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When Awareness Starts Returning SUNDAY (S5) S19:E2 · Inspirations for Your Life

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  Whoa, hey guys, good day, it is John
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  C.
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  Morley here, serial entrepreneur.
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  Great to be with you on Inspirations for
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  Your Life.
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  words welcome back.
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  to go grab that and come on back
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  to the show.
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  All right, guys.
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  So without any further ado, I'd like to
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  go ahead and kick this show off right
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  now.
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  This is Inspirations for Your Life.
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  This is series five, which means we're in
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  our fifth year.
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  We finished our fourth year, and that's January,
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  February, March, April.
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  We're on the year, so basically four years
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  and four months.
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  This is series five, show nine, and episode
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  number two.
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  And it's all about how people rebuild direction
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  when everything gets disrupted.
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  That's our master.
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  And this episode of Inspirations for Your Life
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  is with myself, John C.
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  Morley, serial entrepreneur, engineer, marketing specialist, video producer,
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  podcast host, coach, keynote speaker, graduate student, passionate
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  lifelong learner.
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  And now, ladies and gentlemen, I am a
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  published author.
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  I'm very grateful for that.
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  And I'm exploring what happens after disruption when
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  awareness sets in and returns, and people begin
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  rebuilding direction from the instability that they had
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  in their life.
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  So instability is just a sign that we
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  can actually rebuild and we can do more
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  in our life.
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  All right, guys?
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  So this week is all about second phase
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  of transformations, not breakdowns, but recovery of clarity.
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  And because after everything breaks, the next stage
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  is not action.
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  It is a subtle sense in the beginning
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  of awareness.
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  Now, when systems collapse, most people think the
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  problem is external, but the real shift is
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  actually internal to ourselves, because disruption removes structure.
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  And without structure, awareness becomes visible again.
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  I think that's important to know.
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  At first, there is confusion.
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  But underneath that noise, awareness starts returning.
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  And clarity does not arrive all at once,
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  guys.
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  It returns slowly, layer by layer, as I've
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  said before.
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  And I think a lot of you here
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  hopefully will understand what I mean and why
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  I mean that.
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  Because I think that's a very important thing
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  for all of us to note.
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  And I think what a lot of you
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  think of this, or when you hear of
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  this, hopefully recognize what's going on in your
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  life or what's not going on in your
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  life.
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  I think a lot of times people, for
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  some reason, I think they just get sidetracked.
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  And they get sidetracked on many, many, many,
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  many different things.
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  It could be, like I said, a subtle
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  awareness that changes in their life.
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  It could be something else, right?
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  But I think the main thing is that
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  change is happening in people's lives.
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  And that change is really, really important.
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  OK?
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  And so when you're thinking about change, when
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  you're thinking about how that works or how
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  that's going to execute, you're probably saying, oh
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  my gosh, I have no clue where I'm
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  going to start.
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  And so you've got to start somewhere, right?
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  I mean, that's the be all, end all.
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  I think a lot of people, they get
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  intimidated by what is actually there and what
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  isn't there.
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  I think that's a very important thing for
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  us to at least be aware of, right?
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  Maybe it's not something simple that you're just
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  going to learn overnight.
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  And you're not going to learn this overnight,
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  guys.
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  I'm going to tell you that right now.
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  You are not going to learn this overnight.
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  If you think you are, well, guys, I
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  got news for you.
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  You are, well, very, very mistaken.
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  So when we think about clarity, when we
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  think about things in our life, we have
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  to think about what's happening right now.
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  Not what was happening before.
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  And we have to think about how is
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  that going to change our life, right?
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  How is it actually going to change our
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  life?
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  And a lot of people say to me,
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  you know, John, I don't think I can
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  make a change.
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  And you know, those are important observations, right?
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  People rebuild when everything gets disrupted, as I
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  said.
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  And so, you know, going through life and
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  understanding things and being aware of things, you
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  get insights on how things are supposed to
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  happen and maybe give you some tidbits about
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  what you can do in your life to
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  make your life a little bit better.
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  There's always going to be people around you
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  saying, oh, no, you can't do this.
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  You can't do that.
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  And they're always going to be trying to
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  rain on your parade because they're not looking
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  to rebuild.
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  They're looking to, what do we call it?
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  Complain.
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  Yes, moan and complain.
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  And so, we have to realize that recovery
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  is possible when we believe it is.
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  Because after everything breaks, as I said, the
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  mind does not restart instantly.
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  It slowly reorganizes.
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  Awareness returns step by step.
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  And clarity rebuilds from the fragments that we
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  have left.
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  And so, when disruption happens, people first experience
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  a sense of confusion.
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  But confusion is not the end state, guys.
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  It is the transitional state.
