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FULL SHOW: Do You Need A "Solo Dinner"? · On Air with Ryan Seacrest

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  Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us. Air on Air with
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  Speaker 2: a Ryan Seacrest.
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  Speaker 3: All right, you always kiss FM. Good morning, sisty Tani
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  Speaker 3: got the back room.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, everybody got everybody see everybody? Hi, high high.
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  Speaker 3: Uh, let's see clouds this morning, sunshine later highs in
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  Speaker 3: the low seventies and low eighties inland. Uh. We're paying
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  Speaker 3: your bills. And also, if your spouse makes this facial expression,
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  Speaker 3: then a divorce is coming. That's going to be this hour.
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  Speaker 3: Do you make faces when your spouse says something you
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  Speaker 3: disagree with or you get into a little bit of
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  Speaker 3: an argument. Do you over dramatize your expressions?
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  Speaker 2: I probably do, yes, I do one under Give me
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  Speaker 2: an example of what you do and is it? Is
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  Speaker 2: it good? Or like, let me see it? Like a grunt, like,
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  Speaker 2: oh just listen. I think I do it to you too.
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  Speaker 3: It was a tougher you to three examples.
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  Speaker 2: Tell me what's yours?
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, but babe, but babe, babe, Oh God, I
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  Speaker 4: like Sysney's better, Fabe.
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  Speaker 2: I'd rather be like, oh d why you don't listen
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  Speaker 2: to me?
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  Speaker 3: Man? I just store them off. Oh wow, you know
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  Speaker 3: you're Michael has a lot. He's a calm dude. I
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  Speaker 3: could tell you a lot.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like Sney gets more mad.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, he was well prepared before when he asked my
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  Speaker 4: dad for you know, marriage with me.
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  Speaker 2: You don't with me.
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  Speaker 3: In my relationship, it's all about the clock. I just
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  Speaker 3: want to know, like, if we're going to go somewhere,
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  Speaker 3: will it be thirteen minutes or thirty two minutes until
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  Speaker 3: we can walk towards the car.
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  Speaker 2: I don't.
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  Speaker 3: I don't care, but I need to have because I'm
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  Speaker 3: playing it all out like I'm producing the evening. So
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  Speaker 3: I just need to understand, you know, don't tell me
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  Speaker 3: if it's twelve, it's thirty eight, it could be forty two.
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  Speaker 2: But give me a time so I know when we
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  Speaker 2: can approach to produce the evening.
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  Speaker 3: That's the problem. Yes, I don't, right, but I do.
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  Speaker 3: I know, and I think it's better I do than
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  Speaker 3: I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I do.
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  Speaker 2: I love that you do. That's awesome.
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  Speaker 4: I want to produced evening and knowing exactly where we're
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  Speaker 4: going to be at what time and if we're going
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  Speaker 4: to go to the second place and all that.
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  Speaker 2: I love that. And sometimes the food doesn't come, but
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  Speaker 2: we have to go home to bed. Take it together.
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  Speaker 2: You gotta wrap it up.
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  Speaker 3: Guys.
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  Speaker 5: We did.
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  Speaker 3: Sorry, we gotta go. Time to get approached the vehicle.
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  Speaker 3: Uh yeah, I can't. I can't separate like that. I
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  Speaker 3: was talking to somebody about this the other day. I
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  Speaker 3: can't separate like the way I run my brain at
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  Speaker 3: work versus the way I do in my real life.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm trying to make that a positive in my
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  Speaker 3: sales and marketing tape of myself.
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  Speaker 2: I it's great. Schedule is not about do you want
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  Speaker 2: to do that?
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  Speaker 3: It's I got a plan. Yeah right, I had a
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  Speaker 3: backup plan at him. Now, Ruby, she went to you
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  Speaker 3: wanna and she was faced with the choice, and she
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  Speaker 3: made the choice to do what Ruby.
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  Speaker 5: I went on a solo dinner, a very dinner.
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  Speaker 2: It was just why is this a topic here now?
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  Speaker 5: Because it made me realize I hadn't done a solo
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  Speaker 5: dinner like that in a really long time. It wasn't
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  Speaker 5: like a casual lunch where you just go, you know,
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  Speaker 5: like you're sitting at sweet Greens or something like that
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  Speaker 5: and you're just eating salad quickly.
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  Speaker 2: It was like they.
