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391 Cómo solucionar problemas económicos en el matrimonio 1 · Reflexiones cristianas con José Ordóñez

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Podcast number three hundred ninety- one. I' m going to be sharing
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them in the upcoming podcasts Some lectures we lectured together with my wife Jasped about
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the family economy. Today will be fifteen minutes where we will share that first
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great experience that becomes our first recommendation for IT about marriage economy, welcome.
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If we arrange marriages, we arrange families, so it' s not just
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that we' re going to have themes inherent to marriage, but if we
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can have a better marriage relationship, so we' re going to have a
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better relationship between parents and children and the family is going to be fine.
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It is a continuous battle since we know how to manage our economy. It
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is not in vain that marriages poorly manage their economy, poorly educate children.
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And you probably, like me, come from a family where there were always
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financial difficulties. I could have had a better childhood, but the little communication
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between my father and my mother in economic matters, the little knowledge and how
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I would have liked my dad and my mom to come to a conference like
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this so that I could learn things that if they had put them into practice,
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at least my brothers would not have lived in poverty, bordering on misery
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and we would have had better opportunities in life. That is why I say
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that not only is the issue here about marriage, but it is also about
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the family. So, in economic matters. You always have to make two
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out equal that they are seem to be contrary to each other. The first
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force is what we were taught in economic matters. Our parents taught us,
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society taught us, the educational system taught us, because you have an economic
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perception of what you were taught Primary, Baccalaureate and University. Some of you
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may have had a bit of a deep specialization in how to handle money.
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And even though you could have gone to the best university where you would have
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been given the best classes with the best economist. When you take the best
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economist in society, his knowledge takes him and you equate him with that of
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the word of God and on many occasions gives you proportionally inverse it gives you
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that goes in different. As we believe that everything was created by the Holy
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Spirit, that everything belongs to God, that all the economic, cultural,
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sapiential, behavioral, behavioral, moral, sexual, family formation sciences, all
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the disciplines inherent in human beings are explained in concise detail in the word of
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God, in the word of God. There' s the whole source and
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as you' re going to realize, you work. What the word of
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God says, what it says God, who invented the family, who created
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the family, God who gave it a pattern of behavior in all areas,
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including the economic area. So, obviously, as pastors, we begin to
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work and the first thing you have to often try to do with marriages in
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economic matters is, please, give the opportunity, to the word of God,
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to begin to disassemble all those thoughts, all those mental structures of the
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conventional economy. The conventional economy let' s say the science of the economy.
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We are not saying that we should not listen to him, only that
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we believe that all human science is complementary to the knowledge that already has the
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word of God what is important, know accounting, know finance and have knowledge
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that society gives you. That' s very important. But the last word
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is not given by the professor economist. The last word always has God,
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because all the sciences that the human being teaches are based on human knowledge,
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which is finite and in most cases callous, they eliminate something that is a
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determining factor in the life of the Christian and says the factor FAITH. The
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FE doesn' t have an excel chart. One cannot tell a person to
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have such confidence that God will pray and put him in a column and in
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an exel line because he will not give you the human sciences will always have
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that great lack that he is. Let us say that the great possession that
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has the man and the woman who have decided to believe in Christ and is
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FAITH. And many of the things we are going to talk about here are
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born of faith, trust in God, love for the next. For example,
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there are things that are economically, as you are going to tell them
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now. My wife brings economic prosperity, but they are born of the benevolence
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of a person' s heart. Within the things that asked us what they
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do how economic results can be achieved in life. There is a great factor,
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which is the generosity of the heart which gives to the needy, which
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sows in Israel, which sows in the Church and in the Gospel, which
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is fulfilling with its economy, with the Lord who blesses the poor not in
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vain the word of God. Tell me if an economist would fit this in
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his cell of excel the one that gives to the poor, lends to God,
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that is, I took out a poor man and gave him today so
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much and where I put that to get him out later on, and there,
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if you don' t have a factor of faith, which is that,
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as the word of God says, throw your bread over the waters,
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after many days you will find it helps many people, that everything you help
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many people after some time will return again in even more economically multiplied aspects.
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That doesn' t fit into any human science. Then, please, if
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you have economic knowledge, here, give preeminence to the factors of faith,
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because we are going to start talking illogical things, things that have no hold
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beyond the word of God. When I met Jasmith, poor, very poor,
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and she poorer, says I did, poor and I was po says
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I was poorer, yes, yes, the only thing they had of porcelain
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in the house she was the bath rate. No more, I mean,
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the pressure pot didn' t blow, but it cried. Oh, my
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love, I' m not going to tell you the truth. Here now,
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yes, you' re absolutely right. I mean, I was very
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poor. I was very poor myself, that is me, at least you
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had your mom. She is true, true, the daughter of the tamale
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lady, of the market square standing on the slope. I feel like right
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now. When he passed through the market square and I say here stood my
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mother- in- law with her canastic to distribute to them all the stalls,
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her tamales, he just sashed some tamales Ahorita in December. Half my
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records, my God, this is not true. I believe that God gives
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us all the opportunity to live different stages and different times and at the level
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of finance and economy. We have had the blessing, the enormous blessing of
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living through all stages, the tremendous stage of nature, of scarcity, of
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necessity, of literal hunger and of all the missing and all things in that
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absolute scarcity. But we have also had the opportunity that God, through His
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grace, has allowed us to have resources. We have had resources and mismanaged
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them. We' ve had yes, very bad. We' ve had
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resources and we' ve learned how to manage and we' re like in
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that constant learning process. We have thirty- four years married, we already
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have a stable economy. Let' s say that in thirty- four years
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of marriage, not thirty- four years of marriage, having made all the
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mistakes having gone through first meeting and having nothing, getting married and going to
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sleep on our first wedding night with a mattress lying on the floor. That
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' s right, and that' s where we live for the first time.
