Latest / Deep Dive into Joy / Called to More: Walking in Purpose with a Christian Life Coach-with Taylor Morrison
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- 0:23This is deep dive into joy and I'm your host
- 0:27Gina Rickner. Hey joy listeners, it's your host
- 0:29Gina Rickner. Welcome back to deep dive into
- 0:32joy. The podcast where we talk about our own
- 0:35personal testimonies, how God shows up for us
- 0:38in our everyday lives, health and wellness and
- 0:42journeying through the Bible. I'm so glad to
- 0:45have you guys with us today. So on this episode
- 0:48of deep dive into joy, I am sitting down with
- 0:52Taylor Morrison. So Taylor is a certified Christian
- 0:55life coach. She has worked in behavioral health
- 0:58field with social work, administrative roles,
- 1:02and doing therapy work with ages ranging from
- 1:04children to older adults. Taylor recently started
- 1:08her own Christian life coaching business and
- 1:10seeks to support those in ministry and ministry
- 1:14families, those dealing with grief and dealing
- 1:18with burnout. So Taylor's goal is to ultimately
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- 2:57let's all welcome Taylor Morrison to today's
- 3:00podcast. Hi, Taylor. Thank you so much for being
- 3:04on with me today. I just want to thank you. It's
- 3:10your birthday. Happy birthday. Thank you. And
- 3:12I'm so glad that you're here with us. I like
- 3:15to ask every guest before we start, what is your
- 3:17favorite drink? My favorite drink currently is
- 3:21the Cajun loaded teas and I have one with me
- 3:23today. Never heard of it. they're delicious.
- 3:25Cajun loaded. Yes. Where do you get that? So
- 3:28I order them from, they're actually a place out
- 3:31of Louisiana that you can order online and you
- 3:33can make them at home. Is it spicy? No, not at
- 3:36all. Okay, that's interesting. I've never heard
- 3:39of that. Especially coming from Louisiana. Okay,
- 3:44so I know Taylor has quite the testimony to share
- 3:46with us and I'm looking forward to hearing it.
- 3:50Taylor, just after you're done with your testimony,
- 3:52I want to walk into your business and learning
- 3:55all the things about that. So you pretty much
- 3:58have the floor. Just tell me when you're done
- 4:00and we'll move into the questions. OK, sounds
- 4:03good. So I guess I'll start. When I was about
- 4:07nine years old, I asked the Lord into my heart.
- 4:10My mom always says, oh, my goodness, you always
- 4:12asked. these like existential questions when
- 4:15you were a young kid. And I'd always go, my dad's
- 4:18name is Rick. She'd always go, Rick, come in
- 4:21here and kind of have him help answer the questions
- 4:25and talk with me. But I wanted to ask the Lord
- 4:28into my heart when I was about nine. And I have
- 4:32always felt close to the Lord. So when I did
- 4:36that, she said, OK, Rick, come in here and talk
- 4:38to her about this. Take care of this. So I remember
- 4:44him coming in my room and praying with me. And
- 4:47I asked Jesus into my heart. And I've always
- 4:51asked those hard life questions about God. And
- 4:54as a pastor's daughter, life's been kind of tough
- 4:57and frustrating. So has he always been a pastor
- 5:00your whole life? Yeah, since I was about 18 months
- 5:02old, he started into the ministry. Yeah. But
- 5:06there have been also many joys with being in
- 5:08a ministry family. I'm so proud of both of my
- 5:12parents. They've helped me become close with
- 5:14the Lord Throughout the entirety of my life and
- 5:18have taught me what it's like to carry the love
- 5:20of Christ and to share it with other people And
- 5:24to help them know him too, and my brothers helped
- 5:27me too He showed me to stop and pay attention
- 5:30to the world around me I remember one story when
- 5:34I was a little kid. He he would always pick up
- 5:37like mowing jobs um so he'd mow the churches
- 5:40um and mow our house um while my dad was busy
- 5:44doing like his pastoral duties and he'd pick
- 5:47up just other odd jobs in the neighborhood mowing
- 5:49grass and i just remember like teenage boys don't
- 5:55want to hang out with their little sisters but
- 5:57i always felt like I was hanging out with them
- 5:59when I was the same the other way around because
- 6:01my daughter and son six years apart and they
- 6:03don't want to hang out with each other so yeah
- 6:06it must just be a thing yeah um I felt like I
- 6:09was hanging out with them if I would go there
- 6:11was a basketball court behind the church and
- 6:13I'd sit there and watch him mow and I felt like
- 6:15I was hanging out with them like somehow I was
- 6:17just with them so in his presence yeah so I remember
- 6:21this one time he was mowing and the sun rays
- 6:25were shining like downward beams in the sky through
- 6:28the clouds and it was like really close to sunset
- 6:31and he shut the mower off and he came over I
- 6:34don't even know if he'd remember this if he's
- 6:37listening but um he said look Tay that's God
- 6:39shining down through the clouds I love that I
- 6:41always think of that too yeah when I see this
- 6:43so now every time I see that I think that like
- 6:46when I'm driving or you know and it just makes
- 6:49me think of my brother and makes me think of
- 6:51him saying that when I was little precious memory
- 6:53And then I've also always kind of gravitated
- 6:57to people that like society would kind of cast
- 7:01aside or those that feel left out. So I feel
- 7:05that's one of my God -given gifts is to uplift
- 7:08and encourage others. And I've learned that's
- 7:11the gift of exhortation. So it's kind of like
- 7:15a sixth sense, I guess. Do you think that was
- 7:18instilled in you in some way too growing up as
- 7:20a pastor's daughter or you just feel like it?
- 7:23as a gift. I don't know because I've always kind
- 7:26of been awkward up until I was like almost ready
- 7:30to graduate high school. I've been really awkward
- 7:33and like afraid of people. I don't know if that
- 7:35came from having to be around so many people
- 7:37all the time but so I don't think that I I don't
- 7:43know. I just wasn't sure if it was something
- 7:45like your parents are like hey make sure you
- 7:48I mean, they always did do that. There would
- 7:51be kids in the neighborhood, and they'd say,
- 7:56why don't you just play with them? Why don't
- 7:58you make them feel welcome? Or they'd take neighborhood
- 8:01kids into our home, both that my brother knew,
- 8:05or kids from the church, or just kids from down
- 8:07the street that saw me outside and wanted to
- 8:09play. They'd say, just play with them. Play with
- 8:11them. Make them feel welcome. Invite them to
- 8:13church. So maybe that is where it came from.
