Latest / Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio / Letting Go When Something is Really Right for You
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- 0:01Speaker 1: Hi, Welcome to Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio. And this
- 0:04Speaker 1: is your sacred space for intuitive coaching, spiritual wisdom and
- 0:11Speaker 1: practical tools to help you live with clarity, confidence, and purpose. Together,
- 0:16Speaker 1: we will explore how to blend spiritual practice, universal law,
- 0:21Speaker 1: and inspired actions so you can create the life you
- 0:24Speaker 1: truly desire. All right, let's talk about something significant, and
- 0:31Speaker 1: I think is kind of an unsung hero of the
- 0:36Speaker 1: spiritual game, letting go when you really really want something
- 0:42Speaker 1: and when you know that something is totally and completely
- 0:46Speaker 1: right for you. Today we're talking about letting go when
- 0:50Speaker 1: something feels so good, so perfect, such a match to
- 0:57Speaker 1: where you're going and who you want to be. This
- 1:01Speaker 1: message comes from the Wisdom of Avalon Oracle card Deck
- 1:06Speaker 1: by Collette Baron Reid, and it came up in a
- 1:09Speaker 1: reading for me. And you know, I have lots of
- 1:14Speaker 1: different ways I read for myself, but this particular reading
- 1:17Speaker 1: I did, I had two different card spreads I was
- 1:19Speaker 1: using and same topic, but two different card spreads, and
- 1:24Speaker 1: this letting go card came up in both of those
- 1:27Speaker 1: spreads in this exact same place. And so I'm like, okay,
- 1:32Speaker 1: I need to not only take this wisdom to heart.
- 1:35Speaker 1: And apply it to my own life. But I also
- 1:37Speaker 1: need to do a podcast on it because I bet
- 1:40Speaker 1: there's somebody else out there experiencing something similar. So the
- 1:45Speaker 1: card reminds us that something must be released in order
- 1:49Speaker 1: to receive. We usually think of letting go or the
- 1:53Speaker 1: releasing process as past something in the past, a past hurt,
- 1:58Speaker 1: a past resentment. Maybe it's an old way of doing
- 2:02Speaker 1: things or seeing our situation, and that kind of letting
- 2:06Speaker 1: go is powerful. I recommend it all the time. It's
- 2:09Speaker 1: an active part of my spiritual practice. I do some
- 2:13Speaker 1: type of releasing work most days. But there is another
- 2:17Speaker 1: kind of letting go that is harder and more mysterious.
- 2:22Speaker 1: It's the kind of release that happens when you feel
- 2:24Speaker 1: you are on the right path and you know your
- 2:28Speaker 1: desire is aligned with where you're going, and yet nothing's happening.
- 2:34Speaker 1: That is when you need to practice surrender. But we're
- 2:40Speaker 1: gonna call it letting go. We're gonna call it letting go.
- 2:44Speaker 1: So Abraham Hicks teaches you cannot focus upon the absence
- 2:48Speaker 1: of something and allow it into your experience at the
- 2:51Speaker 1: same time. So what does this mean Practically? It means
- 2:56Speaker 1: that if you are giving your attention to what you
- 2:59Speaker 1: do not have. You're sending out a vibration of lack,
- 3:03Speaker 1: usually unintentionally, you are noticing the empty space where your
- 3:08Speaker 1: desire has not yet arrived, and you are focusing on
- 3:11Speaker 1: the missing piece. You're probably saying, well, why hasn't shown up?
- 3:15Speaker 1: This is so right, I'm doing all the work. Why
- 3:17Speaker 1: isn't it shown up. That's what we're talking about here
- 3:21Speaker 1: with letting go. For example, Let's imagine that you are
- 3:25Speaker 1: longing for love, romantic love. That's one of the reasons
- 3:30Speaker 1: many people come to me. If you're constantly thinking about
- 3:33Speaker 1: how lonely you are, or how long it's been since
- 3:36Speaker 1: you've been on a good date, or there are no
- 3:39Speaker 1: good people on the app or where is your partner,
- 3:43Speaker 1: your energy is locked on absence of love, not receiving love,
- 3:50Speaker 1: You cannot attract a relationship you want from that state. Instead,
- 3:55Speaker 1: you must shift your focus to feeling a sense of
- 3:58Speaker 1: connection joy, and you must practice gratitude for the love
- 4:05Speaker 1: that you already have in your life. And you then
- 4:08Speaker 1: can choose activities that make you feel radiant and supported
- 4:13Speaker 1: and alive even though your great, amazing love you're seeking
- 4:18Speaker 1: hasn't shown up. That is how you align with the
- 4:21Speaker 1: presence instead of the absence. And again, this is very
- 4:25Speaker 1: easy to slip into when it's a desire that is
- 4:30Speaker 1: deeply important to you. So when you catch yourself gripping
- 4:34Speaker 1: tightly to what is missing, you pause, you breathe, you
- 4:43Speaker 1: return to a positive approach, a positive mindset, a positive
- 4:50Speaker 1: energetic state. Because that card came up too earlier in
- 4:54Speaker 1: the day around this thing that I'm manifesting, I knew
- 5:00Speaker 1: going to have to go in a certain direction, and
- 5:03Speaker 1: I didn't want to go in that direction. I wanted
- 5:04Speaker 1: to go in the direction of my desire. And I
- 5:07Speaker 1: was like, well, I've gotten clear that every time I'm
- 5:11Speaker 1: down on going in this direction, it doesn't seem to
- 5:15Speaker 1: get any better for me. So Spirit, if I'm going
- 5:17Speaker 1: to have to go in this direction, give me some
- 5:20Speaker 1: guidance on how to approach this. And the card I
- 5:23Speaker 1: pulled was positivity, and it's from this very esoteric deck.