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  Speaker 5: Bring out your food, they bring out your drinks, like
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  Speaker 5: a sit down meal.
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  Speaker 3: Dude, did they say what they do to me often
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  Speaker 3: if I were to be waiting for someone or pretending
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  Speaker 3: they're coming, then lying and saying they canceled, Do they
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  Speaker 3: say are you expecting anyone?
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  Speaker 5: No, they asked me if they'd like, if they're like,
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  Speaker 5: would you like us to remove the.
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  Speaker 6: Red like the other plate and to basically clear the table?
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  Speaker 5: And I was like, uh yeah, But then I realized
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  Speaker 5: how weird it was.
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  Speaker 2: No, No, No, it's not.
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  Speaker 3: My insecurities run so deep about eating alone that I
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  Speaker 3: will actually say I'm not so sure. They might they're
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  Speaker 3: running a little bit late at work. It might might
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  Speaker 3: not make it. I'll let you know.
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  Speaker 2: And then phone call, fake phone call.
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  Speaker 5: No, I didn't have my phone. That was a thing
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  Speaker 5: dog raw dogging my.
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  Speaker 2: Dinner.
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  Speaker 6: So then I couldn't even.
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  Speaker 5: Like pretend or scroll or text or I just was like.
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  Speaker 4: Sitting there crazy, And you do look at other people
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  Speaker 4: and judge, Yes.
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  Speaker 5: I was just looking at it was two other couples.
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  Speaker 5: There was two other couples there, and what can you
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  Speaker 5: tell us about them?
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  Speaker 6: Nothing?
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  Speaker 5: They were celebrating a birthday. So it made it also
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  Speaker 5: a little like weirder for me because I'm like Wow,
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  Speaker 5: look at them like they're you know, and then look
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  Speaker 5: at me.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's all right. Maybe they're not happy. I
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  Speaker 3: mean I see couples in the unhappy solo party.
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  Speaker 2: One maybe talk to each other.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I do have this weird thing. Tanya knows this.
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  Speaker 3: She's gonna jump in on and put a pin in
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  Speaker 3: and want to take it to a therapist. But I
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  Speaker 3: have this thing of like I don't want to be
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  Speaker 3: alone out in the wild really usually like grocery store. Yes,
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  Speaker 3: I'm happy to be alone, but I don't want to
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  Speaker 3: really be alone always when I'm having my meal out
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  Speaker 3: or something like that. And also if I'm triving for
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  Speaker 3: work and I got to get something brought to the
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  Speaker 3: room because I'm rushing coffee.
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  Speaker 2: Like how many am I two?
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  Speaker 3: And I turned the shower on, like if somebody's in
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  Speaker 3: the shower when they bring it.
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  Speaker 2: Not that a line. It's like a whole charade, you do, see. I.
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  Speaker 3: I also would have pretended that I got the phone
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  Speaker 3: call in the restaurant that she had to cancel.
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  Speaker 2: And then you would have told the server the same time,
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  Speaker 2: did you have any is there a signal can have
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  Speaker 2: something to go for her?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so good. Let's take half of mine to
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  Speaker 3: go very busy, very busy.
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  Speaker 2: I love eating alone. I do at least once a week.
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  Speaker 2: But someone, this is the difference.
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  Speaker 3: When you're with someone all the time in a partnership,
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  Speaker 3: you love being alone.
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  Speaker 2: When you're alone, you don't want to be alone alone. No,
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  Speaker 2: I do know. Don't make me scream.
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  Speaker 4: It's because I just have such a full house. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: you're right, I do like same time because it's like
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  Speaker 4: my whole or telling you exactly. So when I'm home alone,
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  Speaker 4: when I go out, I want to be alone.
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  Speaker 2: I'm alone. I can go home for that. Yeah, that's crazy.
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  Speaker 2: Why don't you call me? I'll come up with you
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  Speaker 2: because I work you all dan? What about me?
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  Speaker 3: Well, if I said that to Sistney, you want to
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  Speaker 3: hear what I'm gonna say to you. Yes, anyway, rub Plus,
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  Speaker 3: your traveling is fine. Yes, Now, I didn't know about this.
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  Speaker 3: Did you guys know about setting your like wake up
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  Speaker 3: time to a sleep cycle?
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  Speaker 4: I heard about people doing it, and I know about
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  Speaker 4: like sleep cycles.
