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Married to Medicine: Toya's Truth · Reality with The King

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  Speaker 1: I've never wanted to be on TV. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: this is like the most invasive disrespect never I never
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  Speaker 3: On today's episode of Reality with the King, I am
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  Speaker 3: joined by my fellow Detroit CIS and married to medicine
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  Speaker 3: star Toya Busch Harris. In this episode, we get into
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  Speaker 3: this past season American Medicine, if she has any regrets
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  Speaker 3: to how she spoke to her husband Eugene, her relationship
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  Speaker 3: with Quad and Quad calling her husband Eugene Ugina shade.
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  Speaker 3: At last, but not leads, we get into Mariah Hawk
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  Speaker 3: and whether or not she is needed for the show.
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  Speaker 3: Without further ado, here's my conversation with Maritime Medicine star
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  Speaker 3: Toya Busch Harris. Toya Busch hairs, So look, rain drops.
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  Speaker 3: I am from Detroit, Michigan, as you all know, and
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  Speaker 3: I love me some Toya, who's also from Detroit. I
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  Speaker 3: have a little story. So before Marriton Medicine aired. I
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  Speaker 3: was living in Atlanta and I was at this event
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  Speaker 3: and one of the producers of Season one named Jasinda
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  Speaker 3: was with Toya at this party. And Jasinda worked on
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  Speaker 3: Atlanta Housewives, which is how we met. And she said,
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  Speaker 3: please meet Toya, who is on a new reality show
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  Speaker 3: that's coming out. And I was so mesmerized by Toya's
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  Speaker 3: beauty because, in my humble opinion, Toya is is top
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  Speaker 3: five one of the most beautiful women on Bravo.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, thank you so much.
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  Speaker 1: I remember that Cynthius event you Year's eve, Oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: guess who baby was there.
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  Speaker 2: I remember meeting Bamby.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I was like, she's so pretty.
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  Speaker 2: And that's what I was thinking.
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  Speaker 3: And meanwhile I was thinking the safe thing, like oh
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  Speaker 3: my gosh, she's so pretty. So here we are over,
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  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. I would say, well, ten years later,
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  Speaker 3: almost ten years later, Mareton Medicine. And I've said this
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  Speaker 3: plenty of times. I'll say it again. It is the
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  Speaker 3: best show on Bravo, and I feel like it's an
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  Speaker 3: underrated show. Do you also feel the same way, because
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  Speaker 3: I do ask this question to the stars of the show.
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  Speaker 3: I asked to heavenly and to Quad. But I also
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  Speaker 3: want to ask you do you think Marition Medicine is
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  Speaker 3: underrated and that you guys will forever be the stepchild
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  Speaker 3: of the Real Housewives of Atlanta.
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  Speaker 1: You know, It's funny because when we were at Bravo,
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  Speaker 1: Kan I said, I think this is the first time
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  Speaker 1: I feel like the stepchild, And yeah, that was what happened.
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  Speaker 2: You know.
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  Speaker 1: It was just the way we were seated, you know,
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  Speaker 1: it just it just didn't feel and it was like
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  Speaker 1: we didn't have you know, we didn't have like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: Married to Medicine LA. We didn't have the Married to
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  Speaker 1: Medicine Houston. We didn't have we didn't have like I
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  Speaker 1: just do. And I just feel like there.
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  Speaker 2: Should be married to Medicine Detroit. There should be Married to.
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  Speaker 1: Medicine DC, you know, because coming from Detroit, I know
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  Speaker 1: some great black doctors, you know, and you know, right
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  Speaker 1: now my brother in law has dating an amazing pediatrician,
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  Speaker 1: and it's just like they're out there, you know, and they.
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  Speaker 2: Should be recognized.
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  Speaker 1: And we have a great franchise, and it's like why not,
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  Speaker 1: why not married to medicine?
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  Speaker 2: Why not? Where is this spind off? You know, where
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  Speaker 2: are we what are we doing? You know?
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  Speaker 1: And it's like, when you're on a network as amazing
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  Speaker 1: as Bravo, you know, why are we focusing just on
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  Speaker 1: the Housewives? You know, not to say they're not great,
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  Speaker 1: because I mean they're doing their thing. I mean, I
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  Speaker 1: love the Housewives. I love Beverly Hills. You know, that's my.
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  Speaker 2: Show, you know.
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  Speaker 1: But I just feel like, you know, it's like, come on, now,
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  Speaker 1: it's time. It's been ten years and we're doing the thing,
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  Speaker 1: and we're setting the platform for it. It's just like,
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  Speaker 1: what are you going to do? Wait till the platform
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  Speaker 1: is over?
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  Speaker 3: You know, it's time, No listen. I could not agree more.
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  Speaker 3: And I have always been a fan of the show
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  Speaker 3: and a fan of you ladies, because more than half
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  Speaker 3: of y'all I know personally, and we have a great relationship.
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  Speaker 3: And one thing about me that the audience knows is
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  Speaker 3: I keep it real and I do feel that way.
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  Speaker 3: But I also wanted to take this opportunity for the
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  Speaker 3: world to get to know more of you because I
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  Speaker 3: know what it's like to be from Detroit, Michigan and
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  Speaker 3: know that when you're from that city success for some Michiganders.
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  Speaker 3: That's how that's what we call Detroiters Michiganders, right, Toya.
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  Speaker 3: The success for black folks in Detroit when you were
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  Speaker 3: born and raised at the time, Toya and I was born,
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  Speaker 3: because we're around the same age for a black man,
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  Speaker 3: success for a Detroiter meant working at the Big three
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  Speaker 3: in the automotive industry, right, Toya, it was crime girl, Chrystler,
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  Speaker 3: GM and Ford, right, and my daddy worked at Forward.
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  Speaker 3: And for a black girl from Detroit, you were either
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  Speaker 3: a nurse, right or worked at the big Go ahead, Toya,
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  Speaker 3: tell them, tell them you.
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  Speaker 1: Were first of all. That's what they told you were
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  Speaker 1: going to be your parents. Honey, you better go to school,
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  Speaker 1: and you got to. You gotta get your education so
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  Speaker 1: you could be a teacher, a nurse, or and you
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  Speaker 1: should work for the Big three, okay, because you need
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  Speaker 1: that a plan, all right.
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  Speaker 2: They don't even know what is baby girl, because I
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  Speaker 2: have so many.
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  Speaker 1: I drove into Atlanta with the caddy, all right, the
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  Speaker 1: ct S, what on the date, baby, Okay, with the
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  Speaker 1: wood grain steer wheels.
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  Speaker 2: They don't know nothing about that life.
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  Speaker 1: They know nothing about this life, okay, But it is okay,
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  Speaker 1: all right, Ma, Mama. She wouldn't even let me park
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  Speaker 1: my first bm W on her driveway. She's like, what,
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  Speaker 1: excuse me? Do you understand it? I had to park
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  Speaker 1: on the streets.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, because if your parents work at Ford, Chrysler or
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  Speaker 3: General Motors, you have to drive one of those cars,
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  Speaker 3: and if you did not, you are not considered to
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  Speaker 3: be supporting your parents.
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  Speaker 2: You.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, so, Toya, how does a black girl from d Tray,
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  Speaker 3: Michigan be a reality star on a Bravo show? Did
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  Speaker 3: you did you always know you were going to be
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  Speaker 3: famous or did you not know that until Mariah Huck
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  Speaker 3: contacted you to be a part of the show she created.
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  Speaker 1: God forbid anything ever happens this marriage. Would you ever
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  Speaker 1: do this again? He was like yes, And I said,
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  Speaker 1: you're out of your mind. I will never give up
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  Speaker 1: my piece.
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  Speaker 3: Oh you meant do reality TV every year?
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  Speaker 2: You never ever do this again.
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  Speaker 1: I've never wanted to be on TV. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: this is like the most invasive disrespect.
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  Speaker 4: Never.
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  Speaker 1: I never signed up for this life.
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  Speaker 2: God, I don't know what. God, this was not on
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  Speaker 2: my vision board. Carlos, Okay, I don't know. Lord.
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  Speaker 1: I think he put me here to help the people,
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  Speaker 1: to be honest, they said, my name Taoya, but scher
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  Speaker 1: it really stands for to be honest.
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  Speaker 2: That's what they said. They did.
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  Speaker 1: They did because you see, they tried to catch me
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  Speaker 1: up with a whole bunch of lives. They was like,
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  Speaker 1: I said, right up, this bullshit, this fast season.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, but let's be clear.
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  Speaker 1: When Mariah met me, when j just Sinda, they all
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  Speaker 1: was like, she's reality TV gold, Matt and they said Eugene.
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  Speaker 2: Was reality TV gold. I was like, I don't see it,
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  Speaker 2: see it, I see it.
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  Speaker 3: No. I was talking to Heavenly and she admitted that you,
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  Speaker 3: her and Clod are the face of the franchise, that
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  Speaker 3: you guys are the stars of the show because you
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  Speaker 3: bring so much to the to the show. And I
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  Speaker 3: have to agree with that, Toya. I think you're underrated
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  Speaker 3: as a reality star. I think you may not know
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  Speaker 3: your own worth. That's just my opinion. I think you.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think the show can survive without the current cast,
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  Speaker 3: because when I say current cast, I mean the ogs.
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  Speaker 3: No se to Anila and I like Contessa, but like
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  Speaker 3: you ladies brought the success to the show. Well, we
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  Speaker 3: also saw to the show that you brought. Toya was
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  Speaker 3: some punches. So talk to me about first season, you
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  Speaker 3: Mariah got into a physical altercation, and we saw that
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  Speaker 3: this past season, you and Audra had a little moment.
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  Speaker 3: What was it like to know that, of all the
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  Speaker 3: cast members, you have been involved in two very physical
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  Speaker 3: moments on the show. And did you feel like, oh
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  Speaker 3: my god, this is the biggest regret of my career.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it's funny because you know, I have a
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  Speaker 1: really dear friend.
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  Speaker 2: You know. First, let me go back to first season.
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  Speaker 1: So first season, I moved from Detroit, fresh off the block,
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  Speaker 1: into the South, and I was like, you know, it's
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  Speaker 1: the South, you know, because it's very different from a
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  Speaker 1: you know, from coming from Detroit, because it's like, you know.
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  Speaker 2: Detroit, We're not about this life.
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  Speaker 1: It's like you you know, you you don't test a
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  Speaker 1: Detroit girl, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: We don't play those games. You know.
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  Speaker 1: We're not about saying things. We're about doing things. You know,
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  Speaker 1: if you know, if you understand what that means, you
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  Speaker 1: know what I mean. We don't challenge people. You know,
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  Speaker 1: we don't put people in situations and not back it up.
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  Speaker 1: You know, we don't back it up with talk. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I was never that girl in high school. I didn't
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  Speaker 1: walk around just talking, you know. No, you know I
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  Speaker 1: didn't come from that type of family. My mother's maide
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  Speaker 1: a name is for real deal rough r U f F.
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  Speaker 1: You know, like we are really that type of people.
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  Speaker 1: You know. I wasn't raised and you know in a
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  Speaker 1: really cute life. No, I was raised and my mother
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  Speaker 1: hates it when I say it, but my family, for
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  Speaker 1: real deal, we do not come from the best parts,
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  Speaker 1: you know. Thank God, my mother was blessed to help
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  Speaker 1: bring us, you know, from some great places, you know,
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  Speaker 1: into the suburbs and you know I did, you know,
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  Speaker 1: start coming up and you know, went into the suburb
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  Speaker 1: and it was great, you know. But the reality is,
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  Speaker 1: you know, a great deal of my family is not perfect,
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  Speaker 1: you know.
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  Speaker 2: And so you know, I remember the first.
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  Speaker 1: Time my mom she, oh, she'd like fight on the
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  Speaker 1: you bring your fight home, you know, right on the past.
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  Speaker 2: You know, that's to get the relation. You know, it's
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  Speaker 2: just very different.
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  Speaker 1: You know. So then you come to the South and
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  Speaker 1: you get this girl who's in your face and she's
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  Speaker 1: flipping your hair, and you're like, what am I supposed
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  Speaker 1: to do? And they're like, well, you're an adult. When
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  Speaker 1: did that change anything?
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  Speaker 3: You know?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, as an adult, you're supposed to walk away, and
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  Speaker 1: you're like, how do you walk away when someone's pulling
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  Speaker 1: you in her mother's hitting you with a purse.
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  Speaker 2: You know, all of these things that you're like, I
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  Speaker 2: didn't know.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it was a very challenging scenario for me
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  Speaker 1: because all these things are happening, and then there's a.
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  Speaker 2: Camera pointing in your face.
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  Speaker 1: And so of course, after all that's done, you feel terrible.
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  Speaker 1: You feel like, oh my god, I'm a mother, I'm
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  Speaker 1: a wife. You know, I'm college educated. So of course
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  Speaker 1: you've made a really bad choice, you know, But you're
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  Speaker 1: also caught up in a moment, and so you learn
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  Speaker 1: from your mistake and then you say, I'll never have
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  Speaker 1: that happen again, you know. And now being on TV
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  Speaker 1: ten years later, here's some nutcase, you know, trying to
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  Speaker 1: be on the show.
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  Speaker 2: Who really and truly.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sitting there and I'm thinking to myself, this is
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  Speaker 1: an attorney, like you could lose your license, Like this
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  Speaker 1: show is not worth it.
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  Speaker 2: Girl, don't do this, don't don't, don't be no fool.
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  Speaker 1: But she's not thinking, and I immediately thought to myself. Wow,
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  Speaker 1: let me give this girl grace because I remember what
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  Speaker 1: it was like to be her years ago, ten years ago,
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  Speaker 1: and I know any better. Just know that you're on TV,
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  Speaker 1: you want to be on TV. You got people speaking
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  Speaker 1: in your ear, and you're also thirty. You're really just
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  Speaker 1: a child. You're new to everything. Give her grace. And
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  Speaker 1: so I was like, you know, I ain't swinging back.
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  Speaker 1: I'm ten years of back. I'm grown ass woman. My
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  Speaker 1: kids on YouTube. Girl by Eugene, you better stand in
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  Speaker 1: front of me.
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  Speaker 3: Boy, okay, okay, that's growth, Toya.
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  Speaker 1: I hold my little lady d York like this, Let's
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  Speaker 1: get out of here.
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  Speaker 2: We gotta go.
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  Speaker 3: I love that because it shows growth. And I saw
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  Speaker 3: in that moment that you did have growth. And that's
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  Speaker 3: what I love about you, because at the end of
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  Speaker 3: the day, you can sit up and say that was
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  Speaker 3: who I was maybe ten years ago. I see another woman,
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  Speaker 3: in this case Audra, who is behaving in a way
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  Speaker 3: that I did ten years ago. And instead of reacting
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  Speaker 3: the way let's just say Marija did at the moment,
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  Speaker 3: let me show some grades and bow out and say, girl,
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  Speaker 3: you can have that. Let me teach you how to
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  Speaker 3: rise above it, and I'm happy you did that because
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  Speaker 3: it goes to show the growth of your character. Speaking
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  Speaker 3: of growth, not to get all explicit, but one of
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  Speaker 3: the most talked about things this past season of Maritime
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  Speaker 3: Medicine was your gene's growth in the bottom area or
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  Speaker 3: lack thereof. So everybody Toya, including me, was like, Toya,
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  Speaker 3: we love you gee, and we felt bad that you're
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  Speaker 3: maybe making jokes that his penis is small. And when
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  Speaker 3: we saw the reunion, I saw her in Eugene's eyes
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  Speaker 3: when it comes to the jokes about that and Quad
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  Speaker 3: calling him ugina. I think Eugene is such a sweet, nice,
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  Speaker 3: educated man who wants to see his family prosper. Do
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  Speaker 3: you have any regret to making those statements?
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  Speaker 2: You are absolutely right.
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  Speaker 1: My husband is one of the sweetest men out there,
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  Speaker 1: and he's highly respected.
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  Speaker 2: You know what.
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  Speaker 1: I The only regret that I have is that I
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  Speaker 1: allowed people to put words in my mouth and I
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  Speaker 1: allowed them to change the narrative of that scenario. When
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  Speaker 1: we were talking, you know, initially at that table, we
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  Speaker 1: were talking about regrets of being married, regrets of you know,
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  Speaker 1: being you know, in our sex lives. We were having
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  Speaker 1: as you know, it would reality TV. Things can be
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  Speaker 1: said and they could be manipulated, and they like, what's
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  Speaker 1: one of your biggest regrets, you know, in sex in general?
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, man, you know, I.
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  Speaker 1: Just know that, you know, the penis, it just doesn't
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  Speaker 1: get any larger. And it had nothing to do with
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  Speaker 1: my husband, per se. I was telling her, Hey, you
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  Speaker 1: better be happy as it relates to your sex life
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  Speaker 1: in general.
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  Speaker 2: Because my sex life over here we you know, we good.
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  Speaker 2: But when you married that bedroom.
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  Speaker 1: You better be ready to spice that shit up or
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  Speaker 1: you could get real complacent real quick. You know what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying. Your man could get real complacent real quick.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody can get real boring, you know, And and it's
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  Speaker 1: true in any life. I listened to so many mothers,
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  Speaker 1: so many wives, so many women at the.
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  Speaker 2: Age of sixty, fifty, seventy talk.
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  Speaker 1: About how they stop hav and sex in their marriage,
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  Speaker 1: you know. And one of the things that I'm dealing
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  Speaker 1: with right now having turned forty five and I'm forty
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  Speaker 1: six now, but having turned forty five, one of the
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  Speaker 1: things I dealt with, and they didn't show on the show,
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  Speaker 1: was I went through a very big self care journey,
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  Speaker 1: and that self care journey was I was telling my
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  Speaker 1: husband that I was starting to rely.
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  Speaker 2: On him so much for my own happiness.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: Like I had realized in our marriage of fourteen years,
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: I had never traveled by myself, and I stopped traveling
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: by myself.
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: I wasn't taking any girls trips.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: I didn't take any and fourteen years, I just my
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: birthday came and I was like, what did you plan
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: for me? And he was like huh, you know, And
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, I was depressed and I
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: was sitting over here like why am I blaming him
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: for not making me happy?
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: And it was like, all of a sudden.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: I had to do some soul searching and I had
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: to literally check in check myself because I was like, like,
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: you know, I think Toya is you you know, you
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: lost your own sexy, you know, and I had to
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: start figuring out out for myself that, you know, I
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: had to find.
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: My own sexy back.
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: I had to take some trips for Toya and I
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: had to really start focusing on Toya again.
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: And in that it was like a.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: Happy place where I was like, you know what, I'm
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: kind of liking this new Toya. I'm liking this new flow.
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: I'm liking you know. And I became more sexy in
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: the bedroom, you know, I became a better me in
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: that moment. And so now I'm going through that journey
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: of you know, even helping you know, other moms figure
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: out who they are in their next journey of life,
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: you know, because I didn't go back to being that old,
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: that old person of who before I was married, when
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: I was a pharmaceutical rep. I don't want to be
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: her again, you know. I want to be the new Toya,
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: the next journey of Toya, you know. And I think
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: that's where I was at when I was talking about it,
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: you know, the bedroom talk and stuff, and they just
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: just kind of took it like, oh, well, Eugenie's peenis small,
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: and I was like huh. But I was so buzzed
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: at the moment that I was like, I just kind
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: of laughed it off, and so then we tried to
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: make a joke of it in the car, and then
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: Quid ran with that, and it was like from that
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: point on all.
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: Season, I couldn't say anything.
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: It was like, next thing, you know, my sex life
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: was bad at home. I wasn't happy in my marriage,
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: and it was like, no, everybody in their marriage has
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: some downtime and some down phases.
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: You know, we're not perfect. We're not the perfect marriage.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: We do have some times and we're just like, no,
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: I don't like you today. You know, I might not
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: like you this month, you know, but we ain't perfect.
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: You know, it is what it is.
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: Have you ever thought about when you say spice things
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: in the bedroom. Have you ever thought about bringing another
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: person in the bedroom. Have you guys experienced that.
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Eugene's not having that shit. And honestly, you know,
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: I've tried have three sons before my marriage. And let's
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: be clear, I had one threesome ever, and it was
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: with my best friend at the time and my boyfriend.
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: And as soon as I.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: Saw him about to have sex with her, I was like,
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: I'll be right back. I ran to the bathroom, out
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: the door, got in the cars, drove I could it
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: broke my heart and they called it where are you at?
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: I was like it just it was over, and me
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: and her both realized it just it couldn't go down,
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: and we was like, girl, next time.
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: It's me and you. Some random dude, Dominican Republic, We're good.
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: You can't do that with somebody in love with because
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: that is not fun anymore. So if you had to
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: choose any Maritime Medicine cast member, if Eugene was open
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: to it to invite in the beer room, who would
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: you choose?
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, I'm not sexually attracted to any
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: other females on our cat.
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: Quad is gorgeous for the body.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: You have not seen her without that makeup.
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: No, that hairline starts at the ear. Baby, No, that's
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: me gagging.
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: So let's talk about you at I don't know what
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: to say after that, So that'd uh. Let's talk about
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: your relationship with Quad. We saw this season that listen.
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: You and Quah, over the course of the series of
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: Maritime Medicine have always had this very up and down friendship.
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: Some seasons, y'all good, Some seasons y'all bad. This past season,
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: y'all were bad. She called your husband Eugina because she
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: felt that he was in the women's business. So when
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: Nini Leaks called Peter Thomas, Patricia Quad felt that Eugene
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: was being eugina, which of course rhymes with vagina and
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: Eugene was very upset sat with Quad at the reunion.
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: What is it about you in Quad to where you
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: two just do not get along and these jabs are
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: being throwned?
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: You know, I just think that Honestly, I think over
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: the years, I've been very I think I've been very
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: nice nasty when it comes to Quad, you know, But
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: I think I could be nastier, and I think I've
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: held back for quite some time when it comes to her.
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: I think I've been quiet as it relates to Quad.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: And I think and she knows it, you know. I
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: think that when you but when you start poking at
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: the innocent bystanders like my husband, I think that you
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: poke the bear and I'm the bear, you know. And
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: I think it's getting to a point where, you know,
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: I told her, I said, you know, I was very clear.
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: I said, either get a man to talk to my man,
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: or you know, it really is going to be quiet
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: and I and we're just at that place now.
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: Is there any backstory that we the audience may not
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: know about because we like seeing it when you guys
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: get along because it's fun and listen, we know that
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: on reality TV you have ups and downs.
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: We get that.
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: However, when it comes to the two of you, it
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: seems to constantly resurface. Is there anything that has happened
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: behind the scenes that they may not just air as
• 25:36
  Speaker 3: it relates to you in Quad's friendship always being that way, I.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: Think for me, you know, and I could be wrong,
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: you know, but I think for me when it comes
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: to Quad, it's always been and this is just my
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: This is just my.
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: View on things. You know, Quad could have her own view,
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: but with me.
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: It started first season, you know, Quad and I we
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: differed because she said I came for her when it
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: was her and Grant's wedding, and I made a comment
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: on television saying that I wasn't going to go that
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: I didn't go to her wedding.
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: Her wedding was called off.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: To me.
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: That was very Vinyl, you know, your wedding was called off.
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: But it was like right after that.
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: She then announced on national television a lie that she
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: said Mariah told her. She said that Mariah told her
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: that me and Eugene were drinking and driving with.
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: Our children in the car.
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: That was a very horrible insinuation and thing to say
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: on national television. And she had said it on TV
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: first season and we were in a coffee shop. I
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: was shaking, literally, I wanted to throw that hop tea
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: on her. And I went outside and I was screaming
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: on the phone with Eugene because I was like, and
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: I wanted to put the show is so bad? After that,
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: and I went into a state of depression after first season,
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: what yes? And I wouldn't talk to anyone. I wouldn't
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: go outside in my home. Eugene was like, you got
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: to leave. I would He was like, I wouldn't come back.
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: I was like, I will not do television.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: I was done.
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: And he was like, you cannot leave the world seeing
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: you as this person. And that was the only thing
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: that stuck with me. But it was just the fighting,
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: the lies and every and she was like, well when
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: we had saw something about me, it was just like, girl,
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: but you did not even know anything.
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: Is put that out there having nothing?
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: And this man was a respected physician, you know, he
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: was just starting to screen. It was just like really,
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: And from that point on, it just changed the way.
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: I looked at her.
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: And because she became that person who I was like,
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: would say anything on TV to hurt somebody.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: And from that point it was just like it was constant.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: It was then it was Lisa, Oh, your husband's cheating,
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: you know with some boy. You know. It was like
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: and then it went from that to you know, the
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: Mariah thing. It was just and it was like this girl,
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: I don't know her she was it was always something
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: and then and it just it made me feel as
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: though she.
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: It was like, I just I don't know.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: And then this season with the you know, okay, with
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: Toya's she I think and then I'm sorry I heard,
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: you know. And then the season before that, well you
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: big borrow and stole from your house. There's always some
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: random lie that she would hear about and.
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: Then say I'm sorry.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: And so that's when people say things like, well, well,
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: she's the face of the show, is she? Because I
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: don't know if that's what Married to Medicine really was
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: supposed to be about. You know, I know that we
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: need drama to make reality TV, but I don't know
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: if that's the kind of drama that we want or
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: if that's the kind of drama that we perpetuate.
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: Who I hate to interrupt, but stay tuned for more.
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: We'll be right back after these quick asss. This is
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: reality with the King and I'm Carlos King. Let's get
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: back into the show. Who do you think is the
• 30:10
  Speaker 3: face of maritime Medicine?
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: I you know I'm not gonna lie. I enjoyed it
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: when Mariah was on our show.
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: You know I ain't gonna lie.
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: Not to cut you off. You are the only Married
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: to Medicine cast member that I've spoken to that has
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: said that. And listen, I get that things happen behind
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: the scenes that I don't know about. I get it,
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: I understand it. I get it. However, dot Org, when
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: it comes to these two eyeballs and my brain cells
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: and my affection for this show, I feel like no
• 30:47
  Speaker 3: one wants to give Mariah her flowers again. I know
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: things happen behind the scenes. I'm not here to confirm
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: or did not because I don't know. But if we
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: stick to the.
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: Show, if we stick to the show, if we just
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: stick to the motherfucking show, I'm not.
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: Saying and I'm not saying she she don't did not
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: do ship behind the scenes because.
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: She Let's just stick to the show.
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: Girl is some good tv. She's great television.
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: She had some one liners, she was dramatic as up fat,
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: and she knew how to stir up ship and and
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And let's be clear, we
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: didn't look. I was pissed as hell when she left
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: because she she she was paranoying. She was paranoy I
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: mean we you know when we fell out because because
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: she was, like, you knew about putting your your closet
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: as the reunion set. I did.
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: Why was she mad at that? Mariah? I love you,
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: not be true?
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: Trust me, I'm sure it was more than that.
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: You know, because she's a producer.
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: All right, I forget Mariah created the show. She gets
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: an exacutive producer credit. Here comes Toya Bush Harris with
• 32:22
  Speaker 3: her two story closet as a set.
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: Okay, right, so but let's be clear, I was like, whatever, whatever.
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: So you would say, girl, we can talk about that bullshit.
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: We we had the word no. That's true too.
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: So you would say, Mariah will always be the face
• 32:49
  Speaker 3: of Maritime medicine.
• 32:50
  Speaker 4: I would say she and I, yes, do you want
• 32:59
  Speaker 4: Mariah to come back?
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: I think Mariah needs to come check that Indian bitch
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: down the street fummy real quick and that bitchy real quick,
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: get some get them all away together, get if.
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: They just do.
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: So you want Quad to check Quad and then leilah,
• 33:17
  Speaker 3: so I won't to.
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: Check why at the DELA real quick and get them together, fummy,
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: I have.
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: The rest.
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: Before off a Quad. You said earlier that obviously you
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: feel like QUA allegedly just lies on you. Qua, okay,
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: lies on everybody allegedly. But Quad also brought a live
• 33:41
  Speaker 3: detective test results polygraph results to the reunion. You said
• 33:45
  Speaker 3: it wasn't a missable in the.
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: Catch Did y'all not catch this? The questions were the same,
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: and quas.
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: First of all, the dude asked, saying questions, Okay, so
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: number one, number two, they're not adviscible in court, they're
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: only adviscible and Jerry Springer's court. And isn't he right
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: now asking God for forgiveness for ruining the black community?
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: Why are you planning?
• 34:23
  Speaker 4: Now?
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: Let's start with these shenanigans on ain't nobody using them tests?
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: Would you take a polygraph test to prove whether or
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: not QUAD this lead with the contractor?
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: You know, honestly, I don't know anything about this contractor.
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: Is is he suing her right now? Is?
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: Why?
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: Why? Why is he allegedly doing that?
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: No? He said, did I tell you don't be mentioned
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: in my name?
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: Bitch? Is there a lawsuit happening?
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: That's the text I'll who text you. I can't tell
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: you all that is this. This is our court tell
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: no lies TV lies. Oh my goshoy.
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: Okay, so we will circle back on that at a
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: future date. Let's let's talk about Anila. Look, I said
• 35:34
  Speaker 3: this publicly. I don't know Anila. I'm not a mean
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: spirited person. I don't though she that people don't know.
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: I think that's just people saw no followers were going.
• 35:47
  Speaker 3: I could have hold that laugh in Okay, Anila.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: A lot of people felt like.
• 35:52
  Speaker 3: Aneila was replacing Mariah with the Indian culture that she's
• 35:59
  Speaker 3: bringing on the show. However, the difference is we love
• 36:04
  Speaker 3: Mayor to medicine because you ladies are real friends and
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: have a real friendship group, albeit you know ups and downs,
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: but you guys hang out off camera. You guys actually
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: talk to each other. She feels like a sore thumb.
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: And I know you brought her on as your friend
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: because you guys were neighbors. But I also know as
• 36:27
  Speaker 3: the king of reality TV. Sometimes producers cast somebody and say, okay, hey,
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: cast member, you're going to bring her into be your friend.
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: Were you and a Leila real life friends? Or did
• 36:39
  Speaker 3: the casting producers find her and say, oh, you guys
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: have but to live in the same neighborhood. How about toy,
• 36:45
  Speaker 3: you bring her on this show as your friend.
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: Okay, So they did not find her. Okay, So I
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: and the king of.
• 36:51
  Speaker 3: What reality TV?
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: So I would have to say.
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: I'm the king of the queen of finding people for
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: the show. Okay, a record, So you know, really and
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: truly I do, you know?
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: And and I am friendly. I'm friendly as hell.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: And so what happened was I moved into the neighborhood,
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: and really and truly you know, Aniela was building down
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: the street. She asked to see my house. Neil was
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: her builder. She was nice. She invited me to her
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: fortieth birthday or I think it was a fortieth birthday party,
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: and I was the only black girl up in the house.
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: So I should have known something then, but she claimed even.
• 37:45
  Speaker 3: Then, girl, now you enjoyed and pails get out movie
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: girl go ahead, says exactly.
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: And you know we hit it off there and she
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: was cool and we in touch. So every time she
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: would come to the neighborhood, to see her a lot
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: in her house and everything we stopped bubbling boom, and.
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: We would just keep usay to be cool.
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: You know.
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: And you know, whenever the.
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: Show cast, they always ask do you know anybody? And
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: I was like, oh yeah, nice little girl down street,
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: no biggie, just like right now, girl moves next door.
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: I think she'd be greatful though. She's sweet cool right
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: now's the boom, you know. So I'm that girl. I'm
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: always like, you know, whatever is good for the brand,
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: you know, a new face, and I'm always trying to grow,
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: you know, married to medicine.
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: Why not you know what I'm saying.
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: If you got somebody on the show as quiet as
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: a mouse, we have a whole reunion and only three
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: of us talking, you know what I'm saying, who else?
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: Y'all want some other people? What you need? You know
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: what I'm saying. We shoot, let's dippy up the pop.
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: You know, maybe we can get a spin off in Atlanta, a.
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: Very bested to Atlanta. I don't know what ever it takes,
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: you know, at this point, but I'll just say, you know,
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: we know a lot of people, so you know I
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: always refer to people.
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: It is do you think at this point she is,
• 39:16
  Speaker 3: she's still good for the show.
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: I don't, you know.
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: I don't like to I don't like to have anyone
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: lose their position or their you know, their job. But
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: I will say, does she fit? I don't know who
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: she's a friend of anymore. I mean I don't speak
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: to her at all, you know, in that way anymore,
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: because I just don't feel like, like I told her,
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: I said, you know, what you've shown me is you
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: know when I tried, which I did two seasons ago,
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: I said, I'll give you another opportunity.
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: Let's let's figure this out.
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: Then she came back the next season with lies and
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: you know you and you just showed me that basically,
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: and she said it herself. We weren't cool, and so
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: I said that that that meant, because we weren't talking,
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: you would perpetuate a life about me, you know, I said.
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: So that shows me and everybody on this cast, as
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: long as they're not cool with you, you you have
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: no problem with stabbing them in the back and creating lies,
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: throwing lives around.
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: Here and there. So you're really not here for us.
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: You're here for a check.
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: And the thing about us is that or some of
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: us is that we actually do have relationships and so
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: we're not here just for a check.
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: Now, let's be clear, maybe some of us, some of
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: us are you know what I'm saying, Because you know,
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: some of us are there, we don't know much about
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: what's going on in their life. They'll they'll talk about
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: other people's lives on this show, you know what I'm saying,
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: But they don't want to show you anything that's really
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: going on in their life.
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: You know, they don't want to show you they're dating.
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: They don't want to show you anything except of what's
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: going on in other parts of other people's lives, that's it.
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: But what's going on really in their own personal.
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: So I would say that for her, I don't really
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: see where she fits in the dynamics of the group.
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: No, I don't.
• 41:12
  Speaker 3: Now, I can't let you go without asking you the
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: status of your home, because as the Michigander, we love
• 41:21
  Speaker 3: love a nice house, and you literally have the best
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: house on Bravo, Like you and charae Chatau to me
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: were neck and neck in terms of the most beautiful
• 41:30
  Speaker 3: homes on Bravo. I mean, you had a two story
• 41:32
  Speaker 3: apartment obviously you sold it made a profit and then
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: your girl, my bad, I don't me an apartment.
• 41:45
  Speaker 2: Got But you know why you say an apartment because
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: in Michigan in an apartment it's not a big deal.
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: People say apartment all the time.
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: No, I know that's all about you know, by bad,
• 42:00
  Speaker 3: I don't want to like you know, basically got a
• 42:03
  Speaker 3: part of job. But you you had a house and
• 42:06
  Speaker 3: they kept showing that toyas rental home, toyas rental home.
• 42:11
  Speaker 3: What you said, what, honey, it's fabulous, You're you're you're fabulous.
• 42:18
  Speaker 3: So what's the what's this? What's the status of your home?
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: Now?
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: Are you in a home that is your dream home
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: that you're not renting or are you building?
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: What?
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: What's the latest with that?
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: So we're in a home that most people would die for,
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: let's be clear. But we built a lot that most
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: people would love to buy but can't afford. And it's beautiful.
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: It has a lake view, golf view, gated community.
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: Love it.
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: But the problem is right now, building is so hard because.
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: Everything's on the back quarter.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: When I say it's it's a so you pick out
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: everything and literally it has been on back order for.
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: Eight years, you can't get anything.
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: And so the banks are like, you're telling them that
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: you're gonna be done in a year and a half,
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: but your stuff on.
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: Back order for a year and a half.
• 43:36
  Speaker 3: Lies you tell us, lie, So how long do you
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: think it'll take until your dream home is built?
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: So they're like, you know, right now it's taking most
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: people what normally would take a year and a half
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: to two years to build, it is taking almost two
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: and a half to three years to build.
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: And maybe my kids will be in height school.
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, my babies would be in high school.
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: Oh God, to say that, it's crazy. So I was
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: talking to Eugene. I was like, we could do one
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: or two things.
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: We could just go ahead and buy a house, you know,
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: and rehab it real quick, you know, but even then
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: that's gonna take a minute. I was like, or we
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: could just buy something that we really, really like. So
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: we're kind of at that phase that right now, we're
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: looking to see because the market.
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: Is about to change. I do know that you're not
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: following the market. That's what I do.
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: So you know, I know as of January some things
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: are gonna change. So we'll see, you know, we'll see
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: what's out there. We're comfortable, you know, right now, So
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: I'm not tripping. I just know I got to get
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: closer to my son's school, baby, because honey.
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: My son is on the swim team.
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: So I've been driving back from his school.
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: Eight thirty at night.
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: That that drive has been like mm hmm when I say,
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: I've been coming home talking about I need to go outside,
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: spend some time.
• 45:04
  Speaker 3: Me or your Jean come in here and stick that
• 45:06
  Speaker 3: thing and me. Honey, Yeah, the.
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: Lady down need him, Me and the rth.
• 45:15
  Speaker 3: Toya, I you know, listen, you know I love you.
• 45:19
  Speaker 3: I'm a big fan of yours. I'm so happy that
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: you finally bless your presence on Reality with the King.
• 45:25
  Speaker 3: I have been waiting months to get you on the podcast,
• 45:29
  Speaker 3: and I'm so happy that my Detroit's sister decided to
• 45:34
  Speaker 3: join me. Let the girls know Toy where they can
• 45:37
  Speaker 3: follow you, support you all those great things.
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: Okay, First of all, I need y'all support on my
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: wine club. Yes, so y'all know I have joined forces
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: with your wine store and need your wine store. Kendall Jackson,
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: we are doing the thing. So hopefully this season, not
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: hopefully this season on Mary to medicine. I mean, y'all
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: are going to see so many big things happening for Toy.
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: I mean with a lirium, the skincare line y'all have,
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: that's already been out there, but that's growing as well.
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: But your wine store and me, we are doing the thing.
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: So y'all going to see this huge development. As far
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: as the wine club, so check me out. That's on
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: all of my pages from my Twitter Toya bush Shairs,
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: as well as my Instagram Toya bush Hares, as well
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: as my Facebook page. You can definitely go on there
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: and check that out. But the wine club is amazing.
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: It comes and this amazing box that has so much
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: y'all got to look at it.
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: I'm to send it to you. I'm going to gift you.
• 46:34
  Speaker 3: Send it to me so I can show it and
• 46:37
  Speaker 3: bring it on my late night talk show, The night Cap,
• 46:39
  Speaker 3: and have it as part of my sad Huntie.
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: Okay, I'm going to givet you. I'm going to give you.
• 46:43
  Speaker 3: Okay, well, thank you and this was a gift. So
• 46:47
  Speaker 3: thank you, Toya. I love you. Come all, ray Drop.
• 46:53
  Speaker 3: I really hope y'all enjoyed this conversation with Toya. What
• 46:57
  Speaker 3: a fun, shady way to start off the year twenty
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: twenty three with Miss Toya and her reads. I love
• 47:07
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• 47:14
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