3: And then this was pretty juicy. So Austin is married
- 58:42Speaker 3: with twin daughters who are toddlers.
- 58:43Speaker 4: And a newborn.
- 58:44Speaker 3: Oh, now they have a newborn. And, you know, great
- 58:49Speaker 3: looking guy. And both of them are great looking. And
- 58:52Speaker 3: Sean says... I went over there one night and they
- 58:57Speaker 3: basically asked me to have a threesome with them. And then,
- 59:03Speaker 3: you know, so he, that's rumors going around. And then
- 59:06Speaker 3: he goes and tells his wife what the rumors going on.
- 59:09Speaker 3: And she's like, you mean the night that he came
- 59:10Speaker 3: over and made, I made him cookies and we talked
- 59:13Speaker 3: about nothing.
- 59:14Speaker 7: Yes.
- 59:15Speaker 3: And then he's like, but there was something in the
- 59:16Speaker 3: cookies and they were insinuating. And then when Austin like,
- 59:20Speaker 3: and Tyler are like, what the hell are you doing?
- 59:23Speaker 3: And then he goes, well, you, Tyler, you were writing
- 59:26Speaker 3: me these long texts about working out together and that
- 59:29Speaker 3: I have good calves and love you, dude. And so
- 59:33Speaker 3: clearly you must be gay for me too. And they're like,
- 59:37Speaker 3: what's going on? And then they bring up the fact
- 59:38Speaker 3: that he's had his license for two years, even though
- 59:41Speaker 3: he came from like a paid marketing background, he is
- 59:43Speaker 3: a licensed realtor and he's never sold a house. So
- 59:47Speaker 3: I thought that was pretty juicy. Do you think, what
- 59:51Speaker 3: do you think of those, um, Do you think it
- 59:54Speaker 3: was to have, if I can't sell a house, at
- 59:57Speaker 3: least I can stay on the show because I've created
- 1:00:00Speaker 3: a crazy storyline?
- 1:00:02Speaker 4: I actually think it happened organically. I don't think it was.
- 1:00:06Speaker 3: Premeditated or planned out? I mean, obviously he went over
- 1:00:10Speaker 3: there and hung out.
- 1:00:11Speaker 4: It was premeditated, but I don't think he did it.
- 1:00:13Speaker 3: I don't know. I think he went out. I think
- 1:00:16Speaker 3: he went and hung out there.
- 1:00:17Speaker 4: He did. I remember.
- 1:00:19Speaker 3: And... but I don't think they like officially propositioned him.
- 1:00:23Speaker 3: If he wanted to interpret it a different way or
- 1:00:25Speaker 3: just throw it out as juicy conversation, just to get,
- 1:00:28Speaker 3: sometimes people just say stuff that are lies or exaggerations
- 1:00:32Speaker 3: just to have the conversation turn to them. And then
- 1:00:35Speaker 3: you've got the cameras on and someone's like, well, that
- 1:00:37Speaker 3: wasn't the first time I was flirted with by Austin.
- 1:00:40Speaker 3: And like, what, what? Tell more. And then everyone's looking
- 1:00:42Speaker 3: at you and you feel like, I've got to tell,
- 1:00:45Speaker 3: I mean, it's happened. It happened with a famous newscaster that,
- 1:00:49Speaker 3: you know, he had a little story. And then every
- 1:00:51Speaker 3: time he went on a talk show, they would be like,
- 1:00:53Speaker 3: tell that story about how you were in the helicopter
- 1:00:56Speaker 3: that almost went down. And then one day someone realized
- 1:00:58Speaker 3: he was never in that helicopter. And it's like, but
- 1:01:00Speaker 3: they kept asking and asking. And so that's kind of
- 1:01:03Speaker 3: what I think. And then I think You know, he's
- 1:01:05Speaker 3: in a panic and cameras are there and Austin's really
- 1:01:08Speaker 3: is like, that's not true.
- 1:01:09Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 1:01:10Speaker 3: And but then also, again, by saying it's not true
- 1:01:14Speaker 3: in this world of 2024, you don't want to appear
- 1:01:18Speaker 3: like you're homophobic.