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  Speaker 2: In general, but no, have you ever done it? No,
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  Speaker 2: I've tried, I've never I don't know that.
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  Speaker 3: I honestly, we talked about I think everything here over
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  Speaker 3: the last two decades, I don't.
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  Speaker 2: Remember this conversation.
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  Speaker 3: Leave it to the next generation over there to set
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  Speaker 3: their alarm to sleep cycle. So this is what you're doing, Sophia,
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  Speaker 3: explain out works and why you're doing it.
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  Speaker 2: Setting your alarm to a sleep cycle. Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: So now that I come in with you guys every
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  Speaker 7: morning and we start really early, I've had to like
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  Speaker 7: adjust my sleep a lot. So I've learned that when
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  Speaker 7: we go to sleep, we go through four to six
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  Speaker 7: stages of sleep, and those are like your sleep cycles.
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  Speaker 7: So if you wake up like in the middle of
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  Speaker 7: one of those sleep cycles, you're gonna wake up feeling
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  Speaker 7: groggy and.
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  Speaker 2: Just more tired and not ready for the day.
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  Speaker 7: But if you time it perfectly, and each of these
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  Speaker 7: cycles are ninety minutes long, So if you time it
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  Speaker 7: perfectly to where you finish a cycle at the end
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  Speaker 7: of the ninety minutes, and you wake up and set
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  Speaker 7: your alarm to that time, you wake up feeling refreshed,
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  Speaker 7: ready to go, like you're not tired, even though it's
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  Speaker 7: like early in the morning, You'll still be like, good
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  Speaker 7: to go.
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  Speaker 2: This is impossible.
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  Speaker 3: I don't sleep in forty five or ninety minute segments.
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  Speaker 3: But you know what I know, I do not.
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  Speaker 2: No, he gets up those pe No that too, But
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  Speaker 2: I don't sleep.
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  Speaker 3: I sleep like in twelve minute increments or twenty minute
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  Speaker 3: in of course you do. So how would I set
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  Speaker 3: my alarm for one of those delios? Whe I'm going
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  Speaker 3: to come out of my sleep cycle. I have to
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  Speaker 3: wake up to set my alarm to know what I'm
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  Speaker 3: gonna wake up, Like, how do you know when you're
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  Speaker 3: gonna wake up?
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  Speaker 2: That's the problem I have with this. So listen something.
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  Speaker 7: If you have like a specific time the next day
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  Speaker 7: you want to wake up, you can kind of like
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  Speaker 7: count backwards in ninety minute increments of like how long
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  Speaker 7: you want.
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  Speaker 2: To sleep, like six hours, seven hours.
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  Speaker 3: You basically see science that you get exactly ninety minutes
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  Speaker 3: every cycle.
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  Speaker 2: To me, I don't think, I know. I don't.
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  Speaker 4: For someone that sleeps through the whole cycle, I think, yes,
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  Speaker 4: you get up, science sleep.
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  Speaker 2: Not when I get up.
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  Speaker 3: It's just me flipping, like I flip every fifteen, twelve,
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  Speaker 3: twenty eight.
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  Speaker 2: So you're still sleeping. I'm not.
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  Speaker 3: I know I'm away because I make a moan when
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  Speaker 3: I have to move my pillow to the other side.
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  Speaker 2: Really my hug pillow. That's fascinating. When I fall asleep,
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  Speaker 2: I don't wake up and that alarm goes off. Y'all
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  Speaker 2: should see me sleep.
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  Speaker 4: You have a huggy pillow and you've set up a
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  Speaker 4: camera put it on the time last.
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  Speaker 3: From I don't mind, if that's what you want. I
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  Speaker 3: do have a huggy pillow. Yes, I so just to
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  Speaker 3: reb I love that. Yeah, it's like this.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a third person in the bed.
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  Speaker 3: But I have to flip my huggy to the other side.
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  Speaker 3: When I flip, yeaes and I go, oh, Now.
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  Speaker 4: If you get another huggy pillow on the other side, no,
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  Speaker 4: but then I run into's like a bumper.
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  Speaker 2: I run into it. A great idea.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I only know that because I did it when
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  Speaker 4: I was pregnant. I had so many pillows that every
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  Speaker 4: time i'd have to move over, I'd have to move
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  Speaker 4: the pillows.