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  Because underneath confusion, awareness is trying to return.
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  Yeah, it's trying to return.
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  But then, where do you go from there?
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  Like, you know, where does it come from?
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  And once awareness returns, structure begins to rebuild,
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  guys.
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  It begins to rebuild.
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  And that's the real magical part.
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  So, number one, guys, clarity begins forming.
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  We have to be aware of that clarity.
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  Confusion slowly reduces as we progress on.
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  Number three, thoughts become structured.
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  Now, they don't start out as structured.
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  But they become structured over time, the more
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  we become aware, right?
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  Number four, guys, awareness increases gradually.
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  When awareness increases gradually, our world changes, okay?
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  Number five, reflection becomes active.
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  You know, a lot of people turn their
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  reflection off at certain times.
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  Why?
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  I think because they're scared.
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  They're afraid that they might be what they
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  want to be.
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  And they're like, I'm not sure how to
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  handle that.
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  Number six, guys, emotional noise decreases.
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  It decreases.
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  It decreases in a way that causes us
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  to sometimes doubt ourselves and what we're doing
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  and why we're doing something.
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  I think that's a very important fact that
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  a lot of us just don't seem to,
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  well, a lot of us don't seem to
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  understand it.
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  So, I think that's something, you know, really,
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  really important to know.
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  And so, as I said, number seven is
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  understanding starts the rebuilding.
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  And rebuilding is a process.
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  It's not something that we just start, you
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  know, like a washing machine or a dishwasher,
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  and it just finishes.
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  There is more to this than just pushing
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  a button, walking away.
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  Number eight, guys, patterns become visible.
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  When the patterns become visible, our life starts
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  to change.
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  Our life starts to change.
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  But again, not on a dime.
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  Not a dime.
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  Number nine, guys, perspective stabilizes.
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  Perspective stabilizes.
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  And I think that's a very important thing
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  to note, is that our perspectives become reality.
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  And if we can stabilize our perspectives, then
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  our reality can happen a lot sooner because
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  we're not floundering.
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  We're not moving all around the whole world.
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  I think that's an important thing to, you
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  know, to definitely understand, like, you know, what
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  is going on and why are things going
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  on.
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  And it's important to know why these things
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  are happening, okay?
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  It's important to know and be aware of
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  these kind of things.
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  That's probably the most important thing that I
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  want to share with you.
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  And so what I want to tell you
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  is that, number 10, thinking will become clear.
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  It might seem like your thinking is getting
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  cloudier, but actually it's getting clearer, okay?
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  Slowly.
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  Number 11, insight begins to start forming.
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  When we get insight, when we get inspiration,
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  things change.
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  Things change.
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  And when things change and we see that
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  there is, well, a little bit of a
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  light at the end of the tunnel, we
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  get a little excited.
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  We get happy, okay?
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  And we get happy because we see more
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  potential, okay?
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  And that's important to know.
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  If we can realize one thing, and the
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  one thing is that the awareness becomes the
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  trigger for so many other things in our
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  life.
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  And I said that gets the insight to
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  form, that gets the engine to start rolling
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  again.
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  Number 12, guys, control starts to return.
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  We get that sense of calmness, okay?
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  And so when we think about that, and
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  when we know that we're calm, it's like
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  things become easier, right?
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  And I know you're probably saying to me,
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  John, this makes sense.
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  But then again, it doesn't.
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  Well, let's think about this.
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  If you ever could remember a time when
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  maybe you're out of control.
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  I know you're probably never out of control.
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  But let's think about a time when you
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  were out of control.
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  And when you're out of control, things just
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  become, well, they become different.
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  They become, how can I say?
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  They become more confusing, more frustrating.
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  And the more frustrated you get, the more
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  you just wanna stop.
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  But that's not gonna go anywhere.
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  Number 13, guys, direction feels possible.
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  You see, when direction feels possible, our life
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  takes on this new meaning.
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  It takes on this new purpose.
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  It starts to make us see why we
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  have value, why we have value.
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  And that might be something you're, I'm gonna
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  say, floundering with, okay?
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  But it's important to know.
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  It's important to know that you can make
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  a complete difference in your life if you
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  believe you can change.
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  If you can believe you can change, you're
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  already halfway there, okay?
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  Number 13, when your direction feels possible, the
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  engines start to begin again.
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  Your sense of hope starts to return.
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  You start to notice a positive chemical field
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  that is changing who you are.
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  And before you know it, what you kept
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  saying was impossible now is possible.
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  Make sense?
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  That's important to know.
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  Number 14, guys, energy becomes focused, more focused
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  the more you're aware.
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  And I think when we can tie our
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  awareness into our energy, because everything in our
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  world is energy, right?
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  We start to gain hope again.