- 8:15I never really thought of that. That's a good
- 8:18question. But I just remember on the playground
- 8:22when I was in elementary school even, I'd wander
- 8:25around looking for the kids that were alone or
- 8:28like sad or like left out and I'd kind of like
- 8:33gather them in a group and just kind of like
- 8:37form my own little little group of friends like
- 8:40even people I didn't even know I'd say hey you
- 8:42want to hang out with us you want to do this
- 8:44and like I don't know I just I just love to do
- 8:48that. Instead of me going and doing something
- 8:51I wanted, I'd gather up the ones that were kind
- 8:54of cast to the side and bring them together and
- 8:57play with them. I love that. I know when we moved
- 9:02around to different places, that was tough. That's
- 9:06really hard when you're established somewhere
- 9:08and then the conference of the church is like,
- 9:12okay, we're moving your family. It's hard. I
- 9:15know that... there's reasons for it but it's
- 9:19still difficult. I remember probably the hardest
- 9:22move was when I got a little bit older. I was
- 9:24going into my seventh grade year of school so
- 9:27that was like junior high and I didn't know any
- 9:32of the people at Kerwinsville so we moved there
- 9:36and I knew virtually no one so that was tough.
- 9:42My life changed a lot when we moved there. I
- 9:46kind of felt bullied and not welcome. I think
- 9:50just because young kids have a tendency to do
- 9:56that, just kind of not be welcoming of new things
- 10:00or new people. I see it as they grew up with
- 10:05all of the other classmates that they knew, or
- 10:08virtually most of them. and then here comes me
- 10:11and nobody knows me and they're like oh who's
- 10:13this who's this newbie yeah i feel very isolated
- 10:16because i move different schools a lot yeah yeah
- 10:18it's hard um and i um because i felt like that
- 10:26i remember sitting and thinking you know i all
- 10:31my life have like gathered people up and encouraged
- 10:35them and talked with them um Like the ones that
- 10:39are cast to the side and lonely and now I'm lonely
- 10:43and downtrodden and There's no one to pick me
- 10:46up like that like someone my own age and I kind
- 10:52of turned into this like angry person and fell
- 10:54away from God for a while for a period of time
- 10:58As I grew older I had this misconception that
- 11:01loving others meant to be okay with everything
- 11:03they did and sometimes joining in and I became
- 11:07a bully because I was bullied. That's not an
- 11:10excuse, but you know, I was figuring out life
- 11:14and not going about things the right way, kind
- 11:17of trial and error. And I apologize to anybody
- 11:20that I've ever hurt and I'm not at all that person
- 11:22I once was. That's what Jesus can do for you.
- 11:25He can completely change your life around. And
- 11:29I turned to the world for happiness, which only
- 11:32left me empty. I just felt like an empty shell.
- 11:36because it wasn't God, we're made to love him,
- 11:38we're made to worship him, and you know he wants
- 11:42us to be close to him and when we're not we don't
- 11:45display those fruits and we're the complete opposite
- 11:47because we're living in the world. But I was
- 11:51definitely living in the world and of it instead
- 11:54of in the world and not of it at that time in
- 11:57my life and I wanted so badly to fit in because
- 12:01I didn't want to feel left out and I wanted somebody
- 12:05to kind of treat me like I treat others or how
- 12:09I perceive that I treat others when they feel
- 12:11left out and wanting to fit in is very unlike
- 12:15me and I became selfish and cold in doing that.
- 12:20I made poor choices and what was mean to other
- 12:22people including my family and I think about
- 12:25that like I'm still guilty about that. I'm like
- 12:28they did not deserve that. I think we all are.
- 12:31And then you have the girl hormones at that age,
- 12:33so it doesn't help. Oh, yeah. No, that doesn't
- 12:35at all. And my parents are probably, if they're
- 12:39listening, they'll giggle about that. They always
- 12:41say, you were not pleasant when you were a teenager.
- 12:46But they loved us anyway. Yes, they did. And
- 12:48I'm glad for that. They're my best friends now,
- 12:51and my brother, too. I didn't have a solid relationship
- 12:56with Jesus at that time. And I had been hurt
- 12:58by church people. I had used them as an excuse
- 13:00to be angry with God and thought of them as an
- 13:04accurate representation of God, and that is not
- 13:07at all true. And I know so many people that have
- 13:09talked to me about that, and I always just hound
- 13:13that. I'm like, no, people will let you down,
- 13:15but God does not. And how they are is not an
- 13:19accurate representation of him at all. Yeah,
- 13:22I think there's a lot of church hurt and people
- 13:24don't know how to navigate that. Absolutely.
- 13:30And I'm sure many listening have had that experience
- 13:33with religious people claiming to represent Christ
- 13:36But they go about it the wrong way and in turn
- 13:40turn people away from him And that's not what
- 13:43we're supposed to do Nothing the world could
- 13:46give me though made me feel fulfilled I would
- 13:49spend time with people who would blaspheme and
- 13:51curse God and in my soul I felt unequally yoked
- 13:55and thought to myself just eventually, wow I'm
- 13:58among godless people living a godless life and
- 14:01this is not okay. It reminds me of how we're
- 14:05told that God will, like even when we're living
- 14:08in sin, God gives you that like split decision
- 14:10to choose a different path and that was that
- 14:14path. That was him speaking to me like saying,
- 14:16hey this isn't this isn't who I want you to be.
- 14:20And now looking back I see that. And I thought
- 14:25loving people meant agreeing with and condoning
- 14:28everything they choose to say and do, and I had
- 14:31no idea about loving correction. So now that
- 14:34I'm older and wiser and closer with God, I understand
- 14:40the loving correction. Not to argue with other
- 14:44people and belittle them, but loving correction
- 14:48is necessary to uplift each other in Christ.
- 14:52So, I was going through this weird period of
- 14:57time in my life, and then I met a boy who is
- 15:00now my husband, and neither of us had a relationship
- 15:03with Christ. We did prior to meeting, but years
- 15:09before that, but we were both in this weird funk
- 15:12where we kind of fell away from God. Which is
- 15:16very common for a lot of people. But the roots
- 15:19were there. We both came from Christian families
- 15:21and because the roots were deep in the soil,
- 15:25we both grew closer with Christ together. He
- 15:27came to church with my family and I. When my
- 15:30dad, he kind of stepped out of the ministry when
- 15:33my grandparents got sick for a period of time.
- 15:38We were going to different churches trying to
- 15:43find a church family during that period of time.