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  Speaker 2: So and then I just got two pillows on each side.
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  Speaker 3: That doesn't work. It's very busy on that side. I
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  Speaker 3: can't intrude on space in case anybody shows up. All right,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, Sophia, good luck with that. But I'm
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  Speaker 3: just saying if that works for you, great, I just
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  Speaker 3: don't know that it's perfect ninety minutes every time you
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  Speaker 3: have a sleep cycle for me, we heard you. What
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  Speaker 3: great conversation.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you, it's kiss.
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  Speaker 3: I've ever got a quote of the day on the
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  Speaker 3: way all right, So, facial expressions, body language can say
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  Speaker 3: a lot. Like you know when your partner is mad
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  Speaker 3: at you, just by their body language, like you can
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  Speaker 3: tell something wrong if you ask me, they say no,
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  Speaker 3: everything's fine, but their body language tells you everything right.
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  Speaker 3: So there's a very famous psychologist that says he can
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  Speaker 3: predict divorce with ninety four percent accuracy. If your partner
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  Speaker 3: makes this facial expression, do you think it is all.
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  Speaker 2: The time or just like once once?
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  Speaker 3: Ever it's I don't know, once or more couple times,
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  Speaker 3: but it's coming. If you see this expression, you want
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  Speaker 3: to guess what it is.
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  Speaker 2: I don't like a snarky look. I don't know. That's it.
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  Speaker 2: You got it? Yeah, that's it.
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  Speaker 3: Basically contempt. Contempt is the word. But if your partner
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  Speaker 3: smirks at you with one side of the mouth raised,
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  Speaker 3: you know that look.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe it's a good thing that I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe if you're not here with that look, it is
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  Speaker 3: a good thing. But you know that's that one sided smirk.
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  Speaker 3: Apparently your marriage is in real trouble. Like it's very
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  Speaker 3: annoying that look. If you get it, if you know
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  Speaker 3: when people have made it, it's very annoying. It's like
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  Speaker 3: when someone acts like they look or are better than you.
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  Speaker 3: They make a facial expression, this is it God, like
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  Speaker 3: you're beneath them.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, or there beneath you.
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  Speaker 3: It's not anger, it's just disrespect. Like they don't angry,
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  Speaker 3: they just look like they're acting and are better than you.
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  Speaker 3: It's derogatory and demeaning.
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  Speaker 4: And that right there, when there's no respect, that's the
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  Speaker 4: end of the marriage. I think it's over.
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  Speaker 2: Contempt is like a big word. Uh is that big?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 8: But I mean like I feel like I've heard a
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  Speaker 8: lot of people talking about contempt.
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  Speaker 2: Okay in my algorithm, Well, they're in trouble with their marriage.
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  Speaker 3: Today's quote some people don't like you because your spirit
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  Speaker 3: irritates their demons. My dear goodness makes them feel bad
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  Speaker 3: about themselves.
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  Speaker 3: One of two point sevens Kiss FM. All right, let's
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  Speaker 3: talk about sharing locations. Tanya isn't even asking to share
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  Speaker 3: locations with me? For I don't know as long as
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  Speaker 3: you could share locations, I've denied the request. I don't
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  Speaker 3: need that, you know, call me, text me, message me.
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  Speaker 2: Is it we done right now?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 8: I was counting how many people I follow with share
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  Speaker 8: my location with, and fourteen.
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  Speaker 2: I was right, thirty seven literally to the number. But
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  Speaker 2: isn't that too much information?
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  Speaker 3: Now? Joe's in the back room. You have a former
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  Speaker 3: friend that still has your location?
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  Speaker 9: Yes, So in college I feel like you end up
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  Speaker 9: with everyone's location, like random girls I would meet in
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  Speaker 9: the bathroom, you know, let me make sure.
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  Speaker 6: You get home sick. But I haven't talked to them
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  Speaker 6: in years and they can still see what I'm up to.
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  Speaker 2: Can you just drop them? Yes? Okay, why don't you
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  Speaker 2: just drop them?
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  Speaker 6: So that's where the issue comes in.
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  Speaker 9: So after graduating, I did a little bit of cleansing,
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  Speaker 9: you know, nothing personal, just I don't talk to you anymore.
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  Speaker 9: And this friend specifically, she lives in a different city,
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  Speaker 9: so if I'm in danger, she's not going to get to.