- 1:01:19Speaker 5: Right.
- 1:01:20Speaker 3: And that you have anything against some hanging out with
- 1:01:23Speaker 3: having a friend who's not straight as a man. So
- 1:01:26Speaker 3: there's that.
- 1:01:26Speaker 4: Austin has been a male model for decades.
- 1:01:29Speaker 3: Ever. So he's been around gay people in the industry
- 1:01:32Speaker 3: from the beginning.
- 1:01:32Speaker 4: I mean, he's got more gay friends than not, okay?
- 1:01:35Speaker 4: And this man is one of the most confident men
- 1:01:38Speaker 4: that I know. If he wanted to be gay or
- 1:01:40Speaker 4: if he wanted to have a threesome, he wouldn't lie
- 1:01:43Speaker 4: about it. Right.
- 1:01:44Speaker 5: Right?
- 1:01:44Speaker 3: So... That's what I thought.
- 1:01:45Speaker 4: Maybe Sean is, in his mind, again, going back to
- 1:01:48Speaker 4: whatever his perspective is, maybe he does think that they
- 1:01:51Speaker 4: wanted to. Maybe he does think that Tyler wants him.
- 1:01:53Speaker 4: Maybe he does think that Austin and Lisa want to...
- 1:01:55Speaker 4: Was that the reality?
- 1:01:56Speaker 6: No.
- 1:01:58Speaker 4: And that night that Austin invited Sean over, I actually
- 1:02:03Speaker 4: was talking to Lisa and Austin, and they told me,
- 1:02:05Speaker 4: they said, yeah... it was weird because none of us
- 1:02:09Speaker 4: were very close with Sean except Pauly. And they're no
- 1:02:14Speaker 4: longer friends. And so Sean would try to sometimes randomly
- 1:02:19Speaker 4: reach out to us, the people that he wasn't very
- 1:02:21Speaker 4: close with, to try to have allies or just stay relevant.
- 1:02:25Speaker 4: And it was obvious that it was kind of forced.
- 1:02:28Speaker 4: But one night, and maybe it was genuine. I don't know, actually.
- 1:02:32Speaker 4: Maybe it was genuine and pure, but it wasn't. It
- 1:02:34Speaker 4: wasn't consistent and we were all really busy. So that
- 1:02:37Speaker 4: might not be fair. Maybe it was genuine. And, but
- 1:02:39Speaker 4: none of us really got close to him. So this night,
- 1:02:43Speaker 4: Austin is out on a date with his wife, Lisa,
- 1:02:45Speaker 4: and they got a sitter for the kids and it's
- 1:02:47Speaker 4: date night. And they're out in like some other part.
- 1:02:50Speaker 4: They're not even in Orange County. They're far, they're like
- 1:02:52Speaker 4: in Anaheim is Orange County. It doesn't matter. Austin gets
- 1:02:56Speaker 4: a text from Sean and Sean says, Hey, what are
- 1:02:58Speaker 4: you guys doing?
- 1:02:59Speaker 3: I'm bored.
- 1:03:00Speaker 4: You know, can we hang out? And Austin told me,
- 1:03:03Speaker 4: before this rumor came to the surface ever, he said,
- 1:03:05Speaker 4: and I felt bad, you know, even though we were
- 1:03:08Speaker 4: on date night, I invited him to crash the party,
- 1:03:12Speaker 4: you know? And I'm like, what? It's your date night
- 1:03:14Speaker 4: with your wife, you know? He's like, yeah, but I
- 1:03:16Speaker 4: felt bad for him. So he ended up, he came over.
- 1:03:18Speaker 4: It was kind of awkward. We played the, what's the
- 1:03:21Speaker 4: headset that you- Oh, the head.
- 1:03:22Speaker 3: Game where you- No, Oculus.
- 1:03:24Speaker 4: Oh, Oculus. The AI thing where you're- I think that's
- 1:03:27Speaker 4: what he said.