- 15:48Ben would come with us to church and we studied
- 15:50the Bible together like when we would hang out
- 15:52and we prayed together. Eventually we both had
- 15:56a similar situation too where we rededicated
- 15:58our lives to Christ. Neither of us had told one
- 16:02another but within a week of this happening to
- 16:05us both each of us had woke up in the night and
- 16:08cried out to God to save us with repentant hearts
- 16:11and sometime later we had a discussion about
- 16:14each of our separate events. this and we were
- 16:17in awe of how God works because we had no idea
- 16:20and then when we talked to each other it was
- 16:22like oh my gosh, me too! And it was just kind
- 16:28of crazy and I was like is this is this for real
- 16:31like that's that's crazy timing that's that's
- 16:33insane. It's amazing and that's God pursuing
- 16:36you and I love the just like the rooted part
- 16:41of it because God tells us like we're supposed
- 16:43to train our children up in the way that they
- 16:44should go. And I was kind of the same way. I
- 16:48was wasn't brought up in the church until I was
- 16:52I think maybe eight, nine. I don't know somewhere
- 16:56around there. And yes, I think we all fall away
- 17:01at some point. I think that's just the world
- 17:04that pulls you away. And it is right, because
- 17:08I think that he does pursue those people that
- 17:11have their roots and he's going to He never left
- 17:17us like he was always there. We left him and
- 17:21Yeah, I just I love that rooted part. Yeah, and
- 17:25I thought about the same Bible verse. That's
- 17:26one of my favorites Yeah, because it's so true
- 17:29and I've seen that in my life It's part of my
- 17:32testimony. So I just I love that verse and I
- 17:38Know that we've just been the we haven't been
- 17:42the same ever since that happened to both of
- 17:44us and when we talked about it we're like oh
- 17:47my goodness it just blew our minds that that
- 17:49happened in a similar way to both of us and a
- 17:54lot of people think you have to be saved during
- 17:57an altar call but in but Christ is not limited
- 18:01to a building or service like the thief on the
- 18:04cross he'll reach down and meet you where you're
- 18:06at and you just have to come to him and repent
- 18:09of your sins and believe and confess that Jesus
- 18:12is Lord and he died for our sins and your life
- 18:15will be changed forever. And that's it. People
- 18:17don't realize that. It's a heart posture thing.
- 18:21It's one thing to say those things and partially
- 18:26believe them, but actually feeling that in your
- 18:30soul and truly wanting that is a different story.
- 18:39That's where it's at. Yeah. And a lot of people
- 18:42are like... you're not the same anymore yeah
- 18:46yeah I'm not supposed to be the same we are supposed
- 18:48to grow and change with every season of life
- 18:53yeah and it offends people too they're like oh
- 18:55yeah oh you think you're a holy ruler now and
- 18:58I'm like no I'm just over here loving Jesus yeah
- 19:01and it makes me think of another verse I can't
- 19:03think of where it's at but Kind of along the
- 19:06lines where he says I'm going to separate like
- 19:09you you may be separated from your family like
- 19:12those that don't understand you're gonna be separated
- 19:14from them and Just as what it is and it's actually
- 19:17a compliment. It's not yeah, it's not Like in
- 19:22worldly Standards and like a worldly viewpoint.
- 19:25I think people would say oh my gosh, that's terrible
- 19:27Well, you should just comply you should just
- 19:30appease other people so that you you know So
- 19:32that they like you or get along with you and
- 19:34it's like well we're not god doesn't tell us
- 19:37to do that though um he tells us to be set apart
- 19:40like you said yeah and then it's like my just
- 19:47getting on like i don't want to go down this
- 19:49rabbit hole but like curses being over your family
- 19:51and um you know i decided that it was going to
- 19:56end with me you know alcoholism drug addiction
- 20:00um all just sorts of things that run in my family.
- 20:04Pregnancy at a young age, like I'm just, no.
- 20:07I'm like, it's gonna end with me and I'm breaking
- 20:09this over my children. So I think that's very
- 20:12important too. Yes, it very much is. The world
- 20:16kind of tells us that disagreeing is hatred,
- 20:19but Jesus tells us correction is love. And that,
- 20:23I heard that in a podcast one day and that spoke
- 20:25volumes to me. I was like, oh my goodness, yes.
- 20:29Like if you disagree with someone they just come
- 20:31at you they attack you or even if you have the
- 20:33light of Christ And you walk in a room full of
- 20:35people that may not It's you can you can tell
- 20:40it's just evident people just kind of scoff at
- 20:44you or Like they can just see the fruits in you
- 20:47and it bothers them. Mm -hmm. And I don't mean
- 20:51like Correcting others by provoking them to anger
- 20:54or fighting or arguing to get your point across
- 20:57We're not supposed to do that. But if we condone
- 21:00people's acts and words that are against Christ
- 21:03-like characteristics We are confirming them
- 21:05to the pits of hell. Mm -hmm So we should love
- 21:10people in Christ so they want to get to heaven
- 21:12instead And not even God forces us to love them.
- 21:17Like that's why we have free will So I think
- 21:21it's so important with the loving correction
- 21:27That's the whole point. I think God includes
- 21:31the loving part with that phrase. Yeah Because
- 21:35if we're just standing there pointing our finger
- 21:37and hollering at people telling them what to
- 21:39do like they're not gonna Receive that well,
- 21:42you know and don't do the correction and a text
- 21:45message either Because you never know the tone.
- 21:48Yes, and it just gets lost in conversation. It
- 21:51sure does. Yes We should do good things for others
- 21:55and be true examples of Christ and make people
- 21:58wonder what's so different about us. I've had
- 22:00so many people thank me and give me accolades
- 22:02for doing good for others and it's not me to
- 22:05be thanked, it's for the glory of God. We're
- 22:08supposed to thank him when we're blessed or when
- 22:11you see someone else blessing other people. Something
- 22:15my parents taught me from a young age was to
- 22:17do good for others in secret and not to tell
- 22:19others about it. Like do not let your one hand
- 22:22know what the other's doing. That's a heart posture
- 22:25thing and What is the purpose behind why you
- 22:29are doing good for others? That's God Putting
- 22:35that desire in our hearts to do that good. It's
- 22:37it's a byproduct of our faith and our love for
- 22:40him He has your soul and he died for you. So
- 22:45go live for him. That's what I always tell people
- 22:48that I talk with The Bible tells us in James
- 22:522 14 through 26, I'm gonna read some scripture.
- 22:55Is that okay? Yeah, okay So faith without works
- 22:59is dead. What does it profit, my brethren, if
- 23:02someone says he has faith but does not have works?
- 23:06Can faith save him? If a brother or sister is
- 23:09naked and destitute of daily food and one of
- 23:11you says to them, depart in peace, be warm and
- 23:13filled, but you do not give them the things which
- 23:16are needed for the body, what does it profit?
