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Episode 6 - You Minding Your Own Business When Comes Doing You Own Thing. · You Minding Your Own Business

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  podcasts it ain't even funny. Right now, I am taking a typing test
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  and tryna brush up on my skills here, and while I'm doing that,
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  I figured I will talk to y'all while I'm sitting here. So I hope
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  you guys are having a great day. I am so I'm multitasking, so
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  if I seem a little out of it, then just forgive me. I'm
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  just trying to do this thing and I realize I have to work on typing,
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  so I decided I don't want to do a typing terist. So anyway,
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  I hope you guys are doing well. I'm doing good, but let's
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  talk about my minding your own business showering. A lot of y'all too busy
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  in somebody else's business. Y'all too bitch, trying to look like somebody,
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  act like somebody, walk like somebody, talk like somebody. Like the gorilla
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  in the Jungle Book. It is too many of y'all that are worrying about
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  what somebody else got going on versus worrying about yourself. You shouldn't even worry
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  about what somebody else got going on and worry about yourself at the end of
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  the day. The fact that you're going to sit up here and worry about
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  things that really don't matter, and things that that when you look back,
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  you're gonna be like, why in the world did I even try to be
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  like this person? It doesn't make any sense, I know, and it
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  don't for me when I look back and I look at situations, I'm just
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  like, I cannot believe I set up here and I did all this stuff
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  that ain't even worth me and been around people that I should never have been
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  around the first place. So that's why I'm saying, you're sitting here worrying
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  about the wrong things that don't even matter. So when it comes down to
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  you minding your own business, it's about recovering from being a people pleaser.
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  You're worrying about everybody else and too much of somebody else's business. You're somebody
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  that don't like yourself, so you better look like everybody else but yourself.
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  So that's why I tell people, y'all worrying about the wrong things that don't
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  matter. You're gonna have people that's not gonna like you. That's just the
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  way it is. There's no way around that. You can't get away from
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  negative people. The way you can get around the negative people is if you
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  never leave the house and never go nowhere, and never go on social media.
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  Other than that, you're gonna be dealing with them. Even if you
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  go shopping, you gonna see somebody having something to say. Even if you
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  are excuse me, just have to be out to a movie there, you
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  gonna see something crazy. That's just the way it is. Unfortunately, so
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  the fact that you got people out here that want to look like somebody else
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  and act like somebody else and thaint like somebody else. That's not exactly the
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  way to go me personally. I wouldn't even be worried about any of these
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  people as far as you know, trying to look like somebody else and trying
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  to be like somebody else. I'm just trying to be me, and I
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  mean, I just that's just that's how I look at it. So a
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  lot of people are on some well, I just wanna be and fit in
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  fit into what. I'm not trying to fit into nothing. At the end
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  of the day, I'm gonna do what I feel is right for me.
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  It's just like when I decided to be celibant. It was for a number
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  of different reasons, but it was mainly because I got tired of dealing with
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  the same type of men who were treating me the same type of way.
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  So I just don't want to do that anymore. I don't wanna deal with
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  any more men who can't understand, you know, who I am as a
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  person, don't want to get to know me. So no, I'm not
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  trying to do none of that. I'm just trying to be with somebody who
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  I feel really likes me, really care about me as a person. What
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  I've learned is I'm letting God bring people in my life. I'm letting God
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  lead me in the direction that I'm meant to and and supposed to be in.
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  I'm working on my health and wellness. I'm not worried about the stuff
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  y'all worried about. I'm not worried about buying a million dollar house or a
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  million dollar car. I'm not trying to do none of that. I just
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  want a simple life. Only want money for health reasons, and health reasons
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  only. That is it. That is all. Other than that, I
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  don't want money for any other reason except when I need something. Not when
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  I want something, but when I need something. That is the only time
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  that I really want to be able to have those things, when it is
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  something that I need. Other than that, No, So if I'm sitting
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  up here talking about, well, y'all talking about, well, don't you
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  wanna have all this stuff? No, that stuff is not going with me
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  when I pass away. The only thing that's going with me is myself.
