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Romeo In The Morning 5-12-26 · Romeo In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: I was going on as Romeo. Guys, we met at
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  the Taco Tuesday. We got into a lot this morning.
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  We talked a little bit about real estate in Bakersfield.
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  And my neighbor was getting hit on at at a
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  bar the other night. And I guess the girl was
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  dating a guy, but well he didn't want to go
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  with her, so I don't know she left him or not.
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  But we'll talk a little bit about that. And then
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  of course, you guys afraid of AI. AI is supposed
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  to take over the whole world.
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  Speaker 2: Let's talk about it.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, we got George Lopez with us this morning. He
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  is a legend in comedy and television and movies. He's
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  going to be at the Fox Theater Saturday, May sixteenth.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning, George, Good morning.
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  Speaker 3: You know it's always when I see people Monday, always
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  go hey George Lopez. It's never just just George. I
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  think from the show. I think the first show. Hey, hey,
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  get out of the way.
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  Speaker 2: You know, well, it's funny.
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  Speaker 1: I know you you won't remember because you met thousands
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  of millions of people. We met in Sacramento a long
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  time ago, when I had first got in a race.
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  You ks f M and it's been a long time
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  and your career is just it's incredible how much you've done.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, you know, even at the beginning, man, like
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  you know, there was no kind of template for uh,
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  you know, for us, you know, so as as you
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  kept going, you would be like, oh you could do that.
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  Like I didn't ever think about having one show, much
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  less like five. Man. I mean, it's just it was
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  every day, every day I trip out on it, man,
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  because it's like I never imagined it would go like this,
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  you know.
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  Speaker 2: I was gonna And what are you most proud of? Georgia?
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  I mean, you've done it all. You've done the TV
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  show with your latest one with.
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  Speaker 1: Was with your daughter, I believe if I remember correctly,
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  then you had the one before that, which was oh
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  my god, that one was so funny.
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  Speaker 2: It was more it was what was the one before that,
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  like like uh the TV landin Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: It was more.
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  Speaker 2: It was more like a cur Yes, that one was great.
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  Oh my gosh, I'm almost so good. So what are
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  you most proud? I mean, you've been doing stand up forever.
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  You're a leg Next.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to pigeonhole you, but as a Mexican comedian.
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  You are one of the greatest, if not, I won't
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  even know who's who's accomplished more than you.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you.
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  Speaker 5: You know what.
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  Speaker 3: I think there's two asses. I think doing the show
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  with Mayan h was pretty much beyond uh my imagination,
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  you know. And it's funny that being you know, working
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  with your daughter that when I would see her every day,
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  I would I would my mind would see her being born,
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  and see her at two, and see here at five,
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  and then see her as this woman. So I would say,
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  because it's hard enough to get a show on your own,
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  let's let's bring your kid with you. Everybody takes your
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  kids everywhere. But like you know, and then I think
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  personally on the on the other side of it, I
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  think the start on the Walk of Fame in two
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  thousand and six was pretty big.
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  Speaker 2: Oh that's so impressive. I mean, it's just it's just
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  in it's the thing.
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  Speaker 1: George is I I me know, I saw you when
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  you were first starting in the comedy clubs, and now
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  all these years later, it's.
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  Speaker 2: Just it's incredible to be there in the beginning and
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  see it all.
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  Speaker 3: Of you know, so you know, back then, you know,
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  Sacramento was awesome, man, It's just you know those things too,
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  you know, like all the all the radio relationships you
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  made and all the clubs and stuff. Is like, if
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  you're fortunate enough to have people come and see you,
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  you know, it's easy to get to get better. Man.
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  But you know sometimes when I when I think about things,
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  and I'll tell somebody that I don't know if I
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  would have had the heart for it, if I hadn't
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  have become successful, Like how much do you take before
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  you say it? You know, I think i'd wrap this up.
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  Speaker 2: Well, how how did you do it? Though? Georgia? With
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  this idea?
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  Speaker 1: These comedians coming out today, they go put a little
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  clip on YouTube or and then their Instagram or TikTok,
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  and all of a sudden they get a show you
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  were you were fighting for a space that just wasn't
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  there when you start.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's definitely way it's way different.
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  Speaker 1: You know.
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  Speaker 3: One time I was doing this you and they had
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  some influencers go before me, and they're like, they're gonna go.
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  They're gonna go before you, with maybe three of them,
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  And I said, then you'll be the second guest. I said,
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  all right, But then as they were on they had
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  nothing to really contribute other than whatever video they showed,
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  so they kind of ran out of like steam there.
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  And then when I went out there, you know, all prepared,
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  you know, and they were like, man, that's the eye
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  opening you know that that you put three of them
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  out there and all they're about is what they video.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, so hold on, Georgia. Second, we got
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  more with George Lopez. He's going to be at the
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  Fox Theater May sixteenth. They get your tickets. Now, that's
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  a Saturday for George Lopez is here. He's going to
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  be the Fox Theater Saturday, May sixteenth.
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  Speaker 2: And you were, I mean you were. You were fighting
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  when you.
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  Speaker 1: Were only well, a couple of comedians, a couple of
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  top comedians back in the eighties and nineties when there
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  was there wasn't.
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  Speaker 2: Room for everybody. Everybody nobody got a TV like you did.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know. The the craziest thing is, you know,
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  I saw a picture of led Zeppelin, you know, walking
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  you know, down this hallway backstage, and I said, it
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  looks a little bit now because it's been so long, man,
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  like fifty years. Like those dudes walk the earth. You're like,
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  you should be dinosaurs or around and then and then
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  you see these guys and you're like, man, like I
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  was alive, I knew Richard Pryor, you know, I saw
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  Ridney danger Fields. I saw all these old dudes that
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  aren't around anymore. But when I was growing up, like,
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  those were the those were the guys that everybody tried
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  to be, you know, the guys were trying to look
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  at them.
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  Speaker 2: But now you're one of those guys.
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  Speaker 1: If you put in the context moving forward, you're now
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  one of those guys, one of those iconic comedians now
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  that are that are still around.
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  Speaker 3: And then, you know, I think I think in all
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  the things that I've done, I think you know, in movies,
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  you they you're Robert Rodriguez. I did movies with Shark
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  Boy with him, and when every time I messed up,
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  he goes, come on here, let me show you. So
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  he showed me in the monitor where I messed up,
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  and he'd be like, all right, don't do that. And
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  I'd be like, oh, dude, it's like a like a dog.
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  Speaker 6: Man for you to don't ever do this again.
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  Speaker 3: And I was like, man, I gotta go a here.
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  I just want to show you real quickly, like oh,
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  my God, like so, so I think stand up is
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  the is the freest form of I think that's why
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  I think it's it's elevated comedians and there's a lot
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  of you know, there's a Netflix festival where people comedians
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  do the Hollywood Bowl. Now you know I did, Me
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  and Me and Santana did the Hollywood Bowl in two
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  in two thousand and nine, which does not even sound
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  like it's almost twenty years ago.
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  Speaker 2: Oh wow, what hey? What do you think about comedy today? Now?
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  What do you think about it?
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  Speaker 1: After all these years of being in it and being
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  you know, a pioneer to an extent of some of it.
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  Speaker 2: What do you what do you think about comedy today?
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  Speaker 3: You know, I wish one thing. I wish the times
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  were different. I wish there wasn't so much like division
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  and so much like people hating on each other man
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  and and all the things that people you know, get
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  boyed on the internet and you know, you know they're
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  not prepared for it. But I just think the time,
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  I just hope, I just wish the times were different.
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  We were living in a more in a happier time.
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  I mean, you do it all these years and then
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  when you want to kind of wrap it up. It's
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  crazier than it was and any other time in your career.
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  It's almost like you're almost forced to go out there.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, what so what do you so? What You're
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  back on tour? Are you back on tour now Georgia
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  and you're and what's next for You're still looking at
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  more shows?
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  Speaker 2: You're still looking at more movies or what.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, you know, you know, I have podcasts,
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  just like a smaller one. So I think we're looking
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  at one legitimately like larger in scale, you know, with
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  an executive producer and and everything, because they become almost
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  there's shows now they're not even podcasts anymore, but they're
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  larger than shows. You know, they tour with podcasts and
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  stuff like that. So I think maybe maybe less road
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  and maybe if that thing works out, which everybody you
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  know does so many things, I would say, you know,
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  you get an opportunity that that might be a mixture
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  of both of them, because you know, I like to
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  be home a little bit more. I think make a
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  field in the Fox always been one of my favorite places.
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  But I mean, you know, as you're as you're older man,
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  you're like, yeah, go out here.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think the last time you were
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  at the Fox, I actually was walking in and you
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  were just standing on the sidewalk. You're just standing right
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  out front of the Fox just I don't know, he's
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  just hanging out.
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  Speaker 3: I think I remember that, Imber.
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  Speaker 2: What do you donny?
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  Speaker 3: Because it's funny because you know, you never you never
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  think that anybody would recognize you, man. And and the beginning,
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  the beginning you I went to Chicago was really cool
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  to me. So I went over there for this lady,
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  the general manager because I called all the general managers
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  the summer before my show went on, because I heard
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  that Drew Carrey did it, and you know, it helped him.
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  You make a relationship with all the general men. And
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  I sat there and called all the general managers. So
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  when I was in Chicago, you know, I look up
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  and there's an Indian family, you know, from India, you know,
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  and this husband and a wife and a son and daughter.
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  And I see him on the movie escalator and then
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  I'm kind of looking down. It's early Sunday morning, and
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  I see their feet, you know, and I look up
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  and the and the husband says, my son said that
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  you're you are the man, And I said, I said,
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  I'm one of them. I'm one of them.
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  Speaker 1: And he's like, no, no.
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  Speaker 3: That that you have a television. I said, yeah, I said,
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  I do. I do. Because yeah, he saw it, like
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  I said, we took a picture of my family and
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  I was like, wow, man, I mean that's like that
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  was in the beginning. That was the beginning of the beginning.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you've always been very accessible though.
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  Speaker 1: I think over the years you've always been very accessible
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  to the fans and been around we know.
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  Speaker 3: I think the thing you know, I think and you
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  know this because you know, there's a personality for radio,
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  there's there's things you know, and and the fact that
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  everything I've done has my name. I think people think
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  that when I do something like that's who I am.
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  But it's not.
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  Speaker 5: It's not you.
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  Speaker 3: It's like an actor at oh man, that guy, that
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  guy's mean to his mom. It's like, no, no, no,
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  it's not it's not being.
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  Speaker 2: Well that's incredible.
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  Speaker 1: Well, George Loveez, I'm so glad you spent time with
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  us this morning. We can't wait to see you May sixteenth.
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  He's gonna be over with the Fox Theater. Make sure
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  you guys, get your tickets now. You don't want to
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  miss out. I'd ask, what's new, George, But I'm guessing
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  whatever you're gonna bring is gonna be funny no matter what.
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  Speaker 3: So it's great. It's really great, man. I've been out
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  there working on it, you know what, actually considering maybe
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  even potentially looking at like a one man show. So
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  this is a little more personal, but it's still got
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  some it's still got some bang to it.
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  Speaker 2: You know. That's great.
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  Speaker 1: Thanks for spending time with us this morning, George. George
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  was he at the Fox Theater on the sixteenth.
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  Speaker 2: That's a Saturday. Thanks George, again, I really appreciate appreciate it.
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  I got to tell you what happened last night.
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  Speaker 1: So my one of my neighbors, his wife left him,
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  and I think she left him a little about a
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  year ago. She left him just decided she didn't want
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  to be married anymore and wanted to go out and
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  you know, do her whole thing, and so she left him.