- 23:19Thus also, faith by itself, if it does not have
- 23:22works, is dead. But someone will say, you have
- 23:25faith and I have works. show me your faith without
- 23:28your works and I will show you my faith by my
- 23:30works you believe that there is one God you do
- 23:33well even the demons believe and tremble but
- 23:36do you want to know oh foolish man that faith
- 23:38without works is dead was not Abraham our father
- 23:42justified by works when he offered Isaac his
- 23:45son on the altar do you see that faith was working
- 23:47together with his works and by works faith was
- 23:50made perfect the scripture was fulfilled which
- 23:53says Abraham believed God and it was accounted
- 23:56to him for righteousness and he was called the
- 23:59friend of God. You see then that a man is justified
- 24:02by works and not by faith only. Likewise was
- 24:06not Rahab the harlot also justified by works
- 24:09when she received the messengers and sent them
- 24:11out another way. For as the body without the
- 24:14spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead
- 24:16also. And then Ephesians 2 verses eight and nine
- 24:21For it is by grace you have been saved through
- 24:24faith and this is not from yourselves It is the
- 24:27gift of God not by works so that no one can boast
- 24:30Since being saved my heart has new affections
- 24:33and by this I mean that as a byproduct of my
- 24:36faith and heart for Jesus I want to be more like
- 24:38him and Let me just kind of clarify this by saying
- 24:43God's working on me, but he's also working through
- 24:46me Those are lyrics to one of my favorite um
- 24:49christian rap songs people laugh when i say i
- 24:52love christian rap they're like you you like
- 24:55that song um but that's so true um i'm not perfect
- 25:00i'll have fallen short of the glory of god however
- 25:03i want to be like christ i want to deny my flesh
- 25:06pick up my cross and follow him daily i want
- 25:09to be a representation of him no matter where
- 25:11i'm at or who i'm around am i perfect at all
- 25:14absolutely not But I want to live my life like
- 25:17Jesus lived his I want to help others not to
- 25:20earn badges as if our Christian walk is a merit
- 25:23system because it's not But because the Holy
- 25:25Spirit now lives in me We want to do good for
- 25:28others because of the wonderful things Christ
- 25:30has done for us not for recognition or selfish
- 25:33gain or anything like that or to keep track of
- 25:37Like keep a tally of what we've done That's not
- 25:41a good heart posture. That's not what we're here
- 25:43for but because doing good things for others
- 25:46is a byproduct of our salvation and faith. Salvation
- 25:49is not earned, but it's a free gift. God gives
- 25:53us free will, and like with any gift, we have
- 25:56to extend our arms to receive it and accept it
- 25:58into our lives. We can't let our free gift just
- 26:01set on our doorstep without opening the door
- 26:02and picking it up and cherishing it. We wouldn't
- 26:05let our Amazon package just sit there when we
- 26:07get the notification, hey, your package is delivered.
- 26:11It feels like Christmas when we get a notification
- 26:15that, you know, we have a package waiting to
- 26:17be open. So why don't we feel like that about
- 26:19Jesus and what he has to offer? Jesus knocks
- 26:23at the door of our hearts, so let him in. In
- 26:26the famous painting of Jesus knocking on the
- 26:28door, there's no handle for him to open it from
- 26:30the outside. And that just kind of melts my heart
- 26:36and makes me want to cry because that speaks
- 26:39volumes. um but he will knock and he'll wait
- 26:43patiently for us to let him in no matter how
- 26:45long it takes and there's a lot of people that
- 26:47think just getting saved and you're done it's
- 26:49no you need to have a relationship with him yeah
- 26:51that's one of the things that scares me the most
- 26:53is you don't want to get up there and hear department
- 26:56depart from me i never knew you absolutely that's
- 26:59terrifying very scary to think about yeah um
- 27:02and that's like the scripture i read earlier
- 27:04the part that said even the demons believe But
- 27:08when we open the door of our hearts to him, he'll
- 27:11gladly enter. He's been waiting for the door
- 27:14to open. Receive him today. I've been called
- 27:17a Jesus freak, a Bible thumper, all the names,
- 27:20a holy roller, like I said earlier, a religious
- 27:23cult member. I would like to be called a holy
- 27:25roller. I know, no. I don't take that to offense.
- 27:30It is a compliment. A religious cult member,
- 27:35that's been the funniest one. I'll cult them
- 27:38because I go to church. Okay. A crazy Christian
- 27:43because I take Jesus seriously. Excuse me. And
- 27:47whatever else people have said, but those are
- 27:49compliments, like I said, for taking my walk
- 27:52with Jesus seriously. If you know me, you're
- 27:55laughing about how untrue most of those labels
- 27:59are. Those are pretty extreme labels. But the
- 28:03Jesus Freak one, I think I'll wear that one.
- 28:05on a bad genie day honestly um i think people
- 28:09think too that whenever you accept god you can't
- 28:13you can't have fun and live life anymore it's
- 28:15like no you gotta let go of the religious side
- 28:19and the and the laws and you know that jesus
- 28:23came to break those things yeah yeah absolutely
- 28:25um but being criticized for my faith and called
- 28:31names and bullied and talked about has nothing
- 28:34on how Jesus was treated when he was battered,
- 28:36bruised, spit on, stabbed with a crown of thorns,
- 28:38and then nails were driven into his hands and
- 28:40feet for you and for me. And I have to remind
- 28:43myself of that often. Sometimes you do feel discouraged
- 28:49and disappointed, you know, because people can
- 28:52be cruel and unkind. It's like, well, I didn't
- 28:55do anything to you. Why would you say those things
- 28:57about me? But you have to remember what Jesus
- 29:00went through. He didn't have any shortage of
- 29:04that and he he received the most brutal of That
- 29:10and you gotta remember hurt people hurt people.
- 29:12Yep. I always say that. Yep That's absolutely
- 29:15true Well, just like earlier in my testimony
- 29:19when I said I became a bully because I was bullied
- 29:22and that happened so often to people and Speaking
- 29:28of church hurt religious trauma People people
- 29:33act accordingly when they've been treated poorly
- 29:36they kind of Do the same thing to other people?
- 29:39Yeah and Becoming a Christian you literally sign
- 29:45up for the mockery By accepting Christ He was
- 29:51mistreated too. So why would we be treated any
- 29:53different than he was? Although he endured the
- 29:55worst of the worst Now I choose to live my life
- 29:59to show others who Jesus truly is. So I encourage
- 30:03your listeners to speak up for your faith, speak
- 30:05up for the truth, be the light, but be the salt
- 30:07too. A city on a hilltop cannot be hidden. Also
- 30:12with the salt part, salt was and is used as a
- 30:14preservative and is used to add flavor. So that
- 30:18makes me think in our Christian walk how we should
- 30:21go against the grain of common misconceptions,
- 30:24challenge ungodly speech, and actions with love
- 30:28in our heart and let God use you to teach others
- 30:31a better way. Shine the light of Jesus unapologetically.