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  Speaker 6: Me anytime soon.
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  Speaker 9: But she noticed that I unshared, and so the first
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  Speaker 9: time she texts me since graduating was to say, Jesse,
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  Speaker 9: did you and share your location with me?
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, this is too much? And then you
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  Speaker 2: say yes, I did.
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  Speaker 6: And so I told her.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, it was nothing, I explain, not trying
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  Speaker 3: to make it personal and create tension, right exactly.
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  Speaker 9: And so I tell her it's nothing personal, and her
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  Speaker 9: response back was okay, share it back with me.
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  Speaker 3: So me, no, this, but what what do you want
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  Speaker 3: to know for you don't even live near me. Why
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  Speaker 3: does she want to know where you are? What is
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  Speaker 3: that about? It's more about her than you. She just
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  Speaker 3: doesn't want to. It's the ego of her feeling like
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  Speaker 3: she's been dropped or unfollowed.
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  Speaker 9: I just feel and exactly I feel like nowadays that's
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  Speaker 9: like the new form of you cannot unshare your location
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  Speaker 9: with somebody in my or how long it's been, unless
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  Speaker 9: that is your sign to let them know you are
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  Speaker 9: out of my life.
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  Speaker 6: And I think that's how she took it as.
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  Speaker 3: I think this is why I don't share locations. This
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  Speaker 3: is why I didn't get a dog for a long time,
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  Speaker 3: but I ended up doing that. But it's a longer story.
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  Speaker 3: But the reason I'll share locations, don't. I have pictures
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  Speaker 3: of all of my relationships on my Instagram, Like I
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  Speaker 3: think you're all still there. I say, I follow all
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  Speaker 3: of everyone right, Yeah, me too, taking stuff down and
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  Speaker 3: dropping stuff. So once you get in, you could be
• 14:26
  Speaker 3: in for quite a long time. So siciny, yes, you
• 14:29
  Speaker 3: got thirty eight people you're gonna fall and follow you
• 14:32
  Speaker 3: for life.
• 14:33
  Speaker 2: I'm fine with that. People have moved away to live.
• 14:34
  Speaker 3: In Jersey it's fine until they become not your friend,
• 14:38
  Speaker 3: which is the situation here. Yeah, just let it go, Josie,
• 14:43
  Speaker 3: let it go. It's just stuption locations with random people.
• 14:45
  Speaker 6: Now I'm pick here, Now I'm picky.
• 14:48
  Speaker 3: Okay, Well, good selective, selective location. All right, thanks for
• 14:52
  Speaker 3: being here. We've got clouds this morning, sunshine later. Highs
• 14:55
  Speaker 3: in the low seventies and eighties Inland, some nice temperatures.
• 14:58
  Speaker 3: Tanya with a trending about Hailey Bieber using the best
• 15:02
  Speaker 3: word to describe being a woman.
• 15:04
  Speaker 8: Go ahead, Yes, So Hailey Bieber is getting real about
• 15:07
  Speaker 8: the last year of her life. Within twelve months, this
• 15:10
  Speaker 8: is crazy. She welcomed her first baby, Jack Blues, and
• 15:14
  Speaker 8: then she sold her skincare company Road for one billion dollars,
• 15:18
  Speaker 8: all within the same twelve months, like window. And so
• 15:22
  Speaker 8: she did an interview and she used this word to
• 15:24
  Speaker 8: describe kind of her experience. She said, she felt stretched,
• 15:28
  Speaker 8: And I've never used that word, but I think it's
• 15:30
  Speaker 8: like the perfect way to describe womanhood is just like stretch.
• 15:35
  Speaker 2: She said.
• 15:35
  Speaker 8: The biggest identity shift that you go through in your
• 15:37
  Speaker 8: life is becoming a parent. She's turning thirty this year
• 15:40
  Speaker 8: and looking back on it. She said she wouldn't change
• 15:42
  Speaker 8: a thing, and she basically said, it's really hard. It
• 15:44
  Speaker 8: was hard to do all of these major things at
• 15:46
  Speaker 8: one time, but it did strengthen her. And I love
• 15:49
  Speaker 8: that because I feel like a lot of people say,
• 15:51
  Speaker 8: as a woman, you kind of have to like pick
• 15:52
  Speaker 8: a lane, baby or business, family, or career, And it's
• 15:56
  Speaker 8: really cool that she's kind of talking about her experience
• 15:59
  Speaker 8: of kind of becoming those two things at the exact
• 16:02
  Speaker 8: same time.