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  Speaker 2: I give her credit. I mean, she didn't I have to.
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  Speaker 1: She didn't want to be married anymore, she wanted to
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  go out and you know, do what she wanted to do.
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  Speaker 2: She didnt cheat on him.
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  Speaker 1: I've always said that if you don't want to be
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  with somebody, you can just walk away. Uh, you don't
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  have to cheat on him and do that to him.
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  Speaker 3: So he was.
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  Speaker 2: Upset about it. He's been uh, he's been single for
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  a while. Good guy, got a great job.
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  Speaker 1: You know, just out there living life now as a
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  single man. Well, so he calls me, uh, yesterday and
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  he says, hey, the Lakers are playing big, big basketball guy.
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  Speaker 2: You know, he says, you want to go out and
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  watch the game with me?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, So we rolled down over to social house and
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  we uh, uh, you know, to watch the Laker game. Now,
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  I'm sitting at the bar. We're both sitting at the bar.
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  I'm sitting against the wall at the bar. He's sitting
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  next to me.
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  Speaker 2: Uh. And then uh, there's a woman there.
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  Speaker 1: Now, she's uh, she's got a Kobe br she got.
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  Speaker 2: A Kobe jersey on.
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  Speaker 1: She's uh, you know, still uh dressed like professionally, she's
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  got like work slacks on.
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  Speaker 2: So we start talking to her.
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  Speaker 1: You know, well I didn't start talking to her till
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  but she starts talking to my guy.
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  Speaker 2: My neighbor, and they're talking basketball.
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  Speaker 1: They're both basketball fans are both Laker fans are both
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  you know whatever.
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  Speaker 2: So finally I.
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  Speaker 1: Get involved in the conversation a little bit and I'm
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  talking to her, asking her what's up why she's sitting
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  here all alone?
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  Speaker 2: She said, you know, after work.
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  Speaker 1: Well, she tells me, and she's probably she's very good looking. No,
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  it's very hot, very hot ship, right, And I asked
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  her why she's sitting here all alone watching the game.
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  She says, well, I've been dating this guy for a
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  couple of months and I asked him.
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  Speaker 2: To go to the game.
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  Speaker 1: He said it was going to be too late. He
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  had to work in the morning, and the game was
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  kind of late. I think it ended after ten something
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  like that because it started late. And I'm like, okay,
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  so dude didn't want to go out with you because
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  it was a school night, I mean, what the hell?
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  Speaker 2: And she just laughs about it.
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  Speaker 1: Well, so, finally, about just about the I think the
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  fourth quarter was starting and my buddy goes to the
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  restroom and she's like, hey, you want to take off.
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  I'm like, take off. She's like, yeah, let me, I'll
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  get your boy home. Don't worry about it.
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  Speaker 2: And I said.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, And I was good with it, cause I got
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  to be up at three in the morning. I'm tired, man,
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  And you know I was gonna sit there and stay
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  stay and watch the.
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  Speaker 2: Game with him. But you guys know what time dida
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  in ten, ten thirty something like that.
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  Speaker 1: So I was ready to go. I was ready to
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  go home. And I'm like, yeah, absolutely, you got him, right,
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  And she's like, yeah, but don't say I don't say
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  anything when he gets back. So he comes back, I say,
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  you know what, boy, I'm gonna I'm gonna take off.
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  Speaker 2: Bro, it's late. I got it. You know, it's about three.
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  Speaker 1: You know I got to get up at three, and.
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  Speaker 2: I go, uh.
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  Speaker 1: But she said she'll get you home so I'll see
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  you later, right, So I roll out.
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  Speaker 2: Now.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what happened after that. I, like I said,
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  I I left it. Whatever time it was, when the
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  fourth quarter, a little bit after the fourth quarter started.
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  I don't know what those two did after that. I
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  don't know if he I mean, obviously he's not gonna
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  call me.
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  Speaker 2: When he gets home. I'm a slip. If he even
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  made it home, she might be there right now. I
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  have no idea.
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  Speaker 1: But let me tell you this, she said, she had
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  been dating a guy for a couple of a couple
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  of months, right, so she's in the dating scene. Okay,
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  my man didn't want to it after two months into
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  this dating this woman and she was smoking hot. He
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  either doesn't care about her or doesn't care about her.
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  Because if you're dating somebody for two months and she
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  wants to go out and watch a game. Maybe he
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  doesn't like basketball, I don't know, but she doesn't want
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  she wants to go out and you might have to
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  stay out a little late on a school night and
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  you say no, what do you expect to happen if
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  you don't want to go out of your way? And
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  this is my point when I was thinking about later
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  later on last night. If you're not going to go
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  out of your way for her two months in, then
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  you're never going to go out of your way for
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  her ever. Because you gotta wake up early. I mean,
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  when you start dating somebody, that's when you stay up late,
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  having sex, having a good time, because that's when you
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  just don't care because you're trying to get in. So
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  he either didn't care or didn't care, because, like I said,
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  if you're not going to a nice sight again, because
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  it's worth repeating. If you're not going to go out
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  of your way for her, when you're just started dating her,
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  when it's supposed to be the most exciting and the freshest,
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  you're never going to go out away from her. So,
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  my boy, my neighbor might have took somebody's girl last night.
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  Speaker 6: And I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, dating is not really taking somebody's girl, But
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  who does that already?
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  Speaker 2: Four two five, four seven to seven.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know what happened and I don't know
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  what happened with him last night, but she asked me
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  to leave and I bounced. So last night my neighbor,
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  his wife left him. So he calls me, Oh, his
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  wife left him about a year ago. It's been a while,
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  not not an anytime soon. But he he asked me
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  to go watch the Laker game with him. So I
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  went out to uh, went out to the bar with him. Restaurant, bar, restaurant,
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  and I was watching the game and some girl was
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  some girl was there with the Laker cursy on by
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  herself watching the game. Well, we started talking to her.
• 16:28
  She's kind of talking to him a little bit, and
• 16:31
  then I started talking to her to find out what
• 16:33
  the situation is because he's single. I didn't know if
• 16:36
  she was single or not. She said she's been dating
• 16:38
  to do for a couple of months and he didn't
• 16:40
  want to go out. He didn't want to go out
• 16:41
  with her. He's too late, said he had to get
• 16:43
  up for work the next morning.
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: Now, mind you.
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: I get up at three am, right, and my boy,
• 16:47
  who's single, guy neighbor who is you know, asked me
• 16:52
  to go out. Of course I'm gonna go out with him. Man,
• 16:53
  the guy's guy. I don't know if he's lonely or not.
• 16:58
  So I thought it was funny because she asked me
• 17:01
  to leave. She asked if I would take off because
• 17:05
  she wanted to hang out with him, which I'm okay with.
• 17:07
  I have no problem with that. So he goes to
• 17:09
  the bathroom. She's like, hey, why don't you take off,
• 17:13
  I'll take care of your friend, And I said okay.
• 17:18
  And they're all adults. He's got to take care of nobody.
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: So he comes back.
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm out, bro, you can hang out with her.
• 17:25
  You guys are they're both Laker fans, basketball fans, so
• 17:28
  it wasn't a big deal, right, It's not like I
• 17:31
  left him in the alley, you know, or at the
• 17:32
  fire department. I just left him with some hot chick
• 17:36
  at a bar watching the game he likes, so and
• 17:40
  she had her Kobe Bryant jersey on and he had
• 17:42
  his whatever jersey on, and so.
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: I rolled out.
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: I don't know what happened, but I thought it was
• 17:50
  funny that some dude who she said she's been dating
• 17:54
  for a couple of months didn't want to go out
• 17:58
  because he had to be at working next day. Well,
• 18:01
  come on, now, if he's not willing to do something
• 18:05
  for you, if he's not willing to go to work
• 18:07
  late for you when you first start dating, that's supposed
• 18:09
  to be the best time, the happiest time, when you
• 18:12
  care the most, that's not the guy. He's not the
• 18:14
  one for you. Because if he's not willing to stay
• 18:17
  out till what at ten thirty, I mean, come on,
• 18:20
  I get up at three and I got home at ten,
• 18:23
  so give me a break. But if he's not willing
• 18:27
  to do that when you're supposed to be in this
• 18:29
  honeymoon stage of a relationship, yeah, he's never going to
• 18:32
  do it for you.
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: So he ain't the guy. I think she knows that now. Well,
• 18:36
  I don't know what happened with him with my neighbor
• 18:38
  and her, but i'll.
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: Find out today already four two, five, four or seven
• 18:41
  to seven. Roman. It's not that he doesn't care about her.
• 18:44
  The world just doesn't revolve around her. And obviously he
• 18:48
  knows how easy she is, which is why he doesn't
• 18:51
  jump every time she says jump.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: Well, I don't know if she's easy or not.
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: But when you, for she said, they've been dating a
• 19:02
  couple of months, if that's supposed to be the time
• 19:07
  when it is the best part. You're getting to know
• 19:10
  each other, you're staying out, you're having a lot of sacks,
• 19:12
  you're doing you know. So I don't know that you're right.
• 19:18
  I mean, if he's not willing to jump through some
• 19:20
  hoops in the beginning of a relationship while you're dating,
• 19:25
  you know, when things are new and supposedly the funnest
• 19:28
  and supposedly the best and all of these things. Because
• 19:32
  he's got to work the next day, and you're telling
• 19:35
  me she's the problem.
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: And I'm gonna tell you right now, she was pretty
• 19:40
  damn hot.
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: She might have been worth jumping jump. She might have
• 19:44
  been worth jumping when she said, I don't know. I'll
• 19:46
  ask my boy today when I see him, or my
• 19:48
  neighbor today when I see him. But uh, yeah, I
• 19:52
  don't know. I don't know what kind of idiot you
• 19:55
  gotta be. I mean, I'm assuming that he's not going
• 19:58
  to be around long because what kind of you got
• 20:00
  to be? Oh, I can't go out tonight. Oh wait,
• 20:02
  I can't go watch the game with you that you
• 20:04
  like and have drinks and eat because I got to
• 20:07
  be in bed early to.
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: What be up by seven six?
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, these dudes today, Man, you just clowns.
• 20:15
  Last night the Lakers were playing, and a buddy of mine,
• 20:19
  well he's a buddy, he's also my neighbor, and his
• 20:23
  wife left him about a year ago, so you know,
• 20:26
  he hasn't been dating much. He's been trying to, you know,
• 20:28
  get his life back together from a relationship standpoint.
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: After she just uped and left, and he asked me
• 20:34
  to go the game.
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: Let's go watch the game, not to the game, but
• 20:37
  over to the restaurant to watch the game last night,
• 20:39
  I said, yeah, I go with you. You know, poor guy,
• 20:42
  I got no I mean I don't. He's probably got
• 20:43
  other friends, but he asked me, so I said I'd
• 20:46
  go with him.
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: And we're sitting there.
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: Well, this is a crazy part. So I'm sitting at
• 20:50
  the end of the bar, next to the wall. He's
• 20:53
  sitting there, and then another girl, a woman, is sitting
• 20:56
  watching the game and she's got her Kobe jersey on.
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: He's got his is I.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: Think he had a I don't know what jersey he
• 21:02
  had on. Who know, Luca or Lebron. I don't know
• 21:04
  what he had on.
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: Right, So they're kind of talking about the game.