- 1:03:27Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 1:03:28Speaker 4: And he said, and Lisa made cookies or whatever. And-
- 1:03:32Speaker 4: And then he left. And the whole point in Austin
- 1:03:35Speaker 4: telling me the story was just because it was weird
- 1:03:37Speaker 4: that– because none of us really ever hung out with Sean.
- 1:03:40Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:03:41Speaker 4: And so– and Lisa is the– like what you see
- 1:03:43Speaker 4: of her on the show, she's the most chill, no drama.
- 1:03:47Speaker 4: She's a homemaker. I mean this woman makes homemade sourdough
- 1:03:51Speaker 4: bread and like she's just– I mean, to deal with, like,
- 1:03:54Speaker 4: Austin is the outgoing alpha energy, and she's just the...
- 1:03:57Speaker 4: And they've been together for, like, 20 years, okay? She
- 1:04:00Speaker 4: deals with it all. So what I was thinking is
- 1:04:02Speaker 4: the audacity that Sean has after this man has invited
- 1:04:07Speaker 4: you into his home to crash his date night because
- 1:04:10Speaker 4: he felt bad for you because you said that you
- 1:04:11Speaker 4: were lonely, and then you make an allegation like that.
- 1:04:16Speaker 3: I'm just... Either.
- 1:04:19Speaker 4: They're both either... Austin is completely sociopathic and has everybody
- 1:04:24Speaker 4: fooled or what we've all seen kind of from Sean,
- 1:04:27Speaker 4: which is him being, you know.
- 1:04:29Speaker 3: I think from watching it, I think Sean was insecure
- 1:04:33Speaker 3: and desperate and he wasn't really clicking with anybody and
- 1:04:37Speaker 3: he didn't have the big listings to show off. And
- 1:04:41Speaker 3: I think he was like, I'm going to have the
- 1:04:44Speaker 3: cameras on me somehow because if I don't have the
- 1:04:45Speaker 3: cameras on me, they're not going to ask me back.
- 1:04:47Speaker 4: But he left.
- 1:04:48Speaker 2: Right.
- 1:04:49Speaker 3: Well, after this he did. But I think the attempt
- 1:04:51Speaker 3: of telling the story. And then once there was so
- 1:04:54Speaker 3: much anger about the lie, then I think he was like, oh, fuck,
- 1:04:56Speaker 3: why did I ever say that or exaggerate that? And
- 1:04:59Speaker 3: now I don't know how to get out of this
- 1:05:01Speaker 3: hole without saying, like, I lied. He just was like, well, you, Tyler,
- 1:05:05Speaker 3: said I had nice calves. And, like, he's like, what?
- 1:05:08Speaker 3: And so it just, you know, he was just, I
- 1:05:12Speaker 3: think he was grasping to stay on the show. So
- 1:05:14Speaker 3: now he has left the Oppenheim group, too. He left.
- 1:05:16Speaker 3: He left.
- 1:05:17Speaker 4: He said he got the villain edit, which I don't
- 1:05:19Speaker 4: think he got the villain edit. I just think that
- 1:05:22Speaker 4: there was, I think it's refreshing to see some drama
- 1:05:24Speaker 4: with the guys.
- 1:05:25Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 1:05:25Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:05:25Speaker 4: No, I loved it. I'm like, even though obviously I
- 1:05:28Speaker 4: feel for Austin and I've even had very close friends
- 1:05:31Speaker 4: of mine text me. So Austin's obviously gay, right? I'm like, no,
- 1:05:35Speaker 4: he's not. And if he, he's, it's just all the
- 1:05:38Speaker 4: people Austin would, he hadn't, he would have no problem
- 1:05:41Speaker 4: admitting any of this. That's why it's funny. It's the
- 1:05:44Speaker 4: irony is not lost on me, but people who are.
- 1:05:46Speaker 3: Just like, it wasn't true. And you're like, that just
- 1:05:48Speaker 3: wasn't true. And then, yeah. And I'm again, not homophobic
- 1:05:52Speaker 3: if it was true, but it's just not true.
- 1:05:54Speaker 4: It's a very bizarre situation.