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: Have you never used the word stretched, like stretched? Yeah,
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: I've never said I've never used the word stretched. I
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: feel stretched. I always say stressed or overwhelmed. What about depleted?
• 16:14
  Speaker 3: That's a that's another word that I think describes how
• 16:16
  Speaker 3: people can feel.
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: You feel depleted. I use it emotionally, depleted, exhausted. But
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: those are the same as stretched, respectfully, No, they're not.
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: They're not the same respectfully back.
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: But I'm just thinking, like, these are terms every wonder
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: if you use any of those terms, which would also
• 16:30
  Speaker 3: help describe the feeling of being pulled, and you're saying
• 16:33
  Speaker 3: being pulled in different directions, yes, but also not having
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: to pick a lane. I didn't know she sold her
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: company for one billion dollars yadline of cosmetics.
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: Huge.
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: Feel like that would make you stretch less once you
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: sell a company for a one billion.
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, right, right, here you go. I'm out. I'm out.
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: My stretching is only going to be in the yoga class. Yeah,
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: coming up.
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: Got some tickets to see Olivia Udrigo playing match game.
• 16:54
  Speaker 3: If you want to play the match game, get in
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: here and we'll play together. All right, it's time to
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: play the match game for Olivia Rodrigo tickets. These are
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: super hot of same. I looked at the schedules. She
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: had four shows. It into a dumb and do too popular. Man,
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: they got ten of them now into a dumb that's right.
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: Bianca and Laverne, good morning, good morning. You are contestant
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: number one, Thanks for being here.
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: Okay, I do it.
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: And we got Angelique and Colton contestant number two. How
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: are you, Angelique?
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: I'm good?
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: How are you good?
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: So everybody wants these tickets to live Rodrigo, We're gonna
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: try and get them for you.
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: It's the match game.
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: We'll give you each separately a phrase okay with the
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: blank in it. Whoever gets the most matches with our
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: panel here of Sisny, Tanya Ruby and Michaela.
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: Then you'll win. Are you ready Bianca to go first?
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: Sure? Okay, yours is hanging tighty Angelague. Yours Bianca is
• 17:50
  Speaker 3: prime blank primelank. What was the other grunting about it?
• 17:56
  Speaker 8: I love when they come, easy, God, I have two
• 18:01
  Speaker 8: in my mind.
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: We'll pick one, okay, prime Time, Prime Time. I was
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: singing Rib excellent popped in my mind. First my Prime
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: Rib okay, says n what'd you say? Prime video?
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: That was my other one, Prime prime Time?
• 18:27
  Speaker 6: All right, Ruby, I was in between both that. I
• 18:29
  Speaker 6: went with Prime.
• 18:30
  Speaker 8: Rib right on my mind and Mikayla Prime Time Prime
• 18:35
  Speaker 8: Time right.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: I didn't even think of our brains.
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: See remember that picture they showed you in elementary school
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: of the bird or the older the grandma, old lady.
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: Yes, exactly what do you say, like a young woman
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: or an old woman?
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that was it bird. But that was what happened
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: with Prime and Rib, with me and everybody else. All right,
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: she got two, I got all.
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: Right, Angelique, you're up. Let's see how you do here
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: for Olivia Reco tickets. Yours is moon the blank.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: That's what again?
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: Is easy?
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: I don't know that there's two.
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: In my head.
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: Okay, moonshine, moonshine? Okay, good, that was the other one.
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: Mine was moon pie? Was the moon pie? Okay? Naturally?
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and says ay, did you say moonshine, moonshine?
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: You said moonwalk moon juice?
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: And what is the moonjuice store?
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: Brandy, don't yell at me to get out of here, Ruby, moonshine.
• 19:37
  Speaker 4: There you go, I said, moonshine.
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: Congratulations, Wow, Incidentela, you go to the show.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: Both of you, wait, both of you?
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: Oh my goodness.
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: I need to call my little sister. I want the
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: tickets for her.
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: You want them? You got three? Is that right? She
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: got three?
• 20:08
  Speaker 7: Yeah?
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: And got two? So what's the difference everybody?
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: I mean, anybody gets two out of this game is
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: really a winner, all right?