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  We start to see the possibilities.
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  We start to daydream in a way that
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  we haven't been able to do before because
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  we were sabotaging our own thoughts before.
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  Number 15, reaction decreases.
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  I said we can be reactive or we
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  can be proactive.
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  The best thing to do is to be
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  proactive.
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  When you're proactive, you are calm, right?
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  You're comfortable and you're in control.
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  I think that's important.
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  Almost like wearing a very calm, comforting, in
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  control pair of jeans, right?
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  That you put on.
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  It just gives you that sense of being
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  grounded.
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  The observation increases.
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  Now, ladies and gentlemen, number 17, the decisions
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  you make will improve.
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  They'll become better, okay?
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  I'm not going to say they're all going
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  to be perfect, but you're going to make
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  better choices.
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  Number 18, stability returns gradually.
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  I think a lot of people get upset
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  because they're not necessarily getting something.
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  They're not necessarily getting what they want overnight.
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  And I think that's something that a lot
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  of people here say to me, I've been
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  trying this, but I'm not getting where I
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  want to be.
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  The reason you're not getting where you want
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  to be is you're putting too much darn
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  pressure on yourself.
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  Now, there's motivation, a little bit of pressure,
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  but then there's really hard pressure that just
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  causes you to just not move.
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  When I talk about this in a very
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  easy way so you can understand is friction.
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  We need friction to be able to walk,
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  for our cars to move, but what happens
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  if we have too much friction?
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  We become immobile, we stop.
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  So a little bit of friction is good.
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  Too much friction, no good.
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  We completely stop dead in the water or
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  on the tracks or on the road or
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  wherever you are.
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  Number 19, guys, planning replaces panic.
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  Planning, that's being proactive, reduces the panic.
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  Number 20, guys, learning becomes active.
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  I think that's an important piece, learning becomes
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  active.
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  Number 21, mistakes become insight, mistakes become insight.
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  And when the mistakes become insight, we're like,
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  oh, wait a minute.
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  I didn't know that that was possible.
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  I didn't know that that was possible.
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  I think these little moments in our lives
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  help us to see that even bigger opportunities
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  can come.
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  But we first have to appreciate the smaller
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  ones.
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  And we have to gain confidence in those
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  smaller ones before we can move on.
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  I think that's probably one of the biggest
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  things that I can tell all of you
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  right now.
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  You've got to embrace that spirit.
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  You've got to embrace that belief.
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  That's why BelieveMeAchieve.com is a foundation for
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  what I do every day.
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  A foundation for my talks, my books, for
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  JCMacademy.com.
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  Number 22, guys, confidence begins rebuilding.
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  It starts a process of rebuilding.
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  And when we know that we're in this
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  rebuilding state, it's like all this other stuff
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  around us doesn't harm us, doesn't bother us
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  because we know we're on the way up.
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  We know we're now building.
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  Number 23, guys, focus improves steadily.
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  I didn't say quickly.
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  I said steadily, which means it's consistently improving.
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  That's probably one of the most important things
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  that I can tell you.
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  It consistently improves.
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  Consistently improves.
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  Important, right?
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  I think that's important to know.
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  I think if we can understand these things,
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  then we'll probably be able to make the
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  better choices.
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  We'll be able to make a decision.
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  We're able to do it in a way
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  that uses less energy, that makes life feel
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  more like a flow than a restriction.
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  Number 25, behavior becomes intentional.
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  I've said before, when we can become intentional
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  about our life, our life gains purpose.
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  It gains meaning, keeps us more calm, comfortable,
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  and in control of our lives when our
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  behavior becomes intentional.
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  Intentional is not something you just pull out
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  of your back pocket.
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  Intentional is something you think about.
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  Intentional is something that you work toward because
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  of a core set of values.
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  Number 26, guys, momentum begins again.
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  When momentum begins again, the cycle starts all
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  over.
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  The cycle starts all over.
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  When that cycle starts over, we see that
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  it's easier.
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  It becomes easier.
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  I say it becomes easier because now you're
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  starting to align with your core values.
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  With the momentum flowing again, we feel good
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  not just because of our belief, but also
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  it's actually triggering a chemical change in our
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  brain that is making us feel good, making
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  us now do more of this.
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  It's stroking us in a way to say,
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  look, we have to do more of this.
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  Number 27, guys, your clarity will now strengthen
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  your decisions.
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  When you make a decision with clarity, it
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  doesn't seem so hard.
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  It just resonates.
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  It just flows.
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  It just goes.
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  And that might seem very hard for a
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  lot of people.
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  How can I make this decision?
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  I don't know.
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  Well, you'll learn by the environment.
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  You'll learn by people.
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  And when a decision has to be forced
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  or pressed, guess what?