- 30:36I love that. Taylor, thank you so much for sharing
- 30:39your testimony with us. And I just love hearing
- 30:41everyone's journey. Like it's a blessing to me
- 30:43to get to sit here and walk, listen to everyone.
- 30:47And I do want to give you a chance to go over
- 30:52your new business. So If you just want to share
- 30:57with my audience, because you're very new, so
- 31:01I want to get that out there. I think it's an
- 31:04amazing tool for Christians to be able to get
- 31:09counseling and have that help. I just think that's
- 31:12amazing calling. So if you can just kind of explain
- 31:15the business, like how it works, where you're
- 31:19located, which I'll list out in the show notes,
- 31:21but I still want you to mention it. Just kind
- 31:23of like all the things that you're doing for
- 31:25that. So I worked in the helping field since
- 31:29graduating college for the past six and a half
- 31:31years. Social services, case management. I did
- 31:37bachelor's level therapy. It's been a challenge
- 31:40in itself to work in the helping field because
- 31:43it seems there's a lot of people in it for the
- 31:44wrong reasons and their heart posture about helping
- 31:48others isn't in the right place, I feel. It makes
- 31:53it difficult to work with others with that mindset.
- 31:56especially those in the field who don't respect
- 31:58or understand Christianity. So where I'm coming
- 32:01from and trying to share love with clients and,
- 32:04you know, not that I ever pushed my religion
- 32:08on. So do you even know you're a Christian counselor?
- 32:13Do you get people that aren't Christian or just
- 32:15don't even go to church? I do. Yes. Okay, that's
- 32:18awesome. I love that. Okay. And I started Actually
- 32:23writing a book months ago about the unique struggles
- 32:26of like ministry families and different examples
- 32:28of spiritual warfare I've experienced in secular
- 32:31jobs To hopefully help. I love that. Yeah, I'm
- 32:36excited. That's exciting You did not tell me
- 32:39that But fast forward to a few months ago kind
- 32:44of where the Christian life coaching started
- 32:45out So it's a little different from counseling
- 32:48because I don't diagnose I don't treat coaching
- 32:51is more goals -driven where you help clients
- 32:55set goals through a Christian perspective and
- 33:00help them move forward through that walking with
- 33:04them hand -in -hand with Christ. Okay. So a few
- 33:08months ago when God laid it on my heart to apply
- 33:11for a scholarship for the Christian life coaching
- 33:13program through Light University that's where
- 33:17I'm credentialed through. I began the courses
- 33:19and I was feeling this spiritual warfare at work
- 33:21at my full -time job and was searching for purpose
- 33:25elsewhere. Originally I wanted to just maybe
- 33:29do the life coaching to bring more purpose to
- 33:31my life and make me feel more centered in Christ
- 33:34and so I could help people specifically through
- 33:38Christ because I couldn't really do that at my
- 33:41secular workplace. I didn't really have a plan
- 33:45and I figured I'd give coaching a go and see
- 33:49where God takes me with it because he laid it
- 33:50on my heart for a reason so I was trying to be
- 33:53obedient I had a particularly bad week one week
- 33:57and was feeling this lack of drive in my work
- 34:00due to everything going on lots of drama and
- 34:04Just lots of things going on. I had been searching
- 34:07elsewhere for employment for months at that point,
- 34:10too I was just very unhappy I was really wanting
- 34:14a Christian company to work for, and I was really
- 34:19searching hard for that. I had a job interview
- 34:22with a Christian prison ministry. Which is a
- 34:24shame that we have to search hard to find. It
- 34:27is, it is. There's not many options for Christian
- 34:30companies to work for, I feel like in our area.
- 34:34but I did have a job interview with a Christian
- 34:36prison ministry and I was really excited about
- 34:40it and I was praying about it there was just
- 34:42something about that job that kind of held me
- 34:49back from jumping forward and there was this
- 34:52interview process you had to go through like
- 34:55I think it was three interviews so I made it
- 34:59to the final interview and thought Something
- 35:02isn't right after praying. I was like, I don't
- 35:05I don't think this is what's meant for me And
- 35:09like I love working with Those that have been
- 35:13in prisons when we do our homeless mission we
- 35:17work with a lot of people that have been in incarcerated
- 35:19and Are currently, you know in trouble with the
- 35:23law? but I have a heart for those individuals
- 35:30and homeless individuals in general, but So with
- 35:33the prison ministry, I was like, oh my goodness
- 35:35This is this is perfect like we need more people
- 35:38that can help them reenter into society without
- 35:41setting them up for failure Yes, please. Yes.
- 35:44Yes, and I it's crazy. I mean, that's why everyone
- 35:47goes back. Absolutely There's no hope for them
- 35:50or they end up homeless. Yes because they Just
- 35:54don't have that support that they need when they
- 35:56leave the jails and I was really excited about
- 36:00it but just like I said something was holding
- 36:03me back and I felt like God was telling me no
- 36:06this isn't meant for you or at least this isn't
- 36:08for you right now so I ended up after praying
- 36:13about it and feeling God tugging me in a different
- 36:16direction I ended up declining the final interview
- 36:19and they were bummed out they emailed me and
- 36:22they're like well we think that you're a really
- 36:23good fit for this and I said I and I knew they'd
- 36:26understand By me saying this, I said, I don't
- 36:28feel like this is meant for me. And I couldn't
- 36:31really explain why. But that kind of stopped
- 36:36me in my tracks with that. And I was like, yeah,
- 36:39this is a door closed. I need to communicate
- 36:42that with them so I'm not stringing them along,
- 36:48basically, giving them this false hope. That's
- 36:50not right. So I remember I told them that. Always
- 36:59had trouble getting ready for work to go to that
- 37:01workplace And I felt that before in secular jobs
- 37:05But I felt that God Stopped me in my tracks when
- 37:11I was walking down our hallway as I was getting
- 37:14ready to hug my husband. Goodbye And heading
- 37:17out the door. I stopped in the middle of the
- 37:19hallway and I I heard Go to the office today
- 37:25and our office for that workplace was across
- 37:28town. So I would have had to intentionally go
- 37:31there to quit. And I was like, what? And I walked
- 37:37a little closer to the front door where my husband
- 37:39was standing and I stopped and I just kind of
- 37:41stared at him. And he said, what? And I said,
- 37:43I think I'm going to quit my job today. And he
- 37:46goes, uh, and I said, I gotta go, I'll explain
- 37:52later, and when I got to work I texted him and
- 37:54he goes, well, it was surprising. His response
- 37:59he said, something along the lines of, I don't
- 38:01remember exactly, but something along the lines
- 38:04of if God's telling you to do that and it brings
- 38:08you peace, then that's what you should do. There
- 38:12was this recurring theme of peace about it. My
- 38:15parents kept telling me that too. They're like
- 38:17it whatever brings you peace That's what you
- 38:20need to do. And like he didn't know that so I'm
- 38:23like, okay God's using people to tell me that
- 38:25to focus on the peace part For one and praise
- 38:29be to God that your husband was supportive for
- 38:31you He always says he's he's a great husband
- 38:35but I am Didn't get to So I thought at the time
- 38:46I didn't get to resign how I thought Like how
- 38:51I wanted to and how I felt God was telling me
- 38:53to I think I got anxious and kind of jumped the
- 38:58gun a little bit because I planned to go to the
- 39:05office and do that but My boss ended up not being
- 39:09there. So I was like God What do I do because
- 39:12I wanted to be obedient and I was like, oh my
- 39:14gosh so I just sent it over email and I Felt
- 39:20bad about that because I wanted to I'm very okay.