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: Hanging on? Thank you?
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: It's get Two's hard? Angela, you're a masterclass.
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: On air with Ryan Seacrest. You use it a scam?
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: I mean, it's kiss FM. I don't know. I just
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: got from Amazon. Maybe it's not on Amazon.
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: There's a text that came in from a weird number
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: saying there's been a recall.
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: Click here to find out. No, don't click it. Scammed.
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: But then I started thinking it seemed legit. Like I'm
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: usually good at identifying scams. This looked legit that there
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: may have been something that I purchased that got recalled.
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: Amazon wants to tell me. That's what a kind thing.
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: But the usually would email you and then it would
• 20:57
  Speaker 4: have like your order number on there, or did.
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: You or something that hasn't come yet.
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: I don't know, but I can't click into it's fine
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: out because the characters might be a scam.
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: But now you can put into this website. What's the website?
• 21:07
  Speaker 4: Okay, it's called scamwise dot com and I gotta give
• 21:10
  Speaker 4: credit words due KTLA's rich on tech is the person
• 21:12
  Speaker 4: who brought this to my attention, and it basically analyzes
• 21:15
  Speaker 4: the message, the website, the text, whatever it is. You
• 21:18
  Speaker 4: can even explain it if you need to, Like I
• 21:20
  Speaker 4: got like those FedEx letters in the mail, so I
• 21:23
  Speaker 4: put it into this website explaining the whole situation, and indeed,
• 21:27
  Speaker 4: in fact immediately confirmed that it was a scam. Don't
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: pay the dues. All that stuff is just not real.
• 21:35
  Speaker 4: Do you remember me telling you about this the FedEx? Okay, yes,
• 21:39
  Speaker 4: so I'm for this.
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: I get also random texts, people going are you looking
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: for a job or are you still up? Are you
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: still off? Are you It's like they say, hey, oh
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: I'm in town. Hey I'm in town, Like wait, who,
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: and then you kind of want to go, well, who's
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: this phone number from the past? I know?
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: But is that a scam? Or is that just.
• 22:04
  Speaker 4: Also people that text like, Hey, I'm in the area
• 22:07
  Speaker 4: trimming trees down the street and would love to give
• 22:10
  Speaker 4: you a quote on your trees.
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: I mean, that's what you say for Ryan's roses. Basically
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: I say no, thank you? Is it a scam?
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: Scamwise dot com.
• 22:18
  Speaker 3: By the way, Elizabeth Taylor, it is Taylor Swift on
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: one of two point seven kiss of them. So all right,
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna throw this out to you guys, because people
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: are talking about it and they're saying that crushes are
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: this secret to a happy marriage.
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: It's been making the rounds.
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: The title is the secret to a great marriage crushes
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: on other people?
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: It's an article being shared and that the headline basically
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: is about the secret being having crushes on other people.
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: So it's written by a woman who's married for I
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: think ten years. She's got two kids, she has an
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: office crush on a guy named Phil, like a guy
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: that she sees at the office named Film.
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: And she said her husband jokes about it.
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: He'll notice her putting on mascara before zoom call and joke,
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: oh is that for Phil? Like it's become a fun
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: sort of situation and some levity in the relationship. And
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: she says they regularly discuss other people they find attractive.
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: And she says, why wouldn't you Everyone finds other people
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: attractive to hide it is lying, Like, at least you're
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: being transparent when you're telling him, yes, I find Phil attractive.
• 23:17
  Speaker 4: Maybe celebrities or something like that on TV, or a
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: movie that you're just like, we'll never see in the wild,
• 23:23
  Speaker 4: but not a coworker.
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: Here's here's what they're saying.
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: If you're never gonna do it, it's harmless and it's
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: transparent and it's truthful and it's honest. Now you're obviously
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: not gonna do anything. I mean, you have to not know,
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: you have to have some parameters here, So would not
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: would it not prove your the strength of your relationship
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: by being able to do that? Almost makes me feel
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: like you're insecure with your relationship.
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: If you can't, No, if you.
• 23:50
  Speaker 4: Put it out into the universe, then it'll eventually come
• 23:52
  Speaker 4: to light.