- 1:05:55Speaker 3: It is very, um, weird. Okay. So, um, So you
- 1:06:00Speaker 3: were at the 40 Most Powerful Women in Reality TV.
- 1:06:03Speaker 3: I was there. And then I saw that Mauricio, who's
- 1:06:07Speaker 3: also on Netflix, for buying Beverly Hills, he just posted today.
- 1:06:12Speaker 3: He likes to do selfies. He likes to do fit check. Anyway,
- 1:06:16Speaker 3: he said, I am so excited to be nominated for
- 1:06:18Speaker 3: the first ever Netflix Superlative Award for the category most
- 1:06:22Speaker 3: likely to seal the real estate deal. Please head to
- 1:06:26Speaker 3: my IG to vote. What is that about? And are
- 1:06:29Speaker 3: you nominated for any of this stuff?
- 1:06:31Speaker 4: I mean, that's a great nomination, right? I would be
- 1:06:34Speaker 4: wearing the jacket too if that was my nomination. My
- 1:06:37Speaker 4: nomination was shit and I'm not partaking in it.
- 1:06:42Speaker 3: Wait, you were nominated or you weren't? I was. What
- 1:06:44Speaker 3: were you nominated for?
- 1:06:45Speaker 4: Not most likely to close the deal. What is it?
- 1:06:48Speaker 4: I was, oh my God.
- 1:06:49Speaker 3: Tell.
- 1:06:49Speaker 4: Such bullshit.
- 1:06:50Speaker 3: Just tell.
- 1:06:51Speaker 4: Stupid. I'm nominated for most likely to stir the pot.
- 1:06:57Speaker 4: Which I think is horseshit. What does that even mean?
- 1:07:02Speaker 4: I feel like I don't stir the pot.
- 1:07:03Speaker 7: Wait a minute.
- 1:07:04Speaker 4: Do you think I stir the pot?
- 1:07:05Speaker 3: Okay, so that's going to be– this is an event
- 1:07:08Speaker 3: that's happening. And you're not going to go?
- 1:07:10Speaker 2: No.
- 1:07:10Speaker 3: Yes, you are.
- 1:07:11Speaker 4: I already– the event already took place.
- 1:07:13Speaker 3: That one already took place?
- 1:07:14Speaker 4: It was on Saturday where all of the nominees got together.
- 1:07:17Speaker 3: No, but then there's– oh, well, I'm invited to the party,
- 1:07:20Speaker 3: I guess. That's tonight. Well, probably when this airs.
- 1:07:23Speaker 4: I don't want to– I don't like that.
- 1:07:24Speaker 3: All right. I just wanted to hang out with you more.
- 1:07:26Speaker 3: I don't fucking stir the pot.
- 1:07:27Speaker 4: Maybe I can still go to the party. I bet
- 1:07:29Speaker 4: you I could.
- 1:07:30Speaker 2: Yes.
- 1:07:30Speaker 4: Why don't you go to the party?
- 1:07:31Speaker 3: Why don't you go to the party and we hang out?
- 1:07:32Speaker 4: That's fair, actually.
- 1:07:33Speaker 3: Because, okay. I do like the jackets.
- 1:07:35Speaker 4: The jackets are cool, right?
- 1:07:36Speaker 3: Yeah. And you need more of the jackets. I love this.
- 1:07:39Speaker 3: This is Tarek.
- 1:07:42Speaker 4: Marketing genius.
- 1:07:43Speaker 3: Tarek Moussa. He and his wife had Flip or Flop.
- 1:07:46Speaker 6: Yep.
- 1:07:47Speaker 3: And what is the wife's name?
- 1:07:49Speaker 4: Which one?
- 1:07:49Speaker 3: The new wife is Heather. Heather. And the other one is,
- 1:07:52Speaker 3: I forgot the other one's name. Christina.
- 1:07:55Speaker 4: Christine or Christina.