- 5:27Speaker 1: So the fact that this very clear message came forward
- 5:35Speaker 1: was my sign that yeah, this is all you. Why
- 5:39Speaker 1: this hasn't come into form? So what do you do?
- 5:46Speaker 1: You breathe, and you ask yourself, how can I embody
- 5:53Speaker 1: the energy of having it now, and let's take this
- 5:57Speaker 1: a little bit further, because this is a question that
- 5:59Speaker 1: comes up a lot. You know, how can I feel
- 6:02Speaker 1: more like the feelings of having the desire? Well, I
- 6:08Speaker 1: think the step one is saying, let's look at all
- 6:11Speaker 1: the ways that I'm focused on not having the desire.
- 6:15Speaker 1: What are all the ways I'm still embodying the energy
- 6:17Speaker 1: of the person who doesn't have the desire. And in
- 6:21Speaker 1: my case, when I had to take an alternative path,
- 6:27Speaker 1: while I know that path is not permanent, in no
- 6:30Speaker 1: way to do I think that path is permanent, I
- 6:34Speaker 1: would really be down on it, and you know, of
- 6:38Speaker 1: course grateful. But then there was a butt I'm grateful,
- 6:43Speaker 1: But that's how you know when you are holding on
- 6:48Speaker 1: in a way in which is getting in the way
- 6:51Speaker 1: of the flow of your desire. And so I started
- 6:55Speaker 1: to learn this concept some years back when I was
- 6:59Speaker 1: doing and a lot of money manifestation work. When am
- 7:02Speaker 1: I not doing money manifestation work? And I came across
- 7:06Speaker 1: the teacher talking about, Okay, you know you didn't hit
- 7:10Speaker 1: your goal, your financial goal for the month. You have
- 7:15Speaker 1: to be thankful for what you did do and be
- 7:19Speaker 1: open to more. I'm thankful and I'm open to more
- 7:24Speaker 1: and one more time. It can be so easy if
- 7:27Speaker 1: you're listening to this and you're not in your head,
- 7:29Speaker 1: you're like, oh my god, I've been doing that. This
- 7:31Speaker 1: is so easy to slip into, especially when you're going
- 7:34Speaker 1: for it with all your heart. And so then you
- 7:38Speaker 1: you know, then you have to take the tiniest, smallest
- 7:42Speaker 1: step to shift into the energy that matches having the desire.
- 7:48Speaker 1: And again, it's energy, So a feeling is energy. So
- 7:56Speaker 1: going back to my example around money, when I'm in
- 8:00Speaker 1: that state of I'm so grateful for this, but I
- 8:05Speaker 1: really wanted this number. I now know I swap out
- 8:10Speaker 1: that butt for and I'm so grateful and I'm open
- 8:14Speaker 1: to receiving more. So then I'm staying in the gratitude.
- 8:18Speaker 1: I'm staying in the beauty and magic and wonder of
- 8:21Speaker 1: the desire, that feeling, that feeling, that energetic state matches
- 8:28Speaker 1: more money coming as opposed to but is constricting and
- 8:33Speaker 1: restrictive and is more of a match to lack, because
- 8:39Speaker 1: that's essentially what I'm focusing on. I'm focusing on what's
- 8:42Speaker 1: not there, the amount of money that didn't show up
- 8:46Speaker 1: as opposed to being just rooted in the purity of
- 8:49Speaker 1: oh this did I'm so grateful for this and I'm
- 8:52Speaker 1: open for more? Does this makeing sense? So that shift,
- 8:57Speaker 1: that tiny shift, is huge and create space for manifestation
- 9:03Speaker 1: to flow. Michael Bernard Beck with you know a love
- 9:07Speaker 1: agape says you cannot go against the laws of the universe.
- 9:12Speaker 1: You can only learn to cooperate with them. So when
- 9:15Speaker 1: you're holding on too tightly to a desire, you are
- 9:19Speaker 1: often going against the energy of allowing. While I don't
- 9:25Speaker 1: believe that allowing is a law, there are many people
- 9:30Speaker 1: that do believe that there is a law of allowing,
- 9:33Speaker 1: saying which says that everything unfolds in right order when
- 9:37Speaker 1: we stop resisting. So the moment we try to control
- 9:41Speaker 1: every detail, we are pushing against the flow, and we
- 9:47Speaker 1: are controlling every detail when we are thinking about it's
- 9:50Speaker 1: not here yet, it's not here yet, it's not here yet.
- 9:52Speaker 1: I want it by now. It should have been here
- 9:54Speaker 1: by now. Why is it not here? That is an
- 9:57Speaker 1: act of controlling every detail. I know because I'm a
- 10:01Speaker 1: manifestor too, that feels like truth and that feels right
- 10:06Speaker 1: to go down that road, to be like, well, what's
- 10:08Speaker 1: going on here? Spirit? But it doesn't serve us well,
- 10:12Speaker 1: and it definitely does not keep our vibration high. It
- 10:15Speaker 1: actually lowers our vibration and lowers it quite a bit.
- 10:20Speaker 1: Let me go back to my example as a plate.
- 10:23Speaker 1: And interestingly, now that I'm thinking about, it's all around money.
- 10:27Speaker 1: But you know that's my bugaboo in this lifetime. It
- 10:32Speaker 1: was Sunday, this past Sunday, and I had brought in
- 10:39Speaker 1: a certain amount of money and I was a little
- 10:42Speaker 1: short from the goal that I had set and I
- 10:44Speaker 1: was like, oh, and I was so short, it was
- 10:46Speaker 1: like dollars, like literally dollars. And I was like, oh,
- 10:49Speaker 1: of course something else has to come in. Just looking
- 10:51Speaker 1: at this, that means something else is definitely coming in.
- 10:54Speaker 1: Something else is definitely coming in. And so on the
- 10:58Speaker 1: same day, I've said on this program, I'm big Dave
- 11:01Speaker 1: Matthews band fan, and I did not go to show
- 11:05Speaker 1: here in La the previous week because it was an
- 11:08Speaker 1: indoor arena and I just I just couldn't do it.
- 11:13Speaker 1: There were some other factors involved, but that was the
- 11:15Speaker 1: main one. Was like, this is gonna be a lot
- 11:18Speaker 1: of work to get to a to get there with
- 11:20Speaker 1: the traffic and travel, but more so I'm like, what
- 11:24Speaker 1: am I doing? I don't want to be in an
- 11:26Speaker 1: indoor tight arena. It's just not my vibe.
- 11:29Speaker 2: You know.
- 11:30Speaker 1: I'm still I'm still very COVID safe and respiratory safe,
- 11:36Speaker 1: and so I was bummed, you know, I was bummed
- 11:40Speaker 1: that didn't come together. I was bummed that, you know,
- 11:42Speaker 1: I think if some other parts had been like just
- 11:45Speaker 1: so perfectly lined up, I would have probably still gone
- 11:48Speaker 1: and just masked. Though I wasn't excited about that either
- 11:51Speaker 1: because in the Bay Area, while I didn't want mine
- 11:55Speaker 1: so much, wearing a mask in public in La is
- 12:00Speaker 1: hot as how and I am finding that the mask
- 12:03Speaker 1: is really uncomfortable. And so now I'm giving you this
- 12:07Speaker 1: stard bar. I'm now a lot more sympathetic to people
- 12:09Speaker 1: that were complaining about that when you know, in the
- 12:12Speaker 1: height of the pandemic, the one of their complaints was,
- 12:15Speaker 1: you know, the heat and wearing a mask. But I
- 12:18Speaker 1: didn't know because the brea is, you know, especially I
- 12:21Speaker 1: was living in Oakland, it doesn't get over seventy five,
- 12:24Speaker 1: so it didn't really affect me. But now I'm like, oh, yeah,
- 12:29Speaker 1: it's not comfortable to be in a mask, you know,
- 12:33Speaker 1: in ninety five degree weather and it was I'm pretty
- 12:37Speaker 1: sure it was one hundred on the day of the show.
- 12:39Speaker 1: So I wind up not going to the show, and
- 12:41Speaker 1: then I thought about, Okay, what if I focused my
- 12:44Speaker 1: energy and pulled some resources together and just flew to
- 12:47Speaker 1: one of the next shows because they're at the end
- 12:49Speaker 1: of the tour. By the time they get to California,
- 12:51Speaker 1: they're at the end of the tour, and so they
- 12:54Speaker 1: only had one show in Mountain View, which I just
- 12:59Speaker 1: thought was the next day, and I knew I couldn't
- 13:01Speaker 1: get it together to go the next day back up
- 13:04Speaker 1: to the Bay Area because I just been up to
- 13:06Speaker 1: the Bay Area for the family reunion. And then there
- 13:11Speaker 1: was a show that, you know, after the weekend, there
- 13:15Speaker 1: was going to be a show in Tahoe, and so
- 13:17Speaker 1: I started like researching, like how I could do it
- 13:19Speaker 1: and how and I mean that one couldn't. I mean
- 13:22Speaker 1: I was piecing everything together for that to happen, and
- 13:26Speaker 1: it just wasn't. And it finally came down to something, Oh,
- 13:29Speaker 1: I haven't gotten my real ID yet, I haven't traveled,
- 13:32Speaker 1: so I just haven't thought about it, you know, and
- 13:36Speaker 1: I'm not up for renewal. So I was just I
- 13:38Speaker 1: haven't thought about it, so that took that one out
- 13:41Speaker 1: of the running. So after I had played with all
- 13:43Speaker 1: of that and like tried, I was kind of bummed
- 13:46Speaker 1: that it just didn't come together. And I was making
- 13:48Speaker 1: it mean something about me that here it is, have
- 13:51Speaker 1: gone to forty plus Dave shows and I couldn't get
- 13:53Speaker 1: finally get to a show this year, and so how
- 13:59Speaker 1: good is God? They winded up announcing that they were
- 14:04Speaker 1: live streaming one of the shows from the Gorge for
- 14:08Speaker 1: Labor Day weekend. This was this Sunday, this past Sunday,
- 14:12Speaker 1: and I was like, how amazing is that? That's totally
- 14:15Speaker 1: my vibe because I mean a live stream show is
- 14:17Speaker 1: just as good to me, and so you know, I
- 14:22Speaker 1: was like so pumped. So back to Sunday, I'm you know,
- 14:26Speaker 1: I'm getting and getting my life kind of in order
- 14:29Speaker 1: so I can just watch the show for that time.
- 14:31Speaker 1: And I mean I really watched it. I danced and
- 14:34Speaker 1: stuff and you know, have my refreshments and really enjoy
- 14:37Speaker 1: the experience like I'm there, And but I was so
- 14:41Speaker 1: focused on this last little bit of my goal. I
- 14:44Speaker 1: was like, I cannot believe that this hasn't come through.
- 14:46Speaker 1: I can't believe it hadn't come through, and I realized
- 14:51Speaker 1: that here it was the show I wanted to be,
- 14:53Speaker 1: you know, to be in attendance too, and been sad
- 14:56Speaker 1: that I couldn't go. And then spirit opened the door
- 14:58Speaker 1: so I could actually feel like I was attending the
- 15:01Speaker 1: tour this year. And I spent half the show just
- 15:06Speaker 1: upset and pissed that I haven't hit this goal, and
- 15:09Speaker 1: more so sad Like anytime I'm pissed, underneath it's always sadness, really,
- 15:15Speaker 1: and so finally I forced myself, I forced myself out
- 15:21Speaker 1: of it. I was like, no, and so then I
- 15:24Speaker 1: wind up, you know, pretty much kind of you know,
- 15:27Speaker 1: getting back into the show and enjoying it. And then
- 15:30Speaker 1: I had some revelations about, you know, the state of
- 15:32Speaker 1: Dude Matthews band. You know, they're not the same band anymore,
- 15:35Speaker 1: if you know, if you're familiar with them, they have
- 15:38Speaker 1: rotated a couple of major members of the band, one
- 15:43Speaker 1: died and one that they parted ways. And so I'm
- 15:47Speaker 1: finding I was finding that I didn't enjoy it as much.
- 15:51Speaker 1: You know, I love I love the horn session section
- 15:54Speaker 1: that they have now, but without the without boyd, the violinists,
- 16:00Speaker 1: and I get that they have like a whole you
- 16:02Speaker 1: know that he's got some messiness that it has nothing
- 16:05Speaker 1: to do with his personality and his outside the band life,
- 16:09Speaker 1: but him not playing, it's not as exciting, and I
- 16:17Speaker 1: had to really come to terms with that, and I'm like, wow,
- 16:20Speaker 1: I mean, this spirit has been orchestrating all of this,
- 16:22Speaker 1: so I can see things differently. And so I'm sharing
- 16:27Speaker 1: this with you in this long drawn out story to say,
- 16:33Speaker 1: oftentimes we're living in a state of mind and an
- 16:37Speaker 1: approach a perception that in this reading I did for
- 16:40Speaker 1: myself yesterday where this car letting Gokard came up, the
- 16:44Speaker 1: theme was perception. Sometimes we're living in a perception that
- 16:48Speaker 1: is dated, and then we're taking that energy into the
- 16:53Speaker 1: way in which our present day desires need to unfold,
- 16:57Speaker 1: and so we can create a lot of anger for
- 17:00Speaker 1: ourselves and not even realize it. And that anguish is
- 17:04Speaker 1: the energy that is blocking our desire from manifesting and deform.
- 17:09Speaker 1: So you may also be bumping up against the law
- 17:14Speaker 1: of vibration, and that means that every thought, every feeling
- 17:18Speaker 1: carries a vibration that attracts more of the same. So
- 17:21Speaker 1: when your vibration is dominated by anxiety, fear, desperation, anguish,
- 17:27Speaker 1: pissed offness because you didn't get what you want or
- 17:29Speaker 1: it didn't happen the way you want, you're not cooperating
- 17:34Speaker 1: with the frequency of the desire. Cooperation looks like faith,
- 17:39Speaker 1: it looks like humility, It looks like appreciation, It looks
- 17:43Speaker 1: like trust. It looks like being grateful for what is
- 17:51Speaker 1: present and giving your attention to that while being open
- 17:56Speaker 1: to more. And it means aligning that vibration with joy
- 18:02Speaker 1: and happiness and passion, and then letting the universe arrange
- 18:07Speaker 1: the timing and the details. It means saying I have
- 18:11Speaker 1: done my part, and now I'm allowing spirit to do
- 18:14Speaker 1: their part, which is again the whole essence of surrender.
- 18:19Speaker 1: And it can feel really weird when it's something you
- 18:22Speaker 1: really want. Catherine Ponder reminds us, when you release the lesser,
- 18:27Speaker 1: you make room for the greater. So what I've noticed
- 18:31Speaker 1: in this state of desiring something deeply that's right for us,
- 18:36Speaker 1: and doing everything in our power to be a vibrational
- 18:40Speaker 1: match to it, to allow it in taking the action,
- 18:44Speaker 1: doing our spiritual practice, doing our energetic practices, and then
- 18:50Speaker 1: we start to shift into the energy of focusing on
- 18:53Speaker 1: why is it not here yet? It can create a stuckness,
- 18:59Speaker 1: and that's energy often shows up most intensely when we
- 19:03Speaker 1: want something badly, and so we grip so tightly to
- 19:08Speaker 1: that desire that we can't see clearly. So it's like
- 19:12Speaker 1: we're staring at a single tree and forgetting about the
- 19:14Speaker 1: entire forest. Sometimes that stuck energy is a sign that
- 19:20Speaker 1: change is needed, and it's and when you really really
- 19:25Speaker 1: want something. I'm talking to people who who have desires.
- 19:28Speaker 1: They they've done enough work on themselves that they're choosing
- 19:31Speaker 1: desires that are a match to who they really are.
- 19:33Speaker 1: They feel they've been listening to their soul as to
- 19:36Speaker 1: the direction of their life. When we hear change, we think, oh, well,
- 19:42Speaker 1: that does that mean I can't have what I want?
- 19:44Speaker 1: And that can create a really deep, deep sense of
- 19:48Speaker 1: longing and pain, and that can trigger this stuckness, right,
- 19:54Speaker 1: and so we're unwilling to consider all possibilities in the moment.
- 20:00Speaker 1: So that stuck energy is a sign that, yes, change
- 20:04Speaker 1: is needed, but it does not mean that you will
- 20:09Speaker 1: not get what you want. It might mean you have
- 20:11Speaker 1: to try a different approach, You have to shift, change
- 20:14Speaker 1: your energetic states so it matches the desire. It might
- 20:18Speaker 1: mean you need to soften your grip and then ultimately
- 20:22Speaker 1: shift your energy so that what you want can come in.
- 20:27Speaker 1: The fear is often if I let go, I will
- 20:30Speaker 1: lose this completely. And if you're there, I'm sending so
- 20:35Speaker 1: much love to you. I know what that's like. I
- 20:38Speaker 1: know what that's like. We are high level manifestors, so
- 20:41Speaker 1: it can feel like, oh my god, I'm losing a
- 20:44Speaker 1: part of myself because our desires are a part of us.
- 20:47Speaker 1: But that's not really what's going on. The truth is,
- 20:51Speaker 1: letting go makes you more receptive, you know. Going back
- 20:56Speaker 1: to Catherine Pond, she teaches often that you know, she's
- 20:59Speaker 1: really being into releasing and cleaning and letting go of
- 21:04Speaker 1: emotional hurt and pain so that you can welcome in
- 21:07Speaker 1: what you want, because when you create that vacuum, what
- 21:10Speaker 1: you desire can come in. When you're gripping super tightly,
- 21:13Speaker 1: you're unwilling to let go. You don't give the universe
- 21:18Speaker 1: space to bring in what you want. So you're not
- 21:23Speaker 1: surrendering your dream, you are surrendering your need to control
- 21:27Speaker 1: how and when it arrives, which can seal one more time.
- 21:32Speaker 1: Really weird because if it's a desire of your heart,
- 21:37Speaker 1: naturally you're going to think about how it fits into
- 21:39Speaker 1: the greater scheme of your life. And naturally, since we're
- 21:42Speaker 1: human beings on this time in this time space reality
- 21:46Speaker 1: who invented time? We have calendars and things telling us
- 21:50Speaker 1: that things need to be a certain way at a
- 21:52Speaker 1: certain time. So it's so easy to be like, well,
- 21:56Speaker 1: where is it? Where is it? I've got life to live,
- 21:58Speaker 1: I've got other things I want to do, Oh, why
- 22:00Speaker 1: isn't here yet? And recently I was doing some research
- 22:04Speaker 1: on the energy of overflow and spiritual overflow, and one
- 22:11Speaker 1: of the messages that came forward was that often spiritual overflow,
- 22:16Speaker 1: really tapping into overflow is trusting that spirit knows all.
- 22:20Speaker 2: The timing, and that timing might be at that final moment, right,
- 22:26Speaker 2: And so if that's the case, we have to hold
- 22:30Speaker 2: the energy until that final moment because chances are here are.
- 22:34Speaker 1: My thoughts when I think of this, if we despair
- 22:40Speaker 1: right because it's not happening in the timing that we want,
- 22:45Speaker 1: And let's just say, the universe is gonna throw us
- 22:48Speaker 1: a bone and we're gonna get what we want if
- 22:52Speaker 1: we're in the state of noticing the lack and like
- 22:55Speaker 1: it should have happened here and it should have been here.
- 22:59Speaker 1: And I've seen this my own life. When something finally
- 23:01Speaker 1: comes through, it's almost like I don't even know what
- 23:04Speaker 1: to do with it. This happens for me with big payments.
- 23:09Speaker 1: When I'm really expecting to close a piece of business,
- 23:13Speaker 1: I may not know where it's coming from. But when
- 23:15Speaker 1: I'm really expecting to close a piece of business, I'm
- 23:18Speaker 1: sensing it, I'm working towards it, and it doesn't happen
- 23:22Speaker 1: in the timing that I suspect. It maybe happens two
- 23:25Speaker 1: days later, and that I mean, it's like chronic for me.
- 23:28Speaker 1: I wind up not even using the money in the
- 23:32Speaker 1: way that I said I would. And I'm being really
- 23:35Speaker 1: transparent here because I want to support you if you're
- 23:39Speaker 1: going through this, And so I think you know how
- 23:43Speaker 1: it was able to come through is that I held
- 23:45Speaker 1: the energy so long that and I was such intensity
- 23:49Speaker 1: that it could still manifest even though I'd already moved
- 23:52Speaker 1: into Oh, you know, you know, I'm frustrated right erra road.
- 23:58Speaker 1: Last year, I had been expecting to close the big
- 24:04Speaker 1: piece of business, and I was frustrated, and then I
- 24:08Speaker 1: winded up. My mom was still alive, and she was like,
- 24:11Speaker 1: you want to go to lunch, And so I wind
- 24:12Speaker 1: up going to lunch with her, and I was just
- 24:16Speaker 1: the shittiest company looking back on it, like, I mean,
- 24:20Speaker 1: obviously she tolerated me, but I mean I was just
- 24:24Speaker 1: shitty company. And I was grumbling about just life and whatever.
- 24:31Speaker 1: And you know, my mom had her own storyline going
- 24:33Speaker 1: on too, and so we wound up parting ways. And
- 24:36Speaker 1: I was heading home and I had pulled over to
- 24:39Speaker 1: get some gas, and I wound up looking at my
- 24:42Speaker 1: phone and I wasn't expecting a particular payment, was not
- 24:47Speaker 1: expecting a particular payment at all, and there winded up
- 24:50Speaker 1: I wound up closing a big piece of business. I
- 24:52Speaker 1: was like, God, I just was shitty company with my mom.
- 24:56Speaker 1: I just wasted like a good half a day being
- 25:00Speaker 1: you know, obnoxious. And I remember that month, you know,
- 25:05Speaker 1: and I just kind of didn't even know what to
- 25:07Speaker 1: do with the money, you know, like of course, like I,
- 25:10Speaker 1: you know, you can't carry your responsibilities and stuff. But
- 25:13Speaker 1: I just I look back on that time and I
- 25:15Speaker 1: was like, God, I could have been so much more
- 25:17Speaker 1: strategic if I had just held the faith and the
- 25:22Speaker 1: positivity that everything was going to come together at the
- 25:25Speaker 1: perfect coming, in the perfect way. So I hope all
- 25:28Speaker 1: these sidebar stories are helping you grasp the importance of
- 25:31Speaker 1: this message. So how do you shift your energy when
- 25:35Speaker 1: this is all going on? You shift it to something
- 25:39Speaker 1: that feels good right now. You shift it into something
- 25:44Speaker 1: that feels good right now. So you know, if I'm
- 25:48Speaker 1: returning back to Sunday where I'm like, oh, I'm so sure,
- 25:51Speaker 1: and I well, I'm just a little bit short, I
- 25:53Speaker 1: know something else is gonna close. If I had just
- 25:55Speaker 1: been in the piece of enjoying the concert, I mean,
- 26:00Speaker 1: I gone through the motions of it, you know, clean
- 26:03Speaker 1: my space, and I had my refreshments, and I was
- 26:06Speaker 1: down to dance and stuff, and I'd even gotten dressed
- 26:10Speaker 1: and clothed. I would have worn to the concerts so
- 26:12Speaker 1: I could feel like I was there, and then I
- 26:14Speaker 1: was just you know, a party pooper. I mean. But
- 26:20Speaker 1: so looking back on my experience, if I had just
- 26:22Speaker 1: said like, hey, you're good, and I was, I was good,
- 26:27Speaker 1: It's all going to come together, and just enjoyed the concert,
- 26:33Speaker 1: that would have been the energy that would have created
- 26:35Speaker 1: the result, if you know, going back to that lunch story,
- 26:39Speaker 1: if I had just been like, hey, I've done everything
- 26:41Speaker 1: I can. Yes, I want to close a big piece
- 26:45Speaker 1: of business right this month, and I have no idea
- 26:49Speaker 1: how it's going to come through, when it's going to
- 26:50Speaker 1: come through. I'm just going to go and enjoy my mom.
- 26:55Speaker 1: I'm just going to enjoy this lunch. Right. If I
- 26:57Speaker 1: had just I'm going to enjoy the draw to the restaurant, right,
- 27:02Speaker 1: that that is how you start to shift the energy.
- 27:05Speaker 1: So you move your attention away from oh no, I
- 27:08Speaker 1: have to let go into just feeling good. So you
- 27:12Speaker 1: choose activities that raise your vibration, and you choose a mindset,
- 27:18Speaker 1: a way of thinking, a way of seeing your world
- 27:21Speaker 1: that supports your desire. So that's when you lean into
- 27:29Speaker 1: gratitude and enjoy and creativity and connection and rest and service.
- 27:34Speaker 1: And I want to say this again because I got
- 27:36Speaker 1: a lot to say on this, because I'm a practice
- 27:40Speaker 1: in person. I hope you can hear that I'm a
- 27:42Speaker 1: person that these aren't just concepts to me. I love
- 27:46Speaker 1: this stuff. And so when I think about what I'm
- 27:51Speaker 1: in that state where I'm bummed at whatever I want
- 27:54Speaker 1: hasn't shown up. And I had a timing in mind,
- 27:57Speaker 1: and I had a way in mind, and spirits not
- 28:00Speaker 1: listening to me. I can joke, like I joke with
- 28:02Speaker 1: my family, I'm like, yeah, Spirit's not doing doing it
- 28:06Speaker 1: my way, like you know, and and they get what
- 28:09Speaker 1: I mean because I know Spirit's not going to do
- 28:11Speaker 1: it my way. Right. If if I could just move
- 28:17Speaker 1: out of the frustration of that and move into gratitude,
- 28:24Speaker 1: that is such a high level of faith. That's like
- 28:28Speaker 1: Jesus on the blind man level of faith when you
- 28:31Speaker 1: can really choose to still believe even though nothing is
- 28:39Speaker 1: shown up to support that belief. That is the faith
- 28:43Speaker 1: that Spirit wants us to have as human beings. So
- 28:47Speaker 1: the act of shifting your vibration into joy and creativity
- 28:51Speaker 1: and connection and rest and service when you're in this
- 28:55Speaker 1: state of where's my fricking desire God, and hey, they're
- 29:00Speaker 1: needed to show up this way man, that to make
- 29:05Speaker 1: that pivot high high, high level of faith, tremendous amount
- 29:09Speaker 1: of practice and a tremendous amount of trust that God
- 29:14Speaker 1: is one hundred percent on our side. So you shift
- 29:18Speaker 1: your attention to what nourishes you in the present moment,
- 29:22Speaker 1: and it does two things. First, it brings relief from
- 29:26Speaker 1: the pressure of holding on too tightly, and second it
- 29:29Speaker 1: puts you into the frequency of receiving and that is
- 29:32Speaker 1: the state of instant manifestation. But it is really difficult
- 29:39Speaker 1: when you're playing a hive level to shift that energy around.
- 29:42Speaker 1: And so if you can start to really do it, no,
- 29:47Speaker 1: you are mastering faith for yourself in this lifetime and
- 29:51Speaker 1: then you can create anything. So your only task is
- 29:54Speaker 1: to stay open, to stay optimistic, to stay willing, and
- 29:58Speaker 1: allow life to unfold in its write order. And that
- 30:01Speaker 1: includes continuing to take action. I'm going to keep saying
- 30:04Speaker 1: that to you because it's a message that keeps coming up.
- 30:08Speaker 1: You got to keep taking action. So, especially if you've
- 30:11Speaker 1: taken a lot of action, or you think you've taken
- 30:14Speaker 1: the action you were inspired to take, keep going, keep
- 30:18Speaker 1: being receptive, keep being willing, to move towards the desire.
- 30:23Speaker 1: Because as you move towards the desire, Spirit's going to
- 30:26Speaker 1: meet you halfway. But if you quit and say, well, Spirit,
- 30:29Speaker 1: now you've got to show up, Spirit's like, ah, that's
- 30:32Speaker 1: not the way I work. And you're in a stalemate.
- 30:38Speaker 1: So you've got to keep forward and keep moving towards
- 30:42Speaker 1: what you want and doing things that bring you joy.
- 30:46Speaker 1: And while you do that, you allow spirit to rearrange
- 30:49Speaker 1: the larger pieces. This manifestation game is not just cheesy
- 30:59Speaker 1: Instagram is it now? This is this is real shit,
- 31:03Speaker 1: all right. Let's talk about an offer that I never
- 31:09Speaker 1: thought it would offer it publicly. For the last fifteen years,
- 31:14Speaker 1: I've been doing sessions. I started as a session coach,
- 31:19Speaker 1: single session intuitive coach and reading psychic energy for people,
- 31:24Speaker 1: and I still do that, you know, I still do that,
- 31:27Speaker 1: but a lot of my business is package working with
- 31:32Speaker 1: people over a period of time. But I have quite
- 31:35Speaker 1: a few clients that use I created this special session
- 31:40Speaker 1: and I've just been doing you know, every month, I
- 31:43Speaker 1: kind of send out not kind of, I definitely send
- 31:45Speaker 1: out emails to people that use this service. It's as
- 31:50Speaker 1: I call it, the special Session. I don't know a
- 31:53Speaker 1: fancy name for it, but it's essentially returning to my
- 31:57Speaker 1: roots as a intuitive coach with strong psychic leanings and
- 32:04Speaker 1: what I found when I first started reading energy for
- 32:07Speaker 1: people that it was a safe space for them to
- 32:09Speaker 1: talk through things. And so I have it framed in
- 32:15Speaker 1: thirty minute increments and it's great. People love this. They
- 32:20Speaker 1: love the service. My clients love the service in the
- 32:23Speaker 1: sense that they can do thirty minutes, or they can
- 32:26Speaker 1: do two hours, or they can do two hours and
- 32:28Speaker 1: then come back in a half hour and talk to
- 32:31Speaker 1: me again. And it's a really very accessible service called
- 32:37Speaker 1: the Special Session. And so now I'm going to offer
- 32:40Speaker 1: it publicly for the first time ever. So if you
- 32:44Speaker 1: are ready, you're ready for something, or you are contemplating something,
- 32:51Speaker 1: or if you're trying to make a decision, or there's
- 32:53Speaker 1: something going on and you want some energetic insight. Maybe
- 32:58Speaker 1: things have gotten funky at work, maybe something's going on
- 33:01Speaker 1: with the family, and you want psychic insight that's not
- 33:05Speaker 1: just cards, but also really high level personal development, coaching,
- 33:12Speaker 1: healing practices. I mean, I do it all in the
- 33:15Speaker 1: special session. There's no limit to what you can do
- 33:22Speaker 1: in this session. And so if you're looking for that,
- 33:27Speaker 1: then I would like to invite you to the Special Session.
- 33:31Speaker 1: And a special session is an intuitive coaching experience, and
- 33:36Speaker 1: you will receive high quality psychic guidance. This is where
- 33:41Speaker 1: I get to really get in there and do beautiful
- 33:44Speaker 1: psychic work. You will receive personal development guidance, energetic insights.
- 33:52Speaker 1: You get to have a conversation right. It's very comforting
- 33:57Speaker 1: and in support of this session, and I swear to
- 34:02Speaker 1: people love it like this. I'm so shocked I haven't
- 34:05Speaker 1: offered it publicly, but it sparput in my heart. So
- 34:10Speaker 1: for the month of September, it is open to new clients,
- 34:15Speaker 1: or if you're listening to this and you've never done
- 34:17Speaker 1: a special session, you've known me, it's open to you
- 34:21Speaker 1: because I only do it privately. I send emails privately,
- 34:24Speaker 1: one to one, and I mainly send it to the
- 34:27Speaker 1: people who've already bought it. So these sessions can give
- 34:31Speaker 1: you the clarity, it can help you shift energy. It
- 34:33Speaker 1: can be a comfort as you're moving through something. It
- 34:37Speaker 1: can help you get back on track. It can help
- 34:40Speaker 1: you shift into a new thing. Many times people use
- 34:45Speaker 1: a special session when they're changing jobs, when they've hit
- 34:49Speaker 1: their frustration point and they know they need to make
- 34:51Speaker 1: a change as they're moving through transition. And I love
- 34:57Speaker 1: this service because it's not a package, and so people
- 35:01Speaker 1: can come and go as they please and as they need.
- 35:03Speaker 1: So you know, I have clients who they show up
- 35:07Speaker 1: again when they're going through their divorce, or they show
- 35:09Speaker 1: up again when they're buying their house, or they show
- 35:11Speaker 1: up again when they are looking for love or navigating
- 35:19Speaker 1: a breakup. So this session is multi purpose. There's no
- 35:25Speaker 1: limit again, no limit to what you can do in
- 35:27Speaker 1: the Special Session because it's special. And so if you
- 35:32Speaker 1: feel called, if you're listening to me and you're like, yeah,
- 35:35Speaker 1: that's what I want to do. I really want to
- 35:38Speaker 1: I want to talk to any about this issue in
- 35:40Speaker 1: my life right now. You can do it in thirty
- 35:42Speaker 1: minute increments. It's ninety dollars for thirty minutes. And again
- 35:47Speaker 1: there's no limit. You know, I've had people talk to
- 35:51Speaker 1: me for four hours. You know, it's still thirty minutes,
- 35:53Speaker 1: you know, increments. But it's no limit on what you
- 35:57Speaker 1: can do with the session and how it can support you. Soon,
- 36:00Speaker 1: no matter what you're going through, this session can be
- 36:02Speaker 1: of service to you. So the Special Session first time
- 36:05Speaker 1: I've ever opened it up to the public. You can
- 36:09Speaker 1: visit my website, Intuitive Coaching with Amy dot com. You're
- 36:11Speaker 1: going to see that it is in the header there.
- 36:16Speaker 1: It's the special for this month and it is actually
- 36:20Speaker 1: replacing the email Intuitive Coaching Reading and the Intuitive my
- 36:25Speaker 1: you know, my flagship Intuitive Coaching session for this month.
- 36:29Speaker 1: So it is a wonderful way to gain everything you
- 36:34Speaker 1: need spiritually, so that you can do everything you came
- 36:37Speaker 1: to this planet to do, and you can do it
- 36:39Speaker 1: in thirty minute increments. If you just want to get
- 36:42Speaker 1: a quick question, you can use this session. So special
- 36:46Speaker 1: session all of September open to everyone. All right, Intuitive
- 36:54Speaker 1: Coaching Withamy dot Com. Now we're gonna wrap, So I
- 36:58Speaker 1: want you to remember this. Letting go is not giving up.
- 37:03Speaker 1: It's making space for the universe to deliver in new
- 37:06Speaker 1: ways that surprise you. We're always growing and sometimes our
- 37:12Speaker 1: mind doesn't realize we've maybe grown, and we need to
- 37:18Speaker 1: elevate our approach, our energetic state so that what we
- 37:22Speaker 1: want can come in. And this is different than just
- 37:25Speaker 1: letting go of what doesn't serve us. This is refining,
- 37:30Speaker 1: right And going back to me at my little streaming
- 37:33Speaker 1: Dave show, it was a refining moment, right. So stay open,
- 37:40Speaker 1: please stay optimistic, don't give up. Take inspired action, take
- 37:45Speaker 1: inspired action, take inspired action, and trust that life is
- 37:49Speaker 1: unfolding in its right order. Thank you so much for
- 37:53Speaker 1: listening to this show. I look forward to connecting with
- 37:55Speaker 1: you on the next,