• 23:53
  Speaker 8: I will say last week we had a guest on
• 23:55
  Speaker 8: our podcast and he I was He was a crush
• 23:58
  Speaker 8: of mine when I was like a teenager and I
• 24:00
  Speaker 8: was getting ready to go in for the interview and
• 24:03
  Speaker 8: my husband Robbie was like, oh, are you getting ready
• 24:04
  Speaker 8: to go to your boyfriend?
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: Because I was like a cute outfit and I was like, Yeah,
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: that is strength.
• 24:11
  Speaker 4: I ever say that to him though that's not a
• 24:13
  Speaker 4: coworker she sees every day.
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: True over and over and over again, calls James.
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I just think that what she says looks
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: the strong relationship we have. We can actually make jokes
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: like this, So this should be your goals.
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: Good luck.
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: It is Ryan Seacrest and Erica from Highland Park. You're
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: joining us, Erica, Good morning, Good morning. So you're forced
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: to show your family friend around in LA. What's going
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: on Erica at your place? Okay?
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: So it's my mom's best friend. Her daughter just moved
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: to LA and now both the mom saves like decided
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: that it's my jump to show around and help her
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: get settled.
• 24:52
  Speaker 3: Well, this is how I met tenas my roommate when
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: I first moved to LA. The exact same situation. Basic,
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: Oh right, I was. I wanted to move to LA
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: and I was nineteen, and my mom said, well, you
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: got to go out there and you got to find
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: somebody you know. And I didn't know anybody. So my
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: dad called another guy that he was in the army
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: with years ago who had a son who lived in
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: LA and he said, to his son, your job is
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: to take Ryan Seacrest around and hillm Mala and then
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: be his roommate. That's exactly what happened. We never met
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: and that was his job. I love that, and so
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: you know, you never know what could come out of it.
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: Why do you hesitate?
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: So I have met her before, like, but we're not friends,
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: Like I kind of I know her, but it's more
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: like I know of her than I know her.
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: Don't want to waste her time taking her around because
• 25:43
  Speaker 3: you're acquainted with her.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: And well, the interactions I've had with her have not
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: been positive, like.
• 25:51
  Speaker 4: Yeah, oh that's not great, what happened?
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: What's bad?
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's just so competitive, like she's like one of
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: those like one upper kind of people like, I'll say
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: I had a busy week and she was like, oh,
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: not compared to my week. You will believe how busy.
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: My week was.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: That's literally like a cool restaurant, Like not compared to this.
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: That what.
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: I think you Grin and Barrett. It's like almost more
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: trouble to like have to get out of it. It's
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: Grin and Barrett. It's one day of showing and pick
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: the places you want to go.
• 26:27
  Speaker 8: No, but then once you say yes to one, you're
• 26:29
  Speaker 8: gonna be like the Tour de France for your parents.
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: This happened to me, and it's baking race. I'm saying.
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: Every family member that came in Psyched came from Serbia.
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: It was like, oh, Tanya can show them around La.
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: And I was like, yeah, she's not taking a bicycle
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: with a side talk.
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I don't know what you're
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: saying actually, which I'm trying to clarify. It was an
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: actual Tour de France.
• 26:50
  Speaker 8: It was just like when I was like, you're gonna
• 26:53
  Speaker 8: be the tour guide for everybody that your parents?
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: No, I understand, Yeah, all right, Erica, what are you
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: gonna do? You're gonna do it or not.
• 27:01
  Speaker 9: I don't know.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: I'm really conflicted because I feel like if I say no,
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be like a whole thing and I'm gonna
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: look so rude.
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: That's why I agree, Well, really busy or save your
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: reputation and just look kind and generous. Good luck, Ferica,
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: thanks for calling. Thank you all right, I wouldn't do it.
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't do it, And there you go. That's it
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: for us, friends. But tomorrow we're back with the Ryan's Roses.
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: Is location glitching a thing on the iPhone? What if you.
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: Combine that with a husband changing his lock screen to
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: a picture without his wife. So it's some of all
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: parts Ryan's Roses that'll happen tomorrow morning. Also, we have
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: a lot more of these Oliviate Rodrigo tickets to give away,
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: so be here for those two tomorrow.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: On a kiss.
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: If you missed anything today, it's up on our podcast
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: on iHeartRadio or wherever you get your podcasts. On Air
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: with Ryan Seacrest. We'll talk to your first thing in
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: the morning, It's kiss. Have a great wines.
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: Thanks for listening so on Air with Ryan Seacrest, make
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow,