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2nd DATE UPDATE: Phil & Tara · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: The next segment we're going to do is called Second
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  Speaker 1: Date Update because that's what we're going to try and get,
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  Speaker 1: and that's what the bit is called. Second Date Update
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  Speaker 1: starts right now on John Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, it's time for Second Date Update. Phil went on
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  Speaker 2: a date, wants a second date, getting ghosted. You know
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  Speaker 2: the drill. Phil, good morning.
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  Speaker 3: You're on the air.
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  Speaker 4: Good morning. How you doing?
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  Speaker 5: Good.
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  Speaker 2: Tell us a little bit about the situation you're in
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  Speaker 2: with this girl.
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  Speaker 4: I got ghosted, and it's crazy because, like, this is
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  Speaker 4: new to me, right? I can't even remember the last
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  Speaker 4: time I got ghosted, if I've been ghosted at all.
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  Speaker 4: Everything was great. It was a great day. We went out,
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  Speaker 4: went to go see Avengers Endgame in theaters. And I'm
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  Speaker 4: a bit of a Marvel nerd, so I don't know
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  Speaker 4: if I just did too much with that and maybe
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  Speaker 4: kind of freaked her out. But it seemed like it
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  Speaker 4: went really well. I just, I don't know what went wrong.
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  Speaker 5: When you say you're kind of a Marvel nerd and
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  Speaker 5: you went to the movie, were you like, reciting the
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  Speaker 5: lines because hasn't that been out for a while like
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  Speaker 5: what do you mean that like what could have weirded
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  Speaker 5: her out about you.
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  Speaker 4: Being a marvel fan well just like giving her context
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  Speaker 4: about characters and like i know some facts about the
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  Speaker 4: movie and stuff and i was just excited to see
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  Speaker 4: it in theaters again so i don't know if i
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  Speaker 4: just came across a little too strong.
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  Speaker 5: Maybe you just talked too much, you know, like during
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  Speaker 5: the movie, you're just trying to watch the movie.
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  Speaker 1: It could be as simple as that.
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  Speaker 2: The main thing about the movie that came out this
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  Speaker 2: weekend was the end credit scenes.
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  Speaker 3: There were four different end credit scenes. And they leaked.
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  Speaker 2: And so I was fortunate enough to be able to
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  Speaker 2: watch the end credit scenes without going to the four-hour movie.
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  Speaker 3: So I could see.
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  Speaker 2: And it's interesting, too, because whenever I talk about some
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  Speaker 2: of the Marvel stuff with my sons, my wife is
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  Speaker 2: just like, no part of it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, no part of it. So I wonder.
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  Speaker 2: She could have been like that, Phil, and you caught
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  Speaker 2: on when you're talking about Iron Man making the mask
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  Speaker 2: at the end.
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  Speaker 3: Did you watch the end credit scenes? I did not. Oh,
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  Speaker 3: they were good.
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  Speaker 1: I haven't seen any of them yet.
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  Speaker 3: They're good. Well, I don't want to get all marveled
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  Speaker 3: out like Phil.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, don't say anything, Phil. I don't need to know yet.
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  Speaker 3: All right. Phil, was it good, though? Did you like
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  Speaker 3: the end credit scenes? Was it great?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, of course.
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  Speaker 3: All right. So what's this girl's name, Phil?
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  Speaker 4: Her name's Tara.
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  Speaker 1: Tara.
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  Speaker 3: All right, so we're going to call Tara.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, it's recently because the movie just came out Friday,
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  Speaker 2: so this is a very recent ghosting.
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  Speaker 3: So hang tight. We'll get her on the phone, and
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  Speaker 3: we're going to find out why she's blowing you off.
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  Speaker 6: Awesome.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you.
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  Speaker 6: All right.
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  Speaker 3: Second Aid Update continues next with John Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 1: It's the John Jay and Rich radio program.
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  Speaker 4: Two names. Four hosts.
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  Speaker 1: And a whole lot of fun.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, we're in the middle of a second date update.
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  Speaker 2: You got Phil. Phil's getting ghosted by Tara.
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  Speaker 1: It's that time of year, everybody, where ghosts are around,
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  Speaker 1: except for real ghosts come back and haunt you. Phil's
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  Speaker 1: ghost was a date that just disappeared. They went to
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  Speaker 1: see a Marvel movie. They went to go see Endgame.
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  Speaker 1: But Phil, was his nerd talk the thing that endgamed
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  Speaker 1: the actual date? We are going to find out by
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  Speaker 1: talking to Tara.
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  Speaker 3: All right, she's ready to go. Dylan, okay. You want
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  Speaker 3: to patch her through? Hi, Tara.
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  Speaker 6: Hi.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, thanks for jumping on the air with us.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, no problem.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so got a call from a guy, went on
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  Speaker 2: a date with you, thinks you're awesome, wants to see
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  Speaker 2: you again. He says you're ghosting him, and we thought
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  Speaker 2: we would call you and see if we could get
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  Speaker 2: the dish on why you're ghosting him, if that's okay.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, okay. This is weird because I was actually very
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  Speaker 6: clear with him that I just wasn't interested. So like
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  Speaker 6: when you say that, why am I ghosting him? Like,
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  Speaker 6: I don't know how you can go somebody if they
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  Speaker 6: asked you to see them again. And then you're like, no, no,
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  Speaker 6: that is not a ghost. You know, I mean, no,
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  Speaker 6: that's telling it how it is.