- 1:07:56Speaker 3: Yeah, Christina. And Christina and he got married and they
- 1:08:00Speaker 3: had a couple of kids and then she they got
- 1:08:03Speaker 3: divorced and she married this other guy was like a
- 1:08:05Speaker 3: contractor on the show and had a baby with him
- 1:08:07Speaker 3: and they did not have a happy divorce. Meanwhile, he
- 1:08:10Speaker 3: fell in love with Heather, who is a realtor on
- 1:08:12Speaker 3: selling sense at Beverly Hills. They get married and have
- 1:08:15Speaker 3: a baby. But the beauty of it is they're all friends.
- 1:08:19Speaker 4: Love it.
- 1:08:20Speaker 3: And in on it. And they are coming back with
- 1:08:23Speaker 3: a show where, what was so funny is her, okay, wait,
- 1:08:32Speaker 3: this is such a bold word. Wait, Christina's new husband. Yes.
- 1:08:39Speaker 3: Is a sibling to a really good friend of Heather's.
- 1:08:44Speaker 7: Who?
- 1:08:44Speaker 2: Who?
- 1:08:45Speaker 3: This girl, Jessica. I once did their podcast. I did
- 1:08:50Speaker 3: Heather and Jessica had a podcast.
- 1:08:53Speaker 4: Oh, before Sunset.
- 1:08:56Speaker 3: Yes.
- 1:08:56Speaker 4: Oh, interesting.
- 1:08:57Speaker 3: And then Jessica's brother married Christina.
- 1:09:00Speaker 2: Such a small world.
- 1:09:01Speaker 3: And I love that they're all friends because I know
- 1:09:04Speaker 3: Heather is, you know, a very, you know, a very
- 1:09:07Speaker 3: dedicated stepmother to those kids. And so now they're having
- 1:09:10Speaker 3: a show where- Christina and the new husband and Heather
- 1:09:15Speaker 3: and Tarek.
- 1:09:16Speaker 4: Oh, the husband's on it too.
- 1:09:17Speaker 3: Yeah, compete with who makes more off of flipping a house. Oh.
- 1:09:22Speaker 3: And so they did this really funny thing because, and
- 1:09:25Speaker 3: but they, right from the beginning, it was like, oh
- 1:09:27Speaker 3: my God, these wives look so much alike. Wife one
- 1:09:29Speaker 3: and wife two. So true. They both are thin, blonde.
- 1:09:32Speaker 4: Brown eyes, I think both.
- 1:09:33Speaker 3: Yeah, long blonde hair, the same style and cute. And
- 1:09:37Speaker 3: so they wore the same outfit and they do this bit.
- 1:09:40Speaker 3: And I just thought it was so funny.
- 1:09:41Speaker 4: I think it's brilliant. I mean, obviously, like I'm in sales,
- 1:09:44Speaker 4: I'm in marketing. Yeah, I do. And I think it's great.
- 1:09:48Speaker 4: I mean, I know I've known Tarek for a really
- 1:09:49Speaker 4: long time. I knew Tarek before I knew Heather, before
- 1:09:52Speaker 4: I started the show. And we both worked at Sotheby's.
- 1:09:56Speaker 4: I mean, Tarek hung his license there. But so I
- 1:10:00Speaker 4: very small world. And I mean, this is proof that
- 1:10:04Speaker 4: I mean, Tarek and Christina are. had a very tumultuous divorce.
- 1:10:10Speaker 4: And so I just think it's so great that they
- 1:10:12Speaker 4: can both kind of rise above it and.
- 1:10:14Speaker 3: Do something like this. And it's hopeful to people. Sometimes
- 1:10:16Speaker 3: when people are going through it, I will tell them,
- 1:10:19Speaker 3: I'm telling you, for 99% of the people, it does
- 1:10:24Speaker 3: get better. And sometimes it can get a lot better.
- 1:10:27Speaker 3: And this is one of the cases.
- 1:10:28Speaker 4: Better, yes. But like, false hope. This is the exception
- 1:10:32Speaker 4: to the rule. I need everyone to know like this
- 1:10:34Speaker 4: is the exception to the rule. I wish I'm like that.