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The day I could buy her a bed, she gave her vertigo,
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that' s bad. I bought him a bed and a dizziness I took
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him seriously. We didn' t have that when we saw, when I
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married Jasmith, she took the few little jewels I had. I had just
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done a show on Torres savannah. I got paid ten thousand pesos for that
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show. Yeah, I got there I gave them to you, and we
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went and fused a couple of little rings with her little jewels. And that
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she married a dress that made her a lady from the same block, a
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lady who has a machine with a veil the most beautiful. Here ahead,
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because she had five months more to go with the veil, i e she
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said metal and she had enough veil and had enough fold to the veil.
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Then we got married at the church of the flyers. And when we get
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married at the wedding party, four gifts you remember, yeah, okay,
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some spirits drinks, a plastic tablecloth from that market square thing, a set
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of cutlery from those, from pasta, from those restaurant too from that thing
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that has a pasta cabito. And the biggest gift they gave us was a
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big towel, a towel. That was all the presents. There were no
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more gifts and it was none of my family. It was my sister,
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the gossip, the egg of nebera, I tell her she does, the
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gossip, who always before is at the door. So very good. There
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' s another one we call Hinge, no, my sister Hingegra, because
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when she' s not at the door even at the window. Okay,
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okay. I see the fine humor not of you better preaching, then a
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poverty, true beauty. And I mean, this way we don' t
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have to eat. The next day we got married and you opened dinner and
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the mice were eating their nails, that is, there was nothing else.
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When we tell the story of our marriage, of the first married days,
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people think they' re part of his show, that is, people think
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it' s a lie that they kind of don' t, but it
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was literally when we got married. We got married on December 23rd. Ahorita
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on the twenty- three we turned thirty- four years old and went to
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live in the room, where he lived from his whole or in a house.
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Empty, on a mattress, on the floor. I was pregnant.
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It came on December 24th and we hadn' t eaten. On December 25th,
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I had to go back to my house and stay. He visited me
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as a groom, because they were fifteen days where he had to go and
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my tam was not there to eat. So I was going to my mom
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' s house, this one worried about me said don' t stay here
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while you can figure it out. But let me tell you a detail that
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has to do with this whole story. About the economy. I didn'
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t have because I was a bass because I didn' t like working.
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Not Jasmith, in the thirty- four years we' ve been married.
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You' ve never told me to get up to work or do your duty.
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Ninety- nine percent of the mornings we' ve lived in these thirty
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- four years. When she gets up, I' m already up and
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I' m already working. I got up last night at 2: 00
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in the morning, right, and I work. And I do what happens
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is that until that moment, this crazy dreamer who wanted to be a comedian,
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when he said that he wanted to be a comedian and that he wanted
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to be an artist, he woke up the first laughs, but they weren
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' t laughs at his jokes, but they were jokes because nobody believed in
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my dreams. When I tell Jasmith my dreams, Yasmidity' s answer and
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you' re gonna make it because you' re unique in the world and
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when she marries me, all her efforts were running behind the madman' s
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dreams to make them possible. We would have to pay a price in that
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poverty we had until I could at some point remember radio spring that was left
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here in the twenty- seven, I read the news in the Currincher,
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the informative of all alert attention and my first salary was already five thousand pesos
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that paid me to make some matachos, that is to say if they call
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them matachos, which were humorous things in the news. That' s what
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the first income started to come in with. But there I have just mentioned
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no more than one of the things that economically can make a marriage strong,
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and it is that if your wife does not believe in You, who you
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expect her to believe in You. We men need Montesquiu to say something,
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just give me a point of support and move the world. Sometimes we get
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into our wife' s arms we get married. The word of God says
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that there is a woman, there is good. When I found Jasmith,
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I found my number one ally, the number one sponsor of my dreams,
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and the one who firmly believed that I was going to become that comedian that
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I said I was doing. So far, that only made fun of other
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people, but she believed in me. That bonding factor. When there is
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confidence in the credibility of what the couple is doing, it is decisive and
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fundamental. In the next podcast I will be sharing the next good part about
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this lecture we gave with Jasmith, about the economy. Thank you for giving
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it to me on all the reproduction platforms of this podcast of Christian reflections.
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It is number three hundred ninety- one, but in Joseph Ordonez Cristiano you
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find the previous three hundred ninety. For now I want you to have a
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nice day, to learn every day to better manage the resources that God puts
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in your hands, may God bless you