- 39:23We got to do the right thing here so I didn't
- 39:27get to do that and then I realized Why God gave
- 39:32me those specific instructions because it was
- 39:35not It was very uncomfortable when I told my
- 39:40co -workers. Hey, I'm leaving Then like questions
- 39:44start, you know, so I Think God was trying to
- 39:49protect me from that uncomfortable Like the questions
- 39:52like why oh, where are you going? Oh, you know
- 39:56and I Didn't feel emotionally prepared for that
- 40:01and I didn't think of that aspect, but I am Just
- 40:05gathered all my personal stuff left all my equipment
- 40:08there and just walked out And I was like here
- 40:12we go flying by the seat of my pants. It felt
- 40:16like I've never really done that before so I
- 40:20was I was like, okay God I'm really trusting
- 40:23you here. This is really insane. It feels like
- 40:27but you led me to it And then I realized through
- 40:36that, even through my impatience and losing the
- 40:41opportunity to avoid the uncomfortable part of
- 40:44that, God turned it around for my good regardless.
- 40:48Days later, I finished my coaching certification
- 40:52and the knowledge exam for that and then scheduled
- 40:56to meet with mentor coaches. You have to purchase
- 41:02an additional mentor coaching. Program that's
- 41:05I think it was two or three hours long and you
- 41:08have to literally sit down and in front of the
- 41:11coaches coach other people It's national like
- 41:14there are people from all other states nerve
- 41:17-racking. Yes. Oh, I was very nervous But I did
- 41:22all of that and I got my certification and I
- 41:26had advertised about starting the Christian life
- 41:29coaching that very day that same day I posted
- 41:35about that my old youth group leader reached
- 41:38out to me and she said I had no idea you were
- 41:44doing a life coaching would you like to see clients
- 41:47in person at my practice and she owns a Christian
- 41:53holistic wellness center And I was just astonished.
- 41:57I started crying. I was like, God. I would too.
- 41:59Man, that gives me chills. This is insane. Yeah.
- 42:02Um, me too. And I was like just sobbing on the
- 42:05couch and my husband, he was sitting on the other
- 42:08chair and he just looked at me. He's probably
- 42:10like, what is going on with her? He said, what?
- 42:13And I explained and he just, I don't think, he
- 42:17knew what to say. He just kind of looked at me
- 42:19like, what? And I said, this is... this is crazy
- 42:24this is amazing um so that was a very unexpected
- 42:29blessing and of course i told her yes so now
- 42:32i see clients in person there um and even do
- 42:35coaching groups from her practice so that's really
- 42:38cool too i just started my first coaching group
- 42:41um on emotional eating what do you have on facebook
- 42:45right so can anybody join that uh or so they
- 42:49didn't like ask you anyone can Follow my page.
- 42:53I do have a firm foundation Christian life coaching
- 42:56LLC page on Facebook. I have an Instagram I'm
- 43:00more so on Facebook. I don't I'm not a fan of
- 43:02Instagram I do have an Instagram, but I don't
- 43:05really post on there. So Facebook is the way
- 43:08to go. Okay, but if you join a group I do make
- 43:12subgroups on Facebook for people to join that
- 43:17way the whole group can stay connected and okay
- 43:20uplift and encourage each other and then if there's
- 43:22any announcements I need to make that's like
- 43:25the best way for me to kind of get that out there
- 43:27to everyone all at once but I see clients over
- 43:33video call too from my home I do have a home
- 43:37office that if you prefer video call or the in
- 43:41-person appointments and God's been so good to
- 43:44me through this unexpected journey so I see Them
- 43:49in person at wall bloomers. I have my own office
- 43:52there. I also have a Little mini library. So
- 43:56if you need a Bible, there's Bibles there you
- 43:58can take or just free books I also have books
- 44:02that I sell. I might be donating to that. Okay.
- 44:05Thank you But I do have a section where people
- 44:08can buy books to like from my personal library
- 44:11that I've taken in I do Like date with a book
- 44:16if you've seen those I love those are so cool,
- 44:19but I call them a date with Jesus So I wrap them
- 44:26and it's I kind of give like a little snippet
- 44:29of what the books about and you just Can buy
- 44:34it and it's it's like a wild card what you get,
- 44:36but they're all Christian books. That's so cool
- 44:38that people can buy And then I make my own bookmarks,
- 44:42too But I'm working on the emotional eating group
- 44:50currently in person. I have a waitlist for that.
- 44:53It's become kind of popular. So I have to keep
- 44:56track of that. It is awesome. I was worried because
- 45:01it was my first one starting out. And I was like,
- 45:04well, I don't know if I'll get people. And it's
- 45:06just God's inundated me with people. And I love
- 45:10working with everyone that's a part of that group.
- 45:13And I'm excited to work with more people. I love
- 45:15meeting people and yapping And teaching so it's
- 45:20it's wonderful to get to do that But if anyone
- 45:25wants to get a hold of me, they can message me
- 45:26on Facebook Or they can email me. I gave you
- 45:31my email to link for anyone that wants to reach
- 45:33out I'm also working on a few groups One staying
- 45:37close to Jesus through anxiety. I did a poll
- 45:40on my Facebook group and that seemed to be one
- 45:44that was a topic that a lot of people wanted
- 45:47to do and I plan to do that one online. I know
- 45:53a lot of people it's hard for them to travel
- 45:55to Du Bois in person to do a group And if anyone
- 46:00wants details on groups or has questions about
- 46:03what groups I am planning in the future, you
- 46:05can send me a message. I'm always open to chatting
- 46:09and giving information if individuals want to
- 46:13know more about my coaching. I've always felt
- 46:18God meant for me to do something more in my life,
- 46:21just working at secular workplaces. and I know
- 46:25that I went through all that I did at workplaces
- 46:27for a purpose or maybe that God used those negative
- 46:30things for my good because He's very good at
- 46:33doing that. I'm currently just following the
- 46:36Lord and being obedient even when it doesn't
- 46:38really make sense initially because just seeing
- 46:43Him work everything out for the better in each
- 46:46step I take is confirmation that I'm doing His
- 46:49will and I feel that peace throughout this journey.