- 1:10:37Speaker 4: I wish my ex-husband, my ex-husband could never be in
- 1:10:40Speaker 4: the same room with anybody that I'm going to ever
- 1:10:42Speaker 4: marry or date. That's never going to happen. I've come
- 1:10:44Speaker 4: to terms with that. It's fine. Me on the other hand,
- 1:10:46Speaker 4: I'm like, are you dating?
- 1:10:47Speaker 3: You should date.
- 1:10:48Speaker 4: I think this girl would be great for you. My hairdresser,
- 1:10:50Speaker 4: she's totally your type. Excuse me, I'm spitting.
- 1:10:51Speaker 3: And he's like, this is weird. What are you doing?
- 1:10:54Speaker 4: Like, well, I'm like, I'm not in love with you anymore.
- 1:10:57Speaker 4: I want you to be happy.
- 1:10:58Speaker 3: And you want someone nice around your kids.
- 1:11:00Speaker 4: Exactly.
- 1:11:00Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:11:01Speaker 4: So people who have the wherewithal.
- 1:11:02Speaker 3: And I think sometimes what happens is, you know, a woman...
- 1:11:06Speaker 3: you know, in this case, I think she really did
- 1:11:08Speaker 3: see how sweet Heather is as a step parent. And
- 1:11:12Speaker 3: I think that if there was any weirdness before, maybe
- 1:11:15Speaker 3: there never was, but that oftentimes women will come together
- 1:11:19Speaker 3: and they'll do the exchanges and they'll do the stuff
- 1:11:21Speaker 3: because they're like, I like you and I like you
- 1:11:25Speaker 3: that you're nice to my kid. I like, you know.
- 1:11:27Speaker 4: A mature woman will see that and get like, I mean,
- 1:11:30Speaker 4: not everybody. I mean, it takes two, though. You have
- 1:11:32Speaker 4: to realize so many moving parts. You have to have
- 1:11:33Speaker 4: the husband who's comfortable with it. Right. And the ex-wife,
- 1:11:36Speaker 4: and then the new wife that's comfortable with it, and
- 1:11:38Speaker 4: the new husband. Like, there's four strong personalities, and they
- 1:11:42Speaker 4: all are okay with it. This is the exception to
- 1:11:44Speaker 4: the rule. I wish it could be like that for everybody.
- 1:11:46Speaker 3: Amazing.
- 1:11:49Speaker 2: Okay, wait.
- 1:11:50Speaker 3: You say, does it just be, or does every single,
- 1:11:52Speaker 3: this is from your Instagram, every single mom in their
- 1:11:54Speaker 3: 30s now completely understand Brittany shaving her head and the
- 1:11:57Speaker 3: tag you sewed with an umbrella? It is funny. Poor
- 1:12:00Speaker 3: Brittany's not doing so great now, but it is funny.
- 1:12:02Speaker 4: This was when before.
- 1:12:02Speaker 3: This is before. Okay, I want to focus on your ass.
- 1:12:06Speaker 6: Oh, God.
- 1:12:07Speaker 3: This photo, when you went to stagecoach, so you wore chaps.
- 1:12:12Speaker 7: I did.
- 1:12:13Speaker 3: With just a bathing suit G-string.
- 1:12:15Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 1:12:16Speaker 4: That is not a G-string. My bikinis actually get tinier
- 1:12:18Speaker 4: than that. That was almost full coverage for me.
- 1:12:21Speaker 3: But you went up the crack. Yeah. And I mean,
- 1:12:24Speaker 3: how did you come up with this outfit and the
- 1:12:27Speaker 3: photo of the sheen of your ass? Now, I mean, listen,
- 1:12:31Speaker 3: you are a professional woman. And but now you are
- 1:12:35Speaker 3: this sexy model, really, with your ass out. Like, do
- 1:12:40Speaker 3: you have you have any doubt about posting this? Because
- 1:12:42Speaker 3: I was mesmerized by your butt. I think this is
- 1:12:45Speaker 3: like who took the photo.
- 1:12:46Speaker 4: OK, this is a this is a collaborative effort. I mean,
- 1:12:49Speaker 4: it's a very it is amazing. Not the photo, but Polly,
- 1:12:53Speaker 4: who is on the show, one of my very close friends.
- 1:12:55Speaker 4: She's been a model also for her whole fucking life, literally.
- 1:12:59Speaker 4: Which is so weird because I always thought you're either
- 1:13:01Speaker 4: good at what you're either good behind the camera or
- 1:13:02Speaker 4: in front of the camera.
- 1:13:03Speaker 3: Polly's great at both.
- 1:13:04Speaker 4: And she knows it. She's like, give me the phone.
- 1:13:06Speaker 4: I got you. She's like, go over there. Turn over there.
- 1:13:08Speaker 3: The lighting.
- 1:13:09Speaker 4: And then arch your back. And she's always trying to
- 1:13:11Speaker 4: guide me. Polly took this photo.
- 1:13:12Speaker 3: Fucking amazing.
- 1:13:14Speaker 4: And she goes, we got it. She also took a
- 1:13:16Speaker 4: fantastic video of me at Stagecoach. We're front and center
- 1:13:19Speaker 4: with Diplo. And we've got these VIP tickets. We've got,
- 1:13:23Speaker 4: you know.
- 1:13:24Speaker 3: Now, wait, were you in that booth?
- 1:13:26Speaker 4: We were in like a corral.
- 1:13:26Speaker 3: That sitting thing, that corral thing where there was couches
- 1:13:30Speaker 3: and it was like for a vodka, a tequila thing.
- 1:13:32Speaker 4: Oh, yeah.
- 1:13:32Speaker 3: I am so mad that. That I did not lurk
- 1:13:36Speaker 3: over there.
- 1:13:36Speaker 4: Why didn't you ever see me in public?
- 1:13:39Speaker 3: No, but I saw it after. I had VIP tickets,
- 1:13:42Speaker 3: but not VIP artists.
- 1:13:44Speaker 4: Yeah, so we got artists.
- 1:13:45Speaker 3: But listen, if I do it next year, I got
- 1:13:47Speaker 3: to have the artists. I don't care what it costs.
- 1:13:49Speaker 7: I agree.
- 1:13:49Speaker 3: Because there was too much walking and my hip still
- 1:13:51Speaker 3: hurts from it.
- 1:13:52Speaker 4: I still have a blister on my foot. I had
- 1:13:55Speaker 4: no idea how much walking. And we had artist passes.
- 1:13:58Speaker 4: But just from where you get in, the entrance.
- 1:14:00Speaker 3: Yeah. It's still so much walking.
- 1:14:02Speaker 4: I'm like, I need rollerblades.
- 1:14:03Speaker 3: And you don't want to get rid of your cowboy
- 1:14:05Speaker 3: boots because that's the whole look. You can't.
- 1:14:07Speaker 4: You've got to wear the boots.
- 1:14:08Speaker 3: Well, it's incredible. Well, listen, I'm going to wrap this
- 1:14:13Speaker 3: up and I want you to tell everybody. So you
- 1:14:15Speaker 3: are still a realtor. Oh, yes.
- 1:14:18Speaker 4: Absolutely.
- 1:14:18Speaker 3: And do we know if the show... Where are you?
- 1:14:20Speaker 3: We don't know if the show's coming back or you
- 1:14:22Speaker 3: can't say or the filming or what.
- 1:14:24Speaker 4: I wish that I had an answer for you.
- 1:14:26Speaker 3: I wish that I knew. I felt like they were
- 1:14:28Speaker 3: setting us up for that.
- 1:14:30Speaker 4: So I think the San Diego office is really, really
- 1:14:33Speaker 4: hoping that there will be. But from what I've heard
- 1:14:36Speaker 4: from production, as long as there's not enough time in
- 1:14:42Speaker 4: the year or in the day and Jason and Brett
- 1:14:45Speaker 4: are only Two people, you know, and it's mostly Jason
- 1:14:48Speaker 4: who's coming.
- 1:14:49Speaker 3: What they should have done is never revealed that they
- 1:14:51Speaker 3: were twins. Then they could have had multiple shows. And
- 1:14:55Speaker 3: one could just, they could be playing the same person
- 1:14:57Speaker 3: like the way they do with little child actors.
- 1:14:59Speaker 4: Mary-Kate and Ashley, too.
- 1:15:00Speaker 3: Yeah, they always need to have twins.
- 1:15:02Speaker 4: So true. I don't know if they will. We don't
- 1:15:06Speaker 4: know if there's a season four. I don't know how
- 1:15:07Speaker 4: there possibly could not be a season four. I really
- 1:15:10Speaker 4: am hoping that there is. The San Diego situation, I
- 1:15:13Speaker 4: think that from my perspective, what I've learned is Adam DeVillo,
- 1:15:17Speaker 4: who is our producer, he is very, very, very particular
- 1:15:21Speaker 4: with who his production crews are. And he wants it
- 1:15:24Speaker 4: shot a certain way.
- 1:15:24Speaker 3: And the lighting a certain way.
- 1:15:26Speaker 4: And it's aesthetically so stunning. And he has built a
- 1:15:31Speaker 4: fantastic team that's very, very good at what they do.
- 1:15:34Speaker 4: And what they do is they film Sunset half of
- 1:15:37Speaker 4: the year and then we film OC half of the year.
- 1:15:39Speaker 4: So- there's no more time in the year to film
- 1:15:43Speaker 4: San Diego. So unless he can get together and rally
- 1:15:46Speaker 4: another phenomenal production company, I don't know.
- 1:15:50Speaker 3: Well, I always fantasized as a young girl living in
- 1:15:54Speaker 3: my backyard. I said, one day I will have a
- 1:15:57Speaker 3: TV in my backyard where I can lay out and
- 1:16:00Speaker 3: lay in the pool and watch TV. And I binged
- 1:16:04Speaker 3: your show from my pool.
- 1:16:06Speaker 4: I love it.
- 1:16:07Speaker 3: Which is so great because you see– I was in
- 1:16:10Speaker 3: the desert at my house in La Quinta, so I
- 1:16:12Speaker 3: watched it in my pool, but I got to see
- 1:16:13Speaker 3: the ocean and all the real estate porn and see
- 1:16:15Speaker 3: the drama and have you guys– and I'm having drinks
- 1:16:18Speaker 3: with you by myself. I felt like I was there.
- 1:16:21Speaker 4: I also love La Quinta.
- 1:16:22Speaker 3: I absolutely love it. And then I wore my shirt
- 1:16:25Speaker 3: for you, Get Me Behind Gates. Give me– Because I
- 1:16:29Speaker 3: think the ultimate is a gated community. I agree. Or
- 1:16:31Speaker 3: a gate around your own property. I agree.
- 1:16:33Speaker 4: I want both.
- 1:16:34Speaker 3: Safety.
- 1:16:35Speaker 4: How about both? How about the gate, the community, and
- 1:16:37Speaker 4: the gate in your house?
- 1:16:38Speaker 3: So tell everyone where they can follow you to get–
- 1:16:41Speaker 3: because you do funny– besides you showing good real estate,
- 1:16:44Speaker 3: you do funny things on your Instagram. Oh, you think
- 1:16:47Speaker 3: it's funny? Yeah.
- 1:16:48Speaker 4: Yeah. I'm just on Instagram. I mean, I have a TikTok.
- 1:16:51Speaker 4: I don't know what the name and the handle is,
- 1:16:52Speaker 4: but my Instagram is AlexHallOC. Yeah, AlexHallOC.
- 1:16:57Speaker 3: Yeah, here we go right here. AlexHallOC. Thank you so
- 1:17:02Speaker 3: much for coming back.
- 1:17:03Speaker 4: That was so fun.
- 1:17:03Speaker 3: And you look great.
- 1:17:05Speaker 4: You look great.
- 1:17:06Speaker 3: And it's great that you could come here.
- 1:17:07Speaker 4: I was only a two-hour drive. No biggie.
- 1:17:09Speaker 3: I know. I'm going to get you back a little quicker.
- 1:17:11Speaker 3: Thank you.
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