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  Speaker 1: So wait after what's the, did he text you afterwards
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  Speaker 1: or during the date that you tell him now? How,
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  Speaker 1: how did you say no?
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  Speaker 6: He texted me afterwards and I told him thanks so much,
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  Speaker 6: but I'm just not interested.
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  Speaker 4: I was very clear.
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  Speaker 3: Very clear.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, there should be just no questions after that.
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  Speaker 3: Okay. Other than maybe like a, why are you not interested?
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  Speaker 6: I don't know. I'm actually kind of confused why he
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  Speaker 6: would even call you guys. Honestly, I'm at work right now.
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  Speaker 6: So this is not even convenient for me. So I
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  Speaker 6: don't know what he wants me to say that I
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  Speaker 6: haven't literally already said to him.
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  Speaker 4: Hey, I'm sorry about all this. I just, I haven't
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  Speaker 4: heard from you. Oh my God.
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  Speaker 3: Is that Phil?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah. You guys didn't even tell me he was going
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  Speaker 6: to be on the phone.
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  Speaker 4: No.
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  Speaker 3: He is.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, I'm just confused because you never really told me
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  Speaker 4: what I did wrong.
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  Speaker 6: What do you mean what you did wrong? I told
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  Speaker 6: you I wasn't interested.
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  Speaker 4: Right, but I thought that maybe you were just saying that.
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  Speaker 1: Seems pretty direct to me.
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  Speaker 6: Because what? Because that's what I mean. I said no,
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  Speaker 6: there wasn't like a hidden meaning. I wasn't being coy.
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  Speaker 6: I told you no, I'm not interested.
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  Speaker 4: Okay. I just feel like if you told me what
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  Speaker 4: happened that maybe I could fix it.
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  Speaker 6: Fix what? I don't want another date.
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  Speaker 1: I guess he's saying is there something that he did
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  Speaker 1: that maybe you were into him at first, but he
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  Speaker 1: did something that turned you off or made you feel
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  Speaker 1: a certain way.
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  Speaker 5: Or maybe if you just tell him it's like some
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  Speaker 5: sort of closure and he'll go away.
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  Speaker 2: He thinks he was a Marvel nerd, and that's why
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  Speaker 2: you're not into him.
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  Speaker 3: I'd like to know why you're not into him. Well,
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  Speaker 3: go ahead.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 6: I don't want to be mean right now.
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  Speaker 3: Don't be mean.
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  Speaker 6: Is that what you want?
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  Speaker 2: No, I just, I think it's interesting when somebody doesn't
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  Speaker 2: like somebody, you can always say, you know what?
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  Speaker 3: They had little teeth and big gums.
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  Speaker 4: You know what?
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  Speaker 2: They were too short. I know two people that went
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  Speaker 2: on a date the other day. I told my wife,
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  Speaker 2: she goes, Oh my God, he's too short for her.
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  Speaker 2: Like there's, there's things like that. So what was it?
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  Speaker 3: If you don't mind.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, it's not like one thing really. I don't,
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  Speaker 6: I mean, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: He wore sunglasses inside.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, I hate that.
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  Speaker 6: He talked about being an entrepreneur, but then just explained
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  Speaker 6: to me MLM for a while. He was always trying
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  Speaker 6: to make little jokes with the employees at the place.
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  Speaker 6: I was like, why has everything got to be a
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  Speaker 6: little joke? Yeah, I guess he nerded out on Marvel.
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  Speaker 6: He was weirdly checking his phone for notes, conversation topics
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  Speaker 6: the whole time. Um, I don't know how far do
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  Speaker 6: you want me to go?
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  Speaker 3: Wow. I didn't understand the entrepreneur part. He said he
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  Speaker 3: was an entrepreneur and then what?
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  Speaker 6: And then he was just like talking, he's trying to
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  Speaker 6: explain to me MLMs, like multi-level marketing.
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  Speaker 3: Oh God.
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  Speaker 6: I'm a pyramid scheme entrepreneur.
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  Speaker 5: I think the only MLM I support is.
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  Speaker 3: This is what I'm talking about. These are many reasons
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  Speaker 3: why you don't want to see him again. I get it.
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  Speaker 1: Is there more?
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  Speaker 4: You had a list.
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  Speaker 3: Is there more?
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  Speaker 6: He wore ankle socks, which was weird to me. Uh, he, uh,
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  Speaker 6: parted his hair in a weird way.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of things. It actually explains the no, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not interested. There was too much to explain. That's great.
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  Speaker 1: And she tried to be nice. She tried to let
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  Speaker 1: him off the hook.
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  Speaker 4: This is all a shock to me. I really thought
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  Speaker 4: that it went well and it was just cause I
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  Speaker 4: was passionate about the movie, but, uh, I see why
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  Speaker 4: you don't want to see me again, Tara.
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  Speaker 6: Great. Glad we had this talk.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, my gosh.
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  Speaker 1: It doesn't feel like there's a lot of chemistry here.
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  Speaker 5: No, there's definitely someone out there for you, Phil. It's
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  Speaker 5: just not Tara. I think we can close this chapter.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. All right, Tara, thank you for jumping on the
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  Speaker 3: air with us. We know you're busy. Thanks for taking
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  Speaker 3: time to talk to us at work.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, anytime, I guess.
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  Speaker 3: All right, Phil, take notes. All right, that's Sucking It Up,
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  Speaker 3: you guys, with John Jay and Rich.