- 46:53Okay, so I'm just gonna I will link it in the
- 46:56show notes, but it is firm foundations LLC She's
- 46:59located at 23 Beaver Drive, Dubois That is in
- 47:03Pennsylvania It's located in the wall bloomers
- 47:07office But it's its own separate little office
- 47:10and you can email Taylor at firm foundations
- 47:13clc at gmail .com So I have a couple questions
- 47:18just to ask maybe to guide my audience How do
- 47:21you help someone who feels distant from God and
- 47:23how do you help them reconnect? Absolutely. So
- 47:26I first help them identify why they feel distant
- 47:29from God. That is a big key to the process, I
- 47:37feel. And then I work with them through overcoming
- 47:41those obstacles and brainstorming how they can
- 47:43overcome those obstacles and draw near to God.
- 47:47Oftentimes I see that the busyness of life keeps
- 47:50a lot of individuals from that closeness with
- 47:52God and it pulls us away from self -discipline
- 47:56and from studying His word and praying and talking
- 47:59to Him. We kind of feel like, oh, I'll do that
- 48:01later. I'm busy right now. I feel overwhelmed
- 48:03so I'll just put God on the back burner. And
- 48:07another thing that I really drive when talking
- 48:11with individuals who are struggling with closeness
- 48:13with God, I really drive fellowship with other
- 48:17believers. Whether they know where to go or don't
- 48:23know where to go and need resources, I will help
- 48:25them either way. And having a relationship with
- 48:29God is important. I always reinforce that with
- 48:34the individuals I talk with, and we have to make
- 48:36a conscious decision to do that daily. I have
- 48:40a variety of techniques and tools that I use
- 48:42to help them, including various resources after
- 48:45the session. If you've received my emails and
- 48:49I work with you you know that I send a lot and
- 48:53I always tell everyone you don't have to use
- 48:55all of these I just want you to have them. Yeah
- 48:57to be equipped. Yes and that's one of my favorite
- 49:00parts of the coaching is the resources because
- 49:03I have a whole library that I've I make my own
- 49:06I have gathered them from different areas and
- 49:09I love doing that and just tailoring Help and
- 49:16resources to each individual person. I just think
- 49:19that's really important and personal. Yeah So
- 49:24something that's big for me is how do you break
- 49:26cycles of fear anxiety or fight or flight? from
- 49:31a biblical perspective So that's another great
- 49:36question I've struggled with this myself and
- 49:39continue to Anxiety and fear are the byproducts
- 49:42of prioritizing a problem or heavy burden over
- 49:45trusting in God's power and care. When we obsess
- 49:48over potential negative outcomes or current negative
- 49:51happenings and try to figure it out on our own
- 49:53rather than relying on God, we feel the weight
- 49:55of anxiety and fear and we can get stuck in that
- 49:58fight or flight. Cognitive behavioral therapy
- 50:02tools are really effective with this. and focus
- 50:05on reframing thoughts and replacing negative
- 50:07thoughts with positive thoughts to form new autonomic
- 50:11or automatic thinking in regards to thinking
- 50:14positively and not always listening to every
- 50:16negative thought that pops into our heads. So
- 50:19taking every thought captive like the Bible tells
- 50:21us. I love cognitive behavioral therapy and I
- 50:26used that when I worked with teens and young
- 50:29kiddos. That was a big thing that we did. We
- 50:32would reframe those thoughts and um you know
- 50:36help them replace negative behaviors or thoughts
- 50:39with positive behaviors or thoughts and it really
- 50:42helped um the more we practice a habit the more
- 50:45it sticks and the more neural pathways our brains
- 50:48form towards the good or bad habits we practice
- 50:51so we can essentially rewire our brains to automatically
- 50:54think positive thoughts rather than automatically
- 50:57going to the negative which is really awesome.
- 50:59God designed us to do that. He designed us in
- 51:03amazing ways. The body is crazy. It's cool. I
- 51:06know it is. So how can faith and emotional healing
- 51:10work together instead of feeling separate? Yes.
- 51:14In my life, when I fell away from God, I struggled
- 51:19with this. So I love this question. um the world
- 51:22tries to separate faith and feeling in christian
- 51:26life coaching we confront both at once using
- 51:28a biblical lens and worldview to walk through
- 51:30emotional healing together so the world tells
- 51:33us that diagnoses and feelings are who we are
- 51:37they're our identity but as christians we know
- 51:40our identity is in christ the world tells us
- 51:43follow your heart and the lord tells us in jeremiah
- 51:4517 9 The heart is deceitful above all things
- 51:50and desperately wicked. Who can know it? Our
- 51:53hearts are untrustworthy for relying on ourselves
- 51:55for guidance. And we should not as Christians
- 51:59be searching inwardly for guidance anyway, nor
- 52:01should we have self -centered thinking. We should
- 52:04value others above ourselves and we should be
- 52:06self -aware and strive to be Christ -like, not
- 52:09wallow in what we think cannot be changed in
- 52:12us. God is not limited to what we think. he can
- 52:15and cannot do. He is powerful and when we're
- 52:20rooted in him and his truths found in the bible
- 52:22we can allow him to be our guide and that includes
- 52:26him using others as physical vessels for him
- 52:29to help us emotionally heal and overcome trauma
- 52:32and inward turmoil. In bible times water was
- 52:36used as a chaos metaphor. Jesus walks on the
- 52:39water and the chaos and quiets the storms in
- 52:41our lives and we need only to be still. He works
- 52:44all things for the good of those who believe
- 52:46in him, the Bible tells us. Oh, I love that.
- 52:50Maybe that's why I feel so calm when I'm at the
- 52:51beach and just staring out at the water. So what
- 52:55does biblical healing look like for trauma or
- 52:58deep wounds? So in the social services field
- 53:01or PTSD, I guess that's that's probably one of
- 53:05my biggest right now. Just from my diagnosis,
- 53:07I have crazy PTSD PTSD from it. So in the social
- 53:12services field, I've worked with trauma victims
- 53:14both young and old who, you know, post -traumatic
- 53:17stress disorder, any kind of trauma related disorders.