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  That's not the right decision.
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  You might do it in panic, but that's
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  not the right decision.
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  I'll see if I can give you an
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  example.
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  I remember doing a lease for one of
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  my offices a while back.
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  And I remember the process being very unsmooth.
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  We had a landlord that was from, well,
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  let's say he was not very nice.
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  And things were getting harder and harder with
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  the stuff we had to do.
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  After I was about to sign the lease,
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  I signed the lease, and everything was just
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  like a battle with him.
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  And one of the best things ever happened
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  to me.
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  He threatened to triple my rent.
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  And I said the words, goodbye.
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  I think when some people are put under
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  pressure like that, they feel they've got to
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  respond.
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  I said, I just have to move.
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  I think too many people get obsessed with
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  the game of drama instead of distancing themselves
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  from those type of behaviors and people that
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  are not good for their lives, toxic people.
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  So as I said, clarity strengthens the decisions.
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  And number 28, guys, structure starts returning again.
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  When structure starts returning again, we can now
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  be consistent, right?
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  And we can now achieve progress.
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  To have success, we have to be consistent.
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  We have to have a structure.
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  If we have a structure, we're not consistent,
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  no good.
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  If we're consistent, but there's no structure to
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  what we're doing, that's a problem too.
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  So I think these are things we have
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  to think about.
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  Number 29, awareness becomes consistent.
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  The awareness of how we're being treated, the
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  awareness of our environment, the awareness of everything.
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  Let me ask you a question.
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  When's the last time you were aware of
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  something?
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  Think about it.
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  Was it today?
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  Was it the temperature in the room?
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  Was it hearing somebody's voice?
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  Was it a smoke alarm or a fire
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  alarm going off?
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  Was it a horn being tooted while you
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  were in traffic trying to be patient?
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  Was it a cell phone going off?
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  And when those things happened, did you just
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  kind of go into like a zombie mode?
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  Like, you know, here it is.
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  And then bam, it's like, you like totally
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  forgot you're on the phone or what you
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  were doing.
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  Did you become aware of those things is
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  my question.
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  If you didn't, then my question is, why
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  not?
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  Maybe you're going to say to me, John,
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  I never realized I wasn't that aware.
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  When you become more aware of things in
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  your life, your life slows down.
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  And you have time for everything you want
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  to do and then some.
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  Only when you become aware of your moments.
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  Number 30, guys, direction reappears.
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  Direction appears when we get clarity, when we
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  become consistent, when we have that structure, right?
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  These are the things I think that matter,
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  I'm going to say, the most.
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  And they matter the most because they get
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  us thinking a certain way, a way that
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  maybe we weren't before.
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  The question you might be asking yourself is,
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  hey, John, why wasn't I thinking this way?
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  Well, you know, I wasn't always thinking this
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  way.
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  Something happened and it got me to change.
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  My thoughts of what I'm doing and why
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  I'm doing something.
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  I'm going to give you another example.
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  I was talking to somebody, it was an
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  acquaintance today, via text on social media.
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  And I was telling him about an event
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  I was throwing.
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  And they were so sidetracked telling me that,
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  you know, they're going to this event and
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  yada on that day.
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  But really, it wasn't that day, it was
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  today.
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  And that's how disconnected they were from society.
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  And people like that, over time, I don't
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  waste time with them.
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  And if they become a nuisance, I block
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  them.
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  You see, it works two ways.
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  When you can be nice to somebody and
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  you can be intentional, that's one thing.
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  But when those people become me first and
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  you second, it's time to say goodbye.
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  As this process, ladies and gentlemen, unfolds, something
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  important happens internally.
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  We can call it a shift.
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  But know that people stop reacting and start
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  observing their life and other people's life.
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  And that shift changes everything.
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  Observation creates understanding.
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  And understanding creates direction.
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  At first, everything feels, but instability is not
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  failure.
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  It is an adjustment from data.
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  The mind is no longer operating in old
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  patterns.
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  It is learning to rebuild structure in real
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  time.
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  Clarity does not return all at once, as
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  I said.
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  It returns gradually through awareness.
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  Each improvement builds on the last.
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  Each insight reduces confusion.
• 27:48
  Each correction strengthens the direction.
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  Planning begins replacing panic.
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  Learning becomes active again instead of reactive.
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  Mistakes are no longer setbacks.
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  And they become, as I said, more data
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  for us to process.
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  And data becomes insight.
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  Confidence begins rebuilding slowly.
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  Not from certainty.
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  Ladies and gentlemen, I'm John C.
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  Morley, serial entrepreneur.
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  Be sure to check out BelieveMeAchieve.com for
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  more of my amazing, inspiring creations.
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  Have a great one, everyone, and be well.