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: Now I wasn't really involved in the conversation, but he's, uh,
• 21:14
  they're talking about the game, and finally I got involved
• 21:17
  in the conversation and just was like, hey, you know,
• 21:19
  I was asking her if she was singing oh, blah
• 21:22
  blah blah, you know, all the questions that he didn't
• 21:23
  really want to ask her. And she said she'd been
• 21:27
  dating a guy for a couple of months, but he
• 21:29
  didn't want to come out with her. It was too early,
• 21:31
  it was too late for him to be out.
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: And I was.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: Thinking to myself, Okay, what kind of punk are you dating?
• 21:39
  I mean, you don't want to I mean, she was
• 21:42
  very attractive and she was hanging out watching the game,
• 21:48
  having a good time. I mean, who's who's turning that
• 21:52
  girl down? Because you got to go to work the
• 21:54
  next day? And apparently he did, and so she was
• 22:00
  she finally she did. It was kind of funny because
• 22:02
  she asked me to leave. She goes, would you mind
• 22:05
  cutting out so I can hang out with your guy?
• 22:07
  And I was like, absolutely, I didn't care. I'd be
• 22:10
  a I got to be up at three am and
• 22:12
  it's almost ten.
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: I got I'm good, I'll see you tomorrow. I left,
• 22:16
  and I.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: Don't know what happened between them, but well i'll find
• 22:19
  out today.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: Hey, room, would you send me here? Hey?
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: Four? Two five four or seven to seven Romeo. Maybe
• 22:24
  the guy she was dating already decided she wasn't worth keeping,
• 22:28
  doesn't matter how beautiful she is. Maybe maybe that was
• 22:31
  his way of showing her he was because maybe you're right.
• 22:37
  But the bottom line is this, if you're in a
• 22:40
  new relationship with somebody dating them and your guy does
• 22:46
  not want to go out of her way or out
• 22:48
  of his way for you, and he's not, he's going
• 22:51
  out of his way, meaning let's go to the bar
• 22:54
  the restaurant and have some drinks and watch the game
• 22:56
  and have a good time, and I'll just won't get
• 22:59
  as much sleep for work. That's what I mean by
• 23:02
  going out of his way. If he wasn't gonna do
• 23:05
  you at the moment, this moment, then he's not the one.
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: That means he'll never do anything for you. All right.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: If your guy is not gonna put his best foot
• 23:16
  forward while you're dating in the so called honeymoon phase
• 23:19
  of your relationship, he is not the one, because that
• 23:23
  means when you settle down, if you get married, he's
• 23:26
  literally not gonna do anything for you. He's never gonna
• 23:29
  go out of his way for you, all right? Four two, five,
• 23:32
  four or seven to seven. Last night, Actually I'm a
• 23:37
  little tired. Last night. One of my neighbors his wife
• 23:43
  left him while back. He hasn't really gotten a new relationship.
• 23:46
  He's still just I guess, I don't know, getting over
• 23:48
  it whatever. He asked me to go watch the Laker
• 23:51
  game with him. So I go out go over to
• 23:54
  social house to check out the game with him, and
• 23:57
  we're sitting there and there's a girl sitting next to
• 23:59
  a woman sitting next to him with the jersey on.
• 24:02
  She's into the game. They start, you know, chatting it
• 24:04
  up a little bit, talking about talking about the game
• 24:08
  and the Lakers. They're both Laker fans.
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: So we h. So finally we start.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: I asked some questions, if she's single, blah blah blah.
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: She says, yeah, I was.
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: I've been dating this guy for a couple of months.
• 24:18
  He didn't want to come tonight because it was too
• 24:21
  late for him to be out.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: He has to work in the morning.
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: I thought that's ridiculous, considering I get up at three
• 24:28
  am every morning and I'm sitting at that bar watching
• 24:31
  the game with my buddy.
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: Right, So what's his problem?
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: You got a hot chick you're dating, and you don't
• 24:40
  You're not going to go out of your way at
• 24:43
  this point in the relationship. And this is what obviously,
• 24:45
  if you're not going out of your way, if he's
• 24:46
  not going out of his way for you at this
• 24:48
  point in the relationship, he never will. Now, maybe he
• 24:52
  didn't want you, Maybe maybe he's got other girls on
• 24:54
  the side. There could be a lot of options. But
• 24:56
  if she's chatting up my boy and and she actually
• 25:00
  asked me if I wouldn't mind leaving. She was very
• 25:02
  nice about would you mind, she said, would you mind
• 25:04
  taking off?
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: He would use the restroom.
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: She goes, hey, would you mind taking off so I
• 25:07
  can hang out with your guy, you know, just one
• 25:09
  on one. I said, yeah, absolutely, I'm out. So he
• 25:12
  comes back on the restroom.
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: I bounce. I'm tired.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: Anyways, I'm tired right now because I didn't get home
• 25:17
  till late.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: But man, what is wrong with these dudes? Already? Fourteen
• 25:25
  five four were seven to seven?
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: Rome?
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: Whoever said whoever said that a minute ago about she's easy?
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: He's an idiot.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: When me and my wife started dating, she could call
• 25:35
  at ten or eleven at night, I'm jumping to get
• 25:38
  over to her house, and I had to be at
• 25:40
  work at five six in the morning. And I'm pretty
• 25:43
  sure that was a woman who's who's in a I'm
• 25:48
  pretty sure that was a woman who's in an unhealthy
• 25:51
  relationship or not in a relationship.
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: Oh well, she wasn't in a relationship. I asked her.
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: I asked her what her status was, because my guys,
• 26:00
  you know, my guy's single, you know, like I said,
• 26:02
  his wife left him, he's got to move on. And
• 26:07
  she said, she's just you know, dating a guy.
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: I asked all the questions for my guy.
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: I'm a good wing man, I asked her, and she's like, yeah,
• 26:16
  she've been dating this guy a couple of months, seeing
• 26:18
  this guy for a couple of months. But he didn't
• 26:19
  want to go out last night because he was, uh,
• 26:22
  it was too early. He had to get up too
• 26:23
  early for work, so he might have got got I
• 26:28
  don't know. I don't know what happened.
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: I haven't well.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: I guess I can text my neighbor here in a
• 26:34
  few minutes and find out what happened at the end
• 26:36
  of the night with them. But so I don't know
• 26:39
  how it all ended up. But you might be right
• 26:42
  about unhealthy relationship. Like you said, you if your wife
• 26:46
  called you your when you were dating her at ten
• 26:48
  eleven o'clock at night, you went, you got up. That's
• 26:51
  what I'm saying. You're willing to do that. If a
• 26:54
  guy you're dating is not willing to do that in
• 26:57
  the beginning of the relationship, he's never gonna to do it.
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: He's the wrong guy.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: You know, when you're dating the guy and things are
• 27:06
  things are happy, go lucky, and everybody's excited about the
• 27:09
  newness and the freshness and what's going on. If that
• 27:12
  food don't jump every time you ask him to, he
• 27:15
  is not the one because that means he'll never do it.
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: I'm just saying, go.
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: Through some of your text messages right now already four two, five,
• 27:24
  four seven seven. Hey, Rome, there is a chance the
• 27:28
  other guy has hit it and a bunch of times
• 27:31
  and doesn't care at this regardless if she's hot or not.
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: You might be right about that.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna disagree with you, and I have no
• 27:38
  idea what this dude's issue was.
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: I'm just saying this.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: If a guy you're dating is not going to jump
• 27:49
  through hoops for you when you ask him to, then he.
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: Never is going to. And it works both ways.
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: I mean, how many of you women have jumped through
• 27:59
  hoops for a dude because you're dating him. It's new,
• 28:02
  it's fresh. You know, you don't know what's going to happen,
• 28:05
  the anticipation of what it could be and all those things.
• 28:10
  So you do things like go out late, get up
• 28:14
  early for work, and go to work tired because you
• 28:17
  were with you know, because it's a that's a new relationship. Now,
• 28:22
  if you're gonna be men and women who are selfish
• 28:25
  in a new relationship. That's a complete red flag, you know.
• 28:33
  And it's not like she was asking this dude to
• 28:35
  go out, I mean to go to a funeral at
• 28:38
  eleven o'clock at night. She was asking him to go
• 28:41
  out and watch the game and hang out have a
• 28:45
  good time. So yeah, I get you, though, I mean,
• 28:49
  you could be right about that.
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna argue that.
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: Ay, rom I'm a single guy, and message me which
• 28:54
  restaurant or bars at social house.
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: I don't have to message you.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: Uh, And I'll be there tonight and get up early
• 29:00
  for work. I'll sacrifice some sleep for someone someone on
• 29:05
  one female time.
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: Well, there you go, a room.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: Some people actually work hard, room, yo, and don't want
• 29:12
  to drink at a bar on a Monday when he
• 29:15
  has to work in the morning. All you do is
• 29:17
  wake up at three and say dumb dumb stuff on
• 29:19
  the radio or talk about raiders. Yeah, you're right, and
• 29:24
  you're still listening. That's why I always win already four two, five, four,
• 29:29
  seven to seven. Nobody said he had to get drunk.
• 29:33
  I didn't get drunk last night. I just went because
• 29:36
  my neighbor wanted somebody to go hang out with them.
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: But yeah, not everybody can be me. Not everybody can
• 29:44
  be a man like me already.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: Four two five, four, seven to seven. You're right, rome
• 29:49
  I used to lose sleep just to be with my girl.
• 29:51
  You got to make those sacrifices, exactly. You make those sacrifices.
• 29:55
  But the point being, if you're not going to make
• 29:58
  those sacrifices in the beginning of the relationship, then he
• 30:02
  or she's never gonna make those sacrifices.
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: So are they really worth it? All right?
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: Eight four two five, four seven to seven. Eco Morning, Romeo,
• 30:13
  it's Gil Rod here. Who is better looking the woman
• 30:16
  that your neighbor met last night or his ex wife
• 30:20
  who was better looking? All right? Does it matter the
• 30:24
  ex wife left him? So, I mean, it's kind of
• 30:30
  a weird question to ask you, Rod. I don't, Yeah,
• 30:35
  I don't know. I mean, he's a pretty good looking guy,
• 30:38
  so I don't he doesn't.
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: A lot of good looking women look.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: At him, so I don't know. I don't know. Strange
• 30:47
  question though. All Right, let's talk a little bit about
• 30:50
  the housey market. I do not know what's gonna happen.
• 30:52
  Gas prices are up, the economy is I don't even
• 30:55
  know what it's doing, but people buying houses. I see
• 30:57
  him for sale, and I know you guys got to
• 30:59
  live somewhere. So that's why we bring Marco in from
• 31:02
  selling baker's Field.
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: Border Marko, Good morning Romeo. Let's see here.
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: I know houses are selling because I've seen them sold.
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: They are, So what's going on is? Uh, let's start
• 31:13
  off with that.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: What's before we tell people how they can buy a house,
• 31:16
  especially for those of you that have never done it before.
• 31:18
  Let's talk about what the market looks like in Bakersfield.
• 31:21
  Still cheaper than the rest California.
• 31:23
  Speaker 7: Right, Still cheaper than the rest California. Houses are selling.
• 31:26
  I listed at one point two million dollar property.
• 31:29
  Speaker 6: And we've got an offer on it.
• 31:32
  Speaker 7: Uh So, I mean I if a house that in
• 31:35
  that price range is selling, that tells you how's they
• 31:38
  are selling.
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: In Bakerfield, in Bakersfield, in Bakersfield. How's the inventory?
• 31:43
  Speaker 7: Well, the inventory is actually there's more inventory now available
• 31:46
  for buyers, and so okay, the inventory is not a problem.
• 31:50
  Speaker 6: It's really a buyer speculation.