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  So I'm not sitting up here worried about the fact that I have a million
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  dollar car. No, I'm fifty at this point. At this point,
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  the only thing I wanna do is have money to travel. All I wanna
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  do is have money is I can be able to do the things I wanna
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  do as far as traveling and you know, just enjoying the world. That's
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  about it. Other than that, No, ain't trying to do none of
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  that. I don't want to sit up here and do something that I'm gonna
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  end up regretting later. I'm not trying to be in situations where I'm worried
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  about everybody else and worried about what everybody else is doing when I just sit
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  and sit up here and just do for myself. So that's just where I'm
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  at right now. So I'm just doing things that are based upon my health.
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  That's it. And whatever it's meant for me to do, that's gonna
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  help others alone my journey of recovery as far as health, health is the
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  most important thing to me. So let me give you an example of why
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  I'm mind my own business. I'm not worried about these celebrities. And celebrities
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  make enough money and they make more money than I could ever ever ever make,
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  to be honest. So the fact that these people make way more money
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  than what I can make. I am not worried about them. I'm not
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  worried about them at all. All I want is just to be able to
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  have money and be happy. So that's it. That's absolutely all. So
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  I'm not trying to sit up here and be like, well I want to
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  be like this person. No, I want to be like anybody else but
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  me, that's all. So I just want people to understand that if it
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  ain't about my health and wellness, I care nothing about it. If it
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  ain't something that's gonna make me better, I don't wanna care nothing about it.
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  So a lot of people think, oh, well, don't you get
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  lonely? Not really, I'd rather be alone to be unhappy. And the
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  way people be act the nowadays, I r I especially would rather be alone
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  than be unhappy. So a lot of people be like, well, what
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  about you know, paying your bills. I pay my own bills. I'm
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  not waiting for somebody to pay my own to pay my bills. I pay
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  my own bills. So I'm not even worried about that. I'm like,
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  y'all, I'm not worried about none of that. It don't even matter to
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  me, what matters is that I'm happy. What matters that I work hard
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  to be the best version of myself. What matters is I stay in my
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  own lane, and I figured out what my lane is. So it's a
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  lot of people that are coming to the realization that their whole life has been
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  a lie and they've wasted so many times, so much time on so many
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  people. They realize that the people who they were friends with they actually never
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  had nothing in common with. They realized the men that they gave their bodies
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  to wasn't even worth it. All the stuff that I went through, all
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  the stuff I gave away, I could have kept in my god for sake
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  and pocket. So a lot of people are just in the in a particular
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  place where they're not gonna sit up here and worry about other people and stuff
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  like that. They're more so on some I'm gonna do what is best for
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  me and what makes me happy. You ain't gotta like what it is that
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  I'm doing, but it ain't for you. But what's even more crazy is
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  when you got people sitting up here talking about you and don't even know you.
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  It's amazing when you got people sitting up here talking about you and don't
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  even know anything about you as far as you know anything, as far as
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  your life and what you went through. They don't know anything. But you
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  have a lot of people think they do. You have a lot of people
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  that sit up here and try to say, oh, you did this and
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  you did that based on what what you think. So a lot of people
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  get mad at me because I really don't care about what people think about me.
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  I don't. I just like having a peace and quiet life where I'm
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  able to just have my peace, my quiet, and my tranquility, and
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  that's it. I care nothing about this other stuff. I don't. So
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  when you mind your own business, it means that you may look at something
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  and sometimes you may even respond to it because you just feel like you want
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  to respond to it. But you don't care about the comments. You don't
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  care if somebody nat or got something to say. You don't care about being
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  fired. You don't care about none of that because at the end of the
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  day, you know that this to be expected, so you're like, Okay,
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  well this stuff happens, let me go ahead and move on to something
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  else. So you have a lot of people that's just like, I'm not
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  gonna sit up here and worry about anybody but myself. So I'm not gonna
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  sit up here and worry about who don't like me, who don't care about
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  me. So you can do whatever it is that you feel that you won't
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  too, cause I don't care, honestly. So a lot of people think
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  that, Oh my god, you know I I don't see how you do
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  it. I don't see how a lot of people just mess with people that
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  ain't even worth them. How in the world can you stay with somebody that's
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  sitting up here treating you like trash and still continue to stay with'em.
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  So a lot of people don't understand that some people are just like, Okay,
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  I'm gonna do what's best for me. I'm gonna do what works for
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  me. I'm gonna do what makes me happy, and if you if whoever
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  likes it likes it, whoever don't don't. So I'm not worried about it.
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  You're sitting up here worried about the things that don't even matter to me
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  at this point. So a lot of people think, oh, you're just
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  somebody that you know, is just someone that just as miserable who says I'm
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  miserable. Who says I'm unhappy? Who says that being alone for me makes
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  me miserable. Who says that being chosen I really care about. Who says
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  that I feel bad because men don't choose me. Who says I feel bad
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  because other facts that I'd rather be alone to be unhappy. Who says that
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  I'm wrong, that I'm just doing what I feel is best for me.
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  So if I'm doing what's best for me and I'm not doing what everybody else
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  is doing, then why is it that I can't do what I feel is
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  best for me? So even though you may not like my choices, the
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  point is it's my choice. So I have the rights to tell people it's
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  okay to be alone. But you want to know why people don't want nobody
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  to tell nobody that because they don't want anybody to decide they want to be
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  alone, and they don't want to deal with the nonsense, and they don't
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  want people saying that you need to be alone to figure out what you can
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  do for yourself before you bring somebody else into your life, and that you
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  may feel that you want to deal with. So I'm just telling people,
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  don't bring nobody in your life that you really don't want to deal with.
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  There's no point of dealing with people like that. So I'm just telling you,
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  do what makes you happy, do what brings you joy, do what
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  you feel is best for you first, and then when you're where you want
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  to be, then you can decide who you want to bring into your world,
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  who you want to do with. So don't sit here and feel bad
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  because you see all these people that are married around you. You see all
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  these people that are sitting up here doing all this other stuff. Man,
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  I'm say something. I'm not sitting up here worried about none of that.
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  In all honesty, I'm just I'm just not. What I am concerned about
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  is my life and the life that I choose to do for me and mine.
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  So I'm not alone because I got a child, I got a parents,
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  and so I don't know why people keep thinking I'm alone, because I'm
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  not alone at all. So a lot of people think that, well,
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  you know, everybody should have a man. Now everybody's gonna have one.
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  That's the part y'all keep lying to people about telling people everybody gonna be a
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  man, everybody gonna have a man, And that's not true. I don't
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  know why y'all don't understand that. It's not true at all. Now everybody's
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  gonna have a man, some people are not gonna have a man at all.
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  So some people gonna have a man and some people are not. So
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  it just depends. So some people are not gonna be happy, some people
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  are. Some people just di ain't miserable somebody. Some people are just happy
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  all the time. Some people pretend like everything's okay and it's not okay,
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  and some other people will let people know everything's not okay. So I just
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  want people to understand it. Everybody's different. Everybody gonna do things differently no
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  matter what. So I just tell people, as long as you're doing what
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  makes you happy, that's all that matters. So as long as you're doing
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  what you feel works for you, that's all that matters. As long as
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  you're doing what you feel is what you feel is going to work for you,
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  then by all means, do what makes you happy. And if people
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  don't like it, then hey, they don't have to. What matters is
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  you like whatever it is that you're doing. So as long as you know
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  this is what I wanna do, then hey, I tell people. I
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  don't like the fact when people do that, they sit there try to tell
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  somebody you don't need to do this. How do you know what's gonna happen
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  if they do it? But then when somebody do something negative, y'all quit
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  to say go ahead on and do it. So it's always a crazy effect
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  that I don't even pay no attention to. So when I hear people say
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  well, you should do this, not necessarily, I'm not doing something that
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  I don't wanna do to more not no more. So I'm gonna do what's
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  best for me. I don't care if you don't like you, because I'm
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  not living my life for you. I'm living my life for me, and
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  that's all that matters. As long as I'm living my life for me,
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  that's the that's what matters. My philosophy now is I'm not bringing attention to
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  me like that. I'm not bringing the wrong attention to me. I'm just
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  not gonna do that. I'm not bringing all these crazy people into my world
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  that don't belong there. So if you don't belong there, then you don't
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  need to be there. So even though you may say, well, I
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  you know you should just give it a chance. Try that don't work for
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  me. So even though you may think it works for you, it doesn't
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  mean when it works for you is gonna work for me. So I understand
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  that for some people it's like, Okay, you're gonna get married. So
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  it's just like when I ask people what made you decide to get married and
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  why you have an these big old weddings, you have a lot of people
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  saying, well, you know, I just wanna be able to get married.
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  No, y'all get married for the weddings. You don't get married for
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  the fact that you really want to get married. You're getting married because the
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  fact that your friends are getting married, not because you want to get married.
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  So I asked women this one question, and I asked him, you
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  waited through all this trouble to get this man to marry you. Now a
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  sudden he asks you to marry him. Now you want to make him wait
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  two or three more years because you want to have a wedding. Then don't
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  you think that he needs to wait until you know what I'm saying, he's
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  ready as far as financially, y'all save up the money to have a wedding.
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  And then I ask people why can't y'all just go ahead and just go
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  to the just the piece and then have a wedding, you know, in
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  your tenth year anniversary, because then you know that y'all want to be together.
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  So a lot of people don't understand when I say that, why am
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  I? They think I'm mean for saying it, And I'm like, why
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  is it mean that I'm saying something that is actually the truth. So if
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  I'm telling you, okay, wait until you get you know, married a
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  few years and then say okay, let's get married, then go ahead and
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  let's you know, go ahead and have a big wedding because we've been together.
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  Our house is paid off and everything is paid off, so why not
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  just get married then? But a lot of people don't think like that.
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  They don't think like me. So a lot of people think, Okay,
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  I just gonna get married now and just wait. So, you know,
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  I just tell people do what makeshappen. But a lot of women can't answer
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  that question for me. They cannot answer why can't you go to the justice
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  piece and get married? Wait till your fifteenth anniversary and didn't get married,
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  why not wait then? Because then you know y'all gonna be together for a
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  while. Why have a big, gigantic wedding then get divorced four years later,
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  six months later. Now you wanna get divorced, why not just go
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  to Vegas, go to another country, get married, and just you know,
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  go from there. Cause that way you don't have to worry about,
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  you know, try trying to sit up here and deal with all of these
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  people in your business, and you gotta sit there and feed all these people,
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  which to me is stupid. So I don't really understand, you know,
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  why in the world with people want to do that. To me personally,
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  I'm not doing all that. I'm just not gonna do that. But
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  a lot of people wanna do that. So but I tell people, I
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  think it's more so about image and about what everybody else thinks versus just get
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  married and just to y'all and and let and just you know, when y'all
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  are waiting, you know, waiting a couple of years, and then get
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  married. But a lot of people don't wanna do it that way. They
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  want to sit up here and they wanna just go ahead and have everybody at
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  the house. And I'm like, uh, why do you wanna have everybody
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  at the house. So it is what it is. But that's just me.
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  I'm just a different breed of female. That's just how I think.
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  But for me, it's not about everybody else. If I get married,
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  nobody may not even know why I got married. I might get married and
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  might not tell nobody until I feel it's time for me to decide to tell
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  somebody. And then by then, when I get married and we've been married
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  for a long then I'm say me and him might say we're married. But
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  like I said, it ain't everybody business what it is that you do.
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  It's like when y'all get probations or whatever you get that's good in your life,
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  you want to go and tell somebody, And I'm like, why do
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  you want to tell somebody something that honestly ain't got nothing to do with them,
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  It's got everything to do with you. You're sitting up here saying that
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  you know, well I got this and I got that, okay, but
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  do you know that's when all these people start coming in here trying to get
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  what you have, and now you mad because somebody done took stuff from you,
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  and you wonder why, because you let this person in your house,
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  you let them come into your house and see everything that you have. So
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  now you're mad because the fact that we're telling you. Look, stop telling
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  everybody everything. And to give you an example of that, there was a
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  girl that went to dinner with some friends and the friends tried to poison her.
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  And if it wasn't for this young man saying something about it, she
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  would have been dead. Luckily she didn't drink the poison, but her friends
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  were jealous of her because she always talked about her success. She always talked
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  about the good things in her life. And what you don't understand, not
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  everybody gonna be happy for you. Now. Everybody's gonna be happy about what
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  it is you got going on. Now, everybody's gonna be happy, but
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  you getting married. As soon as you have something that everybody and their mama
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  won't, they're going after it. They just are. So even though yeah,
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  you're like, Okay, I have this great job, I got a
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  great man, everything is going for me. Honey. You better you better
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  not say none at all. Your best bet would be keep that to yourself
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  and and don't say don't say nothing. To be honest, I would just
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  keep my stuff to myself and not to say nothing about it, because,
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  like I said, the last thing you want is for somebody to sit up
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  here and find out that you got something that they won't. So sometimes it's
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  best just to stay quieted to say, you know what, Na, how's
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  everything with you and your man? It's good. It's just like when you
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  go to work and then you know, everybody wants to know about your business,
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  and you be like, and they were like, you don't never tell
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  nobody nothing because it ain't none of y'all business. What I got going on
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  outside of my job. Whatever I got going on is my business. So
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  even though you may want to know what's going on, it ain't your business.
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  So whatever it is that I have going on, it's my business,
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  it ain't your business. It ain't nobody business. So if you're trying to
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  be a manager and you're trying to move up in a country company, keep
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  everything civil. It ain't nothing wrong with going to lunch for coworkers, ain't
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  nothing wrong with getting to know them, but do not let them too much
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  in your business. It's just like with social media. A lot of y'all
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  put your government names on your social media. Don't you do that because they'll
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  be looking for your pages to see what you do. Excuse me on your
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  pay I'm sorry, y'all can accid reflex real bad, so I'm sorry.
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  But yeah, I know that you want to, you know, tell people
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  as far as what you got, what you got going on. But sometimes
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  you can't tell everybody everything. You just can't. Sometimes you have to keep
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  things a secret and not say nothing. Sometimes you just gotta say you know
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  what, I'm just gonna keep this to myself and not say nothing because if
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  I say something, then I gotta worry about somebody being in my business and
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  I don't want that to happen. So I'm just not gonna do this.
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  So I'm just gonna keep it to myself. And there's nothing wrong with that,
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  nothing wrong with that at all. So if I were you, I
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  wouldn't say nothing. I would just keep it to myself. I just keep
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  my mouth closed and not worry about it and just let it be that.
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  Cause you gonna have people that's just gonna sit up here and say something.
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  That's just the rare way it is. But like I said, it's not
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  a bad thing when you not s when you're not saying nothing, and then
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  with negative people, when you have to deal with them if they say something
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  negative is saying an your point, What is the point of you telling me
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  all of this? What is the point of being coming up your mouth,
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  being saying something when I never asked you your opinion in the first place.
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  So you don't have people that no matter what you say or do, you're
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  gonna be in the wrong. If you're a godly person, you do the
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  right thing, you're gonna be wrong. If it's someone that is negative,
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  you're gonna always be right. Even though a lie can be a truth and
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  the truth can be a lie. That's the whole point of this conversation.
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  A lie can be a truth, and a truth can absolutely be a lie.
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  So I wouldn't worry about you know, all this other stuff. As
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  long as you happy what it is that you're doing. As long as you
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  know what it is that's best for you and do what's best for you,
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  that's it. That's all you can do. All you can do is sit
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  there and say, you know what, I did my best and I try
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  to make you know, to just be the best person of myself. And
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  people got a problem with it, then that's on them. So as long
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  as you are trying to work hard. Sometimes it's best not to say nothing
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  about anything that you do, because as soon as you do, you have
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  people that's gonna sit up here and tell you you're doing this, and then
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  all of a sudden, somebody wanta take your idea, And then you gotta
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  worry about people sitting up here making you feel bad. And then you all
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  of a sudden, you gotta worry about people saying, oh my god.
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  Then all of a sudden, when you do do it and you do succeed,
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  here come all the people that now want to believe in you. All
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  the people now want their hands out. It's just like when you win the
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  million, when you win the lottery, and people don't want people to know
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  they want the lottery, They don't want their name posted. I am not
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  mad at nobody who don't want the stuff posted. I ain't mad at it
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  at all. I say, don't I say the same thing. No,
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  so I and I I wouldn't either if I was them. Why don't want
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  somebody to know everything that I do? Everything I got going on? So
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  I'm not saying nothing. So as long as I'm doing what makes me happy,
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  that's all that matter. So if all y'all, I wouldn't sit up
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  here and worry about none of this mess. You gonna have people that's gonna
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  sit up here and make you feel less than what you are. So as
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  long as you are doing what you feel is right for you, Oh Jesus,
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  I hate you. So that's what I'm saying. As long as you
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  are doing what you feel is worse for you than today, do you think,
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  Walter, that's it. That's all you can do. So, like
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  I said, I know it's not easy to keep things to yourself. I
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  know it's not easy being alone. But when you doing something, I suggest
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  you alone unless the people that are involved, or people that don't know you
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  that wanna help, or people who actually do wanna happy that you do know.
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  Other than that, you don't tell your name, Sair, it's nothing.
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  The one you can tell your nag stairs and two believers is if you
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  actually do it and it's successful, or when something happen and they find out
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  you actually telling the truth about what you said, then that's a whole another
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  conversation. But for now, no, I just say, do what's best
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  for you, do what makes you happy, and do what brings your joy.
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  That's about it so long as you doing what makes you happy, and
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  that's all you can do, that's it. So you're sitting up here worrying
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  about these people that don't even care about you. You sitting up here worrying
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  about what these people think. I don't understand why y'all sit up there and
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  care, cause me personally, I am not gonna care. So I want
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  people to understand that. You know the reason why now you gotta move in
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  silence because you got people now that wan't what you got and we'll do anything
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  to get what they want from you. And they don't really care nothing about
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  you at all. They only around you because of what you can do for
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  them. That's about it. That's about That's about it. So I wouldn't
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  worry about it. But anyway, I think that's it for me. But
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  I just wanted to do this podcast right quick. So I wanna thank y'all
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  for joining me for this episode. I'm your host, God is ash Mary.
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  I'ma thank you guys for joining me for this episod. So what if
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  you guys wanna basically send me letters talking about things that you're currently going through
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  and you're somebody that's trying to basically, you know, get away from other
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  A M A r I A s I'm saying it wrong, jesus. I'm
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  tired, y'all. I am trying to do this test and this thing is
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  dr I hate taking type of tests. I really, I'm taking this typing
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  tests and I hate taking it. But it's a s H A dot M
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  my email address. So if you guys wanna be on my show in my
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  podcast, by all means, you can hit me up there and you can
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  come on the show as well. So with that being said, I thank
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  you guys for joining me for this episode. I'm gonna do this typing test
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  till nine thirty if I don't get it done or just won't be done today.
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  With that being said, I will see thous later. Hey,