- 53:21I've walked with individuals from all phases
- 53:24of the lifespan through these difficulties and
- 53:27heard their cries for help. I've witnessed firsthand
- 53:29how the chains of trauma and deep wounds grip
- 53:32the ankles of people like a leech they can't
- 53:34get rid of. Although through a secular lens people
- 53:37often think trauma defines who they are for the
- 53:40rest of their lives God breaks every chain that
- 53:43binds us and gives us new life no matter what
- 53:45we've done or where we've been or what we've
- 53:48endured Whether by our own doing or at the hands
- 53:51of someone else God can break the grip of those
- 53:54wounds and that trauma if we just allow him to
- 53:57Does that mean it didn't happen? No Does that
- 54:01mean it won't still hurt from time to time? No
- 54:04What happens when we fully surrender our burdens
- 54:07to Christ is? That what happened to us does not
- 54:10control our hearts or minds any longer, so it
- 54:14doesn't have that grip on us We can take every
- 54:17thought captive and give it to God let go and
- 54:20let God my friends So what are some simple ways
- 54:24to grow spiritually for someone just starting
- 54:26out so some simple ways to grow spiritually for
- 54:32just For those just coming to know Christ, I
- 54:35think would be to read about who Jesus is and
- 54:38what He did for you at the cross. So the whole
- 54:41point of why we love Jesus. The Book of John
- 54:45would be a great place to start. Yes. A lot of
- 54:49scholars suggest to read the New Testament, beginning
- 54:51at the Book of John. That's what I was going
- 54:52to say next. So that's perfect, yes. Yeah, don't
- 54:57start at the Old Testament, that's for sure.
- 55:01Maybe Jenna says it's okay, but yeah. So make
- 55:04sure to get involved with a Bible study group
- 55:08or seek to find Christian fellowship in another
- 55:11fellow believer who can encourage and uplift
- 55:13you and lovingly correct you as needed and to
- 55:19keep you accountable in your walk with Christ.
- 55:20I think that is so important to find a good church
- 55:25family so you can gain a deeper understanding.
- 55:27It's good to have teachers in your life. such
- 55:30as a preacher or a Sunday school teacher that
- 55:33really knows how to communicate what God's saying
- 55:38in his word to you in an accurate way. Being
- 55:41surrounded by believers is so important and not
- 55:44just those with specific spiritual gifts but
- 55:47with a whole family of believers that can encourage
- 55:49support and learn from others through your own
- 55:51God -given gifts. So on the coaching side, what
- 55:57are some of the patterns you see holding most
- 55:59people back and how is Christian, I guess, how
- 56:03do you say it? Is it Christian coaching, life
- 56:06coaching? Okay, I just wanna make sure I'm saying
- 56:07it right. Life coaching, coaching. Okay, how
- 56:09is that different from traditional life coaching?
- 56:12So I think some of the patterns that hold clients
- 56:15back are anxiety and fear. Also, I've seen blaming
- 56:19God for how some people have misrepresented him,
- 56:22like I mentioned earlier, and deep -rooted trauma.
- 56:25Christian life coaching is life coaching through
- 56:28a biblical lens and using God's truth to encourage
- 56:31an uplift and help clients maneuver life and
- 56:34reach their goals. So that differs from traditional
- 56:37life coaching because the traditional life coaching
- 56:41is more personal success driven without using
- 56:44biblical principles and values. Okay. So before
- 56:48we head into rapid fire, I asked these three
- 56:50questions at the end of every podcast. What is
- 56:53your favorite Bible verse? My favorite Bible
- 56:55verse would have to be Hebrews 13 to do not neglect
- 56:59to show hospitality to strangers for thereby
- 57:02some have entertained angels unaware. Love it.
- 57:07And what is one thing you tell your younger self
- 57:10today? Don't turn your back on God. And what
- 57:14legacy would you like to leave behind? I would
- 57:17have to say that I'd want to leave behind the
- 57:19legacy of Christ. I hope there are people in
- 57:22heaven that I've spoken with one day that tell
- 57:25God, thank you for allowing her to share about
- 57:27Jesus with me. Oh, I love that. Okay, so we're
- 57:32gonna move on to rapid fire. Morning routine
- 57:36must have... Oh, this would have to be... This
- 57:39is the favorite part of... every morning. My
- 57:43husband and I will sit down for breakfast and
- 57:45we'll have deep theological conversation. And
- 57:48I love it. And we have been late to work a few
- 57:51times because of it. We just get on this roll
- 57:54and he's like, oh my gosh, I gotta go. Or I'm
- 57:57like, I have to leave. I should have left like
- 57:5910 minutes ago. That's awesome that you two have
- 58:01that together. Favorite worship artist? You might
- 58:07laugh at me. Or you can do a song, it doesn't
- 58:09matter. So my favorite... The worship artist
- 58:12would be Hal V and he's he's Christian hip -hop
- 58:15rap But he has a beautiful worship Sense of worship.
- 58:24Okay, one of my favorite songs by him to worship
- 58:26to is altar It's beautiful. I'll send it to you
- 58:30later Makes me cry every time I listen to it,
- 58:33but I think he's awesome One habit you do that
- 58:38changes everything I think Waking up at the same
- 58:42time every day. I wish I Well, I do because of
- 58:46my husband Especially if I have something on
- 58:50my mind for our deep theological conversation
- 58:53Favorite snack I would have to say giggles. They're
- 58:59organics. I love those. They're so good. They're
- 59:03my favorite. I think they're better than I'm
- 59:06a favorite way to rest I enjoy reading in my
- 59:10hammock or watercolor painting. Oh, I should
- 59:12try that one. If you can ask one person in the
- 59:16Bible a question, who and what? I hope we get
- 59:20to do this one day in heaven. Just get to sit
- 59:24down with them and ask them questions. I hope
- 59:25so, too. I think it would be. I have to think
- 59:31about this one. Think definitely I Think definitely
- 59:47I would want to ask Jesus We can skip it if you
- 1:00:02don't go over I think I'd want to ask Jesus If
- 1:00:10he, while he was on earth with the disciples,
- 1:00:14if he knew their thoughts, like if he knew, I
- 1:00:19would want to know that. I do want to know that.
- 1:00:23Yeah. That's cool. Well, Taylor, thank you again
- 1:00:25so much for coming on today. I believe your testimony
- 1:00:28will guide my audience and it just truly shows
- 1:00:31how Jesus shows up for you and for everybody's
- 1:00:34life. For my audience, I want to encourage you
- 1:00:37to reach out to Taylor for all your coaching
- 1:00:39needs. I feel it's so important to see a Christian
- 1:00:42-based specialist when it comes to your mental
- 1:00:44health and care, just to be pointed in the right
- 1:00:47direction and just get the right contacts and
- 1:00:51all the things. So like I said, I'll list everything
- 1:00:55that you can get a hold of Taylor in the show
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