• 31:53
  Speaker 7: You know, they think, oh my goodness, you know gas prices, Uh,
• 31:57
  what's the interest rates going to do?
• 31:58
  Speaker 6: Iran?
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: You know?
• 32:01
  Speaker 7: All this stuff, and it's like, listen, guys, we've been
• 32:03
  coming on the show talking about real estate for years.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: That's hold on, before you get any further than that.
• 32:08
  You're talking about buyer speculation based on what people are
• 32:11
  hearing throughout the industry. Is that what you mean by that?
• 32:14
  Or just a bunch of dummies at the bar going
• 32:17
  this is what's going to happen.
• 32:18
  Speaker 7: Well, no, I mean, you know, legitimate concerns like the
• 32:21
  gas prices. I mean gas prices are worth seven eight bucks,
• 32:24
  things like that. And then they don't know if, if
• 32:27
  you know, if the war's going to affect the interest rates,
• 32:30
  and they're still hoping for the threes and the fours
• 32:32
  and I'm like, man like, let's just get over that.
• 32:34
  You're never going to see emodies and fours again. This
• 32:37
  is the new norm. This is what the interest rate is.
• 32:40
  Can you afford to buy a house or not? That's
• 32:42
  the bottom line. Okay, so can then buy a house?
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah? I want to say two things. One is.
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: The I just saw a story yesterday that said they anticipate.
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: Three hundred.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: Three hundred markets. Housing is gonna plumb it. I don't
• 33:08
  know the housing price is gonna plumb it like they didn't.
• 33:10
  Speaker 6: Oh wait, that may be true. I don't think that's
• 33:14
  that's not in Bakersfield.
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: I don't think Bakersfield was on that list.
• 33:18
  Speaker 6: I mean, that's the thing.
• 33:19
  Speaker 7: We're talking to people, not just in California, but in Bakersfield, right,
• 33:23
  So our audience is Bakersfield.
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what we care about in Bakersfield. Are we
• 33:28
  gonna be able to afford a house?
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: Correct? You know?
• 33:31
  Speaker 7: And I think that the prices in Bakersfield, even though
• 33:35
  they have gone up because everything has to go up, right,
• 33:38
  there's still very much affordable in comparison to the places.
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: So let me ask you this question. And somebody asked
• 33:44
  a good point. Right here.
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: They were talking about whatever this new virus is, and
• 33:46
  I don't know what it is, but whatever they're talking about,
• 33:49
  there's always something trying to scare the world. Right, of course,
• 33:51
  does that affect housing markets?
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: Did COVID affect housing markets? I don't think it did.
• 33:57
  Speaker 7: Did it it did? The immediate reaction was it was
• 34:02
  like a freeze. Everybody stopped, right, Okay, I remember I
• 34:05
  had a listing. It was my buddies listing, and he
• 34:09
  we were kind of worried, right, because we were he
• 34:12
  was in a transition. I was representing him, he was
• 34:15
  buying a house, and then he was selling his house
• 34:17
  and everything you got froze right, Well, that only took
• 34:20
  about two or three months. After that, it was like
• 34:22
  a boom. It affected it in a good way. Prices
• 34:25
  went up. Okay, if you remember right after covid Man
• 34:28
  prices started.
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: I don't remember any of that time. It's all a
• 34:30
  blur to me, the U.
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: But in the way that, how does the housing market
• 34:38
  work as compared like you can see a direct correlation
• 34:42
  between Iran and gas prices, right people say, oh, the oil,
• 34:47
  this the all that, even though they're still just ripping
• 34:49
  us off.
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: By the way, those gas companies don't.
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: Need to rip us off like that, that that oil
• 34:52
  was already paid for that they're selling us right now.
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: So don't let them.
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: Don't believe that that's what's going on. Got Venezuela are
• 35:00
  just taking advantage of us.
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: Does the housing market do that in a sense where
• 35:06
  they find something in in in uh some you know
• 35:11
  disaster going on in the world to to try to
• 35:13
  jack up prices or or or or.
• 35:16
  Speaker 6: Or prices, Yes, okay, yeah, absolutely, absolutely so the.
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: World, the world does affect the housing market. Yeah.
• 35:23
  Speaker 7: And if you look at the big big players, you know,
• 35:26
  like black Rock and all these people that are buying
• 35:29
  real estate, you're why are they buying real estate?
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: Oh? Gotcha?
• 35:32
  Speaker 6: You know what I mean? The people that we've never heard.
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: Of, We've never heard it. You're right, people we've never
• 35:38
  heard You're absolutely right. You don't know Blackrock? Is you better?
• 35:42
  You gotta go the deep web for that. Yeah, yeah,
• 35:44
  all right?
• 35:45
  Speaker 6: Why are they.
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: It's like it's like the people who say, what the climate,
• 35:52
  climate control, the oceans are rising, but yet all these
• 35:55
  people are buying beachfront proper and you're like, well, you
• 35:58
  just told me we're gonna be flooded, but these.
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: Cats are buying beachfront property.
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: Maybe we're getting bad bad infocs is all right, hold on,
• 36:05
  We're going to talk a little bit with Marco selling
• 36:07
  Bakersfield about the housing market. I want to talk about
• 36:10
  just the basics of buying a house as well or
• 36:12
  selling one for those.
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: Of you that have not done that in the past.
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: All right, So we got Marco here from selling Bakersfield. Marco,
• 36:18
  whis your phone number six.
• 36:19
  Speaker 6: Six one four four four zero. One, seven to eight.
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: The reason I say that is because for those of
• 36:24
  you out there buying a house, I've always said, this
• 36:27
  is the scariest, biggest purchase you're ever gonna make, but
• 36:32
  it's absolutely the most exciting thing you're ever gonna do.
• 36:35
  When you walk into your own home that you just
• 36:37
  person's purchased and you're going to start your life, it's awesome.
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: So where do we we? Where do we begin? Marco?
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: For those of us that have never bought a house before,
• 36:47
  we don't know where to start, we.
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: Don't know who to call. We're a little nervous about it.
• 36:51
  What do we do?
• 36:51
  Speaker 6: You pray, you ask.
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: God for direction, Ask God for direction.
• 36:58
  Speaker 7: You want to you want to talk to a realtor.
• 37:01
  You want to talk to a realtor. I'll tell you why,
• 37:03
  because a realtor, for example, and you can call anybody.
• 37:07
  Speaker 6: You don't have to call me.
• 37:08
  Speaker 7: But I've been doing this for twenty I don't know,
• 37:10
  twenty two years in Bakersfield. Can you imagine how many
• 37:13
  houses I've seen, how many houses I've actually walked through.
• 37:17
  So it's like I've been buying a house for twenty
• 37:19
  three years.
• 37:20
  Speaker 6: That's how much experience I bring to the table.
• 37:22
  Speaker 7: Can you imagine how many lenders I have verified, how
• 37:25
  many lenders I have gone through until I finally found
• 37:29
  the lenders.
• 37:30
  Speaker 6: That I work with because they're the best at.
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: What they do.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: What I did want to point this out though, before
• 37:35
  you move on, that is, there are two things that
• 37:37
  can one thing that can really not get you your house,
• 37:42
  and that is if the lender and the real estate
• 37:45
  agent don't get along, and they can really screw up
• 37:49
  your program and they won't care about it. I'm gonna
• 37:51
  tell you right now. Lenders who don't get along with
• 37:53
  realators have do not care about you, or vice versa.
• 37:58
  So you got to get a lender and a real
• 38:00
  estate agent that get along. Both want the same goal
• 38:03
  and that's you in your house. Okay, now, they're both
• 38:04
  going to make money because that's your job. But if
• 38:07
  you get one lender who didn't get along with the
• 38:09
  realator in high school and then all of a sudden
• 38:11
  they're trying to work together and you're stuck in the
• 38:13
  middle of that mess, your.
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: House will fall through. That's happened before exactly.
• 38:19
  Speaker 6: It becomes a battle of the.
• 38:21
  Speaker 7: Pride, and then you know what, anyway, you're right you're
• 38:25
  right one hundred percent.
• 38:26
  Speaker 6: It's a team, it's a collaborative effort.
• 38:28
  Speaker 7: There's actually more components to that, but those are the
• 38:31
  two main the realtor and the lender.
• 38:33
  Speaker 6: Then there's escrow, then there's title.
• 38:36
  Speaker 7: You got all these people working for one goal, and
• 38:39
  that is to close this transaction so that the buyer
• 38:42
  can step into their home, so that the seller can
• 38:44
  you know, sell their home. And so we you know,
• 38:47
  there's a lot of moving parts. So if you've got
• 38:50
  this team of people that are working together, that have
• 38:53
  been working together for many years and have done hundreds
• 38:56
  of transactions together, it's going to go smooth.
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: And that's what you really want.
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: I remember when I got my first house, I used
• 39:04
  to lender out of town, and so they were doing
• 39:06
  email in each other, the.
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: Realatuor and the and it, and they didn't not like
• 39:11
  each other.
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: It's just just even that little bit of communication gap
• 39:15
  through emails can cause problems.
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: That I almost lost my home.
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: Because and there was nothing, no negative ill will or
• 39:20
  anything like that. It was just you have to have
• 39:22
  people that are always in constant contact because things can change,
• 39:25
  you know, daily when it comes to.
• 39:28
  Speaker 7: That, and you shouldn't have to be like the mediator
• 39:30
  between the realtor and the lender. You shouldn't things shouldn't
• 39:33
  have to go through you. You should be like doing
• 39:35
  the least possible, and they should be working for you.
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: So what would you suggest we call the realtor or
• 39:41
  the lender first, because we do want to know how
• 39:43
  much we can afford. We do want to know what
• 39:44
  we can get. What would what would you suggest just
• 39:47
  in your opinion?
• 39:48
  Speaker 7: Well, if somebody call me, well, the first thing I
• 39:49
  do is I do a buyer consultation, so I kind
• 39:53
  of talk to them about their needs. I get to
• 39:55
  know them a little bit. Well, you know, do you
• 39:56
  have kids, no kids? Do you have to be in
• 39:58
  a certain area, school zones important for parents?
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: You know that?
• 40:01
  Speaker 7: And so we talk about those things. That's why I
• 40:03
  think you talk to a realtor and then based on
• 40:05
  that conversation, you know, we're going to put them in
• 40:08
  touch with our preferred lender. Sure, but at the same time,
• 40:12
  we're going to put them on a what's called a
• 40:16
  house campaign where we're going to start emailing houses just
• 40:19
  to match yeastings that match their criteria.
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, exciting.
• 40:23
  Speaker 7: We make it exciting even before you get qualified, you're
• 40:25
  starting to get houses and looking at the listings and
• 40:29
  and so then the lender gets in touch with you.
• 40:31
  And it's a process that we try to make it
• 40:33
  an experience, a good experience.
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: How long does the process take.
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: Let's say everything's in line, I got the credit, I
• 40:40
  got whatever money I need down, how long does that
• 40:42
  process take of buying a home?
• 40:44
  Speaker 7: If everybody's working together smoothly, you know you should be
• 40:47
  in your home from the moment you call that realtor,
• 40:50
  so the moment you actually get your keys.
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: In your hands.
• 40:53
  Speaker 6: No less, No, I mean, no more than ninety days.
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: Ninety days, Yeah, I mean, it is a process. You
• 40:57
  have to understand this. When you're buying a home. It's
• 41:00
  not like it's the biggest purchase you're gonna make. And
• 41:03
  it's not like, well, these guys always want to move.
• 41:06
  But it's not like you're really just gonna resell in
• 41:09
  ninety days or next year you're gonna go, well, let's
• 41:12
  go buy a new home.
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: It doesn't work like that.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: So you really want to make sure you're getting into
• 41:17
  the right property and you're getting help with that because
• 41:20
  there are things and we'll talk about this in a minute.
• 41:22
  But there are things that you didn't even know to
• 41:24
  ask when it comes to buying a home. Just if
• 41:27
  you've never boughten one before, Marco, what's your selling baker Field?
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: What's the number?
• 41:31
  Speaker 6: Six six one four four four zero one seven eight?
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: All right, so we're.
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: Talking about the housing market in Bakersfield, Selling Bakersfield. Marco
• 41:39
  was here four four four something something something something zero
• 41:42
  one seven eight. All right, Marco, I want to help
• 41:48
  some people out when it comes to buying houses real quick.
• 41:50
  Some of the things that we walk into a house.
• 41:53
  It looks beautiful. This is the house of our dreams
• 41:57
  until we lived there for about six months and then
• 41:59
  we realize it does have this, It didn't have that,
• 42:02
  this could have been. We want to change this. We
• 42:05
  want to change that when you go into a house.
• 42:08
  What are things people should look for you, I know,
• 42:10
  you point stuff out to people.
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: That they would never notice.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: An outlet should be there, that's not there that you're
• 42:16
  going to use every day if it was there. Things
• 42:18
  like that are just little things, you know, things in
• 42:20
  the corner, what's in the attic, stuff like that.
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 42:24
  Speaker 7: My main concerns are always the main components of a
• 42:28
  house that would be really expensive for you to have
• 42:31
  to do yourself. So for example, roof, for me, a
• 42:33
  roof is important. Is it a new roof, is it
• 42:36
  an old roof? Is it going to need a roof
• 42:37
  in a couple of months? The HVAC system, if that's
• 42:43
  you know, I'm not really too worried about the HVAC
• 42:45
  because we always do warranty, right, So sure if you
• 42:48
  have a warranty. I've actually had a client that the
• 42:51
  HVAC went out and the warranty actually replaced the unit.
• 42:55
  Speaker 6: It was like eighty five hundred bucks. Oh wow, But
• 42:57
  you know you still want to make sure you look
• 42:59
  at that.
• 42:59
  Speaker 7: Also electrical, right the older homes, I mean when you
• 43:03
  get to into like the seventies and older, they have
• 43:07
  very old electrical and that's that could be a problem
• 43:11
  because you might need to rewire the hole.
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: What about what about plumbing and stuff like that?
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: Was piping?
• 43:15
  Speaker 7: I was about to say that next. Piping is important.
• 43:18
  Your waterlines are they copper?
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: Copper?
• 43:21
  Speaker 7: After like twenty or thirty years, man, they start getting pinholes.
• 43:24
  I lived in a house that had copper piping, and
• 43:26
  then leaks start happening in the roof you're like.
• 43:28
  Speaker 6: What is going on.
• 43:29
  Speaker 7: It's copper piping, so you know, now everybody's using pecks piping.
• 43:33
  So anyway, those are the things that I look for.
• 43:35
  I'm not really too concerned about the cosmetics because you
• 43:37
  could do whatever you want to the house, but if
• 43:40
  you've got to go and replumb a house, you're going
• 43:42
  to spend fifteen thousand bucks.
• 43:43
  Speaker 6: Yeah, so you know, you.
• 43:45
  Speaker 7: Can add an outlet here and add an outlet there,
• 43:49
  but to rewire the whole house, that's a big issure.
• 43:51
  So we look at the major components and then you know,
• 43:53
  there's things that are important. People like I do not
• 43:56
  want a pool. Some people do not want pools. They
• 43:58
  don't want the headache. Other people are like I have
• 44:01
  to have.
• 44:01
  Speaker 2: A pool that's one hundred and three degrees today. Yeah yeah,
• 44:04
  we need a pool.
• 44:05
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 44:06
  Speaker 7: Well yeah, and maybe just a lot of people. But
• 44:08
  you'd be surprised. You know, there's some people that don't
• 44:10
  have kids. Yeah, I get it, they're not they don't
• 44:12
  want the electric headaches.
• 44:13
  Speaker 3: I get it.
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: I get it.
• 44:14
  Speaker 7: A pool comes with a you know, a high utility.
• 44:17
  People don't realize that. So what about these new houses?
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: Do you help people buy new houses or just new
• 44:24
  construction homes or just used homes.
• 44:26
  Speaker 7: Everything, everything, everything and anything. A lot, a vacant lot.
• 44:30
  You want to buy a lot to build, You want
• 44:31
  to buy a US home, you want to buy a
• 44:32
  new house.
• 44:33
  Speaker 6: We can represent you.
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: Okay, So let me ask you this question, and I'd
• 44:36
  be as honest as you can without getting in trouble.
• 44:39
  You go to these new housing units, these new housing developments,
• 44:43
  and they have an office. You walk right into the office.
• 44:46
  You want to buy a house, You walk in the
• 44:48
  office and they show you the spiel and you can
• 44:50
  buy it and purchase it right there. I would prefer
• 44:54
  having my own agent because I've bought in a newer
• 44:57
  home one time and some stuff wasn't done properly, but
• 45:02
  I didn't have an agent to deal it, because you
• 45:04
  just bought it from the office, from the builder, from
• 45:08
  the builder, from the basically the builder. So I would
• 45:10
  I would always say, have an agent for you, al
• 45:13
  though it may cost you a little bit more money
• 45:15
  to have that agent, right.
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: Because that's what they're Oh, it doesn't no.
• 45:18
  Speaker 7: As a matter of fact, that office has a person
• 45:22
  sitting in that office representing the builder. So they work
• 45:25
  for the building. Whose interest do you think they have
• 45:28
  in their hearts? Whose best interest do you think they
• 45:31
  have in their heart?
• 45:31
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they're representing the builder.
• 45:33
  Speaker 7: So there's a lot of incentives when it comes to
• 45:36
  new construction that people don't They just don't know.
• 45:38
  Speaker 6: Right.
• 45:39
  Speaker 7: As realtors, we know we can negotiate for you. We
• 45:41
  can represent you and say, hey, mister builder, we want
• 45:45
  X amount of dollars.
• 45:46
  Speaker 6: To help our buyer with closing costs. Sure, Hey, mister builder,
• 45:49
  we want you to do this to this house. We
• 45:51
  want you to modify this.
• 45:53
  Speaker 7: So there's a lot of things that if you have
• 45:54
  your own realtor and you're not paying for it, we're
• 45:57
  going to ask the builder to pay them.
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: Oh mission.
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but you want to have somebody representing you, Yeah,
• 46:04
  representing you?
• 46:05
  Speaker 6: I mean, think about it. If you go to court,
• 46:06
  you're here.
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: Are you gonna use the.
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: Other parties representatives?
• 46:10
  Speaker 6: You want to bring your own?
• 46:11
  Speaker 3: You want to bring you all? Right?
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: Marcus here from Selling baker Bakersfield four four four zero
• 46:16
  one seven eight. We're talking about the housing market right now.
• 46:19
  That's why we bring Marco in, uh, Selling Bakersfield. Good morning, Markoll,
• 46:22
  Good morning Romeo. Let's talk about buying or not buying selling.
• 46:27
  I want to sell my house because I don't know.
• 46:31
  Maybe my family's getting smaller, maybe my family is getting bigger.
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: Maybe we want to we're.
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: Making a little more money now, we want to move
• 46:37
  to a better school district. Maybe we want to move
• 46:39
  to a different area to live close to the parents
• 46:41
  or family, or whatever the case may be.
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: Sure, what do we do. We'll just call you right
• 46:45
  and you'll sell it for us tomorrow. We'll sell it
• 46:48
  for you tomorrow.
• 46:50
  Speaker 6: We can we can list it for you tomorrow.
• 46:52
  Speaker 7: So you know, selling is a is an interesting process,
• 46:55
  you know, because it involves people's a lot of people's
• 46:59
  feelings in a right Sometimes in that house, you saw
• 47:02
  your kids grow up, you saw you know, you got married.
• 47:05
  This is your first house, whatever it may be. So
• 47:07
  we've got to, you know, we have to handle it
• 47:09
  with care, sure, because a lot of people think some unfortunately,
• 47:12
  some people think their house is worth more than what.
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: Especially if you're the one that puts some work into right, Oh,
• 47:17
  you redid the floors, or you did the whatever you
• 47:19
  put that, you put your you know, sweat into it
• 47:22
  changes how you feel about.
• 47:23
  Speaker 7: The house, which is totally understandable. I've done a lot
• 47:25
  of work to my house and I'm I know how
• 47:27
  hard it was.
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: But you sell that tomorrow if somebody offered it to Yes,
• 47:32
  I would, except but I.
• 47:33
  Speaker 6: Understand where they're coming from, right. It's only because I'm
• 47:36
  in the in the industry.
• 47:38
  Speaker 7: Yes, yeah, But if I wasn't, I understand. It's like,
• 47:40
  wait a minute, you tell me, Yeah, you know. Unfortunately
• 47:44
  you don't get dollar per dollar.
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know.
• 47:47
  Speaker 7: You don't build one hundred and fifty thousand dollars pool
• 47:49
  in your backyard and landscape this and that and think
• 47:51
  you're going to get one hundred and fifty.
• 47:52
  Speaker 6: Thousand dollars of value. Yeah, it's not gonna happen. So uh.
• 47:56
  Speaker 7: The first thing we have to do is a seller consultation.
• 47:59
  The buyers consultation is a cellar consultation. We go, we
• 48:02
  look at the house. We do what's called the CMA,
• 48:04
  which is a comparative market analysis, and it's a little
• 48:08
  report that shows us what's been selling in the area,
• 48:10
  and there's some criteria.
• 48:11
  Speaker 6: We have to follow.
• 48:12
  Speaker 7: Anything within a quarter a mile within the last six
• 48:15
  months that has actually sold, not listed, but sold.
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: What if there what one of the things that I've
• 48:21
  always heard people say, is square foot dollar square foot,
• 48:25
  a dollar amount per square foot, price per square foot? Okay,
• 48:28
  what about when the houses in the neighborhood are a
• 48:32
  little bit different.
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: What if there's no comparatible house to you?
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: What if what if every house is a single story
• 48:38
  house in the neighborhood and one one house is a
• 48:40
  two story What what about things like that or they're
• 48:43
  just they're not exactly alike.
• 48:47
  Speaker 2: Is it still just square foot? Price per square foot?
• 48:50
  Speaker 7: It always comes down as price per square foot. What
• 48:52
  happens is the appraiser would have to expand. It's the
• 48:56
  location territory, right, So there's nothing really comparable within a
• 49:00
  quarter mile.
• 49:01
  Speaker 6: Maybe go half a mile, maybe go a miles.
• 49:03
  Speaker 7: Sometimes in rural areas where it's like little ranches two
• 49:06
  and a half acres, five acres ten, you have to go.
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: Five miles, gotcha?
• 49:10
  Speaker 6: So you know you there's.
• 49:11
  Speaker 7: Always something out there, yeah, that is comparable to yours.
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: So when people are out there, they're looking at and
• 49:17
  they'll go, You'll I get the flyers in the mail.
• 49:19
  Your house is in your neighborhood sold for X amount
• 49:22
  of dollars per square foot. So the first thing everybody
• 49:24
  does when they see that is they do the math
• 49:26
  on their square footage.
• 49:27
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: That doesn't necessarily mean it's always equal, right.
• 49:31
  Speaker 6: Or does it.
• 49:32
  Speaker 7: It's a good it's a good benchmark. It's a good
• 49:36
  place to start, especially if the flyers probably getting to
• 49:39
  you because it's something around your neighborhood.
• 49:41
  Speaker 6: Yep, it's probably not across the you know, bakership.
• 49:45
  Speaker 7: So because of it's in your neighborhood, then yes, that's
• 49:48
  a good benchmark. And then then you there's adjustments. Does
• 49:50
  yours have a pool? Does that house have a pool?
• 49:53
  You know, you adjust for those types of things. But
• 49:55
  that's a good place to start. Price for square foot
• 49:57
  you could do, Hey, this is selling for x amount
• 49:59
  of square foot. Mine's somewhere around that.
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: But you have But if if you have two houses
• 50:05
  next to each other, let's say they're the same, one's
• 50:08
  got a pool, one doesn't.
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: One's gonna change the value.
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: What if one's nicer one if one's got a remodel kitchen,
• 50:13
  the other one has a pool but an old kitchen.
• 50:15
  Speaker 6: Yeah, it kind of balances out.
• 50:17
  Speaker 7: Okay, those are the things that Yeah, you got a benchmark, right,
• 50:22
  which is your price for square foot and then you
• 50:23
  kind of adjust, Okay, right from there. So yeah, I
• 50:26
  think a remodeled house is just as appealing to the
• 50:29
  buyers as a house with a pool.
• 50:31
  Speaker 2: Okay, Okay.
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: A lot of these people don't remodel their houses in
• 50:34
  Bakersfield though, So there's a lot of great houses out there,
• 50:37
  amazing properties that still got those oak cabinets that they're
• 50:41
  amazing cabinets, sturdy, lash you forever, yep.
• 50:44
  Speaker 2: But they just that oak with the gloss on them.
• 50:47
  Speaker 6: Well, don't get rid of them. Just paint them. They're
• 50:50
  a good quality.
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: Oh, I totally agree with you. Hold on, Marco. Marcu's
• 50:56
  here from selling Bakersfield. We're talking about the housing market
• 50:59
  here in Bakersfield with Marco. He's from selling at Bakersfield.
• 51:03
  Four four four zero one seven eight as the phone number.
• 51:06
  So if you want to call him, you want to
• 51:08
  get started, you want to find out any information about
• 51:10
  buying or selling, you can ask him on the phone.
• 51:14
  It's that simple to ask the questions and find out
• 51:18
  what you need to do. I do want to ask
• 51:20
  you this Mark. If somebody asked about uh, can you
• 51:23
  ask Marco if cash out refinances will change my current
• 51:28
  interest rate?
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: Yes, it will. They will, right, yep, because you're the
• 51:32
  word says it all.
• 51:33
  Speaker 7: You re financing, So you're financing again with a different
• 51:36
  bank and at the current rates, which could be a
• 51:39
  good thing if you have a high rate.
• 51:40
  Speaker 6: Right, do you have a high rate?
• 51:42
  Speaker 7: And let's see the interest rates take a little dip
• 51:44
  and you can save money on your monthly mortgaus and
• 51:46
  it's good. But if you've got you know, three or
• 51:48
  four percent, you probably don't want to reflect.
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: Probably, but you can take money out like a credit
• 51:52
  card on your home.
• 51:53
  Speaker 2: Right yeah.
• 51:53
  Speaker 7: The best option for a person who has a good
• 51:55
  interest rate and they want to cash out is a
• 51:57
  helock okay, home equity line of credit.
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: And now I got to ask you this question since
• 52:04
  you've been in the game for so long. Back in
• 52:06
  the day, your home was always the best bet. If
• 52:11
  you had a home, you had equity in a home.
• 52:14
  It was always the best insurance policy to take money
• 52:17
  out when you needed to do something that was important. Today,
• 52:23
  after two thousand and eight, I don't know if the
• 52:26
  things have changed. I know that was what twenty years
• 52:29
  ago or you know, eighteen years ago, but the home
• 52:33
  used to be the most stable purchase you can buy
• 52:37
  forever until we saw what happened in two thousand and
• 52:40
  eight when people went, wait a second, that was real.
• 52:45
  Is it still the most stable purchase or was that
• 52:47
  just a fluke or what? In your opinion, Mark, I,
• 52:50
  just since you've been seeing it for so long.
• 52:52
  Speaker 7: In my opinion, real estate is the best investment anybody's
• 52:55
  ever going to make, okay. And I would say, don't
• 52:57
  use it as a as a like a right. Don't
• 53:01
  pull money out to go buy a boat or something
• 53:02
  like that. If my opinion is this, there's two reasons
• 53:06
  why you should pull money out of your house, either
• 53:08
  to put it back in the house in a form
• 53:10
  of remodel or you know, something like that, or to
• 53:13
  buy another house. Those are the best reasons to pull
• 53:16
  money out of it. Other than that, don't touch your equity.
• 53:19
  Let it grow, okay. And even if the market takes
• 53:21
  a little correction, you know, and it's always going to
• 53:24
  go up.
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: And that's what somebody that was the next thing I
• 53:27
  was going to ask you, It is a homes are
• 53:29
  you We watch all these shows now that have just
• 53:32
  become so popular and flipping homes and I'm going to
• 53:35
  make a one hundred thousand here, eighty thousand there, half
• 53:38
  a million here because of pick your home show of flipping. Yeah,
• 53:43
  that's an exception, right for the normal person that just
• 53:48
  wants to buy a home. Your equity is going to
• 53:51
  go up and down throughout the years, but it's a
• 53:53
  long term investment.
• 53:54
  Speaker 2: On short term yeah, you.
• 53:55
  Speaker 7: Know, those things are real. I've done it. I've flipped
• 53:58
  homes and made thousands of dollars. But it's not your
• 54:01
  primary home. Don't ever look at your primary home as
• 54:04
  a flip. Okay, your primary home is your primary home. Sure,
• 54:08
  and then if you're going to buy a second home
• 54:09
  to flip, that's when you you look at it as
• 54:12
  a flip. And you know, but even then it's really difficult.
• 54:15
  I've been doing this for twenty something years, and it's
• 54:18
  hard for me to find a good flip.
• 54:21
  Speaker 2: All right, Marco, thanks for stopping by.
• 54:23
  Speaker 6: Are you for having me? Four four zero one seven eight?
• 54:27
  Speaker 2: All right? So it's a pleasure, all right, glad to
• 54:29
  see you.
• 54:29
  Speaker 3: Well.
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: I have been waiting to talk to you guys about
• 54:32
  this for a couple of weeks now. I wanted it
• 54:35
  to cool off a little bit because some of my
• 54:37
  friends that I grew up with still listen to the
• 54:40
  show online, so I had to let it cool off
• 54:44
  a little bit before.
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: I tell it.
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: Okay, a good friend of mine, and he is a
• 54:50
  good friend of mine. His wife got some photos of
• 54:56
  him messing with another woman, so he was cheating on
• 55:00
  his wife.
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: The woman he.
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: Was messing around with, her husband, I guess, caught them
• 55:07
  together and sent the photos that he took of them
• 55:12
  together to his wife. Now she confronted him with this, right,
• 55:19
  and this idiot he I shouldn't call him an idiot
• 55:27
  because she believes him. But this idiot told his wife
• 55:31
  that they were AI photos. He said they were doctored photos.
• 55:38
  He's not messing around on her, and the guy who
• 55:42
  sent them just has beef with him for another reason.
• 55:47
  I didn't I didn't get what the other reason is.
• 55:50
  Speaker 2: But she believed him. Now, I this idiot. He got
• 56:00
  away with it so far up to this point.
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: His wife believes that the photos of him with this
• 56:08
  other women woman are AI artificial intelligence.
• 56:12
  Speaker 2: They're doctor They're not real. Now AI.
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: Is going to change the world in a way that
• 56:19
  will never It's gonna be tough right to understand.
• 56:24
  Speaker 2: If something's real or not. We already see it. I
• 56:28
  mean in social media posts.
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: We already see it online. They make movies AI movies
• 56:34
  now that are tough to understand if they're real or not.
• 56:39
  Speaker 2: Right, I don't.
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: I don't really pay that close attention to it because it's.
• 56:43
  Speaker 2: Not to me. I don't. I don't know. To me,
• 56:47
  I don't care. But can you tell if it's AI
• 56:53
  or not?
• 56:54
  Speaker 3: Now?
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: I do pay attention to AI when it comes to
• 56:56
  how it's going to change the world, you know, as
• 56:59
  AI to take over you know, take over the planet
• 57:02
  like a Terminator movie and then kill off all the
• 57:05
  humans or is aar going to destroy uh, you know,
• 57:08
  human life, which I think is stupid. I don't believe that.
• 57:12
  But are you guys scared of AI? I mean, I
• 57:14
  don't even know.
• 57:15
  Speaker 2: The conversation about AI is the one I wanted to have.
• 57:18
  Speaker 8: But I think it's just funny that my friend of
• 57:20
  mine used AI as an excuse to get away with cheating,
• 57:26
  and so far it's working for them.
• 57:30
  Speaker 2: What do you guys think about AI? What do you guys?
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: Do you think it's really going to be detrimental to society?
• 57:37
  I mean, my buddy used it to get out of
• 57:39
  a cheating scandal with his wife.
• 57:43
  Speaker 9: Yeah, you talking about AI? Yeah, bro, So I was
• 57:47
  just talking about this with my buddies the other day.
• 57:49
  I think it's making everybody incredibly lazy, like stupid lazy.
• 57:55
  An example I have is like at work, a lot
• 57:58
  of my coworkers they like to use AI to draft
• 58:01
  their emails. I understand, like it's mundane, you know, having
• 58:07
  to do our having to do our job gets a
• 58:09
  little foreign. Yeah, But what it does is like whenever
• 58:13
  we're in like a big meeting with HR or we're
• 58:16
  having meeting with our union, Okay, their critical thinking is
• 58:20
  just gone.
• 58:21
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: It's funny that you say that, because I was talking
• 58:25
  to somebody and that's what they were saying. They were saying,
• 58:27
  people are becoming stupider because of AI. The generations are
• 58:31
  becoming dumber because AI does the.
• 58:34
  Speaker 2: Work for them.
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: And like you just said, no critical thinking, no problem
• 58:38
  solving skills, they're losing all that.
• 58:42
  Speaker 2: But that's so Yeah. I agree with you all.
• 58:45
  Speaker 9: Right, that people haven't watched Terminator enough. Man, I grew up.
• 58:50
  Derek Connor would be taking her head at us. She'd
• 58:53
  be embarrassed. You guys need to watch those movies again.
• 58:58
  Speaker 2: All right man, thanks for coming.
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: You know, and I will say this, This is what
• 59:05
  I want to say that along with that is, you know,
• 59:10
  we talk about computers taking over and like he just said,
• 59:13
  the Terminator, right, we watch movies where computers take over
• 59:20
  the world and humans are fighting for survival. But and
• 59:27
  it's gonna sound nutty and be a little bit might
• 59:29
  be over your head a little bit, but the computers
• 59:31
  have already taken us over. The iPhones, the cell phones
• 59:37
  are so much like a drug that people actually lose
• 59:41
  it if they can't get on their phones or they
• 59:44
  can't get on social media. The computers have already brainwashed
• 59:48
  the human race and have taken over, even though it's
• 59:51
  not in the same way that you see in the movies.
• 59:55
  It's not in the same way that you see where
• 59:57
  the computers are just runn and everything and they got
• 1:00:01
  their own little robot army and the and the and
• 1:00:04
  the and the humans are you know, fighting for survival
• 1:00:07
  in a in a military way like they do in
• 1:00:09
  the Sarah Connors or the whatevers.
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 2: But you're already been taken over.
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: I mean, you guys are already controlled by by a robot,
• 1:00:18
  by a by technology with your phones, and if you
• 1:00:20
  think you're not, you're stupid because you are.
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 2: You're just in denial.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: In the same way that a person who's hooked on
• 1:00:27
  a drugs or alcohol would say, I'm not a drug here,
• 1:00:29
  I'm not an alcoholic because you are. You're you're hooked
• 1:00:33
  on your phones and there's it's the world that we
• 1:00:36
  live in right now. So I would argue that you've
• 1:00:38
  are The computers have already taken over. The problem is
• 1:00:41
  are they going to wipe you out? Like in these
• 1:00:44
  Terminator movies?
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 2: Right? I don't know.
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: Are you afraid of AI? I don't know if you
• 1:00:48
  should do or not, but it is making you dumber.
• 1:00:54
  AI is definitely making you dumber. Yeah, but I But
• 1:01:01
  then again, you have to make the other argument for AI.
• 1:01:04
  If I can just look something up on how to
• 1:01:07
  do it and then do it, why do I need
• 1:01:10
  to solve the problem on my own? You know, if I,
• 1:01:13
  if I and I do this, I still do this.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: I have conversations about certain things like, oh, how many
• 1:01:20
  Super Bowls did you know Tom Brady win or whatever?
• 1:01:24
  So a question like that, I don't go to AI
• 1:01:26
  to look at the answer. If I don't know it,
• 1:01:28
  I try to figure it out. But I'll be sitting
• 1:01:31
  next to a friend who would just go right to
• 1:01:33
  I mean, I had that conversation this morning. Now, we
• 1:01:36
  were talking about something for music.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 2: How old.
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: Oh we were talking about how old Lisa Lisa was,
• 1:01:42
  and I was trying to do the math in my
• 1:01:46
  head about last time, you know, blah blah blah.
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 2: A guy next to me, he just looked it up. Oh,
• 1:01:49
  she's this age, you know what I'm saying.
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: So I don't know necessarily what's uh. I guess I
• 1:01:58
  can stand on both sides of the face, but I
• 1:02:01
  do I do believe.
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: I don't believe AI is going to take me over.
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: I don't think it's going to take over the world,
• 1:02:06
  you know, in the way that you see in terminator.
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 2: Let's see here, you send me something about my buddy.
• 1:02:13
  Good morning Rome.
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: I really hope that ladies not listening to the radio,
• 1:02:17
  because now she gonna know her husband was cheating.
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 2: No, she's not listening to my show. Hold on, let
• 1:02:23
  me get this phone call and I'll explain it. Good morning,
• 1:02:25
  How what's going on?
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 3: Bro?
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 5: No, the only people that have to fear AI is
• 1:02:30
  the smart people, the geeks in the nerds. Why is
• 1:02:34
  that because I mean before they had they You know,
• 1:02:37
  I got a friend that went to school four years
• 1:02:40
  for computer tech. He can design stuff, and he's been
• 1:02:44
  replaced by aih these people that thought they were smart.
• 1:02:49
  I can just use AI and be just as smart
• 1:02:52
  of them. Right, They've got the advantage now on all
• 1:02:55
  these smart guys. Okay, I have nothing to fear. It's
• 1:02:59
  made me smart. May need more advanced. So, but you
• 1:03:02
  don't AI.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: But you don't think AI is gonna take over, take
• 1:03:05
  control of the world and become some some crazy thing
• 1:03:09
  that runs us, right.
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 5: I don't think so, only because there even though it
• 1:03:13
  is smart technology, they don't have that gut, it's instinct.
• 1:03:17
  They don't know how to you know, what.
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: About all the jobs. Their word's gonna take over all
• 1:03:21
  the jobs, and nobody's gonna have.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 2: Nobody's gonna be able to.
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 5: I don't think so.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 3: I don't think so.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 5: It's gonna take over the smart and the nerds. The
• 1:03:28
  nerds are going to be out of business. But us
• 1:03:31
  hard workers have still changed, tired and still work, you know,
• 1:03:35
  labor jobs. We're we're all right.
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: Well about about robot robot I eyes They got robots
• 1:03:40
  now to do that stuff.
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but it's not gonna work. It's not gonna be
• 1:03:43
  the same.
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 2: Okay, I'm just I'm just asking. I'm not scared of
• 1:03:46
  AI either day. I'm not. It doesn't scare me at.
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 5: All, because I don't think AI could be as twenty
• 1:03:51
  as you.
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 2: Or you know, oh, not even close, not even there.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 5: It is there, and they can't be as annoying as
• 1:03:57
  greater days so.
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 2: And it definitely can't be as dumb as louse. So
• 1:04:05
  we are good.
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 5: We are three are guaranteed.
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 2: Anyway, Oh my god. So back to what I was.
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: Somebody said that he hopes the ladies not listed. What
• 1:04:19
  happened was a friend of mine and he's in Atlanta.
• 1:04:22
  He lives in Atlanta with his wife.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 2: So he was cheating on his wife, and I believe
• 1:04:28
  he was cheating.
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: But anyway, the husband of the woman he was cheating
• 1:04:31
  with took photos and sent them to my friend's wife
• 1:04:35
  and he just told his wife it was AI.
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 2: Those are AI photos. They're not real.
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: Somebody say, this guy doesn't like me, he's trying to
• 1:04:41
  get even with me for some reason, and.
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 2: She believed them.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: So, but AI, A lot of people are afraid of
• 1:04:47
  AI losing their jobs. They're afraid they're going to turn
• 1:04:49
  into terminators and take over the world. And I doubt
• 1:04:53
  And you guys got to stop listening to these idiots
• 1:04:55
  who think AI because we could still just unplug it,
• 1:04:59
  just like a computer. Just we're back to business, right,
• 1:05:02
  all right. So it's Romeo. I was telling you about
• 1:05:06
  a buddy of mine. He got uh. I think he
• 1:05:09
  got caught his wife. His wife believes him though, but
• 1:05:12
  he was messing around with some lady. The lady's husband
• 1:05:16
  caught him, caught, caught pictures of him, sent it to
• 1:05:21
  his wife. My friend's wife, he just told her it
• 1:05:24
  was Ai, and she believed him. She believed him. It's crazy,
• 1:05:29
  alrighty four two.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 2: Five, four seven to seven A roam. You don't think
• 1:05:33
  AI is going to take your job? Now? AI can
• 1:05:35
  have my job.
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: You know what it's like dealing with you fools all
• 1:05:38
  the day, all this all this time. Hey, I could
• 1:05:42
  have my job, but no, he has not taken my job.
• 1:05:44
  I mean, come on, now, you guys worried about AI
• 1:05:47
  and Uh. I mean, there's a couple of different ways
• 1:05:50
  to look at it.
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 2: Are you worried about the.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: Fact that it's gonna take your job. Are you worried
• 1:05:55
  about the fact that it's going to take over the world.
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 2: Oh, it's smarter than so what, It's.
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: Still just a machine. Okay, you guys got to stop
• 1:06:04
  watching Terminator and all these ridiculous movies that make it
• 1:06:07
  seem if anything, if anything AI is going to do,
• 1:06:12
  it's already have done. And that's with your cell phones.
• 1:06:14
  Your cell phones control you. And if you don't think
• 1:06:18
  they do, you're just in denial. But your cell phones
• 1:06:22
  control you. So technology is already winning.
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: The one thing it is doing is it's making people stupider, dumber.
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 2: And it did say that.
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: I saw a story the other day that said women
• 1:06:37
  are the ones that are going to be affected the
• 1:06:39
  most the effects of AI on working lives of women.
• 1:06:45
  It's women, I guess they're going to be affected the
• 1:06:47
  most when it comes to AI. Women face higher workplace
• 1:06:53
  risks when it comes to AI. So it's interesting.
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 2: Hey, rom I've caught AI.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: Lying numerous times, which makes me wonder how many times
• 1:07:03
  have I believed something it told me that I didn't know. Well,
• 1:07:07
  the thing about AI you have to understand is it
• 1:07:10
  depends on who programs it.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 2: I know exactly what you're talking about.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: There are different AIS that will tell you different things
• 1:07:17
  because of the beliefs of the human that programmed it.
• 1:07:22
  So that's what you think human error. You think AI
• 1:07:25
  is gonna take over humans? No, no, no, no, no, no,
• 1:07:29
  you gotta be you can't be that stupid. It's not
• 1:07:32
  gonna kill all the human beings. It's not gonna take
• 1:07:35
  over the human race. It's just it's just gonna be
• 1:07:39
  there in the same way. It's just gonna make you dumber,
• 1:07:43
  is what it's gonna do.
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 4: Hey, what's that, Lou. I gotta disagree with you on
• 1:07:49
  the AI stuff. Well, that's because you're a moron, and
• 1:07:53
  no is because I got proof.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 3: Man.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 4: I was now le a couple of weeks ago and
• 1:07:58
  I ordered a ride and it was one of those
• 1:08:00
  cars that drives themselves.
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 2: Oh well, weymo away moo, yeah.
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah, away morey AI.
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 2: I get it, But it's still the technology.
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, those things just blocked up a street in Texas
• 1:08:13
  for like fifteen hours because all they all came to
• 1:08:16
  the same spot.
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 2: At the same time.
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: There's they're not they're not perfected nowhere near enough to
• 1:08:22
  take over the world, and I'm they probably won't.
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 4: Be Yeah, probably not the world, but the majority of
• 1:08:30
  like big cities, maybe Bakersfielle not wasco definitely not Wascoe. Yeah,
• 1:08:38
  and then also a I ordered some food on door
• 1:08:41
  dash and it was like a little a little robot
• 1:08:44
  came to the door.
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 2: I seen that clown.
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 3: I was in Uh.
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: I was in La a couple of weeks ago, and
• 1:08:52
  I saw that thing going down the street and it
• 1:08:54
  got stuck.
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 2: So give me a break, you guys. You know what,
• 1:09:00
  all right, all right, all right, right, all right.
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: I mean, I think AI is going to do some things,
• 1:09:06
  but it's not going to control the world like you
• 1:09:09
  guys see in some sort of silly movie.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 2: You know, Hey, what I'm wrong.
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: All I can say is that my job, can't my
• 1:09:17
  co U, can't my coworkers job for sure, because AI
• 1:09:21
  definitely isn't gonna kiss my boss's ass.
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: AI will take over some jobs, but it's not going
• 1:09:33
  to control the world. There are people that think the
• 1:09:36
  end of the world is coming because of AI and
• 1:09:40
  that there's robots. They're gonna it's gonna become what sentient?
• 1:09:43
  Is that? What it means gonna think for yourself. It's
• 1:09:45
  gonna become its own No, it won't.
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 2: You know, it's not. It's still just a machine, that's
• 1:09:53
  all it is. Now.
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: It may be able to scour the Internet faster, but
• 1:09:59
  it's not finding anything that a human hasn't already programmed.
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 2: That's the thing.
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: It's not gonna become some sort of its own thing
• 1:10:09
  and take over the world like you see in the movies.
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 2: It's just it's not the what you need to What
• 1:10:16
  you need to.
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: Be afraid of more than AI is the cell phones
• 1:10:20
  and how all of you cannot get off your freaking phone.
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 2: I would be more worried about that hot one in
• 1:10:27
  the Rhythm of the Valley? Is Romeo? Help me Rome today?
• 1:10:30
  What do you send me here?
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 3: All right?
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: It says, Hello, Rome, please, Hello, please, Rome please help.
• 1:10:39
  The guy I'm seeing for a year told me we
• 1:10:43
  need to slow down.
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 2: What does that mean? Is it over? Is he cheating?
• 1:10:50
  What's going on? Well?
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: I don't know what's what? Uh, you're not really giving
• 1:10:57
  me a whole lot of information? Or have you been
• 1:11:00
  come clean? And what do you expect? What's been going on?
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 2: Well? I don't know. I mean, is it you? Is
• 1:11:08
  it him?
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: Is it could be all of those things.
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 2: I mean, are you pushing for something more after a year?
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 3: Are you? Are you?
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: Are you being aggressively you know, trying to move forward
• 1:11:19
  with what moving in together, getting married?
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 2: Boyfriend girl? What are you trying to do? So is
• 1:11:25
  it you? I don't know what moving too fast.
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: Means, you know, So you're gonna have to give me
• 1:11:33
  a little more information. If I was just going to guess, Okay,
• 1:11:38
  and this is just because and this is just because
• 1:11:42
  the cynical nature of Bakersfield, it's probably over and he
• 1:11:48
  probably met somebody that he wants to see. He probably
• 1:11:52
  met somebody else that he wants to give it a shot.
• 1:11:55
  He doesn't really want to be a you know, a
• 1:11:58
  jackass and on you. He's probably that's I'm gonna guess
• 1:12:03
  that that's probably what's going on, because I don't know
• 1:12:07
  unless you were doing something that is he believes is
• 1:12:12
  moving too fast for the relationship, and without knowing him
• 1:12:17
  and without knowing you, I can't only answer the question
• 1:12:21
  about he's probably met somebody else and he wants to
• 1:12:27
  he wants to date them without feeling like he's cheating
• 1:12:31
  on you. Okay, I'm just guessing that unless you want
• 1:12:36
  to give me more information. Where's the relationship at today?
• 1:12:39
  What's uh? If you live together you live separately? Have
• 1:12:43
  you been pushing him to do something like moving together
• 1:12:46
  or what?
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 2: What?
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: What? What's the relationship stat is today?
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 2: How's it?
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: How's it working already? Fourteen five, four or seven to seven?
• 1:12:54
  Throw me on top toy four point one? This whole conversation, says, Hey, Rome,
• 1:12:59
  help me out here. She says, the guy I'm seeing
• 1:13:02
  for one year, over a year for a year told
• 1:13:04
  me we need to slow down.
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 2: What does that mean? Is it over? Is he cheating?
• 1:13:08
  What's going on? So here?
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: She actually called me no, she didn't want to go
• 1:13:11
  on the radio with me, but she did give me
• 1:13:13
  a little more information, and she'd like to know what
• 1:13:15
  you think about this now?
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 2: He had he's a forty year old man.
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: Okay, they've met each other's everybody important in their life
• 1:13:26
  they met, Okay, like kids, family, moms, dads, whatever, Right,
• 1:13:30
  so they've intertwined their families with their relationship to some extent.
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 2: At least they've met them. Now.
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: She says she got a screenshot of him DM and
• 1:13:42
  some woman liking some other girls pictures. DM and some
• 1:13:46
  woman and it wasn't as explicit as you would have
• 1:13:49
  thought it was, but it kind of looked like, uh,
• 1:13:52
  you know, he was seeing how far he can get
• 1:13:54
  with this chick talk to her, and then so she
• 1:13:58
  called him on it. He thought it was upsetting. They've
• 1:14:01
  gotten an art up, they gotten a little you know,
• 1:14:04
  tiff about it, arguing about it whatever. Now she I
• 1:14:08
  guess that he said he needed some time last a
• 1:14:11
  couple of weeks, agot, but together, I guess he's kind
• 1:14:14
  of leading her on.
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 2: One way or the other.
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: You know, he'll say, hey, I miss you one day
• 1:14:17
  and then then five minutes later say we need to
• 1:14:19
  slow things down. So oh, I forgot to ask her
• 1:14:24
  if it didn't sound like he lived in the same town.
• 1:14:27
  It doesn't sound like they live here. They live in
• 1:14:29
  the same town, but I forgot to ask her that.
• 1:14:31
  So what's going on when the guy tells you he
• 1:14:34
  wants to slow down?
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 2: What's going on? Already? Four? Two, four, seven to seven?
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 6: Now, a year.
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 2: Is a year really a long time?
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: That's one of the things I think we really have
• 1:14:49
  to think about.
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 2: It's a year.
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: How how long is a year in a relationship period?
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 6: You know?
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 2: Two three years, Okay, but how long is a year?
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: So after a year of ditting someone, if they tell
• 1:15:04
  you want to slow down, what does that mean?
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 2: Already four for seven to seven? All right, So this
• 1:15:12
  poor lady man, she.
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: Sent me this talking about, Hey, help me out roam.
• 1:15:15
  This guy I'm seeing for a year told me we
• 1:15:17
  need to slow down. What does he mean by that?
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 2: Is it over? Is he cheating?
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: What's going on? She just don't really have any answers,
• 1:15:23
  But I mean, what are what are the what are
• 1:15:28
  the what?
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 2: What? What's going on?
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 3: Now?
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: Apparently they've met each other's family, so they've kind of
• 1:15:33
  been putting in the work to see each other for
• 1:15:35
  the year. But then he just kind of flip fip,
• 1:15:39
  Oh he lives up into Hatchby. She lives in bakers
• 1:15:42
  So yeah, see that's probably one of the biggest problems.
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, how what's going on?
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: Hey?
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 5: That means that he wants his options.
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: Open well, and I just found out that he lives
• 1:15:54
  in the Hatcherby, she lives in Bakersfield, So yeah, I
• 1:15:57
  think there's options that might be opening up for him.
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, you know he's probably like, well, you know,
• 1:16:04
  I can't get nothing over there.
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, and but once he's able to get something
• 1:16:09
  over there, he won't want to come here. I think.
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 2: I think it's one of those things.
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think it's gonna be rough.
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 2: It's gonna be rough going.
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 4: More. There's more fish out there in the scene.
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think he might be right about that, now
• 1:16:26
  that I know, I know, to hatch Being Bakersfield isn't
• 1:16:29
  that far away, but it's pretty far away at midnight
• 1:16:34
  when you want to hook up, you know. I mean,
• 1:16:36
  I just I don't think I can discount the fact.
• 1:16:41
  I don't think I can discount the fact like that
• 1:16:43
  guy just said he ain't got no options in to
• 1:16:46
  Hachby right now, so he's he's.
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 2: Got to go to Bakersfield. But I think if.
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: Options up open up into Hatchby, I think that changes everything.
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 2: I just, yeah, hey.
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: Room, What it means is she's too clinging or over possessive,
• 1:17:02
  or just doing it for him in a in the bedroom. Maybe,
• 1:17:08
  I mean, maybe she comes across like that. But I
• 1:17:10
  talked to her.
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 2: She called me.
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 1: She didn't want to go on the radio, but I
• 1:17:12
  talked to her. She didn't, She didn't seem too clinging.
• 1:17:16
  She didn't seem too possessive. She just seemed like she
• 1:17:20
  was paying attention, like he had some DMS that he
• 1:17:23
  was talking to some women. You know, he likes some
• 1:17:25
  women's pictures on social media, so I mean she approached
• 1:17:28
  him about that. But any when any woman who's in
• 1:17:32
  a relationship for over a year approach a guy about
• 1:17:35
  what he's doing on social media already four two, five, four,
• 1:17:39
  seven to seven. I think it's the city. The distance
• 1:17:44
  is what I think I liked. I think that last guy's.
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 2: Right all right here.
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 1: Oh back to the to the lady who said, hey, Ron,
• 1:17:51
  please help me. The guy I'm seeing for over a
• 1:17:52
  year told me we need to slow down.
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 2: What does that mean? Is it over? Is he cheating?
• 1:17:57
  What's going on?
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: And we found out that they live in ever Ten,
• 1:18:00
  lives into Hatchbee, she lives here.
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 2: They've had little issues.
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: He's been dming other women or dmned another woman, and uh,
• 1:18:13
  you know, I think I think what it's coming down
• 1:18:14
  to is really that they live in different towns. He
• 1:18:17
  doesn't have anybody up into Hatchbee, so he's in Bakersfield.
• 1:18:21
  He's got her, and he's kind of stringing her along
• 1:18:23
  till he finds somebody. But they've been they met each
• 1:18:26
  other's families, they've been together over a year.
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 2: I mean, do you slow down after a year? What
• 1:18:31
  does that mean? Already? Four two five, four seven to seven?
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 1: A roam? The writing's on the wall. She needs to
• 1:18:37
  move on from this relationship. This guy has his eyes
• 1:18:39
  on someone new and only misses her when he wants
• 1:18:43
  to get some have a good day rome. That sounds plausible,
• 1:18:47
  sounds like that could be the deal, right already four
• 1:18:51
  two five, four seven to seven?
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 2: What do you get? What do you think? What happens
• 1:18:55
  when somebody.
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 1: Tells you they want to slow down after a year
• 1:18:58
  of dating? You've met everybody's family members, you I mean,
• 1:19:04
  I mean, what.
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 2: Does that mean? So this girl called Lady called.
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 1: She was talking about how she met, She knew this guy,
• 1:19:10
  she's been seeing him for a year.
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 2: He says they need to slow down. What does that mean?
• 1:19:15
  Is it over? Is he cheating? What's going on?
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: I now, just a little insight A couple of things.
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 2: She told me.
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 1: They live in separate cities, attached me and Biggersfield. He
• 1:19:28
  has life some women on social media. He may even
• 1:19:31
  texted one of them where she got a screen shot
• 1:19:33
  from a friend of hers who saw it.
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 2: She called him on it, wanted to know what was
• 1:19:37
  going on.
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 1: She actually sent me a screenshot says, miss you lott
• 1:19:47
  send me a picture, Uh, the gym if you want
• 1:19:50
  going to bed?
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 2: I'm so sleepy.
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 1: Now, have a good workout, handsome man, my crush whatever.
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 2: He says, Okay, we'll slow down a little bit.
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 1: What Yeah, I don't know that one. That's a weird
• 1:20:02
  text chain right there for whatever that is? So anyway,
• 1:20:07
  they met each other's families. A year is a while
• 1:20:09
  to be dating somebody. Year is or is a year
• 1:20:13
  a while to be dating somebody? Is a Do you
• 1:20:16
  have enough investment in a year of dating someone to
• 1:20:23
  you know, if you've met the families, if you've hung
• 1:20:26
  out enough, if you've gone everywhere together, gone places together?
• 1:20:29
  I mean, is a year enough of investment to where
• 1:20:32
  when you tell somebody we're moving too quickly, we need
• 1:20:35
  to slow down.
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 2: What's going on there?
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 1: She wants to know we four four seven to seven, Romeo,
• 1:20:43
  you need to tell her to move on. That's too
• 1:20:47
  many red flags. That's an immediate red flag. If he
• 1:20:49
  says slow down after a year, you need to tell
• 1:20:52
  her to move on. I mean, it's.
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 2: Okay, sounds more me more and more like.
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 1: He's he wants somebody closer to where he lives, but
• 1:21:01
  he can't find anybody, so he's kind of stringing her along.
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 2: Right, Am I right or wrong about the morning
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 9: Every morning Morning on ninety four point one